These films beside it's haram it have shirk elements in it i have been told that the man in it some times wears a cross and another shirk things you must avoid I hope from the owener of this channel to spread this massege
I Struggled this Addiction 10Years Now and if i stop i become very productive and happy . This is serious problem 5 second pleasure will ruin your life. Make me dua Brother and sisters iam clean and didn't watch 60 days Now.
Remember brother one thing, shaytaan knows you are capable of being the best person so he will convince you that you can't do it so that you fall back. Whenever you feel the need, just remember the moment you want to sin and you remove yourself then Allah Ta'āla accepts your du'ās immediately.
These films beside it's haram it have shirk elements in it i have told that the man in it some times wears a cross and another shirk things you must avoid
"Say, 'O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.'" (Surah Az-Zumar, 39:53)
Alhamdulillah, may Allah SWT reward Shk Wael Ibrahim abundantly for all his work in this area. These topics are often regarded as 'tabou' but the sisters need to hear them as well as these predominantly 'male topics"
Jazakallahu khairan for speaking on this topic. No one understands how truly difficult and devastating this disease is except those who have gone through it. May Allah help everyone who is struggling with this addiction.
@@Jesuslordoflords-y4m [And [mention] when Jesus, the son of Mary, said, "O children of Israel, indeed I am the messenger of Allah to you confirming what came before me of the Torah and bringing good tidings of a messenger to come after me, whose name is Ahmad(Different name of prophet Muhammad peace be upon him)." But when he came to them with clear evidences, they said, "This is obvious magic."], The holy Quran, Verse 6 from Surah 61 As-Saff
SubhanAllah. As someone who’s been struggling severely for over a decade now since my mid teens, and am in sobriety for it now for several years now, I want to say, thank you, for shedding light to an often hidden truth in our Ummah. So many are struggling and are not coming forth to seek help out of fear and shame (it’s what held me back for so long before seeking a program and beginning the road with sobriety, Alhamdoulilah). This feels like a reminder to choose different from Al-Jabbar. I awoke this morning in the clutches of it and was about to relapse, and, Masha’Allah, saw this on my notification page, and I, SubhanAllah, chose to watch this, instead of a video that would’ve been harmful to me physically and spiritually. Jazakum Allahu Khair. I really needed this today. 🧎🏽♂️🤲🏽
@amadou.oury diallo Mãsha'Allah Alhamdulillah 👏🏼👍🏼 Please respond to questions from the 2 persons regarding the programs It might be of help either to them or whoever's reading that needs help..another tip/advice is to recite last 2 verses of surah Baqarah linked with surah Ale Imran every morning and night Lãyukallifullahu - Nafsan - illahus - 'a-haa...................................
@@RedRoses6792 Jazak Allahu Khair. I did respond with resources and advice once I saw the two requests. But, my comment was then deleted. I’m not sure why. To sum up what I said. Look into 12-step addiction programs. They’ve been extremely helpful for me in my journey over the last several years, Alhamdoulilah. There are quite a few of them that deal with this specific struggle. Do research and see which one that appeals to you. 12-step programs also have options for online and in-person meetings with different themes, SubhanAllah, so there are always various options for meetings. I do caution Muslims, as these programs aren’t Islam-centered. For me, I’ve used Islam as my foundation and structure, as with everything, as I’ve navigated the program and spaces, and it’s been successful, Alhamdoulilah. 🧎🏽♂️🤲🏽
1.Al-Ghaffar (الغفّار) - The Ever-Forgiving 2. Al-Ghafoor (الغفور) - The Most Forgiving 3. At-Tawwab (التوّاب) - The Accepter of Repentance 4. Al-‘Afuw (العفو) - The Pardoner 5. Ar-Raheem (الرحيم) - The Most Merciful
@@syedmajidahmed8292 اشهد ان لا اله الا الله و اشهد ان محمدا رسول الله اللهم صل على محمد و على ال محمد كما صليت على ابراهيم و على ال ابراهيم و بارك على محمد و على ال محمد كما باركت على ابراهيم و على ال ابراهيم في العالمين انك حميد مجيد
Subhanallah well needed and amazing podcast! I worry about the future when I have kids and how I will protect them from this filth. I used to suffer from this problem and it had destroyed my life but alhamdulillah I made progress in the right direction and am building my life brick by brick. What helped me change was this book called freedom from addiction model. We need to adapt this book for muslims and it will help countless individuals inshallah
Lowering your gaze, fasting and occupying your time is the only solution pre marriage. If I could press a button to erase my desire for women, I’d do it without a second thought. It’s a Catch-22 - you need to be productive in order to get married, yet it’s difficult to focus with such intense desires. That’s why fasting is powerful - it shifts control away from you and also provides you with a renewed sense of discipline.
Don't underestimate psychotherapy/counselling either brother. The Sunnah is the most useful and it also speaks of seeking treatment. Book 22, Number 3865: Narrated AbudDarda: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: Allah has sent down both the disease and the cure, and He has appointed a cure for every disease, so treat yourselves medically, but use nothing unlawful.
That's quite well thought out and put. May Allah reward you and May Allah make us all productive, in control of our desires and make us proper men & women for our spouses. Ameen
The knowledgeable and acts of worship in Allah swt’s path and laws to prevent addiction and to magnify sobriety are already there in Islam, explicitly and implicitly. Sacrifices are needed for sure and of course within guidelines of Islam. Allahu’alam.
Thank you for speaking more about this epidemic. They say porn is the new tobacco Cigarettes were first advertised as healthy but now are globally known to kill Pornography now is advertised as a healthy way to relieve sexual energy but will soon be known to be detrimental to one’s health
Sister, Marriage IS the solution for someone who managed to quit the addiction FIRST, and want a chance not to relapse. That's why rasulullah (s.a.w) said all he had to say about the importance of early marriage and not refusing marriage for unvalid reasons... Man and Women are protection for each other.
"Ignore the pain that comes with doing good deeds." This is quite a nice new concept for me and I want to upgrade upon this. Can we rewire our brains into thinking in such a way that we feel next to no pain if any comes while performing good deeds? I'm being serious here. Brain rewiring and making brain think and perform in certain patterns is definitely a thing. Addition, dopamine and many other concepts regarding the brain does show us that rewiring your brain on pleasure or rewiring it on hardwork & struggle & consistency etc... both good and bad rewiring of the brains are possible. I ask again... can we literally rewire our brain to completely ignore the concept of any pain coming with doing good deeds? I mean surely there will be some types of pains that are not completely erasable. Lets assume you fought in Allah's way to save someone's property and died as a result, the physical fatal pain inflicted on you would definitely be felt but to a lot of extent, can we at least ignore any mental pains and rewire such a way?
I wish I never seen it. It ruined my life. It's disgusting. Watching 2 people commit an act punishable by death in Islam over and over again and being exhilarated by it is a total abomination and a desecration of one's soul and he will never find happiness in his Salah, in his marriage or from his life as long as he is committing major sins like this and not only is it a transgression from the laws of the most high the biggest loser from this act is the one partaking in it. Truly the most disgusting of the major sins.
34:02 this explanation must listen. I really felt these words to the core of my soul "because his nature is forgiveness and mercy" Allah hu Akbar. 34:10 Subhnallah.
The cure is real. Never lose hope. Find a higher purpose and hold your self to account. Lower the gaze, remove the evil by moving away from reminders of filth, get married, stay away from haram gender interactions, and have Taqwa awareness of Allah watching you. Make Tawba repentance salah after each time you relapse and vow to never return to it again.
This problem is catastrophic we need to start opening up facilities inshallah all over America. Inshallah I’m going to open up free facilities were people can overcome any addiction their dealing with.
Walekum Salam Warahmatullahi Wabarakathuhu. Saw the entire podcast. Well said and much needed discussion. It definitely is the biggest disease imo. A weapon that is more destructive than a nuclear bomb in terms of the destruction it actually causes. May Allah help all those struggling with it and allow them to prevail over it and as a result become a very strong muslim. As a motivation for brothers and sisters. Remember, there are hadith that talk of how difficult holding onto Islam will be in end times and that rewards will be increased. Don't remember the exact wording of the hadith but remember the overall wording. Here's 3. 1 The reward of a deed depends on the difficulty of performing it. 2 A muslim in end times will gain 50 times the reward of those in the past (due to how hard it will be to perform). 3 Holding onto Islam will be like holding onto burning coal. ^I know its difficult but in your struggle, invision yourself that you are burning in this world for the sake of Allah (with a smile) knowing in your heart that with it, Allah will certainly save you from the Fire in the next world.
Masha Allah may Allah protect us from porn issue and makes us the righteous one. Im sure im here cuz Allah wills... and Alhamdulillah i learn much things here. Jazakumullah Khayr❤
As a Muslim that's still recovering from drowning in BOTH corn and junkfood, wallahi the link between these two is huge. Inshallah when time comes for wife I will control all the food that comes into our house, and with good health and iklaq comes good intimacy. (weight gain in old age is not "natural" brothers/sisters.) Salam laykum.
Marriage is 80% solution to avoid this addiction and half is fear of torment of this sin if you do this If you are a teenager your first priority should be five time prayers as according to Quran Salah protects from evil deeds =Delete your platforms which you don't use or those platforms which have no use except watching shorts(not talking about UA-cam) =Fast daily on Monday and Thursday no matter what,even if your parents stops you just because they think you will get weak,respect them but still do fast And leave that room or place where your desire get triggers when you are alone =Bonus tip -after every Salah or at the times of Salah supplicate to Allah for marriage as much as you can and focus on getting a job no matter what's the status of job as long it is halal and not fraud InShAllah Allah will help you indeed Allah is with those who have patience
Marriage can prevent from falling into this filthy however marriage is not the solution to get out of it, infact porn addict can ruin his/her life as well as spouse life.
@Ilmseeker844 struggling for marriage at young age can prevent you from this sin forever because when you struggle for something it it gives value to it but you also have to fear Allah for doing this filthy sin Brother,this is not my opinion this what I have seen in those household where marriage is norm and in those household father's make their sons and daughters marriage earlier as soon as they get "BALIGH" or becomes se*ually active and lives natural life that is why this is our responsibility to motivate and appreciate teens and ourselves for early marriage and struggle for it,
@@darksimp4521 Remember marriage is good if husband is working and can afford to uphold his marital responsibilities because struggles in marriage can also lead to separation... Life is just different nowadays and for some it's difficult as well May Allah grant ease to all in need and in all conditions. Aameen
most people dont realise that addiction of any kind (drugs or sexual), is due to an underlying issue, you should open up to your spouse but you should also seek help through talk therapy, to help identify the root cause and help to regain control
Narrated Salman-Al-Farsi: The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "Whoever takes a bath on Friday, purifies himself as much as he can, then uses his (hair) oil or perfumes himself with the scent of his house, then proceeds (for the Jumua prayer) and does not separate two persons sitting together (in the mosque), then prays as much as (Allah has) written for him and then remains silent while the Imam is delivering the Khutba, his sins in-between the present and the last Friday would be forgiven."
personally I'v witnessed alot of sexual abusement as Sh. wael ibrahim sayd when i was a child and became curious about it and thats how I fell in that trap and untill today I can't live normally without fasting, On the authority of Abdullah ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, who said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: O young people, whoever among you lives long enough to get married, let him lower his gaze and guard his private parts. And whoever cannot, let him fast, for it will help him reach puberty. Agreed upon.
MashAllah tabarak Allah very interesting video amazing effort 👍👌👍may Almighty ALLAH Bless both of you always and guide both of you always all the best 🤲👍👌❤️❤️❤️
Porn has turn out to be one of the most difficult addictions to deal with. But a difficult task requires a hard sacrifice. Sacrifices must be made. Start by eliminating the phones/gadgets
23:24 marriage with a person that dosent want or can not or whatever is the reason to do bedroom activity = even worse, meanwhile active one can be really helpful
وإذا دعوت الله ماذا ستقول وتدعوا (إن الأنبياء والصالحين لم يدعوا الله بالشفاء والفرج وإنما بالدعاء إستسلموا لله وإنكسروا بين يدي الله) يارب إننا عبادك وأنت ربنا يارب لا لأننا نستحق بل لأنك الله الجواد الكريم وبأنك الفعال بما تريد
Assalamu alaikum brother! Kazakh Jazakhallahu khair for all of the work you do. May Allah swt increase our iman and accept from us. I tried downloading the app in Nigeria but it’s unavailable
Thank shaykh for raising awareness for this widespreading issue and thank you to the host for asking the most amazing questions. Reminder for us brothers and sisters that shaykh said that the most common solution is to avoid ISOLATION. Take care guys
I would to add that it started mostly for young guys, I would say its 10000% GTA voic city, GTA San Andreas and GTA V, this game is the start of every young guy out there!! I am very witness of that, I gave this game accidentally to my 12 years old cousin and later found on his mobile that he watch p*rn. I feel so bad about my self. I wish I knew that game is so dangrous. please guys who ever read this, make sure your family member stays away from that game.
26:13 sheykh already said, it can be not even ur fault, how many parents make new babies infront of their kkids, and kids see that and it damages brain, how many people have shared computers/devices... u dont do a thing, but another1 have some videos and maybe forgets to put some hidden place, and now u clicked it and dang .. hooked... even some "normal" hollywood movies in ur cinemas perhaps have those imgs... and if u dont speak to ur teenagers about "where babies come from"... they will go and study somewhere it... and if u r in none muslim schools, the kids probably openly speak and even mock those who dont watch and that can push people too, dang if i start thinking list can go on.. so yeah.. its not that easy bro u should rather make shukur
Salamoe alaikoum, the podcast helped me but the sheikh also made me kind of worried. I want to quit but now i am so scared for all the hard times that i am going to be in and i think that i will only be struggling and living a miserable life. I just want to be happy again. Also, if i am addicted but i am actively trying and taking measures to quit, and i die whilst not being cured of this desease even tho i was trying, will allah still forgive me? Barakallahufeek for the podcast.
That is Satan's tactics to worry you of hard times. Trust ALLAH subxaanahu watacaala. Ignore Satan the cursed one and don't fall for his tricks. You will be happy and productive and have confidence again. You will be very happy and full of energy when you quit
I am at the very beginning of the video but I just want to say not just p*rnography but I see so many Islamic content using “perfect” images of Muslim men and women. How is this supposed to help people have realistic ideals? How can people learn to lower their gaze?
Salam, Can you ask the shaykh, what if a person is not able to get rid of isolation (like the nature of his house, not in a negative sense)? And can you ask him that his program is too expensive for those who are from 3rd world countries, are there any exceptions for those?
Narrated `Abdullah: We were with the Prophet (ﷺ) while we were young and had no wealth. So Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Sahih bukhari 5066
@100precent.creative we are all wise and they can't fall into a trap, that is why they are called wise. Only fools fall into the trap. Proverbs 13:20 The one walking with the wise will become wise, But the one who has dealings with the stupid will fare badly. The 🪤 is always for an unwise person 😍🙏
there is another level that the prophet and the 12 imams were in where the most beautiful women were brought to them but nothing and nobody, not even satan was able to mess with them the very women that were sent to them came to islam
These films beside it's haram it have shirk elements in it i have told that the man in it some times wears a cross and another shirk things you must avoid
Manage your money in a halal way. Download Australia's first Islamic fintech app now: bit.ly/3WSkP4g
How do we contact sheikh?
Can a Nigerian use the app
Salaam, is this app only for Australians? If not which other countries can use it?
These films beside it's haram it have shirk elements in it i have been told that the man in it some times wears a cross and another shirk things you must avoid
I hope from the owener of this channel to spread this massege
This is a huge problem and we defo need more people speaking out it
I Struggled this Addiction 10Years Now and if i stop i become very productive and happy . This is serious problem 5 second pleasure will ruin your life. Make me dua Brother and sisters iam clean and didn't watch 60 days Now.
Mashallah well done, Remember to stay away from social media especially insta and tiktok. They are filled with thirst traps. I know you can do this
Make Sunnah fasting,Monday and Thursday
May Allah grant you sustainability
Remember brother one thing, shaytaan knows you are capable of being the best person so he will convince you that you can't do it so that you fall back. Whenever you feel the need, just remember the moment you want to sin and you remove yourself then Allah Ta'āla accepts your du'ās immediately.
These films beside it's haram it have shirk elements in it i have told that the man in it some times wears a cross and another shirk things you must avoid
Thank you for covering such an important and timely topic. May Allah reward you
"Say, 'O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.'"
(Surah Az-Zumar, 39:53)
"And whoever does a wrong or wrongs himself but then seeks forgiveness of Allah will find Allah Forgiving and Merciful."
(Surah An-Nisa, 4:110)
Alhamdulillah, may Allah SWT reward Shk Wael Ibrahim abundantly for all his work in this area. These topics are often regarded as 'tabou' but the sisters need to hear them as well as these predominantly 'male topics"
Jazakallahu khairan for speaking on this topic. No one understands how truly difficult and devastating this disease is except those who have gone through it. May Allah help everyone who is struggling with this addiction.
I am always inspired listening and learning from your chanel.
Even as a non Muslim.
Thank you
May Allah bless you.
@wadej347 Thank you wade. Blessings on you and yours
May Allah guide you to the truth
Jesus died for your sins
@@Jesuslordoflords-y4m [And [mention] when Jesus, the son of Mary, said, "O children of Israel, indeed I am the messenger of Allah to you confirming what came before me of the Torah and bringing good tidings of a messenger to come after me, whose name is Ahmad(Different name of prophet Muhammad peace be upon him)." But when he came to them with clear evidences, they said, "This is obvious magic."], The holy Quran, Verse 6 from Surah 61 As-Saff
SubhanAllah. As someone who’s been struggling severely for over a decade now since my mid teens, and am in sobriety for it now for several years now, I want to say, thank you, for shedding light to an often hidden truth in our Ummah. So many are struggling and are not coming forth to seek help out of fear and shame (it’s what held me back for so long before seeking a program and beginning the road with sobriety, Alhamdoulilah). This feels like a reminder to choose different from Al-Jabbar. I awoke this morning in the clutches of it and was about to relapse, and, Masha’Allah, saw this on my notification page, and I, SubhanAllah, chose to watch this, instead of a video that would’ve been harmful to me physically and spiritually. Jazakum Allahu Khair. I really needed this today. 🧎🏽♂️🤲🏽
Would you mind sharing what program helped you?
What program was it brother
Jesus said you will go to hell for this it is very dangerous(Matthew 5:28-30) Jesus can break every chain of sin if you come to Him
@amadou.oury diallo Mãsha'Allah Alhamdulillah 👏🏼👍🏼
Please respond to questions from the 2 persons regarding the programs
It might be of help either to them or whoever's reading that needs help..another tip/advice is to recite last 2 verses of surah Baqarah linked with surah Ale Imran every morning and night
Lãyukallifullahu - Nafsan - illahus - 'a-haa...................................
@@RedRoses6792 Jazak Allahu Khair. I did respond with resources and advice once I saw the two requests. But, my comment was then deleted. I’m not sure why. To sum up what I said. Look into 12-step addiction programs. They’ve been extremely helpful for me in my journey over the last several years, Alhamdoulilah. There are quite a few of them that deal with this specific struggle. Do research and see which one that appeals to you. 12-step programs also have options for online and in-person meetings with different themes, SubhanAllah, so there are always various options for meetings. I do caution Muslims, as these programs aren’t Islam-centered. For me, I’ve used Islam as my foundation and structure, as with everything, as I’ve navigated the program and spaces, and it’s been successful, Alhamdoulilah. 🧎🏽♂️🤲🏽
1.Al-Ghaffar (الغفّار) - The Ever-Forgiving
2. Al-Ghafoor (الغفور) - The Most Forgiving
3. At-Tawwab (التوّاب) - The Accepter of Repentance
4. Al-‘Afuw (العفو) - The Pardoner
5. Ar-Raheem (الرحيم) - The Most Merciful
@@syedmajidahmed8292
اشهد ان لا اله الا الله و اشهد ان محمدا رسول الله
اللهم صل على محمد و على ال محمد كما صليت على ابراهيم و على ال ابراهيم و بارك على محمد و على ال محمد كما باركت على ابراهيم و على ال ابراهيم في العالمين انك حميد مجيد
WHO HERE LOVES PROPHET MUHAMMAD (SAW) ❤❤
Salalahu alayhi wasalam
Me❤
@@phoenixknight8837 THANK YOU
@@fadumonor868 thank you
al-hamdulilah we all ❤️ Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) 🤲🤲🤲
Thanks! Really eye opening insight you have provided me.
May Allah reward u more habibi,
❤🎉
Please keep promoting such shows for the youth.
Subhanallah well needed and amazing podcast! I worry about the future when I have kids and how I will protect them from this filth. I used to suffer from this problem and it had destroyed my life but alhamdulillah I made progress in the right direction and am building my life brick by brick. What helped me change was this book called freedom from addiction model. We need to adapt this book for muslims and it will help countless individuals inshallah
Lowering your gaze, fasting and occupying your time is the only solution pre marriage.
If I could press a button to erase my desire for women, I’d do it without a second thought. It’s a Catch-22 - you need to be productive in order to get married, yet it’s difficult to focus with such intense desires. That’s why fasting is powerful - it shifts control away from you and also provides you with a renewed sense of discipline.
Don't underestimate psychotherapy/counselling either brother. The Sunnah is the most useful and it also speaks of seeking treatment. Book 22, Number 3865:
Narrated AbudDarda:
The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: Allah has sent down both the disease and the cure, and He has appointed a cure for every disease, so treat yourselves medically, but use nothing unlawful.
That's quite well thought out and put. May Allah reward you and May Allah make us all productive, in control of our desires and make us proper men & women for our spouses. Ameen
What do you mean by it shifts control away from you?
@@EquinoXReZ You're not going to break your fast during fasting hours. You have no option but to endure.
May Allah save us from this disease
Ameen
The knowledgeable and acts of worship in Allah swt’s path and laws to prevent addiction and to magnify sobriety are already there in Islam, explicitly and implicitly. Sacrifices are needed for sure and of course within guidelines of Islam. Allahu’alam.
Thank you for speaking more about this epidemic.
They say porn is the new tobacco
Cigarettes were first advertised as healthy but now are globally known to kill
Pornography now is advertised as a healthy way to relieve sexual energy but will soon be known to be detrimental to one’s health
2400 hours clean 💪🏼, my advice is count every hour. Set a goal and keep setting a new one, fight through the withdrawal symptoms- sleep is overrated
الحمدلله الذي عافاني مما ابتلاهم به وفضلني على كثير ممن خلق تفضيلاً
I am SO GLAD he said that marriage isn't the solution to this addiction and doubled down on it.
Sister, Marriage IS the solution for someone who managed to quit the addiction FIRST, and want a chance not to relapse. That's why rasulullah (s.a.w) said all he had to say about the importance of early marriage and not refusing marriage for unvalid reasons... Man and Women are protection for each other.
"Ignore the pain that comes with doing good deeds." This is quite a nice new concept for me and I want to upgrade upon this. Can we rewire our brains into thinking in such a way that we feel next to no pain if any comes while performing good deeds? I'm being serious here. Brain rewiring and making brain think and perform in certain patterns is definitely a thing. Addition, dopamine and many other concepts regarding the brain does show us that rewiring your brain on pleasure or rewiring it on hardwork & struggle & consistency etc... both good and bad rewiring of the brains are possible. I ask again... can we literally rewire our brain to completely ignore the concept of any pain coming with doing good deeds? I mean surely there will be some types of pains that are not completely erasable. Lets assume you fought in Allah's way to save someone's property and died as a result, the physical fatal pain inflicted on you would definitely be felt but to a lot of extent, can we at least ignore any mental pains and rewire such a way?
I wish I never seen it. It ruined my life. It's disgusting. Watching 2 people commit an act punishable by death in Islam over and over again and being exhilarated by it is a total abomination and a desecration of one's soul and he will never find happiness in his Salah, in his marriage or from his life as long as he is committing major sins like this and not only is it a transgression from the laws of the most high the biggest loser from this act is the one partaking in it. Truly the most disgusting of the major sins.
34:02 this explanation must listen.
I really felt these words to the core of my soul "because his nature is forgiveness and mercy" Allah hu Akbar. 34:10 Subhnallah.
May Almighty Allah bless you and your efforts. JazakAllahu khair.
The cure is real. Never lose hope. Find a higher purpose and hold your self to account. Lower the gaze, remove the evil by moving away from reminders of filth, get married, stay away from haram gender interactions, and have Taqwa awareness of Allah watching you. Make Tawba repentance salah after each time you relapse and vow to never return to it again.
It's an eye opening discussion. جزاكم الله خيرا
Alhamdulillah I am watching videos learning about the addiction and choosing to live better lifestyle.
This problem is catastrophic we need to start opening up facilities inshallah all over America. Inshallah I’m going to open up free facilities were people can overcome any addiction their dealing with.
Walekum Salam Warahmatullahi Wabarakathuhu. Saw the entire podcast.
Well said and much needed discussion. It definitely is the biggest disease imo. A weapon that is more destructive than a nuclear bomb in terms of the destruction it actually causes.
May Allah help all those struggling with it and allow them to prevail over it and as a result become a very strong muslim.
As a motivation for brothers and sisters. Remember, there are hadith that talk of how difficult holding onto Islam will be in end times and that rewards will be increased. Don't remember the exact wording of the hadith but remember the overall wording. Here's 3.
1 The reward of a deed depends on the difficulty of performing it.
2 A muslim in end times will gain 50 times the reward of those in the past (due to how hard it will be to perform).
3 Holding onto Islam will be like holding onto burning coal.
^I know its difficult but in your struggle, invision yourself that you are burning in this world for the sake of Allah (with a smile) knowing in your heart that with it, Allah will certainly save you from the Fire in the next world.
Mashallah I am so happy I found your channel.
Thank you for the great information.
Masha allah i am very happy looking for you brother May Allah give you Alls the reward this life and hearafter Ameen🇵🇰
Masha Allah may Allah protect us from porn issue and makes us the righteous one.
Im sure im here cuz Allah wills... and Alhamdulillah i learn much things here.
Jazakumullah Khayr❤
As a Muslim that's still recovering from drowning in BOTH corn and junkfood, wallahi the link between these two is huge.
Inshallah when time comes for wife I will control all the food that comes into our house, and with good health and iklaq comes good intimacy.
(weight gain in old age is not "natural" brothers/sisters.)
Salam laykum.
don’t say “i will start when i get a wife” because 99% you will not. habits are difficult to start suddenly. you need to build them up starting today
May Allah guide us all
This is great work. Jhazakallahu khairan. May Allah protect and guide us. Amin
Marriage is 80% solution to avoid this addiction and half is fear of torment of this sin if you do this
If you are a teenager your first priority should be five time prayers as according to Quran Salah protects from evil deeds
=Delete your platforms which you don't use or those platforms which have no use except watching shorts(not talking about UA-cam)
=Fast daily on Monday and Thursday no matter what,even if your parents stops you just because they think you will get weak,respect them but still do fast
And leave that room or place where your desire get triggers when you are alone
=Bonus tip -after every Salah or at the times of Salah supplicate to Allah for marriage as much as you can and focus on getting a job no matter what's the status of job as long it is halal and not fraud
InShAllah Allah will help you indeed Allah is with those who have patience
You can de activate UA-cam shorts in settings if you disable your watch history. It is helpful if you want to quit scrolling on shorts for hours.
@100precent.creative oh yeah I forgot it, totally worth it
Marriage can prevent from falling into this filthy however marriage is not the solution to get out of it, infact porn addict can ruin his/her life as well as spouse life.
@Ilmseeker844 struggling for marriage at young age can prevent you from this sin forever because when you struggle for something it it gives value to it but you also have to fear Allah for doing this filthy sin
Brother,this is not my opinion this what I have seen in those household where marriage is norm and in those household father's make their sons and daughters marriage earlier as soon as they get "BALIGH" or becomes se*ually active and lives natural life that is why this is our responsibility to motivate and appreciate teens and ourselves for early marriage and struggle for it,
@@darksimp4521 Remember marriage is good if husband is working and can afford to uphold his marital responsibilities because struggles in marriage can also lead to separation... Life is just different nowadays and for some it's difficult as well
May Allah grant ease to all in need and in all conditions. Aameen
May Allah make it easy for Us Dear Brothers and Sisters
Heureux de savoir que vous avez pu vous soigner Cheikh. Bravo
most people dont realise that addiction of any kind (drugs or sexual), is due to an underlying issue, you should open up to your spouse but you should also seek help through talk therapy, to help identify the root cause and help to regain control
Ma sha Allah, thanks sheikh for your wonderful message.
Narrated Salman-Al-Farsi:
The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "Whoever takes a bath on Friday, purifies himself as much as he can, then uses his (hair) oil or perfumes himself with the scent of his house, then proceeds (for the Jumua prayer) and does not separate two persons sitting together (in the mosque), then prays as much as (Allah has) written for him and then remains silent while the Imam is delivering the Khutba, his sins in-between the present and the last Friday would be forgiven."
الحمد لله أن فضلني ولم يأخذني في غفلتي عنه😢
personally I'v witnessed alot of sexual abusement as Sh. wael ibrahim sayd when i was a child and became curious about it and thats how I fell in that trap and untill today I can't live normally without fasting, On the authority of Abdullah ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, who said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: O young people, whoever among you lives long enough to get married, let him lower his gaze and guard his private parts. And whoever cannot, let him fast, for it will help him reach puberty. Agreed upon.
Jazakum Allahu Khairan
MashAllah tabarak Allah very interesting video amazing effort 👍👌👍may Almighty ALLAH Bless both of you always and guide both of you always all the best 🤲👍👌❤️❤️❤️
Barak Allah feek
20:00 Whirlpool
May Allah save us from fitnah of end times
Alhamdulillah Allah is with us
Know the time is sining that Allah is watching over us
20:00 I think the scholar was looking for the word whirlpool or vortex
20:10 whirlpool , water spout
Only positive thoughts can cure this problem if you take it as a habit it become more dangerous take it easy
We need all the help good job thanks
Mashalla may allah gif you to jannah ameen.
Gazakum Allah kher 👍🏼👍🏼
Masha'Allah❤
Really like it and beneficial
Porn has turn out to be one of the most difficult addictions to deal with. But a difficult task requires a hard sacrifice. Sacrifices must be made. Start by eliminating the phones/gadgets
23:24 marriage with a person that dosent want or can not or whatever is the reason to do bedroom activity = even worse, meanwhile active one can be really helpful
وإذا دعوت الله ماذا ستقول وتدعوا
(إن الأنبياء والصالحين لم يدعوا الله بالشفاء والفرج وإنما بالدعاء إستسلموا لله وإنكسروا بين يدي الله)
يارب إننا عبادك وأنت ربنا
يارب لا لأننا نستحق
بل لأنك الله الجواد الكريم
وبأنك الفعال بما تريد
Jajak Allah Khairan
Assalamu alaikum brother! Kazakh Jazakhallahu khair for all of the work you do. May Allah swt increase our iman and accept from us. I tried downloading the app in Nigeria but it’s unavailable
Thank shaykh for raising awareness for this widespreading issue and thank you to the host for asking the most amazing questions.
Reminder for us brothers and sisters that shaykh said that the most common solution is to avoid ISOLATION. Take care guys
I would to add that it started mostly for young guys, I would say its 10000% GTA voic city, GTA San Andreas and GTA V, this game is the start of every young guy out there!! I am very witness of that, I gave this game accidentally to my 12 years old cousin and later found on his mobile that he watch p*rn. I feel so bad about my self. I wish I knew that game is so dangrous.
please guys who ever read this, make sure your family member stays away from that game.
الحمد لله
26:13 sheykh already said, it can be not even ur fault, how many parents make new babies infront of their kkids, and kids see that and it damages brain, how many people have shared computers/devices... u dont do a thing, but another1 have some videos and maybe forgets to put some hidden place, and now u clicked it and dang .. hooked... even some "normal" hollywood movies in ur cinemas perhaps have those imgs... and if u dont speak to ur teenagers about "where babies come from"... they will go and study somewhere it... and if u r in none muslim schools, the kids probably openly speak and even mock those who dont watch and that can push people too,
dang if i start thinking list can go on.. so yeah.. its not that easy bro u should rather make shukur
Good point 👍
Salamoe alaikoum, the podcast helped me but the sheikh also made me kind of worried. I want to quit but now i am so scared for all the hard times that i am going to be in and i think that i will only be struggling and living a miserable life. I just want to be happy again. Also, if i am addicted but i am actively trying and taking measures to quit, and i die whilst not being cured of this desease even tho i was trying, will allah still forgive me? Barakallahufeek for the podcast.
Living with the addiction is hard, Quitting is hard,
Choose your hard
That is Satan's tactics to worry you of hard times. Trust ALLAH subxaanahu watacaala. Ignore Satan the cursed one and don't fall for his tricks. You will be happy and productive and have confidence again. You will be very happy and full of energy when you quit
I am so desperate for your prayers guys please pray for me
I am at the very beginning of the video but I just want to say not just p*rnography but I see so many Islamic content using “perfect” images of Muslim men and women. How is this supposed to help people have realistic ideals? How can people learn to lower their gaze?
Can I download and reshare?
Alhamdulillah
I love the prophet
Salam, Can you ask the shaykh, what if a person is not able to get rid of isolation (like the nature of his house, not in a negative sense)? And can you ask him that his program is too expensive for those who are from 3rd world countries, are there any exceptions for those?
Narrated `Abdullah:
We were with the Prophet (ﷺ) while we were young and had no wealth. So Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
Sahih bukhari 5066
When will I be able to know if I am no more addicted to it?
may Allah help us
didnt even know there was AI porn til the sheikh brought it up. Thanks sheikh 👍
Don't be searching for it now 😂. I didn't know either. And I don't fancy looking it up either. Ignorance is bliss.
MasyaAllah ❤
"You have to Sacrifice your devices"
It's better to miss those information than meeting Allah as someone who just watched pornography anight before.
Who else dosent watch this p thing 😊
How do wei know if someone is addicted or not
Can anyone in Sydney help me connect with Islam please?
You can visit any mosque local to you brother and speak to the imam they will definitely help insha'Allah
Please go to the nearest mosque 😊
Video starts at 40:20
Video starts at 0:00
Our children are blessed 😇🙏 they are taught about the social media and what the Bible says? It would be. 00000001% would go out 😅 to be curious 🧐
Anyone can fall into a trap, even the wise ones.
@100precent.creative we are all wise and they can't fall into a trap, that is why they are called wise. Only fools fall into the trap. Proverbs 13:20 The one walking with the wise will become wise, But the one who has dealings with the stupid will fare badly.
The 🪤 is always for an unwise person 😍🙏
Parents, please marry your children off young or at least help them before it’s too late
Please how can one get consuling
U look nice wearing songkok syeikh
there is another level
that the prophet and the 12 imams were in
where the most beautiful women were brought to them
but nothing and nobody, not even satan was able to mess with them
the very women that were sent to them came to islam
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Very common disease nowadays
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hi
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God is forgiving brother😢
These films beside it's haram it have shirk elements in it i have told that the man in it some times wears a cross and another shirk things you must avoid
9:09 99%+90%
If you are that concerned, come back to the Muslim countries. Come to my country-Afghanistan.
Righteousness among none, sabhi rayta feilane me vyast hai mehez chuninda kuch views k liye. AI ki galat istemal
is the background noise halal
Whirlpools?