40 Differences In How Women Treat Sub5, Normie vs. Chad Men (Dating Coach Reviews)

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  • @HighIntegritySkills
    @HighIntegritySkills  6 місяців тому +3

    Get my new book on how to use the Authentic Attraction Method:
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    • @nomercymanagement2316
      @nomercymanagement2316 Місяць тому

      Lmao You can’t stop mentioning your race like it’s a debilitating short coming. How are you fit to coach men when you seem to have an inferiority complex regarding your race? You talk as if being Asian equates to being second tier. You approach women while believing you’re second tier?

  • @inthisone4ya
    @inthisone4ya 9 місяців тому +127

    Looks do matter

    • @fu55eyf
      @fu55eyf 7 місяців тому +10

      It does

    • @foljs5858
      @foljs5858 5 місяців тому

      Not as much as you think. If those self-pitying sub5s bothered to get out of the basement they'd see people just like them, or even worse, looks wise, that have girlfriends, and marriages, and everything, some are even players. Looks is what men look in women, it's not what women primarily look into a man, except if they're some horny hoes casually hooking up with randos in Tinder.

    • @mskkzkzzk
      @mskkzkzzk 4 місяці тому

      @@inthisone4ya they don’t

    • @rustyshackleford9452
      @rustyshackleford9452 4 місяці тому

      @@mskkzkzzkWould you date an obese woman if looks don’t matter?

    • @sebssc
      @sebssc 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@mskkzkzzk they do what are you on about

  • @limpa756
    @limpa756 7 місяців тому +55

    I've had some women reach out to me and I'm a 3-4 absolute max, I unironically think it's because I was a dealer and an addict.

    • @SR-hf3hx
      @SR-hf3hx 6 місяців тому +5

      I commented on this in this post...they know the street dudes....I'm a 5 at most and I pull them sometimes bc they know how we move

    • @loth4015
      @loth4015 4 місяці тому +13

      Just become a drug dealer theory

    • @limpa756
      @limpa756 4 місяці тому +7

      @@SR-hf3hx Yea they assume you're dangerous or something, I'm not dangerous at all though I'm a pretty nice guy. Once they realised that they got bored

    • @SR-hf3hx
      @SR-hf3hx 4 місяці тому

      @@limpa756 I'm the same as you.

    • @survivalhh2995
      @survivalhh2995 4 місяці тому

      ​@limpa756 it's called thug maxxing and it can work but in your case since your not actually a tough guy it failed for you

  • @dave-oh3549
    @dave-oh3549 6 місяців тому +67

    With all due respect, you are not in the Chad territory, even in Asia.

  • @tartarus500
    @tartarus500 9 місяців тому +25

    Looks matter, but it is not the only factor especially for Women. That is what i not only got out of this video, but have learned from others that really knew their stuff.

  • @josephpasquarella2123
    @josephpasquarella2123 3 місяці тому +11

    Looks 60%, social skill/social life 40%

  • @loth4015
    @loth4015 4 місяці тому +17

    Looks is the most important factor (height, face, etc.) but it's not the only factor.

    • @ericlind6581
      @ericlind6581 Місяць тому

      @@loth4015 Money trumps looks for a guy.

    • @PandaPower511
      @PandaPower511 26 днів тому +4

      @@ericlind6581 no it doesn’t unless she’s a gold digger

    • @ericlind6581
      @ericlind6581 26 днів тому

      @@PandaPower511 And what is the inclination of the majority of women?

    • @eigelgregossweisse9563
      @eigelgregossweisse9563 21 день тому

      ​@@ericlind6581Well, for local or overseas couples, it slightly gives them a certain ability to date a woman. It does. But a woman can still choose to reject him on the basis of whether he is socially apt, and not autistic, adhd, the likes.

  • @UserName-xg9mb
    @UserName-xg9mb 4 місяці тому +7

    Honestly I don't know where u get the idea that you are in chad category... In Asia maybe average, because of height 6/10, but in Europe 4.5 or 5 out of 10... Height is your advantage but your skin and face overall are bellow average...

  • @STEPHxCA
    @STEPHxCA 9 місяців тому +15

    looks matter but it ain’t uncommon in my experience to see these average/below average dudes with good lookin women meanwhile I can’t get a text back 😂😂😂

    • @KlearlyPumb
      @KlearlyPumb 5 місяців тому +2

      Dude sub 5 not average like 7 and below average 6 were talking sub barely a 5 and way below 5 like your average warehouse worker or the midnight shift delivery man that look LIKE A MONSTER SID 😂

    • @bigheadrhino
      @bigheadrhino 2 дні тому

      You’re a straight male. Those guys might be attractive to women but not fit your idea of what’s attractive which might be wrong.

  • @remissiveslave
    @remissiveslave 8 місяців тому +19

    Im 5'7" balding, no talent, skill, and my social skills are trash, in part because of low self-esteem of never being wanted by even avg minus girls ever. To tell me I just need character is such hogwash. Girls determine from your face abd hair first and likely height more than anything.

    • @antoine.-
      @antoine.- 6 місяців тому +5

      Yep, looksmaxxing is top priority, not character

    • @MoPoppins
      @MoPoppins 3 місяці тому +2

      Your self-esteem isn’t wholly determined by whether women like or reject you-it’s just something you happen to value, and you’re using it as an excuse not to do anything.
      WORK ON YOURSELF…just day-by-day, do something. Start ANYWHERE, if your self-improvement list a several miles long, and you’ll make steady progress.
      If you come from trauma (via upbringing), address any & all issues that trigger you. Journal everything that’s worth sharing-brain dumps are crucial & essential to good mental and emotional health. Be constructive in your self-criticism, with unconditional self-love as your ultimate objective.
      There are people who are loved the world over, but filling stadiums & theatres is still not enough for these people to overcome their self-loathing, and some of these people end up being lifelong substance abusers, or if they’re sick of temporarily numbing themselves, end up making it permanent.
      Being loved by others won’t feel like ANYTHING, if you don’t love yourself-that’s just a simple fact…look at every narcissist who’s attractive & admired. They have it “all,” yet they remain empty & miserable.
      There are PLENTY of short, fat, balding guys who have partners, and they’re happy-looks are only a part of the equation. The older one becomes, the less looks will matter, since the 9’s & 10’s often don’t even look like themselves at their younger prime-those that age like a fine wine still have to be tolerable to be around. After all, the greatest impact of good looks is during the first impression, but it has diminishing returns if the hottie doesn’t have anything else to offer….and everyone ages, even if they age well.
      Aim to be and become your best self-there’s A LOT of leeway there, and if we make it a game to continually improve during the entire duration of our lives, it’s actually FUN. Not gonna lie…it’s overwhelming at first, when you have SOOO much to work on, but life is a marathon, so pace yourself.
      If it helps, study people who are decades older-they are your future….or at least a subset (& composite)of them will represent who you will become. SPROUHT might be interesting for you, for some life perspective: youtube.com/@sprouht?si=b9DiHdir393o4pGJ
      - soon-to-be 50 yr old woman

    • @Swiminator_08
      @Swiminator_08 2 місяці тому +1

      Finasteride and minoxidil IMMEDIATELY. and book transplant ASAP. bro, if you're 5"7, balding will make you an incel

  • @therongertz3570
    @therongertz3570 23 дні тому +1

    I'm glad he took the time to critique WW's video. None of the original video was evidence-based, it was just a series of exaggerated opinions about looks, but a lot of his viewers just eat it up without using critical thinking. Life and dating is so much more multifarious than just "be hot and everything will be awesome."

  • @TopG_1111
    @TopG_1111 4 місяці тому +3

    The “friend” in the thumbnail is a chad lol

  • @meta671games
    @meta671games 9 місяців тому +8

    Htn in prime discusses the life of chads and the importance of game
    Gamegamegamegame... For 70% of mans (normy) yeah, they have to compete for woman with other normies. For bottom 20% game will work in 0.001% of cases, looksmaxxing is n1 priority. And for top 5% they dont need game, they dont compete for woman with another chads, its like cartel
    8:00 nope, man chad have more MATCHES, not likes, than Stacy
    12:30 wow, u can be the funniest person on party, and a lot of woman will be close to u. But at the end u will go home alone, and chad, that said 2 sentences, will get girls

    • @animequenchers
      @animequenchers 9 місяців тому

      He's not in prime. He can ascend if he gets a chemical peel

  • @kingspore5000
    @kingspore5000 3 місяці тому +4

    Im 6 in looks but totally bad in being social and don't really have strenght to work on it honestly...I received such a many blackpill signs from women...I really can't care much about status, being social and the people im around...I just care more about me being happy than impressing women...im sooo done with this world

  • @stuartpaul9211
    @stuartpaul9211 5 місяців тому +9

    best thing about being over 50 is you don't have to go through all this shite of dressing well and worrying about your looks or lack of. wear your slippers to the shops and silly sun hats with your cheap Poundland shorts.

    • @HighIntegritySkills
      @HighIntegritySkills  5 місяців тому

      true :)

    • @TheBony45
      @TheBony45 4 місяці тому +1

      I remember getting punched in poundland bristol lol

    • @stuartpaul9211
      @stuartpaul9211 4 місяці тому

      @@TheBony45 fight over the tartan slippers

    • @harmz1503
      @harmz1503 20 днів тому

      @@stuartpaul9211🤣

    • @harmz1503
      @harmz1503 20 днів тому

      That’s it. Rock out with your c*ck out 😂

  • @remissiveslave
    @remissiveslave 8 місяців тому +7

    Your looks supercede even wealth to a pretty high degree. Outliers and anomalies aren't examples.

    • @CulturalAd
      @CulturalAd 5 місяців тому

      @@remissiveslave you can litreally be a model and earn for your looks so looks beat money anyday

  • @mbcoll8154
    @mbcoll8154 3 дні тому

    Had a tall and great looking friend with decent natural game(back in the 80s when learning game was not a thing like today). He got girls in familiar circles pretty easily but we often challenged him to ask girls out in fast foods and malls and he sometimes went for it. It was really surprising how much he got rebuffed. Cold open is no easy thing, even for chads.

    • @HighIntegritySkills
      @HighIntegritySkills  3 дні тому

      Yeah, even the best looking guys get rejected, you have to learn how to talk to women, even if you're a chad.

  • @jlprescott7243
    @jlprescott7243 2 місяці тому +1

    Great social experiment. Cheers!

  • @sethmarchese397
    @sethmarchese397 2 місяці тому +4

    So 8's are just lost in the Bermuda Triangle then?

  • @wpatrickw2012
    @wpatrickw2012 5 місяців тому +2

    7:04 a guy wearing makeup is a major ick for a lot of women

  • @SomeBlackDude26
    @SomeBlackDude26 Місяць тому +1

    "There's nothing game can't compensate for"
    I disagree in the strongest possible terms. You can be charming, successful, and sociable, but if you're a Sub-5, women still won't be attracted to you.

    • @HighIntegritySkills
      @HighIntegritySkills  Місяць тому +1

      Casanova was a sub5. So was one of my mentors. It's a big factor but not the only factor.

  • @judge1569
    @judge1569 6 місяців тому +10

    Guys should not be too dramatic because the opposite sex has the same discrimination. 😅

    • @kingspore5000
      @kingspore5000 3 місяці тому

      If it was true, there would be the same procentage of women being lonely and not having s3x. Expectations for men are way higher

    • @eigelgregossweisse9563
      @eigelgregossweisse9563 21 день тому

      Not as bad as ours. Yes, bad. For females though even 3 and 4's can get laid. Men are rejected for 3 and 4's utmostly. 2 and 1's, only in a certain special, maybe pity sex. Once!

  • @chadfox6030
    @chadfox6030 Місяць тому +1

    Game and having a nice body definitely helps

  • @SR-hf3hx
    @SR-hf3hx 6 місяців тому +3

    Ive seen these same women damn near shit themselves when they run into a street guy and try to insult him. They need to humble themselves. You arent and shouldnt be required to date down but dont be disrespectful

    • @HighIntegritySkills
      @HighIntegritySkills  6 місяців тому +2

      yes, it's ok to say no to someone, but there's not reason to be mean about it

  • @Sayed-du9px
    @Sayed-du9px 9 місяців тому +2

    Bro your biggest einning card is your height! That only make you 70% more attractive

  • @therealmattchong
    @therealmattchong 9 місяців тому +1

    Great video, Giovanni! Hope you are doing well :)

  • @ConorClyneTsarExperience
    @ConorClyneTsarExperience 2 місяці тому +1

    Interesting informed breakdown on looks and dating 9s & 10s. 👍🏻 Out of interest, why did you move to Taiwan? Return to your homeland?

    • @HighIntegritySkills
      @HighIntegritySkills  2 місяці тому +2

      US was getting to expensive and I havent seen my parents in a while. When I got back I realized how much better some things were.

    • @ConorClyneTsarExperience
      @ConorClyneTsarExperience 2 місяці тому

      @@HighIntegritySkills cool. Any plans to come to Europe?

  • @andreaspeters3773
    @andreaspeters3773 6 місяців тому +2

    When i had a closer look to the sub 5 and normie section.... There are two big differences to the "chads"
    (What an idiotic name "chads" is 🤭😂)
    1- the eyes aren't so strong, direct and open....
    2- they haven't a confident expression... barely any expression 😑 i call it the "empty eyes" what's the greatest attraction killer.
    If you don't put worth on yourself.... why should anyone else?
    It's simply your job and a pretty face counts less for girl than you think although it gives you an advantage.

  • @MoPoppins
    @MoPoppins 3 місяці тому +3

    Chads are like Biff from “Back to the Future.” That guy wasn’t particularly attractive, but as that archetype, they were not, nor will they ever be, bright & ambitious.
    I love that you brought up the point of the nerds doing well in their 30s, and the Chads all total losers. 😂 Young’uns should be able to grow up knowing this, and I suppose if they’re on social media, they’ll come across informative & edutaining videos like this one. 👍
    - A new subbie (woman turning half-century old this year)

  • @DiremanOfficial
    @DiremanOfficial 3 місяці тому +1

    7:50 Yoshi looking like a victim of homicide in that tub 😅

    • @HighIntegritySkills
      @HighIntegritySkills  3 місяці тому +1

      I bet he's killing it on the apps :)

    • @DiremanOfficial
      @DiremanOfficial 3 місяці тому +1

      @@HighIntegritySkills absolutely drowning in women 😂🤣

  • @Fadsan_MITH
    @Fadsan_MITH 8 місяців тому +4

    If my country Chad it's never had a chance DATING OR MARRIED if he's a broke😂 THEY ARE LOSER.....MONEY 💵 EVERYTHING HERE

  • @DaoNguyen-vp7ki
    @DaoNguyen-vp7ki 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm binge watching your channel. appreciation from austin, texas

  • @hyperelectron-tg5cz
    @hyperelectron-tg5cz Місяць тому +2

    ngl wheat waffles has a heavy incel vibe and so do many of the commenters on here.

  • @Parcother
    @Parcother 18 днів тому

    wheat waffles admit he is a normie. but obsessed being a chad. he is aware of no matter how you improve your looks. still you cant be a chad. if your a sub 5 but for a normie theres potential. looksmaxxing takes years. wheat waffles said he still looksmaxxing today.

  • @rafaelmhurley
    @rafaelmhurley 4 години тому

    I’m absolutely cooked bro

  • @fuzzypanda1684
    @fuzzypanda1684 Місяць тому

    Looks and game are overhyped. It's entirely possible to improve yourself until you have a Baywatch physique, a good face, strong jawline, a confident, charismatic personality, good game, and a socially dominant position such as an event promoter, yet STILL get no interest from girls.
    I was a nerd in school and decided to improve myself, so I got jacked and spent years learning programs on game and went out and practiced for countless hours. I got good enough that people were drawn to me because of my charisma, I got looks, stares and double takes because of my physique, and even got offered a promotor gig based on my ability to talk with people. As for girls, I could easily approach and get lots of IOI's, but I still got no actual interest.
    Looks and game won't help you if you're living life on the hardest difficulty. And when you've done the work to build up and completely transform yourself, only to still get the same awful results, it's impossible not to fall into a downward spiral.

  • @orianogiorgetti6459
    @orianogiorgetti6459 3 місяці тому

    If you want an example of optimal facial harmony, look at Alain Delon, RIP

    • @popeofdope6468
      @popeofdope6468 Місяць тому

      Hah, isnt he that guy who has scandalous past with tvis murders thing?

    • @airyanawaejah2323
      @airyanawaejah2323 22 дні тому

      @@popeofdope6468 what?

  • @Moggeracdamy
    @Moggeracdamy 4 місяці тому +8

    bro a 7/10 is chad tier lol

    • @Toaster-o7i
      @Toaster-o7i 4 місяці тому +2

      ChadLite

    • @Moggeracdamy
      @Moggeracdamy 4 місяці тому +8

      @@Toaster-o7i yeah chadlite is still in the chad category

  • @owardocarther30
    @owardocarther30 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm between normies and Chad 😅

  • @Baco-444.
    @Baco-444. 8 місяців тому

    Brutal

  • @meta671games
    @meta671games 9 місяців тому +4

    What about hoe_math's zones v3 react?

  • @victorvaldez760
    @victorvaldez760 9 місяців тому +23

    Such a cope video .. and u r not a Chad even in Asia 😂

    • @KlearlyPumb
      @KlearlyPumb 5 місяців тому +3

      He is a model in China chase most of Asia is sub5 so he will be fine there.

    • @pulse3554
      @pulse3554 Місяць тому

      @@KlearlyPumblmao what is this white perspective

    • @KlearlyPumb
      @KlearlyPumb Місяць тому

      @pulse3554 well if you don't believe it then look at the asian girl in western country