Karen Slaps DEAF MAN for IGNORING Her! - IDontWorkHereLady Reddit Podcast
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Even if the deaf kid did work there, that’s no way to treat a store clerk. You do not slap (physically assault) staff, even if they did ignore you initially.
Exactly. If I was there I would be so peeved with that Karen. I wouldn’t even think twice before stepping in and stopping this incident.
Its been shown time and time again that people should treat workers like people of authority.
When the first fist or hand flies it’s go time for me
IKR!!!!!!!!!!
Right imagine that defense " your honor I only slapped him because I thought he worked there"
If the mother of a baby says it's time to feed her baby, you give her the baby. You don't act like an entitled biotch and refuse to hand the baby over.
that mom probably drinked and smoked while he was still in her belly
Its basically like if your kid is like mom I'm hungry feed me and the mom is like no I'm not feeding you yet I'm not done giving you a hug like? YOU GOTTA FEED YOUR KIDS
Bye bye hubby
Seriously, Does the husband have severe brain damage?
@@cedric3973 ikr the husband is always taking the mom’s side which is a huge red flag
The OP mom with the 5 week old needs to get out of that house, NOW. That is an incredibly unsafe situation for both her and her child. Only an abuser SCREAMS at their partner while she is breastfeeding their child, never mind the name-calling, gaslighting and other emotional abuse, there is a high likelihood of this escalating to physical violence. My hear breaks for this mother and child.
Let's hope she's financially able to 🙏.
No one deserves to live in that kind of house hold
The husband is probably gonna be abuser towards the op and her child. The op needs to get out of the situation N O W or this can be a horrific situation.
Story 3: that husband is definitely a jerk, why would you tell your own wife that she is a "whiny girl"? Belittling her when all she is doing is trying to care of your own child! *Unacceptable*
definitely a product of a Karen
@@spoon4732 indeed, she married a Daren
He is not a jerk; he is an abusive narcicist.
D i v o r c e
@@West_Coast_Mainline D i v o r c e
"Don't treat your own baby like an object" says the guy who clearly letting his mom treating the baby like an object
That's exactly what I thought.
Your right
Get out while you can
hahahahah
OOOOOOOOH ROASTED 🤣🤣
Number 3: leave if he priorities his mother's comfort over his own child so she's not the jerk
Technically, the mother in law was causing her to neglect her child. And the husband sided with his mom??
#1 Wow this Karen was completely insane!! To slap someone and then slap them again because they try to sign to you ! Then go after you again after store personnel come in !! She needs some serious jail time to save others from her !! Ladies in jail will be happy to give her a different perspective on how she acts !! Poor guy ! I hope his sister makes sure Karen goes to jail !
Hell has a special place in my heart for people like her🙃
Mommy’s boy
Three rules of marriage I follow
1. don’t marry a mommy’s boy that has a mom like that
2. Don’t marry someone that is crazy (as in Harley Quinn crazy)
3. Don’t marry a bitch
No she's not the jerk. She married a huge mama's boy and she needs to run and run far. Not only will this never get better it will only get worse over the course of their marriage. These people have shown her their true colors and she needs to believe them.
"Not an object to own."
Husbands mother, ignoring all physical needs, telling OP to wait their turn and refusing to return child like a kid refusing to give up their doll.
Fr
She's acting like it's her kid fr
The story about the mother-in-law: I'm not qualified, but based on the information given, I'm comfortable assuming that the mother is a narcissist, and she expertly raised a narcissistic son. If this is in fact the case, that woman needs to get the hell away from that family ASAP and take that child with her.
Seems like people love incomplete families in your country
@@1mol831 Better an incomplete family than one ruled by narcissists. It's not difficult to imagine an endless series of conflicts if she allows her mother in law to have her way.
@@DJoseph-sp4ij your choice. It’s a culture thing after all.
@@1mol831misread your comment as "incompetent" instead of "incomplete" made it funny to me
@@doggo_lover257 I have a great life. It just sounds like people like incomplete family
Man, that first story. It was obvious he was not the jerk but her sister being a lawyer takes the cake. Hope that lady gets what she deserve. Even if he was an employee, no employee deserves to be treated like that.
one of these was my reddit story, I was the guy who helped the little old lady and got yelled at by the Karen, seeing it here made me smile.
really??👍👍👍
you better not be lying man ... cos if u are I'll shake my head in disappointment.
You did the right thing
Gigachad.
You're a Chad for helping that old lady
Story #3 What I find the most strange is that OP is the Mother of the baby. Not the mother-in-law.
The fact that her husband yelled at OP for looking after the baby's HEALTH and defended his mother so strongly is so worrying to me....
OP's husband doesn't care about her or his CHILD and acts like a child himself
He most likely has had to defend his mother in the past and that's why he reacted that way and what that means is that he is not suited to become a parent himself
He's a mama's boy. The relationship is doomed.
Story 3: If the husband has shown similar behavior like this in that past, then I would say that's a deal breaker and prepare for divorce. If he treats you like like before the baby is even born then it's only going to get worse from there. I would recommend getting a close friend of counselor with you and explain to him why you told her no. If he backslashes you, then file for divorce and stay with your parents.
Ive always been taught by even my mom, that when its time to start a family, my priotiy is the kid, wife, then my mom. She instilled that with me. Our love for moms never leave but it shifts to our other priorities
That’s why people like Milfs so much
So, you come in at 4th place at best. Sounds like a bum deal. Who makes you a priority? Marriage is a scam. Why any man still chooses to do it, especially with how the laws are, is beyond me.
@@smithsmith1956 I think they meant- when its time to start a family, their priority is the family their building first and not someone out of this family they are building (Like Cousins, Aunts, Niece, Nephews, Parents etc) Ofc still take care of their family (that is out of the one their building) and care for them and love them and be there for them when needed (like if their parents is sick- they have all the right to take care and visit them)
But The story was about The OP having Issues with her Mother-in-law and her husband- because she was suppose to feed the baby every 2 hours but her mother-in-law made it difficult for her to maintain that routine and end up in that controversy and it ended with her Husband siding with the OP's Mother-in-law (The Husbands Mom) and an argument between the OP and her Husband (I believe was this was story #3 at 5:50 )
So I think they didnt mean for it to put it as if they were the 4th, I can see why you would think that but they also didnt say any numbers like "The kids 1st , My wife 2nd, and then my mother 3rd" so I also dont know how you get to that conclusion of the husbands/man should be 4th in the relationship/marriage. Because Relationship/Marriage or Not we should still be the priority- so saying that they "come at 4th" place is like saying that even if its an abusive relationship they should still stay because "Kid and Wife Priorities" which should not and should never happen. But we should know when to put priorities in the right time or balance our priorities. Not just always put ourself first
Because in a relationship we are suppose to be in sync- both participants in the relationship/marriage should be or rather have to work on it together and priorities each other (but not forget about themself ofc, should be a balance of both prioritizing the other and ourself too) in which each should take care and be there for the other half of the relationship. Since that is suppose to be what a healthy relationship/marriage is, a friendship/relationship/marriage or just simply an acquaintance relation needs both participants to work with each other- sure maybe it could work if only one of them works on it, but it wont be healthy and or balance. So if a family has a kid, both of the parents should be balancing each other, not just the husband and not just the wife, both should also know whats best for everyone in the family including themself. (Tho I do agree with what you say about the laws- its quite... messy- and messed up)
@@smithsmith1956 in his own priority list he comes in last yes, because he isn’t selfish. His wife will place him second though, the same as he places her, both equal behind their kid. That’s the deal. Mutual love for each other, combined parental love for the child. Marriage isn’t a scam, you’re very cynical. But you do have to pick your partner carefully.
@@AtheAetheling Not cynical, a realist. Marriage is a scam, just look at the laws and how they're geared to take everything from the man and gives it to the vvomen. It's a wealth transfer scheme. 67% of marriages end in divorce. 80% are filed by the vvomen (thanks no fault divorce). It's a scam. Period. And you should look into some evolutionary psychology studies. The wife is not putting the husband second. Almost no wife will. It's usually the kid, her, her parents, (usually mom then dad), then the husband. It's really rather depressing. I sometimes wish I didn't go get that degree. But I'd rather arm myself with the reality of it all so I don't get taken advantage of myself. And "not all" is not an argument. The exceptions do not disprove the rule. And you shouldn't make decisions off the minority. If you were to go skydiving and the instructor said your chute had a 67% chance of not opening, would you still jump? Because not all the parachutes are defective right? Not all.
Even if he wasn't deaf or mute you shouldnt slap anyone for no reason
Yea totally agree
Facts
Amen to that
Her reason was "he ignored her"
Even if they have your wife's name in their mouth? Lmao
I worked at Michael's for 12 yrs, during my time there I worked with a woman who was our floral designer and deaf. During hurricane Floyd a woman came in the store and got loud because she walked away from her. I had to loudly (to overtop her) say "She's deaf!" At least that woman had the good grace to apologize.
Story #3: I agree with the terrifying comment. A baby of that age is supposed to be fed from 2-3hrs. Preventing that, for any reason, isn’t prioritizing the needs of a baby and instead your own selfishness.
If my husband did that (story #3), I would rethink my choice for him as a husband. Him throwing out insults, F bombs at me, and telling ME, the MOTHER, that I'm doing a poor job to give my child attention?? Divorce. On the spot. ON. THE. SPOT.
they seem young and didnt use protection
Well you clearly aren't emotionally stable enough to have a husband, so I don't think you'll need to worry about that anyways lmao.
@@wake6000 I'm definitely capable of understanding my emotions. I don't understand why you pulled that outta your ass 🤔
@@wake6000 Well you ain’t sound so mature either, not really your place to talk about responsibility. You talked like the wife and children ain’t your after marriage. The wife is stranger to the family, if the husband can’t connect both side together, he has already failed at being a husband. Btw I’m male and married, my wife and my mother do fights but I have never disrespected either of them, our relationships are still good.
@@wake6000 The grownups are talking please leave, you clearly aren't old enough and Mature enough to be discussing this topic.
This might be a bit late for story #3 but young children, especially newborns who are only a few months old require nutrients to properly grow. While it is fine for occasional delays in feeding, but after this occurs multiple times, it can become harmful to the infants health. As such it can be considered “child endangerment” even if just barely.
Not to mention that it's teaching the baby that when they cry they won't get their needs met = abandonment.
Story #3: I had threaten my own mother with being removed from the hospital because she was so out of control. Both grandmothers were in the room during birth.. My daughter had aspirated mercomium during delivery and had to be taken to the Special Care nursery almost immediately after birth. I got to see her as she was rolled through the door, and my wife didn't see her at all IIRC. My mom from this point started slowly becoming more and more manic. "THEY HAVE TO LET ME SEE MY GRANDBABY!" Over and over. She was losing her grip. Pacing and generally being annoying. The Special Care nursery was open *only* to the parents with ID checked wristbands. No other entry was allowed at the time. The family (10 or 12 people) had all moved down to the nursery window to try and see my new daughter, but she wasn't visible from the window. They were all patiently waiting for me to go in and get an update (all except my mom that is). She was still acting crazy withe "They have to keep me see my grandbaby!" BS. 90 minutes after birth *I* hadn't even been allowed in to see the baby yet.
She tried pressing her face up to the nursery window trying to get a peek through the lowered and closed miniblinds at the nursery window. Raising and lowering her body trying to catch even the slightest peek like a cracked-out burglar scratching at the glass trying to open a window that isn't there. I should point out the lights were off in this particular room and nobody was even in there neither nurses nor children. She was so manic that I had finally had enough. I in front of the whole family told her to her face, "I haven't even been in to see my daughter yet. Get ahold of yourself or I will have you removed from this hospital! You are acting like a crazy person." Her own mother was telling her to calm down and stop her craziness. The family was in shock I said it, but all of them totally understood why. She took it pretty hard at the time like I just betrayed her, shot Old Yeller and kicked a puppy all at the same time. To this day I doubt she would admit she was out of control, and will laugh it off by saying "They should've let me see my grandbaby".
Man, that part about the first OP's sister being a lawyer just set me off laughing. That story was probably one of my favorite since I have a deaf friend and enjoy those kinds of stories from her.
For story #3 the husband is showing some very obvious red flags that could even cause some emotional abuse to the child when older. The mom has to run and she should do it fast.
Agree I would divorce his ass and have full custody of the child I don’t give a crap
I think that the op and the husband should get a divorce. Why is the op still with him. He has no care for his own child nor any respect for the op. He didn't even try to talk about it nor try to understand the op.
@@misterlattc agree
THIS!!!!
She should stop when she’s says no and she is not the jerk the mom is
I have several little siblings and I know from experience that they NEED like absolutely NEED to be fed at least every 2 hours when they are that young, so yeah that's a major no-no for the grandmother to be putting her own emotional wants over a newborn baby's literal needs.
I'm NOT understanding what is wrong with ppl who'd be in a scenario like this.GIVE THE BABY UP TO BE FED!!!!
Power trip to start with also it was a common occurrence for the mil to make the op BEG FOR HER BABY wtf
My mom works for Hallmark vendor and I sometimes join her. You'd be surprised how many arrogant people insist vendors work at the places they stock on. "Well it LOOKS LIKE you work here." happens to my mom probably twice a day. FYI. Vendors have a whole list of stores they have to go to. They don't have time or effort to memorize the layout of every store in the valley.
These incidents are surprisingly common. Sadly.
Also as a bonus when I worked as a cashier in the Dollar Tree store, I've had people insist I tell them directions to how to get to a completely different store. Like, jeez! Buy a map. Pull up google maps. Download a GPS.
In Story #3, the mother-in-law was out of line in keeping the baby when the mother wanted to feed it. HOWEVER.... the poor woman's husband berating her and insulting her for trying to feed her child was OUTRAGEOUS! To me, that sounded like the precursor to divorce proceeding because I sure would never have put up with that mama's boy treating me that way. I would have packed his bags and told him and his mother to shove off!!!!
First story. It doesn't matter if he was def and mute or had perfect hearing and speak. How do people get it in their heads that you can assault an employee for not helping you.
well idk if the story is true but there are people think lowly of the employees and treat them badly
What happened to gently tapping someone on the shoulder for attention?
Employee or not for someone not knowing you're there gives no one the right to hit anybody!!!
True
Because "the customer is always right" mentality. Whoever thought of that phrase has never worked in customer service and businesses need to stop thinking that the customer is immune to being wrong.
Story#3. OMG. Mother in laws can be very sweet & manipulative. I speak from experience. The husband should have defended his wife. Good luck with that marriage.
@Kokeletso Tyobeka ?
@Kokeletso Tyobeka this isn’t reddit.
Story #3: That husband was so off base siding with his mom, and insulting his wife. His current attitude shows how the rest of their marriage will go.
Story #4: That guy was wrong in taking something that didn't belong to him. If it isn't his, or isn't communal, then hands off.
Story #5: Again, the husband was siding with his mom, and not supporting his wife. Woman doesn't know her MIL as well as she knows her own mom, so her own mom would be more comfort to her than her MIL. Husband has yet to understand he and his wife are a family, and do not have to have either of their parents involved in their marriage. Because he chose to act like a five-year-old, she should consult a lawyer and get papers ready in case they're needed. Guessing though, MIL is going to cause more problems that husband will side with, and divorce papers will be needed.
I wouldn't be surprised if the OP and her husband actually had issues before that.
Most of these stories make me wonder why "Am I the jerk?" is even a question. Like, what was the deaf person supposed to do in that situation? It was near impossible for him to understand what the Karen wanted, plus she physically assaulted him. If you were just out in public, and some person you've never seen before just walked up to you, slapped you, pushed you to the ground, and started yelling at you, would you treat them with kindness? I know I'd be pissed in that situation.
For the last one, I agree with OP.
She's gonna be in a room in extreme pain and her lady parts exposed for all to see. It's going to be a very vulnerable time for her. If she isn't that comfortable with her MIL then MIL should respect her saying no.
Again if her mother is allowed in there then the mother-in-law should be otherwise neither one unless there was previous tension between the two that wasn't mentioned then the OP is wrong in that story
@@scotteckert3955 So women are supposed to let people they're uncomfortable with stare at their vaginas?
@@scotteckert3955 because of course other people mothers is the same as our mother.
@@scotteckert3955 you people think it all woman is ok with someone seen they vagina ? She wants her mother and her husband because she trust them to see her in that way, it’s not a party.
I agree fully with the op
@EeveeQueen15 ur completely right!
For story # 5, tell me how a pregnant woman couldn’t finish her food because the husband was dragging her away, and on top of that she’s hormonal with that she would get irritated really fast when the same question asked even though that she already gave an answer to it
I had pretty much the same thing happened to me….I worked retail for over 30 years…and started to lose my hearing. I had a hearing aid in one ear. I was walking to the dressing rooms and I heard someone yell…I turned around and some man yelled at me that he called me three times….and “are you deaf”. I said as a matter of fact I am…moved my off my ear and he saw the hearing aid. I could tell by his face and his wives that he felt about 2” tall. I think he learned a very important lesson that day.
“Everyone will be elderly If you live long enough”😂
"You can have an opportunity to stand in the delivery room when it's your son giving birth."
I died immediately in laughter.
Lmao If i was the husband I'd be like "Sure, and I'll be too busy going hunting that day, Robert Baratheon style. Have fun!"
That was such a stupid and rude thing to say to her MIL, she was definitely a jerk. She said that like males have the ability to give birth
I mean, it's rude, but it's funny.
And I completely agree with the advice that was given: if the husband cannot support his wife's decision regarding their child, or her request for privacy, isn't that a red flag that he will continue to not support her decisions in their marriage? So then what kind of a marriage do they have? Couples should communicate with each other and find a solution that works for both of them, but in this case it kind of comes down to who the woman wants in the delivery room with her. I mean, *she's* the patient.
@@danelfernandez6571 that was the point. Men will never understand the pain and stress of childbirth. They don't carry it in their wombs for 9 months while being miserable all the time, having morning sickness, back pain, just the worst possible time ever. They won't have to spread their legs in a compromising and uncomfortable way for everyone to see and try to push the baby out for 1-2 hours. All of this is what the mom has to go through. So she's in her ultimate right to choose who can accompany her. If only her own mom and husband will make her feel okay, then so be it. The MIL is genuinely awful cuz not only did she not take the "no" for an answer and further pushed the question, she deliberately asked this in front of everyone so she'll (look to be) in the right in any outcome....as we unfortunately witnessed. The poor mom to be was 100% right. And the husband is pathetic.
I was starting to think I was the only one who appreciated how good a response that was.
About the mom and the baby:
She is the mom of the baby, I don't f*cking care about "love time with the baby" or something like that, if the mother say to give the baby back to take care of him, you just give it, the disrespectful was the mother-in-law, not the mother of the baby.
Yes. I would have just snatched my baby back.
No matter what happens, you do not have the right to hit someone. Employees or not. I glad she's getting changes pressed again her
That man who did not care that his mother was keeping the baby away from the mother is a total maniac
I am siding with all the OP’s on this video. The response by the person who’s lunch was stolen was a bit rough but seeing someone about to eat your food is even rougher. Transferring the food from the container to a plate shows more premeditation, so others need to button their lips.
The mother-in-law/daughter-in-law dynamic is well known, but in these two stories the mother-in-law clearly stepped over the line.
That beta husband chose his mommy over his wife, so pathetic.....
U goofy af if u think anybody other than God come before my mother
@@RyanStaySilent_ you're literally 10... 99% of people would choose their OWN child over their mother.
@@torik02 fr
@@RyanStaySilent_ You do know that a newborn need to be fed every 2 hours for health and growth. Plus the child needs both the nutrient and antibodies from a mother's milk. A newborn has a very low antibody so it's very important for a child to drink a mother's milk. If the mother didn't feed the child all the time it's equal to child neglect and the child will be taken into custody.
@@RyanStaySilent_ fine, just never marry or have kids.
that father is terrifying, He cares nothing about his own child. That needs to be a divorce situation.
I like how whilst we are talking about Karen’s and thrives there’s just casually a Rat skiing on a mountain lmao
The reaction to the food thief was somewhat confrontational, but he was caught red-handed. Had it been a mystery, food laced with ghost peppers and left in the fridge would be appropriate.
I think that time he was a jerk cause he did not know that it was his food
@@greenwrath9655 but he also knew it wasn't his own either
@@greenwrath9655 It's a fridge. not a store shelf. No food is going to be in there for no reason. Dude fucked around and found out.
exactly
What pisses me off is the people thinking OP is the jerk. You don't steal people's food. Maybe OP needs to steal everybody elses lunches.
About story #2: After all the stories I've heard about "Karens", I'm surprised she didn't escalate the situation much more.
My goodness I love this channel so much and I love the stories and him reenacting the voices so glad this channel makes videos
As a deaf person myself, OP is definitely not the jerk. Believe it or not, people can be so ableist. I haven't been assaulted but I have dealt with many times being pushed, pulled/yanked, grabbed, yelled/screamed at, had small things thrown at me, etc. The only big things I have had was an old lady slamming her cart into my mine because "I was ignoring her", and security guards at one of my old jobs (who knew I was deaf) repeatedly running at me screaming. There are many stories out there of deaf people getting assaulted, beat to the point of needing to go to the hospital, or straight up murdered.
For the last story I'd say there are alternate ways to say the same without burning bridges through sass (in case the mother in law came at this from an angle of self-tradition where she was old enough or had lived in a remote enough location to have witness close family members helping family members/friends give birth) BUT the decision on who can and can't be there while she delivers IS hers. It is an intimate moment when she's literally spread out & vulnerable so having the mother in law come along would feel very invasive unless they held a veeery close relationship and even then it may be a moment she'd prefer to spend with her husband alone to cherish giving their attention to the baby all on their own. She could have expressed it better but the mother in law could have been equally respectful & asked this in private instead of doing it like this.
Hey you are 100% correct but it seems I don't really get why what she said was so bad, yes her sentence was was something impossible and now think that, yes telling someone to do want they want in a way that's impossible it's kinda weird (because you telling them to don't do it
@@ftude836 Her words would come off as passive-aggresive by saying yes but only under a condition that we know won't happen, like you mentioned. I would personally say it's not that rude of a thing to say or do normally but in this particularity case since she said it towards her mother-in-law, which in theory should be respected (tho not necessarily true in all cases) this makes it even more shocking for her to be showing a bad attitude towards her mother in law.
Tho the husband's mother was clealry pestering her about something she didn't felt comfortable so I can see why she would wan't to put a stop to her.
@@mica4977 oooh ok it makes a little more sense if you think like that, that she was saying towards someone who you on most cases should pay respect, and especially if we take at acount that she was in front of her husband's whole family, yes, she was kinda rude to them too
@@ftude836 Yeah makes it worse that she said it in front of so many people.
The sentence that originally came to mind was "you can still see the baby while I'm in the recovery room". But nope. She had to be a giant ass. The subreddit is "am I the jerk" not "am I legally in the right" and for the former question, ESH. The MIL for pestering and the woman for her comment.
3:09
No! you are not the jerk for being born deaf and mute, and being slapped by a karen. Shure, that was a misunderstanding, but YOU DON'T SLAP PEOPLE FOR NOT HEARING WHAT YOU SAY!!!
You just don't slap anyone, period.
#4 How often do you catch the person stealing your lunch? The OP is not the jerk. Genius!
For number 3 politely tell the mother in law, your husband, and anyone else who asks that NO ONE is going to stop you from feeding your baby and you will ONLY ASK ONCE from then on and that after that the gloves are off.
So starvation is called love nowadays?
apparently
My mother in law did. This with my first child. I supported my wife when it happened. I ended up kicking my mother in law and her husband out. My father in law was nearly kicked out that day as well. (Note: my wife’s parents both divorced and remarried.)
Legit, gets more messed up when you think about how the mother knew the baby needs feeding
...babyes cry and visibly show their need
You mean malnourishment, 2 different things.. Not starving to death.
@@deamerican49352
You can starve without starving to death tho
Malnourishment is more specifically about nurishment, wich technically you could be without starving... If you were trying to survive on rocks or something
Malnurishment as a simpton is generally seen as phisical manifestations of these
rememeber kids, your store clerks, waiters, cashiers and other people who help you navigate through what you need are people, they have feelings and you cant assault them for something like this.
I love the audio of the guy doing an impression of an old granny 🙂🤣🤪
The last story is honestly straight up grounds for ghosting them. Not a divorce but a break.
The op is clearly the jerk
When I heard "oh did I mention my sister is a lawyer" I knew the Karen was screwed
For the last story, think about it like this: she doesn’t wan her mother in law to see her down below in the room. She’s just wants the people closest to her
Seeing genitals > Seeing a human being being born
Priorities
But it does kinda seem like favoritism. Both her mom and the husband would be there, but not the husband's mom. I understand completely why his mom would be upset. And she absolutely was a jerk for her "clapback". There were a lot of better ways, but that was definitely one of the worst ones.
@@MrJr1976 the mother needs to be comfortable in the delivery room. Is she’s stressed, it can cause a delay in labor and cause issues,
@@gothica3605 Here's an easy solution. Have only the husband be there and both mothers in the recovery room. Instead of making the totally rude comment she did. She can blame it on hormones or whatever, but she NEEDS to apologize then offer the recovery room.
@@MrJr1976 the hell she does. mil put mother to be on the spot, in public. was rejected multiple times and continued to not take no for an answer. husband and mil owe mother to be apology. mother to be needs to divorce and ghost
3:30 Karen probably thought he was just throwing up gang signs
Her patience with these people - dear god - bless her
Story 3: If you were dying from starvation and really needed to get away from your parents because you needed food (unrealistic but bear with me here), should they let go of you so that you can eat? YES!
If you need help you need ask. And embarrassment is a lesson that will stick around for a long time. I sorry that he was forced to make an impression on someone who is old enough to know right and wrong and what you are supposed to do.
Story 5
If my husband went off on me like that, I would've already told him that he couldn't be in the delivery room either. But perhaps being in the delivery room had a special meaning to his mother. Maybe she wasn't going to live long enough to really see the baby, and that could've been explained. But she has to respect her daughter-in-law's choice. The daughter-in-law is the patient. Patients can choose who they want or don't want in their room.
it was a self entitled choice tho. All because she doesn't share blood with the mother in law. It is the sons baby as well. And the fact that her mother is gonna be there is very fishy. To feel stressed out because the son's mon is in their means there is hatred there. We have to be bigger than blood. Bigger than our egos. But still, the son should not have tripped out that bad. But it was disrespectful what she said and hes being petty. this whole thing is a drama shit show.
@@JuJu-he8ck this isn't about ego. Do you want a person you don't know that well/aren't that close with to be there when you're giving birth for 1-2 hours in the most excruciating pain possible while in a compromising and uncomfortable position? HELL TO THE NO! She'll have doctors and nurses there, she doesn't need another pair of curious prying eyes on her! You clearly sound like a man so of course you'll never understand.
@@JuJu-he8ckno it isn’t. If I was giving birth the only person that I would let in would be my mother. Because she is the only person I would feel safe enough with. Giving birth is one of the most painful, compromising, not to mention possibly fatal event in a woman’s life (I actually have increased odds for the fatal one due to a chronic illness that runs in the family). I don’t want anyone to see me like that except my mom. If I was in OP’s place I would have immediately removed the husband from the list (hospitals have this list that says who is and isn’t allowed in the birth room and only the woman’s wishes apply for obvious reasons) after he said that.
@@JuJu-he8ckno, it's not because she doesn't share blood, It's because she has known HER own mother for her entire life, and also did you know, her mother most likely also birthed her? 😱
I can and can't believe this. I'm partially deaf and sometimes need people to slow down or speak louder when talking to me. This seems to really piss people off, even when I'm beyond polite and doing my best to help. I can't tell you how annoying and rude it is even when I explain that I'm partially deaf. I've never understood this lack of kindness and understanding but some people just don't have it.
Also, lady with the obsessive MIL, you need to leave your husband. Gaslighting and blaming you for following doctors orders? Your husband should put you first, above everyone. Period. He was condescending and has no respect. When you have children, your child comes first, then your partner. If this isn't the case, it's an unbalanced and unhealthy relationship.
We definitely need to hear what happened in story 1! I can't believe another human could treat someone like that!
That husband is a terrible one (story 3)
she needs to run for the hills
No he was not, how could he even be the jerk in this situation? (First story)
like this
yea i got slap twice and pushed but thats my fault i should of just said no to my disability and heard her talking to me
@@unknownpainting4788 Dude he can't hear.
@@theeclipseforestplays6409 stupid I know
@@unknownpainting4788 Then why did you say "and heard her talking to me"? That makes no sense since he's deaf.
@@theeclipseforestplays6409 it was a joke about him telling his disability to just stop being a disability and hear her
"Nuh-uh. You can't feed your own child even though they can die of starvation and need to be fed every two hours. My mother treating the baby like it's a pillow for hours at a time is more important."
like seriously who does that
Remember when people got out of line like this the response to them was a simple punch in the face followed by "Have a nice day."
Pepperidge Farm remembers.
The way American culture thinks that customers are always right is one of the most toxic things about America. Workers are people and they create more wealth than any business owner ever has.
The worst part is that “the customer is always right” is never used correctly, it was meant to say customers decide what sells I.e. if customers start buying turkey stock more turkey, it had nothing to do with customer service
To me only time it is for repairs is what might have happened am their home
Not just America.
@@deathgodshewasanillusionin6893 Indeed. It is a capitalism problem.
@@xemnahort2 yep! The full quote is, "The customer is always right in matters of taste." Has nothing to do with letting any ole fucker walk all over you.
With the delivery room thing, she wasn’t a jerk. It would’ve been jerky if it had been the 1st response. But no, it was a response after badgering and badgering after having gotten an answer.
No means no. Period. Under all circumstances.
Still a jerk. I know that its an intimate thing that most people would like to keep private, but explaining that in a thorough way was the right way, maybe say youll think about it and say no in private. Was the MIL out of line? Yes, was she a jerk? Also yes. Also, you dont disrespect your husband's mother in her own house just because you're pregnant... its not a get out of jail free pass, you can still be called out.
Perhaps Jerky but mil was asking at the dinner table in front of the whole family if my relatives was doing that shit I'd actually throw some food at them and tell them to shut up (yes I know its not better I don't care you don't talk about things like that at the dinner table ESPECIALLY when you've been told no)
in the last situation I don't think the mother in law was wrong in her point about being as much as a grandmother as OP's mother but the way she handled it by asking about it out of the blue in front of everyone was completely wrong, and how OP's husband reacted was also really weird and should at least be grounds for concern
Being just as much of a grandmother also isn't the point at all. People being there is for the purpose of giving support to the woman giving birth, and she wanted just her husband and her own mother there.
I doubt the husband was there in the end if they had issues before hand
Hubby needs to know where his loyalty should lay. Get out of the house. Do not go back! He is going to get progressively more abusive. You are going to lose.
A thief is a thief. Being polite to a thief is pointless.
Baby story: Where can I see this man to explain that mothers are allowed to feed their baby without asking nicely. Unless he wants his baby to die, just saying
I love how he gives great impressions for certain characters of a story😅😂
good to ya mate😇😎👍🏼
YES FINNALY ONE OF THESE STORY'S WHEN THE PERSON PRESSES CHARGES
13:36 THAT’S THE SOUND OF A FACKING DIVORCE👹 *helluva boss stolas divorce meme*
Definitely not a jerk for the first story. He was deaf, mute, and blind in his left eye. The karen assaulted some person with a “disability”
I consider disabilities as Inconveniences
@@darthjarjar223 yep I don’t have a disability but a friend of mine has a problem with her jaw I think I don’t know what it is but she has trouble speaking sometime I don’t think it hurts her she’s friendly and nice
@@darthjarjar223 They can be inconvenient but I think it's bad to think of them as just that, especially seeing that there are people that don't struggle that have it, there are deaf people living like they aren't deaf, I mean even cats that are paralyzed from the waist down act like they are any normal cat.
So they can be inconvenient but not all the time, they can be inconvenient when you first get it (If you weren't born with it) and can be inconvenient with people that don't understand the no parking spaces in parking lots, and don't forget Karens, but otherwise they are normal people that just have a different way of how their body works
@@zuruaeclipse good point
It was so obvious that he was not the jerk, though.
Thank god she’ll actually pay for her actions
the mother with the baby that has to be fed: the way the "husband" acts is a clear red flag the size of the usa and big enough for a divorce...
#5, OMG! How awful your husband is treating you, and it's your choice! If he sides with her over you, watch out, this marriage may be doomed.
@Ivan ok, then answer this question. Would you want a stranger (be it even your mother in law) to see you push baby, poop, fart, pee all simultaneously? I strongly believe it’s her body and her choice whom to let her see in this very vulnerable, very unpleasant situation, don’t you reckon so?
If the husband feels offended because the OP insulted his mother, he has the Right to say that he doesn't want to be on the delivery room, you cannot obligate someone to do what you want
@@mordraxterboy1521yeah, but the MIL kept pushing. Pregnancy hormones do play a part in it, but no means no. If the MIL cant understand that then she deserved it.
I remember the first time I saw sign language, even as a confused five-year-old I could tell that there was something going on beyond simply not being heard.
For the last story, I think the OP should've said something along the lines: I'm sorry, but I only want my mom and my husband while I give birth as (insert reason). To not be rude and not offend or hurt anyone, but the way the mother in law acted by asking again was unnecessary by all means due. The fact how the husband treated the OP afterwards was the worst part, so if the mother in law knew how he would react to show the true colors of his would be the only reasonable explanation for asking again and again rudely.
That is how the OP responded. She did nothing wrong she has the right to choose who she wants in the room. Her mother being their is a big moment in every pregnant woman's life.
@@bluedragonfox are we forgetting that that baby is the husbands child too?
@@Phoenix-vb2us It's his baby too, obviously, but its HER body. He's not the one the baby is coming out of, and he's not the one with his legs spread to push their son out of. Having someone other than your parent, partner, and doctor seeing you in such a compromising position sounds awkward and embarrassing. The MIL could always see the baby right after, it's not about her.
Also, isn't the whole point about having people in the delivery room to help the mother? So obviously she picked the two people who mattered most to her and would make her the most comfortable. It's more than just the baby's first moments that goes down in there. Both mother and child are top priority.
@@theycallmedaddy1307 yes tbh i would feel pretty awkward and uncomfortable if theres other fam member other than my mom and my husband.
Accusing a deaf person of ignoring you is the same as rudely telling a cat that they’re a cat. It’s probably a bad comparison, but it was the first thing I thought of.
Am I the Jerk:”And my sister was livid!….”
Also him:”Also did I mention my sister was a lawyer?😁”
Me:😬😧😮
To be honest with that last story, it felt like an everyone's a jerk moment with what OP saying about 'her son giving birth' but now I see that it was a heat of the moment thing, and to be honest while people may seem to be jumping to divorce too quickly, I personally think it might be the right call.
I was looking for a comment saying that in the last story everyone was in the wrong one way or another. I can understand all 3 points of view:
1. I can understand the wife being frustrated with her mother-in-law not taking no for an answer, although the way she snapped is not the right way to go about it. Also it is ultimately her decision to make who is there with her.
2. I can understand the mother-in-law being frustrated that she isn't allowed in the room, but she was way out of line by not only dropping it on her during a family dinner but also not taking no for an answer.
3. I can understand the husband siding with his mother to an extent, after all the wife's mother is allowed to be there, but he responded in a disgusting way and should have sided with his wife.
The situation was escalated by the wife, and could only be saved by the husband... but he didn't.
@@kayschut9327nah. MiL and soon to be ex-husband were in the wrong. Never mess with a pregnant woman who can already be short fused.
@@cybermainstream Everyone did something wrong here. Being pregnant is the reason she freaked out, not a justification. As I said, the only one that could save the situation was the husband.
No
Just divorce
The husband is the jerk
He doesn't deserve to be a father
I bet the child would be embarrassed to call them a dad
Which one
"Did I mention my sister was a lawyer?"
HAHAHAHA
The lawyer reveal was amazing
The world will be 1 step closer to peace without Karen's.
I feel bad for the ppl actually named Karen and were born with a brain their name labeling the most toxic woman
Food Thief Story: Yes a jerk but a completely justified jerk. Could they have handled it better? Yes. Should they be castigated for what they did? No.
too many of these stories people are overly nice and get walked all over. It's refreshing to hear one where the guy having his food stolen messed with the guy doing it and embarrassed him.
@@frozenfresh6406 I agree with his justice
story 4: threatening not to see your son's first moments is both cruel and unjustified, as if you didn't even care for your son or wife. And if the OP doesn't want her mother-in-law there, then that's what she wants, you don't need to be such a jerk.
She is the jerk here. There is no reason to refuse mother in law in recovery room
For the first guy I hope the Karen who assaulted him got a long time behind bars
Absolutely not, he has every right depressed charges on her.
what one was this
sad charges
Regarding story #5, it depends. For a C-section, only the mother and doctors should be present to prevent as much germs as possible; as C-section babies tend to be weaker and less resistant to disease and illness. However, for a normal birth the feelings of the mother should be the only consideration, as birth is, apparently, a very stressful situation, and they need emotional support. As such only individual that the mother finds supportive and will actively be supportive should be present. And the number of individuals should also be kept to a minimum.
She didn't do it for stress bro. It's clear her intentions as you can hear in the way she replied. I get what you are saying but she did it for self entitlement. Look at the way she responded. She said when your son gets pregnant then you can be in the delivery room which is absolutely disgusting. She's doing it because of an ego thing. It doesn't hurt to have the other grandparent in there. If someone feels stressed cause of that there is hatred towards that person even if it's a small amount. The only reason she's not allowing her is cause they don't share blood. It is 50/50 it is the son's baby as well. They need some internal spiritual work to see that to feel uncomfortable because of a person who wants to support is ridiculous.
@@JuJu-he8ckshe replied to that after consant badgering from the mil when she was already told no.
@@JuJu-he8ckit's a privacy thing as well. MIL can stare at her sons privates for two hours but she's not entitled to stare at someone's Privates, who does not want to have her see their privates. Her own mother birthed her, changed her when she was a baby, she already saw all of that because she produced OP. Mothers are the primary caregivers to their kids, and if their kid is in pain then the mother should be there as comfort if the kid wants her there. The MIL could be some rando from the street staring at her privates while she is in pain. Birth is a vulnerable situation for the mother-to-be.
Story 2:
It's time for the new mother to seek a divorce lawyer, because this situation will only get worse as the years pass.
Story 4(I think?):
Once again, the mom-to-be should consider a divorce lawyer and papers to relinquish his parental rights, because her MIL and husband will only get worse as the years go by.
Story 3 not 2
0:11 bro started on hard mode
Love the videos dude! Keep it up!
story 3 its the way she was like hand over the baby it made me crack up no cap
Good for you, son! Stand up to bullies! This is what should happen.
Number 3: pack your bags move out and file for divorce
A) none of the OP's were the jerk, they handled the situation in the way that they should've in the moment, B) regarding the last story and the divorce, yes they should prepare for one, if the father won't be in the delivery room and prioritizes his family over his own child, that goes to show underlying issues that will be brought up later in their relationship
I agree, but also, the way the O.P. Handled it wasn’t very skillful.
Can you tell me what op stand for
nooooo my boi she was an absolute bitch it is absolutely her grandkid as much as it is her own moms
@@daboyz7720 online person
@@daboyz7720 original poster, so the person that initially posted it
OK I am going to be talking about the baby and feeding time story. 1. a baby has to be fed regularly and if breast feeding the baby has to go to mom. 2. from the sounds of it she married a moma's boy who is siding with his mother ignoring the fact that his wife has asked his mother many times and downright had to beg just to feeed HER son. the only jerk in this story is the mother in law who is treating that baby as hers. how can a mother show her child love when her in law keeps taking the child and refusing to allow the mother to have time with her child. if it was me I would pack bags for myself and the baby and go back to my parents house because obviously their is an oedipus complex here with this son and mother
After the second slap, it would be my turn, and my palm would not be open.
Karen Moment™✨ 😂😂😂😂