Ryan Cassata - Gender Binary (Fuck You)
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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Album Artwork by August Bean. Song Written by Ryan Cassata.
PLEASE READ (written June 4th) - I have a song coming out tonight about breaking gender binary stereotypes and ending toxic masculinity. I tried to push my release to later in #PrideMonth to focus solely on Black Lives Matter now but unfortunately was not able to. Indie artists don't get such luxuries. I did however ask for the magazine article featuring the release to be canceled to give more space to queer black musicians. Anyway, since I literally cannot cancel the release I will be donating the proceeds to blacklivesmatter.com from stream revenues for the month of June and July. I also created this playlist on Spotify to amplify voices and songs that need to be heard. I find these songs to either educate, bring empathy, or empower. I hope they do the same for you. The playlist link is in my story. This song coming out is really important to me and I have been playing it live for years. I am glad it's coming out into the world but am sorry the timing doesn't feel appropriate. Anyway, I guess not being able to cancel it is meant to be and I really hope that the song helps someone out there. I will also donate revenue from my t-shirt sales to Black Lives Matter and to the Emergency Relief Fund that helps keep trans people safe out of jail. I hope everyone understands. Thank you. See more on twitter and please do everything in your power to help amplify the voices that go unheard and to stand up for black lives.
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PLEASE READ (written June 4th) - I have a song coming out tonight about breaking gender binary stereotypes and ending toxic masculinity. I tried to push my release to later in @ to focus solely on Black Lives Matter now but unfortunately was not able to. Indie artists don't get such luxuries. I did however ask for the magazine article featuring the release to be canceled to give more space to queer black musicians. Anyway, since I literally cannot cancel the release I will be donating the proceeds to blacklivesmatter.com from stream revenues for the month of June and July. I also created this playlist on Spotify to amplify voices and songs that need to be heard. I find these songs to either educate, bring empathy, or empower. I hope they do the same for you. The playlist link is in my story. This song coming out is really important to me and I have been playing it live for years. I am glad it's coming out into the world but am sorry the timing doesn't feel appropriate. Anyway, I guess not being able to cancel it is meant to be and I really hope that the song helps someone out there. I will also donate revenue from my t-shirt sales to Black Lives Matter and to the Emergency Relief Fund that helps keep trans people safe out of jail. I hope everyone understands. Thank you. See more on twitter and please do everything in your power to help amplify the voices that go unheard and to stand up for black lives.
Wtf?! That’s not okay! The fact they’re deleting.
For anyone that can't donate, there are plenty of video on UA-cam, one by Zoe Amira, titled "watch this if you cant donate to black lives matter " as well as similar titles. All you need to do is watch the video, without skipping ads, and all profit will be given to BLM organisations
WTF btw i love this song (im non-binary)
okay so this just became my new favourite song
.. p.s a reminder to support trans people of colour
As a trans biracial person thank you, my guy
May be having a one person mini pride once again
Yeah. This is me :,)
"one person mini pride" I love that
Ryan: releases another relatable song. Me:*gives the middle finger everytime Ryan says Fuucckk!!* Also, this is song is literally me everyday!!! Trying to show society that I don’t fit in and that it’s ok not to fit in the “normal” two genders. Be the person that makes you happy. Don’t let society drag you down, cause there will be people to pick you back up if they do. 🐺🌈❤️
Why do I feel like this should be on the musical called
Emo
Like .... Seriously they need to add a non binary character to the band and add this song like NOW!!!
I love Emo the Musical, and I love your concept of this song being in it!
I AGREE
Ryan your music Rings me up when I’m down you are an amazing person keep rocking it🤟🏳️🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙
I'm so glad to hear it :)
I am a binary trans woman and I listen to this song cuz it's just such a banger and I can't be mad at a song that represents my friend who just so happens to be non binary, omg they are amazing we litterally support each others and we walk in the gay part of montréal together in summer Alexxe has their flag flying behind like a cape. It's just amazing. ❤️
I can not decribe the joy i suddenly felt when i heared "sometimes i want a beard, but i won't go on T. Cause i like my pretty voice"
I wanna go on T one day.. But ye
YOU GO!!!
Fuck what they say
I’m a theyby grown up (raised with no gender) and this song is legendary as hell
thanks so much! happy pride!!
me loving this song
and having dysphoria
and liking they/them pronouns:
Still Cis tho
That's me lmao
I just wanna sing this song out loud
This is great!!!
This is my anthem, along with other songs
this means a lot to me!!!
This version of the song sounds a bit muffled compared to the old rough demo. Still an excellent song though!
10/10 would recommend
Awesome love it
Thanks!
@@RyanCassata woah he replied
Bruh, this is EXACTLY what I wish I could tell my parents. They don’t get that I can still wear a skirt if I want to, It doesn’t make me any less of a boy
I love this, it's really catchy!
I love this song so much!! Keep on being awesome!
Needed this, thank you 💛💜🖤
no u did NOT lmao
@@bsooTM what…?
made me feel wayyy better about embracing the more feminine aspects of myself
ENBY ANTHEM!!!!!
WOW THIS IS AWESOME
This song speaks to so many of us!!
Im very much happy I found this song. Now I shall listen to this on repeat. 25/8
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAS!
Enby moment
im gonna respond to this on to this on my birthday Apirl 27th 2021 the day im coming out to everyone as poly/omni/asexual/non-binary (yes im all of those)
did you come out? or did you chicken out?
did you come out to some of them before that?
is carona over yet?
are you taller then 5'3 yet?
are you still scared people are gonna think its weird you have a "dogs name"?
did you get a binder yet?
how many note books have you filled with songs?
did your friend come out as anything?
did you make more friends?
did you get rollerskates yet?
are you more girly or boyish?
do you like the way you look yet?
did you cut your hair short?
are you still friends with A.N.? (i hope so)
did you ever get the phone we where promised?
do you still wanna be a writer?
do we like are dad yet? (i hate him right now)
are you still roleplaying?
do we cosplay?
hows are hand writing? any better?
do we have adhd?
do we still have depression?
did we get are own therapist not just are family one?
did we watch all of mha yet? or still cant watch long animes?
last one
did she dump Chris yet?
thank you anyone else can answer any of these i would love to hear em!
hey I think u forgot about this comment so just reminding u!!
YES!!!❤❤❤
oh look its my life. pog
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh I love this sosososososo much 😋
Omg 👍👍🐈🐈👍👍🐈🐈👍👍🙂😀🙋💐💐💐💐🌹🌹I love you so much I don't care if you're transgender
Cringe song
Ryan: *releases song*
Me: *listens*
Also me: I've never related so much 🏳️🌈
yayyyyy
Same ngl
dudeeeee sameeee
@@Lockwood-strangerthings 💜
As someone who's always felt not trans enough this song makes me feel so good 😭
I'm a trans boy, is it still okay to wear boots that have heels on them? I just dont want to be seen as less of a boy
yes!!!! boots are cool as SHIT on anyone no matter the gender and nobody except yourself can choose what you wear
Yes it is perfectly fine! You do what you want and don't listen to anyone that says otherwise!
"Stay true. Stay you."
-Ryan Cassata
It's always okay to wear what makes you feel good, what makes you happy.
You're a boy no matter what you do or wear.
Completely okay! No one gets to say how you're supposed to express yourself or identify based on your clothes.
Be who you want to be it don't matter if people judge you
Lol I’m non binary so come at me gender binary
Adriana PINEAU yep 💙
Me too! You go fellow Non-binary person!
Hell yeah!
Thanks everyone y'all are amazing keep believing in yourself and have pride in yourself
Where is your god now, gender norms? 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
This is a great song.
Yesssss but what are the lyrics? Hellllpppp
i may be cis but god damn is this a bop
happy pride month everybody!!! and thanks for the summer tune ryan
Honestly, I kinda cis and this just so good
yeah turns out im not cis and i was in denial for 3 years cheers ryan thanks for the bop lmao
@@ratsmacker4193 HHAHAHAHA, amazing character ark
@@ratsmacker4193 Plot twist
I guess I'm partially cis? Idk
Lmao my mom doesn't let me listen to Daughter around her because she always cries
I've shown her this one too and she likes to but I just thought that was kinda funny
This song is so satisfying to listen to
fuck yeah thanks!
It is
Yes
I’m enby but I’ve only been seen as female, I’ve lost friends, I’ve been verbally and physically attacked by my peers. This song is one of the few that distract me, it’s like I’m in a world where none of that is real anymore, I’m just me. The real me.
-Annex
Edit: bad spelling :(
Hello annex you are valid
Yes! Seriously. Lyrics couldn’t be more on point. Thanks!
Glad you liked it!
I feel like I should make my grandma listen to this song as she still wants me to wear what she thinks is the best for a girl. First I'm a boy lol and second I just wear what I ffeel the most comfortable wearing
I sent this song to my dad because he disowens me for being non-binary, his reaction was priceless
What was the reaction??
what was it??
I know this comment has almost a year now but pls tell us his reaction we need to know
I also need to know his reaction 😭
Tell us his reaction! Hahhah
This song just comforts me. I listen to it whenever my family is being transphobic, and it reminds me that there are some people out there who know that my gender identity is valid ^^
I know you wanted to wait to post this because of everything going on with Black lives matter, but I am happy that you are donating money from the shirt to the organization. I loved this song so much. Homestly, this song helps me and lets me know that I don't have to follow the gender stereotypes.
He released the song 4 years ago but an acoustic version. And I’ve heard this version on Spotify(?) before
@@ashley_archer_2864 It wasn't official until now though. He wanted to wait to actually put it out on thw streaming services because of everything going on right now. He was going to try to do something else and release this song later in pride month.
Yeah same, girl(oh sorry i meant buddy), it helps me too.
This makes me feel more punk than usual...
Also, definitely not in the gender binary. Boyflux (Demiboy????????????) (He/They).
Nice punk feel to this version of the song!
😁
That voice is worth a hundred beards ! ! !
I find this song yesterday and can't stop hearing this
yesssss
I wish I heard this song a year ago! I was in huge denial abt being nonbinary and didn’t think it was a thing but now I’m nonbinary and very happy with myself
Thank you for making this song, I’m going to use it to come out as non binary (agender) sometime within the next few years
Good luck!
have you done it yet? it so, howd it go?
i remember when this was an acoustic demo,,, both hella dope versions
I love this song!! I love how most of the comments are from lgbtq people :D
did you see the music video yet?
I Love This Song! I have a few friends who refuse to stop calling me a girl, even though I said I’m Non-binary and if you have to call me by a gender call my a boy! I’ve only just found these kinds of songs and they are my favorite! (This is now my favorite song!)
When I'm still misgendered my my entire family: 😢😭
ugh im so sorry
@@RyanCassata I was just listening to one of your song and a lyric reminded me of something my dad said when I came out so I'm currently having a breakdown over it
Hey we are all it family now and we accept you 💙 just say your pronouns and we will use them stay strong
im your new family
My "family" do the same. But my friends support me no matter wha so I now live with my a couple of my friends
I’m cis and use He/They , and this is so fucking good and it’s going straight to my playlist.
thank you!! please check out some more of my songs too :)
SO READY FOR THIS
lyrics:
I’m gonna wear girls clothes when I want to
I’m gonna wear boys clothes when I please
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
For telling me
To fit inside your gender binary
I won't fit inside your gender binary
I’m gonna break all the stereotypes you set up for me
All the stereotypes telling me I have to be manly
Well sometimes I want a beard but I won’t go on T
Cause I like my pretty voice, it just suits me
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
For telling me
To fit inside your gender binary
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
For telling me
To fit inside your gender binary
I won't fit inside your gender binary
I’m gonna grow my hair real long
I know that pisses you off
Maybe it’s just 'cause i’m a hippie
You all look the same, it makes me yawn, sorry to complain
But I just want to wear what fits me
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
For telling me
To fit inside your gender binary
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
For telling me
To fit inside your gender binary
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
For telling me
To fit inside your gender binary
I won't fit inside your gender binary
I won't fit inside your gender binary
I love u so much dude!!🏳️🌈
As a non-binary person I can relate
my mom found out i was non-binary and she said i was just confused. So she thought by telling me that i should be cisgender it would change my gender identity and i would become cisgender again. She doesn't know that it's not a choice to not cisgender. I couldn't help but not feeling like a women or a man. She even thought telling me would make me straight again now I pretend to be straight and cisgender when i'm home I have to be called by my dead pronounce. I'm proud of my sexuality and my gender identity. And i don't hate straight people or cisgender people. I just hate pretending to be straight and cisgender. I enjoy listening to this music. all my family members think im straight and cisgender except for my brothers and my uncles and yes they are ok with it
im gonna go to my dads house and just blast it nonstop on the living room tv [he's unaccepting btw]
This is amazingggg
Thank you for this song I'm agender and only a few close friends accept and support me. I'm going to make this song the anthem of how I'm going to live my life. No longer caring what others say about me or believe I should do or wear, and I really feel that about wanting a beard sometimes but not wanting to go on T because I like my voice. Thank you for this.
as an agender person this makes me feel heard!
im so glad to hear that. happy pride!!
Came here after arguing with my dad about how it should be a norm for women to have body hair
Jokes on him I'm not a women.
He also called me a furry for it and I'm so confused on how.
Furry because you have body hair?👁️👄👁️
@@saleoeio6212
No he meant furry as in fursuit furry
Wooow that was how i met u like 6years ago lol an acoustic version of this on pinterest, thats mad
As a trans man (he/him) who likes skirts but has transphobic parents that insist on me being a girly girl so I wear men’s clothes to spite them (also bc they’re comfy):
I love this.
this is me but the other side of the spectrum (gender non conforming trans fem)
Even tho I'm Trans Fem, this song speaks to me on so many different levels.
Okay, but this song is absolutely amazing and I listen to it on a daily basis, it gives me a confidence boost everytime ❤️❤️
This song speaks to me at a spiritual level
I'm surprised that gay and trans tiktok haven't found this yet
can you explain what a gender binary is and what it has to do with being trans and the clothes you wear? i’m a very confused transsexual man and want to learn.
The gender binary
Firstly: binary (the word) means one or the other for example computer binary 1 or 0
So the gender binary basically is male or female
But remember it’s fine to be outside the gender binary and it’s toxic stereotypes and opinions
Have a nice day stay strong
In my understanding it's the idea that there are only two genders. And that the only valid way to be trans is to be of the other gender. This worldview, that a lot of binary trans people have unfortunately, is oppressive towards nonbinary people and sometimes even to some binary trans people whose way of presenting doesn't totally fit the societal norms of their gender.
ok but what if i’m trans and think there are 2 genders
@@TearMyWorldFANTAGE then I encourage you to do more research because the gender binary is a very western idea that does not correlate with the real human experience. Non-binary people exist. Agender people exist. Two-spirit people exist. These are all terms you can google for a better understanding of how different folks experience gender in their life. Hope this helps.
I listen to this like it's a religion and I am a trans man who loves masculine stuff. I absolutely love everyone of all backgrounds. I fully support anyone who is outside of the binary or in it.
Looked for garage rock songs
This came up
Ryan Cassata is confirmed a garage rock artist
Love this! As a genderfluid person I relate this song!
Society: hands me a gender
Me: *places it gently on the ground* no thanks i think I'll pass
Nonconformist anthem ♥❤♥🏳️🌈
My non binary closeted ass is listening to this at 3 am while my family uses their transphobia to make some eggs
Being genderfluid and a lesbian. I prefer male clothes and really want a binder but my mom is a transphobe so I would get an earful
Dear Grandparents,
Idk how to come out as Trans to my transphobic dad
Found this song due to a protest for better trans healthcare, and damn it's a bop!
Oh cool! Where’s the protest? Link me?
Gave myself a bowl cut while listening to this song
"You make me yawn" Me automatically yawning every time this part comes up 1:56
😂
I've always loved the acoustic version and i am so very pumped for this new version right now
I relate to this song so much
Really enjoyed this!
Awesome, thank you!
me peacefully jamming to this song on full blast cuz im genderfluid knowing my parents wont accept me cuz its dumb
I love this so much I helps me get through life
I am a recently founded non binary person. Like I only just came to accept it. This song just hits different when it is the most relatable song I have ever heard
My genderfluid self is thriving
Gender non-conforming person here, this is the first time I heard this song and I related so much, thank you for this power song
My parents dont understant english, I know what song I will play in car
Wow yeah catchy. I shall put it in my favs. I like punk stuff.i don’t really fit the category of non binary but I’m non cis and most people don’t know what that is.
I'm going to put it on my lgbt pride playlist
Me.
Recently came to grips with my own gender identity and this song helped me through it
I don’t understand how people can not like this it’s pure awesomeness
I really love this. This song is wholesome but also slaps hard.