Katya Zamolodchikova Toxic Masculinity and Sexual Violence

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • Katya shares her thoughts and personal experience with sexual violence.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 126

  • @_.mlik_
    @_.mlik_ 4 роки тому +2181

    it’s so nice to hear her talk without being interrupted 😭😭😭😭

  • @amygdala9679
    @amygdala9679 7 років тому +2042

    This human is so unbelievably kind and smart and compassionate. Everytime, I am baffled how he puts things into words and talks so openly. What happened to him was not okay. What happpens to men and women all over the world is not okay. No matter the circumstances - rape is not okay.
    There's so much I wish I could talk to him about.
    But if there is one thing I would want him to know, it's what is written on his shirt: "I love you so much"

    • @gloomyghosty
      @gloomyghosty 7 років тому +24

      i agree with everything you said

  • @tammiedodgers2984
    @tammiedodgers2984 6 років тому +903

    There needs to be more discussion about toxic masculinity, I'm so thankful that Katya is speaking up about it.

    • @TheSpaceman332211
      @TheSpaceman332211 4 роки тому +4

      I disagree. Ever since we started moaning about men acting like men (their natural behaviour) it has opened a can of worms. Their confidence, resilience and mental health has gone downhill big time. It's good for them to be strong, masculine & full of testosterone. It's makes coping with life easier.

    • @oliviavanallen9935
      @oliviavanallen9935 3 роки тому +9

      We also need to talk more about toxic femininity.

    • @abderraoufselmani
      @abderraoufselmani 3 роки тому +3

      @@oliviavanallen9935 social toxic femininity.

    • @marieantoinette4816
      @marieantoinette4816 3 роки тому +2

      @@TheSpaceman332211 I agree. Men are afraid to be men now and it saddens me

    • @tabbymoonshine5986
      @tabbymoonshine5986 3 роки тому +34

      Men aren’t afraid to be men 😂 they are terrified of being held accountable for deeply damaging behaviors that we have constructed and allowed to be framed as ‘masculine’.

  • @amazingolli
    @amazingolli 2 роки тому +60

    I want- no NEED- a book exclusively written by Katya. I'm continually amazed by her wisdom and ability to articulate issues without it sounding preachy.

  • @Unicornprincess2001
    @Unicornprincess2001 7 років тому +623

    The most intelligent, kind, and pure human. Thank you for speaking out and helping others. Our world needs to change; love you katya

  • @bgen8889
    @bgen8889 4 роки тому +494

    i’m so happy he talked about this i’m very late but this makes people like me who didn’t get assaulted in a movie type of way feel validated because no MEANS NO NO MATTER WHAT and so many other things mean no as well ugh it makes me so sick and i hate that Brian had to experience it :(

  • @oysterhunter276
    @oysterhunter276 7 років тому +277

    He's so thoughtful and compassionate...

  • @addangel
    @addangel 4 роки тому +183

    oh my gods this spoke straight to my heart. could I admire Brian any more than I already do? his intelligence and emotional maturity seem to be never ending.

  • @RoLee705
    @RoLee705 3 роки тому +110

    I love how she started by asking the chat how to hide the chat. 😂

  • @JocoloLP
    @JocoloLP 3 роки тому +211

    0:40 I'm fully convinced that the full sentence would have been "I don't wanna get sidetracked and I have the attention span of a goldfish"
    But we got sidetracked LOL

  • @franzliszt8090
    @franzliszt8090 3 роки тому +82

    this is so relevant today. oh my god

  • @websurfer8041
    @websurfer8041 6 років тому +150

    katya has such a kind soul. her and courtney have to be my fave queens, i respect both of them so much for always speaking out to help others.

  • @s_.777
    @s_.777 3 роки тому +28

    i could listen to katya talk about anything, she is seriously so smart

  • @fionagallagherapologist5968
    @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 роки тому +80

    his story made my whole body tense up :( i wanna hug him for hours

  • @beatrizvalentimcaria9280
    @beatrizvalentimcaria9280 3 роки тому +88

    so sad to know that we’re still having those conversations today and so many people just cannot listen and try to understand

  • @jeanbean921
    @jeanbean921 7 років тому +174

    Sweetest human being I swear💕

  • @llllll4077
    @llllll4077 3 роки тому +190

    I love how he’s pouring out his soul AND BELCHING.

    • @QuinnCBeauty
      @QuinnCBeauty 3 роки тому +24

      whilst eating fried pickles

  • @twigthewonderk1d
    @twigthewonderk1d 3 роки тому +27

    this made me so sad, too many people have been through these similar experiences and it's so gross. i just wish no one ever had to go through this.

  • @GlitterNGlueGuns94
    @GlitterNGlueGuns94 3 роки тому +27

    I really enjoy listening to katya talk. Very calming and casual.

  • @paperseatbelt
    @paperseatbelt 2 роки тому +14

    Too many of us experience this. And too many of us never talk about it. This really is so important to talk about. ❤️

  • @CZ4E
    @CZ4E 3 роки тому +27

    So intelligent & every word carefully spoken

  • @darcyadelle
    @darcyadelle 7 років тому +74

    I love you Katya. Thank you for this.

  • @siennamccarthy-d9z
    @siennamccarthy-d9z 6 місяців тому +2

    "the show is crunk, and lit, and turnt" i love it here xxx

  • @vanshikakar1501
    @vanshikakar1501 4 роки тому +38

    We've got some real talks here
    Appreciate Katya for his honesty and purity💓

  • @isabeladarosa813
    @isabeladarosa813 7 років тому +105

    he deserves the world❤

  • @monikavec
    @monikavec 4 роки тому +63

    this is so important. all the love.

  • @penguinworm
    @penguinworm 3 роки тому +15

    Katya is so introspective and kind

  • @morganbabineaux5550
    @morganbabineaux5550 3 роки тому +40

    i didnt think i could have any more love and respect for this man but wow, r e s p e c t

  • @Chibihugs
    @Chibihugs 7 років тому +52

    I love you, Katya! You are an amazing, inspiring human being! HUGS

  • @batbabe1507
    @batbabe1507 5 років тому +62

    I will love this human being until the day I die. Katya

  • @rowan4308
    @rowan4308 5 років тому +632

    10.57 "I don't have any tattoos" haha if you could see yourself now.

    • @eternalconfusion6226
      @eternalconfusion6226 3 роки тому +13

      yeah he put up with the pain for the sake of the aesthetics and self expression.. like wow

    • @Donyalicious
      @Donyalicious 3 роки тому +19

      @@eternalconfusion6226 i thought he said he got them while he was either relapsing or psychotic or something and didn't feel a single one of them

    • @eternalconfusion6226
      @eternalconfusion6226 3 роки тому +14

      @@Donyalicious interesting information... although it raises a few questions about the tattoo artist's work ethics. Well at least he was spared that pain... And I hope now he likes them and feels that they express his personality.

  • @jimmytwo3998
    @jimmytwo3998 6 років тому +61

    Very intelligent , honest and helpful . Thankyou that really helped to solidify my values around sex xxx

  • @phoebejones8572
    @phoebejones8572 3 роки тому +77

    This made me so angry I’m literally on the verge of crying.

  • @ashandspirit9736
    @ashandspirit9736 3 роки тому +18

    Understand and relate to so much in this without sharing my horror stories. Such a wise and relatable person.

  • @gloom0259
    @gloom0259 3 роки тому +62

    The fact that this has to be discussed is disappointing and scary as hell..

    • @heather_857
      @heather_857 3 роки тому +14

      Still important for the conversation to be had, It is very disappointing though.

    • @gloom0259
      @gloom0259 3 роки тому +5

      @@heather_857 most definitely. I hope these conversations are had more among parents and children in a healthy manner so we don’t have people disrespecting others, especially during sexual acts.

  • @gabrielkolim
    @gabrielkolim 3 роки тому +16

    Such an important conversation!!

  • @demondownpour4908
    @demondownpour4908 7 років тому +37

    Thank you katya.

  • @clementine9810
    @clementine9810 3 роки тому +12

    i love him. what a wonderful human being

  • @pickybitch2707
    @pickybitch2707 3 роки тому +9

    I love her so much and she is so right xxx

  • @mar35962
    @mar35962 9 місяців тому +3

    isnt she the prettiest and the most amazing human to exist

  • @fionagallagherapologist5968
    @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 роки тому +9

    ugh i love katya so much pls

  • @JojoOttey
    @JojoOttey 7 років тому +15

    Your on it !!..We All need to take control of our selves ...

  • @JacobSnell1998
    @JacobSnell1998 3 роки тому +14

    I love him so much. I really do.

  • @OoohWeeeDoe
    @OoohWeeeDoe 3 роки тому +13

    Goddamn this was super good! She is absolutely right!

  • @wolfmoon9816
    @wolfmoon9816 2 роки тому +14

    Its only getting worse
    This disposable sex and being used as sex toy and being instantly expected as a traumatised person to instantly have sex without any sort of effort or support or even friendship with that scumbag person its so sick and I am beyond traumatised

  • @brittlynwoods3314
    @brittlynwoods3314 3 роки тому +4

    Yep. This happens way to often especially in the women community 😪

  • @inayahcee3131
    @inayahcee3131 3 роки тому +8

    I love him so much.

  • @SusanDelgado1177
    @SusanDelgado1177 3 роки тому +20

    i could listen to Katya read the phone book

  • @insanusorbis1684
    @insanusorbis1684 Рік тому +4

    he's so fucking right

  • @lkcullen1918
    @lkcullen1918 3 роки тому +6

    how am I *just now* seeing this what the heck

  • @daniellesoy
    @daniellesoy 7 років тому +22

    this was awesome!

  • @thepouletbrothers4711
    @thepouletbrothers4711 3 роки тому +13

    I fucking love Brian ❤️

  • @alexjohn1202
    @alexjohn1202 3 роки тому +3

    i love him sm

  • @Cplm92017
    @Cplm92017 Рік тому +5

    "I don't have any tattoos"
    Well that sure changed!

  • @a.b3748
    @a.b3748 7 років тому +17

    Relatable

  • @faithpattison767
    @faithpattison767 3 роки тому +1

    I love this beautiful person

  • @danaekoloka9819
    @danaekoloka9819 3 роки тому +2

    Truest words

  • @RainHavok1111
    @RainHavok1111 4 роки тому +13

    love ya Brian! Aka Katya

  • @phoenyxbyrne2041
    @phoenyxbyrne2041 27 днів тому +1

    “I don’t have any tattoos”… girl, give it a few years.

  • @Cplm92017
    @Cplm92017 Рік тому +1

    He said 'hit it and compassionate quit it'

  • @zanicuh
    @zanicuh 3 роки тому +2

    I would’ve started crying

  • @Cplm92017
    @Cplm92017 Рік тому +1

    I fkn love her

  • @harshumadhu22
    @harshumadhu22 3 роки тому +7

    Katya for president!... Of the world.. whatever..

  • @cultofdisbelief
    @cultofdisbelief 3 роки тому +8

    Adore Strangers with Candy!

  • @Ecutt
    @Ecutt 3 місяці тому +2

    She went on to get so many tattoos after this :/

  • @mirotiny
    @mirotiny 3 роки тому +3

    10:51 the 69 tattoos on his body: ❓👄❓

  • @ArielGemin1987
    @ArielGemin1987 2 роки тому +2

    Try CBQ method program to help quit smoking after 20 years I was able to quit smoking with this program

  • @lola.cruz916
    @lola.cruz916 4 роки тому +9

    Omg that's awful😢

  • @Cplm92017
    @Cplm92017 Рік тому

    Crunk n Lit n Turnt 😂

  • @karlt134
    @karlt134 Рік тому +1

    Something for the Droolies in the home audience complaining:
    Watch Untouchable
    Jimmy Savile sexually abused children and adults
    Gary Glitter was arrested

  • @keeleysmith911
    @keeleysmith911 3 роки тому +5

    “fried pickles”

  • @dansuduhast1051
    @dansuduhast1051 3 роки тому

    "I dont have any tattoos"???? Wait what ?

  • @lailax2000
    @lailax2000 5 років тому +17

    MULAN!!

  • @patricktrainor4959
    @patricktrainor4959 3 роки тому +1

    10:10

  • @lornamiller1991
    @lornamiller1991 6 років тому +1

    😍

  • @MrMountainchris
    @MrMountainchris 3 роки тому

    Hurt people hurt people.

  • @nope_no_nunya.
    @nope_no_nunya. 3 роки тому

    2:06

  • @michaeljacksin9367
    @michaeljacksin9367 Рік тому

    loves in need of love today

  • @persassyjackson1688
    @persassyjackson1688 3 роки тому

    💖

  • @Emjolein
    @Emjolein Рік тому

    Fried pickles

  • @karlt134
    @karlt134 4 місяці тому

    More stuff for the Droolies in the home audience complaining:
    News of the World was gone
    Watch Doctor Who Confidential
    Go to War

  • @brittanycrowe9167
    @brittanycrowe9167 2 роки тому

    Awful 😣

  • @sooddthisman
    @sooddthisman 3 роки тому

    send samara ,,,evil comments will disappear ...mmwhahahah..

  • @alexandrajablon4190
    @alexandrajablon4190 3 роки тому +2

    MULAN😩

  • @kyramainer3315
    @kyramainer3315 3 роки тому

    « Blue balls »

  • @casseyanzio2568
    @casseyanzio2568 3 роки тому

    Omg. 10 mins to get to the point. A long way to get to the point. Definitely a story teller.

    • @neu_dae
      @neu_dae 3 роки тому +23

      the whole video was the point.

  • @Stefanbites85
    @Stefanbites85 2 роки тому +1

    UGH so vulgar