HOW TO LET GO OF A PERSON YOU’VE BEEN SOUL TIED TO by RC BLAKES

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  • @amazynga8868
    @amazynga8868 2 роки тому +1004

    Don't lose yourself in the false hopes and empty promises of someone who doesn't deserve you.

  • @sharonpierce5205
    @sharonpierce5205 3 роки тому +1865

    Someone that has nothing to add to your life, will help you lose everything. Break the soul tie with that person that soul purpose is to destroy you.

    • @kayonnaroberts1988
      @kayonnaroberts1988 3 роки тому +23

      So true

    • @latoyamiles512
      @latoyamiles512 3 роки тому +22

      Facts

    • @HD-xb9mj
      @HD-xb9mj 3 роки тому +79

      They can break you . People like this are the most selfish and selfless characters I've ever seen.

    • @secreteobsession3584
      @secreteobsession3584 3 роки тому +13

      Very true

    • @cassandrawillams8300
      @cassandrawillams8300 3 роки тому +50

      So absolutely true.. I found out they will just subtract from you and feel as if they can do anything to you

  • @nathgoody5905
    @nathgoody5905 Рік тому +95

    God, I need you. This is beyond my understanding
    1. Ask for clarity where is this bond
    2. Ask to uproot everything in you that’s not righteous , repent for your part
    3. Ask to break this bondage
    4. Show me my ways/ Quarantine-No contact / No stalking/ Personal initiatives
    5. Spiritual balance and direction, surrender to the Divine Will
    6. Return to YOURSELF
    7. Accept accountability
    Get healed, get better, get stronger

  • @mystiqueqoi523
    @mystiqueqoi523 Рік тому +204

    I have 100% blocked him, anytime he comes into my mind...I turn my mind to Jesus and pray! Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @theinnerpeacepodcast
    @theinnerpeacepodcast 3 роки тому +255

    "Soul ties divorce you from yourself and your future." ****finger snaps****

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics Рік тому +185

    “God has just been waiting on YOU to recognize that YOU NEED HIM”

  • @lilyrenee9834
    @lilyrenee9834 11 місяців тому +38

    I wish RC was my father. Every woman deserves a dad like him.

    • @cortneysheppard7749
      @cortneysheppard7749 7 місяців тому +2

      Me too ❤

    • @finallymyturn613
      @finallymyturn613 2 місяці тому +2

      Wow! On my way home from work this morning I said, Bishop is my spiritual dad! I’ve been listening to all of his teachings and I feel understood, heard and renewed. I appreciate him and Sister Lisa.

    • @cindyl760
      @cindyl760 21 день тому

      @@finallymyturn613same here ❤

  • @tafadzwazanamwe9345
    @tafadzwazanamwe9345 Рік тому +386

    This Bum really put me through soo many Emotions..so difficult to let go,,,may the Lord strengthen me

    • @charisselewis5401
      @charisselewis5401 Рік тому +13

      I know 😢we'll get past this.

    • @chimstembo2274
      @chimstembo2274 Рік тому +3

      Amen

    • @MadameDope
      @MadameDope Рік тому

      🙏🏾

    • @akonandabisa3718
      @akonandabisa3718 Рік тому +5

      God is strengthening us

    • @monicap8208
      @monicap8208 Рік тому +15

      I understand! I would not call him a bum, but instead blame myself for the choice that I made. Now, I have to scrape up my broken pieces and get my life straight with GOD

  • @leskeith4314
    @leskeith4314 3 роки тому +608

    Be careful once you cut your soul tie. The devil will temp you with what you thought you wanted or something similar. Be careful ladies and gentlemen.

    • @edithzemura9436
      @edithzemura9436 3 роки тому +31

      This is the most important thing that's rarely stressed enough.

    • @AchAchoti347
      @AchAchoti347 3 роки тому +39

      Yep! Fell for that with this last dude I just left. Thought he’d be everything my ex husband wasn’t, righteous, successful, brilliant,... he was for a while but then began to fall off. Soon I learned he was fronting just like my divorcée did. I now know and understand the lengths a man will go to to get a woman in the sheets that he wants to keep and mold and thinks he can mold to his will through sex and a forked tongue. I don’t intend to allow that to ever happen again.

    • @vegannonveganmeals6731
      @vegannonveganmeals6731 3 роки тому +31

      Just interested in finding myself not looking for no one

    • @vegannonveganmeals6731
      @vegannonveganmeals6731 3 роки тому +4

      This video was for me. Thank you.

    • @truezladye1893
      @truezladye1893 3 роки тому +16

      @@AchAchoti347
      I'm going through a similar experience, its the thought and willpower to cut the ties that's so hard.
      Mine is deferred hope, I invested my heart and hopes.
      Now I know if I continue on, its going to get very painful for me.

  • @HoodFairytalesInc
    @HoodFairytalesInc 3 роки тому +407

    "Lust will play itself off as love. But love fulfills Lust never fulfills."

  • @enaevai
    @enaevai 3 роки тому +1472

    “ You crying over a bum, God kicked to the curb for you???!!!” Get Your Vision Back!! Love it, needed to hear this message🙏🏾

    • @jaywills4334
      @jaywills4334 3 роки тому +3

      Lol 😂

    • @williewhite4687
      @williewhite4687 3 роки тому

      @@jaywills4334 In

    • @inabird5403
      @inabird5403 3 роки тому +19

      Today Jan 12th 2021 God helped me again see the path ahead of me thank you God

    • @leskeith4314
      @leskeith4314 3 роки тому +2

      Yes absolutely I was 🤣 no more

    • @mariebias5192
      @mariebias5192 3 роки тому

      Yes you are very rite

  • @ginaalesha2
    @ginaalesha2 2 роки тому +502

    “You always lose yourself when you run behind somebody else!” Pastor R.C. Blakes, 🙏 thank you!

    • @monicap8208
      @monicap8208 Рік тому +3

      **that GOD has not sent! Amen

    • @danyellg3079
      @danyellg3079 11 місяців тому +1

      That’s true. 💯

    • @pamelaboyd6509
      @pamelaboyd6509 11 місяців тому +1

      That's what I experienced!! Until decided to not let that man think he's my god

  • @jswat267
    @jswat267 3 роки тому +348

    Married 17 years and I'm tired.
    I'm looking for an apartment pray for me.thanks

    • @Michellemybell739
      @Michellemybell739 3 роки тому +6

      I wish you many blessings! Hope you are well.

    • @ushershaniyah7449
      @ushershaniyah7449 3 роки тому +10

      Me too...may the Spirit of God Guide us in Jesus Name

    • @lovejones69
      @lovejones69 3 роки тому +4

      ♥️🙏🏾

    • @Nise_R
      @Nise_R 3 роки тому +4

      God bless you 🙏💓

    • @jswat267
      @jswat267 3 роки тому +3

      @@birungiliz5550 thank you so much, I just don't have a place to live now

  • @helenprescott8268
    @helenprescott8268 4 роки тому +237

    Good morning. I am close to 60, out marriage/relationship. If I heard this 40 years ago, I will not be here and agreeing with every single word of this sermon. Young women...listen carefully and take heed.Everything he says is so true

    • @bridgetpower6994
      @bridgetpower6994 4 роки тому +8

      Absolutely sister....where were our teaches, I am nearly 60 and things had only gotten worse, years of abuse. He said he would kill me if I left and then he tried because I was dying, physically, emotionally spiritually,I was so numb.
      Hope, for change was always there...

    • @saundersna17
      @saundersna17 3 роки тому +3

      Amen. Sister & brother💙

    • @lisadyrness3483
      @lisadyrness3483 3 роки тому +2

      💔💜💜💜🙏🙌

  • @kimberlycampos7591
    @kimberlycampos7591 4 роки тому +395

    You always lose yourself when you run behind someone else. Powerful.

  • @kbaby5158
    @kbaby5158 Рік тому +201

    😢sitting here crying begging GOD to heal my heart and free me from my unGODLY soul ties… I thought I was free!!! But as time pass on I’m still hurting 😢I thank GOD FOR THIS WORD

    • @MrsDavis-vm8tq
      @MrsDavis-vm8tq Рік тому +14

      I'm on this same journey and this video gave me everything I need to breakaway and cut this ungodly soul tie. The one thing that hit me the most was when R.C. Blakes mentioned we need to choose our pain. Just think do you want to go through pain wasting your life on something God never gave you OR having the pain of cutting ties with the individual for a little while and heal very soon and also getting healthier and better ? I never thought of it that way so I chose to have temporary pain in order to be where God wants to be. To remove everything from my life that's stopping me from reaching my highest potential and eventually being with the kingdom mate God has for me.❤️❤️

    • @kimcollard3935
      @kimcollard3935 Рік тому +4

      Thank you Pastor ! I listen to your messages daily ! They bless me so much 🥰💐💝💫

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Рік тому +9

      If it was a long relationship, it really takes time to heal. You are so joined to them in your everyday life and activities. It's a large void. You have to get through and get past the pain of that. You also need to forgive. To release them as a weak man (or woman) who does weak and hurtful things. Hold them accountable, count the cost, be very aware of how they hurt and could hurt you again, but let the Holy Spirit really set you free w/ forgiveness. Then the enemy has no legal recourse to your soul to afflict you any more. Holding grudges and going over all the hurts keeps you prisoner. When the thoughts come back to haunt me, I speak forgiveness to them. There's still some pain, the void is closing 3 and a half months out. I've given up on him changing and even if he ever did, there's no way I'd take a chance.

    • @kateshadysart3236
      @kateshadysart3236 Рік тому

      Yeah you think that and then you watch this video and realize no I'm not

    • @torri4777
      @torri4777 Рік тому +1

      It takes time and prayers 😢real talk 🙏💜

  • @novasuccess
    @novasuccess 3 роки тому +161

    All I can do is cry I don’t even know how I got on this video but I know God is doing something different with me

  • @Sasha-mk6fq
    @Sasha-mk6fq 3 роки тому +328

    5 yrs in a soul tied relationship. 4 days out of it. Bound by false promises.. FALSE HOPE! of a lifestyle that was never manifested. I prayed to God 2 wks ago to remove EVERYTHING and EVERYONE that is not good for my life. God did exactly that! Now God is revealing to me why I allowed myself to accept a relationship beneath what I deserve. Thank you for this message so fitting for my current situation. ❤👍

    • @kristinakellogg1732
      @kristinakellogg1732 3 роки тому +9

      I absolutely can relate with you. You have to know your worth and value your life, your emotions, your heart etc and Go free to welcome in what God has for you. 🌸🌷🌼🌺

    • @rashedacage1233
      @rashedacage1233 3 роки тому +6

      Hello Sasha. I'm so happy for you

    • @ms.reilife2378
      @ms.reilife2378 3 роки тому +9

      I’m with you… ready to let go of foolishness. 1 yr of pure wasted time. Hope you’re still look forward because what for us will never be behind us.

    • @unitsbyyourstruly7340
      @unitsbyyourstruly7340 3 роки тому +2

      Praise God! Any update on this?

    • @geraldthethird8082
      @geraldthethird8082 3 роки тому +7

      That’s so encouraging. I divorced a narcissist after 15 years with 4 kids . 2 years later I remarried he seemed like a dream guy but as soon as we married he stoped . I’m exhausted because he neglects everything from paying bills to wanting to make me happy and I feel so hopeless.I’m very tired please pray for me that God helps me to leave . I can’t go on sobbing my bed with tears , and hoping he will change . Blessings

  • @made6661
    @made6661 3 роки тому +126

    "Love is fulfilled, lust is never fulfilled"..

  • @indiangirl.uk.8420
    @indiangirl.uk.8420 2 роки тому +251

    I’m a non Christian, I’m actually a Hindu. I really appreciated this and your words and felt like I really needed to hear this. Thank you ❤

    • @elainejones4861
      @elainejones4861 Рік тому +8

      @Indiangirl
      I'm watching this is '23 I am SOO happy to have this feed came across my app just recently.
      Indiangirl may God Forever and ever bless you with all spiritual blessings filled with insight and a yearning to know God more.
      I'm heading into quarantine having battle a few years huge setback so now I'm going to run for me life!!!
      Be encouraged. Indiangirl keep your hands in God's hands.

    • @christinewomanoffaith5479
      @christinewomanoffaith5479 11 місяців тому +3

      Haleluyaaa
      U can accept Jesus Christ too

    • @jmallett6081
      @jmallett6081 11 місяців тому +2

      This is how it is... Everyone thinks their religion is right. All religions are right in their own way. God is God and nothing else is God. You never had to go to a preacher, a guru, a rabbi, or a middle man, you just need to go straight to God, and by the way, He never left you, He has been with you the whole time.

    • @indiangirl.uk.8420
      @indiangirl.uk.8420 11 місяців тому +2

      @@elainejones4861I didn’t get notifications previously and just seen the likes and comments I’m reading on the back of my comment. 🙈. May god always bless you and protect you, stay blessed ❤

  • @kimberleylyons7421
    @kimberleylyons7421 3 роки тому +307

    It’s gonna sting a little when you go through the process.... keep your eyes on GOD!!

  • @cheshahale
    @cheshahale 3 роки тому +360

    Don't know about nobody else....I am being delivered and healed in this session! Lord Jesus!!

    • @bertaalvarez8134
      @bertaalvarez8134 2 роки тому +3

      Me too 1/22/2022

    • @melomi1321
      @melomi1321 2 роки тому +2

      Yessssss sister

    • @daijadorsey674
      @daijadorsey674 2 роки тому +1

      Amen!

    • @amandabanks173
      @amandabanks173 2 роки тому +1

      Me too sister. God bless you! ❤️🙏

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 2 роки тому +2

      I’m coming higher than thou cus I’m on the other side. 2 yrs after 10. So I really hope y’all delivert. It feels so good on this side

  • @angiedaughter8200
    @angiedaughter8200 3 роки тому +498

    I did it guys! I'm FREE! God is Good! Thank you Pastor, God bless you. Sis don't give up! Make that decision n stick to it. I chose my pain, n now I'm on the path to deliberately heal. I'm ✨single! ✨God is Good!

    • @lisadyrness3483
      @lisadyrness3483 3 роки тому +8

      Good for you!!! Amen! Thanks for sharing we need to hear this.

    • @bobate6030
      @bobate6030 3 роки тому +6

      THATS GREAT! How did you push through without going backwards

    • @bevill72able
      @bevill72able 3 роки тому +5

      Our Most Beautiful, Loving Lord Father God is very good!
      Thank you Most Beautiful, Loving King Jesus!!!! Amen

    • @bevill72able
      @bevill72able 3 роки тому +3

      Amen

    • @amimartinez4217
      @amimartinez4217 3 роки тому +3

      Amen !!! So many in the church stay with that toxic stuff

  • @Ebonicurls1
    @Ebonicurls1 Рік тому +174

    This was great. Right in the middle of this message I called the person I’ve been tied to and told him I have to cut ties with him and end it now. I’ve blocked him. I feel the spirit of God surrounding me now. Thank you so much 🙏🏽

    • @ilenetruitt2098
      @ilenetruitt2098 Рік тому +10

      Amen, may the Good Lord Bless and keep you.

  • @soniadavila6735
    @soniadavila6735 4 роки тому +384

    I see I was not the only one. 28 years of pure lies and emotional abuse. CRYING! THANK YOU FOR THIS.

    • @jvincy32
      @jvincy32 4 роки тому +22

      God will bring you out and will find your true identity in him🤗 I am a living testimony. He brought me and direct me to RC Blakes just surfing on UA-cam one early early morning..

    • @lucianamendes8372
      @lucianamendes8372 4 роки тому +33

      Same here. So many lies, betrayal, emotional abuse, stress and over 3 years of litigious divorce with 2 minors involved. It’s so hard to forgive and let it go, but if we don’t shift our minds into a spiritual direction we will end up poisoning ourselves.

    • @madeinvirginia3998
      @madeinvirginia3998 4 роки тому +27

      Same here after 18 years, I dumped him yesterday.

    • @cocosmith8447
      @cocosmith8447 4 роки тому +11

      Thanks for sharing your story. It has opened my eyes to keep pushing and never give up. You are a strong women and I know that God will send the right person to you and give you double for your trouble.

    • @loveyournest-kitchendesign3001
      @loveyournest-kitchendesign3001 4 роки тому +16

      No you were not the only one-30 years...

  • @MsCali112
    @MsCali112 3 роки тому +78

    This is why fasting and praying is so important

  • @valeriedarling7955
    @valeriedarling7955 4 роки тому +120

    I can't believe I had ignored the red flags in the beginning. Your videos have helped me wake up and realize the man only cared about himself.

  • @talkwithstella5631
    @talkwithstella5631 Рік тому +7

    Going through this at the moment. He ate yesterday evening and slept and snored as I spoke my heart out. He negated his morning duties and routine to punish me. Dressed up and left for work without mending things or comforting me. He treated me like I was non existent. I am currently jobless but am not going to use this an excuse to keep stuck. If people want to walk away from you let them go. I will not speak him into staying, respecting me, valueing me, loving me or validating me anymore. I will remember how he makes me feel over how I feel for him. Pray for me guys. I accept the pain that comes with change. May the Holy Spirit destroy all wrong attachments in my life and yours. Stay blessed 🙏

  • @WeeHourzzzPodcast
    @WeeHourzzzPodcast 4 роки тому +253

    Accountability is a game changer! The moment you begin to accept the level of damage you personally, single handedly allowed to interrupt your journey-the moment you embrace past trauma as a lesson& end the cycle of self sabotage-the moment you stop entertaining a false figment of weak imaginations that make you feel it’s a way to fix someone else’s sick mind-the moment you disengage the weapon of lust-the moment you remove the shameful secrets and begin to give your testimony--YOUR LIFE WILL BE BETTER! YOUR LIFE WILL BE RENEWED! OPPOSITION WILL CEASE AND OPPORTUNITIES WILL BE RELEASED INTO YOUR SITUATION! GOD IS WAITING ON YOU TO COMMIT TO THE WORK. Faith without works is dead! Holding on to a dead situation is not your portion. 💜 💜 💜

  • @freespirit9806
    @freespirit9806 3 роки тому +51

    The addiction lies in our false pride to assume that we can “ fix” a Narc. Only God can do that. So the answer is to let go and let God. Surrender. And ask to be restored to sanity. To realize I’m only human.

  • @summersoft7
    @summersoft7 3 роки тому +268

    He has me looking at men on a whole nother level. This is amazing and he's the spiritual father that God has sent to us women for such a time as the times we are living

    • @Ryan-pw9ve
      @Ryan-pw9ve 3 роки тому +1

      He sure did 🙏🏾

    • @tubegen11
      @tubegen11 3 роки тому +1

      For such a time as this ...our vision supersedes that nonsense.

    • @bertaalvarez8134
      @bertaalvarez8134 2 роки тому +2

      Don't ever forget GOD IS OUR FATHER!! Pastor RC Blakes is an instrument and messenger

    • @GG-cl9ww
      @GG-cl9ww 5 місяців тому

      Think like a man. Talk like a man. He is a god messenger. Thank you, Rc Blake's

  • @finallymyturn613
    @finallymyturn613 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m in quarantine! 😷
    Hurting for a little while but healing VERY SOON while getting healthy and better!❤️‍🩹
    I’ve chosen my pain.
    I choose life. I will NEVER go through this again. Freedom is my portion.
    I choose my ABBA . 🙌🏽

  • @ConstantComment24
    @ConstantComment24 3 роки тому +400

    It's getting to a point where I have to listen to this daily. Sometimes all the begging, crying and stalking makes me feel like I'm the clown! He's living his best life and I'm just poisoning myself for a bottom feeder can continue to lie to my face. I need the express lane to Jesus!

    • @sagaljuliana1992
      @sagaljuliana1992 3 роки тому +4

      For the past one week, looking for this vedios like there's no tomorrow,I have been saved in the name of God.

    • @bertaalvarez8134
      @bertaalvarez8134 2 роки тому +3

      Me too

    • @narzz5637
      @narzz5637 2 роки тому +10

      Stay strong baby ..leave room for the right oneee

    • @katherlenepatterson5243
      @katherlenepatterson5243 2 роки тому +16

      Poisoning myself for a bottom feeder to continue to lie to my Face. You said this so eloquent. You are so so Right. I stopped doing this and am now seeking The Lord diligently.

    • @violetefejuku2558
      @violetefejuku2558 2 роки тому +5

      This is me too😢

  • @Metaphysicsofliving2222
    @Metaphysicsofliving2222 3 роки тому +234

    Took my breath away, Revelation: "Your heart is still tied, because hope is still planted." My current issue right now with a situation I experienced months ago.

    • @HonduranTendaroni
      @HonduranTendaroni 3 роки тому +5

      That’s me right now

    • @brendasyrus
      @brendasyrus 3 роки тому +13

      I'm understanding that my hope must be in Christ Jesus...not in a clown.

    • @mariebias5192
      @mariebias5192 3 роки тому +1

      Same here Stephanie Avila ...

    • @jenniferlynn329
      @jenniferlynn329 3 роки тому +3

      Mine has been waiting 17yrs... guess it's time to stop waiting.

    • @nardian3691
      @nardian3691 3 роки тому +3

      This message was for me😔 I'm going true this situation right now🙁Thank you🙏

  • @realtimegirl
    @realtimegirl 3 роки тому +200

    I just separated myself tonight from a man I was engaged to for 5 years. Perfect timing for this message.
    Praise God!!! Thank You!!!

    • @lolaispure4296
      @lolaispure4296 3 роки тому +10

      Me too, one week in time, tonight i seperated from my bf....i loved him dearly, but a part of me pushed me to end it for many factors.
      I wish him the best...

    • @bessk8847
      @bessk8847 3 роки тому +6

      @@lolaispure4296 be the queen u deserve better!💕

    • @lolaispure4296
      @lolaispure4296 3 роки тому +2

      @@bessk8847 thank you my dear❤

    • @vernaharris4700
      @vernaharris4700 3 роки тому +1

      Awesome!!!❤🙏❤

    • @sharoncorrell943
      @sharoncorrell943 3 роки тому +11

      The mask falls off and you see the depth of the darkness of the narc and there is no returning to who they pretended to be.

  • @miraclesanyu1112
    @miraclesanyu1112 9 місяців тому +3

    Me seeing this in 2024 bt am so blessed. May the almighty bless you pastor cause u dont know what u have done in me.

  • @benitasooblessed
    @benitasooblessed 2 роки тому +436

    The way you broke it down made me understand every single part of the soul tie I was in. 13 years of pain and trauma has ended in the name of Jesus. Thank you for this message.

    • @mummykandsons
      @mummykandsons 2 роки тому +12

      I join you say Amen. I am not ready for year 14..All signs are clear he ain't committed or willing to change

    • @tammymedeiros7325
      @tammymedeiros7325 2 роки тому +3

      Thank you JESUS ❣️

    • @mijuajua4820
      @mijuajua4820 2 роки тому +5

      I am ready for the stronghold to end my sisters . Please pray for me🙏🏼

    • @cassydee5196
      @cassydee5196 2 роки тому +4

      @@mijuajua4820 I pray for u as well as myself . . Because I'm tired of being done!

    • @lahlahluv8380
      @lahlahluv8380 2 роки тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏽

  • @Ericatheinspirer
    @Ericatheinspirer 4 роки тому +511

    Some soul contracts can ONLY be broken by FASTING and PRAYER. Don't be afraid to do the work. Your better life is waiting for you. 33:07 some things can't be counseled out! You gotta invite the HOLY SPIRIT! That's on God💕🙌🏾

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock 4 роки тому +21

      Yes and fasting is not ALWAYS food!!!!

    • @conniekimes6019
      @conniekimes6019 4 роки тому +2

      @@kizzyrock aa

    • @conniekimes6019
      @conniekimes6019 4 роки тому

      Thank you Post or been looking this been trying on my own blessimgs

    • @a.yh.7336
      @a.yh.7336 4 роки тому +19

      Im so ready for fasting and praying.against it all; soul ties. Heart ache, Heart break, Any. And every memory, any longing for him at all.
      Let the healing begin

    • @phoenixrising8007
      @phoenixrising8007 4 роки тому +1

      💥🎯😎👌

  • @feediamond2317
    @feediamond2317 3 роки тому +254

    I never thought I would be going through this in my life 😫

    • @AnnC117
      @AnnC117 3 роки тому +16

      @Fee none of us ever do 🙏🏾

    • @christineblocker9004
      @christineblocker9004 3 роки тому +14

      Neither did I. Sometimes I find myself crying in MY SLEEP. I just can't escape this pain.

    • @barbaraannhenderson9049
      @barbaraannhenderson9049 3 роки тому +8

      Me either people are past evil.

    • @autonemy
      @autonemy 3 роки тому +2

      Me neither xxxx

    • @gwenlee9562
      @gwenlee9562 3 роки тому +23

      You must get out of your flesh to overcome the pain. You need to come to the realization that you deserve better than this situation. When you began to believe you truly deserve better you will begin to feel better. Don't focus on time lost, you can't get it back. You are only adding to the time lost by continuing to focus on it.

  • @HabibbaMberwa
    @HabibbaMberwa Рік тому +14

    I am a non Christian but i am a muslim and i really needed this. You are like my own father i dont have a father in my life. But today you save a 25 years old. I write down the prayer (DUA) everything you say.

  • @claudiacarrot5284
    @claudiacarrot5284 4 роки тому +100

    @ 57 years old, ive lost almost 11 years of been a Soul tie relationship.
    My daddy would be ashamed.
    I lost him at 22 years old, long road without his advice and wisdom, but I knew better and stayed in it.
    Blessed to Have found you on social media a few month ago.
    Amen ! bless your heart. When I hear your messege I pray this young ladies will hear your words and they do NOT WASTE A DECADE as I did.
    Thank you ! Even at my age

    • @WeeHourzzzPodcast
      @WeeHourzzzPodcast 4 роки тому +4

      You have your best day ahead of you. It’s never too late to have the best. I’m proud you made it out of that situation. Stay safe 💕

    • @yverak5504
      @yverak5504 4 роки тому +1

      There are no age limit to a soul tie just deep sexual feelings.

    • @brittanyb5942
      @brittanyb5942 3 роки тому +1

      I wasted a decade and I'm trying to get my life back!

  • @switchblade35fly
    @switchblade35fly 4 роки тому +80

    I said ohh the devil thought he had me.. Good thing I never lost my faith.. Blessed.. Thank you Jesus.

  • @tinaking9120
    @tinaking9120 4 роки тому +205

    “There are some things that can’t be counseled out. The Holy Spirit has to be invited in.” It can’t be said any better.

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju 3 роки тому +2

      Amen and AMEN!!💜

    • @carolwilliams9536
      @carolwilliams9536 3 роки тому +2

      Yes!!

    • @Inkironnrum
      @Inkironnrum 3 роки тому +1

      Amen! 🙏

    • @ellahmanamela9380
      @ellahmanamela9380 3 роки тому

      0H

    • @Inkironnrum
      @Inkironnrum 3 роки тому +2

      Adding to my first reply- What you said is so profound. It cannot be said any better when the Holy Spirit is at the forefront of our spirit and in our mind. Heart too. Which is why I pray every morning for the Holy Spirit to speak for me and not me for me throughout my day. God. bless you, Tina

  • @CreativeNamedOdot
    @CreativeNamedOdot 10 місяців тому +2

    Damn. Errday... he brings the truth in the life. Keep it going bro. Salutes king.

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 4 роки тому +483

    Great message Bishop. So many immature men are missing the mark when it comes to treating women as the fragile vessels and Queens that they are. It's imperative ladies to exercise your worth so that these clowns in crowns won't attempt to approach you.

    • @8adassa
      @8adassa 4 роки тому +3

      🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @nicolegodspower5018
      @nicolegodspower5018 4 роки тому +5

      Speak

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 4 роки тому +3

      @@nicolegodspower5018 🙏👑

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 4 роки тому +11

      That's it. I've been told by men 'I'm busy'.
      Making me feel like I'm asking to much.
      Being intimate and chase you in the beginning is no problem for them.
      After that the withdrawal and distant attitudes begin
      Eten you express feelings like explaining hurt, they don't give you affirmation.
      No, they guilt trip that you are not being reasonable and have to accept what you are getting from them
      They will act like the victim to busy to send you one little message.
      No thoughtfulness.
      Silence
      Very painful.
      I'm alone for many years now though relatively young and I decided to to never accept emotional manipulative or immature men.
      I registered on a dating site bc I was fed up with letting faith rule bc I realised I have to create my own life taking charge.
      Well.... A man approached me.
      Seemed like a gentle man and in a way he acted like it but after our first meeting silence began. Heartache started.
      I fought to not let him know but yesterday I told him how I felt and asking for clarity.
      Reaction: busy with work and children (from past relationship) talk to you soon.
      That's it.
      I sent a thumbs up and I will move on.
      I feel broken because at first you feel happy... Like finally you meet someone you feel good energy with
      Confusing part, I felt positive energy and u smiled everytime we video called.
      My smile felt devine.
      Now my heart is aching physically for two days.
      I let go. My heart feels broken.
      I've been put aside like a radio you switch on and off by some men before so it's hard to discern where my own wounds begin and poor treatment of this man starts.
      I promised myself that I would never bow down for manipulation or less than I deserve..
      It was not about sex with this new man, I'm sure of this but I told him he acts like a little boy wanting to get his way and he admitted he can be like that.
      Anyway I'm going to restore myself rebuild myself again.
      This man says things like God bless etc.
      But a manipulator once called himself a healer but mentally pushed me into doing things crossing my boundaries, calling it prayer.
      I don't know why but I feel like blowing on my letters while typing.
      Maybe it's the cleaning wind of God blowing over my life.
      I'm very sensitive to energies and hidden emotions from my environment so I need to go back to my core where it's me leading. Not behaviors from others/a man.
      But my heart says:. I love him.
      What if its our human love we automatically give out to people, including a man who will take our devine nature to love into a prison cell with toxicity and getting nothing in return, while our love in itself was from God in us but misformed by a lower level.
      Just typing what comes up.
      This man said to me:
      You have to look for someone with similar goals like building a life together or having children.
      He was at least honest saying he is not a homely man but at the same time he held me, held my hand.
      The hardest part to accept for myself is realising that I felt insecure with this man while I am normally, essentially a strong confident person.
      It's very true that many men push your physical boundary subtle or openly, rude. Discussions I had to explain to men I'm not having unsafe sex and I only make love not sex. The moment they oppose your truth, boundaries, concerns and values it's bad news. In know it all rationally and I always speak up but they can be so good at dominating a conversation to shut you up. Making you responsible for their needs but when you have an emotional human need they we will not feel responsible for yours........ They will tell you be happy don't worry. The superficial positivity from a narcissist.
      Their is no deeper connection with these characters.
      A new day to heal my wounds. I have to keep thinking like a soldier but I also feel a little girl in me who is craving to be hugged and consoled by male arms.
      This is the deepest root of my pain. Bless your all. I hope God is real I walked with Him but bc of all research about narcissism I also started to doubt if Christian faith was also a fairytale made up by narcissists to control me.
      But I always felt good about God knowing He is not religion. He is my creator my Friend My Man, My best respectful company.
      God I miss you hold me in Your arms please.

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 4 роки тому +23

      @@peaceofmindofpeace1650 First you have to cut all contact with this guy, clearly he was playing your heart and mind to get to your body. After he received what he wanted he fed you excuses, there's no honesty in him in regards to you.
      Second, the heart can be deceptive, your love was or is one-sided, he doesn't feel the same, it was never in him to love you. Listen to God from here on out, not your thoughts or heart.
      Third, please heal before involving yourself with someone else. Let this pain become purpose and a message to other women who may be experiencing a similar situation.
      Our messes are messages and the purpose is greater than us.
      Keep trusting God and protect your temple/body, your husband alone deserves access when that time comes. I'm praying for your Peace of mind of peace.

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd 2 роки тому +216

    “Your vision will begin to heal your heart from the pain of the disconnect.” That was profound.

  • @mickeytrin
    @mickeytrin 2 роки тому +453

    Watching this in 2022 I needed to hear this. It's a hard journey and letting go Is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I keep going back and reinfecting myself. I pray that after hearing this the holy spirit will guide give me the strength to let go of what God has no longer wants in my life. I pray you all find peace and happiness in your journeys too 🥰🥰

    • @mummykandsons
      @mummykandsons 2 роки тому +25

      I join you and free myself by the end of this Year. I can't continue to live like this.

    • @rosenweke5958
      @rosenweke5958 2 роки тому +10

      Me too🥺🙇🏻‍♀️

    • @tanyacollins3198
      @tanyacollins3198 2 роки тому +6

      Thank you for encouraging words

    • @elle2953
      @elle2953 2 роки тому +15

      We were lead here now because the Holy Spirit is working now. Embrace the peace and happiness he bestows. My prayers for you 🙏❤️💪🏻👑

    • @alicia3756
      @alicia3756 2 роки тому +9

      I'm standing with you, holding space, and ending this for good for my self.

  • @mrsreesey26
    @mrsreesey26 Рік тому +5

    This is really helping me. Imma listen over and over again. Haven't touched him in almost 3 months and still soul tied to him, and he don't deserve it..🎉🎉

  • @cherryelisa
    @cherryelisa 4 роки тому +78

    I only got to the 10th minute when I started to feel so much wash over me, every single word was spoken personally to me. On Saturday I was praying for this message, for the steps I have to take. I am burning things tied to him, deleting, repenting, packing my things, praying, praying and praying. My 10 year, toxic soul tie, WILL end in these next few weeks.

    • @Mikkiboo
      @Mikkiboo 3 роки тому +3

      Praying that things are working out well for you. God bless you give you comfort and strength on your journey...beauty for ashes! 💛

    • @janicerogo6125
      @janicerogo6125 3 роки тому +2

      @cherryelisa I've got to do the same. I have all his clothes and shoes in my house and it's so much stuff . Either he takes them or I give them away. When I left the house we lived in together "I carried him" with me to my new place, my own space. Why did I do that!

    • @rstat5481
      @rstat5481 3 роки тому +4

      Ridding yourself of those things don’t help, because they can be replaced. You need to get to a place in your life where you are real with yourself. Make up your mind to leave him alone, and stick with it no matter what. Until you make up your mind, you will keep doing it,

  • @mizzcashmoney1
    @mizzcashmoney1 3 роки тому +106

    As a 29 year old single woman, I'm just in awe of some of the stories in this comment section. Thank you ladies for being transparent and sharing your experiences. It has reinforced my desire to wait patiently on the man God has for me.

    • @fayecoleman9384
      @fayecoleman9384 3 роки тому +5

      I wish I can be 21 again and know all of this

    • @olajohnson134
      @olajohnson134 2 роки тому +2

      Yes,. Just wait on the one that God have for YOU. The story that I can tell you about my life. I wish that I had waited.

    • @renatalove5212
      @renatalove5212 2 роки тому +3

      Oh Sweetheart You have no idea! Imagine going thriufh many soul ties. Us promiscuous in our pasts were/are heavily demonized needing so much spiritual work. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy!

    • @vikkara2043
      @vikkara2043 2 роки тому +2

      Pleasseee do wait! God will guide you to the one!

  • @tiabarrett2645
    @tiabarrett2645 2 роки тому +132

    10 months later and I can’t let go of my 22 yrs of marriage after he left. Thank you for this message. His life went ON and I still can’t sleep and have an EXTREME high level of anxiety. Haunted by visions in my mind playing tricks on me. Left and didn’t look back…. HOWWWW can ppl just do that?????? After so many yrs. Never saw it coming😪
    Must listen to this a few times to GET IT. This is ON POINT!!!!

    • @Missdaphanyma13
      @Missdaphanyma13 2 роки тому +7

      How are you now?😢

    • @aliciaromain3877
      @aliciaromain3877 2 роки тому +9

      May God grant you the peace he has for you .Accept it . God bless you.

    • @scarletphoenix9500
      @scarletphoenix9500 2 роки тому +13

      It takes 2-5 years to psychologically get over a relationship that long. Hang in there it will get better.

    • @chevellebradley
      @chevellebradley 2 роки тому +5

      God knows I feel Your Pain and my relationship was ONLY 2 and Half years but the Pain was Great in spite of !!!!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @Jess_quez
      @Jess_quez 2 роки тому +3

      I’m so sorry😪 I know your pain. I don’t understand it either. You’re not alone. My heart goes out to you. The Lord will give you the strength you need to get through it and it will bring you closer to Him which is the best place to be. God bless you 🙏🏼❤️

  • @normaorr5283
    @normaorr5283 Рік тому +8

    2023 and i am listening with tears down my face pastor blakes you are talking to me

  • @rhondaguerra1236
    @rhondaguerra1236 3 роки тому +247

    Boy, did I need this. Took notes and will be speaking them regularly. You really have the gift of testimony. I gave 27 years 4 kids to be discarded now that he has a great career and $. We're going through divorce now. I'm quarantined he's with someone new. I would appreciate prayers.

    • @jadeeerobeen5564
      @jadeeerobeen5564 3 роки тому +10

      I hope your in a better place Rhonda.

    • @yassyjazzy1394
      @yassyjazzy1394 3 роки тому +12

      I also pray for u Ronda that God has given u strength to push forward

    • @joyceboyd1838
      @joyceboyd1838 3 роки тому +11

      Father in Christ name you
      Are great and the all seeing only God , who hears the prayers of the Children who call on your name
      Your promises are a sure thing, you are not a man
      That you should lie, so thank you Father in Jesus name for helping this woman your child get knowledge and understanding , and your
      Help in this hurtful situation with her husband. Come Father
      With your Devine presence to tell her to pray and stand still and watch the work of your hand in all this. Comfort her children.

    • @caljackson962
      @caljackson962 3 роки тому +4

      Prayers 🙏

    • @dayana1588
      @dayana1588 3 роки тому +3

      💕

  • @Jpop151
    @Jpop151 3 роки тому +105

    “Wasted your time on a tramp on a bum on a clown in a crown on a hobo” 🤣whew. Needed all of that. I feel so at peace after this video. Thank you

    • @jalex5200
      @jalex5200 2 роки тому +6

      Blakes is going off. I can't stop laughing. He's so right though.

  • @areaniaramirez8011
    @areaniaramirez8011 3 роки тому +122

    Ive begged God for these answers for a while. I’m so grateful.

    • @sylvialuna6791
      @sylvialuna6791 3 роки тому +3

      So did I...😔 I finally opened my eyes to Gods signs.... 🙏💕💯💯💯💯

    • @georgialouisew4152
      @georgialouisew4152 3 роки тому

      So did I. He was speaking to me and I ignored him. Not anymore.

  • @betadu6131
    @betadu6131 11 місяців тому +6

    I needed to hear this again. I married a bom and narcissistic who broke me to pieces after 21 years together. Oh lord Jesus! 😢 im on my way out !

    • @lilygarcia5525
      @lilygarcia5525 8 місяців тому +1

      God is with you! Keep moving forward in Gods love!❤

  • @welcometosusansmukbang9215
    @welcometosusansmukbang9215 2 роки тому +85

    Amen. I broke up with my ex boyfriend three months ago. He was a cheater and drug addict. He played me for 4 years. He did hit me back in 2018. I didn't hold any hatred against him. Now he is trying to play victim that he didn't have STDs. Never take back your ex because you might get yourself more trouble 🙏🕊️

  • @latonyajohnson4239
    @latonyajohnson4239 4 роки тому +137

    After being with my husband for over 20 years, and I'm 39 (we were high school sweethearts) I watch all your videos but This One really hit home. He promised when we were young a great and happy life, but it's been pure hell. I finally got the strength and took me and my daughter and moved out. Thanks for your teachings it truly blessed me.

    • @mscocowheat26
      @mscocowheat26 3 роки тому +11

      Sis, this is my first time listening to this man of God and I have been married for 20 years this past October and my marriage is Hell for me and we have 4 beautiful kids and after hearing his message I was so inspired to hear what I have been thinking but not for sure If I was in Gods will because it is a marriage and I thought let me look down in the messages just to see if it’s another person like me or is this mainly for single people and I saw your message looking like what I was thinking so thx for sharing and I pray your life now is filled with the spirit of God.

    • @leskeith4314
      @leskeith4314 3 роки тому +2

      Amen

    • @mz.qleanne1132
      @mz.qleanne1132 3 роки тому +7

      LaTonya, honey I completely understand. My husband and I met when I was 17. We married when I was 20, and after years of broken promises (hope deferred) and affairs, I left 4 days before our 19th weddin anniversary. It hurt like HELL! You here me? But, I knew THAT night that if I didn't leave, I would end up in jail for 25 to life.

    • @mscocowheat26
      @mscocowheat26 3 роки тому +1

      @@mz.qleanne1132 you know what sis, you are so right in your decision and I have thought about things like that as well but definitely was like he isn’t even worth me loosing my kids over but because he did change for the most part but still we have not reconnected as husband and wife and I don’t know if it’s because of me holding on to the hurt and never really healing and loosing trust or what. But praise God you are free

    • @141953
      @141953 2 роки тому +2

      Can I ask for an update with you ladies @ all. Its been 19 years, 2 kids including an 8 month baby. I am broken, beyond recognition.

  • @knowyourkismat
    @knowyourkismat 4 роки тому +348

    I need to watch this daily!! It’s like he’s speaking directly to me... All I can say is THANK YOU

  • @DB-ym6tw
    @DB-ym6tw Рік тому +10

    Pastor RC you speak to me like a Dad should speak to their daughter. You helped me see my value. Thank you.

  • @desireehall6156
    @desireehall6156 4 роки тому +79

    I was in a verbal abusive relationship with a guy. I was told about this guy by his mother and sister. I thought things would better. It never got better. I recently broke off the relationship six months. I feel so good .

  • @RochelleDametrice
    @RochelleDametrice 4 роки тому +89

    The soul tie being due to the hope being deferred, never thought about it like that. Wow.

    • @toyawimley647
      @toyawimley647 3 роки тому +2

      I also had hope he claimed that we were getting married😢

    • @zeldapolk1980
      @zeldapolk1980 3 роки тому +7

      This is me but I’m getting free today. Let me Hope in God. Not this ungodly soul tie.

    • @truth-is-light1994
      @truth-is-light1994 3 роки тому +5

      We often like to call it, "Potential".

    • @lissawilliams5646
      @lissawilliams5646 3 роки тому +3

      @@truth-is-light1994 Exactly this! I'm so guilty of falling in love with the 'potential' rather than the person he really is.

  • @marylowery7100
    @marylowery7100 4 роки тому +82

    I Will Never Go Through This Again

  • @karadaniel6334
    @karadaniel6334 Рік тому +25

    “You so broken because God kicked a bum outta your life!” Yaaaass!! I needed to hear that! Thank you Pastor Blakes! 👍🙏🤗

  • @janesmith7346
    @janesmith7346 4 роки тому +42

    It was refreshing to hear the word bum again. I grew up in a time when elders would call a bum a bum. They made it clear and plain why someone wasn't for you Now it seems everyone want to water-down and sugar coat a person, a situation.

  • @ania.2377
    @ania.2377 4 роки тому +84

    That prayer was necessary! 2021 I am Free! In Jesus Name, Amen!

    • @grettamax1
      @grettamax1 4 роки тому +1

      Yes! I received that. Amen.

    • @rashimasimmons7583
      @rashimasimmons7583 4 роки тому +1

      Hugs and kisses from above 🙏

    • @CharCharJars
      @CharCharJars 4 роки тому

      Amen!!!

    • @lauramurphyvytf815
      @lauramurphyvytf815 3 роки тому

      This is good and so true. I’m 50 and just figured all this out.

    • @timahawk3220
      @timahawk3220 3 роки тому +1

      Free from bondage free from toxicity & from lies I claim this in the name of Jesus. Strongholds are breaking, Amen!

  • @morticiajohnson781
    @morticiajohnson781 3 роки тому +173

    Thank God he did for me what I couldn't do for myself. He kicked a bum out of my life. He gave me back my vision! I appreciate you allowing Holy Spirit to use you Bishop Blakes, more than words !

    • @toastEDmrshmello09
      @toastEDmrshmello09 2 роки тому +3

      Thank you for saying this. I have been down on myself for not having the strength to kick him out because it just hurts and I was afraid he would retaliate. But God has not given me the spirit of fear but of power love and a sound mind! I have to trust Him to work it out. But I can’t go back this time. ❤️

  • @mybloggyworks3206
    @mybloggyworks3206 2 роки тому +16

    "No time to waste on a hobo" so true..... I appreciate your support and prayers.

  • @LA6UeRa
    @LA6UeRa 2 роки тому +186

    “Repent for having made a god out of a person” LORDDDDD 😩😫 i needed to hear that! All of those reasons have a hold on me in some way, different time lines though. I am choosing to attack with love, forgiveness, and spirituality. Most importantly self love and putting myself first!! God, my angels, and my ancestors thank you for your love and guidance to this video! Amen

  • @homeworkloungect
    @homeworkloungect 3 роки тому +37

    Look at all these beautiful ladies up in here!!! Cmon ladies walking away

  • @deborahalston7472
    @deborahalston7472 4 роки тому +41

    That soul tied is a powerful spirit omg Lord have mercy on are soul please help us Lord

    • @yverak5504
      @yverak5504 4 роки тому +2

      It's real and demonic,it's also the best sex ever without emotional connection.

    • @Aww_ishaax
      @Aww_ishaax 3 роки тому

      Now I know n understand the meaning protect your ❣

    • @lorrainemiller2877
      @lorrainemiller2877 3 роки тому

      Thank God I am out of nonsense soul tie relationship.

  • @arlenecarey7170
    @arlenecarey7170 Рік тому +13

    No words for the fact that this video showed up out of the blue exactly when I am fighting the addiction to my narcissistic ex husband. God was at work here and I am forever grateful

    • @moniquecopeland5711
      @moniquecopeland5711 9 місяців тому

      Same here. I just had to cut loose a 17 year toxic relationship yesterday and this video showed up today for me!

  • @niome3377
    @niome3377 3 роки тому +462

    I know this was recorded 8 months ago, but I happen to stumble across this video and I desperately needed it. God bless you, this word was for me! I’ve been so caught up on someone who I know doesn’t even deserve me. This message was something I needed. Thank you so much pastor. God bless you ❤️

    • @yvettehuerta1882
      @yvettehuerta1882 3 роки тому +11

      I am barely listening to it as well. This man is a God sent! Stay strong 👸

    • @bonitasmith6064
      @bonitasmith6064 3 роки тому +11

      I am with you. Just saw this. Been out of my soul tie relationship about seven months. Really shocking and never been involved with a narcissist. He won't happen again. Stay prayed up😇

    • @tanyacollins3198
      @tanyacollins3198 3 роки тому +14

      Wow, It's 6am I been going through with a man whom I am sick & tired of going through with him, I want God to give me directions towards taking the steps towards removing this person out of my life, and work on getting my daughter, grd.kids, relationship back together , I rather be with my family nonsense than an outsider foolishness, this person has no heart just good at pretending, I open my door up to help him, and have regretted every since, I want to get my peace & happiness back by getting this person out of my place & my life for good. Thank you pastor for this word

    • @louloring5306
      @louloring5306 3 роки тому +14

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️..Pray and Allow your Heart to break.. Been there! The mind is a Battlefield.. Allow your heart to break and miss him. Don’t give in to the temptation and his lies, they only change temporarily to get you back.

    • @tanyacollins3198
      @tanyacollins3198 3 роки тому +6

      @@louloring5306 thank you for your encouraging words blessings to you

  • @xi504
    @xi504 3 роки тому +108

    Lets start 2021 with a renewed mind. Break the soul tie and move your life in a spiritual direction. God bless everyone who watches this video.🙏🙏🙏

    • @ushershaniyah7449
      @ushershaniyah7449 3 роки тому

      Amen

    • @joyceboyd1838
      @joyceboyd1838 3 роки тому

      Thank you, and the same to you too.

    • @babybell5952
      @babybell5952 3 роки тому

      Amen

    • @roslynpenn1791
      @roslynpenn1791 3 роки тому

      Renewing of your mind!!!💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿. It's hard to do! Sad situation...you have decipher between bad and real!

  • @yolandareed5645
    @yolandareed5645 4 роки тому +105

    I really needed to hear this because I know this tie I have with this person is not of God and it’s not natural

    • @ntrasmr87
      @ntrasmr87 4 роки тому +18

      Mines to honey but when I tell you my year is not ending like this nor beginning a new year with the BS... that’s what I mean! It’s not worth it your sanity and energy.

    • @yolandareed5645
      @yolandareed5645 4 роки тому +11

      @@ntrasmr87 yes !.. I got to leave this situation put it behind me cause I’m loosing myself 2021 cutting all of it out I’m choosing my pain for once in my life

    • @ntrasmr87
      @ntrasmr87 4 роки тому +22

      If you don’t have to wait don’t wait til 2021 . The sooner the better .

    • @8adassa
      @8adassa 4 роки тому +5

      Jesus 🙌🏼

  • @alishadowe5526
    @alishadowe5526 2 роки тому +37

    Tonight my soul was saved with this message, i am eternally greatful

  • @keishamwms
    @keishamwms 4 роки тому +182

    Quarantine is a blessing rather than punishment. Using my time wisely. This message was right on time. Thank you. Message received and greatly appreciated 🙏 😊 !

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock 4 роки тому +19

      Facts!!!!!!!!! People are saying 2020 was the worst year! No, it was a year of revelation!!!!!

    • @l.christinejones8164
      @l.christinejones8164 4 роки тому +4

      Yall are both reading my whole soul, agreed Sisters, agreed💯 I found my best self during Quarantine.

    • @keishamwms
      @keishamwms 4 роки тому +4

      @@l.christinejones8164 With consistency and this channel and channels alike, we are going to be okay!

    • @niccivictorious5594
      @niccivictorious5594 4 роки тому +6

      God works in mysterious ways🙏🏿

    • @ortech72
      @ortech72 3 роки тому +2

      AMEN! 2020..#GODSCALLING

  • @sal13luckyforme
    @sal13luckyforme 2 роки тому +107

    Brother you are amazing !!! I am a Muslim and everything you say the Holy Quran states the same . You speak with direction and without any frills ! We really need to hear this type of speech to shake us up out of illusions created by fake people. I feel like I’ve been on a good cleansing wash cycle in my washing machine after listening to you . I love your words , absolutely love love love each sentence that hits my soul ! Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @ums00750532
      @ums00750532 2 роки тому +2

      SAME HERE!

    • @sweetvalleyfarmstead
      @sweetvalleyfarmstead 2 роки тому +5

      Same..Also Muslim and everything he said is in The Quran. So much healing here.

    • @aazmeer1000
      @aazmeer1000 Рік тому +2

      U r so right I pray he gets hidayayh ..his concept of words r same as us same as written Quran

    • @larabraver
      @larabraver Рік тому +2

      Practicing muslim here too. He is on point. May Allah reward and protect him.

    • @dathea1
      @dathea1 Рік тому +1

      ​@@sweetvalleyfarmsteadits in every "sacred book" in every religion, because its the truth

  • @koastalpeach4535
    @koastalpeach4535 4 роки тому +22

    Why are hot tears running down my cheeks, and I find myself wiping them away, they keep falling. My sinuses are stopping up, I can’t breathe, wow!! Who is this man speaking?

  • @IyeshaB
    @IyeshaB 11 місяців тому +3

    Everytime I hear, “life is to short” it shakes me to my core. 34 years old and this message is for me and my current life. I’m waking up though.

  • @yasminreid4507
    @yasminreid4507 2 роки тому +130

    I am free. I am speaking and writing this into existence.

  • @sasdon8
    @sasdon8 2 роки тому +163

    Powerful!! I’ve been in 4 bad Narcissistic abusive relationships. All of them happen when my defenses are down. When my faith is low, they sweep in so fast. My abandonment issues coupled with enemy attacks leave me paralyzed. I’m stopping this cycle now. This video helped. Thanks.

    • @jacquelineyang1292
      @jacquelineyang1292 2 роки тому +10

      This is so me history….. I also have abandonment issues and guys they use it to control me. Especially they clam themselves love god, Cause they know I love god.
      The best defense for women, just don’t do sex, don’t do sex protect you so much from toxic relationships.
      I made mistakes even I know god’s will.
      Sisters just don’t do sex and all these problems stay away from your life and u will get the peace you should have in ur life

    • @UrbanCommentBot
      @UrbanCommentBot Рік тому +5

      Same sis @abandonment trauma. Makes it so hard to leave.

    • @gwortman3515
      @gwortman3515 Рік тому +3

      Keep your eyes on God and you will be ok

    • @Ang.143
      @Ang.143 Рік тому +3

      Hugs sis. God is all we have and we must lean on him in those moments.

    • @monicaraybon1802
      @monicaraybon1802 Рік тому

      Heal your trauma so these narcissists won’t go near you

  • @faithandgrace1638
    @faithandgrace1638 2 роки тому +144

    "Choose your pain" That sentence right there gave me what I needed to hear!

    • @warriorwaiting316
      @warriorwaiting316 11 місяців тому

      Absolutely and I found it amazing to meditate on choose your battles

  • @Tallandprettyfit
    @Tallandprettyfit Рік тому +7

    I’m thank you for your messages. I’m a fatherless daughter and my mom passed away when I was five. So having strong male influence wasn’t apart of my cards I guess. A lot of my life lessons have been learned by trial and error. So you officially are my uncle now haha. Because this level of accountability is what I have always searched for. 😊
    Thank you

  • @leslieann2698
    @leslieann2698 4 роки тому +92

    This is good and so true. I’m 50 and just figured all this out.

    • @quitadorsey6260
      @quitadorsey6260 3 роки тому +3

      I figuring all this out late in life too!

    • @PrairieeGirl
      @PrairieeGirl 3 роки тому +5

      I'm with you. 50 and finally figuring it out.

    • @Empress-NaeX
      @Empress-NaeX 3 роки тому +3

      You still young! Leaning is continuous for life. Better late than never. Keep going!

    • @karlanevermind2554
      @karlanevermind2554 3 роки тому +3

      Same here 50 and 10 years later with a man that never proposed to me and things are so toxic and I’m torn to chose between him n some family members

    • @claudianoel8672
      @claudianoel8672 3 роки тому

      Me too

  • @wildhorses6817
    @wildhorses6817 4 роки тому +85

    Married 35 years. It got progressively worse until his affairs, emotional and physical abuse. I never knew him, never imagined he was that person.

    • @crystalphillip588
      @crystalphillip588 4 роки тому +15

      Same here, not physical abuse but every other abuse you can think of I have suffered, no one believes me no matter what I do or say he's such a narcissist

    • @HD-xb9mj
      @HD-xb9mj 4 роки тому +9

      Thank you so much man of god I've been in a trap most of my life with non available men and now I'm a women of a certain age I have no more time for immature NARCISSIST disregarding men. I always new I was soonf something wrong, I just didn't know how to get the tools to fix my behaviors. Your teachings are Priceless we need your guidance in the black communities.

    • @TheMrsmnymakr
      @TheMrsmnymakr 4 роки тому +2

      I am going through the same thing.

    • @crystalphillip588
      @crystalphillip588 4 роки тому

      @@TheMrsmnymakr may God bless you and protect you always

    • @Anvilpad
      @Anvilpad 4 роки тому +1

      Going through the same. It's not easy, therefore you must surround yourself with the things of God. Very happy to hear Bishop speak.

  • @beymaat6007
    @beymaat6007 4 роки тому +78

    I've been in a 20 year relationship, he never married me and we have no children. I'm so broken and it's so hard to move forward, but I can't invest in another 20 years of being a roommate and no goals. That deferred hopes wow.

    • @debbydeb438
      @debbydeb438 4 роки тому +9

      I'm sorry my dear. I truly understand your pain and I appreciate your honesty. Blessings on you as you move forward to a new beginning

    • @megab1857
      @megab1857 3 роки тому +14

      HONEY I TRULY UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN, BECAUSE I BEEN THERE.I DON'T KNOW IF YOU OWN YOUR HOME LIKE I DO, BECAUSE IF YOU OWN YOUR HOME MANY MEN WILL USE THAT AND PRAY ON YOU R VULNERABILITY AND THE LONGER YOU LET HIM STAY THE HARDER IT WILL GET .YOU ARE SOMEBODY DON'T LET NO MAN DISRESPECT YOU GOD HAS BETTER FOR YOU. I AM WAITING FOR MINE

    • @angelgray1089
      @angelgray1089 3 роки тому +14

      Baay Matt, I too can identify. In a relationship 22 years come January 29. No marriage, no kids together (I have 2 from a previous marriage, he has non), I'm now 51, he's 48 and saying there is no NEED to rush into marriage, cause he's only planning on getting married once. I own my own home and he lives there. We've been living together for 21 years. So, I can definitely relate.
      Since November I've asked him to use the guest room for sleeping but we share the rest of the house and the responsibilities.
      I'm TIRED of being companion and house mate. Obviously he does not want to commit to marriage with ME... yet wants the sexual benefits and the accommodation.
      Sigh!

    • @colleenfremont-smith3783
      @colleenfremont-smith3783 3 роки тому +4

      @@angelgray1089 kick him out! If he only wants to get married once, its clearly not to you. Rejection is God's protection,. Please kick that man to the curb and never look back. He's using you, they take what we give and do what we allow. You deserve better, please get rid off him. Good riddance to people like him.

  • @ruthmuthoni4559
    @ruthmuthoni4559 Рік тому +6

    Whoa!!! watching this on 30th October, 2023...and it speaks right into my heart!!!! 💥💫🔥🔥🔥🔥 God bless you Pastor!! 🙌🙌

  • @mrsrealbeal141
    @mrsrealbeal141 4 роки тому +40

    I need to watch this daily! My heart is broken behind a clown in a crown. I have lost my self. Thank you for this video

  • @jengardner4796
    @jengardner4796 3 роки тому +31

    Trying to completely release currently from a 27 year marriage of abuse & so grateful for people like you!

    • @cyndis665
      @cyndis665 3 роки тому +4

      We should create a group of people like us who are married for over 15 yrs and be each others strongest support. I know I am in a marriage for 25 years and confused with the years of what I call uncare... well totally lack of empathy.

  • @turner2952
    @turner2952 4 роки тому +65

    Great message!
    Loneliness makes one do some really stupid things!
    Too many times we are led astray by sweet words and empty promises from men, and from our feelings and emotions, when we really should be waiting on God and allowing the Holy Spirit to direct us.
    Thank you so much, Pastor Blakes! May God bless you, your family, and your ministry.

  • @moniquemalone9037
    @moniquemalone9037 Рік тому +9

    Never knew I had to invite the Holy Spirit in ❤❤

  • @lanquintajaahmitchell575
    @lanquintajaahmitchell575 4 роки тому +32

    I never heard any one articulate so well exactly how I feel. Truly a blessing.

  • @tynaangelici3023
    @tynaangelici3023 2 роки тому +120

    For me , it was a lack of a healthy relationship with my father, so I look for it in other men. I tend to gravitate to what is familiar. Unfortunately, this has been very toxic for me.

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 2 роки тому +3

      I have a absent mother. Abandonment issues was deep. I haven’t even watch the video. I saw it. And I have been outside for a very long time we’re truly don’t care. About this person.It’s so liberating once you are free

    • @tynaangelici3023
      @tynaangelici3023 2 роки тому +4

      @@Geminicricketi it sure is. It’s comforting to know that if you don’t have a biological parent. Sometimes god will replace one with a spiritual mom or dad.

    • @mcdowallmeckala2447
      @mcdowallmeckala2447 2 роки тому +2

      Same.

    • @HMB-hc5xf
      @HMB-hc5xf 2 роки тому +2

      Same

    • @whitneygmabry9345
      @whitneygmabry9345 2 роки тому +4

      I am beginning to realize that I also followed that pattern. Emotionally unavailable father who dropped his family to the least important aspect of his life. Now am married to a man who is mirroring this behavior.

  • @jocelynpena2470
    @jocelynpena2470 4 роки тому +50

    This was for me as well. I never had a father to tell me these things and I just thank God for having mercy on me so that I may hear the truth. I’m very stubborn and these walls I’ve built to block out the truth and him calling me. I try to hide behind my walls but I can’t hide from HIM. I cry like a baby because God calls me even when I’m running away. He knows me and wants me? I always think of how ashamed for all the things I’ve done and always have that I’ll never be good enough in the back of my mind. Some reason I found this channel and everything that comes out of pastors mouth speaks to my soul and calls to me. This man is a true man of god and I look to him as a father because I never had one. Thank you

    • @LovelyOne0075
      @LovelyOne0075 4 роки тому +4

      Your stubborness is your coping or defense mechanism. But stubbornness is not really helpful, it cripples you. Start with reading The Father Daughter talk. God keeps calling on to you because He knows.

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 4 роки тому +1

      ❤️

  • @caranasser3710
    @caranasser3710 Рік тому +49

    It’s such a relief to hear this. It explains everything. I did quarantine for over a year and it was extremely painful. Still fighting it but now I understand. I was dumbfounded. How can you be so attached to someone you don’t even like or respect? It’s demonic! The healing is not a quick process. It’s a long, excruciating process.

    • @northshorelight35
      @northshorelight35 Рік тому +3

      Exactly! There were some great qualities about my person but such qualities should not have superceded the fact that he had huge red flags - the kind of big red flags that turned me off. And yet, I was just so attached and addicted to this person that I was obsessively thinking about him all the time.

    • @valwalker9606
      @valwalker9606 Рік тому +4

      Going through the same. Try to stay busy then out of the blue I want to cry. He treated me like dirt. God will get us through it!

    • @Iamcupcake777
      @Iamcupcake777 11 місяців тому

      ​@@valwalker9606same traumatizing😭😭💔💔💔

    • @kellyh5250
      @kellyh5250 10 місяців тому +2

      You said it! Why do I give my sacred body to a man who repulsed me? No more...I don't have to give him my body or my time any more. We both must heal or we'll die never having become an adult.

    • @KimK_AllDay
      @KimK_AllDay 9 місяців тому

      ​@kellyh5250 I'm a week out of a 14-year relationship. We had great memories and good chemistry. I really thought he was my soul mate until on April fools day last year I over heard him and a female kissing. The conversation was caught on his Google watch. That was the first time I had ever thought about him creeping. He was clearly drunk but no excuse. Ever since that day I've been looking at him sideways. I became paranoid about everything. Anger sat in but I never stopped seeing him and things were never right for us. The disappointment for me was unbearable and I was angry at myself for staying. I thought after that incident he'd work hard to make me happier. SIKE, he wanted more sex and more sex. It was ridiculous. I mean every time he saw me he wanted sex. I started feeling like I was here for his pleasure and my emotional needs were not being met. He pretended to understand and made a bunch of promises he never kept. That added to my frustration.
      The blow up came when I tried to have an adult conversation with him and he started gaslighting me. Things got really ugly and I blocked his number. I couldn't read another disrespectful message.
      I texted him the other day, silence. .I'm not surprised because he probably blocked me or his just ignoring me.
      I'm praying that demon away. I really started to dislike his controlling ways.This video will be in my ear several times daily ❤

  • @taylorroberts8420
    @taylorroberts8420 4 роки тому +48

    God defintely answers prayers, I've been praying about this for months and yesterday I was taking to God about Him helping me letting this person go. I have been struggling but I've been getting better with it. I just need to fully let him go. I was on the fence of I care about him and to recognize that he was unhealthy to me although we all make mistakes. I've been stuck in between letting him go or praying for him to change. I just played this video and I pray I recieve the answers and ACT on them as well. Perfect timing!!

    • @Mikkiboo
      @Mikkiboo 3 роки тому +1

      I agree with your message and can relate right now. Praying with you. 💛

  • @donnaritch6200
    @donnaritch6200 2 роки тому +48

    I am 63 years old and I have been waiting for this bum for 13 years. Thank you to God for sending this message out so that I heard it. I’m going to cut off ties and quarantine get back to myself

  • @iamKingReginald33
    @iamKingReginald33 3 роки тому +89

    Me here as a man has found healing in this thank you I’ve had a strong hold in my mind over a women this really spoke to me I’m woke n I’ve been depressed for months thank you 🙏

    • @bertaalvarez8134
      @bertaalvarez8134 2 роки тому

      God bless you. You are a real man. God has you!!