@@Cait877 Relax 🙄. There are some places where certain names or words have different connotations. It’s simply a concidence being pointed out, not like they said Ryker is a shitty name. Getting your underwear all bunched up🙄
@@Jennifer-qq1be I hardly comment on people’s parenting but they left their two young children alone in hotel rooms ON A CRUISE. And posted about it on their instagram. Their lucky nobody with bad intentions was watching can’t say the same for Madeleine mcCan. ( similar situation just not on a cruise ) . Hopefully they learn from that mistake anything could’ve happened. I baby say my niece over night in the morning I had to shower I face timed her tablet from my room ACROSS the bathroom with both doors open I would never leave such small children alone the way they did. That’s crazy frrr
Tbh kids already come w more schedules than us, my kid woke me up at 6 am since he was in the belly 😂 he's 8 and still does it lmao when I go to bring him breakfast for school he's already up 😅❤
Yeah I’d say as long as its consistent, getting my kid on a sleep schedule was not hard to do at all. She goes to bed at 8 tho. And keep the same schedule through out the summer when possibly and boom, she is ready for school and already gets up when she needs to
@@Smaugettemy husband I and visited his family in Florida. His mom, adult sister, grandma… we live in northern Ca with no family or babysitters. They came for our wedding years ago and we didn’t even get our wedding night to ourselves. When we visited Florida last year, we thought we might get a dinner or two. My husband even thought we might have a hotel stay on the beach.. like a one night adult vacation within our family vacation. nope, we got one lunch date. I treasured it but I definitely know the feeling.
@@redwoodtrailof course his family wanted to spend time with him as well you just compared going on vacation WITH family your constantly around to going to SEE family you never get to see.
This is where you learn from the Asian parenting methods - 1) travel with a herd with people so you've always got an auntie, uncle or grandparent to look after them 2) youve have a consistent noise around the clock in the house so they will sleep anywhere from a concert and to a circus 😂😂
@@cececuthill6608 eh because of the culture it’s all a “pay it forward” type of mentality chances are they themselves were also taken care of by the aunties and uncles and if the aunties and uncles and cousins have kids then they will also be taken care of by family. Americans are more individualistic but other cultures have the “it takes a village” mindset. So what I’m saying id they probably wouldn’t mind.
My parents use to just put me in the stroller in the restaurant or outside next to the bar. Sure it took me some time to fall adleep but for a baby or a young kid, vacation days are exhausting and i would just end up passing out for the night
@@Molly-on6zc as a first time mom who had to learn everything on her own I will say those brakes are very important 😭😭😭😂 learned the hard way… good thing I’m fast 😂
We forced our babies (all five plus all of the 32 fosters we had that came in as babies- some didn’t- most didn’) to fall asleep wherever we were bassinet in a loud space because our life was chaos and we are both doctors- we had other caregivers in the home, and we had an active travel and social life. We would have been down at the pool with the older kids with a baby asleep bundled in a pack-n-play poolside.
@@Emily-o2l7x yes, we made them get used to falling asleep wherever we were, kids have to sleep, so “forcing” them to sleep in whatever room we were in was real punishment😓🤪
@@Emily-o2l7x yes, having kids sleep train is child abuse, they’re all well adjusted adults now making 6+ figures and they sleep through the night in big cities- I think they’re fine.
It may be a sacrifice feeling right now but honestly my two boys still go to bed at 7 and they are 5 and under. It’s been nice and you can tell they get cranky when they don’t stick to their bedtime routine. Trying to create health sleeping habits early❤
You can always readjust schedules after vacation, but you can't relive a vacation. Spend the week before vacation working on readjusting his schedule for your time on vacation. Then afterwards slowly get back to your normal schedule. Kids are flexible until you teach them not to be. My kids had to learn this being a military family with many time change visits and moves.
We just got our 9 month old to have a routine. She will literally crawl into her room for her first nap. 8:30 is my favorite time of day. I can finally get my projects done.
Cute but he would sleep in a stroller I am sure while you all took turns swimming. But yes We do have to sacrifice ourselves for our children 😉 Snuggle in bed with each other watch a movie 🙏🙏
@@tanjajutanda9098 *My husband & I. It is only grammatically correct to say the other person, then you. & it should be "I", not "me." Use "I" when you are the subject of the sentence & "me" when you are the object. In this case, you are the subject. You wouldn't say, "Me take turns swimming."
I was ridiculed and pressured by others because my child went to sleep at 7pm. In my opinion, it really is best for them so I stood firm in their 7pm bedtime routine. It’s so hard for many to do these days with two working parents, single working parents, work hours increasing etc. I applaud all parents that put their children first in the effort to do what’s best for them - whatever that may be. ❤
I have this exact problem. I got my 4 month old daughter on a schedule already, so shes ready for bed by 7PM, so there is no more going out after that time for my husband and I. We tried going out one time before after 7 and she stayed awake the entire time we were out and when we got home she was extremely over-tired and screamed and cried for 3 hours straight no matter what i did to try and help calm her down
Yeah mine wouldn't sleep until 9 but would happily sleep anywhere. Particularly if I had my carrier. So i could have her strapped to me and we could go anywhere.
Then theres me who was stuck staying up til 3am cause all 4 nieces & nephews in a tiny hotel room Even the 5month baby was up playing with em They had too much energy cause it stormed so no pool My old self is tired today
Nah thats actually a good thing I would be relaxing eating some snacks cuddling with my husband and watching a movie. Instead we have to wait until our kid goes to sleep hella late
I know this is a different place and it isn't free, but just a heads up, if you're at Disney, they do have in-room babysitting services. They offer it for 6 months all the way to 18. However, for WDW, Disneyland doesn't do it.
Pfffft girl same except mine sleeps 10 hours. If she went at 7pm shed be up at 5am. That would mean i would need to be in bed at like 8pm to get a good nights sleep. Id have no life 😂
Your kid. Your choice. There's so much less with having them with you and an early evening doesn't mean you can't have a great vacation. We did this with ours because they didn't sleep well out and about. We still had fun
It’s so nice when they’re on a routine and they go to bed early. It gives y’all time together to clean up and relax.
Yes, that's what all parents dream about 😂 to clean up when kids are in bed 😂😂😂
Yu
Not on vacation though
nope pool is way better
Yeah when at home but did u miss the part where they said it sucks rn cause they’re on vacation? Seems like u missed it
Only one of the numerous sacrifices you will make out of love for Ryker. Lydia you’re so cute in this short!🥰
Their kid’s name is Ryker?? Hmm idk I don’t like that bc of the jail, sounds weird…but I’m also from NY 😅
@@AshErin8304 Ryker is a common name and it’s only growing more popular, get use to it🤷♀️
@@Cait877😂😂😂😂 maybe in Murica. You can keep it there 😂😂
@@Cait877 calm down
@@Cait877 Relax 🙄. There are some places where certain names or words have different connotations. It’s simply a concidence being pointed out, not like they said Ryker is a shitty name. Getting your underwear all bunched up🙄
Matt and Abby should see this and take notes.
i was looking for this one
😅
What happened?
@@Jennifer-qq1be I hardly comment on people’s parenting but they left their two young children alone in hotel rooms ON A CRUISE. And posted about it on their instagram. Their lucky nobody with bad intentions was watching can’t say the same for Madeleine mcCan. ( similar situation just not on a cruise ) . Hopefully they learn from that mistake anything could’ve happened. I baby say my niece over night in the morning I had to shower I face timed her tablet from my room ACROSS the bathroom with both doors open I would never leave such small children alone the way they did. That’s crazy frrr
Lol honestly getting a kid to get used to sleeping at 7pm is one hell of an accomplishment! Lol
Right!!
Fr
Tbh kids already come w more schedules than us, my kid woke me up at 6 am since he was in the belly 😂 he's 8 and still does it lmao when I go to bring him breakfast for school he's already up 😅❤
Yeah I’d say as long as its consistent, getting my kid on a sleep schedule was not hard to do at all. She goes to bed at 8 tho. And keep the same schedule through out the summer when possibly and boom, she is ready for school and already gets up when she needs to
They are on vacation. Perhaps the Baby is tired because of the Trip or because of the new impressions. You never know.
Haha! I feel this! We've started going with the grandparents because they're always happy to stay in the room with our kids while we go have fun! 😂😂
We went on a family vacation with the in laws and we got stuck with all the kids 😂 Never again!
@@Smaugettemy husband I and visited his family in Florida. His mom, adult sister, grandma… we live in northern Ca with no family or babysitters. They came for our wedding years ago and we didn’t even get our wedding night to ourselves. When we visited Florida last year, we thought we might get a dinner or two. My husband even thought we might have a hotel stay on the beach.. like a one night adult vacation within our family vacation. nope, we got one lunch date. I treasured it but I definitely know the feeling.
@@redwoodtrailof course his family wanted to spend time with him as well you just compared going on vacation WITH family your constantly around to going to SEE family you never get to see.
@@Smaugettemaybe because they’re YOUR kids?? 😭
@@EricCartman-wf3ts only 1 was. The other 3 were not so stfu.
This is where you learn from the Asian parenting methods - 1) travel with a herd with people so you've always got an auntie, uncle or grandparent to look after them 2) youve have a consistent noise around the clock in the house so they will sleep anywhere from a concert and to a circus 😂😂
💯💯
Ah yes force your relatives into free child care
@@cececuthill6608 eh because of the culture it’s all a “pay it forward” type of mentality chances are they themselves were also taken care of by the aunties and uncles and if the aunties and uncles and cousins have kids then they will also be taken care of by family. Americans are more individualistic but other cultures have the “it takes a village” mindset. So what I’m saying id they probably wouldn’t mind.
The noise part is so similar in Greece 🤣 kids can sleep everywhere
@@katerinamakrogamvraki3683 Same in Spain. Like is not normal childhood if you haven't sleep in a bar full of people.
At least ur gold parents for not leaving your baby alone lol
My parents use to just put me in the stroller in the restaurant or outside next to the bar. Sure it took me some time to fall adleep but for a baby or a young kid, vacation days are exhausting and i would just end up passing out for the night
Not for my kid... would stay awake until we have our bedtimeroutine😊😊
Creating a bedtime routine is key for happy babies! Enjoy your vacation!
ROUTINES MAKE HAPPY BABIES!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Y’all are so cute! Love y’all 🤍
Did you bring a stroller? Put the bay in the stroller and go by the pool. Baby’s can sleep in their stroller. Just don’t forget to put the breaks on.
Don’t forget brakes I’m dying 🤣🤣
@@Molly-on6zc as a first time mom who had to learn everything on her own I will say those brakes are very important 😭😭😭😂 learned the hard way… good thing I’m fast 😂
@@b_sb2397 oh shit I’m younger that 15 and I don’t have a kid I just thought it was funny
NEVER leave your kid unattended
@@MrsB95750where does it say leave your kid unattended? it says go by the pool.
This is why I like friend trips take turns going out
You’re putting your baby in a routine. You’re doing exactly the correct thing
Ryker is worth every sacrifice you’ll ever make.❤
Good for you! Routines are so good for babies and you can still have fun
Ugh i feel your pain. We are going on vacation next weekend and we will be in the same boat lol
Lydia, you are so cute and you have the sweetest little family ever.🥰
We forced our babies (all five plus all of the 32 fosters we had that came in as babies- some didn’t- most didn’) to fall asleep wherever we were bassinet in a loud space because our life was chaos and we are both doctors- we had other caregivers in the home, and we had an active travel and social life. We would have been down at the pool with the older kids with a baby asleep bundled in a pack-n-play poolside.
Forced 😢
@@Emily-o2l7x yes, we made them get used to falling asleep wherever we were, kids have to sleep, so “forcing” them to sleep in whatever room we were in was real punishment😓🤪
@@Emily-o2l7xoh boo
@@esseaem1451 child abuse 🥴
@@Emily-o2l7x yes, having kids sleep train is child abuse, they’re all well adjusted adults now making 6+ figures and they sleep through the night in big cities- I think they’re fine.
It may be a sacrifice feeling right now but honestly my two boys still go to bed at 7 and they are 5 and under. It’s been nice and you can tell they get cranky when they don’t stick to their bedtime routine. Trying to create health sleeping habits early❤
That pool actually looks so fun tho
Is that at dollywood?
Not me convinced this is the hotel from high school musical 2
Matt and Abby could never
You can always readjust schedules after vacation, but you can't relive a vacation. Spend the week before vacation working on readjusting his schedule for your time on vacation. Then afterwards slowly get back to your normal schedule. Kids are flexible until you teach them not to be. My kids had to learn this being a military family with many time change visits and moves.
I'm convinced that's the high school musical 2 pool resort
I’ve been there!
Ahhh I’ve been to that hotel!! It’s in Dollywood:))
The pool looks like high school musical 2
Is it just me but when she smiles she looks like Brooke??
It pays off when they are older trust me stay with it 😂 haha 😂 don’t waver hahah😊
We just got our 9 month old to have a routine. She will literally crawl into her room for her first nap. 8:30 is my favorite time of day. I can finally get my projects done.
Cute but he would sleep in a stroller I am sure while you all took turns swimming.
But yes We do have to sacrifice ourselves for our children 😉 Snuggle in bed with each other watch a movie 🙏🙏
Me and my husband just go swimming and if she wakes up she wakes up lol
A stroller is only safe for sleep if the seat reclines to a completely flat position. Most don't.
@@tanjajutanda9098 *My husband & I. It is only grammatically correct to say the other person, then you. & it should be "I", not "me." Use "I" when you are the subject of the sentence & "me" when you are the object. In this case, you are the subject. You wouldn't say, "Me take turns swimming."
LYDIA, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL 😍 😊
So responsible 😂 that woulda been my cue. Just an hour 😅
Bro ain’t that what Madelein McCanns parents said?? 💀💀💀💀
Good for you guys!
We’re the same my 4 yr old goes to bed at 6pm 😂. To be fair I can be found fast asleep by 8:30 anyway 🤷♀️
Omg didnt know there were more parents like us 😅🙏❤️ greetings from a family from Sweden 🌸
my parents got me to sleep at 7pm and it became a habit for me...until university happened lmfao
Rather be good parents first and have fun when they can look after themselves 😌 that’s what my parents did with my sibling and I
I swear schedules for families and even littles isn't normal these days
I was ridiculed and pressured by others because my child went to sleep at 7pm. In my opinion, it really is best for them so I stood firm in their 7pm bedtime routine. It’s so hard for many to do these days with two working parents, single working parents, work hours increasing etc. I applaud all parents that put their children first in the effort to do what’s best for them - whatever that may be. ❤
As a Latin woman I need to say that babies sleep anywhere😂 even in the middle of parties, you don’t need to change their routines so you can enjoy
Didn't stop the McCann's 😂😂😂
I have this exact problem. I got my 4 month old daughter on a schedule already, so shes ready for bed by 7PM, so there is no more going out after that time for my husband and I. We tried going out one time before after 7 and she stayed awake the entire time we were out and when we got home she was extremely over-tired and screamed and cried for 3 hours straight no matter what i did to try and help calm her down
Omg I was at dolly wood at the same time as you!!!
Parent life but that view looks amazing but to be honest i would just wrap up and go to sleep is well at 7pm lol
We did 9pm bc she sleeps on a 12hr cycle. I am not waking up that early 😂
I 100% have been to this hotel. It looks soo familiar
I'm almost 100% positive it's a resort called DOLLYWOOD
Our first baby was an amazing sleeper and we were super diligent with his sleep schedule. It paid off!
Yeah mine wouldn't sleep until 9 but would happily sleep anywhere. Particularly if I had my carrier. So i could have her strapped to me and we could go anywhere.
I went there before and it was SOOOO fun
Cuties!!!! ❤❤❤
Look on the positive side, you will be the first to wake up and see the sunrise in a pool all for you 😎
@quizlafreak I know your feelings don't matter except with your family. We've taken many vacations with babies and had a great time.
Helps to know there are ppl like us lol😅
I love dream more resort
Mine if he is out he won’t even nap
Get used to it 😂😂😂
Lmao I have to watch my brother and I’m allowed to take him shopping at night and stuff and he goes to sleep at 6:30 pm
Take turns! One of you can run down to the pool for a bit. Then the other. Wave thru the window. 😂
The McCann parents could never
“I wanna be….like a peanut bar..”
That's fun time. Watch TV relax. Have a snack
I wouldn’t trade it for the world 😂
All in good time, its a matter of 5 years
☺️😂🥰🥰
Y’all why is nobody talking about how Lydia looks like brookemonk with blonde hair in this
That looks amazing!
The fact I just saw this on Likee and now I see it 10 sec later
Then theres me who was stuck staying up til 3am cause all 4 nieces & nephews in a tiny hotel room
Even the 5month baby was up playing with em
They had too much energy cause it stormed so no pool
My old self is tired today
Omg I think I went to the same hotel a few years ago!!! Is this is Florida???
Wow beautiful ohana beautiful view 💚🌹💙😇🎉🎊🎈🎈🎈☝️✌️🤞🏼👍💪🤙🏽🤟✨️✨️✨️✨️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽✝️✝️✝️🔮agape from the hawn paradise oahu. 🙋♀️
Completely unrelated but I went to a hotel with a similar pool and it was the most elegant thing ever
I do it at 8pm because then they are up at 5am or 6am 😂😂😂
Thats why you always bring a sibling with you to babysit ❤
i am so jealous
My baby slept through anything, so we took our baby with, but.we were back in our suite by 9:00pm. LOL ❤😂🎉❤😂🎉❤😂🎉❤😂❤😂🎉❤😂🎉❤
She looks like Brooke!!
Nah thats actually a good thing I would be relaxing eating some snacks cuddling with my husband and watching a movie. Instead we have to wait until our kid goes to sleep hella late
I know this is a different place and it isn't free, but just a heads up, if you're at Disney, they do have in-room babysitting services. They offer it for 6 months all the way to 18. However, for WDW, Disneyland doesn't do it.
Put him in the buggy and go have fun!!
If the buggy does not recline so that the seat is completely flat (most don't), it is not safe for sleep.
@@Tania_78 ahh fair enough that makes sense
No way! I stayed in the same hotel!
Listen. I get the Roku camera and have my phone on the baby the whole time 💃🏼
Is it just me or does it look like the hotel from high school musical?😅
Better than wanting to go to bed but bro has decided we’re all hanging out till 11
And this is why we never went anywhere and always stayed home. 😂
Ooooorrrr.. Do it the European way and go to dinner all together and teach the kid to lie down on the chair. We've all been there. 👌🏻
Cruise ships need to have a required daycare thing… any time of the day or night so new parents can idk… live
That baby would be sleep by the pool 😂
Airbnb!!!
I’m currently on holiday with a 3 year old and we still don’t go to the hotel until like 2-2:30 in the morning
My baby sleeps 11 hours and I'm not a morning person so for now 7pm ain't happening 😂
Pfffft girl same except mine sleeps 10 hours. If she went at 7pm shed be up at 5am. That would mean i would need to be in bed at like 8pm to get a good nights sleep. Id have no life 😂
Bro I’ve literally stayed at this hotel
Time for an AirBnB!
This is when one of you goes out and then you trade.
This is why some families pick airbnbs!
Your kid. Your choice. There's so much less with having them with you and an early evening doesn't mean you can't have a great vacation. We did this with ours because they didn't sleep well out and about. We still had fun
At least you guys don't leave your babies in a room by themselves lmfao (matt and abby)
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