"Trusting a man without a vision is like trusting a car to drive at night without headlights"...😆🤣 LOL!! Golden, Pastor!! Praise God for you. HOW we need your contiuned wisdom & guidance! Thank you.❤
@teetreadwell9290 WONDERFUL Yeshua! Jehovah Repheka has Done it again!!! You are more than a Conquering Mighty Wo-Man of Valour. We Praise Adonai for your life and courage to walk right before Him...xOx
@@renedouglas8447 He’s helped me with some hard painful truths..keep listening, keep reading your Bible, and any & all Queenology reference materials. God bless you🙏🏽
Every. Single. Thing. You. Said. Happened. With. Me. Being raised in a pentecostal holiness church, women are conditioned to accept and embrace this toxicity from an early age. The goalposts are always inched back, telling the woman that she's got to pray harder, fast more, attend more services, etc, but not a word of condemnation or reproach for men. Frequently, the husbands didn't attend the churches anyway, and the wives then get criticism about being at the church too much! WE had to be the light that would draw them to Christ, but if it didn't happen, it's still our fault and responsibility! Dammed if we did or didn't!
Sometimes people ask, 'where is God in all this?' Well, God works through human hands and human feet, and R. C. Blakes' platform is one example of this.
My ex was so upset with his mother to the point, he dated me because he said I reminded him of her, we shared the same similarities, birthday month, height, etc. Then I realized, he really hated her for things from his childhood and began to take it out on me. That’s when I decided to give him back to her and left the situationship after 5 1/2 years,
I will miss you all this evening. Unfortunately, I was in a pretty shocking car accident yesterday leaving church. I’m ok but need ample rest to recover. Prayers are requested. You know I love you all, Blessings Queens. 🩷👑🧎♀️
The guy in my relationship has mother issues, needs outside validation, asks "who do I belong to", wants his women to follow everything he says, and doesn't respect boundaries. The list can go on. I told him I belong to GOD first and foremost, then myself, then to everyone else. I told him I don't idolize myself, so I can't idolize you.
1.Self Motivation, he has to motivate himself 2. Unhealed Motherwound 3. When he is a lid over your life rather than a covering. A Covering has the capacity to elevate, to move and to shift! A Lid limits potentials 4. when he has no authentic vision 5. When you idolize him 6. when he is in competition with your success 7. when you don’t respect him
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
I have been saving for queenology in Ghana since i heard its coming close to me. I live jn Nigeria and its an hour flight from here..cant wait to see Y'all
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
Wow number 2 spoke to me specifically you are preaching!!!! All of these are very true. Learning this later in life but I'm grateful for this wisdom. Thankyou 🙌🏾
God is definitely working in you and for you. Thank you Bishop RC Blakes. This was an ontime word and it was very insightful as always. We greatly appreciate you and first lady Lisa Blakes with your advice and sound judgement
What a great blessing this message is and for you breaking it down so softly and making it so clear with scripture. I feel my emotions and anxiety settle, as I watched this and know that I have chosen the right path this time. God has carried me. You are helping my painful awakening… with the needed softness and father talks I’ve always needed. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I'm wondering if anyone else has noticed this within themselves... After 2 1/2 years of loving a man with medical issues, who is incapable of receiving the nurturing love that I want to give him him myself and finding that I am feeling needy now!! Use it as me becoming negative… Which I do not want I feel that the Holy Spirit lead me to his side, he is living with his sister currently and I am living by myself and I feel like all of his needs are being met and what the heck am I doing here
This was powerful and true 🏆🔥 I finally have to award this your very best video award in 6 years. They keep superseding each other, but I think it will be hard to outdo this one Pastor RC thinks similarly to myself. This little dude I had to throw back can't hear me but he can hear my thoughts coming from RC complete with all the scriptures cited. Thank you for being my translator over this entire annoying waste of time identified from the beginning. He keeps trying to bargain but me and this dude are and impossibility and from the gate. Just the fact that he doesn't want to hear that punctuates it. God bless Pastor Blakes. Amen. 🙏🏽
Pastor Blakes, this is such a powerfilled teaching. I say thank yu for this message. I would also like to say......I kan see the awesome work yur doing on yurself, yur skin looks so klear and yu have a healthy lean look. Bless yu and Beautiful Lisa.
Bishop! You are always PREACHING even when are teaching!!!!! Excellent Teaching!!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥 Teaching with fire !!! God bless you Bishop Blakes!!! I am a guest who has been listening to your excellent Teaching!!! You have taught things about men.. I have not heard yet!! Your teachings has given me much godly wisdom nuggets for a "Royal Priesthood .. Queen/ daughter of the Most High God!!! It is He that findeth and Not "She that findeth!! God will guide and direct the Kingdom Spouse at the appointment time.. Trust in HIM!! LET GOD PICK THE KINGDOM SPOUSE!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I will be sowing a seed in your mi ministry!!! God bless you & Lisa!! Beautiful couple inside and out!! God made you two examples for what "Kingdom Marriages look like...authentic and always keeping it 💯
All I can do is to holla wooo weeee. Thanks you for this process of protection for my healing. Lisa Lisa Lisa We thank you for unselfishly Sharing you husband man with the broken woman of this world. Nothing that you have been through has been in vain. You both exemplify the truth of God's word Working it out for his good. Wish my words can encourage and validate you both as much as your living on purpose lives has validate and healed my being. To God Be the Glory. I love you all including your downline to the moon and back. From the root to the fruit you have seeded well. We are your orchard all over the world You are planting a legacy Eternal life to you NOW
Epic Video RC Blakes : ) Thank you!! Also, you are looking so healthy - I love this for you : ) Keep shining bright. Your videos have been a godsend for my development. Your words come through as those of the wise father - something I never received as a child. Hence, I AM DEEPLY GRATEFUL - ABOVE AND BEYOND
Praise God Almighty Bishop, truly an Empowering discussion. Thank you for this Powerful topic. Well Received. In Jesus name. Bishop, I'm trying to get my adult children to realize. Amen. Thank you so much for this Revelation. Amen and Amen ❤❤
Check out how he looks, y'all. Don't he look 10 to 15 years younger all of a sudden? Also, he's such a SHADOW of his previous self! I can't get over how huge Pastor's transformation is. Just wow!
All I can say is WOW! WOW! WOW!!! Such a revelation for ME!!! I love him but I'm a visionary and a highly motivated high achieving woman and he's a " talker" of vision but no motivation 🫤
My ex had hardcore mother issues. She was very dominant & emotionless incestuous with him. Treated him like a boyfriend! She certainly didn't like me. Anyway, we tried but it was impossible. He was a very bitter man. Had zero respect for women. He is now 68. Never married. No children. A wretched man..actually a boy. I praise the living Christ he left me!
Emotionally incestuous is what I meant. Same with my stepfather. Very overbearing mom. He treated my mother like trash. EXTREMELY abusive towards my mom.
I believe that this is a great help for women, but as a man, I think he needs to have platform to help males become better men, and greater members of society. It's harder to change a male than a female. I believe a lot of these platforms are used for gain, from women who are vulnerable and looking for love and acceptance. Men are to lead and protect, not the woman, so get with them and I think the world would become better, as the real men help to heal their women. I come in peace.☮
Vision without Execution is Hallucination ~ Sir Thomas Edison, a vision is part of the plan, but without attainable steps, you are hallucinating and chasing dreams, couples need realistic goals, but he has to communicate them first
"Trusting a man without a vision is like trusting a car to drive at night without headlights"...😆🤣 LOL!! Golden, Pastor!! Praise God for you. HOW we need your contiuned wisdom & guidance! Thank you.❤
OMG... my man has no vision, no future plans..even no self-preservation... how can I help if he doesn't have these things...
I come here from time to time for insight, validation, confirmation, reassurance, and strength.
Because of it,
Im winning. It hurts, but im winning.
@teetreadwell9290 WONDERFUL Yeshua! Jehovah Repheka has Done it again!!! You are more than a Conquering Mighty Wo-Man of Valour. We Praise Adonai for your life and courage to walk right before Him...xOx
Hopefully he can help me too sis🫶🏼
@@renedouglas8447 He’s helped me with some hard painful truths..keep listening, keep reading your Bible, and any & all Queenology reference materials. God bless you🙏🏽
You are the daddy, uncle, father, and friend we dont have
Every. Single. Thing. You. Said. Happened. With. Me.
Being raised in a pentecostal holiness church, women are conditioned to accept and embrace this toxicity from an early age. The goalposts are always inched back, telling the woman that she's got to pray harder, fast more, attend more services, etc, but not a word of condemnation or reproach for men. Frequently, the husbands didn't attend the churches anyway, and the wives then get criticism about being at the church too much! WE had to be the light that would draw them to Christ, but if it didn't happen, it's still our fault and responsibility! Dammed if we did or didn't!
This is so true, but don’t even try to explain this to the other women in the church.
😢
Sometimes people ask, 'where is God in all this?' Well, God works through human hands and human feet, and R. C. Blakes' platform is one example of this.
My ex was so upset with his mother to the point, he dated me because he said I reminded him of her, we shared the same similarities, birthday month, height, etc. Then I realized, he really hated her for things from his childhood and began to take it out on me. That’s when I decided to give him back to her and left the situationship after 5 1/2 years,
Yikes! Some men have serious mommy issues. You did the best thing.
Wow, I am so happy you gave him back to her.
excellent message. I remember walking away from my last partner and telling him “ i can’t help. there’s nothing I can do”
THIS MINISTRY IS HELPING PEOPLE EVERYWHERE .🎉😊
Yes!!! It is!
Indeed
I will miss you all this evening. Unfortunately, I was in a pretty shocking car accident yesterday leaving church. I’m ok but need ample rest to recover. Prayers are requested. You know I love you all, Blessings Queens. 🩷👑🧎♀️
WOW!!! Im so sorry to hear. Please reach out to us to give us some detail. Email us at rc@rcblakesministries.com 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Praying for you ❤
Praying Queen. We love❤ you some more. Remember everything is for our good. ❤❤❤🎉
BLESSED healing/ complete recovery
He's 💯 when he says the mother wound is real. I've known several men who flat out disrespect women due to them not resolving their "Mother Wound".
The guy in my relationship has mother issues, needs outside validation, asks "who do I belong to", wants his women to follow everything he says, and doesn't respect boundaries. The list can go on.
I told him I belong to GOD first and foremost, then myself, then to everyone else.
I told him I don't idolize myself, so I can't idolize you.
1.Self Motivation, he has to motivate himself
2. Unhealed Motherwound
3. When he is a lid over your life rather than a covering. A Covering has the capacity to elevate, to move and to shift! A Lid limits potentials
4. when he has no authentic vision
5. When you idolize him
6. when he is in competition with your success
7. when you don’t respect him
Thank you 🙏🏽
God bless you
My God!
No #3 wheeew, so spot on👌🏾
Number 7 is a result of one or more of the previous ones someone needs to tell men that @RCBlakesJr
It was more than a pleasure speaking with you! You definitely are changing families. ❤
Never support a weak man for he will take you down to his level.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
Yes, my 20 yes old son listen to you as well.
I have been saving for queenology in Ghana since i heard its coming close to me. I live jn Nigeria and its an hour flight from here..cant wait to see Y'all
Gosh i want to come too but I am all the way in Trinidad and Tobago
So blessed. Enjoy girl!
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
I could use this video today! Looking forward to it!
Wow number 2 spoke to me specifically you are preaching!!!! All of these are very true. Learning this later in life but I'm grateful for this wisdom. Thankyou 🙌🏾
God is definitely working in you and for you. Thank you Bishop RC Blakes. This was an ontime word and it was very insightful as always. We greatly appreciate you and first lady Lisa Blakes with your advice and sound judgement
Bishop, Thank you for this lesson. This was deep, and I needed it. I praise God for you and Lady Lisa Blakes.... on my long healing journey...
You have not told 1 lie!!!! Your messages are tough to hear and tougher to accept. However, I KNOW you are telling the truth. Thank you.
Always love listening to the truth you speak! 0:00
This word was so good! Every point was on point. I’ve lived this for 12 years .. Thank you for sharing this!
Your platform helped me to all glory to the most high
Bishop Blakes, I did purchase two of your books.
Queenology and The book about the Kingnolgy/ men.
@@loucindahobbs3620 THANK YOU!
Aaaaaamen pastor you are preaching and now and days you don’t have to look 👀 to far!😢😮❤🙌🏽
Pastor, I am shouting in this car as good as your preaching!! 🙏🏾👏🏽
😂
What a great blessing this message is and for you breaking it down so softly and making it so clear with scripture. I feel my emotions and anxiety settle, as I watched this and know that I have chosen the right path this time. God has carried me. You are helping my painful awakening… with the needed softness and father talks I’ve always needed. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I'm wondering if anyone else has noticed this within themselves... After 2 1/2 years of loving a man with medical issues, who is incapable of receiving the nurturing love that I want to give him him myself and finding that I am feeling needy now!! Use it as me becoming negative… Which I do not want I feel that the Holy Spirit lead me to his side, he is living with his sister currently and I am living by myself and I feel like all of his needs are being met and what the heck am I doing here
I approve this message and thank you pastor for always helping us Queens value ourselves and know our worth!! Thank you and Lisa love you guys ❤
Man every thing you are saying is so important!!🙏🏼
Thank you Pastor Blakes, all the way from Bonnie Scotland X
This was powerful and true 🏆🔥 I finally have to award this your very best video award in 6 years. They keep superseding each other, but I think it will be hard to outdo this one
Pastor RC thinks similarly to myself. This little dude I had to throw back can't hear me but he can hear my thoughts coming from RC complete with all the scriptures cited. Thank you for being my translator over this entire annoying waste of time identified from the beginning. He keeps trying to bargain but me and this dude are and impossibility and from the gate. Just the fact that he doesn't want to hear that punctuates it. God bless Pastor Blakes. Amen. 🙏🏽
You slimming down Pastor ❤
This is a hot topic, looking forward to this one!
OMG this is speaking to me tremendously. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU.
Pastor Blakes, this is such a powerfilled teaching. I say thank yu for this message. I would also like to say......I kan see the awesome work yur doing on yurself, yur skin looks so klear and yu have a healthy lean look. Bless yu and Beautiful Lisa.
Bishop! You are always PREACHING even when are teaching!!!!! Excellent Teaching!!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥
Teaching with fire !!!
God bless you Bishop Blakes!!!
I am a guest who has been listening to your excellent Teaching!!! You have taught things about men.. I have not heard yet!! Your teachings has given me much godly wisdom nuggets for a "Royal Priesthood .. Queen/ daughter of the Most High God!!!
It is He that findeth and Not "She that findeth!!
God will guide and direct the Kingdom Spouse at the appointment time..
Trust in HIM!! LET GOD PICK THE KINGDOM SPOUSE!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I will be sowing a seed in your mi ministry!!!
God bless you & Lisa!!
Beautiful couple inside and out!!
God made you two examples for what "Kingdom Marriages look like...authentic and always keeping it 💯
BISHOP! THIS MESSAGE is right on time for me❤
I had to come back and listen again. Wow. So much wisdom shared through this ministry 💜🙏🏽
BLESSINGS BISHOP RC.Blakes,and 1st lady Lisa Blakes ❤ 🙏
Looking forward to this! You are always dead on! 0:00
Keep talking to these men out here!!!
...a grown spiritual woman doesn't compete with her peers or other half either! ❤
on top and going higher!! see yall at the top! thanks again Bishop RC for another great share 💛 i pray God continue to bless you and your loved ones…
Pastor you are THE TRUTH
God bless you Pastor and your family 🇿🇦
Great insights . Thank you Bishop
Looking forward to yet more truth!❤
So much truth and wisdom. Thank you Pastor. 🎉
I know right, I think I have been waiting for something like this
THIS ISSSSS SOOOO GOOOOOOOD YESSSS
This kind of revelation doesn't make no sense to be this good! God I'm learning so much!!
This was a good one!!! Thank you so much!!!
Hi you’re explaining very well to the point of understanding
Thank you, for your great teaching and messages!👍🙏❤️
I needed to hear this message. Thank you pastor Blake
Thanks!
This is solid gold.❤
Good evening Bishop, Lady Lisa and saints of the most High
This was so helpful thank you 🙏🏼!!!
Thank You Pastor, Thank Yu, Self Discovery and Inner Healing ... Much Needed 🙏💗🙏
Precious.
And once again my earthly father that I hold very close to my heart 💕
Your timing is divine 👼 … 💔
All I can do is to holla wooo weeee.
Thanks you for this process of protection for my healing.
Lisa Lisa Lisa
We thank you for unselfishly
Sharing you husband man with the broken woman of this world.
Nothing that you have been through has been in vain.
You both exemplify the truth of God's word Working it out for his good.
Wish my words can encourage and validate you both as much as your living on purpose lives has validate and healed my being.
To God Be the Glory.
I love you all including your downline to the moon and back.
From the root to the fruit you have seeded well.
We are your orchard all over the world
You are planting a legacy
Eternal life to you NOW
Looking forward to yet more truth!
Thank you Bishop RC, you have nailed it💯✅
Oh I'm shouting !! this is a word we wish we heard sooner ❤ thank u RC
Waiting patiently but eager to hear Mr. Blakes
Praise the lord
Epic Video RC Blakes : ) Thank you!! Also, you are looking so healthy - I love this for you : ) Keep shining bright. Your videos have been a godsend for my development. Your words come through as those of the wise father - something I never received as a child. Hence, I AM DEEPLY GRATEFUL - ABOVE AND BEYOND
Amazing as usual! ❤
Nailed it!!
Praise God Almighty Bishop, truly an Empowering discussion. Thank you for this Powerful topic. Well Received. In Jesus name. Bishop, I'm trying to get my adult children to realize. Amen. Thank you so much for this Revelation. Amen and Amen ❤❤
Thank you Pastor I watched this one twice 🙏🏾
Great Truths
Hallelujah Daddy! 🎉❤🎉😊
Check out how he looks, y'all. Don't he look 10 to 15 years younger all of a sudden? Also, he's such a SHADOW of his previous self! I can't get over how huge Pastor's transformation is. Just wow!
Preach preacher
That’s great! Thank you!
All I can say is WOW! WOW! WOW!!! Such a revelation for ME!!! I love him but I'm a visionary and a highly motivated high achieving woman and he's a " talker" of vision but no motivation 🫤
Run baby run
This is the ❤❤❤❤❤❤ 39:11 best message yet!!!
Indeed, unless a couple has a shared vision how will they stay together ?
My ex had hardcore mother issues. She was very dominant & emotionless incestuous with him. Treated him like a boyfriend! She certainly didn't like me. Anyway, we tried but it was impossible. He was a very bitter man. Had zero respect for women. He is now 68. Never married. No children. A wretched man..actually a boy. I praise the living Christ he left me!
Emotionally incestuous is what I meant. Same with my stepfather. Very overbearing mom. He treated my mother like trash. EXTREMELY abusive towards my mom.
Eagerly awaiting.
😃😻
You got it! 🙏🏾
Thank you
There is a biblically based book called LOVE AND RESPECT. BY EMMERSON EGGRICH. I it’s about how women need love and men need respect!! Thx for this!!
This is going to be good!
My God this was right on time
I believe that this is a great help for women, but as a man, I think he needs to have platform to help males become better men, and greater members of society. It's harder to change a male than a female. I believe a lot of these platforms are used for gain, from women who are vulnerable and looking for love and acceptance. Men are to lead and protect, not the woman, so get with them and I think the world would become better, as the real men help to heal their women. I come in peace.☮
He does Kingology.
Vision without Execution is Hallucination ~ Sir Thomas Edison, a vision is part of the plan, but without attainable steps, you are hallucinating and chasing dreams, couples need realistic goals, but he has to communicate them first
You in the Spirit.....this located and found me....this dude took his last straw of Grace....above my pay grade! Max our my emotional Budget 🧐🍿
Amen, pastor
It makes plenty sense take yo time....
💯 Truth !
30:09 when he’s a lid and not a covering.
Insightful video 😊