heather by conan gray but it’s even sadder

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  • @beomkawa
    @beomkawa  4 роки тому +12482

    i made a soundcloud !! here’s a link for this song- soundcloud.com/elevens_eggos/heather-by-conan-gray-but-its

    • @bludst
      @bludst 4 роки тому +194

      THANK YOU! I've been trying to find it through SoundCloud

    • @beomkawa
      @beomkawa  4 роки тому +196

      h6ney 🥰

    • @luvvsammy
      @luvvsammy 4 роки тому +75

      I LOVE YOU. THANK YOU

    • @beomkawa
      @beomkawa  4 роки тому +67

      Marina i’m not sure how to 😳

    • @beomkawa
      @beomkawa  4 роки тому +58

      if anyone can tell me how i’ll for sure put it up :)

  • @sunadawn2598
    @sunadawn2598 4 роки тому +14139

    "not even half as pretty" that crushed me. that hurt.

    • @oyaoyaoya5211
      @oyaoyaoya5211 4 роки тому +106

      That hit me like a bus...

    • @amour8006
      @amour8006 4 роки тому +121

      Hit harder than my mom

    • @abzcat56
      @abzcat56 4 роки тому +10

      same dude

    • @maiajade4180
      @maiajade4180 4 роки тому +66

      Same man, I wish people could have a little more confidence in themselves and stopped comparing themselves to others, everyone is so beautiful but nowadays, some people just seem so fixed on being the replica of another person, why does society have such standards? :(

    • @elenique7713
      @elenique7713 4 роки тому +12

      Sunny Bunny 𝓼𝓪𝓶𝓮 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓶𝔂 𝓶𝓸𝓶 𝓼𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓷𝓰 𝓪𝓼𝓵

  • @dakotat5649
    @dakotat5649 4 роки тому +14381

    The fact that “heather” isn’t a specific person hurts. It’s just anyone but me.

    • @lizziejones3356
      @lizziejones3356 4 роки тому +172

      it’ll get better i promise

    • @larajones7365
      @larajones7365 4 роки тому +79

      Oh sis

    • @audrey8508
      @audrey8508 4 роки тому +182

      me, it brings back all the memories of people I thought were my friends telling me kys and not as a joke they said the world would be better if I was gone. And then when anyone says anything suicidal they say don’t and supports them. It also reminds me of my emotionally abusive and alcoholic father, everyone thinks my life is perfect just because I hide behind a smile everyday and they don’t know fucking anything about me. Then when I say I need to talk as cause I’ve tried to commit suicide hey tell me people have bigger issues than wha I’m going through. It hurts. Just because someone is smiling does not mean they are mentally ok. I’m sorry if I’ve wasted ur time but it feels like no one understands.

    • @zhyza
      @zhyza 4 роки тому +111

      I'll always be second best, and no matter how hard I try, I'll never be anyone's first priority.

    • @Esyutata
      @Esyutata 4 роки тому +26

      @@zhyza someday, you'll be someone's number one, don't give up♡

  • @thomyorkereal
    @thomyorkereal 4 роки тому +20574

    hearing your crush saying they like someone else is one of the most painful things ever

    • @beomkawa
      @beomkawa  4 роки тому +1144

      jesus christ nothing but facts 😔🤕

    • @ghostlytea355
      @ghostlytea355 4 роки тому +846

      When you had a chance with your crush and then blew it and then they go out with your best friend :/

    • @maruskazemanska4257
      @maruskazemanska4257 4 роки тому +200

      Ghostly Tea i feel this... so much...

    • @krissiaphobic8427
      @krissiaphobic8427 4 роки тому +117

      @@ava07marie yup.. or like play every frigging girl infront of you smh..

    • @amararose5928
      @amararose5928 4 роки тому +31

      For real...

  • @Sniper13..
    @Sniper13.. 2 роки тому +400

    When your there for everyone. But no one is there for you , especially when you need them.

    • @urbabes6659
      @urbabes6659 2 роки тому +9

      relate butto-

    • @DV1287
      @DV1287 6 місяців тому +3

      relatable.

  • @pineappleslimes455
    @pineappleslimes455 4 роки тому +5503

    it hurts worse when “she” isn’t a real person. he wants someone he doesn’t even know yet. but he doesn’t want me

    • @miadeleon7901
      @miadeleon7901 4 роки тому +61

      FELT

    • @billeyelash8104
      @billeyelash8104 4 роки тому +53

      my crush is straight and fell for someone gay..

    • @jei8877
      @jei8877 4 роки тому +28

      Same he's waiting for that "girl" and I know that girl isn't me 😂

    • @billeyelash8104
      @billeyelash8104 4 роки тому +4

      제이Red oh no, im sry for urs darling 🥺

    • @Amy-xu4ho
      @Amy-xu4ho 4 роки тому +6

      He just hates me, and loves to let me know :/

  • @Peku_G
    @Peku_G 4 роки тому +17473

    _"I'm not even half as pretty"_
    Is the one line that hurts the most

  • @Valentina-qt6bo
    @Valentina-qt6bo 4 роки тому +19770

    if you listen close you can hear me crying

  • @annelucy8658
    @annelucy8658 Рік тому +424

    I don't wanna be the friend that everyone can just throw away when they get tired or bored of me anymore

    • @Veronika_ere
      @Veronika_ere Рік тому +19

      I don't even have friends, being a top student they just approach me for their benefits and I notice it immediately. Everyone just knows me as an introvert who is an exceptional student,no one wants to get to know me

    • @Anonymous-td8kj
      @Anonymous-td8kj Рік тому +7

      i already am, i don’t want to be anymore, i hurts knowing they can drop me js because their bored of me

    • @jagjiye
      @jagjiye Рік тому +3

      One day they'll realise what they'd lost🙂

    • @sunitatalandage5071
      @sunitatalandage5071 9 місяців тому

      I can feel you, the same is happening with me. It hurts very bad when everyone talking about their friends and you dont even have one​@@Veronika_ere

    • @ranigoldberg8063
      @ranigoldberg8063 7 місяців тому +4

      Hopefully.

  • @kiki-qw3xp
    @kiki-qw3xp 4 роки тому +23119

    it’s worse when heather doesn’t even like him back

    • @allym6407
      @allym6407 4 роки тому +539

      god dang this comment got me

    • @arta4888
      @arta4888 4 роки тому +532

      it would be even more worse if Heather loved you/conan

    • @champagnepapi6969
      @champagnepapi6969 4 роки тому +38

      frhgetgjuhfthgrfehfhrtwkdbhggh mood

    • @partypois
      @partypois 4 роки тому +139

      heather doesn’t even like him but he still has a hope, like i do

    • @angelaflores3747
      @angelaflores3747 4 роки тому +218

      imagine heather doesnt like him because she likes you and its all a love triangle where no one gets what they want

  • @reaipsychologist
    @reaipsychologist 4 роки тому +16218

    It truly is sad to realize that everyone around you is a Heather, low self esteem sucks.

    • @alice-uu7lr
      @alice-uu7lr 4 роки тому +64

      agreed

    • @dandycandy5813
      @dandycandy5813 4 роки тому +331

      it's more like we all think anyone else but us is heather. People could think you're the heather and you cloud never know.

    • @ghostinyourcloset
      @ghostinyourcloset 4 роки тому +11

      ikr

    • @Lexi-sc7nn
      @Lexi-sc7nn 4 роки тому +7

      it does.

    • @hannabelle5573
      @hannabelle5573 4 роки тому +156

      so many pretty girls everywhere and when your just below average looking- it hurts, like it actually stings:/

  • @embri.o
    @embri.o 4 роки тому +5839

    it's worse when there is no heather and they just don't like you .

    • @fabyiraheta911
      @fabyiraheta911 4 роки тому +201

      is worse seeing him inlove with another person

    • @vaaphobicc
      @vaaphobicc 4 роки тому +63

      @@fabyiraheta911 agree, even if he talks about her :(

    • @calebrobinson845
      @calebrobinson845 4 роки тому +47

      That's rough buddy

    • @embri.o
      @embri.o 4 роки тому +30

      @@calebrobinson845 zuko, what are you doing here?

    • @vivianavera600
      @vivianavera600 4 роки тому +6

      :(

  • @kaz8547
    @kaz8547 Рік тому +375

    to everyone who's still listening to this, i promise things will get better. i remember listening to this in 2020, my heart as heavy as the waters and head muffled with thoughts of sadness. but, now looking back, i have come so far. not only have i fought over depression, but i believe that you guys can do it too. realise the power within yourself, you are loved, you are perfect, you are amazing.

    • @aliah_roses
      @aliah_roses Рік тому +5

      As a person who is actually in depression.. Thank you!-

    • @HH_iykyk
      @HH_iykyk Рік тому

      ​@@aliah_rosesme too...this means a lot.

    • @mali_blom
      @mali_blom 11 місяців тому +1

      I too watched this exact video back in 2020, feeling like how you describe. Feels so bittersweet to come back to it🥹
      Life does get better too! And you learn and evolve soo much, those feelings wont last forever!❤️

    • @Amandaaaa987
      @Amandaaaa987 11 місяців тому +3

      Most underrated comment

  • @meow8738
    @meow8738 4 роки тому +6247

    "But how could I hate her, she's such an angel"
    I've never related to something this much.

    • @daisy-yz1ok
      @daisy-yz1ok 4 роки тому +12

      Same..

    • @offixial_lea2542
      @offixial_lea2542 4 роки тому +19

      Love is shit

    • @imanoone5613
      @imanoone5613 4 роки тому +33

      like you cant't hate her because she is literally the nicest person on earth, but you wish you could because it would be easier.

    • @soggyluckycharms518
      @soggyluckycharms518 4 роки тому +4

      this.

    • @anniegiunta4268
      @anniegiunta4268 4 роки тому +3

      now.. why cant everyone be this sweet 🥺

  • @brynnp14
    @brynnp14 4 роки тому +11031

    This hits the hardest when you're sobbing but have to be quiet so no one hears you :/

    • @payton512
      @payton512 4 роки тому +91

      me rn bahahab

    • @donatello5059
      @donatello5059 4 роки тому +88

      i feel that. I'm sorry you go through this. it'll get better. i promise. im here for you. if you need to talk, my email: kcrane1023@gmail.com

    • @chiangwai6407
      @chiangwai6407 4 роки тому +139

      It feels like thorns are choking you :(

    • @magicalwizard9539
      @magicalwizard9539 4 роки тому +11

      Yup

    • @duckb0at575
      @duckb0at575 4 роки тому +44

      lmao me, one time i was at my friends and she was talking shit abt me behind my back and saying how i should kms and i was sobbing quietly

  • @victorwithav4882
    @victorwithav4882 4 роки тому +11649

    "How could I hate her? she's such an angel" okay, that hits...

    • @nevaeh4864
      @nevaeh4864 4 роки тому +88

      Victor with a V i felt that in my soul. i had that moment.

    • @pieceaisa5046
      @pieceaisa5046 4 роки тому +27

      this

    • @victorwithav4882
      @victorwithav4882 4 роки тому +33

      Wow, it had more likes than expected, I take advantage of the moment to say that I upload videos every saturday, i'd really appreciate if you subscribed❤
      I'm just starting, but I promise that I will keep being constant.

    • @katie7036
      @katie7036 4 роки тому +5

      frl 😣

    • @giiorgiaverdino529
      @giiorgiaverdino529 4 роки тому +52

      hits even harder when you know she's not an angel, but that person thinks so and it's too late to change that

  • @Pinky-dg7wq
    @Pinky-dg7wq 2 роки тому +1891

    Dont even get me started on, "looks don't matter".
    No, Jennifer with blonde hair, blue eyes. Perfect curves, hairless, mentally stable with a rich\healthy family.
    They do. They absolutely do.

    • @WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
      @WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA 2 роки тому +94

      Tbh blonde hair is overrated

    • @amnd390
      @amnd390 Рік тому +8

      @@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA nah

    • @randomdoggo9489
      @randomdoggo9489 Рік тому +36

      @@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA It is though, my teacher even said people make too many stereotypes cause she’s a blue eyed blondie and yet she would rather want a basketball then a doll on Christmas when she was younger.

    • @Westernponies
      @Westernponies Рік тому

      @@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Fr like the girls could be so ugly( not to be rude ) but still are able to get guys all because they are blonde

    • @LifelessShoujo
      @LifelessShoujo Рік тому

      @@randomdoggo9489 well, isn’t that just a stereotype for woman in general? Usually the common stereotype is dumb blonde.

  • @247yoongi
    @247yoongi 4 роки тому +3387

    "why would you ever kiss me,I'm not even half as pretty" that stabbed me in the heart

    • @f.lou23
      @f.lou23 4 роки тому +29

      Emily sorry but I’m a bit new to Conan... but is this song about a guy liking a girl, but that girl likes another girl?

    • @mika-gg4oh
      @mika-gg4oh 4 роки тому +50

      @@f.lou23 pretty much yes, but it could also be a guy liking another guy, but this guy likes a girl
      it isn't really clear ig

    • @rosie4766
      @rosie4766 4 роки тому +3

      same

    • @sanrihoe4963
      @sanrihoe4963 4 роки тому +3

      Oh yeah same

    • @morganainsley1775
      @morganainsley1775 4 роки тому +16

      Faye Javi Well i like to think it’s about Conan and another boy but he hasn’t confirmed his sexuality so it’s unsure. that’s alright tho bc i don’t think any of his real fans would want him to feel pressured into coming out (if he is Bi)

  • @ochacouraraka3401
    @ochacouraraka3401 4 роки тому +7852

    “Why would you ever kiss me? I’m not even half as pretty.” Hits hard.

    • @mypie9035
      @mypie9035 4 роки тому +137

      But he never did kiss me... only her.

    • @ochacouraraka3401
      @ochacouraraka3401 4 роки тому +60

      mypie90 well he’s stupid for not kissing you,I’ll tell you that.

    • @ana-ep7lu
      @ana-ep7lu 4 роки тому +5

      @@mypie9035 same sis :)

    • @bilsleftkneecap1136
      @bilsleftkneecap1136 4 роки тому +5

      @@mypie9035 k u didnt have to hit so close to home BSHSBDBDB

    • @kaite.soliel1167
      @kaite.soliel1167 4 роки тому +5

      yea he kissed me and then went back to her... I always cared more but he only wanted her

  • @kayleedrew7967
    @kayleedrew7967 4 роки тому +3922

    "I'm not even half as pretty"
    "Ma'am this is a Wendy's drive thru-"

    • @Grace-jq6su
      @Grace-jq6su 4 роки тому +69

      The other comments got me down like T - T and you be here like :P thanks :)

    • @SynniesSunnies
      @SynniesSunnies 4 роки тому +28

      nice comment and amazing pfp bro

    • @gracewhaanga7625
      @gracewhaanga7625 4 роки тому +32

      I NEEDED TO LAUGH AFTER SEEING SOME OF THEM COMMENTS

    • @gracewhaanga7625
      @gracewhaanga7625 4 роки тому +10

      ( continuing on )
      “and what ? IM FUCKEN TRYNA STRAIGHTEN IT DOWN BUT THIS SHIT KEEPS GOIN LIKE WOOP”

    • @porolalaporolala9866
      @porolalaporolala9866 4 роки тому +10

      order me some milkshakes

  • @sophiebailey8558
    @sophiebailey8558 2 роки тому +254

    hits so much harder when you have someone to think about while listening and can relate :/

    • @urfav_lilsss
      @urfav_lilsss Рік тому +4

      fr, whether it’s about you crush or a Heather 😔

    • @jeong_wonn
      @jeong_wonn 10 місяців тому +2

      I regret doing what I did, I hate to admit it, but I still like him

  • @hottestpersonalive
    @hottestpersonalive 4 роки тому +13078

    the rain in the backround is the sound of everyone’s tears falling on the ground

  • @mayav7498
    @mayav7498 4 роки тому +19508

    It sucks when “heather” is your best friend, but instead it’s not just him who likes her better, it’s everyone

    • @farida3820
      @farida3820 4 роки тому +520

      Dude that hit hard

    • @addisonstanalonis9429
      @addisonstanalonis9429 4 роки тому +113

      Maya V I feel that

    • @astgenerositymedia2620
      @astgenerositymedia2620 4 роки тому +140

      Why is that so true?

    • @blossom7437
      @blossom7437 4 роки тому +309

      My crush replaced me with my best friend...my crush and i were like sweethearts we were being shipped by everyone before but now hes cold to me like it seems like i am no one

    • @alianalee9060
      @alianalee9060 4 роки тому +99

      I feel bad because I am the heather to my friend. She said she didn’t like the boy anymore and I stared liking him and then we dated after that. A couple months later she told me how much it hurt to see us together. I had no clue since she said she didn’t like him anymore and started liking another guy (or so that’s just what she said) and I still feel guilty. She was so supportive and wanted us together so bad and I guess she was lying a bit which makes me a bit upset. but man, I’m totally in love with him

  • @prisvaldez4757
    @prisvaldez4757 4 роки тому +17576

    Everyone’s talking about missing other people, I just miss myself.

    • @Jco._x
      @Jco._x 4 роки тому +434

      k this comment hit😖

    • @hooralsalhi8709
      @hooralsalhi8709 4 роки тому +396

      This comment hits hard when you slowly became heather and lost your self and now you'r stuck being the perfect heather for every one and not knowing your real self becouse you lost it in the long run

    • @kalypsoofthestars
      @kalypsoofthestars 4 роки тому +101

      hoor alsalehi that was me but kinda the opposite of a heather, i was rude and obnoxious and then when my friend group told me to stop talking to them, i snapped back to reality and a few days ago i managed to get the two that were my closest friends back!
      thank you god and you graciousness!

    • @xyjip7709
      @xyjip7709 4 роки тому +211

      I constantly miss my old self everyday. Every breath I take is different, I want the past back but at the same time I don’t.

    • @personalaccounto.o7019
      @personalaccounto.o7019 4 роки тому +41

      Mood. this lowkey hit me hard.

  • @ayushii.88
    @ayushii.88 2 роки тому +119

    "she walks by , what a sight for sore eyes" hits hard and i feel that :)

  • @idontknow1762
    @idontknow1762 4 роки тому +2803

    “heather is just anyone but me” -comment that I relate to.

    • @staticinthesilo
      @staticinthesilo 4 роки тому +17

      I don’t know who you are and you do t have to reply but I think that you are beautiful inside and out and I’ve never even seen you. If you wanna make a friend my insta is berk_phoque ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @maanasayekkala6980
      @maanasayekkala6980 4 роки тому +6

      Could i be your friend too?

    • @breadcrumbs2601
      @breadcrumbs2601 4 роки тому +7

      I been exposed.

    • @zalivoid
      @zalivoid 4 роки тому +3

      I wanna like this comment but it has 666 likes

    • @bk8636
      @bk8636 4 роки тому +3

      did i comment this on someone else's account or does someone actually relate to me?

  • @mads3291
    @mads3291 4 роки тому +3610

    This hurts when your best friend and everyone around you IS Heather.

    • @lvvkayli
      @lvvkayli 4 роки тому +2

      • M a d s • yep.

    • @mariiiiiiiiuahhha
      @mariiiiiiiiuahhha 4 роки тому +55

      my closest friends are the prettiest girls in my grade but i’m not. they’ve all dated or had things wit boys and i’m just there like 👁👁

    • @jamilaa5878
      @jamilaa5878 4 роки тому +2

      YESSS

    • @tostadora2983
      @tostadora2983 4 роки тому +4

      @@mariiiiiiiiuahhha SAMEEEEE

    • @summerwhite3229
      @summerwhite3229 4 роки тому +5

      you are perfect just the way you are and i bet you are heather

  • @llenora330
    @llenora330 4 роки тому +13447

    I miss my childhood with no worries about almost everything

    • @madih5100
      @madih5100 4 роки тому +176

      Vanii enjoy it:/ Ik you hear that a lot and that’s what everyone says. But as you get older it feels you don’t get the same love and comfort from people:/

    • @etps4444
      @etps4444 4 роки тому +116

      @@simper4565
      At the risk of sounding like a creep, you've got love from us. We may never meet, but I'll still think of you. ^^
      And.... hang in there, okay? Do your best to enjoy your life right now, despite the circumstances. You'll find yourself wanting to return to this time when you're older.

    • @sayliecolato242
      @sayliecolato242 4 роки тому +15

      Yo same :/

    • @apotatogirl2309
      @apotatogirl2309 4 роки тому +144

      I don't miss my childhood...i miss what my childhood could have been.. :/

    • @kani7700
      @kani7700 4 роки тому +54

      @@simper4565 and the hardest part of being a kid (9-12) in 2020 everybody thinks that theyre all just on their phone and smoking, drinking energy etc its really sad

  • @lala08849
    @lala08849 2 роки тому +229

    i guess it just seems like she’s got everything she wants. she’s got a beautiful face. perfect hair. perfect eyes. model like nose. perfect lips, eyes. everything. everyone knows her. she’s nice and kind and the ones that are friends with her always talk about how amazing she is. her outfits are amazing. she has a big friend group. she’s got perfect grades. she’s in advanced classes. she does sports. she’s got a little sibling. she’s got a dad. a dad that doesn’t belittle her every two seconds. then there’s me. my hair doesn’t work. it’s a frizzy mess even if i straighten it. i know every person, but no one knows me. i have one friend. one true friend. but she’s also got someone else. im quiet and shy. ive got the worst anxiety about thr stupidest stuff. cant even get my nails done without having a full blown panic attack. i sit back and just watch, watch how awesome and amazing everyone else is. and then there’s me. how their friends didn’t leave them after the summer. how they never had to sit alone at lunch time. how they don’t care about the food they bring, they don’t stare at it in disgust. they just eat it like any normal person would. but if i were any of them, or her. i wouldn’t have a problem with that stuff either.

    • @HH_iykyk
      @HH_iykyk Рік тому +4

      i hope everything is ok for you now...i understand how u feel and I 100% relate to you. No one understands I feel and the people I love doesn't seem like they do to me anymore and it's kinda sad.but there are people worse than my condition. No one should feel like me so pls take care and know I will always be there for you

    • @jagjiye
      @jagjiye Рік тому +2

      Don't be insecure. It doesn't matter if u think they are prettier or better. You're definitely pretty. Cus the universe is beauty, the things alive and not alive everything is beauty. She is pretty so is u. Set a goal, work hard for it, Don't care what others would think..... Love uuh🫂🤍

  • @potatosoup5347
    @potatosoup5347 4 роки тому +22978

    *I feel everyone in the comments should meet up and have a crying party ngl*

  • @paulat3476
    @paulat3476 4 роки тому +2543

    i mean, loving him sucks, but knowing he will never return the feeling is worse.

    • @rt-pg3ds
      @rt-pg3ds 4 роки тому +8

      yup.

    • @jasmines535
      @jasmines535 4 роки тому +3

      Yeah... I like this guy but he never texts me first...

    • @user-jk3dy4ig1b
      @user-jk3dy4ig1b 4 роки тому +1

      i felt that. but we both deserve better❤️ we got this!

    • @katemae4008
      @katemae4008 4 роки тому +1

      i felt that but more like “i mean, loving him sucks,but knowing he will never return is worse.” 3 months since we last talked....

    • @ellereyes2763
      @ellereyes2763 4 роки тому +1

      Loved him for four years, confessed and he rejected me, yet somehow still friends. I still have feelings, and we're pretty close, but I don't wanna confess anymore, I'll probably just get hurt

  • @brina6085
    @brina6085 4 роки тому +14154

    i always find my self going back to this song and i have no clue why

    • @beomkawa
      @beomkawa  4 роки тому +433

      its a bop >:D

    • @peachperson2948
      @peachperson2948 4 роки тому +357

      Bc you wanna be heather bitch 😂

    • @hez8208
      @hez8208 4 роки тому +283

      I wanna be Heather and Conan at the same time

    • @jillbyrne7126
      @jillbyrne7126 4 роки тому +114

      me neither. i don’t even miss him. i really don’t. but it’s just so true to that old situation of mine.

    • @kryzgamboa1059
      @kryzgamboa1059 4 роки тому +16

      Same.

  • @gayforjenniekim8044
    @gayforjenniekim8044 2 роки тому +408

    She’s beautiful
    She’s extroverted
    She’s talented
    She’s smart
    She’s happy
    She’s loved
    She’s kind
    She’s popular
    She’s fair skinned
    She’s a people person
    She’s not hated by anyone
    Shes perfect
    And.
    She’s everything I’m not but want to be.
    But what hurts really deep
    Is that I‘m her heather.

    • @somerandomgirl49
      @somerandomgirl49 10 місяців тому +11

      I’m sorry 😣

    • @studygram_
      @studygram_ 8 місяців тому +7

      you're her Heather and she's your Heather?

  • @callie2982
    @callie2982 4 роки тому +2581

    i don’t have a “heather” story but i still want to be whoever she is

    • @corinabotoc5573
      @corinabotoc5573 4 роки тому +17

      Same sis

    • @eworitse8936
      @eworitse8936 4 роки тому +16

      I would like mine to have a happy ending

    • @tasha-gb3oq
      @tasha-gb3oq 4 роки тому +4

      callie ketchum don’t compare yourself your perfect!

    • @k444tie
      @k444tie 4 роки тому +1

      you're lucky

    • @geoben747
      @geoben747 4 роки тому

      @@tasha-gb3oq Nope

  • @paigecarter3167
    @paigecarter3167 4 роки тому +12424

    pov: u listen to this song on repeat whilst reading everyone’s story’s and pov in the comments 🥺

    • @reissfuller154
      @reissfuller154 4 роки тому +68

      Dude don’t come for me like that

    • @vaniamontoya365
      @vaniamontoya365 4 роки тому +12

      This is the first and only comment I read as of right now and now I’m preparing myself to cry

    • @malachi5571
      @malachi5571 4 роки тому +9

      I’ve been binging the song for a good 3 hours now

    • @nleyi
      @nleyi 4 роки тому +2

      fax

    • @naimiliyana3026
      @naimiliyana3026 4 роки тому +4

      It's hurt even more when you're the only one giving all the effort

  • @refinedpeanutoil3006
    @refinedpeanutoil3006 4 роки тому +1784

    "i'm not even half as pretty" hit harder than my moms chancla.

  • @tipsforeveryone-20_10
    @tipsforeveryone-20_10 Рік тому +103

    This hits harder when he is the only one keeping you happy

    • @Noobsarecoolya123
      @Noobsarecoolya123 Рік тому +11

      then they just disapear..

    • @Twilightxxgrove
      @Twilightxxgrove 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Noobsarecoolya123like its the most easiest thing to do in the world.

  • @melaxy7954
    @melaxy7954 3 роки тому +8107

    Anyone just in bed thinking why is life so fucked up.

    • @kay-xv9jw
      @kay-xv9jw 3 роки тому +66

      I do it on the regular

    • @moony1666
      @moony1666 3 роки тому +32

      every night

    • @Opus566
      @Opus566 3 роки тому +23

      Right here💃😭

    • @sofiawholikesfrogs2203
      @sofiawholikesfrogs2203 3 роки тому +20

      Casually

    • @sofiawholikesfrogs2203
      @sofiawholikesfrogs2203 3 роки тому +43

      @@miovids hey hey hey u know what? Idk what you've been trough but I'm just 1 year older than you and.. Well to be honest I am scared aswell, but let me tell you living worth it, even if it sounds cliché or just and excuse to not think that way, living worth every second and in my opinion if u wanna rest in peace you should first enjoy all the things you still haven't seen, fall and stand, you know, all that shit. But yeah, you worth it and sorry for the long message, I just don't want you to think that nobody will miss u just because you are another person in this world full of humans. So yeah, I never take the time to do this but you should take a time to think about how good would it be to do all the things you dreamed about, hope u change your mind ❤️

  • @uncle3559
    @uncle3559 4 роки тому +1808

    This guy: Finds a way to make Heather EVEN sadder
    Everyone: Wait what-

    • @karinaw4585
      @karinaw4585 4 роки тому +4

      it’s a girl...

    • @uncle3559
      @uncle3559 4 роки тому +1

      @karina w - ...

    • @tiramisu9528
      @tiramisu9528 4 роки тому +4

      Ginger how about 'they' ?

    • @uncle3559
      @uncle3559 4 роки тому

      @meme review - 😳

    • @zhyza
      @zhyza 4 роки тому +2

      @@karinaw4585 guy is gender-neutral as far as I'm concerned

  • @1073.
    @1073. 4 роки тому +15871

    imagine ur crush coming to u for advice for another guy lol this sucks.

    • @penelope4090
      @penelope4090 4 роки тому +485

      my ex came to me for advice on the new girl he was talking to, i’m pretty sure it was just to rub it in :)

    • @evelinezoey
      @evelinezoey 4 роки тому +297

      my ex would come to me for girl advice and he would tell me he had a girlfriend and i would give him the right and good advice because i'm a nice person but the whole time i did, i was crying so yea.

    • @alexac4230
      @alexac4230 4 роки тому +65

      im sorry :( keep your head up

    • @wiaata1794
      @wiaata1794 4 роки тому +121

      ....my crush texted me everyday for advice on how to get with his crush (._.)

    • @auntieslayer420
      @auntieslayer420 4 роки тому +34

      my crush did that to me lol

  • @aquapr901
    @aquapr901 2 роки тому +431

    *"She's got you mesmerized while I die"*
    This. This line over there.
    When your crush is having a crush on a person who's just so great and talented at everything while you feel like there's nothing you have to impress your crush... And seeing scenarios like this in real life is just so soul-crushing, this song feels like a pat on your head honestly

    • @skanderhadhri6985
      @skanderhadhri6985 Рік тому +5

      I had everything to impress her. We were as close as everyone thought we were actually dating. She was the only person I've ever opened up to (with my mom and dad). I confessed my feelings and it was one of the hardest things to do. She said no and acted like nothing happened. Why ? What did I do wrong ? Am I the problem ?I invited her to prom and I confessed my feelings one more time and same thing happened. I always try to forget her but everytime I hear songs like this all the memories come back in a flash, and it hurts like hell.

    • @Nowmylifeis.swee.like.cinnamon
      @Nowmylifeis.swee.like.cinnamon Рік тому +2

      ​@@skanderhadhri6985hey don't worry, you are going to get the best of everything!

  • @eefszy
    @eefszy 3 роки тому +5042

    Im tired of being the friend that just has to listen to everyones problems.

    • @rashmithakur6373
      @rashmithakur6373 3 роки тому +154

      So true like I can't even share my problems cuz

    • @ath3358
      @ath3358 3 роки тому +154

      same im always there for everyone and no one is for me

    • @sainte3391
      @sainte3391 3 роки тому +63

      so stop giving a fucc, and find your self

    • @0inzxe921
      @0inzxe921 3 роки тому +34

      All of my vitamins just came out of my eye.

    • @yndndbehdhdhbs4161
      @yndndbehdhdhbs4161 3 роки тому +33

      I’m really tired of being so self-conscious about my own mistakes.

  • @thomyorkereal
    @thomyorkereal 4 роки тому +20653

    for everyone in the comments, don’t worry, one day you’ll become someone’s heather. i know it.

    • @uncletapperz
      @uncletapperz 4 роки тому +785

      thanks jisas

    • @Leah-xq5tn
      @Leah-xq5tn 4 роки тому +477

      Amen 🙏🏻

    • @biconbee
      @biconbee 4 роки тому +453

      thank you jesus

    • @ghostlytea355
      @ghostlytea355 4 роки тому +316

      Thanks, jesus

    • @user-kn1hc5nn1k
      @user-kn1hc5nn1k 4 роки тому +782

      I DONT WANNA RUIN SOMEONE ELSE’S RELATIONSHIP OR TAKE SOMEONE’S CRUSH AWAY FROM THEM

  • @cherrybombxoxo
    @cherrybombxoxo 3 роки тому +2014

    this hits different when someone u love slowly falls out of your life and watch them fall in love from a far

    • @melon2083
      @melon2083 3 роки тому +38

      or they are still in your life and you lie to them to make yourself happy while tearing your world apart.

    • @katiaarcos4417
      @katiaarcos4417 3 роки тому +6

      I can see that happening but it’ll be okay I’ll end things when that happens

    • @joselyn1332
      @joselyn1332 3 роки тому +7

      Just happened to me yesterday 🥴💔

    • @calpurniiaa1765
      @calpurniiaa1765 3 роки тому +1

      Lucky you mine aren’t real

    • @zlajo9231
      @zlajo9231 3 роки тому +1

      Felt

  • @thakshayinishrikanthan6963
    @thakshayinishrikanthan6963 2 роки тому +46

    This is the nicest version of any song I've heard in a long time. I can literally feel all my stress from the past week fading away and becoming a blur.

  • @bren3232
    @bren3232 4 роки тому +4706

    The song took the words outta mouth “you like her better” and “why would you ever kiss me. He’ll never kiss me. I’ll always be a shadow, a leaf in the wind, even a pebble in a pond. He’ll always want her.

    • @arielblumenthal2678
      @arielblumenthal2678 4 роки тому +32

      it takes time but you'll find the right one

    • @maya-bk5fq
      @maya-bk5fq 4 роки тому +34

      and whats the worst in the world is when you’re finally, finally happy, and you still have these thoughts in the back of your head keeping you from letting yourself enjoy the relationship. “what would happen if she wanted him. would he leave me?” and i hate not knowing so i convince myself its true LOL

    • @v-nikiforov8725
      @v-nikiforov8725 4 роки тому +20

      He’s my best friend. No words could explain how much he means to me. But he only sees me as a friend. Our other friend, she’s just perfect. Pretty. Funny. Everything I’m not. I’m just the supportive best friend to him.

    • @ItsLunavie
      @ItsLunavie 4 роки тому +3

      I've been broken hearted 3 times: rejected break up and ghosted.. I feel like I hated myself for being so stupid, ugh it's too sad. This song too sad 😢

    • @nabentoes
      @nabentoes 4 роки тому

      ok

  • @gaaraswife3077
    @gaaraswife3077 4 роки тому +3250

    Crying over someone who doesn’t care or think about me is difficult.

  • @holly1157
    @holly1157 4 роки тому +4505

    everyone in the comments has a “heather” friend and it’s just... sigh.

    • @fanta3042
      @fanta3042 4 роки тому +41

      I have "heather" cousin... kill me pls

    • @starkisser
      @starkisser 4 роки тому +49

      No. The problem is I am the heather friend. And all of my “friends” hate me because of it. I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. I don’t ask for the people they like to like me?! They don’t know how bad it hurts. I lose so many friendships because I have to tell people I don’t like them. Or I lose friendships because my friends find out the person they like likes me. It’s so hard. I would trade everything for friends who don’t hate me. For only the one person I like to like me.

    • @starkisser
      @starkisser 4 роки тому +30

      I’m sorry you feel like this. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I would never know how it feels, and I don’t want to compare our experiences. But I do know I experience something that hurts almost just as much, if not more.

    • @starkisser
      @starkisser 4 роки тому +29

      It’s not fun having everyone “love” you. Because in reality they don’t. And it hurts and I’m so sorry. I would never choose to be this person. I would give it all up. I’m so so sorry. My heart breaks every time I lose a friend. And it happens so often. I don’t TRY to make people like me. I’m so lonely even if “everyone loves me”. But really people just tell me I belong to the streets. Or that I’m a bitch or a home wrecker. It’s terrible. People you thought you trusted talk bad about you and I’d give it all up in a second if I could.

    • @anghelgrasiya
      @anghelgrasiya 4 роки тому +3

      i’d just like to say i love your profile, stan jikyu.

  • @itsmeetime111
    @itsmeetime111 Рік тому +59

    lyric

  • @beomkawa
    @beomkawa  4 роки тому +9620

    here’s a random pov: you’ve grown older yet still can’t forget about them and it’s aching in your mind :)

    • @beomkawa
      @beomkawa  4 роки тому +121

      xxdeadcloudxx xo 🥺

    • @Ariana-ty5qy
      @Ariana-ty5qy 4 роки тому +163

      this called me out so hard like i didn’t plan on being attacked through a comment😔🤭Haven’t seen him in almost three years but can’t forget him.

    • @beomkawa
      @beomkawa  4 роки тому +24

      Maliha Noor Halim you’re so kind 🥺

    • @beomkawa
      @beomkawa  4 роки тому +21

      Ari ana it’ll be okay ♡

    • @itsv1974
      @itsv1974 4 роки тому +13

      damn i really got called out

  • @ezelbatumbakal9057
    @ezelbatumbakal9057 4 роки тому +1555

    *"how could i hate her? shes such an angel."*
    When you know she doesn't deserve the hatred your feeling cause its not even her fault

  • @oliviahunt2520
    @oliviahunt2520 3 роки тому +9161

    don’t fall in love. be in love. because everything that falls breaks.

  • @Unknown-xv7vq
    @Unknown-xv7vq Рік тому +16

    It's so painful when someone fills you with love and then leaves

  • @tobiokageyama4258
    @tobiokageyama4258 4 роки тому +17167

    everyone talking about their crushes, yet I just want myself back

    • @Martinkilbane831
      @Martinkilbane831 4 роки тому +255

      Same

    • @bashsusulan2109
      @bashsusulan2109 4 роки тому +226

      Relatable.

    • @rararawan
      @rararawan 4 роки тому +109

      Same ;-;

    • @vanshikha7179
      @vanshikha7179 4 роки тому +118

      I feel you fellow human 😭

    • @rararawan
      @rararawan 4 роки тому +325

      @@vanshikha7179 telling a depressed person to stop "overreacting" is like telling a person with cancer to get better ;-;

  • @evangel1sta
    @evangel1sta 4 роки тому +15787

    everyone talking about their crushes, i just want my best friend back.

  • @chumnithreachpisey9924
    @chumnithreachpisey9924 4 роки тому +3457

    it’s nice reading these comments knowing i’m not alone

    • @daylene6966
      @daylene6966 4 роки тому +7

      right ik that i'm not alone now

    • @sourhersheys
      @sourhersheys 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah I think it’s really nice knowing the way you feel can be understood by others

    • @afiashaikh143
      @afiashaikh143 4 роки тому +2

      Don’t mind me asking this but ARE YOU A KPOP FAN CUZZZZ YOUR PROFILE PIC LOOKS FAMILIAR 👀👀

    • @iceee5368
      @iceee5368 4 роки тому +3

      You are alone but everyone else it to

    • @afiashaikh143
      @afiashaikh143 4 роки тому +1

      Afia Shaikh
      As someone who can relate to this song somewhat....I can tell you that we are not alone...... I have already moved on from that situation....and I can tell that I feel stupid for all the things I did in the past....but then I realized my mistakes.....I’m happy to know that you feel nice knowing that you are not alone💜

  • @Chill_Dreams
    @Chill_Dreams Рік тому +68

    I'm lying on my bed, staring at the ceiling. The thought of my crush floods into my head. I can feel my heart beating faster and louder as I envision us spending time together. Watching movies together, cycling together, living together, laughing together. The thought of doing everything with her is just so exciting!! I can't wait anymore, I'm going to tell her how I feel. Wish me LUCKK!!!! This song is my motivation!!!

  • @dxnsh2841
    @dxnsh2841 4 роки тому +2049

    "I'm not even half as pretty" hits me so hard..

  • @weepinqstars
    @weepinqstars 4 роки тому +8987

    Heather is not the famous or popular girl- she is “an angel.” She is not only beautiful but kind.

    • @g.a5336
      @g.a5336 4 роки тому +557

      its not just her looks, shes always first choice

    • @kalynnewillis
      @kalynnewillis 4 роки тому +334

      No heather is the person ur crush chooses over Instead of you sadly

    • @threezeum
      @threezeum 4 роки тому +483

      @@kalynnewillis yeah but not just that- heather is someone who's so nice you can't bring yourself to hate them because they're just that sweet. it's not just the popular person, or the person your crush chooses over you.

    • @negg7046
      @negg7046 4 роки тому +154

      THANK you so much for saying this. i knew a girl who this song reminds me exactly of. a kind, humble, beautiful girl, her name was emily doucette. i never knew her too well personally, but you could just t e l l when such a good person like that exists

    • @aur9035
      @aur9035 4 роки тому +56

      She's the one around you that always seems perfect..

  • @katie4406
    @katie4406 4 роки тому +17639

    im tired of being the therapist friend.

  • @jezzzzzzz
    @jezzzzzzz 2 роки тому +17

    god i remember when this was posted, loved the song just because, now i’m back again and have a reason to cry over it 😻🤞🏽

  • @ctan7398
    @ctan7398 4 роки тому +4355

    Why is it always the people in the internet making us feel better?

    • @liviahye7088
      @liviahye7088 4 роки тому +90

      Idk but i love it, I'd love to feel better by someone on the internet once

    • @whatamievendoinginlife5360
      @whatamievendoinginlife5360 4 роки тому +26

      BRO RIGHT

    • @iiadxllaa5597
      @iiadxllaa5597 4 роки тому +17

      RIGHT

    • @jessleenduarte6331
      @jessleenduarte6331 4 роки тому +11

      fr 🥺

    • @akrutichopra3972
      @akrutichopra3972 4 роки тому +28

      So true ..I always think that why the people in the internet are so nice than the people I meet in real life but then I think they are also the same with the people in their life ...im just guessing

  • @caitlin8902
    @caitlin8902 4 роки тому +12523

    everybody talking bout their crushes i jus want my family to love me again

    • @all4fatema
      @all4fatema 4 роки тому +716

      keep your head up queen. Your family just doesn't realise how precious and how much of an angel you are ❤

    • @taliajung1553
      @taliajung1553 4 роки тому +363

      I'm so sorry that that happened. I know we don't know each other, but I wish I could give you a hug

    • @Ghales04
      @Ghales04 4 роки тому +248

      fuck them! I'm sure you're an amazing person and it's a true shame that your family can't see that.

    • @caitlin8902
      @caitlin8902 4 роки тому +44

      @@taliajung1553 awe thankies

    • @caitlin8902
      @caitlin8902 4 роки тому +42

      @@all4fatema awe thank you bb

  • @cipvhr
    @cipvhr 4 роки тому +1970

    When your friends says “same” to almost everything u say so you can’t talk to them about how suicidal you feel

    • @Sunshine-xd6iq
      @Sunshine-xd6iq 4 роки тому +42

      This happens everytime with me :)

    • @ordinarylegend9458
      @ordinarylegend9458 4 роки тому +48

      Are you okay? I’m here if you ever need to talk. I know life is hard, and everyone may tell you this, but it will get better, I hate when people say “same” they don’t really know what your going through. I’m here for you. I care about you. You belong here.

    • @maddyrae8565
      @maddyrae8565 4 роки тому +13

      I’m always here for you, you can dm me on insta if you ever need to talk or anything (@maddy_stc) :) i and a ton of other people love you so much and you’re so strong for going through all of that. I don’t want to offend you if you’re not religious/of a different religion but God has a plan for you and He’s going to get you through this and He loves you more than words can describe too.

    • @theamazoner4075
      @theamazoner4075 4 роки тому +7

      i know how you feel *sigh*

    • @mead_s5774
      @mead_s5774 4 роки тому

      yesss

  • @KujiKim-h5u
    @KujiKim-h5u Рік тому +48

    Everytime I hear this song I remember when my crush/boy bsf (we knew each other since the day I entered kindergarten) gave me the wrong signals and I thought he liked me, but was too scared to tell him my feelings so I waited for him to make the move.
    One day he asked me to help him to get to know this one girl, it was none other then my girl bsf And they both have feelings for each other.
    They are married now:)

    • @Veronika_ere
      @Veronika_ere Рік тому +7

      That means that he wasn't the one for you,you will definitely meet the right person when the time comes

    • @someone-nx6ng
      @someone-nx6ng Рік тому +3

      God iam going through the same now. Hope you find the right one❤

    • @randomcommenter5372
      @randomcommenter5372 7 місяців тому

      You will find someone else. I'm sorry though

  • @grace_slytherin9448
    @grace_slytherin9448 4 роки тому +1195

    I have a “heather” friend..she doesn’t even realize how lucky she is.

    • @alexepic9199
      @alexepic9199 4 роки тому +29

      And someone sees ypu as their heather friend and thinks you are so lucky :) Just wait the right person for you isnt looking for your heather friend the right person sees you as heather and will make you feel so happy :) Just wait and with time you will find the Person for you!

    • @carrotcarrotson5563
      @carrotcarrotson5563 4 роки тому +19

      She probably doesn't realise it, meaning you could be a heather too :)

    • @liansalman6118
      @liansalman6118 4 роки тому +9

      That lucky friend of yours is probably hiding feelings. Shes probably having it very tough but shes not showing how shes struggling. Ppl see me as the ”heather” and i wish they knew but i cant tell them. Theyll think im annoying, asking for attention and drama. So i basically sucking it up and moving on but i keep on coming back to this place where this wave of negattive thoughts crush me. have a nice day, xx~🥰

    • @eternal1493
      @eternal1493 4 роки тому +10

      My best friend is a "Heather" but her life at home is just horrible, she lives with sexist and abusive ppl, but at school she's the pretty, nice and intelligent girl(and some other people) are jealous of her, she could've been popular but she prefers to be with me, im not jealous or her at all I just want her to be okay :(

    • @ambarmarie7891
      @ambarmarie7891 4 роки тому +1

      same but her life is so good. good parents, good grades, new friends and all the boys want her. can’t relate

  • @el-ku1pq
    @el-ku1pq 4 роки тому +719

    I didn’t think this song could get any sadder.
    It did.

  • @anjanask4
    @anjanask4 2 роки тому +66

    I never had this thing called 'love' or 'crush' other than to fictional characters but this song hit in multiple levels 😭😭

    • @gcxslayer1162
      @gcxslayer1162 2 роки тому +1

      I have the same thing as you...

    • @wtfexza
      @wtfexza Рік тому +5

      Having crush on fictional characters is the cringiest thing I've ever heard

    • @VibeWithZalya
      @VibeWithZalya Рік тому +9

      @@wtfexza well it makes sense.
      You can literally create the perfect person (for you). You dont have to fall in "love with them" their just crushes. But if its cringe to you then that's fine.

    • @studygram_
      @studygram_ 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@wtfexzait's not cringe. let people be themselves, they're hurting no one. get a job rather than judging random people on the internet and irl as well

    • @wtfexza
      @wtfexza 8 місяців тому +1

      @@studygram_ you're asking me to get a job while defending people who love pixels. Lol get a job

  • @amandatried9439
    @amandatried9439 4 роки тому +1326

    you gave her your sweater, it’s just polyester
    𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧

  • @avaatwell5398
    @avaatwell5398 4 роки тому +5646

    me: trying to listen to depressing music
    ad: gOoD GRAmMar is ImPoRtAnT

  • @punkichu2649
    @punkichu2649 4 роки тому +1339

    i like how my mom used to warn me about the internet, that apperently everyone there was evil, but now the internet are the ones to comfort me

  • @asmitapatil35
    @asmitapatil35 2 роки тому +7

    listening to this song and reading comments below at same time gives goosebumbs

  • @nxtcloudy3516
    @nxtcloudy3516 4 роки тому +2580

    Me: *Listening to this while reading comments*
    +Extra sad

  • @rebelle_rose798
    @rebelle_rose798 4 роки тому +1959

    Pov: the funny friend that is broken inside but no one knows.
    I can relate.

    • @kavyanjalisrivastava9426
      @kavyanjalisrivastava9426 4 роки тому +19

      This is me in a sentence

    • @gia-pz6vd
      @gia-pz6vd 4 роки тому +17

      ik. most of my friends are too blind and caught up with everything else to realize

    • @midbluelala2857
      @midbluelala2857 4 роки тому +17

      And then they ask if your okay and faking a smile you say of course not, but they laugh thinking your were joking. But in reality the moment you are behind closed doors you break down and your smile goes away. It leaves you with only tears and sadness while you are crumpled up on the floor trying to think of how you got there.

    • @jessicaharris1097
      @jessicaharris1097 4 роки тому +2

      This comment made me tear up 🥺

    • @pretendedtobesum1sorrylol797
      @pretendedtobesum1sorrylol797 4 роки тому +2

      •́ ‿ ,•̀

  • @emilychoi6547
    @emilychoi6547 4 роки тому +2152

    psychologist: so what do we do when we feel like this?
    me: we stream heather by conan gray bc we deppressi deppressi :)

  • @ischizoLY
    @ischizoLY Рік тому +18

    hits different when you are in love with them for years but then find out they actually have someone they like...and its someone you know

    • @chitrasanasam163
      @chitrasanasam163 10 місяців тому +3

      I guess She really like her(R) and
      They flirt with each other I front of me

    • @Kaii-_-
      @Kaii-_- 5 місяців тому +1

      both comments actually happened to me today, but the worst part is that she might know that I like her but can't do much bcs it's not mutual, after everyone saying that they looked like a couple she came towards me after and hugged me, I told her that I didn't said anything, she said that she knew like she deep inside knew what I felt.

    • @ischizoLY
      @ischizoLY 5 місяців тому

      @@Kaii-_- one sided love is the worst istg

  • @rubi9715
    @rubi9715 4 роки тому +520

    “why would you ever kiss me, i’m not even half as pretty” hits different when his ex is beautiful and he didn’t lose feelings for her like he lost feelings for you

    • @reallyelizabeth
      @reallyelizabeth 4 роки тому +4

      i’m sorry love... this sadly hit way too close to home for me as well and i definitely went through the same thing :( i hope you’re having an amazing and blessed day and continuing on having those ❤️

    • @rubi9715
      @rubi9715 4 роки тому +1

      Elizabeth Diaz aw i’m sorry 🥺but same i hope you’re doing well :) ❤️

    • @rubi9715
      @rubi9715 4 роки тому

      i’m sorry for what you guys have been through i know it’s hard 🥺 i’m just glad i’m not alone ❤️

  • @carmenquinn9209
    @carmenquinn9209 4 роки тому +5944

    Heather isn’t just a pretty face and a perfect body
    She’s the girl who is living the life you’ve always wanted
    she’s the girl who everyone likes better
    But she’s also the most insecure girl
    and to her WE ARE all the heathers not her

    • @angelin1225
      @angelin1225 4 роки тому +12

      yes 💕

    • @hypnospike
      @hypnospike 4 роки тому +75

      Yup.. except what’s worse is that she has good mental health (my heather).. she doesn’t have any heathers. I want to be like her- it hurts being her best friend bc I can’t stop comparing myself and idk what to do

    • @luvbreonna
      @luvbreonna 4 роки тому +18

      heather in total drama

    • @user-wt2ub1rd4e
      @user-wt2ub1rd4e 4 роки тому +26

      Yeah, living life by people’s expectation sounds suffocating.

    • @danielaclemente275
      @danielaclemente275 4 роки тому +5

      hes talking about a boy that he likes

  • @fridacatalina6008
    @fridacatalina6008 4 роки тому +1527

    It’s worse when he left you for “heather” and she’s your best friend

    • @thiff4nyy
      @thiff4nyy 4 роки тому +19

      then she isn’t ur best friend i hope u feel better

    • @tylersalas2650
      @tylersalas2650 4 роки тому +1

      felt that ones

    • @andreagaletanueco8810
      @andreagaletanueco8810 4 роки тому +6

      It hurts more when “heather” left him but he still wants her back-

    • @goopymina
      @goopymina 4 роки тому +1

      Felt that

    • @goopymina
      @goopymina 4 роки тому +1

      Andrea Gale Tanueco YES.

  • @cheezitcrumbs688
    @cheezitcrumbs688 2 роки тому +14

    god this song takes me back. it’s only been a year or two, but it feels so different but in the some way the same. it’s crazy to think though, how chapped my lips were then, how little i showered, how much i starved or binged. how little or how heavily i rested. my life was just empty and i saw nothing. i felt horrible and disgusted with everything about me. unworthy of any love. now it’s a little different, but in some way i always revert back to the same thoughts no matter what i do. just different habits. i still see nothing, just feel less empty. it’s crazy how long pain can last. it makes me worry that it’ll never go, i’ll never have that peace. so, i just live everyday of my life one after another.
    if anyone’s reading though thanks for reading my thoughts, it may seem empty but it’ll fill up eventually, whatever void it may feel like. there’s an ending to this and we’ll find it together. you got this, strangers across the internet but that doesn’t make you any less important. you got this, best wishes.

    • @person.165
      @person.165 2 роки тому +1

      How are you doing now? At the moment I'm practically the same as you were.

  • @6luefire
    @6luefire 4 роки тому +2534

    Song hits different when everyone is asleep and you're just trying to cry quietly cause you hate being seen while crying and nonstop asked "Are you okay" because you're embarrassed.

    • @bashsusulan2109
      @bashsusulan2109 4 роки тому +19

      Can relate lol , I was crying right now at 11:46 pm.

    • @yunimn013
      @yunimn013 4 роки тому +12

      Did you just read my mind?

    • @youngxking962
      @youngxking962 4 роки тому +20

      Hits even more different when you cried so much that you can't cry

    • @EveryDayAnimalsss
      @EveryDayAnimalsss 4 роки тому +8

      @@bashsusulan2109 OH MY GOD DUDE WHEN I READ THIS IT WAS 11:46 WHAT A COINCIDENCE LOLL SIRI JUST SO COOL

    • @6luefire
      @6luefire 4 роки тому +1

      @@yunimn013 Teehee

  • @plasticlope7995
    @plasticlope7995 3 роки тому +9241

    I think all 7.6 million of us should meet up and have a big therapy session

  • @elliewilliams62
    @elliewilliams62 4 роки тому +6035

    Heather doesn’t even think she is the “Heather”. You are a Heather in someone’s eyes. Even if you don’t feel it yourself. You are

    • @mementomori7397
      @mementomori7397 4 роки тому +122

      I wish

    • @ririkamomobami2200
      @ririkamomobami2200 4 роки тому +35

      Memento Mori You wish people hated you and wanted you dead? How bout we swap lives

    • @ghostlybussy-7590
      @ghostlybussy-7590 4 роки тому +33

      This comment made me tear up lol

    • @tiamyers3352
      @tiamyers3352 4 роки тому +77

      yes. the girl heather was known as the ‘angel’ and was just so perfect Inside and out you literally couldn’t come to hate her because she was so perfect, but she didn’t realise that. Everyone is perfect even when you think your not, your worth more than gold. never doubt yourself.

    • @tiamyers3352
      @tiamyers3352 4 роки тому +22

      SugaAnd Spice girl the ‘heather’ in the song was a girl that was so perfect inside and out, she was like an angel. He says he wishes she was dead because she was so mesmerising and perfect

  • @isthisiris
    @isthisiris 2 роки тому +8

    I used to be obsessed with this song back in my Royale High obsessed era. me and my friends would constantly sing it to each other while on FaceTime having no idea what the song even meant and now I listen to it and know I can relate

  • @eugenia2502
    @eugenia2502 4 роки тому +1842

    „We can be more than friends.... best friends“
    Ouch.

  • @mackenzieduranduran3479
    @mackenzieduranduran3479 4 роки тому +3701

    i’ve had a crush on him for 4 years . he’s never noticed me, but noticed my bestfriend. I wish i was her .

    • @nishisheth4249
      @nishisheth4249 4 роки тому +193

      It the same for me. I’ve liked him for five years, but all he talks about is my best friend. She likes him too. It Hurts

    • @lizzie4922
      @lizzie4922 4 роки тому +65

      i'm so sorry.

    • @Melanie-io9bm
      @Melanie-io9bm 4 роки тому +136

      She knew I liked him but still dated him when she didn’t even like him. They have been dating for 6 months. She was my best friend for 8 years but now we don’t talk

    • @caroq433
      @caroq433 4 роки тому +26

      Melanie Chairez i’m so so sorry❤️

    • @Melanie-io9bm
      @Melanie-io9bm 4 роки тому +12

      Caro Q it’s fine. I have gotten over it

  • @spidermanenthusiast4704
    @spidermanenthusiast4704 4 роки тому +4391

    it sucks when “heather” isn’t a real person, it’s just the idea of a girl. i don’t have a chance, im trans masc and he’s straight.

    • @aylinyigiter2673
      @aylinyigiter2673 4 роки тому +5

      isnt he gay

    • @spidermanenthusiast4704
      @spidermanenthusiast4704 4 роки тому +58

      aylin yiğiter not conan, someone i know personally

    • @harshadapadaya8417
      @harshadapadaya8417 4 роки тому +24

      Mafuyu ( ◜‿◝ )♡ hanging in there!!!

    • @oliveb1242
      @oliveb1242 4 роки тому +41

      he is gay the song is about him liking a guy who has kinda shown he likes him but the guy he likes is with heather. Sorry if I came off as rude I don't mean too

    • @spidermanenthusiast4704
      @spidermanenthusiast4704 4 роки тому +26

      A Singer yea i know, i relate to it personally and that’s what i was talking about :)

  • @deepfrost1344
    @deepfrost1344 Рік тому +2

    This song is already sad enough. Putting the video looping in the background as this scene of shinji from evangelion is just on another level 😭

  • @dwbuis
    @dwbuis 3 роки тому +5459

    ' how could i hate her, she is such an angel ' hurts more when the heather is your bestfriend

  • @amberd9825
    @amberd9825 4 роки тому +19713

    The most painful thing is when everyone “likes you” but no one cares about you.

    • @beansaresodelicious
      @beansaresodelicious 4 роки тому +308

      Yea everybody in my school likes me so they can “borrow“ my stuff they even broke my stuff
      So i moved school

    • @user-wi2ev2pp1y
      @user-wi2ev2pp1y 4 роки тому +172

      when everyone loves you but no one likes you :(

    • @elissafrasure8523
      @elissafrasure8523 4 роки тому +20

      ...yeah.

    • @erkanselimkoc1763
      @erkanselimkoc1763 4 роки тому +53

      nobody likes me and nobody cares about me

    • @amberd9825
      @amberd9825 4 роки тому +8

      magnolia strouse I feel that... that hits really hard.

  • @tigrouuu4115
    @tigrouuu4115 4 роки тому +2914

    Worst pain is loving someone who u can’t be with now.

    • @supershigechi9453
      @supershigechi9453 4 роки тому +6

      It happens too me

    • @Pikah90s
      @Pikah90s 4 роки тому +13

      i feel this. it fucking hurts

    • @riya4510
      @riya4510 4 роки тому +2

      :(

    • @rynelizabeth8639
      @rynelizabeth8639 4 роки тому +30

      the worst pain is telling someone all about you, your strengths and your weaknesses, because you thought they’d always be there for you. but in reality- now they just know all the ways to hurt you

    • @llenchuu
      @llenchuu 4 роки тому +12

      Especially having to wait years to be with them.

  • @luxx4
    @luxx4 2 роки тому +15

    the times when i was listening to this video every night were insane

  • @kiraroman8544
    @kiraroman8544 4 роки тому +2049

    What sucks is My crush actually likes a Heather and honestly she deserves him more then I

    • @elikad865
      @elikad865 4 роки тому +68

      don’t think like that :((

    • @natalievadun6800
      @natalievadun6800 4 роки тому +50

      🥺🥺 you will find ur perfect match soon

    • @rae2439
      @rae2439 4 роки тому +47

      No shut up, you’re amazing and he’s stupid not to see that. He doesn’t deserve you, because your too good for him.

    • @peoplewillbefake.9936
      @peoplewillbefake.9936 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah probably he does deserve her

    • @AnaHernandez-cy7bu
      @AnaHernandez-cy7bu 4 роки тому +20

      Know your worth bby 🥺 ily queen

  • @aniiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
    @aniiiiiiiiiiiiiiii 4 роки тому +2568

    Everyone is here talking about their crushed hearts, but I’m crying because I’m scared of love, it’s broken me too much already, and now I’m even more afraid

    • @noa3713
      @noa3713 4 роки тому +3

      same girl

    • @gracie4437
      @gracie4437 4 роки тому +16

      i realized that i’m here to make ppl to feel loved but i’m not able to receive love from anyone else. i believe their is a love for everyone but me.

    • @draconictraveler3999
      @draconictraveler3999 4 роки тому +2

      I got rejected by my crush before because it's so awkward now I don't want to talk to her anymore I'm just pretending to be happy but inside I'm broke

    • @fannymorein
      @fannymorein 4 роки тому +3

      For any of y'all that are feeling down about your love life, just know that I used to feel like you do now. I felt ugly and undeserving, I had my heart broken multiple times and were scared to go out into the dating life again. Then I met this boy. He found me, he reached out to me and made me feel better. We're now married with a gorgeous little son. He turned my depressed life around in a way I never knew was possible. But it is possible. There is someone out there for you, someone that is just waiting to love you and make you feel your best. Just hang in there, know that you are enough. Life can change so quickly, you just have to get through those tough times. Try to be that person that someone needs and always be yourself. I love you all, I'm certain that you will find the one for you ❤️

    • @gracie4437
      @gracie4437 4 роки тому

      Simren NASEER i love u too🥺❤️. thank u!!

  • @mushy8853
    @mushy8853 4 роки тому +654

    " she's got you as mesmerized while I cry. "
    " How can I hate her she's such an angel "
    " Wish I were heather. "
    " I'm not even half as pretty. "
    Those lyrics hit hard

    • @vivi-kj4ce
      @vivi-kj4ce 4 роки тому +26

      the lyrics is actually “she’s got you mesmerized while i die” so it makes everything more painful.

    • @mushy8853
      @mushy8853 4 роки тому +7

      @@vivi-kj4ce OOH I heard cry ty for telling me

  • @Robloxadd1ctx
    @Robloxadd1ctx 2 роки тому +29

    Heather
    shes kind
    shes nice
    she doesnt judge
    she never gets judged
    she has friends
    shes funny
    shes beautiful
    shes happy
    everyone likes her
    shes smart
    Shes confident
    she gets good grades
    she dresses nice
    everyone has a crush on her
    shes a golden child
    She gets treated well
    no-one bullies her
    she smells nice
    Her parents let her do whatever she wants
    the teachers like her
    she has amazing hair
    young girls look up to her
    she has clear skin
    she has good make-up
    shes pretty
    her parents are nice
    she gets what she wants
    she has long eye-lashes
    she has deep blue eyes
    shes a people-person
    Everyone is her friend
    shes rich
    Nobody hates her
    she has no enemys
    everyone listens to her
    shes perfect
    𝗶𝗺 𝗻𝗼𝘁

    • @WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
      @WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA 2 роки тому +3

      That’s kind of scary like I wouldn’t date a girl with clear skin like I don’t want to see your veins, muscles, organs and your nerves like have some skin

  • @leslie1302
    @leslie1302 4 роки тому +1893

    This really made me realize that “my Heather” is my best friend. She’s beautiful, kind, funny, and overall just the best kind of person. Everyone loves her so much, my friends and everyone I know will always choose her over me. I can’t even hate her because I would too, she’s just that perfect.

    • @deandra9903
      @deandra9903 4 роки тому +12

      relatable

    • @Kobiewaddingham
      @Kobiewaddingham 4 роки тому +7

      Can relate

    • @solvhaa6461
      @solvhaa6461 4 роки тому +3

      Minimum Effort same

    • @user-luvror
      @user-luvror 4 роки тому +5

      U just said what I was about to say she is my best friend for 10 years I can't hate her at all I would give her my world but shit she is my Heather 😭😭😭

    • @casonmitchell4314
      @casonmitchell4314 4 роки тому +3

      Felt that!!

  • @hottestpersonalive
    @hottestpersonalive 4 роки тому +1471

    pov: you’re trying to read the comments through a blur of tears

  • @ghostyluvsglare
    @ghostyluvsglare 4 роки тому +2461

    POV: you're in love with you're best friend but he's dating someone and all you want is for him to be happy even though it hurts you. Also you accidentally got him and his girlfriend together and now you wish there was something that you could've done to make that not happen but you know that he's in love with someone else and now you're trying to get over him

    • @aeriuiu
      @aeriuiu 4 роки тому +50

      that happened to me but i eventually got over him :) AFTER 2 YEARS

    • @eurekajam1556
      @eurekajam1556 4 роки тому +15

      This just made me cry even more :(

    • @aaronabdo739
      @aaronabdo739 4 роки тому +22

      THIS LITERALLY HAPPENED TO ME

    • @sophie-bee1
      @sophie-bee1 4 роки тому +9

      who hurt you?...♥️

    • @lilywilliams6682
      @lilywilliams6682 4 роки тому +6

      Genuinely my 2019 lol

  • @lyaan-pt8eo
    @lyaan-pt8eo 9 місяців тому +3

    POV: your the friend who’s always smiling and happy while ur slowly hurting on the inside