What's your best and worst quality? (Strangers Answer)
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
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My best quality: Finding beauty and love in everyone i see
My worst quality: Not being able to do it for myself
Than look at yourself as someone else,,
PS: we only see in people what we have inside of us 😉
When people said best and worst were the same I feel like what's makes it a bad quality isn't them it's people that take advantage of their good sides
Saradactal Mama yes you re right (for most of them), i was trying to understand why
Damn, you're totally right
You are right
Saradactal Mama well for those that said that their best quality was their niceness but their worst was their niceness i think that is valid but they didn’t phrase it well- the weak spot is their lack of assertiveness. they can’t stand up for themselves - that’s a negative quality
Mine are the same as one og the men: honesty. My honesty is both what people love about me, especially when they really know me but also it is my worst, because sometimes honesty is not what is needed in the situation I am in.
Moral of the story: your worst quality can also be your greatest gift.
Man...there's something ethereal about your videos
i agree,i think it might be her spirit ..this morning i was about to make a bad choice that would disrupt my goals and mental space ,but then i came on youtube i started watching her videos..and now i feel light and ..beautiful
I agree! I just found this channel and it’s by far my favorite
Nicholas right about made me cry, his eyes had so much emotion in them! It broke my heart when he said he was lonely.
Best quality: "My heart" (me: wow, what a great answer, nice guy...) Worst quality: "I can be manipulative" (me: oh...) haha
tbh i’m really proud of that dude for admitting that. that takes a bunch of balls to recognize that, and work to change it
🤣 same thought process here
i thought it was really brave to say that out loud to a stranger. people with manipulative features are not necessarily mean or narcissist or whatever stereotype exists. It's just an insecure and incomplete trait or defense mechanism. The fact that he recognizes it after saying: my heart, probably shows he feels guilty about it and is not proud at all about it.
@@LeonorCorteRealll I agree. Being unkind doesn't mean you don't have a good heart.
He was the most truthful one on this vid
have you noticed how people had to take longer to answer their best quality whereas they were A lot quicker to name their 'bad' quality
yes because unfortunately we tend to view ourselves in a negative way and are more able to point our bad parts than to actually see the good in ourselves
I love how you added the guys' song in the end. Awesome.
That last guy really broke my heart when he said he was lonely.
"I have the sun inside" ... phew, that really caught me off-guard. Beautiful.
My best quality: seeing the good in every person I meet
Worst quality: confidence in myself, I never think I’m good enough for anything
Wow same for me...I feel like I’m a movie camera sometimes and whenever it’s put on me I just wanna turn it back around.
Me too
Exactly what I would've answered... thank u for sharing
Me too, just think though; it takes a positive and loving person to be able to see the good in all people, therefore you are capable of being more than enough for anything.
Same as me wow
Best: I genuinely care for others, I like learning and I'm ok with being vulnerable.
Worst: "I'm not good enough" complex, almost no discipline
Best quality: I'm super genuine and honest.
Worst quality: I can't handle conflict of any kind. I also get very defensive easily.
My best quality: I’m very driven - I know what I want in life and I go for it.
My worst quality - procrastination on every day life tasks. Like not the big things. Just the other things that still need to get done but instead I just wanna lay in bed and watch Netflix or do other things to not do what I need to get done lol
I feel you.
Exactly. I guess you can be driven to reach a goal, and yet take the journey slowly. Everyone struggles.
This is me
I can TOTALLY relate
Couldn't even finish the video, had to comment. 5:19 minutes in and wow... its impressive to see what your project brings out on people.
I was surprised by the honesty of the guy at 5:19... that's not something a lot of people would admit to.
Victoria Mancini made me happy. I’ve just gotten out of a relationship where I’ve been controlling and a bit manipulative and I’m happy to see another man be able to admit his wrongs and focus on fixing it. I admitted it to my ex with an apology and my own mother. Couldn’t let my ex take all the blame.
You couldn’t finish a 9 minute and 36 second video? How do you watch TV shows or movies? 😂
When surrounded by social media and all perfect Instagram and Facebook profiles of people, your videos helps to understand how people are so different and have something unique to their personality. You feel relieved that okay everyone is struggling with something and everyone is trying to improve.
This is my thought after watching a lot of your videos.
best quality: extremely sensitive and able to nurture others bc of it worst quality: extremely sensitive and have difficult emotions because if it
I commented the same thing with different words. It is called being highly sensitive. You should look it up. It makes accepting yourself a whole lot easier.
My best quality: I try as much as possible to be a good person and do good things.
Worst quality: I don't validate people enough. I need to validate people to let them know they're important and they matter in my life. Also I don't put myself out there enough. I stay within my comfort zone
I rlly felt that
But it's not always bad to stay within comfort zone that means ur trying to protect yourself n u care abt urself that's a good thing
8:08 That person, you melt my heart, I wish I can give you a hug.
Best quality: very observant/sensitive, worst quality: thinking too much
Best quality: I will happily put anyone else's needs before my own, even when they don't deserve it. I love unconditionally.
Worst quality: I'm socially inept, and I can't understand the rhythm of people. And that has severely hindered my ability to make lasting relationships.
Hey there, sending lots of love your way
It's as important to receive as it is too give.
If you're always putting people before you that becomes a unhealthy balance and people will take advantage of you. Yes, care for a very few people but the rest, find a win/win.
Best: I think I'm good at maths.
Worst: Speaking/ Talking to people.
Thank you for your videos!
Have a nice day, everybody!
best: I’m a hopeless romantic, I have so much love to give for someone I haven’t met yet.
worst: i think about my fear of death too much. I hate my negative thoughts. I want to think positive more.
Best and worse quality seems to be the opposite sides of the same coin.
My best quality is that I am a very kind and compassionate to everyone. I'd give my shirt off my back for anyone in need. My worst quality is that I care too much about others who don't care as much for me. I care about pleasing others too much that I don't stop to take care of my needs and to please myself/make myself happy. I sacrifice my happiness for others.
I’m good at making people laugh. IM BAD AR HIKING. I LAUGHED HAHAH🤣
Best -
caring , compassionate , trustworthy
Worse: procrastination, sometimes bad time management
Yes! I've always felt our biggest strength is also are greatest weakness. When we're healthy we operate within strength, when we're unhealthy, tired, stressed we move into weakness.
My best quality- I’m really supportive and loving
My worst quality- I’m a huge procrastinator, it’s really gotten bad, I do every single thing last minute
And somehow every normal task becomes too big to complete! I know the feeling...
Best quality : I'm compassionate and loving most times, driven for God
Worst: overthink and judge myself too hard
Same!!
these people are so beautiful!!
I love those really thoughtful and utterly honest answers, like that guy that said his best is his heart and that his worst is he can be manipulative.
If you have a suggestion for a deep/interesting question I should ask strangers please direct message me on Instagram: @thor.aya (more likely to see it there) :]
reason to life
What’s your number one motivator in life and why?
What life changing decision would you haved changed if you had the chance to do so
How does fear affect the way you live your life.
What is what thing on your bucket list?
The 1st lady I can easily say her smile!! Her smile made me smile and it brightened up my day. :-)
Best : I don't care about other opinions
Worst : I bear grudges and can't forget the bad memories
About bearing grudges and holding onto unhelpful parts of your past, I know that feeling. Having a great memory combined with an unforgiving heart is what makes things hard. May the Lord eternally bless you and soften your heart so that it’s full of His forgiveness toward His children:)
My best quality: I always try my best to be a good person and help people try to be the best version of themselves.
My worst quality: I'm a very unstable person, I have anxiety and depression and I don't take enough care of myself, I sleep most of the day and barely eat anything. I help others but not myself.
Crazy how we can talk so easily about what’s bad or worst about us but then have a hard time seeing the good in us. A little reminder to whoever’s reading this in 2020 to be a little kinder to ourselves and let’s also try to get to know ourselves even more. Not just the bad parts but also the good ones. Because I know by doing that, our lives could drastically change.
I think it's fascinating to see how many people say, without hesitation, their best and worst qualities are the same. It drives home that at among our values at our core we have something that drives us above all else: empathy, family, freedom, peace, righteousness, passion, there's many possibilities
I love that you include homeless people in your videos. I do community outreach in my city. Makes me what to take a camera out there and interview them!
Hey Thoraya! This is a great series. It's really nice that you put one of the stranger's channel and music here (Tre Aces). Keep spreading positivity!! ❤
My best quality: I’m a kind, helpful person
Worst quality: I give the wrong people second chances and I’m too kind to them
My best quality:
*My relationship with the Universe*
My worst quality:
*My relationship with my Ego*
My best quality is: I never get tired of helping others
My worst quality is: i always get angry so quickly
best: im caring
worst: feeling like im not good enough
the last one... 🙁
Impressive how you choose your audience....all those people have a bright of kindness in their eyes mixed with sadness and a little lost ... Peace and Love for all ❤🌝
Best: Caring and Understanding
Worst; Lack of trust in everyone/ shyness
kinda me
Love it when people have the same answer for both questions
I love how at 1:05 the guy answered for the lady. That was cute
I think my best quality is my extreme persistence. I have an extremely hard time giving up on things when I'm committed to doing them, which can backfire at times but I think generally makes me a hard worker (which I've always aspired to be). My worst is the fact that I overthink every aspect of my life, from how I'm going to write a paper for class to how I'm going to ask for coffee in the drive-thru. That can definitely make things that are supposed to be easy and mindless very difficult for me to do. :-P But I went to therapy for it, so it definitely doesn't control my life nearly as much as it did a couple of years ago. So overall, I think I'm a pretty well-rounded person! I have flaws, but who doesn't?
loved this!!! and how awesome that you used that guy's music at the end :)
best: extremely intuitive and artistic
worst: perfectionist and don't finish projects due to fear of failure.
So happy you used Tre’s music, huge respect to you. He sounds amazing. Thank you.
I love it how if a person can't decide which qualities are their best or worse they ask their loved ones to answer 🤣
Best- I listen to ppl and try my best to help them
Worst-letting ppl down, not making the right decision even know I know I’m going to regret it
Best- very empathetic, driven to succeed
Worst- don’t know how to be there for others, pessimistic, can’t accept failure
I cry at some point in EVERY one of your videos....and I always leave feeling fuller because most of the tears are from recognition in hearing things - that I am,...and WE all are. I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!!!!!! I can not wait for your films in the future....stick to humankindness my Love and you can only go up (it's going to happen Thoraya, you have a gift of capturing true, human energy we all experience at some point in life - it's special. Most of our problems are from lack of communication - this type of dialogue takes most judgement away and every person who speaks, everyone can relate to in a sense. AHHHH!! This is why the Internet is cool. THANK YOU!!! Love and Light to you Beautiful!
Thoraya:
Stranger: _Let's be original: I'm gonna say best and worst are the same_
I think it's more because those people are put on the spot. It's hard thinking about something that deep and coming up with the perfect answer right away!
It’s less about being put on the spot and more about how there’s two sides to the same coin.
Someone’s best quality is persistence.
It’s their best quality because it gets them far. On the flip side, it’s their worst because maybe they don’t know when it’s time to stop.
When the guy at 6:02 said "i think i need to be perfect" as his worst quality, i felt that.
I just love how theres no right or wrong answer ...yet some struggle w the good quality..and those people come up w the bad ones quickly..its so sad how quickly we can put ourselves down...😥
Walking down the mountain is easier than walking up the mountain..
I loved how so many people said the same thing for worst and best quality!! 😍 because I would have said the exact same thing as my best/worst qualities..
My best and the worst quality are the same. Im highly sensitive which makes me people's person. If someone is not feeling good I am the first to notice and take actions, even if they have not even worded it out to everyone. At the same time, I'm easy to offend and many friendships have been broken because of me noticing stuff that for every other person is normal. My trust is something that is easily broken by people changing opinions from one-on-one conversation to different setting. Specially opinions that might not be popular and in the different settings people not defending me.
Thank you for allowing a new window into the beautiful diversity of what humanity truly is! xoxo ❤️
Best quality: Being intelligent and emotionally intelligent. Knowing who I am and what I want, but not necessarily knowing how to go about accomplishing the goal. Knowing other people who are close to me and knowing when people are off, being strange or lying..
Worst quality: Being pessimistic. Although it's a lot better now than before. I never thought of it as pessimism though. I thought of it as being a realist. But it also affected my confidence and self esteem..
That first woman was beautiful u can tell she never been asked that question before!
Best Quality: my wisdom & I’m very bubbly
Worst: I don’t always trust myself & I always want to see the best in people and continue to even after they’ve shown me other wise and I hurt myself in the process but I know better and I’m working on taking responsibility for the people I keep in my life.
Best: I can see all sides of the story
Worst: I can never truly hate anyone because when i understand them fully I understand why they are what they are.
It's so interesting seeing people who know with absolute certainty their best and worst qualities. Does that mean that it's something they think about often, or that they're constantly working on/battling it?
Everytime I am interested for something I am 100% in what makes it really easy to be creative and do what I love but sometimes I can be really disrespectfull or mean to people and I kind of care only about my own goals...
Best: Dedication
Worst: Stubbornness and perfectionism
Best quality: I don't know
Worst quality: I don't think much of myself. I look down on myself a lot.
Thoraya actually used that dudes music at the ending ❤
best quality: i am able to love people fully, and to be a beacon of love and kindness
worst quality: i don’t ever follow ideas through , and i am very stubborn
Seams like the polarities are our greatest teachers ... our road is to get to that middle ground ☯️✊💜
3:30 stubborn.....no hesitation. adorable
7:04 that guy is higher than a kite
For some reason, your videos make me feel light and good... like full of confidence to take on a new day y’know. Very beautiful video and people ofc, I hope you keep posting stuff like this ❤️
That was so cool that you used Tre's music!!
*I LOVE to see their faces close* 🎥
No way you feel like you don't know how be with people: you are the sweetest person, Thoraya. and convey a wonderful interior richness. Just be yourself: people will love you ^.^
My best: Being able to intuitively tune into others.
My worst: I get angry with people when they do stupid things which hurt me.
I wish people from all over the world could answer this question. Nowadays over a Zoom Call or a IG Live Stream and random people quickly come with a videocall on screen and thousands of people could watch and experience their emotions live. For this spontaneous I don't have enough followers.
Or when traveling is possible you make a compilation of different travels or just from one place you visited :)
Worst quality: I'm pretty aggressive 🙁(I'm learning to try and calm down and understand everything about the situation(like someone did something that hurts me ....) before judging and getting angry cz not everything that u see and hear is true. Sometimes there are hidden things that explain why they did this or that and they turn out to be innocent).
Good quality: I always encourage someone and tell them to be themself and that they can do it. I'm open and I think everyone is free to do and be whatever they want and I encourage them on that and don't judge.
Your best quality is a link to your life purpose. It's important to know this.
I am a credulous person.
"Credulity is perhaps a weakness, almost inseperable from imenently truthful characters" - Tuckerman
my best quality: i am a very caring and loving person
my worst quality: i am too caring and i love too hard
Its funny how were slow to say our best quality but very quick to point out our worst
my best quality:
-my ability to accept people as they are
my worst quality
-I take on too much than I think I can take
Paradox duality reality we’re surly in ... not an easy game ... It’s all about achieving balance ☯️
Best: being understanding, able to put myself inothers people's shoes
Worst: being so understanding and wanting peace that I become passive.
My best quality is... my ability to try to be the best person I can be and how to improve every single day. My worst quality is... I can be so sensitive to other people and my surroundings, I often pick up other people's moods and not be myself.
My best quality: Iam very open, I feel a strong social responsibility and I can think abstract
My worst qualities: iam to hard with myself and sometimes my organization and time management
AND YOU'RE HELPING PEOPLE WITH SOCIAL DREAMS BY PASSING THE TORCH! Funny, we see good content from a certain spirit and want to go deeper into the one that special spirit touches!!!!
0:58 "my worst quality is probably being indecisive but I don't know what my best quality is" lol well at least we know she's telling the truth about her worst quality
Best: Honesty. Worst: Depression.
6:36 I relate to him so hard
My Best Quality: My desire to see others find fulfillment in the Lord; Empathy and compassion.
My Worst Quality: Letting past mistakes and/or heartaches hold me back; holding on to things LONG after it’s time to let them go.
I'm too forgiving is best, worst is I allow myself to get used too much.
My best quality: empathic and generous
Worst quality: I can't confront anyone about them hurting me or disregarding me. (I can't stand up for myself ).
Perfection is self-abuse at the highest order
The more you let go, the higher you rise
Done is better than perfection
Relatedly: people get together for one set of reasons, and break up for the same set of reason. (At first: "He's so funny!" Later:"He never takes anything seriously.")