You ever wonder if someone listens to a song like this and thinks of you? Edit: I guess I’ll share my 2 cents since this has gotten some traction. I can’t exactly think of anyone that would think about me off the top of my head. However, I find myself thinking about a handful of girls from my past when listening to songs like this. They would probably never know or think that I still feel that way so I’m willing to bet there are other people who have the same experience with me. There are definitely people who thought we were gonna date but never did or we did date but it resulted in a failed relationship. Maybe they hold on to that “what if” feeling like I do? Edit again lol: Yesterday I saw the girl I think it when I hear this song. Probably haven’t seen them for like 3 years at this point. We were both drunk at the bar and she was being pretty flirtatious and a little handsy despite her being in a 3 year relationship. We then kind of reminisced on the past and I told her how I still felt and she told me to “get over it”. Yikes, that hurt to hear even though it’s what needed to be said. Edit again: I’ve since found someone who makes me feel loved. They go out of their way to show it and we get along great. I’m hoping it stays that way
hey. i dont know if this will help at all - but even if it is not a lover, it doesn’t have to be a lover, it can be someone you just genuinely love purely, you are not alone. you are important and don’t forget that. its okay to cry and feel sad. please take care of yourself.
I lost her. It's been 4 months, and I can't really continue onwards. It wasn't a bad break-up, a mutually accepted one because of our very different life careers that would split us apart.. Which makes it even worse honestly, I can't think of anyone but her, and she wants to stay distant so we don't fall in-love again.. It kills me.
I know what you feel. Almost five years passed but I still find myself thinking of what could've been. And it breaks me. And I don't know if can be happy anymore.
@@Swamp72 I‘m not saying the original isn‘t sad, that itself is capable of getting me crying. And at the end of the day, no two people have the same perception of things, am I right?
God sent that person to your life to teach her how to love someone :) You may not be a part of her life but you will always be the true definition of love
In my opinion, the worst feeling of loneliness, isn't being lonely, it's realising how miserable you are. (PS thank u for ur lovely comments under my songs, means a lot 🖤)
Who’s is she’s then? Cuz it doesn’t make sense unless she’s a lesbian or something major. Anyone can make it work with another. Relationships aren’t supposed to be easy. Don’t give up just because of one roadblock. Obstacles can help couples grow.
It hurts, it hurts so bad. It hurts that at the end of the day I’ll be alone without someone to share my feelings, experiences, etc with. I’m just here sitting all alone listening to this song feeling empty. I’ve been through tough times lately and sometimes I imagine how lucky people are for having someone to love. I know I’m still young but idk…
The answer is Do. Set a thing like things that you won't do but are certainly possible. Like go ask that girl/boy out, you would say 'no' like it is impossible its not. And if there is a reason why you don't want to or now is not the time, then think when is the time, when will you be ready, start doing,make mistakes then again do it. There's no way you won't progress.
to be honest with you, im 22, and I lost someone I care about recently. Your worth is not defined by the way they leave you, or whatever. Your worth was in you when they decided to go out with you, feel you, and kiss you. That worth still remains with you, the reciprocal recognition is all that you are missing now.And do not fret, you will have the courage again, as if someone dragged you out of your room, but it was only your feet that carried you there, and your will alone. and to end with a quote that I love from an Austrian poet called Rainer Maria Rilke: “Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. / Just keep going. No feeling is final.”
if i can help you, i was in a very bad state during 4 years, thinking that nobody could understand and help me the way i dreamed of, but i found someone who cares about me, cant understand the feelings i have in my mind but try to manage it with me, listens me during hours, and more than everything she is hot as hell (im a beautiful boy ahah) so keep believing your day will come ! sorry for my english im french ^^
God sent that person to your life to teach her how to love someone :) You may not be a part of her life but you will always be the true definition of love
First time I’ve felt actual genuine LOVE for someone. Like, she made me feel things I’ve never felt before… but I know I can never have her. All I can think of when I wake up. All I can think of as the day goes on and before I go to sleep, is her. Why. Why did I have to fall for someone I knew I couldn’t have…
I understand you so so much. The question I always end up asking the world is "why did I have to meet her". The only thing I feel when I think of her is pain
wow. word for word what i’m going through. i still see her often and even though we were intimate we can only be friends bc of our situation. i have deep feelings for her but she doesn’t for me.
The song itself is indeed sadder. But nothing can compare to the original version when it comes to memories and true feelings. Man I loved that song so much, and she did too, now I listen to it alone while she's off with her boyfriend.
Find a hobby, or some community. Try MMA, that worked for me. Move away, go on a holiday. Literally anything that keeps you productive and busy. If you feel lonely because she has a boyfriend, believe me, someone requiring another especially in a short time span means that she NEEDS a relationship. My ex moved on after 2 months, before that we were together for 3 years. For me, that hurt. But I realised she is that much of a broken girl that she didn't move on quick because she found it in herself to be OK, she did it because she needs someone to save her routinely- something that I fell out of fashion for. So what to do? I've been single for 10 months now. Seldom slept around, in fact I've only warmed the beds of 3 different girls and neither of them made me feel better. What made me feel better was being productive, moving away, changing jobs, going to the gym, getting fit - simply working on myself. While she's still stuck in the same old town she was born in. She doesn't control your life and she's never coming back. So don't live in the past. Someone I personally know is still moping pathetically about a girl he had sex with (but knew for a few years), she moved away not long after they started screwing even though he was clearly a rebound from her 5 year relationship before that. It is okay to think about your ex, I think about mine everyday but it's not because I miss her, it's because she has been the hardest lesson I've learned in my mid 20s and I use the memory of her to remind me what NOT to do, and to look for early signs. Had I been who I am today, I would had broke it off 3 months into our relationship when she admitted to cheating on me. This Christmas will be my first Christmas alone in 3 years, I won't be at her big family gatherings now. It gets easier, and I say that from experience and the heart. So be a Man, and FOCUS on yourself, nobody else will,. It is not toxic for you to be so, or for me to tell you so. The day you stop feeling sorry for yourself will be the day you start to understand that it is okay to be alone for yourself.
@@Eshayzbra96 Thank you, thanks a lot for the advice. Things are getting better and I'm moving on. Still miss her some ofc, but things you mentioned have helped a lot, I like acting, I'm the main lead in the play I'm doing right now which is really great. Working out and working on myself is a great thing, something I plan to pick up on even more soon. I know someday I think I'll look back and be happy with the way things worked out even if it's hard to see that now, and I know being the man you seem to be you'll find someone. Btw I made it sound worse than it was at that moment, I had been going pretty well in regards to moving on and what not, just had a particular moment of missing her and though I have those moments still it's getting better and most things are going decently well. Thank you again for your words I'll definitely follow your advice. Keep making the world a better place man.
@@That1Knife It's good to know that you are doing well, but I know what it is to be doing well and then suddenly the old warm memories creep in when you hear "that" verse from a song you heard together or see "that" place you both had a special moment. It's good to think of those moments, it shows that you are not a narcissist, you are empathetic, you are caring not just for yourself but for her. Something worth knowing for the next person you meet in your life. Today I rode my motorcycle to think a bit, and my relationship came up in my mind of course. Riding is something that gets me in high ecstasy, but it helps me think especially if I ride for a long time. Her father and I shared keen interests in motorcycles, he would tell me of his motorcycle adventures when he was my age and able. I've been wanting to call her dad, but a part of me thinks it's "giving in". Not that I would want her to know that I called, but since she's replaced me in his life as well I don't see the point. I'll be honest, I do give advice which was passed to me from a close friend of mine, and it helps. But some things I still think about, and I even dream it sometimes as if the answer isn't clear if I should or should not
@@Eshayzbra96 I can relate to that. I was really looking forward to bonding with her family, her relatives were wonderful and there's one or two I still talk to from time to time. It's hard, I'm glad that you have something like motorcycle riding to help you think. I do similar things sometimes and it helps a good amount. Thank you again for telling me that, it's good to know that it's good to think about that sometimes. Thanks for helping me move on. A few days ago I was at play practice which she is also at if I haven't mentioned that yet which is a hard thing but it hasn't been too bad recently, I've gotten over it and mostly everything is fine, but anyways me and my director started playing the piano and singing while we had a break. We sang say something and towards the end of the song I glanced over at her, not really on purpose but I saw her looking back at me. The way she was looking hit me hard for some reason. Part of me hopes she's happier now but there's always that one part wishing that she'll come back. Anyways don't know why exactly I shared that but I just felt like it. Hope everything is going well for you, keep doing what you need to.
Ignore the previous comment. A girl requiring saving is toxic, bound to cheat if you slip up and will never offer you the same support. Seek someone who's committed to a future with you, not just 'for this moment'. Believe me, most guys will view what I said as an ego problem, as I was in that same camp. Once you realise that she's only dependent on your support, you'll find yourself easily replaced. But you will learn, and the sooner the better. If you're the type to say "who hurt you?" to another guy for rejecting broken and toxic girls... well that's how you learn.
Take caution in your efforts to take care of her that you don’t forget to take care of yourself. Otherwise you’ll end up in a toxic relationship where neither of you are happy.
fuck, no joke, this is depressing, i have a loving gf, a good job and a fantastic life, and yet, i feel heartbroken, sad and torn appart listening this. The power of music.
Cherish her, cherish that job, and enjoy that life. Try understanding the lyrics of this song but there's no need for you to feel it, just protect all you have at all costs and never take them for granted. One of my wishes that you do not belong to the saddened ones in the comments, it's a hard life to traverse.
I had it going well at one point unfortunately everything collapsed. Never take it for granted one moment at any given time it can all go up in flames. Cherish it!!!
I haven't cried in 6 years until this summer, when I found out that I was accepted into the best university in the country in another city, my mother kept asking me why I'm not happy, I wasn't because I could only think about her, about us. In that moment I realized how much I loved her, how much I care for her, I just didn't wanted to let go, she was extremely important to me and I took it for granted, mostly at the end. After 6 long years of bottling up emotions I cried a lot in her arms in that moment, she kept re-assuring me that we'll be okay, but after a month she told me that she can't deal with the situation and I should "live my student life" and we should split because of the distance.. I cried again for a week and we didn't talked for 2 weeks, until we met the last time before me leaving. Now I'm in the college dorm room writing this, I'm better, I kinda moved on, but the bitterness of the whole situation still haunts me, I gave her my everything, she supported me so much, it was perfect, and just like that it ended in a month... P.s. if you read all of this you're a f***ing legend, remember this --> life goes on, all good things are ending eventually.. love your closest people and keep them close because they're extremely important!!
im not sad, but this got my mind working a couple dance in their living room, laughing. as they close into a hug, one of them disappears. the remaining lover falls to the ground, hopeless. they pick up some flowers and head outside, seeing glimpses of others and imagining themselves and their partner. couples walking on the street, friends playing in the seasons, even older couples helping each other, rings engrained into their hands. they come to a doorway, flowers in hand. they knock, but there is no response. they wait for hours, days, weeks, as the flowers wilt with the year. occasionally, they go for a walk to refresh the flowers, but the door still doesnt open. eventually, they carefully place the flowers against the door and walk away, back to their house. on the way inside, something catches their eye. the flowers are on their own doorstep, meant for someone living there. they look up into the house to see their partner crying with joy. i dont know how or where a story like this would work but GAH do i wanna animate it.
She'd take the world off my shoulders If it was ever hard to move She'd turn the rain to a rainbow When I was living in the blue Why then, if she is so perfect Do I still wish that it was you? Perfect don't mean that it's working So what can I do? (Ooh) When you're out of sight In my mind 'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes And that's where I find a glimpse of us And I try to fall for her touch But I'm thinking of the way it was Said I'm fine and said I moved on I'm only here passing time in her arms Hoping I'll find A glimpse of us Tell me he savors your glory Does he laugh the way I did? Is this a part of your story? One that I had never lived Maybe one day you'll feel lonely And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse Maybe you'll start slipping slowly And find me again When you're out of sight In my mind 'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes And that's where I find a glimpse of us And I try to fall for her touch But I'm thinking of the way it was Said I'm fine and said I moved on I'm only here passing time in her arms Hoping I'll find A glimpse of us Ooh, ooh-ooh Ooh, ooh-ooh Ooh, ooh, ooh 'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes And that's where I find a glimpse of us And I try to fall for her touch But I'm thinking of the way it was Said I'm fine and said I moved on I'm only here passing time in her arms Hoping I'll find A glimpse of us
this song hits hard. i lost all my friends , me and my bestie stopped talking, i dont talk to my parents, siblings or anyone. i been so numb & blank for soooo long now, last night i listened to this song & out of nowhere i just broke down.
the exact same thing happened to me a couple months ago and it hurt so much, but time heals things and everyday i get a little stronger. it still hurts to look back, but ik that there will be better people coming into my life, so stay strong u can do it! breaking down is fine and it's human nature, so cry as much as u need, it'll get better.
For me it’s not a glimpse of some lover or crush. It’s a glimpse of my dad, who died right before this song was released. Last time I ever spoke to him was on my 20th birthday, and next Tuesday it will have been an entire year. I miss him so incredibly much. I look at my siblings and see his nose or his hands or his smile, and I just weep and weep. It’s ridiculous that I still hurt just as much as when it first happened, but I just can’t believe it. He used to be my whole world and now he’s not here anymore. He’s going to be gone for the rest of my life. I just don’t understand. I miss him so much. I both long for and dread every little glimpse that I can find
Hey man, just want you to know that you're not alone. I know it hurts but you got to take care of yourself. And thank you for sharing your sentiments with us, appreciated.
Please, stay strong. There's no getting over the dead of someone you loved too much, but you can still live and enjoy the good things in life to come. I hope you find comfort in this distressing moment in your life.
if he still was here, im sure he would have said, that he loves you and are proud of you and to remain strong for your family and that he is at a good place now
Dear person whoever reads this, Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile. Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs. Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one. I love you and send you hugs. You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you. YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC. You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice. You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is. Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN. I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO. It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go. I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.?? I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :) All I want for you is to stay and feel alive. Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. I need you here with me :). Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out. Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up. I am sorry you feel misunderstood. But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?! - The stranger that cares about you more than anything. I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay. This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it. And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you. I hope you will remember my words- Jimmy :) Until tomorrow, my friend :)
Thankyou so much for your beautiful words🥺 This is what I needed the most but no one said , Really thankyou so much 💜 You are like an Angel to me 💞 ~ Shri ಥ‿ಥ
@@mussblmm thank you so much jimmy it means so much... but are YOU ok? you say this like you know what it feels like and potentially have lost someone... i just want to make sure the stranger who cares about me is ok
In my experience- if someone ever holds genuine love for you, in any capacity, they’ll express it to you in some way, and most of the time you’ll be able to recognize it when it’s given to you. But if not? Well . . I don’t think I need to explain that one.
There was a person who I fell in love in the first meet. You know when you are truly interested in someone, you really look at them. You try to think about their life, their insecurities, and their experiences. You think about how the boundary of their life intersects with yours because somehow you met this absolutely gorgeous of a human being. When the night goes off, you finally realise that it was "just a date" for them. They never looked in your eyes. They never felt the way I did.
The worst thing coming out of leaving someone is the feeling of you trying to regect depression saying I’m fine, I’m fine I can do this myself slowly breaking apart and feeling like you can’t pick up those pieces again
This song gives me closure in a way, I mean it’s strange since I did the “breaking up” but I found this unease feeling of not knowing what I truly wanted because I knew what they wanted and once they were gone I knew I didn’t want this I definitely fell hard for them probably more than they did. And i regretted at first I blamed myself, wished I could’ve done things differently, but in the end it didn’t matter, because we weren’t going back and to accept it was hard, it had to take a lot of crying and desperate cries to realize I’ll never have them and we were never going back together. I had to move on. Accepting the fact that you’ll never have them is a horrible yet good feeling. You can truly work on yourself. And as cliche as it sounds time has the best healing. Love yourself to the point where it doesn’t hurt to hear their name, their songs, because frankly we all deserve love. There will be someone who admires your qualities and yes maybe they’ll catch a glimpse of you in everyone. What I’m saying is this song is a way to realize my desperateness, a way for me to come to know I can’t always get it my way. Shit I have a lot of problems and my commitment wasn’t all the way when I decided to be in the relationship. Be kind to everyone. Don’t expect to have things in return cause ultimately it won’t work. You got this and remember if you know you have lots of love to give, the best person to give it to is yourself
When i was 8 i was with a girl. We loved each other very much. But one day...due to my dads work we needed to move out. I was shattered earing this. By the time we didn't got phones...so i spent the much time as i could with her. And eventually we moved out. I totally lost contact with her. Then a few years later when i was reading the news paper i saw her face on it but.. When i read the text that was up there everything around me started to blur and become darker. She died in a frontal car accident with her family. Since then i never smiled again. And when the i was smiling i was forcing to do it to not worry my freinds about my mental state. If you made it here i really thank you for taking your time to read. And i hope what happened to me dosen't happen to others.
Can people fall in love as children???? I wouldn’t know, as I’ve never been, but it seems strange to think you could know romantic love so young. What was it like?
Thanks for UA-cam reccomendations I'm your 172th like and 5th comment, so hopefully I'm here before this blows up. No matter how many times i hear this song, it just hits me in the feels, the song itself feels like heaven but hurts like hell. Also keep up the great work every single day that you can do so.
This song is like when u want to cry, end everything, burst out all ur emotions, But you're completely exhausted, physically and mentally burnt out and tears dont come out😭
To this day i still don't understand how u can just forget about the love u shared with a person. I know so many people that just hop from one relationship to another. It's like they flip a switch. I'm in a new relationship right now and i'm happy, but that's no reason to loose all the good memories and feelings i had with another person. Of course, the feelings are different, but i refuse to believe that its the right thing to simply forget about them
I thought i would heal,though it wasnt my intention of leaving him,but when he asked me to still be friends,i started sobbing.because you can't be friends with someone you love with your whole heart and soul,its too painful.. Its like,the more i love him,the more i suffer.
My girl just made a james bay rendition of the lyric. "Just Hold back the river and look in my eyes and you'll always find, A glimpse of us." Its a very tiny detail but its so close to my heart, she just turned the whole song around into something so beautiful. It just proves that life can indeed be beautiful with the right person. Lucky to have found one❤️.
this hits hard when he wasnt even your boyfriend, he was just a stranger you shared memories with, but you fell so deep that youre unable to give anyone else the position he had.
Reminds me of the first date, I could never forget that day. We decided to go to a lookout point and eat some food together there while we talked. We ate our food and talked damn near the whole night until right before the end we kissed and hugged while listing to this song while we stared at the moon together. We embraced each other for what felt like a lifetime. I felt comfortable and safe. I wish her the best.
istg i was using incognito mode (as you do) and found this and was in my sad hour, and fxcking youtube thought it was the perfect time to put an ad in the smack middle of the video love this btw
It takes a while to realise how truly lonely you are. And even longer to see it doesn’t have to be that way. Keep your chin up kings, we’ll all make it in the end.
For the souls that need an ear... I'm here to listen. I've found this song of course in divine timing -.- cry with me. Talk to me about your experiences. I may never meet you or see you, hold you and smile but I love you all.
I remember this guy i fell in love in 2019. We met in summer camp and became bestfriends. At this time, I was kind of depressed and he helped me so much trough this ! Thanks to him, I'm still here. However, one night we were talking about music and he said that Joji was his favorite artist. I didn't know Joji, but he became my fav too. Now, I don't talk anymore to him. We fade apart. And it makes me so sad. I still listen to Joji, everyday, and everyday I think about my first love ; his smile, his eyes, his kindness. I told him I was in love with him, he said "we have the whole life for this, don't worry". But where are you ? You promised it will be you and me forever. Why did you leave ? To be honest, I don't feel love anymore for him, I met a guy who makes me really happy. But I just want my best friend back...and want to listen to "sanctuary" while talking about our life one more time...I miss him
I had a very strong friendship with him we were so close as best friends even tho we both had feelings especially from him first. We broke up today and I feel I'm missing my bestfriend and love that we spent all summer talking about life
Lyrics: She'd take the world off my shoulders If it was ever hard to move She'd turn the rain to a rainbow When I was living in the blue Why then, if she is so perfect Do I still wish that it was you? Perfect don't mean that it's working So what can I do? (Ooh) When you're out of sight In my mind 'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes And that's where I find a glimpse of us And I try to fall for her touch But I'm thinking of the way it was Said I'm fine and said I moved on I'm only here passing time in her arms Hoping I'll find A glimpse of us Tell me he savors your glory Does he laugh the way I did? Is this a part of your story? One that I had never lived Maybe one day you'll feel lonely And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse Maybe you'll start slipping slowly And find me again When you're out of sight In my mind 'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes And that's where I find a glimpse of us And I try to fall for her touch But I'm thinking of the way it was Said I'm fine and said I moved on I'm only here passing time in her arms Hoping I'll find A glimpse of us Ooh, ooh-ooh Ooh, ooh-ooh Ooh, ooh, ooh 'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes And that's where I find a glimpse of us And I try to fall for her touch But I'm thinking of the way it was Said I'm fine and said I moved on I'm only here passing time in her arms Hoping I'll find A glimpse of us
whenever I listen to this song, I always think of my ex listening to this song thinking of me. We were together for almost 3 years in highschool, Junior to past senior year. I broke things off with him, not because I didnt love him, I loved him so much but he was never there for me in our relationship. I've spoken to him so many times about this problem but nothing ever changed. I've given him so many chances and when I thought things changed, they always reverted back to how things were. So many nights I just cried. Sometimes He'd go days without texting me. He never wanted to call me even though he said that hated texting. I never understood it because at some point, he wanted to change but then I was already over it. So then on my 18th birthday I invited him over and I broke up with him when we went for a walk outside. I felt awful for crying because I was the one initiating the break up. I felt like I didnt deserve to cry in front of him because I knew he still had feelings for me. He was silent, didnt shed a tear but I could feel his anger and his heart break. We drove him home after and he asked me all these questions he didnt say to me in person. He was my first boyfriend and I will always be glad it was him and not someone else. Im 20 now and I can confidently say that he's taught me alot and so has my experience with love.
I’m happy u shared this message and I hope everything is ok with him and u as well, and everything happens for a reason and you took a big step for what you did so I’m proud of you but I hope your ok now❤
Why’d she have to be so perfect? The amount of love I had for her was immeasurable, with every fiber in my body. And just like that, it’s like she just forgot about it, going from talking every day to barely interacting, hell, I’d be lucky to make eye contact with her. Why can’t I just forget about her? Part of me wants to, while part of me is clinging that I can still find a glimpse of us. I finally figured out what it feels like to be broken.
He may not have been perfect, but he was perfect for me, and I may not have been perfect but I was perfect for him, and yet we didn’t choose each other
I still love him so much and I don't think I'll ever find anyone like him. My heart rips out of my chest everyday I spend without his touch. I'll forever hope I'll find a glimpse of us.
Me and my former girlfriend broke up 2 months ago after nearly 3 years together. It truly was the most painful experience of my life, but I know there are people here with even worse experiences. Personally i have found a lot of peace within myself and I geniunly want to talk to you if you feel like you need to express some feelings
In the same boat with u buddy my gf of almost three years also just broke up with me 2 months ago man, all good hopefully you’re doing better now man and to everyone else who is suffering worse or less worse stay strong kings and queens 💗
Almost 6 years since I last saw her & not a day has gone by where I don’t think of her. She was this beautiful soul who I took for granted & would do anything to have her back
I miss her, I long for her touch, her hugs, the feeling of safe when I'm with her, I miss everything about her. She's still around, buy it's been 4 months and it's almost the end of semester and next semester would be our last and it is our internship year, I can no longer experience any enjoyment during uni years. I got an internship in the same place with her thou different division. I don't know what to do, I just feel so bad, the regrets and the small bad thing I did that may hurt her. I feel like I took her for granted. This is our final week of semester, and next week will be our study week before exam starts. After the exam week, we will be out from here and start a sem break. There will be no more study, no more classes, no longer any university stuff except for internship. I just really² hope that she can forgive me. I don't know if she is thinking about me or no. I just can't forget her. I sometimes tried to distract myself, but the facts that we are all leaving for our internship make things sadder because it's not just her. It's my friend, my coursemate, and my faculty mate.
I’m in love with her- have been since September, she’s my best friend and I don’t think she sees me like that nor will she ever see me like that. But I can’t help but feel hope whenever she lays her head on my shoulder or hugs me longer that usual. I just love her sm
The most saddest part when you’re with someone that cares abt himself only claiming he’s working and shit leaving you lonely between all the people and you feel jealous for instant seeing couples happy but you’re not you’re just attached to someone narcissistic
The fact that this makes me happy and remind me of how lonely, miserable and alone i am and how its so nostalgic and remind me that i still got myself :D
He dedicated this song to me... but still i do feel sometimes that i couldn't turn the rain into rainbows for him... i was never enough for him, i wish i could make him forget his ex but still he loved her more than anything else and could never feel the same way for me... it's been more than 6 months since we've talked like we used to.. i don't miss him usually but when i do, i miss him alott. I've been in love with this guy for more than 5 years, how can i just forget him in seconds... he never said a goodbye... neither do I've ever said it... i remember once he said that "nobody has ever loved me the way you did, I'll never forget you till my last breath" but now i wonder if he ever remembers me... i just wish that he's able to move on from his past relationship on his own because i couldn't make him do that... u still have a corner in my heart and it will always be reserved for uh
Hey luv! I totally understand what you're going through. Sometimes, things just don't work out between two people, and that can be tough. But here's the thing: if it's meant to be, it will happen naturally. You deserve someone who appreciates you for who you are, and it's not your fault if your crush doesn't see how amazing you are. It's their loss, really! Remember, you are incredible just the way you are, and the right person will come along and recognize that. If you ever need someone to talk to or a virtual shoulder to lean on, I'm here for you. If no one else has told you, I just want you to know that I'm really proud of you! Feel free to vent! Remember i love you so much!💕✨
Dude, try to listen to this song after intimacy with a person, having another person in your mind 24/7. The emptiness and miserable feeling are devastating.
I lost him , he died. i think he’ll always be in my mind , memories, feelings i know i won’t find it again Maybe he’s in a better place now even it kills me every time i know he’s not here.
Having reoccuring dreams and nightmares of her daily, i feel like being tortured yet i'm always happy that the image of her ain't gone from my memory yet. If you're reading this babbi, it's been almost 5 months since we parted ways yet you're still the one i'm always looking for.
She was everything I wanted, and I managed to lose her. I shed tears of a river for her to come back, but her boat sailed off to another ocean. I could never see my life without her, and still can't. Now I fight major depression every day.
I've never been so heartbroken by a girl before, it was a mutual breakup too. She was my soulmate and my best friend, it hurts knowing that I've lost my whole world. She was my first love and I was hers, now my mind confines me in a slideshow of our memories together and it hurts...
Broken but not destroyed. Rise up gentlemen. Use the pain as fuel and breakthrough. Keeping hold of previous relationships and old feelings will not help you enjoy the next relationship. Move on when you have healed. It takes time and true friends and family. There is a way out.
I fell in love with my childhood best friend. One day I found out that she reciprocated. We were together for 3 years and I truly believed we were soulmates. Then one day whilst sat in her car she tells me that she never loved me. It wasn’t out of anger, it was out of honesty, and her own guilt. It broke me. I fell into a pit of feeling unlovable and weak. I’m dating again now, she’s my perfect girl, makes me feel valid. But it feels wrong, this wasn’t how it was all supposed to go in my head.
You are loved. I care about you. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? I am proud of you no matter who you are. You have done so well. Well done for getting this far in life. It’s tough, isn’t it? It’s okay to cry. Not everything goes as planned in life. Nothing is perfect. We can never predict what happens next, but I know that you can make it, because I believe in you. Trust yourself. Love yourself. I know how hard it may be sometimes. Don’t let your own thoughts bring you down. Please get some rest, dear reader.
The love of my life is gone forever. Not just gone from a break up and with some other girl, gone from this world and i can never see his face or hear his voice again. This song makes me think of him because I’m always searching everywhere for a glimpse of the us that used to be. A glimpse of the greatest love i ever knew and the best friend i ever had. But that’s all they are, not even glimpses but shadows of memories that play out in my head. They grow darker and darker as the years go by but the pain, though thankfully no longer sharp will remain forever
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my partner February 27th 2023. I watched it all happen and will forever blame myself for not doing things differently with my time with her. Forever feeling like as her person, I could have been the one to save her. Nothing will ever be able to tell me differently. I carry that pain in my chest as it all becomes lost to the echoes of time. I hate all of this. I don't agree with any of it. But I have no choice.
It's not even the fact that this song is full of emotions, it's that all these comments share a very deep sense of loneliness, longing and sorrow that is unmeasured. And I'm kind of in the same spot myself. But I wish you all the best. I hope your wishes reach you, I hope you find peace in what you have, I hope that whatever hurt you feel heals fast. I hope you all live great lives with special moments to look back on. You deserve it. Much love.
We met when I was too young to recognize him years later, but he always remembered me. As a child I met him again, I was in love with him for 8 years. But I loved the child version, I loved that sweet and gentle boy who was embarrassed to hold my hand. But that boy died a long time ago, and it was my mistake to think otherwise. I tried, he tried, we tried... Again and again and again until we both got tired. It hurts to see him still trying to have something, anything with me when I've already moved on. Sometimes I blame myself but I know that then, I made my choices and if I could go back in time I would never have answered that stupid call. I will forever love that boy, and now I will hate the "adult and mature" version of him who came back months after breaking my heart. I just needed to get this off my chest, thank you so much for your time.
not about a "romantic" heartbreak per se, but I had a falling out with my best friend a month ago. both of us made mistakes with each other that have led to where we are. we've managed to be on speaking terms now, but I don't really understand where we are. we used to do everything together. it's weird treading the same spaces, engaging with the same hobbies, when they're just...gone, now. I don't know if I could ever get close to someone like that again, knowing that one person's absence could make me feel this way. but life will get better. for me, for the person reading, for everyone. I believe that. It's just the way of life. People come into each other's lives, leave them, build, destroy, and rebuild. Just the nature of connection, I think...and ultimately worth the pain.
I just hope she comes back like she says she wants to I just want it to be try when she says I still love you and want to keep you I just want it all to be ok I cant think of ever being with anyone else, all I feel is pain and suffering.
I’m legitimately at peace and happy with my girl, but listening to this reminds me of how devastated I was when I ended my last relationship. I don’t even know why I was sad, I just remember hating the idea of being alone again. But I found this sweet thang of my mines, but Jesus Christ was I under such a terrible feeling. Joji really captured the raw emotion of feeling hopeless and depresssed in this song, and I appreciate the amount of effort he put into making this. Thank you, Joji!
I blasted this in my headphones and i started BALLING!!!!😭 this is so sad, i love it. Especially the chorus part, guys blast it in headphones and just like REALLY listen to it, ur gonna want to cry.
I only wish I had not made that mistake of being able to overcome and value what I had in the present, now I regret it because I also lost it by not letting go of the past.
![SLOW DANCING IN THE DARK [Slowed + Reverb] - Joji](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/M4vz3N_KUXQ/mqdefault.jpg)
She is perfect because I love her ,not because she fits in everything
Your comment touched me very deep especially with what's going on in my life....
Egocentricism can't be more correct
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Ambatukam slowed + reverb
@@trippiecliff8311 by amba singh
Thanks man now i can cry longer.
Lol😂
Same
Same ;(
Lmao
Same :) 🌻
You ever wonder if someone listens to a song like this and thinks of you?
Edit: I guess I’ll share my 2 cents since this has gotten some traction. I can’t exactly think of anyone that would think about me off the top of my head. However, I find myself thinking about a handful of girls from my past when listening to songs like this. They would probably never know or think that I still feel that way so I’m willing to bet there are other people who have the same experience with me. There are definitely people who thought we were gonna date but never did or we did date but it resulted in a failed relationship. Maybe they hold on to that “what if” feeling like I do?
Edit again lol: Yesterday I saw the girl I think it when I hear this song. Probably haven’t seen them for like 3 years at this point. We were both drunk at the bar and she was being pretty flirtatious and a little handsy despite her being in a 3 year relationship. We then kind of reminisced on the past and I told her how I still felt and she told me to “get over it”. Yikes, that hurt to hear even though it’s what needed to be said.
Edit again: I’ve since found someone who makes me feel loved. They go out of their way to show it and we get along great. I’m hoping it stays that way
this hurts to read a lil bit
@@reidbaker1210 lying ahh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If they do and they’re the ones who I think then they’re lying to themselves
no
Im sorry Venice
Crying for a lover I never had, and will probably never have. At the end of the day, I am always alone.
hey. i dont know if this will help at all - but even if it is not a lover, it doesn’t have to be a lover, it can be someone you just genuinely love purely, you are not alone. you are important and don’t forget that. its okay to cry and feel sad. please take care of yourself.
@@Ventriforrest Thank you, I needed that :)
@@Ventriforrest big fax 📠
I’m sure you’ll find the one some day
Forever alone club
I lost her. It's been 4 months, and I can't really continue onwards. It wasn't a bad break-up, a mutually accepted one because of our very different life careers that would split us apart.. Which makes it even worse honestly, I can't think of anyone but her, and she wants to stay distant so we don't fall in-love again.. It kills me.
I know the feeling. It got easier slowly, although the bitterness of it all stayed a long while.
I know what you feel. Almost five years passed but I still find myself thinking of what could've been. And it breaks me. And I don't know if can be happy anymore.
I feel you bro… It just hurts differently💔
I know how it is man, but sometimes we just have to keep living
@@dapipokapopaikkjjk453 All we can do is keep moving forward. Yet my biggest fear is letting this affect my quality and aspirations in life.
I always knew slowing down and transposing something to a half step lower makes anything sadder. BY A LOT.
Do you mean transposing?
Why is this sadder? I feel like the original is sadder.
@@Swamp72 I‘m not saying the original isn‘t sad, that itself is capable of getting me crying. And at the end of the day, no two people have the same perception of things, am I right?
@@Swamp72 Oh yeah, what a stupid mistake! 😝😝 Thanks for pointing it out!
@@GamingPianist7 oops, I meant to comment that one separately, my bad
How cruel it is to meet the right person at the wrong time
God sent that person to your life to teach her how to love someone :) You may not be a part of her life but you will always be the true definition of love
and it's the wrong time and then you ruin everything and then it's no longer the right person
In my opinion, the worst feeling of loneliness, isn't being lonely, it's realising how miserable you are.
(PS thank u for ur lovely comments under my songs, means a lot 🖤)
it also hurts more when someone you won't forget forgets you...
True 🙃
@@pallak97:)
@@kyzer_286 i hope you have a great day
@@pallak97 tq love
This just reminds me of the quote-
"And even tho he loved her, cherished her, missed her. He knew deep down, she wasn't his"
That's deep
Who’s is she’s then? Cuz it doesn’t make sense unless she’s a lesbian or something major. Anyone can make it work with another. Relationships aren’t supposed to be easy. Don’t give up just because of one roadblock. Obstacles can help couples grow.
@@TT35109 one day, you will understand the phrase “She’s not your girl, it’s just your turn.” The women in 2024 aren’t like your father’s era.
Tooooooo deep😢
well wanna hear another quote?
ill take that as a yes
Its never an adventure if you dont get lost.
It hurts, it hurts so bad. It hurts that at the end of the day I’ll be alone without someone to share my feelings, experiences, etc with. I’m just here sitting all alone listening to this song feeling empty. I’ve been through tough times lately and sometimes I imagine how lucky people are for having someone to love. I know I’m still young but idk…
The answer is Do. Set a thing like things that you won't do but are certainly possible. Like go ask that girl/boy out, you would say 'no' like it is impossible its not. And if there is a reason why you don't want to or now is not the time, then think when is the time, when will you be ready, start doing,make mistakes then again do it. There's no way you won't progress.
@@What-ki4we I guess you’re right. Thank you.
to be honest with you, im 22, and I lost someone I care about recently. Your worth is not defined by the way they leave you, or whatever. Your worth was in you when they decided to go out with you, feel you, and kiss you. That worth still remains with you, the reciprocal recognition is all that you are missing now.And do not fret, you will have the courage again, as if someone dragged you out of your room, but it was only your feet that carried you there, and your will alone. and to end with a quote that I love from an Austrian poet called Rainer Maria Rilke: “Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. / Just keep going. No feeling is final.”
if i can help you, i was in a very bad state during 4 years, thinking that nobody could understand and help me the way i dreamed of, but i found someone who cares about me, cant understand the feelings i have in my mind but try to manage it with me, listens me during hours, and more than everything she is hot as hell (im a beautiful boy ahah) so keep believing your day will come !
sorry for my english im french ^^
@@bonsoir8582 your English is good, don’t worry!
Ironically, this makes me happy because it fits my vocal range so much better and i can actually sing it relatively well. Thank you Mr raindrops :)
It is sadder thanks dude
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The worst feelings isn't the loneliness, its being forgotten by someone you could never forget.
real
God sent that person to your life to teach her how to love someone :) You may not be a part of her life but you will always be the true definition of love
First time I’ve felt actual genuine LOVE for someone. Like, she made me feel things I’ve never felt before… but I know I can never have her. All I can think of when I wake up. All I can think of as the day goes on and before I go to sleep, is her. Why. Why did I have to fall for someone I knew I couldn’t have…
real
Can i ask u why u couldn't have her
really real
I understand you so so much. The question I always end up asking the world is "why did I have to meet her". The only thing I feel when I think of her is pain
wow. word for word what i’m going through. i still see her often and even though we were intimate we can only be friends bc of our situation. i have deep feelings for her but she doesn’t for me.
The song itself is indeed sadder. But nothing can compare to the original version when it comes to memories and true feelings. Man I loved that song so much, and she did too, now I listen to it alone while she's off with her boyfriend.
Work on yourself, make yourself the best version you can be and learn to forgive and move on. Thats my advice
Find a hobby, or some community. Try MMA, that worked for me. Move away, go on a holiday. Literally anything that keeps you productive and busy. If you feel lonely because she has a boyfriend, believe me, someone requiring another especially in a short time span means that she NEEDS a relationship. My ex moved on after 2 months, before that we were together for 3 years.
For me, that hurt. But I realised she is that much of a broken girl that she didn't move on quick because she found it in herself to be OK, she did it because she needs someone to save her routinely- something that I fell out of fashion for.
So what to do? I've been single for 10 months now. Seldom slept around, in fact I've only warmed the beds of 3 different girls and neither of them made me feel better. What made me feel better was being productive, moving away, changing jobs, going to the gym, getting fit - simply working on myself. While she's still stuck in the same old town she was born in.
She doesn't control your life and she's never coming back. So don't live in the past. Someone I personally know is still moping pathetically about a girl he had sex with (but knew for a few years), she moved away not long after they started screwing even though he was clearly a rebound from her 5 year relationship before that.
It is okay to think about your ex, I think about mine everyday but it's not because I miss her, it's because she has been the hardest lesson I've learned in my mid 20s and I use the memory of her to remind me what NOT to do, and to look for early signs.
Had I been who I am today, I would had broke it off 3 months into our relationship when she admitted to cheating on me.
This Christmas will be my first Christmas alone in 3 years, I won't be at her big family gatherings now.
It gets easier, and I say that from experience and the heart. So be a Man, and FOCUS on yourself, nobody else will,. It is not toxic for you to be so, or for me to tell you so. The day you stop feeling sorry for yourself will be the day you start to understand that it is okay to be alone for yourself.
@@Eshayzbra96 Thank you, thanks a lot for the advice. Things are getting better and I'm moving on. Still miss her some ofc, but things you mentioned have helped a lot, I like acting, I'm the main lead in the play I'm doing right now which is really great. Working out and working on myself is a great thing, something I plan to pick up on even more soon.
I know someday I think I'll look back and be happy with the way things worked out even if it's hard to see that now, and I know being the man you seem to be you'll find someone.
Btw I made it sound worse than it was at that moment, I had been going pretty well in regards to moving on and what not, just had a particular moment of missing her and though I have those moments still it's getting better and most things are going decently well.
Thank you again for your words I'll definitely follow your advice. Keep making the world a better place man.
@@That1Knife It's good to know that you are doing well, but I know what it is to be doing well and then suddenly the old warm memories creep in when you hear "that" verse from a song you heard together or see "that" place you both had a special moment.
It's good to think of those moments, it shows that you are not a narcissist, you are empathetic, you are caring not just for yourself but for her. Something worth knowing for the next person you meet in your life.
Today I rode my motorcycle to think a bit, and my relationship came up in my mind of course. Riding is something that gets me in high ecstasy, but it helps me think especially if I ride for a long time.
Her father and I shared keen interests in motorcycles, he would tell me of his motorcycle adventures when he was my age and able. I've been wanting to call her dad, but a part of me thinks it's "giving in". Not that I would want her to know that I called, but since she's replaced me in his life as well I don't see the point.
I'll be honest, I do give advice which was passed to me from a close friend of mine, and it helps. But some things I still think about, and I even dream it sometimes as if the answer isn't clear if I should or should not
@@Eshayzbra96 I can relate to that. I was really looking forward to bonding with her family, her relatives were wonderful and there's one or two I still talk to from time to time. It's hard, I'm glad that you have something like motorcycle riding to help you think. I do similar things sometimes and it helps a good amount.
Thank you again for telling me that, it's good to know that it's good to think about that sometimes. Thanks for helping me move on.
A few days ago I was at play practice which she is also at if I haven't mentioned that yet which is a hard thing but it hasn't been too bad recently, I've gotten over it and mostly everything is fine, but anyways me and my director started playing the piano and singing while we had a break. We sang say something and towards the end of the song I glanced over at her, not really on purpose but I saw her looking back at me. The way she was looking hit me hard for some reason. Part of me hopes she's happier now but there's always that one part wishing that she'll come back.
Anyways don't know why exactly I shared that but I just felt like it. Hope everything is going well for you, keep doing what you need to.
She's as close as she's going to get to a soulmate. I can't fuck this one up.
Try your best to protect her. try to understand her and be her sanctuary
Ignore the previous comment. A girl requiring saving is toxic, bound to cheat if you slip up and will never offer you the same support. Seek someone who's committed to a future with you, not just 'for this moment'.
Believe me, most guys will view what I said as an ego problem, as I was in that same camp. Once you realise that she's only dependent on your support, you'll find yourself easily replaced. But you will learn, and the sooner the better.
If you're the type to say "who hurt you?" to another guy for rejecting broken and toxic girls... well that's how you learn.
Take caution in your efforts to take care of her that you don’t forget to take care of yourself. Otherwise you’ll end up in a toxic relationship where neither of you are happy.
I felt the same, then I had to move across the Country.I know how it feels, so I wish you the best luck
woop dee doo he fucked it up
fuck, no joke, this is depressing, i have a loving gf, a good job and a fantastic life, and yet, i feel heartbroken, sad and torn appart listening this. The power of music.
I almost hate that music can do this.
@@SN-rp3kk same but somewhere in me i love it
Cherish her, cherish that job, and enjoy that life. Try understanding the lyrics of this song but there's no need for you to feel it, just protect all you have at all costs and never take them for granted. One of my wishes that you do not belong to the saddened ones in the comments, it's a hard life to traverse.
Are you having… a glimpse of you?
I had it going well at one point unfortunately everything collapsed. Never take it for granted one moment at any given time it can all go up in flames. Cherish it!!!
i wish i could cry to this but it feels like i am physically unable to. it hurts kinda
Edit: guys update I cried again after months🦈
Yeah I know what you mean
Same it's tiring
Yeah, It's worst
I haven't cried in 6 years until this summer, when I found out that I was accepted into the best university in the country in another city, my mother kept asking me why I'm not happy, I wasn't because I could only think about her, about us. In that moment I realized how much I loved her, how much I care for her, I just didn't wanted to let go, she was extremely important to me and I took it for granted, mostly at the end. After 6 long years of bottling up emotions I cried a lot in her arms in that moment, she kept re-assuring me that we'll be okay, but after a month she told me that she can't deal with the situation and I should "live my student life" and we should split because of the distance.. I cried again for a week and we didn't talked for 2 weeks, until we met the last time before me leaving. Now I'm in the college dorm room writing this, I'm better, I kinda moved on, but the bitterness of the whole situation still haunts me, I gave her my everything, she supported me so much, it was perfect, and just like that it ended in a month...
P.s. if you read all of this you're a f***ing legend, remember this --> life goes on, all good things are ending eventually.. love your closest people and keep them close because they're extremely important!!
@@RM-wp7df you got this my guy, stay strong and you'll make it through, we are all proud of you
im not sad, but this got my mind working
a couple dance in their living room, laughing. as they close into a hug, one of them disappears. the remaining lover falls to the ground, hopeless. they pick up some flowers and head outside, seeing glimpses of others and imagining themselves and their partner. couples walking on the street, friends playing in the seasons, even older couples helping each other, rings engrained into their hands. they come to a doorway, flowers in hand. they knock, but there is no response. they wait for hours, days, weeks, as the flowers wilt with the year. occasionally, they go for a walk to refresh the flowers, but the door still doesnt open. eventually, they carefully place the flowers against the door and walk away, back to their house. on the way inside, something catches their eye. the flowers are on their own doorstep, meant for someone living there. they look up into the house to see their partner crying with joy.
i dont know how or where a story like this would work but GAH do i wanna animate it.
Wait so like they both went looking for each other, not knowing the other was waiting for them at their own home? Kinda confused lmao
@@ian.williamson im confused too lmfaoo
Yes please do.
Ooo, you sound like you'd be a good author!
Someone really need to make an animation off of this script because its gonna be a masterpiece
Joji in 2010: makes people laugh
Joji now: makes people sad
She'd take the world off my shoulders
If it was ever hard to move
She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
When I was living in the blue
Why then, if she is so perfect
Do I still wish that it was you?
Perfect don't mean that it's working
So what can I do? (Ooh)
When you're out of sight
In my mind
'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
And that's where I find a glimpse of us
And I try to fall for her touch
But I'm thinking of the way it was
Said I'm fine and said I moved on
I'm only here passing time in her arms
Hoping I'll find
A glimpse of us
Tell me he savors your glory
Does he laugh the way I did?
Is this a part of your story?
One that I had never lived
Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
And find me again
When you're out of sight
In my mind
'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
And that's where I find a glimpse of us
And I try to fall for her touch
But I'm thinking of the way it was
Said I'm fine and said I moved on
I'm only here passing time in her arms
Hoping I'll find
A glimpse of us
Ooh, ooh-ooh
Ooh, ooh-ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh
'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
And that's where I find a glimpse of us
And I try to fall for her touch
But I'm thinking of the way it was
Said I'm fine and said I moved on
I'm only here passing time in her arms
Hoping I'll find
A glimpse of us
@Julio Cesar Sanchez Arias np!
@@bunny8148 is it sad that i can give the entire lyrics without looking it up
nice profile pic
@@GloMo357 thanks
gracias
this song hits hard. i lost all my friends , me and my bestie stopped talking, i dont talk to my parents, siblings or anyone. i been so numb & blank for soooo long now, last night i listened to this song & out of nowhere i just broke down.
the exact same thing happened to me a couple months ago and it hurt so much, but time heals things and everyday i get a little stronger. it still hurts to look back, but ik that there will be better people coming into my life, so stay strong u can do it! breaking down is fine and it's human nature, so cry as much as u need, it'll get better.
Hey do u wanna talk to me...i experience this too )
Do you wanna talk
@@styrofobe i wanna talk ...bcz i am just going numb inside )
girl i hope ur doin good jus know there r always some people who actually cares abt you try to live for urself
For me it’s not a glimpse of some lover or crush. It’s a glimpse of my dad, who died right before this song was released. Last time I ever spoke to him was on my 20th birthday, and next Tuesday it will have been an entire year. I miss him so incredibly much. I look at my siblings and see his nose or his hands or his smile, and I just weep and weep. It’s ridiculous that I still hurt just as much as when it first happened, but I just can’t believe it. He used to be my whole world and now he’s not here anymore. He’s going to be gone for the rest of my life. I just don’t understand. I miss him so much. I both long for and dread every little glimpse that I can find
Hey man, just want you to know that you're not alone. I know it hurts but you got to take care of yourself. And thank you for sharing your sentiments with us, appreciated.
Please, stay strong. There's no getting over the dead of someone you loved too much, but you can still live and enjoy the good things in life to come. I hope you find comfort in this distressing moment in your life.
“I both long for and dread every little glimpse that I can’t find” so. Beautifully. Said.
if he still was here, im sure he would have said, that he loves you and are proud of you and to remain strong for your family and that he is at a good place now
same,I dedicated this song to my dad who passed away 4 years back before I turned 18.It is like,no one can replace him.
Dear person whoever reads this,
Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile.
Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs.
Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one.
I love you and send you hugs.
You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you.
YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN.
I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC.
You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice.
You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is.
Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN.
I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO.
It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you.
I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go.
I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.??
I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night.
If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you.
If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits.
If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :)
All I want for you is to stay and feel alive.
Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
I need you here with me :).
Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out.
Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up.
I am sorry you feel misunderstood.
But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :).
Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?!
- The stranger that cares about you more than anything.
I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay.
This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it.
And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you.
I hope you will remember my words- Jimmy :)
Until tomorrow, my friend :)
I will bro ,things have been going hard for me , thx for makin my day ,no one has ever said such thing to me , ur the best😄😢
Thankyou so much for your beautiful words🥺
This is what I needed the most but no one said , Really thankyou so much 💜
You are like an Angel to me 💞
~ Shri ಥ‿ಥ
jimmy, sincerely thank you ... 💙
@@mussblmm thank you so much jimmy it means so much... but are YOU ok? you say this like you know what it feels like and potentially have lost someone... i just want to make sure the stranger who cares about me is ok
Big W human
Its even sadder when you dont know if he ever liked you or not...
In my experience- if someone ever holds genuine love for you, in any capacity, they’ll express it to you in some way, and most of the time you’ll be able to recognize it when it’s given to you. But if not? Well . . I don’t think I need to explain that one.
@@ghireixi3625 thats right but the thing is he was giving me mixed feelings
I know what you mean, but we need to keep moving on
she*
Girls have like 99% success rate when asking a boy out, you should go talk to him
I hate when you finally find the perfect person and there is always that one thing that makes them not like you
Scary to think like that
There was a person who I fell in love in the first meet. You know when you are truly interested in someone, you really look at them. You try to think about their life, their insecurities, and their experiences. You think about how the boundary of their life intersects with yours because somehow you met this absolutely gorgeous of a human being. When the night goes off, you finally realise that it was "just a date" for them. They never looked in your eyes. They never felt the way I did.
The worst thing coming out of leaving someone is the feeling of you trying to regect depression saying I’m fine, I’m fine I can do this myself slowly breaking apart and feeling like you can’t pick up those pieces again
This song gives me closure in a way, I mean it’s strange since I did the “breaking up” but I found this unease feeling of not knowing what I truly wanted because I knew what they wanted and once they were gone I knew I didn’t want this I definitely fell hard for them probably more than they did. And i regretted at first I blamed myself, wished I could’ve done things differently, but in the end it didn’t matter, because we weren’t going back and to accept it was hard, it had to take a lot of crying and desperate cries to realize I’ll never have them and we were never going back together. I had to move on. Accepting the fact that you’ll never have them is a horrible yet good feeling. You can truly work on yourself. And as cliche as it sounds time has the best healing. Love yourself to the point where it doesn’t hurt to hear their name, their songs, because frankly we all deserve love. There will be someone who admires your qualities and yes maybe they’ll catch a glimpse of you in everyone. What I’m saying is this song is a way to realize my desperateness, a way for me to come to know I can’t always get it my way. Shit I have a lot of problems and my commitment wasn’t all the way when I decided to be in the relationship. Be kind to everyone. Don’t expect to have things in return cause ultimately it won’t work. You got this and remember if you know you have lots of love to give, the best person to give it to is yourself
When i was 8 i was with a girl.
We loved each other very much.
But one day...due to my dads work we needed to move out.
I was shattered earing this.
By the time we didn't got phones...so i spent the much time as i could with her.
And eventually we moved out.
I totally lost contact with her.
Then a few years later when i was reading the news paper i saw her face on it but..
When i read the text that was up there everything around me started to blur and become darker.
She died in a frontal car accident with her family.
Since then i never smiled again.
And when the i was smiling i was forcing to do it to not worry my freinds about my mental state.
If you made it here i really thank you for taking your time to read.
And i hope what happened to me dosen't happen to others.
Can people fall in love as children???? I wouldn’t know, as I’ve never been, but it seems strange to think you could know romantic love so young. What was it like?
I could never imagine the pain you felt
sorry for you brother
im really sorry to hear this man, it must hurt like hell ;-; you have my best regards :)
Fake
Thanks for UA-cam reccomendations I'm your 172th like and 5th comment, so hopefully I'm here before this blows up. No matter how many times i hear this song, it just hits me in the feels, the song itself feels like heaven but hurts like hell. Also keep up the great work every single day that you can do so.
“Perfect doesn’t mean that it’s working”Open ur eyes people as much as it hurts to realize let them go and heal 👏🏼
Yes yesss I broke up with my bf today and I should let him go and heal
It hurts to be the one who remembers it all......I've always loved you all along.
This song is like when u want to cry, end everything, burst out all ur emotions,
But you're completely exhausted, physically and mentally burnt out and tears dont come out😭
To this day i still don't understand how u can just forget about the love u shared with a person. I know so many people that just hop from one relationship to another. It's like they flip a switch. I'm in a new relationship right now and i'm happy, but that's no reason to loose all the good memories and feelings i had with another person. Of course, the feelings are different, but i refuse to believe that its the right thing to simply forget about them
It's truly an extreme despair when the person closest to you is unable to understand your true emotions
I thought i would heal,though it wasnt my intention of leaving him,but when he asked me to still be friends,i started sobbing.because you can't be friends with someone you love with your whole heart and soul,its too painful..
Its like,the more i love him,the more i suffer.
Never loving someone isn’t the worst, knowing what love feels like and knowing you won’t experience it again is.
Great, I'll have longer periods of depression 😅
Love this dude
Calms me and I can write ✍️ about stuff.
My girl just made a james bay rendition of the lyric.
"Just Hold back the river and look in my eyes
and you'll always find,
A glimpse of us."
Its a very tiny detail but its so close to my heart, she just turned the whole song around into something so beautiful. It just proves that life can indeed be beautiful with the right person. Lucky to have found one❤️.
this hits hard when he wasnt even your boyfriend, he was just a stranger you shared memories with, but you fell so deep that youre unable to give anyone else the position he had.
Reminds me of the first date, I could never forget that day. We decided to go to a lookout point and eat some food together there while we talked. We ate our food and talked damn near the whole night until right before the end we kissed and hugged while listing to this song while we stared at the moon together. We embraced each other for what felt like a lifetime. I felt comfortable and safe.
I wish her the best.
istg i was using incognito mode (as you do) and found this and was in my sad hour, and fxcking youtube thought it was the perfect time to put an ad in the smack middle of the video
love this btw
It takes a while to realise how truly lonely you are.
And even longer to see it doesn’t have to be that way.
Keep your chin up kings, we’ll all make it in the end.
this song brings me peace and joy
This song will always make me cry
For the souls that need an ear... I'm here to listen. I've found this song of course in divine timing -.- cry with me. Talk to me about your experiences. I may never meet you or see you, hold you and smile but I love you all.
She made me believe in love again but you know how it goes man.
can we talk?
I remember this guy i fell in love in 2019. We met in summer camp and became bestfriends. At this time, I was kind of depressed and he helped me so much trough this ! Thanks to him, I'm still here. However, one night we were talking about music and he said that Joji was his favorite artist. I didn't know Joji, but he became my fav too.
Now, I don't talk anymore to him. We fade apart. And it makes me so sad. I still listen to Joji, everyday, and everyday I think about my first love ; his smile, his eyes, his kindness.
I told him I was in love with him, he said "we have the whole life for this, don't worry".
But where are you ? You promised it will be you and me forever. Why did you leave ?
To be honest, I don't feel love anymore for him, I met a guy who makes me really happy.
But I just want my best friend back...and want to listen to "sanctuary" while talking about our life one more time...I miss him
I had a very strong friendship with him we were so close as best friends even tho we both had feelings especially from him first. We broke up today and I feel I'm missing my bestfriend and love that we spent all summer talking about life
There is beauty in sadness just as pleasure and happiness. Thank you for this.
Lyrics:
She'd take the world off my shoulders
If it was ever hard to move
She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
When I was living in the blue
Why then, if she is so perfect
Do I still wish that it was you?
Perfect don't mean that it's working
So what can I do? (Ooh)
When you're out of sight
In my mind
'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
And that's where I find a glimpse of us
And I try to fall for her touch
But I'm thinking of the way it was
Said I'm fine and said I moved on
I'm only here passing time in her arms
Hoping I'll find
A glimpse of us
Tell me he savors your glory
Does he laugh the way I did?
Is this a part of your story?
One that I had never lived
Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
And find me again
When you're out of sight
In my mind
'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
And that's where I find a glimpse of us
And I try to fall for her touch
But I'm thinking of the way it was
Said I'm fine and said I moved on
I'm only here passing time in her arms
Hoping I'll find
A glimpse of us
Ooh, ooh-ooh
Ooh, ooh-ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh
'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
And that's where I find a glimpse of us
And I try to fall for her touch
But I'm thinking of the way it was
Said I'm fine and said I moved on
I'm only here passing time in her arms
Hoping I'll find
A glimpse of us
whenever I listen to this song, I always think of my ex listening to this song thinking of me. We were together for almost 3 years in highschool, Junior to past senior year. I broke things off with him, not because I didnt love him, I loved him so much but he was never there for me in our relationship. I've spoken to him so many times about this problem but nothing ever changed. I've given him so many chances and when I thought things changed, they always reverted back to how things were. So many nights I just cried. Sometimes He'd go days without texting me. He never wanted to call me even though he said that hated texting. I never understood it because at some point, he wanted to change but then I was already over it. So then on my 18th birthday I invited him over and I broke up with him when we went for a walk outside. I felt awful for crying because I was the one initiating the break up. I felt like I didnt deserve to cry in front of him because I knew he still had feelings for me. He was silent, didnt shed a tear but I could feel his anger and his heart break. We drove him home after and he asked me all these questions he didnt say to me in person. He was my first boyfriend and I will always be glad it was him and not someone else. Im 20 now and I can confidently say that he's taught me alot and so has my experience with love.
I’m happy u shared this message and I hope everything is ok with him and u as well, and everything happens for a reason and you took a big step for what you did so I’m proud of you but I hope your ok now❤
@@mmoneyy512 Thanks so much! ur to kind. I am for sure very happy where I am
@@missfancy9824 ok ok I love hearing that
Why’d she have to be so perfect? The amount of love I had for her was immeasurable, with every fiber in my body. And just like that, it’s like she just forgot about it, going from talking every day to barely interacting, hell, I’d be lucky to make eye contact with her. Why can’t I just forget about her? Part of me wants to, while part of me is clinging that I can still find a glimpse of us. I finally figured out what it feels like to be broken.
fr
Legitimately happened to me.
this song just makes me think of him bro, been a year since we broke up yet i still think about him..i miss him bro
He may not have been perfect, but he was perfect for me, and I may not have been perfect but I was perfect for him, and yet we didn’t choose each other
After being cheated on, this shit hits hard
I wanna hate her, I don’t wanna love her anymore, but I can’t
You deserve better than her ❤
Trust me she still loves you
@@minhyo09 she cheated on him, wdym she still love him?
@@absolutelynoone124 lol
I'm listening to this after cheating
i get chills everytime i listen to this song
joji hits different ❤
I still love him so much and I don't think I'll ever find anyone like him. My heart rips out of my chest everyday I spend without his touch. I'll forever hope I'll find a glimpse of us.
i think of her everytime i listen to this song. she never leaves my mind, i really like her, and i just wish i was her type.
There's something about that torn apart city and the guy crying that resonates with me.
Man six times that I repeat this song for like 20 mins and the whole time I'm crying in silence.
Me and my former girlfriend broke up 2 months ago after nearly 3 years together. It truly was the most painful experience of my life, but I know there are people here with even worse experiences. Personally i have found a lot of peace within myself and I geniunly want to talk to you if you feel like you need to express some feelings
In the same boat with u buddy my gf of almost three years also just broke up with me 2 months ago man, all good hopefully you’re doing better now man and to everyone else who is suffering worse or less worse stay strong kings and queens 💗
It’s been 2 years. How are you now?
Almost 6 years since I last saw her & not a day has gone by where I don’t think of her. She was this beautiful soul who I took for granted & would do anything to have her back
I miss her, I long for her touch, her hugs, the feeling of safe when I'm with her, I miss everything about her. She's still around, buy it's been 4 months and it's almost the end of semester and next semester would be our last and it is our internship year, I can no longer experience any enjoyment during uni years. I got an internship in the same place with her thou different division. I don't know what to do, I just feel so bad, the regrets and the small bad thing I did that may hurt her. I feel like I took her for granted. This is our final week of semester, and next week will be our study week before exam starts. After the exam week, we will be out from here and start a sem break. There will be no more study, no more classes, no longer any university stuff except for internship. I just really² hope that she can forgive me. I don't know if she is thinking about me or no. I just can't forget her. I sometimes tried to distract myself, but the facts that we are all leaving for our internship make things sadder because it's not just her. It's my friend, my coursemate, and my faculty mate.
She was just like Nature
just so Chaotic
Yet so pure
~almighty
Thanks for everything Joji. No matter what form you come in, we’ll always love you.🙏
I’m in love with her- have been since September, she’s my best friend and I don’t think she sees me like that nor will she ever see me like that. But I can’t help but feel hope whenever she lays her head on my shoulder or hugs me longer that usual. I just love her sm
Bro say to her that you love her.... express it...she might leave u but you will find peace...
@@daneyraju8433 We’ve actually been dating for 7 months- completely forgot abt this comment i left 😭💀
bro, just keep it. dont tell her, just dont, I was being her. Its makes me sick and i cant forget him even i"ve been married for 2 years.
The most saddest part when you’re with someone that cares abt himself only claiming he’s working and shit leaving you lonely between all the people and you feel jealous for instant seeing couples happy but you’re not you’re just attached to someone narcissistic
The fact that this makes me happy and remind me of how lonely, miserable and alone i am and how its so nostalgic and remind me that i still got myself :D
Unrequited Love for a friend is the cruelest thing I've ever experienced. I wouldn't wish it even to my worst enemies.
He dedicated this song to me... but still i do feel sometimes that i couldn't turn the rain into rainbows for him... i was never enough for him, i wish i could make him forget his ex but still he loved her more than anything else and could never feel the same way for me... it's been more than 6 months since we've talked like we used to.. i don't miss him usually but when i do, i miss him alott. I've been in love with this guy for more than 5 years, how can i just forget him in seconds... he never said a goodbye... neither do I've ever said it... i remember once he said that "nobody has ever loved me the way you did, I'll never forget you till my last breath" but now i wonder if he ever remembers me... i just wish that he's able to move on from his past relationship on his own because i couldn't make him do that... u still have a corner in my heart and it will always be reserved for uh
My ex once told me that his ex loved him more that I did and it hurts so much
Hey luv! I totally understand what you're going through. Sometimes, things just don't work out between two people, and that can be tough. But here's the thing: if it's meant to be, it will happen naturally. You deserve someone who appreciates you for who you are, and it's not your fault if your crush doesn't see how amazing you are. It's their loss, really! Remember, you are incredible just the way you are, and the right person will come along and recognize that. If you ever need someone to talk to or a virtual shoulder to lean on, I'm here for you. If no one else has told you, I just want you to know that I'm really proud of you! Feel free to vent! Remember i love you so much!💕✨
hey, thanks❤
@@hueiehieiu my pleasure darling 💗
I push everyone away out of fear of them realising how sad I am, but the loneliness is half of the issue. It’s a bad, sad, cycle …
Dude, try to listen to this song after intimacy with a person, having another person in your mind 24/7. The emptiness and miserable feeling are devastating.
she was my everything
I lost him , he died.
i think he’ll always be in my mind , memories, feelings i know i won’t find it again
Maybe he’s in a better place now even it kills me every time i know he’s not here.
😭💔💔
Im so sorry, i hope you get well
Damn, breaking up is already sad enough, but It's even worse when he/ she is dead.. Hope you're having a good day
Having reoccuring dreams and nightmares of her daily, i feel like being tortured yet i'm always happy that the image of her ain't gone from my memory yet. If you're reading this babbi, it's been almost 5 months since we parted ways yet you're still the one i'm always looking for.
She was everything I wanted, and I managed to lose her. I shed tears of a river for her to come back, but her boat sailed off to another ocean. I could never see my life without her, and still can't. Now I fight major depression every day.
We were toxic and dysfunctional but the good times were damn near godly..I miss her..
She was perfect she was everything 😢 moving on is gonna be so tough
Did everything but value you, you’ll find the one someday is all we can hope for
I've never been so heartbroken by a girl before, it was a mutual breakup too. She was my soulmate and my best friend, it hurts knowing that I've lost my whole world. She was my first love and I was hers, now my mind confines me in a slideshow of our memories together and it hurts...
how u doing now? :[
The feeling of being replaced so easily by someone you can’t forget after 4 years imbues into the very core and torments.
Broken but not destroyed. Rise up gentlemen. Use the pain as fuel and breakthrough. Keeping hold of previous relationships and old feelings will not help you enjoy the next relationship. Move on when you have healed. It takes time and true friends and family. There is a way out.
Its not easy to love someone who doesn’t love you back 😭😩
I fell in love with my childhood best friend. One day I found out that she reciprocated. We were together for 3 years and I truly believed we were soulmates. Then one day whilst sat in her car she tells me that she never loved me. It wasn’t out of anger, it was out of honesty, and her own guilt. It broke me.
I fell into a pit of feeling unlovable and weak.
I’m dating again now, she’s my perfect girl, makes me feel valid. But it feels wrong, this wasn’t how it was all supposed to go in my head.
You are loved. I care about you. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? I am proud of you no matter who you are. You have done so well. Well done for getting this far in life. It’s tough, isn’t it? It’s okay to cry. Not everything goes as planned in life. Nothing is perfect. We can never predict what happens next, but I know that you can make it, because I believe in you. Trust yourself. Love yourself. I know how hard it may be sometimes. Don’t let your own thoughts bring you down. Please get some rest, dear reader.
The love of my life is gone forever. Not just gone from a break up and with some other girl, gone from this world and i can never see his face or hear his voice again. This song makes me think of him because I’m always searching everywhere for a glimpse of the us that used to be. A glimpse of the greatest love i ever knew and the best friend i ever had. But that’s all they are, not even glimpses but shadows of memories that play out in my head. They grow darker and darker as the years go by but the pain, though thankfully no longer sharp will remain forever
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my partner February 27th 2023. I watched it all happen and will forever blame myself for not doing things differently with my time with her. Forever feeling like as her person, I could have been the one to save her. Nothing will ever be able to tell me differently. I carry that pain in my chest as it all becomes lost to the echoes of time. I hate all of this. I don't agree with any of it. But I have no choice.
I love how I walked by her every day, and she doesn't even notice.
I don't feel loved. I don't feel hated. I just feel ignored.
when you get a side of depression to go with your depression
Wow my internet ruined the mood thanks for making my day better stupid connection ☠️
It's not even the fact that this song is full of emotions, it's that all these comments share a very deep sense of loneliness, longing and sorrow that is unmeasured. And I'm kind of in the same spot myself. But I wish you all the best. I hope your wishes reach you, I hope you find peace in what you have, I hope that whatever hurt you feel heals fast. I hope you all live great lives with special moments to look back on. You deserve it. Much love.
We met when I was too young to recognize him years later, but he always remembered me. As a child I met him again, I was in love with him for 8 years. But I loved the child version, I loved that sweet and gentle boy who was embarrassed to hold my hand.
But that boy died a long time ago, and it was my mistake to think otherwise. I tried, he tried, we tried... Again and again and again until we both got tired. It hurts to see him still trying to have something, anything with me when I've already moved on.
Sometimes I blame myself but I know that then, I made my choices and if I could go back in time I would never have answered that stupid call.
I will forever love that boy, and now I will hate the "adult and mature" version of him who came back months after breaking my heart.
I just needed to get this off my chest, thank you so much for your time.
not about a "romantic" heartbreak per se, but I had a falling out with my best friend a month ago. both of us made mistakes with each other that have led to where we are. we've managed to be on speaking terms now, but I don't really understand where we are.
we used to do everything together. it's weird treading the same spaces, engaging with the same hobbies, when they're just...gone, now. I don't know if I could ever get close to someone like that again, knowing that one person's absence could make me feel this way.
but life will get better. for me, for the person reading, for everyone. I believe that.
It's just the way of life. People come into each other's lives, leave them, build, destroy, and rebuild. Just the nature of connection, I think...and ultimately worth the pain.
I came to say "ALL YOU DID IS SLOW IT DOWN AND ADD REVERB"
I came out crying 😞
I just hope she comes back like she says she wants to
I just want it to be try when she says I still love you and want to keep you
I just want it all to be ok
I cant think of ever being with anyone else, all I feel is pain and suffering.
I’m legitimately at peace and happy with my girl, but listening to this reminds me of how devastated I was when I ended my last relationship. I don’t even know why I was sad, I just remember hating the idea of being alone again. But I found this sweet thang of my mines, but Jesus Christ was I under such a terrible feeling. Joji really captured the raw emotion of feeling hopeless and depresssed in this song, and I appreciate the amount of effort he put into making this. Thank you, Joji!
I blasted this in my headphones and i started BALLING!!!!😭 this is so sad, i love it. Especially the chorus part, guys blast it in headphones and just like REALLY listen to it, ur gonna want to cry.
I only wish I had not made that mistake of being able to overcome and value what I had in the present, now I regret it because I also lost it by not letting go of the past.
Leaving a Comment here so i still can go back to hear this masterpiece ❤
Time to listen to this masterpiece again
sometimes i scroll through the comment section looking for someone who says exactly what i'm thinking, wondering if i'll ever find the love of my life
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