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  • @reneenevermore2771
    @reneenevermore2771 6 місяців тому +23356

    This is so sad. I can’t stand people who are so self centered that they can’t even let others experience their tragedy and grieve.

    • @andersonpledger9976
      @andersonpledger9976 6 місяців тому +69

      So true and have to agree

    • @buuurrrrppppp221
      @buuurrrrppppp221 6 місяців тому

      Good job it never happened then! You do realise 78% of things you see online are 99% made up?

    • @annkupke4263
      @annkupke4263 6 місяців тому +48

      My SIL told me about my exhusband died. I was sad but mainly worry about his mother. She is old and was alone wulith him I'm the house. Nobody lives in her town that are family. She has church friends though .

    • @brittanyhall888
      @brittanyhall888 5 місяців тому

      You put it nicely in just going to say what we all are thinking stuck up self-centered b

    • @YarnWorm
      @YarnWorm 4 місяці тому +5

      It’s like that one story about the woman who demanded she eat her birthday cake over her fathers dead body.

  • @kuilstyle4291
    @kuilstyle4291 6 місяців тому +15684

    Imagine demanding "babies are gone, mines not. Worship me"

    • @Ruby-ko6pr
      @Ruby-ko6pr 6 місяців тому +263

      Her baby isn't even there yet, maybe shes not even pregnant and just wanted the attention

    • @Lenawire
      @Lenawire 6 місяців тому +190

      ​@@Ruby-ko6pr Can you imagine how horrible of a person she would be if she lied about that? Not that she isn't right now. Her husband too. They are both selfish and immature. They won't be good parents. Mark my words

    • @fawnieee
      @fawnieee 6 місяців тому +39

      Narcissists really have no compassion for others.

    • @sylviawarren9080
      @sylviawarren9080 5 місяців тому +6

      U r right

    • @sinceslicedbread7422
      @sinceslicedbread7422 4 місяці тому +2

      Harsh, but true.

  • @carolynwheeler8315
    @carolynwheeler8315 6 місяців тому +3185

    This is coldest, most ridiculous situation I have ever heard. For the SIL to announce her pregnancy at a funeral for babies and husband is heartless to the extreme. Brother should have pulled his wife aside and told her to shut up.

    • @archie3680
      @archie3680 6 місяців тому +1

      Not funeral next day

    • @merceduslong4486
      @merceduslong4486 5 місяців тому +42

      ​@@archie3680 unless I misheard SIL announced it the morning or the funeral and then made a spectacle of herself at the funeral

    • @altanaschattentanz
      @altanaschattentanz 5 місяців тому +38

      ​@@merceduslong4486 understood the same. There is a time for announcing your pregnancy and it is NEVER at a funeral, other people weddings or special days. It may be fine on some birthdays if the bd-person is fine with it. Not on a fricking funeral. If anyone would have behaved like SIL on any funeral I have been on, I would have been furious.

    • @anndownsouth5070
      @anndownsouth5070 4 місяці тому +5

      The brother (SIL's husband) should be taken to task about not checking his wife.

    • @Gamo-SCPMobileTaskForceE-11
      @Gamo-SCPMobileTaskForceE-11 4 місяці тому +2

      I'm your thousandth like
      Edit: I WAS your thousandth like

  • @pleasebekind7056
    @pleasebekind7056 6 місяців тому +1205

    "Pregnant lady needs to pee"
    "Pregnant lady needs to LEAVE"

  • @FischMesser
    @FischMesser 6 місяців тому +564

    funny how they said "You made a pregnant lady cry!" and "She could miscarry!" while the pregnant lady was yelling at OP without any justification which can stress the baby even more and also result in a miscarriage

    • @kiomaelouch7192
      @kiomaelouch7192 6 місяців тому

      Fr, and they are really trying to act like the woman who is no more than a month along (probably more like 2 weeks) Is gonna have a miscarriage. The fucking baby has barely started forming. It's no more than a peanut- grape sized cell

  • @heyitsalex2619
    @heyitsalex2619 6 місяців тому +2926

    Honestly like op said, I hope their brother finds the post and feels embarrassed and ashamed and maybe grows up a little bit and realizes it not all about him and his wife all the time

    • @Lenawire
      @Lenawire 6 місяців тому +60

      If he's a selfish ass, he won't feel anything.

    • @lisal8568
      @lisal8568 6 місяців тому +34

      Honestly doubt it. People that stupid don’t usually pick up on their asshole-ish behaviour and how it affects others. When it happens to them though…

    • @squirrel1226
      @squirrel1226 6 місяців тому +21

      @@lisal8568From the way OP talks about brother and SIL, it does sound like they care somewhat about what people think of them. They’d probably feel embarrassed if they came across the post and see people criticizing them but I don’t think they’d ultimately change. They would probably just get even angrier at OP and say that this was family drama and not something for the world to know about 🤣

  • @Starling_Darling
    @Starling_Darling 6 місяців тому +246

    She's using her child essentially as a VIP pass to do whatever she wants. I fear for this baby's future.

    • @FrSrv
      @FrSrv 5 місяців тому

      I hope it doesn't get to be born into that garbage family to be honest

    • @animelovergirl8461
      @animelovergirl8461 3 місяці тому +1

      Same.

  • @rachaelpetrak940
    @rachaelpetrak940 5 місяців тому +190

    I was pregnant with twins at the same time one of my sister in laws was pregnant. Unfortunately their little one didn't make it and passed at 28 weeks. At the funeral I felt so uncomfortable because I was very obviously pregnant plus we had 2 other little ones and I just kept thinking about how that might affect my SIL. She lost her little one 6 months after her father suddenly died as well so she was not in a great place. She came up to me at one point and told me to take good care of my babies because they were precious. I just nodded because I was so stressed about saying something that might upset her. I can't imagine being so wrapped in yourself that you make a childs funeral about yourself, let alone a funeral for 2 children and their father 😳

  • @Nightmarekitty75
    @Nightmarekitty75 6 місяців тому +3347

    No, this is the in law’s fault. She made it all about her, I’m wondering why the husband didn’t do anything to stop her

    • @waxandtell
      @waxandtell  6 місяців тому +97

      😤😩

    • @Nightmarekitty75
      @Nightmarekitty75 6 місяців тому +31

      I meant the husband stopping his wife from making it about her

    • @Breadsticksman
      @Breadsticksman 6 місяців тому +12

      @@waxandtellit’s hard to tell if you’re angry: misinterpreting the message as why the husband didn’t stop MC.
      Or if you’re angry at the SIL as well

    • @tabdabcat3019
      @tabdabcat3019 6 місяців тому +4

      The Story says Mary's husband has died with kids.

    • @Breadsticksman
      @Breadsticksman 6 місяців тому +8

      @@tabdabcat3019 Mary is the depressed cousin who’s husband died
      The Sister in laws husband is still alive.

  • @RawrRawrK
    @RawrRawrK 6 місяців тому +789

    Im more sad for The unborn baby.. Imagine finding out about this when your older.

    • @Breadsticksman
      @Breadsticksman 6 місяців тому +12

      It ain’t ever feel good unless you hate that relative.

    • @usagi18
      @usagi18 6 місяців тому +30

      He/she probably won't, since relatives will most likely be considerate and not tell horror stories about mom. However, there will be no need, he/she will have to deal with mom's BS, and will count the days to his/her 18th bday since kindergarten.

    • @yeet1066
      @yeet1066 6 місяців тому +14

      Imagine having a mother like this, I did and dear god it's not fun

    • @1Justkyle_.
      @1Justkyle_. 6 місяців тому +2

      It's most likely the baby doesn't find out but I forgot sure know that if hypothetically the baby did find out, they gonna be thinking their mother is a bitch 💀

    • @NoThankUBeQuiet
      @NoThankUBeQuiet 6 місяців тому

      ​@@usagi18I doubt they will talk to Mom. someone does that at your children's funeral you don't let them in your life.

  • @anisakalloe3247
    @anisakalloe3247 6 місяців тому +1176

    I feel so bad for poor mary who lost everyone. She has (mostly) good family to support her so i hope they will keep her healthy and okay

  • @unknownatlantis
    @unknownatlantis 6 місяців тому +12313

    The rest of the story:
    I ignored her till she came to Mary stuck out her flat belly and said “me and Issac just found out I was pregnant and honestly we are beside ourselves it could happen to us” Mary broke down
    I snapped like who says that to a woman who just literally lost two babies?? I said loudly to my sil “no gives a f**k you’re pregnant look around it’s not just one but two babies funerals not to mention the love of Mary’s life like I knew you were an attention seeker but for f**k sake you took the test four days ago just leave”
    she left did in tears and my bother called me a fat bitter b***h
    I’ve gotten phone calls form my bother and sil family calling me the world of name because I made a pregnant woman cry
    If I’m being honest even tho Mary and my aunt thanked me because it was all making her upset I feel worse about making a scene
    Please put me in my place if I’m wrong
    So little update I found out this morning brother and sil harassed my cousin with phone calls for her to talk to me about yesterday. My aunt gave both of them an ear full than made my cousin turned off her phone my brother and sil were at my parents house trying to get their side in (parents are on my side) when I arrived . They both came at me screaming and yelling about sil feelings and she could miscarry from the stress I caused her again i told them a Funeral especially one for two children isn’t the time to announce a pregnancy and get the f**k out of my face . Sil said if I didn’t lose my attitude and apologise I’d never be in their child’s Life. i told her I didn’t care and if she was gonna use the kid as weapon i didn’t want to be in it’s life things got heated and my father ended up kicking out my brother and sil so yeah all this drama at a time we should be there for one another
    And to the people asking in the comments and dms you can use this story I want my bother to find it and read the comments

    • @Vex-the-partycrasher
      @Vex-the-partycrasher 6 місяців тому +1456

      I can’t believe someone would do that at a baby funeral…my family friend had a miscarriage and she was devastated cuz she was trying for years to have a kid. Now she has two wonderful little girls…
      The SIL had to be put in her place and I feel SO BAD for this little innocent child that she will have cuz that kid is just gonna be used as a weapon…I can’t believe people were actually taking her side. I mean cmon people announcing a pregnancy AND sticking out her flat belly TO A GRIEVING MOTHER?! What the fuck is wrong with that person?! What the actual hell?!

    • @Redfoxart52
      @Redfoxart52 6 місяців тому +616

      This is horrible! That woman *SIL* shouldn’t even have the privilege of having a child

    • @Breadsticksman
      @Breadsticksman 6 місяців тому +522

      Firstly: I don’t think you were in the wrong to yell “nobody give a f*ck” especially since you weren’t projecting your own anger nonchalantly like actual anger issues.
      Secondly: if your brother is calling you fat without any regard to actually trying to address and fix any issue, it’s safe to assume he’s… a red flag. Personal experience.
      Thirdly: I feel bad for all this drama, personally I take more diplomatic route while I haven’t seen too much aside from anger.

    • @isabellegauthier4318
      @isabellegauthier4318 6 місяців тому +72

      There is a way to say things. Diplomacy. You can't change people but you can decide to behave kindly. You can still be firm about your convictions but do it respectfully.

    • @kalezuki9231
      @kalezuki9231 6 місяців тому +243

      ​@@isabellegauthier4318 just my opinion...I mean Normally / usually, Yeah...I'd agree.. but in this case? No way. What that stupid dog did / is doing....and the other idiots , the ones taking her side are doing , doesn't deserve diplomacy. I would be just as livid as OP if I was in a similar situation and that poor woman who lost her loved ones and had to hear / see and deal with that moron making every thing about her and saying such awful things during a funeral. It probably wouldn't be such a big deal if it was some other sort of gathering or as big a deal at some other gathering
      .... but to pull that crap at a funeral? Wow....

  • @Cyndiz1073
    @Cyndiz1073 6 місяців тому +696

    Theres a word for this! Can you guess?
    You got it!
    Its narcissism!

    • @bridittebargeot2679
      @bridittebargeot2679 6 місяців тому +19

      Thats an incredible level of narcissism, most of them would feel ashamed for the terrible behavious of that girl...

    • @user-rl7cr1jr8t
      @user-rl7cr1jr8t 6 місяців тому +14

      Nope! That's called being self centered and a bad person. Narcissism (NPD) is a disorder that can cause jealousy and self centered behavior. People with NPD often work very hard to be kind and empathetic people, they just have a disability that makes being selfless not come naturally, (like it does with neurotypicals). They are people too, and often are kind and empathetic too, they just have to work harder for it. Stop claiming that someone being mean and taking all the attention for herself is like a disorder. (Imagine saying "you know what I call it when someone is annoying? AUTISM!!!!" and thinking that's ok). People with NPD are often victims of abuse and violence due to all the stigma surrounding the disorder (and less likely to be the abuser).

    • @dianaprince3176
      @dianaprince3176 6 місяців тому

      @@user-rl7cr1jr8t🙄Narcissist apologetics lol

    • @JennyJeong425
      @JennyJeong425 5 місяців тому +3

      ​@@user-rl7cr1jr8tThank you. God damn, it is annoying when people continually misuse words.

    • @carolinewalker9340
      @carolinewalker9340 5 місяців тому +2

      And perhaps, Republican ?😁

  • @itsthatonechickagaincallth7843
    @itsthatonechickagaincallth7843 6 місяців тому +587

    I'm literally 25 weeks pregnant, baby girl kicking as we speak. When you first find out, you don't have many symptoms and you have no reason to need to sit or put your feet up. I worked a physical labor job until my morning sickness hit and I was so sick I needed an IV. I can not even IMAGINE bringing up my pregnancy at the funeral of 2 little ones, and probably wouldn't be able to attend out of fear my hormones would make me too emotional and I'd take away from the mother in question by crying too much at the thought. As for "miscarriage from stress" it takes a lot of stress to miscarry. You don't miscarry from being told off.

    • @kaah5823
      @kaah5823 6 місяців тому +24

      The whole fighting thing and blowing the situation out of proportion is more likely to make her miscarry, than her being told off and crying one time

    • @Merilly
      @Merilly 6 місяців тому +21

      Exactly. Pregnancy also shouldn't be treated as though it's always a disability. Which does not mean some people can't have severe symptoms that they will need more care, need to be more cautious and so on to the point that it's like a disability. But it's just not true for everyone and especially not that early. She's acting like she's far along in her pregnancy when she won't have many if any symptoms.
      Not to mention sticking a flat belly out where literally nothing much is currently, demanding special treatment and all that during a funeral of two small children and their father.
      Like my cousin also has serious issues during her pregnancies, to the point she had to stay in bed for the last 3 months of each to ensure she wouldn't give birth early. But even she didn't make it all about herself and was rather upset about it than wanting attention. Because it's obviously not fun to be struggling with pretty bad symptoms...
      I hope your pregnancy will keep going smoothly overall, that the symptoms will subside and that your child will be born healthy and safely. And of course that you'll also get through childbirth without any issues.

    • @dianaprince3176
      @dianaprince3176 6 місяців тому +14

      Ok, but all pregnancies are not like your pregnancy. My sister was exhausted and sick nonstop from the very beginning, a few months before she started to show. She had to rest and sit a lot, even in her first trimester. Your experience is not the yardstick by which all pregnancy symptoms and signs are measured.
      That being said, the SIL in this story is a massive asshole

    • @user-sr8qi5ys5k
      @user-sr8qi5ys5k 6 місяців тому +2

      Thank you well said.

    • @marialeon6765
      @marialeon6765 6 місяців тому +4

      With my first pregnancy, I had it so difficult, the symptoms hit hard right at 6 weeks, it was SO BAD that the first presumptive diagnosis was Hepatitis. I was like that until week 20, I lost too much weight, I was constantly sick and shaking, I had pneumonia later on. For my second pregnancy I was better regarding nausea, but I had an accident that left my hip a little misplaced and starting the second trimester I was in a lot of pain. So, pregnant women need to be listened to when they express their needs.

  • @kathi9458
    @kathi9458 6 місяців тому +129

    I didnt even say a single word about my pregnancy when i was at a birthday party. People asked me why i dont drink and i used random excuses and stuff just to not steal any spotlight of the birthday girl. I never talked about it on days that belonged to others...
    In this case it is especially tonedeaf and ignorant

  • @IAmSoVerySpooky
    @IAmSoVerySpooky 6 місяців тому +185

    NTA she (Mary) just lost 2 of her children and her husband! She (sil) could have waited until she was at least 2-4 months along to tell people.
    Edit: The comments are right, I did forget to mention the miscarriage change which is likely, but it should be like the second comment says after the first trimester.

    • @Pooty2003
      @Pooty2003 5 місяців тому +5

      You’re not even supposed to announce until after 2-3 months just incase there are complications. I know this from personal experience. SIL was just begging for attention

    • @saskiak3944
      @saskiak3944 5 місяців тому +5

      Like literally, 11 week rule or end of first trimester💀💀💀
      You're not supposed to announce it before then because of high chance of miscarriage and complications.

  • @1Justkyle_.
    @1Justkyle_. 6 місяців тому +49

    Honestly, she did the right thing by saying ''No one gives a fuck your pregnant''. She is literally bragging about being pregnant AT A FUNERAL OF TWO BABIES. That's just straight up sad.

    • @Chubbasaurus
      @Chubbasaurus 2 місяці тому

      It's not sad, it's psychopathically narcissistic. SIL is a heartless monster.

  • @t.r.s.5129
    @t.r.s.5129 6 місяців тому +59

    Pregnant women aren't immune to criticism. Entitlement comes in all shapes and forms and being pregnant isn't a trophy to parade around in order to get compliments. SIL should have read the room, shown some empathy. I'm pregnant, and if I'd heard this story from a close friend or relative, I would have burst into tears from the sheer injustice of it all.
    Don't treat people with children's gloves; treat them with respect. If they disrespect people, places or ocassions, you are well within your rights to set healthy boundaries. SIL just thought no one would or could call out her behavior because she's pregnant.

    • @rachaelpetrak940
      @rachaelpetrak940 5 місяців тому +2

      There is probably no way to write this without looking like the speech police or like a jerk for correcting you and ignoring the point of what you were saying but I wanted to just let you know (for future knowledge so someone else doesn't correct you in a snarky way) that the saying to "treat someone with kid gloves" doesn't refer to treating someone with a child's gloves.
      It refers to special gloves that were made from the skin of a "kid" i.e. a baby goat. They were soft and delicate and often used to handle things that needed greater care.
      "Why Do We Handle Something 'With Kid Gloves?' To handle or treat something with kid gloves is to do so with special consideration or in a tactful manner, often due to a perceived sensitivity. This idiom originates from the soft leather made from the skin of a young goat (a “kid”). These gloves were delicate and often used for tasks requiring a gentle touch."

  • @joyceecyoj.
    @joyceecyoj. 6 місяців тому +166

    First my condoleance for Mary and your niece.
    No she did not! That is not a place to announce en seek attention for your pregnancy! In our culture pregnant woman are not even allowed at funerals.
    Iam really sorry for Mary she lost her husband and her babies and had to deal with these kind of unhinged family members at a moment where she and her daughter needed all the support and love.

  • @heatheraucoin5832
    @heatheraucoin5832 6 місяців тому +10

    “I as a mom…” idk about y’all but for me, you can’t call yourself a winner unless you crossed the finish line.

  • @laurenschmitt451
    @laurenschmitt451 6 місяців тому +31

    NTA for sure. You did the right thing telling SIL to be self aware. I feel so bad for Mary.

  • @aofdiamondsspare9387
    @aofdiamondsspare9387 6 місяців тому +19

    Moment of silence for Mary... hope she's doing better now

  • @KAMEL142
    @KAMEL142 5 місяців тому +9

    I can't imagine how Mary felt, it's sickening how that girl was just flexing off her pregnancy without any care of how Mary would feel. No one should have to go out their way just to make someone else feel even worse. I hope Mary is okay. 🩵

  • @liffking607
    @liffking607 5 місяців тому +4

    Even though I have met many people with narcissistic traits, and witnessed their horrendous behaviour, I am still always floored by this kind of story.
    The enabling brother needs a reality check.
    The future child needs protecting from this selfish woman.
    The story-teller needs a gold medal! I am so glad your parents realise what you did was for the protection of someone at a very vulnerable time.
    And poor Mary needs to know that while grief never leaves us, it will get easier…
    Much love…

  • @jessatlgirl
    @jessatlgirl 6 місяців тому +26

    The sister-in-law was being classless when she was making about her pregnant at her husband cousin funeral. Wheh his cousin just lost two of her kids snd her husband. I would have gone off about this isn't the time to announce that she is pregnant and that she could have announced thzt any other day besides today when our own cousin is grieving from the lost of her two kids snd husband from a car accident. You can say I'm sorry for your lost to your cousin and tell your wife to lay off on the pregnancy talk while we are with his family for his cousin funeral for her two kids and husband for today.

  • @StrangeSpark
    @StrangeSpark 6 місяців тому +84

    Omg!!!! It's one thing to let a close family member know, so you can avoid medically discouraged or potentially smelly items like alcohol or raw shellfish etc but you don't announce it!!!! Wth. SIL would be banned. Keep the cousin. Ban the SIL.

  • @vickyrandall4334
    @vickyrandall4334 6 місяців тому +11

    Those 2 will make terrible parents. When told they need to behave like other peoples feeling matter they completely ignored it. When told more directly, they immediately jumped to emotional manipulation and harassment. I feel real bad for their kid. I hope CPS gets involved before they do too much damage.

  • @NeoMeconopsis
    @NeoMeconopsis 6 місяців тому +30

    I feel bad for the unborn baby…… it’s not the baby’s fault that the parents are assholes but it’s still going to suffer consequences… I have no doubt people are going to be bitter about it’s birth and want to stay out of its life, all because the parents had to make a big deal

  • @transmascally
    @transmascally 6 місяців тому +7

    You aren’t wrong, that day was meant to be about the person who died and the mourning loved ones. NOT HER!!!!

  • @laurabailey6051
    @laurabailey6051 6 місяців тому +11

    I would have waited until I was starting to show before I said a word to anyone. I would also tell the mourning mom with other moms there. Also consider using her lost babies names as middle names to honor them. So so many ways to be considerate to others

  • @katherineholloway9871
    @katherineholloway9871 6 місяців тому +8

    I would've shown her the door. Talk about being an entitled!! You are not wrong. Someone should of called her out!

  • @JulieAnne
    @JulieAnne 6 місяців тому +8

    Timing is everything. Bummer though that the pregnant one at least in that moment has to celebrate alone. But I get it. At a funeral?? Really?!

    • @a_noelle8595
      @a_noelle8595 6 місяців тому +6

      Let's be realistic, what pregnant person tells everyone 4 days after a positive pregnancy test? Have they even been to a Dr yet? She would have had an entire 9 months to celebrate and be doted on. This was not the time.
      This was classic narcissistic behavior.

  • @promiseevans
    @promiseevans 6 місяців тому +3

    NTA!
    That was neither the time or place to make that announcement. AT ALL!

  • @Makethatmakesence
    @Makethatmakesence 6 місяців тому +13

    I do understand that some times you want attention to the important things you did but not every time/place is the right one

  • @darkwolfmoons8796
    @darkwolfmoons8796 6 місяців тому +10

    NTA sister in law shouldn't have even said anything about her pregnancy. Until after the mourning process was over. My condolences to your cousin mary.

  • @Mr5lbtumor
    @Mr5lbtumor 6 місяців тому +5

    A lot of people will wait until after the 12 week mark to announce a pregnancy anyway. But no matter how far along, i would NEVER IN MY LIFE announce my pregnancy at a funeral. Especially a funeral for children. Not only is it horribly selfish and inconsiderate, I'd also feel like my baby would forever be associated with that funeral and the passings.

  • @impagain
    @impagain 6 місяців тому +7

    Me-Monsters are the worst. This woman is the epitome of the Birds Rights Activist's tweet, "I am feel uncomfortable when we are not about me?"

  • @MrsPottz420
    @MrsPottz420 6 місяців тому +5

    NTA I’ve been pregnant at a funeral and kept my mouth closed and it was my great grandmother not 2 children. Even tho my mom kept trying to make it about her being a first time grandmother but every time someone would ask I’d politely tell them I don’t want to discuss it today. I would’ve cussed my mom out if it had been a funeral for children and she tried to announce my pregnancy 🤦🏽‍♀️ like tf that just seems heartbreaking to announce you get a new person while someone just lost a person 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @frogsarecool6135
    @frogsarecool6135 6 місяців тому +18

    That’s messed up on the sil’s side, how can she go to someone funeral and boast about a pregnancy in poor Mary’s face when her husband and children died a few days before! So i say nta sil and your brother are the ah

  • @esunadeluna
    @esunadeluna 6 місяців тому +3

    I went to a christening when I was about 18 weeks, didnt tell anyone but suspect some noticed. I didnt want to take away the attention and put on me. Who does that? Even worse in this scenario, where somebody has lost not 1 but 2 of their children and husband, its fucking sick 😢

  • @nightstarquotes8
    @nightstarquotes8 6 місяців тому +3

    She has the right to be happy about her pregnancy, but she can't rub it in like that especially when others just lost their loved ones.

  • @ketokeyes
    @ketokeyes 6 місяців тому +9

    definitely nta. your sister in law needs to be told when to shut up. right place right time and all that. definitely the wrong place and wrong time

  • @GG-py9vp
    @GG-py9vp 6 місяців тому +2

    I understand the joy and specialness you feel when you’re having your first baby. It’s like no one else in the world has ever been pregnant before you. I remember when my husband and I found out we were having our son, my husband dropped me off to check the mail while he parked the car. I ran in and lay on the sofa and (jokingly) said that’s it I’m pregnant, can’t make supper. Your SIL should have saved her specialness for her and her husband. You’re right - no one else cares. And to act that way at a funeral for children is unconscionable and you were right to say what you did. They should apologize so the family can grieve together. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤

  • @Puppy_lover1
    @Puppy_lover1 6 місяців тому +2

    You did the right thing undoubtedly

  • @tiawolf3610
    @tiawolf3610 5 місяців тому +1

    "Stook out her FLAT belly" 😂 NAHHH YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO HER LIKE THAT

  • @KylaFuller
    @KylaFuller 6 місяців тому +2

    I would’ve cursed her out for the behavior well before that. This lady just lost her husband and child with one still here with her. Today ain’t about you.

  • @rosalee477
    @rosalee477 6 місяців тому +5

    Someone should defend the bereaved. So sad the family can't see that.

  • @Anime-girl-101
    @Anime-girl-101 6 місяців тому +3

    I feel like not only is the sister in law a bad person but so is op's brother. He didn't stop his wife but instead sided with her.

  • @shirquirabranch6561
    @shirquirabranch6561 6 місяців тому +4

    How can you take someone's tragedy and try to make it about you. The audacity of your sister in law. She lost 3 people which 2 she brought into this world and the love of her life but,you go to a funeral and push your pregnancy on people in morning that's sick and twisted. That narcissistic and attention seeking she has no sympathy or empathy for anyone else. She needs all of the attention on her and I bet this isn't the first time she tried to make things about her.

  • @parkermunsonstyles2908
    @parkermunsonstyles2908 6 місяців тому +3

    I have anger issues when I’m put in those situations so I think I would’ve just flat out told nobody cared

  • @theronstar
    @theronstar 6 місяців тому +4

    NTA. SIL is just seeking attention and should've respected the grief that the cousin is going through. Never announce a pregnancy at a funeral.

  • @taffykins2745
    @taffykins2745 5 місяців тому +2

    What a horrible situation. You did the right thing. It's sad to know you were the only one who put SIL in her place at the time, but good to know they are backing you up after the fact. Don't worry -- you are right!

  • @ivanhall6482
    @ivanhall6482 6 місяців тому +1

    This is heartbreaking

  • @gloriabeckley7464
    @gloriabeckley7464 5 місяців тому +1

    You didn’t throw her out, excellent restraint!

  • @DuoMusicStudio
    @DuoMusicStudio 6 місяців тому +4

    You know what, your perfectly in the right

  • @user-pe3zq4is4n
    @user-pe3zq4is4n 6 місяців тому +10

    That is so rude

  • @peppermint_stars1390
    @peppermint_stars1390 6 місяців тому +2

    I never understood people who feel the need to announce pregnancies at the worst times. When my mom got pregnant with my little brother, my aunt was pregnant with my cousin. We literally waited until the baby was born to announce that mom was pregnant so it wouldn’t take attention away from my aunt. Bringing up pregnancy at times like this is cruel.

  • @mariewintersteen7098
    @mariewintersteen7098 6 місяців тому +10

    I'm so sorry for your loss! Your sister-in-law is extremely self centered!

  • @Hellnogizmo
    @Hellnogizmo 6 місяців тому +1

    They could've waited a few says to get the attention they obviously so desperately want. So sorry to the woman that lost her babies. There are no words. I hope she finds a way to find some sort of peace in this life. 💙

  • @Aridecent1993
    @Aridecent1993 6 місяців тому +1

    No you’re not wrong. I’m sorry for your loss. That so terrible hearing about it.

  • @Ssylphie
    @Ssylphie 6 місяців тому +1

    Oh my god my blood is boiling. If there ever was a story for a NTA ruling, this is it.

  • @bubblsbubbls3243
    @bubblsbubbls3243 6 місяців тому +5

    No absolutely not

  • @melissatwiner3500
    @melissatwiner3500 4 місяці тому +2

    My dad lost my pregnant mother, my 4 yr old and 18 month sister in a car accident. I was the only survivor, which kept my dad from ending his life. I was 3 and didn't understand what was really going on but my dad's world was shattered. Later life in life my dad told me that at the funeral my uncle asked for $10 and my aunt asked for the washer and dryer "since Brenda no longer needed it". Family members amirite

  • @carlijnstrikkeling2904
    @carlijnstrikkeling2904 6 місяців тому +2

    This is just heartbreaking and really sick and twisted from the pregnant Lady😠

  • @robinoliveri2674
    @robinoliveri2674 6 місяців тому +9

    I am sorry for your loss that was very inconsiderate of your sister-in-law

  • @Catalinacorn308
    @Catalinacorn308 6 місяців тому +13

    Your not wrong i would have said the same

  • @naowright9308
    @naowright9308 4 місяці тому +1

    I lost a set of twins in a still birth. My brother in law's wife had just had a baby shortly before I went through this. I could tell she almost felt guilty bringing her little girl to the funeral, and to events that happened directly afterwards because I had lost my two baby girls. Sensing this, I took the initiative and went up to her one day and let her know that I was so glad she had her daughter because I never wanted anyone to feel what I felt in that moment. I was glad she had her beautiful baby as it brought me hope. She thanked me and confirmed that she was having, what I believe is termed, Survivor's Guilt, and felt like hiding her baby so I wouldn't feel my loss looking at her baby. I later had two more healthy daughters, just one at a time instead of twins.

  • @stephaniec0625
    @stephaniec0625 6 місяців тому +1

    NTL My SIL was exactly like this with her first. Rubbing her stomach and sighing the day she found out. We were watching a movie where a lady was 6 months pg with triplets, and SIL rubbed her stomach endlessly saying she just couldn't imagine how uncomfortable that would be considering how uncomfortable she was...at 12 weeks pregnant.

  • @MitsuriKanroji797
    @MitsuriKanroji797 6 місяців тому +3

    Id end up in jail because of something like this. Nta.

  • @evb.4476
    @evb.4476 6 місяців тому +7

    I bet your SIL wasn't even Pergo in the first place! What is wrong with your BIL! Him and his wife should know better to RESPECT THE PEOPLE WHO JUST LOST LOVED ONES AND NOT DISRESPECT THEM TIME OF NEED OF SUPPORT!!! NOT GOING AROUND SAYING SHIT AND GETTING MADE AT THEM WHEN THEY GET THERE ASS HANDED TO THEM!!!
    What is wrong with these people these days! Disrespecting each other for no reason! Announcing your pergo or engaged at a funeral,someone else wed, Baby Shower or Birthday is so wrong! And VERY DISRESPECTFUL !!!! Its not your day to do that at!!!

  • @Jinx-unseen
    @Jinx-unseen 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m pregnant
    ✨tHeAts AmEzInG✨👍🏻

  • @Fifers55
    @Fifers55 6 місяців тому +3

    She is an attention seeker! It was sad that she made the day about herself! Sorry for all your losses!

  • @StariNightz_M
    @StariNightz_M 5 місяців тому +3

    Damn, poor Mary. Honestly, I feel bad for both her and that unborn baby. Mary has to deal with the loss of THREE loved ones and that poor child will most likely grow up as a weapon for their mom(sil) to use whenever she wants something. I can literally see it now… “Excuse me!? How dare you not give me that seat! I have a child!” or “What do you mean I was rude!? I have a baby with me who you are clearly upsetting right now!!!” or “Hello! Lady with a little kid coming through. Wait, what do you mean you can’t help me with this… I HAVE A CHILD! DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD THAT IS!?”. People can imagine the headlines already, “Woman believes that because she has a kid, it makes her the main character”🤩👌

  • @christinesmith7838
    @christinesmith7838 5 місяців тому

    She needed a reality check and got it - hope it helped her grow up as she clearly needs to quickly!

  • @Joy-em7vz
    @Joy-em7vz 5 місяців тому +1

    That lady is so mean!no empathy at all!this is heartbreaking

  • @AKB.is.a.dcas.enjoyer
    @AKB.is.a.dcas.enjoyer 3 місяці тому +1

    Please i need the song NOW 😭

  • @amelonnamedkate1400
    @amelonnamedkate1400 4 місяці тому +2

    People need to realize that when you’re pregnant, it does not automatically mean the world revolves around you

  • @alexisgamergirl771
    @alexisgamergirl771 6 місяців тому +1

    Me if i was there: "hey its a funeral for a reason" *cracks nuckles while looking at the pregnant sister in law*

  • @janapeterson5967
    @janapeterson5967 6 місяців тому +2

    I wouldn’t even blame you if you said you hoped she’d miscarry because she’s a terrible person and would make a terrible mom and second maybe she learn some empathy.

  • @VNLHVALH
    @VNLHVALH 5 місяців тому

    I LOVED THAT 3RD WAX COLOR❤❤❤

  • @user-eg4xr9mq8x
    @user-eg4xr9mq8x 6 місяців тому +2

    "Yeah this person lost their family..I think I'm just gonna make a funeral for CHILDREN about me and ADULT WOMAN."

  • @gensimonster5274
    @gensimonster5274 3 місяці тому

    Very appropriate response.

  • @Abcs465
    @Abcs465 6 місяців тому +2

    The sil is way to self centered. Imagine making a tragic funeral about yourself. She probably was only like 4 weeks into her pregnancy too. I don’t think causing a whole scene was the way to go, but it hopefully put her in her place.

  • @ginacalce8105
    @ginacalce8105 6 місяців тому +17

    No

  • @jojokeane
    @jojokeane 5 місяців тому +1

    This made me sob. I lost my 6 year old daughter. The reason I had to keep living was to be a Mother to my son. I got literally one word from my sister: "Sorry". Then nothing.
    My brother sent flowers and said my child was in his prayers. My Mother fell apart. My Father was gone but he would have held me and never let go. We're a normal family but my sister is a psychopath.

  • @user-ec4ev3wn6r
    @user-ec4ev3wn6r 3 місяці тому

    The fact that the sister in law asked the COUSIN to give up her seat, like the one who lost her family!

  • @juliec5309
    @juliec5309 6 місяців тому +1

    This is the perfect 'read the room dummh' story...ynta. the husband should've told her to shhhh. We can announce this at a different time

  • @Leah_the_therian849
    @Leah_the_therian849 4 місяці тому +1

    At first i was like yes why would you say that but after then No like shes basically saying "worship me"

  • @katielamb3497
    @katielamb3497 5 місяців тому

    Is anyone getting severe and heavy nostalgia watching these types of stories? Like, a voiceover and wax melting video?

  • @brittanyribeiro8781
    @brittanyribeiro8781 6 місяців тому +1

    If I was pregnant. I wouldn’t be announcing it at a funeral. Very highly inappropriate

  • @sedonamonicazepeda5585
    @sedonamonicazepeda5585 6 місяців тому +2

    It was awful timing for her to announce the pregnancy. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Then proceeded to make it about herself and the pregnancy.

  • @karonnemetz7376
    @karonnemetz7376 6 місяців тому +1

    OMG! That was absolutely horrible

  • @renisherblackstock7281
    @renisherblackstock7281 4 місяці тому

    Nope, wish I could shake your hand.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @user-pg3vo1li6n
    @user-pg3vo1li6n 4 місяці тому +1

    Oh someone please sign that lady with the baby up for some lessons on tact and discretion! Doing that as a person is in immense grief is a hundred different types of wrong! Px

  • @jenniferalberstein8057
    @jenniferalberstein8057 6 місяців тому +4

    GOD NO!

  • @veritykinamon5292
    @veritykinamon5292 5 місяців тому +2

    Who tf tries to make a woman FAMILYS FUNERAL about themselves!? I would honestly just be like "i dont wanna ever see your face again im disgusted by you"

  • @arfriedman4577
    @arfriedman4577 4 місяці тому +1

    That is pure evil to flaunt youre pregnant to someone that just lost their kids.
    Wait until you show before saying anything to this grieving lady.

  • @bebe_xcx
    @bebe_xcx 5 місяців тому +1

    She really is unaware about certain situations cause why would you do that? How rude 😡

  • @diyashikha93
    @diyashikha93 5 місяців тому +1

    Some people don't deserve to be parents

  • @Celeste_Stellar_Night
    @Celeste_Stellar_Night 4 місяці тому

    Please please please give your cousin the biggest hug in the world from me. If she's one with it that is. She needs all the empathy she can get and I pray to God brother wakes up before that baby is born and protects it from sil, that was so far out of line karma may be looking at her now and I wish no harm come to that child or any child.