How To Date God's Way | Steven Furtick
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- Опубліковано 11 чер 2024
- Don’t miss the heart.
Join Pastor Steven Furtick as he chats through how to date God’s way in an “all or nothing” culture.
This is an excerpt from "YTH Nation Podcast with PSF." To watch the full message from @elevationyth click here: • PASTOR STEVEN FURTICK’...
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Chapters:
0:00 - What Does Godly Dating Look Like?
0:50 - Setting Your Standards
2:49 - Jealousy In Relationships
3:48 - Are We After The Same Thing?
4:57 - There's A Great Value On Your Life
I love how his son kept saying sir in such a love and respect towards his Dad ❤
Right!
Amen to that!
I was going to say the same thing ❤raised well
"There is a great value on your life, so anyone you allow to be connected with you, or especially the connections you make that are physical, I want you to guard the treasures God has put in you."
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“The standard that you set is indicative of the value you ascribe” Amen to that
My son & dil dated 18 mos & never kissed until their wedding day. I was amazed at their discipline. They've been married 9 years & have an incredible marriage.
I love this part. Holding off kissing. It's almost like fasting. Giving everything to God and waiting patiently. Because He is the center not any event. It's about honor. Being led by the Spirit. And it's a form of trust!
Thank you for sharing. Dating in 2024 is extremely difficult. I wish there were conversations about Godly dating.
Intentionally look for them, there is tonnes of Godly (Christian) resources out there. books, podcasts and sermons alike. Pstor Steven has a lot of videos from past years, that's actually how I got to know about him. Ps Mike Todd has the original Relationship Goals 8 part series which was a real blessing. Ps Ben Stuart's Single Dating Engaged Married book and sermons, really good. Ps Jonathan Pokluda's book Outdated and other material.....these are just a few that helped me, there's a whole lot more here on YT. I pray you find the right resources
What a respectful and wise son. I love how he speaks to his father, calling him sir, not too over familiar, honours him as his dad.
Also, he knows that he doesn’t want his wife to have baggage or him to bring baggage into his marriage.
I love that he said God wants us to guard the treasure that He gave us
Great advice my husband and I have been together as a couple for 41 years and married for 38 this year. I think this is great advice. 💜🙏🏽
My son just told me yesterday he asked a girl to be his girlfriend. I'm definitely going to make him watch this. Great advice.
Such great advice! Christian dating should look different from the world’s dating.
Im 64 years old and im looking for God to show me how to have a healthy relationship after one married and a not healthy relationship
More of this please. Its so great to have someone guide us in this day and age where there are very few people setting the right example and social media giving us a completely different narrative of how dating and relationships are supposed to be.
If God isn't their first priority, something is wrong
Good stuff ….I’m divorced and the dating scene/internet is wild!!! Just praying someone good comes
Steven your son is so handsome!
I appreciate the “yes sir”
God bless y’all
What a great way to look at dating. What a beautiful day when they marry. One beautiful surprise to stay innocent until the wedding day. A man like that not pressuring his intended is unbelievable. Wish I would have had one like that. Maybe my marriage would have turned out better than it did. I totally agree with that entire concept. We need boundaries and that is a great one in every way. No having to get married cause of pregnancy. Just.clean living and nothing to feel guilt or shame about. I love it! ❤️ ❤❤
When I feel safe I will come. Can't feel safe with you or him. I was burned badly and can't get myself back. Get heart palpitations, not kidding.
I'm here on the Path. God is Real.
This was amazing to see and I love the perspective given by him but also by his children
Its the exact kind of thing I've been praying about, after awhile of online dating, I've really grown sick of it. I keep asking God to show me or guide me to find the one he has planned for me. I even held off dating apps for a long time and now I'm thinking about it again. I know I shouldn't rush God since He always does things in His own time and sometimes I think He just knows that I'm not ready yet. 😢
Preach pastor this is so good the whole 3hr convo was a masterclass.
Thank you for reminding me that my views on dating and relationships are not skewed, even though society force us to believe the opposite to be the norm.
Thank you for this. Very timely.
GOOD MORNING PASTOR….. THANKS FOR YOUR WORD
Love the last bit on considering our own value, great perspective
Beautiful, valuable teaching & glimpse into your lives and what God can do through relationship with Jesus!
I LOVE THIS!! Thank you for sharing!!
Steven, I just wanted to say thank you so much for being so honest and truthful with all of your followers. My friend told me about you. I have been happily married to my husband for 24 years. God bless you and your family always.
Fantastic to hear perspectives and definitely helped me today
as I am 51 yrs old and been alone and single for 10 years and I been struggling to date… but want quality and standards of equal relationship. I am waiting to meet a man with same , and that’s hard to find nowadays in this time.. whew
Thank you 🙏 ❤
I think a lot more people fall in the same boat, I haven’t dated since 21 and I’m 28
With me I believe in love and I believe you don't have to sometimes look for it but it can locate for you , True love shall always find you . We can be friends by the way. Just if you need one to talk to as you wait for your true love
Great advice, I absolutely love it. Thank you pastor Steven 😘💕💕💕
This is so good, and thanks for this podcast. Having to look out for my children and in this day age. Godly dating is what I desire now.
This is so good and so needed 🙌🏾👏🏾
loved this! thank you🙏. i'm a 23 year old and i just had a break up, i'm asking for prayers for God to heal my heart.
Thanks for Sharing guys 🔥❤
This is as always outstanding!! 🙌🏽
Woow..This is beautiful to watch and listen.
I love this communication between Father and Son .It's so beautiful to see. 🙏 ❤😊
Great video, I hope you can put more videos out there about dating and preparing for marriage and being single
His son is a carbon copy of Holy furtick Even how he speaks❤
I have had this on my ❤️
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you Pastor Steven
COME ON DAD FURTICK!!!!! ♥️ thank you!!
Great advice. God bless.
Wonderful Godly advice
l love this praise God to all 🧡
❤beautifully presented and said
Little Ol Wharton Tx!!!! Love the channel!!
Such an awesome example
Awesome preacher.
YOU SAVED MY LIFE STEVEN FURTICK - THANK YOU 🙏🏻❤️
Keep going and keep pushing. I found his short ministries by accident or Gods will because I was going through a hard time myself. No matter what you just keep P.U.S.Hing Praying Until Something Happens
Thanks brother 🙏🏻
My 10 year relationship almost fell apart and god restored it and blessed us when we put God before anything else
Loved this
Please pray for me as I've had an awful time with sexual assault.
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I pray God heals you
@@acaciamurray8638 ❤
@@eloise-rw3sj thank you
I pray for your healing 🙏
Good advice
Watching from Uganda Kampala.
Be fruitful and multiply!🎉
I love this
Blessed
Love it.
I seek you Lord every day. Jesus you are my strength. Lord both of my sons are special needs they require so much from me. Lord I continue to struggle in providing for them. Father God it is overwhelming and challenging especially now because I’m homeschooling them so my hours to work are limited. As a single mother I’m barely getting by. As I struggle to buy groceries and as I struggle to pay rent Lord give me courage to hold my head up because it’s hard on me Lord Jesus. Amen ❤️
Praying that God supply all Your needs according to his riches in Christ in Jesus name Amen 🙏
Lifting you up in prayer 🙏 I pray that you feel God's loving arms wrapped tightly around you, in Jesus name 🙏 ❤️ He will get you through, he won't let you down and he always provides, in Jesus name ❤
Its true dating with the standard of God is you will be guided without it you will get lost or confuse sometimes
WE ARE ALWAYS BLESSED AFTER ONE OF UR VIDS PASTOR MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND THE FAM AND KEEP YALL AND MAKE HIS MACE SHINE UPON U ALL AND BE GRACIOUS TO U GUYS AND FILL U ALL WITH PEACE THAT SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING ANDIN JESUS NAME WE PRAY AMEN NUMBERS 6 24-26
I’ve been searching for a dating seminar that can be related to the modern day. Please bring them back 😭
I think this advice can be applied to modern day. It’s just a matter of what concepts you decide to accept or reject. The beauty is, even if you fail you can keep trying until it works for you. “Modern day dating” is what doesn’t work.
Thank you 🙏 God scottsburg ind
Profound
A man of Christ Jesus heart is a miracle. That book I kissed dating goodbye is the best. There is a great value and purpose for your life. Protect the treasure build the agape love first.
I clicked on this video so fast! 🙌🙌
perfect 🥰
Great conversation!!! Pastor Steven son is so respectful and a confident and great speaker Aswell… does anyone know who the third gentleman was in this video?🙏🏼❤️
Hmmm.. no sir,❤
Watching from Nigeria, I need more grace to walk in Light.
Love the last sentence, pastor said...lol
AMEN 🙏🏼
AMEN AMEN AMEN HALLELUJAH AMEN I REALLY ENJOYED WATCHING AND LISTENING TO THE WAYS OF DATING GOD WAY I CLEARLY UNDERSTAND NOW AMEN 🙌🏽🙏🏽👐🏽🫶🏽💖
Amen amen amen Jesus amen
Put God in the middle of all relationships and everything will fall into place …it’s that simple ❤️😊
God Bless from New Zealand 🇳🇿
Nothing fails with God
I literally cannot imagine marrying someone without ever kissing them. 😂 I'm not saying that it's impossible or not beautiful for the people that can withhold from it. But for me, likeeee it blows my mind to even think about it. Am I the only one?!?! 😬
U not
AMEN
Amen
from Aizawl India❤❤❤
❤❤❤😂 I really appreciate you furtick for taking care of you sons and all your family
“ no, sir” from his son🙏🏽🙏🏽 I can’t tell you how this warms my heart
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Great topic. How old are Steves sons now??
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🖐️♥️So beautifull conversation , our body is a Tempel of the Holy Spirit including youre lips one can lead to another ,,and no no one is weird or a alien for being Treu and Faithfull to God God and Jesus and the Holy Spirit His Way is the best way i believe that with all my heart .📖📯
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You should know about Theology of the Body written by the late great Saint Pope John Paul II
Can you upload 2024 dating series???😢😢
It's the 'No, Sir' for me😅
I'm 66 and I have been on my own for 17 years. I'm fine with it. Because the way people are now. Lonely and I am ok.
You’re never alone, God is with you & loves you ❤❤
Next question 😆
And also, if either has ever slept around, you would know you could trust them. Most men if you don't comply to their demands, they drop you like a hot potato. I guess I've known all the wrong men. Real.eye opener.
How do you work around it ?
Stop mopping the floor and fix the pipe
I have been in bad relationships, and 3 bad marriages. I wouldn't know how to have a godly relationship with anyone. Right now I have no desire to date.
I think this is cool that they would wait until their wedding day to kiss it sounds a bit old-fashioned but I like it😊
I love it when MARRIED people tell us single people HOW TO DATE!!! Steven has been married since the Middle Ages! He has NO IDEA how hard this dating culture is EVEN in CHURCH!😆😆😆
I mean I’m Christian and I’m with someone who doesn’t believe in anything and we’ve been together for 4 years. It’s the healthiest relationship I’ve been in. He’s the most understand person I’ve ever met and we just respect each other and communicate. I have a relationship with God and just because he doesn’t, doesn’t mean I’m gonna throw a great relationship away. So every relationship looks different with everyone. It’s not just one way or the other, it’s however you feel at the end of the day.
I am in a similar situation with someone who identifies as atheist and honestly it is so far so good. I was told something.. that we should date people based on their character... not by chemistry, personality, or traits told alone. Character and values of that person speaks bounds ❤
@@diandreabrown8711 love this ❤️
There's a reason that the Bible says don't be unevenly yoked. Also, you are playing house...not even in the same league as marital commitment , under the rules of God. I'm sure it appears equal like your secular friends' marriages, and it probably is. But it will never grow any bigger; uneven maintains, but doesn't thrive. You're only stunting your own life potential
@@michelemoser5592 That’s fine that you feel that way. We all have our different beliefs/opinions/feelings. We all have a right to be ourselves. I’m just trying to show that you don’t have to be a certain way to have a relationship with God. God loves us for who we are and that’s what i believe:)
The whole point of a relationship for a Christian is to find someone to grow together in Christ . It's not even about us it's about Christ so if that person is growing you closer to him then what's the point?
Why is Furtick looking so weird?
Godly dating is also not dating from another nation. In today’s terms, another “race”
which verse?
@@gopnik9967 “Displeased with the immorality with which the Moabites and Midianites had successfully tempted the Israelites (Numbers 25:1-9) to inter-marry and to worship Baal-peor, Phinehas personally executed an Israelite man and a Midianite woman while they were together in the man's tent, running a javelin or spear through the man and the belly of the woman, bringing to an end the plague sent by God to punish the Israelites for sexually intermingling with the Midianites”
@@gopnik9967 “Displeased with the immorality with which the Moabites and Midianites had successfully tempted the Israelites (Numbers 25:1-9) to inter-marry and to worship Baal-peor, Phinehas personally executed an Israelite man and a Midianite woman while they were together in the man's tent, running a javelin or spear through the man and the belly of the woman, bringing to an end the plague sent by God to punish the Israelites for sexually intermingling with the Midianites”
@@gopnik9967 “Displeased with the immorality with which the Moabites and Midianites had successfully tempted the Israelites (Numbers 25:1-9) to inter-marry and to worship Baal-peor, Phinehas personally executed an Israelite man and a Midianite woman while they were together in the man's tent, running a javelin or spear through the man and the belly of the woman, bringing to an end the plague sent by God to punish the Israelites for sexually intermingling with the Midianites”
“Displeased with the immorality with which the Moabites and Midianites had successfully tempted the Israelites (Numbers 25:1-9) to inter-marry and to worship Baal-peor, Phinehas personally executed an Israelite man and a Midianite woman while they were together in the man's tent, running a javelin or spear through the man and the belly of the woman, bringing to an end the plague sent by God to punish the Israelites for sexually intermingling with the Midianites”