I love that you said you didnt want someone who just tolerated your faith. I used to think that about saving sex for marriage. I didnt want a man who accepted me inspite of that, but someone who knew the value in that decision. Now Im married to him and expecting our first baby!
Your point of asking the question “Is this relationship the right relationship for me?” when being with an amazing faith-filled person is just what I needed to hear. There’s so much peace in knowing that if something great doesn’t work out, God ultimately has greater things planned. ❤️
I love how much you admire and cherish your husband and I have no doubt that he would say similar things about you if prompted at the drop of a hat. I watch your videos every time you post because your story helps me remember the intention behind my choice to be 28 and single. Never been kissed. Never had a boyfriend. And saving myself for when I am ready to settle down. I have dreams and conviction and desires that I want to come to pass and I believe that I am not ready for them yet. But I press on toward the goal in hopes of becoming ready through the work Christ is doing in my heart
I think you did a grand example of voicing the abstract, emotional experiences you have and wisdom on this topic. I think you’ll help a lot of girls who need to reflect on what you have to say.
This broke my heart and opened my eyes at the same time. I've liked someone off and on for almost four years now but this year was different. I prayed for someone to marry someone to father my children and support my faith. Watching this made me realize that either were incredible too young or he isn't the right one for me. Thank you for an amazing eye opening video. ❤️
As someone who is a non-denominational believer, I really enjoy your videos. Unlike many people, you dont preach, necessarily but talk, and whether your viewers are believers or not, the things you say are so useful in everyday life. Thank you!
Thank you so much for this video. I find very difficult not to get confused between my feelings and what I think God wants for me. It is really easy to convince yourself you're on the right relationship because of all of the emotions you have at the moment. But what I think is very helpful is the critical thinking post you mentioned. Deep down we know the answer and we need to stop for a moment, and think, and observe. I find your videos very encouraging while I prepare myself and wait for "the right one". God bless you!!
You guys are an amazing couple, like to be honest to find a man like Daniel in Europe is kinda a miracle. I lived in spain a while and didn’t really find that many true convicted believers my age. I’m sure they are around, but seems like the youth are either atheist, or agnostic or just don’t care. Yes, my church had young people but they were all mostly from South America or other countries, a few from Spain, but maybe 10%. Takes deep authentic faith to stay pure and devout in Europe, where it’s definitely not popular to be. Many blessings on your marriage!
Lindsey LaVida I totally agree. I myself live in Spain and finding godly men is really hard. I just pray every day to the Lord that He sends me the man He wants me to be with forever and makes it crystal clear because honestly I'm just so skeptical now. I am going on a retreat this weekend and will be praying for all of you beautiful women of God and sisters in Christ :)
One priest once told me quite brutally, that prayer is not enough, your husband won't fall from church's ceiling.. If you want to find a man of faith, you should go in places when you can find them. I think it's difficult but if you are active in live of church (some youth groups, different catholic communities) it becomes easier (plus, you grow spiritually!). So if you have that possibility - go out and meet as many people as you can! I met my bf, when I joined Youfra, I know it exists in Spain as well :)
+Lindsey LaVida I can totally relate to this. I've been living in the Netherlands for the past 4 years. And it's been a struggle finding a godly man here. The typical dutch men don't worry about God, they won't even approach a woman. And the ones who do approach me are mostly muslim men. Some of them are of good character and do want to get marry but I won't go there. And the few men who attend my church are already married or not my type and won't even approach. So finding a godly man here in the Netherlands is like finding a needle in a haystack
I’m so glad there are people like you in the world that can guide young women and teach them about knowing what’s the right relationship for them and not to settle. I’ve settled so much. I don’t have people in my life to guide me in the right direction quite the opposite. I had to figure it out for myself, you and people with your same goal have been a big help❤️
I like that you say relationships are about self giving. You are so correct and if two people don't enter into a marriage understanding that then they are doing it for the wrong reason...let your relationships further the kingdom of God and show Christ Love in the way you live each day.
This made me even more thankful for my amazing boyfriend. He's the most selfless, hardworking, Joseph-like person I've ever met. I discovered a beautiful thing : the more I'm in love with him, the more I'm in love with Jesus and the other way around. We're still very young, so I don't know if he will be my husband, but I live it in God's hands. Can't wait for what He prepared for us!
you’re channel is such a breath of fresh year. i’m so thankful that you use your wisdom to share to us and to glorify the lord. i’m only 14 but i’m infinitely grateful that I found your channel for future reference. thank you so so much for this. love from texas 💞
Wow. Actually speechless. I’m 18 and just started my UA-cam channel and you are completely capturing my vision for what i would love to talk about in the future. You are an incredible woman of God and you truly inspire me and show me that it’s possible to do it all. so thank you for honoring the call of God on your life and for being completely beautiful and authentic as reflecting the heart of Jesus so well. I would love to connect with you one day cause i also feel extremely called to ministry. but wow thank you for being you!
I love how you stated that you don't think there is "the one" but that it was a choice and of course with you both walking along with God his approval was important. You've gained a new subscriber 👏🏾👏🏾
I tend to be a person who can be a bit overly emotional and sometimes even the girl who you described as being like "omg is he the one". In some times in life, these strong dramatic emotions can be a huge strength, but I'm finding as I grow and mature bit by bit that it might not be the best thing in a romantic relationship. I'm trying to learn to think practically and critically and this video has shown me how to do that in a way that is still loving and emotional while being realistic and practical and I wanted to thank you. Pray for me as I attempt to practice these things in my everyday life! God bless
I truly believe God is speaking to me through you. Every time you post videos they speak to me on things that I have held in my heart. Thank you for your faithfulness
Love love love this message! These points need to be heard by young men and women of the Lord all around the world, and you are truly an example of how worth it it is to find that special person you can spend the rest of your life with! God bless you!
I would love to see a video regarding discerning religious life! I don't know if you have any experience with it, but there isn't a ton of info out there and would love to hear what you have to say on the topic.
I love this so much and found it so helpful. Recently, I have been thinking about my future husband, which is funny since I'm only in high school. I love your channel and your advice so so much. It's kinda like getting advice from a big sister!
That first point is so important! I was in a long term relationship and the guy tolerated my faith but had a very loose idea of faith for himself. A year and a half into the relationship he suddenly decided that he didn't want to be with me anymore because my faith was so important to me. A couple months later I met a preacher who I clicked with instantly. That preacher is now my fiance and I am so excited to worship God with him by my side for the rest of my life ❤
Thank You for your wonderful advice beautiful😘 . I am still waiting for the right guy to come to my path. And I do not what to settle myself with any guy that crosses my path. It took me a lot of years to realize that my value of my Faith is something I what to live for the rest of my life. 💕 Yes, I will start to pray for my future husband! Everything at Gods plan/time.🌼
I would like this a hundred times if I could! I got emotional with you! :') Thank you so much!! Many times it's hard for me to believe that I could really find someone who is of faith and character and integrity and that will love me in a selfless way. Your story gives me hope :)
Hi, Emily! It is the first time I post a comment on your channel so, first of all, I want to thank you for sharing your faith, experience and knowledge with the world; it's really beautiful and inspiring. Second of all, this video brought me to tears because my boyfriend is everything that you mentioned, but religious (he was raised Catholic, but stopped practicing it a few years ago). That has been troubling my mind for a while since I do love him and he loves me and he is someone that would be a great husband. He's ok with me being a Catholic, but now I've realized that I don't want someone who tolerates my faith, I truly want someone to live and share my faith with. When we started dating I never thought that this would affect me that much, but now I wonder if it's going to affect me even more when/if we get married. Again, he's such a nice guy and would be a great husband, but... what to do when he doesn't embrace that very important part of you which is your faith? Thanks for reading my super long post. Greetings from Mexico!
I have been settling. I complete relate to what you said about going on dates with guys who didn't have faith. Can you make a video about where do you find a man of God to date?
I got really worried when you asked "am I setteling", cause I wonder if I do, but then again what you said next about "is this the right relationship" and having those fears are all questions I ask at the same time, so they are very linked in my head and you clearly seperated them
I admire your passion for your religion. You have a strong believe yet you don't seem judgemental of others who do not believe the same. That is truly loving of mankind which I think is fundamental in all religions. The world could do with more acceptance of others. I wish you and your husband well ❤
I can’t thank you enough for your channel and videos like this. Your videos always seem to come at the right time with the words that I need to hear. ♥️
I fell in love a while back with a not so religious Christian... he believes that there is a God, but he doesn’t pray or go to church. I’m praying for him that his faith can be strengthen. God is so important to me and I want to give him a small push to strengthen his faith. Is God disappointed in me for falling in love with him? I love him so much but I want to help his faith. We’re not dating, but we have feelings for each other. I don’t want to disappoint God and I don’t know whether to help him or flee...
Kaitlyn Elizabeth how can God ne dissapointed when you love someone? He surely ist Happy for you, that you feel that way for someone else. It's beautiful that you pray for his faith but don't try to change him. Thats the Nature of Love, Loving someone as he is. I Response to you because i dated someone Like this for 2 years and then we broke up because of the faith. But that doesnt mean it won't Work Out. I've also seen it Work. But don't date to convert him. :) Im praying for you two
Kaitlyn Elizabeth It's absolutely fine to love someone who isn't Christian (or isn't very Christian, as the case may be). But remember that dating is meant to help you discern whether the two of you are suited for marriage with each other. You shouldn't date him if your only motivation is to lead him in his faith. You can help him, but ultimately it's up to him to develop a solid relationship with God. I'd advise you not to date him if he isn't willing to be serious about his faith, but you should definitely pray about it and ask God to guide you. I'll be praying for both you and him as well!
I agree, I liked a guy who said he would consider himself a christian because he believes in God but he has his struggles, and we all do. I wanted to date him and I probably would have if he asked, the thing was I had a perspective on him and others had a different perspective on him. I do still pray for him even though I don't see him and talk to him anymore.(just a little insight of me) what I do suggest Is pray that the Lord work in his life to see Christ and get to know him and to give his life to Christ and that your crush would be willing to to give his life to Christ. Talk about God with him and give a little examples of Christ in your life. Then pray if you should persue him and build a relationship with this guy. And if the door is closed (and it might hurt if it is), don't worry about it, that means God has someone else for you. Just seek God first and everything will work out in the right timing.... Another thing is, if he doesn't really care for it and you think you can change him just by forcing him, he will most likely bring you down instead of you bringing him to Christ and that's not good. As a christian try to pursue a christian guy because it's better for your beliefs and standards you have for yourself and it might be easier to grow as a couple in Christ but hey God is an awesome and mighty God. He knows what's best and there are special cases l, I do believe that so hey yours might be a special case so don't lose faith but don't wait forever either. And God is never disappointed with His children, so don't ever think that. God Bless you and I hope your prayers get answers soon.
Kaitlyn Elizabeth - if you are the reason his “faith” is strengthened, that facade will eventually fall. Don’t delude yourself by imagining him as the person you want him to be; imagine being married to the person he is - a man who tolerates your faith, but has none of his own. If that doesn’t appeal to you, move on. Do not become unevenly yoked.
Lynn Davis, this is so hard to read and accept. It's been 2 years and I'm still trying, how to let go? (I'm a young woman who's been in a relationship with this man for a long time)
I love you Emily!! Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️ I always pray to God to see if I am doing something right for me, like a job promotion or dating this wonderful guy or my math class. I am so Blessed to have you in my life Emily!! God bless you and your loved ones always :)
I absolutely love your videos! So encouraging and straight from your heart. Love hearing your perspective and values on different topics, you DEFINITELY gained a new subscriber!👌🏻
Thank you so much for this video! It is so inspiring and its great to see a sister so wise and real with her community! Thanks for sharing your thought process and your critical thinking. I think we definitely do need to critically think more than just 'feel' in relationships, especially in today's world.
I love all your videos!!! I am so happy that you made a video about how you knew your husband I am so excited to about this video Emily you are such a great woman of faith .this video came right on time for me !!!💯😃😉🙏🙏👏🙌🙌🙌
This is so sweet, thank you so much for sharing, what you said about self giving is so true, I just feel like by being single I have just so much to learn and so much things to change about myself before even dating, thanks again God bless you!
Hi, Emily! I was wondering if you would consider doing a video on setting boundaries for in-laws and other people. My fiancé's family can be harsh, and I would love to know a Godly way to set healthy boundaries with non-romantic relationships.
Great video and makes complete sense. I somehow had an idea that my husband was the one for me just before we dated. I was in a bad relationship at the time and he became a good friend. When i broke up with ex a while later started dating him it wasn't even the warm fuzzy feelings that made me feel he was the one for me. It was how content and calm he made me. I was satisfied in his presence. Hope that makes sense. Sometimes knowing someone is made for you is even more pure a feeling than just the butterfly feelings and flutters you feel when falling in loveXx
I'm a serving heart. My boyfriend isn't, he once told me I shouldn't go on a mission trip because what I do there wouldn't be appreciated :( Sometimes I ask myself if I'm settling or if he is the best person for me. . We also struggle with him being aloof and me being very emotional. Don't feel emotional connected, I've told him this and all he's said is that he will try to change. But I don't want to change him!! I don't believe changing people. Because I don't want to be changed.
I really loves my bf. He has a great faith and he support me. I love to travel the world but he doesnt like that so now i’m thinking if he is my future husband do i want that? Is that setteling ? But i also have the feeling that God put us togheter . My parents are divorced so im constantly afraid that i won’t make “iT”
I just happened upon this video and for good reason it seems. I'm 27 with 2 boys and married my high school sweetheart. We are currently separated unfortunately and I appreciate the video it helps alot reconfirming some things. Thanks :)
For the moment the Lord has me living the best single life I can, but definitely feel called to the married life at some point. Awesome advice as always. Btw I freaking love that cute teal necklace💟
For what reasons do you really want marriage for yourself? Why is marriage so important to you that you fear you won't get it? You don't have to answer these questions here, but when you do have the answers, ask yourself if Christ is enough to satisfy those reasons.
If it is the right thing, god will have a man for you. You don't have to do anything. It is not like you can do something wrong and not find the right man because of that, god has a plan, you don't even have the power to destroy that, so don't worry :)
Hi, thanks for putting this up, it was helpful! I do really want to know HOW do you know and HOW did you two have the chance to get to know each other? How did you know it was a good time to date each other? Did he date someone while you were friends? Did he date skmeone AFTER you were interested in him or did he break up with someone b4 you two were even friends? I thought I got conformation on a situation like that, then the guy started dating this other girl.
I wanna be blessed just like she is blessed! I want to be blessed to have a good and pure husband and I want to be blessed to be a good and pure wife to my future husband. May God bless her and her marriage more and more and blesses me just like God blessed her ♥️
Thank you for this video Emily! Could you please make videos more in depth of what exactly is a servants' heart, and what were these fears you had about marriage and how you overcame them. Also I was wondering how long you knew Daniel before thinking of getting into a relationship with him. I've been praying to God for a good man that could lead into marriage (i.e. novena to St. Joseph), because, at the age of thirty, I feel God calling me to the sacrament of marriage, but it seems as if its a dessert where I am. However, on New Years Eve I met a nice man who seems to be interested in me. Now, how do i decipher that he is the man God wants me to start a relationship with.... Because he is a nice guy, but then I have thoughts of what if there are other guys out there....yet if there were, wouldn't God sent the men my way so that I can choose?..I have never been in a relationship because I always though God wanted me to enter a monastery, thus I'm a bit confused with this all...
Josh Toups Great question, I’d say it’s something that happens organically:) You’ve entered into a level of depth that makes it feel right to say ‘I love you’
When it comes out naturally. When you cannot physically hold it back. Do not think of it as a stage you get to and “should” say it. These are words which come from your heart and, therefore, should come with no doubt. X
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I love that you said you didnt want someone who just tolerated your faith. I used to think that about saving sex for marriage. I didnt want a man who accepted me inspite of that, but someone who knew the value in that decision. Now Im married to him and expecting our first baby!
Gabriela congratulations!🙌🏼
Well that's a glory story if I've ever heard one! Thank you for sharing!
awww how beautiful! congrats
Your point of asking the question “Is this relationship the right relationship for me?” when being with an amazing faith-filled person is just what I needed to hear. There’s so much peace in knowing that if something great doesn’t work out, God ultimately has greater things planned. ❤️
Yes! He always has great things planned!
I love how much you admire and cherish your husband and I have no doubt that he would say similar things about you if prompted at the drop of a hat. I watch your videos every time you post because your story helps me remember the intention behind my choice to be 28 and single. Never been kissed. Never had a boyfriend. And saving myself for when I am ready to settle down. I have dreams and conviction and desires that I want to come to pass and I believe that I am not ready for them yet. But I press on toward the goal in hopes of becoming ready through the work Christ is doing in my heart
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You keep that heart up and fight on, my sister. You are absolutely on the right track.
I’m not even religious and we have such different views yet I still find myself on your channel all the time 😂💛
my face hurts from smiling so hard. THIS IS THE TRUTH EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO HEAR GOD IS SO GOOD!!!!!!!!! Thank you Emily
I think you did a grand example of voicing the abstract, emotional experiences you have and wisdom on this topic. I think you’ll help a lot of girls who need to reflect on what you have to say.
I wish men were more godly these days. heartbreak is horrible and after going through it I just hope god brings the right man into my life
This broke my heart and opened my eyes at the same time. I've liked someone off and on for almost four years now but this year was different. I prayed for someone to marry someone to father my children and support my faith. Watching this made me realize that either were incredible too young or he isn't the right one for me. Thank you for an amazing eye opening video. ❤️
Golly. Tears. I needed this for moving on from the past and looking into the future. Thank you for being "there" for us.
I am so happy to be here for you.
As someone who is a non-denominational believer, I really enjoy your videos. Unlike many people, you dont preach, necessarily but talk, and whether your viewers are believers or not, the things you say are so useful in everyday life. Thank you!
Thank you so much for this video. I find very difficult not to get confused between my feelings and what I think God wants for me. It is really easy to convince yourself you're on the right relationship because of all of the emotions you have at the moment. But what I think is very helpful is the critical thinking post you mentioned. Deep down we know the answer and we need to stop for a moment, and think, and observe. I find your videos very encouraging while I prepare myself and wait for "the right one". God bless you!!
"Deep down we know the answer." Yes, yes indeed.
You guys are an amazing couple, like to be honest to find a man like Daniel in Europe is kinda a miracle. I lived in spain a while and didn’t really find that many true convicted believers my age. I’m sure they are around, but seems like the youth are either atheist, or agnostic or just don’t care. Yes, my church had young people but they were all mostly from South America or other countries, a few from Spain, but maybe 10%. Takes deep authentic faith to stay pure and devout in Europe, where it’s definitely not popular to be. Many blessings on your marriage!
Lindsey LaVida I totally agree. I myself live in Spain and finding godly men is really hard. I just pray every day to the Lord that He sends me the man He wants me to be with forever and makes it crystal clear because honestly I'm just so skeptical now. I am going on a retreat this weekend and will be praying for all of you beautiful women of God and sisters in Christ :)
Don't give up. Believe me, we all go through this in western countries especially!
Well, God is a God of miracles ;)
One priest once told me quite brutally, that prayer is not enough, your husband won't fall from church's ceiling.. If you want to find a man of faith, you should go in places when you can find them. I think it's difficult but if you are active in live of church (some youth groups, different catholic communities) it becomes easier (plus, you grow spiritually!). So if you have that possibility - go out and meet as many people as you can! I met my bf, when I joined Youfra, I know it exists in Spain as well :)
+Lindsey LaVida I can totally relate to this. I've been living in the Netherlands for the past 4 years. And it's been a struggle finding a godly man here. The typical dutch men don't worry about God, they won't even approach a woman. And the ones who do approach me are mostly muslim men. Some of them are of good character and do want to get marry but I won't go there. And the few men who attend my church are already married or not my type and won't even approach. So finding a godly man here in the Netherlands is like finding a needle in a haystack
oh man. Lord we pray for more daniels! LOL. raise them up to be men of amazing integrity, character, leadership!!! #clingingontohope
Yes and amen x1000.
I’m so glad there are people like you in the world that can guide young women and teach them about knowing what’s the right relationship for them and not to settle. I’ve settled so much. I don’t have people in my life to guide me in the right direction quite the opposite. I had to figure it out for myself, you and people with your same goal have been a big help❤️
I like that you say relationships are about self giving. You are so correct and if two people don't enter into a marriage understanding that then they are doing it for the wrong reason...let your relationships further the kingdom of God and show Christ Love in the way you live each day.
The insights you shared are both practical and beautiful. Infinite thumbs up!
Thanks Michelle!
This made me even more thankful for my amazing boyfriend. He's the most selfless, hardworking, Joseph-like person I've ever met. I discovered a beautiful thing : the more I'm in love with him, the more I'm in love with Jesus and the other way around. We're still very young, so I don't know if he will be my husband, but I live it in God's hands. Can't wait for what He prepared for us!
you’re channel is such a breath of fresh year. i’m so thankful that you use your wisdom to share to us and to glorify the lord. i’m only 14 but i’m infinitely grateful that I found your channel for future reference. thank you so so much for this. love from texas 💞
Wow. Actually speechless. I’m 18 and just started my UA-cam channel and you are completely capturing my vision for what i would love to talk about in the future. You are an incredible woman of God and you truly inspire me and show me that it’s possible to do it all. so thank you for honoring the call of God on your life and for being completely beautiful and authentic as reflecting the heart of Jesus so well. I would love to connect with you one day cause i also feel extremely called to ministry. but wow thank you for being you!
This is so timely, you have no idea! Your criteria is brilliant, thank you. Remember, love/marriage is a choice, not an emotion!
I love how you stated that you don't think there is "the one" but that it was a choice and of course with you both walking along with God his approval was important. You've gained a new subscriber 👏🏾👏🏾
I loved this video, it gave me chills. Thank you for always making videos to help me live out my life to the fullest.
You are welcome Grace!
You are so great. Srsly down to earth and practical. Its a breath of fresh air
I tend to be a person who can be a bit overly emotional and sometimes even the girl who you described as being like "omg is he the one". In some times in life, these strong dramatic emotions can be a huge strength, but I'm finding as I grow and mature bit by bit that it might not be the best thing in a romantic relationship. I'm trying to learn to think practically and critically and this video has shown me how to do that in a way that is still loving and emotional while being realistic and practical and I wanted to thank you. Pray for me as I attempt to practice these things in my everyday life! God bless
I truly believe God is speaking to me through you. Every time you post videos they speak to me on things that I have held in my heart. Thank you for your faithfulness
What a beautiful thing for your husband to watch. Your words must bring so much encouragement to him
Love love love this message! These points need to be heard by young men and women of the Lord all around the world, and you are truly an example of how worth it it is to find that special person you can spend the rest of your life with! God bless you!
I would love to see a video regarding discerning religious life! I don't know if you have any experience with it, but there isn't a ton of info out there and would love to hear what you have to say on the topic.
Therese Tormey ThatCatholicCouple did a video on that a while ago, you should go check it out! They're awesome!!
I love this so much and found it so helpful. Recently, I have been thinking about my future husband, which is funny since I'm only in high school. I love your channel and your advice so so much. It's kinda like getting advice from a big sister!
That first point is so important! I was in a long term relationship and the guy tolerated my faith but had a very loose idea of faith for himself. A year and a half into the relationship he suddenly decided that he didn't want to be with me anymore because my faith was so important to me. A couple months later I met a preacher who I clicked with instantly. That preacher is now my fiance and I am so excited to worship God with him by my side for the rest of my life ❤
This is exactly what I needed right now. Thank you so much Emily!
I needed this so much. Thank you for sharing Emily.❤️
Thank You for your wonderful advice beautiful😘 . I am still waiting for the right guy to come to my path. And I do not what to settle myself with any guy that crosses my path. It took me a lot of years to realize that my value of my Faith is something I what to live for the rest of my life. 💕 Yes, I will start to pray for my future husband! Everything at Gods plan/time.🌼
I would like this a hundred times if I could! I got emotional with you! :') Thank you so much!! Many times it's hard for me to believe that I could really find someone who is of faith and character and integrity and that will love me in a selfless way. Your story gives me hope :)
I'm not even dating anyone, but I wanted to watch this anyway
Hi, Emily! It is the first time I post a comment on your channel so, first of all, I want to thank you for sharing your faith, experience and knowledge with the world; it's really beautiful and inspiring. Second of all, this video brought me to tears because my boyfriend is everything that you mentioned, but religious (he was raised Catholic, but stopped practicing it a few years ago). That has been troubling my mind for a while since I do love him and he loves me and he is someone that would be a great husband. He's ok with me being a Catholic, but now I've realized that I don't want someone who tolerates my faith, I truly want someone to live and share my faith with. When we started dating I never thought that this would affect me that much, but now I wonder if it's going to affect me even more when/if we get married. Again, he's such a nice guy and would be a great husband, but... what to do when he doesn't embrace that very important part of you which is your faith?
Thanks for reading my super long post.
Greetings from Mexico!
This is so useful, thanks Emily 😊🙏
I have been settling. I complete relate to what you said about going on dates with guys who didn't have faith. Can you make a video about where do you find a man of God to date?
Loved this! Can you do a video on your fears before marriage and how you dealt/overcame those? xx
love you. your vulnerability and authenticity are so beautiful!!
I got really worried when you asked "am I setteling", cause I wonder if I do, but then again what you said next about "is this the right relationship" and having those fears are all questions I ask at the same time, so they are very linked in my head and you clearly seperated them
Thanks a lot Emily!! You Don't Know How much your perspective helps me!!! Lots of love
I am so glad to hear this!
I admire your passion for your religion. You have a strong believe yet you don't seem judgemental of others who do not believe the same. That is truly loving of mankind which I think is fundamental in all religions. The world could do with more acceptance of others. I wish you and your husband well ❤
Thanks so much Emily! Always coming with the goods! I learn more and more each video!
Hahah thanks Bria!!
I can’t thank you enough for your channel and videos like this. Your videos always seem to come at the right time with the words that I need to hear. ♥️
Hi Emily! Do you have any tips for emotional purity when the guy you like is one of your closest friends, but neither of you are ready to date?
Hannah J Oh man, that’s a great topic!
support each other as friends and pray for continued patience until you are led with God to embark on more.
I fell in love a while back with a not so religious Christian... he believes that there is a God, but he doesn’t pray or go to church. I’m praying for him that his faith can be strengthen. God is so important to me and I want to give him a small push to strengthen his faith. Is God disappointed in me for falling in love with him? I love him so much but I want to help his faith. We’re not dating, but we have feelings for each other. I don’t want to disappoint God and I don’t know whether to help him or flee...
Kaitlyn Elizabeth how can God ne dissapointed when you love someone? He surely ist Happy for you, that you feel that way for someone else. It's beautiful that you pray for his faith but don't try to change him. Thats the Nature of Love, Loving someone as he is. I Response to you because i dated someone Like this for 2 years and then we broke up because of the faith. But that doesnt mean it won't Work Out. I've also seen it Work. But don't date to convert him. :) Im praying for you two
Kaitlyn Elizabeth It's absolutely fine to love someone who isn't Christian (or isn't very Christian, as the case may be). But remember that dating is meant to help you discern whether the two of you are suited for marriage with each other. You shouldn't date him if your only motivation is to lead him in his faith. You can help him, but ultimately it's up to him to develop a solid relationship with God. I'd advise you not to date him if he isn't willing to be serious about his faith, but you should definitely pray about it and ask God to guide you. I'll be praying for both you and him as well!
I agree, I liked a guy who said he would consider himself a christian because he believes in God but he has his struggles, and we all do. I wanted to date him and I probably would have if he asked, the thing was I had a perspective on him and others had a different perspective on him. I do still pray for him even though I don't see him and talk to him anymore.(just a little insight of me) what I do suggest Is pray that the Lord work in his life to see Christ and get to know him and to give his life to Christ and that your crush would be willing to to give his life to Christ. Talk about God with him and give a little examples of Christ in your life. Then pray if you should persue him and build a relationship with this guy. And if the door is closed (and it might hurt if it is), don't worry about it, that means God has someone else for you. Just seek God first and everything will work out in the right timing.... Another thing is, if he doesn't really care for it and you think you can change him just by forcing him, he will most likely bring you down instead of you bringing him to Christ and that's not good. As a christian try to pursue a christian guy because it's better for your beliefs and standards you have for yourself and it might be easier to grow as a couple in Christ but hey God is an awesome and mighty God. He knows what's best and there are special cases l, I do believe that so hey yours might be a special case so don't lose faith but don't wait forever either. And God is never disappointed with His children, so don't ever think that. God Bless you and I hope your prayers get answers soon.
Kaitlyn Elizabeth - if you are the reason his “faith” is strengthened, that facade will eventually fall. Don’t delude yourself by imagining him as the person you want him to be; imagine being married to the person he is - a man who tolerates your faith, but has none of his own. If that doesn’t appeal to you, move on. Do not become unevenly yoked.
Lynn Davis, this is so hard to read and accept. It's been 2 years and I'm still trying, how to let go? (I'm a young woman who's been in a relationship with this man for a long time)
Such a beautiful video, Emily! Hearing you speak about your husband and the covenant you two have entered touched my heart❤️
You're wisdom and convictions are so refreshing!!!
You are such a light Emily! ❤️
I love you Emily!! Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️ I always pray to God to see if I am doing something right for me, like a job promotion or dating this wonderful guy or my math class. I am so Blessed to have you in my life Emily!! God bless you and your loved ones always :)
Emily you are such an inspiration! This was a wonderful video, and you and Daniel make a wonderful couple 😊❤️ thank you!
I absolutely love your videos! So encouraging and straight from your heart. Love hearing your perspective and values on different topics, you DEFINITELY gained a new subscriber!👌🏻
Thank you so much for this video! It is so inspiring and its great to see a sister so wise and real with her community! Thanks for sharing your thought process and your critical thinking. I think we definitely do need to critically think more than just 'feel' in relationships, especially in today's world.
I love all your videos!!! I am so happy that you made a video about how you knew your husband I am so excited to about this video Emily you are such a great woman of faith .this video came right on time for me !!!💯😃😉🙏🙏👏🙌🙌🙌
Needed these reminders and encouragement today! Thank you Emily :)
Thank you for sharing this Emily, it's so nice to hear your story 💕
This is so sweet, thank you so much for sharing, what you said about self giving is so true, I just feel like by being single I have just so much to learn and so much things to change about myself before even dating, thanks again God bless you!
Take your time! God is on your side!
Emily Wilson thank you ☺️☺️💕
I believe in "the one"
Very helpful, clear and beautiful, thank you
So encouraging. Thank you Emily ❤️
Hi, Emily! I was wondering if you would consider doing a video on setting boundaries for in-laws and other people. My fiancé's family can be harsh, and I would love to know a Godly way to set healthy boundaries with non-romantic relationships.
Thank you! I sooooo needed to hear this!!!
Definitely love it when you share from the heart! It's really helpful. Thanks for doing what you're doing.
Amazing advice!!! Thankyou Emily so much and God bless :)
🙏 I needed this and didn’t realize! Thank you for sharing ♥️
Great video and makes complete sense. I somehow had an idea that my husband was the one for me just before we dated. I was in a bad relationship at the time and he became a good friend. When i broke up with ex a while later started dating him it wasn't even the warm fuzzy feelings that made me feel he was the one for me. It was how content and calm he made me. I was satisfied in his presence. Hope that makes sense. Sometimes knowing someone is made for you is even more pure a feeling than just the butterfly feelings and flutters you feel when falling in loveXx
This was beautiful! I’m so happy for you, God bless your marriage🙏🏼
I'm a serving heart.
My boyfriend isn't, he once told me I shouldn't go on a mission trip because what I do there wouldn't be appreciated :(
Sometimes I ask myself if I'm settling or if he is the best person for me. .
We also struggle with him being aloof and me being very emotional.
Don't feel emotional connected, I've told him this and all he's said is that he will try to change.
But I don't want to change him!!
I don't believe changing people. Because I don't want to be changed.
I really loves my bf. He has a great faith and he support me. I love to travel the world but he doesnt like that so now i’m thinking if he is my future husband do i want that? Is that setteling ? But i also have the feeling that God put us togheter . My parents are divorced so im constantly afraid that i won’t make “iT”
Wow this was really good, spot on.
I love you so much! I just found this channel the other day and I love it.
This is beautiful 😟I'm here like God I need this in life😢😢
I hope things are as blessed and strong now with you both as they were in the beginning. ..you made me cry, girrrrl lol
I love this. Thank you for always being so honest
I just happened upon this video and for good reason it seems. I'm 27 with 2 boys and married my high school sweetheart. We are currently separated unfortunately and I appreciate the video it helps alot reconfirming some things. Thanks :)
For the moment the Lord has me living the best single life I can, but definitely feel called to the married life at some point. Awesome advice as always. Btw I freaking love that cute teal necklace💟
One of my biggest fears is not getting married I really want that for myself.
Same
And pray about it .
For what reasons do you really want marriage for yourself? Why is marriage so important to you that you fear you won't get it? You don't have to answer these questions here, but when you do have the answers, ask yourself if Christ is enough to satisfy those reasons.
If it is the right thing, god will have a man for you. You don't have to do anything. It is not like you can do something wrong and not find the right man because of that, god has a plan, you don't even have the power to destroy that, so don't worry :)
The glow in your face gives it away.
I also hope and pray for the right man to come and find me.
I love your heart stuff! Means so much to us, trust me!
This is really similar to my parent's story! They both saved themselves and so am I.
awww i love everything u said in this vid! thanks! so much! 💗
So good! Good job Emily! 😍♥️
Thank you so much for sharing this interesting message!!!☺
V good advice for every generation!!
Love this vid (and all your videos!!!)
Totally binge watching your videos!
Hi, thanks for putting this up, it was helpful! I do really want to know HOW do you know and HOW did you two have the chance to get to know each other? How did you know it was a good time to date each other? Did he date someone while you were friends? Did he date skmeone AFTER you were interested in him or did he break up with someone b4 you two were even friends? I thought I got conformation on a situation like that, then the guy started dating this other girl.
I wanna be blessed just like she is blessed! I want to be blessed to have a good and pure husband and I want to be blessed to be a good and pure wife to my future husband.
May God bless her and her marriage more and more and blesses me just like God blessed her ♥️
Can you please make a video on preparing for marriage within the Catholic Church? (The process, what you both did to prepare spiritually, etc...) :)
So happy I was led to your channel. May God continue to bless you and your family in Jesus name.
I would love to have that type of guy . IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN ! :)
wow thank you so much for sharing this beautiful truth
Thank you for this video Emily!
Could you please make videos more in depth of what exactly is a servants' heart, and what were these fears you had about marriage and how you overcame them.
Also I was wondering how long you knew Daniel before thinking of getting into a relationship with him.
I've been praying to God for a good man that could lead into marriage (i.e. novena to St. Joseph), because, at the age of thirty, I feel God calling me to the sacrament of marriage, but it seems as if its a dessert where I am. However, on New Years Eve I met a nice man who seems to be interested in me. Now, how do i decipher that he is the man God wants me to start a relationship with.... Because he is a nice guy, but then I have thoughts of what if there are other guys out there....yet if there were, wouldn't God sent the men my way so that I can choose?..I have never been in a relationship because I always though God wanted me to enter a monastery, thus I'm a bit confused with this all...
You are very wise! Your advice is very helpful :)
Hopefully I may find the right one that God has called me to. Thanks for sharing!
Hey Emily, How do you know when it is the right time to tell the person that you are dating to say the " I love you" phase?
Josh Toups Great question, I’d say it’s something that happens organically:) You’ve entered into a level of depth that makes it feel right to say ‘I love you’
When it comes out naturally. When you cannot physically hold it back. Do not think of it as a stage you get to and “should” say it. These are words which come from your heart and, therefore, should come with no doubt. X
Thankyou so much for this video❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Emily!! This has helped me!