Seriously: if you are going to comment on a topic. Learn how to use the correct pronunciation of words. A kebab is Key-Bab. The meat is Don-Na like the woman's name.
It is misleading to say that any cell phone case offers ultimate protection for a cell phone OR that with such a case you can throw the cell phone against the wall of the room full blast! Even if the "extreme protection" of the protective case perfectly prevents the screen glass from breaking and the phone shell from being damaged, it cannot prevent the components and solders on the circuit board inside the mobile phone from being damaged.
When the phone suddenly hits a hard surface, which instantly kills the huge kinetic energy directed at it, the parts inside it take a hit anyway. The components inside the smartphone itself may survive the impact, but some of their solders may be damaged, and even if they continue to work immediately after the impact, the resulting minor damage will slowly grow into a defect that will later prevent the phone from functioning. For example, a solder may get a very small fracture or strain, which causes a small resistance to the damaged point. Even if the device is still working, that unrelated resistor will cause heat every time it is powered and therefore over time will cause your device to break.
So, because you don't think deeply, you believe in such nonsense that with some external protection you can throw a swingarm against a wall without causing any damage to the cell phone! I'm not saying that "extreme protection" isn't good. I'm just saying that your idea that after getting the protection the mobile phone is indestructible and you can throw it at the stone wall as you want. That's stupid!
She's essentially a child herself. This particular situation goes far beyond bad habits and selfishness. I assume this was filmed many years ago and I hope they are doing much better now.
@@neonk2222 True. Watching this I was struck by her mother - seemed to think it was all funny that her daughter couldn't care less about looking after herself and her kids. I mean, this is a teenage mother, and her mum is so laid back as if what happens to her child and grandchildren is nothing to do with her.
And it was a pear. A PEAR. The most underrated of all fruits. That kid had a chance to know true nutritional and culinary enlightenment and she denied him. A woman like that has no place being a mother.
How does she not get charges with some sort of child abuse or neglect? Really it's just a shame that the worst people are the ones who end up as parents
She didn’t get scared due to early parenthood, she didn’t get scared of the heart attack, and she’s not getting scared by her son’s health. She’s the epitome of health apathy
They need to take her children away from her. The fact the son had never been to a dentist prob means he rarely goes to a doctor. At this point, she's neglecting her children. This is a form of neglect that can result in children being removed from the home and kept away from mom unless she shows progression and attends classes meant to help her become a better parent. Otherwise, she needs to loose her kids and if that isn't motivating, then let those babies live with someone who cares and loves them enough to actually help them and let mom keep having heart attacks by herself.
@@lunaballuna I will say your statement on the dentist means he doesn’t see a doctor false. My kid always fought me and wouldn’t even let a dentist look into her mouth. I figured they’re baby teeth and they’re falling out anyway. She always went to her well child visits though. Annnnnd in the US, it’s impossible to find a dentist that accepts our insurance. I’ve called over 20. I have severe dental issues and pain but I can’t get treated. Feeding your child junk food and forgoing a dentist isn’t abuse lol
@@silllykitten329 It actually is abuse. She is scared of the dentist, so her child doesn’t go. She doesn’t like fruit when the child clearly wanted to try, she doesn’t buy it. A diet that would help her child not get a heart attack like her didn’t fit in with her life. This women clearly doesn’t care. Any doctor’s visits would show the same thing the nutritionist shows, to me her reaction shows this child hasn’t seen a doctor, at least not as much as he should. I understand your point regarding your kids and the dentist. But, your giving this lady the benefit of the doubt which she does not deserve. Actively harming your kids, knowing you’re harming them, but still not changing is abuse.
@@silllykitten329 this documentary is filmed in the UK not the US. Dental care is free for children under the age of 18 in the UK it is publicly funded.
@@silllykitten329 if you care so less about your kids health then you’re being a great mother. Just falling out? do you realize baby teeth health can control their adult teeth? And I live in New York and my nieces/nephew has government insurance and they can go to the dentist. 20 places ain’t shit, you’ve probably been to more fast food places in the past year.
It was just so shocking to see her denying her child fruits and vegetables that the kid was asking for. Pears are cheap, how hard is it to get your kid a pear? When I was a kid and my mom took me to the grocery store, whenever I'd spot a fruit or vegetable I wanted to try, my mom would always get it for me because if a kid wants to eat something healthy, why would you deny them?
@@salj.5459they actually contain a large amount of sugar, but it’s in fructose, which is much differently processed compared to actual sugar; it’s sort of a “healthy sugar”, where it’ll be converted into carbohydrates
If you are 18 with a heart attack already and 2 children being a single mother, and that is not good enough to be your rock bottom and change, you are beyond salvation...
For some people the rock bottom has to be harsher. She has probably found a way to be comfortable withher circumstances. Maybe she runs away from facing them, maybe she is too depressed to do even the barr minimum... but either way, when you have children you owe them to at least look for help, specially if you dont want them to turn out like yourself
The kid asked for actual fruit and she not only didn't get it for him, but actively went out of her way to say "ew"... Edit: imo The way to motivate her is to tell her that the diet she is on is making her look like she is 40...
You are probably right. She is still a teen with the mind of a teen, and doesnt seem to really think about putting in the work for a comfortable and healthy future. Instead she is more worried about making her present less uncomfortable, even if it is at the expense of her future and her children’s future. Even threatening to take the kids away wouldn’t probably scare her enough, but if you tell her she is looking more and more busted with this diet, maybe it would work
@@lalailm It's tragic, but yes, hearing that her face looks twenty years older would probably motivate her, and keeping her children wouldn't. Honestly, the way she acts, she might be glad if you took the kids away. More time and money for her.
I had a work colleague who hated healt9food but gave it to her kids excusing herself saying that she's "allergic". Not ideal but at least that's responsible towards the kids. It's not that hard honestly anyone can lie like that and feed them properly while still eating shit themselves.
Yeah, it's pathetic that so many males leave their kids lmao maybe if the dad was present he could do something to help the kid but of course that's not happening
We don’t know what lead her to be a single mother and I don’t judge people by that. The issue is how she is treating her children and herself. She definitely realizes that she might k*ll herself and end up leaving her children without a parental guardian. She’s clearly mentally distressed/unfit.
@@tymondabrowski12 that's also why safe abortion or giving up for adoption is very important. Because even contraception doesn't reduce the pregnancy risk by 100%.
The soda thing really pisses me off because England has really strict water safety laws, so tap water is completely safe. It’s also safe to drink from the bathroom taps because they come from the same supply. This isn’t just lazy, she has to be intentionally doing this.
She definitely seems to be doing it on purpose and it's very bizarre. She claims it's about time and money, but her son wanted a pear and she denied it. You just need to wash a pear to eat it. When the nutrition offered nutritional food that was the same price or cheaper than fast food, she explicitly noted SHE might try to eat healthier, not her son. I'm at the 9 minute mark but so far she hasn't said a single word about her son's health, only her fear of her own health deteriorating. I can't imagine what she's thinking. I noticed a mostly empty bottle of vodka in the fridge too. Not that drinking automatically makes you depressed, but I suspect she's intentionally trying to end her life and she wants to bring her kids with her, in the most passive aggressive way possible.
@@hellooutthere8956and your government tried to convince you that yours is the greatest country in the world! Clean water is the root of civilization! It's the freaking most basic thing! A government that is not able to provide every citizen clean safe water with 100x the money as the poorest, unsafest, scariest places of Africa people mass escape from...
My childhood friend Jake was diabetic, and his parents only ever fed him chicken nuggets with fries and ketchup and a juicebox, for every single meal. Everytime he was over at our house and we cooked for him, he would complain and refuse to eat for like 5 minutes until he realized his temper tantrums weren't going to work. I have no idea why a parent would ever feed their child like that, especially a diabetic one, but one day my dad found his dad shooting up in our basement, so uhh, yeah Life kinda sucked for that kid, no doubt it's only gotten worse.
His awful behavior probably has as much to do with his mother ignoring him as it does his diet. If she can’t be bothered to boil some pasta, you can’t tell me she’s bothered to pay him any mind.
@@BarakonI watched the original documentary and she was even less maternal towards her young daughter than she was her son, if that's even possible. In the UK young women who have children out of wedlock are rewarded substantially: straight to the top of the housing list, generous benefits, free dental care (ironically), free school uniform/school lunches when the children start school amongst other things. For some women this is a career choice, a way of never having to do a day's work in their life.
I was a fast food baby. My mom feed me these foods out of convenience. She worked all the time and if I wasn’t eating school food I was eating fast food. There’s a bunch of foods I didn’t even realized I liked because my mom didn’t like them. If she didn’t like it I didn’t either. I got old and realized I loved a big variety of foods my mom would never touch. I’m currently working on my physical health (I’m overweight/ morbidly obese) when I went to a doctor about weight lose surgery and got connected to a nutritionist my mom hated it. It’s been two weeks since the doc appointment and my mom has been offering fast food everyday. I should say no but I don’t (food addiction). I gotta move out to save myself. Being a fast food baby just doesn’t cure itself when the parent is in control. If you’re a fast food baby you have to save yourself. You can do it! And hopefully I can too.
@@ingridgallagher1029 thank you! I have been doing better and I have been taking control of my own eating habits! Although I still fall down sometimes, I always get back up and try again!
@@liyahluna Keep going. It's very difficult when you're in a shared house with temptations all around, and it's all to easy to make that an excuse but it sounds like you're not falling into that trap. Keep up the good work.
You know how some people reflexively giggle when they’re nervous or uncomfortable (like at a job interview or a funeral) and it’s inappropriate, but they can’t help it/haven’t learned enough self-control yet? It’s usually kids who do that but some people take a long time to grow out of it. I guess some never grow out of it. I doubt she honestly believes she’ll die in 10 years. Young people tend to think they’re immortal so they take big risks which older people would rightfully be afraid to do. And Kiana has had videos on how much denial overweight people have when it comes to their own food consumption. This lady is in denial about her potential early death even despite her heart attack.
As a German I feel the need to clarify that Döner Kebap is supposed to be Meat (Chicken or Veal mostly), salad, tomatoes, onions, cucumber, sometimes feta cheese or grilled veggies with a yogurt or garlic sauce inside a pita bread (or rolled in some kind of wrap which would make it a dürüm). It is in fact not super bad nutrition wise , at least I try to convince myself
It's neglect, abuse, narcissism, and so much more. Some people just don't deserve to be parents yet somehow find themselves becoming "strong single mothers."
@@Anna-iq4yqast food is expensive, though. you have to buy it every single day for meals when a can of veggies is much cheaper and lasts longer. i agree with you but it bewilders me when people blame classism on their poor food spending habits.
@@pixi3d3ath47 I think it depends where you live, and what the prices of healthy groceries vs fast food is... this seems especially true in America, in those "food deserts" and such. I've heard decent groceries are a lot more expensive in America in general, and fast food is a lot cheaper than in most other (western) countries.
I think the "i got no control over what he eats" is still the one that infuriates me the most. Seeing someone put soda in a sippy cup though? Very close second.
Right. My parents would cook dinner with veggies when I was a kid. If I or my siblings didn't want it, then we went to bed with an empty stomach and no dessert. They never _forced_ us to eat, but it really made me not a picky eater as a kid. I was like the only kid in my class that actually liked broccoli, brussel sprouts, and asparagus. But I was the "weird" one for it lmao
Absolutely. As the parent, he has full control over what his child eats! And how old was the child? I think 2 or 3? When I was growing up, we ate healthy meals at home which were also delicious. I loved vegetables when I was a kid, which we had with our meals pretty much every day. Fast food was an occasional treat, not a way of life. It was okay if I didn't like a certain food, as long as I at least tried it first. To hear that guy say he can't control what his young child eats is ridiculous.
I didn't let my kid have any soda until he was 4 and it was a once in a great while treat. It made me mad seeing her not trying to improve herself and you know later her kids gonna hate her
Can’t believe she didn’t give him a pear! I mean I HATE avocado with a passion, but guess what my 2 year old eats for lunch 3x a week? Avocado toast. He even feeds it to me and I have to pretend to like it.
Right? I HATE olives. Guess what all my kids love? Olives. I buy a variety and my kids snack on them enjoying different ones. I'll even eat one or two telling my kids it's wasteful to be picky and you should always try something new.
Do you season your avocado? You do know you have to add a bunch of lemon and salt and olive oil and a boiled egg on top to actually make it taste good lol
@@namebaconson8725 I do, I put pepper and salt on top, and an over easy egg on top for my husband. My husband and kid loves it, but I just can’t like avocado no matter how hard I try. They also love avocado pudding with a little bit of condensed milk in it, still didn’t change my mind. 🤣
as a Turkish person, i can confidently say that what it shown in the video not authentic döner kebab. we never us mayonnaise in döner, and it's typically served with peppers, tomatoes and onions.
Yep, after living in Turkey for 5 months I feel sorry for what the rest of the world has done to kebab. Whenever I see kırmızı lahana on a kebab shop counter I mentally flag it a "yes" place and whenever I don't i flag it as a "better not" place.
Kebab shops in the US, we call probably call them "pita places" more often, arent exactly the healthiest places in the world but they are way healthier than they are in England. Meat or chicken, rice, hummus, pita, vegetables. I don't know what those kebab places in England are supposed to be.
My younger cousin got pregnant at 16 and now 15 years later she is still stuck at that age- always trying to appear wealthier than she is, using her kid to get money from relatives, stole money from a married man's wife to be that same man's sugar mommy. It's insane. Arrested development is a real thing.
@@kristinazubic9669They have more of an excuse than the people who did have kids and should have matured because of it like everyone says will happen… what’s your excuse for that?
About 15 years ago, a former colleague was under DYFS investigation for repeatedly taking her then 8 month old to the ER with such extreme cases of constipation that he had even been diagnosed with septicemia. She was feeding him McDonald's every day, no fruit, veg or water, and could not comprehend that a baby should not be eating that. He's a teenager now and has some serious medical and developmental issues.
8 months?! Thats when you can still get away with feeding them premade portidge why tf is that BABY eating McDonald's?! I "get" parents feeding their kids shitty when they're eating actual meals but at that age, c'mon :(
@@inkompetenzkompensationsko4188 some people have no common sense whatsoever. My cousin had a no sugar approach to her baby because she's a pedagogical professional and studies a lot about early childhood development and she thought it was better not introduce sugar during the first years. She later finded out that one of her husband sister was giving soda in a bottle god knows for how long to her baby when she babysit for her, because she used to do the same her own kids and "they turned out fine". Some people in the family had the audacity to say that she was exaggerating when she stopped let the aunt babysit. Other family members also sneakily gave candy to her child because "kids like it" and got angry when she denied give fastfood or ultraprocessed food to her toddler when the kid was being fussy to eat, saying that she was starving the kid. What's fucked up it's that my cousin was never a health nut, she doesn't have or feed her kid a super strict diet, she's just want her daughter to be able to enjoy homemade food and grow her sense of taste before ruining all with sugar and overly processed stuff, now her daughter it's 9, very much a not pick eater, eat fruits and vegetables because she likes it to.
@@joiceraiana i'll never understand giving babies Soda especially in a bottle. I never did because cleaning these bottles is a pain without everything being sticky and stuff and most babies don't like fizzy drinks anyways (from my experience anyways). If the aunt doesn't respect the parents wishes she won't be around the kid, i think that's a natural consequence of breaking the parents trust. Good to hear the kid is now enyoing all sorts of food :)
Then she shouldn't have had those kids.Where does responsibility come in? Also, in the past, when you became a parent was when you put your childhood behind you, no matter how early in life that happened. 16 is very young to be a mother, but still old enough to understand responsibility and sacrifice.
Having a kid young doesn't equate selfishness. There are lots of young mothers who love their children and just need someone to help them. It's a character issue--not her age.
so real. it was the most vile. thyroid is ignorant and letting ur partner wear the pants like she does is foolish. she is truly incapable of selflessness.
Yup! The thyroid one pisses me off because I am hypothyroid. It's really difficult, but it is not an excuse to be like these people. The "I can't control what he eats" will always take the cake. Always.
This is so crazy to watch. When I got pet rats years ago, I wanted to give them a bit of what I was eating and they can eat just about anything(also saves money to make them a little side dish of what I'm eating). I literally changed my diet just because I wanted them to eat healthy. She can't change for her actual human child.
Same haha I remember living alone and buying a whole cooked chicken and sharing it with my rats. Buying heads of broccoli just for them. Now I have a baby and they eat the fruit and veg cutoffs or that baby throws on the floor. Little food bins 😂
Im guessing because this type of parenting is so common that it would be impossible to address all the cases. Just from my own experience ive seen maybe 30-40% of parents doing deep emotional or physical damage to their children, popping them out so casually like its no big deal to raise a human
@@offgrid1356 My sister works in criminal justice and I agree. When we have these conversations, she complains about the lack of ressources in bringing even smaller crimes to justice. There would be too many minor cases to prosecute.
Shes 19 years old and had her first kid at 16, I find a lot of teen parents are very self centered and think more about themselves than their kids, especially if they hadnt been wanting to be parents prior to getting pregnant and felt pressured to keep the children. So I'm not at all surprised by her attitude.
I don't think many of them are really "pressured to keep the children". And abortion is freely available in the UK. They just think having a kid will be fun and easy. Or a way out of an unhappy home environment. If a teenage girl has a baby and her parents don't want her and the baby to stay in their home, the government gives her her own flat, even if she's just 16 years old.
I cant comprehend how can someone be so lazy to eat fast food for every single meal for 3 years. Just looking at my wallet when I crave fast food stops me from being lazy real quick.
She's a teen UK mom of two, not only doesn't even need to work she lives off of benefits from the government and probably her home is council given for free.
My mom who was working her a$$ off ( after her divorce when I was 11 ) gave me money to buy my own lunch. Being a silly kid I bought every day fast food or pizza. It took just a few months to turn me into a chubby kid ( I was skinny before ) with some health problems. It took even more time to get rid of my addiction to that stuff ( esp. the Sprite drink ). My dad wasn't better at weekends. It's frustrating to have ignorant/irresponsible parents.
I once got lazy to go out and buy myself a pizza (before I got a bank account) so yk what I did? I went and made the ENTIRE thing from scratch with shit I had at home. it took me like 3-4h which is about 12 times as long as it would've taken me to go buy one and bake it (15min in the oven and 2 min walk to and from the supermarket)...I mean im considered super fucking lazy at home but if I can do that why can't she? I mean there must be an underlying issue other than pure laziness
Seeing that poor child pleading for a piece of fruit and being denied was heartbreaking. It's also a little terrifying when he asks what a dentist is. Honestly, I think that woman is beyond reasoning. She knows her diet is killing her (and laughs when talking about it), a heart attack at eighteen wasn't enough of a come-to-Jesus moment to even make her reconsider the way she eats, and she doesn't care that she's hurting her children because she only cares about herself. This is beyond ordinary teen immaturity or ignorance. She's just vile.
@@msmaria5039 By having this kind of diet. She'd eating fast food at a level that most people consume over years, at a pace faster than her body can adjust and dispose of it. It's too much for her body at one time and it's clogging her arteries, resulting in the heart attack.
@@msmaria5039 To be fair, people on my 600 lb life who are older than her don't have heart attacks when they have the exact same same diet. She may have an underlying/genetic heart condition that is made worse by her awful diet. Every person is different though, maybe it is really caused by her horrible diet alone. It is really hard to exactly know.
@@aptalsandvic5355 It could certainly be a combination of factors, both diet and a physical problem. But a preexisting heart condition should make her MORE careful, not less. I know teenagers think they're immortal, but most of them haven't had a life-threatening emergency like that. She literally doesn't seem to care.
19 year old single mother of two.....as soon as you said that I was pretty much already convinced this is a person very much prone to terrible decisions.
At first I thought "Döner is not that bad" because in Germany it is a flatbread, cut open and filled with meat, Salat, cucumber, tomatoes, cabbage and maybe feta cheese. It's mainly vegetables and you can even customize it because it's filled fresh. Then I saw the ground meat with fries and cheese LOL
I agree. In the UK we have the German Kabab Co - and it is not all that bad. However, when compared to Mustafa's van outside the pub / offie very expensive.
Don't underestimate the meat though. It's not as healthy as it appears to be, since it's highly processed and full of phosphates. You even see it in the video itself. And the bread is nothing but empty carbs which turn into pure sugar in your body. The sauce is also quite dense in calories and sugar. So, what you're left with is the fresh veggies as the only valuable nutrient in that thing, might just as well eat a salad then with some fresh cooked meat. Is way better for you. Fast food is never healthy, it always compromises in that aspect, but tries to mask itself as such with some veggies or fruit sprinkled on top for convincing looks. It's the same thing with smoothies or veggie pizzas. Don't be naive.
@@sacredsecrecy9620 yeah there are some cheap places with processed meat even here but these are selled under another name, they are pretty strikt with that. Of course you have to know the difference but in our shop it's unprocessed lamb or chicken. The sauce is made out of yoghurt and spices. You could take a fatty ranch like sauce but that's something they ask you. Never saw something here like in that video
Yeah I had kebab in France and it was pretty decent. Roasted lamb, lettuce, cucumber, tomatoes, and mayo based sauce in a pita. Probably about 800-900 calories? Which is a fair amount but not awful, especially with all the protein, and if it’s your biggest meal of the day that’s quite reasonable.
The son is such a sweet, enthusiastic boy who is willing to try healthy foods and even encourages his mother.. and for the mom to be so selfish and unconcerned is heartbreaking. Whatever her demons are, they do not justify the abuse she is inflicting on this kid. I want to grab her by the shoulders and tell her to wake up.
When I was little, getting McDonald's was a treat, not a regular meal. To be fair, we were a broke family of six, so trying to feed all of us with fast food wasn't really a great option lol. We were living that rice and bean life
@@Aperson355 I suppose that depends A LOT on where in the world you are. As a Brazilian who moved to Japan, I was shocked by the high prices of produce here (and the same when I visited some countries in Europe, mainly France, Switzerland and England) In Brazil, it is much MUCH cheaper to eat healthy than fast food
@@Aperson355 I don’t think that’s really true. My family never ate out as a kid because we couldn’t afford it. You’ve got to think about price per portion. Home cooked meals are so much cheaper than fast food.
@@alnklar I am from Switzerland and fast food there (eating out in general) is more expensive than eating healthy food. I understand that for a tourist the prices of produce might seem really high, but wages are higher too. I now live in England and with shops like Aldi or Lidl, people can cook healthy food for cheap. However, fast food are convenient and almost everywhere, so it explains why a lot of people might prefer not to cook and buy fast food.
@@alnklar Industrial countries are like that. I lived in Indonesia, and the number of foreigners telling me how cheap the food here was is astronomical. It's much cheaper to eat healthy than to eat fast food here.
When my autistic son hit 2, he stopped eating the varied meals he had been eating. For the next 6 years, all he wanted was chicken nuggets and chips . I refused to buy the highly processed ones and made my own healthy breaded chicken nuggets and potato wedges, which were baked instead of frying. He would also eat apples , grapes, and yoghurts. The breakthrough with food came when he started cookery lessons in high school ( 11-18 ) in the UK. He's an excellent cook, and at 24, has a varied diet and eats foods that he would refuse as a small child.
I have a culinary degree, but before earning a degree, I had been cooking since childhood (around 8). It truly baffles me when people say “I don’t know how to cook” as an excuse to feed their child a poor diet, as the cooking instructions are LITERALLY printed on the packaging of almost any given food item that requires preparation…. Saying “I don’t know how to cook” is just another way of saying, “I don’t know how to follow basic instructions”. It’s extremely easy, people like this just don’t want to put in the effort because they are lazy 🙄 poor kid. With a mum this lazy, poor diet is going to be the least concerning aspect of this child’s upbringing.
Right? "I can't cook complex X course meals with a great variety of spices and textures", sure, I understand and relate to. "I can't cook" plain and simple feels so alien to me.
The funny thing though is that she goes out of her way to pay huge amounts of money for the food anyway so why not do one of those food subscribtion services? Even if you don't know how to cook, which I understand as not knowing how to cook something you'll actually enjoy eating and so it feels like a waste of time and effort to do so, there are still frozen meals out there that aren't necessarily fast food.
@@Tina06019 she clearly knows how to read a menu. If you watched the entire video, you would see that she proves she is capable by making a “healthier” version of pizza at home and also openly admits to her laziness being the reason she doesn’t cook. She is expressly more focused on herself, her lack of motivation and her own social agenda than she is the welfare of her child. I would never advise trying to make excuses for irrefutably toxic behavior, people who are lazy and unmotivated thrive on excuses and the ones they come up with for themselves are lame enough. There are people in 3rd world countries who have never read a single word in written text and are somehow capable of cooking over an open fire to feed their families food they had to hunt and gather themselves; anyone with modern amenities like stoves and ovens and grocery stores have zero excuses.
I mean, I have a very poor memory and when I have to cook things on the top of the stove, I have to ask for help as to what "number" I have to put the stove on (yk, like the crank that says 2, 4, 6, etc. Basically the heat of the stovetop? I feel I'm over explaining-) soup, eggs, even simply boiling water can be difficult to remember, but I do have a notebook with little notes on basic meals I guess. Some things aren't really written and you do have to learn some things, but if you do it enough times, you definetly can know exactly what to do! (Sorry for the long comment, I saw an opportunity and took it)
This woman is incredibly immature, even for 19. It’s clear she doesn’t view her children as people outside of herself. It seems like she’s believes they are just extensions of herself. She says “we don’t like that” and she doesn’t take them to the dentist because s SHE’S afraid. If she had never had children she might have grown up and out of this mentality but I’m afraid that since she has kids she’s going to be frozen in time as a childish narcissist. I really wonder what her childhood was like and how she was raised.
She's definetly one of those mums you see in crime documentaries that kill her kids (typically right before a custody battle/custody visit/seeing family/a medical or dental visit/school enrollment/basically anywhere the children would be looked after in public, or while she's with a dude who doesn't like kids) simply because she's afraid of admitting to and taking responsability for neglecting/abusing them and/or wants the instant gradification of "freedom" she would've gotten if she had the balls to get through the obligated 18 years you sign up for upon having and keeping your baby.
I just wanna say that your videos about people who are addicted to fast food are my main motivation to eat healthier and help me to restrain from eating awful food. Thanks!!
I had a really unhealthy relationship with McDonalds during my early childhood, due to pickiness and convience, though I don't remember it. I eventually got over it with help from my mom finally getting me to eat other things, but I can't imagine if she only encouraged it. Poor kid.
Man this happen to my friend he was allowed to eat whatever he wanted growing up, he would drink 2 lt of coca cola daily with a friend chicken daily. Sadly his over consumption of soda lead to type 2 diabetes, now at 19 he has to take special care to all he eats, his life has been changed forever
she’s literally nutrient depriving her baby and causing major harm to his health. she can naturally select herself with that behavior but doing this to a baby? i don’t understand how she even has custody
@@controlledsingularity8084 You do know that it's just called "natural selection" which was simply _made by_ Charles Darwin, along with many other things, and you just look like a pretentious idiot by breaking grammar to try sounding smart, right? Also I'm not sure you even read the above comment. If I'm making sense of your grammar, youre saying "if her son lives it's not natural selection," correct? Nobody said that. The original comment references natural selection as in "the mother can make her own choices that kill her," the only reason the son is mentioned is specifically because it's not "natural selection," it's child neglect that will lead to his death, hence "but doing this to a baby?" (as in "how could she do this to her son) "I don't understand how she even has custody" (because of obvious neglect.)
Talking about the fear tactic: I knew a girl who suffered from severe anorexia nervosa. She was on the brink of dying, when her mother decided to confront her with it. She took the girl to pick out a coffin, a gravestone, she had to write down who should be at her funeral and what music should be played. The girl went into full panic mode, broke down crying, but the next day she started to eat. That was a few years ago, she is now in recovery and on a very good path to become healthy. Although I personally don't really believe in the fear tactic, in this case it was that one rock bottom the girl needed to save her life. But maybe it depends on the person, I can imagine that the fear tactic maybe for some people can completely backfire and they go in full denial mode... I'm not a psychologist/medical professional in any way, just wanted to share this story because it was the first thing on my mind when Kiana mentioned the fear tactic.
Wow. That would definitely not work for everybody, but I’m glad it did for her. Anorexia is often paired with depression, so it could have potentially backfired HARD.
Personally if that tactic had been used on me when I was knee deep into my own ED it would’ve resulted in an even sicker or potentially even dead kid. Depression & EDs go hand in hand so something like that would definitely cause *a trigger* but whether it’s a positive or negative one really depends
It can work, but way less with anorexia Many anorexics including me before, aren't phased or stopped by the threat of death, they already know that's the result, and where it might work for this woman who's bad diet is due to ignorance, for people with eating disorders like anorexia which often stem from trauma, mental illnesses, etc it's unlikely to work and knowing me and the other people I knew, it can even egg on and encourage the eating disorder, being taken as "wow, I'm so thin that people are telling me I'll die, it must be working"
My anorexia started in 2nd grade. Broke my foot shortly after. My pediatrician (who was awesome.) Told me that if I didn't start eating again I wouldn't walk
@@ghostoflazlo I am 19 too and I feel like most of my peers are more aware of like anything in their lifes than this girl. exactly one person in the entirety of people i know eats fast food everyday, so it’s a big generalisation to say „just another teenager“
My little sister was a fast food baby. She was given chocolate bars three times a day to stop her crying/temper tantrums. Not like mini chocolate bars that you give out on Halloween, but like, actual full sized chocolate bars and sugary snacks. Every. Single. Day. As a four year old. She was also a very picky eater so she wouldn't eat veggies nor meat. Though she liked homemade meatballs so that's a win I guess. Obv she survived on chicken nuggets and McDonald's for a while, but I don't consider that processed shit meat. My dad had a Coca Cola addiction so we always had that with dinner. Yes, even the four year old was given a glass of Coke. Often she would get a second one. I was eleven at the time and I was being taught at school that this is not okay. So I started switching out my sister's Coca Cola with fresh juice. And whenever she cried, I would ask her what was wrong instead of shutting her up with a chocolate bar. I'd give her cut up fruit and veggies as a snack, and make her toast when she came back from daycare. Because mom thought kids don't get hungry after school, or that they can wait until dinner. Mind you, school ended at 4pm and we didn't have dinner until 8.30 pm.
I’m so sorry your parents are completely useless. Honestly if I were u I would contact cps/social services on them. Please don’t be afraid to dial for the child line. Neglect is a serious form of child abuse
As an American, I've never heard of it. What is the correct spelling and pronunciation? "Doner" like you're done for the night after a night out drinking?
@Leah Raven I think I'd always pronounced it the way you say Doner the reindeer. Think it's just a case of her putting a lot of emphasis on the "do" portion where as I'd typically emphasise the "ner" bit
@@Cattleya69 I don't think early puberty has much to do with looking older, I started puberty at 9 and now at 19 people confuse me with a 14 year old all the time. I think it's the bad health that comes from the unhealthy eating that makes people look older.
No offense but white people usually look way older than they're actual age , so it's genetics and the fact that she doesn't take care of herself plus being a teen mom
@@Nameless-ny8nk it can be truth for some people. I started puberty earlier than kids around me and I looked older back then and look older now. Yes now I'm obese so that's why but I wasn't fat several years ago but still looked older (my diet was okay, I didn't get fastfood and sweets)
I think it should be mandatory for people who want kids, to pass a capability test as soon to be parents, to see if they understand and know what it means to raise kids. Where I live you have to pass two tests to own a dog, similar to getting your driver's license. But for raising kids, there's no such thing
That sounds ideal but not realistic, anyways there are options for improving the posibilities of raising children successfully, for example in my country, women who give birth in public hospitals, we have to complete a series of appointments with doctors and dieticians where they teach how to cook and give us recipes, and we have to bring the baby to doctors every month until two years old, they are curious about what we manage the breastfeeding and then the cooking and of course they check the baby
Yeah but literally every single idiot on the planet loves having unprotected sex. If they can't muster the energy to slap a rubber on it, I doubt they'll try this test. Or care.
This happened to me. My parents (especially my father) raised me on a fast food diet. Already in my twenties I developed diabetes and high blood pressure. Now as I approach my fifties (next month) I have to deal with many prescription medicines and doctor appointments. Is hard to modify and change your eating habits especially if you were raised in the manner this lady is doing to her son. "I never thought I would reach 40 years old, much less 50. It has affected me in so many ways: I'm single never been married , poor social skills . So my message to Taylor is this: You still have time time to turn things around for you and your son. Make the changes to live a healthy and productive life.
Damn was fast food really that common 50 yrs ago already?? That sounds like an exceptionally awful scenario. Your parents must've put some real effort into leaning into that junk food that much that it's had such a long lasting effect on your health. I'm very sorry to hear that. Sending you all the best wishes!
You can still turn things around. Look up "Dr Berg keto diet" on youtube. I was getting SERIOUS health issues relating to diabetes and sleeping away all my free time just to keep up. I've lost a ton of weight and don't feel tired all the time. No excuses.. do it soldier.
Our mom used to stand in the kitchen for 2-3 hours almost every day preparing fresh meals while also doing the grocery shopping, taking care of the household and working a full time job (thanks mom for being such a good role model ❤️). It is beyond my understanding how someone can be so lazy and feed their children nothing but junk food when (frozen) fruits and veggies have never been more accessible at the grocery stores. 🤦
This is not a good role model. Don't understand me wrong, I am all for cooking fresh food and women working. But, where was DAD in this? He should have done cooking and grocery shopping as well.
@@mariaelena9369 your point being? This is how my parents chose to live their life. They were both very ambitious, hard working people. That's maybe also the reason why they were able to build a house, travel the world and drive sports cars when they were still young. 🤷♂️
I was a fast food baby.... by time I was 15 i was over 350 pounds, type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, sleep apnea, etc etc. I'm glad I stopped fast food because now it actually makes me sick from the grease and taste of it. Even so fast food cost more now and can make way better healthier home meals
I am so glad I found these videos last month, ten hour days of doing nothing at work waiting for customers. I started learning a lot about weight loss and gaining weight, started counting my calories and figured out that I am a stick figure because of a caloric deficit, even though I ate mostly junk food. Started eating better foods that actually supply me with enough calories to start gaining weight. Mind blown.
Pretty sad that that little boy asked for a pear and his mother wouldn't let him have one (and, according to her, he's never even tasted a pear!) Plus she's only 19 and had already had a heart attack, yet learned nothing from it at all!
A reminder that she has a 3 year old, at 19, that means she was pregnant at 15 and a mum at 16. She is very very young and has little life experience. She needs help to learn those skills she may have had time to develop if she had more time before having children. But she is a child with children. It’s not surprising. She goes with what’s easiest
@@KateeAngel I wonder if she also had working parents that relied on fast food because it was cheap and convenient too, so she never learned to cook or eat any other way.
I mean I agree but I’m 19 and even I have basic common sense that if I had a child I wouldn’t feed him/her junk food at every meal. You don’t need to have a lot of life experience to know that junk food is bad for you and worse for children.
My nephew's egg donor is like this. THROWS A FIT if nephew even TRIES to ask for or order healthier food. "YOU JUST WANT TO MAKE ME LOOK BAD!" Not enough to be gargantuan herself, she has to try to make everyone around her including her CATS obese too, so she won't....look bad? She ordered two giant cheeseburgers for ME the last time I had the misfortune of visiting, despite my asking repeatedly for ONE non giant cheeseburger, and then tried to shame me for not eating it because she paid for it. "You can't eat that one? MY BROTHER CAN EAT EIGHT." I said, "I probably CAN but that doesn't mean I should. Give it to him, then." Catbutt face, as always, lol. "Are you SURE you're not anorexic?" Me: "I'm quite sure, but thanks for your concern about the health of MY diet." CATBUTT FACE INTENSIFIED, lol. I ate half that giant cheeseburger that night and the other half the next morning. "NO YOU HAVE TO EAT IT NOW OR IT WON'T BE GOOD." Again: "Thanks for your concern but I'm fine." Giant--literally--TODDLERS. Nephew is escaping ASAP after he turns eighteen. Malignant narcisissism should be tested for and should disqualify you from having any position of power over ANYONE--no kids, not supervising employees, not having a pet, NOTHING. Not so much as a goldfish should EVER be under your control.
Just wanted to say I love your videos Kiana ❤ Something that really clicked for me was when you said health was one of your core values. I realized I feel the same way and not doing anything to improve my health was making me really depressed. About two months ago I decided to get serious about weight loss and fitness and I’m down 15 lbs and am getting more and more comfortable at the gym. You’re one of my favorite creators and I appreciate your videos especially the behavior change breakdown series ❤
🥺🥺🥺 Proud of you!!!!! That's amazing!! So awesome to hear the values thing resonated with you - it was a game changer for me too. Thank you so much for the kind words and best of luck on your health journey!!! 💪💪💪
Yeah this always gets me. Not as a baby, but as a young child I ended up with a caffeine addiction by the age of 8 because my parents would always give me Coca Cola. I have a sister with severe disabilities and they were always so busy caring for her, they just sort of neglected me. It was easier to just give me whatever I wanted so I wouldn’t ever complain or need anything myself. Really not great though, for my relationship with food, my health, my body or my self esteem in general growing up.
@@hikikomori867 I’ve heard of this and remember really resonating with it when I read it but forgot the name of the concept, thank you so much! I hope you’re doing okay now, or at least that life is better
This one hits a bit close to home, my mom also didn't know how to cook and was addicted to coca cola, to no surprise I became a obese child addicted to soda and junk food, took me a good while to lose the weight and to this day I still struggle to have a healthy relationship with food, but it's slowly getting to a point where I feel stable and healthy, still not quite there, but never giving up.
I had a similar story, only my mother got us fast food out of convenience. I was obese as a child and still am in my 40s. I have never had a good relationship with food and can't imagine I ever will. It's critical to teach children healthy eating habits, especially by modeling them.
@@MollieFrieWeevilGenius for sure, It's one of those things where if you don't have a good example from the get go it's really hard to motivate yourself to change because it's comfortable, nostalgic and what you're used to, I got lucky that some people intervened in my life on my behalf on my teenage years, got me to like exercising and from there on I started to learn bit by bit to create habits that make me feel better, I'm 26 now and still learning, it's a huge difference from the relationship my husband has with food since he got the good example right from the start, it's pretty crazy to see it
Same. Thankfully my dad was the healthy eater in the household and would make homemade healthy meals for me. But since he worked 14 hours a day to provide at the time, dinner was mostly whatever my mom could drive thru and order.
My boyfriend and I watched this documentary and I sometimes reference to him "can we eat that sugar?" Because its so tragi-comic and situationally perfect.😅
I feel guilty when I make a frozen pizza and some salad for dinner because I don’t feel like cooking every once in awhile. I can’t imagine how horrible I’d feel if I fed my kids like this every day 😢 poor little guy. I hope they’re doing better now.
There's sport medic doctor here in Brazil called Paulo Muzy who once said that the best way of changing a child diet is starting changing the parents' diet because,as a example, if you give your son a broccoli to eat while you eat a pizza,he won't want eat his broccoli and will think that he's being punished
I have severe food problems due to autism. Luckily I have family members and friends who eat anything and who have already promised to help me with my future kids♡ And the thought of my future kid eating something I couldn't just fills me with pride. I will for sure do my everything to help my kids eat everything, even things I can't eat. It's really healthy to try new foods too.
I’m from Flint, Michigan and I call it pop too. In the U.S. it’s called pop in the midwest region and giving it to toddlers is insane. I’m so glad my traditional Mom cooked us healthy meals and limited sugary treats. I crave fruits and vegetables and realized quickly as a teen that fast food binges make you feel like crap ten minutes later. I wish people could eat healthy for 30 days to know how much better you feel.
I was helping the teacher of a kindergarten class. A boy who "lived" mostly on Pop Tarts actually gagged when I asked him to try a baby carrot that the children were given for a snack. I thought that he was literally going to throw up. So sad.
I know a kid who refuses to eat fruits or veggies, and would gag over MY son's lunch because he always has a fruit and a vegetable, and his fried rice/noodles are always packed with like 5 types of veggies. He's an active kid despite being overweight, but it makes me so sad that he's probably deficient in so many vitamins and minerals.
Kiana, your videos help me stay on track and help me teach my kids how to eat healthy. This series absolutely breaks my heart for those kids but it's so eye opening to your audience. Thank you.
As a 19 year old, I’m glad I don’t have any kids. I’m sure I wouldn’t fail the diet portion AS bad as the people from this show, but I wouldn’t be a good dad in this stage of my life.
It really is giving up your own life to serve other people and its not easy. Its not quite like being a monk but its probably like being a soldier ..they dictate when you wake up what you eat and its a lot of thinking energy and worry energy. Bevause youre always thinking about did they eat enough do they need help with maths is that table edge going to be bad if that kid gets any more tired and hyper...its a LOT. And the more youve worked in some hard jobs before doing kids i think the better because hard work is what it is. And the more youre used to that and enjoy that i think the better. I was used to being a total float around twat who did ehatever whenever and when i had kids it was such a big change for me it was very overheleming. I dont think it matters how old you are but i do think how prepared you are and dedicated you are is important.
As a 22 year old, I made a vow to not even think about conceiving a child until I'm at least 25. I have, of course, partially written a pledge to them, with the only rule being I can add and edit it until the day I find out I'm pregnant with my first child. Then I follow the pledge to the T. My diet hasn't been the best either, but I'm getting better, it's only been a few days since having Maccas, and I justified the junk food in the name of gaining weight (currently underweight). Was raised on a pretty healthy, yet bland, diet as a child, so I kinda went rank once I turned 18 with the junk; chocolates, chips of all sorts, burgers, KFC, etc. I say 25 because that's the supposed "age of maturity", but executive functions don't fully develop until 30 years old. So by the time my first is ready for school, I'll be just finally fully adulting. As it should be.
There's a kid that comes to my son's daycare who is only 3 and has teeth rotting. It's unusual in Australia with the fluoride we have in the water and it makes me so sad to see the poor little thing.
Not making excuses because you probably know more than any of us do, but this could actually be a medical thing. My nieces had to get caps on their teeth because they're just genetically predisposed for it. That and their mom wasn't aware just how bad fruit snacks are for kids teeth.
The more I watch these the more I realized my baby sister was a fast food baby, which is just another addition to the mountain of horrible things my mother has done.
My first kid was a great eater as a baby. Ate off our plates, didn't matter if it was spicy, curries, salad, vegetables, whatever. When he turned 2, it was like someone flipped a light switch and he got extremely picky. Only wanted junk, which we didn't even really have at home. I worked with him to eat something healthy. We did the smoothies, protein waffles, hidden vegetables, whatever. Some days he barely ate and I figured if he's hungry, he will eat 🤷♀️ Now he has grown out of it and will actually ask for vegetables he likes for dinner. I can't imagine just giving in and actively malnourishing your child.
RE: Kiana's question -- "How do they find these people." I'm from California and I live in Britain. I can tell you it is not hard. As far as I can tell the four British food groups are booze, smokes, fried things, and sweets. The amount of junk food adults and children eat is so high and considered so normal that people think I'm some kind of lunatic for not allowing my kids multiple treats a day.
In the poorer areas of Britain it's far easier to find unhealthy families that live on junk food than healthy families. I'm from one of the poorest areas in the UK and had chicken nuggets for every meal as a child and can't remember ever eating a vegetable. All of my friends were exactly the same. It's strange, because fruit and vegetables are far cheaper than McDonald's and frozen nuggets.
not necessarily true. in the us obesity levels are higher and its very rare to see someone over 400 pounds, in america they have a show called my 600 pound life. also portion sized are a lot bigger. we are by no means perfect and absolutely have to change things but i wouldn't say its worse than the us and it also depends where you look. working class people are way more likely to consume junk because its quicker and cheaper, but upper middle class areas tend to be very healthy because they have the resources. In california you may have been interacting with the latter group rather than the former
@T Townsend generalising, much? As a Brit born and bred I have never encountered anyone who lives the way you say ‘we’ do. Not saying it doesn’t ever happen, of course it does! As it does in every country worldwide. This is in no way a typical British parent, that’s all I’m trying to say.
@Palantiri I'd disagree that it's just the South, a lot of the midwest/ plains states are pretty heavy too. For both these regions it's probably somewhat related to how rural it is there-- you've got to drive anywhere worth going. Not to mention the humidity, by god.
I live with students in the east of the uk and as a student myself the majority of us dont even eat the way you say we do And students are labled as poorer and less responsible members of society While my group doesnt prove we are all eating well it does show that there are responsible and unresponsible eaters as well as more nuanced issues surrounding food both here and the US Please dont generalise an entire country based off the people you seem to be surrounding yourself with 😅 especially coming from the US Its like us moving to the fattest town in texas and being like Yup this is the usa 🇺🇸 Edit spelling
It's gotta be B for me. The fact that someone genuinely believes they don't control what their kid eats is beyond insane. All three are nuts to be fair though.
Re: her not being obese yet: she could actually be fasting between meals. Idk about the US but here having junk food for every meal doesn't necessarily equate to severe overeating. I've known several friends who only eat fried, beige foods but aren't obese because they either don't eat a lot or have a really unhealthy lifestyle including skipping meals often. This is especially common with smokers because their appetites get suppressed. And actually if she drinks a lot of fizzy drinks that's a lot of caffeine which suppresses your appetite as well.
Yep. Knew a girl at school who only ate potato faces (think Americans call them tater tots?) and nuggets. She got served special meals by the cooks, thinking back I think she had some type of sensory aversion. She was skinny, blonde, and gorgeous. But I didn't ever see her eat a single vegetable.
Carbonated drinks=/=caffeinated, though that is pretty common. Depends on what kind it is. Oddly, if the kid is getting caffeine and he does have ADHD, that may actually be helping his ADHD. Stimulants are the go-to treatment for ADHD, though it's usually low doses of amphetamines. Sugar content might counteract the benefits, though.
I honestly think she is obese or very close just doesnt weigh or track herself Peoples idea of where obesity starts is often skewed and theyre picturing much bigger people But to be grade 1 obese you only need to have a BMI of 30 When i was obese i was 185lbs at 5ft 5 and had a bmi in the low 30s and when i would say i am obese people would say Nah you are just overweight No - i am obese Either way you can see in her body she has a high %body fat for her frame
Taylor wasn't even an adult by the time she had her first kid and she's a single mother with two kids. I get that those children are fully dependent on her and her family, and that a mother should put their children first, but I don't think it's wild or insane or deplorable that she keeps making things about herself. It's almost inevitable. She's barely an adult. If anything having kids probably thrust her into adulthood far before she was ready to deal with it, to have another life in her hands. What she needs is a better support group. She needs people who are both sympathetic and are willing to impart their wisdom, to be patient with her as she continues to grow because she's not even fully mentally developed yet. We have no idea what the circumstances are in why she had those children, the fact is that they exist, they're here now, and they can't get the help they need if their guardians are struggling.
@@amandak.4246 That's very troubling territory though. So the child gets taken away - where does the child go? Will they end up somewhere that is actually better for them? Is that the right thing to do for both parties in the grand scheme of things? The children already exist, so there's no putting that genie back in the bottle. The reality is, lots of people are going to get roped in because a child had a child, whether it's that child's mother, grandmother, extended family, or foster guardians. With more support, the burden doesn't land on one person's shoulders. With more support, people can make up for other people's shortcomings. Perhaps if that support was there in the first place, none of this would have ever happened. Who's to say, who ultimately knows?
Taylor seems very depressed, someone really has to be struggling to know their diet gave them a heart attack and still not want to change… I really hope she can change her mindset especially for Harley’s health 😕
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Döner is a Turkish-German food that only later came to the UK
How old is this documentary? Lol I noticed a computer monitor in the background with a Windows XP logo screensaver! Haha!
Your insight on this doc. is very nice! I didn't know about your channel and you got yourself a new subscriber!
Seriously: if you are going to comment on a topic. Learn how to use the correct pronunciation of words. A kebab is Key-Bab. The meat is Don-Na like the woman's name.
It is misleading to say that any cell phone case offers ultimate protection for a cell phone OR that with such a case you can throw the cell phone against the wall of the room full blast! Even if the "extreme protection" of the protective case perfectly prevents the screen glass from breaking and the phone shell from being damaged, it cannot prevent the components and solders on the circuit board inside the mobile phone from being damaged.
When the phone suddenly hits a hard surface, which instantly kills the huge kinetic energy directed at it, the parts inside it take a hit anyway. The components inside the smartphone itself may survive the impact, but some of their solders may be damaged, and even if they continue to work immediately after the impact, the resulting minor damage will slowly grow into a defect that will later prevent the phone from functioning. For example, a solder may get a very small fracture or strain, which causes a small resistance to the damaged point. Even if the device is still working, that unrelated resistor will cause heat every time it is powered and therefore over time will cause your device to break.
So, because you don't think deeply, you believe in such nonsense that with some external protection you can throw a swingarm against a wall without causing any damage to the cell phone! I'm not saying that "extreme protection" isn't good. I'm just saying that your idea that after getting the protection the mobile phone is indestructible and you can throw it at the stone wall as you want. That's stupid!
That makes me sick that Harley actually asked for a pear, and the horrible mom told him no. Clueless and selfish!
Yeah, no idea what's inside her head tbh.
Teenage pregnancy…. It will fuck you up.
She's essentially a child herself. This particular situation goes far beyond bad habits and selfishness. I assume this was filmed many years ago and I hope they are doing much better now.
3 year old more knowledgeable about what to eat than an adult
@@neonk2222 True. Watching this I was struck by her mother - seemed to think it was all funny that her daughter couldn't care less about looking after herself and her kids. I mean, this is a teenage mother, and her mum is so laid back as if what happens to her child and grandchildren is nothing to do with her.
*Why would she deny her kid a piece of fruit when you literally don't have to prepare it at all?* 🤦♀️
And it was a pear. A PEAR. The most underrated of all fruits. That kid had a chance to know true nutritional and culinary enlightenment and she denied him.
A woman like that has no place being a mother.
for her washing is also preparing
KJV Proverbs 19:15 Slothfulness casteth into a deep sleep;and a idle soul shall suffer hunger.
@@hamtaruThat's probably it. It's "too much work." 😡
@@hamtaruyep and she may even have to use a knife to slice it too.
How does she not get charges with some sort of child abuse or neglect? Really it's just a shame that the worst people are the ones who end up as parents
Because it's britain
@@Ie1222_ Happens in the US too.
There is no scare tactic that is scarier than a freaking heart attack at 19 years old. If that didn't help her, nothing will. I am not optimistic
Especially since she's a mom. Becoming a mom completely changed how I approached food because I don't want to prematurely leave my kids.
I can barely comprehend what I have just watched. Give the kids some mashed veges. Theyll love it.
she’s 19?? maybe it’s the hair but i thought she was in her 40s lol. maybe it’s the Karen hair but she looks like Sharon Osbourne
I feel like she's on cocaine or crack too.
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Ohhhhhh, she smokes.
She didn’t get scared due to early parenthood, she didn’t get scared of the heart attack, and she’s not getting scared by her son’s health. She’s the epitome of health apathy
They need to take her children away from her. The fact the son had never been to a dentist prob means he rarely goes to a doctor. At this point, she's neglecting her children. This is a form of neglect that can result in children being removed from the home and kept away from mom unless she shows progression and attends classes meant to help her become a better parent. Otherwise, she needs to loose her kids and if that isn't motivating, then let those babies live with someone who cares and loves them enough to actually help them and let mom keep having heart attacks by herself.
@@lunaballuna I will say your statement on the dentist means he doesn’t see a doctor false. My kid always fought me and wouldn’t even let a dentist look into her mouth. I figured they’re baby teeth and they’re falling out anyway. She always went to her well child visits though. Annnnnd in the US, it’s impossible to find a dentist that accepts our insurance. I’ve called over 20. I have severe dental issues and pain but I can’t get treated. Feeding your child junk food and forgoing a dentist isn’t abuse lol
@@silllykitten329 It actually is abuse. She is scared of the dentist, so her child doesn’t go. She doesn’t like fruit when the child clearly wanted to try, she doesn’t buy it. A diet that would help her child not get a heart attack like her didn’t fit in with her life. This women clearly doesn’t care. Any doctor’s visits would show the same thing the nutritionist shows, to me her reaction shows this child hasn’t seen a doctor, at least not as much as he should. I understand your point regarding your kids and the dentist. But, your giving this lady the benefit of the doubt which she does not deserve. Actively harming your kids, knowing you’re harming them, but still not changing is abuse.
@@silllykitten329 this documentary is filmed in the UK not the US. Dental care is free for children under the age of 18 in the UK it is publicly funded.
@@silllykitten329 if you care so less about your kids health then you’re being a great mother. Just falling out? do you realize baby teeth health can control their adult teeth? And I live in New York and my nieces/nephew has government insurance and they can go to the dentist. 20 places ain’t shit, you’ve probably been to more fast food places in the past year.
It was just so shocking to see her denying her child fruits and vegetables that the kid was asking for. Pears are cheap, how hard is it to get your kid a pear? When I was a kid and my mom took me to the grocery store, whenever I'd spot a fruit or vegetable I wanted to try, my mom would always get it for me because if a kid wants to eat something healthy, why would you deny them?
Because selfish moms are selfish… because this woman doesn’t deserve to be a mom and is only a mom to get pity and likes on TikTok
lol same here))) I remember constantly asking my mom for kiwi berries whenever we saw them at the market)
Granted, Fruits are not that healthy due to the insanely high amount of sugar inside, but that's still leagues better than Junk food so that's a start
@@sephikong8323Wrong. One or two servings of fruit doesn't even have that much sugar and also has fiber and nutrients.
@@salj.5459they actually contain a large amount of sugar, but it’s in fructose, which is much differently processed compared to actual sugar; it’s sort of a “healthy sugar”, where it’ll be converted into carbohydrates
If you are 18 with a heart attack already and 2 children being a single mother, and that is not good enough to be your rock bottom and change, you are beyond salvation...
Aaaaaaand smokes. I mean, how hard can you make life for yourself!
some people don't deserve to be parents
True... and you can only look at the 18-yr-old's mother and boggle.
@@gerald1495 Yep. Unfortunately. Raising a child is not something to be taken lightly.
For some people the rock bottom has to be harsher. She has probably found a way to be comfortable withher circumstances. Maybe she runs away from facing them, maybe she is too depressed to do even the barr minimum... but either way, when you have children you owe them to at least look for help, specially if you dont want them to turn out like yourself
The kid asked for actual fruit and she not only didn't get it for him, but actively went out of her way to say "ew"...
Edit: imo The way to motivate her is to tell her that the diet she is on is making her look like she is 40...
Immediately saying "ew" is sending a message to Harley that it's a bad food... She truly is affecting his mindset
You are probably right. She is still a teen with the mind of a teen, and doesnt seem to really think about putting in the work for a comfortable and healthy future. Instead she is more worried about making her present less uncomfortable, even if it is at the expense of her future and her children’s future. Even threatening to take the kids away wouldn’t probably scare her enough, but if you tell her she is looking more and more busted with this diet, maybe it would work
@@lalailm It's tragic, but yes, hearing that her face looks twenty years older would probably motivate her, and keeping her children wouldn't. Honestly, the way she acts, she might be glad if you took the kids away. More time and money for her.
Assuming she gets to 40
I had a work colleague who hated healt9food but gave it to her kids excusing herself saying that she's "allergic". Not ideal but at least that's responsible towards the kids. It's not that hard honestly anyone can lie like that and feed them properly while still eating shit themselves.
Heart attack at 18 and mother of two at 19.
Fantastic life-choices.
You know why. For benefits.
OMG I just realized she is a smoker too 😮 so we are talking about terrible eating, smoking and most likely sedentarism too 🤨
Yeah, it's pathetic that so many males leave their kids lmao maybe if the dad was present he could do something to help the kid but of course that's not happening
We don’t know what lead her to be a single mother and I don’t judge people by that. The issue is how she is treating her children and herself. She definitely realizes that she might k*ll herself and end up leaving her children without a parental guardian. She’s clearly mentally distressed/unfit.
@@user-cq5gl1ri7q
You are aware that it's substantially more likely for women to leave a man than the other way around yea?
This is totally another instance of “all kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids”
I doubt her kids were planned, she was 15, maybe 16 when she conceived the first one. That's why education on contraception is important :/
@@tymondabrowski12 that‘s why the kids should be taken away from her*
@@tymondabrowski12 that's also why safe abortion or giving up for adoption is very important. Because even contraception doesn't reduce the pregnancy risk by 100%.
Her kid is so, so sweet. I feel bad for him 😭
@@kaoryakasaka6835 Safe abortion? How can you call that safe when the goal is to kill your child. Literally the most unsafe thing a mother can do.
the words "fast food babies" all together is already scary enough.
i hate it so much LOL
Especially if it's actually adults eating.
Right?!??
@@KianaDocherty i cant belive social services (CPS) let her keep him!! This is CHILD ABUSE!!!
if kiana was fast food, id reach for those buns
The soda thing really pisses me off because England has really strict water safety laws, so tap water is completely safe. It’s also safe to drink from the bathroom taps because they come from the same supply. This isn’t just lazy, she has to be intentionally doing this.
The whole of the UK has strict tap water safety laws.
She definitely seems to be doing it on purpose and it's very bizarre. She claims it's about time and money, but her son wanted a pear and she denied it. You just need to wash a pear to eat it. When the nutrition offered nutritional food that was the same price or cheaper than fast food, she explicitly noted SHE might try to eat healthier, not her son. I'm at the 9 minute mark but so far she hasn't said a single word about her son's health, only her fear of her own health deteriorating. I can't imagine what she's thinking. I noticed a mostly empty bottle of vodka in the fridge too. Not that drinking automatically makes you depressed, but I suspect she's intentionally trying to end her life and she wants to bring her kids with her, in the most passive aggressive way possible.
While in the united states none of our water except one small town in Mississippi is safe to drink. Even our ground water has been compromised.
@@hellooutthere8956and your government tried to convince you that yours is the greatest country in the world! Clean water is the root of civilization! It's the freaking most basic thing! A government that is not able to provide every citizen clean safe water with 100x the money as the poorest, unsafest, scariest places of Africa people mass escape from...
@@hellooutthere8956 Is it safe if you boil it before drinking?
My childhood friend Jake was diabetic, and his parents only ever fed him chicken nuggets with fries and ketchup and a juicebox, for every single meal.
Everytime he was over at our house and we cooked for him, he would complain and refuse to eat for like 5 minutes until he realized his temper tantrums weren't going to work.
I have no idea why a parent would ever feed their child like that, especially a diabetic one, but one day my dad found his dad shooting up in our basement, so uhh, yeah
Life kinda sucked for that kid, no doubt it's only gotten worse.
That's so sad
Sheesh that started sad and took a dark turn
Oh man... wonder what happened to him
@@lalailm Probably has lost a foot by now.
I knew some kids like that growing up. My kids eat a great balanced diet.
His awful behavior probably has as much to do with his mother ignoring him as it does his diet. If she can’t be bothered to boil some pasta, you can’t tell me she’s bothered to pay him any mind.
That's what I thought, I mean it's straight up neglect! And all of that was in front of a camera, what does it look like when the cameras aren't here!
That's what happens when you have a kid not because you want to raise one but because of some other reason & are irrrsponsible.
horrible mother imo
@@BarakonI watched the original documentary and she was even less maternal towards her young daughter than she was her son, if that's even possible.
In the UK young women who have children out of wedlock are rewarded substantially: straight to the top of the housing list, generous benefits, free dental care (ironically), free school uniform/school lunches when the children start school amongst other things.
For some women this is a career choice, a way of never having to do a day's work in their life.
"I got no control over what he eats" Hands down. Makes my blood boil.
I was a fast food baby. My mom feed me these foods out of convenience. She worked all the time and if I wasn’t eating school food I was eating fast food. There’s a bunch of foods I didn’t even realized I liked because my mom didn’t like them. If she didn’t like it I didn’t either. I got old and realized I loved a big variety of foods my mom would never touch. I’m currently working on my physical health (I’m overweight/ morbidly obese) when I went to a doctor about weight lose surgery and got connected to a nutritionist my mom hated it. It’s been two weeks since the doc appointment and my mom has been offering fast food everyday. I should say no but I don’t (food addiction). I gotta move out to save myself. Being a fast food baby just doesn’t cure itself when the parent is in control. If you’re a fast food baby you have to save yourself. You can do it! And hopefully I can too.
your mother shouldn't be allowed to have children
Hopefully you can move out soon! I'm sorry you're mom of all ppl insists on sabotaging you. Don't give up on yourself!
@@ingridgallagher1029 thank you! I have been doing better and I have been taking control of my own eating habits! Although I still fall down sometimes, I always get back up and try again!
@@liyahluna Keep going. It's very difficult when you're in a shared house with temptations all around, and it's all to easy to make that an excuse but it sounds like you're not falling into that trap. Keep up the good work.
Your mum is a food addict...when a Co addict tries to get clean, the other addict tries to sabotage that recovery
How can you say "I won't be here in 10 years time" with a smile knowing that you'd be leaving your two kids without a mum
Because selfish stupidity isn't a form of contraception.
You know how some people reflexively giggle when they’re nervous or uncomfortable (like at a job interview or a funeral) and it’s inappropriate, but they can’t help it/haven’t learned enough self-control yet? It’s usually kids who do that but some people take a long time to grow out of it. I guess some never grow out of it.
I doubt she honestly believes she’ll die in 10 years. Young people tend to think they’re immortal so they take big risks which older people would rightfully be afraid to do.
And Kiana has had videos on how much denial overweight people have when it comes to their own food consumption. This lady is in denial about her potential early death even despite her heart attack.
Without any parent, really.
The worst part is that with a mom like this, they'd probably be better off being adopted by someone else before they get permanent memories of her.
She's a kid herself.
As a German I feel the need to clarify that Döner Kebap is supposed to be Meat (Chicken or Veal mostly), salad, tomatoes, onions, cucumber, sometimes feta cheese or grilled veggies with a yogurt or garlic sauce inside a pita bread (or rolled in some kind of wrap which would make it a dürüm).
It is in fact not super bad nutrition wise , at least I try to convince myself
When she said it was British... 😱
Pub food... Kebab! 😱🤣
I'm assuming you know it's turkish food, right?
The version most well known in Europe created by Turkish immigrants in Germany… but yes, should definitely not have mayo
UK doner kebabs are usually based on Turkish cuisine not german kebabs
I know it's ignorance but it's also child abuse. I believe it's a right to be kept from harm as a child. How can you say this isn't harmful?
It's neglect, abuse, narcissism, and so much more. Some people just don't deserve to be parents yet somehow find themselves becoming "strong single mothers."
Some people are purposefully abusing their kids so they could show to others what kind of heroes they are to struggle with problems with kid
Exactly.
@@Anna-iq4yqast food is expensive, though. you have to buy it every single day for meals when a can of veggies is much cheaper and lasts longer. i agree with you but it bewilders me when people blame classism on their poor food spending habits.
@@pixi3d3ath47 I think it depends where you live, and what the prices of healthy groceries vs fast food is... this seems especially true in America, in those "food deserts" and such. I've heard decent groceries are a lot more expensive in America in general, and fast food is a lot cheaper than in most other (western) countries.
I think the "i got no control over what he eats" is still the one that infuriates me the most. Seeing someone put soda in a sippy cup though? Very close second.
Right. My parents would cook dinner with veggies when I was a kid. If I or my siblings didn't want it, then we went to bed with an empty stomach and no dessert. They never _forced_ us to eat, but it really made me not a picky eater as a kid. I was like the only kid in my class that actually liked broccoli, brussel sprouts, and asparagus. But I was the "weird" one for it lmao
I saw a mom giving a little two year old mountain dew at Walmart. It took everything I had not to explode at her.
Everyday in Brazil mate. Anything but real water for babies and kids. They go straight from breastfeeding to Cocacola.
Absolutely. As the parent, he has full control over what his child eats! And how old was the child? I think 2 or 3? When I was growing up, we ate healthy meals at home which were also delicious. I loved vegetables when I was a kid, which we had with our meals pretty much every day. Fast food was an occasional treat, not a way of life. It was okay if I didn't like a certain food, as long as I at least tried it first. To hear that guy say he can't control what his young child eats is ridiculous.
I didn't let my kid have any soda until he was 4 and it was a once in a great while treat. It made me mad seeing her not trying to improve herself and you know later her kids gonna hate her
It's been months and still Kiana going "Get the kid a pear, man," continues to regularly enter my brain unprompted
the way she stares out into nothingness as she eats is spine chilling lol
It's the dopamine hit. Or serotonin. I always get confused.
That sentence is unintentionally comedic.
Where the hell do you look at while eating lol
She's got that SSRI/ benzo zombie stare
@@ackmandesu8538 I certainly don't have a dead eyed zombie stare when I'm eating 😂
Can’t believe she didn’t give him a pear! I mean I HATE avocado with a passion, but guess what my 2 year old eats for lunch 3x a week? Avocado toast. He even feeds it to me and I have to pretend to like it.
Ah, the sacrifices a parent suffers for the sake of the kid. Good for you for teaching your kid healthy eating.
Right? I HATE olives. Guess what all my kids love? Olives. I buy a variety and my kids snack on them enjoying different ones. I'll even eat one or two telling my kids it's wasteful to be picky and you should always try something new.
That’s so cute 😭💗
Do you season your avocado? You do know you have to add a bunch of lemon and salt and olive oil and a boiled egg on top to actually make it taste good lol
@@namebaconson8725 I do, I put pepper and salt on top, and an over easy egg on top for my husband. My husband and kid loves it, but I just can’t like avocado no matter how hard I try. They also love avocado pudding with a little bit of condensed milk in it, still didn’t change my mind. 🤣
as a Turkish person, i can confidently say that what it shown in the video not authentic döner kebab. we never us mayonnaise in döner, and it's typically served with peppers, tomatoes and onions.
Yep, after living in Turkey for 5 months I feel sorry for what the rest of the world has done to kebab. Whenever I see kırmızı lahana on a kebab shop counter I mentally flag it a "yes" place and whenever I don't i flag it as a "better not" place.
Kebab shops in the US, we call probably call them "pita places" more often, arent exactly the healthiest places in the world but they are way healthier than they are in England. Meat or chicken, rice, hummus, pita, vegetables. I don't know what those kebab places in England are supposed to be.
depends the kebab plate is way more unhealthy than the döner kebab, but everytime i ate it my stomach hurt from the cheap meat
My younger cousin got pregnant at 16 and now 15 years later she is still stuck at that age- always trying to appear wealthier than she is, using her kid to get money from relatives, stole money from a married man's wife to be that same man's sugar mommy. It's insane. Arrested development is a real thing.
Gross
There are people like that who never had kids, what’s their excuse.
My mom had my older brother and I before she hit 20..she deffinatly has arrested development as she acts like a teenager still.
Oh my god, what a pearl, poor child
@@kristinazubic9669They have more of an excuse than the people who did have kids and should have matured because of it like everyone says will happen… what’s your excuse for that?
About 15 years ago, a former colleague was under DYFS investigation for repeatedly taking her then 8 month old to the ER with such extreme cases of constipation that he had even been diagnosed with septicemia. She was feeding him McDonald's every day, no fruit, veg or water, and could not comprehend that a baby should not be eating that. He's a teenager now and has some serious medical and developmental issues.
That’s so sad
I’m sure you colleague thought it was unfair and wrong they were under investigation 🙄
8 months?! Thats when you can still get away with feeding them premade portidge why tf is that BABY eating McDonald's?! I "get" parents feeding their kids shitty when they're eating actual meals but at that age, c'mon :(
@@inkompetenzkompensationsko4188 some people have no common sense whatsoever.
My cousin had a no sugar approach to her baby because she's a pedagogical professional and studies a lot about early childhood development and she thought it was better not introduce sugar during the first years. She later finded out that one of her husband sister was giving soda in a bottle god knows for how long to her baby when she babysit for her, because she used to do the same her own kids and "they turned out fine". Some people in the family had the audacity to say that she was exaggerating when she stopped let the aunt babysit. Other family members also sneakily gave candy to her child because "kids like it" and got angry when she denied give fastfood or ultraprocessed food to her toddler when the kid was being fussy to eat, saying that she was starving the kid.
What's fucked up it's that my cousin was never a health nut, she doesn't have or feed her kid a super strict diet, she's just want her daughter to be able to enjoy homemade food and grow her sense of taste before ruining all with sugar and overly processed stuff, now her daughter it's 9, very much a not pick eater, eat fruits and vegetables because she likes it to.
@@joiceraiana i'll never understand giving babies Soda especially in a bottle. I never did because cleaning these bottles is a pain without everything being sticky and stuff and most babies don't like fizzy drinks anyways (from my experience anyways). If the aunt doesn't respect the parents wishes she won't be around the kid, i think that's a natural consequence of breaking the parents trust. Good to hear the kid is now enyoing all sorts of food :)
I don't see why anyone is surprised that her motivation is herself. She's only 19 and has had kids since she was 16 so she's still a kid herself.
Then she shouldn't have had those kids.Where does responsibility come in? Also, in the past, when you became a parent was when you put your childhood behind you, no matter how early in life that happened. 16 is very young to be a mother, but still old enough to understand responsibility and sacrifice.
Having a kid young doesn't equate selfishness. There are lots of young mothers who love their children and just need someone to help them.
It's a character issue--not her age.
Sorry, but “I’ve got no control over what he eats” still wins…
LOL same
Love it! No responsibility is found anywhere, especially when her own arteries are clogged.
so real. it was the most vile. thyroid is ignorant and letting ur partner wear the pants like she does is foolish. she is truly incapable of selflessness.
You're right, I don't think anything can top that one!
Yup! The thyroid one pisses me off because I am hypothyroid. It's really difficult, but it is not an excuse to be like these people. The "I can't control what he eats" will always take the cake. Always.
This is so crazy to watch. When I got pet rats years ago, I wanted to give them a bit of what I was eating and they can eat just about anything(also saves money to make them a little side dish of what I'm eating). I literally changed my diet just because I wanted them to eat healthy. She can't change for her actual human child.
lmao
i fed my hamster a healthier diet than she feeds her children
Same haha I remember living alone and buying a whole cooked chicken and sharing it with my rats. Buying heads of broccoli just for them. Now I have a baby and they eat the fruit and veg cutoffs or that baby throws on the floor. Little food bins 😂
That's ridiculous and adorable haha
Rat😂
This documentary is at least 10 years old I remember watching it. She did start to cook healthier meals for them. For her's and her children's health.
Bet she stuck to that for about 5 mins 🙄
@@MishMash22hopefully not, as the children do not deserve that
@@MishMash22 oh, dang it I burnt one piece of steak I guess cooking is not for me
Oh good! I'm so relieved.
How's this not documented evidence of negligence?
Im guessing because this type of parenting is so common that it would be impossible to address all the cases. Just from my own experience ive seen maybe 30-40% of parents doing deep emotional or physical damage to their children, popping them out so casually like its no big deal to raise a human
@@offgrid1356 My sister works in criminal justice and I agree. When we have these conversations, she complains about the lack of ressources in bringing even smaller crimes to justice. There would be too many minor cases to prosecute.
As a British person, I hate that its not, it really, really needs to be.
My jaw dropped when you said she’s 19. I thought she was late 20s/early 30s…I wonder how much her diet has to do with that
Kids will age you faster than any bad food haha
nah shes just ur average clapped british woman 😭😭
@@millyrobinson5757lol
Also 2 kids. That takes a toll too.
@@millyrobinson5757she isnt lmao, stop looking at stereotypes, rarely do teenagers look like this
Shes 19 years old and had her first kid at 16, I find a lot of teen parents are very self centered and think more about themselves than their kids, especially if they hadnt been wanting to be parents prior to getting pregnant and felt pressured to keep the children. So I'm not at all surprised by her attitude.
I don't think many of them are really "pressured to keep the children". And abortion is freely available in the UK. They just think having a kid will be fun and easy. Or a way out of an unhappy home environment. If a teenage girl has a baby and her parents don't want her and the baby to stay in their home, the government gives her her own flat, even if she's just 16 years old.
Its not always forced, not everyone wants an abortion. I didn't have one and I've never been a selfish parent
I cant comprehend how can someone be so lazy to eat fast food for every single meal for 3 years. Just looking at my wallet when I crave fast food stops me from being lazy real quick.
She's a teen UK mom of two, not only doesn't even need to work she lives off of benefits from the government and probably her home is council given for free.
My mom who was working her a$$ off ( after her divorce when I was 11 ) gave me money to buy my own lunch. Being a silly kid I bought every day fast food or pizza. It took just a few months to turn me into a chubby kid ( I was skinny before ) with some health problems. It took even more time to get rid of my addiction to that stuff ( esp. the Sprite drink ).
My dad wasn't better at weekends.
It's frustrating to have ignorant/irresponsible parents.
It’s how she was raised too.
I once got lazy to go out and buy myself a pizza (before I got a bank account) so yk what I did? I went and made the ENTIRE thing from scratch with shit I had at home. it took me like 3-4h which is about 12 times as long as it would've taken me to go buy one and bake it (15min in the oven and 2 min walk to and from the supermarket)...I mean im considered super fucking lazy at home but if I can do that why can't she? I mean there must be an underlying issue other than pure laziness
@@Alwaysttango living off benefits is no excuse to be a lazy trog
Seeing that poor child pleading for a piece of fruit and being denied was heartbreaking. It's also a little terrifying when he asks what a dentist is.
Honestly, I think that woman is beyond reasoning. She knows her diet is killing her (and laughs when talking about it), a heart attack at eighteen wasn't enough of a come-to-Jesus moment to even make her reconsider the way she eats, and she doesn't care that she's hurting her children because she only cares about herself. This is beyond ordinary teen immaturity or ignorance. She's just vile.
How can an 18 year old have a heart attack?
@@msmaria5039 By having this kind of diet. She'd eating fast food at a level that most people consume over years, at a pace faster than her body can adjust and dispose of it. It's too much for her body at one time and it's clogging her arteries, resulting in the heart attack.
@@blubushie Makes sense. No wonder she looks 40.
@@msmaria5039 To be fair, people on my 600 lb life who are older than her don't have heart attacks when they have the exact same same diet. She may have an underlying/genetic heart condition that is made worse by her awful diet.
Every person is different though, maybe it is really caused by her horrible diet alone. It is really hard to exactly know.
@@aptalsandvic5355 It could certainly be a combination of factors, both diet and a physical problem. But a preexisting heart condition should make her MORE careful, not less. I know teenagers think they're immortal, but most of them haven't had a life-threatening emergency like that. She literally doesn't seem to care.
19 year old single mother of two.....as soon as you said that I was pretty much already convinced this is a person very much prone to terrible decisions.
At first I thought "Döner is not that bad" because in Germany it is a flatbread, cut open and filled with meat, Salat, cucumber, tomatoes, cabbage and maybe feta cheese. It's mainly vegetables and you can even customize it because it's filled fresh.
Then I saw the ground meat with fries and cheese LOL
I agree. In the UK we have the German Kabab Co - and it is not all that bad. However, when compared to Mustafa's van outside the pub / offie very expensive.
Don't underestimate the meat though. It's not as healthy as it appears to be, since it's highly processed and full of phosphates. You even see it in the video itself. And the bread is nothing but empty carbs which turn into pure sugar in your body. The sauce is also quite dense in calories and sugar. So, what you're left with is the fresh veggies as the only valuable nutrient in that thing, might just as well eat a salad then with some fresh cooked meat. Is way better for you. Fast food is never healthy, it always compromises in that aspect, but tries to mask itself as such with some veggies or fruit sprinkled on top for convincing looks. It's the same thing with smoothies or veggie pizzas. Don't be naive.
@@sacredsecrecy9620 yeah there are some cheap places with processed meat even here but these are selled under another name, they are pretty strikt with that. Of course you have to know the difference but in our shop it's unprocessed lamb or chicken. The sauce is made out of yoghurt and spices. You could take a fatty ranch like sauce but that's something they ask you.
Never saw something here like in that video
Yeah I had kebab in France and it was pretty decent. Roasted lamb, lettuce, cucumber, tomatoes, and mayo based sauce in a pita. Probably about 800-900 calories? Which is a fair amount but not awful, especially with all the protein, and if it’s your biggest meal of the day that’s quite reasonable.
I lived in Germany as a kid and haven’t had Doener kebab in decades. They are SO GOOD.
She looks 30+, that diet is definitely taking a toll…
Yeah, eating this unhealthy can age you so much. An example of this is how it can cause children to start puberty very early.
I'm 34 and feel slightly offended by your comment!!! (joking!)
I'm 33 and still could pass as younger than her if somebody would try to guess our age. Diet and overall lifestyle does matter!
Stress also ages you and she is a teen mum.
@@sacredsecrecy9620 37 and even me yikes
The son is such a sweet, enthusiastic boy who is willing to try healthy foods and even encourages his mother.. and for the mom to be so selfish and unconcerned is heartbreaking. Whatever her demons are, they do not justify the abuse she is inflicting on this kid. I want to grab her by the shoulders and tell her to wake up.
If a heart attack can’t wake her up I do not know what will maybe a uppercut by Mike Tyson
When I was little, getting McDonald's was a treat, not a regular meal. To be fair, we were a broke family of six, so trying to feed all of us with fast food wasn't really a great option lol. We were living that rice and bean life
@@Aperson355 I suppose that depends A LOT on where in the world you are. As a Brazilian who moved to Japan, I was shocked by the high prices of produce here (and the same when I visited some countries in Europe, mainly France, Switzerland and England)
In Brazil, it is much MUCH cheaper to eat healthy than fast food
@@Aperson355 I don’t think that’s really true. My family never ate out as a kid because we couldn’t afford it. You’ve got to think about price per portion. Home cooked meals are so much cheaper than fast food.
Same, the only time i got fast food was as a treat after doctor appointments. It skeeves me out that people can eat fast food every day.
@@alnklar I am from Switzerland and fast food there (eating out in general) is more expensive than eating healthy food. I understand that for a tourist the prices of produce might seem really high, but wages are higher too. I now live in England and with shops like Aldi or Lidl, people can cook healthy food for cheap. However, fast food are convenient and almost everywhere, so it explains why a lot of people might prefer not to cook and buy fast food.
@@alnklar Industrial countries are like that. I lived in Indonesia, and the number of foreigners telling me how cheap the food here was is astronomical. It's much cheaper to eat healthy than to eat fast food here.
When my autistic son hit 2, he stopped eating the varied meals he had been eating.
For the next 6 years, all he wanted was chicken nuggets and chips .
I refused to buy the highly processed ones and made my own healthy breaded chicken nuggets and potato wedges, which were baked instead of frying.
He would also eat apples , grapes, and yoghurts.
The breakthrough with food came when he started cookery lessons in high school ( 11-18 ) in the UK.
He's an excellent cook, and at 24, has a varied diet and eats foods that he would refuse as a small child.
the quote "not everyone needs a child" is still accurate.
She needs them for benefits. This is England 🙄
I have a culinary degree, but before earning a degree, I had been cooking since childhood (around 8). It truly baffles me when people say “I don’t know how to cook” as an excuse to feed their child a poor diet, as the cooking instructions are LITERALLY printed on the packaging of almost any given food item that requires preparation…. Saying “I don’t know how to cook” is just another way of saying, “I don’t know how to follow basic instructions”. It’s extremely easy, people like this just don’t want to put in the effort because they are lazy 🙄 poor kid. With a mum this lazy, poor diet is going to be the least concerning aspect of this child’s upbringing.
Right? "I can't cook complex X course meals with a great variety of spices and textures", sure, I understand and relate to.
"I can't cook" plain and simple feels so alien to me.
The funny thing though is that she goes out of her way to pay huge amounts of money for the food anyway so why not do one of those food subscribtion services? Even if you don't know how to cook, which I understand as not knowing how to cook something you'll actually enjoy eating and so it feels like a waste of time and effort to do so, there are still frozen meals out there that aren't necessarily fast food.
Perhaps she can’t read?
@@Tina06019 she clearly knows how to read a menu. If you watched the entire video, you would see that she proves she is capable by making a “healthier” version of pizza at home and also openly admits to her laziness being the reason she doesn’t cook. She is expressly more focused on herself, her lack of motivation and her own social agenda than she is the welfare of her child. I would never advise trying to make excuses for irrefutably toxic behavior, people who are lazy and unmotivated thrive on excuses and the ones they come up with for themselves are lame enough. There are people in 3rd world countries who have never read a single word in written text and are somehow capable of cooking over an open fire to feed their families food they had to hunt and gather themselves; anyone with modern amenities like stoves and ovens and grocery stores have zero excuses.
I mean, I have a very poor memory and when I have to cook things on the top of the stove, I have to ask for help as to what "number" I have to put the stove on (yk, like the crank that says 2, 4, 6, etc. Basically the heat of the stovetop? I feel I'm over explaining-) soup, eggs, even simply boiling water can be difficult to remember, but I do have a notebook with little notes on basic meals I guess. Some things aren't really written and you do have to learn some things, but if you do it enough times, you definetly can know exactly what to do!
(Sorry for the long comment, I saw an opportunity and took it)
This woman is incredibly immature, even for 19. It’s clear she doesn’t view her children as people outside of herself. It seems like she’s believes they are just extensions of herself. She says “we don’t like that” and she doesn’t take them to the dentist because s SHE’S afraid. If she had never had children she might have grown up and out of this mentality but I’m afraid that since she has kids she’s going to be frozen in time as a childish narcissist. I really wonder what her childhood was like and how she was raised.
Narcissist. Exactly.
She's definetly one of those mums you see in crime documentaries that kill her kids (typically right before a custody battle/custody visit/seeing family/a medical or dental visit/school enrollment/basically anywhere the children would be looked after in public, or while she's with a dude who doesn't like kids) simply because she's afraid of admitting to and taking responsability for neglecting/abusing them and/or wants the instant gradification of "freedom" she would've gotten if she had the balls to get through the obligated 18 years you sign up for upon having and keeping your baby.
She wouldn't even let the kid have a pear which would have been no skin off her nose.
Bit late but ive seen the whole doc and the grandma seemed normal
I just wanna say that your videos about people who are addicted to fast food are my main motivation to eat healthier and help me to restrain from eating awful food. Thanks!!
I had a really unhealthy relationship with McDonalds during my early childhood, due to pickiness and convience, though I don't remember it. I eventually got over it with help from my mom finally getting me to eat other things, but I can't imagine if she only encouraged it. Poor kid.
McDurdel's, Nikocado Avocado refers to it as.
same but everything changed when I was old enough to cook for myself
Man this happen to my friend he was allowed to eat whatever he wanted growing up, he would drink 2 lt of coca cola daily with a friend chicken daily. Sadly his over consumption of soda lead to type 2 diabetes, now at 19 he has to take special care to all he eats, his life has been changed forever
she’s literally nutrient depriving her baby and causing major harm to his health. she can naturally select herself with that behavior but doing this to a baby? i don’t understand how she even has custody
Well if the baby lives it would not be darwinian selection now would it? :)
@@controlledsingularity8084 You do know that it's just called "natural selection" which was simply _made by_ Charles Darwin, along with many other things, and you just look like a pretentious idiot by breaking grammar to try sounding smart, right? Also I'm not sure you even read the above comment. If I'm making sense of your grammar, youre saying "if her son lives it's not natural selection," correct? Nobody said that. The original comment references natural selection as in "the mother can make her own choices that kill her," the only reason the son is mentioned is specifically because it's not "natural selection," it's child neglect that will lead to his death, hence "but doing this to a baby?" (as in "how could she do this to her son) "I don't understand how she even has custody" (because of obvious neglect.)
In Finland we get the social work involved if a parent fails to bring their child to a healthcheck appointment for example a dentist appointment.
Taylors depressed, you can tell by the smile when she says "probably won't be here in 10 years"
She has two kids before 19, she probably had major baby blues and you can tell she has not fully adjusted from teenager to teenage mom.
Hopefully lmao
Does she not realise she will leave her kids as orphans if she dies in 10 years or less?
@@Je_Ne_Vive of course she realises, depressed people give up and don't care about anything
I agree, her kids need to be taken off her hands fast
Talking about the fear tactic: I knew a girl who suffered from severe anorexia nervosa. She was on the brink of dying, when her mother decided to confront her with it. She took the girl to pick out a coffin, a gravestone, she had to write down who should be at her funeral and what music should be played. The girl went into full panic mode, broke down crying, but the next day she started to eat. That was a few years ago, she is now in recovery and on a very good path to become healthy. Although I personally don't really believe in the fear tactic, in this case it was that one rock bottom the girl needed to save her life. But maybe it depends on the person, I can imagine that the fear tactic maybe for some people can completely backfire and they go in full denial mode... I'm not a psychologist/medical professional in any way, just wanted to share this story because it was the first thing on my mind when Kiana mentioned the fear tactic.
Wow. That would definitely not work for everybody, but I’m glad it did for her. Anorexia is often paired with depression, so it could have potentially backfired HARD.
Personally if that tactic had been used on me when I was knee deep into my own ED it would’ve resulted in an even sicker or potentially even dead kid. Depression & EDs go hand in hand so something like that would definitely cause *a trigger* but whether it’s a positive or negative one really depends
They used the fear tactic on me and it worked lmao, but I definitely don’t think it’s for everyone.
It can work, but way less with anorexia
Many anorexics including me before, aren't phased or stopped by the threat of death, they already know that's the result, and where it might work for this woman who's bad diet is due to ignorance, for people with eating disorders like anorexia which often stem from trauma, mental illnesses, etc it's unlikely to work and knowing me and the other people I knew, it can even egg on and encourage the eating disorder, being taken as "wow, I'm so thin that people are telling me I'll die, it must be working"
My anorexia started in 2nd grade. Broke my foot shortly after. My pediatrician (who was awesome.) Told me that if I didn't start eating again I wouldn't walk
I've seen a lot when it comes to problematic childhoods, but this level of neglect truly breaks my heart
As a 19-year-old, I am disgusted!!! This woman is insane I swear
Legit though… she has 0 brain cells. It’s quite sadly actually
Naw, she's just another teenager. I'm happy you're doing better but as someone in my 30s I'm not in the slightest surprised
@@ghostoflazlo just another teenager is a broad generalization. Most teenagers don’t even have kids.
@OdinsSage okay? I never said anything about that lol.
@@ghostoflazlo I am 19 too and I feel like most of my peers are more aware of like anything in their lifes than this girl. exactly one person in the entirety of people i know eats fast food everyday, so it’s a big generalisation to say „just another teenager“
My little sister was a fast food baby. She was given chocolate bars three times a day to stop her crying/temper tantrums. Not like mini chocolate bars that you give out on Halloween, but like, actual full sized chocolate bars and sugary snacks. Every. Single. Day. As a four year old. She was also a very picky eater so she wouldn't eat veggies nor meat. Though she liked homemade meatballs so that's a win I guess. Obv she survived on chicken nuggets and McDonald's for a while, but I don't consider that processed shit meat.
My dad had a Coca Cola addiction so we always had that with dinner. Yes, even the four year old was given a glass of Coke. Often she would get a second one. I was eleven at the time and I was being taught at school that this is not okay. So I started switching out my sister's Coca Cola with fresh juice. And whenever she cried, I would ask her what was wrong instead of shutting her up with a chocolate bar. I'd give her cut up fruit and veggies as a snack, and make her toast when she came back from daycare. Because mom thought kids don't get hungry after school, or that they can wait until dinner. Mind you, school ended at 4pm and we didn't have dinner until 8.30 pm.
You are a good sibling! Being older is hard but sometimes we gotta do what our parents don’t do!
you are an amazing sibbling. I hope your sister is ok.
Wow, you are a wonderful sibling!
Wow you were younger than the teenage mom in this video and 100% more responsible than she is. Your a very nice brother/sister for your sibling!
I’m so sorry your parents are completely useless. Honestly if I were u I would contact cps/social services on them. Please don’t be afraid to dial for the child line. Neglect is a serious form of child abuse
I never understand how these people afford all that fast food every day. How has her mum not shown her how to cook things at all also?
Not everyone has a mom or parents.
@@Las645 highly likely she did though
Defo on benefits
@@Las645Having a mom and parents doesn't mean one learns how to cook. It's either a value that's passed down or it's not.
Welfare destroys people, a little charity is fine but prolonged charity is a cruelty to those who are most vulnerable.
As a British person, I love the way Kiana says "doner kabab"
😂
Cringing the whole time 😂
I will now refer to my husband's...husband bit...as his "Donor Kabab." "Honey, I need the Donor Kabab tonight!"
As an American, I've never heard of it. What is the correct spelling and pronunciation? "Doner" like you're done for the night after a night out drinking?
@Leah Raven I think I'd always pronounced it the way you say Doner the reindeer. Think it's just a case of her putting a lot of emphasis on the "do" portion where as I'd typically emphasise the "ner" bit
I haven't seen a 19 year old look this much older than their age since eddie hall
Yeah, eating this unhealthy can age you so much. An example of this is how it can cause children to start puberty very early.
@@Cattleya69 I don't think early puberty has much to do with looking older, I started puberty at 9 and now at 19 people confuse me with a 14 year old all the time. I think it's the bad health that comes from the unhealthy eating that makes people look older.
I saw her picture and thought she was like my age and I'm 43.
No offense but white people usually look way older than they're actual age , so it's genetics and the fact that she doesn't take care of herself plus being a teen mom
@@Nameless-ny8nk it can be truth for some people. I started puberty earlier than kids around me and I looked older back then and look older now. Yes now I'm obese so that's why but I wasn't fat several years ago but still looked older (my diet was okay, I didn't get fastfood and sweets)
This is so unbelievably depressing. As harsh as it sounds, some people really don’t deserve children.
I think it should be mandatory for people who want kids, to pass a capability test as soon to be parents, to see if they understand and know what it means to raise kids. Where I live you have to pass two tests to own a dog, similar to getting your driver's license. But for raising kids, there's no such thing
I’m just curious which country you live in where there are tests? I’m in Canada.
I agree. Just because you CAN make a baby, does not mean you SHOULD. Mandatory standards for having babies, parenting classes and job training.
Oh but that means she has to actually go without sex, and that’s the worst possible thing to do to that type of woman because patriarchy
That sounds ideal but not realistic, anyways there are options for improving the posibilities of raising children successfully, for example in my country, women who give birth in public hospitals, we have to complete a series of appointments with doctors and dieticians where they teach how to cook and give us recipes, and we have to bring the baby to doctors every month until two years old, they are curious about what we manage the breastfeeding and then the cooking and of course they check the baby
Yeah but literally every single idiot on the planet loves having unprotected sex. If they can't muster the energy to slap a rubber on it, I doubt they'll try this test. Or care.
This happened to me. My parents (especially my father) raised me on a fast food diet. Already in my twenties I developed diabetes and high blood pressure. Now as I approach my fifties (next month) I have to deal with many prescription medicines and doctor appointments. Is hard to modify and change your eating habits especially if you were raised in the manner this lady is doing to her son. "I never thought I would reach 40 years old, much less 50. It has affected me in so many ways: I'm single never been married , poor social skills . So my message to Taylor is this: You still have time time to turn things around for you and your son. Make the changes to live a healthy and productive life.
Damn was fast food really that common 50 yrs ago already?? That sounds like an exceptionally awful scenario. Your parents must've put some real effort into leaning into that junk food that much that it's had such a long lasting effect on your health. I'm very sorry to hear that. Sending you all the best wishes!
@@sacredsecrecy9620 Thanks ! It wasn't something that my parents planned or put effort is was something that just happened
You can still turn things around. Look up "Dr Berg keto diet" on youtube. I was getting SERIOUS health issues relating to diabetes and sleeping away all my free time just to keep up. I've lost a ton of weight and don't feel tired all the time. No excuses.. do it soldier.
3:38 PLEASE THE WAY SHE TURNED TO HER WHEN SHE SAID “OBESE” ✋🏽😭
Our mom used to stand in the kitchen for 2-3 hours almost every day preparing fresh meals while also doing the grocery shopping, taking care of the household and working a full time job (thanks mom for being such a good role model ❤️).
It is beyond my understanding how someone can be so lazy and feed their children nothing but junk food when (frozen) fruits and veggies have never been more accessible at the grocery stores. 🤦
my mom was the same, still is but closer to retirement she takes breaks now. Our mothers are the role models I aspire to always.
This is not a good role model. Don't understand me wrong, I am all for cooking fresh food and women working. But, where was DAD in this? He should have done cooking and grocery shopping as well.
@@pegapage9603 our dad had a small construction business and was working most of the time.
@@legendoffupa so was your mom
@@mariaelena9369 your point being? This is how my parents chose to live their life. They were both very ambitious, hard working people. That's maybe also the reason why they were able to build a house, travel the world and drive sports cars when they were still young. 🤷♂️
I was a fast food baby.... by time I was 15 i was over 350 pounds, type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, sleep apnea, etc etc. I'm glad I stopped fast food because now it actually makes me sick from the grease and taste of it. Even so fast food cost more now and can make way better healthier home meals
I am so glad I found these videos last month, ten hour days of doing nothing at work waiting for customers. I started learning a lot about weight loss and gaining weight, started counting my calories and figured out that I am a stick figure because of a caloric deficit, even though I ate mostly junk food. Started eating better foods that actually supply me with enough calories to start gaining weight. Mind blown.
Pretty sad that that little boy asked for a pear and his mother wouldn't let him have one (and, according to her, he's never even tasted a pear!) Plus she's only 19 and had already had a heart attack, yet learned nothing from it at all!
A reminder that she has a 3 year old, at 19, that means she was pregnant at 15 and a mum at 16. She is very very young and has little life experience. She needs help to learn those skills she may have had time to develop if she had more time before having children. But she is a child with children. It’s not surprising. She goes with what’s easiest
Very true
Maybe even at a center for young parents, something like assisted living?
Yeah where are her own parents? How they managed to fail her so much?
@@KateeAngel I wonder if she also had working parents that relied on fast food because it was cheap and convenient too, so she never learned to cook or eat any other way.
I mean I agree but I’m 19 and even I have basic common sense that if I had a child I wouldn’t feed him/her junk food at every meal. You don’t need to have a lot of life experience to know that junk food is bad for you and worse for children.
My nephew's egg donor is like this. THROWS A FIT if nephew even TRIES to ask for or order healthier food. "YOU JUST WANT TO MAKE ME LOOK BAD!" Not enough to be gargantuan herself, she has to try to make everyone around her including her CATS obese too, so she won't....look bad? She ordered two giant cheeseburgers for ME the last time I had the misfortune of visiting, despite my asking repeatedly for ONE non giant cheeseburger, and then tried to shame me for not eating it because she paid for it. "You can't eat that one? MY BROTHER CAN EAT EIGHT." I said, "I probably CAN but that doesn't mean I should. Give it to him, then." Catbutt face, as always, lol. "Are you SURE you're not anorexic?" Me: "I'm quite sure, but thanks for your concern about the health of MY diet." CATBUTT FACE INTENSIFIED, lol. I ate half that giant cheeseburger that night and the other half the next morning. "NO YOU HAVE TO EAT IT NOW OR IT WON'T BE GOOD." Again: "Thanks for your concern but I'm fine." Giant--literally--TODDLERS.
Nephew is escaping ASAP after he turns eighteen. Malignant narcisissism should be tested for and should disqualify you from having any position of power over ANYONE--no kids, not supervising employees, not having a pet, NOTHING. Not so much as a goldfish should EVER be under your control.
Just wanted to say I love your videos Kiana ❤ Something that really clicked for me was when you said health was one of your core values. I realized I feel the same way and not doing anything to improve my health was making me really depressed. About two months ago I decided to get serious about weight loss and fitness and I’m down 15 lbs and am getting more and more comfortable at the gym. You’re one of my favorite creators and I appreciate your videos especially the behavior change breakdown series ❤
🥺🥺🥺 Proud of you!!!!! That's amazing!! So awesome to hear the values thing resonated with you - it was a game changer for me too. Thank you so much for the kind words and best of luck on your health journey!!! 💪💪💪
Yeah this always gets me. Not as a baby, but as a young child I ended up with a caffeine addiction by the age of 8 because my parents would always give me Coca Cola. I have a sister with severe disabilities and they were always so busy caring for her, they just sort of neglected me. It was easier to just give me whatever I wanted so I wouldn’t ever complain or need anything myself. Really not great though, for my relationship with food, my health, my body or my self esteem in general growing up.
So sad you had to go through that. Don't give up. You're a warrior. 💪❤❤❤
I'm sorry that's a really hard thing to have to go through. Especially at that young age. Hope you're in a healing place. Sending love
I got a caffeine addiction because as a latina I was sipping coffee with bread since forever
i grew up the same, look into ‘glass child syndrome’, you might find some more insight into your childhood and feel less alone x
@@hikikomori867 I’ve heard of this and remember really resonating with it when I read it but forgot the name of the concept, thank you so much! I hope you’re doing okay now, or at least that life is better
A Döner Kebap is not from the UK but damn, I did not know it wasn't a thing in the US. It's super popular in Europe.
We germans love it
@@Skizzenfuchs Isso. Einfach das Beste 😂
This one hits a bit close to home, my mom also didn't know how to cook and was addicted to coca cola, to no surprise I became a obese child addicted to soda and junk food, took me a good while to lose the weight and to this day I still struggle to have a healthy relationship with food, but it's slowly getting to a point where I feel stable and healthy, still not quite there, but never giving up.
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I had a similar story, only my mother got us fast food out of convenience. I was obese as a child and still am in my 40s. I have never had a good relationship with food and can't imagine I ever will. It's critical to teach children healthy eating habits, especially by modeling them.
@@MollieFrieWeevilGenius for sure, It's one of those things where if you don't have a good example from the get go it's really hard to motivate yourself to change because it's comfortable, nostalgic and what you're used to, I got lucky that some people intervened in my life on my behalf on my teenage years, got me to like exercising and from there on I started to learn bit by bit to create habits that make me feel better, I'm 26 now and still learning, it's a huge difference from the relationship my husband has with food since he got the good example right from the start, it's pretty crazy to see it
Same. Thankfully my dad was the healthy eater in the household and would make homemade healthy meals for me. But since he worked 14 hours a day to provide at the time, dinner was mostly whatever my mom could drive thru and order.
Fast food mom looks 40 at 19 wow
McDonald's fuggs you up.
Yeah, eating this unhealthy can age you so much. An example of this is how it can cause children to start puberty very early.
I know. I was astounded that she was only 19.
My boyfriend and I watched this documentary and I sometimes reference to him "can we eat that sugar?" Because its so tragi-comic and situationally perfect.😅
LOL my mind read it off in his cute lil voice
@Kiana Docherty it's so sweet yet alarming lol
I feel guilty when I make a frozen pizza and some salad for dinner because I don’t feel like cooking every once in awhile. I can’t imagine how horrible I’d feel if I fed my kids like this every day 😢 poor little guy. I hope they’re doing better now.
“Pasta.. no we don’t like it, it takes ages to make” wow.. and I thought I was lazy!!
Pasta can be made under 15 minutes.
I'd know my son is picky eater n eats mac and cheese atleast every other day.
You always hit the hammer on the head. Every. Single. Time. Love you thanks for the great content!
I'm very happy to be getting more videos from Kiana these days
There's sport medic doctor here in Brazil called Paulo Muzy who once said that the best way of changing a child diet is starting changing the parents' diet because,as a example, if you give your son a broccoli to eat while you eat a pizza,he won't want eat his broccoli and will think that he's being punished
I have severe food problems due to autism. Luckily I have family members and friends who eat anything and who have already promised to help me with my future kids♡
And the thought of my future kid eating something I couldn't just fills me with pride. I will for sure do my everything to help my kids eat everything, even things I can't eat. It's really healthy to try new foods too.
I’m from Flint, Michigan and I call it pop too. In the U.S. it’s called pop in the midwest region and giving it to toddlers is insane. I’m so glad my traditional Mom cooked us healthy meals and limited sugary treats. I crave fruits and vegetables and realized quickly as a teen that fast food binges make you feel like crap ten minutes later. I wish people could eat healthy for 30 days to know how much better you feel.
I was helping the teacher of a kindergarten class. A boy who "lived" mostly on Pop Tarts actually gagged when I asked him to try a baby carrot that the children were given for a snack. I thought that he was literally going to throw up. So sad.
He might have been autistic and sensitive to unknown foods and texture.
Maybe he was autistic
Baby carrots are fire though
I know a kid who refuses to eat fruits or veggies, and would gag over MY son's lunch because he always has a fruit and a vegetable, and his fried rice/noodles are always packed with like 5 types of veggies. He's an active kid despite being overweight, but it makes me so sad that he's probably deficient in so many vitamins and minerals.
Thank you for making me feel like a phenomenal parent
Kiana, your videos help me stay on track and help me teach my kids how to eat healthy. This series absolutely breaks my heart for those kids but it's so eye opening to your audience. Thank you.
As a 19 year old, I’m glad I don’t have any kids. I’m sure I wouldn’t fail the diet portion AS bad as the people from this show, but I wouldn’t be a good dad in this stage of my life.
Same, as an 18-year old. I'm still learning to take care of myself, I ain't ready to take care of kids!
You are smart. Remain that way. Don't change your life 1000%
It really is giving up your own life to serve other people and its not easy. Its not quite like being a monk but its probably like being a soldier ..they dictate when you wake up what you eat and its a lot of thinking energy and worry energy. Bevause youre always thinking about did they eat enough do they need help with maths is that table edge going to be bad if that kid gets any more tired and hyper...its a LOT. And the more youve worked in some hard jobs before doing kids i think the better because hard work is what it is. And the more youre used to that and enjoy that i think the better. I was used to being a total float around twat who did ehatever whenever and when i had kids it was such a big change for me it was very overheleming. I dont think it matters how old you are but i do think how prepared you are and dedicated you are is important.
@@jarvis5552 haha and as a mom im still taking care of my 18 year old! 😂
As a 22 year old, I made a vow to not even think about conceiving a child until I'm at least 25. I have, of course, partially written a pledge to them, with the only rule being I can add and edit it until the day I find out I'm pregnant with my first child. Then I follow the pledge to the T.
My diet hasn't been the best either, but I'm getting better, it's only been a few days since having Maccas, and I justified the junk food in the name of gaining weight (currently underweight). Was raised on a pretty healthy, yet bland, diet as a child, so I kinda went rank once I turned 18 with the junk; chocolates, chips of all sorts, burgers, KFC, etc.
I say 25 because that's the supposed "age of maturity", but executive functions don't fully develop until 30 years old. So by the time my first is ready for school, I'll be just finally fully adulting. As it should be.
How can child protection keep this under wraps and not intervene? This mother shouldn't be allowed to keep these children.
This is really upsetting. As a little kid, I drank a lot of soda, but I did have home cooked meals.
There's a kid that comes to my son's daycare who is only 3 and has teeth rotting. It's unusual in Australia with the fluoride we have in the water and it makes me so sad to see the poor little thing.
Not making excuses because you probably know more than any of us do, but this could actually be a medical thing.
My nieces had to get caps on their teeth because they're just genetically predisposed for it. That and their mom wasn't aware just how bad fruit snacks are for kids teeth.
As a 15 year old, I very rarely eat fast food. Had a big mac for the first time last week. Tastes like shit makes me feel like shit. Never again.
Imagine knowing your diet causes early heart attacks and STILL feeding it to your toddler. That’s basically attempted murder
The more I watch these the more I realized my baby sister was a fast food baby, which is just another addition to the mountain of horrible things my mother has done.
DONT JUST STAND THERE AND DO NOTHING! CONFRONT UR MOM AND SHWO THIS TO HER!!
Hey man, (or woman I can't tell by your name) I hope you're doing better these days and I'm sorry you had a bad mom
How comes you weren't a fast food baby, out of interest?
It's almost like teenagers aren't mature enough to be parents.
She won't get her shit together for many years to come. Those poor babies.
My first kid was a great eater as a baby. Ate off our plates, didn't matter if it was spicy, curries, salad, vegetables, whatever. When he turned 2, it was like someone flipped a light switch and he got extremely picky. Only wanted junk, which we didn't even really have at home.
I worked with him to eat something healthy. We did the smoothies, protein waffles, hidden vegetables, whatever. Some days he barely ate and I figured if he's hungry, he will eat 🤷♀️ Now he has grown out of it and will actually ask for vegetables he likes for dinner. I can't imagine just giving in and actively malnourishing your child.
RE: Kiana's question -- "How do they find these people." I'm from California and I live in Britain. I can tell you it is not hard. As far as I can tell the four British food groups are booze, smokes, fried things, and sweets. The amount of junk food adults and children eat is so high and considered so normal that people think I'm some kind of lunatic for not allowing my kids multiple treats a day.
In the poorer areas of Britain it's far easier to find unhealthy families that live on junk food than healthy families. I'm from one of the poorest areas in the UK and had chicken nuggets for every meal as a child and can't remember ever eating a vegetable. All of my friends were exactly the same. It's strange, because fruit and vegetables are far cheaper than McDonald's and frozen nuggets.
not necessarily true. in the us obesity levels are higher and its very rare to see someone over 400 pounds, in america they have a show called my 600 pound life. also portion sized are a lot bigger. we are by no means perfect and absolutely have to change things but i wouldn't say its worse than the us and it also depends where you look. working class people are way more likely to consume junk because its quicker and cheaper, but upper middle class areas tend to be very healthy because they have the resources. In california you may have been interacting with the latter group rather than the former
@T Townsend generalising, much? As a Brit born and bred I have never encountered anyone who lives the way you say ‘we’ do. Not saying it doesn’t ever happen, of course it does! As it does in every country worldwide. This is in no way a typical British parent, that’s all I’m trying to say.
@Palantiri I'd disagree that it's just the South, a lot of the midwest/ plains states are pretty heavy too. For both these regions it's probably somewhat related to how rural it is there-- you've got to drive anywhere worth going. Not to mention the humidity, by god.
I live with students in the east of the uk and as a student myself the majority of us dont even eat the way you say we do
And students are labled as poorer and less responsible members of society
While my group doesnt prove we are all eating well it does show that there are responsible and unresponsible eaters as well as more nuanced issues surrounding food both here and the US
Please dont generalise an entire country based off the people you seem to be surrounding yourself with 😅 especially coming from the US
Its like us moving to the fattest town in texas and being like
Yup this is the usa 🇺🇸
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when he said "can we eat that sugah" my heart melted, so cute
It's gotta be B for me. The fact that someone genuinely believes they don't control what their kid eats is beyond insane. All three are nuts to be fair though.
Honestly 🤦🏾♀️😭
Re: her not being obese yet: she could actually be fasting between meals. Idk about the US but here having junk food for every meal doesn't necessarily equate to severe overeating. I've known several friends who only eat fried, beige foods but aren't obese because they either don't eat a lot or have a really unhealthy lifestyle including skipping meals often. This is especially common with smokers because their appetites get suppressed. And actually if she drinks a lot of fizzy drinks that's a lot of caffeine which suppresses your appetite as well.
Yep. Knew a girl at school who only ate potato faces (think Americans call them tater tots?) and nuggets. She got served special meals by the cooks, thinking back I think she had some type of sensory aversion. She was skinny, blonde, and gorgeous. But I didn't ever see her eat a single vegetable.
Carbonated drinks=/=caffeinated, though that is pretty common. Depends on what kind it is. Oddly, if the kid is getting caffeine and he does have ADHD, that may actually be helping his ADHD. Stimulants are the go-to treatment for ADHD, though it's usually low doses of amphetamines. Sugar content might counteract the benefits, though.
@@Nixeu42 yah but like the most popular carbonated drink here has a load of caffeine so it's a sound guess
I honestly think she is obese or very close just doesnt weigh or track herself
Peoples idea of where obesity starts is often skewed and theyre picturing much bigger people
But to be grade 1 obese you only need to have a BMI of 30
When i was obese i was 185lbs at 5ft 5 and had a bmi in the low 30s and when i would say i am obese people would say
Nah you are just overweight
No - i am obese
Either way you can see in her body she has a high %body fat for her frame
How this is not considered neglect and therefor a crime is completely beyond me
Taylor wasn't even an adult by the time she had her first kid and she's a single mother with two kids. I get that those children are fully dependent on her and her family, and that a mother should put their children first, but I don't think it's wild or insane or deplorable that she keeps making things about herself. It's almost inevitable. She's barely an adult. If anything having kids probably thrust her into adulthood far before she was ready to deal with it, to have another life in her hands. What she needs is a better support group. She needs people who are both sympathetic and are willing to impart their wisdom, to be patient with her as she continues to grow because she's not even fully mentally developed yet. We have no idea what the circumstances are in why she had those children, the fact is that they exist, they're here now, and they can't get the help they need if their guardians are struggling.
@@amandak.4246 That's very troubling territory though. So the child gets taken away - where does the child go? Will they end up somewhere that is actually better for them? Is that the right thing to do for both parties in the grand scheme of things? The children already exist, so there's no putting that genie back in the bottle. The reality is, lots of people are going to get roped in because a child had a child, whether it's that child's mother, grandmother, extended family, or foster guardians. With more support, the burden doesn't land on one person's shoulders. With more support, people can make up for other people's shortcomings. Perhaps if that support was there in the first place, none of this would have ever happened. Who's to say, who ultimately knows?
Taylor seems very depressed, someone really has to be struggling to know their diet gave them a heart attack and still not want to change… I really hope she can change her mindset especially for Harley’s health 😕
These Parents are cruel to their sons by eating Junk Food only. Makes me sick.