mmhh..let me think...money $$ and then .. money $$ and then more money $$ 😆 i tested it, i told my Thai ex: look, i don't have much savings, my job is uncertain, but our love will win over adversities ..she disappeared at the speed of light 😆
Man's equivalent: Have supermodel looks with a super-hot body, never ask us for money, never get fat, never talk back, cook & clean without us asking, know how to be a lady in public, be hot in bed, know when to be quiet, and make a peaceful home. Not asking too much.
I love your list and have found it to be very accurate. Thai women require a confident, stable, and loving partner and in return you will never be short of love, affection, and admiration. Are they jealous at first...NO. They are scared and do you blame them? If you don't understand why they are like that and are unable to deal with it effectively then you are not right for them because the reason is very simple and easy to figure out: Being a woman in Thailand (and most of Asia) sucks. You can be tossed aside for the new girl after a decade of being a loving and supporting partner for any reason. Men treat them like crap because they know they have the power. Accept that in the beginning she will be scared/jealous and act accordingly: Do everything you can to not put her in a position where she can potentially feel jealously...make a point of letting her know often that she is your partner and nothing is going to change that. Nothing is more effective than moving closer to her and showing the room that she is yours and you are hers in situations where she is faced with a potential rival (even something simple like an attractive greeter at a restaurant). That will give her confidence and the fear/jealously will become less of an issue over time. Is that really so hard compared to the constant demands of your American girl? LOL.
Thank you for making this video for us :) I just want to say that I appreciate your English, it is very very good! You have taken the time to learn the language, it is so easy to understand you. And your point that Thai girls are the same as girls all around this beautiful planet is very true, makes sense :) Thank you! Cheers, sweet person! :)
You said Everything that my Thai girlfriend said she wants and what was important to her. Exactly. I've not reached the jealousy part we are just beginning to confirm our relationship. They do like money but for security and tame down when they know you are genuine. Thanks.
I've been married twice in the West, and I've dated several times since divorce. What you say is true. It's pretty much what all women want. And it used to be enough. Because a man would get what he wanted a stable household kids and a family and a legacy. But that has changed, even in Thailand. Unless you're in the ruling elite class but I know nothing of that. In any relationship there has to be compromised on both sides for it to work. Clear communication. And a true understanding of what that relationship is supposed to be and how it's going to be maintained on both sides. I wouldn't tolerate an abusive jealous woman. So the first time that happened either we would come to an understanding, or the relationship would end. I think that many of the men that get into problems, including myself in my marriages, either never knew that or forgot. I love Thailand. I love Thai women. At least many of them. I love how they keep themselves in shape, by eating right and taking care of themselves, I love their smile. But no one loves being taken advantage of, go to even have that attempted on them. People are people all over the world. They want a better life for themselves and their children, the least amount of pain and suffering, and at least a glimpse of a better future. Me I just want to have a great day today. Thanks for the video.
This shows that typical Thai girls want the same as all other typical girls in the world. Cultural differences are not important in the long run when dealing with relationships. We are all humans and seek respect and understanding, aka love.
Not all Thai girls are looking for money. I met a kind and caring Thai girl, she went to college and have a normal job. We live together and share the rent. Same for groceries we usually do 50/50. Once a week I'll take her to a nice restaurant. Sometimes she buys me drinks or snacks. So it's possible to find such type of girl.
Yes. I know how to make a Thai girl happy. I’ve had “some” experience. But after a while I wonder: what does she bring to the table? What can she offer to me? Well, very often I find out it’s not really “balanced”, if you know what I mean. 😜
Chaliiidddaaa!!! “Because you’re seeing her as a 😍 WOMAN.. not a 🤔 ladyboy”!! That’s 🤣 HILARIOUS!!!!!!! Being funny, ridiculous, joking around, etc.. that’s the spice of 💞 life!!!!!!! 😏😂😆🤣🤪👀💚
Well long distance relationship can be hard, but yeah wish you all the best. Some girl can be trustworthy, depends on who you are with. There are sincere Thai girl out there :D
Please do that. Best you do not waste your or a woman's time. Sad that you will miss out on an amazingly satisfying relationship but clearly you lack the basic human skill to have one anyway.
@@brianmyers13why shame him? I think you should look yourself in the mirror and figure out why that triggered you? I guess you think that every guy that goes to Thailand has to be a saint and only be looking for a wife ? get real. Some people go there for the red light nightlife and some people for the temples.
chalida i like you your smart but my concerns are visas in thailand i live in the united states and im looking to retire in thailand . i would be happy to pay a fee for your help on this matter
May be you can watch our recent video about what Thai girl expect from men, it's not all about money Kha ua-cam.com/video/nwmg84hSJ78/v-deo.htmlsi=wkwxZ4Z5cefJRUZT
@@oceanearth2243 Cash money is what people in this whole world want and we all are struggling for it. Not just Thai women Let’s be real !! Wake up yeah
They want you to pay for a house for their family back in Isann. They also want a NEW truck for their father and all the beer their brother can drink.😂. THEY WANT IT ALL.
Why i need a girlfriend if i have to pay all for her and make her financially stable thanks to me?I am not her daddy. She needs to work and have her money and pay as in western world half of bill
You are not understanding the culture! They are very traditional there so if you pay all the big bills, you can expect her to cook, clean, wash clothes, grocery shop and take care of her man's needs 😉! If she gets a traditional man then you get a traditional woman 😏!!
I do everything you said and i get lots of girls and even been married 5 times. But the girls are not what you want them to be. But my 5th wife is the best, she is just like you. But all the ex wives are good friends. I'll see you in 2023. You will he working for me.
You don't date the girls that don't speak any English. Many other girls do speak some english. If you're a main language is Kurdistan then I don't know what to tell you. Except there's always Google translate. Or the language of love. But I guarantee you she'll know the language of money. But I don't think that's necessarily A bad thing. A lot of channels come down on it but they're only looking at their side. There's two sides to every story and some would say three. There's certainly bad apples out there and everywhere but many of them are just trying to survive and help their families survive. I don't fault them for that. If I get scammed it's on me for allowing it to happen.
mmhh..let me think...money $$ and then .. money $$ and then more money $$ 😆 i tested it, i told my Thai ex: look, i don't have much savings, my job is uncertain, but our love will win over adversities ..she disappeared at the speed of light 😆
Laughed so hard..! "Money $$ and then .. money $$ and then more money $$"... Hahahahahahahaaa!
Brah....😂😅😅
Man's equivalent: Have supermodel looks with a super-hot body, never ask us for money, never get fat, never talk back, cook & clean without us asking, know how to be a lady in public, be hot in bed, know when to be quiet, and make a peaceful home. Not asking too much.
I spent 8 winters in Thailand. They want money. And the jealously is on a level you can't imagine as a Westerner.
They expect men to be ATM.
I love your list and have found it to be very accurate. Thai women require a confident, stable, and loving partner and in return you will never be short of love, affection, and admiration. Are they jealous at first...NO. They are scared and do you blame them? If you don't understand why they are like that and are unable to deal with it effectively then you are not right for them because the reason is very simple and easy to figure out: Being a woman in Thailand (and most of Asia) sucks. You can be tossed aside for the new girl after a decade of being a loving and supporting partner for any reason. Men treat them like crap because they know they have the power. Accept that in the beginning she will be scared/jealous and act accordingly: Do everything you can to not put her in a position where she can potentially feel jealously...make a point of letting her know often that she is your partner and nothing is going to change that. Nothing is more effective than moving closer to her and showing the room that she is yours and you are hers in situations where she is faced with a potential rival (even something simple like an attractive greeter at a restaurant). That will give her confidence and the fear/jealously will become less of an issue over time. Is that really so hard compared to the constant demands of your American girl? LOL.
OMg I don’t know how to reply 😅
@@GoWithChalida You are a Princess 👸
@@shuvadeepdey2574get real she not
@@kufudokungfu She is
Thank you for making this video for us :) I just want to say that I appreciate your English, it is very very good! You have taken the time to learn the language, it is so easy to understand you.
And your point that Thai girls are the same as girls all around this beautiful planet is very true, makes sense :)
Thank you! Cheers, sweet person! :)
You said Everything that my Thai girlfriend said she wants and what was important to her.
Exactly. I've not reached the jealousy part we are just beginning to confirm our relationship.
They do like money but for security and tame down when they know you are genuine. Thanks.
I've been married twice in the West, and I've dated several times since divorce. What you say is true. It's pretty much what all women want. And it used to be enough. Because a man would get what he wanted a stable household kids and a family and a legacy. But that has changed, even in Thailand. Unless you're in the ruling elite class but I know nothing of that. In any relationship there has to be compromised on both sides for it to work. Clear communication. And a true understanding of what that relationship is supposed to be and how it's going to be maintained on both sides. I wouldn't tolerate an abusive jealous woman. So the first time that happened either we would come to an understanding, or the relationship would end. I think that many of the men that get into problems, including myself in my marriages, either never knew that or forgot.
I love Thailand. I love Thai women. At least many of them. I love how they keep themselves in shape, by eating right and taking care of themselves, I love their smile.
But no one loves being taken advantage of, go to even have that attempted on them. People are people all over the world. They want a better life for themselves and their children, the least amount of pain and suffering, and at least a glimpse of a better future. Me I just want to have a great day today.
Thanks for the video.
Great message with some good lessons.
You look beautiful. And I like it when you smile...made my day :) Have a nice day Chalida
This shows that typical Thai girls want the same as all other typical girls in the world. Cultural differences are not important in the long run when dealing with relationships. We are all humans and seek respect and understanding, aka love.
correct !
Not all Thai girls are looking for money. I met a kind and caring Thai girl, she went to college and have a normal job. We live together and share the rent. Same for groceries we usually do 50/50. Once a week I'll take her to a nice restaurant. Sometimes she buys me drinks or snacks. So it's possible to find such type of girl.
@@Kevin-mj6gv I am kinda like that too 😄 You are right we are not just looking for money we want happiness
Thank you this was very informative
Glad it was helpful!
“No shitting.” ? Aah, no cheating. 😁
Thanks for the vid and sorry for my comment.😅
Thanks Chalida, your tips were very helpful 🙏🙏🙏
Thx ☺️
Thank you for the useful information 👍🌹
Yes. I know how to make a Thai girl happy. I’ve had “some” experience. But after a while I wonder: what does she bring to the table? What can she offer to me? Well, very often I find out it’s not really “balanced”, if you know what I mean. 😜
It depends on what you are looking for in the relationship, long term or short term or just for fun :P up to you
What does the Thai woman want? Money, money and money.
No I guess not just Thai women, everybody want $$$ 🤣
And more money, money, money 💰
Security is money.
And money is 90% love from what I've seen there
Chaliiidddaaa!!! “Because you’re seeing her as a 😍 WOMAN.. not a 🤔 ladyboy”!! That’s 🤣 HILARIOUS!!!!!!! Being funny, ridiculous, joking around, etc.. that’s the spice of 💞 life!!!!!!!
😏😂😆🤣🤪👀💚
They want $, £ , € and bahts and that's about it, everything else is extra
Good evening 🖐🏾 Chalida!! “You should be 🤪funny”!!!!!!! That’s my favorite one!!!!!!! And “NO 👿 CHEATING” of course!!!!!!!
😏🤣🤪😂😆
Sensational..
I'm in love ❤❤❤
I dont mind paying for security, but its hard to trust if you are not around. But that's everywhere.
Well long distance relationship can be hard, but yeah wish you all the best. Some girl can be trustworthy, depends on who you are with. There are sincere Thai girl out there :D
what if she says lets not see for 1-2 months...is there anyway to save it?
Thanks for the advice u r soooo cute
you should bro. she is perfect thai girlfriend(or maybe even perfect wife). you are the only one of her followers that loves her. 😂
Mmmmm. I think I'll pass. Easier to rent them out by the hour than try and meet all those expectations.
Yes of course as your wish 🤣
@@GoWithChalida but thank you for your videos including this one. I do enjoy them, and of course I'm watching them.
Please do that. Best you do not waste your or a woman's time. Sad that you will miss out on an amazingly satisfying relationship but clearly you lack the basic human skill to have one anyway.
🦋Papillon🦋
@@brianmyers13why shame him? I think you should look yourself in the mirror and figure out why that triggered you? I guess you think that every guy that goes to Thailand has to be a saint and only be looking for a wife ? get real. Some people go there for the red light nightlife and some people for the temples.
100% on the jealousy part. And on the giving compliments part (but if you compliment too much, you will end up hearing "bpaawk wan" from the gf)
What does Bpaawk wan mean?
It means "sweet mouth" @@mtcbdth
@northbouy2625 guessing it's a positive thing?
@@mtcbdth usually it's a bit of a playful tease. "Oh look at you with your sweet mouth". I normally hear it if I've been too complimentary
@northbouy2625 Thank you for the explanation! I will watch my mouth :)
I can confirm thai girl ao jealous its stressful
how is this ok? why are a fully grown woman wants to get treated like a child its disturbing and its turned me off so much
@@MarbleCat. It’s a love showing and respect thing 😌
What about learning some simple Thai words or phrases?
All you need to learn in thai is, how much money you need this time. 😮
A provider.
Money 💰 Thai girls want money 💰
not specifically only Thai girl but it refer to the girls in general. Don’t you agree ?
They want 3 things from gullible foreigners. 1. Money 2.money and the 3rd thing they want is money.
I'll take care of YOU forever and I'm totally serious!
be respect full
chalida i like you your smart but my concerns are visas in thailand i live in the united states and im looking to retire in thailand . i would be happy to pay a fee for your help on this matter
definitely I will get you in touch with BaanSmile
Send us an email chalidatour@gmail.com
They want a gullable farang who cant say No, and of course money in the Bank 😅
I would want to know...what kind of men do thai girls want? I mean looks and personality
Different looks and personality attract some women. Not all women like the same thing
All women likes men can make them laughing and royalty.
What about religious differences?
They want money...dont imagine anything else ..
Crikey I met one that paid her way and shared stuff - depends on the girl depends if they really like you and how old they are
yeah correct :D
May be you can watch our recent video about what Thai girl expect from men, it's not all about money Kha ua-cam.com/video/nwmg84hSJ78/v-deo.htmlsi=wkwxZ4Z5cefJRUZT
Cash money is what Thai women want. Let’s be real
@@oceanearth2243 Cash money is what people in this whole world want and we all are struggling for it. Not just Thai women Let’s be real !! Wake up yeah
They want you to pay for a house for their family back in Isann. They also want a NEW truck for their father and all the beer their brother can drink.😂. THEY WANT IT ALL.
@@Jury292 The whole family has no income and only the daughter who support the whole family. She can be on her own, don’t bother.
Why i need a girlfriend if i have to pay all for her and make her financially stable thanks to me?I am not her daddy. She needs to work and have her money and pay as in western world half of bill
You are not understanding the culture! They are very traditional there so if you pay all the big bills, you can expect her to cook, clean, wash clothes, grocery shop and take care of her man's needs 😉! If she gets a traditional man then you get a traditional woman 😏!!
i agree if thats the way. Because in the west u pay the bill and get nothing. So thats fair enough in that case.
Exactly! While she sleeps all day and shops and eats between naps. Hardly worth it.
I can cook, clean and do household stuff, so whats the value. Thai girls want an easy ride.
Do you want a Woman or a Slave?
They simply want money which they call help! They are beautiful and sexy but in the end it's all about money
Sorry to bring this up: Is this a cold sore or Herpes on your lower lip ?
@@karlnapp2740 It’s a pimple 🤣
Definietely do not shit on your gf
I wwnna go there
I do everything you said and i get lots of girls and even been married 5 times. But the girls are not what you want them to be. But my 5th wife is the best, she is just like you. But all the ex wives are good friends. I'll see you in 2023. You will he working for me.
Thanks Chalida! You just gave all the reasons that Thai girls are horrible!! Or let me translate - greedy and lazy
How can I date if she can't understand me 🥹🥹🥹🥹
You don't date the girls that don't speak any English. Many other girls do speak some english. If you're a main language is Kurdistan then I don't know what to tell you. Except there's always Google translate. Or the language of love. But I guarantee you she'll know the language of money. But I don't think that's necessarily A bad thing. A lot of channels come down on it but they're only looking at their side. There's two sides to every story and some would say three. There's certainly bad apples out there and everywhere but many of them are just trying to survive and help their families survive. I don't fault them for that. If I get scammed it's on me for allowing it to happen.
Umm let me think! Money!
I don't no abt other Thai girls but I want to be with you ❤️
so cute looking super
Complements are eat
Really very difficult to meet a serious and motivated Thai who knows what she wants, changing her life does not seem to interest them
.
You look nice today not like lb. Ha ha. ☺
You’d have to be crazy, its a dangerous country. I like African people, they are pleasant and with similar values
Can you find me a ladyboy like you?
Am i ladyboy ?🤣
Lol 😆