Joji - Glimpse of Us

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  • @maszii8
    @maszii8 2 роки тому +128400

    the worst feeling isn't being alone, its being forgotten by someone you could never forget.

    • @gabcasilagan6690
      @gabcasilagan6690 2 роки тому +805

      :(((

    • @ethanguevara915
      @ethanguevara915 2 роки тому +3366

      I feel you, my ex just got married and this song definitely captures how I’ve been feeling.

    • @rubick-9278
      @rubick-9278 2 роки тому +393

      @@ethanguevara915 avanza.

    • @motioninart
      @motioninart 2 роки тому +841

      jesus that’s haunting

    • @apoloboi
      @apoloboi 2 роки тому +378

      goddamn it. that be to true for me...ouch

  • @ghettoboi27
    @ghettoboi27 2 роки тому +4537

    She'd take the world off my shoulders
    If it was ever hard to move
    She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
    When I was living in the blue
    Why then, if she is so perfect
    Do I still wish that it was you?
    Perfect don't mean that it's working
    So what can I do? (do ooh)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Tell me he savors your glory
    Does he laugh the way I did?
    Is this a part of your story?
    One that I had never lived
    Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
    And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
    Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
    And find me again (again)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh, ooh
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us

  • @skepticia793
    @skepticia793 2 роки тому +10784

    This guy had the best character development in the entire pop culture history

    • @anggaleonard23
      @anggaleonard23 2 роки тому +404

      I'm still waiting for his redemption arc
      This guy deserve a happy "ending"

    • @mornaka8942
      @mornaka8942 2 роки тому +136

      Completely 100% agree. Following him since Rich Brian was Rich Chigga. Shit is beautiful.

    • @HieuSang
      @HieuSang 2 роки тому +377

      that's not character developement. it's just a different side of him that he's now showing, just like the saying ''The people who laugh the most, cry the hardest.''

    • @zeroobuichi3256
      @zeroobuichi3256 2 роки тому +109

      Not even character development, he just showed us his true self.

    • @silverdemon1530
      @silverdemon1530 2 роки тому +31

      @@HieuSang definitely character development

  • @hehe-kl2zy
    @hehe-kl2zy Місяць тому +255

    this video is so fitting because the blurring that happens once in a while is like when ur eyes well up with tears and u can't see the world clearly until they drop, just to fill again

    • @mOiz-z9q
      @mOiz-z9q 3 дні тому

      Underrated comment

  • @zangbang9886
    @zangbang9886 2 роки тому +6232

    I think this song is the most heartbreaking when u dont interpret it as someone who hasnt moved on from a past relationship, but instead as "the person im with isnt the person i love anymore cause they have changed, but when i look in their eyes sometimes i still remember the person they used to be, whom i fell in love with. And I hope that one day they can come back to me."

    • @ShameezhYT
      @ShameezhYT 2 роки тому +28

      ❤️😢

    • @muhammadraafiuddin167
      @muhammadraafiuddin167 2 роки тому +24

      exactly bro :(((((

    • @rockpaperscissors5059
      @rockpaperscissors5059 2 роки тому +173

      2nd option hits way harder, but he says he moved on, which could imply he was missing the other person I think

    • @rizahafizhin8465
      @rizahafizhin8465 2 роки тому +11

      damn bro, last time I think to be like that she dumped me for another man

    • @losermorgan1558
      @losermorgan1558 2 роки тому +11

      no bc thats sadder

  • @mutadilah6104
    @mutadilah6104 2 роки тому +19780

    After hearing this song I believe in the word "don't be in a relationship with people who haven't made peace with their past"

    • @200mm
      @200mm 2 роки тому +438

      Damn. That hits home

    • @Gwrrrn
      @Gwrrrn 2 роки тому +116

      facts

    • @lindav.sidabutar763
      @lindav.sidabutar763 2 роки тому +14

      😁

    • @azizputra3093
      @azizputra3093 2 роки тому +215

      its mean dont be in a relationship with people.

    • @mixnmatcher950
      @mixnmatcher950 2 роки тому +165

      But how do you truly know when they’ve made that peace

  • @alyaqatrunnada8382
    @alyaqatrunnada8382 2 роки тому +3433

    Lyrics
    She'd take the world off my shoulders
    If it was ever hard to move
    She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
    When I was living in the blue
    Why then, if she is so perfect
    Do I still wish that it was you?
    Perfect don't mean that it's working
    So what can I do? (do ooh)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Tell me he savors your glory
    Does he laugh the way I did?
    Is this a part of your story?
    One that I had never lived
    Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
    And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
    Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
    And find me again (again)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh, ooh
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us

    • @adog5999
      @adog5999 2 роки тому +38

      Thanks so much bro! I couldn't find the lyrics anywhere

    • @thulinhansoiban8752
      @thulinhansoiban8752 2 роки тому +12

      Sir, you drop this 👑🙏🏻

    • @reiazusa
      @reiazusa 2 роки тому

      Thanks bruh

    • @fanboy4579
      @fanboy4579 2 роки тому +1

      Finally it's here ua-cam.com/video/_7Qyr4CbMsU/v-deo.html

    • @beactivebehappy9894
      @beactivebehappy9894 2 роки тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @7Legends-hits
    @7Legends-hits 4 місяці тому +46

    How can it be so poignant and heart-wrenching, making you feel the ache with every single line? The depth of emotion in each word is truly powerful

  • @eyman8236
    @eyman8236 2 роки тому +2065

    "You've never felt a true heartbreak until the day you've forced yourself
    to stop loving the person whom you wanted to be with forever."

    • @faithremada3486
      @faithremada3486 2 роки тому +5

      😭

    • @nicole.c_dc
      @nicole.c_dc 2 роки тому +6

      :(

    • @Mandalarine
      @Mandalarine 2 роки тому +22

      its been 10 years ago and i cant stop loving

    • @fredericoespinoza
      @fredericoespinoza 2 роки тому +2

      :(

    • @jrevaldo
      @jrevaldo 2 роки тому +11

      @@Mandalarine You threw some cold water on me. Mostly because i've been relying on time passing so the feeling will fully go away. It's been a year

  • @toefoe2470
    @toefoe2470 2 роки тому +1702

    Imagine falling completely in love with someone and trying to be the greater good they needed, only to find out that when they look in your eyes, they see a glimps of how they wish things were with someone else.

  • @Salucio100
    @Salucio100 2 роки тому +5863

    I feel like Joji is one of the few reasonable people who would agree with me that even if you "move on", you can never truly stop caring for/forget about someone you once genuinely loved.

    • @pharo5834
      @pharo5834 2 роки тому +171

      I met this girl in this 5th grade. We dated for 3 years straight and couldn’t get enough of each other. We couldn’t go a day without texting each other. We would hang out almost every weekend and just were stuck together. Until… She moved. We couldn’t see each other ever again. We kept the relationship moving for as long as possible until she couldn’t take being in a long distance relationship anymore. I seriously miss her…

    • @edwardkenbrizuela1122
      @edwardkenbrizuela1122 2 роки тому +24

      @@pharo5834 thats sad man

    • @andreavigil5914
      @andreavigil5914 2 роки тому +13

      @@pharo5834 same thing happened to me with my ex bf but he said he couldn’t deal with having me gone so he broke up with me

    • @elenad815
      @elenad815 2 роки тому +4

      yes, absolutely ...never

    • @lissavittoriagador7804
      @lissavittoriagador7804 2 роки тому +1

      indeed

  • @Groxrblx
    @Groxrblx 2 місяці тому +206

    My dog Max, a Rottweiler just died today. 20th September, this perfectly captures my feeling, coping myself to move on but, not really moving on with life. Rest in peace, dear friend and loyal partner, Max the Rottweiler.

  • @fikia3754
    @fikia3754 2 роки тому +5740

    i'm not in a relationship with anyone and i'm fine. but suddenly i feel like i'm sad after hearing this song, it feels like what this song is trying to tell is really conveyed well to the listeners

    • @istoleurfaceha3527
      @istoleurfaceha3527 2 роки тому +104

      The lyrics are so powerful it creates emotion to the listener, whether it’s relateable or not

    • @fikia3754
      @fikia3754 2 роки тому +13

      @@istoleurfaceha3527 exactly!!

    • @BahrulUlum-eh2cv
      @BahrulUlum-eh2cv 2 роки тому +6

      Nice comment, i feel you bro

    • @Pen1tent1
      @Pen1tent1 2 роки тому +20

      I'm not in a relationship too, but then a cute girl appeared, and right after that i started to listen to this song and yeah... Killer wombo combo. :ccc

    • @luckamolu3084
      @luckamolu3084 2 роки тому +1

      Same here then!

  • @alissiachayasirijirapak638
    @alissiachayasirijirapak638 2 роки тому +2367

    I love how *a glimpse of us* is a high note. It really squeezes the heart of someone who hasn’t forgotten how it felt back then. And would do *anything* for just *a glimpse* of what they used to have.

    • @zweyannaing1715
      @zweyannaing1715 2 роки тому +14

      your comment really relates to what I've been thru

    • @sevenmaula2490
      @sevenmaula2490 2 роки тому +6

      this hit

    • @lovequinn4184
      @lovequinn4184 2 роки тому +2

      :(

    • @albryant2385
      @albryant2385 2 роки тому +2

      Its the first thing i thought of when i head this song today for the first ...

    • @blou_
      @blou_ 2 роки тому +2

      i didn't even think of her anymore, but this song brought all the memories back, and it hurts

  • @casualyoutubeenjoyer9552
    @casualyoutubeenjoyer9552 2 роки тому +51555

    Joji really went from curing depression, to causing depression.

    • @cooch22
      @cooch22 2 роки тому +2265

      opposite for him, before he was the one who was depressed and was unhealthy in general. Now its the opposite.

    • @killroy312
      @killroy312 2 роки тому +6

      My guy used to tell me to kill myself,.

    • @999oresx
      @999oresx 2 роки тому +102

      @@cooch22 opposite of what...?

    • @palmerabraham7239
      @palmerabraham7239 2 роки тому +550

      Idk man, his music is just like radiohead but more accessible

    • @anything4660
      @anything4660 2 роки тому +779

      @@999oresx He was always depressed before now he is healing.

  • @imchris3578
    @imchris3578 3 місяці тому +13

    She'd take the world off my shoulders
    她會將整個世界從我肩膀上卸下
    If it was ever hard to move
    如果我舉步維艱
    She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
    它會將驟雨化為彩虹
    When I was living in the blue
    當我在憂鬱中自生自滅
    Why then, if she is so perfect
    那為什麼她如此完美
    Do I still wish that it was you?
    我還仍期望這個人是你?
    Perfect don't mean that it's working
    完美不代表行得通
    So what can I do? (Ooh)
    我到底還能怎麼做
    When you're out of sight
    在我視線之外
    In my mind
    在我腦海中
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    當我凝望著她的眼睛
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    我撇見的是曾經的我們
    And I try to fall for her touch
    而我還嘗試擁入她的懷抱
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    同時我卻在想曾經的我們也是這樣
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    說著 我沒事、我走出來了
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    我卻只是在她懷裡等待時間流逝
    Hoping I'll find
    癡癡盼望著能找到
    A glimpse of us
    一縷我們
    Tell me he savors your glory
    告訴我他是否享受你的溫暖?
    Does he laugh the way I did?
    他是否像我那樣笑得開懷?
    Is this a part of your story?
    這是否木已成舟?
    One that I had never lived
    一個沒有我的結果?
    Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
    或許你終有一天會感到寂寞
    And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
    而在他眼中,撇見我的影子
    Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
    你或許就會漸漸墮落地
    And find me again
    重回我的懷抱
    When you're out of sight
    在我視線之外
    In my mind
    在我腦海中
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    當我凝望著她的眼睛
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    我撇見的是曾經的我們
    And I try to fall for her touch
    而我還嘗試擁入她的懷抱
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    同時我卻在想曾經的我們也是這樣
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    說著 我沒事、我走出來了
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    我卻只是在她懷裡等待時間流逝
    Hoping I'll find
    癡癡盼望著能找到
    A glimpse of us
    一綢我們
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    哦,哦,哦
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    哦,哦,哦
    Ooh, ooh, ooh
    哦,哦,哦
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    當我凝望著她的眼睛
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    我撇見的是曾經的我們
    And I try to fall for her touch
    而我還嘗試擁入她的懷抱
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    同時我卻在想曾經的我們也是這樣
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    說著 我沒事、我走出來了
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    我卻只是在她懷裡呆呆等待時間流逝
    Hoping I'll find
    癡癡盼望著能找到
    A glimpse of us
    一絲我們

  • @niniksetiyowati7167
    @niniksetiyowati7167 2 роки тому +179

    kalau belum bisa move on dari kisah lama, bener bener jangan membuka hati untuk untuk orang baru. lagu ini sebuah sign besar, bahwa kita bisa hidup ditipu kepalsuan karena posisi kita hanyalah beda tak penting dikarenakan org yg seharusnya mencintai kita, terjebak dimasa lalu. jika pasanganmu masih larut dimasa lalunya, segera tinggalkan. kamu layak bahagia, dan bukan sekedar pengganti yang tak berguna

    • @rudibasabasi
      @rudibasabasi 2 роки тому +1

      mbak, saya pengen esque.

    • @muhammadirfani5698
      @muhammadirfani5698 2 роки тому

      Komenya epicc

    • @clo8101
      @clo8101 2 роки тому

      😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @gadistiaananda5554
      @gadistiaananda5554 2 роки тому +1

      Jadi keinget sm pasangan di tiktok uma sm fahmi. Fahmi yg gamon sm ratu, yg skrg udah punya pasangan.

    • @vvp792
      @vvp792 2 роки тому

      Njay slebew

  • @minhuc7567
    @minhuc7567 2 роки тому +2349

    Lyric:
    She'd take the world off my shoulders
    If it was ever hard to move
    She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
    When I was living in the blue
    Why then, if she is so perfect
    Do I still wish that it was you?
    Perfect don't mean that it's working
    So what can I do? (ooh)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Tell me he savors your glory
    Does he laugh the way I did?
    Is this a part of your story?
    One that I had never lived
    Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
    And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
    Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
    And find me again
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh, ooh
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us

    • @FamkakvasaD
      @FamkakvasaD 2 роки тому +17

      thank

    • @flyingpenguin574
      @flyingpenguin574 2 роки тому +5

      cảm ơn Đức

    • @arthadwipayana7784
      @arthadwipayana7784 2 роки тому +5

      thank you

    • @anhay148
      @anhay148 2 роки тому

      Cảm ơn nhiều nhé Đức

    • @stevenwHo
      @stevenwHo 2 роки тому

      Hello Guys, You can see My Channel for the full cover Acoustic Video. Thank You 🙏
      ua-cam.com/video/02nQgh1RonQ/v-deo.html

  • @PaulDailyVlog
    @PaulDailyVlog 2 роки тому +3797

    I met my now fiance through my best friend. He passed last Halloween very suddenly. He was 26. I wouldnt have my wife or my son if it wasnt for him, and I never got to say thank you for giving me everything I have.
    We watch my goddaughter often, and "Sometimes I look in her eyes and thats where ill find a glimpse of us" just hits me so hard. We miss you my friend, so much.
    Please dont drink and drive. Please
    Thank you all for your kind words. I hope you all the best, and I wish I could shake your hands ♥️

    • @remmie6744
      @remmie6744 2 роки тому +119

      I'm incredibly and terribly sorry for you, my friend. Nobody deserves to lose a friend or loved one over a car accident, or any accident, or by any method at all. Period. Maybe your friend now lives on in the eyes and soul of your son, cherishing and loving you. Take good care of him, and give him all the love you want to give to your friend. That's what I do when I lose someone I love. Take care ♥️

    • @tobybll
      @tobybll 2 роки тому +35

      I am sorry for your loss my friend, much strength to you! This may be a sad goodbye for now but when the time comes we will see our loved ones again. Until then live life the fullest, he wouldve wanted you to do.

    • @Mente3quilibrada
      @Mente3quilibrada 2 роки тому +15

      I’m sorry for your loss, but your heart and spirit are in the right place King. I hope you and your family are blessed in these crazy times.

    • @Dogenonymous
      @Dogenonymous 2 роки тому +3

      @@Lumsyt ums

    • @MrNewtube25
      @MrNewtube25 2 роки тому +13

      I lost my best friend a month and a half ago to the same thing. We grew up together. He was 23. It just feels wrong that hes gone. Take care of yourself, do things that feel normal. I have had good and very bad days. Grief is weird, whatever you feel is ok and valid.

  • @asher7657
    @asher7657 Місяць тому +39

    Another man will admire the eyes i once loved,
    but he'll never know the way they once looked at me, like i was everything she needed.

    • @caseyshane9792
      @caseyshane9792 Місяць тому +2

      Awww that's beautiful. I've never known that kind of love

  • @kennethadam13
    @kennethadam13 2 роки тому +1627

    [Verse 1]
    She'd take the world off my shoulders
    If it was ever hard to move
    She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
    When I was living in the blue
    Why then, if she's so perfect
    Do I still wish that it was you?
    Perfect don't mean that it's workin'
    So what can I do? (Ooh)
    [Pre-Chorus]
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    [Chorus]
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinkin' of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hopin' I'll find a glimpse of us
    [Verse 2]
    Tell me he savors your glory
    Does he laugh the way I did?
    Is this a part of your story?
    One that I had never lived
    Maybe one day, you'll feel lonely
    And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
    Maybe you'll start slippin' slowly and find me again
    [Pre-Chorus]
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    [Chorus]
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinkin' of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hopin' I'll find a glimpse of us
    [Bridge]
    Ooh
    Ooh-ooh-ooh
    Ooh
    Ooh-ooh-ooh
    [Chorus]
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinkin' of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hopin' I'll find a glimpse of us

  • @OUTONOLEGENDAS
    @OUTONOLEGENDAS 2 роки тому +7729

    I call it a masterpiece

    • @beaualIoevv
      @beaualIoevv 2 роки тому +4

      another bought channeI smh

    • @OUTONOLEGENDAS
      @OUTONOLEGENDAS 2 роки тому +46

      @@beaualIoevv I'm sorry to say, but you're wrong.

    • @ineedhelp4158
      @ineedhelp4158 2 роки тому +16

      WE call it a masterpiece

    • @mariehakim3535
      @mariehakim3535 2 роки тому

      @@beaualIoevv I feel it too... 👍🏻😍

    • @ngf
      @ngf 2 роки тому +5

      @@beaualIoevv idk, it looks like they've had it for years considering the video type and similar editing, sad that people had to ruin being verified just by buying verified channels, ruins the point of a checkmark, and it hurts actual verified creators, especially if they aren't as known as let's say markiplier or mutahar, before you go ahead and assume someone bought their channel, check their channel history

  • @nicholastemplet1616
    @nicholastemplet1616 2 роки тому +2219

    The most painful thing about grief is that it’s just love without anywhere for it to go

  • @agtx567osu
    @agtx567osu 2 місяці тому +180

    this song ages like fine wine bro

  • @quinton2442
    @quinton2442 2 роки тому +1817

    Lyrics 😔
    She'd take the world off my shoulders
    If it was ever hard to move
    She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
    When I was living in the blue
    Why then, if she is so perfect
    Do I still wish that it was you?
    Perfect don't mean that it's working
    So what can I do? (do ooh)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Tell me he savors your glory
    Does he laugh the way I did?
    Is this a part of your story?
    One that I had never lived
    Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
    And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
    Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
    And find me again (again)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh, ooh
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us

  • @dannydcgarc
    @dannydcgarc 2 роки тому +2376

    I'm a happily married man, beautiful wife, a son and another one on the way... but the way Joji just evokes these raw emotions out of me from his music is unbelievable. The way he paints this vivid image in my head through his music and just takes me down this hole of despair and brokenness... what a true artist! I've been following him since his Filthy Frank days early 2013 so in a lot of ways he was a big part of my teenage years, so to watch him grow and evolve as a person and an artist is awe inspiring. I'm so proud of you Joji!

    • @SkibidiScotty
      @SkibidiScotty 2 роки тому +45

      Imagine this song is for maxmoefoe

    • @123123123LOLOLO1231
      @123123123LOLOLO1231 2 роки тому +11

      @@SkibidiScotty I'm dead

    • @someshortweeb4972
      @someshortweeb4972 2 роки тому +2

      @@SkibidiScotty skullx7

    • @shotamerican
      @shotamerican 2 роки тому +11

      this! i have never been in the position of the feeling this song conveys, but I FEEL IT SO HARD WHEN I LISTEN TO IT! no judgement, just raw pain i have as if it were me. Fucking magic, i say.

    • @courtneycameron4492
      @courtneycameron4492 2 роки тому +3

      @@shotamerican For real. I had to take it out of my regular rotation and only listen when I have some space and tissues near.

  • @ramyscors
    @ramyscors Місяць тому +42

    I lost my boyfriend of 11 years this June in a hit and run accident. They left him to die alone. I’ll look for a glimpse of us in everything, forever. I love you Jacob.

    • @blindexp6945
      @blindexp6945 Місяць тому +2

      i’m so sorry

    • @Ben-yz7sx
      @Ben-yz7sx Місяць тому +1

      My condolences

    • @bobbuilder2240
      @bobbuilder2240 Місяць тому

      How old are u?

    • @larissa3549
      @larissa3549 14 днів тому +1

      Sinto muito !Mas Deus está com você lembre se disto ,ele nunca te abandonou e nem vai é o seu melhor amigo ele que sempre te dará forças pra continuar e ele te ama mais que tudo !

    • @tw8198
      @tw8198 12 днів тому +1

      I am so sorry for your loss. ❤

  • @markh9755
    @markh9755 2 роки тому +13334

    Why does Joji release a song every time i'm in a bad place. This hits me so hard

    • @Al1veEn3rgy
      @Al1veEn3rgy 2 роки тому +160

      You're not alone bossman, Imma pray 4 u

    • @pankas1000
      @pankas1000 2 роки тому +81

      Stay strong even if it seems impossible

    • @VictorGarcia-si8wy
      @VictorGarcia-si8wy 2 роки тому +32

      Because he's always in a bad place. I kid, I kid,

    • @angreepuffinn_3647
      @angreepuffinn_3647 2 роки тому +16

      You got this King 👑

    • @whippedcreamonmyass
      @whippedcreamonmyass 2 роки тому +12

      I hope all goes well, maybe take it as a sign to let it out. itll get better I promise. Stay strong! :)

  • @angryteapod1765
    @angryteapod1765 2 роки тому +5468

    from baking human cakes to singing like an angel this man can do all.

    • @Tata_Gimpera
      @Tata_Gimpera 2 роки тому +102

      insert cart or select payment type, use pin pad to end transaction

    • @rivercourtney3363
      @rivercourtney3363 2 роки тому +62

      He was lowkey doing the same thing at the same time

    • @addict7045
      @addict7045 2 роки тому +25

      Get a man who can do it all

    • @hengbunlaa22
      @hengbunlaa22 2 роки тому

      Yooo

    • @barulicksama3838
      @barulicksama3838 2 роки тому +1

      You didn't understood he actually degrades didn't you?

  • @kassi44weasel
    @kassi44weasel 2 роки тому +6067

    As someone who lost my husband to Covid, I find myself doing this exact thing when I’ve dated new people. I fool myself into thinking that I’ve maybe found love again, but mostly I’m just looking for my husband’s eyes to be looking back at me again. This song hurts. But it’s beautiful.

  • @ThomasCardenas-x8k
    @ThomasCardenas-x8k 7 днів тому +5

    Bro... literally i'm crying 😭

  • @DreamingInTechnicolor
    @DreamingInTechnicolor 2 роки тому +3629

    Joji is proof that persistence pays. His voice, the lyrics, and arrangement, are all absolutely beautiful.

    • @goblinoide
      @goblinoide 2 роки тому +5

      His voice is okay. His music is super normie though.

    • @beelyadachristmas3808
      @beelyadachristmas3808 2 роки тому +76

      @@goblinoide c'mon it's not just "okay". for a guy that came from comedi channel called " filthy frank" and "pink guy" his voice is amazing

    • @goblinoide
      @goblinoide 2 роки тому +13

      @@beelyadachristmas3808 Judging musical talent should be based upon the talent itself, not the person's past or character. His voice is fine, but I haven't seen much range from him. His songs all have the same style and they're derivative of other pop and hip-hop artists, it's not unique enough, just very mediocre.

    • @IGrimSanityI
      @IGrimSanityI 2 роки тому +45

      @@goblinoide Listen to his full discography, including his old soundcloud tracks. He has actually been at the forefront of a lot of innovation for lo-fi hiphop as it's evolved in the digital age. He also shows immense range vocally, with very noticeable improvement even in his label lead albums.

    • @jooni1215
      @jooni1215 2 роки тому

      @@goblinoide bro if u out here unintentionally saying normie n shit, u need to go outside and get a fucking life... 🤓🤓🤓

  • @mar-gd5km
    @mar-gd5km 2 роки тому +3320

    I feel like Joji is the type of artist that will never disappoint me with his music, it's just so good that I can't be more satisfied as I am right now

    • @j0hnyz238
      @j0hnyz238 2 роки тому +7

      u can try EDEN as well he never disappoints

    • @RiyeL
      @RiyeL 2 роки тому +7

      exactly, it's different every release but for some reason EVERYTHING IS A HIT

    • @j0hnyz238
      @j0hnyz238 2 роки тому +1

      @@RiyeL yeah thats y i love both joji and EDEN the same cuz they make hits and never disappoint

    • @zayn5659
      @zayn5659 2 роки тому

      true dude

    • @rg.0333
      @rg.0333 2 роки тому

      expect nothing

  • @crownlessking6436
    @crownlessking6436 2 роки тому +2958

    this song really shows how fucking lonely we all are. Even people with family, friends, successful careers, relationships, pets, literally anything that occupies a productive and "happy" life, we are all alone. And I'm grateful for how deep of a cut this song is for so many people, including me. Thanks, Joji.

    • @davidpineda9160
      @davidpineda9160 2 роки тому +68

      i'm gay

    • @rogerSoySauce
      @rogerSoySauce 2 роки тому +37

      Umm actually according to my calculations there are 7.952.683.100 people in earth so technically we aren't alone🤓

    • @STS-Dreamer
      @STS-Dreamer 2 роки тому +8

      a song being a “deep cut” means its a good but little known song in a popular artist’s discography lol. it doesn’t mean that it cuts deep emotionally.

    • @rafaelgarridosalgado99
      @rafaelgarridosalgado99 2 роки тому +4

      100%, it's so sad. I've come to realise that so much more..

    • @BossMondo46
      @BossMondo46 2 роки тому +9

      i just like the song

  • @Slycoon89
    @Slycoon89 Рік тому +3508

    This guy went from asking Hamburgers in a pink suit, making people smile and laugh, to a damn talented singer making feel the pain of some people lighter, enchanting them with nice songs. I grew up watching him, and now i keep growing listening to him. Amazing song

    • @nataliapavlenko
      @nataliapavlenko Рік тому +6

      KIM TAEHYUNG ❤❤❤

    • @Slycoon89
      @Slycoon89 Рік тому

      @@nataliapavlenko i hope yk this guy is not from BTS lol hahahaa, BTS sucks, Joji not

    • @kaptl
      @kaptl Рік тому

      ​@@nataliapavlenkodo you have health problems?

    • @dogechad
      @dogechad Рік тому +30

      Pink guy🎉

    • @jktronguly
      @jktronguly Рік тому +43

      actually he didn't go from Pink Guy to Joji that fast, all the FilthyFrank thing was his way of building his fanbase and transforming into a full time singer. Not to mention that Pink Guy character was an amazing singer/rapper himself. I grew up watching him and is still proud to be his fan until this day also

  • @sanctuspetra
    @sanctuspetra 2 роки тому +1117

    full lyrics
    She'd take the world off my shoulders
    If it was ever hard to move
    She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
    When I was living in the blue
    Why then, if she is so perfect
    Do I still wish that it was you?
    Perfect don't mean that it's working
    So what can I do? (Ooh)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Tell me he savors your glory
    Does he laugh the way I did?
    Is this a part of your story?
    One that I had never lived
    Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
    And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
    Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
    And find me again
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh, ooh
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us

  • @yaseenabbasi3313
    @yaseenabbasi3313 8 днів тому +3

    Watchin it in Nov 24 😭❤

  • @dirialettercero142
    @dirialettercero142 Рік тому +2328

    LYRICS
    She'd take the world off my shoulders
    If it was ever hard to move
    She'd turn the rain to a rainbow
    When I was living in the blue
    Why then, if she is so perfect
    Do I still wish that it was you?
    Perfect don't mean that it's working
    So what can I do? (Ooh)
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Tell me he savors your glory
    Does he laugh the way I did?
    Is this a part of your story?
    One that I had never lived
    Maybe one day you'll feel lonely
    And in his eyes, you'll get a glimpse
    Maybe you'll start slipping slowly
    And find me again
    When you're out of sight
    In my mind
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh-ooh
    Ooh, ooh, ooh
    'Cause sometimes I look in her eyes
    And that's where I find a glimpse of us
    And I try to fall for her touch
    But I'm thinking of the way it was
    Said I'm fine and said I moved on
    I'm only here passing time in her arms
    Hoping I'll find
    A glimpse of us

  • @kustomlanes5177
    @kustomlanes5177 2 роки тому +1264

    This song makes my heart BURN, it's not just pain, anger or sadness... it's all of them combined with love and disappointment, and a little bit of melancholy...

    • @merxhow
      @merxhow 2 роки тому +15

      Same fr, my WHOLE chest felt like it was on fire. Never had music hit me like this... it's a beautiful feeling, nonetheless.

    • @doogabadooswanson2927
      @doogabadooswanson2927 2 роки тому +9

      I don't know why but melancholy reminds me of cauliflower 🤓

    • @dontask5149
      @dontask5149 2 роки тому +2

      ME TOO.😪

    • @osamalabein5478
      @osamalabein5478 2 роки тому +1

      @@doogabadooswanson2927 hehehehe

    • @H1music1
      @H1music1 2 роки тому

      #بيبي_انا_حاسك_بردانه_موزه_و_مزيكا
      show one 😍😊1

  • @ellenoor707
    @ellenoor707 7 місяців тому +3372

    we're not friends, we're not enemies, juist strangers with memories.

    • @nolxxan
      @nolxxan 7 місяців тому +17

      Frrr 💔💔

    • @iluv._.anisha
      @iluv._.anisha 6 місяців тому +11

      I still miss them 😭

    • @mommovesherbabies2384
      @mommovesherbabies2384 6 місяців тому +5

      😢😢😢😢

    • @le.farquad608
      @le.farquad608 6 місяців тому +1

      Whether we lived them together or not. We still relate to them. It’s all we got till we say goodbye to them.

    • @rossie023
      @rossie023 5 місяців тому +2

      this hits hard

  • @Yungod6
    @Yungod6 4 місяці тому +5

    Such a magical voice ❤

  • @bluefluffy_cat7512
    @bluefluffy_cat7512 11 місяців тому +2248

    how everyone is talking about being forgotten by the one you love but no one is talking about the girl who is giving her everything to know this person sees someone else glimpse in her eyes

    • @30035
      @30035 11 місяців тому +59

      Ikr? Apparently it's a trend for sad songs nowadays. But still it's a really good song.

    • @jeremypaintedit
      @jeremypaintedit 9 місяців тому +69

      exactly…dont be the person taking the person that is willing to try, for granted.

    • @LemurBK
      @LemurBK 9 місяців тому +16

      cus she decked me in the face 3 times during our relationship and tried to demonize me to my family behind my back, thinking about being with other people i dont even feel bad about tbh.

    • @moonchild4753
      @moonchild4753 9 місяців тому +43

      Well yea, and I discovered that my fiancé send this to his ex few days after he cheated on me with her, so it seems that I'm that girl 🥲

    • @hanbinbear3882
      @hanbinbear3882 9 місяців тому +27

      ⁠@@moonchild4753I really hope you broke it off w him.. that’s so mean to do someone, I’m so sorry you had to go through that..

  • @t.rayhenry1186
    @t.rayhenry1186 2 роки тому +2204

    The simplicity and complexity of this song are equal. That’s when you have an absolute masterpiece. What a beautiful song. Haunting, yet the chords, lyrics, harmonies, and his voice are perfect.

    • @nickpinto3889
      @nickpinto3889 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/4B-wFx0aMlw/v-deo.html

    • @kez6284
      @kez6284 2 роки тому +7

      Absolutely agree.

    • @xxkillerwolfxx840
      @xxkillerwolfxx840 2 роки тому +8

      yes completely said agreed 👍

    • @robratchford2473
      @robratchford2473 2 роки тому +10

      Agree mate. Perfection.
      Would love to see a live performance

    • @jju4820
      @jju4820 2 роки тому +2

      @@robratchford2473 you can search it it’s on youtube

  • @Glimmerlight90
    @Glimmerlight90 2 роки тому +1856

    I hope Joji knows just how deep this song will hit millions of souls, not just during the time of its release, but for years to come. He must have had to experience a sadness that's unbearable for most people in order to make this, but I hope he can feel how connected he is to all of us now because of his experiences.

  • @robgoodson5872
    @robgoodson5872 5 днів тому +2

    This is seriously the saddest song ever. I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship like this.

  • @trilochanyannawar525
    @trilochanyannawar525 2 роки тому +3567

    The best part is :
    I was never in a romantic relationship in my life and yet I feel bad for the thing that failed to even start.
    Huge respect for you guys for going through what it takes for a relationship.

    • @Felixbotero
      @Felixbotero Рік тому +81

      Realtionships are amazing things that we as humans undergo, but the pain of said relationship ceasing to exist one day, is nothing short of the most inexplicably demoralizing thing someone can go through.

    • @DM-wk3gz
      @DM-wk3gz Рік тому +26

      As someone who has failed in both, sometimes it is worse if you never even made it there

    • @loganmendoza2600
      @loganmendoza2600 Рік тому +24

      I am going through the hardest breakup in my life, and I honestly wish that I didn't date. Like it hurts a lot. I do hope you are able to find someone that will love you and won't leave you though. You got this!

    • @trilochanyannawar525
      @trilochanyannawar525 Рік тому +12

      @@loganmendoza2600 I have faith. You got this.Going through it and growing was the main part and you won. Heads Up!

    • @trilochanyannawar525
      @trilochanyannawar525 Рік тому +7

      @@loganmendoza2600 Thanks man. Needed that.

  • @bricecarter196
    @bricecarter196 2 роки тому +2115

    I know a lot of people are here talking about their past relationship and break up.. etc but this song makes me think about my grandpa that passed away in 2017. He was my best friend. we used to drink together, talk a lot and work together at his mechanic store. I was driving today and I listen to this song, don't know why but tears all over my eyes and thought about him. Even after many years, still thinking about him. RIP my hero ❤️

    • @courtneycameron4492
      @courtneycameron4492 2 роки тому +32

      Yes, there's a much broader application of this song. My grandma died decades ago and I feel a similar way. You are not alone. ❤

    • @bricecarter196
      @bricecarter196 2 роки тому +11

      @@courtneycameron4492 thank you Courtney. I'm so sorry for your loss and hope you are doing well out there. ❤️

    • @achalseth545
      @achalseth545 2 роки тому +7

      I am so sorry for this. I hope this song helps you process it all, I know it must be so hard. You are so brave!

    • @bricecarter196
      @bricecarter196 2 роки тому +5

      @@achalseth545 thank u my friend. I really appreciate your kind words

    • @madebymai7435
      @madebymai7435 2 роки тому +5

      i'm sorry for your loss. :(
      i think your grandpa would feel honored and happy you remember him and love him so much.
      i'm sending hugs and peaceful vibes.

  • @AL-dj2wk
    @AL-dj2wk 3 місяці тому +3

    The worst feeling isn’t being alone, it’s being not loved by someone that can’t see you would be best together but they want someone else.

  • @minhhnim4338
    @minhhnim4338 2 роки тому +180

    Even the picture is singing too,it gets faded when Joji sings "out of sight" and becomes clear when he sings "the glimpse of us".It's just amazing

  • @ks-vs2vc
    @ks-vs2vc 22 години тому +1

    this song just slows down my heart beat, has something strangely comforting and pain causing.

  • @deeiadiy
    @deeiadiy 2 роки тому +520

    The denial, the cravings of wonderful memories and moments, the guilt, the mixed emotions and confusions, hauntingly beautifully written into a song. 🥺

    • @movietrailer432
      @movietrailer432 2 роки тому

      Finally its here ua-cam.com/video/_7Qyr4CbMsU/v-deo.html

    • @tekashiii
      @tekashiii 2 роки тому

      Sounds gay

  • @krowaxe5903
    @krowaxe5903 2 роки тому +1010

    It's always " who's joji " and " where's joji " but never " how is joji " Bro's songs literally helps me throughout the day and night. And yet I cannot thank him enough for all the lives his saved with his amazing voice

    • @micro11.
      @micro11. 2 роки тому +3

      If i dont know a famous singer id obviously search for who they are

    • @tiadanama1998
      @tiadanama1998 2 роки тому +5

      You need to watch pink guy

    • @Cronation.
      @Cronation. 2 роки тому +5

      Why is Joji

    • @krowaxe5903
      @krowaxe5903 2 роки тому +8

      @@Cronation. I'll do you one better when is joji

    • @hani2508
      @hani2508 2 роки тому

      How are u joji

  • @snehabharti4186
    @snehabharti4186 2 роки тому +1969

    POV: you aren't hurt or broken
    You just have a good taste of music

    • @PhantomBones101
      @PhantomBones101 2 роки тому +64

      Its even better when you know this guy's history. He's come a very long way from being a meme.

    • @kvngskeet9675
      @kvngskeet9675 2 роки тому +1

      Hy

    • @Rudrakxh
      @Rudrakxh 2 роки тому +32

      You either die a hero, or you live long enough to see yourself become Joji.

    • @thejuke1sout
      @thejuke1sout 2 роки тому +7

      i like cried at the song because the song is so beautiful

    • @kineticwayss
      @kineticwayss 2 роки тому +1

      @@PhantomBones101 i godd so true i came here after listening to his gangsta rap series lol.. hes come a very very long way !!!

  • @JaydenFlores-td2qi
    @JaydenFlores-td2qi 3 місяці тому +9

    Sad songs sometimes makes me sad

  • @DaBiggestFish
    @DaBiggestFish 2 роки тому +1447

    Watched this man since middle school, I’m 20 now he changed from playing wit dead birds to being a music icon. Do what makes you happy. I’m ova here trynna figure myself out thru this struggle, trials n tribulations are the most present thing right now. Nice to catch a piece a peace in this song for a moment .

  • @thesingingcherry3912
    @thesingingcherry3912 2 роки тому +513

    The lyrics “Perfect don’t mean that it’s working” is hitting the worse out of the whole song because I’m in a relationship like that right now “what can I do” displays perfectly how I feel

    • @steveomaha6368
      @steveomaha6368 2 роки тому +30

      If you're leaving comments about this kinda thing then I'd say the best thing is cut your loss and find someone better, it'll be hard, but not harder than trying to save a sinking ship, sorry bro

    • @izabellapollock
      @izabellapollock 2 роки тому +14

      Let them go gently for now. It’s never fair to be with someone if you haven’t made peace with or healed from your past… it’s gonna hurt them but it will hurt them more if they were to find out you’re not all in since you’re thinking of someone else in secret for so long. Be single and heal first before finding a new love :)

    • @carlosveigacribeiro8495
      @carlosveigacribeiro8495 2 роки тому +1

      leave

    • @JackTheStrippa
      @JackTheStrippa 2 роки тому +10

      Dont ruin someone else's life through your indecisions. Its unfair and even though you might hurt them its better for them than in the future when its too deep. You need time alone to actually just find and love yourself bro.

    • @mehnazsreya
      @mehnazsreya 2 роки тому +1

      honesty is the best policy

  • @Quietstormgirl
    @Quietstormgirl 10 місяців тому +1176

    This is a hauntingly sad but beautiful song.

    • @AyoJayArr
      @AyoJayArr 10 місяців тому +13

      The words being so deep and hauntingly sad makes it so beautiful

  • @GoatedPlops
    @GoatedPlops Місяць тому +13

    She'll never know that I think of her whenever I listen to this

  • @lasagnaisgood4717
    @lasagnaisgood4717 2 роки тому +719

    Joji is probably the best artist to ever do it in this generation. He had a huge following on UA-cam and successfully moved his career into another medium and changed his image. Love this guy

    • @sebittyseb4481
      @sebittyseb4481 2 роки тому +3

      Hope he releases more and doesn't just stop like he did

    • @Trancerrr
      @Trancerrr 2 роки тому +2

      Bo Burnham is up there too!

    • @Ryanator
      @Ryanator 2 роки тому

      For real

    • @El_Kanto
      @El_Kanto 2 роки тому +6

      Easy on the hyperboles my friend. Joji, and this song in particular, is great but there are a lot of incredible artists out there.

    • @adhiyaa4545
      @adhiyaa4545 2 роки тому

      Yap, that's 360°

  • @qwertyxc11
    @qwertyxc11 2 роки тому +1636

    You don't miss her, you miss the image you perceive of her. Even if she comes back physically, you will keep missing her even if she's right in front of you.
    You'll still long for her because she simply doesn't exist anymore.

  • @belowaveragegorganda5115
    @belowaveragegorganda5115 2 роки тому +499

    Guys, you're not sad because of this rn, you're just realizing your pain. It's time to move on guys, as much as it'll hurt to let that memory go, it's time for us to realize it's long gone and that it's no use clinging onto anymore.

    • @CSG0103
      @CSG0103 2 роки тому +17

      I was ready to marry her. I wanted so badly to give her the world. To give her everything. And I tried. By God, did I fucking try. And she just left one day after an argument. Told me she didn’t even want to see me. To leave her stuff and just go.
      I know you’re right. But I feel like it takes as much effort to let it go as it does to make it last. There’s as much pain in the release as there is joy in the union.

    • @belowaveragegorganda5115
      @belowaveragegorganda5115 2 роки тому +7

      @@CSG0103 to release your pain isn't to free yourself of the past, it is to simply allow your wounds to heal. By the time you are old, you will look back and that memory will have been the least of your troubles. If that wound isn't allowed to heal, you will appear as a man of patches and stitches, because bandages cannot do much but cover up wounds and prevent further internal damage. We are all proud of how much you've already handled, now keep making us proud and go the whole way

    • @CSG0103
      @CSG0103 2 роки тому +6

      @@belowaveragegorganda5115 I really appreciate that and your kind words… I’m sure you have some idea, but I needed to read those words so badly rn. It’s been a long and arduous journey, but I know relief is on the other side of this adversity. I just can’t make heads or tails of it and I think that’s what keeps me stuck. How can one feel so deeply and the other just toss it to the side like it was yesterday’s news?

    • @belowaveragegorganda5115
      @belowaveragegorganda5115 2 роки тому +7

      @@CSG0103 Don't overthink it, your journey has already gone for long enough. Sometimes it's best to believe that some people are just terrible people

    • @augustjohanson7697
      @augustjohanson7697 2 роки тому +4

      @@CSG0103 if there’s one sign to keep moving, it’s this. Cheers m8 ❤

  • @nasiganjaboneyem3924
    @nasiganjaboneyem3924 Місяць тому +1

    "sesulit apapun jalannya, semenakutkan apapun rintangannya, jangan pernah berhenti melangkah. kelak kamu akan sampai di titik menyadari bahwa hidup ini memang layak untuk diperjuangkan".
    - My Old Self

  • @cookie_roxy_
    @cookie_roxy_ 2 роки тому +1093

    Playing this and looking around my room at random items remembering how I got them, where they came from and with who I shared is just a big memory lane to travel through

    • @phil_matic
      @phil_matic 2 роки тому +35

      That's deep. I never thought of it that way, but I'll definitely look at my belongings with a little more thought now.

    • @logicalperson4373
      @logicalperson4373 2 роки тому +16

      So true.
      I was looking at a pair of shoes gifted to me by my ex.

    • @cookie_roxy_
      @cookie_roxy_ 2 роки тому +11

      @@phil_matic it was just a nice experience for me the songs just makes it feel like you're in a movie

    • @trippingo2298
      @trippingo2298 2 роки тому +8

      We broke up 5 years ago and I still can’t forget her . Jus like u said My room is full of her surprise box , gifts , watch , bracelets and even her hair dryer. I tried to move on but failed every time TT

    • @haruyoshida2338
      @haruyoshida2338 2 роки тому +4

      @@trippingo2298
      Those items are called Caraphernalia.

  • @JayRidders232
    @JayRidders232 7 місяців тому +1079

    This song is for my stepfather, Eric Steele. He treated my Mom like a queen, became the father my sister and I never had, and we were destined to have a happy life together. Unfortunately, the cancer in his body derailed those plans and claimed his life. He passed away on March 29 at around 10:45 pm. He will forever be missed.

    • @t.5933
      @t.5933 7 місяців тому +10

      I’m so sorry for your loss🫶🏾

    • @idktbh392
      @idktbh392 7 місяців тому +20

      Sorry for your lost..
      May he rest in peace
      Im sure hes now with you

    • @migwellington
      @migwellington 7 місяців тому +9

      sorry for your loss

    • @ayox3883
      @ayox3883 7 місяців тому +8

      sorrt for your loss 🙏 Godbless you

    • @forgetable7234
      @forgetable7234 7 місяців тому +8

      God bless his soul.

  • @21clairedelune12
    @21clairedelune12 2 роки тому +1382

    I absolutely love his vocals and the melody, and the lyrics are really powerful. As someone who is "the new gf", this song hurts on a whole another level. I'd give all my time for him but I know I'm not the one he really wants. Let's start crying for the whole summer now shall we

    • @Sparr0wBird
      @Sparr0wBird 2 роки тому +35

      hey, who knows what time will bring? mayybe you are meant to be together. but i hear what you're saying. all in all, it's a tear jerker kinda song...

    • @blissfulcoot8630
      @blissfulcoot8630 2 роки тому +96

      Man, I get it. As long as he puts in the effort and time to talk to you and spend time with you, I don’t think you have anything to worry about. I’ve dated my girlfriend for about 6 months after a 3 and a half year relationship. I’ve found happiness again, I’ve found what it means to get the attention and love I’ve always wanted but never got. I know how it feels know to not be lied to and to be loved unconditionally. I am positive as time passes, your “new girlfriend” status will change because I sure as hell see my girl differently than I did when we first started. Love is difficult and it’s not easy, but just don’t give up after a few bumps or two. Good luck and I hope your boyfriend realizes that he’s better off with you than anyone else. Destiny is real and I know your destiny with him was meant to be.

    • @cloudy38
      @cloudy38 2 роки тому +9

      i’m so sorry

    • @evydinh101
      @evydinh101 2 роки тому +27

      As someone who can relate to this, I think we both deserve better

    • @itzinferno1387
      @itzinferno1387 2 роки тому +4

      It hurts on another level as the “ old bf “ the one that messed it up and the sad part is we both still love each other and miss each other. It hurts it really does.

  • @farichaecha2451
    @farichaecha2451 3 місяці тому +2

    syahir ingat tak mase lagu ni mula mula kluar.kite slalu dgar lagu ni time dalam kelas.awak tgok saya and saya pulak blushing.saya rindu manja saya:)manja tak ingat ke moment tu:)saya rindu awak.baliklah kat saya sayang.im always waiting for u to change.teruk mane pon awak and even sape pon yang benci awak saya still sayangkan awak.saya sentiasa maafkan manja saya.skrg stiap kali saya dgar lagu ni saya teringat time kite date kat melaka,jalan berdua,holding hands,late night walks.saya ingat awak pernah cakap "first time saya date mcamni' 'jangan risaua sayang saya takkn tinggalkan awak"saya sayang awak' ayat tu sentiasa berulang ulang dalam kepala saya

  • @greenjoycon304
    @greenjoycon304 2 роки тому +236

    i feel like he conveyed his emotions in this piece extremely well. im moved and feel a connection to someone i've never met via this song. joji is incredibly talented

    • @azsadzsoundz3522
      @azsadzsoundz3522 2 роки тому +1

      Finally it's here ua-cam.com/video/_7Qyr4CbMsU/v-deo.html

  • @hrndz_303
    @hrndz_303 2 роки тому +501

    just makes me remember about how perfect everything between us once was before. things have taken a turn for the worst and it just feels like we're digging our relationship into a deeper hole it just won't get out of. feels like im losing her by the second but i don't wanna give us up cause I fear I'll feel the same exact things described in this song.

    • @adrianrocabado5040
      @adrianrocabado5040 2 роки тому +20

      If the relationship it's already in a hole that it can't get out of. I recommend you just break it off because if that hole keeps getting deeper, her good views of you will change and things can be worsened.
      Don't be afraid of losing her, sometimes we need to stay away from those we love when we know it's hurting

    • @degtz8797
      @degtz8797 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly the same and I know it ends soon, because she fell for someone else. I know i'll never find someone similar

    • @raenajohnson8245
      @raenajohnson8245 2 роки тому +4

      This was a situation I was in for awhile during a 3 year relationship. Would you rather run the relationship into the ground so you hate each other and there's never a chance for reconciliation? Or would you rather take some time and space to heal and possibly still be in each other's lives? My ex and I broke up 2 years ago and we're friends now AFTER time to ourselves. In my time healing I found the sweetest person who has loved me in so many ways I didn't even know possible. If you love them, do what's best for both of you. Have a real conversation and take some space. Good luck, it's hard at first but does indeed get better. I wouldn't be anywhere near as happy with my life had I not made that one painful decision 2 years ago.

    • @elle4702
      @elle4702 2 роки тому

      23:23 Trending Only Fans Chatme.host Hermosa elección
      los mortales abian apreciado tan hermosa mujer
      10:10 Hopi:
      Sweeter
      11:12 Sun:
      Hotter
      00:18 Joonie:
      Cooler
      18:00 Yoongy:
      Butter
      23:23 Son unos de los mejores conciertos
      mañas no se la
      Las elecciones cinematográficas y artísticas son brillantes. Referencias culturales europeas realmente interesantes. Ojalá la cultura europea se representara más a menudo tan bellamente. No puedo dejar de decir "oh, esto es hermoso" a lo largo del video. Luz, en serio... el que se encargue de la iluminación... :ytg:

    • @nafisaosman9384
      @nafisaosman9384 2 роки тому +3

      @@raenajohnson8245 Bro an advice from a girl here, i am stepping up to write it to u in 2 am here. Don’t give up, this is the time to show her how muvh u wanna keep this love with her. Ease her, be at ease urself. Dont break it off, breaking it off might seem like a easy good solution but its not its more hurtful. Everyone in love goes through many hard patches, i am in one right now too but if u give up, any of u give something beautiful just hidden temporary can be broken.

  • @anacletto
    @anacletto Місяць тому +20

    02:40 It's like I'm floating listening

  • @qyomii
    @qyomii 2 роки тому +933

    ppl on tiktok are hating on joji for making this song because it talks about being in a relationship and seeing their ex in them, and from someone who has had a relationship like that, and who has experienced this feeling, i honestly love this song. Joji is one of a few music artists that can actually make me shed tears through his music and music vids.

    • @scentrik
      @scentrik 2 роки тому +89

      L humans, W song

    • @DocTwoEight
      @DocTwoEight 2 роки тому +85

      I have not seen a single comment talking shit about this song on the whole internet

    • @strrwbrryjamjam2191
      @strrwbrryjamjam2191 2 роки тому +17

      I agree, I’ve been in this position. The person I’m with now, he’s everything I could ask for, but there are certain things I do miss from one of my relationships I’ve had. It doesn’t mean I want to leave this person, I just remember certain things I can’t do with this person. This song is honestly one of the best songs I’ve heard this year that accurately depicts how I feel sometimes.

    • @cybermdo1292
      @cybermdo1292 2 роки тому +16

      One of the reason im not touching tik tok lmao

    • @thelaughtheory5726
      @thelaughtheory5726 2 роки тому +24

      Literally not a single soul on tiktok or anywhere else is hating on Joji for this song or anything else. Stop creating drama

  • @yuichi.inumaru
    @yuichi.inumaru Рік тому +4019

    Joji's songs make me revisit my pain, and give a meaning to it. In doing so, it suddenly doesn't hurt so much. Thank you, Joji.

  • @INKEDKYNG
    @INKEDKYNG 2 роки тому +126

    Love his vocal overlays and harmonizing with himself

    • @tikktokk7007
      @tikktokk7007 2 роки тому

      Finally it's here ua-cam.com/video/_7Qyr4CbMsU/v-deo.html

  • @mathhew21
    @mathhew21 Рік тому +955

    What hurts is being forgotten by someone you'd never forget , but what hurts more is pretending that it doesn't hurt you at all

    • @EricaChavira-on4oz
      @EricaChavira-on4oz Рік тому +8

      So true … nicely said.

    • @alexchavez3244
      @alexchavez3244 Рік тому +18

      How long can you love something that doesn’t love you back think about that very deep huh you get over it after that worry bout yourself it wasn’t you’re fault but it was you’re fault by wasting time on the person who you cared for when they didn’t remember that

    • @noodle457
      @noodle457 Рік тому +3

      Fax bro

    • @anaximanderofapollonia9842
      @anaximanderofapollonia9842 Рік тому

      Pfft. Pansy.

    • @mikekatupisa9853
      @mikekatupisa9853 Рік тому +3

      She's great I relate here to this song a lot now playing pretend sucks so much I wanna say things I can't say and it hurts she got the best of my heart. Knowing she's out there and not with me is saddening I love her. I wish her the best but is this what we both really want. She thinking I can just replace like her you have no idea. The love I gave can't just replicated and given elsewhere

  • @aureliusxvincent
    @aureliusxvincent 2 роки тому +464

    My first time hearing this song. I just laid back, closed my eyes and all the happy but bittersweet memories of my past came rushing back. Thank you Joji, you've given us all a blessing!

    • @SubjectRaps
      @SubjectRaps 2 роки тому

      lyric video
      ua-cam.com/video/ll20C7kfs8I/v-deo.html

    • @kovenevells2696
      @kovenevells2696 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah😖

    • @lukecipo
      @lukecipo 2 роки тому +1

      I was like: yea let's listen to this!
      10 seconds later i stopped everything i was doing to watch the empty inside me.

    • @tikktokk7007
      @tikktokk7007 2 роки тому +2

      Finally it's here ua-cam.com/video/_7Qyr4CbMsU/v-deo.html

  • @CloudStudiosPhoto
    @CloudStudiosPhoto 2 роки тому +631

    An ex of mine, the only person I truly loved at the time more than anything else who left only because of distance and us seeing each other for less than 4 months out of the year came back into my head lately. This is because after 5 years of not seeing each other, although I did try to reconnect a few time because we left on good terms and we loved each other so much at the time, I finally saw her in person a week ago. It was so nice to see her again, we were both finally at places in our lives where things felt stable and everything seemed to be fine and to my knowledge both of us were single and doing our own thing and everything was just going right with life. The next day after she had given me her new contact information for her new phone, which switching her phone number was one of the reasons why we never got together previously, I learned that she’d gotten married less than a month ago… The moment she told me this over text, time had stopped yet again only this time it wasn’t because I was enamored by her beauty like when we first met or when I took her to prom, the way it goes in a romantic sense, no. It was because I was having a panic attack And I didn’t know how to process and I just shut down. The day this song came out was the day that I received that text and the day that she switched her profile picture to her wedding photo. I’m good now and I’ve accepted that things happen for a reason but damn is it still hard to accept that this happened and there’s absolutely nothing I can do to change it. Beautiful song , just gets me every time I listen to it.

    • @Krubbfjaes
      @Krubbfjaes 2 роки тому +43

      Jesus dude, that's rough. I don't understand how you saw her a week ago though and you thought you both were single, and that she even gave you her contact info, but then you say a month ago she got married?

    • @21savagefr
      @21savagefr 2 роки тому +4

      hurtful dude, stay strong please

    • @shaqcandy648
      @shaqcandy648 2 роки тому +2

      that's rough buddy

    • @serialkills
      @serialkills 2 роки тому +2

      god

    • @sarahsaebz7453
      @sarahsaebz7453 2 роки тому +1

      You over that news n 2 days?

  • @shekharyadav4801
    @shekharyadav4801 Місяць тому +4

    I'm back here every year in the winter. This song, winter, and my broken heart reunite with the girl who held my hand and captured my heart. This song is forever tied to her; every time I listen, her memory appears before me. 🤍🖤🧿

  • @beekirati
    @beekirati 2 місяці тому +2

    Good all the time❤

  • @octovermusic
    @octovermusic 2 роки тому +3135

    To be frank, this is a really amazing song

    • @nighttripper1432
      @nighttripper1432 2 роки тому +487

      You were frank, but were you filthy?

    • @NYCD-5
      @NYCD-5 2 роки тому +50

      @@nighttripper1432 no i just like pink guy

    • @sharkayn
      @sharkayn 2 роки тому +16

      i usally like rap, so if im listening to this on loop than this is a masterpiece

    • @greysouljr8913
      @greysouljr8913 2 роки тому +4

      frank is that you T_T ?

    • @peterescudero6905
      @peterescudero6905 2 роки тому +12

      no pun intended?

  • @MegaLag
    @MegaLag 2 роки тому +1570

    What a talent

    • @azsadzsoundz3522
      @azsadzsoundz3522 2 роки тому +2

      Finally it's here ua-cam.com/video/_7Qyr4CbMsU/v-deo.html

    • @user400
      @user400 2 роки тому +1

      MEGALAG!

  • @delishaputri049
    @delishaputri049 2 роки тому +39

    Rasanya seperti dia masih disini, aku merindukannya bahkan hanya karna udara yg berhembus. Satu tahun sudah kepergiannya karna Covid, tapi dia masih ada dimanapun aku melihat. Aku tidak kesepian, karna tak perlu sendiri untuk sekedar melihat "sekilas tentangmu, tentang kita"
    Tak perlu dengan tergantikan orang lain. Bahkan pekerjaan yg padat, keseharian yg sibuk, tak mampu menutupimu yg datang ketika aku menghela nafas.. Semoga berada dikedamaian, Sayang ❤️
    Terimakasih untuk lagu indahnya Joji, menegaskan bahwa sejauh apapun kita berpaling, hati selalu tau kemana tempatnya berlabuh.. ❤️❤️🙏

  • @luisbanos419
    @luisbanos419 2 місяці тому +3

    Found this song with a broken heart in 2022 and hearing it broke it even more , now it heals me .. crazy how it turned out

  • @Yatty.orsmth
    @Yatty.orsmth 2 роки тому +718

    The way this song can be interpreted in different ways depending on the listener, its just incredible.

    • @nashtheslash7691
      @nashtheslash7691 2 роки тому +18

      To me I’m thinking like he misses her and is trying to remember what it was like being with her but idk😂

    • @lttstoreDOTcom
      @lttstoreDOTcom 2 роки тому

      that's what all songs are

    • @Snow-ej5fm
      @Snow-ej5fm 2 роки тому +7

      realllyyyy i thought the meaning was pretty clear-cut

    • @1234-s4l
      @1234-s4l 2 роки тому

      i know right 😔

    • @aoifekun
      @aoifekun 2 роки тому

      at first i thought it's the girl who is thinking of her past relationship even though she's with someone new now.
      another time i listen i think it's the guy who's remembering his past relationship

  • @missprc943
    @missprc943 Рік тому +379

    “Said I’m fine, said I moved on” hits me so hard. It makes me sob like a little baby

  • @DestroyerxGamimg1
    @DestroyerxGamimg1 2 місяці тому +1

    This song gives u a emotional vibes

  • @christiancox8744
    @christiancox8744 2 роки тому +258

    Recently lost someone very close to me. Listened to this for the firs time the day she passed. I remember the last time I looked into her eyes as she looked away for the last time in her resting place.
    Wherever you are, I love you. I'll never forget you and the times we had and the amazing memories you gave me!
    I love you so much.
    R.I.P.

    • @zachhaley6840
      @zachhaley6840 2 роки тому +10

      We’re here for you man..

    • @Finchese
      @Finchese 2 роки тому +7

      and we always will be

    • @positivevoltage9366
      @positivevoltage9366 2 роки тому +6

      I’m so sorry man ❤️ here for you no matter what

    • @mrdiaz3413
      @mrdiaz3413 2 роки тому +5

      We're here for you buddy.

    • @neway4499
      @neway4499 2 роки тому +6

      Hold on bro. Don’t be discouraged, this life and flesh is temporary she’s waiting for you. If no has told you lately then I will,
      I love you man ❤️

  • @rosiechazallet9609
    @rosiechazallet9609 2 роки тому +1217

    My daughter introduced me to this song. I am 60 and have very eclectic taste and listen to a wide range of music. I truly believe this is the most beautiful love song ever written. It's absolutely gorgeous.
    I understand that Joji has wrestled with many things in life but I do wonder if he has lost another large audience, as I know many people of my age have seen the video and have been put off the song which is sad. I
    I only saw the beginning but that was enough...
    Anyway keep writing these amazing compositions, Joji.

    • @mermop4469
      @mermop4469 2 роки тому +32

      all i can say is this is a great description

    • @staigenerator2949
      @staigenerator2949 2 роки тому +40

      The video is a beautiful juxtaposition and depicts a violent reaction to heartbreak. People who log off it are missing out on good art that completes the song

    • @justinhernandez6200
      @justinhernandez6200 2 роки тому +7

      @@staigenerator2949 dog i watched the video and got none of that

    • @stephanieshine2098
      @stephanieshine2098 2 роки тому +8

      @@staigenerator2949 one hundred percent agree. Could easily write an essay about it. For me the song completes the music video and vice versa

    • @mr.merchandise4350
      @mr.merchandise4350 2 роки тому +4

      It’s still not as beautiful as his greatest masterpiece. “Help” off the Pink Season album.

  • @SnackVideo-d7c
    @SnackVideo-d7c 21 день тому +1

    love this

  • @yvria3006
    @yvria3006 2 роки тому +56

    It's both calming and sad, it feels like rain in the midnight.

  • @VitaTuggummin
    @VitaTuggummin 2 роки тому +50

    i love that he brings up feelings that hurt. feelings you wouldn't easily admit having - i feel less alone.

  • @uglieangel414
    @uglieangel414 2 роки тому +193

    so this is about someone seeing a past love in a current love, but when I first heard this song and saw a younger happier version of me. the one that still lives within me but knowing that it’ll never be the same. trying to find the happiness I once had that came so easy. everyone relates different to songs and that’s the beauty of it all.

    • @raifikarj6698
      @raifikarj6698 2 роки тому

      Well the glimps of us is different for each people as we are always in different place and not always the same

    • @LoneWolf-wy5qd
      @LoneWolf-wy5qd 2 роки тому

      Same it makes me depressed.

  • @pineapplechunk1279
    @pineapplechunk1279 2 роки тому +829

    When you're so in love that this song does not remind you of your ex, but your current bf and the hypothetical future that will never happen, because why would I ever leave him if I love him this much

    • @oneofthe12sionmains70
      @oneofthe12sionmains70 2 роки тому +5

      Until he cheats on you because you lack any semblance of personality, and he recognizes all of the superior options out in the world. He deserves better. He'll get better.

    • @MECHFILMS_
      @MECHFILMS_ 2 роки тому +53

      @@oneofthe12sionmains70 who hurt you

    • @koshimaru9483
      @koshimaru9483 2 роки тому +25

      @@MECHFILMS_ he's a league player don't mind him

    • @MECHFILMS_
      @MECHFILMS_ 2 роки тому

      @@koshimaru9483 league players get no bitches this is common facts

    • @Funny_Valentine.0
      @Funny_Valentine.0 2 роки тому +1

      @@koshimaru9483 i am a lol playerso i can definitely say that me and most of my fellow players are one of the most type of ppl to actually not get the love we need
      Everyone just says im not interesting dont know how to express my feelings or smth like that

  • @jeremy829
    @jeremy829 2 роки тому +1439

    songs like this really make you think. is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

    • @anapacheco860
      @anapacheco860 2 роки тому +90

      Never loved at all for sure

    • @ErickGodlike
      @ErickGodlike 2 роки тому +45

      @@anapacheco860 yea save your self the pain, love is just an illusion and it wont last, some people cant even love themselves so its hard to share that with other people.

    • @damaging_strike8937
      @damaging_strike8937 2 роки тому +29

      “It’s better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all. That could be a load of shit, but I just need to tell u all” - Moral of the story

    • @vahagnmkrtchyan6868
      @vahagnmkrtchyan6868 2 роки тому +4

      @@anapacheco860 You can give to the grave directly with that logic

    • @Xmunchiexx
      @Xmunchiexx 2 роки тому +15

      I wish I never loved at all. I gave her all I had.

  • @sacul3861
    @sacul3861 2 роки тому +774

    You know a song is so good when you can empathise with the lyrics without even experiencing the subject yourself. Joji is an artist who uses words.

    • @delirium3766
      @delirium3766 2 роки тому +39

      All artists use words 🤨 ur just tryna scavenge likes

    • @sacul3861
      @sacul3861 2 роки тому +68

      @@delirium3766 bro the comment connoisseur 💀

    • @Adidashes
      @Adidashes 2 роки тому

      @@sacul3861 LMAO

    • @TheAceJokers
      @TheAceJokers 2 роки тому

      You haven’t even had time to listen to the song bruv

    • @delirium3766
      @delirium3766 2 роки тому +16

      @@sacul3861 bro the guy who values comment likes 💀

  • @SH1NDO-r7b
    @SH1NDO-r7b 2 місяці тому +20

    "hopin i'll find... the glimpse of us" god it hit me like a truck 1:23

  • @phil_matic
    @phil_matic 2 роки тому +1155

    It’s been 4 years now, and while I’m not in love with her anymore, I still can’t let go of how amazing I felt when I was.

    • @vnxy6496
      @vnxy6496 2 роки тому +3

      who

    • @kensmyrrl7571
      @kensmyrrl7571 2 роки тому +16

      I feel you

    • @alaniiris6067
      @alaniiris6067 2 роки тому +8

      Ok so no one asked or cares

    • @phil_matic
      @phil_matic 2 роки тому +124

      @@alaniiris6067 always the people who says “who cares” or “no one cares” when it’s blatantly obvious that many people do. I really wish you people could be smarter

    • @clueless5803
      @clueless5803 2 роки тому +70

      @@alaniiris6067 Apparently you cared enough to reply though, so...

  • @LucasPenido
    @LucasPenido 2 роки тому +296

    This is DEFINITELY one of the most beautiful songs written in recent times! Timeless!

    • @NavoTheTrueGod
      @NavoTheTrueGod 2 роки тому +10

      true, i dont often listen to other joji songs because i cant stop listening to my favorites, but this, its the best song ive ever heard, literally

    • @yellow7645
      @yellow7645 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah!!

  • @snowman_tofu8072
    @snowman_tofu8072 2 роки тому +462

    Had this friend before. His girlfriend broke up with him. We said, "hey, man. Can't say everything would be fine, but take your time to heal and move on." We gave him some friendly advises, we're looking out for the dude since he was really distraught about the whole break up. So we thought maybe it'll also help if we, his friends, also gave him a little space so he don't feel like we're forcing things on him.
    Weeks passed, we were checking up on him, and he seemed to be getting better day by day. We're happy that he was getting happy at least. But then we learned that he already had another girlfriend. We didn't really expected that since we know the guy as someone far from being a lady's man. But there we are, meeting him and his new girlfriend. He introduced her to us and vice versa. She was great. She's very nice and bubbly. Quite talkative. But we all vibed with her just fine.
    The thing is, the way our friend treats her. We all saw how he treated his ex. And when we saw how he and his new gf interacted, his behavior, his personality around her, it was alarmingly similar to how it was back then with his ex. We talked to him about it. He said he just couldn't help it. He felt like his world was falling apart and he wanted to feel the same feeling he felt with his ex. But he knew his ex won't come back anymore, so he sought it out from another person.
    It was fucked up. Really. We understand where he was coming from, but it doesn't change the fact that it was still f‐ed up. His current gf knew none of it. And we saw how she loved our friend. It was literally like a bomb, unstable, threatening to explode. No one deserved to be treated in such a way. So we discussed, debated, argued with each other if we should do something. At the end, we don't really have the right to interfere, so we just made the guy swear that he'd stop treating his gf like with how he did with his ex or just break the relationship.
    We weren't sure if we did the right thing. But what we're sure about is that no one deserves to be a replacement or a replica of the past. Esp when this person sees the future with you.

    • @muhammadshidqi4916
      @muhammadshidqi4916 2 роки тому +22

      I am currently on the same position of your friend. I've been with a girl for a whole 3 years, my WHOLE highschool life and broke up after that. And 1 month later i've found another one. Yes. I treated her as if she's my ex, i sang her songs and read her poems that once i gave to my ex.
      At surface level it might seem fucked up but it is just a way some people forget abouth the past. That is to cherish it.
      My ex was my first 'real' girlfriend and my concept of "love" was taught by my experiences with her. I was still in teenage years so it was so damn deeprooted in my mindset. I cannot love other people without using the "love" i learned from my experience.
      The important thing is that how my gf loves the way i treat her. 2 years have passed and while i cannot say for sure that i've forgot glimpses of my past, i sure have treated my new soulmate as how she deserves to be treated.
      For your friend, let him be. Just tell him that dont he dare hurt her or abandon her after he "moved on". I did tell myself to NEVER abandon my current gf, because she's been with me for years, dark years. And she is the last person i will abandon beside my parents.

    • @tikktokk7007
      @tikktokk7007 2 роки тому +1

      Finally it's here ua-cam.com/video/_7Qyr4CbMsU/v-deo.html

    • @tikktokk7007
      @tikktokk7007 2 роки тому +8

      You're a really good friend and your friends btw.

    • @harizriyanto705
      @harizriyanto705 2 роки тому

      yes

    • @alexthong9465
      @alexthong9465 2 роки тому +7

      the fact that you started off with "had this friend". hope you still kept in touch with that gentleman :/

  • @flatbeat_4152
    @flatbeat_4152 Місяць тому +4

    i hope the people imagining going through something like this will always juat imagine it

  • @beerados3989
    @beerados3989 2 роки тому +232

    I love the imagery Joji pairs with his music. Always beautiful ballads and R&B with scary and ugly imagery. He just can’t help himself and I know the feeling.

    • @coreynj
      @coreynj 2 роки тому +5

      Have you watched the music video? It's even more raw and beautiful.

    • @beerados3989
      @beerados3989 2 роки тому +1

      @@coreynj the one with the ski masks and all of the debauchery?

    • @coreynj
      @coreynj 2 роки тому +12

      @@beerados3989 Yep, the music video is perfectly juxtaposed to the song. It encapsulates the downward spiral of self-destruction that can happen when you lack a meaningful connection in your life and try to fill the void with anything and pretend it's okay when it's not. It's so raw and full of emotion, I feel the same vibe from his old Filthy Frank antics and it feels like he went through the exact same emotions.

    • @beerados3989
      @beerados3989 2 роки тому

      @@coreynj I think his music overall reflects that. I’m not sure this particular video portrays that. I think the juxtaposition of beauty/ugliness in his art comes off as his genuine discomfort with taking art completely serious.

    • @beerados3989
      @beerados3989 2 роки тому +1

      @@coreynj like making an ugly face on purpose for a photo instead of naturally smiling because you’re uncomfortable

  • @BurundiDavidHector
    @BurundiDavidHector 7 місяців тому +104

    "Cause sometimes I look in her eyes and that's were I find the glimpse of us"
    These words really have a meaning for the human beings