Becoming Him | Chella Man | TEDxRanneySchool

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  • Опубліковано 8 тра 2018
  • Normalizing the conversation about gender issues for disabled and LGBTQ youth. Understanding the process of gender transition through testosterone supplementation. Chella Man is a 19-year old deaf artist whose goal is to bring attention to and normalize conversation about gender issues for disabled and LGBTQ youth. Mr. Man is going through the process of gender transition through testosterone supplementation. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 565

  • @lumilas4682
    @lumilas4682 5 років тому +3870

    i thought he was going to say 'hi my name is Chella Man and this is my voice 1 year on t' lol

    • @N3ONLUV
      @N3ONLUV 5 років тому +75

      Lud Zamudio oh my god, I came here from that video as well

    • @kyreetrend5280
      @kyreetrend5280 5 років тому +6

      Lud Zamudio lmaaaaooo

    • @D_Rami69
      @D_Rami69 5 років тому +2

      Lud Zamudio it’s a She

    • @lumilas4682
      @lumilas4682 5 років тому +47

      Nuclear_King it's a he

    • @D_Rami69
      @D_Rami69 5 років тому +9

      Lud Zamudio Nah she was born a girl , can’t change your gender you can just change the way you look

  • @screamingcactus5505
    @screamingcactus5505 5 років тому +1412

    "hi my name is chella man, and youre watching disney channel"

  • @jkbeach2512
    @jkbeach2512 6 років тому +774

    I didn't know Chella did a TED talk. So proud of him!

  • @swagingexo_osh8487
    @swagingexo_osh8487 5 років тому +2552

    _Hi ,my name is Chella Man_
    *only people who watched his other video will understand*

    • @roshicruz7801
      @roshicruz7801 5 років тому +1

      Hahahha funny comment

    • @reese4379
      @reese4379 5 років тому +27

      Swagingexo_osh this is my voice 75 years on T

    • @faithlove2672
      @faithlove2672 5 років тому +4

      I watched his other video but he said it at the end of this one as well

    • @swagingexo_osh8487
      @swagingexo_osh8487 5 років тому +1

      yeah lol ik

    • @jennagriffin3850
      @jennagriffin3850 5 років тому +3

      After that video, I never forgot his name lol

  • @KhmerTarotReading
    @KhmerTarotReading 5 років тому +691

    hi my name is chella man
    this is first week on T
    thats what play on my mind

  • @CHELLAMANART
    @CHELLAMANART 6 років тому +1985

    Big love !!

    • @kidd2001
      @kidd2001 6 років тому +15

      Chella Man I LOVE U

    • @user-kq6pb9vq2w
      @user-kq6pb9vq2w 6 років тому +6

      i am so impressed and proud of you chella. thank you for bringing light into this world and creating a safe environment for so many people. i am so glad that you are happy because you deserve nothing less.

    • @finewhine7224
      @finewhine7224 5 років тому +1

      Chella Man honestly don’t know how anybody looks so good in both genders😍

    • @louranegotinga5079
      @louranegotinga5079 5 років тому

      May you and your love have a happy blessfull life! We love you chella man

    • @ibrahimbasic4575
      @ibrahimbasic4575 5 років тому

      Chella Man u need help

  • @fioranezifah
    @fioranezifah 4 роки тому +59

    I can hear Mary V at the beginning screaming for him 💘

  • @psychoxkill9233
    @psychoxkill9233 5 років тому +426

    He is happy now so who am I to judge?

    • @chwechwe7485
      @chwechwe7485 5 років тому +29

      Psycho X Kill
      You. I applaud you. You are smart.

    • @justicebrandon2142
      @justicebrandon2142 5 років тому +13

      @@caganagn4957 He's, get it right 🌈

  • @nonhlanhlanhlapo5438
    @nonhlanhlanhlapo5438 5 років тому +376

    Some people in this comments section are so pathetic. Why are you so concerned with another person's genitalia? Chella is amazing, let's leave it at that.

  • @jennifersmiles
    @jennifersmiles 6 років тому +141

    To be able to articulate something complex through several depths and levels of understanding, I am shook. Amazing talk, Chella!!!!!!! Thank YOU!

  • @KaideeDream
    @KaideeDream 5 років тому +183

    i watched him and his girlfriend in a video by the skin deep and omg finding his ted talk makes me feel so emotional and happy all over again

    • @MS-ie3xl
      @MS-ie3xl 5 років тому +4

      Check their UA-cam channel

  • @nk1922
    @nk1922 6 років тому +280

    How eloquent and soft spoken. Good job, Chella ❤

    • @akufiree8466
      @akufiree8466 5 років тому

      Siti Alifa Chairunnisa Kunto kan

  • @aesaphyr
    @aesaphyr 5 років тому +8

    As somebody who is going through exactly the same struggles... this has been the single most helpful thing I have seen my whole life. I, too, have felt cornered by other people's expectations of what a particular gender identity should be.

  • @youyong28
    @youyong28 5 років тому +232

    In Chinese, the spoken pronouns for "male" and "female" are the same.

  • @GothMsFrizzle
    @GothMsFrizzle 5 років тому +12

    I've watched some of his UA-cam videos, and he really has this vibe of being such a warm, open person. I am happy that he also did this talk, I think these online resources will be so beneficial for people in similar situations who want to feel connected to someone.

  • @unearthed.
    @unearthed. 5 років тому +110

    Carl Jung talks about this. Within every human both sexes exist, even biologically and genetically. I don't think anyone should feel obligated to pick one or the other, in fact the balance of both is harmony.

    • @faithyyyyyyyyy
      @faithyyyyyyyyy 2 роки тому +5

      Alejandro Jodorowsky references him in a talk he gave, he said "Siempre he creído que tanto las mujeres como los hombres tenemos un alma femenina y el espíritu masculino. Entonces el verdadero amor es andrógino y la verdadera pareja se hace entre cuatro, lo masculino-femenino que existe dentro del hombre y lo masculino-femenino que existe en la mujer. Ésa es la verdadera y mejor relación." which translated is "I have always believed that both women and men have a feminine soul and a masculine spirit. So true love is androgynous and the true couple is made between four, the masculine-feminine that exists within the man and the masculine-feminine that exists in the woman. That is the true and best relationship."

  • @kristbjorg999
    @kristbjorg999 5 років тому +2

    So beautiful human being and seems to be so down to earth, humble, kind and happy and keeping people enlightened about so many issues. Shout out to Chella, good luck to you in everything !

  • @dannyalfaro4703
    @dannyalfaro4703 5 років тому +7

    This is powerful! It helped me clarify where I once didn't understand.

  • @justinandrianpotolin1033
    @justinandrianpotolin1033 6 років тому +1003

    He is soooooo handsome

  • @PanduLuhur
    @PanduLuhur 6 років тому +989

    Oh gosh he's so hot

    • @jungle3642
      @jungle3642 5 років тому +14

      Pandu Luhur she's*

    • @Sawreal17
      @Sawreal17 5 років тому +6

      John's Jungle respect lol even guys too lop

    • @ryanwaitwhereami9539
      @ryanwaitwhereami9539 5 років тому +76

      John's Jungle what are you doing here if you don't even believe he's a real man ??

    • @mhb33200
      @mhb33200 5 років тому +60

      @@jungle3642 he's

    • @Kei-ew8uh
      @Kei-ew8uh 5 років тому

      Yeah right

  • @DFwoggie
    @DFwoggie 5 років тому +16

    How is a person so good looking?! She was so amazingly beautiful, and now he's so dang handsome!!! Kudos to your transformation and I pray for you to live a beautiful life!

  • @mariaslough5038
    @mariaslough5038 Місяць тому

    So well spoken for such a complex topic. Beautiful.

  • @umteabye.5038
    @umteabye.5038 6 років тому +1322

    WTF HES HOT BOTH GENDERS WTF IM SHOOK MY BISEXUALITY IS DROOLING

  • @gabriellamorali4720
    @gabriellamorali4720 5 років тому +6

    that made me emotional at the end what the fuckeiejisis im so proud of how far he’s come and that he also takes pride into who he’s become; and i think it’s such a beautiful thing because i can see that really loves himself now that he’s a man and UGH it just makes me so happy idk why 🤩🤩 i’m really proud of him and i hope he keeps doing what he does ;) u got this chella!!

  • @hyvinx9171
    @hyvinx9171 4 роки тому +31

    bro im,,, this is exactly how i feel. I want he him pronouns but dont want to give away some of my fememine traits. this just helped me so much in my identity thank you...

    • @pandora9814
      @pandora9814 4 роки тому +2

      not accepting yourself as you are is the root to deep suffering

    • @CamRebires
      @CamRebires 4 роки тому +5

      Men can have female traits, women can have male traits.

  • @dewilew2137
    @dewilew2137 6 років тому +261

    He’s so handsome. I feel weird saying that because he’s so young, but golly. 😍

    • @jungle3642
      @jungle3642 5 років тому +4

      She's

    • @odin27k
      @odin27k 5 років тому +21

      John's Jungle she’s a he now

    • @jungle3642
      @jungle3642 5 років тому +2

      Odin Snowden she's as fertile as can be... She can still bear a child.. SHE biologically is and always will be a women

    • @manuelhonorato7276
      @manuelhonorato7276 5 років тому +33

      John's Jungle lmao youre taking the time to reply to every comment. You really care!

    • @jungle3642
      @jungle3642 5 років тому +1

      Manuel H. And you take time to tell me that? FANTASTIC

  • @secilyapc8974
    @secilyapc8974 6 років тому +13

    Thanks for your explanation.Good luck🍀

  • @veroniquecastel9582
    @veroniquecastel9582 4 роки тому +2

    I want to like this more than once! What a heart warming and educational message. All the best to you Chella.

  • @mertynka
    @mertynka 6 років тому +14

    You are so strong and beautiful person Chella!

  • @user-mt4jx1lx3g
    @user-mt4jx1lx3g 5 років тому +1

    I'm so proud seeing Chella change over these years, mentally and physicallg to who he wants to be.

  • @StarZendonna1687
    @StarZendonna1687 5 років тому +3

    It Takes Courage to speak out and let everyone know who you're truly are
    This Cat has already gained my respect and yes there's still unfinished business to gain equality and we won't stop until that happens

  • @nicolerain3127
    @nicolerain3127 2 роки тому +1

    He is gorgeous and intelligent. Love this! Wishing him the best 🙏🏾💛🙏🏾

  • @LemonBoy308
    @LemonBoy308 4 роки тому

    This is so moving, I'm crying 😭

  • @creaturespictures880
    @creaturespictures880 4 роки тому +5

    His words on the difference in between identification and presentation are gold, and not just for transgendered people. Somehow we all have parts of ourselves that we identify to but don't especially wish to present to others, for many different reasons, number one being that it's your personal business and you are entitled to keeping some of it a mystery.

  • @fern69666
    @fern69666 5 років тому

    Love you Chella 💜💚. You are so inspiring, you are helping me discover myself and I can't express in words how much you, your transition, your speeches and your life is helping me in my journey.
    Thank you for being you💜💚

    • @tuksc
      @tuksc 5 років тому +1

      You do not know yourself. Neither does he lol

  • @amajhiadowning585
    @amajhiadowning585 4 роки тому +4

    i watched a sign language video by him
    a while ago and then i saw him on titans and so i did research and now i’m here 😭

  • @miracleshappen4483
    @miracleshappen4483 5 років тому +2

    I totally agree: brave, intelligent and honest kid!

  • @kushalshrestha6792
    @kushalshrestha6792 5 років тому +1

    It takes whole lot courage to go through what you went. Love from npl❤

  • @wszesean
    @wszesean 5 років тому +2

    Amazing!
    Brave to be yourself!

  • @midori6151
    @midori6151 4 роки тому +16

    19-year old deaf artist... He really is amazing T^T

  • @anastachiasauls5662
    @anastachiasauls5662 6 років тому +58

    Im so happy for you Chella. I've been watching as you transition and it has been a honor.

  • @angiec9879
    @angiec9879 5 років тому +7

    I love chella and maryV so much my god, i cry because they are so amazing and beautiful as humans

  • @exochany3059
    @exochany3059 5 років тому +14

    He is so inspiring !!!!Yaaaaasss Chella💙

  • @tamikamoore9882
    @tamikamoore9882 6 років тому +7

    Loved it , keep up the good work chella

  • @yian95954
    @yian95954 3 роки тому +1

    A wonderful ending! That's awesome!

  • @avantikaarvind4725
    @avantikaarvind4725 4 роки тому +1

    Ooohhhh my God I've been following his and maryv's channels for a while I didn't know he6dis a Ted talk THIS IS SO COOL I'M SO PROUD

  • @peaceminuszero7357
    @peaceminuszero7357 5 років тому +2

    So inspiring💜

  • @balletribbons11
    @balletribbons11 5 років тому +2

    So proud of you!

  • @dianamyuri5877
    @dianamyuri5877 5 років тому +1

    I want to hear him more!

  • @mazikeen8371
    @mazikeen8371 5 років тому +1

    OUR MAN YES BOYYYYYY so proud of you and your journey

  • @kim_rikki9883
    @kim_rikki9883 5 років тому +1

    so inspiring so amazing

  • @garfieldforlesbians898
    @garfieldforlesbians898 5 років тому +31

    You are amazing and as a trans teen, I really look up to you and I hope one day I can be like you

    • @mish3916
      @mish3916 4 роки тому +1

      blue fish all the best, lots of love btw I bet u are amazing just as you are too 😀

  • @gorgbeautiful8354
    @gorgbeautiful8354 6 років тому +16

    salute!

  • @gabroofficial4103
    @gabroofficial4103 4 роки тому +4

    You're amazing boy 👍I'm so proud of you ❤️

  • @fikriramadhan3151
    @fikriramadhan3151 6 років тому +150

    he is even more handsome and masculine than me.. i want to be more masculine pleasseeee

    • @MasOne88
      @MasOne88 5 років тому

      Fikri Ramadhan testosteton hormone injections 😂

    • @jaa.mes_1190
      @jaa.mes_1190 5 років тому +8

      Head to the gym bruh

    • @jungle3642
      @jungle3642 5 років тому +1

      She

    • @rrocc
      @rrocc 5 років тому +1

      she

    • @keysake
      @keysake 5 років тому

      Now where to buy that tea

  • @teamfaruh
    @teamfaruh 5 років тому +2

    Real hero....❤ love frm Bangladesh

  • @akoonei6084
    @akoonei6084 5 років тому

    Good job . Thank you

  • @gewittermaedchenhk
    @gewittermaedchenhk 5 років тому +5

    he‘s an idol

  • @user-bu8il2oh5e
    @user-bu8il2oh5e 5 років тому

    so proud!!

  • @IglooDweller
    @IglooDweller 5 років тому +5

    6:10 Fave look.

  • @nikolebron5716
    @nikolebron5716 5 років тому +1

    I love himmm I follow his channel

  • @EL-qw7rp
    @EL-qw7rp 4 роки тому +1

    wow.. im in love

  • @jjossi
    @jjossi 6 років тому +35

    I love Chella he's amazing

  • @pikapikapikachu6679
    @pikapikapikachu6679 4 роки тому +1

    Wow! Just wow! 👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @bublebathlove
    @bublebathlove 6 років тому +17

    Beautiful

  • @elliehall2391
    @elliehall2391 6 років тому +6

    i respect this so much, thank you chella

  • @emme8376
    @emme8376 6 років тому +52

    Yassss Chella

  • @malinacantemir146
    @malinacantemir146 5 років тому +3

    Mom, I love him

  • @blackcocoabrown8726
    @blackcocoabrown8726 6 років тому

    Excellently executed

  • @MusiicRoolz
    @MusiicRoolz 5 років тому +1

    hes so sweet

  • @vocalshd9411
    @vocalshd9411 5 років тому +5

    I've been struggling with how I feel inside for so long and sometimes I come here and my moment of clarity comes where I'm like i feel like he does and it makes me feel relived and scared because my family does not accept me but I don't wanna lose them for wanting to be me and that's so terrifying because I feel like I'll never be happy with who I am now and I'm so scared

    • @vowovromero3250
      @vowovromero3250 5 років тому

      You should just come out in a indirect way, or little by little, let then get use to the idea

  • @Akiuha
    @Akiuha 5 років тому +1

    Much love chella !

  • @TOMcatSUD
    @TOMcatSUD 5 років тому +1

    Respect ✊🏽

  • @brielle8073
    @brielle8073 6 років тому +8

    ANGEL. I love chella

  • @franceshortelano6231
    @franceshortelano6231 5 років тому

    i really love your voice

  • @emilyhar4325
    @emilyhar4325 5 років тому +1

    he is amazing!!

    • @dk2563
      @dk2563 5 років тому

      Emily Har She*

  • @Julia-cr2pc
    @Julia-cr2pc 5 років тому +9

    He soooo cute god damnnn 😍💕

  • @mheldredkim2260
    @mheldredkim2260 5 років тому +1

    Perfect😊

  • @Theempyreann
    @Theempyreann 5 років тому +1

    I love Chella

  • @myblahblahification
    @myblahblahification 5 років тому +2

    yess get it chella

  • @kirstenyoung3150
    @kirstenyoung3150 5 років тому +6

    He’s so cute 😍

  • @rorybotelho9436
    @rorybotelho9436 5 років тому +3

    i am in love with this human oh my goodness he is so attractive

  • @kwoncindyjiyong4919
    @kwoncindyjiyong4919 4 роки тому +2

    Respect

  • @cjandrian9163
    @cjandrian9163 6 років тому +11

    Chella!!!

  • @reginacabrera7722
    @reginacabrera7722 6 років тому +14

    YES!

  • @Tommytommy143
    @Tommytommy143 5 років тому +6

    OMG he's so cute

  • @jailene3348
    @jailene3348 6 років тому +11

    💕💕💕

  • @shyeline5007
    @shyeline5007 4 роки тому +2

    ITS MY MAN CHELLA MAN

  • @yuro5864
    @yuro5864 4 роки тому

    Why is he so handsome yet so beautifuuuuul

  • @Mzmissy215
    @Mzmissy215 5 років тому +5

    Geez he's so handsome!😍😍😍😍😍

  • @rattanadanh
    @rattanadanh 4 роки тому

    You amazing man for me

  • @psychoticpercy6479
    @psychoticpercy6479 6 років тому +2

    I love him and his gf too

  • @kingandeveryoneelse
    @kingandeveryoneelse 4 роки тому +1

    god he’s so cool

  • @khiofficial2900
    @khiofficial2900 5 років тому +2

    Omg I didn't know he is my age. That's cool.

  • @sunispretty
    @sunispretty 5 років тому +2

    Oh gosh what a journey you must've been on boy and you're so cute! I'd fall for you just knowing you as you omg

  • @SingerOmayChannel
    @SingerOmayChannel 4 роки тому

    I like him ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @heikalbwz3984
    @heikalbwz3984 6 років тому +2

    He is so cute 😮

  • @jade02824
    @jade02824 5 років тому +1

  • @beansavacado8134
    @beansavacado8134 2 роки тому +2

    Anyone else just confused and questioning rn?🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @hannahkeziahdelacerna6170
    @hannahkeziahdelacerna6170 5 років тому +1

    💗💗💗