The gift of gab is a superpower that has served me well throughout my whole life! Sweet and soothing words can be the honey to those honeybees, if you know what I mean😉
This is one of the reasons why getting out there is so important. You have to learn to communicate with people face to face, and in person; holding a real conversation.
Whenever I worked in retail, I was always the top seller. I worked for a cosmetic company once and the majority of their clientele were middle aged, elderly White women. The account Executive told me she couldn't believe that a young Black girl would sell way more than any other White female could. She asked me what did I do...."I said i asked them about their families, their pets if they had any, their health, grandkids, and what type of woman they were when they were younger. They loved me, and said no one has ever paid attention to them since they became older. Lol
Thank You for this OG. I grew up a shy kid all the way past college. I started talking way more after I got into my Nutrition/Fitness Lifestyle in 2015, because I started to not just understand myself, but “innerstand” myself, now everyone says I talk too much. I started developing my mouth piece and learned that I had the Gift of Gab since birth, it was just the insecurities from being sheltered since birth from my family made me think no one would like me, so I stayed quiet. Now, everywhere I go, I meet people from different cultures and my dating rate has been insane over the years, I am not even thirty yet. Keep putting out that Game OG. Every Summer, becomes my Best Summer after discovering this God giving gift I never knew I had.
Sometimes I find this hard to do, not because I'm intimidated by women but because I don't have anything to talk about. There had been women in the past who I thought were attractive. Some gave me obvious choosing signals. I'd be wanting to say something to them but my mind was blank. I had nothing to talk about. Eventually they lost interest and went for the lesser attractive dudes who had the gift of gab. My problem is that I need to get out of my comfort zone and start doing things. That way I'll always have something to talk about. Being exposed and keeping up with what's going on in the world might solve this problem.
Eddie Walker yea bruh, It’s the same way with me, I’m talking obvious signals from decent ass females but I be like I’m straight lol At least we get obvious signals tho....gotta stop over thinking too 💭
Have the same problem but I'm getting better. I conquered the eye contact part in high school but in a convo sometimes, my mind would go blank. Like I would forget the person's name and info on a subject I normally could say off the top of my head. I think the problem is mental health ultimately. I mean in the issue of us not feeding and resting our mind good enough. I'm reading a book on this, The Brain Fog Fix by Mike Dow. This book breaks down that problem
Eddie Walker I had this problem not too long ago. If you find you don't have anything to talk about you should try being very observant of your surroundings when you go out. try to find something interesting about what you see. For example I've seen a lot of Mercedes on the road lately and been wondering how much they go for etc. One day I see someone get out of one and started talking to them about the car (price, interior, maintenance). After the convo I learned more about the car from talking rather than using google and was able pass the info on to other people I meet. Observe and inquire (Doesn't apply to just women, people in general)
I heard people told me this a few times uncle rom. One of my Motivations as young g growing up is Tupac. Just the way he talked in his interviews and articulated his self I patterned that in terms of the gift of gab. I'm in the sales restaurant business so I upsell a lot to guests. It works bros lol. Plenty of chicks (Young and old) give me voice and smile compliments at that register
I knew a dude from a long time ago. I always wondered how easy he was able to pull women. And I noticed he always had a way with words when he talk to women. He had the gift of gab alright but he made it look so simple. Lol
Dave Chappelle would test himself by writing obscure things on post its, then pull one out of a fish bowl and write a joke about that thing. If you can make a joke about obscure things you can talk about anything.
I took commission sales as my Schooling for life. I use to be shy and timid with a speech impediment. Now I can go anywhere and make a sale or a connection. My old friends notice the change to the point that they got into sales. Uncle Rom is right.👏
So on point with commission sales. I honestly believe that every man should have a commission sales job from the age of 17-23 at least once in their life as a rites of passage. That way a man could learn and understand rejections, make some money, read people and understand body language. I've always felt that way and I tell young men the same thing. I'm 37 now. That fact that you made this video on THAT subject......I gotta meet you in person one day shake your hand. 💯. You definitely out here doing God's work and helping young men out here. BTW....the video you made, "the difference between a gentleman and a simp" changed my life. Thanks Rom!!👍🏿👍🏿
Cats need to learn to freely talk to EVERYBODY, not just women. Sales teaches you how to open old ladies, kids, ANYBODY. Sales has been the most satisfying career I could have gotten into. It teaches you so many things about people
This is a basic human skill that is lacking with most men and most women - verbal communication. The internet/technology age made this basic skill even more rare, which provided an advantage to masked man, non-select men and thirsty dudes. This is a huge problem in the dating arena. People will go out and not say anything to anybody. Step one #1 - Say hello or hey!
I worked sales for nine years that was a real ph d in life u learn people behavior and social skills my district manager would tell me all the time I had the gift of gab I just learned people and observed them especially the women plenty of stores there lol but now I just took that to the Uber game that’s my part time hustle but I got more 5 stars for conversation than anything else and that brings tips conversation run the nation ppl
Not all but there are some Homeless pan handlers on the train that will have u hitting your POCKETS faster then GRANDMA dumping her PURSE into the CHURCH COLLECTION PLATE.
Jervis Horton 😂🤣😂 I never fall for any of it thanks to truck driving 😂🤣😂 If you’re straight forward instead of a long ass story on how your car was repossessed etc...I might consider giving you $5 lol 😂
Women be like why are you still single?! I say I am the bachelor and looking for a women that suits my lifestyle. Favorite with women underdog job-related. 😏
Alot 😂ppl say even my granny 🧓🏿 and uncle 🤴🏿 say I have the gift of gab 🎁I can sell 🌊 water to a whale 🐋 I'm a bachelor 👯♀️ and a pimp 🎩🦯👯♀️ not a simp I stamp ✅ dat 💯 on nation ☪️🐰 I'm only 25 💯
The gift of gab is a superpower that has served me well throughout my whole life! Sweet and soothing words can be the honey to those honeybees, if you know what I mean😉
This is one of the reasons why getting out there is so important. You have to learn to communicate with people face to face, and in person; holding a real conversation.
Truth.
True get out there talk to people
Talk to them .... make them laugh and smile ... make her comfortable .... and she’s all yours !!! Simple !
Spot on Uncle Rom. I believe however good you are in sales, is a direct translation of how well you will do with women.
Womanizers make the best salesmen.
@@RomWills yep !
this is *very* true. It's about energy too
Whenever I worked in retail, I was always the top seller. I worked for a cosmetic company once and the majority of their clientele were middle aged, elderly White women. The account Executive told me she couldn't believe that a young Black girl would sell way more than any other White female could. She asked me what did I do...."I said i asked them about their families, their pets if they had any, their health, grandkids, and what type of woman they were when they were younger. They loved me, and said no one has ever paid attention to them since they became older. Lol
I might have job for you in the future. Seriously. Hit me up.
Conversation rules the nation
Thank You for this OG. I grew up a shy kid all the way past college. I started talking way more after I got into my Nutrition/Fitness Lifestyle in 2015, because I started to not just understand myself, but “innerstand” myself, now everyone says I talk too much. I started developing my mouth piece and learned that I had the Gift of Gab since birth, it was just the insecurities from being sheltered since birth from my family made me think no one would like me, so I stayed quiet.
Now, everywhere I go, I meet people from different cultures and my dating rate has been insane over the years, I am not even thirty yet. Keep putting out that Game OG. Every Summer, becomes my Best Summer after discovering this God giving gift I never knew I had.
Yeah.... I had the same upbringing. Now I’m 24 still trying to escape my awkward teenage phase 😅
how did u develop ur mouthpiece
Sometimes I find this hard to do, not because I'm intimidated by women but because I don't have anything to talk about. There had been women in the past who I thought were attractive. Some gave me obvious choosing signals. I'd be wanting to say something to them but my mind was blank. I had nothing to talk about. Eventually they lost interest and went for the lesser attractive dudes who had the gift of gab. My problem is that I need to get out of my comfort zone and start doing things. That way I'll always have something to talk about. Being exposed and keeping up with what's going on in the world might solve this problem.
Eddie Walker yea bruh, It’s the same way with me, I’m talking obvious signals from decent ass females but I be like I’m straight lol At least we get obvious signals tho....gotta stop over thinking too 💭
A real easy way to interact with people do Uber or lyft u converse and interact and get paid for it
Have the same problem but I'm getting better. I conquered the eye contact part in high school but in a convo sometimes, my mind would go blank. Like I would forget the person's name and info on a subject I normally could say off the top of my head. I think the problem is mental health ultimately. I mean in the issue of us not feeding and resting our mind good enough. I'm reading a book on this, The Brain Fog Fix by Mike Dow. This book breaks down that problem
Eddie Walker I had this problem not too long ago. If you find you don't have anything to talk about you should try being very observant of your surroundings when you go out. try to find something interesting about what you see. For example I've seen a lot of Mercedes on the road lately and been wondering how much they go for etc. One day I see someone get out of one and started talking to them about the car (price, interior, maintenance). After the convo I learned more about the car from talking rather than using google and was able pass the info on to other people I meet. Observe and inquire (Doesn't apply to just women, people in general)
I heard people told me this a few times uncle rom. One of my Motivations as young g growing up is Tupac. Just the way he talked in his interviews and articulated his self I patterned that in terms of the gift of gab. I'm in the sales restaurant business so I upsell a lot to guests. It works bros lol. Plenty of chicks (Young and old) give me voice and smile compliments at that register
I knew a dude from a long time ago. I always wondered how easy he was able to pull women. And I noticed he always had a way with words when he talk to women. He had the gift of gab alright but he made it look so simple. Lol
Steve “the Dean” Williams always said years ago that men should aim for the kitty 🐱 between her ears than the one between her legs 🤷🏾♂️🤣
Dave Chappelle would test himself by writing obscure things on post its, then pull one out of a fish bowl and write a joke about that thing. If you can make a joke about obscure things you can talk about anything.
Wisdom 🙏
I took commission sales as my Schooling for life. I use to be shy and timid with a speech impediment. Now I can go anywhere and make a sale or a connection. My old friends notice the change to the point that they got into sales. Uncle Rom is right.👏
You saw it first hand.
The gift of gab,that's the key.
Absolutely 💯💪🔥
I always said that the man who masters the jive talk will go far.
Fellas try to listen and be relax around women. Ask specific questions because that's what they love.
So on point with commission sales. I honestly believe that every man should have a commission sales job from the age of 17-23 at least once in their life as a rites of passage. That way a man could learn and understand rejections, make some money, read people and understand body language. I've always felt that way and I tell young men the same thing. I'm 37 now. That fact that you made this video on THAT subject......I gotta meet you in person one day shake your hand. 💯. You definitely out here doing God's work and helping young men out here. BTW....the video you made, "the difference between a gentleman and a simp" changed my life. Thanks Rom!!👍🏿👍🏿
Thanks fam. You're about that commissioned sales thing. Nothing prepares a man for rejection more than a sales job.
@@RomWills I've always loved the idea if "getting paid to talk shit". Can't lose that way. Can get rich twice
Cats need to learn to freely talk to EVERYBODY, not just women. Sales teaches you how to open old ladies, kids, ANYBODY. Sales has been the most satisfying career I could have gotten into. It teaches you so many things about people
im the uk but my case is different but where do u get a sales job from
She says she a Christian and you say I worship satan lmao real talk tho
This is a basic human skill that is lacking with most men and most women - verbal communication. The internet/technology age made this basic skill even more rare, which provided an advantage to masked man, non-select men and thirsty dudes. This is a huge problem in the dating arena. People will go out and not say anything to anybody. Step one #1 - Say hello or hey!
Truth.
I worked sales for nine years that was a real ph d in life u learn people behavior and social skills my district manager would tell me all the time I had the gift of gab I just learned people and observed them especially the women plenty of stores there lol but now I just took that to the Uber game that’s my part time hustle but I got more 5 stars for conversation than anything else and that brings tips conversation run the nation ppl
That how you work it.
The gift 🎁 of GAB don’t have anything to do with looks... FACTS ROM!!
That's why every man needs to develop his conversation skills.
Rom, do you think someone can be "a man of few words" and still have it? I know you've talked about introvert game before.
He can. Everybody doesn't have the gift of gab. Being a man of few words is powerful. Several types of game.
@@RomWills I meant can he have the gift of gab. Or is being chatty a prerequisite?
@@ChrisJames-gv9wy I think you can learn it
Good video
Not all but there are some Homeless pan handlers on the train that will have u hitting your POCKETS faster then GRANDMA dumping her PURSE into the CHURCH COLLECTION PLATE.
😂
Jervis Horton 😂🤣😂 I never fall for any of it thanks to truck driving 😂🤣😂
If you’re straight forward instead of a long ass story on how your car was repossessed etc...I might consider giving you $5 lol 😂
I tell my son and myself..... Just because u are not a Salesman u still hv to know how to Sale yourself
Women be like why are you still single?! I say I am the bachelor and looking for a women that suits my lifestyle. Favorite with women underdog job-related. 😏
I'd rather be Blackbolt. Leave the talking to the con men.
Sincere Preachers and politicians got that gift.
Alot 😂ppl say even my granny 🧓🏿 and uncle 🤴🏿 say I have the gift of gab 🎁I can sell 🌊 water to a whale 🐋 I'm a bachelor 👯♀️ and a pimp 🎩🦯👯♀️ not a simp I stamp ✅ dat 💯 on nation ☪️🐰 I'm only 25 💯
I hate you....lol I'm a sucker for a mouth piece.
LOL!