ASMR Shh...Its Okay, Im Right Here | Comforting You to Sleep - Relaxing Safe Male Personal Attention

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  • Опубліковано 12 лис 2022
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    Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR) is a tingling sensation that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine.
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  • @JordanMeyer
    @JordanMeyer 11 місяців тому +1761

    My girlfriend “what are you watching?”
    Me: “a grown man is tucking me in , go back to bed.”

  • @emthegem9477
    @emthegem9477 Рік тому +8031

    I was attacked recently and having a male presence feel comforting and not threatening was so nice. Thank you for making me feel safe in a time so scary.

    • @ANGEL-ei6pp
      @ANGEL-ei6pp Рік тому +567

      Omg I hope your okay now!

    • @abbya4003
      @abbya4003 Рік тому +421

      I’m so sorry that happened to you… I hope you are ok 💖

    • @liquidlemon3335
      @liquidlemon3335 Рік тому +114

      Not everyone bad you know. Theres some truly good people ot there

    • @Skwadley
      @Skwadley Рік тому +1046

      @@liquidlemon3335They know.

    • @maddiecook4227
      @maddiecook4227 Рік тому +103

      Omg im so sorry that happened to you

  • @katrinajohnson834
    @katrinajohnson834 8 місяців тому +1327

    I separated from my abusive husband recently and am going through the most devastating time of my life. I found this video two months ago, and it brought me to tears. Since then, your videos have become the only thing that can calm my mind and cure my insomnia. You make my loneliness and fear melt away, and I fall asleep smiling. You remind me that gentle men exist. Thank you so much for what you do, dear friend.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  8 місяців тому +375

      Thank you for being so open my dear friend, your strength is clear for all to see. Stay strong Katrina, this is the new start you’ve been searching for. This will always be a place for you to escape to in your time of need for some much needed sleep and relaxation. I hope tonight’s video will help bring you a little peace this evening my friend

    • @drawkily
      @drawkily 5 місяців тому +23

      so sorry to hear that. i hope that you're in better place with better people surrounding you! wish you the fastest healing❤

    • @katrinajohnson834
      @katrinajohnson834 5 місяців тому +27

      @@drawkily thank you so much ❤️ I'm healing and moving forward with my life in a new and healthier direction.

    • @drawkily
      @drawkily 5 місяців тому +5

      @@katrinajohnson834 didn't expect for a such quick response but I'm so glad that you're fine and moving on

    • @seba6532
      @seba6532 5 місяців тому +4

      it’s okay💞🫂

  • @CerbeRawr
    @CerbeRawr 8 місяців тому +426

    Honestly mate, you're one of the bravest fellas out there
    I've scrolled in the comments, seeing some truly heartbreaking things, and you.. you simply answer nicely, doing that has a weigh on someone's heart so I'm just saying, i have a lot of respect for ya and what you've done

    • @bryanthomas4907
      @bryanthomas4907 2 місяці тому +7

      It's nice seeing that ppl still value kindness. I'm often not sure but it's the little things...

    • @sarahlouiseruberg4292
      @sarahlouiseruberg4292 18 днів тому +1

      What a nice thing to say ❤

  • @SlimeyBaron
    @SlimeyBaron Рік тому +1957

    For a guy who looks so tough, you're incredibly relaxing and gentle! Felt super chill

    • @a.katherinesuetterlin3028
      @a.katherinesuetterlin3028 Рік тому +82

      Ikr? He seems the sort to dress in comfy sweaters/jumpers and offer up fresh hot tea, cider or whatever else we might need for comfort...but when it's time to throw down the gauntlet, out come the edgy tattoos...that bigger, badass protective brother who's always got your back...but he ends up killing his enemies with kindness. Because they don't understand how he can look so tough but be so loving. He seems like he'd rather be a lover, not a fighter. That's my take on it. 🤷‍♀️

    • @lulow1291
      @lulow1291 Рік тому +28

      hes like braum from leauge of legends

    • @Bignfluffy
      @Bignfluffy Рік тому

      @@a.katherinesuetterlin3028 so fucking cringey

    • @Novarcharesk
      @Novarcharesk Рік тому +50

      The aesthetic of the gentlest man being the strongest, toughest looking one is one of my favourites 😅

    • @onyxgate1
      @onyxgate1 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@@lulow1291 true tho

  • @levitatingeternity918
    @levitatingeternity918 Місяць тому +46

    As a man myself, it's so so sweet to have another man be so gentle and supportive. I never thought i needed the company of someone who doesn't even know me.
    Thank you Mr Gentleman. You really did make me sleep easy knowing you were there.

  • @ashhoffer6782
    @ashhoffer6782 Рік тому +934

    As an SA survivor, videos like these always surprise me. I almost never watch male asmrtist, but ones like you are the exception. My progress has a multitude of causes, and videos like this are a big part of it. Thank you

    • @spencerswindler420
      @spencerswindler420 Рік тому +45

      I hope you're doing well

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee 10 місяців тому +28

      I’m sorry you had to go through that and I hope your doing better now honey❤️

    • @555elise
      @555elise 8 місяців тому +13

      i hope you're okay now, you're so strong 🫶🏻

    • @phoebe2234
      @phoebe2234 7 місяців тому +10

      I'm so sorry I wish you nothing but the best

    • @liverbirdxoxo1984
      @liverbirdxoxo1984 6 місяців тому +7

      i hope you are healing… one day at a time.. it really does damage so much… you will get there… xoxo

  • @daafitko
    @daafitko Рік тому +407

    I don’t know if this was intended for a male, but having a genuine caring friend , even if only in a video feels amazing, thank you , thank you very much

    • @SelinaCat
      @SelinaCat Рік тому +41

      I think so many of us feel comfortable with his videos because he is careful to make it open to anyone. 😊

    • @ReverbCanvas
      @ReverbCanvas 11 місяців тому +1

      Yeah I feel what you say

    • @IsaacFoster..
      @IsaacFoster.. 9 місяців тому +14

      I'm glad I'm not alone. We'll get through this, brother.

    • @user-ef1uu4yq8s
      @user-ef1uu4yq8s 9 місяців тому +8

      ⁠@@IsaacFoster.. just in case it’s been a while since you’ve heard it - you’re doing great, and i’m so glad you’re here💛

  • @ambrose1919
    @ambrose1919 Рік тому +3102

    You saved my life tonight. Literally. Thank you for telling me I'm stronger than I think. You said every single word I needed to hear. To save me and made me remember my kids. Thank you

    • @jeric0777
      @jeric0777 Рік тому +236

      Still doing okay? I hope so. Sending prayers your way. ❤

    • @JaneParkerBowls
      @JaneParkerBowls Рік тому +94

      Sending love amber

    • @ambrose1919
      @ambrose1919 Рік тому +355

      I'm really trying. I've reached out for help but I put on such a great poker face I don't think anyone takes me seriously. Not even my therapist. So i turn to these face brushing videos to ground me time and time again. But thank you for checking on me. That shows me that I really might matter

    • @jeric0777
      @jeric0777 Рік тому +125

      @@ambrose1919 Of course you matter, but I get it. A lot of us have been there. Even as moms. Just take it one day at a time and when you're in the thick of things, remember this too shall pass. Most of our problems, no matter how devastating, are temporary. Don't apply a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Hang in there. 🙏 Much love from a fellow struggling mom. 💕

    • @wargodest
      @wargodest Рік тому +66

      @@ambrose1919you're doing great ❤ and you DO matter! Your kids love you, and you seem like a lovely human being:) you will conquer these challenges in your life, I believe in you

  • @TheWall2509
    @TheWall2509 Рік тому +2795

    I remember when this dude posted his first ASMR video, now look. He puts so much effort and quality into these videos, yet I feel like he's highly unappreciated. Keep up the good work.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Рік тому +403

      It means so much to me that you’ve been here from the start my friend. Thank you

    • @patriciagrell9865
      @patriciagrell9865 Рік тому +36

      Oh he's very much appreciated. When I'm feeling down I watch him. I've been dealing with a lot of resentment and working hard on letting things go. His calm voice is very reassuring.

    • @catcolb11
      @catcolb11 Рік тому +6

      I'm so happy I found your ASMR channel. It was literally my first experience with ASMR and I've been hooked ever since. Thank you for this safe space.

    • @War_lover757
      @War_lover757 Рік тому +9

      I was the 1000th person to like!!!! (this has never happened to me before)

    • @1chadmon
      @1chadmon 9 місяців тому +4

      Omg, I found this just at the right time.❤️‍🩹

  • @shantellyvette
    @shantellyvette Рік тому +333

    It's something about a big strong man being soft and gentle that is soooo soothing and safe feeling. Thank you for existing and making this kind of content!!! ❤

  • @lorenamcd7572
    @lorenamcd7572 9 місяців тому +74

    you have a very comforting "guardian angel" energy. thank you for this video

  • @jeffkoe310
    @jeffkoe310 Рік тому +245

    Isn’t it amazing that hearing another human being saying supportive and caring things in a soothing way can shift your mood and make you feel safe? I need to do this more for my friends and family.

    • @shannahtheninjaneko6927
      @shannahtheninjaneko6927 5 місяців тому +6

      I will try to do this more too ❤ Give the love most of us never had, but the love most of us deserve

  • @teefarox92
    @teefarox92 Рік тому +971

    Can I just say, this dude has one of the most beautiful, warm and friendly looking smiles I have ever seen on a person. It just makes you feel better instantly. Thanks man, for everything you do. I love all your videos, they always make me feel better after a stressful nights work. Lots of Love form Australia.

  • @IsaacFoster..
    @IsaacFoster.. 9 місяців тому +107

    As a dude myself, I've always listened to female asmr videos. But damn this is so good. Thank you brother.

  • @lowkeylokieanimations
    @lowkeylokieanimations 9 місяців тому +81

    Grew up with a father that never cared for my emotions or struggles. This made me feel like I wasn’t being neglected- I felt so safe and loved ❤ Thank you for making this!

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 5 місяців тому +2

      Most men are that way, my father wasn't very affectionate with me either, but he did help me through my struggles.

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 5 місяців тому +3

      They tend to think differently than women, but there are men that are sensitive, and caring just like this man.

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 5 місяців тому +1

      God bless this man.

  • @TheUnderNerd
    @TheUnderNerd Рік тому +564

    Man. I wish I had a male presence in my life that would just keep me company and give some physical attention without taking it as me being interested because I let them play with my hair or hug me for a while.
    Videos like these bring me so much solace. Thank you

    • @moonstenebrocity
      @moonstenebrocity Рік тому +19

      me too :((

    • @ThePower1037
      @ThePower1037 Рік тому +17

      Man I hope I can find the strength to fix all of my short comings, I hope you find someone that cares for you as well. :)

    • @TheUnderNerd
      @TheUnderNerd Рік тому +9

      @@ThePower1037 Thank you, mate. I hope the best for you as well 🫂

    • @phoenixmarine974
      @phoenixmarine974 Рік тому +1

      me three

    • @Novarcharesk
      @Novarcharesk Рік тому +12

      Then you’re expecting a fantasy. You don’t demand this kind of intimate attention from a man and then expect him to not respond by being into you. Go to a masseuse or maybe just get a husband who says this shit to you.

  • @FizzleBerry666
    @FizzleBerry666 Рік тому +277

    It's new years eve and I've been up all night trying not to have a panic attack... for some reason nothing has calmed me down tonight, my insomnia is up the wall and I just can't freaking sleep. I clicked on this and finally felt immediate calm for the first time all day. Thank you so much for this, sir!

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Рік тому +63

      I hope you’re okay now my friend and I’m glad I was able to help in some way ☺️

    • @Puki548
      @Puki548 9 місяців тому +4

      Same. Saved me from a panic attack and helped me a lot. ❤

  • @ReverbCanvas
    @ReverbCanvas 11 місяців тому +21

    I’m a guy, but there’s something particularly soothing about a buffed guy being so tranquil. Very wholesome, great quality, instantly subbing bro.

  • @Mimi0803
    @Mimi0803 10 місяців тому +63

    Having to deal with cancer and then having to go through the emotional roller coaster of my dad saying he was cutting me off (not money wise- just out of his life) before turning around and being like “ haha that was funny- alright good talk”
    Your voice calms me down so much. Even though my dad said he was only joking and didn’t mean anything he said- I’m out here fighting my emotions and soul from tearing myself into nothing.
    I know this is a really silly comment and maybe I’m just emotional and stressed. But thank you genuinely- I always come to your videos when I’m down and even now- your voice and kindness is helping me calm down from the emotional turmoil rn.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  10 місяців тому +28

      I’m sorry you’re going through this clearly difficult time my friend. But I’m pleased to hear I’m able to provide some level of relaxing escape from time to time. And it’s definitely not a silly comment. It took a great deal of courage to share your feelings like that and I respect it so much. You’ve got this my friend, even if at times it feels otherwise. Never forget how strong you are

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 6 місяців тому +1

      You've been through a lot. You're really brave.

  • @sweetr1832
    @sweetr1832 Рік тому +88

    My little kitten was asleep in front of the screen, until I put this on and she's now intensely following and listening for a while when you pet the camera, then dozing off again. She's a rescue, I want to believe she understands what you're saying 💙

    • @scheiler6214
      @scheiler6214 Рік тому +14

      Thats so sweet...kittys need soothing too ❤

    • @notjavier3639
      @notjavier3639 9 місяців тому +2

      What’s it’s name

  • @robsutherland5744
    @robsutherland5744 Рік тому +238

    Thank you for using some of the precious hours of your life doing this. To me it is genuinely extraordinary. Sharing your own observations and generosity and honesty with us makes me feel pretty humble. I hope you ate well today.

  • @pumpkintartable
    @pumpkintartable 3 місяці тому +31

    30 seconds in, I realized no one has ever treated me this way and started crying

    • @LucasDavis-fb3vd
      @LucasDavis-fb3vd 19 днів тому +1

      I'm sorry.your a great person and
      You deserved to be loved.I hope you have a wonderful day

  • @DEAD_FORLIFE
    @DEAD_FORLIFE Рік тому +88

    Just at the start of the video I started crying because I recently lost my forever friend bc he committed suicide and I barely been eating, sleeping, or doing anything and this video made me cry and relaxed thank you for helping me today I was on the edge to leaving this world until I came across this video thank you so much❤

    • @christianschmidt4550
      @christianschmidt4550 10 місяців тому +6

      I hope you’re doing well

    • @letsalllovelein
      @letsalllovelein 9 місяців тому +3

      I'm so sorry. I hope you're alright now :(

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Because their friend meant a lot to them. No matter where it is in the world, people still need people. Give some grace for someone who has suffered a loss. You don't know when you will need grace too.

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.

  • @Patriciar83
    @Patriciar83 Рік тому +307

    Dark backgrounds asmr videos are a plus for those who wants to relax and sleep. Thank you :) Also love your slow gentle hands movements.

  • @mr_mustache_man7789
    @mr_mustache_man7789 11 місяців тому +29

    i just lost my dog yesterday in a horrible way, and it’s hard to go to sleep cuz my mind won’t stop picturing it. thanks for this, it’s really comforting

  • @astrid6591
    @astrid6591 5 місяців тому +16

    it's genuinely surprising to be comforted by a male that isn't trying to get into my pants or trying to get something out of me. It makes me confused, but this is very healing for me. Thank you for all that you do for these people online

  • @yurikazamiknight2436
    @yurikazamiknight2436 8 місяців тому +25

    This man right here. This absolute legend.
    I've listened to ASMR after ASMR, and this beast of a man, soft as a kitten, can soothe us better than the majority of women who claim they can put you to sleep.
    I'm a guy, and this is hella relaxing.
    You sir, are a legend.
    ❤I wish you great luck on your adventures.

  • @ComeOn_ASMR
    @ComeOn_ASMR Рік тому +142

    Omgg the gentle whispers, slow hand movements, gentle brushing, dark background, 1h30 length….
    I am so grateful for this video ❤😊🫶😴

  • @samurailevi49
    @samurailevi49 11 місяців тому +75

    I suffer from multiple forms of anxiety including PTSD, General Anxiety, Panic Disorder, and Social Anxiety. I can get up to 15 panic attacks in a single month due to the overwhelming nature of all of these anxiety problems. You’ve made me feel instantly calm which isn’t easy. I can’t thank you enough! 🙏

    • @Yeettube2777
      @Yeettube2777 10 місяців тому +7

      Bro I be getting like 30 a month.
      But mine is no more or less
      valid than yours.
      Salut to you fellow ptsd anxiety disorder brotheren .

    • @samurailevi49
      @samurailevi49 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Yeettube2777 Oh that sounds horrible! I’m so sorry to hear that!

    • @askherhowshesdoeen
      @askherhowshesdoeen 5 місяців тому +2

      I'm sorry to hear about your anxiety, ptsd and panic disorder, I suffer from the same things as well as bipolar. If you have access to a psychiatrist, maybe try asking about hydroxyzine and propranolol? They have changed my life and I went from having 2 panic attacks per day (which lasted 45 minutes each and felt like heart attacks and seizures, leaving me unable to walk without my legs locking up) to virtually none. It has been a miracle. I hope you find relief, friend❤️

  • @kokochono5054
    @kokochono5054 9 місяців тому +68

    I hate how helpful this is. Im crying, thank you for the comfort.

  • @Animorpha1
    @Animorpha1 Рік тому +148

    As someone who isn’t comfortable AT ALL around men for trauma reasons. I couldn’t stand male Asmr videos. I felt…I guess too intimidated….too intimate.
    He’s honestly the first one I could *tolerate* at first. I kinda forced myself to watch more and I’ve gotten more comfortable. I think it’s the fact that he keeps his voice at a consistent lower whisper. Which I think doesn’t trigger(bad trigger) me as much.
    I still can’t keep eye contact for very long but I’m trying.
    Edit/PS: I also like that he doesn’t sexualize anything which is something some Asmrtists do. It makes thing feel more platonic and like I have more “control”.

    • @grimesdaughter9042
      @grimesdaughter9042 Рік тому +26

      I know what you mean. I'm asexual and the suggestive nature of many (male and female) ASMRtists makes it impossible for me to relax to their voices or RPs. It just feels 'weird' having this stranger appearing to 'flirt' with me. I love most ASMR where a friend appears to take care of me ☺. That's truly a great, comforting feeling. Still less so with male ASMRtists, but our whispering Gentleman is one of a few I can not only 'tolerate', but genuinely relax to.
      I wish you a restful sleep and I hope that the pain of your trauma will leave you one day. ❤

    • @suzysstyles
      @suzysstyles Рік тому +4

      I just wanna be loved 😅❤ for real

  • @lyrixmaples
    @lyrixmaples 2 місяці тому +7

    For me seeing a non threatening man is rare and im glad youre one of the good ones ❤

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you my dear friend

    • @lyrixmaples
      @lyrixmaples 2 місяці тому +1

      @@WhisperingGentlemanASMR thank you for helping us relax and sleep and for being there when we need it most

  • @relaxrapa
    @relaxrapa 11 місяців тому +10

    I have never felt more comforted by a man in my entire life, thank you, im literally in tears 😭 ❤️

  • @ericakilbourn9716
    @ericakilbourn9716 11 місяців тому +16

    This reminds me of the time my, (now husband), boyfriend and I were in a car wreck. I was really shaken up (physically mostly fine). We were at his friend's house and we were both trying to just calm down and feel okay, and crying a little. Then randomly his friend walks in the room quietly with a tiny puppy! We had no idea there was a dog in his house, it was such a sweet thing to do, and a nice distraction ❤

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  11 місяців тому +3

      That definitely sounds like something much needed after such an ordeal my friend.

  • @fuddlewacken
    @fuddlewacken 6 місяців тому +8

    I dont think Ive ever had such nourishing words of kindness, encouragment and care spoken to me in my whole life. I didnt know i wanted this in my own personal life so much. Just to be comforted.

  • @maddierude5469
    @maddierude5469 Рік тому +570

    Blank space for anyone who needs it!
    Everyone get some rest, sweet dreams ❤

  • @amyingram70
    @amyingram70 Рік тому +16

    I just wanted to thank you for doing this video. 5 years ago January my Mother passed. Friday I made the painful decision to pull the life support for my Dad and he passed. Your words are healing, soothing, and diminishes the pain for a moment. Thank you.😪😪😪

  • @allyn7400
    @allyn7400 9 місяців тому +8

    It’s very rare a man makes me feel safe and loved. So thank you! this is so healing ❤

  • @glitterzombigoesnuts
    @glitterzombigoesnuts Рік тому +140

    I’m not sure if you know this, but I believe you have a natural intuition of what people need to hear in order to truly relax after a hard day and that simple gift of intuition provides so much comfort and security. Even if it’s only for a little while. Your kindness shows it’s true and beautiful colors in this video. Thank you for your contribution to the ASMR community. Thank you for your time and commitment to helping others relax and/or sleep. You’re a gift to this world. Never forget that. ❤ also I don’t want you as just a friend. I want to adopt you as family 😂 what would I give to have such a kind and caring sibling?

    • @kimmills3264
      @kimmills3264 Рік тому +8

      agreed he is empathic, so a wonderfully in tune to his own feelings and of the heart and mind to share himself in this way. 🤗🙏

    • @mattb1568
      @mattb1568 Рік тому +5

      Don’t forget, by being open to this goodness, you yourself are a gift to this world. It’s in our nature. Exude your goodness, to yourself and to the people around you who are open as well

  • @lexibbx2
    @lexibbx2 Рік тому +53

    I have to say I clicked on this video by accident but for some reason I was like “ eh we’ll see” and I’m so glad I did I’ve watched a few videos now and they are so very soothing and comforting and such beautiful quality.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Рік тому +13

      Thank you so much my friend and welcome to this safe space

    • @SelinaCat
      @SelinaCat Рік тому +2

      This was the same for me! It just goes to show how many toxic microaggresions we as women are subjected regularly.

  • @jazminvalero8732
    @jazminvalero8732 6 місяців тому +40

    Just lost my cat of 17 yrs today. This was calming and helped me stop crying for the first time in awhile. Thank you

    • @CreateWithFiaa
      @CreateWithFiaa 6 місяців тому +6

      I'm so sorry for you, but just know that your cat is happy because it got to spend it's entire life with an amazing owner like you, my friend :)

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 5 місяців тому +4

      I'm so very sorry about your cat.

    • @jazminvalero8732
      @jazminvalero8732 5 місяців тому

      @@victoriataylor5584 Thank you 🤍

    • @askherhowshesdoeen
      @askherhowshesdoeen 5 місяців тому +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss, your cat was so lucky to be so loved by you🩷 I hope you are healing now

    • @jazminvalero8732
      @jazminvalero8732 4 місяці тому +2

      @@askherhowshesdoeen Thank you so much for this ♥️ It was really needed today

  • @moonstenebrocity
    @moonstenebrocity Рік тому +37

    finding such a comforting, gentle, quiet male presence is something very strange to me, but exactly what i need in this moment. i’ve been struggling with anxiety/panic attacks & intrusive thoughts & take ages to fall asleep. but i already know i’ll fall asleep fast to this! it’ll probably become part of my bedtime routine 💌 thank you so much for posting this & showing me men can be deeper & kinder & gentler than i ever imagined

  • @stupidcircle4413
    @stupidcircle4413 Рік тому +24

    Been fighting that "fight or flight" for years when it comes to ASMR, as much as I enjoy it ( typing difficulty even now so please pardon, lots of mistakes) this one is very close and comforting. Please do more. On the autism spectrum it's a rare case but I and my niece enjoy these. 💝

  • @amisapp5033
    @amisapp5033 Рік тому +25

    If I had to live on a desert island for the rest of my life and could pick only one ASMR channel, it would definitely be yours my friend. It’s pure magic, every time it helps me to fall asleep peacefully, your words, gentle movements, soft sounds, length, background, everything is perfect. Thank you so much for creating this real safe space. 💝

  • @axel_is_online7025
    @axel_is_online7025 Рік тому +50

    After finding out I lost another family member and not being told about the service tomorrow until today... Having some kind of calming force helps. Thank you, really.

    • @laiatezenas3300
      @laiatezenas3300 Рік тому +7

      I am sorry for your loss and hope that you will be surrounded by loved ones. It's so important to not be alone during such times. Sending you much love!

  • @emilyking3988
    @emilyking3988 Рік тому +64

    I stumbled across a male ASMR artist and never in a million years would I have thought it would be so amazing! I've always preferred female voices but this gentleman is absolutely amazing. The affirmations are wonderful. Will definitely be listening to some more. Happy holidays ❤️

  • @TheAndrewRitchie
    @TheAndrewRitchie Рік тому +25

    I needed to feel safe and protected last night and you gave that to me. All worries vanished. You’re wonderful. Thank you.

  • @lauryn6059
    @lauryn6059 Рік тому +20

    I think the lighting is one of my favorite things about your videos!!! Very underrated and very relaxing. It’s perfect because it’s dark for sleep and there’s not much blue light due to the yellower tint. It’s perfect

  • @Sophieluxpetite
    @Sophieluxpetite Рік тому +11

    He’s fit, he has tattoos, he has a moustache and he’s soft and caring. So I guess positive masculinity exists?? 😮

  • @griffenderwood143
    @griffenderwood143 Рік тому +12

    Sir you got me crying when you said (it's ok I am here now). i love your content and it always make me shed some tears on the way you talk to us.❤

  • @kelseyjanae1
    @kelseyjanae1 Рік тому +10

    You were made for this. This is a BEAUTIFUL life purpose of yours...helping people to literally reprogram their minds and nervous systems into safety. Truly extraordinary. You're a star. Keep going.

  • @Natasha-pc2zg
    @Natasha-pc2zg Рік тому +12

    When I first clicked on your video I felt triggered by my experiences from previous men that looked like you. But hearing your warm words and soft assurances is seriously reprogramming my brain. Thank you, I needed this!

  • @steviecreek
    @steviecreek Рік тому +11

    Omg dark backgrounds are so under appreciated and under used in the ASMR community. 💙💙💙 love this!

  • @TheAndreag91
    @TheAndreag91 7 місяців тому +2

    To me this has been really important. Having this male care, feeling protected and not awkward at all. Its comforting and sweet, thank you so much, your vibe is really pretty.

  • @dromkammarsrebecca9642
    @dromkammarsrebecca9642 4 місяці тому +2

    If you have children, they are the luckiest kids alive. If you have a partner, it's the luckiest person alive. Everyone deserves a father and partner like you.

  • @aleeshagarcia6798
    @aleeshagarcia6798 11 місяців тому +6

    How do you know people need this? Thank you for taking the time to be so kind. I really appreciate the warm expression. Genuinely the best ASMR video I've found to let me feel safe enough to sleep. Doesn't feel like you are alone with the camera. 😊

  • @monicadominguez9455
    @monicadominguez9455 Рік тому +15

    This person is soooo kind ❤ I feel so safe. Reminded me of a father comforting a child.

  • @insomniac1184
    @insomniac1184 4 місяці тому +21

    Heres some empty space if anyone needs it ✨
    Goodnight 🌌🌠🌜

  • @ChimeraGirl_
    @ChimeraGirl_ Рік тому +10

    He has such kind, expressive eyes and a warm smile. His videos really make me feel safe and comforted. I deal with frequent bouts of insomnia often triggered by stress and his videos put me at ease and help me sleep. :) Thank you, kind Sir!

  • @TheCyberWolf1
    @TheCyberWolf1 Рік тому +13

    I like how calm he is… I suffer from ptsd and this incredible gentleman can calm me down just like that that’s both amazing and impressive 😊

    • @Bangkok357
      @Bangkok357 6 місяців тому

      Me too. These comforting safe feeling held videos allow the constant PTSD inner vibration to settle, at least for the night

  • @everyone8043
    @everyone8043 Рік тому +37

    Thank you for the slow gentle movements. So relaxing. (None of the mouth clicking which I find irritating.)

    • @zafusca
      @zafusca Рік тому +3

      yeah me too i don't like most the asmrist do

    • @Wants2knowitall
      @Wants2knowitall Рік тому +2

      Thank you for this. I, too, hate the clicking and mouth noises. I thought I was the only one bc so many ASMR artists do it.

  • @catherinesanders1111
    @catherinesanders1111 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for helping me calm down when I’m anxious and during a really dark time in my life

  • @onyxgate1
    @onyxgate1 Рік тому +7

    The comforting giga chad

  • @mark9538
    @mark9538 Рік тому +33

    Thank you for being so relaxing, you're one of the only UA-cam channels I come back to for comfort and relaxation. You have made me feel a lot better with my anxiety lately and I appreciate it. Take care mate 🙂

  • @sweetheartjorgette348
    @sweetheartjorgette348 Рік тому +8

    I absolutely ❤️❤️❤️ the rain shower in the background …together with his whispers omg it’s just a perfect match

  • @aldacapuchino3912
    @aldacapuchino3912 Рік тому +6

    I have issues with men being rude, using me and abusing me. And this video gave me so much relief and release I cried the first part. Also I miss my Dad so much he was my strength and having a male voice saying empowering things helps and some kind of healing there too. God I’m lonely.😂 Thank you for your work.

  • @anamarquez3959
    @anamarquez3959 10 місяців тому +4

    There's something really magical in the way that a big, bearded, apparently "rude" man like this 😊 looks at the camera with so sweet eyes... I like him very much ❤ Thanks for sharing your kindness 💋

  • @hathorearth1718
    @hathorearth1718 Рік тому +13

    I don't know what we did to deserve your hardwork man but it's so well appreciated 🙏. I'm new to this channel and I gotta say this is the stuff I've been looking so long for. I find a lot of asmr artists don't really know how to talk softly enough and but this is perfect.

  • @SageRavenGale
    @SageRavenGale Рік тому +11

    I had a very intense panic attack right before I landed on this video. Your soothing voice and encouraging words helped lull me into a safe sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🥺

  • @Puck-ez1mn
    @Puck-ez1mn 3 місяці тому +2

    I feel so uncomfy in my room usually cause i hate the dark and i feel like I'm always being watched it's weird - but this guy's voice and like, presence through the video is so comforting :)

  • @ally00bu
    @ally00bu Рік тому +4

    The patience he has to sit there and film this for 1.5 hours( after editing!! So realistically 2 hrs minimum PLUS EDITING TIME) is genuinely insane and does not go lost on me, we truly appreciate you sir❤

  • @Estellemusic
    @Estellemusic 11 місяців тому +6

    I've made so much mental health progress in the last few weeks... But tonight everything fell apart around me and I feel so weak and fragile. Thank you for... this. All of it. I cried again, but these were tears of relief and gratitude. Thank you.

  • @hisshoes1107
    @hisshoes1107 26 днів тому +1

    I really need a hug, but this is definitely close enough. It’s been a couple years now, but it feels like yesterday that I lost my dad to cancer and I’ve felt so guilty and unmotivated and regretful that I didn’t spend my time with him better, and I’ve had nobody to talk to about this and stuff. This video is exactly what I need. Thank you.

  • @JoyfulIsAnOctopus
    @JoyfulIsAnOctopus 11 місяців тому +5

    Thanks. I like that you are keeping your tone comforting and not seductive.
    Ive had issues with panic attacks and nightmares recently and since Im a teen no one gives me comfort like this.

    • @namelessbee603
      @namelessbee603 10 місяців тому +1

      I agree. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. My friend deals with similar things as well and it really upsets her. Good luck 💙

    • @JoyfulIsAnOctopus
      @JoyfulIsAnOctopus 10 місяців тому +2

      @@namelessbee603 Thanks

  • @HikiOmo
    @HikiOmo 10 місяців тому +4

    I saw you in the thumbnail and was like: "He looks like a really good friend, I should watch this." I was not wrong.

  • @Wants2knowitall
    @Wants2knowitall Рік тому +7

    The pep talk at 30:16 was exactly what I needed this week. Rn there is someone underestimating me. You reminded me that I am strong and can do this. Thank you, my friend.

  • @theonionqueen3519
    @theonionqueen3519 Рік тому +6

    I love the lighting you used! It’s so warm, makes it easy to fall asleep to. And your movements are so gentle and calming, I’m seriously in love with this video!

  • @money4bratz
    @money4bratz Рік тому +8

    he has the most calming and innocent eyes😊

  • @jadytea7417
    @jadytea7417 3 місяці тому +3

    God, for the first time, I have experienced genuine goosebumps that lasted for the entirety of this video. And your accent is deeply noted and deeply loved as well. SUCH an AMAZING experience!

  • @zahraaqasem7623
    @zahraaqasem7623 Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much for this; I was having a meltdown and crying because of the overwhelming and stressful week I had, and my anxiety was eating me up alive because I also start college in a day, and I’m not ready for it, so I'm grateful I clicked on this video you truly are a gift in how much comfort you radiate, I am now feeling much better because of you, so, thank you, again very much :’)

  • @liameliana158
    @liameliana158 9 місяців тому +2

    This helped me out so much. I'm a freshman, who's going into high school balancing work, cross country, and my studies. My head has been all over the place mixed with the constant fights between me and my family due to my brother leaving for college. Thank you for helping me get to bed tonight!!!

  • @schule01
    @schule01 9 днів тому +1

    Today I needed my boyfriend's support while having an anxiety crisis or smth, but all he did was turning his back and going to sleep while I was crying. Thank you so much! We don't even know each other directly yet you're so helpful 😊

  • @Sunny_vrg
    @Sunny_vrg Рік тому +8

    I love how when you brush your hand it makes a sound effect it's so nice!

  • @lyciumchld
    @lyciumchld Рік тому +12

    I really wish ASMR produced tingles for me, but even though it doesn't, I find this channel in particular to be very useful for comfort and sleep. Additionally, the brushing and tracing help with some mild neurochemical response to touch, which helps my mood and calms me down a great deal, almost instantly. It's really quite remarkable. I've watched a variety of asmrtists and while I like several for different reasons this channel is the one I watch most by far because the content is the most effective at producing calm and sleep. Very appreciative.

  • @martinstars913
    @martinstars913 9 місяців тому +2

    this kind of affection and compassion (care) is rare and because of that, it's so precious, relaxing and refreshing ! strong, tough manly men who are also kind, gentle, well-mannered and understanding are the best male creatures we can appreciate having around ...

  • @tysdatboi
    @tysdatboi 11 місяців тому +2

    This is the best fatherly experience I've ever had since i was 8

  • @mzimi
    @mzimi 7 місяців тому +3

    I usually don't watch many male asmr artists but I have been having a hard time again lately which has made me feel like a scared little kid who needs their dad again. You gave me that safe comforting presence that I have been needing. I feel a bit stronger again thanks to you.

  • @NotSoArrogant_Asshole
    @NotSoArrogant_Asshole Рік тому +5

    Hey, you! Stop scrolling!
    You are worthy of happiness. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of living. You are worthy of every good thing that happens to you. You are appreciated. You are beautiful both inside and out. You are worthy no matter your gender, ethnicity, sexuality, or body. You're beautiful no matter what.

  • @Udayzeus
    @Udayzeus 11 місяців тому +2

    This was incredible. I have always listened to female voice ASMR and never found male voice ASMR to be relaxing until now. This is actually like listening to a friend. Thank you so much. 😌

  • @shauneduggan6442
    @shauneduggan6442 11 днів тому +2

    I've recently lost a few really close friends and family to suicide and i miss them so much but just listening to ur voice sir has really helped me through my struggles over time thank you ❤❤

  • @yurisa3270
    @yurisa3270 Рік тому +5

    I got diagnosed with cancer since the beginning of 2022 and spend most of my time in the hospital fighting for my life with only a age of 17 and since then i have a very hard time falling asleep alone because i am scared something will happen to me or i will never wake up again but this video and you makes me feel very safe and takes my fear away. Even though i am 18 now i feel like a little kid wanting to run to my parents bedroom crying because of fear as if i had a nightmare. Your voice helped me calm down and finally feel sleepy again so i hope i will sleep good for the first time since a long time! Thank you so much for this video and your time☺️

    • @ritiksharma2544
      @ritiksharma2544 Рік тому

      Everything will be fine my love! 🥺 I love you and proud of you my warrior!💝

  • @PurplexxInuxBokuSS
    @PurplexxInuxBokuSS Рік тому +9

    These gentle and slow positive affirmations are such godsent. Thank you kind internet sir. 🥺💖

  • @dustiemarzullo
    @dustiemarzullo Рік тому +3

    This video was really comforting because I’ve been so stressed out by family, moving to NYC far, FAR away from all my friends, depression, overthinking this was really calming

  • @ZephyrAnimationss
    @ZephyrAnimationss 11 місяців тому +2

    this is peak asmr right here. he's like a genuine friend. other asmrtists can't do what you can. keep up the good work!

  • @ilovekeiy
    @ilovekeiy Рік тому +13

    I was having a panic attack and dealing with intrusive thoughts, these are the words i needed today. Thank you

  • @abbya4003
    @abbya4003 Рік тому +15

    I just started the video… after almost spiraling down, so thank you I truly already feel comfort 🥺💖

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 6 місяців тому +1

      I get what you mean.
      Have a good night tonight. You can make it through tomorrow. ❤

  • @raineaye
    @raineaye Місяць тому +2

    It is soooo nice to see a guy doing asmr. I’ll be fast asleep soon, thanks for the soothing and calming video.

  • @rxxnty
    @rxxnty Рік тому +6

    Thank you for this. Life has been tough and I really needed this kind of comfort. Super relaxing and so calming, I love it!

  • @gabrielvilligan923
    @gabrielvilligan923 Рік тому +22

    Best asmrtist on UA-cam keep up the good work