raina jay Tamera married a racist that’s why some black people aren’t a fan of her and she rarely ever speaks up for the black community , she seems whitewashed af
Yes I remember when they use to compare Tamera to Tia saying she was goofy and Tia was the pretty one. I thought this was sad. I think that was apart why she emotional.
I love y’all so much ❤️😘 got me crying some more. Felt your hearts and souls so much. I’m grateful for your love and support. Thank you for sticking up for us ❤️
Ari Lennox I love you beautiful! You are gorgeous! You have people that love you and support you with no end! I love you from afar and I SEE you! I see the beauty within you that radiates from the inside to the outside of you. ❤️❤️❤️
Seriously these are people you dont even know. I dont understand why people got so offended. Was it because they said the child looked like her dad? He is not attractive. Never was. What's going on with his new look? They're many men who were braids or dreads and look good. He is not one of them.
This whole thing rings this quote I've heard of before; "black men and white women have one thing in common; they can both act oppressed while oppressing at the same time".
Oh please, shut up. That fake speech. When did Tamera everrrr talked about black issues. Now she sees someone else be so passionate, she wanna come with those fake tears. Well begin with your husband!
I know that but we don't need to be stanned we don't need to stan people who stand up for us. What we need to do is normalise treating black women with the same respect and decency as any other human beings, clapping for people who don't bully us is like clapping for a fish swimming in the sea.
I absolutely love what Adrienne said at the end - I’m a dark skin girl (I’m the last shade of fenty beauty foundation) with pertinent black features and my mom constantly tells me I’m beautiful and how my skin tone is as rare as diamonds etc but that didn’t block out all the extremely hurtful comments people would make at my primary school - if I could have get my hands on bleach as kid I would’ve definitely bleach my skin - so parents teach your kids that beauty comes in all forms cause you don’t know how your child will affect others outside
I also think it's important for parents to immerse their kids in communities that will also uplift their children. For example, putting them in schools where there is a decent black population and cultural competency is taken seriously. Two parents can only do so much and it takes a village to raise a child. The community has to invest in black children too.
Yikes! Auntie Loni said she’s SICK of it!!! She just put every single one of us in the comment section on time out. Dang! 🥺🚶🏾♀️ Lol (Not that I posted anything bad about Amanda... it’s just a joke...)
@@OneLoveRSR If you were grown you would have understand . Yes your opinion and its a free country but you got to understand that What you say still Hurt people , Loni isnt prefect but you arent either just remember words hurt people and just stop you didnt have to say that . The world does have negativity and we dont need anymore . 💯❤
Autie Loni is also doing what black women love to do, which is beg for and seek white validation. Why should a white magazine put black people on it, and why are black women looking to white magazine covers in the first place? Makes no sense. That's why you have to respect Tyler Perry, even for all the terrible movies he makes, at least they're his own movies, and he made his own when black women were complaining about a white awards show being too white lol
@@bnwo You ain't lying?!.. I thought I was the only one who thinks that Tyler Perry makes HORRIBLE MOVIES.. With the exception of: A Family That Preys.. Which is my favorite movie.
Eliana Gonzalez . Some one needed to say people were really out here hating on Amanda just because she speaks her mind and I know these were people who probably aren’t of colour that were speaking so rudely about her but some black women were but it was disgusting like Amanda uses her platform to talk about black issues which helps us and educates us and other races
I adore Loni but we also have to be real with ourselves when we represent. Come out from the European beauty standards, hair, makeup contouring and all. SHOW THEM WHO YOU ARE- Black Panther
Eliana Gonzalez I mean it needed to be said. Hating on somebody who you aint never even met and has zero impact on your life cuz they got a job on a talk show 😂
Saying they don't care for her as a host on the show isn't tearing her down. I mean damn... everything that's opposite of a yes, is intentional hate and tearing yall down? How tf do you live life thinking that everyone who doesn't care for you is automatically fearful, or jealous or attempting to tear you down? Lol girl. I can't.
@@itsamandanaomi I assume (I'm not 100% accurate but..) when they announced that Amanda was going to be the 5th host people were commenting under the video and on social media that they didn't like her being added to the show. Some people were saying she's annoying, biased, nobody wants to hear her opinion, etc which is what Loni was talking about (I guess) but mostly I've been seeing people saying they didn't want a 5th host and that went for anybody not just Amanda and how they were happy with 4 hosts.
Exactly sister, especially from black men am done with them,they tear black woman down all the time for nothing but will praise other race of woman,am now dating outside my race it's the most beautiful feeling that ever happened to me
My sentiments exactly. She's going to force them to have honest conversation, instead of tip- toeing around all the time. Tamar may have been a little ratchet, but that's why I miss her presence, b/c she kept it real.
TheElolicious I think they’ve always were the best. They had some deep deep deep conversations on the real. I’ve shed so many tears with them. Hits home sometimes. I’m Mexican and I may not have Black woes, but I can relate on so many levels. Love them.
Samantha Michelle You’ll get use to it. It’s like when Facebook changes its layout and people freak out, only to be fine with it once they get use to it. Lol
Agreed! I think it’s cuz they want Loni in the middle, but it does look weird seeing Tam next to Adrienne lol she’s always sat on the opposite side, even when Tamar was there. I don’t like it either
I think Loni would have s fit if the new girl got the middle. Love her, but I know she probably had something to do with her placement which displaced the others
I just want to say that Black people are the literally the FIRST and ONLY ones to put each other down... we already have the rest of the world against us... we don’t need to be going against each other either...I mean from seeing SOME black men put black women down and see black women tearing each other down on social media and beefing and etc.. we need to be lifting each other up , supporting each other cuz if no one else is gonna do it... we should do it ourselves ! Cuz hating on each other ain’t hot !
One of my black friends gets a lot of criticism and low-key shade for being "so white". What they mean to say is, her English is impeccable and she doesn't do anything ratchet, nor entertain other people's drama. Despite that, haters gonna hate, whether your from the same race or not. It's difficult for an ethnic person to truly know whether the disrespect or hate they get is due to their skin colour (background) or simply because the person is jealous. (Not 100% accurate but I hope you understand my perspective that, in everyday situations, haters gonna hate. Someone who is loving and open minded will be just that and a hater, is gonna just hate.
So true. Ive seen black people take it easy on non-black people or baby them but then be READY to go against a fellow black person like its in our nature to fight each other. We lack unity and because of some of us, people dont even treat us like human. Dont even treat our babies as babies
I got the “white”/Oreo comments from all over growing up - but I will say it started at home and w/in the community first. We ALL gotta do better! Everyone!
They all brought it during this segment! If we're going to talk about race, this is the way it should be handled. Not tiptoeing around the issues or giving watered down opinions.
Why do people think they can insult other people looks, size or race? Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and it's not only physical. What you insult is what another person treasures. Keep your insults and fix whatever insecurities would make you insult another human being. These haters should be ashamed of themselves and crawl back to whatever rock they dragged themselves from.
The conversation wasn't about "people" doing this, it was about people doing this to black women. Apparently the other people who get spoken about in less than kind terms are fair game...
@@dayrachi3455 just because you dont think someone is beautiful doesn't make them ugly and that doesn't give you the right to insult anyone. That just shows your insecurity.
@@jackiebrainy2274 you just said beauty is in the eye of the beholder so their is no TRUE definition of beauty sooo if i found someone beautiful then to me YES that means they are beautiful (dont matter what other people think) the same way if i found someone ugly then to me YES they are ugly and again it doesnt matter what a other person might think because like YOU said beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
and no that doesnt show anybodys insecurity you being offended by the fact that people have different views of what beautiful and ugly is after you just said beauty is in the eye of the beholder doesnt only show that you yourself do not understand what youre talking about but it also shows that you are very insecure by the fact that not everyone will find what you think is beautiful, beautiful also
In my experience it's usually the ignorant black men that don't realize where they came from in the beginning. That's why they say you gotta know where you came from to know where you're going. They keep making fun of black women forgetting their own mother's are black women. Now tell me if that's not stupid. I personally don't give those guys the time of day, typically no offense they're bums anyways. Don't get me wrong I tell them this they respect me for it and but the real work has to come from in themselves some of them just don't want to listen because they have their own self hate and no good role model to look to. It's a mess but it really shouldn't be like this at all it's just crazy. But once you know who you are no one can take that away from you. You are beautiful you are strong and you are important enough!
Naw. Stop fronting it goes both ways. Black woman and men are shamed for their features. Lets not act like Blu-Ivy isn't picked on because her father is Jay-Z. You know how long he has been called ugly and Joe Camel?
@@dmg.2443 naw she is picked on because of him. Personally I just think he takes ugly pictures like the candid ones his mouths open or he's mean mugging, a smile goes along way. But yeah of course it goes both ways but I was saying the guys that usually have something to say negatively about black women are in my experience ignorant and scrubs.
@@jeanetteh.8393 as long as you recognize it's a two-way street. A lot of the self-hated that these black men internalize is in relation to their experiences with black women as well. C
@@dmg.2443 Yes. Of course like I tried to explain I do talk to them I don't just leave it at that. Hurt people hurt people. But in my eyes Idk a better word other than ignorance because yeah their are crazy girls out their but to pick on every girl as a man or male just on bad experiences I explain to them it's not right. But like I said you can tell them and help them but the healing has to come from them. I'm sorry if I didn't explain my self well enough but I was not meaning to sound like I didn't see it both ways I was just going off what the first person had said. I didn't see it in a split perspective.
I love that Jeannie mentioned Talib Kweli’s song, Black Girl Pain, because when I was growing up my dad would always play this song and it became my theme song for the rest of my life. It gave me strength when I felt different or outcasted as I was the only black child in my small town until my high school graduation day.
Amanda seems like she has grown from the comments she’s gotten(although I know she was probably getting some pretty bad comments). She seems more humble. She’ll be a great addition to the show. Good luck Amanda.
I like the discussion that these ladies were able to have. Often time topics of race turn into an "All Lives Matter" discussion but they were able to address the severity of the issue today.
Amanda is too real. I like her. I’ve said that so many times in the comments lol. You can tell she is just so self aware and aware of the world. She is sharp!
Taylor’s PlayHouse I wonder too because different race and background needs to represent and also it brings a different dynamic to the table when they are talking about different topics. I mean we already have Asian and Latino, maybe Indian, or Native American, or Hawaiian, Samoan, etc.
@4:03 this is soo true. My dad always praised black features above everything else and especially dark skin. He always called me pretty and my self-esteem has been a little bit stronger because of hearing that growing up.
Who loves the real ? I watch them to laugh at them . From their topics to the way the talk . The only one worth watching with something real to say is tamera. The rest of them are dumb. That spanish chick and the asian chick,omg!!!! They're insulting for woman of color. Although they both think they're black. The Asian chick is always saying she's 40 but talks like she's 15 . Does she know anything other than " yo". And the spanish one thinks she's beautiful . Everytime she opens her mouth she reminds you how ignorant she is.
@@lizjordan9830 all facts sis! ..And same, I only watch for shits and giggles, the show is a joke, the only half decent one is tamera and the only one who wasnt afraid to speak the truth (most of the time) was tamar, it went down hill when she left
@@lizjordan9830 You know what you are the one who is ignorant. All of the ladies on the real are special, talented, and they are good people. They are way better than you will ever be. So stop bashing them. If you don't like the other ladies then stop watching the show. Go watch something else then. 😤😖
@@jonae8701 I agree with you 100%. I'm sick of people's bullshit opinions sometimes!!! And yea. Why the hell they coming on here knowing that they don't like what they see?
It’s amazing how some people are so hateful and mean. Just shows how much pain and dislike they have for themselves in their own hearts. You can only see the flaws in someone because you hate them in yourself. If you are full of love you seek and attract love. I feel sorry for people that only want to speak negatively about others because their words are a window to their soul.
It’s diverse, they have Asian, Hispanic, black, biracial, people saying Yall need a white woman?? as an Australian white woman I don’t need a white woman on a show to love a show and feel it speaks to me, anyway Tamara dose a good job speaking for the ” white perspective” and can represent the community just fine as it’s her right to just as much as mine, people are being so closed minded, I know a lot of white peoples opinions and non of them agree on much anyway, we all just people we all have different opinions and experiences , they are all great at their job and have a right to be there on that merit alone regardless of race or diversity or who’s “community” they represent, they are up there representing themselves, if that happens to speak to or represent specific community’s then that’s great, if that community doesn’t often get that chance to be represented well that’s even better, but they are their because they are good at what they do and deserve that respect
I’m not here debating the difference between ethnicity, race and religion, or trying to categorise, I’m just going on what they speak on, that’s why I said race and culture, and for a lot of people that’s a touchy or personal subject, I can only speak on my own race an culture in that way. I’m going to take this positively and assume you just trying to help and educate by correcting me, and I honestly hope you haven’t read my positive well meaning comment and looked for the one fault or negative to try and slant it into me being racially or culturally ignorant or bigoted, because I am not and it’s not healthy for the world to eagerly look for people to say a bad thing when people are trying to say good things, if we all concentrated on things we agree on and had in common, then the things we all fight over would start to fade out.
@@samarakiely2733 EVERYTHING YOU SAID💯🌈💕It was heard and appreciated ....And the way you chose to deliver it.....as a proud black woman I thank you.... I understood you
That's really what it is. How many people with an actual degree in AA Studies are on daytime television? She's probably the first or one of extremely few. They don't know what to do with her because people with that level of knowledge of their own culture don't make it mainstream.
There's a lot of broken people in the World...you just got continue to Empower your Mind & be aware they're just protecting their sense of Worthlessness.🌿🌱🍃
Urja Paudel yes because i don’t fetishise asian men. also i’m not a talk show host? she is? so she’s supposed to be able to talk about all topics. you’re so boring.
TheElolicious urm no. she doesn’t HAVE to be able to speak on all topics just because she’s a host. she’s there to speak and educate others but she’s also being educated herself. so leave her be, thanks.
@Tasheri Well, the show never highlights Latino, South Asian, East Asian, West Asian (Middle Eastern) or South American topics...like they only highlight when it pertains to black people...It's almost like what are Adrienne and Jeannie there for? They never get to speak about their own experience
So happy Loni defended Amanda because y'all were being way too loud and wrong in these comment sections Y'all complained that the show wasn't "real" enough, but now that they have added Amanda, the REALEST person there is, all of a sudden it's a problem. Smh.
Yessssss LONI!! Come through for your sista !! People was going in on the dislike button in yesterdayʻs videos and I was not here for it. WE should be uplifting and gaining insight from all these beautiful intelligent relatable women! Welcome to the REAL family, Amanda! The family that truly supports you joining is here!
I'm a black southern African woman, and in my country most Mums grew up reshaping their children's noses to make them more pointed or less wider. I remember my mum telling me how she also did the same to my nose. The moment I became more aware of my blackness and how beautiful I am regardless of my despised features all around the world,her actions really upset me and I vowed never to attempt any "alterations" to my babies features. When I gave birth to my daughter last year,I had a relative tell me she had "reshaped" her baby's nose. I told her I wasn't going to do the same to my baby and I remember the look of amusement she had on her face looking at my baby like she wasn't beautiful. So here's the thing,as a parent, NEVER EVER get tired of protecting your babies regardless of whatever the society deems cool or beautiful or the perfect picture. As long as I see my kids as beautiful, what the rest of the world feels is irrelevant to me. How I feel about my babies,is how they'll feel about themselves when they're older.
This video gave me CHILLS, yaaaas 💪🏼 this was so powerful, thank you for giving these STRONG ass women a show to speak up for the ones that are put down by these freaking comment sections. I can’t.
When my son turn 5 years old I sat him down and we talked about the beautiful things God has made. I showed him pictures of beautiful rainbows all around the world. We talked about the beautiful colors God made and how we see them every day. They I showed him a picture of many children of all colors and asked him what he saw. He pointed out the smile of this girl, the shirt of this boy and so on. Then I told him how God has a rainbow of color in people. We talked about something beautiful on each person. Its how you raise your kid to see the world and teach them better. I grew up with a grandparent who was racist and different ways but I knew what he was saying wasn't right because my mother taught me better and that I am not better then anyone.
I was waiting for thid video 🙏🏾 Thank you we are all beatiful in our own way 🙏🏾❤ And I was very glad that Amanda is also there, I love when she say what she think ❤
Actually biracial was praised in the black community because they had the good hair and complexion. They were always featured in music videos back in the day. NOW its getting better but it's still there!!!
The flipside is that it also made them targets for negativity to a certain extent. It's like having a sibling who is the golden child and you are always the scapegoat. You might have resentment towards the golden child because of how badly you're treated.
@@marissar.359 Since you're God I guess you know how I was treated but my point is in the BLACK COMMUNITY biracials were elevated. Now in the WHITE COMMUNITY that's a whooole other story. Side note: Besides not living under a rock my info comes from other biracials as well. Are there story not valid. One biracial that I LOVE is good ole' Mecheex she has a UA-cam channel. Check her out aaaand my personal friends who are biracial as well. Colorism is a real issue in the black community. Now we're embracing darker tones but trust in the BLACK COMMUNITY they were welcomed. ua-cam.com/video/a6di0rPVcmI/v-deo.html
Every biracial person does not have the same experience. Where I come from people make fun of you for looking/acting too white so light skins and biracials weren’t elevated. Now the black community OVERALL uplifts biracials and lighter women but that doesn’t negate people’s individual experiences. There’s always an exception to the rule.
I’m almost about to cry!!! I tell my kids how beautiful they are, and teach them that black, brown, white and everyone is beautiful. We are not black I have to encourage my children to be kind to everyone and see the beauty in every person. My son says he’s brown is 3 and I tell him he’s beautiful, and when we start talking about classmates he says their names and i know its a black child friend of my son I make sure I tell him she’s/he beautiful! Black is beautiful baby! And he agrees! I refuse for my kids mentality to be molded by someone that doesn’t see this.
I can feel the pain in Tamera's voice. Black people need to empower each other
raina jay if this world had no issues like racism and negativity it would be a better place
@Thumb I'm not talking about her husband I'm talking about her and I'm sure she settled that at home
raina jay Tamera married a racist that’s why some black people aren’t a fan of her and she rarely ever speaks up for the black community , she seems whitewashed af
Yes I remember when they use to compare Tamera to Tia saying she was goofy and Tia was the pretty one. I thought this was sad. I think that was apart why she emotional.
@Thumb LMAOOOO
I love y’all so much ❤️😘 got me crying some more. Felt your hearts and souls so much. I’m grateful for your love and support. Thank you for sticking up for us ❤️
Ari Lennox omg we live on the same block in North Hollywood let me take photos of you! @shotbykeron
Love you Queen, We got you! God bless, Jesus loves you.
Ari Lennox I love you Ari ❤️
I'm so glad you saw this video, Ari!
Ari Lennox I love you beautiful! You are gorgeous! You have people that love you and support you with no end! I love you from afar and I SEE you! I see the beauty within you that radiates from the inside to the outside of you. ❤️❤️❤️
Blue Ivy is a beautiful child. Don’t care if she looks like Beyoncé or Jay z or both. She is a beautiful child
That's a lie
Liz Jordan the lie is you
Yes!!!! She is ADORABLE ❤️😍
Seriously these are people you dont even know. I dont understand why people got so offended. Was it because they said the child looked like her dad? He is not attractive. Never was. What's going on with his new look? They're many men who were braids or dreads and look good. He is not one of them.
This whole thing rings this quote I've heard of before; "black men and white women have one thing in common; they can both act oppressed while oppressing at the same time".
Jeanie and Adrienne are great examples of being respectful supporters of another community.
The most unprotected and disrespected woman is the "black" woman. Mr. Malcolm X
Jessie C Love Im Hispanic and I agree! I appreciate y’all ❤️❤️ keep pushing one day you’ll all get the love u deserve
"Can I get some love somebody?" that spoke some serious volumes
Jada Seymone 🤭
Jada Seymone YES.
Lool.. I was trying to confirm what you said and it took me a min to find Jeannie on the table.. I’m not yet used to the arrangement
I was like damn I felt for her and I’m a black woman
Oh please, shut up. That fake speech. When did Tamera everrrr talked about black issues. Now she sees someone else be so passionate, she wanna come with those fake tears. Well begin with your husband!
“They want your rhythm but don’t want your blues.”Yassssss
I absolutely love this, I was scrolling down to see who got it and wrote it here to share it. Thank you sister! 😊❤
Regine Hughes that’s a word 🗣
Okaaaaaaay!!!! 👏👏👏
Cyn 7 Cyn that is a very old saying and part of many song lyrics
I said SIS!!!!!
Adrienne's a stan. She always defends black women no matter what.
Mik K black ppl need to defend black ppl like Adrienne does.
I'm not about to clap for that or stan her for that. It's just human decency to stand up for people who are being bullied.
facts shes always is ive never heard her say any problematic things about black women
@@sibusisiwentshangase6594 i'm saying SHE stans US hon.
I know that but we don't need to be stanned we don't need to stan people who stand up for us. What we need to do is normalise treating black women with the same respect and decency as any other human beings, clapping for people who don't bully us is like clapping for a fish swimming in the sea.
“They want your rhythm but not your blues” So true❤️ Black people are beautiful all the way around✨
Si Robinson I loved when she said that!! Along with a pinch of petty 😂😂 while she was saying that, then turned towards Jeannie
Si Robinson amen girl !✨💋
Amen
Si Robinson y’all still talkin about COLOR in 2020? Y’all sleep getta life
MindYoBiniss pretty much mr mr still happening today! You need to wake yourself up from that deep sleep you been in for 30000 yearsss 🤭🤔😴
Amanda wasn't expecting for Loni to talk about the hate she received for joining the cast but you can tell it meant a lot to her 💜
That was nice of Loni backing up a sister...
she didn't back up Shannon but yes good for her here
lol
Loni is a good person, she stays looking out for everybody !!!
@@peachlife5118 lol
Is Amanda "backing her up" right now that all of the brothas are gunning for Loni&her hog head??🤔
I absolutely love what Adrienne said at the end - I’m a dark skin girl (I’m the last shade of fenty beauty foundation) with pertinent black features and my mom constantly tells me I’m beautiful and how my skin tone is as rare as diamonds etc but that didn’t block out all the extremely hurtful comments people would make at my primary school - if I could have get my hands on bleach as kid I would’ve definitely bleach my skin - so parents teach your kids that beauty comes in all forms cause you don’t know how your child will affect others outside
I also think it's important for parents to immerse their kids in communities that will also uplift their children. For example, putting them in schools where there is a decent black population and cultural competency is taken seriously. Two parents can only do so much and it takes a village to raise a child. The community has to invest in black children too.
❤️💜👌
Marissa R. Black majority schools are the worst in the country so why should they? Just to get diversity points??
Sister Squad ❤️😔
@@AM-dh4ut so they don't get bullied for the color of their skin
Yikes! Auntie Loni said she’s SICK of it!!!
She just put every single one of us in the comment section on time out. Dang! 🥺🚶🏾♀️ Lol
(Not that I posted anything bad about Amanda... it’s just a joke...)
I'm grown as hell. Her hypocritical ass can put herself on time out. Shan Boody, anyone?
OneLoveRSR stop bringing up the past. Girl bye 😒
@@OneLoveRSR If you were grown you would have understand . Yes your opinion and its a free country but you got to understand that What you say still Hurt people , Loni isnt prefect but you arent either just remember words hurt people and just stop you didnt have to say that . The world does have negativity and we dont need anymore . 💯❤
Autie Loni is also doing what black women love to do, which is beg for and seek white validation. Why should a white magazine put black people on it, and why are black women looking to white magazine covers in the first place? Makes no sense. That's why you have to respect Tyler Perry, even for all the terrible movies he makes, at least they're his own movies, and he made his own when black women were complaining about a white awards show being too white lol
@@bnwo You ain't lying?!.. I thought I was the only one who thinks that Tyler Perry makes HORRIBLE MOVIES.. With the exception of: A Family That Preys.. Which is my favorite movie.
“The biggest lie they will tell you is that your power is not within you” My spirit JUMPED!!!!!! That was a word!!!!
Ooooo child loni checked everyone in the comment section
Eliana Gonzalez . Some one needed to say people were really out here hating on Amanda just because she speaks her mind and I know these were people who probably aren’t of colour that were speaking so rudely about her but some black women were but it was disgusting like Amanda uses her platform to talk about black issues which helps us and educates us and other races
I adore Loni but we also have to be real with ourselves when we represent. Come out from the European beauty standards, hair, makeup contouring and all. SHOW THEM WHO YOU ARE- Black Panther
Eliana Gonzalez rightfully so
As she should!!!!
Eliana Gonzalez I mean it needed to be said. Hating on somebody who you aint never even met and has zero impact on your life cuz they got a job on a talk show 😂
They want your rhythm but they don't want your blues😢😢... That hit deeply
I’m glad Loni spoke out about these “sistas” making a point to tear Amanda down in the comments. I was disgusted.
Cause she’s annoying af and bias, I like how she advocates for a lot of issues but her on the show? No thanks.
What happened? Share the tea girl lol I must've missed it.
^^^ I never saw it
Saying they don't care for her as a host on the show isn't tearing her down. I mean damn... everything that's opposite of a yes, is intentional hate and tearing yall down? How tf do you live life thinking that everyone who doesn't care for you is automatically fearful, or jealous or attempting to tear you down? Lol girl. I can't.
@@itsamandanaomi I assume (I'm not 100% accurate but..) when they announced that Amanda was going to be the 5th host people were commenting under the video and on social media that they didn't like her being added to the show. Some people were saying she's annoying, biased, nobody wants to hear her opinion, etc which is what Loni was talking about (I guess) but mostly I've been seeing people saying they didn't want a 5th host and that went for anybody not just Amanda and how they were happy with 4 hosts.
And people be mad when black women love and date outside their race 😒. I go where I am loved, cherished, respected and wanted. 👑
Facts !
Exactly sister, especially from black men am done with them,they tear black woman down all the time for nothing but will praise other race of woman,am now dating outside my race it's the most beautiful feeling that ever happened to me
Preach❗️
Jeannie looks maaaaad good in this outfit!!!
This was about black women this comment was stupid
@@Jan-bl2ho You are stupid
I’m glad Amanda is on the show cause the REAL needed somebody who was gonna be a voice for black women and not keep it safe
I'm honestly not trying to start a fight, but you don't think Loni is the voice for black women?
Yes that part!!
Peri Mac no
My sentiments exactly. She's going to force them to have honest conversation, instead of tip- toeing around all the time. Tamar may have been a little ratchet, but that's why I miss her presence, b/c she kept it real.
@@krazyeclectic omg thank you I thought I was the only one who still misses her
"We all need to support each other." - Tamera Mowry...
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The fact that jeannie said "They wouldn't say it to your face" Spoke volumes! Cause it's the mfkn TRUTH!!
Look at how Amanda brought out the best in these women. I love the way they spoke about this topic.
Facts
TheElolicious I think they’ve always were the best. They had some deep deep deep conversations on the real. I’ve shed so many tears with them. Hits home sometimes. I’m Mexican and I may not have Black woes, but I can relate on so many levels. Love them.
Right and all these people saying they don’t like her I e noticed aren’t black
She did
Wow. Soo trueee
I love how they let the black sisters talk first.
Sammy Sweet no one can let them talk, they are the loudest group and Jeannie/Ade are scared of offending sensitive blackz
@@AM-dh4ut I pity you. I hope you get the love you deserve 🥰
@@ayanna2620 You said it best. I'm not even gonna respond to the negativity
Tamera speaks with so much heart🥺❤️
Gloria Emon I love when Tam Tam speaks. She always has a lot of wisdom or says something that gets you in your feels.
What did she say? I clearly missed it.
N C 😂😂😂 she didn’t say anything of substance... just woe is me I’m biracial blues 🤣🤣
This was a high point for Adrienne.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how stunning Jeannie looks?!!!! Queen!! ❤️❤️❤️
Sam Nolan Yessss! Jeannie’s outfit is on point today! 🔥🔥🔥
Alma Chronicles she looked like she was wearing lingerie ! Like damn queen! 🤣
@@SamanthaN92 It looked like those slip dresses that people used to wear back in the 2000s. I liked the look. Very chic!
Alma Chronicles me too! And its pink! 💕😊
Girlllll an Asian persuasion 👏🏽
"they want your rhythm, but they don't want your blues"
Amanda is preaching to the choir 👏👏
I wasnt a fan of Amanda but shes kinda growing on me. Lets give her a chance ! I like the chemistry of the 5 of them
Auntie Loni has spoken 👩🏿⚖
They had her guest co host for 3 weeks in a row. That was the chance. Now we just gotta wait and see how it plays out.
Amanda keeps it too real for certain types of people!
Agreed!
i’m ngl i wish they had remy ma be the permanent cohost instead
I can dig Amanda but this seating just feels off. Put Amanda in the middle and Tam and Jeannie back to their old spots dammit
Samantha Michelle You’ll get use to it. It’s like when Facebook changes its layout and people freak out, only to be fine with it once they get use to it. Lol
Samantha Michelle yes, I feel you the seating is just off and Amanda cool in the show.
Agreed! I think it’s cuz they want Loni in the middle, but it does look weird seeing Tam next to Adrienne lol she’s always sat on the opposite side, even when Tamar was there. I don’t like it either
STOP THIS NEGATIVITY and get used to it
I think Loni would have s fit if the new girl got the middle. Love her, but I know she probably had something to do with her placement which displaced the others
Can Leslie Jones get some of this love and support also.
Shes not light skinned and fake woke🤦🏾♀️
she wants to be a stereotype....
They stood up for her when they first started harassing her
Taja Cyprian I'm referring to black people in general. Especially us black women.
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Amanda’s voice is definitely needed on this show, glad she’s here.
I just want to say that Black people are the literally the FIRST and ONLY ones to put each other down... we already have the rest of the world against us... we don’t need to be going against each other either...I mean from seeing SOME black men put black women down and see black women tearing each other down on social media and beefing and etc.. we need to be lifting each other up , supporting each other cuz if no one else is gonna do it... we should do it ourselves ! Cuz hating on each other ain’t hot !
Nah I think we are just to only ones to do it so publicly...
One of my black friends gets a lot of criticism and low-key shade for being "so white". What they mean to say is, her English is impeccable and she doesn't do anything ratchet, nor entertain other people's drama. Despite that, haters gonna hate, whether your from the same race or not. It's difficult for an ethnic person to truly know whether the disrespect or hate they get is due to their skin colour (background) or simply because the person is jealous. (Not 100% accurate but I hope you understand my perspective that, in everyday situations, haters gonna hate. Someone who is loving and open minded will be just that and a hater, is gonna just hate.
So true. Ive seen black people take it easy on non-black people or baby them but then be READY to go against a fellow black person like its in our nature to fight each other. We lack unity and because of some of us, people dont even treat us like human. Dont even treat our babies as babies
Myronn Coleman It’s like two male lions in a den. 😔
I got the “white”/Oreo comments from all over growing up - but I will say it started at home and w/in the community first. We ALL gotta do better! Everyone!
jeanie this season is looking so beautiful not that she wasnt , but she shining in a diffrent way and she looking all classy and happy i lovee it
Jeannie has been the most beautiful thing on the show
Yyyeeesssssssss LLLOOONNNIIIIII .... I hated that for Amanda I thought she was great for the show .... she dosnt slide around she keeps it R E A L
Rite love her she's so black empowering been liking her for years people sleep on her fr
Shes so fake. Sad to see people falling for her bs. Tamar was a better fit.
Black features are exotic and people are intimidated of what appears to be “different” I just take it day to day and smile at every.😀
They all brought it during this segment! If we're going to talk about race, this is the way it should be handled. Not tiptoeing around the issues or giving watered down opinions.
Loni’s face when she was throwing punches haha
luomanfei 😂😂😂
Why do people think they can insult other people looks, size or race? Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and it's not only physical. What you insult is what another person treasures. Keep your insults and fix whatever insecurities would make you insult another human being. These haters should be ashamed of themselves and crawl back to whatever rock they dragged themselves from.
The conversation wasn't about "people" doing this, it was about people doing this to black women. Apparently the other people who get spoken about in less than kind terms are fair game...
Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder which is why people comppliment/insult a persons look in the first place.
@@dayrachi3455 just because you dont think someone is beautiful doesn't make them ugly and that doesn't give you the right to insult anyone. That just shows your insecurity.
@@jackiebrainy2274 you just said beauty is in the eye of the beholder so their is no TRUE definition of beauty sooo if i found someone beautiful then to me YES that means they are beautiful (dont matter what other people think) the same way if i found someone ugly then to me YES they are ugly and again it doesnt matter what a other person might think because like YOU said beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
and no that doesnt show anybodys insecurity you being offended by the fact that people have different views of what beautiful and ugly is after you just said beauty is in the eye of the beholder doesnt only show that you yourself do not understand what youre talking about but it also shows that you are very insecure by the fact that not everyone will find what you think is beautiful, beautiful also
jeanie is 41????? WHERE SIS??? RELEASE THAT SKINCARE ROUTINE LMAO
It's on her UA-cam channel
and cause she’s asian and they have beautiful genes
@@biancadesousa not all the time.
THE LIFE OF SIMS i never said all the time.
That’s what I said 😂
Nas, Mos Def, Talib, Common, Queen Latifah, Lupe Fiasco (forgive me that I have left out some) we need to bring back conscious rap 😩
I believe it's still there it just gets over shadowed by the nonsense rap
Its sad that there are so many conscious female rappers out there that people dont know about. Wonda Woman from Wutang Camp is dope. Look her up
Idk why they beat around the bush lol it’s literally black men who disparage us....
In my experience it's usually the ignorant black men that don't realize where they came from in the beginning. That's why they say you gotta know where you came from to know where you're going. They keep making fun of black women forgetting their own mother's are black women. Now tell me if that's not stupid. I personally don't give those guys the time of day, typically no offense they're bums anyways. Don't get me wrong I tell them this they respect me for it and but the real work has to come from in themselves some of them just don't want to listen because they have their own self hate and no good role model to look to. It's a mess but it really shouldn't be like this at all it's just crazy. But once you know who you are no one can take that away from you. You are beautiful you are strong and you are important enough!
Naw. Stop fronting it goes both ways. Black woman and men are shamed for their features. Lets not act like Blu-Ivy isn't picked on because her father is Jay-Z. You know how long he has been called ugly and Joe Camel?
@@dmg.2443 naw she is picked on because of him. Personally I just think he takes ugly pictures like the candid ones his mouths open or he's mean mugging, a smile goes along way. But yeah of course it goes both ways but I was saying the guys that usually have something to say negatively about black women are in my experience ignorant and scrubs.
@@jeanetteh.8393 as long as you recognize it's a two-way street. A lot of the self-hated that these black men internalize is in relation to their experiences with black women as well. C
@@dmg.2443 Yes. Of course like I tried to explain I do talk to them I don't just leave it at that. Hurt people hurt people. But in my eyes Idk a better word other than ignorance because yeah their are crazy girls out their but to pick on every girl as a man or male just on bad experiences I explain to them it's not right. But like I said you can tell them and help them but the healing has to come from them. I'm sorry if I didn't explain my self well enough but I was not meaning to sound like I didn't see it both ways I was just going off what the first person had said. I didn't see it in a split perspective.
Thank you, Adrienne! I was waiting for someone to bring up featurism.
I love that Jeannie mentioned Talib Kweli’s song, Black Girl Pain, because when I was growing up my dad would always play this song and it became my theme song for the rest of my life. It gave me strength when I felt different or outcasted as I was the only black child in my small town until my high school graduation day.
Glad to see they are continuing the conversation!! 💕💕💕
Honestly Loni in this episode made me respect that Amanda is there.
I love how she stood up for her !
April May same cause I really wasn’t with it at first Lol
Funny and now she gone
Amanda seems like she has grown from the comments she’s gotten(although I know she was probably getting some pretty bad comments). She seems more humble. She’ll be a great addition to the show. Good luck Amanda.
That's what I'm hoping. That she is humble and lets others speak.
Wackkk
They hate on Amanda being here because they weren’t hired themselves 😂
I like the discussion that these ladies were able to have. Often time topics of race turn into an "All Lives Matter" discussion but they were able to address the severity of the issue today.
How can people be such horrible to a kid like this🤦🏾♀️
Because they aren't happy people! Not the people with whom you'd leave your children/pets.
yesss loni! i thought i was the only one that was cool with amanda
Me too!
Amanda is too real. I like her. I’ve said that so many times in the comments lol. You can tell she is just so self aware and aware of the world. She is sharp!
Im happy loni said it!
@Taylor’s PlayHouse who cares? why is race important??
Taylor’s PlayHouse I wonder too because different race and background needs to represent and also it brings a different dynamic to the table when they are talking about different topics. I mean we already have Asian and Latino, maybe Indian, or Native American, or Hawaiian, Samoan, etc.
Loni got spicy with the comments. Well said!
Amanda brings depth.
@4:03 this is soo true. My dad always praised black features above everything else and especially dark skin. He always called me pretty and my self-esteem has been a little bit stronger because of hearing that growing up.
This is how many people love THE REAL
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Who loves the real ? I watch them to laugh at them . From their topics to the way the talk . The only one worth watching with something real to say is tamera. The rest of them are dumb. That spanish chick and the asian chick,omg!!!! They're insulting for woman of color. Although they both think they're black. The Asian chick is always saying she's 40 but talks like she's 15 . Does she know anything other than " yo". And the spanish one thinks she's beautiful . Everytime she opens her mouth she reminds you how ignorant she is.
@@lizjordan9830 all facts sis! ..And same, I only watch for shits and giggles, the show is a joke, the only half decent one is tamera and the only one who wasnt afraid to speak the truth (most of the time) was tamar, it went down hill when she left
@@lizjordan9830 You know what you are the one who is ignorant. All of the ladies on the real are special, talented, and they are good people. They are way better than you will ever be. So stop bashing them. If you don't like the other ladies then stop watching the show. Go watch something else then. 😤😖
@@jonae8701 I agree with you 100%. I'm sick of people's bullshit opinions sometimes!!!
And yea. Why the hell they coming on here knowing that they don't like what they see?
It’s amazing how some people are so hateful and mean. Just shows how much pain and dislike they have for themselves in their own hearts. You can only see the flaws in someone because you hate them in yourself. If you are full of love you seek and attract love. I feel sorry for people that only want to speak negatively about others because their words are a window to their soul.
“They want yo rhythm but don’t want your blues” ‼️👏🏾👏🏾 ain’t never fuckin lied
This was an amazing segment, loving this new dynamic and the different perspectives they each had to share ❤️
The Real dealt with this topic PERFECTLY
All the ladies looking gorgeous!!! 💜💗
Jeannie’s whole outfit 😍😍
Adrienne’s and Loni’s makeup 👌🏽✅
Tamera’s and Amanda’s hair🔥🤩
I love the love emanating from this panel you can tell the new hosts mesh well
Am gonna need some time to get used to this 5 host thing 😭😭😭
makula kromah seriously we’re all gonna need some time specially tam’s sit 😂😭😭
makula kromah same. I don’t dislike Amanda. I just need to get use to having an extra host. The 4 girls alone had such great chemistry
Get used to it boo...she's here to stay lol all love 💕
I definitely don’t dislike Amanda the seating just makes it feel.....not right
Meee
Tamera: Well Dayummm! I felt that sis ❤️
It’s diverse, they have Asian, Hispanic, black, biracial, people saying Yall need a white woman?? as an Australian white woman I don’t need a white woman on a show to love a show and feel it speaks to me, anyway Tamara dose a good job speaking for the ” white perspective” and can represent the community just fine as it’s her right to just as much as mine, people are being so closed minded, I know a lot of white peoples opinions and non of them agree on much anyway, we all just people we all have different opinions and experiences , they are all great at their job and have a right to be there on that merit alone regardless of race or diversity or who’s “community” they represent, they are up there representing themselves, if that happens to speak to or represent specific community’s then that’s great, if that community doesn’t often get that chance to be represented well that’s even better, but they are their because they are good at what they do and deserve that respect
What race is Hispanic?
Adrienne is a white Hispanic.
I’m not here debating the difference between ethnicity, race and religion, or trying to categorise, I’m just going on what they speak on, that’s why I said race and culture, and for a lot of people that’s a touchy or personal subject, I can only speak on my own race an culture in that way. I’m going to take this positively and assume you just trying to help and educate by correcting me, and I honestly hope you haven’t read my positive well meaning comment and looked for the one fault or negative to try and slant it into me being racially or culturally ignorant or bigoted, because I am not and it’s not healthy for the world to eagerly look for people to say a bad thing when people are trying to say good things, if we all concentrated on things we agree on and had in common, then the things we all fight over would start to fade out.
@@samarakiely2733 EVERYTHING YOU SAID💯🌈💕It was heard and appreciated ....And the way you chose to deliver it.....as a proud black woman I thank you.... I understood you
This was great. There’s no need to tear others down to build yourself up. We are all beautiful in our own unique ways 💕
SAY IT LONI!!! They not USED to her !!! Hahaha yes!! We love Amanda Searles !!!
Amanda Seales is 🔥💯
That's really what it is. How many people with an actual degree in AA Studies are on daytime television? She's probably the first or one of extremely few. They don't know what to do with her because people with that level of knowledge of their own culture don't make it mainstream.
I have always taught my children the beauty of African features, creativity, and rhythm so they can appreciate themselves and others.❤️
Tam, I understand how you feel. Growing up biracial was so hard and you get it from both sides. Thank you tam🙏🏽🙏🏽
But yet people love to talk about the so call advantage of it. When it most likely 50/50. I can't relate but can just imagine and easily understood.
There's a lot of broken people in the World...you just got continue to Empower your Mind & be aware they're just protecting their sense of Worthlessness.🌿🌱🍃
I just be waiting for Jeannie to talk and intelligently summarize the point
Not when it comes to black people. She did good on this topic but she's generally not well-versed on anything relating to black people.
TheElolicious she’s not black so why do you expect her to? Can you speak on Asian issues in an educated and well versed way?
Urja Paudel yes because i don’t fetishise asian men. also i’m not a talk show host? she is? so she’s supposed to be able to talk about all topics. you’re so boring.
TheElolicious urm no. she doesn’t HAVE to be able to speak on all topics just because she’s a host. she’s there to speak and educate others but she’s also being educated herself. so leave her be, thanks.
@Tasheri Well, the show never highlights Latino, South Asian, East Asian, West Asian (Middle Eastern) or South American topics...like they only highlight when it pertains to black people...It's almost like what are Adrienne and Jeannie there for? They never get to speak about their own experience
“They want your rhythm, but don’t want your blues.” I damn subscribed!
Yo. That Last Tweet By Ari Made Me Cry. Adrienne Was Speaking Straight Facts.
See my tears... Just can't control them. From Tamera to Loni plus Jeanine... These women are just incredibly supportive of each other.
These are my favorite topics they discuss and why I watch
It's all they talk about now, give it a break
Javi Ruiz u mad they put another black woman on and i’m loving it!
That’s what my mama taught me. All people are beautiful and everyone has a right to feel and be beautiful. Everyone is fearfully and wonderfully made!
I'm here for Amanda, she's a strong black woman with logical opinions. ❤❤❤ so much love for you Amanda ❤❤ an amazing addition to the real
Loni’s hair & makeup looks rly good today! & I really liked how passionate everyone was, I’m excited to see the future of the show.
I am so here for that kind of love Loni! Also, I watch the show now because Amanda is there now~
Every point was good. But Adrienne when u said resilience. I got chills. U always come through with your comments! Every race is beautiful!
So happy Loni defended Amanda because y'all were being way too loud and wrong in these comment sections
Y'all complained that the show wasn't "real" enough, but now that they have added Amanda, the REALEST person there is, all of a sudden it's a problem. Smh.
People will always complain. Amanda was the best option and I'm glad she's here.
Adwoa Boateng exactly! The show is called “
“The Real” for a reason.
Adwoa Boateng speak on it!
Yessssss LONI!! Come through for your sista !! People was going in on the dislike button in yesterdayʻs videos and I was not here for it. WE should be uplifting and gaining insight from all these beautiful intelligent relatable women! Welcome to the REAL family, Amanda! The family that truly supports you joining is here!
love, love what Jeannie said about those lyrics. love, love, love what ari lennox tweeted. please parents take heed.
I'm a black southern African woman, and in my country most Mums grew up reshaping their children's noses to make them more pointed or less wider. I remember my mum telling me how she also did the same to my nose. The moment I became more aware of my blackness and how beautiful I am regardless of my despised features all around the world,her actions really upset me and I vowed never to attempt any "alterations" to my babies features. When I gave birth to my daughter last year,I had a relative tell me she had "reshaped" her baby's nose. I told her I wasn't going to do the same to my baby and I remember the look of amusement she had on her face looking at my baby like she wasn't beautiful.
So here's the thing,as a parent, NEVER EVER get tired of protecting your babies regardless of whatever the society deems cool or beautiful or the perfect picture. As long as I see my kids as beautiful, what the rest of the world feels is irrelevant to me. How I feel about my babies,is how they'll feel about themselves when they're older.
I love Adrienne's perspective on this...it's not always about black only...these lessons apply to every minority race!
This video gave me CHILLS, yaaaas 💪🏼 this was so powerful, thank you for giving these STRONG ass women a show to speak up for the ones that are put down by these freaking comment sections. I can’t.
Yasss Adrienne!!!! It started with the parents teaching their kids about the TRUE definition of beauty!!! which includes EVERYONE. Smh
God I love when Jeanie adds her point. I love everyone but that was so good to add to the conversations
I'm so glad Loni is still there
Me too love loni fr
Me too I thought she was leaving 😭😭
Y'all made me cry. Continue speaking out and speaking up. The hate needs to stop.
When my son turn 5 years old I sat him down and we talked about the beautiful things God has made. I showed him pictures of beautiful rainbows all around the world. We talked about the beautiful colors God made and how we see them every day. They I showed him a picture of many children of all colors and asked him what he saw. He pointed out the smile of this girl, the shirt of this boy and so on. Then I told him how God has a rainbow of color in people. We talked about something beautiful on each person. Its how you raise your kid to see the world and teach them better. I grew up with a grandparent who was racist and different ways but I knew what he was saying wasn't right because my mother taught me better and that I am not better then anyone.
Ashley Babson we all need to teach those values. Especially in a country as diverse as America.
I was waiting for thid video 🙏🏾
Thank you we are all beatiful in our own way 🙏🏾❤
And I was very glad that Amanda is also there, I love when she say what she think ❤
Actually biracial was praised in the black community because they had the good hair and complexion. They were always featured in music videos back in the day. NOW its getting better but it's still there!!!
The flipside is that it also made them targets for negativity to a certain extent. It's like having a sibling who is the golden child and you are always the scapegoat. You might have resentment towards the golden child because of how badly you're treated.
@@marissar.359 Since you're God I guess you know how I was treated but my point is in the BLACK COMMUNITY biracials were elevated. Now in the WHITE COMMUNITY that's a whooole other story. Side note: Besides not living under a rock my info comes from other biracials as well. Are there story not valid. One biracial that I LOVE is good ole' Mecheex she has a UA-cam channel. Check her out aaaand my personal friends who are biracial as well. Colorism is a real issue in the black community. Now we're embracing darker tones but trust in the BLACK COMMUNITY they were welcomed. ua-cam.com/video/a6di0rPVcmI/v-deo.html
I think she was trying to say she was never white enough or black enough so she got allot hate and she wanted to know where was the love.
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Every biracial person does not have the same experience. Where I come from people make fun of you for looking/acting too white so light skins and biracials weren’t elevated.
Now the black community OVERALL uplifts biracials and lighter women but that doesn’t negate people’s individual experiences. There’s always an exception to the rule.
I’m almost about to cry!!!
I tell my kids how beautiful they are, and teach them that black, brown, white and everyone is beautiful. We are not black I have to encourage my children to be kind to everyone and see the beauty in every person.
My son says he’s brown is 3 and I tell him he’s beautiful, and when we start talking about classmates he says their names and i know its a black child friend of my son I make sure I tell him she’s/he beautiful! Black is beautiful baby! And he agrees! I refuse for my kids mentality to be molded by someone that doesn’t see this.
That's the Loni we love!
Yes! They were ALL on point on this topic. Well done 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
ok this will work! loving the new dynamic. Congrats ladies!!!
Adrienne you hit it right on the mark. WE are ALL BEAUTIFUL. Our diversenss makes us beautiful. More Love Less Criticism.
I love how jeannie is proud of her age 😊
Thank you the REAL for finally having a serious topic I could get through😒
I love how they handled it, especially Loni!
Why would anyone hate on Amanda 😭 I love herrrr
Shes awful
Love Amanda too❤❤❤
The truth is always the one that no one wants to hear! Tell it like it is Loni! You women rock! 🥰🥰Keeping it real as always!❤️❤️