How Wounded Boys Become Men | The Story of Iron John
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Many men are finding themselves lost in angst, pain and despair in our present age and, worse still, creating identities made out of this pain.
This video looks into the ancient myth of Iron John, as explored by poet Robert Bly, and outlines a path for men to develop past identities of pain, find meaning in their suffering and develop a strong masculine edge with which to face life's challenges.
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Iron John is a great book. It's a must-read to every future father and every son.
Very true
Robert Bly's Iron John is the most important book I ever read in my entire life. The book was both painful and informative. Painful because it made me realize what I missed out on because I had no father or father figure. I also found it informative because I realized that I was embracing a false masculinity that was destroying men. The book critiques feminism AND the ridgid conformity of conservativism during the 50's and 80's.
Very good point but equally I think that a lot of men have difficult relationships with their fathers - perhaps because of the wounds in their relationship and hence the gap.
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I agree. A lot of men are damaged.
Great content and explanation of Iron John. This had to be said by someone. The fact that this video has so few views is quite sad.
Thank you mate, and thank you for watching - I guess UA-cam is a saturated arena, however I intend to keep pushing on
Thank you brother
Thanks for watching man :)
Good video. Thanks.
Thanks for watching 👍
Great insight - we'll be looking at Iron John in our upcoming Journey Into the Wild retreat 16th - 18th April in line with relevant CO-VID rules.
Great vid but IFS will clear up a lot of the issues i have with it - "demons" is not a great view when talking about trauma - the point is illustrated by the titlle of a book by the founder - No Bad Part
IFS isnt only the best model of psycholgy, (non-pathologizing while the rest are and are less effective as a result), and the most effective therapy - it's also the most effective means of discovering the Self, (the aim of meditation and the source of healing), and allowing uninterupted access to it
healing that results and the peace/love of the Self that is found - feed eachother and it works faster/snowballs
i feel i have had a different journey and to some extent a different journey. i would love to discuss and differentiate as i feel you hardly scratched the surface. considerably speaking this was a 101 not 103 and even with that there is still something more expansive to the concept.
I have a terrible relationship with my father. The Man has gotten so angry at me.
I really liked your interpretation. As a woman it is very difficult to let my man fight, take risks, but it is essential. He feeling victorious is essential for me feeling protected.
Brilliant! My 17 year old son has just moved in with me. Perfect timing!
That's amazing news! I really recommend picking up a copy of Robert Bly's Iron John if you haven't already, it's an absolute classic for men in coming of age in a healthy way. I wish you all the best living with your son and aiding him on his path of growth into manhood
Recovering Man thank you brother!
I had an abusive father. God is now my father ✝️.
Beautifully said
So true bro I've been studying this for years and it came naturally as I don't read books as can't read that well.. I wrote a song naturally called light within when my shackles cracked..keep doing what you're doing and shine your light amongst others where darkness is amongst too many.. massive love and respect ✌️✨💓
Thank you my friend, all the best on your own journey mate
Great book. Masculinity is the answer
Enjoyed the content of this short upload. Read Iron John in the noughties. An exciting time from street man (shadow masculine) to starting the hero's Journey. Still working to de-robe from the jester garb a dress sadly many young adult is educated to wear and act out in his/her initiation into the fun loving fool.
I'm the 1000th man!😂
Best intro to men's work.
Thank you mate :)
Thank you for such an insightful introduction to the book and the ideas behind it- of which you’ve articulated so well! I look forward to watching (and learning from) the rest of the content you’ve put out brother! Sending love from Singapore 🙏🏻
You're welcome man, thanks for the kind words, I'm glad i can play a part in your journey of growth!
3:32 was me watching this, I need to read the iron John book and sort my shit out
Get on it mate, it's a classic 🙏
Such an brilliant and insightful commentary ❤
Many thanks 🙏
Great video my man I needed to hear this, well all men do hahaha will they listen? Idk maybe not due to their arrogance
Usually, most men have to be humbled before changing their ways, I know I did! Thanks for the kind words 🙏
@@AwakenedMan you’re right humbleness is a great gift to bestow and receive my gratitude to you for your blessing 🙏🏻
oh there’s a lot of hate towards my mother and even rage , i’ve even gotten to the point of feelings of wanting to murder her but realise that’s just a feeling and not what i truly want to do just because she abused me and hurt me ect . it’s difficult to face the pain . as i was emasculated a lot and abused in many ways ect
sorry to hear that brother. i don’t think that’s the feeling i think that’s a thought that arises from your true desires, that being separation, independence and defence against her terror.
F.A.B. a very enlightening broadcast. Thank you
You're welcome 🙌
Hard times makes strong men, easy times make weak men.
Anytime you have a problem just call iron John , Iron John then I will come and help you. ...... katabasis. A book for men.
Well done. Thanks for creating this.
Thanks buddy, and thanks for watching as well 🙏
That was an awesome presentation. Thanks. New subscriber
Glad to have you here buddy, and happy you connect with the material!
Great and relevant video!
Thanks mate 🙏
Thank you for putting out this content hope to see more
Thanks for the kind words brother!
I've been watching your videos for a while and you've been a beacon of hope to me after I dropped out of school at 13 eventually going back at 16 despite not having grade 9 I managed top of my class in grade 10 after that however my life went down hill from there; I scrapped through grade 11 and failed grades 12. I tried my best to rewrite but the passion wasn't there anymore I think I may have add and bi polar disorder anyways I lost interest in school ended up in a grocery store for about three months, taught myself how to trade. I spent a significant amount of my 20's unemployed and living at home with absolutely zero friends I was essentially a hermit who did nothing with his life because I thought trading would solve all my problems and I'd be rich. I made about $2000 and lost everything due to self sabotage after that I tried coding but I gave up after I realized that I'd never be as good as someone with a computer science degree so I gave up. I then played chess for a while but the same thing happened, I started too late to be any good so I gave up. That has kinda been a recurring theme in my life where I do something and then get bored even after doing relatively well then I quit.
As of today I'm still 24 year old kissless virgin who's never had a girlfriend I don't think I'm ugly because I always got attention from women sometimes men but I just feel lackluster as if I don't have a libido although I masturbate frequently. I don't have a car nor do I have a university degree. I'm stuck at home and I contemplate suicide every day. I started drinking alcohol and smoking weed by myself of course because I don't have anyone. I literally have zero contacts on whatsapp, my fucking mother has more friends than me. My dad on the other hand is quite emotionally distant but judges harshly he told me to kill myself at 22, he said and I quote "no one will miss you". Parents don't think much of me and my mom says I shouldn't have any kids I can feel it she doesn't want me to leave and move out not that I could at the moment.
I don't know what to do anymore I got another job, I start tomorrow and I'm scared. I failed at nearly everything in my life even at birth I couldn't crawl till much later that's annoying because everything in my life takes longer than I thought it would. I just finished my 12 year cycle and it's been nothing short of a nightmare I think I might just kill myself before I turn 30 I don't think I have what it takes to be a self sustaining man in this word I have no wings.
Thank you for sharing your story bro, I'm sorry to hear it's been so hard and you've had little support. But be brave man, go to this job, it's the heroic move. You don't have to be perfect right now, nor have it all worked out, just aim upwards. As the years go by and you get more and more used to challenges, you will 100% grow, but it starts with very small steps. Trust life here man, if you feel life is hopeless, then you may as well let go and have a go at life just to see what happens. It will be hard in times and there will be growing pains, but in every one of these pains is yours r recovery, growth and a step closer to freedom
@@AwakenedMan Thank you so much I really appreciate you taking the time to read this. I'm not sure if you watch elliott hulse but he talk about the cosmic clock and that every 12 years we go through a new cycle, so you start at 0-12 then 12-24 etc is when you face a crisis
@@muzzammilhoosain4747 I do know Elliot but haven't heard of the cosmic clock, it does seem to point to something, although I felt it's more every 7 years we have a major change
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Bravo bro is a very good video
Thanks for watching man :)
Incredible!
great vid, thanks
Thanks for watching mate
powerful video brother!
Thank you man - I like your channel too mate. All the best with that
@@AwakenedMan thank you!
Thank you
Thanks for watching mate
Thank you for your insight into this topic. I’ve had to listen several times to start to open up to the complexities of this subject. ⭐️
No worries buddy, it's a HUGE topic for men. Glad I could help in some regard. Richard
It’s great to connect. Being older has a responsibilities to the next generation. It is actually the best time of life if one stays focused and fit. JP
@@PS-yg6zh Agreed. It is a more meaningful period of life
@@AwakenedMan and what gives this age meaning is giving back to those in need of our wisdom and guidance
@@PS-yg6zh Right on 🙏
This is so good 👏 I bought iron John after watching and It’s been life changing. have you considered doing more breakdowns of books / films? I’d love to hear your take on fight club.
Glad to hear you bought the book man, it’s an all time classic! And great suggestion, I’ll look into making more videos of this kind. Fight club would defo be an interesting one. I may even try and speak to Chuck Pulanhuik
@@AwakenedMan hells yeah that would be amazing. I just watched his joe rogan episode, I think I’m traumatised 😂
@@Veritas800 Haha, yeah, that episode is great
Fight club is a great movie to rewatch once you have been initiated by Iron John and really Robert Bly.”we have no great war or depression.Our great war is a spiritual war.Our great depression is our lives”I have never forgotten that quote and how it jostled my subconscious ever so slightly towards the conscious.As well as “Dont let the things you own end up owning you”I never owned my wounds,my guilt,my shame.They owned me.Not anymore.
Also.Awakened man.Great breakdown and just all around summary of Iron John a book a out men.Great cadence and in fluctuation of the finer points.Really top notch.Subscribed and going through your videos.
This thing is so traditionalist, I cannot accept it.
Funny that you would talk about masculinity with such a catty voice.
Why? Should I pretend to be super gruff to placate some troll on the internet instead, cus that would be very masculine indeed right?
Unfortunately, you're not the gatekeeper you think you are on this.
You were doing pretty good until you got to the political and religious figures.