The Deepest Question I've Asked...
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
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This question was suggested to me by @byseyed on instagram!
The guy that said that he wasn't as happy as he wanted to be.. and when she asked why, he said "I don't know" .. that one hit me hard.
Same. 😞
Same oh my god
Took the words straight outta my mind. Same. 😞
That one hit me hard but I know why I'm not as happy as I want to be...
I felt it too.
i'm not sure if this is the idea, but the close up in their faces make me realize how everyone is beatiful (sorry for the english, i'm from Brazil)
Your english is great!! I thought the same thing, looking at their eyes
I agree!
I agree too!
lucas vinicius totally agree!!
lucas vinicius that’s so sweet (,:
you should do the proud version of this!
Iris Hickson ooo ya I agree!!
It seems that the more you grow the unhappier you get and the more we dislike ourselves.
I think it's bc we become more self aware
I think it's because the older we are and the longer we live we tend to want to change who we are so we can be accepted.
And the more that we change from who we really are the more we subconsciously hate where we are at.
@@kyletucker6508 Can I get a poster with this sentence? OwO
I don't agree for me is the opposite
Davide Castagno I agree that for some people it’s the opposite. I’m happy for you!
My childhood self would've been very disappointed that I'm still full of anxiety and fears. Sorry self, but I'm trying.
Inlovewith Alex i dont think your inner child would be so hard on you... its the only one who truely knows you. Maybe it would hug you and tell you that its proud of you because of all the things you have been goin through and that you are stronger than you think. ♡
That’s exactly what I thought. I’ve struggled with anxiety and severe perfectionism since I was very little so I have extremely low self-esteem and I think my childhood self would be disappointed that it hasn’t gotten any better
Ligeia D.Aurevilly that’s exactly how I feel all the time, and has led to many breakdowns (panic attacks) due to a loss of control, helplessness or feeling of failure so I’m starting counselling to try to manage it.
Ligeia D.Aurevilly update, I started anxiety meds and I’ve been so much happier and less anxious lately. I haven’t had any anxiety attacks since and although I’m still a perfectionist, it doesn’t come with the overwhelming sense of anxiety to be perfect, but just my desire to do well.
I feel this on a real level, good luck to both of us 😊
I am deaf, so it would be great if you would add subtitles! : )
I love this video!
you can add subtitles urself by pressing the three dots in the corner of the video and clicking captions!
This caption warms my heart
@@eshalmunj4779 they're not alway accurate :((
As someone else said, you can have subtitles on 99% of all UA-cam videos. I do captioning work and you may not realize it, but it really takes A LOT of time and effort. It would be almost impossible for one creator to subtitle each of their own videos 😊
The auto captions are rarely even 90% accurate. It’s very easy for the creators to go in and fix the auto captions to make them correct and would actually make their video more popular in UA-cam’s algorithm. The auto captions honestly suck because they make things so confusing.
7:19 "i ended up following someone else's dream and not mine... but my child self would be happy that im trying to get back to what i was doing" very moving.
"So you are a musician?" "Yea." "Well that helps people too." - Yes. Absolutely.
Childhood self would be disappointed to hear that my mom wouldn’t be alive to see all the things that I accomplished and she only got to see the the things that broke her heart
I have no words man ,but I feel the same. My dad passed on 3 years ago and I never got the chance to tell him how much I loved him
You made me cry! literally.
My heart hurts for you!!! I wish you all the best and may God really bless you!
Diana B thank you, but do not feel sorry me, my father met a wonderful woman and together brought in a beautiful baby girl who I love very much and want nothing more than to be a role model to her. Life can do terrible things but I truly believe everything happens for a reason
♡♡♡
One of my favorite episodes!... My child self would be disappointed that I've forgotten a lot of my childhood memories :(
Thank you for sharing
same. i had alot of really bad childhood trauma and because of that, my brain has just blocked everything out. im sure i had good memories too but i cant remember them sadly
Same, I only remember a few memories from my childhood. My earliest memory is my 4th birthday party lol
Toxic Draws I don’t even remember my 10th birthday and I am 16
I’m so sorry.
I'm extremely happy for those few who said their child self wouldn't be disappointed. I hope they've realized either on their own or through this exercise how truly blessed they are. For those of us who aren't happy with where we are right now, it's nice to see we are not alone. Hopefully we can lift each other up and realize our happiness together.
Well put! I definitely agree with that- I hope that people take this as an uplifting video :]
MystehMonz beautiful comment! We all need more positive vibes!
I'm not happy with where I am at this moment and I am very critical, but this video made me realize that my childhood self would be amazed! I don't know if she could even believe what she saw and what a great, happy person came out of it with so little fears. She would be proud of me! I have tears in my eyes since rhis realization.
I wanted to cry when that guy said he couldn't move. Also when the guy said he's not happy because life's tough
Yeah life it’s so tough and no one cares 💔
it's sad to see so many people regret not following their dreams and pursuing a career they always wanted to have. as someone who's currently in uni working towards a degree i never wanted to have in the first place i can strongly relate
I am doing exactly what I always wanted to do.. And still I am not happy..
My child self would be disappointed that I am not moving toward my goals because I am unsure myself and am the only one who doesnt beleive in me.
Gema Rodríguez You can do this. You are loved & so special.
“Don’t compare your life to others. There’s no comparison between the sun & the moon, they shine when it’s their time.”
You are where you need to be right now. Relax. Be kind & treat yourself.
You will do great things.
@@alexkessler2022 You don't know the impact of those kind words. I read those words and it brings a tear to my eye. Your words are kind, uplifting, and can bring confidence.
There needs to be more people like you in the world we live in.
Raeyne Jaymeson Please watch this video. It made me realize I’m not alone.
“The shell is necessary sometimes. When you come out of the shell, it will be so good to see you.” ua-cam.com/video/elILetNPyr4/v-deo.html
I felt that :(
My childhood self would be disappointed that I didn’t leave him the first time he hit me.
And sent me down a long road of depression, anxiety, self-loathing.
She would be sad that I can’t love myself.
Bc of that same reason I deal with anxiety..
I hope you get better ❤️
So long as you have learnt from your mistakes. I hope that you can love yourself someday, because I'm sure that you are loved by others. I hope that you will someday realise how amazing you are.
Abusive relationships wouldn't be what they are if leaving was so easy. Been there ♡ Life gets better!
I have been there my self and i know the struggle all too well. it destroyed me as a person and left me in a deep dark pit for too many years. Don't let anyone steal your ŘÄīÑßŐ₩ ♡ÜŰ ⚀⚁⚂⚃⚄⚅💟 i hope you find the strength & courage within your self to walk away from negative relationships.And anything else that may be holding you back. It will be hard ; but trust yourself enough to know there are far better things ahead than the garbage you leave behind ,
Many blessings 👻💌💕
Ah I can't stop staring at their teeth lol
Lillian C lmao
Lillian C yeah me too!
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same.... everytime when I talk to people or watch people talking I stare at teeth..
i’ve been binging these videos and i’m having the same exact issue
"I smoke a lot" yea I can hear that omg
I can smell it 😂😂😂
3:46 his eyes broke my heart
that's what happens when a person loses hope and it's a scary thing to see especially in the mirror...
jenna grace yeah, definitely :/
He seemed so sad..want to give him a hug
My childhood self would be disappointed that I now think I might have depression and that I'm so scared of love when that was all I wanted when I was young
I felt exactly like you a few months ago but I decided to be happy. It does take to make tough decisions about what you are currently doing (study or job) and people around your as your family and friends. Keep a positive mind, love and take care of yourself, and of course keep positive people around youu. All I wanted to tell you is that you are the one who decide to be happy. So be true to yourself, love yourself and live the life of your dream girl. Per example I sing all day long even if my singing skills are not so good lol and smiling more often healed my mind 🤷♀️ and I am studying what I love, keeping some nice friends close to me. There are always tough moments but with a smile and a positive mind it do not last for long ;)
@@chezroro8499
Thanks, that was really inspirational, and I'll try to be more positive and do the things you said ✌️
I feel you...
@SingTalkLaughLi -Lize Futcher- you are completely adorable and you put out such an effervescent, beautiful energy when you are singing. i feel like you will really feel comfortable around who is gonna supposed be in your life.. you already have all the raw material to draw into your world all that good energy so it's in a way a matter of being patient. and the people who make you feel weird and not enough and uncomfortable... send them along. life is too short. i wish you lived around the corner, i would buy you a bigole frappe and give you a hug right now. keep shining.
This one hit me. I just wanted to be loved but it’s looking like it won’t happen.
I loved what you said to the man who wanted to be a firefighter when he was young.
“You’re a musician? You help people too.”
You have such a strong connection with people. That high intellectual vibe you carry is rare. You can make complete strangers feel comfortable enough to open up to you and in front of a camera. 👏
My childhood self would be so proud. No negative thing at all, I’m 100% better than I was so... My childhood self would be really proud.
You can be sooo proud of your self👏👏👏
That I didn't get a degree. My intelligence defined me as a child. It became less and less important through the years.
Big feels
your iq doesn’t define you
Uh, good one, i wish i could have done better in college, my child self would be dissapointed
retweet
Whoa that hit me
That I let a man beat me for years. As a child, I always assumed that I would be stronger than that, and that it would never happen to me. Turns out it did. I'm out of this sick relationship now, and although my younger self would be ashamed of me for letting it happen, she would be pretty proud to see me right now, and proud of the strengh it took to get out of it.
So glad you can recognize that for yourself 💕 hoping healthy relationships come your way
my childhood self would be disappointed that i don’t love myself like i used to.
cheshire styles 😓
This question made me cry
me too...
That I’m not as confident anymore and that I have anxiety and I’m very socially awkward. My dad keeps comparing me to when I was younger and it makes me feel like shit because I can’t control it 🤷♀️
Tessa Wyse same girl. I had really bad socially anxiety in middle school and for some of hs but now I’m decently socially. You will improve as you age and expose yourself more to social settings.
Same my social anxiety literaLLy controls my life it’s so bad but It’s very hard to control
SAME HERE
I struggle with all of those things and my body image
Idk if this is of interest for anybody, anyways, I've always been socially awkward and at times anxious but I now work as a horse groom and it is basically my job to do better with horses than people. I guess I could do better socially if I really wanted to but I've just decided I don't like most humans THAT much anyways. I think what I'm trying to say is, if you want to work on it then do that, but don't pressure yourself if you're not that kind of person anyways. You could be very, very successful just the way you are
Do I have a job interview tomorrow morning? Yes.
Am I up till 3 watching these videos? Also yes
Will Arthur lol did you get the job?
@@Josifer4GAppFire Yes! LOL
How's the job going buddy?
I hope you got promoted now after 1yr. 🤞😇♥️
@@ryleygaron6715 Great!
This lady with those bubbles..I totally get it, because my fear is when I am old I could not act young as I am in my heart. We often forget that older people are the same in their mind, heart and they were once young too! And I trully think that little things makes us happy the most and we should really keep inner child in us. But as you get older people think you area bit crazy if you want to do things as you were young, but it is actually not, because it is in you and you are still you even tho your skin is more wrinkled and your feet are slower... we often start doing what is socially acceptable and it is so weird that usualy socially acceptable things are the ones that makes us unhappy ans people still judge, yet it is the one thing that makes us happy the most...if that makes sense.
@Minnie Mouse ♥️
Just do it 😉
@@MyNameIsJef I will 100%.
My childhood self would be disappointed in me that i still let others take advantage of me. Also that i don’t have enough money to get my mom all that she desires because she deserves everything.
This exact thing is what i was thinking watching this video. same here!!
Your comment made me tear up ✌
If you want to give your mother everything a mother wants, tell her how much you love her, and that you are glad for who she is and what you like about her as a mother.
My childself would be disappointed because I'm a lonely person and I don't do a lot of things, just sitting home alone
shit... im lonely as fuck too. my child self would be pretty bummed if he knew how much worse my anxiety got because of trusting people to much... id help you get out of the house though.
Random, but I'm sending you a big hug *hugs you*
Go out n explore honey
@@50shadesofcerakote i hope i become better n enjoy life dear
Try going out alone. And then up that to meeting other people.
I love how no matter what "negative" things you may hear from people about themselves in these videos, you can't have a bad impression about them.
Every time I watch your videos I truly realise that we are all just human and that every human being is so so so beautiful I can’t describe it. These videos are so real and make me indescribable happy even tho I cry every time when I watch them.
I like you girl, you have a big warm heart and we can feel it even though you are behind the camera. Nice work, it connects people, nice videos and I love when you film in very close range. Bless up !
So sad to realize how many people couldn’t follow their dreams because “life happened..”
My childhood self would be dissappointed for currently not taking good care of myself when I need it and for hurting others along the way because of my depression and anxiety when I don't mean to. I'm still trying. I'm sorry self and I'm sorry for the people I love for not mentioning it now.
I think my childhood self would be disappointed that I haven’t really lived life for myself and I always do what other people want me to do.
My answer is also, I don't love myself
Hey,someday if not now I really hope that you'll love yourself and be happy in everything you do.Do what makes you happy.Be what makes you happy.You'll have to love yourself before you love others.
Nahiesa ayyy army
My childhood self would be disappointed that I'm not happy, and how badly I always feel about myself.
Younger me would be proud because I told the lunch lady I was going to be a nurse and I'm going to be going to school in 2 months for RMA! ❤️
Hoodxo Calum im going to be going.. AHH
Yay!!! 😁
My childhood self would be disappointed that I stopped having self-respect and had casual sex with a few guys. I always said I would save sex for marriage and I wish I had at least saved it for someone who cared about me. Since I decided to stop doing that, I've felt much better about myself.
Isabella A. I felt this. I became exactly who I said I would never become
I'm answering all of the questions myself and I think I've discovered and digged into a lot of parts of myself and my personality that I haven't before. Thank you and keep up the great work
This has really inspired me. Lately I have been losing my identity due to fear. But I realize now we become stronger with being vulnerable. I don’t want to have any regrets so thank you so much and I love your channel ❤️😍
My child self would be disappointed that I don’t love myself and that I’m so weak...when I thought I could be stronger...and that I have made mistakes I promised I wouldn’t make..
It was great meeting you and that question was so relating to a discussion I was having just 10 minutes before you asked... deep thoughts in this video
Hey!! It was great meeting you as well- Really glad I ran into you guys!! :]
Are you the guy at 4:27
i'm in love with her channel
I would have committed suicide if i had have seen my future truly and that is really crushing my chest
Me too
God bless u
same
Don't. Please.
You couldn't imagine the future then and you can't imagine it now.
You can't imagine your future and your impact on the world till you've lived.
One of my most dear movies is It's A Wonderful Life.
Please watch it. You have no idea what impact you have.
Life is whole (not idyllic or perfect or better, just whole) when you decide to start living.
I will watch it. Thank you for the nice comment :)
hi. I'm rhianna and I'm 13. I come to this channel very often to learn more about life. I do struggle with anxiety and depression and this channel really helps me learn more about the world and just how life works. it lets me know I'm not the only one and it helps me. I love you thoraya and thank you so much
Hey
How are you now ?
@@justarandomdude8138 omg hey. I'm 16 now and ive learned more about life. if anything, the anxiety got worse and the depression is mildly concerning just not terrible yk? im here tho right? im alive and im still pushing even tho sometimes i want to give up. thank you for asking by the way, i really appreciate it :')
@@brbcallingsora Oh okay...If you wanna talk I'm here :). Keep going! I'm 14 btw '^^
My child self would say to me : " you are not who I wanted you to be "
Thoraya you are AWESOME!! 👏 Thank you for your wonderful videos that show, in a simple way, the human soul.
Thank you so much!!! It means a lot
"i smoke a little bit of weed" aw ahaha cute asf
My childhood self would be so disappointed, that I am not as confident in myself as I once has been, and I take everything so serious.
This is why people shouldn’t judge each other because you don’t know people’s story. We are all humans at the end of the day. Idk just thought I’d say that
True!❤
For me it probably would also be drugs, but my child-self would understand if he knew how much fun they are for me...
Other than that kid-Simon would be pretty proud of me.
OPEN MIND same lol
Wtf Simon, was machst du denn hier
That I have sensored myself for others and no longer know who I am or where I am going.
Laura Rose i feel that
Laura Rose I'm sorry please don't ever lose yourself for others, they are not worth it, no one is. You have one life to live, do what makes u feel happy inside
My child self would be disappointed that I never wrote a book
There's still time!
Thank you to @byseyed for suggesting this question on instagram! One of my favorite days of filming... I hope you enjoy it just as much :]
Thoraya Maronesy, It was a very good question.
I really love how you're filming them so close up! I feel like it makes it even more personal and it really highlights little things about the person that make them beautiful!
Also.. I only discovered this youtube channel yesterday.. but I feel like I've binge watched most of your videos and I really like it! Much love to you!
😇😇My child self would be Soo proud of how my body image has transformed , how I have transformed as a human being I know how to stand up for myself and I have accepted how I look I don't even feel the need for makeup!! Now that's something to be very proud of and I am proud of myself 😇😇😇😇😇
how're you even doing this?? It is beautiful to see the wiiiideee array of human emotions, how they think and interpret everything. Trust me Thoraya, you're opening a lot of minds here!!! LOOOOve your vibe. Hope to see you soon!!!
My childhood self would be disappointed that I`m too scared to choose a path, when both could lead to my dreams. Too scared to make decisions, because I would have to decide against something.
Idea for a question:
What are you most self conscious about?
What’s your worst fear?
When we’re you most scared?
What do you think people think about you?
What moment do you regret the most?
When did you feel most alive?
When was your happiest moment?
That I never developed mutant powers......
That’s not a joke.
I feel u man
This is amazing!! You’re doing something incredible
You're amazing for doing this, Thoraya! Much love 💗
I think these videos are such an awesome idea.....they can open minds and hearts about other humans...maybe decrease the bitterness because sometimes people forget that we all want the same thing and we all care one way or another.
I think my child self would be disappointed that I’m not doing anything creative, and my shyness stops me from joining pottery or glass blowing classes
2:54 I’m glad this man enjoys life and is happy with himself it shows a lot of personal strength and that he has perseverance and he wasn’t being full of himself so good for him!
I truly love all of your videos, it's such a beautiful idea, every second of it makes me think about my own life, you're an incredible person and I hope you keep doing what you're doing, you're amazing!
Paused the video when the question first came on the screen and I answered it myself -- my younger self would be sad to hear that I don't love myself. Pressed play and heard almost the exact same answer from the first person. It's so sad that we hate ourselves so much. Why don't we love ourselves?
My childhood self would be disappointed of myself because I am depressed and I have social anxiety. I will be 23 years old soon and I am jobless and couldn't and can't make something out of myself and my life.
You are capable of changing your life one step at a time! I had depression and anxiety for the past 5 years and what helped me was fixing relationships with friends and family, talking to them about everything and taking small self care steps, starting with getting out of bed and making a healthy breakfast. Taking little steps to care for yourself and spending time with friends and family will help and in a year's time you could be a completely different person with a new life. I know this comment is a month old but I truly hope you are either better or this helps you some how.
WOW. This is the deepest, most introspective, important poignant question there ever is!!! This is a great service to humanity to others and ourselves to be asking. The answers, especially the first, are heartbreaking... all of them, and yet beautiful.. And needed quality to be looking at.. God!!! Seriously. Only two people out of all of these beautiful people think there child self would be happy with them!!!! So human!!! Wow. Its crazy to realize how radical it is to really follow your heart and have faith, fun and freedom with yourself and actually choose to Do what makes us HAPPY!!!!! Wow. GO for what we really deeply want and not diminish it!!! GO FOR OUR DREAMS!!!! And develop new ones that are true to us!!!
This is a profound question❤️💗💗💗
They are all so sweet...good question!!!
Thank you!!! :]
My child self would be SHOCKED that I am still alive. My adult self is amazed I am still here.
Beautiful content on your channel! I'm glad that I found you! Keep it up :)
Thank you so much!! I'm glad you found my channel as well- I hope you'll continue to follow along :]
You should ask them, “WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME?”
I agree w the guy at 0:39 and some other ppl bc honestly I’m just one big disappointment... to everyone and it’s sad that they try to deny it
No, you can always turn your actions around and for your sake, not theirs.
When she said that I don’t love myself I finally understand myself.
3:36 and 3:45 Beautiful humans ❤
This question made me realise how far I've come because my younger self wouldn't be disappointed in any of it. She'd be so happy.
I had a really difficult childhood and I made my life better and wonderfully weird.
This question healed my broken little inner child
My child self would be disappointed at the fact that I’m just not capable of being loved.
This is not true. You are capable. And you deserve love!
*yeah i know the answer to this one. I was supposed to protect myself but i was unable to. I spend a lot of time trying to rescue myself but of course it cannot be done. I often fall asleep dreaming of my childhood and in the dream i run away very young and raise myself quietly, finding places to sleep and ways to eat and bathe while educating myself at libraries. I dream the dream until i become an adult and then try to figure out how to live as an adult who had a ghost childhood. I've dreamed this dream for years.*
man at 2:43. lol "i guess im still snoring" that man is amazing
So freaking many eyes on this channel... This is it!
My childhood self would be disappointed in my cigarettes smoking and smoking other stuff. My lack of ambition. My drowning battle with depression. Anxiety. My will to just go with it and drown.
I feel you x
I have to say I’m incredibly impressed with your series on asking random people 30 questions. There’s more positivity than most will realize. One of my favorite things about this is everyone is so different yet all have stories to tell that can be great advice for themselves or anyone watching. Great job!
My childhood's dream was to be a man. My current dream is to turn back into a child .
My childhood self would be very disappointed and sad that i'm unable to love myself after all the abuse i went through as a child. It never made me a bitter person. I've been told very often that i have a beautiful soul and that i'm one of the kindest people they have ever met.
These questions are so good!!! How do you come up with these?!
You’re so good looking gosh
Your channel makes us realize that we’re not alone, that there are lots of people going through the same thing as us and I just find it amazing ‘cause it really helps me to get introspective and reflect upon everything about me and life itself
Thank you for that, your work is incredible
My child self would be disappointed in me practically giving up my on dream :( That and allowing people to treat me like their door mat.
Built To Rule My dream used to be to be a successful actress. Now my dream is to find genuine happiness.
Hi Thoraya! I just wanted to thank you for these videos that you make. I think it helps people think and it makes the people who get to be a part of your videos special.
Good recommendation UA-cam 👌
When i was primary school kid....i am totally dumb....my schoolmates used to bully me and even teachers don't like me....i was totally lonely ....then a time came when i have to go to secondary school and i was very afraid that how can i deal with other people in new school but i just believe on my self and i scored highest in the whole secondary section..now i m 14...i m a teenager. .and i have lot of friends....everyone like me....teachers told me everyday that i m a good student...and i m always trying to help others childrens who face situation like this...
my child self would be disappointed that ive turned to drugs and alcohol
My childhood self would be disappointed that I’m not as happy as I want to be, that I’m not pursuing a career because of money problems, that I let everyone choose my life for me and that I don’t call my mom as often as I should(I want to always be close with her and cherish my time I have with her)
Exercise guy is my favorite.
Hahahaha! One of my favorites as well!!
That I never got to be a veterinarian. I did start...but realized after one year (with good grades) that I didn't have the stomach for it and ended up switching to Archaeology. I would tell her 'Sometimes you need to change your dreams in order to be happy, baby girl.'
If you have a suggestion for a question I should ask strangers please direct message me on Instagram: @thor.aya
Hiya! What can I do if I want to add some subtitles in another languages for this video?
Well I can't have Instagram but could you question how they read the world (ex it's not great anymore deaths and deforestation) or ask how people feel on gender stereotypes
What's their biggest insecurities
Dear Thoraya, thank you so much for this video! It truely opened my eyes!
I'm not happy with where I am at this moment and I am very critical, but this video made me realize that my childhood self would be amazed! I don't know if she could even believe what she saw and what a great, happy person came out of her, so brave and capable, with so little fears. She would be proud of me! I have tears in my eyes since I realized that.
what would you like others to ask you when you meet new people?
what makes you happy?
what would you like to inherit?
how do you want to die?
how would your ideal society/city/group/family look like?
what is the characteristic you would like to change in yourself/your partner/your kids/your neighbours?
what do you think would be fair for rent/school/work?
thank you for beeing such a nice person and a decent human being
to the person who said they ended up following someone else's dreams-- i feel you. i dreamt of being a manga artist for a huge chunk of my childhood, but my parents never encouraged me to take that path and basically prohibited me from drawing because it was "a distraction from studying". i still don't have an art-related job now, but i do run an art account on several social media platforms and i'm at least somewhat part of an art community online.