I’m the crazy type too but if she didn’t know about me and my man lies oh yea ofc I’m boutta go after my man I’m crazy so that’s not a good idea but if he tells me about her and she still goes through with it I might not fight but boy ohh boy am I bout to have some words for her too‼️‼️😂
Many people cheat because they can. The opportunity presents itself and either the person isn't loyal and/or not committed mentally. Everything could be right in a relationship and the individual would still cheat.
It's just easier to break things off prior. Cowards, the juvenile and immature individuals cheat, hoping you will get a clue. Their reason is "sparing" the drama when it's really testing waters.
It’s real cowardly the cheating does nothing but create unnecessary pain and hurt, when you can just be upfront and honest. I think many situations could’ve ended wayyyyy better if the cheating was replaced with honest communication before hand.
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Adrienne always has a “friend”. Y’all remember back when Adrienne said she didn’t want Lenny to be friends with someone who was a cheater because he should be friends with people who “respects relationships and birds of a feather flock together”?? She said it made her uncomfortable. But for someone who feels uncomfortable about that she sure does have a lot of male friends who cheat.
I mean how Old was she when she said that, a lot of things happen in a day alone that makes a person change their mind about something, you can't hold that against her she changed her mind ain't nothing wrong with that
Innocentia Anele She was old enough, she said it on this show. And just know, that when Adrienne said that, around that same time, she was still talking about how she was the “cool chick” that her male friends would talk to about their ain’t shtt activities. This “I have a friend” thing is not new. So it’s not like she said one thing a long time ago, and then said one thing different YEARS later and we pounced on her. She says this all the time, so she was contradicting herself from the beginning. And also, why would she change her mind about something like that? That sounds like going backwards. Who would go from, “people who casually cheat and disrespect relationships make me uncomfortable” to “I have a lot of male friends who are like that and it doesn’t bother me at all anymore”? Her mindset before made more sense, especially being married now. She didn’t change her mind, she just didn’t mean it when she said she didn’t feel comfortable being friends with cheaters the first time. It’s not that serious though, I’m just pointing it out.
Anne Day Exactly I was waiting for somebody to say that I'm glad you pointed that out she don't have that many friends she's talking about herself and maybe close friends experiences but most of those experiences she's talking about or hers she's been through it lol
I disagree.... my brother was drugged at a party and this chick forced herself on him (her crazy self on got a few kisses because he was drugged) even though she knew he was married. He still ended up almost divorced even though he was the victim and he almost died from the drugs....There was a police report, hospital papers, and witnesses that all saw pretty much the same thing. Which is her following him around.... Imagine the movie Obsessed with Beyonce except worse. It's a case by case bases.
I totally agree with Loni. Your issue is with the man, not the other woman. The only time you should have an issue with the woman is if she was your friend or your family.
A man of high value can have mistress on the side as long as it doesn't come out and embarrass both of you in public. As long as he doesn't bring back diseases or pays money on the other female then let him have fun on the side because, if you want a high value man, the fact is you may have to share him if he's that way inclined to do so ;) It's not sexist or anything, just that men have a higher sex drive and if he is high value he literally has more options, men can have sex with other females without it meaning anything to us, females cheat emotionally. That's the difference ;)
Your husband will tell you whatever he wants you to know, it doesn't matter if you trust him or not. The bible instructs us to trust no man, but to put our trust only in God.
If you can't trust your husband, then why would you be with him? When two become one, you're supppsed to honor, trust, and nurture each other. If that's lost, then people should leave.
the bible definitely calls us to trust our husbands 😂 i think you’re referring to scripture warning us against putting our trust in anyone or anything else for our salvation. also, “love believes all things” 1 Corinthians 1:7! A believing heart is a good thing! In general, and especially in marriage, an untrusting, suspicious, or cynical heart is not a loving heart.
As a military spouse we all lean on each other's husband's to help fix stuff when our own husband's are deployed etc. BUT we contact the wife and ask HER for her husband's help... Don't ever contact the husband and have no regard for his wife. That's so rude.
If someone cheats on you and you're going to give them another chance, you should be able to do that without confirming with the other person that it's over.
The entire phrase is “curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back”. I still wanna meet her. Not to compare myself to her, but I think it answers some internal questions about myself. It’s an opportunity to learn.
Gail A. Yeah I thought it was really interesting, I came upon it when I read this article: thoughtcatalog.com/nico-lang/2013/09/31-famous-quotations-youve-been-getting-wrong/ you may want to check it out if you’re interested.
if you’re deciding to stay w that dog, then u have to decide whether you’re going to believe him or not. if u can’t believe him, then that ain’t a good sign and u gotta go.
If you have to ask your husbands mistress to verify that it’s really over, just leave. There’s no trust there anymore (why would there be anyway?) not to mention if they wanted to continue to see each other on the low they’re going to lie to you anyway.
It’s never safe to meet the other woman. My hubby told me that his friend had a friend who had a mistress. And one day he decided to fix his life around and broke up with the mistress. Well the mistress lost it and went to his house while he was at work and killed with a bat his kids and wife. :( that guy has to live with that forever! How awful and sad 😢. To loose your kids and wife that way because of your selfish actions. And that guy said that his mistress did not ever act crazy or looked like the crazy type.
You don't need to meet the other woman to know if the affair is REALLY over. If you have doubts about whether its really over and you can't determine the truth based on your interactions with your partner, then you already have your answer.
When Tamera and Adrienne were taking about the double standard I was like hell yea that's the way it is! Guy cheats/girl usually stays. Girl chests/dude leaves like road runner. Haha. We put up with so much from the them, but we do one little thing they explode.
I wouldn’t feel like it’s a good idea only because you’re entertaining BS! Why would you be willing to have a conversation with her when the person you should be sitting down and talking to is the person who’s cheating in the first doggone place...
I think it's a GREAT idea. Get all the tea about what your husband did because you know the man isn't gone tell the truth. THEN make your decision. A lot of women are delusional and think it's just about sex. Nah they be out here having whole connections and relationships with these sidechicks/mistresses. THAT is what would hurt me the most.
The moment I have to front and force myself to hold something in that happens NATURALLY is the moment I realize I SHOULD NOT be with you ! Why tf should I waste my energy trying to be perfect and not do anything around you that will make you leave... if you leave , oh well !
My husband for some reason thinks it’s adorable when I let it go. I do try not to but sometimes you can’t hold it in🤷🏻♀️ he claps and giggles lol it’s endearing in a way
My ex was the kind of boyfriend that pretended he wasn't jealous, but one time he confided in me that if he ever caught me cheating he would want to punch the dude, AND me. He was only jealous because he was capable of cheating himself. Once when we were on a break, he had the audacity to go make out with my best friend behind my back. So.......why was he mad at the mere *thought* of me being with someone else despite the fact that he got involved with my best friend. So, yes. There is a double standard
@@zarahshabs7936 thank you for your kind comment. It was rough, and I still have trust issues because of it even though it has been 6+ years since it ended. I think a secure, genuine, loving, boyfriend would trust that you wouldn't cheat because he himself wouldn't dare even think about doing that to you. But not everyone has those morals. I am sorry that happened with your ex (that he cheated). I don't wish being cheated on upon anyone because not only does it break your heart, but it also sometimes leaves you questioning yourself, and also leaves emotional scars that take years to heal. I think it is a thing among people, not just men, to suspect of others doing what you think of doing. Not sure if that makes sense
Hmmm looks like they are preparing us for just the 4 of them next season lol. But boy how I missed the chemistry with the original 4. I do like Amanda and she is smart. But these 4 are everything to me, they all get to individually shine. And I get to see Tamera’s beautiful face more clearly, and she’s more relaxed! ❤️❤️❤️
I'm nosey too BUT I'd never meet the mistress. I'm the one who runs when this happens, I'd feel sooo hurt that I'd just want to forget and heal somewhere far far away.
It depends. My bf has a son with another woman and I have to know her to have a future with him, but I don't need to ask her anything because he has made me feel secure the entire time that he will never go back to her. If the man isn't making you feel secure than that is probably what is driving you to go to the other woman for clarity. That, along with an affair, is a red flag.
There is no right affair, if there is marriage involved. Do not meet the mistress,unless in court. THAT CAN BE A VERY DANGEROUS SITUATION TO CONFRONT THE OTHER WOMAN OR MAN. What you eat,determines if you will pass gas. Somethings can't be helped. The worse is you lose complete control and actually, mess on yourself. Adrian was right on target, about helping someone. If a woman asks your husband to help her, then you need to know more.
Yes, I been there! I was engaged and was cheated on I sat down with the other woman and we talked. I stayed afterwards and they did it again so I left and they are now together I think.... If u feel the need to meet with the mistress do so get clarification, and get closure.... But at the end you should always walk away from a cheater because they not only don't respect u, they don't respect y'all relationship, nor themselves. Walk away ALWAYS there's no exceptions! Even in a one time thing walk away even if u know u are walking away for just a moment do that but you need to walk away ALWAYS.
What did the other woman tell you? How did you meet her? I wonder if she even had feelings of remorse, I guess not since she still stayed with him. Glad you were able to leave
Karen Trejo I cant speak for her (the other woman) but what I can and will say, is that love will make you do crazy and stupid things... and I hate to say it but I’m thinking that he maybe we back to her bc she “E C” didn’t take him back... I could be wrong though. 🤷🏻♀️
@@karentrejo1714 She told me that she loved him too and she was sorry for hurting because we were once friends. I met her through him because we all went to college together and they had a fling before him and I got together that I wasn't aware of. I'm a forgiving person BUT, not a stupid one. I told him to make a choice he said he chose me and would cut her off so I believed him until I planned a surprise bday party for him and she sent him a masterbation video of herself to his emails which I saw before he did and at that point I told him I couldn't do this anymore. He tried to fight for me to stay but, at that point my trust was gone.
@@karina_824 I don't think that love making me do crazy and stupid things was the reason for the talk. For me I wanted her to see me and know that what she was doing was hurting me and was wrong and I wanted to see her face after knowing that I knew because she was super in my face all friendly and what not and then I found out she was having an affair with my guy at the same time. Which isn't cool at all. But I only talk to her after making him chose ither me or her.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and I have yet to really hear my boyfriend fart. I heard him fart once in his sleep and it was so funny to me because I never heard him fart. He evens runs the water in when he boo boo. Me, on the other hand, after 6 years I'm comfortable and letting it go🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And Adrienne calls herself a Christian. Some "grown" women can't help themselves because of certain situations. Not everyone has money like she does. 🙄
THANK YOU STELLA I SAID THE SAME EXACT THING. SOMETIMES ADRIAN FORGETS THOSE STORIES OF THE TIMES SHE COULDN'T AFFORD ANYTHING BECAUSE THEY WHERE POOR . WHICH IS WHY I GET ANNOYED
When I was cheated on, I regret knowing the name and face of the girl. My partner and I reconciled and have a great relationship. We moved on. But It creeps in the back of my head randomly, not often. Something that scars you. So I wish I didn’t know the face and name.
My first husband cheated on me. We have a daughter and he was bringing the woman around her after we separated. I chose to meet her because I wanted to know who was around my daughter. It was awkward.
I totally agree! If I want a friend's husband to do something for me I let my friends know first. I'm married btw. I don't play that. And I expect the same courtesy in return. We don't want any wires crossed and anything to be taken out of context.
Anytime Adrienne says "my guy friends" she is lying to make her point more valid. Adrienne do and say anything to be viewed as the cool chick to a guy even if it means blaming the woman
My Husband niece cheated on her Husband before she got married a week after her wedding 😵💫 Not only that but it was her Dad’s best friend. Everyone is saying it’s all good their in a happy place…. I locked off those people I can’t deal with that type of crazy.
For the last part!!!! What?? Men (women too) aren’t the Jireh so they can’t meet all of their partners needs so them meeting another persons need when they aren’t even meeting their partners needs in full can be painful. I agree with Adrienne and Tamera - if someone needs help from my partner it’s better if they’re a mutual or known friend and if something is off then we should let each other know
I wouldn’t meet the woman because my emotions might cause me to do something crazy.
I agree!
Ohhhhhh so agree
I’m swinging on site fuvk a reason 😩
I’m the crazy type too but if she didn’t know about me and my man lies oh yea ofc I’m boutta go after my man I’m crazy so that’s not a good idea but if he tells me about her and she still goes through with it I might not fight but boy ohh boy am I bout to have some words for her too‼️‼️😂
You’re dumb and childish
That situation is beneath me. I’m not wasting a single breath on either one of them. No need to throw salt on an open wound...
There is, if you need to disinfect it!
right
If you’re above them how come you were wounded?
Adrienne is right. Many people cheat because there is something wrong in the relationship (man or woman). Some are just cheaters.
Many people cheat because they can. The opportunity presents itself and either the person isn't loyal and/or not committed mentally. Everything could be right in a relationship and the individual would still cheat.
It's just easier to break things off prior. Cowards, the juvenile and immature individuals cheat, hoping you will get a clue. Their reason is "sparing" the drama when it's really testing waters.
I wonder what category her husband falls into
It’s real cowardly the cheating does nothing but create unnecessary pain and hurt, when you can just be upfront and honest. I think many situations could’ve ended wayyyyy better if the cheating was replaced with honest communication before hand.
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When Loni said she never been a mistress😂😂the cameraman was shady enough to show Adrienne's reaction 😭😭😭😭😭
Has Adrienne been a mistress?
No he didn't he showed Tamara and Jeannie not Adrienne
Can we all just appreciate how Loni looks over to Tam when Loni is explaining something or demonstrating. Like always!! I love that friendship!!!
Is that you in your profile pic? I'm only asking cuz this comment doesn't match the face lol
Adrienne has some wonderful "friends."
Either a damn lot of friends, or a friend that has seen it all😂...
Derickakash or she’s talking about herself lmao
@F I mean having a guy friends and hanging out with guys is great.
She’s the friend. We see right through her.
Birds of feathers, or bitch of
Adrienne always has a “friend”. Y’all remember back when Adrienne said she didn’t want Lenny to be friends with someone who was a cheater because he should be friends with people who “respects relationships and birds of a feather flock together”?? She said it made her uncomfortable. But for someone who feels uncomfortable about that she sure does have a lot of male friends who cheat.
I mean how Old was she when she said that, a lot of things happen in a day alone that makes a person change their mind about something, you can't hold that against her she changed her mind ain't nothing wrong with that
Innocentia Anele She was old enough, she said it on this show. And just know, that when Adrienne said that, around that same time, she was still talking about how she was the “cool chick” that her male friends would talk to about their ain’t shtt activities. This “I have a friend” thing is not new. So it’s not like she said one thing a long time ago, and then said one thing different YEARS later and we pounced on her. She says this all the time, so she was contradicting herself from the beginning.
And also, why would she change her mind about something like that? That sounds like going backwards. Who would go from, “people who casually cheat and disrespect relationships make me uncomfortable” to “I have a lot of male friends who are like that and it doesn’t bother me at all anymore”? Her mindset before made more sense, especially being married now. She didn’t change her mind, she just didn’t mean it when she said she didn’t feel comfortable being friends with cheaters the first time. It’s not that serious though, I’m just pointing it out.
Anne Day Exactly I was waiting for somebody to say that I'm glad you pointed that out she don't have that many friends she's talking about herself and maybe close friends experiences but most of those experiences she's talking about or hers she's been through it lol
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STOP BLAMING THE OTHER WOMAN. NOBODY STEALS OR SEDUCES SOMEONE’S HUSBAND. YOUR MAN DECIDED TO CHEAT, ITS HIS FAULT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Agreeeee
@@jj-hm4xb it takes two to tango. the husband is always in the wrong and the mistress is as well if she knew.
What if she was family or a friend, she still has no fault in it?
ohhweeeee oh if she knows that he’s married yes definitely she’s at fault as well
I disagree.... my brother was drugged at a party and this chick forced herself on him (her crazy self on got a few kisses because he was drugged) even though she knew he was married. He still ended up almost divorced even though he was the victim and he almost died from the drugs....There was a police report, hospital papers, and witnesses that all saw pretty much the same thing. Which is her following him around.... Imagine the movie Obsessed with Beyonce except worse.
It's a case by case bases.
I totally agree with Loni. Your issue is with the man, not the other woman. The only time you should have an issue with the woman is if she was your friend or your family.
A man of high value can have mistress on the side as long as it doesn't come out and embarrass both of you in public. As long as he doesn't bring back diseases or pays money on the other female then let him have fun on the side because, if you want a high value man, the fact is you may have to share him if he's that way inclined to do so ;) It's not sexist or anything, just that men have a higher sex drive and if he is high value he literally has more options, men can have sex with other females without it meaning anything to us, females cheat emotionally. That's the difference ;)
@@infinitel00p94 please stop its so embarrassing
the fart sound effects are killing me but they're so accurate 😭😂😂
Adrienne is always acting like her man cant do anything without her approval lol. Don’t nobody want him sis
Well he cheated on his first wife so someone else did want him..so maybe she is nervous about his past still
Tamera's skin is flawless.
THEY ALL SO FLY
I hit the 9 month mark, today I’m gonna let it loose. 😂😂
Pleaseeeeee😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
you go ahead girl 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂
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Tamera’s laugh is so cute.😍😍
Loni's expressions cracks me up😂
Me too!!! 😂
In my honest opinion that's because since she's the oldest out of the 4 of them she doesn't actually give an f about their opinions on certain topics.
“What kind of freak of the week!” Lmaooo Loni😂😂😂😂
Your husband will tell you whatever he wants you to know, it doesn't matter if you trust him or not. The bible instructs us to trust no man, but to put our trust only in God.
So True!!👏👏👏
PREACH 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Yess
Okay!
If you can't trust your husband, then why would you be with him? When two become one, you're supppsed to honor, trust, and nurture each other. If that's lost, then people should leave.
the bible definitely calls us to trust our husbands 😂 i think you’re referring to scripture warning us against putting our trust in anyone or anything else for our salvation. also, “love believes all things” 1 Corinthians 1:7! A believing heart is a good thing! In general, and especially in marriage, an untrusting, suspicious, or cynical heart is not a loving heart.
As a military spouse we all lean on each other's husband's to help fix stuff when our own husband's are deployed etc. BUT we contact the wife and ask HER for her husband's help... Don't ever contact the husband and have no regard for his wife. That's so rude.
If someone cheats on you and you're going to give them another chance, you should be able to do that without confirming with the other person that it's over.
whew okay...guess I'm on the internet too much if I'm seeing this immediately after it was posted😅😅
The entire phrase is “curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back”. I still wanna meet her. Not to compare myself to her, but I think it answers some internal questions about myself. It’s an opportunity to learn.
Wow, I've never heard that ending. Everyone always stops at "curiosity killed the cat."
Gail A. Yeah I thought it was really interesting, I came upon it when I read this article: thoughtcatalog.com/nico-lang/2013/09/31-famous-quotations-youve-been-getting-wrong/ you may want to check it out if you’re interested.
Chandler Pope Thank you!
Chandler Pope but what if you’re if not satisfied by the time you learned the true story... the cat still gon be dead
if you’re deciding to stay w that dog, then u have to decide whether you’re going to believe him or not. if u can’t believe him, then that ain’t a good sign and u gotta go.
The fart segment had me rollin...🤣🤣🤣
If you have to ask your husbands mistress to verify that it’s really over, just leave. There’s no trust there anymore (why would there be anyway?) not to mention if they wanted to continue to see each other on the low they’re going to lie to you anyway.
Of course,and you will be all Sus
It better to walk out
Why does Adrienne defend men more than women no matter how bad their actions are 💀💀
Pick me girl
Adriane a little slow
Tamera looks beautiful Love her outfit and hair especially the earrings and jewelry!
My husband said he was just helping a work friend move in, he was dating her and physically cheated. Hell no
How did you find out ?
Karen Trejo well I looked at his phone. Found her contact and he told her she was a good kisser.. I hit him in the nuts and kicked him out😂
It’s never safe to meet the other woman. My hubby told me that his friend had a friend who had a mistress. And one day he decided to fix his life around and broke up with the mistress. Well the mistress lost it and went to his house while he was at work and killed with a bat his kids and wife. :( that guy has to live with that forever! How awful and sad 😢. To loose your kids and wife that way because of your selfish actions. And that guy said that his mistress did not ever act crazy or looked like the crazy type.
You don't need to meet the other woman to know if the affair is REALLY over. If you have doubts about whether its really over and you can't determine the truth based on your interactions with your partner, then you already have your answer.
I cringed a little when Adrienne said she wondered why a grown woman can't help herself.
Agreed! people struggles sometimes
I love how excited Jeannie gets talking about farting lmao 😂
Lol the part where she talks about the smell of the hot silent ones is freaking hilarious... I cracked up so hard.
Tamera is so gorgeous!!!!! 😍😍😍
Adrienne girl, I feel you with the farting in your sleep thing 🤣
They aint letting Loni speak she looks so annoyed everytime 😅 Adrienne is really trying
When Tamera and Adrienne were taking about the double standard I was like hell yea that's the way it is! Guy cheats/girl usually stays. Girl chests/dude leaves like road runner. Haha. We put up with so much from the them, but we do one little thing they explode.
MARI CADENA SALAZAR. I didn’t say I did. Hell no. But most girls do and that was my point.
Adrienne sis, you have a microphone. We can hear you. 😭
Adrienne is so extra for no reason
@@TW-mg3ld you want a dull co host ?
@@TW-mg3ld she thinks that she is the most important host with her 🙌👃🤮🚽
Sis, she’s Puerto rican. That’s her quiet voice. 😂
@@TW-mg3ld stfu and don’t watch her then
Adrienne dun seen it alllllllllll with her friends😭..
Adrienne Is So Naive When It Comes To Men.. She Will Defend All Kind Of Disrespectful &&’ Juvenile Stuff That Men Do🙄😒
I LOVE Adrienne. She is so underrated!!!
I wouldn’t feel like it’s a good idea only because you’re entertaining BS! Why would you be willing to have a conversation with her when the person you should be sitting down and talking to is the person who’s cheating in the first doggone place...
Yep. If you decide to stay, you have to decide to believe them when they say its over. If you can't, you shouldn't stay!
I think it's a GREAT idea. Get all the tea about what your husband did because you know the man isn't gone tell the truth. THEN make your decision. A lot of women are delusional and think it's just about sex. Nah they be out here having whole connections and relationships with these sidechicks/mistresses. THAT is what would hurt me the most.
The moment I have to front and force myself to hold something in that happens NATURALLY is the moment I realize I SHOULD NOT be with you ! Why tf should I waste my energy trying to be perfect and not do anything around you that will make you leave... if you leave , oh well !
My husband for some reason thinks it’s adorable when I let it go. I do try not to but sometimes you can’t hold it in🤷🏻♀️ he claps and giggles lol it’s endearing in a way
What?
My ex was the kind of boyfriend that pretended he wasn't jealous, but one time he confided in me that if he ever caught me cheating he would want to punch the dude, AND me. He was only jealous because he was capable of cheating himself. Once when we were on a break, he had the audacity to go make out with my best friend behind my back. So.......why was he mad at the mere *thought* of me being with someone else despite the fact that he got involved with my best friend. So, yes. There is a double standard
That’s so rough...is that a thing? My ex brought up that cheating is unforgivable earlier on, and later on he did...
I’m sorry :(
@@zarahshabs7936 thank you for your kind comment. It was rough, and I still have trust issues because of it even though it has been 6+ years since it ended. I think a secure, genuine, loving, boyfriend would trust that you wouldn't cheat because he himself wouldn't dare even think about doing that to you. But not everyone has those morals. I am sorry that happened with your ex (that he cheated). I don't wish being cheated on upon anyone because not only does it break your heart, but it also sometimes leaves you questioning yourself, and also leaves emotional scars that take years to heal. I think it is a thing among people, not just men, to suspect of others doing what you think of doing. Not sure if that makes sense
No husband of mine is helping another woman with her bills, unless we’re doing it together and it only happens ONCE!
Loni is so funny, absolutely makes my day whenever I get a chance to watch. God bless you 🤗
Hmmm looks like they are preparing us for just the 4 of them next season lol. But boy how I missed the chemistry with the original 4. I do like Amanda and she is smart. But these 4 are everything to me, they all get to individually shine. And I get to see Tamera’s beautiful face more clearly, and she’s more relaxed! ❤️❤️❤️
Well Tamera wont be there anymore, so now its just 3 and probably one random person every week
“Curiosity killed the cat, satisfaction bought it back...”
I'm nosey too BUT I'd never meet the mistress. I'm the one who runs when this happens, I'd feel sooo hurt that I'd just want to forget and heal somewhere far far away.
Why tf are they acting alll weird about it? It's a perfectly natural bodily function. Like sneezing. I waited 3 dates! F that "hold it in" bs. NO. LOL
Only time I’m texting my friend’s man privately it’s to help him surprise my homegirl
Adrienne was the most truthful about this topic
Jeannie's "what is that" was hillarious hahahaha
No I am not meeting her. Disrespect me and I’m done with you.
i love tam lmao she has a way of making even the most unflattering thing sound cute lol
I understand what Tam is saying. I'd want to meet them because I'm curious.
It depends. My bf has a son with another woman and I have to know her to have a future with him, but I don't need to ask her anything because he has made me feel secure the entire time that he will never go back to her. If the man isn't making you feel secure than that is probably what is driving you to go to the other woman for clarity. That, along with an affair, is a red flag.
So sad tam left the show. She is hilarious
JEANIE THE TWO FOR ONE DID ME IN LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
There is no right affair, if there is marriage involved. Do not meet the mistress,unless in court.
THAT CAN BE A VERY DANGEROUS SITUATION TO CONFRONT THE OTHER WOMAN OR MAN.
What you eat,determines if you will pass gas.
Somethings can't be helped.
The worse is you lose complete control and actually, mess on yourself.
Adrian was right on target, about helping someone.
If a woman asks your husband to help her, then you need to know more.
Omg yous ladies had me laughing so bad that I woke my husband up🤣🤣🤣🤭🤭🤭
Yes, I been there! I was engaged and was cheated on I sat down with the other woman and we talked. I stayed afterwards and they did it again so I left and they are now together I think.... If u feel the need to meet with the mistress do so get clarification, and get closure.... But at the end you should always walk away from a cheater because they not only don't respect u, they don't respect y'all relationship, nor themselves. Walk away ALWAYS there's no exceptions! Even in a one time thing walk away even if u know u are walking away for just a moment do that but you need to walk away ALWAYS.
What did the other woman tell you? How did you meet her? I wonder if she even had feelings of remorse, I guess not since she still stayed with him. Glad you were able to leave
Karen Trejo I cant speak for her (the other woman) but what I can and will say, is that love will make you do crazy and stupid things... and I hate to say it but I’m thinking that he maybe we back to her bc she “E C” didn’t take him back... I could be wrong though. 🤷🏻♀️
@@karentrejo1714 She told me that she loved him too and she was sorry for hurting because we were once friends. I met her through him because we all went to college together and they had a fling before him and I got together that I wasn't aware of. I'm a forgiving person BUT, not a stupid one. I told him to make a choice he said he chose me and would cut her off so I believed him until I planned a surprise bday party for him and she sent him a masterbation video of herself to his emails which I saw before he did and at that point I told him I couldn't do this anymore. He tried to fight for me to stay but, at that point my trust was gone.
@@karina_824 Probably. But I'm grateful to had learned what I did from the experience.
@@karina_824 I don't think that love making me do crazy and stupid things was the reason for the talk. For me I wanted her to see me and know that what she was doing was hurting me and was wrong and I wanted to see her face after knowing that I knew because she was super in my face all friendly and what not and then I found out she was having an affair with my guy at the same time. Which isn't cool at all. But I only talk to her after making him chose ither me or her.
If I was ever in that situation and my man ever cheated on me I wouldn't get upset or want to meet the other woman I'd just leave & let them be happy.
😂😂😂😂Tamera!! I never even thought of you that way😂you guys crack me up with those farts😇
I miss them and this chemistry!
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and I have yet to really hear my boyfriend fart. I heard him fart once in his sleep and it was so funny to me because I never heard him fart. He evens runs the water in when he boo boo. Me, on the other hand, after 6 years I'm comfortable and letting it go🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hilarious I love them...their chemistry is amazing
WAIT 9 MONTHS IF I EAT SOME CEREAL I WON'T MAKE IT 9 MIN'S 🤦😂🎭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I am walking.
With knowing I did right , by my dude.
It’s not a loss. It’s a eye opener.
When Adrienne finished asking the question the first thing I thought was well then ask ya husband if it’s over…..
And Adrienne calls herself a Christian. Some "grown" women can't help themselves because of certain situations. Not everyone has money like she does. 🙄
THANK YOU STELLA I SAID THE SAME EXACT THING. SOMETIMES ADRIAN FORGETS THOSE STORIES OF THE TIMES SHE COULDN'T AFFORD ANYTHING BECAUSE THEY WHERE POOR . WHICH IS WHY I GET ANNOYED
I know right
Come thru with the “Barbara this is Shirley “
When I was cheated on, I regret knowing the name and face of the girl. My partner and I reconciled and have a great relationship. We moved on. But It creeps in the back of my head randomly, not often. Something that scars you. So I wish I didn’t know the face and name.
Same here part of me wishes I never knew her face it haunts me daily
Lonis yodel laughs always crack me up 13:55 lol
Only to know if she was aware that he already has been in a relationship.
That's pointless. Whether she knew or not, the husband cheated. Knowing won't make it better
Your partner is the only one who owes you respect and loyalty. Period.
this may come as a shock to you but you don’t have to owe someone loyalty to wrong them.
Love these ladies!❤️
My first husband cheated on me. We have a daughter and he was bringing the woman around her after we separated. I chose to meet her because I wanted to know who was around my daughter. It was awkward.
Lmao!!! 😂 passing gas part hilarious!!
I totally agree! If I want a friend's husband to do something for me I let my friends know first. I'm married btw. I don't play that. And I expect the same courtesy in return. We don't want any wires crossed and anything to be taken out of context.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and I have yet to pass gas in front of him. I’m so scared
Anytime Adrienne says "my guy friends" she is lying to make her point more valid. Adrienne do and say anything to be viewed as the cool chick to a guy even if it means blaming the woman
I bet Tam regrets sharing this story 😂
Meeting her can bring closure. Sometimes we women makes things too difficult.
WHY does Adrienne always yell in her mic? Can someone remind her that WE CAN HEAR HER #lawd #fixitjesus
Ade made me laugh so hard when she fake punched Loni. It was the look on her face
Omg I’m laughing my ass out with this video
I wouldn't even want to know. There's really nothing that would make it make sense. I would focus on leaving and moving on
I really love Jeannie's nails
My Husband niece cheated on her Husband before she got married a week after her wedding 😵💫 Not only that but it was her Dad’s best friend. Everyone is saying it’s all good their in a happy place…. I locked off those people I can’t deal with that type of crazy.
Oh no that’s tooo much 😮
Ok we get it Loni stop calling Adam. 🤣🤣
If a woman cheats, it ain’t just physical, it’s mental and emotional. So yes if a woman cheats men leave because we know we’ve lost her
Men cheat for emotional too. I’ve seen women be just physical. I think it has to do with personality.
Jessica Freda YEP
Lol it's funny how men really think women are all emotional and men are only physical . .. this isn't even true.
My husband always asks me first before we help out anyone with money or something, and we discuss it and figure out if we have it
Has anybody noticed that tamera and cyntoia brown look a lot alike🤷
Tam sooooo cute with her smile 😊
I have never, and I mean never been with a Man that was afraid to fart. Right away. Not even Male Friends or Family Members. 💁🏽😆
this episode always leaves me in stiches when yall talk about farting
Meet the other woman for what? 😂😂 What is the purpose and where the hell is her self-esteem??
Tamera looks so good 😍😍😍
For the last part!!!! What?? Men (women too) aren’t the Jireh so they can’t meet all of their partners needs so them meeting another persons need when they aren’t even meeting their partners needs in full can be painful. I agree with Adrienne and Tamera - if someone needs help from my partner it’s better if they’re a mutual or known friend and if something is off then we should let each other know