What is the Best Way to Pet a Cat (4 Step Tutorial) | The Cat Butler

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  • @quint_avi
    @quint_avi 3 роки тому +57

    That's actually very helpful and informative and, as a life-long cat lover, I can confirm the effectiveness of the tips! Great vid!

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +3

      I am glad the video was helpful and informative! Appreciate the support :)

  • @chazwallace5347
    @chazwallace5347 3 роки тому +14

    Rubbing just behind the whiskers, my cat Junior just melts. his favorite spot of all.

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +3

      Awww just the right spottt. Yeah teeemo melts too haha

  • @anomienormie8126
    @anomienormie8126 Рік тому +16

    I'm a dog owner, but an abyssinian cat from a studio I go to seems to have taken a liking to me, always kneading me and butting his head against me and even sitting on me while I'm trying to stretch xD Trying to give him the best experience. Vid was very helpful.

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  Рік тому +5

      thats awesome! you must be quite the cat charmer :D

  • @Sang15Mitang
    @Sang15Mitang 3 роки тому +19

    So cute! My cat loves being pet basically everywhere, but if you pet his tummy too much he sometimes gets playful and you have to stop or he will grab with his paws. If you pay attention to his tail movements you can tell when he has had enough.

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +8

      You always give the best tips! I will be sure to look at my cat's tail movements too

    • @jc.1191
      @jc.1191 2 роки тому

      Yup. That body language will keep the relationship happy with attention.

  • @hahafunnybro
    @hahafunnybro 3 роки тому +36

    My best friends tabby cat was such a plump boy, and he always nudged at my legs and feet when I was sitting down to give him belly rubs with my toes! RIP Crybaby 😿

  • @Lynda2110
    @Lynda2110 2 роки тому +5

    My two ragdoll boys are much like Arya and Teemo. Hunter and Loki also like a belly rub and Hunter actually likes a paw massage - Loki not so much. Thank you for sharing, I am picking up so many additional hints and tips

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  2 роки тому

      OMG love the name of your ragdoll boys! I am glad the video was helpful!

  • @MalinaDisonglo
    @MalinaDisonglo 2 місяці тому

    this was a super helpful video!! my friend's cat loves me now. thanks cat butler

  • @Rida_Rashed
    @Rida_Rashed 2 роки тому +2

    Aww i love it! I povek the cats you showed! They are too cute for my eyes!

  • @ralliedcookies4403
    @ralliedcookies4403 25 днів тому

    4:03 while this may be true, I think it’s important to get cats used to having their paws touched gently in order for certain grooming activities such as clipping

  • @blue-sb4wq
    @blue-sb4wq 3 роки тому +6

    Your furbabies are so beautiful!! Ours is still on the way. 2 months wait. ❤

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому

      Thank you! I can't wait to hear from you and how your furbabies will be like! What breed will it be?

    • @blue-sb4wq
      @blue-sb4wq 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheCatButler same as yours, a ragdoll! ❤

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +1

      @@blue-sb4wq Oh YES :D

  • @corru-kun7865
    @corru-kun7865 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this, I'm a dog person and have spent most of my life with dogs but my family got a cat to keep my dog company so i needed to learn how to treat a cat

  • @MakhaiX377
    @MakhaiX377 9 місяців тому

    I've had my kitten for about 5 weeks now, which is half his age. He's an orange tabby and I pet his paws and massage them, I heard it makes clipping easier if you do it while their babies. He also bites when I pet him unless he's going to sleep. Even though I think teething has something to do with his bites (just gentle "stop touching me bites) I also wondered if I even pet him correctly. So thank you for the cuddle guide

  • @rosemaryfalama9473
    @rosemaryfalama9473 3 роки тому +10

    Thanks loads for this, i love how detailed your explanations are ! Did Teemo and Arya always enjoy being pet in all these places when you first got them or is it something they got used to with time? I am still in the kitten stage haha and Ocean who I have had for 3 weeks now, does allow some petting after having to reinforce it with treats and after play.It seems like something i had to work up to and wondered if it was a similar experience for you. Zen, who i just got today is still yet to emerge haha.

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +1

      Hey good question! What you are doing is good! I had a similar experience. I had to establish trust with my cats first and associate petting with positive things like treats. How do you normally feed your cat? Do you feed meal by meal? I recognized that the cats understanding it was me feeding them also helped build that trust and bond.

  • @joveljanelaquinto212
    @joveljanelaquinto212 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this. I will be a good mom to my Ollie 💕

  • @dirtypiggy3334
    @dirtypiggy3334 6 місяців тому +1

    i subscribed because the intro animation was impressive :)

  • @zoezoet8122
    @zoezoet8122 3 роки тому +6

    I love cats so much I was smiling like a dummy this whole video 😂 your cats are beautiful!!

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому

      Thank you for such kind words :). Arya and Teemo are happy to hear it!

  • @LuxPlanes
    @LuxPlanes 4 місяці тому

    my kitten often rolls exposing her belly or sleeps like that, often when i pet her there she will bite me gently and grab my hand with her paws, occasionally push it away with her back paws gently. but at the same time she is constantly purring. I'm unsure what these mixed signals mean? sometimes I go in for a bit of belly touching because its irresisatble but I try not to over do it. do you think she prefers her belly not to be touched?

  • @cassandraberttula4545
    @cassandraberttula4545 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful Ragdolls 💙💙

  • @Sir-Prizse
    @Sir-Prizse 2 роки тому +16

    My cat never comes to cuddle, but he has fixed rituals where and when he can be stroked, for example on the washing machine after a shower.
    And then he is so relaxed that he often falls asleep.

  • @marianneellman480
    @marianneellman480 2 роки тому

    Thank you...thank you...thank you..
    You made me know l am going well!!!🌸😉❤
    I know it takes time to make your videos....
    We
    Truly appreciate it.🌼

  • @iTalEl0001
    @iTalEl0001 3 роки тому +1

    Hi, love your videos man. Now I want these cream ragdolls aswell 🙃. Do you have a video on how your cats react at the vet?

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому

      Hey Thanks appreciate the support!
      Yeah I have a small clip of them at the vet getting their teeth checked at around 8:20 in this video - ua-cam.com/video/x_d781ovfSo/v-deo.html

  • @defeatSpace
    @defeatSpace 2 роки тому +6

    I try petting my cat on the face and ears, but he's like "how dare you" and immediately rolls onto his back for belly rubs.

  • @abu69083
    @abu69083 9 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou that was helpful my cat is now very calm and my cat loves the most to rub his back head to the tail

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  9 місяців тому

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @abu69083
      @abu69083 9 місяців тому

      Yes that was helpful for me

  • @lubnaAlmulla
    @lubnaAlmulla 3 роки тому +1

    Nice... Thank you for sharing 😃👍

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому

      Awww I am glad you found it helpful!

  • @englishwithlana2775
    @englishwithlana2775 3 роки тому +3

    Hii, I love your cats💜💜
    How often do you bathe your cats?

    • @englishwithlana2775
      @englishwithlana2775 3 роки тому

      @loey Don’t you clean their paws after pooping?

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +1

      Hey good question! I bathe them every month and if they had an accident such as poop getting stuck to their fur right away :). Thanks again for the kind comments and appreciate the support!

    • @englishwithlana2775
      @englishwithlana2775 3 роки тому

      @@TheCatButler Thank you ever so much🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Nat-kt9pj
    @Nat-kt9pj 2 роки тому

    I watch your videos to learn more about ragdolls. Beautiful cats. I really like your cat tree. Are the leaves real? Where could I get a cat tree like the one you have? Thanks for the tips on patting! My two ragdolls, Buddy and Bella also like belly rubs!

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  2 роки тому

      Hey thanks! The leaves are made of silk. Hey Nat mentioned more info in your other comment. But the link to the tree is here: pettreehouses.com/store/tree-houses.html. Your ragdolls have beautiful names!

    • @Nat-kt9pj
      @Nat-kt9pj 2 роки тому

      @@TheCatButler thanks for the link, beautiful choices:)

  • @flokimuyukijones670
    @flokimuyukijones670 2 роки тому +2

    I'm lucky enough for mostly all 3 of my cats who allow me to rub their bellies and perform the motorboat. One of them, the male one, always invites me to do so when we're both in the bed and he sleeps be my side. He'll always turn to his side as if to say, "go ahead hooman, satisfy that urge now"

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  2 роки тому +1

      ahhahah love this quote "go ahead hooman, satisfy that urge now"

  • @Eric-ks8wt
    @Eric-ks8wt 2 роки тому +1

    Hello,Catbutler
    Quick and simple question!
    When you said… “Cats will get jealous when they smell other cats smell” would it include dogs?
    Thank you.

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  2 роки тому +1

      Yes it does! But my cats seem to get more jealous when its a cat.

  • @lliillYMCMBlliill
    @lliillYMCMBlliill 3 роки тому

    Hi Everyone,
    Can someone please let me know the breed of cat @3:41 ? Is that a Persian or a Ragdoll or a mix breed ?
    Thanks

  • @plinka1362
    @plinka1362 3 роки тому +2

    cute video :)

  • @almonddaves
    @almonddaves 4 місяці тому

    Another thing to note is when you should stop petting. If the cat is getting tense, flicking their tail or pushing their ears backwards, they might be telling you to stop. If you don't, they'll likely scratch or bite.

  • @miquando5033
    @miquando5033 Рік тому

    Because of thick skin on their backs, cats (at least mine) like rough scratching there, due to it being less sensitive.

  • @Tegood2
    @Tegood2 2 роки тому +1

    I mother has gotten a cat like a year ago and I’ve been petting him regularly but when he smells my hand then bit should I move it away or let him bite/nibble on it as I have a bit of trouble he does like to be alone sometimes which I do try do you have any tips that can help me figure out?

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  2 роки тому +2

      Hey what a timely question. I am actually making a video on this after the next video I make. usually when he bites softly its him telling you he needs some space. it can also be a love bite depending on the situation. I think a video would do a better job at explaining

    • @Tegood2
      @Tegood2 2 роки тому

      @@TheCatButler hey it’s been a while but ever since today I started to train my cat cause it bites alot but I just started to train him with petting and what I’m seeing is he is starting to get closer rubbing his head against my hand and I’ve just started like an hour ago just rubbing him and useing a pen as a clicker and telling him great job when he don’t bite or get scared of my hand unexpectedly but I move my hand slow if he can’t see me so it does not feel afraid but for the week I will just start to train him more on petting because he’s more like a family cat. But one of my cousins that came over keeps putting his face in the cats (Salem) face makeing it run away. PS I reward him with treats. But I feel like my cousin could ruin it makeing him scared

  • @Nysuri
    @Nysuri 3 роки тому +1

    As u said Arya dislikes touching her paws, how u manage to trim her claws then ? My cat dislikes touching paws as well so i struggle to trim her claws. Can do it only partialy at once as she is resting. Being on laps while doing it is a big NO for her xD

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому

      So Arya usually tolerates the nail trims because she has been conditioned that there will be a reward at the end. Her favorite cat treat. Here is a video how I got them acclimated to nail trims:
      ua-cam.com/video/m3aMxh4G9DM/v-deo.html
      Hope that helps!

  • @s__p__r__i__t__e2572
    @s__p__r__i__t__e2572 3 роки тому +1

    Mr. Butler I want a cat but I'm sadly allergic. I was wondering how you deal with your allergies

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +2

      Hey depends on how severe the allergies are.
      I probably had medium allergies where I had trouble breathing, watery eyes and would get lots of rashes. The first thing that helped me a lot was having air purifiers. They sucked all the floating hair in the air and my breathing became normal. My eyes were not watery anymore. Second I keep my bedroom cats free so I have a safe space with no allergies to worry about. Third being on top of cleaning the house of all their hair with a HEPA vacuum.
      Those were the steps I took. My rashes I think my body got use to it and disappeared.
      You can also take treatment if you are very allergic.
      Hope that helps!

    • @s__p__r__i__t__e2572
      @s__p__r__i__t__e2572 3 роки тому

      @@TheCatButler thank you so much

    • @s__p__r__i__t__e2572
      @s__p__r__i__t__e2572 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheCatButler thank you, I now have a cat so yay

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +1

      @@s__p__r__i__t__e2572 I am so happy for you :D. owning a cat has been one of the best decisions in my life :)

  • @akashsaha8265
    @akashsaha8265 3 роки тому

    What breed are these cats og yours

  • @nicolehonderich123
    @nicolehonderich123 8 місяців тому

    Where did you get your cat tree?? :O

  • @GlutenPlayz
    @GlutenPlayz 3 роки тому +2

    One of my cats loves to be rubbed in the belly he always flips on his back

  • @marilynrivera6904
    @marilynrivera6904 3 роки тому

    Can you talk about the changes within the first four years.

  • @Marster_Official
    @Marster_Official 2 роки тому +3

    What am i doing here. I have test tomorrow.

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  2 роки тому

      maybe its your cue to get a cat :)

  • @El_firoz
    @El_firoz 10 місяців тому +1

    I have a cat on my lap!!!

  • @yunjungham814
    @yunjungham814 2 роки тому +1

    Is your cat a ragdoll cat? I'm looking for a similar one

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  2 роки тому +1

      It is a ragdoll cat!
      I got my ragdoll from here: ragdollsea.com/, you can message the breeder to have a cat like the cat butler and she will understand. She only accepts people that come to pick up the cats physically. Hope that helps!

    • @yunjungham814
      @yunjungham814 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheCatButler omg this is super helpful, thank you so much!!! I'm in the area so can definitely pick up. Appreciate it

  • @taylophile3249
    @taylophile3249 3 роки тому

    Hello… Are they spayed or neutered? Im confused whether to spay and neuter my cats 🤧

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +2

      hey they are spayed and neutered. It eliminates some of the more troublesome behaviors like peeing all over the house or trying to run away to mate. Hope that helps!

    • @taylophile3249
      @taylophile3249 3 роки тому

      @@TheCatButler Ohh okay thanks but what if I want my cat to have kittens? 🥺

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  3 роки тому +1

      @@taylophile3249 Hey if you want them to have kittens then you can't spay or neuter them.

    • @taylophile3249
      @taylophile3249 3 роки тому

      @@TheCatButler Oh I see… Rip then 😪

  • @arcoulis
    @arcoulis 5 місяців тому

    I am really scared to try with my cat Lansi I don't want to scare him 😢

  • @NotTonTon
    @NotTonTon 3 роки тому

    Lesson: If you want someone to purr when you touch them, buy a motorboat.

  • @queencat4877
    @queencat4877 2 роки тому +1

    My cats name is Aria 🥺💖 she likes her face and cheeks rubbed

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  2 роки тому +1

      Awwww cute!

    • @queencat4877
      @queencat4877 2 роки тому

      @@TheCatButler I’m trying to learn how to pet her better. I’m v gentle but she likes her face rubbed with pressure. Trying to practice 😭

  • @mardelarosa8163
    @mardelarosa8163 Рік тому +1

    my cat usually want to be petted in the back of the head and under its chin

  • @noahdyhouse3786
    @noahdyhouse3786 2 роки тому +2

    I don’t have a cat I have a dog though he likes being 0et right in the head he act’s like a cat

  • @RainbowFishSaysHello
    @RainbowFishSaysHello 3 роки тому +2

    If cats don’t want their tummies rubbed, why make them so fluffy? I accept the danger.

  • @JLikesStarWars
    @JLikesStarWars 4 місяці тому

    Change your smoke alarm batteries bro

  • @BärenmarkeScotch
    @BärenmarkeScotch 4 місяці тому

    this is not petting, this is rubbing.

  • @totallyraw1313
    @totallyraw1313 Рік тому +1

    You say "pet" a cat. In Australia, we say "pat" a cat! 🇦🇺🪃

    • @TheCatButler
      @TheCatButler  Рік тому

      Hahaha I did not know that. Love the way you do things there in Australia :)

  • @Jd_Space_Porgram
    @Jd_Space_Porgram 5 місяців тому

    My cats love tummy rubs