Bride-To-Be Tries To Cancel Disaster Wedding & Goes To KFC | Don't Tell The Bride

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  • @Altanicorn
    @Altanicorn 6 років тому +1611

    The dress she changed into was so pretty

    • @solasunny8965
      @solasunny8965 5 років тому +34

      Yes, and i understood why she changed the dress. The only strange thing is, she or the other girls didn't carry a bag fitting a dress in it...😉

    • @SuperKitty104
      @SuperKitty104 4 роки тому +3

      _Unicornicorn RIGHT!!! I love it!!!❤️❤️❤️

    • @cassidyhector9958
      @cassidyhector9958 7 місяців тому +2

      The dress BEFORE that one was a beer dress ☹️ he only got her the pretty one in the video after he heard she wanted to back out of the wedding

  • @carlsmith4062
    @carlsmith4062 7 років тому +8655

    For those who haven't seen the full episode please read:
    When planning the wedding with best man, he said that he knows she hates beer but he was going to base it around beer anyway.
    He sent her to a brewery for her hen do eventhough he knows she hates beer, she walked out of the hen do on the verge of tears. He was told that she was upset about the hen do but proceeded to make the wedding about beer.
    He sent a beer maiden outfit to wear as a wedding dress the day before the wedding, she absolutely hated it and took it as a sign that he was treating the wedding as a joke. She was in tears and called the wedding off. He then got her another dress to persuade her to come and promised her that he has thought about her in the wedding ceremony. So she agreed to come thinking that the wedding wasn't about beer, and that because he replaced the dress that he was serious and did care about their marriage.
    When she arrived at the wedding she found out that the wedding was at the same beer brewery she had went to for the hen do, and that the wedding was about beer again!
    He proceeded with the wedding and didn't change a thing, eventhough he KNEW she was upset about beer being used as a focal point. He is a selfish jerk and deserved the reaction he got from her.

    • @insan8ty
      @insan8ty 6 років тому +137

      Carl Smith, is it possible to watch the full episodes online somewhere?

    • @Niveyii
      @Niveyii 6 років тому +513

      Wow now i understand...was a bit confused at first by her reaction. anyway thanks for explaining!

    • @rubit1626
      @rubit1626 6 років тому +602

      As a girl who dreams about her wedding day and wants to feel like an absolute princess on my big day, I totally get her reaction too

    • @hilaryc3203
      @hilaryc3203 6 років тому +378

      Thanks Carl. That's beyond selfish. He'll never change though; his narcissism runs too deep.

    • @katiebayliss9887
      @katiebayliss9887 6 років тому +24

      Carl Smith if its what the bridemaids are wearing, its not a beer maid dress, its a dirndle.

  • @piscesrain8882
    @piscesrain8882 7 років тому +5025

    He got mad about her not taking the honey part serious , dude you didn't take the whole wedding part serious.

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 4 роки тому +22

      It was just a theme. It would have been fine had she not been a spoilt brat. He was upset by the honey thing because he was OBVIOUSLY already on the brink of tears, which she never was.

    • @AngelCandyHeart
      @AngelCandyHeart 4 роки тому +101

      @@icturner23 oh shut up! I been with my man for 12 years and he would never treat me this way. Maybe you should go find this beer loving loser and marry him 2 idiots with no common sense deserve each other

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 4 роки тому +9

      Starlee Midnight Why are you irrelevantly talking about ‘your man’ as though anyone cares about you or him?

    • @seeyouinhell8961
      @seeyouinhell8961 4 роки тому +117

      icturner23 when it comes to weddings, both the bride and groom should love whatever theme they chose. It just seems like he’s the only one who likes beer in this relationship and that’s kinda fucked up man.

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 4 роки тому +6

      See you in hell Yes, he isn’t the best, but she is truly awful, just utterly dreadful and nasty.

  • @Lily_of_the_Forest
    @Lily_of_the_Forest 7 років тому +3939

    A wedding is for both people. So sad that after 8 years together and 2 children, they still do not know each other.

    • @SurahOnline
      @SurahOnline 7 років тому +25

      Exactly!

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 7 років тому +461

      He did know her he just didn't care about her.

    • @melaniem2641
      @melaniem2641 7 років тому +62

      I don't think I'd agree with this as every show I've watched the groom has always made it about themselves

    • @Lily_of_the_Forest
      @Lily_of_the_Forest 7 років тому +16

      Melanie Muyi then those grooms are jerks.

    • @Lily_of_the_Forest
      @Lily_of_the_Forest 7 років тому +7

      Sammy then he is a jerk

  • @drowningincats3921
    @drowningincats3921 7 років тому +5047

    He made that 100% about him. I’d be shocked if they were still together

    • @melanieortiz712
      @melanieortiz712 7 років тому +569

      deaditequeen it seems like they just went through with the ceremony just so they didn't have to pay back the money for the show. They never went through a legal ceremony. He was tested and like many men on this show they don't pass. Too many self absorbed little boys running around out there. Just sad she's got kids with him too. So she's always going to be tied to him.

    • @Mmmkay10
      @Mmmkay10 6 років тому +97

      If it was left to the bride...she'd make it all about her which is what usually happens. Double standard much!?

    • @drowningincats3921
      @drowningincats3921 6 років тому +346

      MUSIC LOVER weddings are traditionally paid for by the brides family. Tradition expects A LOT of a bride (with cultural variations). A dress, something old, something borrowed, etc. Men are required to show up. It not considered very masculine to want to shine on such a feminine day. Few men dream of their wedding their whole lives. If you don’t want to give someone u love something so important to them bc you decided a year ago it would be “cool” then maybe you don’t love them at all.

    • @berniemaguire8485
      @berniemaguire8485 6 років тому +201

      So true nearly every man on this show appears to be hopeless with everything, can’t manage money, can’t run a home, can’t get through the day with out the help of his 2nd mummy( girlfriend ). What sort of woman would want a man that stupid that he can’t run his own life not me for one. Think it says something about the woman as well needing a clingy man don’t understand it at all.

    • @userhasnousername
      @userhasnousername 6 років тому +88

      MUSIC LOVER that's not a guarantee. Some men also consider the woman, some women also consider the man. This is why it's better to plan it together.

  • @stephsvids9812
    @stephsvids9812 6 років тому +2315

    That’s like your girlfriend being claustrophobic and having the wedding in a lift

    • @bi_cycle
      @bi_cycle 5 років тому +61

      Guaranteed that was a rejected idea for the show

    • @melissawright1979
      @melissawright1979 5 років тому +11

      Totally agree

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 4 роки тому +11

      No, it isn't. If you are claustrophic then being in a lift is traumatic. If you don't like beer, it just makes a brewery not especially interesting for you. It's not a trauma to go to one.

    • @stephsvids9812
      @stephsvids9812 4 роки тому +41

      icturner23 I more meant it’s a stupid idea

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 4 роки тому +1

      Steph’s Vids Yes, but ‘This isn’t her favourite activity’ and ‘This will cause her psychological harm’ are unrelated levels of stupid. She acted like it was the latter but it was just the former, not a big deal at all.

  • @OrioleBeagle1234
    @OrioleBeagle1234 7 років тому +4056

    He made the entire wedding about HIMSELF.! He gave no thought about her or their relationship!.! I don't blame her for being angry!

    • @jessicareid7613
      @jessicareid7613 7 років тому +82

      I haven't seen the rest of this episode so you're probably right, but he looked like he was going to cry when she wiped the honey on his face

    • @hankelly552
      @hankelly552 7 років тому +33

      Jessica Reid yeah that was pure mean, he looked devestated throughout. Surely these people know their partners before signing up so i never understand why they're so suprised! She defo could have tried to make the most if it! Scarlet for the guests😂

    • @simonehoward4870
      @simonehoward4870 7 років тому +19

      han kelly exactly and most brides tend to plan weddings about themselves but I guess whatever

    • @hankelly552
      @hankelly552 7 років тому +24

      Simone Howard personally wouldn't be for me, if you're gonna marry someone it should be selfless and about you both, i'm sure she gets her own way most of the time! But this notion of it always being all about the bride is absolute BS.

    • @simonehoward4870
      @simonehoward4870 7 років тому

      han kelly understood

  • @NoirVelours
    @NoirVelours 6 років тому +816

    What is shocking is not his lack of respect for her (she hates beer) but that none of his friends or family made him realize how dumb his idea of a wedding was?

    • @TheBooshBabe
      @TheBooshBabe 4 роки тому +61

      The best man even SIDED with him and thought Sofia was overreacting

    • @lah1667
      @lah1667 4 роки тому +24

      @@TheBooshBabe but the best man did express reservations of the theme and dress for the bride etc... The groom just did not listen...

    • @sarahjaneheckscher6737
      @sarahjaneheckscher6737 4 роки тому +49

      The bit that really got me was that Sofia included Craig's sisters in her hen group, they fed back to him that she was unhappy and didn't want to go further with the wedding and he didn't bother to make any changes from there. They then talked Sofia into accepting the situation.

    • @StuartDessler
      @StuartDessler 4 роки тому +1

      I think the problem was with the best man egging him on (cos he secretly wanted to bum him)

    • @hellund2874
      @hellund2874 2 роки тому +13

      Because his mostly male friends and family are having a hoot and get a good time for themselves out of him being a selfish prick. They don't give a flying toss about the bride, only about their own fun.

  • @TheDarkhounds
    @TheDarkhounds 6 років тому +645

    The only girl who came out that show with self respect

    • @zarintasnimela138
      @zarintasnimela138 4 роки тому +13

      Totally agree.

    • @hollyshaw2469
      @hollyshaw2469 2 роки тому +8

      She didn't they got back together then broke up again messing there kids up thinking that is a normal relationship.

  • @rosieHolliday5887
    @rosieHolliday5887 4 роки тому +295

    Her reaction over the so called "hen do" was the right reaction. Her party was a seriously crappy pub & a walk around a brewery while he's on a two day bender to Prague. Not a chance would I marry someone so utterly selfish. I bet he only took part in the show to get everything paid for. He probably knew what he was doing would end the relationship. I hope she never went back to him

    • @crazywomanpress
      @crazywomanpress Рік тому +12

      Its not the first episode where the guys went overseas and the women got stuck with a shitty night. Don't they realise its being filmed she's gonna find out lol

    • @TheBooshBabe
      @TheBooshBabe 5 місяців тому +3

      Sadly she did

    • @Bella-fz9fy
      @Bella-fz9fy 2 місяці тому

      ​@crazywomanpress This show drove me mad with so many of the men doing that,SO F*CKING SELFISH...AAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!😂

  • @shortie_c_4133
    @shortie_c_4133 7 років тому +372

    He didn’t think about her at all! I felt so bad so her, she deserved so much better.

  • @jennifermae134
    @jennifermae134 7 років тому +577

    I think the reason she stopped talking to him again when the show aired was because it would have become obvious that he didn’t just ‘accidentally get it wrong’, but openly disregarded what she would want throughout the whole process, only caring for what he and he alone wanted.

    • @my12spoonswithrose43
      @my12spoonswithrose43 7 років тому +14

      Jennifer Wilson and how many times does that happen to the males in a "normal" wedding but no one gives a shit.

    • @tnuc1968
      @tnuc1968 7 років тому +9

      Jennifer Wilson The whole series is like this. I don't think a single woman has been pleased with the result..

    • @jennifermae134
      @jennifermae134 7 років тому +59

      I’ve seen many episodes where they are more than pleased. Women that disregard what their partner wants are equally as selfish, though if we are honest, often the groom isn’t really bothered about the details of the wedding like bride. That’s no excuse for his behaviour though.

    • @stevekima8881
      @stevekima8881 6 років тому +54

      Any guy who wants his wedding to be about beer...is not ready to be a serious partner in life. Thats all i can think of

    • @sk8rpunkbarbie
      @sk8rpunkbarbie 6 років тому +11

      Jennifer Wilson actually all the weddings are staged without the bride knowing a friend of mine made it to the show selection and all the good dresses get taken out of the shop so make bloke look bad they also put obstacles in way

  • @swordchild0013
    @swordchild0013 7 років тому +2243

    I feel sorry for her. On the one hand, what did you expect going on a show like this. On the other, for the groom come on! Together for eight years and given you two kids... like why do a beer themed wedding??

    • @jennifermae134
      @jennifermae134 7 років тому +192

      Tucna Fucna That makes no sense. How is she a skank? Idiotic society? You are the one saying she is not attractive so is lucky to be even getting married. How the hell is a beer wedding about the kids? Are you saying she should have just married this selfish moron whatever because they have children together? Who are you to say she was wanting to ‘impress people’?
      Maybe she was just wanting her partner to consider her for one moment in the planning of their JOINT wedding, rather than only himself. Maybe she was thinking about the prospect of a ‘life’ with such a person...

    • @swordchild0013
      @swordchild0013 7 років тому +52

      I meant he should have know her enough to know what she would have wanted to have and at least include her i some way. I mentioned the kids only to show that they have shared a huge amount together and a wedding is meant to represent you as a couple. She probably looked awful because she did not want to be there.

    • @jennifermae134
      @jennifermae134 7 років тому +86

      Tucna It is very clear you have not watched the episode. She looks bad because she has been crying.
      Just because a few, other, unknown women made their weddings all about themselves doesn’t mean that she has to accept her man doing that. Usually men don’t care about the small details on the day anyway, so that’s why weddings tend to be based on the brides vision. But if something is important to either party it should be done on the day as far as possible.
      Also women who act spoiled and make the day difficult are called bridezillers for a reason. It’s not meant to be a complement.
      You don’t know why they go on tv. Maybe because the wedding gets paid for? Weddings are expensive. The girl on this episode wanted a small outdoor minimalist ceremony with close friends and a few fairy lights. Not sure how that amounts to a show off wedding. I’m sure she never expected perfection but thought after eight years her partner might get it half right.
      Still don’t get your comparison with kids. Most people consider the birth of their kids as more important than their wedding, but that doesn’t make the wedding day non important.
      I feel like you are totally missing the point. It was not simply about the venue and the dress not being perfect. It was about his lack of consideration for her. Anyone with any self respect would not have married him either - but each to their own.

    • @swordchild0013
      @swordchild0013 7 років тому +17

      This show is notorious for making the grooms and brides life hell by like creating unnecessary tension and forcing the grooms to make decisions that will stress out the bride on purpose etc...

    • @jennifermae134
      @jennifermae134 7 років тому +3

      Swordchild001 Yeah, I guess that’s what gives it the ‘entertainment factor’ :/
      Btw my comment about kids wasn’t directed at your comment.

  • @happypepperdog5260
    @happypepperdog5260 4 роки тому +88

    Kinda unrelated but that flowery dress she wears looks so beautiful with her hair.

  • @slashdisco
    @slashdisco 4 роки тому +124

    I felt a bit sorry for this guy at first (especially the honey part, he looked heartbroken) but I'm glad I read other comments, as I tracked down the full episode and he was a totally selfish asshole from start to finish. He ignored several instances he was being told she was majorly unhappy, and was actually rude and dismissive of her (calling her selfish and spoiled) throughout. He even insulted the bridesmaids when they tried to tell him she wouldn't like it. His American friend was a horrible tool too and, instead of remaining calm and neutrally supportive, actually made it worse by goading the groom into thinking the bride was selfish.

    • @shireenesherry2872
      @shireenesherry2872 2 роки тому +4

      Best comment

    • @sunnysuha2032
      @sunnysuha2032 2 роки тому +14

      Yes!! His friend Pisssed me off! He should’ve married his friend instead

  • @rachelt9267
    @rachelt9267 7 років тому +1473

    I can't believe he was going to get married in that outfit..

    • @vanessar1804
      @vanessar1804 6 років тому +60

      Rachel T , I was waiting for someone to say how tacky he looked. Gross outfit.

    • @pinkheart315
      @pinkheart315 6 років тому +6

      Rachel T yeah not classy at all

    • @katiebayliss9887
      @katiebayliss9887 6 років тому +5

      Rachel T its a German cultural costume.

    • @BruinPhD2009
      @BruinPhD2009 6 років тому +49

      It is a traditional outfit, usually found in Bavaria. However, I've never seen anyone in Germany get married dress like that. It's more for fests and, well, beer parties.

    • @rickar-mercenary-3804
      @rickar-mercenary-3804 6 років тому +5

      BruinPhD2009 it's a beer themed wedding.....this dude is a sad sap

  • @UserUk1
    @UserUk1 7 років тому +527

    She looks better in that dress

  • @PoppyCupCake89
    @PoppyCupCake89 6 років тому +809

    This is the saddest wedding ceremony I have ever seen. Why on earth did he think an Oktoberfest wedding would make his fiance happy? Is she German somewhere along the line? If not, I think it was incredibly selfish of him. They clearly only went through with the exchanging of vows because of all the guests there - they didn't legally get married and both looked like they were breaking up at the altar or being forced to do it. I don't think their relationship will last!

    • @katiebayliss9887
      @katiebayliss9887 6 років тому +4

      PoppyCupCake89 I mean I would love an Oktoberfest wedding, lol

    • @LJason-gq3os
      @LJason-gq3os 6 років тому +32

      @@katiebayliss9887 How many times have you commented on this vid? Ive seen you reply to everything. Stop getting so triggered, bitch. I thought conservative women were supposed to stay in the kitchen and refrain from having opinions.

    • @ceciliakaas3580
      @ceciliakaas3580 6 років тому +22

      @@LJason-gq3os thats not really rigt to say. The fact is that he made it all beer related and she clearly did not enjoy that which was very selfish of him.

    • @LJason-gq3os
      @LJason-gq3os 6 років тому +5

      @@ceciliakaas3580 Why are you replying to me? I agree that what the guy did was bad.

    • @ceciliakaas3580
      @ceciliakaas3580 6 років тому +22

      About what you said with the staying in the kitchen. It is rude

  • @nunyabusiness7858
    @nunyabusiness7858 7 років тому +127

    Sometimes a situation gets to the point where the best thing you can do is go to KFC and call it a day.

  • @JJ-qo8nv
    @JJ-qo8nv 7 років тому +420

    he fcked up majorly

  • @gina.thatproverbs31woman
    @gina.thatproverbs31woman 7 років тому +440

    I would leave him.

    • @JulieWallis1963
      @JulieWallis1963 6 років тому +29

      Gina Marisa I'd never be with him. What a thoughtless prick he was.

    • @tyla4095
      @tyla4095 6 років тому +6

      So did she by the looks of it 😂

    • @olie171
      @olie171 5 років тому

      No, he would leave you.

  • @peachycreep
    @peachycreep 5 років тому +32

    She just wanted one thing to not be about him, and he couldn’t do it. Good on her. She told him throughout the entire planning that it upset her and he still made it all about him

  • @YEYEBALL7
    @YEYEBALL7 7 років тому +781

    Fuuuuuuck.... that was painful to watch 😕

    • @paulinemodisane2624
      @paulinemodisane2624 5 років тому

      It was. I kinda felt sorry for both of them.

    • @sarahobyrne6638
      @sarahobyrne6638 5 років тому +2

      Quite shocking to watch, I was in disbelief watching this with my mouth open like wtaf this can't be real, I would have served time in prison for him doing this on my wedding day.

  • @tylerbean542
    @tylerbean542 5 років тому +73

    Ive been shamelessly binging on these episodes. This is the SADDEST one of the bunch. Seems the “groom” was just being cruel. She’s a lovely girl and deserves better from a husband. Good luck, honey. 🍀

  • @passing4human598
    @passing4human598 5 років тому +31

    "Sophia's upset because everything so far has been beer related". LMAO

  • @meg5323
    @meg5323 5 років тому +22

    I just watched this episode for the first time and it was such a rollercoaster. The purpose of this show is that the weddings are meant to be stupid and jokey. That's one thing, but purposely basing your fiancée's biggest day around something that you know she'll hate, that's something else entirely. He was trying to embarrass her from start to finish. I was shouting at the TV when it looked like she was going through it. If you're having that many doubts about the person you're meant to love, questioning whether or not you should even turn up to your own wedding, questioning whether your fiancé even knows you after eight years and not even wanting to LOOK at him on your wedding day; then you need to listen to your gut instincts. If you're really meant to be, you wouldn't have those doubts at all. As sad as this episode was, I was relieved that they didn't make the marriage legal, and I'd be surprised if they worked things out. They would have divorced sooner or later anyway. Also, that guy was the most irritating best man I've ever seen, and her blue flowery dress was gorgeous and way better than the cheap wedding dress he got her.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому

      no the purpose of the show is not "the weddings are meant to be stupid and jokey." some of the grooms actually take it seriously and plan really impressive and thoughtful weddings for their bride. only the juvenile chavs who think their whole relationship is a joke plan jokey weddings like this, more brides should do like sofia did and tell these manchildren to piss off.

  • @limeproductions7873
    @limeproductions7873 6 років тому +267

    I would've thrown the goddamn ring in his face. How could he possibly have thought she would've been okay with this? Not one thing was done for her, not a single thing. I would've just gone into KFC with my goddamn dress, ordered a bucket of chicken and lived my good life.

    • @daniellekade4699
      @daniellekade4699 6 років тому +2

      Lumorniel Sycamore that’s why you’re single 😂

    • @lizsugrue5806
      @lizsugrue5806 6 років тому +18

      Single...in style!

    • @aislinlindsay3950
      @aislinlindsay3950 6 років тому +51

      Danielle kade rather be single than with a dickhead who loves beer more than me

    • @lizsugrue5806
      @lizsugrue5806 6 років тому +11

      Aislin Lindsay girl, I’m glad I’m single. I don’t have to put up with pricks for the rest of my life.

    • @aislinlindsay3950
      @aislinlindsay3950 6 років тому +6

      liz sugrue lmao same, best kinda life

  • @etherealechoes9907
    @etherealechoes9907 5 років тому +16

    He constantly said she was spoiled, hard to please etc, but after watching the full episode, I think she handled it as best she could. She even appreciated the dress simply because it wasn't the other one; some brides would want their dress perfect-she was just happy as she said not to be in the fancy dress one. He made the whole thing about him, and he didn't seem that sorry as he turned it on her and said it was due to her wanting it perfect; she just wanted something for her. He made out she was really fussy when she was simply stating nothing was for her, and she was right. The best man had no empathy for her either. Every mistake they made was somehow her fault. Eurgh. She seemed like a down to earth genuine person.

  • @moonchild3717
    @moonchild3717 6 років тому +99

    "She's not comeing Why?" WELL WHAT DO YOU THINK

  • @kyoko2752
    @kyoko2752 7 років тому +904

    Most important day in a woman's life... And he makes it all about him

    • @samuraijack8274
      @samuraijack8274 7 років тому +54

      Not related to this video but its the most important day for only the woman??!!

    • @kyoko2752
      @kyoko2752 7 років тому +32

      John smith That's not what I said. Traditionally the brides family pays for the wedding and they take into account the likes of both the bride and the groom. Not seeing a lot of that in this situation when it's flipped around.

    • @my12spoonswithrose43
      @my12spoonswithrose43 7 років тому +20

      Kyoko Kosplay! That's exactly what you said "most important day in a woman's life" there is no mention of the males at all. As for taking into account the groom's wishes, I've been to many who get no say so as its all about the female & thats it.

    • @PRRAY-fu8my
      @PRRAY-fu8my 7 років тому +3

      rosemary keay th ey said that they usually take into account the groom's wishes as well?

    • @my12spoonswithrose43
      @my12spoonswithrose43 7 років тому

      Wonka HP MSP im talking about in general.

  • @mol830
    @mol830 5 років тому +25

    He can give the humiliation but can't take it

  • @shoutatme7362
    @shoutatme7362 4 роки тому +38

    That's the most reasonable reaction I've seen from a bride yet on Don't tell the Bride. Don't get why they don't all react like this.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому +1

      i suspect there may be something in the contract where they have to pay back all the money if they don't go through with it and most of the couples can't afford to do that. there was one where the groom was clearly a gambling addict and planned the whole wedding in vegas while he was on a 9-day bender with his bestie. she went through with the ceremony despite being devastated and threatening to call it off the day before, but they ended up divorced anyway.

  • @lassebauer
    @lassebauer 5 років тому +15

    “Everything so far has been beer related!” 😂
    Yeah, that groom is a real keeper👍🏼

  • @louisasmiles
    @louisasmiles 6 років тому +82

    He started crying at the honey smearing. Well, i guess he got a little taste of what he put her through. This fake wedding tested their relationship and it broke them. So sad. I hope they learnt good lessons and have better relationships in the future.

    • @TheZombifiedFairy
      @TheZombifiedFairy 6 років тому +4

      Nope, the fact she couldn't be bothered to even give it a chance speaks volumes about her. Beer and wine venues actually have beautiful places for the wedding and its rather shallow for her to do this.
      EDIt: Not to mention she did that out of pure malice. Who tf does that?

    • @KitsunenoHibi
      @KitsunenoHibi 6 років тому +54

      @@TheZombifiedFairy Because he did all that KNOWING she absolutely hates beer, and just wanted a simple, serious wedding. Not to mention, every single part of the process involved beer... even her bachelorette party was at a brewery. She hates beer, and in response.... he makes their whole engagement and wedding celebration about beer. And it wasn't like he didn't know.... they'd been together 8 years, it's impossible he didn't know. So he took a day that meant so much to her, marrying the man she'd loved and had two children with... and made it about him and something that makes her miserable. He hurt her deeply.

    • @louisasmiles
      @louisasmiles 6 років тому +31

      @@TheZombifiedFairy someone who is sick to the teeth of being made a joke. Someone who knew he wasn't taking it seriously, so why should she? He got a little taste of the hurt he caused her. And he teared up! Well boohoo little man. He treated her like a joke. It's the biggest day of her life.

    • @mimikiwinize1994
      @mimikiwinize1994 5 років тому +6

      TheZombifiedFairy umm,no,she hates beer and he knew that

    • @lah1667
      @lah1667 4 роки тому +2

      @@KitsunenoHibi none of the weddings on this show are serious (Loch Ness monster, back to school, dinosaur themed etc) but some were much better than this...

  • @superbadgirl82
    @superbadgirl82 4 роки тому +24

    I've seen the whole episode of this and the groom and best man were total douches the whole time. He went to Prague for his stag and sent her on a tour of a brewery for her hen. When she got upset about the hen one of her bridesmaids phoned him in Prague and told him how upset she was. When he hung up he said that she was a spoilt brat because she hadn't gotten her own way.

  • @Picnicl
    @Picnicl 6 років тому +3

    The shut bar in the background of the marriage vows added a nice touch. Always nice to see some buxom Bavarian barmaid bridesmaids in the heart of Burton-on-Trent too. And a heart to heart in a children's playground, a necessary feature of any wedding - or brewery tour.

  • @juless.9544
    @juless.9544 6 років тому +117

    I am from Bavaria/Germany and nobody here would marry like this. Way to cheesy.. Ridicioulus 😂

    • @lisakriegel9961
      @lisakriegel9961 5 років тому +3

      Wanted to write the same, I mean there are weddings with Tracht and all that jazz but way more traditional and much more tasteful than this shit...

  • @mscarrotcakesdfghj
    @mscarrotcakesdfghj 7 років тому +226

    Only went through with it because otherwise they'd have to pay back the money he spent

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 7 років тому +24

      I would have just let him deal with it....

    • @martinallisonwylie4073
      @martinallisonwylie4073 5 років тому +1

      He should of walked away and say you’ve called it off you signed a contract agreeing to marry regardless of the wedding you pay it back

  • @lunalove9395
    @lunalove9395 7 років тому +700

    i'm surprised they didn't break up

  • @Depplover4good
    @Depplover4good 5 років тому +18

    My fiance heard the concept for this show and he said, "no way, would I ever chose our wedding stuff. I want you to have the wedding of your dreams."

  • @broadwaymelody33
    @broadwaymelody33 6 років тому +20

    The show is called “Don’t tell the Bride”. Men, that’s a big hint to think of it as “This is How Much I Know and Love Her”

  • @bilqiseeee121
    @bilqiseeee121 7 років тому +144

    Some sad ass wedding

  • @reallymariah894
    @reallymariah894 4 роки тому +10

    First bride with enough sense to realize it would never be about her.

  • @Kurothechurro23
    @Kurothechurro23 6 років тому +17

    Why is no one talking about how pretty her secret dress is 😂❤️🙏🏻

  • @armincagoodwin367
    @armincagoodwin367 6 років тому +49

    They didnt make it legal by signing papers. Good for her. I would leave his selfish, disrespectful ass where I found him. True colors showed on their wedding day.

    • @AdamYoung-p1m
      @AdamYoung-p1m 7 годин тому

      Thank goodness it wasn't legal after what he is done to her. What a self centered bastard

  • @olakinrimisi6053
    @olakinrimisi6053 5 років тому +15

    This is so sad. Imagine putting your trust in someone who is supposed to know what the day means to you and they let you down like this.

  • @purpleorchid9183
    @purpleorchid9183 4 роки тому +39

    Ouch. Imagine being a guest at that wedding lol

  • @anthonyvillanueva5226
    @anthonyvillanueva5226 3 роки тому +11

    Why do the men on this show seem to think that their weddings are just themed parties for them

  • @sarahbarby488
    @sarahbarby488 3 роки тому +21

    Even after he knows she’s angry he’s still standing there with a huge BEER 🍺 in his hand🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому

      cause he's a fuckin alcoholic that's why. he should've booked a stay in rehab instead of a wedding.

  • @PaulMcCaffreyfmac
    @PaulMcCaffreyfmac 4 роки тому +7

    There has just been an episode on tv here where the groom and his mates went to Benidorm for the stag do and 'organised' the hen do at an assault course without telling any of the girls they'd need a change of clothes afterwards. The reception was in a cattle market building. Frankly I'm amazed that more women don't just walk away....or run away even.

  • @elizabethjarram
    @elizabethjarram 3 роки тому +8

    Basically he treated the wedding as if he didn't care about her feelings at all.
    She was right to be upset because it was obvious that the wedding was a joke to him through what he planned.

  • @karinszilagyi8225
    @karinszilagyi8225 7 років тому +86

    I feel sorry for her, because he clearly didn't think about what she would like at all. I'm actually also getting married at a brewery next year though I originally wanted a princess castle wedding, but in our case we agreed on it together after going through the pros and cons of the different locations. And I'm excited about my brewery wedding because that specific place is very pretty and we'll still make it an elegant affair with a bit of a twist instead of turning it into a ridiculous show like here.

    • @frogsnack7072
      @frogsnack7072 6 років тому

      Breweries have the best food,actually.

    • @Persephone01
      @Persephone01 5 років тому +5

      That's cute :) Yeah in a wedding, I think its all about compromise and learning from each other. I might have my future wedding (if I ever get married) at the Guinness Brewery because I am half Irish and I've always wanted to go there. Good luck with your wedding :D

    • @sarahjaneheckscher6737
      @sarahjaneheckscher6737 4 роки тому +3

      It is perfectly possible to have a lovely wedding whatever the location and whoever does the organisation.... it's a matter of the love that goes into it. May you both be very happy together.

  • @user-pv3cb8or4x
    @user-pv3cb8or4x 7 років тому +590

    This is why women should not have children with a man until they know that they will be loved and respected in that relationship.

    • @melanieortiz712
      @melanieortiz712 7 років тому +94

      Sammy indeed. Kids don't tie men down. They tie women down. That's patriarchy for you. Women also should test their mates. This was his test he failed.

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 7 років тому +17

      Well women have the choice whether to get pregnant and whether or not to have a child. Women need to choose their partners more carefully.

    • @melanieortiz712
      @melanieortiz712 6 років тому +62

      Sammy that's assuming a lot. Considering there's many parts of the world including here in the USA women's reproductive rights and choices are under attack.

    • @melanieortiz712
      @melanieortiz712 6 років тому +65

      Sammy you should advocate for men to get vesctomines instead doing the shitty sexist thing by putting all the burden on women.

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 6 років тому +8

      Melanie instead of men getting a vasectomy wouldn't it just be easier for women to keep their legs shut ?
      I'm in the UK we have so many different forms of contraceptions, the morning after pill and a last resort of an abortion there is absolutely no reason for a woman to have a child if she does not want.
      As an American you are in the land of the free are you not, your governments are quick to impose their will on other countries but restrict their own women so it might be more useful for you to advocate womens rights wouldn't it.

  • @GradKat
    @GradKat 5 років тому +44

    I remember this episode - and the looks on the bridesmaids’ faces when they had to put on horrible cheap dirndl outfits. And the dress he chose for his bride was even worse. The traditional dirndl is actually a beautiful costume, but a real one - well made and good quality - is very expensive and this cheapskate preferred to spend all the money on his stag do.

  • @mrs.tiffany
    @mrs.tiffany 6 років тому +28

    She was hurt that he didn't include her it is supposed to be about sharing your life together and he put her feelings underneath his own instead of making things equal I don't blame her one bit and he deserved to feel like he did because of what he did you can tell they both were upset and that is no way to start a marriage and if a man treats the mother of his children the person he is in love with like that I can only imagine the life they would share together

  • @papabear_cdxl4699
    @papabear_cdxl4699 6 років тому +31

    Wow, it's pretty lonely in his support corner 🤣
    Hope she ditched the selfish fool

  • @meganbyrne436
    @meganbyrne436 6 років тому +108

    Wow, she looks absolutely p'd off at the altar and totally disinterested in what's going on ... If it were me I'd be saying no!!!

  • @LeoandLamb
    @LeoandLamb 6 років тому +2

    I just wanna give that poor lass a hug. She probably deserves better. And yet the poor bugger had kids with that crank.

  • @strongandstable4590
    @strongandstable4590 6 років тому +5

    LMAO THE KIDS ON THEIR PHONES DURING THE VOWS I'm dyinggg

  • @OrioleBeagle
    @OrioleBeagle Рік тому +2

    In addition to the traditional wedding cake he could have had a beer garden themed grooms cake and had a traditional wedding. No beer garden or brewery. A grooms cake is the easiest way to show the interests of the groom without ruining the entire wedding.

  • @AppleGakure
    @AppleGakure 7 років тому +39

    well he can do his next wedding at the MC donald's drive in.

  • @gracebenjamin5548
    @gracebenjamin5548 6 місяців тому +2

    I don't blame her for getting upset. He doesn't take their relationship seriously.

  • @cirias
    @cirias 4 роки тому +53

    Craig's best man is an absolute bellend throughout this episode. I don't think he really helped Craig to adapt the wedding to suit Sofia.

    • @georgiapeach1689
      @georgiapeach1689 4 роки тому +17

      He was so toxic! Complaining about the hen do, whilst they are in Prague, being rude to bridesmaids, putting the party ahead of their decision, which will affect them for live, etc.

    •  4 роки тому +2

      proper bellend, only in it for himself, didn't once think about the bride

    • @hamedabegumhb
      @hamedabegumhb 4 роки тому +5

      Oh my days YESS 100% AGREE! He was such a knob! "Fuck her hen, she needs to get over it, it's not about her" SHES THE BRIDE! He was sucha toxic friend!

    • @cazz24xxx65
      @cazz24xxx65 3 роки тому +1

      Agree 100% he was vile

  • @PixieSpellsLove
    @PixieSpellsLove 7 років тому +36

    Not quite as awful as the pig farm but still fucking bad. Just the fact he didn't take any consideration for her is awful.

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 7 років тому +2

      Well that pig farm bride still got a lovely dress.....and if its a toss up between Germans or pigs....I'd go for the pigs.

    • @PixieSpellsLove
      @PixieSpellsLove 7 років тому +2

      Sammy yeah but those pig onesies he made the bridesmaids wear were atrocious! And what’s the point of a nice dress if you’re made to trudge through mud? We have weddings at vineyards all the time so I can see why a brewery can be appealing for SOME. But this guy still fucked it up bad.

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 7 років тому +1

      Well vineyards are different, they are beautiful and romantic but a grubby brewery on an industrial estate is something else. The pig onesies were brilliant not only were they too big they were also see through - what more can a girl ask for ! Tbh I'm surprised that the groom had some sense to put some flooring down so she was lucky in that respect.

    • @AnzuBrief
      @AnzuBrief 7 років тому +5

      Thing is, the pig groom, he did the pig wedding because the bride likes pigs. He went about it wrong, obvioulsy, but he did it for her. This bride hates beer, the groom knows it - and he bought her a horrible dress and went on holidays with his mates using the money instead.

    • @GothicPhantom01
      @GothicPhantom01 6 років тому +3

      Oh that pig farm one was 10 levels of sheer cringing hell.

  • @DuckBuddy
    @DuckBuddy 3 роки тому +8

    A wedding is a reflection of how the marriage is going to be. If one party makes it all about them it's going to be a rough marriage. I know because my ex planned everything according to what he wanted, and his dad planned our honeymoon. Nothing was for me, except the cake, which his dad ruined. It's exactly how the marriage turned out. Nothing was for me, and now we're divorced.

  • @jamieanderson2029
    @jamieanderson2029 5 років тому +6

    If it wasn't for the fact that they signed a contract stating that they had to pay back everything if they didn't go through with the wedding I don't think she would have gone through with it...

  • @svetamakoveeva318
    @svetamakoveeva318 7 років тому +306

    That's literally the most sad wedding it's almost like they forgot they were together until they put on the rings. If the girl just gave the groom one hug before they walked up.. I think he would've reacted more light hearted when they did the whole honey thing how sad!!

    • @berniemaguire8485
      @berniemaguire8485 6 років тому +96

      She did nothing wrong and hopefully he’s gone and she can find a real grown up man

    • @svetamakoveeva318
      @svetamakoveeva318 6 років тому +1

      Bernie Maguire i mean i hope so too but i just cant imagine fighting with someone and then being playful with them once the ceremony starts. She did it out of spite which is nothing in comparison to what a shit show he put together. I just feel like if you decide to go through with it might as well make things less uncomfortable for yourself, let the wrong doings go for just a moment and cheer each other up before exchanging rings. He seems upset with himself (again, doesnt excuse his awful planning). She didnt do anything wrong but she lacks in the emotional control department. I have a feeling this wasnt the first time he hated himself in that relationship. Surely wasnt the first time that she considered leaving him lol. I also understand that they didnt want to let their family down and put on a show for them since they were waiting.

    • @kait2972
      @kait2972 6 років тому +19

      @@svetamakoveeva318 they had to do the ceremony part for the TV or they have to pay the money back.

    • @GoriBeringeifan332
      @GoriBeringeifan332 6 років тому +23

      @@svetamakoveeva318There was no way for her to put on a happy face while being treated like dirt. She said "I've given him so many chances...", I'll assume that means this little display of selfish, petty idiocy was the last drop on a very full bucket. Playing along would be like saying "go ahead, keep disrespecting me, I'll just keep on smiling, giggling and being a nice, pliable, little girl, so you and your mates can feel relaxed, comfortable and laugh at my expense".

  • @bluesky6386
    @bluesky6386 6 років тому +25

    This show is really devastating... This girl is amazing...

  • @HijabisRocks
    @HijabisRocks 7 років тому +63

    She looked sad 💔

  • @mrcritical6751
    @mrcritical6751 2 роки тому +1

    This is like the inverse of the Pride & Prejudice wedding. One is all about the stuff the bride loves and putting the groom’s stuff aside, the other is purely for the groom and throws what the bride loves out the window

  • @infjgirl3850
    @infjgirl3850 4 роки тому +8

    He’s acting all butt-hurt at the honey ritual yet completely humiliated his bride and disregarded her thoughts and feelings throughout the planning process by making it all beer-oriented - specifically something she DIDN’T want, despite several warnings along the way. He’s got a bloody cheek, honestly.

  • @Liitebulb
    @Liitebulb 3 роки тому +1

    8 years together....nice to see how much he cares after all this

  • @pipermills646
    @pipermills646 6 років тому +31

    Wow. Who would marry such a self centered guy

  • @aliceevans5064
    @aliceevans5064 6 років тому +15

    Ffs a beer themed wedding. No that’s awful I’d cancel 😂😭

  • @annag8678
    @annag8678 6 років тому +34

    Getting a bit sick of the "men have had to put up with women controlling the day" stuff.
    I know a LOT of married couples and not one of those couples had the woman control everything. In fact most of them were decided upon by the men and the only thing the women had final say on were the bridesmaid dresses and the wedding dress. The men were involved with the where, the who and the when and all chose their own suits etc. Utter bollocks to say women do everything all the time. You might know one or two couples where the bloke just really didn't care so the woman took over but overall couples do it together

  • @wazitSomethingISaid
    @wazitSomethingISaid 4 роки тому +3

    she didnt take the honey bit seriously.... but to be fair he didnt take anything seriously and just planned a party for him an his mate with beer.

  • @onlychimerically
    @onlychimerically 6 років тому +22

    this was sad. she deserves more than this !

  • @luckygloating9195
    @luckygloating9195 6 років тому +4

    I noticed:
    Grooms- MAKE IT AWSOME, BADASS , FUN , AND UNFORGETTABLE
    Brides- make it beautiful, romantic, fun, and a wonderful memory

    • @Sam-oo1uo
      @Sam-oo1uo 5 років тому

      DTTB Grooms: Also, make it cheap as chips and spend most of the money on the Stag party.

  • @soediamantis8787
    @soediamantis8787 7 років тому +14

    The title is my mood 24/7

  • @Hellybob
    @Hellybob 4 роки тому +5

    Everyone remember when he made sure he had a great time abroad on a stag do and gave her a shitty pub hen do and a brewery tour (knowing she hates beer)

  • @x.foxy_games.xxoxox6483
    @x.foxy_games.xxoxox6483 6 років тому +7

    if someone did this to me, I know what do.... IT'S TIME FOR CHICKEN!! 😂

  • @marigoldbells9581
    @marigoldbells9581 6 років тому +8

    he clearly values beer over her

  • @HaloNinja009
    @HaloNinja009 7 років тому +42

    Yeah this marriage isn't going to last long

    • @alfwinnn4224
      @alfwinnn4224 4 роки тому +2

      In the video it says they didn't get married aka sign the papers so..

    • @lizsugrue5806
      @lizsugrue5806 4 роки тому

      Well they have the ceremony bt decided not to register their marriage, I don’t blame Sofia tbh. Her husband made it all about himself, and none about Sofia or their children. Sad, isn’t it?

  • @adamquirke6024
    @adamquirke6024 Рік тому +2

    Why would you have children with someone like that?

  • @CassieDee21
    @CassieDee21 4 роки тому +4

    I remember watching this when it first aired. My god it was so awkward and sad to watch and with the part at the end, I don’t know what the outcome will be for them.

    • @hollyshaw2469
      @hollyshaw2469 2 роки тому +1

      They got back together then broke up again totally messing up there kids idea of what relationships are.

  • @janecot123
    @janecot123 6 років тому +2

    I watched this episode and he did the whole wedding about him and he said she was over reacting and being selfish, I mean poor woman to go to your own wedding where nothing is for you not even the hen night what a selfish man

    • @deusexmachina9776
      @deusexmachina9776 6 років тому

      If she wanted to plan things herself she should not have agreed to the show

  • @two-moonz2953
    @two-moonz2953 6 років тому +15

    Two people live together and have children together for 8 years and still do not know each other?

  • @sfoster.23
    @sfoster.23 4 роки тому +1

    ‘United in our delight’
    *child cries*

  • @smokebomb4803
    @smokebomb4803 4 роки тому +7

    This theme will go well for a girl who loves beer and had a dream about having a beer themed wedding but in this case the bride went to the opposite direction can’t really blame her honestly because she dreamed of a elegant wedding with a beautiful wedding dress
    (Edit) but instead she got the one thing that she hates the most

  • @tiamilo3673
    @tiamilo3673 3 роки тому +2

    Why these women marry these men after seeing how little they are loved and respected is beyond me. Like, girl, use your effing brain. If he's gonna do this to you on your wedding day, what kinda life do you think awaits you with him....No wonder marriages fall apart so easily, they're based on nothing.

  • @clearhero7487
    @clearhero7487 5 років тому +4

    You can see the pain in her eyes

  • @goldensheepdog
    @goldensheepdog 6 років тому

    That look in his face during the ceremony when he finally realized that he fucked up lol and he got upset that she didn’t feed him with the honey. Well that’s what you get for pissing off the mother of your children

  • @Clo_Dub
    @Clo_Dub 4 роки тому +7

    02:00 he uses the kid as emotional blackmail there

  • @briaanderson3889
    @briaanderson3889 7 років тому +68

    Brutal to watch 😕

  • @SolangeLOLable
    @SolangeLOLable 2 роки тому +3

    Alot of these guys are selfish. One guy spent most of the money on his stag night with his friends

  • @ernsynlee7938
    @ernsynlee7938 3 роки тому +1

    ...But why was her normal floral print dress so much prettier than her wedding dress 😭

  • @RabbitTeaPot
    @RabbitTeaPot 7 років тому +13

    Ohhh buddy, she’ll be reminding you of this day for the rest of your life hahahaha any time you have an argument it’s a hell of an ace to pull

    • @Liitebulb
      @Liitebulb 3 роки тому

      They broke up. Obviously

  • @elizabethowens8994
    @elizabethowens8994 Рік тому +2

    Almost all of these men I have noticed are selfish and only plan the wedding around themselves. I have also noticed that most of these couples are unmarried with children. That should tell you something right there. If he were serious he would have married them from the start. It is so easy these days for a man to plant his seed and walk away and sadly women allow it.

  • @issatwinting9651
    @issatwinting9651 6 років тому +3

    With KFC running out of chicken that must of been the last straw!!! 😳🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏾‍♂️😭

  • @morgantbelfast9979
    @morgantbelfast9979 4 роки тому +2

    The best man was a complete nightmare and a disgrace 🤬 he was selfish and spoke to the bridesmaids and spoke of the bride with so much disrespect, complete duche

    • @NorfolkEnchants
      @NorfolkEnchants 4 роки тому

      Kind of got the impression that the best man had a crush on the bride and did his best to ruin the wedding knowing the bride would be pissed and not go through with it....They did end up splitting up after this.