ASMR for DEPRESSION Relief | Let Me Comfort You
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- Опубліковано 5 січ 2022
- Triggers: light and hand movements, face touching, whispers, inaudible whispers, repetition, tapping, face brushing, affirmations, fabric scratching, mouth sounds, personal attention, finger flutters
Hi guys 💜 I decided to make this video because my anxiety relief video seemed to help a lot of people and I just loved helping and connecting with you guys while being transparent about my own mental health struggles. This video is centered around depression, and while I don't personally suffer from clinical depression, I've had really low lows dealing with my anxiety and OCD. If you feel inspire to share your own tips with dealing with depression, ways you've overcome it, and why you're glad you're still here and fighting, please share as a comment!
I hope this video brings you even a bit of comfort. Please note that I am NOT a mental health professional and if you find yourself in a mental health emergency, please contact your local suicide hotline number: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of...
Feel free to watch my video on anxiety relief to find other techniques with dealing with panic, anxiety, and mental health issues.
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I dont think I’m depressed, I just feel these extremely intense moments at times when I feel like a huge weight of despair is just crushing my chest and I don’t know how to make it through it. It feels awful and videos like this where I feel like you are truly here with me make me slowly feel better. Thank you Sarah
that sounds like depression or severe anxiety. I am sorry you are going through that
I feel the exact way right now. Usually am happy but the dark moments are dark. Hope you are doing okay
I get those too but it lasts for months I’m so sorry you go through that
I’ve started feeling this too. The feeling of something always weighing you down and not being able to breathe. I’m glad I’m not the only one ❤
I'm going though the same thing right now
I feel like I've been so stuck in my own depression and anxiety for years. Tonight I had my breaking point, I was having a hard time giving myself reasons to live. I desperately wanted to feel better, but couldn't bring myself to. It's currently 5:29am in the morning and I still haven't slept. I thought listening to ASMR could perhaps help me sleep, I had no idea there was ASMR for depression. You made me cry with your kind words and encouragement. I can't thank you enough, I didn't know I needed to hear all this until now. I overthink about the future all the time, and the quote " What's yours will find you" spoke volumes to me in so many ways. Thank you Sarah again, you really helped me in such a dark time in my life when I felt so defeated.
Edit: it’s been about 10 months and I can say I’m in a much better place, thank you for everyone’s kind words.
I’m so glad my video was able to help even a little 💕 I promise things will get better, my anxiety is so much better now than a few years ago and I would have never believed that! Keep staying strong ❤️
I know the feeling all too well.
Self disgnosed depression :DDD
@@Sarah-po7yr it’s just awful
@@nf9563 you are the awful
I was an extreme anxiety sufferer in the past and I can attest to what Sarah is saying here: things really can get better. I don't have daily panic attacks any more, and they were so severe it led to something called depersonalization/derealization. But I had to put in a lot of work and patience into it. Some months it felt like I only got 2% better, or worse. And yet each year I noticed tangible progress. I'm dumbfounded that I am now, more or less, anxiety free, because there was one point in my life I thought I was certainly doomed for good. Anyways, good luck to you all 👍
Idk if anyone has told you this in a while, but I am proud of you! I'm proud of you for being patient with yourself, and for making progress!❤️😊 have a good day, and remember to not be hard on yourself.
Thank you so much for sharing! 💕
@@hannahjones65 Thanks Hannah. No one has said anything encouraging to me for years (that's not an exaggeration) so thank you.
thx man.
Thanks for mentioning depersonalization, it's something I have been struggling with a lot the past few years. Do you have any advice or ways that helped you get over it?
Absolutely broke down at "There will come a day where you are wholeheartedly glad that you're alive." For some reason the concept of just enjoying life and being happy about it has genuinely been unfathomable to me for years but hearing it from someone with such a seemingly incredible understanding of state of mind and who has actually dealt with similar conditions makes it feel achievable. Cannot thank you enough for this video.
As someone that crys every night and can't sleep because of it.
This video is gift from heaven. Thank you so much. Your an angel
Wishing u more peaceful nights. And brighter days. Hold onto hope
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“There is nothing wrong with you.” God I wish I could have that on repeat 24/7
You just verbalized everything that I’ve been feeling for a while now. Hearing it makes it a lot easier to manage and recognizing when things start getting dark. THANK YOU!!!
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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I feel like I'm only pretending to be happy during my days. I distract myself and I'm happy for a while but then something happens, often related to a member of my household, and I'm right back where I started. ASMR has never really worked for me in the past but this was wonderful. Hearing all of the affirmations helped, I often forget to say nice things to myself. This video helped me relax a lot so thank you Sarah.
Hi guys 💜 I decided to make this video because my anxiety relief video seemed to help a lot of people and I wanted to make one for those dealing with depression. I hope it's able to bring you even a little bit of comfort. I know it's a really hard time for many people around the world but just know that I'm here and I care and so do so many people in this amazing community. 💜
If you're curious to learn about other techniques I've learned from therapy, check out my video on anxiety relief!
→ ua-cam.com/video/xLiNxCUuaPo/v-deo.html
Please note that I am NOT a mental health professional and if you find yourself in a mental health emergency, please contact your local suicide crisis number.
→ en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
Just wanted to say that the other night I was having a panic attack and your anxiety relief video was the one thing that helped me through it. You and your content truly show how much you care about us viewers through your compassion and dedication. I'm very grateful for that. Take care!
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@@Catsnnovels Thank you Tyler 🥺💕
Sorry I can’t donate money ; _ ;
This video was in my recommendations. Bedtime is the worst for me at times. Sometimes I can't get my brain to shut off the worries, etc. Watching this really helped!
I always find videos like these really comforting because of what is said but also because seeing all the likes and views makes me realize that I’m not alone in this. Also, to whoever needs this right now,
Please take care of yourself, you deserve it even if you don’t think you do
You’re real and you matter
🥺💕💕❤️
I've been in a super dark place. I'm diagnosed with treatment resistant depression. Meds help but it's been diminishing returns. I have a wonderful therapist and I'm incredibly fortunate to have an amazing support network. Still, the past six months has been a scary descent into new extremes in my ideation. Real life circumstances have precipitated the decline, as well as a culminating effect of life's challenges constantly overwhelming me for decades. All this just to say that watching this video really brought me out of a place of despair and rumination. Your sweet, genuine manner feels so authentic and it's clear that you're speaking from a place of personal experience. No cheap cliches, no overly easy solutions, just a compassionate and knowing warmth. I hope you take such good care of yourself as you express here. And if I ever win the lotto, I'd offer you a high paying job following me around rescuing me from despair haha, just name your terms. 😆
Really though, without imposing, I would love to pick your brain to learn more about your journey with mental health and wellness. You have the aire of someone who's come to a place of hard-earned contentment, serenity even.
Welp, sorry for the novel haha. I've just been really impressed by this and I'd love to learn more/share some of my story with you and your channel.
My deep gratitude to you; be well ❤
Thank god we have internet and people like Sarah who are just benevolent whithout asking anything in return :) facing myself with severe anxiety, those videos have helped me in a way I never it could !
I'm glad Clara 💕 ASMR has also helped me sooo much with my anxiety :)
Ty for helping a bit of my depression
You posted this exactly as I was having a pretty bad episode of gut wrenching anxiety and unbearable sadness... 10 minutes in and I'm starting to calm down, thank you for this. I'm really thankful for all of you ASMRtists, you're the best possible palliative ❤
I perfectly know what you mean, and you're not the only one but I assure you that we'll all win this fight against anxiety 😊 hugs from Italy
You're UA-cam name is too rad. I hope you feel better.
@@eight_hundred_eighteen Thank you, I chose it as a joke but for some reason I like it, I don't want to change it
I feel you man. I feel that everyday and it won’t go away
@@gabibbomosredellepapere6195 Grazie mille del supporto, sono italiano anche io. Non conosco bei canali di ASMR in italiano, quindi sono inevitabilmente finito qui, mi fa piacere sapere che non sono l'unico.
I'm in a bad place, my depressive episodes go on for short or long periods of time, it's been over a month now. I've pushed everyone away, even my tharpist. It seems to be pathetic to feel some type of reassurance from someone online, but it's helped me get through this. I seriously appreciate you so much. I'm trying my best to get through this
Bro, you're gonna make good things in your life, stay positive 💜💜💜
Same 💔. We will get through this
you'll get through it
❤ hope things are better for you. Message me if I can help.
I push people away, too. I’m going through a period like this right now. Stay strong.
I’m here because Ive conquered ptsd after a horrible trauma (loss of loved one to suicide) and my life has been wonderful … but I just just diagnosed with a life altering and terrifying illness and I just needed help relaxing so I can get my strength up for the fight ahead. To everyone here who is sad, my heart goes out to you. Please know that people do care and life can be mind bendingly beautiful. The pain and sadness doesn’t last forever, I promise. ❤️
After 3 yrs I'm still trying to confront/understand my dad's passing. We loved decorating and dressing up for Halloween so this month has brought some bitter sweet memories to the surface. After listening to 5 or 6 songs that helped bring the pain and grief to the surface so I don't just cram it down and hide it. I found ur video and I feel a little better thank u for being such a calming and welcoming presence❤
I know it’s unlikely anybody will see this but this video was incredibly healing for me, when she talked about forgiving yourself and about depression I was crying but in a good way, and I’m not somebody who cries a lot. The video inspired me to reach out for help and to also appreciate the people I love and what I have. I just want to thank you for making this video as you made me feel understood through a screen like nobody else ever has, thank you so much.
You are a literal angel. I have been struggling with medical issues for the past 3 1/2 months and getting depressed from it a lot. I have lost my appetite completely and suffer with nausea everyday. It has kept me out of work and unfortunately the process of figuring out what is wrong seems like it will never end. I felt incredibly alone last night and watched this and got so much comfort. I was able to dry my tears and drift off to sleep peacefully. I don’t know if you truly understand how meaningful this is to some of us random people in the world, but, from the bottom of my heart thank you for helping me through a very tough night ❤️
why is this video more comforting than anyone in my life is to me
You have such a calming presence that it makes it so easy to trust you. It makes me feel able to fully relax and feel supported by you, especially when facing my own vulnerability can be exhausting! Thank you for being so down to earth and just being yourself. It makes all the difference ❤
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
ua-cam.com/video/sCWA3WrEBx8/v-deo.html
I don’t think I’m depressed. I’m just tired of being alone. Sometimes I feel like a failure bc things haven’t turned out the way I thought they would and I don’t know what path to take to fix it.
Protect this lady at all cost. Your compassion, care and most of all your honesty in this video is beyond ASMR. Its Life saving. God bless you 💙✨
My dad just passed...so I appreciate this video. It helps.
Sarah, you have no idea how much this has helped me. I'm going through a really horrible depressive episode after simultaneously going through a breakup and the end of a toxic friendship at once. I'm struggling so much and this video (amongst your other ones) has made me feel so much less alone. You are a light in the darkness for me right now. Thank you thank you thank you.
i'm so glad my videos are able to help! that sounds like an incredibly tough time, i'm sorry :( sending you love and strength 💕
I hope u feel better real soon and have some peace each night. Hold on to hope
18:13 oh my godd. This made me ball my eyes out 😩😩😭😭 so on point with how i've been feeling 🎯 i just needed to hear some1 to tell me to continue forward
Keep living life the good way open up to someone hell cry into someone's shoulder and let your held back emotions come out.
i listen to this whenever my depressions really bad & it honestly helps a lot, thanks
I remember a year ago watching this video on christmas because i was experiencing the worst depression i had ever felt, and it helped me so much. now its gonna be almost a year since my depression started, and i still come back to this video. thank you so much :o)
Calming, creative, compassionate. Everything to soothe an over-active or sad brain! I feel more ready for the day now.
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
ua-cam.com/video/sCWA3WrEBx8/v-deo.html
I don’t know what to tell you. I came in here looking for some comfort to get me through the night and send me to sleep faster in order not to deal with my depressive thoughts. But I’m listening and actually being affected by your kind words. This is extremely helpful. Thank you so much❤️
I've been so down lately. This is exactly what I needed. Thank you.
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
ua-cam.com/video/sCWA3WrEBx8/v-deo.html
I also been down lately. I feel not good enough and invisible to everyone
@@notthatguypal14 you are good enough and Jesus wants to heal you. Just ask
Dr Berg has some gold videos that can help
ua-cam.com/video/bBLq0lQmCvg/v-deo.html .
I’ve heard people go for walks in the Sun in nature or beach trips to boost their mood and sense of wellbeing.
Lastly and most importantly ask for Jesus intervention. Jesus doesn’t want you depressed, anxious or suicidal. He can easily restore all things and make it better than before you were depressed. All you have to do is ask (ask and you will receive)
@@thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 I prayed for years and nothing. I’m just not good enough. I’ve been saying this for about 7 years and the feeling won’t go away. I’m invisible to society
@@notthatguypal14 you're not invisible to me
As someone who suffers from depression and anxiety I have to say this is one of the best of these type of videos. She seems to actually know some stuff about depression unlike some of the other videos I’ve seen.
I don’t want to be too dramatic and say this saved my life but I’ve been having serious suicidal thoughts, up to the point where I was planning how to do it and how I’d say goodbye to the people in my life and this video definitely helped me feel better at least for a moment.
I’m here if you ever need to talk ❤️
Something that's helped me with overthinking is to literally say "Stop." Either in my head or out loud. It puts a wedge in my thinking and gives me a breather. If one doesn't do it then say it again. Eventually your brain gets the message and stops the overthinking and lets you relax a bit.
Love this!!! I do it too ♥️
This could not have showed up at a better time. Thank you Sarah, your presence and overall demeanor are extremely well suited to the world of ASMR. You’ve effortlessly climbed up the ladder of my favorite ASMRtists.
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
ua-cam.com/video/sCWA3WrEBx8/v-deo.html
It's not easy for me to be open and vulnerable but here it goes. I've battled with depression for most of my life. When I was young, I really didn't have much of a grasp or understanding of reality or where I fit in with the world. I've never felt comfortable in my own skin. And every time I've put my feet on the ground and made a decision to be who I truly am, I've often felt like it's never enough for the people around me, and so I became never enough for myself. I turned to self destruction, turned to drugs and alcohol, turned to more substance abuse and isolation during the pandemic. Running away from my problems, running away from myself. Being pulled down by the weight of my depression that had become so comfortable, but never stopped hurting. Lately I've been experiencing somewhat of a spiritual awakening. Last year I experienced a horrific car accident that almost took my life at a time where I all but wished that it had. I didn't want to take my own life, but I didn't care if I got taken out either. I survived, and I truly believe I was given a second chance at life. I truly believe that the universe has a way of stepping in to put us into situations that guide us down the paths that we are meant to be on, when we find ourselves going down the wrong ones. Meditation and awareness have been wonderful blessings for me on my journey. Therapy has been life changing. And so has asmr. I'm still struggling through intense ptsd from the accident, I face fear and anxiety every single day. I don't know where this path takes me from here, but I keep searching for a reason to get up and keep going and keep staying and find my place amongst the stars. I was reluctant to try asmr at first, not sure how I'd feel about it. But I'm so grateful for it. This particular style of genuine care and loving kindness is so amazing and healing. I'm just sitting here balling my eyes out from the "what's yours will find you" quote. The face brushing is my absolute favorite. To have a place where I can be safe to heal and be seen and find my peace means more to me that I can say. Thank you so much for this.
I'm feeling sad and stressed every night and it keeps me from sleeping, tysm for this video, it helped me a lot
Thanks Sarah for this video. My depression seems to be all consuming. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it, but because it involves a certain loss, you comfort me. I feel you are sincere and care.
Hi Sarah! You can't even imagine how glad I am to know your channel or better, that your channel exists. You are so caring and intelligent, I am always impressed about your knowledge and wisdom about spirituality and psychology. I am nearly 30 and I suffered my whole life from really bad depression, anxiety and panic attacks. With 25 I started therapy, meditation, Kung Fu and Yoga and I am so grateful about what I learned. It helped me to overcome most of my suffering and when I am having a bad time again, you always remind me about things that helped me overcome this bad times, which I often forget. I am happy to see that the same things I learned has helped other people aswell and I am more than grateful, that you are so brave to share these treasures with others. Thank you so much and please always take care of you
Thank you so much! and wow, you've been on an incredible journey, I hope we both continue to make progress with our mental health! ❤
Hi
I have been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder for a long time, but today I got diagnosed with clinical depression and PTSD, and tonight I fell into the worst panic attack I've had since I started medication in January. I desperately needed this video tonight, thank you so much. I was terrified and now I'm going to be able to sleep. You saved me tonight. Thank you. 💜
I lost my mom almost 2 months ago and it’s been extremely tough. I’m starting college again after 4 years and just got a part time job after 2 years. Sadly depression has been my best friend since I was like 5 😞💔😭
so sorry ;( i hope you’re doing a little better
I feel you bro make sure to go to someone in need and let your feelings out, just remember your not a burden, nor a horrible person, it's ok to be soft and let it out.
I feel bad
Your literally an angel! I’ve been sad and depressed for 5 years and This just saved me a lot. I love you❤️
All techniques were essential for what I was feeling. Every minute, I was seeing the depression melting away. Especially the candle technique, which helped me to focus more and feel that I am in control of my mind. Thanks for helping us Sarah.
Never done anything like this,
But I’m the typical gym bro, who studied science and used to think everything needed a rational explanation to be tried and tested.
I’m glad 🙂 I’m not like that anymore and more open minded to different forms of healing because my body and spirit is radiating with energy after this moment, I have no anxiety and your voice completely calmed me down to start the day.
From an honest person without a doubt everything I used to think didn’t work, was everything I actually wanted and needed ❤️
idk how you made my tea exactly how I wanted. It's 2 years later. Thank you for helping me to feel better.
老實說，這段影片拯救了我好幾次，每一次憂鬱症發作的時刻，都會固定點開來看
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Can’t even make this up! I haven’t been able to watch the full video because I keep falling asleep, it’s like magic! I’ve attempted to watch this 6 times and it puts me to sleep so quickly. Thank you, I’ve been needing this rest! You cure my insomnia haha xxx
Oh my god, i never cried for someone's sweet words but here i am. I just feel so relieved to hear everything i always wanted others to tell me, thank you so, so much
My heart feels incredibly full
Thank you for this video. When you spoke about the comfort of being depressed, and how one almost doesn't want to feel better, I was floored. You hit the nail on the head. Hearing those words out of someone else's mouth (other than my own,) hit me like a sledgehammer. I'm not completely alone. And that in itself is a hell of a thing. Thank you.
You are not alone🥹💕 I hope you're doing well!
A Collab with you and Ozley ASMR would truly be fantastic.
i would also enjoy that, lets make it happen 😄😄😄
Sarah.. I keep coming back to this video. This is so therapeutic and helpful. I was having a breakdown down today and instantly remembered this video. I’ve always felt better at the end. Thank you beyond words.
I have been depressed and anxiety for long time. I'm so glad I found this. Thank you for making this. Keep up the good work.
Ps I love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
these comments are breaking my heart. wishing you all the best, sending so much love ❤
Everyday i feel like i have to be smiling but i want to be sad but noone lets me none of my friends even appreciates my smile thank you sarah you helped me a lot
I’m in a rough mental state right now and these videos are helping me so so much ❤ Thank you Sarah!
I was basically rejected by my own parents yesterday for my religious beliefs, I was told I was worthless and that they were done with me, and this had made me feel so much better already. It in fact gave me a craving for some hot tea 🥰
Thank you so much, I can’t explain how much this has helped me. I’ve been going through the worst couple of months and having someone just being there for me comforting me made me feel a lot better. That quote aswell that you told “what’s yours will find you” spoke to me, I appreciate you for helping me through this terrible 4am night
I'm at the turning point in depression where I'm recognising thought patterns and kind of understand myself a bit more,
Depression can make things seem very narrow minded and negative/bitter, for me it's the rumination that makes me blow things out of proportion because my perception is very different to those around me, I'm trying to get better, I'm trying to be patient and gentle with myself and to do better for those that I love and to do better for my mental health.
It's a journey, and one I'm learning to navigate and improve with.
Videos like these help ground me, they make me feel calmer and more ready to approach those thoughts with understanding so I can let them go and open my mind up to the beautiful things in this world, the happy things, the positive things.
Thank you, and to anyone going through a similar point, you're doing really well, you should be proud of yourself, the first step is understanding, and then from there its learning to love yourself and have patience so you can be your best for yourself and to finally open up to the ones you love too.
You seem like the friend who would bring you soup and flowers when you’re sick and loves coffee shops and good books❤
was listening to you while it was snowing outside, most relaxed ive been in awhile
Goddd that must be amazingg :D
Hard to put into words just how important and needed this video in particular is for me, as is your channel as a whole. You’ll touch countless lives with your positivity, compassion and love and you should be ever so proud of what you’ve done and continue to do Sarah. It’s priceless. Thank you 🙏
I am rewatching this video every night, you make me feel safe sarah, thankyou so much💖🥺
I am not the type of guy to comment on a video usually but I really want to thank you Sarah for this video. I'm in that college phase of life and I feel like although I've been successful in the past it was empty. I don't know what I want to do with my life and I don't have much motivation to even get out of bed. People like you keep me sane and it warms my heart to know that you and others really do care out there. Wishing everyone else well, I hope you all stay safe!
Thank you Trent! What a sweet comment 💕 college is really rough, it’s also where I had most of my existential crises 😞 sending you luck and good vibes!!
@@SarahLavenderASMR Thank you, hope you and your family is doing well🙏
There are no word I can use to explain what I am going through right now. Thank you so much for this wonderful video. You have provided me with a relief I havent felt in months. Thank you for helping me ground myself.
You are so Beautiful and so nurturing it almost made me cry . Just with how lacking love and nurturance has been my whole life . And so many people dont have it and truly need it. These videos your doing are so healing and so important to a lot of people . You are a special soul. 😘❤️
Thank you for this video. I slept in my car last night, and this video was just the thing I needed to listen to this morning. Much appreciated
in the 19 years i have been alive i have already been through a lot but during those times these vids can be a highlight of my day so thank you for being alive and thank you for trying
Thank you, Sarah for this video. I’ve struggled with anxiety and depression all my life then a couple weeks ago my mum passed away and i’ve been finding it very hard to cope. I’m up in the middle of the night filled with anxiety and sadness but this video helped so much. You said all the things i needed to hear. Thank you x
your videos along with the videos of other asmrtists have pulled me out of overthinking and overall saved my life. I just want to say thank you for keeping me alive when I didn’t feel like I wanted to.
I have RLS, it is the devil. It’s hard to get comfortable and sleep. I feel
Weak, sad and anxious a lot. Thanks for providing comfort for people like me. You are, by far, my favorite ASMR artist. ❤️
Just read an article that weighted blankets can help with rls
what is rest leg syndrome ?
I only get this sensation occasionally so not sure how helpful I can be, but using a massage roller to roll out the muscles in my legs usually helps!
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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I get that sometimes in my ankles. Ive been using a cbd roll on ointment on them since it provides a cold sensation that distracts me from the rls long enough to sleep.
I loved this so much, thank you Sarah. :) My depression has been bad for a few years now and after therapy and seven different medications failed to bring relief, I just started TMS treatment. Hoping for a happier future. Love from me to you and to everyone here in the comments section, I wish you all peace and happiness.
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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what is TMS?:)
@@lissi6973 It’s transcranial magnetic stimulation! They use a machine to send magnetic pulses into your brain to excite the depressed and low activity parts of the brain. It’s used for people who have been unresponsive to traditional treatment like therapy and medication. I hadn’t heard of it until just recently, but I’m hoping it works. 🤞
@@lissi6973 There are certain things you can do that’ll boost the feel good chemicals like dopamine (complete a task, eat healthy tasty food, associate with good people) Oxytocin (play with a pet, play with a baby, Hug your loved ones-parents or children, give someone a compliment) Serotonin (Pray, read the Bible, sunshine, walks in nature, swim, cycle) Endorphins (Laughter, exercise, dark chocolate)
Most importantly ask Jesus for help and watch things work out for you. Jesus wants to personally help you; please give him a chance it’s the best move of your life
Wow, I genuinely almost never see anyone on UA-cam have such an understanding of mental health, much less ocd. I've had severe ocd for years and it's made aspects of my life feel ruined just because of how sticky these intrusive thoughts become. Thank you for your empathy and understanding, it means so much to me and many others like me with this horrible illness. I feel less alone now ❤️
Best ASMR that I saw until now. Very professional!
i’m currently recovering right now and i’ve never needed something more than ever. i adore your style of asmr
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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Hey same here but don't worry it not forever 😁
I've been having really bad gender dysphoria lately, and I'm homeschooled with strict parents, so I don't have any friends who I can come out to without being hurt.
These videos are my only way to have someone care for me and comfort me. It's nice to feel like there's someone there for me, even if they aren't really there.
You mentioned almost everything I have been struggling to do without my motivation. Thank you so much.
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this! I promise things will get better ❤️
@@SarahLavenderASMR Thank you.
hey, I'm trans as well and I understand how crushing dysphoria is, especially when you can't share it with anyone. I really hope that you find someone soon that you can come out to, but if it's helpful you can talk to me
@@silentmaggot3696 Thank you. I appreciate it.
Gender is just a social construct, once you realize that it doesn't even really exist maybe it'll get a little easier to be yourself, or at least i hope so!
Its been 2 years since this video was posted but im still going to share my experience. I dont have depression, at least not diagnosed, but my guidance counselor said i have many depression symptoms due to grief, trauma, and guilt from my friend's tragic passing. I find myself having mood swings and when its not mood swings, its constant numbness. Theres this constant overshadowing hint of sadness that makes it hard to actually enjoy life. This week has ben particularly rough. Thank you for making this two years ago💕
Thank you. Honestly. I just got out of therapy and I cried just talking about my mental health and honestly I feel more comfortable just listening to this. I’m so young and having to deal with depression and severe anxiety is an every day struggle. Thank you so very much
I know I'm really late to comment on this but whatever.
Hey Sarah, Thank you *So* much for this video.
I know this is just a single video you have posted but this one video means the world to me.
This happened to be the ASMR video that started me up in a community I have grown to love and trust. ( The Sarah Lavender Community and other ASMR communities alike! )
Thank you for making such heartfelt, and loving work for us,
You've gotten me out of some really dark times simply by recording these videos for us, *thank you*.
Thank you for it all, Sarah.
Logging off from coming back to the first ASMR video I ever got to watch,
Marlena ❤🩹.
Hi! I just wanna say that this video was so amazing to listen to, I recently had to stop therapy bc of moving away and really needed a refresher from hearing kind empowering words like this.
But I also want to say that I do have some tips for those who struggle with OCD and the anxiety that comes with it. I was at a debilitating point with my mental health not too long ago, I thought I would never be "normal" again and that I would never be able to live comfortably. I started getting really into mindfulness and listening to the signs your body gives you, also learning to heal your inner self by telling yourself what you need to hear. So an example was how I had developed agoraphobia due to my OCD, I would be consumed by scary intrusive thoughts and panic anytime I went outside or saw other people. I repeat one of my helpful mantras the second I feel this panic, "uncomfortable does not mean unsafe" followed by "you are doing amazing. you are so wonderful". Finding outlits for your nervous energy also can be so beneficial, I find carrying a fidget cube helps as I can focus my energy and concentrate on something other than my anxiety. Breathwork can also be useful! These are all strategies that can be combined into helping yourself during times of distress. But always remember that what you need can be different from what works for others, don't be discouraged by this. Trial and error until you get to your happy place. No one gets there in a single day, even if they make it seem easy. You aren't doing anything wrong by having a bumpy road to recovery. It will get better.
To put it plainly God doesn’t want you depressed one of the fruits of the spirit is called Joy (Happiness). Jesus wants to give you joy that never runs out. Don’t give up ask Jesus for help and watch your situation flip. God wants to show you He is real if only you would let Him. You have nothing to lose but everything to gain.
Psalm 34:18 The LORD is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit.
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These videos really help to calm and relax my mind when I'm alone and answers to my problems aren't forthcoming.
It's not to say that the problems melt away, but when there's nothing else that can really be done about sone things, it helps a lot to just have these on hand to comfort you and recharge you with positive thoughts and energies 🙏
I love the amount of care and love that she puts into these videos. She makes me feel so calm and loved and safe when I’m feeling very anxious and depressed. I almost cried a few times while watching this video but I feel so much better. Thank you so much for making this
Snuggled up in bed with a tea ☕️ + this video= PURE BLISS 🙌🏼
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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Hello! Your videos have really helped me calm down when I had bad depressive episodes I appreciate how kind and down to earth you are.❤
Thank you 🥺❤️
you just saved me from spiraling down a deep, deep dark hole that i was scared i wouldn’t be getting out of. thank you so much.
I've always had a difficult life, knowing just about nothing but struggles, but I oddly enough also know that we are capable of going above it and that we deserve much more and are much more than what we go through, feel, etc.
We just need to keep going and hanging on
I actually fell asleep watching this for maybe 5 minutes in the middle of it and that's a win for me. I have so much happening right now in life. I'm working through the worst of it now so sleep on top of it is terrible for me. But this actually gave me a sense of comfort for a split second so thank you for that.
I feel you would be an amazing therapist. Sincerely.
I just need to thank you for all you have done, I rewatched this video several times until I fall asleep whenever I got bad brain days. you make it bearable. I feel much calmer now
It's wonderful to hear you. I was having a tough day and you helped me to get out. What helps me is self compassion, excercise, socializing, journaling, therapy, watching funny shows, singing , reading,music . You are so right about baby steps if you can't do a whole task. Medicine help too
But like you said getting over the depression is not a straight line, it goes up and down. You need hope , resiliency and courage. task. .
Personally, I call my mentally rough moments "IT issues". It makes me feel better about not always understanding what's wrong or why.
With me I don’t show my emotions, I just smile and go about my day like nothing happened! this just made me feel so much better instantly!
I’m so glad Renae! 😊💖
I am so alone I come to these videos all the time.
I'm tired of burdening my friends telling them daily about how I'm suicidal and depressed all the time. Nobody wants a friend like that. So thank you.
I didn’t think I’d feel any peace tonight, but this video gave me a safe space and 40 minutes of a quiet mind so thank you ❤️
Thank you for still doing these - they're pocket-sized miracles-on-demand ❤️
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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Very calming relaxing and helpful ❤️
I couldn’t tell between the lines of depression or going insane, I’m at a point where when I take a shower I talk out loud to the people I use to love and aren’t here to say hey from time to time, and it’s reached my sleep schedule recently and I’ve been trying my best to not lose myself in my own dark times.
Hi Sarah, thank you so much for the video. Dealing with depression with each small task is a great way to conquer that mountain, small step by small step. x
You always know exactly what content to put out there ❤️ Also my hair is getting a little long so I know another haircut video is coming soon 😂 Bless you and happy new year 🍾
My hair is long too
Me thrice!
Thank you Scott! ☺
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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Ive been crying for 30 min and I just wanted someone to talk to so Im watching this video, thank you
I feel the same, it's hard to find someone to talk to...
@@Noamb7 hope you're ok now
Literally so, so thankful I found this video and look forward to checking out your channel. I can’t even describe how much I needed this 💕 thank you
This was my self sooth this evening. I was feeling like I could barely stay afloat and I am pretty sure this video pulled me away from a complete mental breakdown. I am so grateful!! And to those in the comments looking for other tools. Probably the only thing that wasn't already mentioned in this video that helps me is putting an icepack on my temples. It helps to slow down my heart rate and distract me a little bit from what ever emotion or thought seems to be gripping me. Love to all and again infinite thanks to you!! oxoxo
I feel vary defeated right now because this week has so far a very long week and a busy week so I do really appreciate the comfort and the tingles that you have been giving me the least to days And do appreciate that thank you Sarah 💖
Stay up groot ✊
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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