You’ll be healthier for yourself your family, and your new life. You deserve the world and now you can leave the broken Past behind you and build a new and a more safe space. I look forward to seeing the new youth that you built within yourself that we could see you express yourself as you truly are you’ve got this girl rooting for you.❤❤❤❤❤
When there is an end to a long term relationship there is a mourning period. It truly feels like a death. Allow yourself to mourn as you need. Best wishes for the better days that lie ahead. 😊
I believe you will feel better when you have cleared out all the boxes in the living room. I know this takes time, I went through this too. Finding the motivation is difficult, but living well plus feeling better will help get to the place where you feel comfortable. When that happens you can start to build a new life, one that brings joy and happiness into your life again. Change is hard, everything new is scary in the beginning. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Be safe 💕💕
In November of 2022, I moved out of our family home and into a one bedroom apartment after 18 years of marriage. I was not excited and was truly miserable and terrified. I purchased a bunk bed for my girls, and I was able to get them in the one bedroom with my queen bed. Our 547 sq ft apartment brought us closer and allowed our family to heal and grow together and individually. After a year and a half living apart, my husband and I reunited and moved our family to the mountains. This was not the outcome I had envisioned when I left him. I was sure we were over. I share my experience because I can relate to where you are today. I had the same emotions. Today, I have nothing but fond memories of that little apartment. It was a space to heal and grow as a person, and it felt like home. On another note, the video you did putting the bakers rack together made me smile. I had to figure out how to do things alone when I had my little apartment, and the directions were useless at times. God bless.
Yes that's so true! We have to grieve when relationships end and we lose the life we had hoped for and planned for. Then when we're parents we also grieve for the hopes we had for our children with that life we were building. When we see them hurting or not understanding why things have changed it's SO damn hard for us to handle. We feel extra pressure to be ok for our kids, to be strong and positive for them. It's a lot! That's an understatement for sure. Great job telling the truth about how hard it is. Many times we just put one foot in front of the other and keep moving, just barely making it through each day. I know many people watching are also struggling right there with you. You're not alone. Sending you a big hug. 🧡🧡🧡🐦
Totally agree ❤️ sometimes you have to do things that sucks before its get better ❤️ so keep going and in the future everything comes in the right time to the right place ❤️ you rock that 🎉
Healing the sad choices we have to make for yourself and child hurts like hell. Its hard and not many understand that. ❤❤❤❤❤ Be proud though of making the hard choice for the better. Huge hugs sweetheart 🤗 ❤️ 💙
😢😢😢😢😢Thanks❤❤❤Ended a 2 yr relationship with the father of my children got 3 he fathered 2. My 25yr old and my 11 year old. Also got a 8 yr old. 2 yrs of nothing. Hurting like hell but. 💔 It is what it is. Hes so judgemental not constructive criticism its just him ripping me to bits
I think you are an amazing person. You’ve been through so much but continue to grow and get stronger. I love watching your videos as they help me to get through bad days. So thank you for posting your videos. Take care Cher x
I just made a change. Hard. My grown son was living with me temporarily. So after 3 months, and it wasn't working and putting way more on this old lady with disabilities, I firmly told his dad that it was his turn. My son still loves me and I do have moments of feeling bad but I had to do what was right for my life. 💕
I felt the same when I left my marriage with my two kids years ago. I was excited two years later when we moved and I more confident and feeling stronger In myself it takes time and work
I’m having trouble leaving an abusive marriage of over 30 years. I’m older and trying to figure out how I’m going to support myself when rent is through the roof and I can’t stay in my home once they serve him with divorce papers. He will become physically violent. New beginnings are so hard but I can’t stay in this relationship. Any advice or tips for making this transition easier?
I’m sure it’s very hard. I hope you have been able to get out. I’m not in that situation but my daughter sort of was. She finally ended it. It was hard. You have a home with this man. I hope you have found help. You deserve to be happy. Remember that♥️ Wishing you the safe happiness you deserve!!
Change is not always pleasant but sometimes necessary 💯
We are allowed to feel how we feel!
I totally get it!!
Truth! It does suck now and until the day comes when it doesn't suck as much, you're allowed to feel what you feel. The end. 😊❤
You’ll be healthier for yourself your family, and your new life. You deserve the world and now you can leave the broken Past behind you and build a new and a more safe space. I look forward to seeing the new youth that you built within yourself that we could see you express yourself as you truly are you’ve got this girl rooting for you.❤❤❤❤❤
Totally agree with you love..
One day at a time..and these be WORTH IT FOR LIFE!!
When there is an end to a long term relationship there is a mourning period. It truly feels like a death. Allow yourself to mourn as you need. Best wishes for the better days that lie ahead. 😊
Sending you a big hugs
I believe you will feel better when you have cleared out all the boxes in the living room. I know this takes time, I went through this too. Finding the motivation is difficult, but living well plus feeling better will help get to the place where you feel comfortable. When that happens you can start to build a new life, one that brings joy and happiness into your life again. Change is hard, everything new is scary in the beginning. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Be safe 💕💕
In November of 2022, I moved out of our family home and into a one bedroom apartment after 18 years of marriage. I was not excited and was truly miserable and terrified.
I purchased a bunk bed for my girls, and I was able to get them in the one bedroom with my queen bed. Our 547 sq ft apartment brought us closer and allowed our family to heal and grow together and individually.
After a year and a half living apart, my husband and I reunited and moved our family to the mountains. This was not the outcome I had envisioned when I left him. I was sure we were over.
I share my experience because I can relate to where you are today. I had the same emotions. Today, I have nothing but fond memories of that little apartment. It was a space to heal and grow as a person, and it felt like home.
On another note, the video you did putting the bakers rack together made me smile. I had to figure out how to do things alone when I had my little apartment, and the directions were useless at times.
God bless.
Well said Libby! Sending lots of hugs from Michigan!! 🫂♥️
Yes that's so true! We have to grieve when relationships end and we lose the life we had hoped for and planned for. Then when we're parents we also grieve for the hopes we had for our children with that life we were building. When we see them hurting or not understanding why things have changed it's SO damn hard for us to handle. We feel extra pressure to be ok for our kids, to be strong and positive for them. It's a lot! That's an understatement for sure. Great job telling the truth about how hard it is. Many times we just put one foot in front of the other and keep moving, just barely making it through each day. I know many people watching are also struggling right there with you. You're not alone. Sending you a big hug. 🧡🧡🧡🐦
You are doing it.....and we are all here with caring hearts!!
100% agree,I seem to learn the most when its the hardest for me..
Feel your feelings true. Remember the saying, when one door closes another one opens.
Totally agree ❤️ sometimes you have to do things that sucks before its get better ❤️ so keep going and in the future everything comes in the right time to the right place ❤️ you rock that 🎉
Healing the sad choices we have to make for yourself and child hurts like hell. Its hard and not many understand that. ❤❤❤❤❤ Be proud though of making the hard choice for the better. Huge hugs sweetheart 🤗 ❤️ 💙
It really does hurt! Thank you for your kind words❤️🥰
😢😢😢😢😢Thanks❤❤❤Ended a 2 yr relationship with the father of my children got 3 he fathered 2. My 25yr old and my 11 year old. Also got a 8 yr old.
2 yrs of nothing. Hurting like hell but. 💔 It is what it is.
Hes so judgemental not constructive criticism its just him ripping me to bits
You're a wise soul ❤.
I think you are an amazing person. You’ve been through so much but continue to grow and get stronger. I love watching your videos as they help me to get through bad days. So thank you for posting your videos. Take care Cher x
You are way too kind, oh my gosh, thank you 🥰
You just need to do whats right for you .we,re here ❤
And we are here with you as well❤ God bless tale great care both of you guys❤ Jesus loves you and especially your son❤❤❤
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You have to mourn the loss of the relationship. It will ease. N learn to love your self again. ❤
Big hug...❤
I just made a change. Hard. My grown son was living with me temporarily. So after 3 months, and it wasn't working and putting way more on this old lady with disabilities, I firmly told his dad that it was his turn. My son still loves me and I do have moments of feeling bad but I had to do what was right for my life. 💕
You did what was best for you and in the long run that helps all of you ❤️ great job advocating for yourself momma
@@SimplyLibbyt Thank you so much!
Patricia- Sending you a big hug. 🧡🧡🧡🐦
@@BlueBird-nf2gp Thank you.
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Life is like a roller coaster. Hoping you giggle when you get to the top!😁💓
It really is a Rollercoaster, and I'm terrified of those 😂
I felt the same when I left my marriage with my two kids years ago. I was excited two years later when we moved and I more confident and feeling stronger In myself it takes time and work
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Its called life so move on and smile
I’m having trouble leaving an abusive marriage of over 30 years. I’m older and trying to figure out how I’m going to support myself when rent is through the roof and I can’t stay in my home once they serve him with divorce papers. He will become physically violent. New beginnings are so hard but I can’t stay in this relationship. Any advice or tips for making this transition easier?
I’m sure it’s very hard. I hope you have been able to get out. I’m not in that situation but my daughter sort of was. She finally ended it. It was hard. You have a home with this man. I hope you have found help. You deserve to be happy. Remember that♥️ Wishing you the safe happiness you deserve!!
You will smile. You need to heal baby. 🙏🩷🙏