Same man, I wish people could have a little more confidence in themselves and stopped comparing themselves to others, everyone is so beautiful but nowadays, some people just seem so fixed on being the replica of another person, why does society have such standards? :(
me, it brings back all the memories of people I thought were my friends telling me kys and not as a joke they said the world would be better if I was gone. And then when anyone says anything suicidal they say don’t and supports them. It also reminds me of my emotionally abusive and alcoholic father, everyone thinks my life is perfect just because I hide behind a smile everyday and they don’t know fucking anything about me. Then when I say I need to talk as cause I’ve tried to commit suicide hey tell me people have bigger issues than wha I’m going through. It hurts. Just because someone is smiling does not mean they are mentally ok. I’m sorry if I’ve wasted ur time but it feels like no one understands.
to everyone who's still listening to this, i promise things will get better. i remember listening to this in 2020, my heart as heavy as the waters and head muffled with thoughts of sadness. but, now looking back, i have come so far. not only have i fought over depression, but i believe that you guys can do it too. realise the power within yourself, you are loved, you are perfect, you are amazing.
I too watched this exact video back in 2020, feeling like how you describe. Feels so bittersweet to come back to it🥹 Life does get better too! And you learn and evolve soo much, those feelings wont last forever!❤️
I don't even have friends, being a top student they just approach me for their benefits and I notice it immediately. Everyone just knows me as an introvert who is an exceptional student,no one wants to get to know me
Wow, it had more likes than expected, I take advantage of the moment to say that I upload videos every saturday, i'd really appreciate if you subscribed❤ I'm just starting, but I promise that I will keep being constant.
Faye Javi Well i like to think it’s about Conan and another boy but he hasn’t confirmed his sexuality so it’s unsure. that’s alright tho bc i don’t think any of his real fans would want him to feel pressured into coming out (if he is Bi)
Vanii enjoy it:/ Ik you hear that a lot and that’s what everyone says. But as you get older it feels you don’t get the same love and comfort from people:/
@@simper4565 At the risk of sounding like a creep, you've got love from us. We may never meet, but I'll still think of you. ^^ And.... hang in there, okay? Do your best to enjoy your life right now, despite the circumstances. You'll find yourself wanting to return to this time when you're older.
@@simper4565 and the hardest part of being a kid (9-12) in 2020 everybody thinks that theyre all just on their phone and smoking, drinking energy etc its really sad
My crush replaced me with my best friend...my crush and i were like sweethearts we were being shipped by everyone before but now hes cold to me like it seems like i am no one
I feel bad because I am the heather to my friend. She said she didn’t like the boy anymore and I stared liking him and then we dated after that. A couple months later she told me how much it hurt to see us together. I had no clue since she said she didn’t like him anymore and started liking another guy (or so that’s just what she said) and I still feel guilty. She was so supportive and wanted us together so bad and I guess she was lying a bit which makes me a bit upset. but man, I’m totally in love with him
Dont even get me started on, "looks don't matter". No, Jennifer with blonde hair, blue eyes. Perfect curves, hairless, mentally stable with a rich\healthy family. They do. They absolutely do.
I don’t know who you are and you do t have to reply but I think that you are beautiful inside and out and I’ve never even seen you. If you wanna make a friend my insta is berk_phoque ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
This comment hits hard when you slowly became heather and lost your self and now you'r stuck being the perfect heather for every one and not knowing your real self becouse you lost it in the long run
hoor alsalehi that was me but kinda the opposite of a heather, i was rude and obnoxious and then when my friend group told me to stop talking to them, i snapped back to reality and a few days ago i managed to get the two that were my closest friends back! thank you god and you graciousness!
i guess it just seems like she’s got everything she wants. she’s got a beautiful face. perfect hair. perfect eyes. model like nose. perfect lips, eyes. everything. everyone knows her. she’s nice and kind and the ones that are friends with her always talk about how amazing she is. her outfits are amazing. she has a big friend group. she’s got perfect grades. she’s in advanced classes. she does sports. she’s got a little sibling. she’s got a dad. a dad that doesn’t belittle her every two seconds. then there’s me. my hair doesn’t work. it’s a frizzy mess even if i straighten it. i know every person, but no one knows me. i have one friend. one true friend. but she’s also got someone else. im quiet and shy. ive got the worst anxiety about thr stupidest stuff. cant even get my nails done without having a full blown panic attack. i sit back and just watch, watch how awesome and amazing everyone else is. and then there’s me. how their friends didn’t leave them after the summer. how they never had to sit alone at lunch time. how they don’t care about the food they bring, they don’t stare at it in disgust. they just eat it like any normal person would. but if i were any of them, or her. i wouldn’t have a problem with that stuff either.
i hope everything is ok for you now...i understand how u feel and I 100% relate to you. No one understands I feel and the people I love doesn't seem like they do to me anymore and it's kinda sad.but there are people worse than my condition. No one should feel like me so pls take care and know I will always be there for you
Don't be insecure. It doesn't matter if u think they are prettier or better. You're definitely pretty. Cus the universe is beauty, the things alive and not alive everything is beauty. She is pretty so is u. Set a goal, work hard for it, Don't care what others would think..... Love uuh🫂🤍
She knew I liked him but still dated him when she didn’t even like him. They have been dating for 6 months. She was my best friend for 8 years but now we don’t talk
The song took the words outta mouth “you like her better” and “why would you ever kiss me. He’ll never kiss me. I’ll always be a shadow, a leaf in the wind, even a pebble in a pond. He’ll always want her.
and whats the worst in the world is when you’re finally, finally happy, and you still have these thoughts in the back of your head keeping you from letting yourself enjoy the relationship. “what would happen if she wanted him. would he leave me?” and i hate not knowing so i convince myself its true LOL
He’s my best friend. No words could explain how much he means to me. But he only sees me as a friend. Our other friend, she’s just perfect. Pretty. Funny. Everything I’m not. I’m just the supportive best friend to him.
I've been broken hearted 3 times: rejected break up and ghosted.. I feel like I hated myself for being so stupid, ugh it's too sad. This song too sad 😢
*"She's got you mesmerized while I die"* This. This line over there. When your crush is having a crush on a person who's just so great and talented at everything while you feel like there's nothing you have to impress your crush... And seeing scenarios like this in real life is just so soul-crushing, this song feels like a pat on your head honestly
I had everything to impress her. We were as close as everyone thought we were actually dating. She was the only person I've ever opened up to (with my mom and dad). I confessed my feelings and it was one of the hardest things to do. She said no and acted like nothing happened. Why ? What did I do wrong ? Am I the problem ?I invited her to prom and I confessed my feelings one more time and same thing happened. I always try to forget her but everytime I hear songs like this all the memories come back in a flash, and it hurts like hell.
@@kalynnewillis yeah but not just that- heather is someone who's so nice you can't bring yourself to hate them because they're just that sweet. it's not just the popular person, or the person your crush chooses over you.
THANK you so much for saying this. i knew a girl who this song reminds me exactly of. a kind, humble, beautiful girl, her name was emily doucette. i never knew her too well personally, but you could just t e l l when such a good person like that exists
No. The problem is I am the heather friend. And all of my “friends” hate me because of it. I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. I don’t ask for the people they like to like me?! They don’t know how bad it hurts. I lose so many friendships because I have to tell people I don’t like them. Or I lose friendships because my friends find out the person they like likes me. It’s so hard. I would trade everything for friends who don’t hate me. For only the one person I like to like me.
I’m sorry you feel like this. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I would never know how it feels, and I don’t want to compare our experiences. But I do know I experience something that hurts almost just as much, if not more.
It’s not fun having everyone “love” you. Because in reality they don’t. And it hurts and I’m so sorry. I would never choose to be this person. I would give it all up. I’m so so sorry. My heart breaks every time I lose a friend. And it happens so often. I don’t TRY to make people like me. I’m so lonely even if “everyone loves me”. But really people just tell me I belong to the streets. Or that I’m a bitch or a home wrecker. It’s terrible. People you thought you trusted talk bad about you and I’d give it all up in a second if I could.
She’s beautiful She’s extroverted She’s talented She’s smart She’s happy She’s loved She’s kind She’s popular She’s fair skinned She’s a people person She’s not hated by anyone Shes perfect And. She’s everything I’m not but want to be. But what hurts really deep Is that I‘m her heather.
And someone sees ypu as their heather friend and thinks you are so lucky :) Just wait the right person for you isnt looking for your heather friend the right person sees you as heather and will make you feel so happy :) Just wait and with time you will find the Person for you!
That lucky friend of yours is probably hiding feelings. Shes probably having it very tough but shes not showing how shes struggling. Ppl see me as the ”heather” and i wish they knew but i cant tell them. Theyll think im annoying, asking for attention and drama. So i basically sucking it up and moving on but i keep on coming back to this place where this wave of negattive thoughts crush me. have a nice day, xx~🥰
My best friend is a "Heather" but her life at home is just horrible, she lives with sexist and abusive ppl, but at school she's the pretty, nice and intelligent girl(and some other people) are jealous of her, she could've been popular but she prefers to be with me, im not jealous or her at all I just want her to be okay :(
This is the nicest version of any song I've heard in a long time. I can literally feel all my stress from the past week fading away and becoming a blur.
my ex would come to me for girl advice and he would tell me he had a girlfriend and i would give him the right and good advice because i'm a nice person but the whole time i did, i was crying so yea.
“why would you ever kiss me, i’m not even half as pretty” hits different when his ex is beautiful and he didn’t lose feelings for her like he lost feelings for you
i’m sorry love... this sadly hit way too close to home for me as well and i definitely went through the same thing :( i hope you’re having an amazing and blessed day and continuing on having those ❤️
I'm lying on my bed, staring at the ceiling. The thought of my crush floods into my head. I can feel my heart beating faster and louder as I envision us spending time together. Watching movies together, cycling together, living together, laughing together. The thought of doing everything with her is just so exciting!! I can't wait anymore, I'm going to tell her how I feel. Wish me LUCKK!!!! This song is my motivation!!!
Song hits different when everyone is asleep and you're just trying to cry quietly cause you hate being seen while crying and nonstop asked "Are you okay" because you're embarrassed.
@@rivvszn hey hey hey u know what? Idk what you've been trough but I'm just 1 year older than you and.. Well to be honest I am scared aswell, but let me tell you living worth it, even if it sounds cliché or just and excuse to not think that way, living worth every second and in my opinion if u wanna rest in peace you should first enjoy all the things you still haven't seen, fall and stand, you know, all that shit. But yeah, you worth it and sorry for the long message, I just don't want you to think that nobody will miss u just because you are another person in this world full of humans. So yeah, I never take the time to do this but you should take a time to think about how good would it be to do all the things you dreamed about, hope u change your mind ❤️
Are you okay? I’m here if you ever need to talk. I know life is hard, and everyone may tell you this, but it will get better, I hate when people say “same” they don’t really know what your going through. I’m here for you. I care about you. You belong here.
I’m always here for you, you can dm me on insta if you ever need to talk or anything (@maddy_stc) :) i and a ton of other people love you so much and you’re so strong for going through all of that. I don’t want to offend you if you’re not religious/of a different religion but God has a plan for you and He’s going to get you through this and He loves you more than words can describe too.
Everytime I hear this song I remember when my crush/boy bsf (we knew each other since the day I entered kindergarten) gave me the wrong signals and I thought he liked me, but was too scared to tell him my feelings so I waited for him to make the move. One day he asked me to help him to get to know this one girl, it was none other then my girl bsf And they both have feelings for each other. They are married now:)
Loved him for four years, confessed and he rejected me, yet somehow still friends. I still have feelings, and we're pretty close, but I don't wanna confess anymore, I'll probably just get hurt
he is gay the song is about him liking a guy who has kinda shown he likes him but the guy he likes is with heather. Sorry if I came off as rude I don't mean too
And then they ask if your okay and faking a smile you say of course not, but they laugh thinking your were joking. But in reality the moment you are behind closed doors you break down and your smile goes away. It leaves you with only tears and sadness while you are crumpled up on the floor trying to think of how you got there.
This really made me realize that “my Heather” is my best friend. She’s beautiful, kind, funny, and overall just the best kind of person. Everyone loves her so much, my friends and everyone I know will always choose her over me. I can’t even hate her because I would too, she’s just that perfect.
U just said what I was about to say she is my best friend for 10 years I can't hate her at all I would give her my world but shit she is my Heather 😭😭😭
" she's got you as mesmerized while I cry. " " How can I hate her she's such an angel " " Wish I were heather. " " I'm not even half as pretty. " Those lyrics hit hard
both comments actually happened to me today, but the worst part is that she might know that I like her but can't do much bcs it's not mutual, after everyone saying that they looked like a couple she came towards me after and hugged me, I told her that I didn't said anything, she said that she knew like she deep inside knew what I felt.
_“Seeing your crush falling in love with someone has mixed feelings._ _You feel happy because they have someone who makes them happy, makes their heart race, puts true smiles on their faces._ *_But you feel disappointed that you’re not that person.”_*
That’s happening to me. My crush dating my friend and a couple days later I told him I liked him but yet they are still acting like a normal couple and he knows I like him.. Every day my wish is to become the person he is dating. I’m broken now
me too! you’re not alone. i got my heart broken and now i feel like i’m not good enough for anyone to even want to date me and if they did that it could never last.. but we can get through it!
I have commitment issues due to trauma :’) fun times. Luckily my now boyfriend is helping me through it and Im definitely not feeling the anxiety of staying with him that I do with other people. He’s just right. 💕
god this song takes me back. it’s only been a year or two, but it feels so different but in the some way the same. it’s crazy to think though, how chapped my lips were then, how little i showered, how much i starved or binged. how little or how heavily i rested. my life was just empty and i saw nothing. i felt horrible and disgusted with everything about me. unworthy of any love. now it’s a little different, but in some way i always revert back to the same thoughts no matter what i do. just different habits. i still see nothing, just feel less empty. it’s crazy how long pain can last. it makes me worry that it’ll never go, i’ll never have that peace. so, i just live everyday of my life one after another. if anyone’s reading though thanks for reading my thoughts, it may seem empty but it’ll fill up eventually, whatever void it may feel like. there’s an ending to this and we’ll find it together. you got this, strangers across the internet but that doesn’t make you any less important. you got this, best wishes.
This hit different at night when you’re crying and having a break down while doing you’re homework so you’re mother dosent call you useless and puts you down
Slime Reflection im sorry this happens to u, it happens to me too always and i hate it cause she makes me feel bad abt not caring abt school and literally anything at this point but like its not really my fault that i have no motivation for anything and i feel like shit constantly. i hope youre doing well, you are truly amazing pls dont let anyone tell u otherwise. u r smart and very pretty and u can do this, whatever u r going thru (if u are) u can overcome it. its not easy and it wont be ever but its worth it. i love you.
@@sushitrash8008 i feel you. i dont feel motivated to do anything at all and especially when im at school, i cant absorb anything im taught. i really try to but i just cant. idk, the motivation to study just isnt there. and my mother is constantly comparing me, putting me down, blaming me for things. and i really feel shitty, i dont feel like theres hope for me in the future anymore. with how im coping with school/study/exams and my family, i dont think im gonna do well in the future. it terrifies me sooooooo much
Everyone is here talking about their crushed hearts, but I’m crying because I’m scared of love, it’s broken me too much already, and now I’m even more afraid
For any of y'all that are feeling down about your love life, just know that I used to feel like you do now. I felt ugly and undeserving, I had my heart broken multiple times and were scared to go out into the dating life again. Then I met this boy. He found me, he reached out to me and made me feel better. We're now married with a gorgeous little son. He turned my depressed life around in a way I never knew was possible. But it is possible. There is someone out there for you, someone that is just waiting to love you and make you feel your best. Just hang in there, know that you are enough. Life can change so quickly, you just have to get through those tough times. Try to be that person that someone needs and always be yourself. I love you all, I'm certain that you will find the one for you ❤️
POV: you're in love with you're best friend but he's dating someone and all you want is for him to be happy even though it hurts you. Also you accidentally got him and his girlfriend together and now you wish there was something that you could've done to make that not happen but you know that he's in love with someone else and now you're trying to get over him
Sucks when ur best friend is heather and she’s slowly slipping away from you, getting boyfriends and more friends and falling in love when you can’t seem to do any of that. She’s getting bored of me. Edit: great to see everybody reaching out and sharing their stories and offering support in the replies. You guys are great, really. Thank you.
I had a freind like that, he was super extroverted and outgoing unlike me. But soon he became even more distant, not replying to dms and stuff, rarely hanging out, validating me at one moment and treating me like shit the next. I saw his stories hanging out with cool guys and girls. And i realised that i wasnt worth his time and attention, so i did the same to him, i didnt reply to his dms and didnt accept his once in a blue moon hangout invite and eventually cut him out completely. I got to make better and new freinds worked on my skills as a person. And lifes been way better. Dont limit urself with an productive relationship with another person. Trust me she/he is not worth it.
Am I the only one who doesn't even cry anymore lately? Just no emotions, pure emptiness. Edit: it hurts to see how many people relate to this, I hope y'all get better one day...
yeah, same. that was me until just recently, usually something will happen and all my feelings are pushed out and i breakdown. then i continue to hide my feelings and go on empty until i break down again.
yes. the girl heather was known as the ‘angel’ and was just so perfect Inside and out you literally couldn’t come to hate her because she was so perfect, but she didn’t realise that. Everyone is perfect even when you think your not, your worth more than gold. never doubt yourself.
SugaAnd Spice girl the ‘heather’ in the song was a girl that was so perfect inside and out, she was like an angel. He says he wishes she was dead because she was so mesmerising and perfect
This song hits hard, I like this guy, and sometimes we talk, well not so much anymore he's becoming more distant, and I always see him talking to another girl and waking from class to class with her sometimes..
So true ..I always think that why the people in the internet are so nice than the people I meet in real life but then I think they are also the same with the people in their life ...im just guessing
Can’t relate to the crush thing, but for me ”heather” is my older sister. Everyone loves her, my dad especially. It’s so stupid to feel this way but everyone likes her and I’m just a second thought. We could do the same thing and she would be praised for it, while no one would tell me good job or anything. I try so hard for their acceptance and approval, but they just ignore me and every good thing I do. What a fucking waste to graduate with honors and shit all so my parents can not even acknowledge all my hard work and effort. I guess it doesn’t matter though, because if she didn’t do it, it’s not up to their standards.
AugustusD stay strong gorgeous! i’m so proud of u for graduating and with HONORS girl u have set the bar so high i’m so happy for u. like i said, stay strong beautiful!!
Awe im so sorry to hear that!! You are so amazing, i can tell you have worked really hard. And even though your parents may not recognize your worth, god does. He know how hard you have worked and how much you have been through. Just wait, he has such an amazing future planned for you. 💕 i hope you realize how great you are, and that you dont owe anyone anything, not even your parents. I pray for you ❤️
I love how the song ends in a “I wish I were..” without saying heather, in a way leaving the listener in charge of whose name goes in the “space” depending on our “Heather” stories.
sarah it says the meaning of the name in the song, so that’s not true. That’s like me saying I’m depressed because I’m sad, I’m not depressed I’m just sad.
but the songs describes her as a sight for sore eyes and an angel, and saying that he isnt even half as pretty, so it can also mean that someone is pretty
@@wtfexza well it makes sense. You can literally create the perfect person (for you). You dont have to fall in "love with them" their just crushes. But if its cringe to you then that's fine.
@@wtfexzait's not cringe. let people be themselves, they're hurting no one. get a job rather than judging random people on the internet and irl as well
pov: your sitting on your bed late at night listening to this song. your windows are open. you don’t even realize but tears are streaming down your face because you can relate to every line. as your engulfed by your tears, a cool nighttime breeze comes through and you get chills.. at this moment you wish you that sweater instead of her/him (this is me atm lmao)
Heather isn’t just a pretty face and a perfect body She’s the girl who is living the life you’ve always wanted she’s the girl who everyone likes better But she’s also the most insecure girl and to her WE ARE all the heathers not her
Yup.. except what’s worse is that she has good mental health (my heather).. she doesn’t have any heathers. I want to be like her- it hurts being her best friend bc I can’t stop comparing myself and idk what to do
Heather isn’t just a pretty face Heather is the girl whos perfect, who everyone loves, and you should love her too. But you can’t. She broke you without meaning to you have no reason to be mad at her but you still are. all because the person you like, likes her better.
i made a soundcloud !! here’s a link for this song- soundcloud.com/elevens_eggos/heather-by-conan-gray-but-its
THANK YOU! I've been trying to find it through SoundCloud
h6ney 🥰
I LOVE YOU. THANK YOU
Marina i’m not sure how to 😳
if anyone can tell me how i’ll for sure put it up :)
hearing your crush saying they like someone else is one of the most painful things ever
jesus christ nothing but facts 😔🤕
When you had a chance with your crush and then blew it and then they go out with your best friend :/
Ghostly Tea i feel this... so much...
@@ava07marie yup.. or like play every frigging girl infront of you smh..
For real...
if you listen close you can hear me crying
KLIM crying party??
You okay bro it’s just sounds like full on sobbing
Feet Foot i’m joininh
I feel the same ...can I join ?
Can I come?
"not even half as pretty" that crushed me. that hurt.
That hit me like a bus...
Hit harder than my mom
same dude
Same man, I wish people could have a little more confidence in themselves and stopped comparing themselves to others, everyone is so beautiful but nowadays, some people just seem so fixed on being the replica of another person, why does society have such standards? :(
Sunny Bunny 𝓼𝓪𝓶𝓮 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓶𝔂 𝓶𝓸𝓶 𝓼𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓷𝓰 𝓪𝓼𝓵
When your there for everyone. But no one is there for you , especially when you need them.
relate butto-
relatable.
God loves you ❤❤❤
it’s worse when heather doesn’t even like him back
god dang this comment got me
it would be even more worse if Heather loved you/conan
frhgetgjuhfthgrfehfhrtwkdbhggh mood
heather doesn’t even like him but he still has a hope, like i do
imagine heather doesnt like him because she likes you and its all a love triangle where no one gets what they want
The fact that “heather” isn’t a specific person hurts. It’s just anyone but me.
it’ll get better i promise
Oh sis
me, it brings back all the memories of people I thought were my friends telling me kys and not as a joke they said the world would be better if I was gone. And then when anyone says anything suicidal they say don’t and supports them. It also reminds me of my emotionally abusive and alcoholic father, everyone thinks my life is perfect just because I hide behind a smile everyday and they don’t know fucking anything about me. Then when I say I need to talk as cause I’ve tried to commit suicide hey tell me people have bigger issues than wha I’m going through. It hurts. Just because someone is smiling does not mean they are mentally ok. I’m sorry if I’ve wasted ur time but it feels like no one understands.
I'll always be second best, and no matter how hard I try, I'll never be anyone's first priority.
@@zhyza someday, you'll be someone's number one, don't give up♡
"But how could I hate her, she's such an angel"
I've never related to something this much.
Same..
Love is shit
like you cant't hate her because she is literally the nicest person on earth, but you wish you could because it would be easier.
this.
now.. why cant everyone be this sweet 🥺
to everyone who's still listening to this, i promise things will get better. i remember listening to this in 2020, my heart as heavy as the waters and head muffled with thoughts of sadness. but, now looking back, i have come so far. not only have i fought over depression, but i believe that you guys can do it too. realise the power within yourself, you are loved, you are perfect, you are amazing.
As a person who is actually in depression.. Thank you!-
@@aliahsrosesme too...this means a lot.
I too watched this exact video back in 2020, feeling like how you describe. Feels so bittersweet to come back to it🥹
Life does get better too! And you learn and evolve soo much, those feelings wont last forever!❤️
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😔😔 Thank you very much
It truly is sad to realize that everyone around you is a Heather, low self esteem sucks.
agreed
it's more like we all think anyone else but us is heather. People could think you're the heather and you cloud never know.
ikr
it does.
so many pretty girls everywhere and when your just below average looking- it hurts, like it actually stings:/
“Why would you ever kiss me? I’m not even half as pretty.” Hits hard.
But he never did kiss me... only her.
mypie90 well he’s stupid for not kissing you,I’ll tell you that.
@@mypie9035 same sis :)
@@mypie9035 k u didnt have to hit so close to home BSHSBDBDB
yea he kissed me and then went back to her... I always cared more but he only wanted her
it hurts worse when “she” isn’t a real person. he wants someone he doesn’t even know yet. but he doesn’t want me
FELT
my crush is straight and fell for someone gay..
Same he's waiting for that "girl" and I know that girl isn't me 😂
제이Red oh no, im sry for urs darling 🥺
He just hates me, and loves to let me know :/
I don't wanna be the friend that everyone can just throw away when they get tired or bored of me anymore
I don't even have friends, being a top student they just approach me for their benefits and I notice it immediately. Everyone just knows me as an introvert who is an exceptional student,no one wants to get to know me
i already am, i don’t want to be anymore, i hurts knowing they can drop me js because their bored of me
One day they'll realise what they'd lost🙂
I can feel you, the same is happening with me. It hurts very bad when everyone talking about their friends and you dont even have one@@Veronika_ere
Hopefully.
"How could I hate her? she's such an angel" okay, that hits...
Victor with a V i felt that in my soul. i had that moment.
this
Wow, it had more likes than expected, I take advantage of the moment to say that I upload videos every saturday, i'd really appreciate if you subscribed❤
I'm just starting, but I promise that I will keep being constant.
frl 😣
hits even harder when you know she's not an angel, but that person thinks so and it's too late to change that
_"I'm not even half as pretty"_
Is the one line that hurts the most
Peku G i agree :(
The main part hurts 😔
For real but has he seen himself!! He's so gorgeous😍
right
yep, literally stings :/
"why would you ever kiss me,I'm not even half as pretty" that stabbed me in the heart
Emily sorry but I’m a bit new to Conan... but is this song about a guy liking a girl, but that girl likes another girl?
@@f.lou23 pretty much yes, but it could also be a guy liking another guy, but this guy likes a girl
it isn't really clear ig
same
Oh yeah same
Faye Javi Well i like to think it’s about Conan and another boy but he hasn’t confirmed his sexuality so it’s unsure. that’s alright tho bc i don’t think any of his real fans would want him to feel pressured into coming out (if he is Bi)
"she walks by , what a sight for sore eyes" hits hard and i feel that :)
I miss my childhood with no worries about almost everything
Vanii enjoy it:/ Ik you hear that a lot and that’s what everyone says. But as you get older it feels you don’t get the same love and comfort from people:/
@@simper4565
At the risk of sounding like a creep, you've got love from us. We may never meet, but I'll still think of you. ^^
And.... hang in there, okay? Do your best to enjoy your life right now, despite the circumstances. You'll find yourself wanting to return to this time when you're older.
Yo same :/
I don't miss my childhood...i miss what my childhood could have been.. :/
@@simper4565 and the hardest part of being a kid (9-12) in 2020 everybody thinks that theyre all just on their phone and smoking, drinking energy etc its really sad
It sucks when “heather” is your best friend, but instead it’s not just him who likes her better, it’s everyone
Dude that hit hard
Maya V I feel that
Why is that so true?
My crush replaced me with my best friend...my crush and i were like sweethearts we were being shipped by everyone before but now hes cold to me like it seems like i am no one
I feel bad because I am the heather to my friend. She said she didn’t like the boy anymore and I stared liking him and then we dated after that. A couple months later she told me how much it hurt to see us together. I had no clue since she said she didn’t like him anymore and started liking another guy (or so that’s just what she said) and I still feel guilty. She was so supportive and wanted us together so bad and I guess she was lying a bit which makes me a bit upset. but man, I’m totally in love with him
the rain in the backround is the sound of everyone’s tears falling on the ground
Yeah
oh sorry those are just mine
you got that right
nope not crying :/
a LOT of tears 😔
hits so much harder when you have someone to think about while listening and can relate :/
fr, whether it’s about you crush or a Heather 😔
I regret doing what I did, I hate to admit it, but I still like him
i always find my self going back to this song and i have no clue why
its a bop >:D
Bc you wanna be heather bitch 😂
I wanna be Heather and Conan at the same time
me neither. i don’t even miss him. i really don’t. but it’s just so true to that old situation of mine.
Same.
"i'm not even half as pretty" hit harder than my moms chancla.
:(
thank u for making me chuckling 🥺🖤✨ it helped :’)
@@alexcurrieee2268 no problem :))
I felt that on a spiritual level-
Natalie _Joyce pfft
*I feel everyone in the comments should meet up and have a crying party ngl*
Please 😔
My house this monday. Yall beter show
def i need it 😭😔
yess lets have one on zoom ;(
ON ZOOM
Dont even get me started on, "looks don't matter".
No, Jennifer with blonde hair, blue eyes. Perfect curves, hairless, mentally stable with a rich\healthy family.
They do. They absolutely do.
Tbh blonde hair is overrated
@@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA nah
@@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Fr like the girls could be so ugly( not to be rude ) but still are able to get guys all because they are blonde
@random doggo well, isn’t that just a stereotype for woman in general? Usually the common stereotype is dumb blonde.
@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA that's not fair tho
This hurts when your best friend and everyone around you IS Heather.
• M a d s • yep.
my closest friends are the prettiest girls in my grade but i’m not. they’ve all dated or had things wit boys and i’m just there like 👁👁
YESSS
@@mariiiiiiiiuahhha SAMEEEEE
you are perfect just the way you are and i bet you are heather
“heather is just anyone but me” -comment that I relate to.
I don’t know who you are and you do t have to reply but I think that you are beautiful inside and out and I’ve never even seen you. If you wanna make a friend my insta is berk_phoque ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Could i be your friend too?
I been exposed.
I wanna like this comment but it has 666 likes
did i comment this on someone else's account or does someone actually relate to me?
Everyone’s talking about missing other people, I just miss myself.
k this comment hit😖
This comment hits hard when you slowly became heather and lost your self and now you'r stuck being the perfect heather for every one and not knowing your real self becouse you lost it in the long run
hoor alsalehi that was me but kinda the opposite of a heather, i was rude and obnoxious and then when my friend group told me to stop talking to them, i snapped back to reality and a few days ago i managed to get the two that were my closest friends back!
thank you god and you graciousness!
I constantly miss my old self everyday. Every breath I take is different, I want the past back but at the same time I don’t.
Mood. this lowkey hit me hard.
i guess it just seems like she’s got everything she wants. she’s got a beautiful face. perfect hair. perfect eyes. model like nose. perfect lips, eyes. everything. everyone knows her. she’s nice and kind and the ones that are friends with her always talk about how amazing she is. her outfits are amazing. she has a big friend group. she’s got perfect grades. she’s in advanced classes. she does sports. she’s got a little sibling. she’s got a dad. a dad that doesn’t belittle her every two seconds. then there’s me. my hair doesn’t work. it’s a frizzy mess even if i straighten it. i know every person, but no one knows me. i have one friend. one true friend. but she’s also got someone else. im quiet and shy. ive got the worst anxiety about thr stupidest stuff. cant even get my nails done without having a full blown panic attack. i sit back and just watch, watch how awesome and amazing everyone else is. and then there’s me. how their friends didn’t leave them after the summer. how they never had to sit alone at lunch time. how they don’t care about the food they bring, they don’t stare at it in disgust. they just eat it like any normal person would. but if i were any of them, or her. i wouldn’t have a problem with that stuff either.
i hope everything is ok for you now...i understand how u feel and I 100% relate to you. No one understands I feel and the people I love doesn't seem like they do to me anymore and it's kinda sad.but there are people worse than my condition. No one should feel like me so pls take care and know I will always be there for you
Don't be insecure. It doesn't matter if u think they are prettier or better. You're definitely pretty. Cus the universe is beauty, the things alive and not alive everything is beauty. She is pretty so is u. Set a goal, work hard for it, Don't care what others would think..... Love uuh🫂🤍
i’ve had a crush on him for 4 years . he’s never noticed me, but noticed my bestfriend. I wish i was her .
It the same for me. I’ve liked him for five years, but all he talks about is my best friend. She likes him too. It Hurts
i'm so sorry.
She knew I liked him but still dated him when she didn’t even like him. They have been dating for 6 months. She was my best friend for 8 years but now we don’t talk
Melanie Chairez i’m so so sorry❤️
Caro Q it’s fine. I have gotten over it
The song took the words outta mouth “you like her better” and “why would you ever kiss me. He’ll never kiss me. I’ll always be a shadow, a leaf in the wind, even a pebble in a pond. He’ll always want her.
it takes time but you'll find the right one
and whats the worst in the world is when you’re finally, finally happy, and you still have these thoughts in the back of your head keeping you from letting yourself enjoy the relationship. “what would happen if she wanted him. would he leave me?” and i hate not knowing so i convince myself its true LOL
He’s my best friend. No words could explain how much he means to me. But he only sees me as a friend. Our other friend, she’s just perfect. Pretty. Funny. Everything I’m not. I’m just the supportive best friend to him.
I've been broken hearted 3 times: rejected break up and ghosted.. I feel like I hated myself for being so stupid, ugh it's too sad. This song too sad 😢
ok
"I'm not even half as pretty"
"Ma'am this is a Wendy's drive thru-"
The other comments got me down like T - T and you be here like :P thanks :)
nice comment and amazing pfp bro
I NEEDED TO LAUGH AFTER SEEING SOME OF THEM COMMENTS
( continuing on )
“and what ? IM FUCKEN TRYNA STRAIGHTEN IT DOWN BUT THIS SHIT KEEPS GOIN LIKE WOOP”
order me some milkshakes
*"She's got you mesmerized while I die"*
This. This line over there.
When your crush is having a crush on a person who's just so great and talented at everything while you feel like there's nothing you have to impress your crush... And seeing scenarios like this in real life is just so soul-crushing, this song feels like a pat on your head honestly
I had everything to impress her. We were as close as everyone thought we were actually dating. She was the only person I've ever opened up to (with my mom and dad). I confessed my feelings and it was one of the hardest things to do. She said no and acted like nothing happened. Why ? What did I do wrong ? Am I the problem ?I invited her to prom and I confessed my feelings one more time and same thing happened. I always try to forget her but everytime I hear songs like this all the memories come back in a flash, and it hurts like hell.
@@skanderhadhri6985hey don't worry, you are going to get the best of everything!
here’s a random pov: you’ve grown older yet still can’t forget about them and it’s aching in your mind :)
xxdeadcloudxx xo 🥺
this called me out so hard like i didn’t plan on being attacked through a comment😔🤭Haven’t seen him in almost three years but can’t forget him.
Maliha Noor Halim you’re so kind 🥺
Ari ana it’ll be okay ♡
damn i really got called out
"I'm not even half as pretty" hits me so hard..
: ( same...
yup
fr
ur gorgeous
😔
*"how could i hate her? shes such an angel."*
When you know she doesn't deserve the hatred your feeling cause its not even her fault
that hits hard
this.
Yes ! Expecially you can't hate her cause she's your friend
onedirectiontooka chonce best friend
@@annabella._s4650 yeah and I can't hate her cause it's not her fault :(( but it still hurts like hell....
This hits harder when he is the only one keeping you happy
then they just disapear..
@@Noobsarecoolya123like its the most easiest thing to do in the world.
Heather is not the famous or popular girl- she is “an angel.” She is not only beautiful but kind.
its not just her looks, shes always first choice
No heather is the person ur crush chooses over Instead of you sadly
@@kalynnewillis yeah but not just that- heather is someone who's so nice you can't bring yourself to hate them because they're just that sweet. it's not just the popular person, or the person your crush chooses over you.
THANK you so much for saying this. i knew a girl who this song reminds me exactly of. a kind, humble, beautiful girl, her name was emily doucette. i never knew her too well personally, but you could just t e l l when such a good person like that exists
She's the one around you that always seems perfect..
everyone in the comments has a “heather” friend and it’s just... sigh.
I have "heather" cousin... kill me pls
No. The problem is I am the heather friend. And all of my “friends” hate me because of it. I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. I don’t ask for the people they like to like me?! They don’t know how bad it hurts. I lose so many friendships because I have to tell people I don’t like them. Or I lose friendships because my friends find out the person they like likes me. It’s so hard. I would trade everything for friends who don’t hate me. For only the one person I like to like me.
I’m sorry you feel like this. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I would never know how it feels, and I don’t want to compare our experiences. But I do know I experience something that hurts almost just as much, if not more.
It’s not fun having everyone “love” you. Because in reality they don’t. And it hurts and I’m so sorry. I would never choose to be this person. I would give it all up. I’m so so sorry. My heart breaks every time I lose a friend. And it happens so often. I don’t TRY to make people like me. I’m so lonely even if “everyone loves me”. But really people just tell me I belong to the streets. Or that I’m a bitch or a home wrecker. It’s terrible. People you thought you trusted talk bad about you and I’d give it all up in a second if I could.
i’d just like to say i love your profile, stan jikyu.
it's worse when there is no heather and they just don't like you .
is worse seeing him inlove with another person
@@fabyiraheta911 agree, even if he talks about her :(
That's rough buddy
@@calebrobinson845 zuko, what are you doing here?
:(
She’s beautiful
She’s extroverted
She’s talented
She’s smart
She’s happy
She’s loved
She’s kind
She’s popular
She’s fair skinned
She’s a people person
She’s not hated by anyone
Shes perfect
And.
She’s everything I’m not but want to be.
But what hurts really deep
Is that I‘m her heather.
I’m sorry 😣
you're her Heather and she's your Heather?
Im tired of being the friend that just has to listen to everyones problems.
So true like I can't even share my problems cuz
same im always there for everyone and no one is for me
so stop giving a fucc, and find your self
All of my vitamins just came out of my eye.
I’m really tired of being so self-conscious about my own mistakes.
I have a “heather” friend..she doesn’t even realize how lucky she is.
And someone sees ypu as their heather friend and thinks you are so lucky :) Just wait the right person for you isnt looking for your heather friend the right person sees you as heather and will make you feel so happy :) Just wait and with time you will find the Person for you!
She probably doesn't realise it, meaning you could be a heather too :)
That lucky friend of yours is probably hiding feelings. Shes probably having it very tough but shes not showing how shes struggling. Ppl see me as the ”heather” and i wish they knew but i cant tell them. Theyll think im annoying, asking for attention and drama. So i basically sucking it up and moving on but i keep on coming back to this place where this wave of negattive thoughts crush me. have a nice day, xx~🥰
My best friend is a "Heather" but her life at home is just horrible, she lives with sexist and abusive ppl, but at school she's the pretty, nice and intelligent girl(and some other people) are jealous of her, she could've been popular but she prefers to be with me, im not jealous or her at all I just want her to be okay :(
same but her life is so good. good parents, good grades, new friends and all the boys want her. can’t relate
Crying over someone who doesn’t care or think about me is difficult.
ik this isnt related to the situation but I love the pro piccc!!
Yup😔
Leilani Mua thank you! ✨
Relatable
I just wanna hug her so bad :"
This is the nicest version of any song I've heard in a long time. I can literally feel all my stress from the past week fading away and becoming a blur.
this hits different when someone u love slowly falls out of your life and watch them fall in love from a far
or they are still in your life and you lie to them to make yourself happy while tearing your world apart.
I can see that happening but it’ll be okay I’ll end things when that happens
Just happened to me yesterday 🥴💔
Lucky you mine aren’t real
Felt
imagine ur crush coming to u for advice for another guy lol this sucks.
my ex came to me for advice on the new girl he was talking to, i’m pretty sure it was just to rub it in :)
my ex would come to me for girl advice and he would tell me he had a girlfriend and i would give him the right and good advice because i'm a nice person but the whole time i did, i was crying so yea.
im sorry :( keep your head up
....my crush texted me everyday for advice on how to get with his crush (._.)
my crush did that to me lol
“why would you ever kiss me, i’m not even half as pretty” hits different when his ex is beautiful and he didn’t lose feelings for her like he lost feelings for you
i’m sorry love... this sadly hit way too close to home for me as well and i definitely went through the same thing :( i hope you’re having an amazing and blessed day and continuing on having those ❤️
Elizabeth Diaz aw i’m sorry 🥺but same i hope you’re doing well :) ❤️
i’m sorry for what you guys have been through i know it’s hard 🥺 i’m just glad i’m not alone ❤️
I'm lying on my bed, staring at the ceiling. The thought of my crush floods into my head. I can feel my heart beating faster and louder as I envision us spending time together. Watching movies together, cycling together, living together, laughing together. The thought of doing everything with her is just so exciting!! I can't wait anymore, I'm going to tell her how I feel. Wish me LUCKK!!!! This song is my motivation!!!
Eee thats what i always thought about her, but it turns out she likes my bsf, Big L
💕
How'd it went?
How did it go??
For all it’s worth,good luck
Song hits different when everyone is asleep and you're just trying to cry quietly cause you hate being seen while crying and nonstop asked "Are you okay" because you're embarrassed.
Can relate lol , I was crying right now at 11:46 pm.
Did you just read my mind?
Hits even more different when you cried so much that you can't cry
@@bashsusulan2109 OH MY GOD DUDE WHEN I READ THIS IT WAS 11:46 WHAT A COINCIDENCE LOLL SIRI JUST SO COOL
@@yunimn013 Teehee
psychologist: so what do we do when we feel like this?
me: we stream heather by conan gray bc we deppressi deppressi :)
hey u alright?
It really just be like that I’m not even gonna cap
@@fltophats4386 lmao yes im jk
or paradise by Bazzi idw but crying to that songs a big vibe
I too, am a deppressi deppressi
don’t fall in love. be in love. because everything that falls breaks.
Poetic but hurtful at the same time💔..
damn...
Damn that’s good
"Everything that falls break"
Nokia: *pathetic.*
Maybe that’s why I’m broken
It's so painful when someone fills you with love and then leaves
This guy: Finds a way to make Heather EVEN sadder
Everyone: Wait what-
it’s a girl...
@karina w - ...
Ginger how about 'they' ?
@meme review - 😳
@@karinaw4585 guy is gender-neutral as far as I'm concerned
Anyone just in bed thinking why is life so fucked up.
I do it on the regular
every night
Right here💃😭
Casually
@@rivvszn hey hey hey u know what? Idk what you've been trough but I'm just 1 year older than you and.. Well to be honest I am scared aswell, but let me tell you living worth it, even if it sounds cliché or just and excuse to not think that way, living worth every second and in my opinion if u wanna rest in peace you should first enjoy all the things you still haven't seen, fall and stand, you know, all that shit. But yeah, you worth it and sorry for the long message, I just don't want you to think that nobody will miss u just because you are another person in this world full of humans. So yeah, I never take the time to do this but you should take a time to think about how good would it be to do all the things you dreamed about, hope u change your mind ❤️
When your friends says “same” to almost everything u say so you can’t talk to them about how suicidal you feel
This happens everytime with me :)
Are you okay? I’m here if you ever need to talk. I know life is hard, and everyone may tell you this, but it will get better, I hate when people say “same” they don’t really know what your going through. I’m here for you. I care about you. You belong here.
I’m always here for you, you can dm me on insta if you ever need to talk or anything (@maddy_stc) :) i and a ton of other people love you so much and you’re so strong for going through all of that. I don’t want to offend you if you’re not religious/of a different religion but God has a plan for you and He’s going to get you through this and He loves you more than words can describe too.
i know how you feel *sigh*
yesss
Everytime I hear this song I remember when my crush/boy bsf (we knew each other since the day I entered kindergarten) gave me the wrong signals and I thought he liked me, but was too scared to tell him my feelings so I waited for him to make the move.
One day he asked me to help him to get to know this one girl, it was none other then my girl bsf And they both have feelings for each other.
They are married now:)
That means that he wasn't the one for you,you will definitely meet the right person when the time comes
God iam going through the same now. Hope you find the right one❤
You will find someone else. I'm sorry though
i mean, loving him sucks, but knowing he will never return the feeling is worse.
yup.
Yeah... I like this guy but he never texts me first...
i felt that. but we both deserve better❤️ we got this!
i felt that but more like “i mean, loving him sucks,but knowing he will never return is worse.” 3 months since we last talked....
Loved him for four years, confessed and he rejected me, yet somehow still friends. I still have feelings, and we're pretty close, but I don't wanna confess anymore, I'll probably just get hurt
it sucks when “heather” isn’t a real person, it’s just the idea of a girl. i don’t have a chance, im trans masc and he’s straight.
isnt he gay
aylin yiğiter not conan, someone i know personally
Mafuyu ( ◜‿◝ )♡ hanging in there!!!
he is gay the song is about him liking a guy who has kinda shown he likes him but the guy he likes is with heather. Sorry if I came off as rude I don't mean too
A Singer yea i know, i relate to it personally and that’s what i was talking about :)
„We can be more than friends.... best friends“
Ouch.
Biiiig ouch
**flashbacks to jaehee’s route in mysmes**
This hurt's..
stay strong king 😿
That's my case
lyric
Tysmm
Thankkyouu❤
Angel💟💟🤍
i like how my mom used to warn me about the internet, that apperently everyone there was evil, but now the internet are the ones to comfort me
i relate so much omg
yo this hit hard
True
It's a both for me.
literally.
for everyone in the comments, don’t worry, one day you’ll become someone’s heather. i know it.
thanks jisas
Amen 🙏🏻
thank you jesus
Thanks, jesus
I DONT WANNA RUIN SOMEONE ELSE’S RELATIONSHIP OR TAKE SOMEONE’S CRUSH AWAY FROM THEM
Pov: the funny friend that is broken inside but no one knows.
I can relate.
This is me in a sentence
ik. most of my friends are too blind and caught up with everything else to realize
And then they ask if your okay and faking a smile you say of course not, but they laugh thinking your were joking. But in reality the moment you are behind closed doors you break down and your smile goes away. It leaves you with only tears and sadness while you are crumpled up on the floor trying to think of how you got there.
This comment made me tear up 🥺
•́ ‿ ,•̀
god i remember when this was posted, loved the song just because, now i’m back again and have a reason to cry over it 😻🤞🏽
This really made me realize that “my Heather” is my best friend. She’s beautiful, kind, funny, and overall just the best kind of person. Everyone loves her so much, my friends and everyone I know will always choose her over me. I can’t even hate her because I would too, she’s just that perfect.
relatable
Can relate
Minimum Effort same
U just said what I was about to say she is my best friend for 10 years I can't hate her at all I would give her my world but shit she is my Heather 😭😭😭
Felt that!!
i don’t have a “heather” story but i still want to be whoever she is
Same sis
I would like mine to have a happy ending
callie ketchum don’t compare yourself your perfect!
you're lucky
@@tasha-gb3oq Nope
" she's got you as mesmerized while I cry. "
" How can I hate her she's such an angel "
" Wish I were heather. "
" I'm not even half as pretty. "
Those lyrics hit hard
the lyrics is actually “she’s got you mesmerized while i die” so it makes everything more painful.
@@vivi-kj4ce OOH I heard cry ty for telling me
hits different when you are in love with them for years but then find out they actually have someone they like...and its someone you know
I guess She really like her(R) and
They flirt with each other I front of me
both comments actually happened to me today, but the worst part is that she might know that I like her but can't do much bcs it's not mutual, after everyone saying that they looked like a couple she came towards me after and hugged me, I told her that I didn't said anything, she said that she knew like she deep inside knew what I felt.
@@Kaii-_- one sided love is the worst istg
_“Seeing your crush falling in love with someone has mixed feelings._
_You feel happy because they have someone who makes them happy, makes their heart race, puts true smiles on their faces._
*_But you feel disappointed that you’re not that person.”_*
I never knew it. But I was the third wheel to my crush and friend.
This is why I don't fall in love with people.
See im gonna be honest im gay but this guy has a girlfriend
That’s happening to me. My crush dating my friend and a couple days later I told him I liked him but yet they are still acting like a normal couple and he knows I like him.. Every day my wish is to become the person he is dating. I’m broken now
Relatable.
' how could i hate her, she is such an angel ' hurts more when the heather is your bestfriend
it's not about love cause love won't break anything but comparing and falling out does
My bf likes my bestie so like this hit different and like set me off into teats
Tears
sht
Ikr
everyone’s talking about there crushes but who’s just scared of commitment and being in love in general? :/
me too! you’re not alone. i got my heart broken and now i feel like i’m not good enough for anyone to even want to date me and if they did that it could never last.. but we can get through it!
Georgia Hall hopefully, also hope you’re good! we’re strong!!!
I have commitment issues due to trauma :’) fun times. Luckily my now boyfriend is helping me through it and Im definitely not feeling the anxiety of staying with him that I do with other people. He’s just right. 💕
yeah, i just cant imagine being together with someone for years because what if i get tired of them? im scared of liking someone
AllieTheOtaku im sorry to hear that and i’m glad you’re happy! keep your head up💘
god this song takes me back. it’s only been a year or two, but it feels so different but in the some way the same. it’s crazy to think though, how chapped my lips were then, how little i showered, how much i starved or binged. how little or how heavily i rested. my life was just empty and i saw nothing. i felt horrible and disgusted with everything about me. unworthy of any love. now it’s a little different, but in some way i always revert back to the same thoughts no matter what i do. just different habits. i still see nothing, just feel less empty. it’s crazy how long pain can last. it makes me worry that it’ll never go, i’ll never have that peace. so, i just live everyday of my life one after another.
if anyone’s reading though thanks for reading my thoughts, it may seem empty but it’ll fill up eventually, whatever void it may feel like. there’s an ending to this and we’ll find it together. you got this, strangers across the internet but that doesn’t make you any less important. you got this, best wishes.
How are you doing now? At the moment I'm practically the same as you were.
This hit different at night when you’re crying and having a break down while doing you’re homework so you’re mother dosent call you useless and puts you down
Slime Reflection im sorry this happens to u, it happens to me too always and i hate it cause she makes me feel bad abt not caring abt school and literally anything at this point but like its not really my fault that i have no motivation for anything and i feel like shit constantly. i hope youre doing well, you are truly amazing pls dont let anyone tell u otherwise. u r smart and very pretty and u can do this, whatever u r going thru (if u are) u can overcome it. its not easy and it wont be ever but its worth it. i love you.
Hey I wish you didn’t feel like that. If you wanna talk my snap is sweet_jay10
I want to hug you🙁
@@sushitrash8008 i feel you. i dont feel motivated to do anything at all and especially when im at school, i cant absorb anything im taught. i really try to but i just cant. idk, the motivation to study just isnt there. and my mother is constantly comparing me, putting me down, blaming me for things. and i really feel shitty, i dont feel like theres hope for me in the future anymore. with how im coping with school/study/exams and my family, i dont think im gonna do well in the future. it terrifies me sooooooo much
Is you me????
Everyone is here talking about their crushed hearts, but I’m crying because I’m scared of love, it’s broken me too much already, and now I’m even more afraid
same girl
i realized that i’m here to make ppl to feel loved but i’m not able to receive love from anyone else. i believe their is a love for everyone but me.
I got rejected by my crush before because it's so awkward now I don't want to talk to her anymore I'm just pretending to be happy but inside I'm broke
For any of y'all that are feeling down about your love life, just know that I used to feel like you do now. I felt ugly and undeserving, I had my heart broken multiple times and were scared to go out into the dating life again. Then I met this boy. He found me, he reached out to me and made me feel better. We're now married with a gorgeous little son. He turned my depressed life around in a way I never knew was possible. But it is possible. There is someone out there for you, someone that is just waiting to love you and make you feel your best. Just hang in there, know that you are enough. Life can change so quickly, you just have to get through those tough times. Try to be that person that someone needs and always be yourself. I love you all, I'm certain that you will find the one for you ❤️
Simren NASEER i love u too🥺❤️. thank u!!
I didn’t think this song could get any sadder.
It did.
Even when I have nothing in mind, I still cry listening to this song.
POV: you're in love with you're best friend but he's dating someone and all you want is for him to be happy even though it hurts you. Also you accidentally got him and his girlfriend together and now you wish there was something that you could've done to make that not happen but you know that he's in love with someone else and now you're trying to get over him
that happened to me but i eventually got over him :) AFTER 2 YEARS
This just made me cry even more :(
THIS LITERALLY HAPPENED TO ME
who hurt you?...♥️
Genuinely my 2019 lol
everyone talking about their crushes, yet I just want myself back
Same
Relatable.
Same ;-;
I feel you fellow human 😭
@@vanshikha7179 telling a depressed person to stop "overreacting" is like telling a person with cancer to get better ;-;
Sucks when ur best friend is heather and she’s slowly slipping away from you, getting boyfriends and more friends and falling in love when you can’t seem to do any of that. She’s getting bored of me.
Edit: great to see everybody reaching out and sharing their stories and offering support in the replies. You guys are great, really. Thank you.
Same sis...
I had a freind like that, he was super extroverted and outgoing unlike me. But soon he became even more distant, not replying to dms and stuff, rarely hanging out, validating me at one moment and treating me like shit the next. I saw his stories hanging out with cool guys and girls. And i realised that i wasnt worth his time and attention, so i did the same to him, i didnt reply to his dms and didnt accept his once in a blue moon hangout invite and eventually cut him out completely. I got to make better and new freinds worked on my skills as a person. And lifes been way better. Dont limit urself with an productive relationship with another person. Trust me she/he is not worth it.
It's okay.. I'm here for you in the same situation.. 😊
me too
sucks when i used to call heather my sister but now she has someone else and we’re just friends now
listening to this song and reading comments below at same time gives goosebumbs
Am I the only one who doesn't even cry anymore lately? Just no emotions, pure emptiness.
Edit: it hurts to see how many people relate to this, I hope y'all get better one day...
yeah, same. that was me until just recently, usually something will happen and all my feelings are pushed out and i breakdown. then i continue to hide my feelings and go on empty until i break down again.
that's on being apathetic
I think you have depression
It’s the ✨depression✨
I feel that on a whole other level
Heather doesn’t even think she is the “Heather”. You are a Heather in someone’s eyes. Even if you don’t feel it yourself. You are
I wish
Memento Mori You wish people hated you and wanted you dead? How bout we swap lives
This comment made me tear up lol
yes. the girl heather was known as the ‘angel’ and was just so perfect Inside and out you literally couldn’t come to hate her because she was so perfect, but she didn’t realise that. Everyone is perfect even when you think your not, your worth more than gold. never doubt yourself.
SugaAnd Spice girl the ‘heather’ in the song was a girl that was so perfect inside and out, she was like an angel. He says he wishes she was dead because she was so mesmerising and perfect
pov: u listen to this song on repeat whilst reading everyone’s story’s and pov in the comments 🥺
Dude don’t come for me like that
This is the first and only comment I read as of right now and now I’m preparing myself to cry
I’ve been binging the song for a good 3 hours now
fax
It's hurt even more when you're the only one giving all the effort
This song hits hard, I like this guy, and sometimes we talk, well not so much anymore he's becoming more distant, and I always see him talking to another girl and waking from class to class with her sometimes..
Why is it always the people in the internet making us feel better?
Idk but i love it, I'd love to feel better by someone on the internet once
BRO RIGHT
RIGHT
fr 🥺
So true ..I always think that why the people in the internet are so nice than the people I meet in real life but then I think they are also the same with the people in their life ...im just guessing
Can’t relate to the crush thing, but for me ”heather” is my older sister. Everyone loves her, my dad especially. It’s so stupid to feel this way but everyone likes her and I’m just a second thought. We could do the same thing and she would be praised for it, while no one would tell me good job or anything. I try so hard for their acceptance and approval, but they just ignore me and every good thing I do. What a fucking waste to graduate with honors and shit all so my parents can not even acknowledge all my hard work and effort. I guess it doesn’t matter though, because if she didn’t do it, it’s not up to their standards.
AugustusD stay strong gorgeous! i’m so proud of u for graduating and with HONORS girl u have set the bar so high i’m so happy for u. like i said, stay strong beautiful!!
Same here
Awe im so sorry to hear that!! You are so amazing, i can tell you have worked really hard. And even though your parents may not recognize your worth, god does. He know how hard you have worked and how much you have been through. Just wait, he has such an amazing future planned for you. 💕 i hope you realize how great you are, and that you dont owe anyone anything, not even your parents. I pray for you ❤️
i love you
you're perfect. dont let others make you feel otherwise. we love you.
The most painful thing is when everyone “likes you” but no one cares about you.
Yea everybody in my school likes me so they can “borrow“ my stuff they even broke my stuff
So i moved school
when everyone loves you but no one likes you :(
...yeah.
nobody likes me and nobody cares about me
magnolia strouse I feel that... that hits really hard.
the times when i was listening to this video every night were insane
everyone talking about their crushes, i just want my best friend back.
Oml me too😢
wait.. me too
me.... too....
love; me too.. 💖
same :/
What sucks is My crush actually likes a Heather and honestly she deserves him more then I
don’t think like that :((
🥺🥺 you will find ur perfect match soon
No shut up, you’re amazing and he’s stupid not to see that. He doesn’t deserve you, because your too good for him.
Yeah probably he does deserve her
Know your worth bby 🥺 ily queen
I love how the song ends in a “I wish I were..” without saying heather, in a way leaving the listener in charge of whose name goes in the “space” depending on our “Heather” stories.
big brain
ever thought of it being wish I were “dead” and that’s why it cuts off ? 🤷🏻♀️
Yooooo 0-0
1 2 EVEN BIGGER YOOO
The sad thing is that no one would come to me as a first resort.
;-; Hang in there bro
me: trying to listen to depressing music
ad: gOoD GRAmMar is ImPoRtAnT
So true 😳😂😂😂
Omg😂😂😂
lol,samee
is it grammarly SKSDSOSLDKS
me using ad block: hey
you gave her your sweater, it’s just polyester
𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧
Wish I were heather
I
Ibuk1zz buki mioda
I hate how people automatically assumed that “heather” meant you were pretty, no it’s the person your crush chooses over you.
i mean technically but people feel the song in so many different ways there isn’t just one meaning
sarah it says the meaning of the name in the song, so that’s not true. That’s like me saying I’m depressed because I’m sad, I’m not depressed I’m just sad.
i think it means that person who has the life you never had, who had everything you never did
but the songs describes her as a sight for sore eyes and an angel, and saying that he isnt even half as pretty, so it can also mean that someone is pretty
Soumeya b no
I never had this thing called 'love' or 'crush' other than to fictional characters but this song hit in multiple levels 😭😭
I have the same thing as you...
Having crush on fictional characters is the cringiest thing I've ever heard
@@wtfexza well it makes sense.
You can literally create the perfect person (for you). You dont have to fall in "love with them" their just crushes. But if its cringe to you then that's fine.
@@wtfexzait's not cringe. let people be themselves, they're hurting no one. get a job rather than judging random people on the internet and irl as well
@@timepasstubee you're asking me to get a job while defending people who love pixels. Lol get a job
pov: your sitting on your bed late at night listening to this song. your windows are open. you don’t even realize but tears are streaming down your face because you can relate to every line. as your engulfed by your tears, a cool nighttime breeze comes through and you get chills.. at this moment you wish you that sweater instead of her/him (this is me atm lmao)
same this me rn:/
*you're
Tanvi Udgiri are u watching me rn
This is creepily accurate
are you watching me
Heather isn’t just a pretty face and a perfect body
She’s the girl who is living the life you’ve always wanted
she’s the girl who everyone likes better
But she’s also the most insecure girl
and to her WE ARE all the heathers not her
yes 💕
Yup.. except what’s worse is that she has good mental health (my heather).. she doesn’t have any heathers. I want to be like her- it hurts being her best friend bc I can’t stop comparing myself and idk what to do
heather in total drama
Yeah, living life by people’s expectation sounds suffocating.
hes talking about a boy that he likes
Heather isn’t just a pretty face
Heather is the girl whos perfect, who everyone loves, and you should love her too. But you can’t. She broke you without meaning to you have no reason to be mad at her but you still are. all because the person you like, likes her better.
John LD I didn’t say anything about her appearance?? What tf u talking abt
@@Cr33py_crawlie ops sorry i understand it wrong lol.
:(
OMG GERARD WAY
And you hate yourself because you want her dead. Even though she did nothing to you..