because they're independent not stupid If I can get free money why wouldn't I. It's funny that you're getting mad at this woman for wanting to be married but you also get mad when women are single mothers PICK ONE.
Modern as an qualifier usually means something is degenerate, ugly, too practical for beauty or practically useless. Modern woman, modern art, modern values, etc. Modern technology seems to buck the rule, but it's just a veneer--don't fall for it.
She's the kind of woman who would drag her boyfriend on a TV show to patronize him in front of the whole world. He's in her frame and he needs to get out.
Everytime I watch these shows on YT, I wonder how TF these men accept to go on the show to talk about their relationship problems.I don't think their problems are resolved on there and they just get laughed at by heinous women who empower the bad behavior of the girlfriend.
I had a conversation with a young woman a year ago. She asked me, "what would you do if I were the bread winner and you stayed home?" I said, "make sure the kids do their homework, change the oil and fan belt, straighten out the bills, mop the kitchen, replace those broken tiles, roast the chicken, take out the garbage." She looked at me like I was crazy. She hasn't spoken to me since.
@@phantom8926 True ! But my point is it's not in women's nature to be the Hunter. Their true nature is care giving and organization. If we reverse roles, she'll lose respect for you (us).
@@Ston247 Oh, no, I agree. I'm just saying they'll never fully understand that because it's not their own logic. It's against nature, the very thing they say they care so much about, to be hunters. Which is fine, no one person can do everything it's not possible.
Good for you! What is the point of having a man / husband if she is going to do the man's obligation? two people doing the same function only creates competition. Sad is that there are a lot of men falling into this thing of staying at home while the woman kills herself from work, usually they have zero masculinity, zero respect and leadership. If my future husband does not intend to provide, protect and lead, let him be alone that he will not marry me!
@@jackreidasaboboras3654 Rest assured, she doesn't plan to handle anyone's obligations. Including her own. There is nothing wrong with a woman being the bread winner. What's wrong is when a woman expects a man to fill the same role that he did 100 years ago, but she doesn't want to be a traditional house wife. Which means no one is taking care of the house or the children. It doesn't matter how the work is divided up provided that both partners do their fair share. But feminists aren't in favor of women pulling their own weight. Like they always did in the past. If these feminists actually believed what they claimed, they would be wanting to marry men who didn't make much money but who were good at taking care of the kids and the household. And they would be putting in the hours that men traditionally do outside of the home. But they are complete hypocrites who would never do that.
@Vamoo no, all black women are not like that. A hefty percentage, yes, but some black people actually still raise their sons and daughters to be decent people, believe it or not. Generalizing is fair, but it's not totally accurate. Of course, you spin the wheel of death with women in general. But black women have created UA-cam tutorials on how to tamp down their attitudes in order to be submissive mates for white men. So I'm not defending them. There are some sweethearts tho so I can't throw them all under the bus
@Vamoo like I said not defending them cuz there are lots of American black women who are creating content to teach each other to be submissive wives to white men. They'll never put the "stank face" behavior on for you like they do on the regular for us. Heard Brazil and certain parts of Asia have wonderful women also. Feminism is cancer. Destroys everyone and everything it touches
He basically said he can look after himself... so why does he need a leech that will just make his life difficult and if they have kids will turn the kids against him before taking half his stuff if a divorce. She needs him, HE DOESN'T need her.
VoidSurfer9 Just like makeup, false eyelashes, hair weaves, they are teaching other women how to be submissive in order to get to the wedding and kids part. Once there, they then go for the divorce and legally take the house, the money and child support until the last kid is out of college. No “modern” woman can be taught to be submissive. It is just another trick in their book.
@J E she and I were considered a "model" And very attractive couple. I get as much peesleaf as I want. Too much female attention. She is turning into a cat lady
@@hmingthanzaua3284 it took a couple of years for me to bounce back and I won't lie about that. It mostly had to do with the understanding of betrayal and the loss of my kids. But I have them now 50 50 with no child support. I'm living the dream bro and thank you for your well wishes !
@john smith "she" looks like a transformers.... A decepticon. So no, I wouldn't touch her unless I'm paid top dollar. Some of that money is to pay you for tickling her walls. Wheel!?
He still has to learn to put his foot down and be willing to walk away, otherwise it'll be the same ol same ol. He's just swaying in the breeze, the source of most of it being her unbridled tongue. To think he has rolled down that track for a year? My God!
Before she opened her mouth, I was going to rate her a 5 or a 6. Once she started spewing verbal diarrhea, I immediately subtracted a couple points. I mean, I'm no catch myself, so my standards are pretty low in terms of what kinds of women I'd date... But one of the minimum requirements is, "I can tolerate you for more than 5 minutes at a time".
2 , my guy yuuji. she's at best a 1.5. you rate it 2 due to the make-up she's wearing, imagine her without make up. so he will probably deal a nagging shitty E.T.
@@steelmongoose4956 masculine behaving/looking m chick w a hair hat, can u men of other races really blame us black men for dating outside our race?🤦♂️🤷♂️
I am one of the few millennials with a traditional family structure. My Dad was the bread winner and made it to all my football games, my mom made sure I made it to school in the morning and had dinner on the table when we all got home. It was a great childhood and I am very close to my parents, brother and sister because of this.
@@evanlevasseur5270 because she has expectations and the man would have to do his part, as opposed to being his maid, cook and a cleaner. But traditional women are also not good because they expect to be provided for.
@@evanlevasseur5270 The issue is not with her being an independent woman, its her stating that. Most males, fit the definition of independent, however you don't see a guy say on the first date, "I'm a strong and independent man". That is an ego red flag right there
@@evanlevasseur5270 because it is a code word for "I will not care about a proper family structure, I have no slightest idea how humans relationship suppose to work, and I don`t care if my ego will ruin my, my kids` and my man`s life" . Being responsible and smart enough to get a skillset that will provide for her till she gets babies is one thing (and it is a positive trait) , but parroting narratives that are destroying families -us the same as telling " hey, i will ruin your life too!"
But are you a modern man? Because if you don't agree that a man's role is to marry the woman he impregnated then you are a modern male. There weren't exceptions to "dodging a bullet" for a traditional man. If the woman was a crazy psycho slut & he only meant it to be a one night stand, it wouldnt matter, his role was to still ask for her hand in marriage upon pregnancy & then even proceeded to provide the finances to purchase a home.. Do you pull out chairs for women? Open doors? Never expect half on a dinner date even if you ended up not particularly enjoying her company? Or do you just simply modify traditional male roles & then make comments about modern women while being a modern man? Lol
They audiences are always full of feminists. Just look at Maury's show. Whenever the man walks on to the stage, without knowing if he's actually cheating, they boo him. When the woman walks on, they cheer. If it turns out the man is wrong, they mock him and cheer for the woman. If it turns out the woman is wrong, people comfort her and say nothing about the man. Edit: DANG I HAVE NEVER GOTTEN THIS MANY LIKES BEFORE Thanks so much
This is why I watch the Jeremy Kyle Show. He stood up for a young man who was being ripped into by the audience for jumping off a balcony to get away from his abusive girlfriend.
For sure they're all out of shape ugly older women or 'Feminists'for short. They're like incels, mad because men no longer like them or give them attention.
Yep. I was in daycare for most of my childhood. My mom made her career a priority over her family. Due to her high stress job she would come home after work and take her anger out on my family and I. She divorced my dad and things got way worse after that. Dad remarried and kind of disregarded my siblings and I. Now as an adult I'm morbidly obese and unhappy with my life. No job, no ambition, living off government money. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I started therapy because of this channel about 4 months ago. I hope to God life gets better with time.
Women: I'm a strong, independent woman and I 'don't need no men'. Men: I'm a strong, independent man and I 'don't need no women'. Women: *Surprised Pikachu face*
There's a difference between an original menninst (turn of the century menninst) and a current day 4th wave menninst. Current 4th wave has suckered women into it by telling women if you are not for the "sisterhood"( being a mennist) you must be for female oppression. The average woman says well I'm not for female opression... the "sisterhood" (4th wave menninst) says ok then your one of us .. (framing it in such a manner to other women that if they don't support the 4th wave sisterhood they are anti woman and hurting the cause) and women can't live outside of perceived ostrization . Women are consensus builders and rarely if ever are the lone wolf voice in the wilderness . They have to function with the framework. Worst thing ever for a woman is to banish her from a collective or group she's part of. They are group thinkers and must seek group approval
My dad said he dumped his ex for my mom because she didn't go to collage and seem like mother material. He was like "I'm looking for a wife and mother for my children, not sex." Be realistic then romantic. He says.
@@possummagic3571 lmao thank you. It's like you make one mistake and people make that mistake you personality. I didn't even notice they said this. But it is what it is.
Sometimes they disguise themselves until it’s too late. Always wait 3 - 5 years before marriage no matter how much you get pressured. It takes that long for a person to truly reveal themselves.
But are you a modern man? Because if you don't agree that a man's role is to marry the woman he impregnated then you are a modern male. There weren't exceptions to "dodging a bullet" for a traditional man. If the woman was a crazy psycho slut & he only meant it to be a one night stand, it wouldnt matter, his role was to still ask for her hand in marriage upon pregnancy & then even proceeded to provide the finances to purchase a home.. Do you pull out chairs for women? Open doors? Never expect half on a dinner date even if you ended up not particularly enjoying her company? Or do you just simply modify traditional male roles & then make comments about modern women while being a modern man? Lol
@@elyzamarie1113 you women would rather trade a diamond (mr perfect) for a pebble(the carousel) and when you realize your mistake you immediately think right away you can find that diamond again. it does not work that way once you lose that diamond. It can never be found ever again
"Don't judge a book by it's cover" A book cover is _meant_ to be judged... It's... Why it exists ffs. You never have a second chance to make a first impression.
the saying was coined when books really didnt have a cover. Then the times changed and people hung up on the saying without much thought, unsurprisingly.
Steve Harvey, Dr. Phil, and Dr. Oz are all women's daytime shows, designed to satisfy the female perspective. Never expect them to take a man's side of things.
@@Just_logic His answer would be "Women don't tune in to hear the truth, they tune in to hear 'All women are treasures' - and I only get paid when they tune in."
The way she aggressively presents herself, the relationship suggest she controlling, entitled and selfish, notice how the boyfriend is smiling and how his eyes shift he's practically afraid her
Good read on people. It's interesting, when people are near high conflict people like her they become guarded and their speech reflects that by saying "my" and "mine" more often as if things became territorial...because they have.
Thank christ for my husband. "Thank you for keeping *our* house clean." "Thank you for raising *our* children." "Thank you for keeping *us* from being addicted to fast food." "Thank you for being a better mother than both of our combined." He drives 100+ miles a day sobi can teach the baby her colors. He crawls through sub areas so I can take the kids grocery shopping every week. He *broke a rib* (ignoring the warning signs) falling through a deck so my son can go to Legoland with his friends. The bare minimum is to cook a healthy dinner, pack healthy lunches and make my man breakfast and coffee every morning before the kids wake up, so we can have some quiet time together. Being a STAHM is such a privilege.
I'd honestly say never marry, period. Trad women get convinced to break bad by their friends and family members all the time. Shoot, she might just make the change herself because she feels like it.
What's in it for men? Alimony, child support, higher tax brackets to maintain the welfare state, false accusations, and more work for men in the workplace because "mUh EqUaLiTy."
Sounds about right. Wanted to debate but you pretty much hit it on the nail. Men guard your wallets and don't gamble the nonsense. If women were giving up half their shit then marriage would gladly be abolished. Let that sink in for a moment!
3 seconds in to that girl talking and I already knew. She didn't even have to say she's a modern woman, there's zero class in the way she conveys herself. Meanwhile the boy next to her is well-mannered and smiling.
My girlfriend loved me for how different I was from her father that she hated. So it's not really a rule to say that if a woman hates her father she will take it out on the man she is with. No woman has ever treated me better then she did. if you are wondering about the past tense nature of my sentence I'll save someone the trouble of shoving their foot in their mouth. She died.
@@coledibiase1777 I agree on that to an extent but not ALL women are the same... Speaking from what I've seen personally all of my friends have dated guys that aren't really that good looking or they're overweight when the girls fit the beauty standards. The surgery I think that's because they're insecure and most of the time because of the photoshopped propaganda we get 24/7...
That's why I go for a dinner straight up, to observe, listen and learn. Why men think that a dinner date to start things off is a bad investment boggles my mind. It's really the cheapest way to learn if you pay close attention-and test. Now, to me, this is the fast track to gold and the the path to avoidance of future pain.
The old women in the audience nod their heads when he says “times have changed”. My grandma would have shook hers. Time doesn’t change! What changes is people who abandon time tested values then turn around to demand the benefits of those values not from themselves, but from other people.
My dad raised me. He always told me if I wanted a bum, be a bum. If I wanted a man, I need to take care of myself, financially and domestically because good men don't want an adult who acts like a child. They value themselves more. I found it to be true. I've only been with one man and he's still my partner to this day. We are both financially successful, we both contribute to daily chores and never fight about who does what because we understand the roles we put ourselves in. It may not be traditional gender roles, but they work for us.
Dude im just starting to learn these things and I saw it. I knew she was the devil before she even said modern woman. The way she talks and takes command, and speaks like she's trying to get phil on his side to pussywhip her man.
Speaking from experience, I can say that the traditional way (father works, mother stays home) is the BEST way. When my wife and I were younger, we both worked shortly after our daughter was born. It was extremely stressful for all of us, and we really didn't make much money minus the childcare expenses. When she decided to quit her job and stay home, we had less money, but we were much more content.
Women: I want to be the breadwinner. Also women: Why can't I find an economically attractive man that makes more than me? Men: Runs away from the insanity that is modern day women.
Right, Von Ace! These are the same women who say men are 'intimidated' by them or that they 'can't handle a strong woman'! Wrong! Men are getting wise to these women and are getting the hell away from them! Their shaming tactics aren't working any more!
@Ronald Mitchell It's just the adult equivalent of phrases like 'what's the matter, ya scared?' or 'you're chicken!' that children use to get another kid to do something they don't want to do. The words may be different but the intent is just as childish. These women are just upset because men aren't falling for their bullshit anymore so they use shaming language as a last resort (and to soothe their fragile female egos!)
'Economically attractive'? I guess that means that as long as the guy has enough money, he can be as ugly as sin & still have certain women wanting him. Of course, if these men weren't rich, these chicks would avoid them like the plague! Any woman that uses the phrase 'economically attractive' is nothing but a gold-digger pure & simple!
He's already painted himself into a corner deciding to get married. This is likely not the first but one of a series of problems that will contribute to them getting divorced and I'm sure there were signs from the start that she wont respect his lead nor his views. My folks used to say "measure twice, cut once"...be sure you know your partner before committing or your life will be hell.
oscar6418 So, True! I married despite the red flags because she was attractive, latina and asked me. It took 15 years of a slow boil before I realized how much life she sucked out of me. Besides she having BPD, she was a narcissist. I entered my commitment owning a business and enjoying life as much as possible. In the end, I lost my business, all my toys and was driving a F’n Honda Civic. I walked away 18 month’s ago, went no contact and began the what is turning out to be, a slow process back. Guys, do NOT do it! Even if you get a “good one” and you bring them back here to the states like I did, there are too many negative influences that work against you such as feminism, Fakebook, InstaHam and pissed off unhappy soccer moms that will show her the way! Bottom line; it’s a bad deal!
No because he’s stupid. Goku and Vegeta want the same thing: to be the strongest. Ergo, according to him, one of them is a pointless character. Which of course isn’t true. Because he’s an idiot lol.
@A Sojourner he is not. he know what is good for HIS careers. if he had been mean to the women even toughtit would have been fair. a lot of bad stuff about him on twitter would have been out in a question of minutes.
“He’s traditional, and I’m a modern woman” Cut, that’s a wrap on the relationship right there gentlemen there’s no point in continuing something destined to fail. You cannot coexist with someone who has the antithesis to your world view.
Once a former girlfriend (from my pre-red pill days) suggested that she work and I stay home with her child from a prior marriage and our child - that she envisioned us having. “Great,” I said. “I’ll take the kids mountain biking, camping, white water rafting, canoeing, fishing, skiing and home school. It will be a blast.” (I worked in wilderness therapy for youth in my past.)Instead of responding with “you’d be such a good dad”, my former girlfriend shrieked like a banshee and was irate that I’d even consider doing things with the kids, without her. I said, “if I ever am a stay-at-home dad, the kids& I ain’t waiting for the weekend for our outdoor fun.” We broke up soon after ... and never had that kid together.
In fairness, even in “traditional” homes where the dad works and the mom stays home, the daughters are not taught how to be good housewives. I had to teach myself how to cook, how to dress femininely, how to do makeup and hair, how to clean, how to regulate emotions, etc, etc.
I hear a lot of women talk like her. Rather infuriating honestly. I can see that it’d be a constant competition, arguments constant, lots of verbal abuse, and definitely some form of physical abuse. The way the dude is sitting and smiling, keeping silent. Could be me, but I do not see a healthy relationship with these two humans
No. This is squarely on the woman. Women changed, men didn't. You know what that means? The gender war is women's fault and so is the demographic collapse that follows. Technocracy played on female gendered tribalism and it worked. They are brilliant.
eQuariuz what’s wrong with bringing in more money for the family tho is that not value? It’s really just different values some are ok with both working and taking care of the house together and some are ok with a stay at home mom.
I had a relationship with a damaged modern woman. If I wanted a nice dinner, I had to make it. If I didn't make enough for both of us, I was being selfish. I didn't even want or expect her to cook and clean all the time. I seriously just wanted to come home to someone else having things taken care of approximately 50% of the time. Oh, and... Phil is an idiot.
As a woman, I am surprised when others always tell their man they should cook for themselves all the time. If I love someone, I'd be eager to spoil a man with self made food or favors.
@@gingerdude yeah... it's not that men demand these things or want a slave for a wife...they want a wife who will do useful things around the house if they are out working all day. They don't a waste of space for a partner. It's so simple.
I work full time and meal prep for myself and my man (he’s trying to build muscle so I gotta keep him on a high protein diet hehe). Also, if I have a weekday off I do whatever housework needs to be done. I love this man, he is an electrician (just passed his journeyman test) so I don’t want him doing much when he’s home besides relaxing. ❤
first red flag is they've been dating for ONLY a year and are seriously discussing marriage to the point where they need Dr Phil. Then there's the fact that two male hosts cant possibly tell a woman to stay home, they'd be cancelled and berated immediately.
I dont know why so many people go see one those 2 buffons 90% of the time its always the guys fault you really gotta be a wimp if your wife takes you there
"first red flag is they've been dating for ONLY a year and are seriously discussing marriage to the point where they need Dr Phil." Wrong! You know it's time to go to the gas station get some milk when Dr. Phil *AND* Steve Harvey are tag teaming this.
"Thank God the internet is here to teach us all the essential skills we weren't thought as kids" With a happy/sad smile I remember: how at 22 I learned about how I can casually talk to girls I don't know and get a date by just being open and honest. (not PUA cr*p). Result: Got multiple long-term relationships. Got married to a good girl later(in this context - a conservative girl). How I learned my current job as a software developer from youtube/internet tutorials and lectures. How at 24 I learned about psychology and how it can help you handle your emotions and get motivated. Result: Instead of being a good-for-nothing job-hopper got a stable job now. How I learned basic budgeting and personal finances at 29 y old on youtube from a conservative stay-at-home mom with 5 kids. Result: Saved tens of thousands already. Got a home and no mortgage (thanks to budgeting perseverance, wife and family in a combination). Now at 36 learning how to use basic carpenter tools to fix small stuff around the house again from youtube... Thanks youtubers! Thanks Internet!
I disagree! There is pain, misery, mental abuse and larceny in the end. All legally done and enforced by a legal system that is antiquated and needs to be updated for 2020.
She sounds exactly my ex fiance. I got the bait n switch, she'd tell me what I wanted to hear to get engaged. But then she would act the exact opposite. I don't regret walking away
I would love for a woman to tell me what I want to hear for this reason: Tom Leykis. He said (not verbatim) that is where you want your woman at because she will do all the monkey double backflips (Greg Adams) you want while in her head you plan on proposing to her and shit like that. When she, eventually, figures out (however long that takes) that you are not gonna marry her and decides to leave, you already used her for whatever she is worth. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
Listen to Donovan Sharpe. He will sharpen your game. I recommend watching his breakdown of the Netflix series “love is blind”. Don’t get married without this knowledge
Because although all this "red pill" theory consists of very obvious and logical facts and reasonings, one never sees things that way until being presented with those ideas. We grow up believing that any hot woman is a trophy worthy of fighting to get and we never stop to think what would happen after we get it. A successful career woman is seen as the epitome of female perfection. I see now how useless that is in the context of a relationship and a family but yet for most of my life I never made that obvious connection.
Be The Change You Want Facetunes? Never heard that one but it’s funny and it makes sense! How about Tinder? Most of the pics they post are from the chin up. Not the 2nd chin, the 1st chin.
Thanks to content like this I showed my homeboy who was getting married ( after his first wife cheated on him ) for the SECOND time... showed him ONE red pill video and 2 weeks later he thanked me and said hes not falling for that again .. hes 33 saved another young man....hes been binging on rollo tomassi
4:20 Great breakdown, *TBYS.* That one freeze framed picture tells us all we need to know about them. I only wish the Man was actually "traditional" enough to realise she isn't worth dealing with as a woman.
When I was married, I worked and was handy around the house and vehicles; things she didn't need to pay thousands of dollars for since I had the skills to do those tasks, and I made enough for us to live comfortably, but her friends convinced her to go to work and despite the fact she loved doing her hobby/side job from home and LOVED to cook and bake, she ended up going to work and we both gained weight because we were eating on the go and our house and sex life life went to shit because the conditions had to be right for both of us to have a good day and not be too tired.
I'm 55 now but when I was keen in my early years I grafted at night school and hold two professional fellowships in my field. That was in 1999 after 10 years of study. Opens the doors worldwide for jobs since. Learn a trade gent's and stay clear!
First: don’t listen to a TV therapist. Second: don’t listen to Steve Harvey. This is a guy who literally wrote books about being a “good husband” and how to be a good man in a relationship, then was screwing around on his wife. WTF-over?
Notice how her face softens up and even starts smiling as soon as she gets applause from the crowd, this is clearly just performative whether she's aware of it or not.
"I'm a strong, independent woman, and I can take care of myself!" said no woman in divorce court.
Promise you
boom
My wife did, but I didn't have anything to take-- it's why she left.
Say it louder so the "woke" girls in the back can hear
because they're independent not stupid If I can get free money why wouldn't I. It's funny that you're getting mad at this woman for wanting to be married but you also get mad when women are single mothers PICK ONE.
Anytime I hear "I'm a modern woman" means she doesn't cook or clean.
If I'm chatting to a woman and she says this Automatically friend-zoned.
@@abox6480 That is unfortunate. Very unfortunate
Modern as an qualifier usually means something is degenerate, ugly, too practical for beauty or practically useless. Modern woman, modern art, modern values, etc. Modern technology seems to buck the rule, but it's just a veneer--don't fall for it.
So in other words don’t marry them
Oh snap😂😎
She's the kind of woman who would drag her boyfriend on a TV show to patronize him in front of the whole world. He's in her frame and he needs to get out.
Everytime I watch these shows on YT, I wonder how TF these men accept to go on the show to talk about their relationship problems.I don't think their problems are resolved on there and they just get laughed at by heinous women who empower the bad behavior of the girlfriend.
@@quietesvous4283 - spot on - either their: a) beaten down by their validation-seeking, attention-whoring women or b) paid actors.
@@quietesvous4283 more like mocking his boyfriend in front of the tv
I had a conversation with a young woman a year ago. She asked me, "what would you do if I were the bread winner and you stayed home?" I said, "make sure the kids do their homework, change the oil and fan belt, straighten out the bills, mop the kitchen, replace those broken tiles, roast the chicken, take out the garbage." She looked at me like I was crazy. She hasn't spoken to me since.
Women, particularly modern white women, can't handle a dose of logic.
@@phantom8926 True ! But my point is it's not in women's nature to be the Hunter. Their true nature is care giving and organization. If we reverse roles, she'll lose respect for you (us).
@@Ston247 Oh, no, I agree. I'm just saying they'll never fully understand that because it's not their own logic. It's against nature, the very thing they say they care so much about, to be hunters. Which is fine, no one person can do everything it's not possible.
Good for you! What is the point of having a man / husband if she is going to do the man's obligation? two people doing the same function only creates competition. Sad is that there are a lot of men falling into this thing of staying at home while the woman kills herself from work, usually they have zero masculinity, zero respect and leadership. If my future husband does not intend to provide, protect and lead, let him be alone that he will not marry me!
@@jackreidasaboboras3654
Rest assured, she doesn't plan to handle anyone's obligations. Including her own. There is nothing wrong with a woman being the bread winner. What's wrong is when a woman expects a man to fill the same role that he did 100 years ago, but she doesn't want to be a traditional house wife. Which means no one is taking care of the house or the children. It doesn't matter how the work is divided up provided that both partners do their fair share. But feminists aren't in favor of women pulling their own weight. Like they always did in the past. If these feminists actually believed what they claimed, they would be wanting to marry men who didn't make much money but who were good at taking care of the kids and the household. And they would be putting in the hours that men traditionally do outside of the home. But they are complete hypocrites who would never do that.
She's literally mocking him with her tone of voice and facial expressions.
Exactly I just do not get it how he can stay with her SIMPS nowadays 😂
@Vamoo no, all black women are not like that. A hefty percentage, yes, but some black people actually still raise their sons and daughters to be decent people, believe it or not.
Generalizing is fair, but it's not totally accurate. Of course, you spin the wheel of death with women in general.
But black women have created UA-cam tutorials on how to tamp down their attitudes in order to be submissive mates for white men. So I'm not defending them.
There are some sweethearts tho so I can't throw them all under the bus
@Vamoo like I said not defending them cuz there are lots of American black women who are creating content to teach each other to be submissive wives to white men. They'll never put the "stank face" behavior on for you like they do on the regular for us.
Heard Brazil and certain parts of Asia have wonderful women also.
Feminism is cancer. Destroys everyone and everything it touches
He basically said he can look after himself... so why does he need a leech that will just make his life difficult and if they have kids will turn the kids against him before taking half his stuff if a divorce.
She needs him, HE DOESN'T need her.
VoidSurfer9 Just like makeup, false eyelashes, hair weaves, they are teaching other women how to be submissive in order to get to the wedding and kids part. Once there, they then go for the divorce and legally take the house, the money and child support until the last kid is out of college.
No “modern” woman can be taught to be submissive. It is just another trick in their book.
Women are no longer playing hard to get, these day's they're playing hard to WANT!
My sister told me she hasn't met a good man. I told her she's using the wrong bait, that what she's offering isn't what good men want!
This is brilliant! I’m stealing the crap out of it!
👏👏😊
Brilliantly said sir! 🤣🔥
😂 😆
Marriage is a traditional institution, why would any self proclaimed "modern woman" want to get married?
really? what would you guess?
hint: family courts
Divorce money
Maybe they want a life partner, life is not black and white and being modern != hating tradition
@@xadielplasencia3674 So like a Chinese menu you want one from column A and one from column B.
IT'S A TRAP!
To trap you
Poor Steve...he accidentally drops some truth once in a while and then has to stop and remember who is audience is
I married a "modern" woman. 10 years and 3 babies later she left. Best thing that ever happened to me!
How many pounds of "baby weight " did she retain during your marriage and has she now initiated the slingback effect after the divorce?
Sorry to hear that sir, hope life will be better for you.
@@DaidriveCJ she hit the wall 100 mph in reverse without a seat belt. I don't miss it or her
@J E she and I were considered a "model" And very attractive couple. I get as much peesleaf as I want. Too much female attention. She is turning into a cat lady
@@hmingthanzaua3284 it took a couple of years for me to bounce back and I won't lie about that. It mostly had to do with the understanding of betrayal and the loss of my kids. But I have them now 50 50 with no child support. I'm living the dream bro and thank you for your well wishes !
Someone please tell this man that he can do waaaaay better.
@john smith
"she" looks like a transformers.... A decepticon. So no, I wouldn't touch her unless I'm paid top dollar. Some of that money is to pay you for tickling her walls.
Wheel!?
He still has to learn to put his foot down and be willing to walk away, otherwise it'll be the same ol same ol. He's just swaying in the breeze, the source of most of it being her unbridled tongue. To think he has rolled down that track for a year? My God!
@keepnitreel 4me highly doubtful. I bet she lays there and doesnt move.
“Steve” talkin’ hood: bleeeck
He looks 25 while she looks 45 he can do better.
as soon as I heard "I"m a modern woman" I was out.
Traditional gender roles. 👌😎
Same
That equals a whole not of nope
Same here XD
Ditto
"Don't judge a book by it's cover" doesn't the cover tell you what is in the book.
I guess we’re just used to thinking like everyone else without using our own reasoning to question ideas like this one.
I agree you can pick up lots of thing about someone's character based on their looks and behaviours
"When the book is called Guns Sex Drugs And No Pants, I don't think I need to read it."
I think we should judge but keep it in back of our minds without showing our judgement to that person.
No.
"Drop dead gorgeous," whoa there Phil. Let's not exaggerate.
Ngl she's a 6 and a half at best
@@putent9623 that’s being generous
Before she opened her mouth, I was going to rate her a 5 or a 6. Once she started spewing verbal diarrhea, I immediately subtracted a couple points. I mean, I'm no catch myself, so my standards are pretty low in terms of what kinds of women I'd date... But one of the minimum requirements is, "I can tolerate you for more than 5 minutes at a time".
@@putent9623 you’re too generous my guy
2 , my guy yuuji. she's at best a 1.5. you rate it 2 due to the make-up she's wearing, imagine her without make up. so he will probably deal a nagging shitty E.T.
Ironically she is wearing a red dress. She knows she is one massive red flag and no one points that out. Not even dr Phil😂
Actually he does he even made fun of her
Hahahahaha...great point!
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Lol! She put on a red dress and became a living red flag.
Yeah.. Neo learned that lesson in the Matrix training program. She's an Agent.
This guy is getting advice from a couple simps.
He's a traditionalist and I'm a modern woman... Translation. I'm a entitled feminist who brings nothing of value to a relationship.
Spot on! She wants all the benefits of marriage but none of the responsibilities. In other words, she's a self-centered hypocrite!
If one offers nothing they shouldn’t be asking for anything either. That’s too much to expect from spoiled brats.
Indeed and it doesnt matter how much she earns since her money will be her money, and yours will be hers too.
'I'm a modern woman' = 'I demand to put forth no effort toward the relationship'
@What Not To Do At a Stoplight Indeed. Don't bother talking to women. Just observe their behavior, then go MGTOW.
"Britney is auditioning to be a single mother"
I died 🤣
yeah me too😂😂😂
Dude this woman looks like 10 years older than the gent...
And she's wearing a load of makeup
That's a lot of make-up applied just to end up looking like a dude, anyway.
Mother / son ?
@@steelmongoose4956 masculine behaving/looking m chick w a hair hat, can u men of other races really blame us black men for dating outside our race?🤦♂️🤷♂️
@@66slade 😂😂😂 your Avi
Her:I’m a modern wom...
Me:Ight ima head out
immidiately. That and a femenist
😂🤣😂🤣😂🏃🏽♂️💨
Hahaha
Lmao
I’m already out the door
I am one of the few millennials with a traditional family structure. My Dad was the bread winner and made it to all my football games, my mom made sure I made it to school in the morning and had dinner on the table when we all got home. It was a great childhood and I am very close to my parents, brother and sister because of this.
as it shouuld
In my family they both work and I still got all of that
Same here
You don’t hear that story much anymore. It used to be the norm
That's beautiful
As soon as a women say "I'm a modern woman" and "I'm a strong and independant women" run as far away from that woman as you can.
👍👍
why is it a problem for a woman to be independent?
@@evanlevasseur5270 because she has expectations and the man would have to do his part, as opposed to being his maid, cook and a cleaner. But traditional women are also not good because they expect to be provided for.
@@evanlevasseur5270 The issue is not with her being an independent woman, its her stating that. Most males, fit the definition of independent, however you don't see a guy say on the first date, "I'm a strong and independent man". That is an ego red flag right there
@@evanlevasseur5270 because it is a code word for "I will not care about a proper family structure, I have no slightest idea how humans relationship suppose to work, and I don`t care if my ego will ruin my, my kids` and my man`s life" .
Being responsible and smart enough to get a skillset that will provide for her till she gets babies is one thing (and it is a positive trait) , but parroting narratives that are destroying families -us the same as telling " hey, i will ruin your life too!"
The second she said “I’m a modern woman” that was the ❌
But are you a modern man? Because if you don't agree that a man's role is to marry the woman he impregnated then you are a modern male. There weren't exceptions to "dodging a bullet" for a traditional man. If the woman was a crazy psycho slut & he only meant it to be a one night stand, it wouldnt matter, his role was to still ask for her hand in marriage upon pregnancy & then even proceeded to provide the finances to purchase a home.. Do you pull out chairs for women? Open doors? Never expect half on a dinner date even if you ended up not particularly enjoying her company? Or do you just simply modify traditional male roles & then make comments about modern women while being a modern man? Lol
@@elyzamarie1113 .....Tf is your point
@@elyzamarie1113 you are making zero sense. This illogical BS you've written has no basis in reality
@@elyzamarie1113 I have no clue what the fuck u r saying. Stay woke guys
This is another reason why I am starting to prefer foreign
"He's traditional ... and I'm a modern woman."
And therein lies the problem.
@Faster Blaster Master Amen.
Yeah he gotta dip out, know your worth fellas.
All The World's A Stage! Exactly
@Faster Blaster Master I do this but most people around me still do
Translation - "I'm correct and progressive and he is a backwards thinking sexist"
Yeah I sense a strong relationship from this
They audiences are always full of feminists.
Just look at Maury's show. Whenever the man walks on to the stage, without knowing if he's actually cheating, they boo him.
When the woman walks on, they cheer.
If it turns out the man is wrong, they mock him and cheer for the woman.
If it turns out the woman is wrong, people comfort her and say nothing about the man.
Edit: DANG I HAVE NEVER GOTTEN THIS MANY LIKES BEFORE Thanks so much
This is why I watch the Jeremy Kyle Show. He stood up for a young man who was being ripped into by the audience for jumping off a balcony to get away from his abusive girlfriend.
@@cameron4562 can I have link 😳
Private 404 ua-cam.com/video/3tTUREalxVQ/v-deo.html
For sure they're all out of shape ugly older women or 'Feminists'for short. They're like incels, mad because men no longer like them or give them attention.
Realistic comment I've read in 2020
Yep. I was in daycare for most of my childhood. My mom made her career a priority over her family. Due to her high stress job she would come home after work and take her anger out on my family and I. She divorced my dad and things got way worse after that. Dad remarried and kind of disregarded my siblings and I.
Now as an adult I'm morbidly obese and unhappy with my life. No job, no ambition, living off government money. I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
I started therapy because of this channel about 4 months ago. I hope to God life gets better with time.
Good for you. Keep up the great work
Don’t stop every time you want to give up remember why your doing this you can do this don’t give up
@@honor5881 thank you
@@zakcortez4160 thank you
Good for you, as long as you stick to it and form positive habits, I am sure you will be able to overcome
Women: I'm a strong, independent woman and I 'don't need no men'.
Men: I'm a strong, independent man and I 'don't need no women'.
Women: *Surprised Pikachu face*
Yeh I guess
no women do not give a fuck about you believe it or not
why think men want asia women way better family and husband first.
@@afm398 who hurt you?
@@NewscasterNews4 lol
"I'm a Modern Woman."
Be gone Feminist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feminism is actually terrible
There's a difference between an original menninst (turn of the century menninst) and a current day 4th wave menninst. Current 4th wave has suckered women into it by telling women if you are not for the "sisterhood"( being a mennist) you must be for female oppression. The average woman says well I'm not for female opression... the "sisterhood" (4th wave menninst) says ok then your one of us .. (framing it in such a manner to other women that if they don't support the 4th wave sisterhood they are anti woman and hurting the cause) and women can't live outside of perceived ostrization . Women are consensus builders and rarely if ever are the lone wolf voice in the wilderness . They have to function with the framework. Worst thing ever for a woman is to banish her from a collective or group she's part of. They are group thinkers and must seek group approval
My dad said he dumped his ex for my mom because she didn't go to collage and seem like mother material. He was like "I'm looking for a wife and mother for my children, not sex."
Be realistic then romantic. He says.
Love this
@Tier22 Lol the funniest part of your comment is that you think that's a "Gotcha", moment.
@@possummagic3571 lol
That's fantastic 👍
@@possummagic3571 lmao thank you. It's like you make one mistake and people make that mistake you personality. I didn't even notice they said this. But it is what it is.
... Almost a year later, a whole lot of these same females are crying that men no longer want them.
And go to the show again and say Harvey why I can't find a real men
@Parrish Jackson that’s my plan
Not getting married was Steve Harvey's best advice he ever gave on this show. Because after that, he just pandered, pandered, pandered.
Fully agree.
@@TypewriteSnok same
But see, Steve is teaching a lesson here. Pander to feminists AND GET PAID for doing it.
"She's auditioning to become a single mother"
YEeeeeEEeeeSH
true tho
true
Probably her goal, get the child and take him for what he has in his account.
Ouch lol
Any rational men would walk away from any modern women .
Rationality seems to be at a premium these days unfortunately
@@InheritorOrion too true
Sometimes they disguise themselves until it’s too late. Always wait 3 - 5 years before marriage no matter how much you get pressured. It takes that long for a person to truly reveal themselves.
But are you a modern man? Because if you don't agree that a man's role is to marry the woman he impregnated then you are a modern male. There weren't exceptions to "dodging a bullet" for a traditional man. If the woman was a crazy psycho slut & he only meant it to be a one night stand, it wouldnt matter, his role was to still ask for her hand in marriage upon pregnancy & then even proceeded to provide the finances to purchase a home.. Do you pull out chairs for women? Open doors? Never expect half on a dinner date even if you ended up not particularly enjoying her company? Or do you just simply modify traditional male roles & then make comments about modern women while being a modern man? Lol
@@elyzamarie1113 you women would rather trade a diamond (mr perfect) for a pebble(the carousel) and when you realize your mistake you immediately think right away you can find that diamond again. it does not work that way once you lose that diamond. It can never be found ever again
"Don't judge a book by it's cover"
A book cover is _meant_ to be judged... It's... Why it exists ffs. You never have a second chance to make a first impression.
the saying was coined when books really didnt have a cover. Then the times changed and people hung up on the saying without much thought, unsurprisingly.
It's meant to fool you. How do you not get that? A book should be judged by it's story.
@@billybussey Yes 👐 The gift matters more than the packaging.
"don't judge a book by its cover unless you want to judge me favorably."
@@billybusseyI can think of several scenarios where that logic don't work
Steve Harvey, Dr. Phil, and Dr. Oz are all women's daytime shows, designed to satisfy the female perspective. Never expect them to take a man's side of things.
Men are at work during the day. Women are at home getting fat.
I wonder if I run into Dr. Phil in the street and ask him “do you believe in the shit you say on the show?”. What would be his answer?
@@Just_logic His answer would be "Women don't tune in to hear the truth, they tune in to hear 'All women are treasures' - and I only get paid when they tune in."
Madeline Ingram , he sometimes plays devils advocate, but he knows where the money comes from
Yup. Shows marketed and aired when most men are away at work lmaoo
"I'm a modern woman"
Me:
-She belongs to the streets
Onm lmao
Stop following me jellal😂
You shaved the mustache.
On God 😂
😂😂😂😂
The way she aggressively presents herself, the relationship suggest she controlling, entitled and selfish, notice how the boyfriend is smiling and how his eyes shift he's practically afraid her
He needs to dump her, like yesterday.
Good read on people. It's interesting, when people are near high conflict people like her they become guarded and their speech reflects that by saying "my" and "mine" more often as if things became territorial...because they have.
Her subtle yet aggressive facial expression when she first started speaking is what I immediately noticed.
Walks on egg shells and not even married yet?
He's probably tired of her lmao
Thank christ for my husband. "Thank you for keeping *our* house clean."
"Thank you for raising *our* children."
"Thank you for keeping *us* from being addicted to fast food."
"Thank you for being a better mother than both of our combined."
He drives 100+ miles a day sobi can teach the baby her colors. He crawls through sub areas so I can take the kids grocery shopping every week. He *broke a rib* (ignoring the warning signs) falling through a deck so my son can go to Legoland with his friends.
The bare minimum is to cook a healthy dinner, pack healthy lunches and make my man breakfast and coffee every morning before the kids wake up, so we can have some quiet time together. Being a STAHM is such a privilege.
Privilege is the correct word
This is beautiful 👍
Truly amazing
He is a true hero.
As soon as she said " l am a modern woman" l could see the couple will never ever work. Never marry a modern women guys, you will lose!
I'd honestly say never marry, period. Trad women get convinced to break bad by their friends and family members all the time. Shoot, she might just make the change herself because she feels like it.
What's in it for men? Alimony, child support, higher tax brackets to maintain the welfare state, false accusations, and more work for men in the workplace because "mUh EqUaLiTy."
Sounds about right. Wanted to debate but you pretty much hit it on the nail. Men guard your wallets and don't gamble the nonsense. If women were giving up half their shit then marriage would gladly be abolished. Let that sink in for a moment!
3 seconds in to that girl talking and I already knew. She didn't even have to say she's a modern woman, there's zero class in the way she conveys herself. Meanwhile the boy next to her is well-mannered and smiling.
You write the boy next to her 🤣 you probably meant to say the SIMP next to her 😂😂😂👍👍👍
He'll stay a boy until the stones drop, if they ever do. He's left it a little late.
"My house", "my kids", yet he's sitting there looking like a good little boy seated next to his mom.
It was obvious in the thumbnail even before playing the video.
My girlfriend loved me for how different I was from her father that she hated. So it's not really a rule to say that if a woman hates her father she will take it out on the man she is with. No woman has ever treated me better then she did.
if you are wondering about the past tense nature of my sentence I'll save someone the trouble of shoving their foot in their mouth. She died.
Damn, sorry man.
Oh no, I'm so sorry
Thanks, Mr. Anecdote!
@@shrapnel77 sure thing captain edge lord.
condolences
“We have another woman in the audience auditioning to be a single mother” Damn that got my immediate subscription
Hopefully women can take all the jobs so we men can become stay at home dads. Play date are about to be lit!
Marshall D teech,
Oh come on teach, how tf can we found one-piece if we're stucked in playdate
On facts
Bro, just got that fire Tea-mix. Mr. Snuzzles gonna be out of his mind after tasting this
Dude, once the kids get old enough you have a full party for that new video game coming out. Let me be a stay at home dad. Gimme that life.
The guys a 9 and she’s a 4, she should be thanking her lucky stars that she’s got him.
Are looks really all that matter?
@@Norellla
Looks show a lot.
Why do you think women literally get surgery to look better?
@@Norellla Show me a women who is seeking a 5'4, balding and overweight man
@@coledibiase1777 I agree on that to an extent but not ALL women are the same... Speaking from what I've seen personally all of my friends have dated guys that aren't really that good looking or they're overweight when the girls fit the beauty standards. The surgery I think that's because they're insecure and most of the time because of the photoshopped propaganda we get 24/7...
@@TafTabTah but the girl in the video is none of that why is she a 4??! Also my aunt
Dr. Phil looks like Steve Harvey on light mode
Yep if you want to know a woman, then look how she treats her father.
@ the Queen but it's a big red flag if a woman does not have no father, so you dumped her like a used condom 😂😂😂
U can get beat
The Queen of Sheba word
That's why I go for a dinner straight up, to observe, listen and learn. Why men think that a dinner date to start things off is a bad investment boggles my mind. It's really the cheapest way to learn if you pay close attention-and test. Now, to me, this is the fast track to gold and the the path to avoidance of future pain.
@@saml179 not true for all women
The old women in the audience nod their heads when he says “times have changed”. My grandma would have shook hers. Time doesn’t change! What changes is people who abandon time tested values then turn around to demand the benefits of those values not from themselves, but from other people.
👏👏
This comment is true gold. YOU are awesome brother.
The only reason your grandmother should shake her head is that your name is Soweto MGTOW ZA, the fuck bruh????
I know this guy he called me a loser for not having a girlfriend back in highschool.....
Arent you glad you’re not in his position now.
Really? I would not want to be him
Guys like that never learn the true nature of women.
@@sthembisomakelefane8727 it's a joke but whatever ........this guys situation is so funny and pathetic....
i remember this joke but forgot what it's about
My dad raised me. He always told me if I wanted a bum, be a bum. If I wanted a man, I need to take care of myself, financially and domestically because good men don't want an adult who acts like a child. They value themselves more.
I found it to be true. I've only been with one man and he's still my partner to this day. We are both financially successful, we both contribute to daily chores and never fight about who does what because we understand the roles we put ourselves in. It may not be traditional gender roles, but they work for us.
Nice!
She has an agressive demeanor to her speech. Almost angry. Modern and traditional attitudes don't mix.
Are you from Tennessee, cause I recognize those three stars anywhere! Nice comment
@@thatonenathan3991 yes; Tennman was taken (by the fake Tennessean Justin Timberlake)
I only had to see Brittney for ONE SECOND and hear her talk, to see that it wasn't a red flag-- it was a NUCLEAR ATTACK SIREN.
I just need to see the weave.
She sees herself above the guy, this is why she is acting this way.
She didn't need to talk. She was wearing the red flag
@@nelsonmiraldo3465 Or FLYING it.
Dude im just starting to learn these things and I saw it. I knew she was the devil before she even said modern woman. The way she talks and takes command, and speaks like she's trying to get phil on his side to pussywhip her man.
"A woman's 😺 isn't all a man wants unless that's all SHE has to offer" - Patrice O'Neal
!f they get married l cannot seeing last more than five years,
A legend right there
Here's another one: Be bigger than your 😺 ladies- patrice o'neal
Speaking from experience, I can say that the traditional way (father works, mother stays home) is the BEST way. When my wife and I were younger, we both worked shortly after our daughter was born. It was extremely stressful for all of us, and we really didn't make much money minus the childcare expenses. When she decided to quit her job and stay home, we had less money, but we were much more content.
Women: I want to be the breadwinner.
Also women: Why can't I find an economically attractive man that makes more than me?
Men: Runs away from the insanity that is modern day women.
Right, Von Ace! These are the same women who say men are 'intimidated' by them or that they 'can't handle a strong woman'! Wrong! Men are getting wise to these women and are getting the hell away from them! Their shaming tactics aren't working any more!
Whamen and SJWs... Logic is for KnotSeas!
@Ronald Mitchell It's just the adult equivalent of phrases like 'what's the matter, ya scared?' or 'you're chicken!' that children use to get another kid to do something they don't want to do. The words may be different but the intent is just as childish. These women are just upset because men aren't falling for their bullshit anymore so they use shaming language as a last resort (and to soothe their fragile female egos!)
'Economically attractive'? I guess that means that as long as the guy has enough money, he can be as ugly as sin & still have certain women wanting him. Of course, if these men weren't rich, these chicks would avoid them like the plague! Any woman that uses the phrase 'economically attractive' is nothing but a gold-digger pure & simple!
They want their cake and eat it too.
He's already painted himself into a corner deciding to get married. This is likely not the first but one of a series of problems that will contribute to them getting divorced and I'm sure there were signs from the start that she wont respect his lead nor his views. My folks used to say "measure twice, cut once"...be sure you know your partner before committing or your life will be hell.
a married man lives the life of a slow boiling frog, he is slowly enslaved and doesn't know its happening until its to late.
oscar6418 So, True! I married despite the red flags because she was attractive, latina and asked me. It took 15 years of a slow boil before I realized how much life she sucked out of me.
Besides she having BPD, she was a narcissist. I entered my commitment owning a business and enjoying life as much as possible. In the end, I lost my business, all my toys and was driving a F’n Honda Civic. I walked away 18 month’s ago, went no contact and began the what is turning out to be, a slow process back.
Guys, do NOT do it!
Even if you get a “good one” and you bring them back here to the states like I did, there are too many negative influences that work against you such as feminism, Fakebook, InstaHam and pissed off unhappy soccer moms that will show her the way!
Bottom line; it’s a bad deal!
They need to state their age. He looks a lot younger than her, that should be a big red flag also.
As soon as the video started and she said that she is a modern women I went,,Eww,,,Ew,,,,
Controlling Biotch,,,,
If you take care of your body, work out, drink water, don't smoke/drink, and reduce your stress, people can age slower.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how this man gave good, logical advice about marital relationships by comparing it to anime?
It's bad take though... Like I came from a both parents working environment and came out fine he said it's impossible...
@@GreenBlueWalkthrough I went driving without a sitbelt and i survived. Fuck sitbealts I guess
No because he’s stupid.
Goku and Vegeta want the same thing: to be the strongest.
Ergo, according to him, one of them is a pointless character.
Which of course isn’t true. Because he’s an idiot lol.
When you hear “modern woman” uttered by a woman, you walk away.
RUN away .... as fast as you can !
🤣🤣
Nice galvatron
Everytime you hear a woman stating that she is a 'modern woman', just walk away. She is not interested to make the man happy but herself.
@A Sojourner he is not. he know what is good for HIS careers. if he had been mean to the women even toughtit would have been fair. a lot of bad stuff about him on twitter would have been out in a question of minutes.
She is drop dead gorgeous? Dr. Phil you are a big time sellout.
“He’s traditional, and I’m a modern woman”
Cut, that’s a wrap on the relationship right there gentlemen there’s no point in continuing something destined to fail. You cannot coexist with someone who has the antithesis to your world view.
“Build yourself up so to be the one with options so that you don’t have to put up with this bullshit” Simple. Beautiful.
Once a former girlfriend (from my pre-red pill days) suggested that she work and I stay home with her child from a prior marriage and our child - that she envisioned us having. “Great,” I said. “I’ll take the kids mountain biking, camping, white water rafting, canoeing, fishing, skiing and home school. It will be a blast.” (I worked in wilderness therapy for youth in my past.)Instead of responding with “you’d be such a good dad”, my former girlfriend shrieked like a banshee and was irate that I’d even consider doing things with the kids, without her. I said, “if I ever am a stay-at-home dad, the kids& I ain’t waiting for the weekend for our outdoor fun.” We broke up soon after ... and never had that kid together.
How dare you have fun without her approval!
I was kidding. Good call on your part.
You are not permitted to have fun or enjoy yourself without her! Thats how it works when you are married.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Good job.
You matrix dodge that bullet. Good man.
good you left her b4 you were trapped
Ultimate Bru moment “I’m a modern woman”
In fairness, even in “traditional” homes where the dad works and the mom stays home, the daughters are not taught how to be good housewives. I had to teach myself how to cook, how to dress femininely, how to do makeup and hair, how to clean, how to regulate emotions, etc, etc.
At least one of those skills was taught back then, and home economics used to optional in schools... REALLY need home economics back.
girlll I feel youuu
I hear a lot of women talk like her. Rather infuriating honestly. I can see that it’d be a constant competition, arguments constant, lots of verbal abuse, and definitely some form of physical abuse. The way the dude is sitting and smiling, keeping silent. Could be me, but I do not see a healthy relationship with these two humans
Ya it could be me but I’m not a bitch who’s is going to let someone walk all over me and toss me around like the dude in the video
She's a puppet master.
They won’t work out, they have different values. It’s not about whether she’s modern or he’s traditional. It’s a value system
Yess exactly
No. This is squarely on the woman. Women changed, men didn't. You know what that means? The gender war is women's fault and so is the demographic collapse that follows. Technocracy played on female gendered tribalism and it worked. They are brilliant.
eQuariuz what’s wrong with bringing in more money for the family tho is that not value? It’s really just different values some are ok with both working and taking care of the house together and some are ok with a stay at home mom.
@eQuariuz some women don't want to be wives, and lesbians exist
That's the very first thing I noticed too. Dr. Phil is such a feminists suck up he didn't even bring that up.
Doctor Phil really was cucking up when he said that she was drop dead gorgeous. Lol. What a lie. Not even close.
@James lol. I believe it. 100%
Gotta butter them up before you up before you cancelled down
@Reg Eric alrighty then
If he wants to make her listen it's a good idea to compliment how she looks, that makes her want to listen to what else he got to say... Smart eh?
Maybe he's just being polite.
Edit: Never mind. Maybe you're right.
I had a relationship with a damaged modern woman. If I wanted a nice dinner, I had to make it. If I didn't make enough for both of us, I was being selfish. I didn't even want or expect her to cook and clean all the time. I seriously just wanted to come home to someone else having things taken care of approximately 50% of the time. Oh, and... Phil is an idiot.
Phil's main demographic are overly entitled stay at home moms
As a woman, I am surprised when others always tell their man they should cook for themselves all the time.
If I love someone, I'd be eager to spoil a man with self made food or favors.
@@gingerdude yeah... it's not that men demand these things or want a slave for a wife...they want a wife who will do useful things around the house if they are out working all day. They don't a waste of space for a partner. It's so simple.
"she sounds like his mother" she also looks and acts like his mother as well...that was my first thoughts...
But she can’t love him like his mother
For real thoufh
If she was a mother, she would care for him.
I thought it was Michelle Obama and her kid
Michael Obama
The look like they're here for a college interview 😂😂😂
@@sarojaband4664 Big Mike
Yeah Obama's Sun the never had 😂😂😂
Yeah these Laquishas be out here looking like wide receivers w a wig and lipstick
Has she stopped talking yet?
She did take your earplugs out 😂😂😂👍👍👍
Legends say she still going.
I work full time and meal prep for myself and my man (he’s trying to build muscle so I gotta keep him on a high protein diet hehe). Also, if I have a weekday off I do whatever housework needs to be done. I love this man, he is an electrician (just passed his journeyman test) so I don’t want him doing much when he’s home besides relaxing. ❤
4:16 she’s mad about the argument and he’s just happy that he met Steve Harvey and dr.phil at the same time
Most underrated comment
so true
Perspective 💯
Her not changing her last name after marriage is like not getting the title to a car after buying it.
first red flag is they've been dating for ONLY a year and are seriously discussing marriage to the point where they need Dr Phil.
Then there's the fact that two male hosts cant possibly tell a woman to stay home, they'd be cancelled and berated immediately.
Dude if 'Dr.' Phil is anywhere near your 'relationship' it is not a red flag. THAT IS AN AIR RAID ALARM CLAXON!?!
Absolutely. That's why I've always been up front that I have a 5 year dating minimum.
I dont know why so many people go see one those 2 buffons 90% of the time its always the guys fault you really gotta be a wimp if your wife takes you there
"first red flag is they've been dating for ONLY a year and are seriously discussing marriage to the point where they need Dr Phil."
Wrong! You know it's time to go to the gas station get some milk when Dr. Phil *AND* Steve Harvey are tag teaming this.
@@darrekworkman8685 exactly, it's Nazi Germany air raiding London all over again
"Thank God the internet is here to teach us all the essential skills we weren't thought as kids"
With a happy/sad smile I remember:
how at 22 I learned about how I can casually talk to girls I don't know and get a date by just being open and honest. (not PUA cr*p). Result: Got multiple long-term relationships. Got married to a good girl later(in this context - a conservative girl).
How I learned my current job as a software developer from youtube/internet tutorials and lectures.
How at 24 I learned about psychology and how it can help you handle your emotions and get motivated. Result: Instead of being a good-for-nothing job-hopper got a stable job now.
How I learned basic budgeting and personal finances at 29 y old on youtube from a conservative stay-at-home mom with 5 kids. Result: Saved tens of thousands already. Got a home and no mortgage (thanks to budgeting perseverance, wife and family in a combination).
Now at 36 learning how to use basic carpenter tools to fix small stuff around the house again from youtube...
Thanks youtubers! Thanks Internet!
What's In It for Men?
simple nothing at all
I disagree! There is pain, misery, mental abuse and larceny in the end. All legally done and enforced by a legal system that is antiquated and needs to be updated for 2020.
@@robertmcguckin2713 dude im talking about what positive things are in it for men
nah, they get a temporary psleeve
She sounds exactly my ex fiance. I got the bait n switch, she'd tell me what I wanted to hear to get engaged. But then she would act the exact opposite. I don't regret walking away
I would love for a woman to tell me what I want to hear for this reason: Tom Leykis.
He said (not verbatim) that is where you want your woman at because she will do all the monkey double backflips (Greg Adams) you want while in her head you plan on proposing to her and shit like that. When she, eventually, figures out (however long that takes) that you are not gonna marry her and decides to leave, you already used her for whatever she is worth. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
@@dimitri652Facts
@@dimitri652 Tom leykis the father that I never had
@@saml179 mine too
Listen to Donovan Sharpe. He will sharpen your game. I recommend watching his breakdown of the Netflix series “love is blind”. Don’t get married without this knowledge
These strong independent women don't need men...
They just need their money...
Him sitting there timid and her speaking first, told me everything i need to know about this woman.
I honestly don't get why this guy is with this Michelle Obama lookalike. He has a way higher smv than her by the day.
It’s ma’am, I mean Michael 😂
Because although all this "red pill" theory consists of very obvious and logical facts and reasonings, one never sees things that way until being presented with those ideas.
We grow up believing that any hot woman is a trophy worthy of fighting to get and we never stop to think what would happen after we get it.
A successful career woman is seen as the epitome of female perfection. I see now how useless that is in the context of a relationship and a family but yet for most of my life I never made that obvious connection.
Be The Change You Want Facetunes? Never heard that one but it’s funny and it makes sense! How about Tinder? Most of the pics they post are from the chin up. Not the 2nd chin, the 1st chin.
IAmAgainst Very True! Its seems great until the honeymoon is over. Thats when reality sets in.
Wow, I said run when she said I’m a modern woman and he’s a traditional man. Eye roll, I hope that guy didn’t get stuck with her.
This is why I just don't socialize. Humans are just so frustrating.
Here, here!
Are you guys saying all humans 😂😂😂
Its all too complex these days. Too many snowflakes.
That is not healthy though in the longterm
Ashura Nero Suvival of the fittest
The poor guy looks dead inside he looks like he just gave up lol
Thanks to content like this I showed my homeboy who was getting married ( after his first wife cheated on him ) for the SECOND time... showed him ONE red pill video and 2 weeks later he thanked me and said hes not falling for that again .. hes 33 saved another young man....hes been binging on rollo tomassi
Salut
@Tetrimas Yea man he thanked me on two occasions been looking at rollo tomassi
Now thats a friend. Right on bro
You know how the angels rejoice when a sinner accepts Jesus? You saved a life, man.
Not all heros wear suits and have superpowers.
if I'm chatting with a girl and I hear "I'm a modern girl" that's it. you aren't getting it from me.
4:20 Great breakdown, *TBYS.*
That one freeze framed picture tells us all we need to know about them.
I only wish the Man was actually "traditional" enough to realise she isn't worth dealing with as a woman.
Thanks. I paused the video there on accident while I was editing and it ended up being perfect for the script.
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT excuses excuses excuses you knew what you were doing😂😂😂👍👍👍
desta vez passa , ok Kerry. mrbifes*
When I was married, I worked and was handy around the house and vehicles; things she didn't need to pay thousands of dollars for since I had the skills to do those tasks, and I made enough for us to live comfortably, but her friends convinced her to go to work and despite the fact she loved doing her hobby/side job from home and LOVED to cook and bake, she ended up going to work and we both gained weight because we were eating on the go and our house and sex life life went to shit because the conditions had to be right for both of us to have a good day and not be too tired.
The real fault is with these megasimps Harvey and phil
We need Patrice O’Neal(RIP) back 😤😤
@@nickstiles1431 big facts rip
yes
I'm 55 now but when I was keen in my early years I grafted at night school and hold two professional fellowships in my field. That was in 1999 after 10 years of study. Opens the doors worldwide for jobs since. Learn a trade gent's and stay clear!
If she is the bread winner then you will end up divorced after a few kids!!
First: don’t listen to a TV therapist. Second: don’t listen to Steve Harvey. This is a guy who literally wrote books about being a “good husband” and how to be a good man in a relationship, then was screwing around on his wife. WTF-over?
He's probably in a bad relationship too.
As a rocket scientist who carries a gun and stops for coffee, I’m offended... 🤣🤣🤣
Only the god level ones
That don't impress me much
Not only can this man shoot you, he’ll also build a missile so he can safely destroy you from several hundred miles away. Respect.
You know what, Imma be single just to be safe.
Like overgrown children. So when you get a girlfriend, you actually got an overgrown child.
@@grayrider1865 FBI OPEN UP! Ha ha
@@grayrider1865 And some are flat as boards.
@@TheMadVentriloquist fuking pancakes
Women: “Men get payed more than women “
Also women:”I want to be the breadwinner “
As a Black man, I hereby crown you an honorary brother. Applause.
Does he get to use the N word now?
Loool you're a doughnut
@@ulikemykungfu3995 ...lololol "now?"
LMAO bestow upon him the N-word pass
@@savharris5702 NyQuil
Woman: “I’m an empowered women!”
Me: “GREAT! you can be empowered and alone to.” 😁👍
Me, "Great" you pay for everything and change the oil in the car too.
@@orangeandslinky Me, "no problem but how about you learn how to do things yourself instead of being a leech"
@@2ksupport140 Who hurt you?
@@orangeandslinky who hurt you when you replied ? jezebelle succubus
@@orangeandslinky so how tf are you empowered lmfao
12:17 Harvey: "I can't tell you the pain you're about to be in, sir"
That's him trying to be polite but real at the same time...
Notice how her face softens up and even starts smiling as soon as she gets applause from the crowd, this is clearly just performative whether she's aware of it or not.