So true. I just realize that I was being pumped. I taught pimping was only sexual. Thank you Pastor Blakes for opening my eyes. Thank you Lord. You are explaining my life without knowing me.
They also go after confident women and enjoy the challenge of breaking them down and then laugh at them and watch their pain. Sadistic!! evil narcissists
Women who appear confident. Women who are confident in God that's different. Some women are too confident in their pastor and confuse it with confidence in God. Replace pastor with "any men" that seem Godly.
@@lindiw88etalabi22 Amen, Amen, Amen. I RAN SO FAST, I'm actually thankful God showed me!!!! I tried to dismiss it, but some behaviors you can't over look!!!
I always wanted my father to teach me the game. He couldn't verbalize this to me & my sisters. Causing us to walk this world blind. I thank you for informing us women. You are now my SPIRITUAL FATHER ❤️
ChaseUrDreams So true and remember we're NEVER TOO OLD TO LEARN, Life lesson for sure. My dad tried when he was alive but he only could teach what was TAUGHT to him growing up in the early 50s&60s...
Shanisha Henry ...Yes Ma'am! But be aware, they always try to come back. A sister put me on game today-be aware of your surroundings, they may stalk. They want to control you. Blessings, Queen 👑
I got pimped by a man that you would least suspect. He was a scrawny nerdy awkward man, but he had money. He didn’t pimp me with his money, but the money gave him the confidence that he normally wouldn’t have to pimp a woman. I was usually hyper vigilant in my relationships with men, but this one caught me off guard! I was completely manipulated and sold my soul for this man. I lost everything, and it was a long hard road back. I first had to get right with God again. This is embarrassing, but I want women to know that you may think you are in control of an inexperienced man, but be aware...he may have more game than you thought! I was the player before I got saved. This narcissist nerd pimped the player! Dear Lord be careful. Great teaching!
Lynda Givens Evans Honey you are not the only one. Some have been pimped by broke a$$ losers it's a joke but it happens. Exactly the clowns pastor talks about here.
One thing I stopped doing is running my mouth whenever I meet a man and we have good conversation...I've also learned to stop at the first red flag...after awhile you get tired of being tired...you get tired of going back to square one.. you get tired of struggling and building back your hurt emotions...who wants to keep hurting...ladies just receive sound advice and save urselves from another 5yr heartache
This is what i'm going to do I was very close to being played but, i realized early on that he was only interested in sex because i would only go to see him and only when it was convenient he came to see me. I gave him the script lol XD but, being the Christian women that I am I stopped seeing him and texting him best thing that happened at that time! I love watching his videos and even though his videos are long every sentence is capturing and helpful!
That is true! I'm just saying that they are not always the type to only use you for sex without a wedding ring. Actually, the covert narcs are the ones most likely to marry you because they have a good guy image to maintain.
They would never dare reveal their game...it is a SICK SICK WORLD💯 These grown ass men were lusting after girls when i was in middle school, teaching these innocent boys how to be perverted. They like to hear teenagers' sex stories...even professional psychologists appointed to MINORS in crisis mandated by the public school system. Hm. God save us ALL🙏💞
I haven’t listened to this clip, yet, but this is the same thought I had when listening to another one of his teachings. Maybe Christ will invade the public school system through His people in this way, soon. I believe that all things are possible. ⚖️
ms israel Hi. I’m sorry to hear about that. Keep God first. Once I dealt with someone that already had a child. Do they treat us in this way only to juggle multiple women for years? I know the damage he’s done to her has had to be very miserable..so I don’t know if he’s trying to put me in the same situation to keep me around. This is why I’ve had to walk away.
Mine married me...but that was also part of the pimping. I didnt see Clearly until 6 years in...that's when the beatings started. One year later it all fell down. The first thing that made me look at him for a future was Christian music on his car radio. I now know that was part of the lure into his dark trap. Sick.. sick covert narcissistic man.
@Melissa I am convinced that the only way to truly find the right person in this hour we are living in is to first know God personally and know His voice for yourself. The deception in this world is too great for us alone.
So true. They promise you everything you've shared and they can't even produce their own basic needs or desires. They come in going 0 to 100...as if they're "wowed" to have found the one....just manipulative. Stay woke Queens & Kings!!!👑
My God! 😱😭...How comes no one ever told me this? How comes I never hear such issues raised in Church? How come? God protect me from these men, in Your name, Amen!
Dablkwid0w2008 you're so right my dear...you may like someone but if your gut says no...try and stop yourself from moving too fast with the help of the Holy Spirit!!! You're so right...that is the Spirit speaking through the gut feeling and women need to heed the voice of God! Amen!!!
Nyambati Kwamboka You NEVER hear it discussed because some pastors are studying THE WORD to show themselves appoved, they're not thinking to integrate psychological disorders... They address em EVERY SUNDAY, and DON'T EVEN KNOW IT!!! (Kinda like Pastor Blake JUST found out he was) It's fundamentally beneficial to the uninformed flock to become knowledgeable about these kinda folk, because alot of times, the church is the VERY ground they choose to prey/hunt on... Because we're not searching for ANYONE/ANYTHING like that to be there. and then there's the alternative, some of them are in high positions/auxiliaries in the church... The ones (2 guys) I dated were in the church.. Sad, ain't it. But I forgave & pray for them cause like Mr. Blake said, the ONLY ONE that can help them is THE ALMIGHTY FATHER... #LOVE
Some of them are narcissists too. They don't preach to love yourself when they tell you to love your neighbor as yourself. Love yourself. Never too late!!
I let this man lead me to destruction but God rescued me because I ask God to take this an out of my life because the relationship became very painful to bear and he did just that
"The more he pushes you past your standards, the further you are seperated from yourself and the standards of God..." That's deep. Thank you Pastor. May God bless and increase your ministry.
"You're being pimped...You're being pimped...You're being pimped!" Maaaannn...The Lord is wise aaand funny! Good eating in here; the Bread of life, served on UA-cam's platter and I'm grateful. Thank you, Sir.
Whoever gave this man 54 dislikes are fools. he speaks truth and I can vouch for this I have been in this type of relationship before wasn't ever pimped on the street but mentally pimped into thinking that man loved me and wanted something special it was all fake still hurts me to think about the time I wasted loving this person keep up the good work RC Blake's you speak the truth and for the people who want to listen you are healing us word by word
Just because a man wants to marry does not mean that he is honourable and respectable. There are many married men who are not committed. They may not commit the physical act of adultery, or be physically abusive or violent. They only marry because of the "status" it gives them in church, or among their friends and family. They may marry only because of how it gives them an advantage in ministry, or because it is a prerequisite for them to get into ministry in some churches which only allow married people, usually with a preference for men, to be in ministry. Too many women are simply just too moved by words like "I love you" and 'romantic acts'. If a man who does not know you well tells you that he loves you, he is almost, if not always definitely lying and flattering you. A man or woman who flatters people, especially people of the opposite sex, a sign of a serial adulterer. Run away from these flatterers, whether man or woman! They are out to get you! Just because a man is not very good looking, nerdy, anti-social does not mean that he is any more decent that one who is a good looking, charming, dominant, alpha male. Do not be deceived by looks! Listen carefully to what a man says and what he does. Discern his attitude and his manner of spirit, in particular, whether he is humble in spirit or proud in spirit. If he is proud in spirit, or full of hypocrisy or self-righteousness, avoid him. Do not fall for his looks, his words, or even his strong work ethic! Pride is the sin which God hates the most. Anyone who is proud is not godly, and one who a godly person should never even consider to enter a relationship with. Do not simply settle for anyone! Those of you who are seeking a relationship, or even just hoping for one need to be very cautious of people of the opposite sex. Observe them in a group setting, work setting, church setting from a distance, as it will allow you to observe him or her as he or she would normally behave. They may and will often take a while. You will see the persons true personality, and all the raw mistakes they make. Observe how they accept correct, their manner of spirit, humility, work ethic, whether they are materialistic, whether they respect people generally, and people of the opposite sex, whether they are hypocritical and self-righteous. Do not rush into relationships like what the modern church culture encourages! If you are doing the will of God, and seeking your God-given purpose, and God has given you a genuine desire for marriage and a good non-sinful sexual desire that lead to marriage, not lust, it means that it is His will that you will marry. You may not see it happening now, you may not be in any relationship, but His will is His will. As Song of Songs says, do not let love awaken until it pleases! Much of the time, it is God's favour to you that you are not a relationship, given how wicked most people are, including many in the professing church. You will not really know a person until you see their weaknesses in the spiritual sense. Yet, most people can't appreciate not being in a relationship. Relationships are more often than not a burden because most are not God-ordained or done in accordance to God's will. Singleness is many cases is far better than a relationship or marriage. The church has wrongly taught people that marriage is always a blessing, while singleness is always a curse. What about those marriages where there is abuse? Are they blessings? Well, it seems to many churches that they are blessings, simply because it is a marriage. Many churches are pushing for young people to marry simply for marriage's sake. That's nuts! Can someone simply remind me of what Apostle Paul said in 1 Corinthians 7 and what Jesus said about marriage in Matthew? They said that marriage should not be entered into simply because it is marriage or simply because one desires to. The church at large in idolising marriage, pushing young people to marry as a means of stopping people from falling into sexual sin, and excluding singles from ministry has caused many to be desperate for marriage. They have caused who were very happy to be single to feel that they are wrong to not be seeking marriage. Yet, when a single adult desires marriage, many of these married Christians accuse them to idolising marriage, when they themselves are the ones idolising marriage in pushing it. These pharisees simply show they do not care about the souls of single adults who desire marriage. All they do is impose burdens on people without lifting a finger to help the burden. These so-called "christians" need to be held accountable for their spiritual error which has led many astray. We singles need to be strong, very strong and courageous in facing these challenges. While I acknowledge that married people face challenges too, it is the challenges that singles face in church that is not only totally unacknowledged, and dismissed, but rendered even harder when we speak out. Do not be discouraged that you are single, if you desire marriage but are single. Ask God to give you great strength and courage in facing any challenges you face at church. Be bold in holding those who push spiritual error to account. Do not awaken love until it pleases.
The problem isn't that women are naive and gullible. The problem is that there are highly unsavory characters that are willing to hurt and abuse women who trust in the good of others. The trust in the good of others is beautiful. The exploitation of it is not. The awareness of these dynamics is necessary but not because if the naivety of the women (or targeted man) but because of the treachery of the abusive man (or abusive woman). Its not about gender, it's about human predators wearing cloaks that walk amongst us normal folks seeking to fleece them.
It is a problem to be naive. God created you to have knowledge.. the reason eve ate the apple is because she lacked knowledge. You can't be played when you know who you are.. you can't be played when you have self love and you're self sufficient.. you're okay with being alone if you can't get a man that's willing to step up and meet your standards. It's good to be a nice person but not to a point you let others abuse your boundaries
I listen to you intentionally in front of my 10 year old daughter so that she can hear the words and know the signs. She may not understand any of this now but the seed is planted. Sometimes people need to hear things from people that is not that close to them.
shadonna kinney. Yes, this is EXACTLY SATAN'S Modus Operandi. Satan is the First narcissist. And that is why narcissism can only be dealt with by the Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. Narcissism is a spirit demon from Satan himself. Be blessed.
My daughters first boyfriend was doing this. I called it. ..told her he has pimp "ways". I was right. ...his dad was a pimp. He picked the wrong daughter. He hated me because I stepped in and would NOT allow it. I was way to strong for him mentally and my daughter is just like me. Go do that else where. It Will NEVER work in my home. ..thank you GOD for the knowledge. I also told her if he could put her on the corner. ...he would. Nice try.
My recently found out my boyfriend dad was as a pimp. Now I see why my boyfriend is so dysfunctional and on top the was severely abuse by his step father then his pimp dad rescued him. I feel bad for him :( but he has issues..
They ask that so they can become everything you say u want they may even pretend to be what u say u want...my response is when asked that is how about you just let me get to know who you are and see if you are what I want and vice versa
Lee Kells Tube TV excellent response. I’ve been telling my friends that we are in a game whether we like it or not, unfortunately. There’s some wolves out there. This is why we need to be led by The Spirit.
They build you up, just to look foward to breaking you down....over and over again. I finally educated myself and breaking the cycle. No contact is the only way. Thank you for this video pastor. ❤
I was a widow early in life. I started back dating and was thoroughly surprised at how the older guys are just as immature,( spiritually or otherwise) as younger ones. I had a great husband, who treated me like a queen and he was a godly man. He was my FIRST everything. I feel like a young lady, not knowing game. I invested a lot of time in someone who “pimps”. Thank God, I am out of that. Wow! “....could put you on the corner if he wanted to.” Wow.
I was married to a wonderful man for almost 30 years. I’m secure, confident and don’t have baggage. I met a man who checked the boxes that I could SEE. When I got to know him better he was a Pimp. No question. He quit me because I stood by my standards and didn’t cater to him. I told him those were husband privileges. I was constantly checking his tone and behavior. He couldn’t pump me so he dumped me-- thank God!
Im 36 and spent 23 years of my life learning the hard truths of this world on my own. I grew up without either of my parents. I also wasnt raised in the church. But even after I was baptized and filled with the holyghost I still wrestled silently with my past wordly experience. I needed this talk years ago. Truly this topic has been the gray area that never gets talked about within the safety of God's house. This issue is REAL and is happening or happened in the spiritual walks of many women. Then left with no one to talk to without being put down further. I thank God for stumbling across this video. It gave me peace and clarity of past relationship experience. Where I played the role of a silly woman. God calls us to be holy, but that doesn't come overnight. It took me to fall to truly understand his Grace (for myself). My spiritual ears are open and 🎧listening. Thank you for breaking this down.
Sabrina Poindexter God bless your sweet heart, Sabrina. I love you and your sweet spirit, tho we have never met. I'm so glad the Word tells us that everything we did before we repented of our sins and accepted Jesus into our heart and life, has been cast into the Sea of God's Forgetfulness, never to be remembered against us again. We are free, now, to study how to be more and more like Jesus, every day. The presence of the Holy Ghost dwelling in you will give you the strength, wisdom, and grace to live the life you want to live now, if you call upon it every day, and continue to confess your sins, daily. "For He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness...." If the past continues to nag at you and condemn you, The Word says that that is not God condemning you, It's "the old Accuser" - oops! Remind him he's powerless over you now, and to go back to hell from whence he came! YOU are now a child of The Most High King! The old Accuser's accusations are no longer valid, there's no record of them in Heaven! He is a liar and the truth is not in him! Bless you, sweet sister! Claim your privilege through the blood of Jesus!!! Stand boldly! (:
Thank you pastor RC for explaining this topic! You are an awesome Black brother. May God continue to cover and reveal truth for others to grow up and become aware of this present evil Era❤... 😍 always Sistah SWLee
He thought I was so broken that I would just accept it yea rght I never stay in a relationship no one if I felt less than but I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt but like they say you have to learn for yourself and sometimes mistakes and lessons are what teaches you
I've gotten to the point where I don't want to be in a relationship with a man. I like my freedom to do what I want with my time, energy, and money. If I meet someone I may..but now I seriously doubt it.
Not only did I attract men like this, I also attracted friends like this. Learning to love myself and maintain boundaries in relationships were two things that has transformed me ( and healing from codependency)
I'm counting down the days till I'm gone. I have been manipulated for over 20 years. He has no idea what is about to happen to him. It's in God's hands now!
I put my husband out, after he destroyed me, I never married again. I just now learning what happens to my life.I went through this. Just met a man, that make me research this man. This is how I found this study.... He is a demon.. I PRAYed and God Bless me. More in the Church.Thank you PASTOR Blake... By the way 75. I PRAY young woman will listen.
Hell yeah, the one I entertained lived with his mother! He would bribe his sister to help sneak me into his room as Mother would NOT have approved!! BTW he was 30. Never could keep a proper date with me and would send a friend or workmate in his place. If I ever questioned him or expressed displeasure, he would blow up, calling me a difficult princess who didn't understand how demanding his job was, how difficult his life was, and so on... After 3 months I wisened up and went No Contact, he would intermittently blow up my phone. I daresay if I had not changed my number he would continue to do this. Was more than 20 years ago.
This is amazing! I had been emotionally pimped for years because I did not know my true worth. I let my life be drained from me to the point of physical illness. I was basically pushing everything to the back burner to be at his every beck and call because I believed he really loved me and wanted to marry me. I finally got the strength last year to block him and have received numerous confirmations since. Lip service and no sincerity. Never even produces the basics. #key Thank you for this Bishop!! You always have a great word.
You hurt me with your true words and I feel like you are talking directly to me. I am not at all in a good place. These Narcs have done me and my literal sister BAD . I am just so sad. I don't want sympathy but I have truly been affected by these types of demons.
BLISSFUL ABUNDANCE hi, I'm currently in a relationship with a narcissist (4years) I have left him before but i let him come back after 3months but this time around I'm educating myself about narcs and their behaviors and how i should respond to his behavior and so far so good. I'm praying for you but educate yourself because you are not at fault for believing that what you had or have with your narc is was real there is a support group hosted by queenbeing that may can help aswell.....i wish you well!
EDIFIED!!!! WHEN I WAS A LITTLE GIRL IN THE 1960s, I used to try to escape the pain of sexual abuse by trying to rationalize and convince myself that the abuse wasn't truly harmful. I would ask myself, "Why am I so upset? It was just "skin on skin". He didn't kill me. He didn't hit me." 1 Corin: 6:16. When you quoted that scripture I went right back to 1963. Now in my 60s, I am still being pimped, though sex is no longer a part of my life. Oh, I have allowed myself to suffer for decades. I know this video will help a lot of young women. I wish I could post it on my Facebook page, but that will cause a war, so I will inbox it to a select audience.
This completely describes my husband: He was quiet, the awkward social type ( didn't have friends), however, there was reasons he ACTED this way. He NEVER delivered; he was dishonest, lacked integrity, lacked communication (only expressed his own selfish needs), disrespectful, not affectionate, lacked attentivesses, manipulator. He isolated me from my huge family & wanted me to sign a 4 yr contract to live w/ his parents. I was just served w/ divorce papers today: This man who falsely had me arrested & charged with battery., when he self- harmed himself. Now he wants joint custody of our special needs son & wants me to pay child support. I have NOT seen my son in over 2 months! He financially cut me off completely. Evil exists in this world; I lived with it for over 20 yrs. I had a relationship w/ JESUS CHRIST prior to meeting this man, othetwise, I would've. gone CRAZY! This man was a snake; he just slithered his way towards into my life. Thank you Pastor Blakes; your work is PRICELESS! Women DON'T entertain these losers; learn from my life experiences.
Some of the churches too silent and not speaking out on these things,they say you should just pray about everything, and that's it,but am here feeling so good feasting on your words, real powerful,respect you a lot.
Some do it pastor, mine did. But it's ok. What go around come bk around. Weeping endures for a night, but Joy come in the morning!!! I got my Joy bk, after a night of tears. Ty Lord
So sad I had to learn through hard knocks life. The pimp game is real. When the Spirit of GOD show me men like this I pray them away. I Ieave immediately and hold absolutely no conversation with him. Ladies Don't give n to man. God is the nourshier and sastainer and when we stay in alignment with truth. Those men flee away. Amennn
49:50- “when a man starts talking down to you/ name calling he’s pronouncing a word curse on you/over your life... trying to redefine you so that he can use use at a lower level...”
This should be taught in schools! Thank you for the word of warning! When we are real ppl, we frequently assume others are real as well. Hope watching this helps women avoid learning the hard way.
Whew you made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up...OMG! I've listened to a lot of men online giving advise but the way you speak it is very different and touched the core of my soul. Thank you dear brother. I don't know you but I love you.
IamKarryanne Girlll you be everywhere..me and you be viewing the same channels.I remeber you from SheRaSeven1 youtube videos abt the Pick me's! lol😂 I luv it
My dad did, sadly though a man was still able to treat me this way because I just simply didn't see it coming from that guy. You can prepare all you want and still get blindsided. So don't feel bad if you didn't have a dad there to teach you or you had a dad and he didn't teach you. Even those of us who did can still fall victim to a man like this. They pretend to be the man of your dreams and the whole time they're calculating their moves to control you.
I'm praying for you pastor and that God keep speaking through you to teach some us ladies out here whom doesn't have a positive male role that cares enough to give us game on these low down strays and keep its real about who is women shall be as far as Queens thank you once again I appreciate you so be bless and highly favor in Jesus name
Yes, my father groomed my mother and has completely destroyed her mind. He is a evil wicked narcissist and I never liked him because I knew he was sent from he'll. My twin sister and older sister were very close with him. I never really had a great relationship with him.
Hold The Phone ☎️ Public Announcement Why do us Black Women go through this the most with our BLACK MEN? But Hold On Hold On y’all calling us Bitter and angry but this pimp mess is what we been going through since little babies and we supposed to be Happy? Then you meet a snow bunny and treat her like Anastasia?
Thank you for this informative lecture. I joined a church while still in a three yr. relationship. During the entire relationship, the man I dated "treated me like a queen" while avoiding true commitment. (Before I knew what it meant to be truly treated like one) Once I gave my life to God and heeded His Word, this man decided to break up with me because he did not like me giving my life to God. Before this happened, I had prayed to the Lord and asked Him to show me if this man was worthy and true. The Lord showed me in how this man rejected God. In this case, this financially stable and kind man rejected God and so I moved on with my life while praying for him.
Thank you for this word Bishop i have become #enlightened and once your spiritual eyes become opened you know longer tolerate games and foolishness #ihavenowreclaimedmycrown
You know Exactly what I went through !! I caught myself before that 1/4 of Sanity I had left was Taken !! My child is on to him and understands my Healing Process because..... I jumped into Another relationship with Another NARCISSIST that I walked away from after 9yrs , and Never looked Back !! For the past 15 months , I've Been Doing Meeeee Now and Loving it !! I Don't Even CO-PARENT , ACKNOWLEDGE nor COMMUNICATE with such said individual 😎
I talk to my daughter about this all the time and she's 13yrs old and God told me I have to be a example in front of her or those spirits are going to go down through the blood line...and I just don't want that to happen to her®®®!!
Same! No Drivers license, no GED, no credit! Nothing! 4 kids, 4 baby mommas, Satan sure was slick with this.. we just broke up 2 days ago, he out in the streets as we speak! 4 yrs of my life and this is the thanks I get! So disrespectful!
I just let go of a relationship like this and I feel at my best every day since starting to follow you I feel better and think better daily. Amen God Bless your Heart!
#2 resonated with me. My late Daddy recognized that in my then husband. Before he passed away, he told me that my husband was "trying to get you off all by yourself where he could treat you any kind of way because everyone else would be tired of you and not want to have anything else to do with you, and it would be because of him!" I didn't understand what he was saying at the time, but I later realized and saw that's exactly what was happening. He was isolating me from anyone who really cared for me. There's no telling what would've happened if I hadn't seen the light and broke up with him.
"She found out she is a queen..And the game changed"...Wise up women....
Sex education in school didn't teach nothing like this
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Love it
What if you arent a queen yet and not worthy of that title ☹
So true. I just realize that I was being pumped. I taught pimping was only sexual. Thank you Pastor Blakes for opening my eyes. Thank you Lord. You are explaining my life without knowing me.
They also go after confident women and enjoy the challenge of breaking them down and then laugh at them and watch their pain. Sadistic!! evil narcissists
Yes my oldest brother tried to explain this personality disorder/illness to me. I believe he was seeing himself!!
Amen on that comment. I was there but God. The Lord flip that switch I’m having the last laugh now.
Women who appear confident. Women who are confident in God that's different. Some women are too confident in their pastor and confuse it with confidence in God. Replace pastor with "any men" that seem Godly.
God has a special place in hell for these men!!!
@@lindiw88etalabi22 Amen, Amen, Amen. I RAN SO FAST, I'm actually thankful God showed me!!!! I tried to dismiss it, but some behaviors you can't over look!!!
I always wanted my father to teach me the game. He couldn't verbalize this to me & my sisters. Causing us to walk this world blind. I thank you for informing us women. You are now my SPIRITUAL FATHER ❤️
ChaseUrDreams
So true and remember we're NEVER TOO OLD TO LEARN, Life lesson for sure. My dad tried when he was alive but he only could teach what was TAUGHT to him growing up in the early 50s&60s...
Don't feel bad I had a good dad that didn't know the game. So I wasn't told either
Unconcious Queen! Wow!👑😔
This is a great message. I have been no contact with ex narc. Clown free 8 months. Hallelujah. I had to readjust my crown.
Shanisha Henry
I know that’s right. You are going to do better. You are woke.
Shanisha Henry ...Yes Ma'am! But be aware, they always try to come back. A sister put me on game today-be aware of your surroundings, they may stalk. They want to control you. Blessings, Queen 👑
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And now yall have babies and married lol
I got pimped by a man that you would least suspect. He was a scrawny nerdy awkward man, but he had money. He didn’t pimp me with his money, but the money gave him the confidence that he normally wouldn’t have to pimp a woman. I was usually hyper vigilant in my relationships with men, but this one caught me off guard! I was completely manipulated and sold my soul for this man. I lost everything, and it was a long hard road back. I first had to get right with God again. This is embarrassing, but I want women to know that you may think you are in control of an inexperienced man, but be aware...he may have more game than you thought! I was the player before I got saved. This narcissist nerd pimped the player! Dear Lord be careful. Great teaching!
Lynda Givens Evans Honey you are not the only one. Some have been pimped by broke a$$ losers it's a joke but it happens. Exactly the clowns pastor talks about here.
Girlllll I believe it. It happens. Glad you got away from that clown.
Lynda Givens Evans the men you least expect will do that
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Lynda Givens Evans wow
One thing I stopped doing is running my mouth whenever I meet a man and we have good conversation...I've also learned to stop at the first red flag...after awhile you get tired of being tired...you get tired of going back to square one.. you get tired of struggling and building back your hurt emotions...who wants to keep hurting...ladies just receive sound advice and save urselves from another 5yr heartache
This is what i'm going to do I was very close to being played but, i realized early on that he was only interested in sex because i would only go to see him and only when it was convenient he came to see me. I gave him the script lol XD but, being the Christian women that I am I stopped seeing him and texting him best thing that happened at that time! I love watching his videos and even though his videos are long every sentence is capturing and helpful!
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Amen
choppa x vlogs Amen!!
On point..
These kind of men never commit to anyone
shadonna kinney not even after marriage
Doreen Augsburger, That's a fact!!!!
Not always. There are plenty of narc men who will trap you in an abusive marriage.
Mocha Gypsy Just because a person is married to you, it doesn't mean they're committed to you.
That is true! I'm just saying that they are not always the type to only use you for sex without a wedding ring. Actually, the covert narcs are the ones most likely to marry you because they have a good guy image to maintain.
This is what sex education should be. Thank you
YES exactly not those free condoms given to the children
They would never dare reveal their game...it is a SICK SICK WORLD💯
These grown ass men were lusting after girls when i was in middle school, teaching these innocent boys how to be perverted. They like to hear teenagers' sex stories...even professional psychologists appointed to MINORS in crisis mandated by the public school system. Hm. God save us ALL🙏💞
EXACTLY....
A word 💅🏾
I haven’t listened to this clip, yet, but this is the same thought I had when listening to another one of his teachings. Maybe Christ will invade the public school system through His people in this way, soon. I believe that all things are possible. ⚖️
That's a narcissist, they are good at pimping.
Yes they are.
Yess and i have two boys with him and i feel so lost as far the brainwashing he does, plus i feel i contributed due to keeping him around..
Yes, that’s what I was saying. They do silent treatments as well. Do they do soul ties do they can come back whenever they want?
ms israel Hi. I’m sorry to hear about that. Keep God first. Once I dealt with someone that already had a child. Do they treat us in this way only to juggle multiple women for years? I know the damage he’s done to her has had to be very miserable..so I don’t know if he’s trying to put me in the same situation to keep me around. This is why I’ve had to walk away.
Funny thing about narcissist is that you don’t realize you’re with one until the relationship is over.
Soul ties are nothing to play with. They can become dangerous or deadly!!!
Chile
We shall know them by their fruit, not by their potential. All talk and no action. Thank you Pastor Blakes for always being straight with us.
Mine married me...but that was also part of the pimping. I didnt see
Clearly until 6 years in...that's when the beatings started. One year later it all fell down. The first thing that made me look at him for a future was Christian music on his car radio. I now know that was part of the lure into his dark trap.
Sick.. sick covert narcissistic man.
@Melissa I am convinced that the only way to truly find the right person in this hour we are living in is to first know God personally and know His voice for yourself. The deception in this world is too great for us alone.
Its called Narcissism
Monique McIntosh. Yes I agree!!!
The spirit of Jezebel.
So true. They promise you everything you've shared and they can't even produce their own basic needs or desires. They come in going 0 to 100...as if they're "wowed" to have found the one....just manipulative. Stay woke Queens & Kings!!!👑
Kelli Woo yesssss and get agressive and pushy and OFFENDED when you dont bow down lmao like Sir, I Rebuke You.
My God! 😱😭...How comes no one ever told me this? How comes I never hear such issues raised in Church? How come? God protect me from these men, in Your name, Amen!
Chile go with your gut...the first time ur gut says ut oh...RUN
Janet Adebanwo 😂😂😂😂...so funny but yeah...it's rare to hear these kind of conversations which is just so sad!!! such a blessing indeed!!!
Dablkwid0w2008 you're so right my dear...you may like someone but if your gut says no...try and stop yourself from moving too fast with the help of the Holy Spirit!!! You're so right...that is the Spirit speaking through the gut feeling and women need to heed the voice of God! Amen!!!
Nyambati Kwamboka You NEVER hear it discussed because some pastors are studying THE WORD to show themselves appoved, they're not thinking to integrate psychological disorders... They address em EVERY SUNDAY, and DON'T EVEN KNOW IT!!! (Kinda like Pastor Blake JUST found out he was) It's fundamentally beneficial to the uninformed flock to become knowledgeable about these kinda folk, because alot of times, the church is the VERY ground they choose to prey/hunt on... Because we're not searching for ANYONE/ANYTHING like that to be there. and then there's the alternative, some of them are in high positions/auxiliaries in the church... The ones (2 guys) I dated were in the church.. Sad, ain't it. But I forgave & pray for them cause like Mr. Blake said, the ONLY ONE that can help them is THE ALMIGHTY FATHER... #LOVE
Some of them are narcissists too. They don't preach to love yourself when they tell you to love your neighbor as yourself. Love yourself. Never too late!!
Mr. Blakes is on a Whole Other Level man. I'm Woke
Lady Dee ...Yep. Now let's stay woke.
"Don't look at me in that tone of voice!" Love it! God's blessings!
I let this man lead me to destruction but God rescued me because I ask God to take this an out of my life because the relationship became very painful to bear and he did just that
"The more he pushes you past your standards, the further you are seperated from yourself and the standards of God..." That's deep. Thank you Pastor. May God bless and increase your ministry.
My current situation!😭
"The Game" revealed! This is a video every woman should see! Thanks Bishop!
M.
"You're being pimped...You're being pimped...You're being pimped!" Maaaannn...The Lord is wise aaand funny! Good eating in here; the Bread of life, served on UA-cam's platter and I'm grateful. Thank you, Sir.
Tia Smedley hard to swallow but best for the soul.
Whoever gave this man 54 dislikes are fools. he speaks truth and I can vouch for this I have been in this type of relationship before wasn't ever pimped on the street but mentally pimped into thinking that man loved me and wanted something special it was all fake still hurts me to think about the time I wasted loving this person keep up the good work RC Blake's you speak the truth and for the people who want to listen you are healing us word by word
Royal Diva Deja'
sorry you had to experience that but his teachings make me feel better about being selective who I give my time / space to.
Michelle McDonald amen sister😘
Royal Diva Deja'
It was the pimps that hate having their lies exposed.
Those "Dislikes" are the HIT DOGS.
Just because a man wants to marry does not mean that he is honourable and respectable. There are many married men who are not committed. They may not commit the physical act of adultery, or be physically abusive or violent. They only marry because of the "status" it gives them in church, or among their friends and family. They may marry only because of how it gives them an advantage in ministry, or because it is a prerequisite for them to get into ministry in some churches which only allow married people, usually with a preference for men, to be in ministry.
Too many women are simply just too moved by words like "I love you" and 'romantic acts'. If a man who does not know you well tells you that he loves you, he is almost, if not always definitely lying and flattering you.
A man or woman who flatters people, especially people of the opposite sex, a sign of a serial adulterer. Run away from these flatterers, whether man or woman! They are out to get you!
Just because a man is not very good looking, nerdy, anti-social does not mean that he is any more decent that one who is a good looking, charming, dominant, alpha male. Do not be deceived by looks! Listen carefully to what a man says and what he does. Discern his attitude and his manner of spirit, in particular, whether he is humble in spirit or proud in spirit. If he is proud in spirit, or full of hypocrisy or self-righteousness, avoid him. Do not fall for his looks, his words, or even his strong work ethic! Pride is the sin which God hates the most. Anyone who is proud is not godly, and one who a godly person should never even consider to enter a relationship with. Do not simply settle for anyone!
Those of you who are seeking a relationship, or even just hoping for one need to be very cautious of people of the opposite sex.
Observe them in a group setting, work setting, church setting from a distance, as it will allow you to observe him or her as he or she would normally behave. They may and will often take a while. You will see the persons true personality, and all the raw mistakes they make. Observe how they accept correct, their manner of spirit, humility, work ethic, whether they are materialistic, whether they respect people generally, and people of the opposite sex, whether they are hypocritical and self-righteous.
Do not rush into relationships like what the modern church culture encourages! If you are doing the will of God, and seeking your God-given purpose, and God has given you a genuine desire for marriage and a good non-sinful sexual desire that lead to marriage, not lust, it means that it is His will that you will marry. You may not see it happening now, you may not be in any relationship, but His will is His will. As Song of Songs says, do not let love awaken until it pleases!
Much of the time, it is God's favour to you that you are not a relationship, given how wicked most people are, including many in the professing church. You will not really know a person until you see their weaknesses in the spiritual sense. Yet, most people can't appreciate not being in a relationship. Relationships are more often than not a burden because most are not God-ordained or done in accordance to God's will.
Singleness is many cases is far better than a relationship or marriage. The church has wrongly taught people that marriage is always a blessing, while singleness is always a curse. What about those marriages where there is abuse? Are they blessings? Well, it seems to many churches that they are blessings, simply because it is a marriage.
Many churches are pushing for young people to marry simply for marriage's sake. That's nuts! Can someone simply remind me of what Apostle Paul said in 1 Corinthians 7 and what Jesus said about marriage in Matthew? They said that marriage should not be entered into simply because it is marriage or simply because one desires to.
The church at large in idolising marriage, pushing young people to marry as a means of stopping people from falling into sexual sin, and excluding singles from ministry has caused many to be desperate for marriage. They have caused who were very happy to be single to feel that they are wrong to not be seeking marriage. Yet, when a single adult desires marriage, many of these married Christians accuse them to idolising marriage, when they themselves are the ones idolising marriage in pushing it. These pharisees simply show they do not care about the souls of single adults who desire marriage. All they do is impose burdens on people without lifting a finger to help the burden.
These so-called "christians" need to be held accountable for their spiritual error which has led many astray.
We singles need to be strong, very strong and courageous in facing these challenges. While I acknowledge that married people face challenges too, it is the challenges that singles face in church that is not only totally unacknowledged, and dismissed, but rendered even harder when we speak out.
Do not be discouraged that you are single, if you desire marriage but are single. Ask God to give you great strength and courage in facing any challenges you face at church. Be bold in holding those who push spiritual error to account.
Do not awaken love until it pleases.
This needs to be taught in church
Omg, this comment is so profound. Thanks.💕
This is a wonderful comment. I pray that everyone who listens to this video reads this comment as well. God bless you!!!
Bless you! Thank you
Anti Mammon and Usury Conquerors 🙏🏽 thank you Jesus!!
The problem isn't that women are naive and gullible. The problem is that there are highly unsavory characters that are willing to hurt and abuse women who trust in the good of others. The trust in the good of others is beautiful. The exploitation of it is not. The awareness of these dynamics is necessary but not because if the naivety of the women (or targeted man) but because of the treachery of the abusive man (or abusive woman). Its not about gender, it's about human predators wearing cloaks that walk amongst us normal folks seeking to fleece them.
It is a problem to be naive. Trust must be earned. We need knowledge in order to protect ourselves. That's just how it is.
The trust in the GOOD are taken advantage of.
Hurt people HURT PEOPLE 💔
I disagree. Women are too emotional and don't know their boundaries
Yes ♥️
It is a problem to be naive. God created you to have knowledge.. the reason eve ate the apple is because she lacked knowledge. You can't be played when you know who you are.. you can't be played when you have self love and you're self sufficient.. you're okay with being alone if you can't get a man that's willing to step up and meet your standards. It's good to be a nice person but not to a point you let others abuse your boundaries
I listen to you intentionally in front of my 10 year old daughter so that she can hear the words and know the signs. She may not understand any of this now but the seed is planted. Sometimes people need to hear things from people that is not that close to them.
Sounding like you're describing a Covert Narc. Perfectly on target. He was a paranoid controller. Very astute at Mind Games. Amazing!!
Isn't that how Satan works too
shadonna kinney your exactly right ..
It is. Satan comes with disguises and a "pimp" for this topic is it.
shadonna kinney. Yes, this is EXACTLY SATAN'S Modus Operandi. Satan is the First narcissist. And that is why narcissism can only be dealt with by the Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. Narcissism is a spirit demon from Satan himself. Be blessed.
My ex did the same to me. I am now healing
Promise to bring you UP TO HIGH LIVING
ONLY to Bring you Down DOWN DOWN 😔
My daughters first boyfriend was doing this. I called it. ..told her he has pimp "ways". I was right. ...his dad was a pimp. He picked the wrong daughter. He hated me because I stepped in and would NOT allow it. I was way to strong for him mentally and my daughter is just like me. Go do that else where. It Will NEVER work in my home. ..thank you GOD for the knowledge. I also told her if he could put her on the corner. ...he would. Nice try.
My recently found out my boyfriend dad was as a pimp. Now I see why my boyfriend is so dysfunctional and on top the was severely abuse by his step father then his pimp dad rescued him. I feel bad for him :( but he has issues..
Amen bless you for defending your daughter successfully!!❣
You are a blessing to your daughter. I wish someone had stepped in and protected me!
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Amen Sister!!!! ♥️
Men always ask what type of man do you want. My response is I can tell you what I don't want.
Thats an excellent response! Using that one from here on. Thank You Queen
Love it! Definitely using this response
They ask that so they can become everything you say u want they may even pretend to be what u say u want...my response is when asked that is how about you just let me get to know who you are and see if you are what I want and vice versa
Lee Kells Tube TV excellent response. I’ve been telling my friends that we are in a game whether we like it or not, unfortunately. There’s some wolves out there. This is why we need to be led by The Spirit.
dimples600 absolutely right
They build you up, just to look foward to breaking you down....over and over again. I finally educated myself and breaking the cycle. No contact is the only way. Thank you for this video pastor. ❤
When a man promises a fantasy life but he don’t even produce the basics
This!!!! Wooooo!!
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I was a widow early in life. I started back dating and was thoroughly surprised at how the older guys are just as immature,( spiritually or otherwise) as younger ones. I had a great husband, who treated me like a queen and he was a godly man. He was my FIRST everything. I feel like a young lady, not knowing game. I invested a lot of time in someone who “pimps”. Thank God, I am out of that. Wow! “....could put you on the corner if he wanted to.” Wow.
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Oo9o ummm k
I was married to a wonderful man for almost 30 years. I’m secure, confident and don’t have baggage. I met a man who checked the boxes that I could SEE. When I got to know him better he was a Pimp. No question. He quit me because I stood by my standards and didn’t cater to him. I told him those were husband privileges. I was constantly checking his tone and behavior. He couldn’t pump me so he dumped me-- thank God!
I’m a widow also!
Im 36 and spent 23 years of my life learning the hard truths of this world on my own. I grew up without either of my parents. I also wasnt raised in the church. But even after I was baptized and filled with the holyghost I still wrestled silently with my past wordly experience. I needed this talk years ago. Truly this topic has been the gray area that never gets talked about within the safety of God's house. This issue is REAL and is happening or happened in the spiritual walks of many women. Then left with no one to talk to without being put down further. I thank God for stumbling across this video. It gave me peace and clarity of past relationship experience. Where I played the role of a silly woman. God calls us to be holy, but that doesn't come overnight. It took me to fall to truly understand his Grace (for myself). My spiritual ears are open and 🎧listening. Thank you for breaking this down.
Sabrina Poindexter God bless your sweet heart, Sabrina. I love you and your sweet spirit, tho we have never met. I'm so glad the Word tells us that everything we did before we repented of our sins and accepted Jesus into our heart and life, has been cast into the Sea of God's Forgetfulness, never to be remembered against us again. We are free, now, to study how to be more and more like Jesus, every day. The presence of the Holy Ghost dwelling in you will give you the strength, wisdom, and grace to live the life you want to live now, if you call upon it every day, and continue to confess your sins, daily. "For He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness...." If the past continues to nag at you and condemn you, The Word says that that is not God condemning you, It's "the old Accuser" - oops! Remind him he's powerless over you now, and to go back to hell from whence he came! YOU are now a child of The Most High King! The old Accuser's accusations are no longer valid, there's no record of them in Heaven! He is a liar and the truth is not in him! Bless you, sweet sister! Claim your privilege through the blood of Jesus!!! Stand boldly! (:
Sabrina Poindexter Same age and learning the same way as you did. I happen to stumble across his channel.
Thank you pastor RC for explaining this topic! You are an awesome Black brother. May God continue to cover and reveal truth for others to grow up and become aware of this present evil Era❤...
😍 always Sistah SWLee
OMG this sounds like the devil himself. This guy breaks you in every way. That's scary.
He thought I was so broken that I would just accept it yea rght I never stay in a relationship no one if I felt less than but I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt but like they say you have to learn for yourself and sometimes mistakes and lessons are what teaches you
YESSSSS sir a WOMEN CAN BE PIMPED WITHOUT BEING ON A CORNER ®®®!!
Yup happened to me😔
Thank you, I’ll never look at the term “pimped” the same again. You took it to a whole another level.
I've gotten to the point where I don't want to be in a relationship with a man. I like my freedom to do what I want with my time, energy, and money. If I meet someone I may..but now I seriously doubt it.
Wise lady. AMEN TO THAT
I feel the exact same way, i love my freedom,
KINGS are the only kind of man it's worth giving that up for
Not only did I attract men like this, I also attracted friends like this. Learning to love myself and maintain boundaries in relationships were two things that has transformed me ( and healing from codependency)
The basics.....he can't take care of himself and would be HOMELESS without you!
I'm counting down the days till I'm gone. I have been manipulated for over 20 years. He has no idea what is about to happen to him. It's in God's hands now!
I put my husband out, after he destroyed me, I never married again. I just now learning what happens to my life.I went through this. Just met a man, that make me research this man. This is how I found this study....
He is a demon.. I PRAYed and God Bless me. More in the Church.Thank you PASTOR Blake... By the way 75. I PRAY young woman will listen.
Hell yeah, the one I entertained lived with his mother! He would bribe his sister to help sneak me into his room as Mother would NOT have approved!! BTW he was 30. Never could keep a proper date with me and would send a friend or workmate in his place. If I ever questioned him or expressed displeasure, he would blow up, calling me a difficult princess who didn't understand how demanding his job was, how difficult his life was, and so on... After 3 months I wisened up and went No Contact, he would intermittently blow up my phone. I daresay if I had not changed my number he would continue to do this. Was more than 20 years ago.
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This is amazing! I had been emotionally pimped for years because I did not know my true worth. I let my life be drained from me to the point of physical illness. I was basically pushing everything to the back burner to be at his every beck and call because I believed he really loved me and wanted to marry me. I finally got the strength last year to block him and have received numerous confirmations since. Lip service and no sincerity.
Never even produces the basics. #key
Thank you for this Bishop!! You always have a great word.
My husband was this very type of man. Sad and sickening but very true. I married a narcissist.
P B
You're not alone thats for sure
B P me too
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You hurt me with your true words and I feel like you are talking directly to me. I am not at all in a good place. These Narcs have done me and my literal sister BAD . I am just so sad. I don't want sympathy but I have truly been affected by these types of demons.
BLISSFUL ABUNDANCE God will get you through!
BLISSFUL ABUNDANCE hi, I'm currently in a relationship with a narcissist (4years) I have left him before but i let him come back after 3months but this time around I'm educating myself about narcs and their behaviors and how i should respond to his behavior and so far so good. I'm praying for you but educate yourself because you are not at fault for believing that what you had or have with your narc is was real there is a support group hosted by queenbeing that may can help aswell.....i wish you well!
I know exactly how you feel I hope your better now
BLISSFUL ABUNDANCE I've been there. It gets better. Slowly. But it'll be with it. Let go of the shame your empowered now
Wow... I cant believe how true this is.
EDIFIED!!!! WHEN I WAS A LITTLE GIRL IN THE 1960s, I used to try to escape the pain of sexual abuse by trying to rationalize and convince myself that the abuse wasn't truly harmful. I would ask myself, "Why am I so upset? It was just "skin on skin". He didn't kill me. He didn't hit me." 1 Corin: 6:16. When you quoted that scripture I went right back to 1963. Now in my 60s, I am still being pimped, though sex is no longer a part of my life. Oh, I have allowed myself to suffer for decades. I know this video will help a lot of young women. I wish I could post it on my Facebook page, but that will cause a war, so I will inbox it to a select audience.
I want to thank you for encouraging the fatherless women God will always bless you out of Philadelphia PA.
This completely describes my husband: He was quiet, the awkward social type ( didn't have friends), however, there was reasons he ACTED this way. He NEVER delivered; he was dishonest, lacked integrity, lacked communication (only expressed his own selfish needs), disrespectful, not affectionate, lacked attentivesses, manipulator. He isolated me from my huge family & wanted me to sign a 4 yr contract to live w/ his parents. I was just served w/ divorce papers today: This man who falsely had me arrested & charged with battery., when he self- harmed himself. Now he wants joint custody of our special needs son & wants me to pay child support. I have NOT seen my son in over 2 months! He financially cut me off completely. Evil exists in this world; I lived with it for over 20 yrs. I had a relationship w/ JESUS CHRIST prior to meeting this man, othetwise, I would've. gone CRAZY! This man was a snake; he just slithered his way towards into my life. Thank you Pastor Blakes; your work is PRICELESS! Women DON'T entertain these losers; learn from my life experiences.
Some of the churches too silent and not speaking out on these things,they say you should just pray about everything, and that's it,but am here feeling so good feasting on your words, real powerful,respect you a lot.
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Selfishness,narcissism,the works of the world.
You just gave women the blue print,and i hope they study it,learn it and apply it because you speak the truth!!!
These thumbs down came from some narcissistic men or some women that felt called out!!!! Where’s the love button!!!!!’
Done with charmers seducers and abusers and ghosters
EVERY WOMAN NEED TO HEAR THIS THANK YOU BISHOP!
lord please forgive me, for i have sinned against thee 😭😭🙏☝💪
Antonitte Clark
Amen
I swear he changed so fast when he felt he didnt need me anymore...
Never a relationship; only a transaction!
The devil is liar
If you put Christ first, no way could you ever fall for this bs. “No weapon formed against you can prosper.” Isaiah 54:17
The 8 that disliked this are angry pimps 😂 bless you pastor REAL preaching teachings
Jeamesttie Johnson they 😡 maddd , Pastor ratted them out😂😂😂
They’re professional pimpers if that’s even a word 😂😂😂
Some do it pastor, mine did. But it's ok. What go around come bk around. Weeping endures for a night, but Joy come in the morning!!!
I got my Joy bk, after a night of tears. Ty Lord
This is so POWERFUL!!!!! Many need to hear this wisdom! I've been there, and never realized what was happening.. Thanks for sharing!!
OUCH!! "Pimped by Bozo!" Ooooh wee!!
patresha king
Bozo SPEECHLESS
Aint that ugly?!
Rght a fantasy life but can't even produce the basics red flag
So sad I had to learn through hard knocks life. The pimp game is real. When the Spirit of GOD show me men like this I pray them away. I Ieave immediately and hold absolutely no conversation with him. Ladies Don't give n to man. God is the nourshier and sastainer and when we stay in alignment with truth. Those men flee away.
Amennn
Oh yes don't talk to them pass them straight.
49:50- “when a man starts talking down to you/ name calling he’s pronouncing a word curse on you/over your life... trying to redefine
you so that he can use use at a lower level...”
This should be taught in schools! Thank you for the word of warning! When we are real ppl, we frequently assume others are real as well. Hope watching this helps women avoid learning the hard way.
Whew you made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up...OMG! I've listened to a lot of men online giving advise but the way you speak it is very different and touched the core of my soul. Thank you dear brother. I don't know you but I love you.
There must be a handbook for these clowns because your right to a tee..wow.
IamKarryanne just an honest upstanding concerned brother. This is tough love.
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IamKarryanne Girlll you be everywhere..me and you be viewing the same channels.I remeber you from SheRaSeven1 youtube videos abt the Pick me's! lol😂 I luv it
A slick smooth talker
PREACH BISHOP!!!!!!!! Even the most astute woman could fall victim to these narcissistic, devil doer's conduct. Listen ladies, please.
This is one of the deepest convos on the net about relationships and sex thus far!
I wish my dad woulda told me this.
Ann a
Exactly they just stand by and allow it to happen..
My dad did, sadly though a man was still able to treat me this way because I just simply didn't see it coming from that guy. You can prepare all you want and still get blindsided. So don't feel bad if you didn't have a dad there to teach you or you had a dad and he didn't teach you. Even those of us who did can still fall victim to a man like this. They pretend to be the man of your dreams and the whole time they're calculating their moves to control you.
I love you Dad! Restoring the hearts of women all over the world. ❤🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I'm praying for you pastor and that God keep speaking through you to teach some us ladies out here whom doesn't have a positive male role that cares enough to give us game on these low down strays and keep its real about who is women shall be as far as Queens thank you once again I appreciate you so be bless and highly favor in Jesus name
Narcissism
I love your messages!
WAKE UP!!!! #Consciousness
wow for women to realize weve been doing this all our lives without realizing it is scary. :(
tcalvin2010 we were primed by alot of things outside of our control. You live and you learn.
Yes, my father groomed my mother and has completely destroyed her mind. He is a evil wicked narcissist and I never liked him because I knew he was sent from he'll. My twin sister and older sister were very close with him. I never really had a great relationship with him.
Hold The Phone ☎️
Public Announcement
Why do us Black Women go through this the most with our BLACK MEN? But Hold On Hold On y’all calling us Bitter and angry but this pimp mess is what we been going through since little babies and we supposed to be Happy? Then you meet a snow bunny and treat her like Anastasia?
One sign he tells u he is different than other bad men but his actions show u he is worst than the other men.
"Your being pimped" lol he ain't neva lied gotta love Bishop Blakes
Thank you for this informative lecture. I joined a church while still in a three yr. relationship. During the entire relationship, the man I dated "treated me like a queen" while avoiding true commitment. (Before I knew what it meant to be truly treated like one) Once I gave my life to God and heeded His Word, this man decided to break up with me because he did not like me giving my life to God. Before this happened, I had prayed to the Lord and asked Him to show me if this man was worthy and true. The Lord showed me in how this man rejected God. In this case, this financially stable and kind man rejected God and so I moved on with my life while praying for him.
I find narcissist are like PIMPS, so this video is pretty accurate in its definition. Excellent video.
You betta preach Bishop! Thank you for this word!
LaToya Forbins what...teaching black women to not trust. Sad black men r like this...
I left. Told my friend I got played and then went back again. MY GOD!!!
Thank you for this word Bishop i have become #enlightened and once your spiritual eyes become opened you know longer tolerate games and foolishness #ihavenowreclaimedmycrown
Latosha Lester Amen
Redd Queen Amen sis! God woke me up 2 years ago & I never wanna look back. I know who I am now!
This is y these type of men put limits on you they won't give you full info about them...
At ALL!!!
Please come talk in Australia! Women here need to hear you. Thank you for helping my heart heal and more than that my mind!
"Go and sin no more" I love it....Thank you
You know Exactly what I went through !! I caught myself before that 1/4 of Sanity I had left was Taken !! My child is on to him and understands my Healing Process because..... I jumped into Another relationship with Another NARCISSIST that I walked away from after 9yrs , and Never looked Back !! For the past 15 months , I've Been Doing Meeeee Now and Loving it !! I Don't Even CO-PARENT , ACKNOWLEDGE nor COMMUNICATE with such said individual 😎
I talk to my daughter about this all the time and she's 13yrs old and God told me I have to be a example in front of her or those spirits are going to go down through the blood line...and I just don't want that to happen to her®®®!!
Damn, I've been pimped, for the past 25 Years, by my own husband! I'm subcribed. This video really set me free. Please do more.
20 years ago, we had no access to such videos! Young girls are blessed now, because the truth is so readily available.
Omg, ty ty ty. I know I'm a queen. N so many men walk away from me cause I won't allow them to Pimp me. Ty pastor.
Lil Fuller HONEY!!!!
Im in Trinidad and I just want to tell you thank you for what you do.
Girl me too ✋️ and it's life-saving
He don't even have a license Pastor! I've been driving him and his 4 sons around for free! That stops today! Thank you Pastor!
Same! No Drivers license, no GED, no credit! Nothing! 4 kids, 4 baby mommas, Satan sure was slick with this.. we just broke up 2 days ago, he out in the streets as we speak! 4 yrs of my life and this is the thanks I get! So disrespectful!
@@tretre4u72 wow same broke up 1 week ago
He wasn't all that verbal but actions did speak louder than words and I'm a firm believer In what you do more than what you say
I just let go of a relationship like this and I feel at my best every day since starting to follow you I feel better and think better daily. Amen God Bless your Heart!
...He overdoses you on time...thanks so much for this my spiritual father...
Hershey 4Life That’s the truth!
Draining. My goodness.
They’re changing the game, though. Now I see it as a red flag when they start talking about locking you down real quick.
Thank you for shedding light into darkness and helping us walk in truth! 💫
Pastor be on POINT
#2 resonated with me. My late Daddy recognized that in my then husband. Before he passed away, he told me that my husband was "trying to get you off all by yourself where he could treat you any kind of way because everyone else would be tired of you and not want to have anything else to do with you, and it would be because of him!" I didn't understand what he was saying at the time, but I later realized and saw that's exactly what was happening. He was isolating me from anyone who really cared for me. There's no telling what would've happened if I hadn't seen the light and broke up with him.