@@mickm6309 she wanted to pay those bills. Who the Hell gives their new bf or gf a money in the first three weeks. Maybe $20 or $40 for gas but anything more then that is out rages. She put herself in that position.
She comes off as a stalker. Even the judge had to tell her to leave him alone and that she's only suing bc she got dumped and called her an "angsty drama filled woman". Plaintiff looks crazy as hell trying to buy herself some affection...smh...😬
Not really. Desperate for a relationship and naive yes, but she's not really giving me stalker/ drama vibes. He's the one with the drama, kept harping on and on about his sick father to try and gain sympathy. He was able to get it from the judge but not from me. I'm sure he didn't have his life together before his father got sick and is only using it as an excuse which is sick.
@@IagainstI. Sorry, she literally admitted to buying him the phone that he didn't want because she wanted him to be able to facetime with her so she could see him at any time. THAT is a power play if any. That's also why she called a hundred times is because she wanted to see what he was doing, where he was at at any moment. being desperate is one thing and she was, but she was trying to use the money to control him from the getgo. Yeah, he could not have mentioned his money issues, but it makes sense as he's a roofer to mention in a relationship "I make more money in the summer than in winter because of my job" which I've known similar, working in moving and storage. There's a winter lull and then you make a lot more in the summer. It's like saying "I can't afford things yet, but I will be"
@Shandra Johnson not always low self esteem. If you truly alone you don't care about money at all. After high school I had no friends or family I had noone to talk to i cancel my phone cause I had noone to text or call. I would have clearly give away all my money just to talk to someone for 10 mins.
Only reason she's taken him to court is him breaking up with her. Money wouldn't even be an issue otherwise. I do believe she called him one hundred times. Fortunately he saw through her in just three weeks! She's unstable!
'I'm too used to dealing with stuff like this' he states around the 3 min mark. Translated, not the first time he has used the 'Dry beg' technique to get money from women desperate for a relationship! This guy has his play down to an art!
@Shandra Johnson Or its exactly as I said. An individual, male or female, that is capable of dry begging with no remorse, does not have the insight to understand why they may have to contend with a partner that is desperate to communicate, thus they are overbearing with ulterior motives. They see no correlation between the two, they project everything onto the other individual in the relationship, not difficult to see in both his courtroom and exit interview!
@Shandra Johnson he shops on dating apps for women he thinks are less attractive to get money from. You don’t have to try so hard for male approval, dear. It probably doesn’t work.
Told her why he was stressed but “Never asked for money once”: *Dry-Begging * : To ask for in an indirect and roundabout way. Dropping vague hints that are not clear or straightforward in making a request.
i mean...... anyone remember the yung chicc w/ green hair. the mom who couldnt stop smiling when her daughter explained what she did for her tinder mate? this is similar in nature that this chic only knew scrubby 3 wks. this chic will do it again.😐😐
Finally some ppl in the comments that are seeing what I'm seeing! That man was clearly distraught over his dying father & wanted as far away from that obssed woman as possible & she's there giggling saying "while I offered to sit with him". I'm reading the comments & everyone's ragging on this guy & yeah he may be down on his luck, but she clearly saw that & used it to get what she wanted! Hope he can pay her & get her outta his life. 👋
@@piximommysreborns What did she get out of being with him other than some debt? You would probably get conned by him. He's clearly using his father's plight as an excuse for him not having his stuff together which is twisted. I don't feel bad for him.
@@IagainstI. lol I myself would not be dating anyone that can't even pay their bills. I think the guy was in no position to be starting a relationship, but I think this woman was happy to hold that money over his head & any kind person would not sue over a few hundred dollars when she was very aware his father was dying in the hospital. I don't think she had any reasonable expectation of being payed back in the near future & only went after him to have further contact with him. I think she's got a real problem with jealousy & control.
@@piximommysreborns I can't pay my bills and still get women. I'm decent looking and I can carry a conversation, that's all that matters. Stop trying to scare men. Men need to remember, to not listen what a woman says, only what she does.
Damn I’ve said it before and now I have to say it again. How in the WORLD is it not the hugest turnoff to meet a man that can’t even take care of his basic needs. He can’t pay his rent? Needs a phone? 🤢🤮
Yes, I cannot!! Ppl say it's low self-esteem, but damn! I couldn't ever buy anyone's love! No ma'am! I'll get myself a dog if I need to cuddle and a toy if I need other things!
I’ve been broke before in my life, but ain’t no way I’m even entertaining the thought of any girlfriend of mine even handing me a cent to help me. This dude is a scumbag and the girl allowed herself to be taken advantage of.
@@Bebedollie Agreed he completely used her, however the OP is correct as well, if he hadn't dumped her, she wouldn't have taken him to court. She was desperate then and she still is, she's angry and embarrassed and wants him to pay.
I blame her completely. Looks like she was trying to buy his love and attention with money and look at how that worked out. Stop giving people you just started dating money!
She found Chad and was desperate for attention so starts throwing away money at him, if he was average looking and not broke he would be invisible to her. Life's lesson is never loan money and expect it to be paid back, for strangers and even friends. She also needs to work on her self esteem and on her diet.
@@ricardos8307 are you saying he’s a over average looking? lol. I don’t think most women would consider him conventionally attractive. I think this girls self esteem is so low she’d be the same with anyone who gave her attention. She’s the Worst combination of self absorbed and insecure. She definitely needs to work on building her confidence but no need to attack her weight. You don’t need to be thin or super hot to have a healthy self esteem.
Sorry? He was taking advantage of her from the outset. Out of work, can’t pay rent and bills, oh look at my broken old flip phone, my dad is sick, tears brimming in his eyes. You don’t take advantage of desperate lonely people. He’s immoral.
Low self-esteem, feeling that they can't do better, being physically attracted so much that they are willing to see anything else, wanting to brag about having a boyfriend so they are willing to do anything, thinking that hooking a person financially secures the relationship, the stupid reasons are endless.
I've struggled with low self-esteem more a large portion of my life, but I always thought it was a HUGE turn off when people were broke and always needing money. I wanna be taken care of! Not the other way around!
@@dragames then he needs to improve his fiscal literacy and save up during the feast months so he can get by in the lean months or take a second job during the lean months. If he’s working for a legit roofing company and is a good employee, those crews stay busy year round, between residential and commercial. I don’t get how women or men for that matter, don’t see fiscal illiteracy in a partner as a red flag.
If desperate was a person 🤦🏾♀️ Broken woman funding love and affection never work out. 🗣 LADIES know your worth NEVER settle for anyone less then what you DESERVE 🙏🏾🥰.
Yes, ma'am, we cannot buy love nor can we buy self respect! She didn't even get to know him first, maybe we should wait till we know someone's character before having high expectations and likely disappointments.
He clearly used her. Women who give money to strangers are needy. He spotted that about her and took advantage. He just really chose a shitty time for himself because of his dad’s condition. Thought he could play on her sympathies but didn’t realize she’s a bit psycho. She’s clearly been used and abandoned.
Then maybe he shouldn’t have been such an emasculated loser and taken money that he obviously had no intention of paying back. He could have avoided all of this if he did the honorable and right thing, and just paid back the money he borrowed. What’s sad is when a man takes from women. I think he used her and I think this woman has very low self esteem. He took advantage of the situation. No one can force you to take money. If he’s not with his father, it’s just as much as HIS fault as it is the plaintiff whom was dumb enough to give him the money!
The plaintiff gave him all that money after two weeks! Ladies, we should be much more intelligent and have a lot more self respect than to try buying a man, especially one we don't even know!
Can we all just be honest and say: Low self-esteem and she knew exactly what she was doing giving him money and a phone. Ladies please FLY= First Love Yourself
Ladies, ladies--NEVER GIVE A MAN YOU ARE DATING MONEY. in a relationship the man must be at least the sole supporter of himself. That alone- a man without income is a reason to walk away. The only control you have is over yourself. Two people get together to form a partnership. If one partner is putting in more ( money, time, energy,,etc) that relationship is highly likely to fail. What did you see in him?……what did he have to offer? My 1st husband was a taker but he always had a job. My second husband is a partner in every sense of the word. After 42 yrs it becomes easier to see that 2 people in a relationship must be partners 100% involvement for each. You cannot build an empire if both don’t work
She "loans" him all this money after knowing him (from a dating app no less) for only 3 weeks? She's stupid and "needy"! The guy looked at her like she was trying to buy his affection and took everything she handed out. If he had kept dating her she would have never even asked for a dime back! WTH? I wouldn't have paid for all that for ANYONE that I dated!
I have, but I've never given it to get something out of it. I gave it with no expectation of getting it back. There's a few homeless veterans around where I live that we've gotten gift cards at the restaurants they frequent. I've also helped my now husband of 14 years with his child support payments. His ex-wife harassed him constantly if child support wasn't paid on the 1st of each month. She didn't care that he didn't get paid until the 3rd, she wanted it on the 1st. I was in the military at the time and got paid on the 1st of each month. I would give him the money just so she would stop harassing him and he would pay me back when he got paid. I even wrote checks to cover while I was deployed, not requiring repayment. Boy did she hate getting them, but at least my man wasn't being harassed because it wasn't paid when she thought it needed to be paid. I watched a few different times where she would make drop off/pick up miserable by bringing it up right in front of his daughter and myself. She didn't care. No child needs to deal with that crap!
I've probably had some low self-esteem over the years! It never made me want to give my hard earned money to anyONE!! I hate that excuse! I think it has more to do with having control over someone or at least when men do it they label it as "controlling." Giving money equals wanting control. Low self-esteem is just a cop-out!
There are two reasons to give money to people you don't know 1) hope to make them like you more 2) to hold something over them. She was obviously the latter.
If I am desperate was a person. I believe him when he said she called over a hundred times. You can't buy everybody. And the defendant needs to stop dry begging 🙄
Fair judgement. I hope this young lady is doing better today and hope she has built up some self-confidence. And I wish the best for the young man, too.
why should he feel ashamed? Handsome men such myself don't have to work and can get by with women providing for us. Typical shaming language used by women when it benefits the guy. In the real world, there are no rules... if you don't wanna work, don't.
The speed at which her kindness rotted to cruelty speaks volumes of her character. The effervescence of her smile and laughter in direct opposition to the incredible stress and pre-emptive grief he must be experiencing shrieks like a banshee of her (potential) sociopathy.
You can tell he wants absolutely nothing to do with her, the way he quickly walked out. As the judge said she was trying to own him. Imagine your dad being ill and having this bitter miserable woman carrying on and acting crazy. He was smart enough to end it and dodged a bullet.
Taking him to court while his father is dying in the hospital is a low thing to do. Very premature. What a nasty woman. Calling that many times is a red flag and he should count himself lucky to be rid of her so soon and owing that amount instead of THOUSANDS of dollars it could have been if he stayed with her longer.
She tried to buy him. I once had a friend who wanted to date me. I wasn’t interested. He text me over 250 in one day! And he wonders why I didn’t want to date him. If you have to be blocked b/c someone is messaging or calling too much, they are unstable.
“I offered to go sit with him.” Girl, what the f*!^ don’t you understand? He wants as far away from you as possible. I totally believe she was giving him all those things, she tried to buy him & got mad when shit didn’t go her way.
Theoretically you can tell someone whats on your mind and have no expectation of someone offering or giving money. When I was stressed about my bills I was venting not asking for money.
I totally believe she called 100 times and sent 57 texts that night like a crazy person. I believe she was throwing $ at him cuz she liked and wanted him. Now she's being vindictive cuz he didn't want her AND she knows his dad is dying and you can see the grin on her face...she is just digging in and trying to hurt him instead of taking the high road and moving on. For God sake they dated for 3 weeks. If you're giving gifts and $ like that in 3 weeks then something is wrong with YOU not the person you are showering with stuff.
As the old saying goes, "you can't buy love and you can't buy happiness". I've learned one thing from watching this show and that is your probably better served to stay away from the cretins you meet on these dating apps!
Judge should not have given her anything women need to value their labour and stop trying to buy the men into loving them and when things don't work out they run to court crying fowl
Yes, I saw that too! That gesture was actually WHY I scrolled here to read the comments! I'm glad someone else noticed and surprised many more did not.
That is what happens when you try to buy someone's affection. There are people out there just waiting to take advantage of a lonely or desperate person. If someone can't pay their own rent or can't afford a phone of their own, run, they aren't worth pursuing.
If he was a moral person ,he would give her back the phone. Then she could cancel the bill, sell the phone and be done. They will be connected with this till the phone is paid off. Be a man and give her the phone and let her live her ow life. Geez
I love when people owe money and they bring up people that died or r sick. When I can bet u he hasn't seen his dad in yrs. He's not someone who gives a S. T about anyone
I completely understand why the defendant didn’t save the text messages. He didn’t know that he was going to be on this tv show uh I mean in this courtroom. The plaintiff….she isn’t a bad looking woman but she seriously needs to reevaluate her life.
She must have low self esteem however I hope she truly learned a valuable lesson here. He's just over her at this point lol I understand his position far as why he broke it off tho but pay the lady.
I'm really surprised she didn't make him return that phone since she'll be paying for it. She definitely took it easy on him... out of character for Milian. Lol
It’s pretty obvious what’s going on here. She’s got low self esteem and was so happy to be getting male attention she thought she’d give him money to keep his attention. She needs therapy
@April Pinkelton/OP: Exactly. When TPC contacts litigants who have a pending case in their local court, both parties have to agree to dismiss their local claim. If he didn't want to leave his dying father's side, he didn't HAVE to, so, in my eyes, he looks like an even bigger moocher. I mean, he tried to PROFIT off of *his choice* to leave by suing for lost wages & distress!🤦♀️
When asked about the 100+ calls, she claims that she was at work so didn’t have time and only called on her break. But if she’s was supposed to go to the party & didn’t know until that night she was uninvited, then how could she be working? If she had plans to go to a party then wouldn’t she have had the night scheduled off from work? Unless I’m missing something then that makes no sense to me.
In general, when anyone starts dating DO NOT lend them money, DO NOT add them to your cell phone plan, and DO NOT co-sign a loan for a car because when you break up they will be considered a gift unless you make them sign a promissory note or tape him/her accepting the gifts and the explanation behind them.
I don't feel bad for her she keep paying and giving money and now they're not together and she wants to be paid back. Should had had him signed an IOU.
I love those moments when the judge's like " show me proof of what you're saying" and then the person's like " oh the (plaintiff/or defendant ) is the one who has it!..right !?" How about wtf is that ?! 🤣
"He blocked me on my phone." If someone calls me over a hundred times in one day I'm gonna do the exact same thing!!!
I might also get a restraining order.
Especially if I'm a scumbag who gets a girlfriend to pay my bills until she realises that I am using her as a cash cow.
She'd be blocked by call number 3.
@@uacbpa I'd have filled a restraining order too
@@mickm6309 she wanted to pay those bills. Who the Hell gives their new bf or gf a money in the first three weeks. Maybe $20 or $40 for gas but anything more then that is out rages. She put herself in that position.
She comes off as a stalker. Even the judge had to tell her to leave him alone and that she's only suing bc she got dumped and called her an "angsty drama filled woman". Plaintiff looks crazy as hell trying to buy herself some affection...smh...😬
Not really. Desperate for a relationship and naive yes, but she's not really giving me stalker/ drama vibes. He's the one with the drama, kept harping on and on about his sick father to try and gain sympathy. He was able to get it from the judge but not from me. I'm sure he didn't have his life together before his father got sick and is only using it as an excuse which is sick.
THIS
@@IagainstI. Sorry, she literally admitted to buying him the phone that he didn't want because she wanted him to be able to facetime with her so she could see him at any time.
THAT is a power play if any. That's also why she called a hundred times is because she wanted to see what he was doing, where he was at at any moment.
being desperate is one thing and she was, but she was trying to use the money to control him from the getgo. Yeah, he could not have mentioned his money issues, but it makes sense as he's a roofer to mention in a relationship "I make more money in the summer than in winter because of my job" which I've known similar, working in moving and storage. There's a winter lull and then you make a lot more in the summer. It's like saying "I can't afford things yet, but I will be"
Hell, she wanted her damn money.
@@IagainstI. no… have you lost a parent? She’s stirring up all this drama while his dad is on his deathbed.
I love how she giggles throughout like she’s not absolutely out of her mind
Like she IS absolutely out of her mind
She is nervous, embarrassed, naive, insecure.
She got on my last nerve
🤣
"Wasn't together long enough even for the phone bill to come" lmfaoooo shes weak
Don't forget that he's a mooch 👹 Lets not point at the vulnerable without dropping a word about the villain who dry begged her and lacked morals bruh.
She was trying to buy a boyfriend, she comes through as exceedingly desperate and unstable. Ladies, we should know better than this!
@@TT-th1gb if a girl want to pay my phone bill why the fuck I would say no
Talk about being desperate to have a boyfriend!
@@bobberry1463 exactly if they offer...shit take itb
I don’t understand how you give strangers money like that! If he can’t pay his basic bills, he can’t take you to dinner 🥘
She’s desperate and doesn’t believe she can keep a man unless she buys him. It’s sad.
Precisely can't pay for dates or basic living expenses. He's looking for a surrogate mother.
Amen!!
She probably was too eager, too fast bc he was nice to her. She called and texted him too much, and he blocked her bc he felt smothered...
She didn’t care about going out to dinner!! She just wanted a boyfriend.... (no matter how much money it cost her).
I never understood people who give up all their savings for people they just met…
@Shandra Johnson not always low self esteem. If you truly alone you don't care about money at all. After high school I had no friends or family I had noone to talk to i cancel my phone cause I had noone to text or call. I would have clearly give away all my money just to talk to someone for 10 mins.
Hopeless romantics/gullible people
@@bobberry1463 nah that's Just a lack of self respect
Horniness make you do things
@@Kaxxonxbox that's me... love me and i will do everything..
She decided to make herself a walking ATM MACHINE and now she's in court grinning about it, WOW💯
Only reason she's taken him to court is him breaking up with her. Money wouldn't even be an issue otherwise. I do believe she called him one hundred times. Fortunately he saw through her in just three weeks! She's unstable!
She’s the user! Nuts!
@@sparkswain2820 lol
ATM... not ATM machine.... machine is already in the name... automated teller machine....
@@sparkswain2820- I agree 100%.
'I'm too used to dealing with stuff like this' he states around the 3 min mark. Translated, not the first time he has used the 'Dry beg' technique to get money from women desperate for a relationship!
This guy has his play down to an art!
facts on that lol. guy is a little weasel and shyster...
@Shandra Johnson Or its exactly as I said. An individual, male or female, that is capable of dry begging with no remorse, does not have the insight to understand why they may have to contend with a partner that is desperate to communicate, thus they are overbearing with ulterior motives.
They see no correlation between the two, they project everything onto the other individual in the relationship, not difficult to see in both his courtroom and exit interview!
Then he had the gall to say I'm apprehensive about people giving me gifts because of ulterior motives
@Shandra Johnson he shops on dating apps for women he thinks are less attractive to get money from. You don’t have to try so hard for male approval, dear. It probably doesn’t work.
Eeeexactly. They also mentioned his ex gave him some money too just after the plaintiff did. He knows how to grift.
Told her why he was stressed but “Never asked for money once”: *Dry-Begging * : To ask for in an indirect and roundabout way. Dropping vague hints that are not clear or straightforward in making a request.
Yea he knew what he was doing smh
🤷♀️ I’ve had people ask why I’m stressed including boyfriends. Finances are usually the key. I however will never let someone else pay my bills.
Exactly people who dry beg know exactly what they're doing. They are looking for sympathy & to see if you offer $ without them asking directly.
learned that from Judge Mathis.
Dry Begging LOL
i mean...... anyone remember the yung chicc w/ green hair. the mom who couldnt stop smiling when her daughter explained what she did for her tinder mate? this is similar in nature that this chic only knew scrubby 3 wks. this chic will do it again.😐😐
Yes I recently watched that one smh people need to take baby steps
@@shaebubblegum3212 my goodness that case was very cringe.
Yes, I do. You have good memory; only if they'd seen each other's episodes of the peoples' court.
@@Lanie-sl9ne no doubt ladi. they both look as if they're the same age. they both also have low self esteem.
Yeahhhh…I remember that. And yes, you are right.
She is getting a kick just being there with him. If I’m suing someone laughing is the last thing I’m going to do.
Right! She seems ‘crazy ex girlfriend’ stalker type..
Finally some ppl in the comments that are seeing what I'm seeing! That man was clearly distraught over his dying father & wanted as far away from that obssed woman as possible & she's there giggling saying "while I offered to sit with him".
I'm reading the comments & everyone's ragging on this guy & yeah he may be down on his luck, but she clearly saw that & used it to get what she wanted!
Hope he can pay her & get her outta his life. 👋
@@piximommysreborns What did she get out of being with him other than some debt? You would probably get conned by him. He's clearly using his father's plight as an excuse for him not having his stuff together which is twisted. I don't feel bad for him.
@@IagainstI. lol I myself would not be dating anyone that can't even pay their bills. I think the guy was in no position to be starting a relationship, but I think this woman was happy to hold that money over his head & any kind person would not sue over a few hundred dollars when she was very aware his father was dying in the hospital. I don't think she had any reasonable expectation of being payed back in the near future & only went after him to have further contact with him. I think she's got a real problem with jealousy & control.
@@piximommysreborns I can't pay my bills and still get women. I'm decent looking and I can carry a conversation, that's all that matters. Stop trying to scare men. Men need to remember, to not listen what a woman says, only what she does.
Never give anyone money let them handle their own hardships because alot of people are very ungrateful 💯 😤
so true, and sometimes handling a hardship is the only way to learn and benefit
I would say never give a man money. But everyone is not ungrateful.
THIS.
He wasn't ungrateful tho. She was just being petty because they broke up.
@@LaceyCClark. She said a lot of people are ungrateful which is true.
Damn I’ve said it before and now I have to say it again. How in the WORLD is it not the hugest turnoff to meet a man that can’t even take care of his basic needs. He can’t pay his rent? Needs a phone? 🤢🤮
Yes, I cannot!! Ppl say it's low self-esteem, but damn! I couldn't ever buy anyone's love! No ma'am! I'll get myself a dog if I need to cuddle and a toy if I need other things!
@@aprilpinkelton4385 🤣🤣👊 💯
I’ve been broke before in my life, but ain’t no way I’m even entertaining the thought of any girlfriend of mine even handing me a cent to help me. This dude is a scumbag and the girl allowed herself to be taken advantage of.
She's horny, baby.
Does that make her a sugar momma?
If he still wanted to be with her trust me….she wouldn’t be suing him for anything lol
True 🤣🤣
She's only angry because she was blocked and broken up with. She shouldn't really get anything back!
@@sparkswain2820 lol yes she should he used her
@@Bebedollie Agreed he completely used her, however the OP is correct as well, if he hadn't dumped her, she wouldn't have taken him to court.
She was desperate then and she still is, she's angry and embarrassed and wants him to pay.
Doesn't make him right or any less of a loser just because she's pathetic. This guy should have L tattooed on his forehead.
I blame her completely. Looks like she was trying to buy his love and attention with money and look at how that worked out. Stop giving people you just started dating money!
If charge her for the hour to sleep with me and then leave like nothing happened
She found Chad and was desperate for attention so starts throwing away money at him, if he was average looking and not broke he would be invisible to her.
Life's lesson is never loan money and expect it to be paid back, for strangers and even friends.
She also needs to work on her self esteem and on her diet.
@@ricardos8307 are you saying he’s a over average looking? lol. I don’t think most women would consider him conventionally attractive. I think this girls self esteem is so low she’d be the same with anyone who gave her attention. She’s the Worst combination of self absorbed and insecure. She definitely needs to work on building her confidence but no need to attack her weight. You don’t need to be thin or super hot to have a healthy self esteem.
Sorry? He was taking advantage of her from the outset. Out of work, can’t pay rent and bills, oh look at my broken old flip phone, my dad is sick, tears brimming in his eyes. You don’t take advantage of desperate lonely people. He’s immoral.
And he shouldn’t have accepted smh
I dont understand why people confuse money with true love.
Low self-esteem, feeling that they can't do better, being physically attracted so much that they are willing to see anything else, wanting to brag about having a boyfriend so they are willing to do anything, thinking that hooking a person financially secures the relationship, the stupid reasons are endless.
Cause people truly love their money.
304 energy
Because they think they can buy love
Bc some people's parents or caretakers did the same to them growing up. That's our primary example of love.
I recall when Men would not pursue a relationship until he got his affairs in order!! How can you be on dating site when you're struggling?
Yep. My life has been screw up for the past 15 years, and a relationship is the last thing on my mind
Men and women have been getting together broke as heck forever.
@@mikesteele05 True! But I grew up around Men who wouldn't pursue if they didn't have finance in order. That's why I began my comment with "I RECALL".
Girl yes me too … lowered standards have given low rate men way way way too much.
Because that booty free.
Poor girl. It's obvious she has low self esteem
more like NO! self esteem.
Very much so, its sad that the judge has to make her see the light, dude is a player that used her and does not want her around!
Her low self esteem is not the worlds problem. Go work on raising it. We’ve all done it
@@dillionoshea7535 shadappppp
@@no_one161 lol
I've struggled with low self-esteem more a large portion of my life, but I always thought it was a HUGE turn off when people were broke and always needing money. I wanna be taken care of! Not the other way around!
Agreed, at times I don't feel confident but the moment someone asked me for money, it is a wrap
You have a beautiful smile and your singing is awesome!!!
When buying a boyfriend it's an as-is sale, now she gets to keep making the monthly payments even tho she doesn't get to drive him any more.
😂😂😂😭
Best comment, ever!
🤣🤣😂😂 "not drive him anymore" 🤣🤣
@@orcasgirl1
Hilarious
Lolololzzzzz total gold !!!!! Love it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I am in awe of how some of these women find a dude that has no job and cant get his own phone, or pay his bills attractive?
Desperation
he has a job, Some jobs have lull periods in winter, but then they make a lot more in the summer.
🍆... It always comes down to that.
Desperation and hormones
@@dragames then he needs to improve his fiscal literacy and save up during the feast months so he can get by in the lean months or take a second job during the lean months. If he’s working for a legit roofing company and is a good employee, those crews stay busy year round, between residential and commercial. I don’t get how women or men for that matter, don’t see fiscal illiteracy in a partner as a red flag.
After all of that she’s still volunteering to come over and “sit” with him. Girl, get a clue.
If desperate was a person 🤦🏾♀️ Broken woman funding love and affection never work out. 🗣 LADIES know your worth NEVER settle for anyone less then what you DESERVE 🙏🏾🥰.
👏👏👏👏!
Yes, ma'am, we cannot buy love nor can we buy self respect! She didn't even get to know him first, maybe we should wait till we know someone's character before having high expectations and likely disappointments.
@@sparkswain2820 hopefully she’s learned from this experience/lesson. And this situation can help others as well. 🙏🏾🥰
If it were that easy. lol. Ya'll stay saying the same shit.
@@osimeon00 I’m sorry you’ve had bad experiences. Try to learn yourself worth, walk with confidence and maybe you’ll have what you deserve as well 🥰
I believe more than her. He’s respectful and doesn’t try to over talk anyone. She’s too much and he wants no part with her.
No, he’s a user, pretending with the judge.
He clearly used her. Women who give money to strangers are needy. He spotted that about her and took advantage. He just really chose a shitty time for himself because of his dad’s condition. Thought he could play on her sympathies but didn’t realize she’s a bit psycho. She’s clearly been used and abandoned.
I'm glad she got some of the money back 😊
This poor guy is thinking “My dad could be taking his last breath this very minute and I’m here dealing with this crap.” So sad 😞
Sad indeed, but he shouldnt have allowed to get into this situation. He isnt a victim.
Then maybe he shouldn’t have been such an emasculated loser and taken money that he obviously had no intention of paying back. He could have avoided all of this if he did the honorable and right thing, and just paid back the money he borrowed. What’s sad is when a man takes from women. I think he used her and I think this woman has very low self esteem. He took advantage of the situation. No one can force you to take money. If he’s not with his father, it’s just as much as HIS fault as it is the plaintiff whom was dumb enough to give him the money!
“Poor guy” he took advantage of an idiot. Maybe what’s happening to his dad is karma🤷🏾♀️
@@labodorlover his dad's death wouldn't be karma. Wow, rhats harsh
@@MsLilacLover1 yes my comment was harsh but true. That’s how karma works, my not get him but someone close to him.
She's beautiful. I hope she finds true love. She's not stupid, just kind and he took advantage
The plaintiff gave him all that money after two weeks! Ladies, we should be much more intelligent and have a lot more self respect than to try buying a man, especially one we don't even know!
She was a control freak...
start with losing weight..jus saying
Third poor plaintiff trying to buy love ladies it never works just keep your money and adopt a homeless cat lol and he definitely is not worth it
True
Yes at least the cat needs you😂
Can we all just be honest and say: Low self-esteem and she knew exactly what she was doing giving him money and a phone. Ladies please FLY= First Love Yourself
Ladies, ladies--NEVER GIVE A MAN YOU ARE DATING MONEY. in a relationship the man must be at least the sole supporter of himself. That alone- a man without income is a reason to walk away. The only control you have is over yourself. Two people get together to form a partnership. If one partner is putting in more ( money, time, energy,,etc) that relationship is highly likely to fail. What did you see in him?……what did he have to offer? My 1st husband was a taker but he always had a job. My second husband is a partner in every sense of the word. After 42 yrs it becomes easier to see that 2 people in a relationship must be partners 100% involvement for each. You cannot build an empire if both don’t work
Classic case of trying to buy his love.
Dam!!! She kicked out all that money in such a short time then stalked the man?? Good grief…she should have known better!!😒
He should not use people.
Lol
She "loans" him all this money after knowing him (from a dating app no less) for only 3 weeks? She's stupid and "needy"! The guy looked at her like she was trying to buy his affection and took everything she handed out. If he had kept dating her she would have never even asked for a dime back! WTH? I wouldn't have paid for all that for ANYONE that I dated!
100 missed calls + 57 text = she had it bad, SMH 😀
Or had it GOOOOD lol
Lol
I have never felt so sorry for someone that I wanna give them money
I have, but I've never given it to get something out of it. I gave it with no expectation of getting it back. There's a few homeless veterans around where I live that we've gotten gift cards at the restaurants they frequent. I've also helped my now husband of 14 years with his child support payments. His ex-wife harassed him constantly if child support wasn't paid on the 1st of each month. She didn't care that he didn't get paid until the 3rd, she wanted it on the 1st. I was in the military at the time and got paid on the 1st of each month. I would give him the money just so she would stop harassing him and he would pay me back when he got paid. I even wrote checks to cover while I was deployed, not requiring repayment. Boy did she hate getting them, but at least my man wasn't being harassed because it wasn't paid when she thought it needed to be paid. I watched a few different times where she would make drop off/pick up miserable by bringing it up right in front of his daughter and myself. She didn't care. No child needs to deal with that crap!
I've probably had some low self-esteem over the years! It never made me want to give my hard earned money to anyONE!! I hate that excuse!
I think it has more to do with having control over someone or at least when men do it they label it as "controlling."
Giving money equals wanting control. Low self-esteem is just a cop-out!
There are two reasons to give money to people you don't know
1) hope to make them like you more
2) to hold something over them.
She was obviously the latter.
The judge should’ve told him to take over the plan or to clear the phone and hand it back to her.
Why? It was a gift
The desperation is astounding.
Work on yourself before trying to buy love
He is a professional moocher! He’s next level
If I am desperate was a person. I believe him when he said she called over a hundred times. You can't buy everybody. And the defendant needs to stop dry begging 🙄
Fair judgement.
I hope this young lady is doing better today and hope she has built up some self-confidence.
And I wish the best for the young man, too.
She couldn't control him and didn't get what she wanted, so she tries to make his life worse. Excellent form of 'help' from this woman.
Exactly, the second her control doesn't work he becomes a person worthy of being treated like --it. That's where you see her real self.
She seems more concern about him blocking her then the actual bill she has to pay.
No… she can’t contact him if he’s blocked her everywhere. How is she going to get her money except taking him to court?
How can he not feel ashamed to tell JM he's gone thru this many times before. He's just a man child! What a bum!
Sure, because all her decisions and actions are so mature, right? 100 calls and 57 texts? I wouldn't let her anywhere near my family, ever.
why should he feel ashamed? Handsome men such myself don't have to work and can get by with women providing for us. Typical shaming language used by women when it benefits the guy. In the real world, there are no rules... if you don't wanna work, don't.
@@uacbpa What does your comment have anything to do w/ what I said??? My opinion on her was not stated. I only am speaking abt him.
@@melinadistrict9428 And my opinion is about her. Deal with it.
He Cleary gave the Judge an FU at the end...
Looking for this comment
Came to the comments just for this lol
She clearly has no self esteem
The speed at which her kindness rotted to cruelty speaks volumes of her character. The effervescence of her smile and laughter in direct opposition to the incredible stress and pre-emptive grief he must be experiencing shrieks like a banshee of her (potential) sociopathy.
You can tell he wants absolutely nothing to do with her, the way he quickly walked out. As the judge said she was trying to own him. Imagine your dad being ill and having this bitter miserable woman carrying on and acting crazy. He was smart enough to end it and dodged a bullet.
Taking him to court while his father is dying in the hospital is a low thing to do. Very premature. What a nasty woman. Calling that many times is a red flag and he should count himself lucky to be rid of her so soon and owing that amount instead of THOUSANDS of dollars it could have been if he stayed with her longer.
Paying for a boyfriend never turns out well. I feel bad for the guy having real issues to deal with instead of this girl's tantrums.
I’d charge her every time she wants sex 😂
Low self esteem makes people do crazy stuff. Been there myself.
Let's back up. You meet a guy (or girl) and they say, "i'm out of work...not working...." you say, "GOODBYE"!
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She tried to buy him.
I once had a friend who wanted to date me. I wasn’t interested. He text me over 250 in one day! And he wonders why I didn’t want to date him. If you have to be blocked b/c someone is messaging or calling too much, they are unstable.
👍🏾 I had an ex friend who kept calling me all the time and coming unannounced, I broke up with her.
“I offered to go sit with him.” Girl, what the f*!^ don’t you understand? He wants as far away from you as possible. I totally believe she was giving him all those things, she tried to buy him & got mad when shit didn’t go her way.
Theoretically you can tell someone whats on your mind and have no expectation of someone offering or giving money. When I was stressed about my bills I was venting not asking for money.
That old dude at the end gets me upset so shady
I totally believe she called 100 times and sent 57 texts that night like a crazy person. I believe she was throwing $ at him cuz she liked and wanted him. Now she's being vindictive cuz he didn't want her AND she knows his dad is dying and you can see the grin on her face...she is just digging in and trying to hurt him instead of taking the high road and moving on. For God sake they dated for 3 weeks. If you're giving gifts and $ like that in 3 weeks then something is wrong with YOU not the person you are showering with stuff.
As the old saying goes, "you can't buy love and you can't buy happiness". I've learned one thing from watching this show and that is your probably better served to stay away from the cretins you meet on these dating apps!
She love bombed him, tried to buy his affection.
I like to call this a hard lesson, shouldn’t get any money.
what's even krazier is milian gets these repeat cases an she continues to give the broads the money they're seekin.😑😑
Judge should not have given her anything women need to value their labour and stop trying to buy the men into loving them and when things don't work out they run to court crying fowl
You know it is going to be a GOOOD case when the defendant counter sues for emotional distress!!
I feel like the defendant was telling the judge "f**k you" in sign language after the verdict was read. 🤔
Wow
Yes, I saw that too! That gesture was actually WHY I scrolled here to read the comments! I'm glad someone else noticed and surprised many more did not.
Dudes got a couple of chicks giving him money.. and swears he never asked for it.. OOOOKKKKKK!!!
That is what happens when you try to buy someone's affection. There are people out there just waiting to take advantage of a lonely or desperate person. If someone can't pay their own rent or can't afford a phone of their own, run, they aren't worth pursuing.
Scamfish has so many of these victims.
When "Desperation" meets "Mr. Bum"
If he was a moral person ,he would give her back the phone. Then she could cancel the bill, sell the phone and be done. They will be connected with this till the phone is paid off. Be a man and give her the phone and let her live her ow life. Geez
I love when people owe money and they bring up people that died or r sick. When I can bet u he hasn't seen his dad in yrs. He's not someone who gives a S. T about anyone
I wouldn't stop and listen to Dougs insults at the end either. 🤣
She is MUCH!!! I feel for the poor guy.
Is this support a Bum Week recognizing a Theme 😠
I completely understand why the defendant didn’t save the text messages. He didn’t know that he was going to be on this tv show uh I mean in this courtroom. The plaintiff….she isn’t a bad looking woman but she seriously needs to reevaluate her life.
1:16 She always slips on the glasses when she knows the camera is on her. ❤️
Was that a slick hand signal or a scratch at the end? Ha ha ha
She must have low self esteem however I hope she truly learned a valuable lesson here. He's just over her at this point lol I understand his position far as why he broke it off tho but pay the lady.
Why pay for a gift? as for the other he said he would pay when he could, there is no indication he did not intend to do just that.
Only thing he's disputing is the phone. sounds like he intended to pay her back for the other stuff
Chub love seen it before and will see it again.
I remember the girl i am used to stayed away from guy's who can't pay for their own things. times have changed.
BOTH of these people need to seriously question why they are attracted to the types of people they find themselves attracted to.
You can't buy love but, you sure can rent it.
I could never be this foolish or desperate for a man, I’m sorry 😂
Judge was cold on this one. Could’ve given my man like two hunned for his sick pops🥶
Two hunned
I think at the end that “neck scratch” was definitely a F- you. He stormed out of there. Lol
When the dude said he couldn't pay his rent, she should have booked. He says he didn't ask for money, but he sure accepted it. 🤔🤔
Oh no girl, sleeves are your friend..those boots are not and neither is he.. ..
I'm really surprised she didn't make him return that phone since she'll be paying for it. She definitely took it easy on him... out of character for Milian. Lol
The phone was a gift. You don't get those back. But I agree with you: she typically would not have taken it so easy on him.
@@periwinklepeonies5818 ohhhh good point! Got him there if she did! Hahaha
Uhoh, he has no paperwork! Not a good start, dude!😂👵🇺🇸
Thank you for uploading these. I wonder if how old these are? Pre- or post-pandemic? Because the court room is in person but Harvey is remote. 🤔
Wheew..a mess! Hopefully she learns to love herself.
Oh goodness. Only 3 weeks, I hope she has learned from this. She started all wrong.
I hope he’s able to spend time with his dad after all this. Shame on her for not waiting until after he passes to handle this
It’s pretty obvious what’s going on here. She’s got low self esteem and was so happy to be getting male attention she thought she’d give him money to keep his attention. She needs therapy
Yes
the defendant in this case keeps a serious face and acts concerned, not smug or despondent. I think he is really being mistreated.
Your Father is in the hospital and you're on a reality court show?!?
…..uh you do know that she brought him to court right? 😂 lol smh
It's a real case 🙄🙄... what do you expect?
yeah not adding up.
@April Pinkelton/OP:
Exactly. When TPC contacts litigants who have a pending case in their local court, both parties have to agree to dismiss their local claim. If he didn't want to leave his dying father's side, he didn't HAVE to, so, in my eyes, he looks like an even bigger moocher. I mean, he tried to PROFIT off of *his choice* to leave by suing for lost wages & distress!🤦♀️
@@nathang7935 you do know he could refuse right? both parties have to agree to be on the show. lol smh
The intro narration is absolutely RIDICULOUS........
Take the $449 and pay off the phone.
When asked about the 100+ calls, she claims that she was at work so didn’t have time and only called on her break. But if she’s was supposed to go to the party & didn’t know until that night she was uninvited, then how could she be working? If she had plans to go to a party then wouldn’t she have had the night scheduled off from work? Unless I’m missing something then that makes no sense to me.
Her whole body became flushed...face, neck, arms when asked about that. She was lying when she denied it.
In general, when anyone starts dating DO NOT lend them money, DO NOT add them to your cell phone plan, and DO NOT co-sign a loan for a car because when you break up they will be considered a gift unless you make them sign a promissory note or tape him/her accepting the gifts and the explanation behind them.
tank top and boots with the fur....fashion disaster along with a dating disaster. lol
Throwing money around..... Instead of looking in the mirror!!!
I don't feel bad for her she keep paying and giving money and now they're not together and she wants to be paid back. Should had had him signed an IOU.
She has low self-esteem, which I do actually feel bad for her. She's a beautiful woman
I love those moments when the judge's like " show me proof of what you're saying"
and then the person's like
" oh the (plaintiff/or defendant ) is the one who has it!..right !?"
How about wtf is that ?! 🤣
he's NOT! even arm candy!; 2 people with ISSUES! met on a facebook app, shocked & surprised! he has financial problems, she, emotional.
She was trying to buy him! Desperate, desperate.