This Marks The End of My Transition
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- Опубліковано 12 лис 2019
- This marks what I see as the official end of my transition
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You guys are the best, thank you so much for all your lovely comments, they mean a lot to me and I’m so happy to share this moment with you all 💛
Congrats Jamie, you're the best and you've helped me with my transition so so much as well! I'm so happy for you!😘
Congrats Jamie. You honsetly deserve this so much 😊
Imma just go cry now because of how happy I am for you
🖤 happy for you
Congratulations! You are now an "official" male according to your government, of course for those of us that subscribe to your channel you've always been a guy. Much love!
Mazel tov on your completion of your journey! It's been fabulous watching you become the man you are.
Anyone else start crying when he started crying. Because I'm crying.
thuringwethil93 yup
Yea, i did
I literally started crying from happiness
Now I now he’s gonna cry and I’m not prepared
Hi, me again a few minutes later. Tears are upon me...
Jamie: *says he feels stupid crying*
Me: *Wiping tears off my face* yeah same bro same
they were streaming. Streaming.
I'm crying tears of joy for him
Jo Picconatto SAME
Me toooo
Ikr
Jamie: starts crying
Me: starts crying
I’ve been watching you since I was 14, I am now almost 19 and starting my transition
T.J. Kincade very good luck to you!! I hope everything goes well💓
Same here! Good luck to you!
I've just started my transition too, T.J. Some days I feel on top of the world, other days I'm terrified by what people will say
Same ;-;
Lol same, I'm 18 now
I cannot imagine someone referring to Jamie as a woman without laughing.
Yeah lol. He never looked like a women, especially now at the end of his transition.
Well probably because he never really was.
@@jesuschrist4129 Glad to see the Lord is on board. 😄
Vika Blaire It seems ridiculous to even think of him as so.
Ryan Shepherd IM ROLLING!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have to say, i was a bit sceptic about the transgender community at first but after watching videos like these i feel very different about the topic. It just about brought tears to my eyes... I think if I, a (cis-gender woman) can come to understand/accept the trans-gender community I think with enough education and empathy, anyone can and the world can become a better place, thanks to people like you.
This is so awesome, thank you for commenting 💛
@@Jammidodger I am a cis-woman (it feels a bit strange to write that!). I don't even really know how I get to your channel, but I loved you right from the start! I don't understand how people can have problems with transgender people! It's not a choice someone makes! You are a beautiful and nice young man! I am sad, that it costs so much money and took a long time to get this gender recognition certificate and then the birth certificate!
I think it shouldn't be like this!
Congratulations to you!
Now we can all get excited about the wedding!
(Sorry for my English!)
Edit: Now I know how I get here: DRUCK (the german version of SKAM) made me curious about transgender people!
Awe, I love seeing such supportive people from outside the community! It really makes me feel like the world is becoming more and more aware!
thank you so much for supporting the community! i always love hearing people who have changed after hearing actual experiences!
@@schuhschrank947 oh my god I love druck!!!
the wisest words ive ever heard,
" i wanna go eat pizza "
Me too
BRO WHEN HIS LITTLE FACE WAS LOOKING AT SHAABA W THE PUPPY DOG EYES I STARTED CRYING
The look on his face when he was about to cry. My heart
Mine has only just begun, and you've helped me so much, Jamie. Thank you and congratulations
Aaa, best of luck on your transition, Bruno Bucciarati!
@@xunniehan lmao thank you ❤
❤️ -giorno
WOAH BRUNO'S TRANS!? jkjkjk, good luck on the journey :^)
I'm only 2 months on T but I'm so so excited for more changes to happen and to change my name legally and get the gender marks fixed and surgery and all. 😊
"So we could get married properly
So you could be recognized properly"
I WEEPED
He was thinking about them and she was thinking about him 🥺
@@wlwneamain MY HEART IS SO WARM RN.
I’m not even trans, I don’t know anyone personally who is trans, and I’ve been watching you for over a year. Seeing you achieve your goals and become who you really are has been really inspiring even though I’m not trans myself. I’m so happy for you, and I can’t wait for you two to get married. Thank you for educating me on topics I never would’ve known about unless I found your channel. Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
Shelby same - I am just a cheerleader from the sidelines for LGBT but moments like this make me so want to embrace the human side of people, not trans people all people who are struggling and overcoming
Congrats Jamie! I'm really happy for you
Semmel Ach, du auch hier. 😊 Grüsse!
@@AnarchNines wo wenn nicht hier? ;)
Semmel Hast auch wieder Recht. 😂
i was really scared when i got the notif cuz i didn’t know what it was about
Same! I was like.... the end....of Jamie? Jamie ended? BUT IT'S OKAY IT'S A GOOD THING!!!!
Alex James same i was really concerned then i realised it’s all ok!
@@yulia8175 same it's so good, when he got all excited I was like yessssssss Jamieeeeeeee
Sameee I was so scared
When he says "male" and looks up... Oh my heart...
he cried...JAMIE SAID TESTOSTERONE WONT LET HIM CRY......THIS IS A SPECIAL MOMENT
Low prolactin only means it's a lot harder to cry spontaneously :)
@@Call-me-Al vibe kill
shirley A-z well trans men are real men, wether they are pre anything or post everything
shirley A-z nope cis men and trans men are different, but trans men are real men, so stfu cishet
shirley A-z 🤮 you make me want to throw up bc that’s your only comeback
You can see it like this: It all started with being born and getting a birth citificate and now your transition ended with changing it to the right sex. Greetings from Germany! :)
I need a shaaba 😭 she is such an angel sweetie, I'm amazed how beautiful and caring and supportive she is! She loves you so much Jamie, you are so blessed to have this love
They are couples goals,!! The way they support each other and care for one another is beautiful. I am so glad Shabba's family finally could see that and welcome Jaimie into the family.
Yeah, she's so supportive of Jamie being a woman, it's so sweet.
Alison Lopez a man
@@alisonlopez7932 are you being transphobic or are you genuinely mistaken?
9:13 I'm getting really REALLY tired of the argument that trans people are trying to sneak into the wrong bathroom. I'm a conservative Muslim woman who wears hijab and I'm not sure if sharing a bathroom with transwomen affects whether I can remove my hijab in the bathroom or not. This bathroom decision effects me directly, and I'm still supportive.
The whole argument that trans people are only trans bc they want to be predatory in the opposite toilet is so disgusting and demeaning to trans people's identities. The people making these accusations have clearly never struggled with their own identities and probably have predatory ideation themselves. You expect from others what you know to exist within yourself. Get your mind out of the gutter. Refusing compassion to others because you're afraid they'll act out your own sick fantasies is not ok.
I don't think the argument is about trans people themselves, I think it's about predatory men *claiming* to be trans in order to get access to female facilities.
My fiancee is trans but has not transitioned fully yet -- her drivers license still says "M" and she's not going to molest girls ffs.
@@mogznwaz Yeah, but that argument is stupid because predatory men are already intending to commit a crime, why would they care about being allowed to enter womens spaces?
@@Chuckiele Yes but predataory people are a. always looking for new ways to be predatory b. currently don't have bathrooms as an option because they're spotted too easily and challenged. j
@@mogznwaz b is exactly the point. They dont care about being spotted easily. People that are intending to sexually assault women dont care about being called out for entering safe spaces. Thats the least of their concerns...
Did anyone else just mcfucking lose it when he pointed at the certificate and whispered "male" bc I can't stop crying
i genuinely have tears in my eyes, i’m so happy for that you can finally get married as who you are and you’re legally seen as the right gender
I was scared it was gonna be the end of the channel
I also panicked a bit
I just thought he was getting a haircut
@@skyler5777 LMAOOO
Omfg same
:-o Dont say such a thing!
So you got a letter that basically said "Congratulations, you're a boy!"
No, he always was
@Erika Jaekl Oh right, yep UwU
Gender reveal part 2
@@kayofox4143 well the journey was matching the outside to the inside. He was already a man.
“It’s enough to make a grown man cry and that’s okay”
I love how Shaaba pets his beard.
I loved the little nose tweak
my journey with being trans has just begun and i wanted to say thank you jamie, you’ve helped me so much with coming to terms with truly being myself, congrats !!!!
Me watching as Jamie starts crying: smiling super happy.
My 80 yo Grampa: he’s crying. You’re happy he’s crying?
Me: it’s good crying! He’s happy.
Grampa: oh okay, that’s good.
*Precious* .
This comment made me cry 😭❤❤
😂I swear they're so funny
i love grampa 😭
@@ily2739 hey sinner!
This came out during Transgender Awareness Week and I'm so happy.
So am I! So glad she can finally live as a woman.
@@alisonlopez7932 Who can live as a woman ?
@@alisonlopez7932 Jamie is ftm.....
@@alisonlopez7932 omg..
Alison Lopez who are you talking about
When Jamie started crying I started crying. ❤️
Last time I was this early he was like one year post-top surgery
_Okay_ but does Jamie sort of have the same facial expression sitting on his bed there before opening the letter as he did right after he got his testosterone 8 years ago but hasn't yet applied the first gel pack????
It all comes full circle💕🤧
*I'M NOT CRYING YOU ARE*
Probably because he's transitioning into a woman and the oestrogen makes him more emotional. Love him.
@@alisonlopez7932 lmao wtf do you mean by he's transitioning into a woman?
Alison Lopez which bit of the 'changing the F into an M on my birth certificate' at the beginning of the vid did you miss?
@@alisonlopez7932 Fam what the fuck
I was so scared when you started crying because I thought you didn’t get accepted. Then when you cut and I realized you were happy crying I was so excited for you!
Your reaction was beautiful Jamie. Please don't "feel stupid" or apologize for it. You deserve to feel comfortable and relieved.
Oh and WHENS THE WEDDING?MARRY THAT WONDERFUL GIRL
I know!! Both women are so lovely and supportive of one another.
@@alisonlopez7932 Did you seriously reply to every comment mentioning his gender in order to misgender him again? wtf..
@@slendermanstoaster7730 yes
“I’m just feeling very grateful. I want to go eat pizza.”
I totally understand lol! Congratulations after so many years!
Anyone else think they couldn’t cry at anything more than the engagement video? I am SOBBING.
I’m so chuffed for you Jamie. BONUS BOSS LEVEL DEFEATED!
I had to rewind when he was back in the yellow chair talking because I had to keep blowing my nose.
When you started crying so did I, I am just so beyond happy for you! *big virtual hug* :')
Jamie, dude, that's awesome! This is such a massive thing!
Those happy sockfeet kicks, to that wide-eyed "WOW" look he gave Shaaba when the significance of what he'd just read sank in, to the tears of overwhelming relief and happiness--I felt it through the screen! It's so unexpected and wonderful to experience these feelings with everyone here as a cis woman who'd never had any reason to think about trans issues until coming across Jamie and my two other new favorites on UA-cam (Ty Turner and Natalie Wynn/Contrapoints). Videos like this one can open minds that were once closed, and I'm so glad we spuds have this real footage we can offer to people in our lives who don't think they can relate to others who transition.
When you cried, I cried. Here in Oregon, we are so lucky because we have a law called 'self affirmation'. We can state m/f/non-binary on our driver's licenses without paperwork, but also our paperwork is just a small fee and a send in with pretty much no possibility for denial. (We've become very inclusive here.) I am so happy for you both, and thank you so much for the courage your journey has given me when debating starting testosterone and surgeries.
i live in oregon too i didnt know this ahh
I love Oregon so much. Such a beautiful state in so many ways. I’m so happy to live here. I just wish the cost of living wasn’t so damn high lol. ❤️🌳🌲🌧🌊🏔🏖
Yay!! Congratulations! I can't even begin to imagine the sense of relief and lifting of a burden when you saw that letter. So often we don't realize the weight of things that we carry around. I rejoice with you in the relief you feel!
So happy for u!! 🖤 Sending much love to you and your girlfriend!
as a trans ftm teenager who *cant* transition because of family stuff, i live vicariously through all of your transition videos. thank you jamie ✌
CONGRATULATIONS, Jamie!!!!
I teared up when I saw your reaction. I am so happy for you and Shaaba!
I am a 66 year old cis-male ally grandfather with three friends that are transgendered.
Wedding plans are now in the forefront!
Congrats!!!
I just knew in that moment when Jamie cried how much it meant to him. I felt that. I’m now almost crying. I am so proud of you Jamie, congratulations. You definitely deserved it!!!💕
Correction. I actually cried😭 and I do not cry
Omg that's the first time I've seen you cry my heart went 💓💓
*Me reading the comments, being fully prepared for Jamie's crying* 🙂🙂🙂
*Me the second Jamie starts crying* 😭❤😭❤😭❤😭
I stumbled onto your video channel a long time ago ( thanks algorithm). As a cis-gendered married mother of two now adult daughters, I found myself tearing up at your reaction to your letter. Congratulations! You have helped open my eyes to parts of the LGBTQ community that I had no direct knowledge of, and I KNOW you and Shaaba have been showing millions of people around the world that , indeed, love is love. So I am so very happy for you, congratulations!
when he started crying i was just: 🥺🥺🥺🥺
As a cis-gender heterosexual female teacher I had educate myself about the LGBTQ+ community since I was not member myself. UA-cam has allowed me to develop a better understanding, and have definitely made me a more loving, empathetic, and accepting teacher and person.
Also the fact that you want pizza to celebrate is a mood.
You are so damn cute. No apologies needed for crying, Just because you transitioned doesn't mean all of your feelings were turned off. We all love you. Please stay safe and sweet!
Shaaba is a treasure - “Forget about us, what about YOU?” #relationshipgoals
IKR? I kept thinking what a wonderful person she is as she spoke during that segment. Don't you just love it when 2 fantastic people find each other for life?
I cant wait for my boyfriend to start 😊 you have helped both of us so much and I'm so happy for you 💕💕💕💕
I feel bad saying this, but I really needed to see those happy tears today. My own transition has to be slow (for lots of health related reasons) and seeing this is just... I needed this today. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for the hope.
Good luck!
If you think that being overwhelmed about that is silly, I almost cried when my teacher called me by my preferred name in class and corrected my parebts . "I think AMARA goes by they now" I sobbed for an hour afterwards
I started watching your channel ages ago and celebrated in your joy and accomplishments. Plus getting an education on things I didn’t understand. Now, a few months ago my daughter started dating a FTM trans boy. (They are teenagers, he’s still a boy.) So now I also watch with intention to understand and support the two of then. Shabba’s input has been very insightful too. Congrats and all the love!!
Gosh my tears came the moment his face showed that everthing went right
”Im just feeling very grateful... i wanna go and eat pizza” same bro, same.
Aww, watching this nearly 3 years later, hearing you talk about getting married in 2020 is so interesting. In particular because you’re now finally married!
I love the way Shaba scruffed your beard when you were crying, made me cry too! Obviously so much love there.
i'm so proud of you
I- I’M NOT CRYING! YOU ARE!
WE ALL ARE
I wasn't ready to burst into tears with you but here we are
What an uplifting video! It was like the end of a beautiful movie! I am a 73 year old woman. I have not only enjoyed watching your videos for the reason that, we’ll there really cool. But I “accidentally” ran onto your site just about the timer my wonderful, kind, and sensitive grandson age 7 came and told me confidently that he was not a boy but a girl. Your videos helped me understand him and support him. I was able to go to my daughter and son in law with real clear helpful information. We are a religious family, so it has been a challenge. Your videos gave us the ability to be supportive while we grappled with our own questions about our misguided religious faith. I’m really happy and proud of you wonderful kids! Keep up the good work! Your videos helped our family come out of the dark concerning our understanding about the trans world, and you don’t have to choose between a person you love and a loving God. Can’t wait to see what’s next❣️
CONGRATULATIOOOOOOOOONS!!!!😀😀😀😀😀👏👏👏👏👏👏
(I cried too!!) you are a lovely person (and Shabbaa) and so brave and I feel so happy for you and proud of you! Eeeeeee!!!
Shaaba!
schuhschrank sorry, too excited for spelling 😆
@@tracik1277 ☺
Congratulations Jamie! We're all so happy and proud of you, you are a lovely man who has taught so many people so much and deserve all the happiness the universe can offer you.
Had me crying first thing in the morning. Congratulations! Also Shaaba saying "forget about us, what about you?" was super sweet
I felt similar when me and my husband got his green card acceptance letter (he moved countries to be with me). Like that overwhelming sense of happiness and release that it was over, we could just be happy together. It is the end of a financial, emotional, and legal battle, it deserves celebration and a few tears! You should not feel bad for crying, you made it where you wanted to be and that is worth it.
My first cry of the week! I’m so happy for you Jamie. 💕👍🏼🤗
My best friend has recently figured out that she is actually he and this made me feel for him more than ever. I completely understand the struggle and just hope that he will end up in a situation where he is happy. Just as happy as me seeing what this did to you. You 2 are the cutest. Keep that up!
I've been watching this channel since I first came out (5 years ago now) and Im still waiting to start my medical transition. This gives me so much hope. Im so proud of you man
When you started crying I truly understood your whole transition and you as a person. I am so incredibly happy for you!
I’m so happy for you Jammi.. you genuinely deserve the best in life, wishing you nothing but the best for you and Shaba.
Your friends from Saudi Arabia.
#TransArab
I'm sO fReaKIN PrOUd AAAAA ALL OF THE LOOOVE
Incredibly happy for you Jamie! Congratulations!
Congrats, man. It couldn't have happened to a nicer guy.
I've been on T for 27 years, and didn't cry, but I felt it.
Jon in British Columbia, Canada
Congrats! I am very happy for you.
I saw the comments, I was like "nah, I'm prepared now so I'm not going to cry."
Nope, fully cried anyway.
Beautiful moment honestly & it is lovely that you could share that.
I'm so happy for you.
Holy shit, Jamie, you are not stupid for crying. I saw that look on your face and sobbed out loud, surprising myself completely and catching myself off guard. Momentous occasion. Happy for you!
I've been through a lot lately, and Jamie's smile and saying "I love you" to Shaaba (is that how you spell her name???) Made me happy. I'm a cis girl, and I'm a big supporter of the trans community, as both my best friends are ftm. I think out of the whole of the lgbtq+ community, trans people get the most hate. Keep fighting. Transphobia will end one day. I hope to be there when it does, I probably will as I'm only 13!
I’ve actually been following your journey for years and you were the first person I found on UA-cam that I really identified with. You’ve taught me so much over the years (7 years actually) and helped me realize that transitioning was the right thing for me as well. I’m so happy for you, and happy to see the end of your transition. ❤️ I definitely cried happy tears for you as well.
Man, my testosterone could't hold these tears. So happy for you
Zack good pun
same name! same gender! 🤣
Well imagine when your estrogen is kept at peak cycle level all the time...
@@maschan91 what do you mean?
@@user-qb3tk8rs8t my estrogen level is kept at about the average Max for a cis-woman, so it's like a constant PMS
when you started crying, i cried with you. i'm so so happy for you. as a cis woman i cannot begin to imagine how you feel but your reaction makes me think you're happy and it's so great to see this dream of yours come true. i'm so happy for you and i'm so proud of you. i wish you all the best for your future!!
Congrats!!! Happy for you!!!
Hey bro, when you was crying, I was crying. Your are not stupid! You are just a really good person and you really help me! Just congrats!
I’m literally crying 💕 I’m so happy for you
Congratulations Jamie! Honestly this made my day so much better.
Keep being you!
I LOVE THE LITTLE CHIN SCRATCH SHAABA DID AT 3:08 ! OH MY GERSH THAT'S SO ADORABLEEE
When you started crying i really related im 14 right at the start of my transition yesterday my doctor refered me to tavistock and i cried outside for like 10 minutes i really respect you and you are amazing jamie love you
Congratulations!!
I’m only a fairly new fan but i seriously cried and I hope my friend who is transitioning I hope he has a good experience like this in the future
The bravest part of all of this , I think, is you and Shabba sharing such personal things. And I also think the most important part of both of you is your kindness and good character.
I cried when you cried with your puppy face, and I also cried when you said that this process excludes nonbinary people. One day I believe I will be able to join you in having a certificate too and its people like you talking about it that is helping us get there. Thank you so, so much Jamie ;w;
In America we have non binary drivers driver's license and are working on certificates because of the obvious medical complications but it's a start.
SO cute! His wide eyed pure emotion.
I think this is the first time I've seen Jamie cry and honestly, that just makes this so much more powerful and I'm SO PROUD (which is weird I suppose because I'm ~10 years younger than him) and I can't wait until I get to that point in my transition.
I started crying just before he did. When he looked up, all sad looking with his big brown puppy dog eyes... I couldn't help myself.
Literal giant tears rolling down my face.... Im so happy and proud for you! I hope my wife will feel this sense of accomplishment and releif like this one day.
CONGRATULATIONS JAIME IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU
Congrats Jamie!!
Hes crying. Im crying. My cat is crying. What a beautiful moment & video. 💖
Congrats! Seeing 'male' on my birth certificate for the first time was priceless. Each state does something different in the US. I 'm blessed to have been born in Washington state. They don't just amend your birth certificate, they re-issue your birth certificate. I had to send a few things in, like a letter for mt doctor and the certified copy of my name change, but it took less than I expected. Any who, it's awesome you got your gender recognition. 🥂