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  • @E4YouTube
    @E4YouTube  6 років тому +208

    Who do YOU think had the biggest disaster?! goo.gl/QRYrVy

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 6 років тому +41

      The poor bride who was scared of heights, I really felt bad for her.

    • @cassandra3100
      @cassandra3100 6 років тому +7

      Rose is just appalling. She is the epitome of a childish brat.

    • @Littlemisswantitall
      @Littlemisswantitall 6 років тому +28

      the bride who had her dress ruined followed by a close second the pigs

    • @heathermasuka9303
      @heathermasuka9303 6 років тому +5

      E4 No I’m not going to discriminate each of them had a perfectly Bad disaster but the KFC girl made me laugh

    • @Tina06019
      @Tina06019 6 років тому +3

      Heather Mshaw And the KFC gal had plenty to be pissed off about, but her dress was actually nice. I guess at that point, changing out of it was the only way she could say to her guests: so it’s a party, but it’s not my wedding.
      I doubt I would have smeared honey on my groom’s face, I would have been heartsick & weeping with anger the whole time at the damn brewery, if I were her.

  • @apenguinnamedabraham
    @apenguinnamedabraham 6 років тому +9355

    Love how a completely normal reaction to your partner ruining what’s supposed to be the most important day of your lives is branded as a ‘meltdown’.

    • @pogonavit
      @pogonavit 6 років тому +469

      Right? Like put my bridesmaids in something you laugh at, have me get married in mud, I can be disappointed. It's not a meltdown lol

    • @broadwaymelody33
      @broadwaymelody33 6 років тому +427

      Thank you. I don’t like when people act like the bride is shallow or “forgetting that the day is about looOOoOve”. Yeah, but Day is about the two of them. If one of them feels unappreciated or misunderstood by their life partner, then they have every right to be angry.

    • @Jenna-talia
      @Jenna-talia 6 років тому +62

      Why is it considered ruining it? Why does all of that matter? As someone who is getting married in 27 days, I am excited to marry my best friend, not to wear a stupid gown or eat food. I dont care if everything went wrong in the next 27 days, I'm going to marry my best friend and love of my life. These girls are superficial and are more excited about the wedding than actually getting married to their partner. If they wanted to pick the stuff out they shouldn't be on a TV show. They knew what they signed up for.

    • @pogonavit
      @pogonavit 6 років тому +266

      Jbean512 it's just hoping your future husband knows anything about what you want, and when they don't or purposefully do the opposite it can be frustrating. One saw the show as a way to blow a bunch of money in Vegas. All the bride wanted was family to be there. He didn't leave enough money for them to come. They can be upset. That's not superficial, it's realizing maybe he doesn't care.

    • @pogonavit
      @pogonavit 6 років тому +89

      Jbean512 like yeah the dress being off or whatever is nothing to say it's ruined over, but some of the husbands are selfish.

  • @wannabeth2815
    @wannabeth2815 5 років тому +1348

    4:17 the way she delivers that line “tACKyness“ right before she sips her glass of wine... marvelous! Almost Cersei-like!

  • @Persephone01
    @Persephone01 5 років тому +3930

    "Meltdowns" = Normal Reactions of having a disaster for a husband and a tacky wedding.

    • @hoseokssprite5758
      @hoseokssprite5758 4 роки тому +34

      Straight up FACTS

    • @beaniepanini
      @beaniepanini 4 роки тому +42

      Not a disaster, a straight up CHILD

    • @frodeskibrek
      @frodeskibrek 4 роки тому +12

      Or high maintenance women being bitchy and demanding...I feel sorry for the guys here. Nothing of this should really matter as long as you love each other.

    • @beaniepanini
      @beaniepanini 4 роки тому +33

      @@frodeskibrek You haven't seen the episode where the groom literally expects the bride and bridesmaids to wear see-through t-shirt dresses from Target they decorated in crude drawings of penises, have you?

    • @otomeleifu
      @otomeleifu 4 роки тому +27

      Frode Skibrek some of these clips are the fiancé dicking around and ruining the big day. If one person expresses what they want during their wedding before hand and the other person purposely tries to go against it due to personal gripes, then they have a right to be upset. Some of these ppl are wild as hell.

  • @Sunnybias
    @Sunnybias 6 років тому +5902

    I felt so bad for the first girl but she took it SO well - but that ain’t funny. It’s just mean.

    • @KitsunenoHibi
      @KitsunenoHibi 5 років тому +379

      No kidding; it was unacceptably awful. She got sprayed with something, for christ's sake. She doesn't know if it's even toxic or not! For all she knew, she was sprayed down with pesticides!

    • @facetwit99
      @facetwit99 5 років тому +184

      I wouldn't marry him

    • @NC-ij9rb
      @NC-ij9rb 5 років тому +36

      @325133 why the fuck are you so mean you fucking troll?! Get the fuck away from here. I bet you’re a fat good for nothing fugly person who’s so bitter with the world. Get a life.

    • @weltonvillegal6258
      @weltonvillegal6258 5 років тому +44

      Wouldn’t even give him a glance at the bar......

    • @325133
      @325133 5 років тому +2

      @@weltonvillegal6258 yes you would

  • @emilywest4522
    @emilywest4522 5 років тому +728

    The dad coming around the corner saying “bloody hell” had me wheezing 😂😂😂

    • @chloesmith5142
      @chloesmith5142 4 роки тому +31

      Emily West “Well they will go bloody wow won’t they” 😂😂

    • @Bella_KG
      @Bella_KG 2 роки тому +1

      Sameeeee

    • @stephaniegates9836
      @stephaniegates9836 10 місяців тому +1

      "It looks like a penis!" Made me giggle and the Dad with "Bloody hell.." was just the icing on the cake.

  • @PolarBearAja
    @PolarBearAja 6 років тому +2326

    I really don't think most of these are meltdowns. Just perfectly reasonable responses to very awful choices for their wedding day.
    Their fiancés need to ask themselves how well they actually know their partners and whether they should even be getting married.

    • @yolanda-kayrobinson6254
      @yolanda-kayrobinson6254 5 років тому +56

      Some grooms don't even care. One episode the groom kept saying how he knows she hates beer and did a full beer themed wedding...including her dress and wedding at a bar.

    • @silverstorm1000
      @silverstorm1000 21 день тому

      To be fair, I searched meltdowns and this is the sort of crazy shit I wanted to find. I wouldn’t call it a meltdown either, not in a judgey way.
      I’d have a much bigger meltdown and probably lose all sense of saving face.

  • @1rismono
    @1rismono 6 років тому +1273

    These poor brides, watching this gave me anxiety.
    Why would you ever do this to someone you love on the most important day of your lives?

    • @lilchunk9796
      @lilchunk9796 5 років тому +16

      All the women agreed to it so it's partly thier fault, if they wanted it how they wanted it then they shouldn't of gone on the show

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 5 років тому +61

      @@lilchunk9796 they agreed to have the groom plan the wedding, they didn't agree to a shit show. I'm sure most of them made the clearly very wrong assumption that their partners were mature and responsible enough to not totally muck up a free fucking wedding.

    • @---mn9fr
      @---mn9fr 5 років тому +2

      @@SjofnBM1989 the whole point of the show is that they fuck it up. Groom plans a sensible and normal wedding is a bit of a shit idea no?

    • @Snow-xq4nd
      @Snow-xq4nd 5 років тому +9

      @@---mn9fr
      Can we just note the fact that is a stereotype that Grooms don't know how to plan shit?

    • @nivedNnethan
      @nivedNnethan 2 роки тому

      Hm love u say

  • @evelynsalt9423
    @evelynsalt9423 6 років тому +2673

    I can understand where everyone is coming from saying the last one was overreacting, but if you’re in a serious relationship, you kind of expect the person you’re marrying to know you and what you like, so I can kind of see why it upset her so much. Also, have you ever tried wearing something you don’t like for one of the most important days of your life? Doesn’t exactly make you feel good.

    • @millietanner7717
      @millietanner7717 6 років тому +55

      Curious Rebel exactly. My partner would do everything I wanted and I know he would make the best choices

    • @II-ne3lp
      @II-ne3lp 6 років тому +31

      Curious Rebel My husband picked out my dress for me and the skirt was just lovely but the top half was this ugly purple color with a green ribbon and tbh i hated the dress because of it

    • @Tina06019
      @Tina06019 6 років тому +33

      But it wasn’t an UGLY dress; some of the grooms choose gross dresses, or dresses that don’t even fit, or revealing dresses when they know their brides are modest, or truly CRAPPY or hideous bridesmaids’ dresses.
      In the last case, I’d give my friends some loose parameters, have them choose their own preferred outfit from their own wardrobes, and let them ceremoniously ditch the crap dresses in a burn barrel outside of the venue for the ceremony.
      Maybe get scarecrows or mannequins and dress those in the shit bridesmaids’ dresses, and stick them up at the reception venue -- NOT expect my friends to wear them.

    • @Tina06019
      @Tina06019 6 років тому +11

      Kaetlyn ARMY That sounds like an odd combination - what was he thinking?

    • @II-ne3lp
      @II-ne3lp 6 років тому +6

      Tina to be completely honestly no idea. But it was the most idiotic decision he’s ever made.

  • @hawkfeather5408
    @hawkfeather5408 6 років тому +3473

    A.. prank... themed wedding?

    • @taneabree
      @taneabree 5 років тому +220

      Hawkfeather she was such a sport, I would’ve lost it lol

    • @Plueschhenne
      @Plueschhenne 5 років тому +4

      @Smileyrie James it sure does xD

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 5 років тому +76

      Right. Like what a great indicator that you are not enough of an adult to be married.

    • @LifeInPink999
      @LifeInPink999 5 років тому +4

      @Smileyrie James It seems that for him it does.

    • @NotTheGodOfWar
      @NotTheGodOfWar 5 років тому +5

      Hawkfeather Terrible idea

  • @cameronbennett2697
    @cameronbennett2697 6 років тому +4494

    I really am not understanding why these guys are doing this kind of stuff to their soon-to-be wives. Why would you put the perso you want to be with the rest of your life through hell, that you find funny, on a day that's meant to symbolise their future relationship. These ladies are not unreasonable. Surely guys want to give their girls everything they know they would want on such a day to make them feel special. IDIOTS

    • @saltycycling
      @saltycycling 6 років тому +51

      Because if that 'soon-to-be wife' says 'I don't want to marry him' becuse of a dress she's not worth s***. You should feel special on a wedding day because your marrying a peron that means the world to you and not because a f****** string on a f****** dress is the right colour.

    • @katelynanderson9883
      @katelynanderson9883 6 років тому +113

      they need to have a stupid idea that they submit to the producers who tweak it and encourage them to go more and more crazy during the filming so even if brides were in on the wacky idea originally they don't expect stuff to go more mental. The producers want reactions and "bad" reactions to keep us all entertained yaaaaaaaa know

    • @beldengi
      @beldengi 6 років тому +31

      A show for juveniles.

    • @Tina06019
      @Tina06019 6 років тому +52

      Piotr Pilarski If the dress is really a POS, when he has 12,000 pounds to spend on the wedding, that is extremely rude. If it’s just not what she would have preferred, then I would agree with you. My wedding dress cost only $75, and was not what I wanted, but it was what we could afford, and I didn’t look a fool in it. Happy wedding day & a good 40 year (so far) marriage.

    • @michaelfenn4479
      @michaelfenn4479 6 років тому +2

      I and why is she marrying him if she knows its a legal contract where he has no rights and could lose everything in the divorce courts?

  • @margotdenise5091
    @margotdenise5091 6 років тому +3930

    Tbh if my fiance made me marry him in a pig sty I would run for the hills

    • @Prox_C
      @Prox_C 6 років тому +16

      but what if he thought you liked pigs? :D :D

    • @selenahandoff8328
      @selenahandoff8328 6 років тому +38

      If anyone was completely in love with a person I don’t think the where and how they get married should matter

    • @amileigh2000
      @amileigh2000 6 років тому +142

      It shouldn’t matter but it’s a pig sty for goodness sake

    • @selenahandoff8328
      @selenahandoff8328 6 років тому +3

      Beautiful Remains fair point 😂

    • @amileigh2000
      @amileigh2000 6 років тому +41

      I don’t know about you but I’d be standing there saying “boy this dress wasn’t cheap, I’m not wasting our money like that” 😂😂 the pigs don’t bother me but the thought of such an expensive dress getting ruined does 😢😢

  • @ashanti8286
    @ashanti8286 6 років тому +971

    I would call off the entire wedding if my soon-to-be husband tried to arrange the ceremony at a pig sty

    • @bi_cycle
      @bi_cycle 5 років тому +19

      I'd be down. But just as long as he let me wear a tux or a short dress because a white dress in that mud is a no.

    • @freyaegrey
      @freyaegrey 5 років тому +6

      Bi Cycle I agree. But I love animals and the whole princess tomboy beautiful dress in the mud thing, so it would show that he really knows me.

    • @bi_cycle
      @bi_cycle 5 років тому +6

      It's very subjective.

    • @melissawright1979
      @melissawright1979 4 роки тому

      Me too

    • @whereami3972
      @whereami3972 4 роки тому +8

      I thought it was kinda cute 😂 guys can be dumb but atleast it had a pure intent

  • @stellaormes1844
    @stellaormes1844 5 років тому +594

    I'm convinced the grooms in this programme actually hate their brides and treat the whole thing as a big joke for their mates.

    • @bubblesawesome3284
      @bubblesawesome3284 3 роки тому +19

      Yeah makes me so mad!! Like dude come on you spend so much money just for a joke.

    • @missequestrian3448
      @missequestrian3448 Рік тому +5

      Yes I believe so

    • @janebates1727
      @janebates1727 5 місяців тому +2

      That is what I think

    • @Gerbera726
      @Gerbera726 4 місяці тому +4

      They do. They're like kids who are told they can pretend to be adults for money. They don't even like their fiancée.

    • @gemstar7286
      @gemstar7286 3 місяці тому +5

      @@Gerbera726 Yeah it always use to annoy me , things seemed to get worse aswell as the series went on. The grooms acted more selfish and juvenile.

  • @Sanbika89
    @Sanbika89 6 років тому +538

    People saying the brides don’t really love the grooms to place so much importance on the day/dress but how much could these grooms possibly love the brides to either not know or purposely disregard the brides taste and everything they’ve told them they wanted? And for what? A laugh and the cost of a tacky ugly wedding?

    • @cheekypiper512
      @cheekypiper512 3 роки тому

      I think it's about class not love.

    • @catarinamoraes6392
      @catarinamoraes6392 5 місяців тому

      I agree with you and loved your user image 😂
      "International playboy" 😎

  • @marrinette1899
    @marrinette1899 5 років тому +890

    I actually feel a big bad for the shop owner at the end as its her shop, her dresses and her accessories that the bride was criticising infront of the shop owner. The owner just looked so sad

    • @maiasantiago9051
      @maiasantiago9051 5 років тому +30

      I mean it looks good !!!

    • @PlsWaLuigiDomMe
      @PlsWaLuigiDomMe 5 років тому +182

      She seened more sad for the girl (also most likely she hasn't made the dress)

    • @Sam-oo1uo
      @Sam-oo1uo 5 років тому +97

      True. She kind of look a bit pissed off too though at 8:25. Can't say I blame her. That's her clothes she's calling vile lol.

    • @eleanorpetrucco8727
      @eleanorpetrucco8727 5 років тому +12

      I absolutely would have picked that dress! I love it!

    • @MTBR077
      @MTBR077 5 років тому +48

      I'd feel ashamed for having such an ugly dress in stock.

  • @katasoarusrex5357
    @katasoarusrex5357 6 років тому +662

    I wish they’d just plan their wives a sweet normal wedding that they know they’d love, instead of trying to make it about them, this is the thing girls dream of their whole lives, not a carnival

    • @frogsnack7072
      @frogsnack7072 5 років тому +24

      But they must have a lot of pressure on them to make it memorable, it's going to be on tv and all that too. I wish the show was the groom and the bride's dad picking together, a lot of these guys seem to go off the rails to have fun with their friends and get off track.

    • @FirstLast-pk2of
      @FirstLast-pk2of 5 років тому +28

      I’m pretty sure they get egged on by the producers to do this. No one would watch the show if it was all nice and normal. People watch it to see something different and the wives reactions. Obviously it’s still entertaining when the lads nail it but it needs variety

    • @frogsnack7072
      @frogsnack7072 3 роки тому

      @trains and trams No- for me marriage is a union made in front of God. it happens before other things. That doesn't mean it needs to be silly or expensive, just that it is a serious commitment that needs to happen first.

    • @jackthehat1093
      @jackthehat1093 Місяць тому

      Yeah but watching strangers have a normal wedding would be boring. Producers want a tacky theme and gimmicks. That's one of the prerequisites for going on the show and the brides know this.

  • @alexa.9923
    @alexa.9923 6 років тому +186

    I just finished the last clip. I feel so bad for both the bride and the owner. The owner clearly felt awful because she wanted to see a grade a reaction and instead had to realize this was nothing of what she'd have liked even asking, QUESTIONING her own tailoring and fashion skill. And the bride my gosh. It is so obvious tart she's horribly hurt because she straight up says "This is something HE'D like but he's not having to wear it". She had a bit of a right to question if she was going to marry him because the groom put no thought of his bride into the choices. The dress was gorgeous, but it was NOT made for the bride but the groom. That poor woman had to deal with a crying brideafter likely being told that she'd love it. Both of them... it's just an awful feeling for everybody involved

    • @falllingraindrops1543
      @falllingraindrops1543 4 роки тому +17

      Overlord Pug I struggled watching that scene. Because that bride looks so upset and she was trying so hard not to yell. And that poor, poor woman who made that dress. Oh she looked like she was destroyed from the inside out almost as much as the bride was. Oh I would be so pissed at the groom, I mean I am pissed at the groom watching that. He doesn’t realize he just destroyed the day of two people. And one of those girls he supposed to be marrying.

  • @paw9122
    @paw9122 6 років тому +278

    This is actually horrible. The amount of stress they would experience on a day that's meant to be special.

  • @Kibo24601
    @Kibo24601 6 років тому +1130

    I'm of two minds on these. One: You, as the groom, should know your bride well enough to be able to pick things they would want to wear and do on their wedding day. And two: If you, as a bride, have a vision as to what you want your day to be and wouldn't be happy with anything else don't go on this show.

    • @bettynolo23
      @bettynolo23 6 років тому +6

      Kibokun24601 I completely agree

    • @jackiecaves5416
      @jackiecaves5416 6 років тому +45

      I think they go on the show because they expect their groom to pull off something nice and decent and not silly. Some of these weddings aren't that bad, but we always have the dreadful ones.

    • @gizzystravels4677
      @gizzystravels4677 6 років тому +18

      Im with you.... But my way of thinking.. is majority of brides know from being a little girl what vission they have for their wedding.. why have they not discussed this with there partners prior to signing up to the show.... seriously if you knew you was applying you would have made a scrap book with everything you want in it and drum it home to your partner..... i know once you sign the contract for the show your not allowed to discuss it with each other but you both do the ground work prior to applying right... ??

    • @nicolestewart8181
      @nicolestewart8181 5 років тому

      Exactly

    • @missequestrian3448
      @missequestrian3448 Рік тому +1

      Yeah it’s horrible - but why would the brides agree to be on a show? I just hope they weren’t tricked into it thinking it’s a normal wedding show…

  • @mikes252
    @mikes252 6 років тому +913

    So the point of this show is stupid husbands do everything they can to piss off their wives for no reason except probably the show covers the wedding cost

    • @poisonedbubbletea270
      @poisonedbubbletea270 6 років тому +24

      Yeah basically of the 12 grand they’re given to plan the wedding, the majority of it usually goes on the stag do. I watched one ep where they were out all night with three course meals and the brides party’s do was at her own house.

    • @Bane1Mirin
      @Bane1Mirin 6 років тому +1

      Your right

    • @Rikku147
      @Rikku147 5 років тому +6

      That's just weirdly mean spirited

  • @chloekerrison5195
    @chloekerrison5195 6 років тому +237

    Onsestly it's just annoying how stupid the grooms are cause they obviously have talked to there wives about what they want in a wedding and yet they pick tacky horrible dresses and get married on farms 🤦‍♀️

  • @sisi429
    @sisi429 6 років тому +73

    Love how this is branded as a "meltdown".... some of those acts are just cruel. Girls... Run... these men clearly are not ready to be a man! Run when you can!

    • @xletragedyx
      @xletragedyx 5 місяців тому +2

      A few quiet tears all of a sudden is a meltdown...

  • @megamagicstars2
    @megamagicstars2 6 років тому +1050

    i can totally agree with the last bride. that outfit was SHIITTT. pointed kitten heels and rhinestones??? dude wtf

    • @Prox_C
      @Prox_C 6 років тому +28

      kitten heels are crotch killers in both a literal and metaphorical sense.

    • @Zera1k
      @Zera1k 6 років тому +16

      The husband was selfish

    • @jessmyzelf5912
      @jessmyzelf5912 6 років тому +20

      Yeh it just looks like he didnt even try to find something nice he just went i need a wedding dress and shoes and i dont know what iam looking the dress looks tacky and the shoes are so ugly if he would have put effort in looking up whats in fashion now and modern he would have known that that was in 60 years ago not now

    • @JensWoodworkingThings
      @JensWoodworkingThings 5 років тому +28

      I actually liked the dress if the lacing was white. The shoes, I agree, were not even remotely acceptable visually or functionally.

    • @winterbloom8706
      @winterbloom8706 5 років тому +3

      Is it the first dress when she was in tears saying she hated I got her point I mean the dress on its own was nice without the rhinestones which looked really tacky and the pointed kitten heal shoes wear so tacky and that ribbon if it was white it would’ve being better and he wasn’t thinking bout what she would like at all he’s just gone rite need a dress and shoes grabbed the first thing he’s seen and gone yeh she’ll like that done xx

  • @shannonwuke1043
    @shannonwuke1043 6 років тому +315

    I don't understand why if the guys think their brides won't like it.. why they do it? Its a wedding day for both of you so make it something that you will both enjoy!! No need to be selfish with it. Make her feel special and make it a brilliant day for the both of you.

    • @shannonwuke1043
      @shannonwuke1043 6 років тому +34

      I specifically said that it's a wedding day for both of them. He can do whatever he likes but most women have dreamt of this day so it doesn't hurt to make her feel special?!

    • @smiletwt
      @smiletwt 6 років тому +2

      Kelyaan weddings are literally only for the bride. these men are terrible lmao

    • @queensarabi9250
      @queensarabi9250 6 років тому +17

      Kelyaan Well if what they really want to do is make fun of them on what is a very important day for both, they shouldnt really get married in the first place. Also, if they have been in a relationship for a few years and the groom picks something totally different than what his bride likes, tbh i would get emotional too. Not because of a fucking dress, but because it shows how terribly my soon to be husband doesnt know me.

    • @magdalenaos8215
      @magdalenaos8215 6 років тому +8

      Kelyaan, so what we can see is, that the only thing that those husbands wants is to hurt someone they are supposed to love. Great. Really.

    • @mandyschmidt7164
      @mandyschmidt7164 5 років тому +4

      Kelyaan I don’t know why you’re throwing a temper tantrum. Relax.

  • @graceday2836
    @graceday2836 6 років тому +425

    I think that some of you are missing the point here. The point is that these men are supposed to LISTEN to what their women want. Some of them do that well, others obviously don't.

    • @bubblesawesome3284
      @bubblesawesome3284 3 роки тому

      Yeah but the ones in this video suck!! Like they are only doing this for a laugh.

  • @Tina06019
    @Tina06019 6 років тому +142

    He set her up to get wet and get mud on her dress, AFTER leaving yucky crap all over her floor?!
    How about just one or two bad jokes, not the whole darn thing tacky & ghastly, start to finish?
    A few of the grooms do great; some make a few bad choices, but obviously care about their women and are trying to do well. Effort & intention does matter.
    I am specifically thinking of the groom who bought a strapless gown that his very buxom bride was falling out the top of.....he had to give her his jacket so that she could keep herself decent. But he wasn’t TRYING to make a fool of her - he just obviously knows nothing about how gowns fit (and stay up) (and why would any regular guy know that?). and the show thought that was funny and prevented anyone telling that sweet man “her dress will need straps, dude.” (And frankly, if her terrifying delivery of their first child really was what prompted his “survivalism” hobby, it would have made more sense for him to take EMT classes than to stock up on canned goods.)

  • @amypoole5439
    @amypoole5439 5 років тому +137

    The show gives off the impression that British men do not take marriage seriously. And it also shows that they do not take the feelings of their partner seriously. This is one of the cruelest shows I have ever seen!

    • @Sam-oo1uo
      @Sam-oo1uo 5 років тому +18

      This isn't a true reflection of all British men though. I think they only select people that have the absolute craziest ideas. Most have a really tiny budget as well.

  • @lozzylols
    @lozzylols 5 років тому +70

    4:36 lets buy the bride a beautiful floor length dress with loads of tulle and then make her wear a harness!!

  • @theawecabinet
    @theawecabinet 6 років тому +752

    WHY IS MY WEDDING WHICH IS BEING FILMED FOR TV SO FULL OF TOTALLY IMPLAUSIBLE DISASTERS ????
    IT MAKES NO SENSE!!!

    • @omkarkk9822
      @omkarkk9822 6 років тому +15

      theawecabinet : because it's scripted to make it shocking and reaction extracting for the TV viewers.

    • @theawecabinet
      @theawecabinet 6 років тому +34

      WHOOOOSH!

    • @mattoniy2840
      @mattoniy2840 6 років тому +30

      It'd not scripted they give lads 12 grand to plan a wedding with their mates, these people arnt that great at acting trust me. This is real, slightly proded and highly edited. It writes itself

    • @TiBunCosplay
      @TiBunCosplay 6 років тому +16

      Adding onto Matto niy's comment, if you watch the show, there are just as many grooms that get things right and perfect as these disaster ones. In those episodes the brides still do have their worries, but as a viewer, we go away feeling more light-hearted. those are the episodes I like the best.

    • @Zera1k
      @Zera1k 6 років тому

      Scripted

  • @goldensoul1842
    @goldensoul1842 4 роки тому +37

    I saw one where the guy did a DIY christmas themed wedding. He literally spent at most £40 on tacky poundland decorations and laid it all out on a white sheet in the middle of some open field. What made this worse, was the fact he paid for him and his mates to go to Magaluf on a stag do. Moral of the story? The guys on this show only do it for a free holiday. Nothing more. I'd bet my life none of these marriages last longer than 6 weeks.

  • @ilikefreewholeless
    @ilikefreewholeless 6 років тому +1022

    "My heart is in my ACTUAL CHEST"
    my brain is in my actual head
    my intestines are in my actual stomach
    my muscles are in my actual skin

    • @sarapetkova3271
      @sarapetkova3271 6 років тому +49

      I dont think You intestines are IN your stomach

    • @shafaqtariq40
      @shafaqtariq40 6 років тому +28

      No your intestines are not in your stomach 😂

    • @sssophie9292
      @sssophie9292 6 років тому +15

      Wait what.
      Muscles aren't within the skin, haha
      You almost got me there

    • @melissawright1979
      @melissawright1979 5 років тому +2

      Hahahaha I noticed that too x

    • @jiminspinkyfinger9763
      @jiminspinkyfinger9763 5 років тому +3

      You almost had it... so close 😆

  • @jennybrockartist
    @jennybrockartist 6 років тому +209

    "My heart is in my actual chest"

    • @pollux3685
      @pollux3685 6 років тому +10

      N O S H I T S H E R L O C K

    • @mistypeach-
      @mistypeach- 6 років тому +2

      Amazing

    • @TwelvetreeZ
      @TwelvetreeZ 6 років тому +9

      My fingers are on my actual hands

  • @K1MB3RL3Y88
    @K1MB3RL3Y88 6 років тому +87

    TV show or not. If the man I wanted to marry was so bloody clueless to what I wanted on our big day then I wouldn't marry him. That would be the biggest red flag ever.

  • @reecetomm
    @reecetomm 6 років тому +104

    I remember when this show used to be on BBC Three and whilst back then you did get a lot of ridiculous weddings still, you also got a lot that were genuinely sweet and very well put together and it made for a really great show in the end cause you were never fully sure whether the wedding was actually going to be great or not. Since E4 have been doing it though I’ve lost a lot of my affection towards it, instead of a few insane weddings mixed in between a few genuinely nice weddings they’ve just changed the show so that 100% of the time they’re all stupid, pathetic and over the top. As a result of the impact is ruined on the show cause you know from the get go the guy is going to be stupid and the bride is going to either hate it or just pretend that that she doesn’t hate it. Plus whenever the weddings would pay off back in the BBC Three days it meant that you could actually start to find the husband organising it much more likeable as you could see how much he’s trying to make a genuinely good wedding. Since E4 have gotten the show though it’s now far more surrounded by unlikable and unsympathetic people, basically every single guy is selfish and acts like a child, meanwhile the audience watching don’t have sympathy for the wife either cause all they can think about is how stupid the wife must be to decide to marry a stupid guy like that. Hope E4 changes the show in the future to make it much more grounded, with a lot less of these morons trying to make their wedding as flamboyant and insane as possible instead of just making the day genuinely nice and well thought out.

  • @bilbybloom
    @bilbybloom 6 років тому +277

    I just dont get it. all these guys do these crazy things that them and their mates think is hilarious. If you and your 3 other guy pals think its going to be a good idea, its probably not a good idea xD

    • @Lookatmeshine
      @Lookatmeshine 6 років тому +6

      Highland Bilby that's life advice right there. XD

    • @Bulhbluhbuy
      @Bulhbluhbuy 4 роки тому

      Exactly what I thought when I saw the pixie outfits!!

  • @kennedygates5112
    @kennedygates5112 5 років тому +35

    That first girl showing up to the wrong wedding handled it incredibly well.

  • @nanismalls7921
    @nanismalls7921 5 років тому +23

    I feel so bad for the woman selling the wedding dress to the last girl. She was so speechless and heart broken that the bride didn’t like the dress, crown, and shoes :(

  • @Emeri666
    @Emeri666 6 років тому +38

    These so called "Men" are children young aged children. No words honestly.

  • @samanthakennedy2623
    @samanthakennedy2623 5 років тому +43

    They should change this show name to: BoYS dOnT kNow ShiT 😂

    • @Fiendai
      @Fiendai 5 років тому

      thats womens history for millenias .

  • @abigailr0se103
    @abigailr0se103 6 років тому +68

    I agree people put too much on the wedding and not on the marriage but most of these men do absolutely crazy things, do things they know their fiancée hates or is their worst fear or is just absolutely stupid for a wedding and are surprised when the bride is upset or disappointed. I can see why they’d be appalled.(except that last girl. Really?? It was a nice dress) their behavior is still disgusting but the grooms actions werent exactly worthy of praise

  • @phlarbus7821
    @phlarbus7821 5 років тому +28

    The first girl was totally understandable, this dude went out of his way to prank his wife multiple times and ruin her special day

  • @Zero-gh9lp
    @Zero-gh9lp 3 роки тому +12

    Im with the other commenters on this video. "Meltdowns" was really = quite mellow reactions considering the stress and disappointment they were dealing with at the time.

  • @sophieking8018
    @sophieking8018 6 років тому +152

    I feel so bad for the last girl. She looked so upset.

  • @scarlettgarnett8517
    @scarlettgarnett8517 6 років тому +18

    Lmao I feel so bad for the family that turned up at a random wedding 😂 👰🏼 🎩 😂

  • @kpopmultistan7000
    @kpopmultistan7000 6 років тому +27

    a wedding day is a girl's dream or you could say, their own fairy tale. ruining it like what those dudes just did, and thinking it is funny. it's something a bride shouldn't go through on their wedding day. this is just upsetting. a bride should feel special on their wedding day. not upset, angry, sad, or afraid. if i was the one getting married, i'd surely consider my future wife's decisions or suggestions for the wedding. i'm not idiotic enough to do everything on my own. that's just absurd.

  • @maggiecarson2525
    @maggiecarson2525 5 років тому +5

    When the third bride said "my heart is in my actual chest" I lost it 😂😂

  • @Kat-yv1yq
    @Kat-yv1yq 6 років тому +17

    When men are asked to pick the themes, why do they always pick weird ass prom style themes. I’ve seen “farm, back to school, etc etc.” Maybe elegant summer wedding or something might be worth a look lads. A wedding theme isn’t a general event theme. (Worst case of cluelessness just look at a Pinterest Wedding Board.) It’s not that hard. At the very least, if I was marrying someone I’d want them to know what I’d like. They’re engaged. Surely they’ve had conversations about weddings before the show????
    Also, have these men ever been to a wedding before -

  • @catarinamoraes6392
    @catarinamoraes6392 5 місяців тому +4

    5:59 "Turn around"
    "Oh, bloody hell" 😂😂😂

  • @kkelseym
    @kkelseym 6 років тому +40

    I was expected a meltdown with yelling and throwing but that's only American TV where everyone is overly dramatic. These ladies are lovely and calm.

  • @devine__words
    @devine__words 5 років тому +8

    I completely understand the last girl’s breakdown about her dress. That dress was not cute and the accessories made it worse 😭 I almost had a panic attack for her 😭

  • @RubyOpheliaQuinn
    @RubyOpheliaQuinn 5 років тому +16

    It's like none of these grooms know their brides at all.

  • @strawberryme08
    @strawberryme08 6 років тому +21

    " I don't want my wedding to be a joke" she says. well don't leave it up to a man to plan then! LOL

  • @jenyakolpakova9180
    @jenyakolpakova9180 4 роки тому +3

    The last one look so good, she’s crazy!!

  • @nnebundoannaobi1386
    @nnebundoannaobi1386 5 років тому +1

    That last dress is lovely, with the burgundy and the shoes are timeless

  • @babythomas936
    @babythomas936 6 років тому +81

    I would honestly just not marry if I have to deal with this. Marriage is the day a female dreams of since she's a little girl. It's natural that she wants it to be perfect and dream like. If I ever end up in something like this, then I would rather die. (Literally. That's how heartbroken I would feel)

    • @MidnightSonnet
      @MidnightSonnet 5 років тому +11

      I really don't understand why so many women put way too much emphasis on a wedding. I'm a woman and I've never "dreamed" of my wedding since I was a kid. It's not a "natural" thing. When I get married, I don't care if things go wrong. That's just life. The wedding isn't important, anyway. The marriage is or just being with the one you love, government issued certificate or not. To me, weddings are supposed to fun, joyful, and relaxing. Unfortunately, brides and grooms stress themselves to death trying to reach the impossible "perfection" they think they want/need. Instead, they should take a step back, reassess what's most important to them, and just breathe. In the end, the fancy dress, the reception, the ceremony, the cake, the decorations, the food, etc are meaningless when compared to the simple joy of being with the one you love. I've been with my fiance for 11 years, going on 12 this year, and I love him more now than I did before. I don't care if we get married or not. I just want to be with him.
      To me, it's just silly and odd to think that a girl's entire goal in life is to get married. No other dreams? Ambitions? Career goals? Hobbies? Travel goals? Volunteer work? Your whole entire life has been building up to just one single day? Do they days after the wedding pale in comparison?

    • @lDaNu
      @lDaNu 5 років тому +3

      Yeah, you, but for some other people a wedding ceremony and the dress and all that jazz is something important and consider something that (hopefully) would be a one-time thing. I'm gonna agree that now those big ceremonies are just for the show, but if they can pay it then they can go for it.
      But also, no every women dreams of having a wedding, you just don't fuck up their plans because that day is about you two, what you have planned and is supposed to be a good day for both.

    • @cannowli2337
      @cannowli2337 5 років тому +1

      @@MidnightSonnet A wedding is a religious ceremony, not just a government certificate.

    • @googoogaga7986
      @googoogaga7986 5 років тому +1

      Weddings aren’t THAT important, the really important thing is the relationship that they celebrate, they aren’t something ‘a female dreams of since she’s a little girl’ I would know, I’m a female who dreams extensively. The amount of pressure put on people to have a picture perfect wedding is honestly fucking ridiculous.

  • @izzylq-
    @izzylq- 5 років тому +19

    Girls. Heads up. Never go on Don't Tell The Bride. It'll ruin the most important day of your life... you may trust your partner, but really, that much?

  • @phileyre6371
    @phileyre6371 5 років тому +22

    “My heart is in my actual chest” I think everyone’s is mate

    • @alfwinnn4224
      @alfwinnn4224 4 роки тому +2

      She says "My heart is in my actual chest beating like it's going to come out."

  • @Adriann1973
    @Adriann1973 5 років тому +16

    “My heart is in my actual chest.”
    As opposed to....?

    • @alfwinnn4224
      @alfwinnn4224 4 роки тому +3

      She pauses then says "Beating like it's going to come out."

    • @Lily_of_the_Forest
      @Lily_of_the_Forest 4 роки тому

      Duh! Ya know hearts grow in your elbows.

  • @alexisity3
    @alexisity3 6 років тому +76

    Sorry, but can someone explain the idea behind this show? Is there any way it could go right? Why are these people subjecting themselves to this stress?

    • @eleanoraj4630
      @eleanoraj4630 6 років тому +15

      alexisity3 they get a free wedding

    • @Nihima23
      @Nihima23 6 років тому +31

      There have been some episodes where the Groom got it right e.g. the Pride and Prejudice themed episode, still one of my favourites. Groom knew it was her favourite books so went all out to get it right.

    • @maryamriaz6583
      @maryamriaz6583 5 років тому +3

      In my opinion a sick twisted way of showing how much they can hurt their wives I think that not even one marriage had stand still

    • @jenniferbloomfield2486
      @jenniferbloomfield2486 5 років тому +2

      I admit some are pretty bad but in some cases I actually like the ideas. Some of the times there is a romantic and nice idea behind it. In my opinion sometimes the bride's act a bit spoilt and I kind of like the idea the groom's get to have wedding they like. But sometimes they are just crazy and no thought to it at all.

    • @jenniferbloomfield2486
      @jenniferbloomfield2486 5 років тому

      Also you kind of have to know the groom as well. If they are into space for example the chances are that might be the theme. The moral of the story though is it should be about being with the person you love. Not about the bridesmaids or the location. It does annoy me when the guys spend most of the budget on the stag do and the bride gets a rubbish one. But in theory you should know who you are marrying and want to be with them no matter what. To me that's what the program is about.

  • @soniaalbert9442
    @soniaalbert9442 3 роки тому +1

    The wrong choice of shoes was the final straw LMAO. That narrator is consistently hilarious.

  • @elfuegovida4308
    @elfuegovida4308 6 років тому +15

    5:54 - FFS 😂😂 his reaction

    • @spillers8667
      @spillers8667 6 років тому +1

      Im Still Not A Rapper my favourite bit of the whole video!

  • @marineamazouz457
    @marineamazouz457 6 років тому +20

    This is why to every wedding I've been to or helped organise the girls do most of the work because you can't trust men taste unless you already have picked good options for them to choose from.
    I'm sorry but I would never trust most mens to plan such an important day. If you do don't be surprised to be disappointed ^^'

  • @etherealechoes9907
    @etherealechoes9907 6 років тому +39

    I physically cannot watch the one at around 8:50. The whole episode, she acts like a spoiled immature brat, and the guy focusses the whole day upon her. She throws tantrums and comes across very self-involved, naive and immature. Ages ago I saw a forum, where she responded to a similar remark, by saying people were jealous of her. Hmm, I'd rather have brains, and a moral compass than throw hissy fits, pet. No wonder the shop-owner threw her a disgusted look. 'I don't even want to marry him'. She's lucky he married her, poor bloke.

    • @Sophie-fy6yq
      @Sophie-fy6yq 6 років тому +7

      Ikr, the fact she says "i don't even want to marry him" shows how full of herself she is :/

  • @shristisinha9066
    @shristisinha9066 2 роки тому +3

    My fiancé will never do this he’s so thoughtful, these boys don’t know their partners at all. They might love them but they definitely don’t know them.

  • @aoifecaetan9832
    @aoifecaetan9832 5 років тому +5

    "I just want to get it over with" is the exact opposite of how you're supposed to feel.

  • @ashly1911
    @ashly1911 20 днів тому

    We can barely understand each other w all the different regional accents - don’t worry about it! 😂
    Love from the UK ❤

  • @HappyBun3
    @HappyBun3 6 років тому +9

    Weddings are sacred. Pranks are okay but not on the wedding day!!

  • @Fallenfromgrace1990
    @Fallenfromgrace1990 5 років тому +2

    The first girl handled it so well. I would of laughed because I would be the bride that would be like, "This can't get any worse...... Wait, it just did." 😂

  • @theamazingmadeline5236
    @theamazingmadeline5236 5 років тому +9

    If someone did this to me, our wedding would be off. If a man doesn't take a wedding seriously then he's not the man for me

    • @Doc-hp5wf
      @Doc-hp5wf 3 роки тому

      Really a wedding is all it is u want marry a wedding organiser

  • @andreablamire5509
    @andreablamire5509 Рік тому

    My heart is in my actual chest? Well done, love.

  • @sanamana1
    @sanamana1 5 років тому +10

    *"my heart is beating in my actual chest"*
    Uh yeah, I hope so?

  • @soraiasilva8493
    @soraiasilva8493 5 років тому +2

    5:53 I'm joongshook! But that is the best reaction 😂😂😂😂
    "I've got the-what the hell you wearing"

  • @aislingno.2apperently716
    @aislingno.2apperently716 6 років тому +12

    I dont understand the girl at the end. If the thing to lace the dress up was an unpleasant colour why cant they just get a different one? Even if they couldnt find one dont tell me they couldnt have just tied shoelaces together or even spraypainted some string white to match.

  • @raichal3015
    @raichal3015 5 років тому +15

    10:02 I feel so bad for the worker, she was so patient and nice while the bride was kinda of the opposite.....😢☹️🥺

  • @derekjones1794
    @derekjones1794 5 років тому +3

    I feel so bad for the last girl. All of them, but especially her. If you let someone you love make a decision like that, and they choose something that is that horrid, honest to goodness disgusting, then that must be so disappointing. I completely understand her crying. If my girlfriend made me wear a white suit with a tie that color, and shoes that were that pointy for our wedding, I'd probably just go in my bathing suit.

  • @damnson9690
    @damnson9690 5 років тому +2

    2:05 Omfg that’s so cute and encouraging I love it

  • @EC-tt3nj
    @EC-tt3nj 4 місяці тому +1

    "My heart is in my actual chest"😂 well.... Ya.

  • @mediskelding4537
    @mediskelding4537 6 років тому +23

    This is what they get for signing onto this show!!

  • @PINKKYLIELOUISE
    @PINKKYLIELOUISE Рік тому

    Laughed at 4.23 when she says "Tackiness!" And she glugs down a massive glass of wine lol. I remember this all the other bridesmaids wore the dresses she was the one that looked a state

  • @sweetlikecocoa2312
    @sweetlikecocoa2312 6 років тому +18

    Does this show purposely only cast absolute idiots as grooms 🤣?

  • @lungilecele1975
    @lungilecele1975 4 роки тому

    The little girl about to cry because she knows he f***ed up is everything 😂😂

  • @LizMcNamara47
    @LizMcNamara47 5 років тому +7

    Bride in the harness....worst makeup ever!

  • @MissLolaElle
    @MissLolaElle 5 років тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣 This show is great! Bring this to the US!

  • @II-ne3lp
    @II-ne3lp 6 років тому +5

    My husband dropped the good luck half of the cake when we were leaving

  • @AntlersAndAcorns
    @AntlersAndAcorns 6 років тому

    That floating table thing is amazing, I wouldn't be mad that's really dope!!

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 4 роки тому +1

      Vincent the Mortician not with all of my dress bunched up and a harness. I’d be scared to death too, seeing as I’m deathly afraid of heights

  • @DemonKitty666_
    @DemonKitty666_ 4 роки тому +5

    I swear if my boyfriend did the crane thing, I'd slap him because I'm scared of heights!

  • @MR-zq5gt
    @MR-zq5gt 4 роки тому +2

    The last girl handled it like a champ .. she was crushed but she doesn’t flip

  • @georgiagrace8490
    @georgiagrace8490 5 років тому +11

    To be honest I’d much rather watch a show where the groom actually does a good job than all this tacky, joke bs

  • @GeekExtremist
    @GeekExtremist Рік тому +1

    As a married man, I would have never done this show. I could handle everything about the wedding, pick a location my bride would love, but I don't think I could pick a wedding dress. Granted, my wife hated her dress. She let her mom have too much say when picking one out; which I strictly asked her older sister to watch out for and not allow it to happen. 🙄

  • @xWildlingx
    @xWildlingx 5 років тому +4

    These make me thankful for my husband. Like holy shit. Some of them almost seem intentionally cruel.

  • @lolagraham8013
    @lolagraham8013 4 роки тому +1

    ‘My heart is in my actual chest’ I bloody well hope so

  • @karinavenegas7242
    @karinavenegas7242 5 років тому +3

    3:55 “I can’t believe you’ve done this”

  • @EllyB1104
    @EllyB1104 4 роки тому +2

    The shopkeepers face at 8:27 lmao

  • @Abi-ke2nn
    @Abi-ke2nn 5 років тому +7

    7:39 the dress actually looks good though

  • @taliak1237
    @taliak1237 5 років тому +1

    “My heart is in my chest right now, I don’t know what to do”
    Yup, I’m pretty sure your heart IS in your chest, mate

  • @andrewmccreath688
    @andrewmccreath688 6 років тому +261

    Don't get why brides that are just impossible to please go on this show. If you want everything done the way you want then arrange it yourself.

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 6 років тому +138

      They're not impossible to please they just don't want to be made a fool of in front of their family and friends.

    • @andrewmccreath688
      @andrewmccreath688 6 років тому +20

      You don't think @9:50 is an overreaction? A different person will most likely not be able to choose your perfect dress. Just look at everyone's reaction.... It's like a kid saying at Christmas "I don't even wanna live here anymore" cos his parents got him a red Armani shirt instead of a blue one. The lad tried his best and chose something he thought she'd like. Tbh i thought her dress looked hella nice; she needs to cheer up and be grateful that the show paid for everything for her.

    • @laurathornton1456
      @laurathornton1456 6 років тому +66

      I'll admit the last one is a Bridezilla but what girl dreams of her bridesmaids looking like $2 hookers, weddings in a pig field, practical jokes that leave her dress stained etc, or wearing a harness over a perfectly beautiful wedding dress? No. Don't walk away. Run as fast as you can!

    • @user-pv3cb8or4x
      @user-pv3cb8or4x 6 років тому +27

      Andrew the last bride was very young and that was an older style, cheesy and tacky dress. I can't remember how much it cost now but I wouldn't have paid more than £50 for it.

    • @andrewmccreath688
      @andrewmccreath688 6 років тому +8

      If she would actually leave him for something so little as a ribbon or too much bling, then they really shouldn't be getting married... Her expectations were ridiculously particular. The thing i really don't get is why in the fuck would you agree to go on this show, knowing full well the groom has to arrange everything, then cry about the choices he's made. It makes no sense. If you're that unstable and that emotional then you should really be making the choices yourself.

  • @AricaBAlien
    @AricaBAlien 5 років тому +1

    It's like a wedding prank show an I'm here for it

  • @thepurpleturnip534
    @thepurpleturnip534 4 роки тому +4

    2:51 the bridesmaid pig hoodies..

  • @maxsredditreadingclub8353
    @maxsredditreadingclub8353 4 місяці тому +2

    RIP To All The Dead 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️