I was attacked recently and having a male presence feel comforting and not threatening was so nice. Thank you for making me feel safe in a time so scary.
I separated from my abusive husband recently and am going through the most devastating time of my life. I found this video two months ago, and it brought me to tears. Since then, your videos have become the only thing that can calm my mind and cure my insomnia. You make my loneliness and fear melt away, and I fall asleep smiling. You remind me that gentle men exist. Thank you so much for what you do, dear friend.
Thank you for being so open my dear friend, your strength is clear for all to see. Stay strong Katrina, this is the new start you’ve been searching for. This will always be a place for you to escape to in your time of need for some much needed sleep and relaxation. I hope tonight’s video will help bring you a little peace this evening my friend
As a man myself, it's so so sweet to have another man be so gentle and supportive. I never thought i needed the company of someone who doesn't even know me. Thank you Mr Gentleman. You really did make me sleep easy knowing you were there.
Def agree, man, it was very sweet. Feels like a mentor talking to his student. Or father/brother figure. Very comforting, sweet and encouraging. Had hard times, even shed tears. This video is chefs kiss. Sweet video by a good man.
As an SA survivor, videos like these always surprise me. I almost never watch male asmrtist, but ones like you are the exception. My progress has a multitude of causes, and videos like this are a big part of it. Thank you
Ikr? He seems the sort to dress in comfy sweaters/jumpers and offer up fresh hot tea, cider or whatever else we might need for comfort...but when it's time to throw down the gauntlet, out come the edgy tattoos...that bigger, badass protective brother who's always got your back...but he ends up killing his enemies with kindness. Because they don't understand how he can look so tough but be so loving. He seems like he'd rather be a lover, not a fighter. That's my take on it. 🤷♀️
I remember when this dude posted his first ASMR video, now look. He puts so much effort and quality into these videos, yet I feel like he's highly unappreciated. Keep up the good work.
Oh he's very much appreciated. When I'm feeling down I watch him. I've been dealing with a lot of resentment and working hard on letting things go. His calm voice is very reassuring.
You saved my life tonight. Literally. Thank you for telling me I'm stronger than I think. You said every single word I needed to hear. To save me and made me remember my kids. Thank you
I'm really trying. I've reached out for help but I put on such a great poker face I don't think anyone takes me seriously. Not even my therapist. So i turn to these face brushing videos to ground me time and time again. But thank you for checking on me. That shows me that I really might matter
@@ambrose1919 Of course you matter, but I get it. A lot of us have been there. Even as moms. Just take it one day at a time and when you're in the thick of things, remember this too shall pass. Most of our problems, no matter how devastating, are temporary. Don't apply a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Hang in there. 🙏 Much love from a fellow struggling mom. 💕
@@ambrose1919you're doing great ❤ and you DO matter! Your kids love you, and you seem like a lovely human being:) you will conquer these challenges in your life, I believe in you
Honestly mate, you're one of the bravest fellas out there I've scrolled in the comments, seeing some truly heartbreaking things, and you.. you simply answer nicely, doing that has a weigh on someone's heart so I'm just saying, i have a lot of respect for ya and what you've done
It's something about a big strong man being soft and gentle that is soooo soothing and safe feeling. Thank you for existing and making this kind of content!!! ❤
I don’t know if this was intended for a male, but having a genuine caring friend , even if only in a video feels amazing, thank you , thank you very much
Can I just say, this dude has one of the most beautiful, warm and friendly looking smiles I have ever seen on a person. It just makes you feel better instantly. Thanks man, for everything you do. I love all your videos, they always make me feel better after a stressful nights work. Lots of Love form Australia.
Isn’t it amazing that hearing another human being saying supportive and caring things in a soothing way can shift your mood and make you feel safe? I need to do this more for my friends and family.
Grew up with a father that never cared for my emotions or struggles. This made me feel like I wasn’t being neglected- I felt so safe and loved ❤ Thank you for making this!
This guy triggers good memories of when my Dad would comfort me during overnight thunderstorms, vs mom who did not want her sleep interrupted by a distressed child
Man. I wish I had a male presence in my life that would just keep me company and give some physical attention without taking it as me being interested because I let them play with my hair or hug me for a while. Videos like these bring me so much solace. Thank you
Then you’re expecting a fantasy. You don’t demand this kind of intimate attention from a man and then expect him to not respond by being into you. Go to a masseuse or maybe just get a husband who says this shit to you.
It's new years eve and I've been up all night trying not to have a panic attack... for some reason nothing has calmed me down tonight, my insomnia is up the wall and I just can't freaking sleep. I clicked on this and finally felt immediate calm for the first time all day. Thank you so much for this, sir!
Having to deal with cancer and then having to go through the emotional roller coaster of my dad saying he was cutting me off (not money wise- just out of his life) before turning around and being like “ haha that was funny- alright good talk” Your voice calms me down so much. Even though my dad said he was only joking and didn’t mean anything he said- I’m out here fighting my emotions and soul from tearing myself into nothing. I know this is a really silly comment and maybe I’m just emotional and stressed. But thank you genuinely- I always come to your videos when I’m down and even now- your voice and kindness is helping me calm down from the emotional turmoil rn.
I’m sorry you’re going through this clearly difficult time my friend. But I’m pleased to hear I’m able to provide some level of relaxing escape from time to time. And it’s definitely not a silly comment. It took a great deal of courage to share your feelings like that and I respect it so much. You’ve got this my friend, even if at times it feels otherwise. Never forget how strong you are
Thank you for using some of the precious hours of your life doing this. To me it is genuinely extraordinary. Sharing your own observations and generosity and honesty with us makes me feel pretty humble. I hope you ate well today.
If you have children, they are the luckiest kids alive. If you have a partner, it's the luckiest person alive. Everyone deserves a father and partner like you.
it's genuinely surprising to be comforted by a male that isn't trying to get into my pants or trying to get something out of me. It makes me confused, but this is very healing for me. Thank you for all that you do for these people online
My little kitten was asleep in front of the screen, until I put this on and she's now intensely following and listening for a while when you pet the camera, then dozing off again. She's a rescue, I want to believe she understands what you're saying 💙
Just at the start of the video I started crying because I recently lost my forever friend bc he committed suicide and I barely been eating, sleeping, or doing anything and this video made me cry and relaxed thank you for helping me today I was on the edge to leaving this world until I came across this video thank you so much❤
@@Sabrina-hu1bs Because their friend meant a lot to them. No matter where it is in the world, people still need people. Give some grace for someone who has suffered a loss. You don't know when you will need grace too.
@@Sabrina-hu1bs Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.
@@Sabrina-hu1bs Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.
I dont think Ive ever had such nourishing words of kindness, encouragment and care spoken to me in my whole life. I didnt know i wanted this in my own personal life so much. Just to be comforted.
I suffer from multiple forms of anxiety including PTSD, General Anxiety, Panic Disorder, and Social Anxiety. I can get up to 15 panic attacks in a single month due to the overwhelming nature of all of these anxiety problems. You’ve made me feel instantly calm which isn’t easy. I can’t thank you enough! 🙏
I'm sorry to hear about your anxiety, ptsd and panic disorder, I suffer from the same things as well as bipolar. If you have access to a psychiatrist, maybe try asking about hydroxyzine and propranolol? They have changed my life and I went from having 2 panic attacks per day (which lasted 45 minutes each and felt like heart attacks and seizures, leaving me unable to walk without my legs locking up) to virtually none. It has been a miracle. I hope you find relief, friend❤️
50 seconds in and I'm already crying. What sorcery is this?! Thank you. I haven't really had the experience of a nurturing, safe male figure in my life so this feels very comforting.
It’s the middle of the night and I’m having anxiety attacks because someone I deeply care about is giving me silent treatment. Your presence is helping me, thank you 🫶🏻
i just lost my dog yesterday in a horrible way, and it’s hard to go to sleep cuz my mind won’t stop picturing it. thanks for this, it’s really comforting
This reminds me of the time my, (now husband), boyfriend and I were in a car wreck. I was really shaken up (physically mostly fine). We were at his friend's house and we were both trying to just calm down and feel okay, and crying a little. Then randomly his friend walks in the room quietly with a tiny puppy! We had no idea there was a dog in his house, it was such a sweet thing to do, and a nice distraction ❤
Wow…after seeing some of these comments from individuals suffering with trauma, it really warms my heart that this man is making a difference to you all! That’s an awesome thing! Keep it up Whispering Gentleman!
I have to say I clicked on this video by accident but for some reason I was like “ eh we’ll see” and I’m so glad I did I’ve watched a few videos now and they are so very soothing and comforting and such beautiful quality.
If I had to live on a desert island for the rest of my life and could pick only one ASMR channel, it would definitely be yours my friend. It’s pure magic, every time it helps me to fall asleep peacefully, your words, gentle movements, soft sounds, length, background, everything is perfect. Thank you so much for creating this real safe space. 💝
I really need a hug, but this is definitely close enough. It’s been a couple years now, but it feels like yesterday that I lost my dad to cancer and I’ve felt so guilty and unmotivated and regretful that I didn’t spend my time with him better, and I’ve had nobody to talk to about this and stuff. This video is exactly what I need. Thank you.
I stumbled across a male ASMR artist and never in a million years would I have thought it would be so amazing! I've always preferred female voices but this gentleman is absolutely amazing. The affirmations are wonderful. Will definitely be listening to some more. Happy holidays ❤️
This man right here. This absolute legend. I've listened to ASMR after ASMR, and this beast of a man, soft as a kitten, can soothe us better than the majority of women who claim they can put you to sleep. I'm a guy, and this is hella relaxing. You sir, are a legend. ❤I wish you great luck on your adventures.
I think the lighting is one of my favorite things about your videos!!! Very underrated and very relaxing. It’s perfect because it’s dark for sleep and there’s not much blue light due to the yellower tint. It’s perfect
I’m not sure if you know this, but I believe you have a natural intuition of what people need to hear in order to truly relax after a hard day and that simple gift of intuition provides so much comfort and security. Even if it’s only for a little while. Your kindness shows it’s true and beautiful colors in this video. Thank you for your contribution to the ASMR community. Thank you for your time and commitment to helping others relax and/or sleep. You’re a gift to this world. Never forget that. ❤ also I don’t want you as just a friend. I want to adopt you as family 😂 what would I give to have such a kind and caring sibling?
Don’t forget, by being open to this goodness, you yourself are a gift to this world. It’s in our nature. Exude your goodness, to yourself and to the people around you who are open as well
I have no words. This is the first video of yours I’ve watched and you’ve given me more peace than a hundred I’ve watched in the past year. You are a truly kind soul.
Been fighting that "fight or flight" for years when it comes to ASMR, as much as I enjoy it ( typing difficulty even now so please pardon, lots of mistakes) this one is very close and comforting. Please do more. On the autism spectrum it's a rare case but I and my niece enjoy these. 💝
When I first clicked on your video I felt triggered by my experiences from previous men that looked like you. But hearing your warm words and soft assurances is seriously reprogramming my brain. Thank you, I needed this!
As someone who isn’t comfortable AT ALL around men for trauma reasons. I couldn’t stand male Asmr videos. I felt…I guess too intimidated….too intimate. He’s honestly the first one I could *tolerate* at first. I kinda forced myself to watch more and I’ve gotten more comfortable. I think it’s the fact that he keeps his voice at a consistent lower whisper. Which I think doesn’t trigger(bad trigger) me as much. I still can’t keep eye contact for very long but I’m trying. Edit/PS: I also like that he doesn’t sexualize anything which is something some Asmrtists do. It makes thing feel more platonic and like I have more “control”.
I know what you mean. I'm asexual and the suggestive nature of many (male and female) ASMRtists makes it impossible for me to relax to their voices or RPs. It just feels 'weird' having this stranger appearing to 'flirt' with me. I love most ASMR where a friend appears to take care of me ☺. That's truly a great, comforting feeling. Still less so with male ASMRtists, but our whispering Gentleman is one of a few I can not only 'tolerate', but genuinely relax to. I wish you a restful sleep and I hope that the pain of your trauma will leave you one day. ❤
After finding out I lost another family member and not being told about the service tomorrow until today... Having some kind of calming force helps. Thank you, really.
I am sorry for your loss and hope that you will be surrounded by loved ones. It's so important to not be alone during such times. Sending you much love!
Needed this brother. Having rough times lately. This video made me cry. Thank you for this empathetic, encouraging and comforting video. Wish you and everyone the best ❤.
The patience he has to sit there and film this for 1.5 hours( after editing!! So realistically 2 hrs minimum PLUS EDITING TIME) is genuinely insane and does not go lost on me, we truly appreciate you sir❤
To me this has been really important. Having this male care, feeling protected and not awkward at all. Its comforting and sweet, thank you so much, your vibe is really pretty.
How do you know people need this? Thank you for taking the time to be so kind. I really appreciate the warm expression. Genuinely the best ASMR video I've found to let me feel safe enough to sleep. Doesn't feel like you are alone with the camera. 😊
He has such kind, expressive eyes and a warm smile. His videos really make me feel safe and comforted. I deal with frequent bouts of insomnia often triggered by stress and his videos put me at ease and help me sleep. :) Thank you, kind Sir!
Thank you for being so relaxing, you're one of the only UA-cam channels I come back to for comfort and relaxation. You have made me feel a lot better with my anxiety lately and I appreciate it. Take care mate 🙂
I don't know what we did to deserve your hardwork man but it's so well appreciated 🙏. I'm new to this channel and I gotta say this is the stuff I've been looking so long for. I find a lot of asmr artists don't really know how to talk softly enough and but this is perfect.
There's something really magical in the way that a big, bearded, apparently "rude" man like this 😊 looks at the camera with so sweet eyes... I like him very much ❤ Thanks for sharing your kindness 💋
The pep talk at 30:16 was exactly what I needed this week. Rn there is someone underestimating me. You reminded me that I am strong and can do this. Thank you, my friend.
I got diagnosed with cancer since the beginning of 2022 and spend most of my time in the hospital fighting for my life with only a age of 17 and since then i have a very hard time falling asleep alone because i am scared something will happen to me or i will never wake up again but this video and you makes me feel very safe and takes my fear away. Even though i am 18 now i feel like a little kid wanting to run to my parents bedroom crying because of fear as if i had a nightmare. Your voice helped me calm down and finally feel sleepy again so i hope i will sleep good for the first time since a long time! Thank you so much for this video and your time☺️
I just discovered this today as I'm new to ASMR. Phenomenal. I've been SA several times and I never thought I could feel safe around anyone ever again, until now. You made me feel so safe, along with that sweet smile, that wonderful twinkle in those understanding eyes...that soft, soothing voice. I subbed right away. You've definitely got a lifer sub here with me. Bless you for all you do in helping people - you are a beautiful man, inside and out with such a rare, extraordinary gift. ❤ Much love from MN, USA. 🇺🇸 💗
I've made so much mental health progress in the last few weeks... But tonight everything fell apart around me and I feel so weak and fragile. Thank you for... this. All of it. I cried again, but these were tears of relief and gratitude. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this; I was having a meltdown and crying because of the overwhelming and stressful week I had, and my anxiety was eating me up alive because I also start college in a day, and I’m not ready for it, so I'm grateful I clicked on this video you truly are a gift in how much comfort you radiate, I am now feeling much better because of you, so, thank you, again very much :’)
I just wanted to thank you for doing this video. 5 years ago January my Mother passed. Friday I made the painful decision to pull the life support for my Dad and he passed. Your words are healing, soothing, and diminishes the pain for a moment. Thank you.😪😪😪
This helped me out so much. I'm a freshman, who's going into high school balancing work, cross country, and my studies. My head has been all over the place mixed with the constant fights between me and my family due to my brother leaving for college. Thank you for helping me get to bed tonight!!!
God, for the first time, I have experienced genuine goosebumps that lasted for the entirety of this video. And your accent is deeply noted and deeply loved as well. SUCH an AMAZING experience!
I had a very intense panic attack right before I landed on this video. Your soothing voice and encouraging words helped lull me into a safe sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🥺
I usually don't watch many male asmr artists but I have been having a hard time again lately which has made me feel like a scared little kid who needs their dad again. You gave me that safe comforting presence that I have been needing. I feel a bit stronger again thanks to you.
My childhood dog died a day after this video came out. That was when my mental health began to decline and I was in a devastating state of depression and such. I am currently fourteen. I come back to this video every night to be reminded of my baby. I don’t remember what she looks like anymore though. But thank you so much, my friend. You have helped so many others through hard times. We all love and appreciate you.
I really wish ASMR produced tingles for me, but even though it doesn't, I find this channel in particular to be very useful for comfort and sleep. Additionally, the brushing and tracing help with some mild neurochemical response to touch, which helps my mood and calms me down a great deal, almost instantly. It's really quite remarkable. I've watched a variety of asmrtists and while I like several for different reasons this channel is the one I watch most by far because the content is the most effective at producing calm and sleep. Very appreciative.
This was incredible. I have always listened to female voice ASMR and never found male voice ASMR to be relaxing until now. This is actually like listening to a friend. Thank you so much. 😌
Im out here trying to find background talking to clean to, next thing i know this man and his soulfull eyes have hypnotized me and suddenly im healing from trauma i didnt know i had.
I have issues with men being rude, using me and abusing me. And this video gave me so much relief and release I cried the first part. Also I miss my Dad so much he was my strength and having a male voice saying empowering things helps and some kind of healing there too. God I’m lonely.😂 Thank you for your work.
this kind of affection and compassion (care) is rare and because of that, it's so precious, relaxing and refreshing ! strong, tough manly men who are also kind, gentle, well-mannered and understanding are the best male creatures we can appreciate having around ...
Accidentally found your ASMR video and stuck to it.))) Thank you for the tranquility and comfort. It's like when I was a child, dad lulls me to sleep by telling me a bedtime story.
I love the lighting you used! It’s so warm, makes it easy to fall asleep to. And your movements are so gentle and calming, I’m seriously in love with this video!
Tonight I sat in my car and randomly I open my UA-cam and I find you I find you right when I needed you the most You will always be with me Thank you ❤
OMG the comb!!!! Aaaaaaaah. I love how your eyes reflect the ring light, and they genuinely smile when you smile. Thank you so much for the soothing I so needed.
My girlfriend “what are you watching?”
Me: “a grown man is tucking me in , go back to bed.”
Lmfao
I need this dude to be my co worker
LOL
lmao, me
I love you you proved me 8 years relationship cannot do what you did today
I was attacked recently and having a male presence feel comforting and not threatening was so nice. Thank you for making me feel safe in a time so scary.
Omg I hope your okay now!
I’m so sorry that happened to you… I hope you are ok 💖
Not everyone bad you know. Theres some truly good people ot there
@@liquidlemon3335They know.
Omg im so sorry that happened to you
I separated from my abusive husband recently and am going through the most devastating time of my life. I found this video two months ago, and it brought me to tears. Since then, your videos have become the only thing that can calm my mind and cure my insomnia. You make my loneliness and fear melt away, and I fall asleep smiling. You remind me that gentle men exist. Thank you so much for what you do, dear friend.
Thank you for being so open my dear friend, your strength is clear for all to see. Stay strong Katrina, this is the new start you’ve been searching for. This will always be a place for you to escape to in your time of need for some much needed sleep and relaxation. I hope tonight’s video will help bring you a little peace this evening my friend
so sorry to hear that. i hope that you're in better place with better people surrounding you! wish you the fastest healing❤
@@drawkily thank you so much ❤️ I'm healing and moving forward with my life in a new and healthier direction.
@@katrinajohnson834 didn't expect for a such quick response but I'm so glad that you're fine and moving on
it’s okay💞🫂
As a man myself, it's so so sweet to have another man be so gentle and supportive. I never thought i needed the company of someone who doesn't even know me.
Thank you Mr Gentleman. You really did make me sleep easy knowing you were there.
Same here 👏
Fr bro
It's really nice I agree
Yea gentle giants are awesome haha
Def agree, man, it was very sweet. Feels like a mentor talking to his student. Or father/brother figure. Very comforting, sweet and encouraging. Had hard times, even shed tears. This video is chefs kiss. Sweet video by a good man.
As an SA survivor, videos like these always surprise me. I almost never watch male asmrtist, but ones like you are the exception. My progress has a multitude of causes, and videos like this are a big part of it. Thank you
I hope you're doing well
I’m sorry you had to go through that and I hope your doing better now honey❤️
i hope you're okay now, you're so strong 🫶🏻
I'm so sorry I wish you nothing but the best
i hope you are healing… one day at a time.. it really does damage so much… you will get there… xoxo
For a guy who looks so tough, you're incredibly relaxing and gentle! Felt super chill
Ikr? He seems the sort to dress in comfy sweaters/jumpers and offer up fresh hot tea, cider or whatever else we might need for comfort...but when it's time to throw down the gauntlet, out come the edgy tattoos...that bigger, badass protective brother who's always got your back...but he ends up killing his enemies with kindness. Because they don't understand how he can look so tough but be so loving. He seems like he'd rather be a lover, not a fighter. That's my take on it. 🤷♀️
hes like braum from leauge of legends
@@a.katherinesuetterlin3028 so fucking cringey
The aesthetic of the gentlest man being the strongest, toughest looking one is one of my favourites 😅
@@lulow1291 true tho
I remember when this dude posted his first ASMR video, now look. He puts so much effort and quality into these videos, yet I feel like he's highly unappreciated. Keep up the good work.
It means so much to me that you’ve been here from the start my friend. Thank you
Oh he's very much appreciated. When I'm feeling down I watch him. I've been dealing with a lot of resentment and working hard on letting things go. His calm voice is very reassuring.
I'm so happy I found your ASMR channel. It was literally my first experience with ASMR and I've been hooked ever since. Thank you for this safe space.
I was the 1000th person to like!!!! (this has never happened to me before)
Omg, I found this just at the right time.❤️🩹
You saved my life tonight. Literally. Thank you for telling me I'm stronger than I think. You said every single word I needed to hear. To save me and made me remember my kids. Thank you
Still doing okay? I hope so. Sending prayers your way. ❤
Sending love amber
I'm really trying. I've reached out for help but I put on such a great poker face I don't think anyone takes me seriously. Not even my therapist. So i turn to these face brushing videos to ground me time and time again. But thank you for checking on me. That shows me that I really might matter
@@ambrose1919 Of course you matter, but I get it. A lot of us have been there. Even as moms. Just take it one day at a time and when you're in the thick of things, remember this too shall pass. Most of our problems, no matter how devastating, are temporary. Don't apply a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Hang in there. 🙏 Much love from a fellow struggling mom. 💕
@@ambrose1919you're doing great ❤ and you DO matter! Your kids love you, and you seem like a lovely human being:) you will conquer these challenges in your life, I believe in you
Honestly mate, you're one of the bravest fellas out there
I've scrolled in the comments, seeing some truly heartbreaking things, and you.. you simply answer nicely, doing that has a weigh on someone's heart so I'm just saying, i have a lot of respect for ya and what you've done
It's nice seeing that ppl still value kindness. I'm often not sure but it's the little things...
What a nice thing to say ❤
Yeah, got alot of respect for the guy. Heart breaking stuff. Good man.
It's something about a big strong man being soft and gentle that is soooo soothing and safe feeling. Thank you for existing and making this kind of content!!! ❤
So true!❤
I don’t know if this was intended for a male, but having a genuine caring friend , even if only in a video feels amazing, thank you , thank you very much
I think so many of us feel comfortable with his videos because he is careful to make it open to anyone. 😊
Yeah I feel what you say
I'm glad I'm not alone. We'll get through this, brother.
@@IsaacFoster.. just in case it’s been a while since you’ve heard it - you’re doing great, and i’m so glad you’re here💛
Yeah that's true
Can I just say, this dude has one of the most beautiful, warm and friendly looking smiles I have ever seen on a person. It just makes you feel better instantly. Thanks man, for everything you do. I love all your videos, they always make me feel better after a stressful nights work. Lots of Love form Australia.
I know right he has such a friendly and safe look about him it’s really soothing
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@@bowenmotley2688what
Looks like Charles Bronson Movie. Looks like he could switch on someone at the drop of a hat.
Isn’t it amazing that hearing another human being saying supportive and caring things in a soothing way can shift your mood and make you feel safe? I need to do this more for my friends and family.
I will try to do this more too ❤ Give the love most of us never had, but the love most of us deserve
I’m a guy, but there’s something particularly soothing about a buffed guy being so tranquil. Very wholesome, great quality, instantly subbing bro.
True. It's like watching the Hulk stop his rampage to pet a tiny newborn kitten. It's cathartic.
Grew up with a father that never cared for my emotions or struggles. This made me feel like I wasn’t being neglected- I felt so safe and loved ❤ Thank you for making this!
Most men are that way, my father wasn't very affectionate with me either, but he did help me through my struggles.
They tend to think differently than women, but there are men that are sensitive, and caring just like this man.
God bless this man.
This.. I started crying finally..... i needed this as i experienced the same + abuse
This guy triggers good memories of when my Dad would comfort me during overnight thunderstorms, vs mom who did not want her sleep interrupted by a distressed child
Man. I wish I had a male presence in my life that would just keep me company and give some physical attention without taking it as me being interested because I let them play with my hair or hug me for a while.
Videos like these bring me so much solace. Thank you
me too :((
Man I hope I can find the strength to fix all of my short comings, I hope you find someone that cares for you as well. :)
@@ThePower1037 Thank you, mate. I hope the best for you as well 🫂
me three
Then you’re expecting a fantasy. You don’t demand this kind of intimate attention from a man and then expect him to not respond by being into you. Go to a masseuse or maybe just get a husband who says this shit to you.
It's new years eve and I've been up all night trying not to have a panic attack... for some reason nothing has calmed me down tonight, my insomnia is up the wall and I just can't freaking sleep. I clicked on this and finally felt immediate calm for the first time all day. Thank you so much for this, sir!
I hope you’re okay now my friend and I’m glad I was able to help in some way ☺️
Same. Saved me from a panic attack and helped me a lot. ❤
you have a very comforting "guardian angel" energy. thank you for this video
Thank you my friend
Yes! I agree:)
Having to deal with cancer and then having to go through the emotional roller coaster of my dad saying he was cutting me off (not money wise- just out of his life) before turning around and being like “ haha that was funny- alright good talk”
Your voice calms me down so much. Even though my dad said he was only joking and didn’t mean anything he said- I’m out here fighting my emotions and soul from tearing myself into nothing.
I know this is a really silly comment and maybe I’m just emotional and stressed. But thank you genuinely- I always come to your videos when I’m down and even now- your voice and kindness is helping me calm down from the emotional turmoil rn.
I’m sorry you’re going through this clearly difficult time my friend. But I’m pleased to hear I’m able to provide some level of relaxing escape from time to time. And it’s definitely not a silly comment. It took a great deal of courage to share your feelings like that and I respect it so much. You’ve got this my friend, even if at times it feels otherwise. Never forget how strong you are
You've been through a lot. You're really brave.
i hope youre doing great now ❤
Do share that u are okey pleasee ❤❤❤
As a dude myself, I've always listened to female asmr videos. But damn this is so good. Thank you brother.
Thank you for using some of the precious hours of your life doing this. To me it is genuinely extraordinary. Sharing your own observations and generosity and honesty with us makes me feel pretty humble. I hope you ate well today.
30 seconds in, I realized no one has ever treated me this way and started crying
I'm sorry.your a great person and
You deserved to be loved.I hope you have a wonderful day
you deserve to be loved ❤ Sending love from somewhere in this earth we share
Same happened to me. Know that you're not alone. Everyone deserves the best. I hope you're alright❤❤❤
Omg how pathetic lol
Dude same.
Dark backgrounds asmr videos are a plus for those who wants to relax and sleep. Thank you :) Also love your slow gentle hands movements.
If you have children, they are the luckiest kids alive. If you have a partner, it's the luckiest person alive. Everyone deserves a father and partner like you.
it's genuinely surprising to be comforted by a male that isn't trying to get into my pants or trying to get something out of me. It makes me confused, but this is very healing for me. Thank you for all that you do for these people online
what a strange thing to comment
i relate to your comment
Not a strange thing to comment. Have you ever talked to an actual girl? @@PeanutButterFatBoy
My little kitten was asleep in front of the screen, until I put this on and she's now intensely following and listening for a while when you pet the camera, then dozing off again. She's a rescue, I want to believe she understands what you're saying 💙
Thats so sweet...kittys need soothing too ❤
What’s it’s name
Kitten ASMR
Just at the start of the video I started crying because I recently lost my forever friend bc he committed suicide and I barely been eating, sleeping, or doing anything and this video made me cry and relaxed thank you for helping me today I was on the edge to leaving this world until I came across this video thank you so much❤
I hope you’re doing well
I'm so sorry. I hope you're alright now :(
@@Sabrina-hu1bs
Because their friend meant a lot to them. No matter where it is in the world, people still need people. Give some grace for someone who has suffered a loss. You don't know when you will need grace too.
@@Sabrina-hu1bs
Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.
@@Sabrina-hu1bs
Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.
Omgg the gentle whispers, slow hand movements, gentle brushing, dark background, 1h30 length….
I am so grateful for this video ❤😊🫶😴
I dont think Ive ever had such nourishing words of kindness, encouragment and care spoken to me in my whole life. I didnt know i wanted this in my own personal life so much. Just to be comforted.
I suffer from multiple forms of anxiety including PTSD, General Anxiety, Panic Disorder, and Social Anxiety. I can get up to 15 panic attacks in a single month due to the overwhelming nature of all of these anxiety problems. You’ve made me feel instantly calm which isn’t easy. I can’t thank you enough! 🙏
Bro I be getting like 30 a month.
But mine is no more or less
valid than yours.
Salut to you fellow ptsd anxiety disorder brotheren .
@@Yeettube2777 Oh that sounds horrible! I’m so sorry to hear that!
I'm sorry to hear about your anxiety, ptsd and panic disorder, I suffer from the same things as well as bipolar. If you have access to a psychiatrist, maybe try asking about hydroxyzine and propranolol? They have changed my life and I went from having 2 panic attacks per day (which lasted 45 minutes each and felt like heart attacks and seizures, leaving me unable to walk without my legs locking up) to virtually none. It has been a miracle. I hope you find relief, friend❤️
50 seconds in and I'm already crying. What sorcery is this?! Thank you. I haven't really had the experience of a nurturing, safe male figure in my life so this feels very comforting.
It’s the middle of the night and I’m having anxiety attacks because someone I deeply care about is giving me silent treatment. Your presence is helping me, thank you 🫶🏻
😘
It's very hurtful na
i just lost my dog yesterday in a horrible way, and it’s hard to go to sleep cuz my mind won’t stop picturing it. thanks for this, it’s really comforting
I hope you’re okay my friend
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know that pain all too well. Sending you love and prayers and condolences. Fly high, sweet pup 🌈🩷🙏
So sorry for your loss 😢
This reminds me of the time my, (now husband), boyfriend and I were in a car wreck. I was really shaken up (physically mostly fine). We were at his friend's house and we were both trying to just calm down and feel okay, and crying a little. Then randomly his friend walks in the room quietly with a tiny puppy! We had no idea there was a dog in his house, it was such a sweet thing to do, and a nice distraction ❤
That definitely sounds like something much needed after such an ordeal my friend.
I have never felt more comforted by a man in my entire life, thank you, im literally in tears 😭 ❤️
Wow…after seeing some of these comments from individuals suffering with trauma, it really warms my heart that this man is making a difference to you all! That’s an awesome thing! Keep it up Whispering Gentleman!
I have to say I clicked on this video by accident but for some reason I was like “ eh we’ll see” and I’m so glad I did I’ve watched a few videos now and they are so very soothing and comforting and such beautiful quality.
Thank you so much my friend and welcome to this safe space
This was the same for me! It just goes to show how many toxic microaggresions we as women are subjected regularly.
If I had to live on a desert island for the rest of my life and could pick only one ASMR channel, it would definitely be yours my friend. It’s pure magic, every time it helps me to fall asleep peacefully, your words, gentle movements, soft sounds, length, background, everything is perfect. Thank you so much for creating this real safe space. 💝
I really need a hug, but this is definitely close enough. It’s been a couple years now, but it feels like yesterday that I lost my dad to cancer and I’ve felt so guilty and unmotivated and regretful that I didn’t spend my time with him better, and I’ve had nobody to talk to about this and stuff. This video is exactly what I need. Thank you.
Just lost my cat of 17 yrs today. This was calming and helped me stop crying for the first time in awhile. Thank you
I'm so sorry for you, but just know that your cat is happy because it got to spend it's entire life with an amazing owner like you, my friend :)
I'm so very sorry about your cat.
@@victoriataylor5584 Thank you 🤍
I'm so sorry for your loss, your cat was so lucky to be so loved by you🩷 I hope you are healing now
@@askherhowshesdoeen Thank you so much for this ♥️ It was really needed today
I hate how helpful this is. Im crying, thank you for the comfort.
I do hope you’re well my dear friend
Sir you got me crying when you said (it's ok I am here now). i love your content and it always make me shed some tears on the way you talk to us.❤
I stumbled across a male ASMR artist and never in a million years would I have thought it would be so amazing! I've always preferred female voices but this gentleman is absolutely amazing. The affirmations are wonderful. Will definitely be listening to some more. Happy holidays ❤️
This man right here. This absolute legend.
I've listened to ASMR after ASMR, and this beast of a man, soft as a kitten, can soothe us better than the majority of women who claim they can put you to sleep.
I'm a guy, and this is hella relaxing.
You sir, are a legend.
❤I wish you great luck on your adventures.
For me seeing a non threatening man is rare and im glad youre one of the good ones ❤
Thank you my dear friend
@@WhisperingGentlemanASMR thank you for helping us relax and sleep and for being there when we need it most
I think the lighting is one of my favorite things about your videos!!! Very underrated and very relaxing. It’s perfect because it’s dark for sleep and there’s not much blue light due to the yellower tint. It’s perfect
I’m not sure if you know this, but I believe you have a natural intuition of what people need to hear in order to truly relax after a hard day and that simple gift of intuition provides so much comfort and security. Even if it’s only for a little while. Your kindness shows it’s true and beautiful colors in this video. Thank you for your contribution to the ASMR community. Thank you for your time and commitment to helping others relax and/or sleep. You’re a gift to this world. Never forget that. ❤ also I don’t want you as just a friend. I want to adopt you as family 😂 what would I give to have such a kind and caring sibling?
agreed he is empathic, so a wonderfully in tune to his own feelings and of the heart and mind to share himself in this way. 🤗🙏
Don’t forget, by being open to this goodness, you yourself are a gift to this world. It’s in our nature. Exude your goodness, to yourself and to the people around you who are open as well
I needed to feel safe and protected last night and you gave that to me. All worries vanished. You’re wonderful. Thank you.
I have no words. This is the first video of yours I’ve watched and you’ve given me more peace than a hundred I’ve watched in the past year. You are a truly kind soul.
Thank you for these beautiful messages. I need to hear these.
That’s very kind of you my dear friend, thank you
Been fighting that "fight or flight" for years when it comes to ASMR, as much as I enjoy it ( typing difficulty even now so please pardon, lots of mistakes) this one is very close and comforting. Please do more. On the autism spectrum it's a rare case but I and my niece enjoy these. 💝
When I first clicked on your video I felt triggered by my experiences from previous men that looked like you. But hearing your warm words and soft assurances is seriously reprogramming my brain. Thank you, I needed this!
Awww😢❤
As someone who isn’t comfortable AT ALL around men for trauma reasons. I couldn’t stand male Asmr videos. I felt…I guess too intimidated….too intimate.
He’s honestly the first one I could *tolerate* at first. I kinda forced myself to watch more and I’ve gotten more comfortable. I think it’s the fact that he keeps his voice at a consistent lower whisper. Which I think doesn’t trigger(bad trigger) me as much.
I still can’t keep eye contact for very long but I’m trying.
Edit/PS: I also like that he doesn’t sexualize anything which is something some Asmrtists do. It makes thing feel more platonic and like I have more “control”.
I know what you mean. I'm asexual and the suggestive nature of many (male and female) ASMRtists makes it impossible for me to relax to their voices or RPs. It just feels 'weird' having this stranger appearing to 'flirt' with me. I love most ASMR where a friend appears to take care of me ☺. That's truly a great, comforting feeling. Still less so with male ASMRtists, but our whispering Gentleman is one of a few I can not only 'tolerate', but genuinely relax to.
I wish you a restful sleep and I hope that the pain of your trauma will leave you one day. ❤
I just wanna be loved 😅❤ for real
I don't watch your videos often, but when I do, it's typically after a bad dream. It's very comforting after a nightmare.
Thanks
After finding out I lost another family member and not being told about the service tomorrow until today... Having some kind of calming force helps. Thank you, really.
I am sorry for your loss and hope that you will be surrounded by loved ones. It's so important to not be alone during such times. Sending you much love!
Needed this brother. Having rough times lately. This video made me cry. Thank you for this empathetic, encouraging and comforting video. Wish you and everyone the best ❤.
The patience he has to sit there and film this for 1.5 hours( after editing!! So realistically 2 hrs minimum PLUS EDITING TIME) is genuinely insane and does not go lost on me, we truly appreciate you sir❤
To me this has been really important. Having this male care, feeling protected and not awkward at all. Its comforting and sweet, thank you so much, your vibe is really pretty.
How do you know people need this? Thank you for taking the time to be so kind. I really appreciate the warm expression. Genuinely the best ASMR video I've found to let me feel safe enough to sleep. Doesn't feel like you are alone with the camera. 😊
He has such kind, expressive eyes and a warm smile. His videos really make me feel safe and comforted. I deal with frequent bouts of insomnia often triggered by stress and his videos put me at ease and help me sleep. :) Thank you, kind Sir!
I like how calm he is… I suffer from ptsd and this incredible gentleman can calm me down just like that that’s both amazing and impressive 😊
Me too. These comforting safe feeling held videos allow the constant PTSD inner vibration to settle, at least for the night
This person is soooo kind ❤ I feel so safe. Reminded me of a father comforting a child.
Thanks!
✨𝕋𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕊𝕥𝕒𝕞𝕡𝕤✨
0:02 - 13:40 intro face touching w/ comforting words 💜
13:41 - 14:04 wooden hair comb
14:06 - 18:35 tracing wooden comb along your skin
18:36 - 30:00 very soft brush along your skin
𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯 🌧 ☔
30:11 - 43:54 face touching w/ comforting words 💜 🌧
43:55 - 44:20 wooden hair comb 🌧
44:20 - 48:53 tracing wooden comb along your skin 🌧
48:54 - 1:00:16 very soft brush along your 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘯 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯
𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘤 🎶💤
1:00:23 - 1:14:18 face touching w/ comforting words 💜 💤🎶
1:14:18- 1:14:36 wooden hair comb 💤 🎶
1:14:37 - 1:19:06 tracing wooden comb along your skin 💤 🎶
1:19:07 - 1:30:34 Outro very soft brush along your skin 💤 🎶
𝙼𝚊𝚢 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚜𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚍𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚖𝚜, 𝙶𝚘𝚘𝚍 𝙽𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢𝚘𝚗𝚎 💜✨🙏🥰💤
Your hardest worker known to earth forget the rock forget the brown ex marine
Thank you. Good night to you as well. 🧸🌛🌠
It’s very rare a man makes me feel safe and loved. So thank you! this is so healing ❤
I’m so pleased I do my friend
Thank you for being so relaxing, you're one of the only UA-cam channels I come back to for comfort and relaxation. You have made me feel a lot better with my anxiety lately and I appreciate it. Take care mate 🙂
I don't know what we did to deserve your hardwork man but it's so well appreciated 🙏. I'm new to this channel and I gotta say this is the stuff I've been looking so long for. I find a lot of asmr artists don't really know how to talk softly enough and but this is perfect.
Suffering from depressions I found your video today. It brought me to tears because it deeply touched me inside. Thank you so much 💐
There's something really magical in the way that a big, bearded, apparently "rude" man like this 😊 looks at the camera with so sweet eyes... I like him very much ❤ Thanks for sharing your kindness 💋
The pep talk at 30:16 was exactly what I needed this week. Rn there is someone underestimating me. You reminded me that I am strong and can do this. Thank you, my friend.
I got diagnosed with cancer since the beginning of 2022 and spend most of my time in the hospital fighting for my life with only a age of 17 and since then i have a very hard time falling asleep alone because i am scared something will happen to me or i will never wake up again but this video and you makes me feel very safe and takes my fear away. Even though i am 18 now i feel like a little kid wanting to run to my parents bedroom crying because of fear as if i had a nightmare. Your voice helped me calm down and finally feel sleepy again so i hope i will sleep good for the first time since a long time! Thank you so much for this video and your time☺️
Everything will be fine my love! 🥺 I love you and proud of you my warrior!💝
Omg dark backgrounds are so under appreciated and under used in the ASMR community. 💙💙💙 love this!
I just discovered this today as I'm new to ASMR. Phenomenal. I've been SA several times and I never thought I could feel safe around anyone ever again, until now. You made me feel so safe, along with that sweet smile, that wonderful twinkle in those understanding eyes...that soft, soothing voice. I subbed right away. You've definitely got a lifer sub here with me. Bless you for all you do in helping people - you are a beautiful man, inside and out with such a rare, extraordinary gift. ❤ Much love from MN, USA. 🇺🇸 💗
I've made so much mental health progress in the last few weeks... But tonight everything fell apart around me and I feel so weak and fragile. Thank you for... this. All of it. I cried again, but these were tears of relief and gratitude. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this; I was having a meltdown and crying because of the overwhelming and stressful week I had, and my anxiety was eating me up alive because I also start college in a day, and I’m not ready for it, so I'm grateful I clicked on this video you truly are a gift in how much comfort you radiate, I am now feeling much better because of you, so, thank you, again very much :’)
I just wanted to thank you for doing this video. 5 years ago January my Mother passed. Friday I made the painful decision to pull the life support for my Dad and he passed. Your words are healing, soothing, and diminishes the pain for a moment. Thank you.😪😪😪
I absolutely ❤️❤️❤️ the rain shower in the background …together with his whispers omg it’s just a perfect match
This helped me out so much. I'm a freshman, who's going into high school balancing work, cross country, and my studies. My head has been all over the place mixed with the constant fights between me and my family due to my brother leaving for college. Thank you for helping me get to bed tonight!!!
God, for the first time, I have experienced genuine goosebumps that lasted for the entirety of this video. And your accent is deeply noted and deeply loved as well. SUCH an AMAZING experience!
I had a very intense panic attack right before I landed on this video. Your soothing voice and encouraging words helped lull me into a safe sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🥺
Thank you for the slow gentle movements. So relaxing. (None of the mouth clicking which I find irritating.)
yeah me too i don't like most the asmrist do
Thank you for this. I, too, hate the clicking and mouth noises. I thought I was the only one bc so many ASMR artists do it.
I usually don't watch many male asmr artists but I have been having a hard time again lately which has made me feel like a scared little kid who needs their dad again. You gave me that safe comforting presence that I have been needing. I feel a bit stronger again thanks to you.
this is peak asmr right here. he's like a genuine friend. other asmrtists can't do what you can. keep up the good work!
My childhood dog died a day after this video came out. That was when my mental health began to decline and I was in a devastating state of depression and such. I am currently fourteen. I come back to this video every night to be reminded of my baby. I don’t remember what she looks like anymore though. But thank you so much, my friend. You have helped so many others through hard times. We all love and appreciate you.
Im sorry for your loss, she will wait for you patiently until you one day meet again ❤
I really wish ASMR produced tingles for me, but even though it doesn't, I find this channel in particular to be very useful for comfort and sleep. Additionally, the brushing and tracing help with some mild neurochemical response to touch, which helps my mood and calms me down a great deal, almost instantly. It's really quite remarkable. I've watched a variety of asmrtists and while I like several for different reasons this channel is the one I watch most by far because the content is the most effective at producing calm and sleep. Very appreciative.
I saw you in the thumbnail and was like: "He looks like a really good friend, I should watch this." I was not wrong.
I lost my dad recently so being comforted by a male presence is nice.
Aw I'm so sorry to hear that. I know how that feels.
I was assaulted, and you helped me feel better....I'm healing
This was incredible. I have always listened to female voice ASMR and never found male voice ASMR to be relaxing until now. This is actually like listening to a friend. Thank you so much. 😌
Im out here trying to find background talking to clean to, next thing i know this man and his soulfull eyes have hypnotized me and suddenly im healing from trauma i didnt know i had.
I love how when you brush your hand it makes a sound effect it's so nice!
I have issues with men being rude, using me and abusing me. And this video gave me so much relief and release I cried the first part. Also I miss my Dad so much he was my strength and having a male voice saying empowering things helps and some kind of healing there too. God I’m lonely.😂 Thank you for your work.
this kind of affection and compassion (care) is rare and because of that, it's so precious, relaxing and refreshing ! strong, tough manly men who are also kind, gentle, well-mannered and understanding are the best male creatures we can appreciate having around ...
Accidentally found your ASMR video and stuck to it.))) Thank you for the tranquility and comfort. It's like when I was a child, dad lulls me to sleep by telling me a bedtime story.
Stumbled across this and started sobbing 3 mins in from how comforting you are straight off the bat
Blank space for anyone who needs it!
Everyone get some rest, sweet dreams ❤
I didn't know I need it, thank you
Wait this is so helpful, ty
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Oh, thank you so much! ❤️
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I love the lighting you used! It’s so warm, makes it easy to fall asleep to. And your movements are so gentle and calming, I’m seriously in love with this video!
Tonight I sat in my car and randomly I open my UA-cam and I find you
I find you right when I needed you the most
You will always be with me
Thank you ❤
OMG the comb!!!! Aaaaaaaah.
I love how your eyes reflect the ring light, and they genuinely smile when you smile. Thank you so much for the soothing I so needed.