Thank you for sharing! I have gone through my life trying to show who I am to the people who say they love me and I have yet to find a single individual to actually SEE me. I am looking for a soul to reach out to me after seeing my comment to have a conversation and grant me the dream of having just 1 person understand me at a higher level than those in my past. My voice feels small on social media I've made several attempts on various sites to make friends, find my tribe, share my love and light, and explore emotional intimacy without the ability to connect with anyone. I remain hopeful that my words will be read by the right eyes and at last, I will be seen by someone who is willing to understand me. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to express my deep desire to meet people like myself! 💜
Your words, how you express how you feel, so touching. I cried for you, us because longing for deep connection finding our tribe. I desire this too. You wrote 7 months ago hope you get this and see I reached out🤗💜
Wenzes, isn't it a great feeling to know to that we can build our OWN validating tribe? When were younger it's hard to realize that it could be done. However, I have a hunch that a lot of young people would be up to it if they only knew how. Who knows? Maybe I'll get to create an opportunity to share your "tribe" message with a high school class! 🙂 I want to tell them to watch it! This video helped me to confirm something I was and still am doing - being a person who gives encouragement and wisdom to permanently change someone's life for the good (working at school gives me plenty of chances to do that). Also, in the process, it's good to meet with supportive colleagues who are "in it with me." It's a big help in building my own tribe! 🙂🙂
I was coming up on this revelation for myself. You put it into words perfectly. Your channel has been such a big help to me. I'm starting to build my tribe. But this gives me confidence that I'm going about things in the right way and to keep moving forward.
You got this Brandi! Keep building and adjusting and it will get easier and easier with time! Thanks so much for your support and feedback and glad I can be part of your support system as well :) Have a great day! :D
Wow... now I feel like I got to speak to a celebrity because you replied to my comment lol! Not many people reply to comments, let alone the person who Made the video. This has made my whole day btw! It’s funny how seasons change with us. Like before I saw your video today, I had just got done learning about a study they did on “making yourself happy” (aka self care). The study followed groups from America and Australia and showed that people from Australia where happier after attempting to find happiness yet Americans where not as happy.... the reason why Americans where not as happy as Australians was because Americans pursued isolated ways to self-care and Australians pursue socializing with others and contributing to others. It makes a lot of sense we were born to be social creatures. I just thought it was neat how are you made this video today after me realizing all of that yesterday. That’s why I feel as though I haven’t reached full contentment yet
I really like your quote about being the star in your own movie (other videos). It just really makes sense to correlate it here. I am happy i discovered your channel wenze! 😊😊😊
What if someone needs you so much because of real deep pain in their life and it's become a huge burden on you? Idk how to get unstuck without extreme rudeness.
my only question is WHERE do I even start to look for these friends to build with? It has been my on-goign question for years.... maybe I am blind.... :/
So I need to find where to start. I've done Christmas toy drive and helped at a food bank and went and feed people at the park but it was temporary. I liked the start up and I want a mix of all to help. Now I am like where do I start? Any ideas?
What was your job in helping all those people? Is it a job you like? If not, what do you want to do? What do you do with your free time? THAT is possibly an indicator, unless you are following strong urges or addictions instead of following your interests. By addictions I mean stuck to the TV or other forms of entertainment, slowed down by your diet, spending too much of your time on social media, etc. I came out of my addiction to TV 4 years ago, in part by envying the people on TV who were living their lives, while I was not. When I became free I became more and more zealous about writing. My life is completely different now and so much better. Zero TV. I'm way too interested in my life now.
The Problem with people in general Is they allowed themselves to molded by other people . So in essence you Lose you God given Free Will character. Beware of control freaks Don’t be afraid of living outside the box!
What is your biggest achievement in creating a support system/tribe in your life?
Thank you for sharing!
I have gone through my life trying to show who I am to the people who say they love me and I have yet to find a single individual to actually SEE me. I am looking for a soul to reach out to me after seeing my comment to have a conversation and grant me the dream of having just 1 person understand me at a higher level than those in my past.
My voice feels small on social media I've made several attempts on various sites to make friends, find my tribe, share my love and light, and explore emotional intimacy without the ability to connect with anyone. I remain hopeful that my words will be read by the right eyes and at last, I will be seen by someone who is willing to understand me. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to express my deep desire to meet people like myself!
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Your words, how you express how you feel, so touching. I cried for you, us because longing for deep connection finding our tribe. I desire this too. You wrote 7 months ago hope you get this and see I reached out🤗💜
Wenzes, isn't it a great feeling to know to that we can build our OWN validating tribe? When were younger it's hard to realize that it could be done. However, I have a hunch that a lot of young people would be up to it if they only knew how. Who knows? Maybe I'll get to create an opportunity to share your "tribe" message with a high school class! 🙂 I want to tell them to watch it!
This video helped me to confirm something I was and still am doing - being a person who gives encouragement and wisdom to permanently change someone's life for the good (working at school gives me plenty of chances to do that). Also, in the process, it's good to meet with supportive colleagues who are "in it with me." It's a big help in building my own tribe! 🙂🙂
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💞I love how much your strategies have to do with intentional control over our own mind/thoughts/beliefs/intentions
I WAS REALLY STRUGGLING TO UNDERSTAND HOW TO HAVE A SUPPORT SYSTEM! YOU ARE MY MENTOR, WENZES!! JUST THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!!
I was coming up on this revelation for myself. You put it into words perfectly. Your channel has been such a big help to me. I'm starting to build my tribe. But this gives me confidence that I'm going about things in the right way and to keep moving forward.
You got this Brandi! Keep building and adjusting and it will get easier and easier with time! Thanks so much for your support and feedback and glad I can be part of your support system as well :) Have a great day! :D
I needed to hear this SOOOOO BADDD. Thank you for sharing this with us. You have no idea how much I needed to know this.
Really happy to read this Laura, thanks for telling me 😊🌸 and glad it‘s so beneficial ☺️
Wow... now I feel like I got to speak to a celebrity because you replied to my comment lol! Not many people reply to comments, let alone the person who Made the video. This has made my whole day btw!
It’s funny how seasons change with us. Like before I saw your video today, I had just got done learning about a study they did on “making yourself happy” (aka self care). The study followed groups from America and Australia and showed that people from Australia where happier after attempting to find happiness yet Americans where not as happy.... the reason why Americans where not as happy as Australians was because Americans pursued isolated ways to self-care and Australians pursue socializing with others and contributing to others. It makes a lot of sense we were born to be social creatures.
I just thought it was neat how are you made this video today after me realizing all of that yesterday. That’s why I feel as though I haven’t reached full contentment yet
It's always a journey...the contentment comes with the process and I am sure you are on a really great path!
Thank you! Grateful for this video of yours Namaste.
Im glad for videos like this. I feel like I have to start my whole tribe over. Im sure others have had to do this too.
Thank you Wenzy. This topic is very helpful to prevent myself to be anti-social hahaha!
I really like your quote about being the star in your own movie (other videos). It just really makes sense to correlate it here. I am happy i discovered your channel wenze! 😊😊😊
Winzes, Your videos are very enlightening! Is it possible to tone down the echoing? Thank you!
Madrid! Oh how I love it, long for it!
My tribe is my Fam ❤️ Husband, two sons, Mum & Dad 🥰
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This is a great video! I'm actually taking notes 😁
Thank you for this. You rock
What if someone needs you so much because of real deep pain in their life and it's become a huge burden on you? Idk how to get unstuck without extreme rudeness.
my only question is WHERE do I even start to look for these friends to build with? It has been my on-goign question for years.... maybe I am blind.... :/
Too many people clip my wings. I will have to travel in order to make it happen.
So do opposites not work out because they're so different?
So I need to find where to start. I've done Christmas toy drive and helped at a food bank and went and feed people at the park but it was temporary. I liked the start up and I want a mix of all to help. Now I am like where do I start? Any ideas?
What was your job in helping all those people? Is it a job you like? If not, what do you want to do? What do you do with your free time? THAT is possibly an indicator, unless you are following strong urges or addictions instead of following your interests. By addictions I mean stuck to the TV or other forms of entertainment, slowed down by your diet, spending too much of your time on social media, etc. I came out of my addiction to TV 4 years ago, in part by envying the people on TV who were living their lives, while I was not. When I became free I became more and more zealous about writing. My life is completely different now and so much better. Zero TV. I'm way too interested in my life now.
The Problem with people in general
Is they allowed themselves to molded by other people . So in essence you
Lose you God given Free Will character. Beware of control freaks
Don’t be afraid of living outside the box!