Ghost of Me by Make Them Suffer - Therapist Reacts

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @SaintDorado
    @SaintDorado Рік тому +112

    I think a lot of people who don't listen to metal don't realize how powerful the lyrics can be.

    • @michaelreimer1111
      @michaelreimer1111 Рік тому +3

      💯💯💯

    • @Kuraicore
      @Kuraicore Рік тому +3

      i fell out of love with metal and core music 8ish years ago but im getting back into it now and its the biggest thing i missed when i stopped listening to it

    • @jessej319
      @jessej319 11 місяців тому +2

      Big facts!!! Metal has got me through some dark times

    • @h0pesfall
      @h0pesfall 8 місяців тому

      Make Them Suffer is not metal

    • @SaintDorado
      @SaintDorado 8 місяців тому

      @@h0pesfall Not that an abitrary genre really matters, but what do you suggest it is?
      It's pretty much bang on metalcore.

  • @DerekFarnquist23
    @DerekFarnquist23 Рік тому +41

    This is an interesting take on metal music reactions. I can see this being beneficial for a lot of people. Hope you gain more traction!

    • @ThBlueSalamander
      @ThBlueSalamander Рік тому

      Connect through music! And the best deep part about metal

  • @davesmith2332
    @davesmith2332 3 місяці тому +1

    Metal’s been therapy for me since I was a young child. Some people will never understand, but it’s truly given me an outlet for emotions that nothing else can fulfill. Really appreciate your insight here ❤️

  • @carlthegamer9215
    @carlthegamer9215 Рік тому +4

    @HeartSupport I love how we can truly see she's a metal enthusiast. This song is among the ultimate bangers of our time. Love how she listened to the whole thing before analyzing it. And her reaction put a stretched smile on my face. A rare thing in itself.
    I'd love more content from her. Subbed.

  • @austinross8974
    @austinross8974 Рік тому +10

    song brings me to tears everytime. never had a metal song quite hit me like that.

    • @theopinson3851
      @theopinson3851 7 місяців тому

      Alex’s parts especially. Do you really want to hurt me now? Do you realize that you hate yourself? 😮

  • @funnyperson4027
    @funnyperson4027 Рік тому +10

    Lmao your face when he came in the gutturals. One of my favourite parts of this track

  • @trash_panda
    @trash_panda Рік тому +22

    I like this take, someone finally deciphers the lyrics for how much emotion metal has. Heavily a common subject for this band.
    Erase Me
    Elegies
    Neverbloom
    Are a few more songs by Make Them Suffer that have such deep lyrics

    • @saltybutts3716
      @saltybutts3716 Рік тому +1

      Also The Well, such a great song

    • @robertsimon5245
      @robertsimon5245 Рік тому +2

      Hollowed Hearts

    • @DelaeR9
      @DelaeR9 Рік тому +2

      Let me in is also a good one

    • @carlthegamer9215
      @carlthegamer9215 Рік тому +1

      Widower.

    • @jamieheslop2750
      @jamieheslop2750 8 місяців тому

      @@DelaeR9 +1 for let me in, my mum was diagnosed with cancer the day after Old Souls came out and Let Me In still breaks me to this day!

  • @funnyperson4027
    @funnyperson4027 Рік тому +7

    Damn I came here for a reaction to this track left with a completely different view of things. I really resonated with this. Thank you

  • @austinhoudeshell5962
    @austinhoudeshell5962 Рік тому +6

    Another great metal/metalcore band to check out for deep lyrics is Wage War. I recommend Low, Stitch, and The River for starters, but they have soooo many good songs and they all have deep, meaningful lyrics. Thank you for taking this approach to show that metal music is more than "just noise" ❤

  • @Chrisdaman01
    @Chrisdaman01 8 місяців тому +2

    This song is unbelievable, the chorus is absolute 🔥🔥

  • @DylanPeters01
    @DylanPeters01 Рік тому +2

    This is really sick!! I’ve never seen a deep dive into lyrics after watching someones reaction to a metal track like this. This was super moving to watch! I struggle with Anxiety and I really resonated with the part where you said we gotta search internally and not have so much outside validation. Thanks for the awesome video! I hope this channel blows up :)

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Рік тому +2

      From Micro: Yea anxiety really is this voice that pushes us to constantly second guess ourselves - if not others too. Seeking validation outside of yourself makes completely sense when you're not sure that what you're putting into this world is okay to share, express, or do. I've personally been struggling with anxiety ever since I was little, and it's insane how much *my* inner world is fluctuating based on my environment. Adapting to others has become a way to survive, and learning to reverse that is freaking hard. But there is so much worth within us that we don't allow ourselves to see because of anxiety. We are not meant to exist just through the eyes and validation of others. We, internally, are our very first ally. Even if it takes time to learn to be a friend to ourselves. Just this realization that you have expressed is huge, and the way you've put words on it as well. I believe once you're aware of it, it opens a door to learning to dialogue with yourself, and see this need for validation differently. You are absolutely equipped to navigate this world, and what this world needs is *you* jut as you are. Hold Fast, friend. I believe in you.

    • @ThBlueSalamander
      @ThBlueSalamander Рік тому

      Same to everything you said ✊

    • @ThBlueSalamander
      @ThBlueSalamander Рік тому

      @@HeartSupport I'm going through all this. Thanks for writing it makes perfect sense

  • @BradFriday
    @BradFriday 9 місяців тому +1

    This is one of the best songs I've heard in a long time, MTS are killing it.

  • @batsinthebelfry907
    @batsinthebelfry907 Рік тому +5

    I would rather go nowhere than inside myself. Great song, great interpretation. Thanks!

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Рік тому +3

      From NateTriesAgain: Yeah, it's pretty terrifying to feel like looking inside would be like stepping out into a void. A kind of "existential" or "mental freefall". It's scary af.
      I remember a point in my life where I was facing that kind of dread - feeling terrified I'd come up short, like I wouldn't be able to do it, like I just couldn't / didn't know how / wouldn't even know what to do if I looked inside. You're definitely not alone in that feeling.
      There's something about a familiar pain that we can understand and wrap our arms around versus an unfamiliar pain that could be like writing a blank check of destruction to your life. We just don't know what it will cost us, so how do we evaluate if it's better than what we have? It's really hard to make the decision to change if we don't know that.
      So I think it makes a lot of sense why you'd rather go nowhere than inside yourself.
      I think the only reason why I was willing to make the leap into that "void" in my own life was because I had an obvious pain point in my life (addiction) that just wasn't working. I knew if I stayed /here/, I was going to keep being miserable. Keep staying stuck, and I just didn't want to do that. I would rather take a risk for a better life than stay where I was.
      Sometimes our present pain is actually the only motivator we have to inspire ourselves for change. If there's an aspect of your life - of feeling stuck or "going nowhere" - that is particularly burdensome, it could be worth sitting with that feeling and examining - is this what I want my life to look like, to be? That could be a motivating factor for taking the leap, if you wanted.
      Either way, you took one in acknowledging where you are feeling stuck here, and that's awesome. Thank you for choosing to share.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Рік тому

      From Micro: Hey friend,
      Thank you so much for sharing this here. To be fair - what you've expressed completely makes sense. In order to heal, find closure or move forward in our life, we may have to looki nside ourselves and sometimes dig very deeply in order to regain some peace. It's like you're standing at the edge of an important and significant change in your life, but you *know* it's going to suck, you *know* it's going to be messy, and even more that it's likely going to hurt. With that in mind, it makes sense to prefer to do anything else than looking inside of yourself. As human beings, we want to avoid the pain as much as possible.
      There's been in my life when I have felt the way you do - and it's still an ongoing process but to learn to identify when I'm ready and *safe* to look inside or not. It's scary to know that we may need to open that door without knowing exactly what it would lead us to, and how much time would it take to be at the other end of that process. Once my therapist asked me what I was afraid of when it comes to allowing myself to *feel*, for example - and my answer was the fear that facing the pain would reactivate it in a way that would feel endless. Not knowing when it would stop. Along the way though, by turning within, I've also come to discover strengths and resources I never thought existed.
      I think it takes a lot of strength already to express what you've said here. You're not in denial and somehow you know what may be needed, but for know it's scary and you're don't feel ready - and that is 100% okay. Somehow, by saying this, you are in this process of wandering and acknowledging that something could be needed, some change to be created. Although it's okay to say "not now".
      There is a lot of growth that can stem from this process, and I wholeheartedly believe that you have the resources within to walk through it safely. If you ever need a space to talk about it, or to share about what is that you would rather avoid, then know Heartsupport is here. You're not alone. I believe in you.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Рік тому +1

      From mpicreates: "I would rather go nowhere than inside myself."
      That's such a simple phrase with so much meaning behind it. I can absolutely relate to the feeling of I'd rather be stuck and stay the same than open the box of whatever is going on inside my head. I spent years doing that same thing.
      It definitely takes work to start looking within and facing your demons or suffering head on, but it's also so freeing. Yes, opening that box creates work that you will have to do, but it can be such a weight lifted off your shoulders to know that you are working to feel better. You are moving out of that place that you are stuck in and onto a much better place.
      There are so many people who feel this way too so you're definitely not alone in those thoughts. Thank you for sharing with us and I hope you take those steps to look inward when you're ready. Much love and holdfast friend.

    • @carlthegamer9215
      @carlthegamer9215 Рік тому +2

      I always tell people, my mind is like a bad neighbourhood. You don't want to be left there alone.

    • @batsinthebelfry907
      @batsinthebelfry907 Рік тому +1

      @@carlthegamer9215 I feel you on that man.

  • @TahaAjouz
    @TahaAjouz Рік тому +2

    You are 100% right 🥺 lovedd the videoo🥺🥺♥️♥️

  • @theopinson3851
    @theopinson3851 7 місяців тому

    “Mental health banger.” Lol! That’s a new one. Really interesting and thoughtful analysis!

  • @timaitchison4775
    @timaitchison4775 Рік тому +2

    I'm a simple man. I see these videos I click like. Simples.

  • @davidpalahinjak8954
    @davidpalahinjak8954 Рік тому +3

    Never Too Late by Three Days Grace! 😎🔥🤘🎸

  • @ps4masterrace508
    @ps4masterrace508 Рік тому +2

    Loved the video! You should watch "Gone With the Wind" or basically any song off of Architects album, Holy Hell. That song especially is about one of the two band members (who were both brothers), passing away at a young age, from cancer while still writing and continuing to be in the band and his impact.

  • @davidpalahinjak8954
    @davidpalahinjak8954 Рік тому +2

    Love your reaction! 🔥

  • @davidpalahinjak8954
    @davidpalahinjak8954 Рік тому +2

    Banger! 🔥

  • @666pitmaster
    @666pitmaster Рік тому +4

    Metal/hardocre lyrics have always been a source of strength for me. "Give Wings To My Triumph" by Hatebreed, really the whole Supremacy album, helped me through a lot of stuff during my younger years. Make Them Suffer could easily be a dissertation in the field of mental health. Just listen to the album Neverbloom, the whole thing, that is not the shit you normally get when death metal bands try and sound tough. I feel pain when I listen to them, partially because most of the lyrics are about self realization of worthlessness and I relate to that, but also its not stuff you just make up. You need to do a reaction video to "Save Yourself" by these guys, you'll thank me later.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Рік тому +3

      From Micro: "It's not stuff you just make up", this is so very well said and true, and really the core reason of why specific bands and lyrics can resonate so deeply with our heart. That are bands and songs I can easily list that have been absolutely life saving to me personally, just like you describe with Hatebreed. It's incredible how powerful the gift of listening to something that echoes ourselves can be. Knowing that you can listen to only a couple notes to have one specific part of your soul that becomes more present, whole. It's beautiful, powerful, and there's definitely not enough words to express how deep this kind of experience can be. I find it through your words, and absolutely love that music has been such a pillar of strength, resilience and perseverance to you. However the other side of it sometimes it to feel the pain deeper, and potentially find comfort in it, in those dark places of ourselves that may not serve us, but feel at least familiar. If I may ask, when you mention relating the self realization of worthlessness, is it something that you still feel or struggle with these days? I of course don't know your personal story, but, from one stranger to another, I can assure you that you matter so very much, that you belong, and that being you is a gift to this world, to your loved ones, and to anyone who would have the chance to cross your path. PS - going to listen to "Save Yourself" asap.

    • @food223
      @food223 Рік тому +1

      @@HeartSupport save yourself is a masterpiece

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Рік тому +1

      From Micro: Just listened to it and this was a nice discovery for me. Thank you for the recommendation! I usually don't listen to this genre (am more into technical/death metal). But really love how they depicted this message of "you need to go away and save yourself from me", as "I" would only bring pain to you. Always such a powerful yet dramatic way to both express love and self-rejection. Something that many of us feel and experience for sure. Thanks again for the heads up! -Micro

  • @Hicks-g1m
    @Hicks-g1m Рік тому +1

    Make them suffer ghost of me pure music to my ears hellyeah 😈😈

  • @cemeterysinner7284
    @cemeterysinner7284 7 місяців тому

    Metal has always been my saving grace, so to speak. I don't know how many times I've made it through seemingly impossible situations by just throwing on a song and vibing out. So sad that metal has been shunted to the back burner when it's so beneficial.

  • @Gh0sTGaming420
    @Gh0sTGaming420 Рік тому +3

    I think reacting ti think you should react to the pain remains trilogy by lorna shore there's so much you could talk about with those songs think it might be right up your alley

  • @tneless10
    @tneless10 11 місяців тому

    I love this type of reaction. I’d love for you to do some research and dive into some other bands. Secrets, the amity affliction (let the ocean take me and not without my ghosts albums), glass hands. Again love this!

  • @davidpalahinjak8954
    @davidpalahinjak8954 Рік тому +1

    I Hate Everything About You by 3 Days Grace! 😎🔥🤘🎸

  • @jonatanmarklund7473
    @jonatanmarklund7473 Рік тому +1

    PLEASE do Make them suffer - Save Yourself, imo the best lyric by then about mental (un)health

  • @davidpalahinjak8954
    @davidpalahinjak8954 Рік тому +1

    Aussie Metalcore! 🔥

  • @chriszagaros6346
    @chriszagaros6346 11 місяців тому

    Listen forgiveness of self by stick to your guns. Acoustic version hits hard

  • @isaiasesssaearealidadebati2673

    Excelente

  • @mattmcgilvery8790
    @mattmcgilvery8790 Рік тому

    YOU YADY. JUST BECAME MY FAVORITE CHANNEL 💯💯💯🤘🤘🤘🤘🔥🔥🔥. But she's HEARING and LISTWNING.....That be real shit. Keep doing what your doing beautiful🖤🖤🖤

  • @wellbutrinwarlock
    @wellbutrinwarlock Рік тому

    You should definitely listen to Future Palace’s new song Malphas, they write a lot of great songs with lyrics related to struggling with mental illness, think it’d be a good fit!

  • @davidpalahinjak8954
    @davidpalahinjak8954 Рік тому +1

    Taylor losing her shit! 🤣

  • @Michael-hq5tp
    @Michael-hq5tp Рік тому +6

    Everyone needs to stop listening to boring stuff like Adele etc and jump into metal,so much better

  • @WanderlustWarrior46
    @WanderlustWarrior46 10 місяців тому

    @heartsupport if yiur looking a mental helthlt bannager ren- hi ren suld be at the top of your list. Thanks love the channel w