I mean you don’t have to like it, but if she refuses other locations and refuses the hospital, I don’t know where she thinks she’ll be having this baby. It doesn’t sound like she’s really ready to be a parent if this is what’s standing in her way.
NTA, it was OP’s house 🏡 and she can do with it what she likes and is in no way responsible for the birth and the sister is solely responsible for figuring out her own birth or not. As far as the abortion joke, I get it, it was a morbid joke and those don’t bother me nor does abortion, as I believe it is a fundamental right for people to what people do with their own bodies. However, a comment like that would that p*SS of the sister and possibly cause a fracture of their relationship and I don’t recommend saying that. However, I bet the sister didn’t push her anymore to use her house, so problem solved 🤷🏽♀️
NTA it's your house and she needs stop being a b!tch and grow up and go to the hospital and you have valid reasons for not allowing her to use your house. L pregnant sister and L haters also insensitive haters when did OP tell her sister to abort the child?😂
I don’t think you’re the asshole because it’s your house and her asking to use your house to give birth is a little entitled because unless she’s paying to clean up her mess you’re gonna have to clean it up and it may not completely come out and you’re gonna end up having to pay for it, but telling her to call pregnancy off that was a little too far but you could’ve said was she could have the baby at your house but she has to pay for whatever mess is caused by it
Probably gonna get hate for this, but imo NTA. Its your house, so you definitely have the say in what goes on there. If you say no, she can deal with it and go to a hospital or figure out some other alternative. I do think that the abortion part is going a little far since that isn't your call, its hers, so you are not in the right for that, but i agree with everything else.
Soooo….. you can’t put down a tarp and some old towels for your sister???? But that’s not what has shook me from this…. 4 months pregnant and you suggested her getting rid of the baby!!!!! Yo!!!! You are a damn demon!!! Seriously!!! That’s heartbreaking and wild to me!!! My god.
@@Cosmo_Rivea you’re right about that part, however, saying she has time to get rid of the baby is disgusting and if you defend that then you’re just as bad as she is. I said what I said. She’s a horrible sister and I’m lucky to have family that actually looks out for each other. If I wanted to have a baby in my families bed, it would be so. Shameful.
I mean kinda because there is really no deference between touching someone private parts so you already cheating by her standards even if she not bi/pan that doesn't matter because it still touching someone privates
This is why you shouldn’t be shacking up until you’re married, or at least, give the relationship at least a year so you have plenty of time to assess the other person’s character.
I'm sorry no I get doing surgery to change down stairs is a lot but boundaries and you said it respectfuly and you don't spesilze in it so why risk your marriage, someone crappy wax, and your bounties yeah no
Dude that girl doesn't know anything about you and has no intention of actually bothering to understand you.... Me thinks you are her walking 2nd wallet. Dump her because it's obvious that she has no respect for you given that she's done nothing to celebrate you and made the day about her for Your birthday 😑. She didn't get you a gift She didn't bother asking you if you wanted to do something you loved. She didn't even get you a birthday cake or food you actually like. She didn't even say happy birthday. She dragged you around a boring mall while she got whatever she wanted. Now she's crying to manipulate you to apologise for her screw up on Your birthday.... See this is when you look at the day and picture that happening for you Every year and think is that what you want for a girlfriend?. Come now have some standards for yourself.
Ok this should be a real wake up call dude! When I married my husband one of the brides maids was his sister, if she can’t look at your daughter as an important part of your marriage then run like hell!!
Run! If she's being this big of a beotch about it now, imagine how she's going to treat her after the wedding. As a girl whose had two evil stepmother's, trust me when I say the red flags are serious forewarnings. You can always find another woman but you can't ever replace your daughter.
Nta, having your daughter take part in a big occasion like that can form bigger bonds with both you and your daughter and her and your daughter, and saying she wouldn't fit the part sounds so wrong in so many ways
nope she is because she made his birthday about her like when you in a relationship and you know your partner doesn't really celebrate but you decide to do something special anyway it should be places they like and not make it about you i feel bad for him but he also should've said something about it
Time to say byebye to hubby.
Credit Morgan from Two Hot Takes for her reading this story!!!
Is she the asshole? Hell no, her husband now ex husband is a cheater and a dick.
I mean you don’t have to like it, but if she refuses other locations and refuses the hospital, I don’t know where she thinks she’ll be having this baby. It doesn’t sound like she’s really ready to be a parent if this is what’s standing in her way.
Well obviously she would have a birthing tub and her and her husband would have to clean up or hire somebody to clean up
NTA, it was OP’s house 🏡 and she can do with it what she likes and is in no way responsible for the birth and the sister is solely responsible for figuring out her own birth or not. As far as the abortion joke, I get it, it was a morbid joke and those don’t bother me nor does abortion, as I believe it is a fundamental right for people to what people do with their own bodies. However, a comment like that would that p*SS of the sister and possibly cause a fracture of their relationship and I don’t recommend saying that. However, I bet the sister didn’t push her anymore to use her house, so problem solved 🤷🏽♀️
NTA it's your house and she needs stop being a b!tch and grow up and go to the hospital and you have valid reasons for not allowing her to use your house. L pregnant sister and L haters also insensitive haters when did OP tell her sister to abort the child?😂
It’s your house, your decision, not a problem. You crossed the line suggesting she abort.
I don’t think you’re the asshole because it’s your house and her asking to use your house to give birth is a little entitled because unless she’s paying to clean up her mess you’re gonna have to clean it up and it may not completely come out and you’re gonna end up having to pay for it, but telling her to call pregnancy off that was a little too far but you could’ve said was she could have the baby at your house but she has to pay for whatever mess is caused by it
Suggesting she abort her child at four months makes you a monster.
Not the asshole for that but you are for recommending abortion
She is allowed to say no it’s her house NTA the abort comment was a bit too far though
You sound like Shailene Woodley when she did a secret life of American teenager.
Probably gonna get hate for this, but imo NTA. Its your house, so you definitely have the say in what goes on there. If you say no, she can deal with it and go to a hospital or figure out some other alternative. I do think that the abortion part is going a little far since that isn't your call, its hers, so you are not in the right for that, but i agree with everything else.
Your the a-hole
telling her to give to the hospital or abort is wild 😬
Soooo….. you can’t put down a tarp and some old towels for your sister???? But that’s not what has shook me from this…. 4 months pregnant and you suggested her getting rid of the baby!!!!! Yo!!!! You are a damn demon!!! Seriously!!! That’s heartbreaking and wild to me!!! My god.
😂😂😂That's not her problem meth head.
@@allisonbarnett5055 ... She doesn't have to it's her house
@@Cosmo_Rivea you’re right about that part, however, saying she has time to get rid of the baby is disgusting and if you defend that then you’re just as bad as she is. I said what I said. She’s a horrible sister and I’m lucky to have family that actually looks out for each other. If I wanted to have a baby in my families bed, it would be so. Shameful.
Buy an air bnd
yeah she was a huge red flag
If she doesn’t want to be your daughter to be in the wedding then you can make her the ring bearer
I mean kinda because there is really no deference between touching someone private parts so you already cheating by her standards even if she not bi/pan that doesn't matter because it still touching someone privates
Run girl
Make her birthday all about yourself. Turnabout in this case seems fair
This is why you shouldn’t be shacking up until you’re married, or at least, give the relationship at least a year so you have plenty of time to assess the other person’s character.
no you wernt the lady could have moved or went to the front I get being by a man for safty or whatever but to be a jerk no
I'm sorry no I get doing surgery to change down stairs is a lot but boundaries and you said it respectfuly and you don't spesilze in it so why risk your marriage, someone crappy wax, and your bounties yeah no
nah he's a CREEP
I mean yeah shes the mom but two weeks like help out dude and not protecting her Infront of people yeah
erm no girl just noooooo
Do not marry cause what if you have a daughter grandpa will get handsy.not a good life for your daughter..
Absolutely not!
Why is there ink on the wax bear after it's pulled? 😂😂
Dude that girl doesn't know anything about you and has no intention of actually bothering to understand you.... Me thinks you are her walking 2nd wallet. Dump her because it's obvious that she has no respect for you given that she's done nothing to celebrate you and made the day about her for Your birthday 😑. She didn't get you a gift She didn't bother asking you if you wanted to do something you loved. She didn't even get you a birthday cake or food you actually like. She didn't even say happy birthday. She dragged you around a boring mall while she got whatever she wanted. Now she's crying to manipulate you to apologise for her screw up on Your birthday.... See this is when you look at the day and picture that happening for you Every year and think is that what you want for a girlfriend?. Come now have some standards for yourself.
Oh nooo my bf doesn’t appreciate that i had him take me shopping and made him eat at a place i like and made him pay? Thats sooooo crazy
RUN
Sounds like she doesn't want to marry you
Good for you. Maybe there should not be a wedding. This is where it starts.
Ok this should be a real wake up call dude! When I married my husband one of the brides maids was his sister, if she can’t look at your daughter as an important part of your marriage then run like hell!!
Leave her alone NOW
I would Not marry someone who would exclude my child or thought it would be appropriate to do so NTA
Run! If she's being this big of a beotch about it now, imagine how she's going to treat her after the wedding. As a girl whose had two evil stepmother's, trust me when I say the red flags are serious forewarnings. You can always find another woman but you can't ever replace your daughter.
My stepdaughter was a junior bridesmaid/flowergirl combo, she picked on of the wedding colors and that was her dress color, separate from anyone elses
Nta, having your daughter take part in a big occasion like that can form bigger bonds with both you and your daughter and her and your daughter, and saying she wouldn't fit the part sounds so wrong in so many ways
Dump fiancée now
Ofc ur daughter should be a flower girl at YOUR wedding the flower girls are not only the bride’s choice ur getting married too smh
Nta
No, not the asshole
Where’s the paragraph person?
Nta you are respectful about it to her and yourself
nope she is because she made his birthday about her like when you in a relationship and you know your partner doesn't really celebrate but you decide to do something special anyway it should be places they like and not make it about you i feel bad for him but he also should've said something about it