I worked in fast food and one lady came in, bought her boyfriend a meal, and screamed at her hungry daughter to go outside. The poor child looked around 3 or four years old and even I was startled at this woman yelling. I hate that so much
Pretty sure if you decided to give the child something you'd not only get fired but the lady would be like "wHaT aRe YOu DoING wiTh mY dAugHTEr?!" Ma'am you left her outside.
Yep my dad calls me from different phone number every other day . All bc his wife is gone rip to her but that woman had some resentment towards me bc she HATED my mom and my father would ALWAYS cuss me out and yell DAMN near spitting on me DAY AFTER day behind ANYTHING my step mom said was being “disrespectful “ but going around town talking CRAP about me with MY FRIENDS when she saw them at Walmart when I was away at my moms for the summer
You’re so great!!! I think sometimes people forget the real meaning of love, doing what’s best for the other, and you are such a good example of a true loving husband and father ❤❤❤❤
@@pathetic2399 you be real it’s pretty pathetic like he said he could have easily bought her something. it isn’t fair and it doesn’t teach her anything for growing up in life
My mom's the type of woman who would've destroyed my dad's ice cream if he chose not to get us one. Then she would've just bought our own.😂❤ You're mom sounds really sweet though.❤ Glad we got our moms. ❤😊
When I go get ice cream , regardless of if I'm broke or not at the time , my daughter's order goes first then my wife's and then mine. Had I not had enough I would've just ordered nothing for myself. Once you have a child you're last on the list.
I’d think it’s kinda hard to accept as an adult, but also little things like ice cream aren’t all that important either. It’s better to make the child feel good than to make them wait, because as a kid, those little things matter to them so much more
>once you have a child you're last on the list Something my mom just can't get through her head. She refuses to grocery shop because "I don't wanna spend my days off at the store" yet will come home with bags of candy just for her. She'll be upstairs gorging on Reese cups and I'm struggling to find something to eat
When I take my son out to eat or to get ice cream or to do anything. I'm doing this because I want him to have a good time. He is not a spoiled kid so he appreciates everything I do for him. But there's no way in hell I would ever order myself something without him ordering first. If it turns out I could only afford one thing. He's the one eating not me. Now after all this time he is 15 and if I don't order something he always insists on sharing it with me, I don't ever want him to give up anything for me but when I take a few bites he always smiles and I can tell that he feels like he did something good and that's all I ask for. I love my son.
That’s how some parents are. I remember working on a kitchen and hearing servers talk about how parents will order themselves a whole meal and then the kids have to share like some chicken fingers and fries or 6 boneless wings. Some people aren’t fit to be parents because of how cheap they can be towards their kids but splurge on themselves.
@@AnimeLover1242 if they are that poor to feed a child then they won't be ordering a whole meal just for themselves. I personally feel like if they don't want to take care of child they shouldn't be having one in 1st place
I agree with a lot of your statement but if you actually have kids you know they are either extremely picky or they waste food. And tenders and fries are always on menus for a reason. Why do you think kids portions are so much smaller
The thing is, some people just don't have the money to get multiple of them, but in that case, knowing that you have a kid, you shouldn't have gone there in the place
As a daddy’s girl I can’t imagine how sad she must have felt. This video made me very grateful that I have very nice parents who would and still would do anything to make me happy
Idk, might be because I’m Asian, but that’s pretty normal to me. I don’t really know if you’ve had the privilege of sharing a meal with your parents, but as a kid, it tastes so much better. Also think about it. He could’ve bought 2 $8 ice creams for both of them, but he bought a $16 dollar one & shared it. They still both got ice cream and it cost the same, so it wasn’t like he was being cheap. If you think about it like that, it’s not that bad.
@nos I mean, like think about it. You have $16 for ice cream. You buy the kid a $1 one, then you get a $15 one. That seems pretty unfair. If you both split a $16 ice cream, you both get ice cream, and it’s higher quality.
@@blondie3743 Ok, have you ever gone to a downtown ice cream store? Doesn’t have to be downtown actually, just a place that specializes in ice cream. If you ever buy a combo $10+, it usually comes in a bowl, and even if it doesn’t, they always have spoons. Think of it like this, no two people would eat the same cake if you ate it with your hands, but if you ate it with a fork, it’s perfectly fine.
After a bad first marriage with abusive man I'd never marry again, but married my 2nd husband because i saw the way he treated his elderly grandmother... If I were that woman, I'd be out!
@@juanduenas1943 Juan, it's not "just" the ice cream. It sets a precedent for how they are as parents in EVERY situation. I've seen it firsthand. I've gone no-contact with my mother for around a year and I know she's going through hell over it. Because for once she can't manipulate me back. I don't feel any empathy though for her. She brought it upon herself fully.
@@juanduenas1943Imagine basing your whole reality from example you’ve heard of instead of thinking about the bigger picture. A person who refuses to buy something as small as an ice cream wouldn’t hesitate to refuse bigger and much more integral needs like proper food, medications, education and everything. The ice cream is just one of the millions of example of how horribly the parent treats their kids and not being able to see through that is a bigger form of detachment from reality, something that you seem to be flaunting. Do yourself a favor and please don’t have kids in the first place, kids deserve than people like you who justify such negligence to kids.
Y’all stupid it’s just ice cream plus she still got ice cream and cold stone ain’t cheap like of course it would suck but my mom always shares ice cream with mt sister because she ain’t eating the whole thing plus do we even know how old she is?
@@CommanderM820 it’s the little things that matter and besides the fact that he didn’t even think twice to behave that way towards his fiancées child says a lot. but you are somewhat right, we cannot judge how he is as a person through this small encounter
Nothing is more infuriating than parents coming into our gas station and buying 100s-1000s of dollars worth of lottery tickets, and telling their kids they don’t have 27 cents to buy them a small candy. It’s heart wrenching.😕
Your gas station? Then do something about it what you standing there for. 27 cent candy let the child off the hook then. *If* you do own somewhat the gas station. Eh life is a gamble.
@@Itz_Fritz Of course I give the child the candy , but that doesn’t change the fact that a parent can spend so much money on gambling and smoking but they can’t buy a few cents worth of candies for their own freaking kids:(
@@amirhaikal6672 what???? Since when mother getting re-married is anything like that? Also if you decide to marry someone with a kid then obviously you will have to help. Its called common sense. Something that an incel like you clearly don't have. Also calling kids "mistakes" is wrong no matter what.
My father in law has a son (my husband) and two daughters their favourite is the youngest, she repays them often by only coming to see her parents to dump off her two sons to go to some event or shopping with her husband, took her parents house not a penny back was given, while my husband got told he is spoiled (he wanted to become a car mechanic his dad sent him to hairdressing school) and now he lives in ap small house in our back yard, we are raising our boy's the best i can and make sure they never go without but damn some people like to stick their nose into our family good thing is we are very close and our bond is strong regardless the fact that i am the stepmum to three of my four boy's but i don't have favourites, i love them all the same and each individually for the awesome boy's they are, they saw me at my best and worst and at my worst my boy's gave me my strength not to give up, there have been time's i wanted to be struck by thunder see if my absence would be noticed, only my boy's and husband appreciate what i do for them and that is all i care about. Some of us step parents do love our children equally! All i want is to see my boy's all 5 including my husband happy!
This happened to me at the restaurant I was serving at These two friends were on a lunch and brought their kids.. It seemed like they didn’t even want the kids there, just couldn’t help it, and made sure the kids got super cheap meals, and then when it was time for dessert, got themselves these amazing desserts while expecting the kids to watch and eat nothing The kids were too young to understand any lesson they could’ve been trying to teach them and from their demeanor and how they treated the kids, I don’t think this was some humbling life experience they were trying as a teaching moment.. From the entire encounter, it seemed like it was just cause they didn’t think the kids were worth getting dessert for, and they were enjoying that they were able to get the kids to cry so easily by ordering amazing desserts and making a huge deal that they couldn’t have any, not a bite.. I took these minuscule brownies we’d give out sometimes for free, and asked the kids if they wanted to make it special and add whipped cream, sprinkles, hot fudge, etc, shit that we’re probably not supposed to do but they’d do it for me as a kid and I remembered how happy it made me The parents were sus about my attempts, yea because they were worried I’d charge them, which I assured them I wouldn’t, but more-so I think they legit just wanted to pull a power move on their kids, and were annoyed that they weren’t sobbing over ice cream anymore.. Which they were laughing at them for, which made the kids cry more.. The tip was shit, but the look on the kids’ face when the desserts came out made it worth it
Very nice of you to do that. Well one day when the parents are old and their kids don't go out of their way to do anything extra for them maybe then they'll realize it.
@@miyondamenggoyou have no idea what is going on in their lives. Also you’re being extremely dramatic over some ice cream. They could be very kind people for all you know. Stfu
@@Joecz213it's the precident that his behavior sets. If he prioritizes the happiness of only him and his fiancee while being stingy when it comes to the child, over something as simple as ice cream, what makes you think that he will act differently when it comes to bigger examples?
This happened to me once when I worked at McDonald’s very similar situation so I just asked the little girl what she wanted and gave it to her nothing embarrassing more to a man than someone else having the pleasure of treating his family trust me
@@rayrei8620 Exactly, I remember a guy at the pizza place I worked at, who always brought his daughter(that looked between 6-8 yrs old) in, while she was wearing pjs. It was always past 7pm, sometimes even almost 10pm, and he would expect someone to "hook him up with a deal". Those were his words, not mine. It infuriated me that one of the managers would always cave and find some random deal in the system, one that wouldn't even be applicable at the time, to give him. He also would order food to his preferences that would be extra expensive while trying to get his daughter the cheapest thing possible. And if he couldn't get a deal, it would be the thing his daughter likes, that gets taken off the order. And he would make sure we knew, like it was our fault he couldn't afford her likes. While his daughter would sit there looking tired and irritable as F. Not to mention, she was in pajamas every time, and this was in a Wisconsin city where most of the year the sun was set by the time they came in. So it's not like it was warm for her. Edit: This guy also had the audacity to flirt with every female worker at the store that looked younger than 30.
@@rayrei8620 wow I’d have never have guessed that. I can’t believe people would do that. I mean in a way, I can, but not with their own kids. Their kids take it seriously & that’s tragic people can be so manipulative & cruel.
If I was his fiancée, I’d be having some real hard second thoughts right now. Seriously, if this is how he treats them now imagine something like this after they’re married.
Exactly 🙄 Apparently they’re both horrible! If I had a kid and he treated my kid like that he wouldn’t of even made it fiancée stage before he had my fist in his face
@@redbetta2191 Here comes the mEn gEtS rApEd tOo man. Get your ignorant ass back to pornhub if you cant understand a simple shorts. Its clearly said that the man got himself a complex and extravagant ice-cream, something a man on budget would never do. If you are an adult (I dont think you ever will be mentally) you dont order without mentally calculating the price. Heck, I even used to it as kids. More advice to dimwits lile you, if you are going through financial crisis, get yourself out of there, earn more and spend less before you date someone. Spend your time chasing money, not girls or boys when in financial crisis.
Not cool. If I can't afford us all, I forfeit mine so the kids can have every time. Even in shops with strangers kids I've done it. Kids are the future.
World needs more people like you. I know no one cares, but you reminded me of a random dad who spotted me a fiver for a $3 ice cream cone as kid. He handed me double my bank account that day. Thanks for that, have a good one ✌️ (My parents weren’t there, I feel like I need to clarify that)
One time when I was coming from school, I was super upset, hot, sweaty, and generally really down. The icecream van was nearby, so I went to get something. The price was £1.50, but I only had £1.20. To top it all off, I lost my money I was to pay with. The ice cream guy was super sweet tho, and let me have it for free. And when I found my money to pay, i chased him down and offered to give it to him. But he said it was okay and gave me a tissue to hold my free icecream with instead. Super sweet of him, and I just feel happier looking back on the memory.. :)
"We can't have your icecream, honey, sorry its too expensive..." "This is John quinines from 'what would you do?', why didn't you buy this girl the icecream?, you had 1000 dollars put in your wallet..."
Now everytime I see someone distressed or in trouble I always feel like I have to do something because I can't let John Quiñones come out and shame me for doing nothing.
My mum often went without to provide for us. I love my mum more than the world and now she's ended up in a wheelchair (really bad arthritis) I'm her carer. I'll always be grateful for everything she's ever done for me and I want to take care of her always.
Even though it’s just ice cream, it’s still gonna hurt the kid.. it just makes you feel like you aren’t important enough, or that they’re undeserving. Honestly a really sucky feeling :[
My parents are literally opposite. We weren't financially good when I was a little kid still my parents would love to buy me ice creams and when I used to ask them about theirs they used to say "Oo these are for kids we're too old to eat ice cream"
Same. I have four siblings and one time we went to the zoo when it was free for earth day. My mom and dad brought food for themselves and let us order from the concession. A lot of times my mom would bring water bottles with her and let us get the cool drinks. I didn’t notice it until I was older. I learned to start choosing the cheapest things on the menu to help.
@@paraboy1991 I learned something different than you, doesn’t mean I didn’t learn anything. This isn’t a poor childhood Olympics. No need to put me down because my parents wanted to treat us.
@@Gabriellaella23 am i even saying we were poor lol ive had a spoiled childhood until i realised what my parents had to do for a life like that and im trying to givey son the same but without the extra hard work
Some guy told me "I was so poor, my dad used to take us to an ice cream place just to see what the other kids were getting" And I just thought "What a shitty dad"
@@Basedhistoryenjoyer no idea, he could have gotten cheap materials and just gotten the kids to make their own sundaes at home That's what my aunt used to do
@dani woodard bro if you don’t visit your parents when your 30 because they didn’t buy you ice cream when you were 5 is sad and your prolly have a mental illness
How do you save a ice cream for later? Pretty sure it’s going to melt by time you get home to put it in the freezer or whatever you’re going to do with it
Why can't the kid just share with the parents? Apparently the guy didn't realize how expensive his ice cream was going to be until he'd already ordered.
Yeah I think the guy is a jerk but the mom is even worse for being engaged to a man that would treat her child like that. I don’t think men should have to financially support children that are not their own or be expected to buy stuff for the ladies kid on the first date but they are engaged. That is insane.
Why does that matter? If you marry someone with kids. Those kids become YOURS. If you arent willing to treat those kids with love and respect then you shouldnt marry/date someone with kids. Period. End of Discussion. Cause all youre doing is making that kids life more difficult for no reason.
@@cobaltlance18bro you need to go back to first grade and learn how to use an apostrophe because the word “you're” is a contraction of the words “you” and “are”.
@@bluehead310 im not sure what youre talking about. All my uses of Yours and You're/youre are correct. Just cause i missed the ' key on my phone doesnt mean much. Same with my use of "You arent" was also used correctly. Perhaps you need to go back to grade school. To relearn English and how words are used.
@@cobaltlance18 the most pathetic part is that a trilingual person is lecturing you on your bad English, I get an excuse put ima bet you only know one language, so this just makes it even more sad and pathetic. Stop making excuses in life buddy
There was a large number of times my parents would go out to the cities when I was 8-15 and they would leave me home. They wouldn't ever say if I should make dinner for myself or if they'd bring food home for me. I didn't really know how to cook anything and a lot of the time we wouldn't have any microwavable meals. They'd come home around 8-10 pm and I'd see a fast food bag in the garbage but there wouldn't be anything in the microwave or fridge so I'd have to make a basic lunch meat sandwich for myself. I know it doesn't seem like that should be a big deal but something about it just made me really sad and hurt every time it happened and the fact that it happened consistently from a young age into my teens.
This is very minor in the grand scheme of all the bullshit I've had to put up with from them but it just feels like they couldn't care enough to check and see if their child ate that night. I have to stop myself from going into even more extreme detail. If anyone who sees this has a kid please make sure they know you care. Don't just say "I care" show it in your actions. I can't count the amount of times my mom's said my dad loves me but he's never done a single thing to show that he does.
It IS a big deal!! Not only do you need to know how you're going to eat but they should have instructions for you. They should THINK ABOUT YOU. That's not selfish of you, that's terrible parenting
@@heliqs_ Well i mean. These parents went through the trouble of bringing their kid with them. What's the point in taking a kid with you to a candy store, ice cream parlor, ect. If you can't follow through and get them a treat. It's like you're begging for drama. Especially if you can only afford a treat for yourself. If you can't afford to get a kid something that's more of a luxury, and not a necessity. Just don't bring them. Sure it might be a bit harsh on the kids end. But as long as you're a good parent, they won't grow up and be bitter about it. They'll learn that money is difficult to consistently make, raising kids is hard & exhausting, and that wants and needs are two completely different things.
No its a good lesson for her- you dont always get what you want & be thankful you're getting some at all & grateful they're sharing with you. All these "thats mean" etc comments & this fool being "infuriated" are whats wrong with kids nowdays smh
@@kristiskinner8542 how is that teaching a lesson he bought an ice cream for him and her mother. This is an entire different situation I would understand if he didn’t go in there and throw away 16$ for two ice creams. But your comments makes honestly no fucking s sense it’s only teaching her to feel like she’s an out cast and isn’t good enough to be given anything.
@@rd-vn8bm pardon? I'm just joking, so i made reference of a good show I know. no threats intended. only jokes. although i do apologize for the misunderstanding we have lmfao
I’m actually glad I have a good parent, whenever she gets something, she shares it with me at all times, when we go out somewhere, everybody can get their own meal. She isn’t selfish, I love my mom.
@@shoobzy3431 No. Especially when smaller sizes get you less/ounce and you pay per topping... Unless you want to be completely financially irresponsible. Kids have no problem sharing when they're used to it.
I personally can't imagine that, my parents would rather not eat anything themselves, than buy ice-cream for themselves and ask us to share with them 😔
I found out that in my grandfather's time, the adults would eat and the kids would get whatever left. So he actually never really got to eat chicken until he was much older. For context, this was in the US
This reminds me of a story my dad has told me about the one time my grandfather ate a whole box of ice cream sandwiches in front of me (2 years old at the time) without giving me any. My dad got pissed, then took my mom and me to get ice cream.
@@DejaVu-ts4un lol my dad like 1 time I wanted some ice cream so I asked my dad (we had a bucket) so he scooped me only 2 scoops of the big spoons that people hate eating cereal with and then ate the rest of the ice cream bucket without any for his literal children (and he has 4 more)
When I was younger I went to a restaurant w my family that was famous for their floats. My parents each got their own floats and ordered me and my 2 younger sisters one to share. Our waiter gave each of us a floats on the house. Angel man. Hope he’s doing well(btw I think it’s TOTALLY OK that my parents got us one at all but I’m thankful for this man’s kind gesture) Feel free to fight w me I’m not gonna delete this comment
Nah as a dad i'm having a soda or something and my daughter gets the $16 ice cream. Then you make a Bonding moment of it and "steal" some of her ice cream. You get a little sweet treat and everyone's better for it
My neighbor is like that... she has 2 kids that are always dressed in old clothes that barely fit while she is constantly ordering new clothes online, a monthly ipsy order, ect. Her kids barely have any toys n often run out of food for them while she spends every dime on herself. She recently told me she doesnt buy them presents at Christmas time & I freaked out on her which resulted in her getting them presents for the first time. I just cant stand grown adults/parents that always put themselves before their kids, it's actually sickening to me. If you cant put your kids needs ahead of your selfish "wants", you shouldnt be a parent. Period.
My ex wife probably, doesn't buy her kid anything for birthday or Christmas. Every penny goes towards her car and perfume, hair styles, that's why we are divorced and she gets 20 to 30 presents from me and her grandma every holiday and birthday. #singledad #fullcustody
Sadly those people won't listen to that last sentence. They are so blind they don't think they are selfish. It sucks. My mum is just like. She prioritized getting her nails done and getting new cars with the child support. She used to leave me and my siblings in an empty house with no food while she stayed the night at her friends because she didn't want to hear us whine.
Damn... Parents could even do that 😬 I still get hurt if my parents doesn't do stuff that they used to when I was little even if I know I'm fully capable of doing. Imagine how a kid would feel.
@@YTDBD00 They meant like washing your favorite blanket, making you a doctor's appointment, or doing anything a loving parent does when you're little. Not anything monetary was even mentioned. Their love language just might be acts of service, so when your parents just full stop doing the sweet stuff you like right after your 18th birthday, it can hurt.
@@YTDBD00 it's never about money. I just want the little things like I used to love when my mother used the braid my hair when I was little, so sometimes I ask her and she says "you know how to do it on your own", I feel a little sad. I'll be moving away for college this year and as much as I want to go, a part of me wants to stay.
@@steven97321 More like ordered a $16 ice cream so that he doesn't have to buy a separate one for the child. Stepparents seem to love treating their partners' children like they're less worthy.
When I went on holiday with my mum as a kid she would never let us get any nice ice cream, only shop bought lollies while she got expensive gelato and ice cream sundaes. Now we go on holiday with our dad and we get to choose whatever flavour, cone, sprinkles and sauce we want.
anytime I take my nephews or nieces out somewhere or to a store to buy them something I automatically know how much I'm going to spend beforehand so I don't have to worry we can go inside the store cuz the money been already set aside for each of them to where they can go and get whatever they want people need to learn how to budget before they go out and have fun for the day
Bruh, it’s an ice cream place. Of course it’s expensive. You pay extra for some nicely made ice cream with a crapload of toppings. Whatever you get at store typically isn’t as tasty as that.
Before we were financially stable my parents take me out to eat especially my fathere tells me that he is not hungry buys me stuff also mom gets something I couldn't understand that as a kid now I get it ✨
Coming from somebody with co parents. My mom used to by food when I was younger in my face and when I would ask for some she would either go in a rant how I’m spoiled or say “ask your father”. Growing up I had to play an adult role between my parents when they argue over me.
I'm sorry but what kind of parents eat good food and not share with their...child lol👄🥸 Uhm anyways, You deserve better and hope you're having an amazing day
This is a wakeup call for the fiance. If he's getting himself some extravagant icecream. His fiance a simple cone and his future step-daughter gets nothing now, it will be like this the entire relationship. Get out now girlfriend!
There’s nothing wrong with sharing your ice cream because something is too expensive it’s a good thing to learn that you should share with others maybe they couldn’t afford it
My mom has always taught me that if I have food and others don't, share it. Also, if you don't have enough food for everyone, don't eat it infront of them, don't get it at all, or give to someone who needs it more
oh wow your mom lives in a very fairy tail world because there are literally people on the streets with no close so what this means i shouldn’t wear expensive clothes in public
@@junior_-3218 pretty sure the moral of the story is, if you have more than you need, give back to those who need it more & don't take more than you need to give others an opportunity as well; and if you don't have enough to share, then be humble and greatful about what you do have. This can apply to anything - food, clothes, money. It can apply to abstract concepts as well, such as love, time, knowledge, and so on.
I don't follow that rule I have toys that I never share no matter who's kid it is The reason why is because I make my own toys and I don't want stupid kids breaking them and ruining them just because they are playing with it And alot of kids wanted to play with them as I make them highly detailed (most of them are lego and I make my own toys out of lego) and they mean alot to me and they are special to me as nobody else in the world has them but me and as the only one who has these exclusives I don't want to share them because if I made them I shouldn't have to share them and nobody can tell me otherwise
We went to get ice cream once and didn’t get the kids anything. *However! That happened because we all were on our way home and the kids knew there’d be a stop for ice cream. When they were fighting and yelling, they were warned to quit or not get ice cream. They got their warning but continued to fight and argue. My husband and I got ice cream and the kids went without. Gotta punish bad behavior and follow through with threatened punishments.
I worked in fast food and one lady came in, bought her boyfriend a meal, and screamed at her hungry daughter to go outside. The poor child looked around 3 or four years old and even I was startled at this woman yelling. I hate that so much
Pretty sure if you decided to give the child something you'd not only get fired but the lady would be like "wHaT aRe YOu DoING wiTh mY dAugHTEr?!"
Ma'am you left her outside.
@@atomicnumber202 ikr
Shoulda spat in that shit
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These reasons are why I can't work in these industries. If I saw that happen I would throw hands, with zero hesitation or remorse.
30 years later "why don't my kids ever call, or vist :("
Yeah remember 30 years ago when you didn’t buy me a vanilla cone with sprinkles!?!?!, that’s why I’m didn’t attend your funeral dad.
See how stupid you sound it’s ice cream my guy it’s not a necessity
Bro if you get that upset because your parents didn’t buy you an icecream when you were like 5, you need help
Yep my dad calls me from different phone number every other day . All bc his wife is gone rip to her but that woman had some resentment towards me bc she HATED my mom and my father would ALWAYS cuss me out and yell DAMN near spitting on me DAY AFTER day behind ANYTHING my step mom said was being “disrespectful “ but going around town talking CRAP about me with MY FRIENDS when she saw them at Walmart when I was away at my moms for the summer
@@SincereDecay If you think eating an extravagant icecream and not buying your child one is okay then you need help.
As a dad you gotta be ready to be sacrificial I’d give my daughter and wife the ice creams and drink water bro😭
That’s how love works, I would’ve gave my daughter my ice cream and scolded my husband if he tried our child like that
You’re so great!!! I think sometimes people forget the real meaning of love, doing what’s best for the other, and you are such a good example of a true loving husband and father ❤❤❤❤
Unless it's not his kid...
@@sotir9299 if you’re ready to commit to a marriage you have to be ready to commit to her daughter/children. If not just marry someone else.
You're some of the best dad I have ever see
The fiance should've bought her kid an ice cream and dump the bloke.
Over ice cream? Be real lol
@@pathetic2399 you be real
it’s pretty pathetic like he said he could have easily bought her something. it isn’t fair and it doesn’t teach her anything for growing up in life
how do u know it isn't his kid though? they could've had an unplanned pregnancy and are now finally getting married
@Punk3rGirl my parents never got married and never will but I was planned
@@pathetic2399not just over the ice cream, it shows the person that man is.
My mom would literally say she isn’t even hungry so i can eat it that’s the type of woman she is. I love her❤
Same
Same I went to eat street food and my mom said she isn’t hungry even tho she went to the gym before just so I can enjoy
Yeah, moms are just built different
My mom's the type of woman who would've destroyed my dad's ice cream if he chose not to get us one. Then she would've just bought our own.😂❤
You're mom sounds really sweet though.❤ Glad we got our moms. ❤😊
@@ItBeL1keDatFR gosh I'm glad that we have great moms
When I go get ice cream , regardless of if I'm broke or not at the time , my daughter's order goes first then my wife's and then mine. Had I not had enough I would've just ordered nothing for myself. Once you have a child you're last on the list.
ESPECIALLY for ice cream
Thank you
Such a good parent I wish you get better finances.
I’d think it’s kinda hard to accept as an adult, but also little things like ice cream aren’t all that important either. It’s better to make the child feel good than to make them wait, because as a kid, those little things matter to them so much more
>once you have a child you're last on the list
Something my mom just can't get through her head. She refuses to grocery shop because "I don't wanna spend my days off at the store" yet will come home with bags of candy just for her. She'll be upstairs gorging on Reese cups and I'm struggling to find something to eat
My parents always got me something, but would rarely get anything for themselves. I'd do anything for them now.
Aww ❤
And THIS shows the power of treating your kids well❤️
When I take my son out to eat or to get ice cream or to do anything. I'm doing this because I want him to have a good time. He is not a spoiled kid so he appreciates everything I do for him. But there's no way in hell I would ever order myself something without him ordering first. If it turns out I could only afford one thing. He's the one eating not me. Now after all this time he is 15 and if I don't order something he always insists on sharing it with me, I don't ever want him to give up anything for me but when I take a few bites he always smiles and I can tell that he feels like he did something good and that's all I ask for. I love my son.
And I bet your son loves you very much, you are a bloody wonderful parent! Kudos to you, I wish you the best ✌❤
ahw
I hope you are prepared to see your grandkids in the future
@@noonelooksatusers based starset fan
@@laylashore yes!and ive had 2 other people describe my starset pfp as based lol
My husband and I saw this happen at Bruster's once, he bought the child an ice cream. The manager gave us a free ice cream in return.
Bless you and your husband honestly
@@blanco0949 bless them what? Giving a kid a $2 ice cream?
@@ryanmartinez4000 *Giving a kid whose own parents refuse to buy a $2 ice cream. Also, no need to look at monetary value in an act of kindness
@@ryanmartinez4000 how come it’s always the people called Ryan who get pissed at everything
@@ryanmartinez4000 Taking time to consider a child's emotions when they clearly don't have a great home life.
That’s how some parents are. I remember working on a kitchen and hearing servers talk about how parents will order themselves a whole meal and then the kids have to share like some chicken fingers and fries or 6 boneless wings. Some people aren’t fit to be parents because of how cheap they can be towards their kids but splurge on themselves.
That's the line tho
@@AnimeLover1242 if they were poor then shouldn’t they order something over their needs
@@AnimeLover1242 if they are that poor to feed a child then they won't be ordering a whole meal just for themselves. I personally feel like if they don't want to take care of child they shouldn't be having one in 1st place
Kids don’t finish their food! When you have kids let me know
I agree with a lot of your statement but if you actually have kids you know they are either extremely picky or they waste food. And tenders and fries are always on menus for a reason.
Why do you think kids portions are so much smaller
The thing is, some people just don't have the money to get multiple of them, but in that case, knowing that you have a kid, you shouldn't have gone there in the place
Or you just share like the guy said. A 4 year old should not have their own Ice cream to begin with.
Word. Dude offered to share and didnt know the prices it seemed like@@juanduenas1943
As a daddy’s girl I can’t imagine how sad she must have felt. This video made me very grateful that I have very nice parents who would and still would do anything to make me happy
If I was him or her I would sacrifice my ice cream for the kid.
Same like I like my food sure but kids deserve to enjoy themselves
me too
Ooga booga Baboonas Le Monkes, Qe diout Ooga booga kooga baakaa
Most everybody would
Wow you took a conclusion of what most people would do
I would definitely be questioning that man's character as his fiance.
Idk, might be because I’m Asian, but that’s pretty normal to me. I don’t really know if you’ve had the privilege of sharing a meal with your parents, but as a kid, it tastes so much better.
Also think about it. He could’ve bought 2 $8 ice creams for both of them, but he bought a $16 dollar one & shared it. They still both got ice cream and it cost the same, so it wasn’t like he was being cheap. If you think about it like that, it’s not that bad.
@nos I mean, like think about it. You have $16 for ice cream. You buy the kid a $1 one, then you get a $15 one. That seems pretty unfair. If you both split a $16 ice cream, you both get ice cream, and it’s higher quality.
@@alolanraichu3937
Yeah that also sounds normal. Like wtf is wrong with sharing.
@@alolanraichu3937 nobody shares an ice cream for everyone to lick off of, that's disgusting 🥴
@@blondie3743 Ok, have you ever gone to a downtown ice cream store? Doesn’t have to be downtown actually, just a place that specializes in ice cream. If you ever buy a combo $10+, it usually comes in a bowl, and even if it doesn’t, they always have spoons.
Think of it like this, no two people would eat the same cake if you ate it with your hands, but if you ate it with a fork, it’s perfectly fine.
After a bad first marriage with abusive man I'd never marry again, but married my 2nd husband because i saw the way he treated his elderly grandmother... If I were that woman, I'd be out!
Parents like this are always so shocked when their kids leave the house as teens and go no contact 😂
Lol Because they had to share ice cream at 4. Right. So of you people are so detached from reality.
@@juanduenas1943 Juan, it's not "just" the ice cream. It sets a precedent for how they are as parents in EVERY situation. I've seen it firsthand. I've gone no-contact with my mother for around a year and I know she's going through hell over it. Because for once she can't manipulate me back. I don't feel any empathy though for her. She brought it upon herself fully.
@@juanduenas1943Imagine basing your whole reality from example you’ve heard of instead of thinking about the bigger picture.
A person who refuses to buy something as small as an ice cream wouldn’t hesitate to refuse bigger and much more integral needs like proper food, medications, education and everything. The ice cream is just one of the millions of example of how horribly the parent treats their kids and not being able to see through that is a bigger form of detachment from reality, something that you seem to be flaunting. Do yourself a favor and please don’t have kids in the first place, kids deserve than people like you who justify such negligence to kids.
That’s insane, if I were a parent I wouldn’t get my ice cream, and would order one for my kid.
Yes. Exactly kids first.
I do that with my son! And what's this guy ordering that his ice cream $16? Did he get extra of each topping on the menu??
I wouldn't
My mom would say if she buys me an ice cream she gets to have a bite
@@maxmayfield7097 that’s what I would do if I was a mom, my parents do it too 🤷
The fiancée: *reconsidering the wedding*
Over icecream sounds reasonable
@@KfcOwner it’s not the ice cream, it’s how he handled the situation
Y’all stupid it’s just ice cream plus she still got ice cream and cold stone ain’t cheap like of course it would suck but my mom always shares ice cream with mt sister because she ain’t eating the whole thing plus do we even know how old she is?
@@CommanderM820 it’s the little things that matter and besides the fact that he didn’t even think twice to behave that way towards his fiancées child says a lot. but you are somewhat right, we cannot judge how he is as a person through this small encounter
@@archivenwri you gotta be absolutely joking it’s Just dam Ice cream
That happened to me my whole childhood. I wish neglect on no one
Maybe they broke up later that night. Then, she and her daughter celebrated the next day with ice cream.
Lol
good ending
Nothing is more infuriating than parents coming into our gas station and buying 100s-1000s of dollars worth of lottery tickets, and telling their kids they don’t have 27 cents to buy them a small candy. It’s heart wrenching.😕
Your gas station? Then do something about it what you standing there for. 27 cent candy let the child off the hook then. *If* you do own somewhat the gas station. Eh life is a gamble.
@@Itz_Fritz Of course I give the child the candy , but that doesn’t change the fact that a parent can spend so much money on gambling and smoking but they can’t buy a few cents worth of candies for their own freaking kids:(
Jesus 100-1000s of dollars?? Wtf
you know what else is infruiating? a woman who drops her past mistakes on an unsuspecting man
@@amirhaikal6672 what???? Since when mother getting re-married is anything like that? Also if you decide to marry someone with a kid then obviously you will have to help. Its called common sense. Something that an incel like you clearly don't have. Also calling kids "mistakes" is wrong no matter what.
The only reason I’m going into a ice cream parlour is for my kids 🤦🏽♂️
Sounds like you don’t like to eat ice cream
@@inua6566 if it ain't soft serve imma pass
@@dizzy5242 soft serve ain’t real ice cream lmao tastes like melted plastic for me
@@AdonisBob Shush, we don't wanna hear it
@@yeah2602 :(
They do it hoping you’ll feel bad and give the kid a free ice cream.
I guarantee, he lost that fiancee.
Nah. They’re happily married.
@@dejuhvu1793 happily? imo i wouldnt marry someone who doesnt include my kid. the fact that the guy did that is a HUGE red flag.
Unlikely, unfortunately.
i just thought "who would even do this" but my ex step dad literally did this to me
my dad for me
Same. Feel your pain
My siblings for me
Stepdad AND Mom for me
My father in law has a son (my husband) and two daughters their favourite is the youngest, she repays them often by only coming to see her parents to dump off her two sons to go to some event or shopping with her husband, took her parents house not a penny back was given, while my husband got told he is spoiled (he wanted to become a car mechanic his dad sent him to hairdressing school) and now he lives in ap small house in our back yard, we are raising our boy's the best i can and make sure they never go without but damn some people like to stick their nose into our family good thing is we are very close and our bond is strong regardless the fact that i am the stepmum to three of my four boy's but i don't have favourites, i love them all the same and each individually for the awesome boy's they are, they saw me at my best and worst and at my worst my boy's gave me my strength not to give up, there have been time's i wanted to be struck by thunder see if my absence would be noticed, only my boy's and husband appreciate what i do for them and that is all i care about. Some of us step parents do love our children equally! All i want is to see my boy's all 5 including my husband happy!
This happened to me at the restaurant I was serving at
These two friends were on a lunch and brought their kids.. It seemed like they didn’t even want the kids there, just couldn’t help it, and made sure the kids got super cheap meals, and then when it was time for dessert, got themselves these amazing desserts while expecting the kids to watch and eat nothing
The kids were too young to understand any lesson they could’ve been trying to teach them and from their demeanor and how they treated the kids, I don’t think this was some humbling life experience they were trying as a teaching moment.. From the entire encounter, it seemed like it was just cause they didn’t think the kids were worth getting dessert for, and they were enjoying that they were able to get the kids to cry so easily by ordering amazing desserts and making a huge deal that they couldn’t have any, not a bite..
I took these minuscule brownies we’d give out sometimes for free, and asked the kids if they wanted to make it special and add whipped cream, sprinkles, hot fudge, etc, shit that we’re probably not supposed to do but they’d do it for me as a kid and I remembered how happy it made me
The parents were sus about my attempts, yea because they were worried I’d charge them, which I assured them I wouldn’t, but more-so I think they legit just wanted to pull a power move on their kids, and were annoyed that they weren’t sobbing over ice cream anymore.. Which they were laughing at them for, which made the kids cry more..
The tip was shit, but the look on the kids’ face when the desserts came out made it worth it
you're the type of coworker in food service I love
For all the crazy shit servers have to deal w I commend you for being nice
What do you want?, heaven premium?
Very nice of you to do that. Well one day when the parents are old and their kids don't go out of their way to do anything extra for them maybe then they'll realize it.
@@Swxxt_t3a how pathetic u must be
I hope the woman ditched that man.
You don’t know their relationship behind the scenes. Hoping someone dumped their FIANCÉ over ice cream is a little dramatic.
@@miyondamenggoyou have no idea what is going on in their lives. Also you’re being extremely dramatic over some ice cream. They could be very kind people for all you know. Stfu
@@Metal12111 yeah and they are being assholes for no reason stfu
10 years later… “Why did my wife have to leave me all those years ago?!”
Leaving your husband over an ice cream? wild
Fuck them kids
For an ice cream? That’s wild
@@BallinLuffy not about the ice cream, about how he behaved
@@Joecz213it's the precident that his behavior sets. If he prioritizes the happiness of only him and his fiancee while being stingy when it comes to the child, over something as simple as ice cream, what makes you think that he will act differently when it comes to bigger examples?
This happened to me once when I worked at McDonald’s very similar situation so I just asked the little girl what she wanted and gave it to her nothing embarrassing more to a man than someone else having the pleasure of treating his family trust me
Sadly this is what most people are hoping we’ll do. Give out free ice cream because they played on our emotions. Happens more than I care to think
@@rayrei8620 Exactly, I remember a guy at the pizza place I worked at, who always brought his daughter(that looked between 6-8 yrs old) in, while she was wearing pjs. It was always past 7pm, sometimes even almost 10pm, and he would expect someone to "hook him up with a deal". Those were his words, not mine. It infuriated me that one of the managers would always cave and find some random deal in the system, one that wouldn't even be applicable at the time, to give him. He also would order food to his preferences that would be extra expensive while trying to get his daughter the cheapest thing possible. And if he couldn't get a deal, it would be the thing his daughter likes, that gets taken off the order. And he would make sure we knew, like it was our fault he couldn't afford her likes. While his daughter would sit there looking tired and irritable as F. Not to mention, she was in pajamas every time, and this was in a Wisconsin city where most of the year the sun was set by the time they came in. So it's not like it was warm for her.
Edit: This guy also had the audacity to flirt with every female worker at the store that looked younger than 30.
@@rayrei8620 wow I’d have never have guessed that. I can’t believe people would do that. I mean in a way, I can, but not with their own kids. Their kids take it seriously & that’s tragic people can be so manipulative & cruel.
True
Idk if anyone missed this but they said they will share with the kid sooo
"16 dollar icecream"
My guy what.
Edit: fr tho inflations high af.
He said combination
that still sounds like a lot of money for ice cream
@@rayyanuddin7208 alot of toppings?
At that point he’s just paying for the toppings itself
@@nusa820 true
my parents would never do that, i’m so grateful for them. they give me and my siblings the best and i wanna do that for them too.
What is wrong with sharing exactly?
That's actually cruel imo. Bringing a kid to an ice cream shop, order for yourself and your gf, but tell the kid they're SOL. Mean!
If I was his fiancée, I’d be having some real hard second thoughts right now. Seriously, if this is how he treats them now imagine something like this after they’re married.
Exactly 🙄 Apparently they’re both horrible! If I had a kid and he treated my kid like that he wouldn’t of even made it fiancée stage before he had my fist in his face
LOL. Her mom could've bough her kid an ice cream. It's always man's fault for you freeloading biTshes!
@@testerwulf3357 promoting domestic violence on men who are going through financial hardships? Yaas Queen!!!
@@redbetta2191 Here comes the mEn gEtS rApEd tOo man. Get your ignorant ass back to pornhub if you cant understand a simple shorts. Its clearly said that the man got himself a complex and extravagant ice-cream, something a man on budget would never do. If you are an adult (I dont think you ever will be mentally) you dont order without mentally calculating the price. Heck, I even used to it as kids. More advice to dimwits lile you, if you are going through financial crisis, get yourself out of there, earn more and spend less before you date someone. Spend your time chasing money, not girls or boys when in financial crisis.
It his money not his wife’s
Not cool. If I can't afford us all, I forfeit mine so the kids can have every time.
Even in shops with strangers kids I've done it. Kids are the future.
Excellent.
This is what a parent should be doing in the first place
World needs more people like you. I know no one cares, but you reminded me of a random dad who spotted me a fiver for a $3 ice cream cone as kid. He handed me double my bank account that day.
Thanks for that, have a good one ✌️
(My parents weren’t there, I feel like I need to clarify that)
That's how it should be :') I'm the same way
My man, the guy could’ve bought something that costs 2-3$ dollars so that they could all have ice cream. Respect, you’re a champ!
I personally feel that having a great moment with your daughter in the moment is more important than saving a few bucks.
Charge them 2x more if they don't buy their kids icecream
That's a crime
@@Lizzhm so?
@@SowerValler he'd lose his job
@@SowerValler What do you mean "so"? You shouldn't need to hear anything else.
One time when I was coming from school, I was super upset, hot, sweaty, and generally really down. The icecream van was nearby, so I went to get something. The price was £1.50, but I only had £1.20. To top it all off, I lost my money I was to pay with.
The ice cream guy was super sweet tho, and let me have it for free. And when I found my money to pay, i chased him down and offered to give it to him. But he said it was okay and gave me a tissue to hold my free icecream with instead. Super sweet of him, and I just feel happier looking back on the memory..
:)
Bless his heart
This is how you know there’s still faith in humanity❤
"We can't have your icecream, honey, sorry its too expensive..."
"This is John quinines from 'what would you do?', why didn't you buy this girl the icecream?, you had 1000 dollars put in your wallet..."
Missed the part it says he's sharing eh?, you disgust me.
yo imagine if John Quinones just teleported to the father and just slap him in the face because stupidity
I recently went down a rabbit hole of WWYD and sometimes it's hilarious
Now everytime I see someone distressed or in trouble I always feel like I have to do something because I can't let John Quiñones come out and shame me for doing nothing.
@@bhagavad-gitakarma1604
Nice one!!😆😆
This is the definition of the saying, “if you’re broke, just say it”
My mum often went without to provide for us. I love my mum more than the world and now she's ended up in a wheelchair (really bad arthritis) I'm her carer. I'll always be grateful for everything she's ever done for me and I want to take care of her always.
Even though it’s just ice cream, it’s still gonna hurt the kid.. it just makes you feel like you aren’t important enough, or that they’re undeserving. Honestly a really sucky feeling :[
Bro I'm 20 and I would be really hurt by that
@@evk-1350 yeah I’m 15 and I know it would probably sting a bit lmao-
@Julie Miller true, kids get excited about ice cream more than adults do, that's why parents should let the children order first
My parents are literally opposite. We weren't financially good when I was a little kid still my parents would love to buy me ice creams and when I used to ask them about theirs they used to say "Oo these are for kids we're too old to eat ice cream"
Same. I have four siblings and one time we went to the zoo when it was free for earth day. My mom and dad brought food for themselves and let us order from the concession. A lot of times my mom would bring water bottles with her and let us get the cool drinks. I didn’t notice it until I was older. I learned to start choosing the cheapest things on the menu to help.
Same
@@Gabriellaella23 once i noticed i stopped ordering and asked fpr sandwiches from home so you didnt learn anything...
@@paraboy1991 I learned something different than you, doesn’t mean I didn’t learn anything. This isn’t a poor childhood Olympics. No need to put me down because my parents wanted to treat us.
@@Gabriellaella23 am i even saying we were poor lol ive had a spoiled childhood until i realised what my parents had to do for a life like that and im trying to givey son the same but without the extra hard work
I love how everyone here ignores the part where she shares his icecream with the girl...
yo, that transition was as smooth as that soft serve
Some guy told me "I was so poor, my dad used to take us to an ice cream place just to see what the other kids were getting"
And I just thought "What a shitty dad"
I agree what a shitty dad
That... Doesnt even make sense? Is it that entertaining to watch other people get what you cant get?
@@Basedhistoryenjoyer no idea, he could have gotten cheap materials and just gotten the kids to make their own sundaes at home
That's what my aunt used to do
@@nothingposted9056 yes!!
_I hope he was joking._
I love how parents would do shit like this and then wonder why their kids don't call or visit years later
Kids not visiting for Ice cream? That’s the dumbest thing a child could do to their parents
@@WalkingW1it’s not about the ice cream. It’s about him excluding her and basically saying that he is more important than her.
@@WalkingW1 your missing the point
@@WalkingW1 "It's funny how dumb you are." ~Bill Cipher
@dani woodard bro if you don’t visit your parents when your 30 because they didn’t buy you ice cream when you were 5 is sad and your prolly have a mental illness
If it was me behind the counter, I would’ve just gave her a free cone and if I had to, I’ll pay for it myself
This is the ice cream parlor version of "pulls up to the drive thru, orders a black coffee, and leaves"
I would of bought the girl what she wanted and something for later! 😭
I would make sure the 2 girls got 1st and I would take the smallest
The later one is cap.
How do you save a ice cream for later? Pretty sure it’s going to melt by time you get home to put it in the freezer or whatever you’re going to do with it
Lol “something for later” that so stupid
would HAVE*
As a mom. I would have bought my girl a ice cream, one for me, and walked out on him. Forever. She knows how he will be if she married the jerk.
Why can't the kid just share with the parents? Apparently the guy didn't realize how expensive his ice cream was going to be until he'd already ordered.
@@SpecialJay FAXXXXX i had to share a lot of the times and i was fine with it since i can't finish it all by myself
Yeah I think the guy is a jerk but the mom is even worse for being engaged to a man that would treat her child like that. I don’t think men should have to financially support children that are not their own or be expected to buy stuff for the ladies kid on the first date but they are engaged. That is insane.
Your saying you would divorce someone for not buying there 5 yearold ice cream you tripin
@@BC_Boyz_TV 😂
Sounds like the mom wasnt stepping up. The Fiance isn't responsible for the little girls ice cream because they aren't married.
Plot twist: He wasn't actually the dad.
Why does that matter? If you marry someone with kids. Those kids become YOURS. If you arent willing to treat those kids with love and respect then you shouldnt marry/date someone with kids. Period. End of Discussion. Cause all youre doing is making that kids life more difficult for no reason.
@@cobaltlance18 r/whoooosh I meant it as in he was a friend and wasn't related to them in any way
@@cobaltlance18bro you need to go back to first grade and learn how to use an apostrophe because the word “you're” is a contraction of the words “you” and “are”.
@@bluehead310 im not sure what youre talking about. All my uses of Yours and You're/youre are correct. Just cause i missed the ' key on my phone doesnt mean much. Same with my use of "You arent" was also used correctly. Perhaps you need to go back to grade school. To relearn English and how words are used.
@@cobaltlance18 the most pathetic part is that a trilingual person is lecturing you on your bad English, I get an excuse put ima bet you only know one language, so this just makes it even more sad and pathetic. Stop making excuses in life buddy
“Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child”
He’s not a parent, he’s just an asshole
Straight up facts
FAAAAXXXXX
No that’s not true alotta kids are extremely extremely disrespectful and hit n cuss out there parents
@@martinsmith511 they still deserve parents, some act like that because they have no one to talk to or to trust
There was a large number of times my parents would go out to the cities when I was 8-15 and they would leave me home. They wouldn't ever say if I should make dinner for myself or if they'd bring food home for me. I didn't really know how to cook anything and a lot of the time we wouldn't have any microwavable meals. They'd come home around 8-10 pm and I'd see a fast food bag in the garbage but there wouldn't be anything in the microwave or fridge so I'd have to make a basic lunch meat sandwich for myself. I know it doesn't seem like that should be a big deal but something about it just made me really sad and hurt every time it happened and the fact that it happened consistently from a young age into my teens.
This is very minor in the grand scheme of all the bullshit I've had to put up with from them but it just feels like they couldn't care enough to check and see if their child ate that night. I have to stop myself from going into even more extreme detail. If anyone who sees this has a kid please make sure they know you care. Don't just say "I care" show it in your actions. I can't count the amount of times my mom's said my dad loves me but he's never done a single thing to show that he does.
That’s a sign of child neglect. I really hope you cut ties with them or something.
Condolences brother.
What disgusting parents
It IS a big deal!! Not only do you need to know how you're going to eat but they should have instructions for you. They should THINK ABOUT YOU. That's not selfish of you, that's terrible parenting
People shouldn't have kids in the first place if they couldn't treat them right.
being a kid isnt about getting free ice cream whenever they want lmao
@@heliqs_ Well i mean. These parents went through the trouble of bringing their kid with them. What's the point in taking a kid with you to a candy store, ice cream parlor, ect. If you can't follow through and get them a treat. It's like you're begging for drama. Especially if you can only afford a treat for yourself.
If you can't afford to get a kid something that's more of a luxury, and not a necessity. Just don't bring them. Sure it might be a bit harsh on the kids end. But as long as you're a good parent, they won't grow up and be bitter about it. They'll learn that money is difficult to consistently make, raising kids is hard & exhausting, and that wants and needs are two completely different things.
“Nothing infuriates me more then parents who bring their kids in and don’t get them ice cream.” What if the kids lactose intolerant 🤓☝️
There are lactose intolerant ice cream options.
When the full grown man acts more like a child than the actual goddamn child
That little girl needs new parents!
LOL. Her mom could've bought her kid an ice cream. It's always man's fault for you freeloading biTshes!
@@CupContender ok so if that happened to you u would break up with someone over an icecream? wow
@@tone-deaf-bard hell ya women are cloth u change it when u get tired
@@CupContender Mk
"Have a free one little one"
-"some" kind man
I would have been that woman, I swear. I’ve done somethings similar in the past, and always felt good about it.
@@a.b.2850 and I'm expecting from your username your also gonna say
"Sorry that your mom and dad could not get you one"
No its a good lesson for her- you dont always get what you want & be thankful you're getting some at all & grateful they're sharing with you. All these "thats mean" etc comments & this fool being "infuriated" are whats wrong with kids nowdays smh
@@kristiskinner8542 The only thing this is going to teach the kid is that mom's boyfriend is selfish.
@@kristiskinner8542 how is that teaching a lesson he bought an ice cream for him and her mother. This is an entire different situation I would understand if he didn’t go in there and throw away 16$ for two ice creams. But your comments makes honestly no fucking s sense it’s only teaching her to feel like she’s an out cast and isn’t good enough to be given anything.
Bet that shit cost like 40$ for two cones lmao
My parents are the exact opposite they always think of us first and then end up saying that they don't want any
My parents did the opposite, they bought me and my brother ice cream that was too big for us so we shared with our parents.
@dani woodard Yes, I am very grateful for my parents. 🥰
That’s good parenting
That is the correct answer good job to your parents
that's so cute lol
that's so nice
"dad!! what are you doing?!"
"I just wanna talk to him."
*loads shotgun*
"I just wanna talk to him"
"I just want to *shoot* him"
"I just want to talk to him"
BRUH RIGHT AFTER I READ THIS I SCROLLED DOWN AND SAW A VIDEO OF THAT EPISODE-
@@pieceoftoast06 💀
@@nemo6261 Aren't threats of violence against someone who does something you don't like always amazing?
@@rd-vn8bm pardon? I'm just joking, so i made reference of a good show I know. no threats intended. only jokes. although i do apologize for the misunderstanding we have lmfao
I’m actually glad I have a good parent, whenever she gets something, she shares it with me at all times, when we go out somewhere, everybody can get their own meal. She isn’t selfish, I love my mom.
I personally hate when a step parent buys their own child a treat but refuses to by their step kid anything.
Have you had any customers like that?
"You can't have any" and
"We're going to share" are vastly different.
@@shoobzy3431 No. Especially when smaller sizes get you less/ounce and you pay per topping... Unless you want to be completely financially irresponsible.
Kids have no problem sharing when they're used to it.
@@Haylla2008 true but this guy seems to know what it means to be small
Very true
@@AscendedVessel The guy who we are judging entirely off one person's subjective view and questionable motives?
Okay.
So you all are the douchebag parents😁
I personally can't imagine that, my parents would rather not eat anything themselves, than buy ice-cream for themselves and ask us to share with them 😔
I found out that in my grandfather's time, the adults would eat and the kids would get whatever left. So he actually never really got to eat chicken until he was much older. For context, this was in the US
Don't care im getting my ice cream f them kids
I love the way how it just loops back to the beginning
"over ice cream!!?!?!?" repeat offenders are common, he's probably gonna continue putting the little girl last and shes gonna be a rebellious teen
This reminds me of a story my dad has told me about the one time my grandfather ate a whole box of ice cream sandwiches in front of me (2 years old at the time) without giving me any. My dad got pissed, then took my mom and me to get ice cream.
Who the fuck eats an entire box of icecream sandwhiches in one go???
My dad used to do that sh*t. Some grownups never grow up.
@@DejaVu-ts4un lol my dad like 1 time I wanted some ice cream so I asked my dad (we had a bucket) so he scooped me only 2 scoops of the big spoons that people hate eating cereal with and then ate the rest of the ice cream bucket without any for his literal children (and he has 4 more)
Thats a big L lol
I wouldn’t have given you ice cream either. A 2 year old shouldn’t be eating trash
When I was younger I went to a restaurant w my family that was famous for their floats. My parents each got their own floats and ordered me and my 2 younger sisters one to share. Our waiter gave each of us a floats on the house. Angel man. Hope he’s doing well(btw I think it’s TOTALLY OK that my parents got us one at all but I’m thankful for this man’s kind gesture)
Feel free to fight w me I’m not gonna delete this comment
Honestly, bless that man with all the happiness in the world. He had a true heart.
I would forever hold a grudge over that (against the parents)
@@Loaves_of_Cat Why? Why do children need the same size portion as adults?
@@jesusmywholehaschanged 1 float for three children?
@@skyplayzgames8648 Possibly yes, depending on the size of the float and the age/size/appetite of the children.
Nah as a dad i'm having a soda or something and my daughter gets the $16 ice cream. Then you make a Bonding moment of it and "steal" some of her ice cream. You get a little sweet treat and everyone's better for it
Nothing infuriates more than fake stories for social media clout
My neighbor is like that... she has 2 kids that are always dressed in old clothes that barely fit while she is constantly ordering new clothes online, a monthly ipsy order, ect. Her kids barely have any toys n often run out of food for them while she spends every dime on herself. She recently told me she doesnt buy them presents at Christmas time & I freaked out on her which resulted in her getting them presents for the first time. I just cant stand grown adults/parents that always put themselves before their kids, it's actually sickening to me. If you cant put your kids needs ahead of your selfish "wants", you shouldnt be a parent. Period.
Glad you said something, those kids deserve so much better.
My ex wife probably, doesn't buy her kid anything for birthday or Christmas. Every penny goes towards her car and perfume, hair styles, that's why we are divorced and she gets 20 to 30 presents from me and her grandma every holiday and birthday. #singledad #fullcustody
@@shanealankanode I’m glad you got a sane court!
Sadly those people won't listen to that last sentence. They are so blind they don't think they are selfish. It sucks. My mum is just like. She prioritized getting her nails done and getting new cars with the child support. She used to leave me and my siblings in an empty house with no food while she stayed the night at her friends because she didn't want to hear us whine.
omg my heart breaks for so many kids that go through horrible stuff
Damn... Parents could even do that 😬
I still get hurt if my parents doesn't do stuff that they used to when I was little even if I know I'm fully capable of doing. Imagine how a kid would feel.
You sound like a wonderful person to be around.
Imagine being an adult and still wanting your parents to buy you shit. Like if you have the money, do it yourself.
@@YTDBD00 They meant like washing your favorite blanket, making you a doctor's appointment, or doing anything a loving parent does when you're little. Not anything monetary was even mentioned. Their love language just might be acts of service, so when your parents just full stop doing the sweet stuff you like right after your 18th birthday, it can hurt.
@@YTDBD00 it's never about money. I just want the little things like I used to love when my mother used the braid my hair when I was little, so sometimes I ask her and she says "you know how to do it on your own", I feel a little sad. I'll be moving away for college this year and as much as I want to go, a part of me wants to stay.
@@Jack.Offerman I knew I wasn’t tripping
If I was his fiance I'd have broken up with him for treating a child like that.
Nah, marry him, divorce a couple years after, get custody of the little one, who should’ve been treated like the strong princess she is
@@artsyfartsyfart8339 It said the child was "her little daughter". So the child isn't his, he was only the stepparent-to-be.
@@anakatsukifangirl2944but he shared the Ice cream
@@steven97321 More like ordered a $16 ice cream so that he doesn't have to buy a separate one for the child. Stepparents seem to love treating their partners' children like they're less worthy.
@@anakatsukifangirl2944 kids shouldn’t have that much ice cream anyway
When I went on holiday with my mum as a kid she would never let us get any nice ice cream, only shop bought lollies while she got expensive gelato and ice cream sundaes. Now we go on holiday with our dad and we get to choose whatever flavour, cone, sprinkles and sauce we want.
anytime I take my nephews or nieces out somewhere or to a store to buy them something I automatically know how much I'm going to spend beforehand so I don't have to worry we can go inside the store cuz the money been already set aside for each of them to where they can go and get whatever they want people need to learn how to budget before they go out and have fun for the day
You're great it's important to set limits or budgets and teaching them this at a young age can rlly help
Well you’re white. A lot of others don’t think the sane
Yes, my parents always try to teach me how to set budgets and save, it has really stuck with be throughout my life and I plan to pass it on
We just want to talk to that “man”
👏🙌
I just wanna talk to him
With some special tools
Lol
I just wanna talk to him- no I just wanna talk to him
Lower your prices! What are you, the Starbucks of ice cream?
when he said "nothing infuriates me more" it sounded like chills xD
$16 for one ice cream!! Damn... I would've walked right out of that place 😂 you can buy 4 full tubs at a store for that price!
Their ice creams are cheap, the man ordered something extravagant, maybe a large ice cream with all of the toppings
@@stillafineline5749 true. The toppings are usually what gets you
Bruh, it’s an ice cream place. Of course it’s expensive. You pay extra for some nicely made ice cream with a crapload of toppings. Whatever you get at store typically isn’t as tasty as that.
From what is sounds he ordered a huge icecream with a dozen toppings 💀
@@testerwulf3357 yup
Before we were financially stable my parents take me out to eat especially my fathere tells me that he is not hungry buys me stuff also mom gets something I couldn't understand that as a kid now I get it ✨
You had a good Daddy. Not just a Father!❤️
Dad was a real one, I bet he didn't even mind. Was probably relieved to see his family eat out. Bet he tipped well too.
@@deenadee4946 daddy? You are so susussy.
A+ dad right there
Who charged $16 for a single ice cream cone? Better be completely coated in 24K gold leaf for that money.
He can’t control the price 😭
wow! inflation!
I'd be liek "alight sir you dont get ice cream either since you wanna be that way"
Coming from somebody with co parents. My mom used to by food when I was younger in my face and when I would ask for some she would either go in a rant how I’m spoiled or say “ask your father”. Growing up I had to play an adult role between my parents when they argue over me.
I'm sorry but what kind of parents eat good food and not share with their...child lol👄🥸
Uhm anyways, You deserve better and hope you're having an amazing day
@@harshyadav9896 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ Ik and Ty, I moved out now and I’m doing much better. Since I have a older brother she likes to pick favorites so.
Your mother sounds horrible..my mom was always the parent who shared everything with me
I feel so bad, I would’ve accidentally tripped the dad when he left
@@Shadow-yj7kt bruh
@@Shadow-yj7kt what because he didnt give his daughter ice cream, your fucking pathetic
What trip him because he didnt get his daughter ice cream your a pathetic dumbass
@@Shadow-yj7kt bruh
@@Shadow-yj7kt bruh
I always thought Magnemite line having Levitate made sense cause of it's 4× weakness. That's crazy
Reasons why if I were to become a parent, I’d always prioritize my family over myself, even if I didn’t get to have ice cream…
Makes me feel spoiled, im happy to have good parents
Right?! Mine too❤️❤️
Dont feel guilty. That is how it should be. God wants good parents for every chils
@@skillet_vibes949 No no, we already saw the Gacha Life pfp. We don't need you to inform us you have bad parents: It's a given.
@@imsquidwert5221 fax
@@imsquidwert5221 😐
This is a wakeup call for the fiance. If he's getting himself some extravagant icecream. His fiance a simple cone and his future step-daughter gets nothing now, it will be like this the entire relationship.
Get out now girlfriend!
Hey he is a jerk but that is HER daughter , why isn't she paying???
@@soy_boy69 not trying to be rude but if she is his fiancé its both of their child and they are both responsible
@Mike Hunt If they are getting married it is both of their responsibility to take care of the kid even if its biological or not
There is a possibility i may be ill strewn though so feel free to prove me otherwise :)
@@soy_boy69 You don't seem too different from him based on your comment.
That is my parents bro like they won’t even tell that to me they just buy themselves ice cream and just walk off
There’s nothing wrong with sharing your ice cream because something is too expensive it’s a good thing to learn that you should share with others maybe they couldn’t afford it
First of all, I’d tell the guy to forget it and order for myself and my kid separately.
same
Y'all single mums are funny
Exactly!
@@aklakahmed8637 You mean financially independent?
Y'all lie to much 😂
Omg that's such a red flag. He's super inconsiderate and so mean
LOL. Her mom could've bough her kid an ice cream. It's always man's fault for you freeloading biTshes!
Big whoop it’s a ice cream boohoo
@@sheeshbrothatscrazy6621 exactly and they still shared their ice cream with the girl
He shared
That was a huge red flag for the fiancé. I hope she paid attention and dumped him.
Agreed. How would you even trust this man to love your child and be their father if he behaves like she isn't his daughter too
u need to make ur spirals wider when putting the ice cream in the cone , bc it’s literally ab to fall off
"Every children deserves parents but not every parents deserves children"
Also remember Parents were once a child
What wrong with sharing with your parents doesn’t seem like they “don’t deserve a kid”. A little bit of an overreaction to me.
@@funkykat9890 i apologize i can't comprehend what you said but I wrote this comment because of an intervention if you scroll down the comments below
He doesn’t deserve kids because he wanted to share with his daughter and not buy another ice cream?
@@quincywinning8997 ┐(´ー｀)┌
Dude. What is your point here. This is a messed up situation
My mom has always taught me that if I have food and others don't, share it. Also, if you don't have enough food for everyone, don't eat it infront of them, don't get it at all, or give to someone who needs it more
oh wow your mom lives in a very fairy tail world because there are literally people on the streets with no close so what this means i shouldn’t wear expensive clothes in public
Did your mom happen to be a teacher?
@@junior_-3218 pretty sure the moral of the story is, if you have more than you need, give back to those who need it more & don't take more than you need to give others an opportunity as well; and if you don't have enough to share, then be humble and greatful about what you do have. This can apply to anything - food, clothes, money. It can apply to abstract concepts as well, such as love, time, knowledge, and so on.
I don't follow that rule
I have toys that I never share no matter who's kid it is
The reason why is because I make my own toys and I don't want stupid kids breaking them and ruining them just because they are playing with it
And alot of kids wanted to play with them as I make them highly detailed (most of them are lego and I make my own toys out of lego) and they mean alot to me and they are special to me as nobody else in the world has them but me and as the only one who has these exclusives I don't want to share them because if I made them I shouldn't have to share them and nobody can tell me otherwise
@@seekgaming303 Toys are different than food
We went to get ice cream once and didn’t get the kids anything. *However! That happened because we all were on our way home and the kids knew there’d be a stop for ice cream. When they were fighting and yelling, they were warned to quit or not get ice cream. They got their warning but continued to fight and argue. My husband and I got ice cream and the kids went without. Gotta punish bad behavior and follow through with threatened punishments.
Bro i legit watched this vid 3 times b4 realising its a loop 😭💀