Oh also, what are some good things to say to friends who ask questions like, "Are you still a virgin?", and tease you for not having had sex yet? Comments like these sadden me a lot, especially because these are girls I essentially grew up with, and we've had so many talks about how virginity is a social construct and everyone is entitled to wait until they're ready to do anything, sex-related or no. I want to let them know they hurt me with these comments, but also that I am confident in where I am in my life and the choices I've made ... if that makes sense?
Oh girl I'm sO sorry!!! People who ask you things with a shame-y, judge-y undertone are not good friends :( I would probably try to laugh and reply "are you still someone who believes in virginity?" and then change the subject That's a lot easier said than done though, especially if you feel like you're alone within that group. Think of Cher from Clueless!! "You see how picky I am about my shoes, and they only go on my feet!" The definition of having high standards and wanting something good for yourself. Listen to the song Make Him Wait by Abby Anderson. As I said in the video, I don't necessarily agree with all of it, but it's a nice sentiment around waiting for someone worth your time - which is exactly what you deserve
I have an older brother but the only thing we have in common is that we live together, he’s not rlly present in my life. He just broke up with his long term girlfriend who was more of an older sibling to me than he was, and I feel like I lost my older sister, and I’m turning 15 soon so I need a lot of advice and help with life lol. Watching this means a lot cause my relationship with my parents is really weird so I’m not comfortable enough to talk to them and I have a lot of questions and stuff. Thank you so much for doing these and ilysm💖💖
All I have to say is AMEN to this whole video. The initial hair flip in the beginning killed me. Overall, I thought this video was so dope. A lot of what you said will still resonate from when you're a teenager into adulthood, and that's just life. I feel like these are also things people need to hear regularly because most of them apply in different facets of life, whether it's relationships, family situations, education, and professional careers. Nonetheless, I thought it was amaze. Love u lots dude!
Brandon Julius That is completely true, as Miley said on her instagram live with Emily Osment - the older we get, the younger we get. Thank you so much my dude!!! Love your support always
Oh also leaving toxic friends is NEVER easy - but it will be worth it the end when you're feeling more yourself and you get build friendships with people who raise you up ♡
omg the explanation of toxic friends.... hit HARD sis!!!!! it's amazing that you're sharing this with people because so many will go their whole lives just accepting that "oh i'm gonna feel like sh*t when i hang out with X but they're my friend so" SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK MISS ALLY
Emma McGuigan I heard a really great explanation once around love - if you’ve only ever been loved by someone at 20%, someone else could come along and love you at 30% and you think WOAH this is so much love” but it’s not, it’s not even half. That’s why you have to love yourself to 100% so you know what you deserve 💛
Are you in love right now? What do you love about the person you love? It might be the way we laugh, or the kindness we show to others. Falling in love with someone requires a very specific set of elements to fall into place, and only I know when this happens
ugh i loved this video so much it was SO positive and just what we need right now!!! also i did lol at the iced coffee moment but i am so sorry you went through that and I know how you feel!! honestly PLEASE keep spreading your positivity and calm heart to others, at a time like this it will change the world. all my love sis!!! xxxxx
I LOVE THIS VIDEO IDEA!! I know that there were some things that I couldn't talk to my mom about growing up for the worry of her reaction or being judged. It's amazing that this platform exists to have a lot of these questions that younger girls wonder about answered. I just found your channel from the Content Bug! New subbie here. I would love for us to stay connected!💕
Girl you're sooo lucky you squeaked that hair appointment in right before hell broke loose. One more thing I really wish I could get out and do haha.... yours looks awesome :)
I have pretty much had anxiety to differing levels my whole life. It got to its worst in 2017 and kinda now cause of that thing that we are not naming. I had depression for a bit in 2018 and I’m the opposite. I would 10000000% pick anxiety over depression. I can stop myself from having panic attacks now and living in a state of anxiety is kinda how I spend my life. Depression makes me literally want to die and sucks all meaning out of life. At least I can live life with anxiety! There was a period from mid 2018 to mid 2019 where I wasn’t experiencing anxiety and that was amazing. Deciding to move away and then having the carpet ripped from me and having to come home unexpectedly obviously hasn’t helped my anxiety but I’m dealing and I haven’t had a panic attack since February. I didn’t have a panic attack since mid 2018 and i had 7 (one lasting for a full 24 hours) while in Canada (the last 3 months) but I’m ok. Two of them happened when I was away with 7 friends for a week and it got too intense (I had to have one in the shower) so that makes more sense.
Oh wow that's so interesting to hear!!! I had depression for quite a few years but I mostly felt numb, whereas anxiety made me feel like I was dying every second :( I thought I'd never be able to travel again because I couldn't imagine being away from home and feeling that severe. I'm SO glad to hear you can go stretches without panic attacks, you're amazing to be able to get yourself out of them
@@AllySheehan Oh hey there you are yes it looks good. I wish I could talk to you sometimes and not have to wait for you to post on youtube I'm not on social media but maybe if you gave me a invite i would download that app and look you up
PART 2 NOW UP: ua-cam.com/video/6RzwUDdyID0/v-deo.html
Oh also, what are some good things to say to friends who ask questions like, "Are you still a virgin?", and tease you for not having had sex yet? Comments like these sadden me a lot, especially because these are girls I essentially grew up with, and we've had so many talks about how virginity is a social construct and everyone is entitled to wait until they're ready to do anything, sex-related or no. I want to let them know they hurt me with these comments, but also that I am confident in where I am in my life and the choices I've made ... if that makes sense?
Oh girl I'm sO sorry!!!
People who ask you things with a shame-y, judge-y undertone are not good friends :(
I would probably try to laugh and reply "are you still someone who believes in virginity?" and then change the subject
That's a lot easier said than done though, especially if you feel like you're alone within that group.
Think of Cher from Clueless!! "You see how picky I am about my shoes, and they only go on my feet!"
The definition of having high standards and wanting something good for yourself.
Listen to the song Make Him Wait by Abby Anderson. As I said in the video, I don't necessarily agree with all of it, but it's a nice sentiment around waiting for someone worth your time - which is exactly what you deserve
I have an older brother but the only thing we have in common is that we live together, he’s not rlly present in my life. He just broke up with his long term girlfriend who was more of an older sibling to me than he was, and I feel like I lost my older sister, and I’m turning 15 soon so I need a lot of advice and help with life lol. Watching this means a lot cause my relationship with my parents is really weird so I’m not comfortable enough to talk to them and I have a lot of questions and stuff. Thank you so much for doing these and ilysm💖💖
All I have to say is AMEN to this whole video.
The initial hair flip in the beginning killed me.
Overall, I thought this video was so dope. A lot of what you said will still resonate from when you're a teenager into adulthood, and that's just life. I feel like these are also things people need to hear regularly because most of them apply in different facets of life, whether it's relationships, family situations, education, and professional careers. Nonetheless, I thought it was amaze. Love u lots dude!
Brandon Julius That is completely true, as Miley said on her instagram live with Emily Osment - the older we get, the younger we get.
Thank you so much my dude!!! Love your support always
@@AllySheehan the truth!!!
Oh also leaving toxic friends is NEVER easy - but it will be worth it the end when you're feeling more yourself and you get build friendships with people who raise you up ♡
soooooo true!! you can't make room for the good ones until you clear out the ones holding you back
PLEASE make a girl talk camp edition!!! that would be so good!
Saving this to my feel good playlist. Your energy and vibe is fire. Loved the editing also! Thanks for spreading your light Ally ✨👏🏽💛 forever grateful
Aw thank you so much!!!
@@AllySheehanI’m actually a boy but I still like you and your videos
omg the explanation of toxic friends.... hit HARD sis!!!!! it's amazing that you're sharing this with people because so many will go their whole lives just accepting that "oh i'm gonna feel like sh*t when i hang out with X but they're my friend so" SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK MISS ALLY
Emma McGuigan I heard a really great explanation once around love - if you’ve only ever been loved by someone at 20%, someone else could come along and love you at 30% and you think WOAH this is so much love” but it’s not, it’s not even half. That’s why you have to love yourself to 100% so you know what you deserve 💛
You are just such a good soul Ally. Keep on being your authentic self, always ✨
Cassie Healy oh that’s so kind. Thank you!!
Please do a part two!
Done! ua-cam.com/video/6RzwUDdyID0/v-deo.html
I'm so glad you uploaded!! Comparison IS the thief of joy - you are so right
Ughh i love you ally you the cutest, you must be protected at all costs
haha bless you!
I just love your channel! It makes me so encouraged and just puts me in a productive positive mood! ❤️
oh thank you so much! that's wonderful to hear
This came out at the perfect time
Are you in love right now?
What do you love about the person you love?
It might be the way we laugh, or the kindness we show to others.
Falling in love with someone requires a very specific set of elements to fall into place, and only I know when this happens
Omggg little ally ❤
thank you so so much for this video, Ally! I loved every bit of it and I'm sure this is going to be helpful to so many people x
Svetlana Sterlin thank you lovely! It was my pleasure :)
ugh i loved this video so much it was SO positive and just what we need right now!!! also i did lol at the iced coffee moment but i am so sorry you went through that and I know how you feel!! honestly PLEASE keep spreading your positivity and calm heart to others, at a time like this it will change the world. all my love sis!!! xxxxx
ILYSM
I LOVE THIS VIDEO IDEA!! I know that there were some things that I couldn't talk to my mom about growing up for the worry of her reaction or being judged. It's amazing that this platform exists to have a lot of these questions that younger girls wonder about answered.
I just found your channel from the Content Bug! New subbie here. I would love for us to stay connected!💕
thank you so much lovely !!
also how amazing is she!!! thanks so much for subbing here too :)
Ahh okay you were right!! I did love the start :)) X
Capturia hehehe it’s niche but I knew a few of you would appreciate !!
Wouldn’t expect any other intro besides a Now and Then scene from you, so on brand
you absolutely KNOW it
Watching this video while impulsivly cutting my bangs...wish me luck ally!!
you've got this!!!
hey, saw your comment on the content bugs video and decided to stop by! Awesome content! Keep crushing it ❤️!
wow thanks so much dude!!! i love her stuff :)
hi from russia, i’m in love for your videos✨ accidentally found your video about camp, nice to watch it, pls do more videos, sooo interesting 🙌🏻🌸
hi to russia!! i'm so glad you like them :)
Love the necklace and recycleable anything
you could make a whole vid on the questions we get asked by the fannies/jets😂 xxx amazin content on all platforms gal
haha oh my god the truth to this!!!
thank you so much sunshine
I wish I had this video when I was younger, you're an amazing role model Allie!! (PS: where's this top from ?? It's so cute!)
oh thank you so much!! it's from cotton on :)
I loved this sm ally 🥰
Annabeth Holland 💛💛💛💛
Girl you're sooo lucky you squeaked that hair appointment in right before hell broke loose. One more thing I really wish I could get out and do haha.... yours looks awesome :)
winterrrsea tell me about it!!! Now all I have to worry about is regrowth 😂
omg those pieces are gorgeous!!!!!!! and recycled?? yes maam
HOW AMAZING IS THAT !!!
omg i am so READY
i need ur glasses omg
Love your glasses! Where are they from?
Alana Jade Bailey Nelson!
I loved this video and I request more thank you
your wish is my command!
This is such a good, informative video.
Some of this topics families avoid taking
Thanks so much
Great video lovely Ally!!! ❤
Thank you Sean!!!
Watching this in 2024, thank you for the advice xxxx
season 7 nathan scott im over here
you can have lucas xxx
10:57 couldn’t relate more to the question. 💛
Siobhan Holland I feel you girly it’s so painful 😔
What is the app called? I can't understand at 15:20
Rootd :)
What was the small clip at the beginning from?!
Now and Then! one of my all time favourite films
I have pretty much had anxiety to differing levels my whole life. It got to its worst in 2017 and kinda now cause of that thing that we are not naming. I had depression for a bit in 2018 and I’m the opposite. I would 10000000% pick anxiety over depression. I can stop myself from having panic attacks now and living in a state of anxiety is kinda how I spend my life. Depression makes me literally want to die and sucks all meaning out of life. At least I can live life with anxiety! There was a period from mid 2018 to mid 2019 where I wasn’t experiencing anxiety and that was amazing. Deciding to move away and then having the carpet ripped from me and having to come home unexpectedly obviously hasn’t helped my anxiety but I’m dealing and I haven’t had a panic attack since February. I didn’t have a panic attack since mid 2018 and i had 7 (one lasting for a full 24 hours) while in Canada (the last 3 months) but I’m ok. Two of them happened when I was away with 7 friends for a week and it got too intense (I had to have one in the shower) so that makes more sense.
You have good advice!
Oh wow that's so interesting to hear!!! I had depression for quite a few years but I mostly felt numb, whereas anxiety made me feel like I was dying every second :( I thought I'd never be able to travel again because I couldn't imagine being away from home and feeling that severe. I'm SO glad to hear you can go stretches without panic attacks, you're amazing to be able to get yourself out of them
DO NOT ACCEPT A SEASON ONE NATHAN SCOTT AHHHHHH
Emma McGuigan NEVER EVER MAMA
WE DESERVE SEASON 3 AT LEAST
I just love you
I love you so much more my friend
You should know that I watched this video while starting to colour the Hufflepuff crest in my Harry Potter colouring book.
heck yeah
You will never be happy if you have bad friends. It’s better to have no friends than bad ones
true
btw we could be listening to make him wait LIVE rn :'(
Emily Pamio I literally just said that to G, it’s so so tragic 😭
How old are you Ally just realised idk if you’re 19 or 29 lol
My guess is she's 23
i am the big sister :((
not here you're not! here for anything you need
Hey Ally I'm the only one who noticed that you cut and lightened your hair.
THE A & B CHANNEL you didn’t say if it was good or bad
@@AllySheehan Oh hey there you are yes it looks good. I wish I could talk to you sometimes and not have to wait for you to post on youtube I'm not on social media but maybe if you gave me a invite i would download that app and look you up
I have not have sex but I have been in a hot air ballon. I think I win!
hahahahahaha you DO
come through miss sponsored
Emma McGuigan thank you!!! 💛💛💛💛