Yeah. I don't like crowds at all, and I tend to go to concerts always by myself, always in the front row. I don't feel comfortable around the crowd, or behind the mosh pit, or standing in the back. I also got used to do everything by myself whenever I want something done, I had too many people/friends/family let me down when I was growing up, so I now I enjoy doing everything by myself, but I'd like to be able to find ways to have a SO. I don't like feeling alone either...
Thank you very much to underline this evidence, beznicza00. There's an important shade of meaning between BEING alone and FEELING alone. In the first case, it's a voluntary choice we have done that corresponds to our personality. In the other one, it's a condition we suffer, while we wish things should be different.
Exactly, it's just so much easier to manage your time and planes alone, I have also relied on people and didn't like the outcome, since then I value my independence and never rely on anyone at all! it gets hard occasionally, the urge to socialise but quickly fades if I find myself surrounded by a large crowd, damn our lives are constant fights @@samusranzer
Yeah theres the distinction. I enjoy being alone and doing my own thing, but feeling alone is the absolute worst. Feeling youre going to die alone, no family, etc... It sucks.
Loners are the BEST PEOPLE I can't even explain how people who respect and know space, who aren't always in your business or want to know your business, they're not hungry for attention or self absorbed types. They have unlocked true happiness without need of external things, people, factors, validation.
Well said. I think the term "loner" usually has a negative connotation, but "loners" have rich inner lives that they only share with people they feel comfortable with.
I feel what you said, precisely because I have a friend that is the exact opposite of the person you just described. That is to say, this dude is completely inept at being at peace with his own thoughts, has literally no other friends besides me, is self-absorbed and is constantly looking for a chance to hang out with me even if we already hung out 28 times in the last 40 seconds…
Being a loner does not subsume those qualities you describe. I know a lot of loners who are gossips, for instance. But, leave it to young people to generalize the crap out of anything.
The annoying part about using headphones could be easily misinterpreted. Because sometimes I might just not want to disturb others while I am actually open for the conversation.
The main point of wearing headphones for me is that I'm aware not all people around me will share my choice of music, so as a form of respect, I listen only to myself
Timestamps 1). You're a very private person 0:34 2). You feel suffocated in large crowds 1:09 3). Your independence is extremely important to you 1:43 4). Your headphones are your is armor 2:18 5). You're happiest alone 2:43 6). You don't enjoy drama 3:19 7). You value your time 3:51 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Be careful, someone whom you thought was a friend may request an intervention on you, suggesting you need medication therapy. "Wow, something is wrong with Emma, she is always happy and smiling"
using snufkin in this animation is incredibly apt. i’ve always felt like his wandering, independent life was something to admire & didn’t like how, at least in the new moomin series, moomin doesn’t seem to understand that snufkin needs that time alone for himself. some people are just more private than others, & that’s something i resonate with.
super happy to hear you resonated with this!! I made this well over a year ago, but I remember while boarding this I really wanted to make snufkin a main character for this video
✨ Timestamps and Major Points ✨ 1. 0:35 You're a very private person 2. 1:09 You feel suffocated in large crowds 3. 1:44 Your independence is extremely important to you 4. 2:19 Your headphones are your armor 5. 2:44 You're happiest alone 6. 3:20 You don't enjoy drama 7. 3:52 You value your time I may or may not have read the title as "7 signs you're a loser". I was so confused for a second there 💀💀💀 Also, love that sasharcy jumpscare at 2:34
I've always said I'm often alone but rarely lonely and almost never bored. For as long as I can remember I've preferred my own company and that of a dog or cat for a friend. Found myself in a relationship with someone just like me in this respect, and it's great. We give each other space and time and share when we feel like it. Being alone together is a lot of fun, too.
@@nathansmith5726 We were in a D&D campaign together and gelled through our roleplay styles. One night after a game I asked if he wanted to hang out, and he said yeah. We became friends, and it just kind of naturally progressed from that. Neither one of us was looking for a relationship, but there it was. I'm sure that's not very helpful. It tends to be how I make friends, too. It starts with some commonality and then whoops, a friend.
I always thought loner was a good thing. Like something you had to earn. Something normal people cannot do because they need others to help them, because they're not strong enough to do things on their own.
That's absolutely true, I agree with you, however, everyone has his own personality and everyone is beautiful and distinguished by his personality. The difference is really wonderful and accepting others their personalities is the most wonderful ever
@@rklein Certainly there are girls and young men who prefer to isolate, or stay alone, my brother is the type who does not like to stay with others, unlike my older brother is very social, it is okay at all, but no matter how long the person will sometimes feel that he wants to be with some people
@@rkleinwhy are you bringing gender into it? I'm strong and capable enough to do most things alone. I have a few trusted people that I know will help me if I need it but contrary to popular belief women aren't completely dependent on men lmao.
I'm 53 and definitely remember feeling something was wrong with me when I was young. Through college I put myself through trying to be sociable but usually hated it. After college, I didn't feel the pressure to do the social thing and it felt like a great weight was lifted from me. Unfortunately, 3 of my 4 family members were extroverts and it has often been very painful to deal with them. For over 20 years, I lived away from them, for 10 years only returning at Christmas. After my father died, however, I agreed to move in with my mother, who is 86 now; I can deal with her without much trouble, but my sister is an almost constant source of pain, critiquing my behavior, needing to know everything that's going on; I just want to be left alone. I yearn for the day I can remove her from my life and go back to being on my own, with my cats. 😣
You don't have to feel uncomfortable with your condition, buckspa. I'm a loner, too. If other people, even your family, have a problem with it, it's THEIR problem, not your's. Continue to take care of your old mother. As for your extrovert sister, if you didn't do it, explain her your prefer to be alone and that doesn't mean at all you're a bad person. If she persists to not understand that simple fact, as I said, it's HER problem, not your's. You don't have to internalize the way of thinking of other family circle. Focus your energy on your mother and just let go for the rest. You don't have any control on the way of thinking of other people, anyway. Life is short, my friend. Don't waste it by explaining who you are to deaf persons. 👍👍👍👍
I'm 16 and I also feel something is wrong with me. I feel like im just different. I'm an introvert, i have a low confidence, i think im gonna be a loner.
It is your job to create your purpose in life and your fate. If you want to accept being alone, then by all means, go ahead. If you want to be somebody or something, don't live your life by the people they want you to be, live your life by who or what you want to be.
I came for Snuffkin and stayed for everything else. I'm not necessarily a loner myself, but I absolutely enjoy spending time in my own apartment... my very own inpenetrable fortress.
Back in my late teens and early 20s, even though I was quiet and shy I didn’t like being by myself. I was always staying in touch with people through phone calls or texts. Now I’m the complete opposite and avoid socializing as much as possible. I think I just got tired of getting attached to people just to be let down.
I love the various characters in this video like Snufkin, Moomin, Little My, Marcy, Sasha, maybe Anne in one of the silhouettes, and probably many others that I missed! Both Moominvalley and Amphibia are great shows when it comes to the themes of this video! It’s a nice detail!
I think loneliness is mostly lovely cause its a time i can do stuff at my own speed, no one rushing me, no school/college/workplace pulling you with the same chains as everyone else, no need to be normal and be myself again
building off this comment, i think it's better to say that *solitude* is mostly lovely for the reasons that OP stated. personally, i don't like loneliness... but having time to be by myself, with myself, is therapeutic and relaxing. just me and my dog
I am on the autism spectrum and love to spend time alone every day. I also have done several Vegas trips solo and find it invigorating since I can do what I want on my own time.
I'm fine interacting with others (somewhat extraverted), but it's exhausting! I cannot relax around other people, only alone or with animals around. I like helping and talking with people, but I feel completely drained by doing so. I will walk away from conflict whenever possible, but I will never run from a fight (not a coward), especially if I feel someone vulnerable is being harmed somehow.
I still struggle heavily with this. Because deep down I know I am a loner and do my best in those moments, but it’s hard when you do also want connections, even when it’s probably not meant for you. It’s a paradox and it really sucks sometimes.
The headphones one is so true. I'm more of an earbuds guy bc the headphones are too clunky for my taste but I have my earbuds in a lot. And on noise canceling mode most often. I'm not even always listening to any music, it helps quiet the world down while still allowing me to know enough of what's happening around me. Also I loved the animation style in this one, especially the box hitting PSI at the start
I love being a loner especially when i was in High School my cousins found it sad and if id sit alone at lunch theyd join me i always told them im ok but they insisted then they’d ask are you ok is someone being mean to you we’ll go handle them i always told them no I just prefer to be by myself but they wouldn’t listen i understood why they felt concerned but it annoyed me sometimes
I travel solo a lot and I can tell you I have more fun as I am not reliant on trying to accommodate others plans and can do everything that I want to do. I value my free time and if I want to me people on my journeys it's easy for me to approach people and strike up a conversation.
Your videos really make me appreciate myself and who I am as a person for which I am grateful for even my family makes me feel as if I'm doing something wrong but I truly am happiest when I'm by myself so thank you 🥰💗
Honestly I feel like im the opposite I should be more extroverted although I do enjoy some time to myself to recharge, but given I was dealt a shitty hand as a kid and have gotten too scared that my own problems will push people away I’ve become way to reserved and lonely, I genuinely love being out and spending time with people meeting new people Etc. I’ve just self sabotaged to the point where I’ve gotten so distant from the social scene that idk how to get back to how I used to feel, I’ve gotten some more confidence from a few changes I’ve made and I suddenly find myself not wanting to be alone anymore after how much time I’ve wasted isolating myself outta fear and I finally feel like I can become the person I want to be again
I would not say I am a loner, but large crowds very much suffocates me, I get overwhelmed and stuff, mostly cuz I'm an ambivert facing strongly towards the introvert side. I like 1 on 1 conversations, and I like that much mote than being in a group.
By myself- Let me take this moment to breath Let me take this moment to recompose myself I always considered I needed to take a break Cause all this noisy life we are living is too much for me to take Can't you let me alone for a moment? Just a moment for me to feel and think Without any judgement to restrict mine Without any human being in my sight I need my solitude to keep track of what's going on in my mind So many racing thoughts, so many questions to ask Always wondering what could be the meaning of life Just an old little habit of mine No, I don't feel lonely No, I don't feel sad I always knew I had myself And I know I'll always have my back
Enjoying your own company I do think is a good skill to learn, even if you prefer to be in company. I see a lot of people get into bad relationships because they just can't be alone. This video was lovely!
After 20 years of isolation, I don't feel loneliness anymore But, I do fear that I am on course to be alone for the rest of my life - without loneliness, I lack any drive for romantic connection
I don’t mind sharing my goals but I do realize a lot of my answers to common questions are either 1. Straight to the point with little to no details 2. Repetitive answers like “Oh, I’m doing alright” or “My family is doing okay”. But what’s weird is that I don’t mind having deep conversations with someone either. I liked talking about stuff like folklore or even just listening to someone’s interest with the universe. It all depends on my mood but I 99% of the time give out short answers. I don’t do it to be rude to anybody or anything.
I fit most of these pretty well. I try not to overshare usually unless it's something too overwhelming, only really keeping what's bothering me to myself and a few close friends I've known for years. In my case it's partially due to social anxiety, but I've known for a little over 10 years that I'm very much introverted, so nothing new to me
Thank you for this, I identified with every word you said. While for most of life I have been comfortable in recognizing and validating my need for solitude, there are still a lot days when I worry that my 'loner-ness' makes my "creepy" or "monstrous". It's nice be reassured it's not a crime for me to be me.
My fortress of solitude is the vast world around me. I tend to go on long inter-city and long trail e-bike rides to disconnect from society, and further connect to nature. I do tend to share it live with my friends/family to show the people closest to me how much it helps. Being a loner, doesn't mean you can't enjoy and promote a healthy and fun lifestyle that still is within your own protective boundaries. I hope some people find my experience helpful.
Some days I’m social, some days I’m not but I’m still an introvert regardless. I feel more alone when it comes to family. Sometimes friends I’m around with I feel alone. I just know they’ll be asking questions and assuming i can blame them for me not sticking around as much as I did before. When I meet new people from different countries or states I’m more interesting & open to them. It might seem like I could run to someone new because I’m socially unfulfilled. I’ve been wearing headphones since high school. Listening to heavy metal and rock music that nobody knows about. I still do it everyday when I’m drawing in my room or out in public. I watch UA-cam videos in restaurants when I eat because that’s my entertainment. I can’t keep living without coping or having my own routine. The 3rd 5th & 7th wheel kills me every time when they run it in my face. It hurts. I work to save money & use it to escape. I’d do anything to get away from the real world because i don’t feel belonged. I don’t dream about careers or owning luxury & materialism anymore. All of them can have it. I prefer to be alone because i can’t always get what I want. I can’t afford life myself or find a life partner. Basically giving up but taking my money with me. I just want to runaway but hopefully run towards to something or someone one day.
I feel like I'm an introvert and extrovert as well. Maybe two of these or so I agree with, and I do enjoy time alone to recharge, but I love being around people and parties/crowds just the same.
Over time during certain events in life, it's gotten to a point where I've become heavily introverted and I prefer to be alone, I enjoy company sometimes but for the most part I highly value time to myself.
All of them apply to me and my girlfriend. Idk how we survive in our relationship then with the need to be alone 😭. I think it might be that we ask for space from time to time.
My favorite thing in life is that people are so different, like I'm a loner for sure, if I suddenly had the money to, I'd live in the mountains my whole life and never see another human again, 1). "You're private" - Not really talk to me for like 10 minutes and I'll probably share TOO much about my life. 2). "Suffocated by Crowds" - I 100% dread being in one, but if I am it's not bad, I just don't stay in one place long so people don't keep noticing me and develop interest enough to walk over. 3)."Independance is VERY important" - I do love being alone, enough that I COULD do what I said at the top, but ideally I'd have a woman in my life and we'd do everything and anything together, I can be 'independant, but I'd rather be... 'independant together'. 4). "Headphones are armor" - Never used headphones to avoid interaction, to bulky, I prefer earbuds, however after living in a city for a year walking everywhere I did learned to just act as if I'm deaf and keep walking. 5). "Happiest Alone" - Again if I found love, absolutely not, until then, absolutely YES lol. 6). "Hate Drama" - I grew up with 3 older sisters... I was the fly on the wall growing up, and I learned to LOVE drama, the older I get the more I want to be apart of it rather than just watching, BUT I will NEVER create it intentionally, I could easily live without it. 7). "You Value your time" Oh yeah, one of the best lessons I've learned in life was from the movie "Zombie Land" of all places, "Ya gotta enjoy the little things" changed my life and I haven't live a day of my life since without joy in it big or small, frequent or rare, every single day has had joy, and the more time I spend alone the more long strings of joy I get. Social media is dangerous for that though, stay away from that hell, even if you love drama.
I asked a girl out half a year ago to a date, and just about an hour later, I just had no want to go. Its not that I was afraid, but I had an insight that told me neither of us wanted to go. This made me feel really good about it.
A lot of what has been mentioned is common to autism. I identify with this and describes me down to a tee. I have no issues of being alone.I can stand about 10 mins of someone then they become annoying and irritable and you need to f**k off and go. I don't give a shit what anyone thinks and I just say it how it is black, white and to the point. I can't cope with change, busy crowds and I am sensitive to noise. I wear my headphones outside with my music on to block out the sounds of traffic and people.I don't go to places I don't know as its too much for me. If I had to I would have to be accompanied by someone I've known for a long time. I don't enjoy socialising and find it distressing because I'm not good with new people I don't know. I have my family and a couple of carers that look after me because I am disabled with mobility issues. I'm 51 now and I don't have a girlfriend because basically I couldn't be bothered to put up with their shite. Lack of empathy is common trait to autism. I am not always aware that I might offend or hurt someones feelings. For example I was speaking about a certain subject with my community support worker and she got upset and said that I wouldn't like to be judged like that. I shouldn't have laughed at her. I told her that she should get herself a higher power and someone to talk to if she still thinks that. After all its just an opinion and not to take it personally when someone does that. I also said that you are powerless to what people think about you as if you are if someone loves you, cares about you, stuck in traffic or miss the bus. Totally inappropriate I know. I just not aware. So in conclusion I'm quiet happy being on my own. I've got plenty to occupy myself with. I hope what I said here doesn't offend anyone but rather you get identification from what I have been saying. I'm sure I'm not alone, as I'm sure there are others just like me in this world. I am a loner and it doesn't bother me one bit, I enjoy it!
I grew up a Loner. I still relate with most of this. Tho now days I have learned how to enjoy Socializing with Others instead of being completely terrified of the idea of doing it. Tho I still struggle with conflict. But yeah some don't understand why when I get Home from Work all I want to do is have alone time for the rest of the day for the most part. I need time to recharge and me time. (I work in Retail.) Back when I was younger I would love to go outside barefoot. Run around outside. Climb a Tree we had. And explore. I would also be glued to Hand Held Video Games. It was my Safe Place away from everyone and everything. Now that I'm older I spend my time mostly just doing Art, Researching things and relaxing after a long day.
Number 6 is especially why it's better to be a loner. Who wants to get involved with toxic people? (Seeing cast members of the Moomin series in this video totally made my night, BTW!)
I was a loner from the very beginning, and I knew it. Just wish that as I grew older and needed to interact with more people socially (as a student and as a worker), I'd understood my own needs better, been more accepting (less worried about) of them, and found more positive ways of coping with the discomfort I felt (not knowing how take better care of myself). I wish I'd been able to communicate my needs to my intimate partners and negotiate getting them met. Instead, to avoid conflict, I just didn't express my needs and allowed them to go unmet. Looking back, I see that I'd have been just as much accepted, liked, and loved If I HAD spoken up. But I was too afraid of rejection. Just glad I've learned what I needed to know now and am better able to thrive. Thank you, Psych to Go, for providing such an articulate commentary.😇
Agree that every sign except the headphone one works with my life style right now. These days not to be negative against people in very active lives, but I see and hear a lot of people stress and get angry over very simple things in life these days. I wish more people in life had time to really get to know themselves when being a lone. You learn many things about yourself you might not know. 🙂
thanks for the video i really relate to the headphone one I'm a musician (bassist) and i use music to escape reality even if I'm in crowds of people or on the bus or in social interactions.
I actually enjoy being alone sometimes. I sometimes feel like I'm happier being alone. Once in school I was sitting al alone in lunch but for some reason, my teacher made me sit with my friends. I sometimes wish others will understand that I want to be alone and not have people in my business. Lately, I've been feeling like a loser who will never make it. Sometimes I feel like I was a mistake to be born. I think my parents are deciding to get divorced, I'm still not sure whether they will or not, but I don't know how things will work out. I even tried running away from my home because I didn't do well on my History quiz and I was really scared. I really don't talk about my emotions because I know that they probably won't understand. I've started to hate myself alot. I really feel unloved and rejected all the time. I'm not sure who is seeing this, but I just wanna let y'all know that it's ok to be alone if u want to. (I ALSO REALLY ENJOY YOUR VIDEOS, THANKS ALOT)
I'd say these are habits I have many days of the week. I'm extroverted by nature, I enjoy meeting new people and building relationships, but I'm not a fan of large crowds, or large group work. I really enjoy hanging out with friends and all but even that gets me nervous sometimes. Even though I'm sometimes a loud and Jovial person, I need that quiet and solitary space so I can look into myself and zone out. I suppose an ambivert is the best way to describe me.
All true, no social media, hearing damage from excessive headphone use, feeling no understands you but realizing they don’t even understand themselves…..it’s a rare gift
Lol, this is so me: I'm usually too introverted for all of that stuff! I always hated group projects back when I was still in school, but it was more because I was the only one actually doing the assignment and suggesting ideas most of the time. Like, everyone else was always redirecting questions on what to do to somebody else in the group, and then they'd just keep pinballing the same question between them until I was the proverbial tiebreaker. And that would already happen on something as easy as picking a subject for the presentation or something! Don't get me wrong, I honestly wouldn't blame them if it was for complicated stuff, and I would gladly explain in that case. No sweat if you're stuck on research or something and need help, I'll gladly lend a hand. But that eternal question pingpong happened for EVERY. LITTLE. THING. IN. THE. PROJECT. So yeah, then I HAD to step up if I didn't want my average to plummet because those incompetent morons can't even manage to decide whether the letters on title screen in the presentation should be black or red (no joke, making that call legit took one of the project groups that I was in 1,5 hours). Needless to say: I got so sick of it that I always asked if I could work alone. But sadly, the answer was always no. So yeah, I really don't understand why some people in school enjoyed group projects.
1. Private life. Yes, I have many things I cover up mostly and want to open but it is hard. 2. Crowd or loneliness. I don't really like being around a group of people, it makes me feel not really good. Also, I can't consider anyone as a friend. 3. Independence. Oh yeah, I dislike group works, it seems for me something impossible like "What do we need to do here together?". And this is what I think about group projects. 4. Headphones. Well I don't like headphones outside of a home but I like being alone mostly. 5. Happer when alone. I detected that I am not myself when I am with someone. Well, it is usual for me... 6. Avoiding drama. I hate drama. I don't like any sort of conflicts and try to avoid them. 7. Valuing the time. Well, I am mostly alone and want to be alone, but sometimes can talk with someone if I want. But here is a catch: I spend my time badly, sitting inside and playing PC games. But this is me.
1:47 Hmmm... Very familiar design... Also Greta video! I am myself pretty much a loner and only likes to be around people I like. (Also your voice is very claiming, I love it!)
One day, at my school, they called me "boring" because I didn't want to socialize with people, in fact, it's my choice and I prefer to be alone than in the middle of people talking all the time. Great video 🖤
I identify with all of these points. I'm an huge agoraphobic, anxious (in general), quiet, reserved, introverted loner who loves to be alone, read, write, be silent, values their own space, never goes anywhere without their headphones (even if I'm not listening to anything) & doesn't use social media (just UA-cam and Google/Chrome). You know, all that good stuff.
I do relate to basically every point here. Though I do enjoy a bit of socialising it needs to be in smaller gatherings or shorter events. Digital socialisation has been a go to release valve for this need to socialise, but today I think I'll try my hand at socialising at a small event for my age group to see how that goes.
With other people i feel stifled, i prefer to travel to places alone, i can go where i want when i want, i can eat when i want where i want, and i don't have to put up with drama
When it comes to hanging around groups I have a tendency to just slip away when nobody's paying attention, my girlfriend usually will notice eventually and bring it up later to which I will respond with something like "I find it's better to be alone by yourself than alone with friends" I think I saw it in a movie or read it in a book somewhere during the latter years of elementary school and I've just lived by it since
"Sometimes it's better to be alone. No one can hurt you."
Meg, Disney's _Hercules._
How is this comment 13 days old if the video came out half an hour ago??? Does anyone else see this or is it only a bug on my end
@@VathrexThis video was unlisted. They published it today.
@@emptythoughts_8 It was in the "Introverts" playlist. Unlisted videos still appear in public playlists.
THE HECK 2 WEEKS AGO!?!?
You thought 😂
I like being alone but not feeling alone.
My exact thoughts
Yeah. I don't like crowds at all, and I tend to go to concerts always by myself, always in the front row. I don't feel comfortable around the crowd, or behind the mosh pit, or standing in the back. I also got used to do everything by myself whenever I want something done, I had too many people/friends/family let me down when I was growing up, so I now I enjoy doing everything by myself, but I'd like to be able to find ways to have a SO. I don't like feeling alone either...
Thank you very much to underline this evidence, beznicza00. There's an important shade of meaning between BEING alone and FEELING alone. In the first case, it's a voluntary choice we have done that corresponds to our personality. In the other one, it's a condition we suffer, while we wish things should be different.
Exactly, it's just so much easier to manage your time and planes alone, I have also relied on people and didn't like the outcome, since then I value my independence and never rely on anyone at all! it gets hard occasionally, the urge to socialise but quickly fades if I find myself surrounded by a large crowd, damn our lives are constant fights @@samusranzer
Yeah theres the distinction. I enjoy being alone and doing my own thing, but feeling alone is the absolute worst. Feeling youre going to die alone, no family, etc... It sucks.
Loners are the BEST PEOPLE I can't even explain how people who respect and know space, who aren't always in your business or want to know your business, they're not hungry for attention or self absorbed types. They have unlocked true happiness without need of external things, people, factors, validation.
Well said. I think the term "loner" usually has a negative connotation, but "loners" have rich inner lives that they only share with people they feel comfortable with.
I feel what you said, precisely because I have a friend that is the exact opposite of the person you just described. That is to say, this dude is completely inept at being at peace with his own thoughts, has literally no other friends besides me, is self-absorbed and is constantly looking for a chance to hang out with me even if we already hung out 28 times in the last 40 seconds…
DING DING DING!!! 👌😉
Being a loner does not subsume those qualities you describe. I know a lot of loners who are gossips, for instance. But, leave it to young people to generalize the crap out of anything.
I am a introvert, don't go to parties, don't stay long at public places, and prefer to stay home with my cat and write
me too, but i do enjoy the company of other introverts or people that totally understand introverts.
Same here😢most of the time misunderstood by others, i love being alone
@@randomthoughts3639 I found most people highly irritating or annoying. Many are ignorant and stupid and don't want to waste my time with them.
Most relatable comment.
@@bikedawg second most relatable comment.
The annoying part about using headphones could be easily misinterpreted. Because sometimes I might just not want to disturb others while I am actually open for the conversation.
The main point of wearing headphones for me is that I'm aware not all people around me will share my choice of music, so as a form of respect, I listen only to myself
Your comment shows it was posted 7 months ago...
How is it possible 😮
I solved this by only using one of my wireless earbuds in public settings.
@@subh_royprobably a video shared publicly to us from their member videos/early release
@@_code1337I do this so I don’t get murdered lol
Timestamps
1). You're a very private person 0:34
2). You feel suffocated in large crowds 1:09
3). Your independence is extremely important to you 1:43
4). Your headphones are your is armor 2:18
5). You're happiest alone 2:43
6). You don't enjoy drama 3:19
7). You value your time 3:51
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
It's like half of them
@@fable_enthusiastI know that
Thanks
@@goldenraito1075 not a problem happy to help
Be careful, someone whom you thought was a friend may request an intervention on you, suggesting you need medication therapy. "Wow, something is wrong with Emma, she is always happy and smiling"
using snufkin in this animation is incredibly apt. i’ve always felt like his wandering, independent life was something to admire & didn’t like how, at least in the new moomin series, moomin doesn’t seem to understand that snufkin needs that time alone for himself. some people are just more private than others, & that’s something i resonate with.
super happy to hear you resonated with this!! I made this well over a year ago, but I remember while boarding this I really wanted to make snufkin a main character for this video
who is snufkin..
@@Err_404_ moomin character
@@KAIBAILIJAwhats moomin
@@Err_404_ Finnish cartoon
Better to be a loner then be surrounded by false friends...always been a loner,and never minded.
✨ Timestamps and Major Points ✨
1. 0:35 You're a very private person
2. 1:09 You feel suffocated in large crowds
3. 1:44 Your independence is extremely important to you
4. 2:19 Your headphones are your armor
5. 2:44 You're happiest alone
6. 3:20 You don't enjoy drama
7. 3:52 You value your time
I may or may not have read the title as "7 signs you're a loser". I was so confused for a second there 💀💀💀
Also, love that sasharcy jumpscare at 2:34
😂😂😂
No hahaha we'd never make a video titled 7 signs you're a loser 😂😂
I've always said I'm often alone but rarely lonely and almost never bored. For as long as I can remember I've preferred my own company and that of a dog or cat for a friend. Found myself in a relationship with someone just like me in this respect, and it's great. We give each other space and time and share when we feel like it. Being alone together is a lot of fun, too.
How did you find someone similar to you and approach them and not be considered creepy :(
Yeah how?
same questions. Just inserting myself here... don't mind me...
@@nathansmith5726 We were in a D&D campaign together and gelled through our roleplay styles. One night after a game I asked if he wanted to hang out, and he said yeah. We became friends, and it just kind of naturally progressed from that. Neither one of us was looking for a relationship, but there it was. I'm sure that's not very helpful. It tends to be how I make friends, too. It starts with some commonality and then whoops, a friend.
@@jynxtwin3966 Gave my answer to nathansmith5726. Not sure if it's very helpful, but it's how it happened. lol
I enjoyed the 'Moomin' references and how they tied into the core theme of the video, very well done 👍🏽
YAY I FOUND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS THE MOOMINS!!!
@@smartdoge6112 I guess it's very telling of our age 😄
I swear I thought I had a trauma response by how much I kept to myself, now I realize I just dislike people.
I always thought loner was a good thing.
Like something you had to earn. Something normal people cannot do because they need others to help them, because they're not strong enough to do things on their own.
That's absolutely true, I agree with you, however, everyone has his own personality and everyone is beautiful and distinguished by his personality. The difference is really wonderful and accepting others their personalities is the most wonderful ever
@@gafer8808 for guys? What about women?
@@rklein Certainly there are girls and young men who prefer to isolate, or stay alone, my brother is the type who does not like to stay with others, unlike my older brother is very social, it is okay at all, but no matter how long the person will sometimes feel that he wants to be with some people
@@rkleinwhy are you bringing gender into it? I'm strong and capable enough to do most things alone. I have a few trusted people that I know will help me if I need it but contrary to popular belief women aren't completely dependent on men lmao.
REALLY glad im working on being more social now.. Damn..
I'm 53 and definitely remember feeling something was wrong with me when I was young. Through college I put myself through trying to be sociable but usually hated it. After college, I didn't feel the pressure to do the social thing and it felt like a great weight was lifted from me. Unfortunately, 3 of my 4 family members were extroverts and it has often been very painful to deal with them. For over 20 years, I lived away from them, for 10 years only returning at Christmas. After my father died, however, I agreed to move in with my mother, who is 86 now; I can deal with her without much trouble, but my sister is an almost constant source of pain, critiquing my behavior, needing to know everything that's going on; I just want to be left alone. I yearn for the day I can remove her from my life and go back to being on my own, with my cats. 😣
are you a boy or a girl
Why do extroverts always feel the need to critique an introverts actions it's like our very existence give them the ick lol
You don't have to feel uncomfortable with your condition, buckspa. I'm a loner, too. If other people, even your family, have a problem with it, it's THEIR problem, not your's. Continue to take care of your old mother. As for your extrovert sister, if you didn't do it, explain her your prefer to be alone and that doesn't mean at all you're a bad person. If she persists to not understand that simple fact, as I said, it's HER problem, not your's. You don't have to internalize the way of thinking of other family circle. Focus your energy on your mother and just let go for the rest. You don't have any control on the way of thinking of other people, anyway. Life is short, my friend. Don't waste it by explaining who you are to deaf persons. 👍👍👍👍
God bless you friend hope youre doing good you sound like a wonderful person
I'm 16 and I also feel something is wrong with me. I feel like im just different. I'm an introvert, i have a low confidence, i think im gonna be a loner.
It is your job to create your purpose in life and your fate. If you want to accept being alone, then by all means, go ahead. If you want to be somebody or something, don't live your life by the people they want you to be, live your life by who or what you want to be.
Well said! Embracing individuality and pursuing personal aspirations can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
I came for Snuffkin and stayed for everything else. I'm not necessarily a loner myself, but I absolutely enjoy spending time in my own apartment... my very own inpenetrable fortress.
Back in my late teens and early 20s, even though I was quiet and shy I didn’t like being by myself. I was always staying in touch with people through phone calls or texts. Now I’m the complete opposite and avoid socializing as much as possible. I think I just got tired of getting attached to people just to be let down.
You had me at the Snuffkin picture.
I love the various characters in this video like Snufkin, Moomin, Little My, Marcy, Sasha, maybe Anne in one of the silhouettes, and probably many others that I missed! Both Moominvalley and Amphibia are great shows when it comes to the themes of this video! It’s a nice detail!
I struggle w walking in the midst of crowds just to get to class. It’s so overwhelming and I hate it
I think loneliness is mostly lovely cause its a time i can do stuff at my own speed, no one rushing me, no school/college/workplace pulling you with the same chains as everyone else, no need to be normal and be myself again
building off this comment, i think it's better to say that *solitude* is mostly lovely for the reasons that OP stated. personally, i don't like loneliness... but having time to be by myself, with myself, is therapeutic and relaxing. just me and my dog
I love that Moomin Valley reference in the thumbnail!!
It's also about, the quality of the people your around.
I am on the autism spectrum and love to spend time alone every day. I also have done several Vegas trips solo and find it invigorating since I can do what I want on my own time.
I'm fine interacting with others (somewhat extraverted), but it's exhausting! I cannot relax around other people, only alone or with animals around. I like helping and talking with people, but I feel completely drained by doing so. I will walk away from conflict whenever possible, but I will never run from a fight (not a coward), especially if I feel someone vulnerable is being harmed somehow.
I’ve never felt more understood in my life, I was smiling ear2ear the entire video ❤
I still struggle heavily with this. Because deep down I know I am a loner and do my best in those moments, but it’s hard when you do also want connections, even when it’s probably not meant for you. It’s a paradox and it really sucks sometimes.
The headphones one is so true. I'm more of an earbuds guy bc the headphones are too clunky for my taste but I have my earbuds in a lot. And on noise canceling mode most often. I'm not even always listening to any music, it helps quiet the world down while still allowing me to know enough of what's happening around me. Also I loved the animation style in this one, especially the box hitting PSI at the start
Wow this is definitely me for sure , large crowds drain me so much
2:34 OMG SASHARCY??? OMG THAT WAS SUCH A JUMPSCARE BUT LIKE IN A GOOD WAY LIKE I DIDNT EXPECTED IT
I always felt like a lonewolf the whole time. I see myself in this video a 100% of the time.
I see Snufkin I click
I said the same thing.
@@chocys_cosplays *I don't blame you.*
The fact that I ended up on a private video
I love being a loner especially when i was in High School my cousins found it sad and if id sit alone at lunch theyd join me i always told them im ok but they insisted then they’d ask are you ok is someone being mean to you we’ll go handle them i always told them no I just prefer to be by myself but they wouldn’t listen i understood why they felt concerned but it annoyed me sometimes
Yeah, many people who aren't loners can't understand how anyone could prefer solitude.
I travel solo a lot and I can tell you I have more fun as I am not reliant on trying to accommodate others plans and can do everything that I want to do. I value my free time and if I want to me people on my journeys it's easy for me to approach people and strike up a conversation.
Your videos really make me appreciate myself and who I am as a person for which I am grateful for even my family makes me feel as if I'm doing something wrong but I truly am happiest when I'm by myself so thank you 🥰💗
Everyone's unique, and what brings you happiness and fulfillment might differ from others, and that's perfectly okay.
Honestly I feel like im the opposite I should be more extroverted although I do enjoy some time to myself to recharge, but given I was dealt a shitty hand as a kid and have gotten too scared that my own problems will push people away I’ve become way to reserved and lonely, I genuinely love being out and spending time with people meeting new people Etc. I’ve just self sabotaged to the point where I’ve gotten so distant from the social scene that idk how to get back to how I used to feel, I’ve gotten some more confidence from a few changes I’ve made and I suddenly find myself not wanting to be alone anymore after how much time I’ve wasted isolating myself outta fear and I finally feel like I can become the person I want to be again
This video is quite good, i wonder why its unlisted.
I would not say I am a loner, but large crowds very much suffocates me, I get overwhelmed and stuff, mostly cuz I'm an ambivert facing strongly towards the introvert side. I like 1 on 1 conversations, and I like that much mote than being in a group.
By myself-
Let me take this moment to breath
Let me take this moment to recompose myself
I always considered I needed to take a break
Cause all this noisy life we are living is too much for me to take
Can't you let me alone for a moment?
Just a moment for me to feel and think
Without any judgement to restrict mine
Without any human being in my sight
I need my solitude to keep track of what's going on in my mind
So many racing thoughts, so many questions to ask
Always wondering what could be the meaning of life
Just an old little habit of mine
No, I don't feel lonely
No, I don't feel sad
I always knew I had myself
And I know I'll always have my back
Enjoying your own company I do think is a good skill to learn, even if you prefer to be in company. I see a lot of people get into bad relationships because they just can't be alone.
This video was lovely!
After 20 years of isolation, I don't feel loneliness anymore
But, I do fear that I am on course to be alone for the rest of my life - without loneliness, I lack any drive for romantic connection
I don’t mind sharing my goals but I do realize a lot of my answers to common questions are either
1. Straight to the point with little to no details
2. Repetitive answers like “Oh, I’m doing alright” or “My family is doing okay”.
But what’s weird is that I don’t mind having deep conversations with someone either. I liked talking about stuff like folklore or even just listening to someone’s interest with the universe. It all depends on my mood but I 99% of the time give out short answers. I don’t do it to be rude to anybody or anything.
i wonder why this video is unlisted
I fit most of these pretty well. I try not to overshare usually unless it's something too overwhelming, only really keeping what's bothering me to myself and a few close friends I've known for years. In my case it's partially due to social anxiety, but I've known for a little over 10 years that I'm very much introverted, so nothing new to me
This is video gave me so much comfort and closure...Thankyou sm
I loved the animation of this video. It was also very helpful. Keep it up.
"One cannot be betrayed if one has no people" - Kobayashi
Best forms of armour when in public: ear buds, sunglasses and a physical book
Thank you for this, I identified with every word you said. While for most of life I have been comfortable in recognizing and validating my need for solitude, there are still a lot days when I worry that my 'loner-ness' makes my "creepy" or "monstrous". It's nice be reassured it's not a crime for me to be me.
Loners aren't creepy..but the peeps around make them creepier...
they just don't want to talk with him/her but always nag him for own satisfication
Love the character design in this video 👍🏽
My fortress of solitude is the vast world around me. I tend to go on long inter-city and long trail e-bike rides to disconnect from society, and further connect to nature. I do tend to share it live with my friends/family to show the people closest to me how much it helps. Being a loner, doesn't mean you can't enjoy and promote a healthy and fun lifestyle that still is within your own protective boundaries. I hope some people find my experience helpful.
Ah...now I realize why I enjoy biking so much.
I see Snufkin in the thumbnail, I click it💚🌱🍀🍃
Btw, I'm a fellow fan from the Moominvalley fandom.
Same!!! I got a Snorkmaiden tattoo ❤
HI THERE FELLOW FAN FROM THE MOOMINVALLEY FANDOM :D
*Hey!*
I loved all the references! Great vid!
This hit so spot on. Thanks
You just made my morning thank you
Some days I’m social, some days I’m not but I’m still an introvert regardless. I feel more alone when it comes to family. Sometimes friends I’m around with I feel alone. I just know they’ll be asking questions and assuming i can blame them for me not sticking around as much as I did before. When I meet new people from different countries or states I’m more interesting & open to them. It might seem like I could run to someone new because I’m socially unfulfilled. I’ve been wearing headphones since high school. Listening to heavy metal and rock music that nobody knows about. I still do it everyday when I’m drawing in my room or out in public. I watch UA-cam videos in restaurants when I eat because that’s my entertainment. I can’t keep living without coping or having my own routine. The 3rd 5th & 7th wheel kills me every time when they run it in my face. It hurts. I work to save money & use it to escape. I’d do anything to get away from the real world because i don’t feel belonged. I don’t dream about careers or owning luxury & materialism anymore. All of them can have it. I prefer to be alone because i can’t always get what I want. I can’t afford life myself or find a life partner. Basically giving up but taking my money with me. I just want to runaway but hopefully run towards to something or someone one day.
The only time I go to parties is when I have an art show exhibition coming up. I interacted with almost a lot of people that see me do my thing.
I feel like I'm an introvert and extrovert as well. Maybe two of these or so I agree with, and I do enjoy time alone to recharge, but I love being around people and parties/crowds just the same.
Being alone is freeing. I don’t have to worry about other people perceiving me
Over time during certain events in life, it's gotten to a point where I've become heavily introverted and I prefer to be alone, I enjoy company sometimes but for the most part I highly value time to myself.
All of them apply to me and my girlfriend. Idk how we survive in our relationship then with the need to be alone 😭. I think it might be that we ask for space from time to time.
It feels good to be a loner it feels better not to feel bad about being a loner.
My favorite thing in life is that people are so different, like I'm a loner for sure, if I suddenly had the money to, I'd live in the mountains my whole life and never see another human again,
1). "You're private" - Not really talk to me for like 10 minutes and I'll probably share TOO much about my life.
2). "Suffocated by Crowds" - I 100% dread being in one, but if I am it's not bad, I just don't stay in one place long so people don't keep noticing me and develop interest enough to walk over.
3)."Independance is VERY important" - I do love being alone, enough that I COULD do what I said at the top, but ideally I'd have a woman in my life and we'd do everything and anything together, I can be 'independant, but I'd rather be... 'independant together'.
4). "Headphones are armor" - Never used headphones to avoid interaction, to bulky, I prefer earbuds, however after living in a city for a year walking everywhere I did learned to just act as if I'm deaf and keep walking.
5). "Happiest Alone" - Again if I found love, absolutely not, until then, absolutely YES lol.
6). "Hate Drama" - I grew up with 3 older sisters... I was the fly on the wall growing up, and I learned to LOVE drama, the older I get the more I want to be apart of it rather than just watching, BUT I will NEVER create it intentionally, I could easily live without it.
7). "You Value your time" Oh yeah, one of the best lessons I've learned in life was from the movie "Zombie Land" of all places, "Ya gotta enjoy the little things" changed my life and I haven't live a day of my life since without joy in it big or small, frequent or rare, every single day has had joy, and the more time I spend alone the more long strings of joy I get. Social media is dangerous for that though, stay away from that hell, even if you love drama.
5/7 It's nice to have a partner who understands our "lonely" vibes. 💙
I asked a girl out half a year ago to a date, and just about an hour later, I just had no want to go. Its not that I was afraid, but I had an insight that told me neither of us wanted to go. This made me feel really good about it.
A lot of what has been mentioned is common to autism. I identify with this and describes me down to a tee. I have no issues of being alone.I can stand about 10 mins of someone then they become annoying and irritable and you need to f**k off and go. I don't give a shit what anyone thinks and I just say it how it is black, white and to the point. I can't cope with change, busy crowds and I am sensitive to noise. I wear my headphones outside with my music on to block out the sounds of traffic and people.I don't go to places I don't know as its too much for me. If I had to I would have to be accompanied by someone I've known for a long time. I don't enjoy socialising and find it distressing because I'm not good with new people I don't know.
I have my family and a couple of carers that look after me because I am disabled with mobility issues.
I'm 51 now and I don't have a girlfriend because basically I couldn't be bothered to put up with their shite.
Lack of empathy is common trait to autism. I am not always aware that I might offend or hurt someones feelings. For example I was speaking about a certain subject with my community support worker and she got upset and said that I wouldn't like to be judged like that. I shouldn't have laughed at her. I told her that she should get herself a higher power and someone to talk to if she still thinks that. After all its just an opinion and not to take it personally when someone does that. I also said that you are powerless to what people think about you as if you are if someone loves you, cares about you, stuck in traffic or miss the bus. Totally inappropriate I know. I just not aware. So in conclusion I'm quiet happy being on my own. I've got plenty to occupy myself with. I hope what I said here doesn't offend anyone but rather you get identification from what I have been saying. I'm sure I'm not alone, as I'm sure there are others just like me in this world. I am a loner and it doesn't bother me one bit, I enjoy it!
Snufkin has drawn me in!
*Hey, why wouldn't it?*
❤thank you! Love this video.☺️☺️
this made me feel really good, thenks for that
I grew up a Loner. I still relate with most of this. Tho now days I have learned how to enjoy Socializing with Others instead of being completely terrified of the idea of doing it. Tho I still struggle with conflict. But yeah some don't understand why when I get Home from Work all I want to do is have alone time for the rest of the day for the most part. I need time to recharge and me time. (I work in Retail.) Back when I was younger I would love to go outside barefoot. Run around outside. Climb a Tree we had. And explore. I would also be glued to Hand Held Video Games. It was my Safe Place away from everyone and everything. Now that I'm older I spend my time mostly just doing Art, Researching things and relaxing after a long day.
Number 6 is especially why it's better to be a loner. Who wants to get involved with toxic people?
(Seeing cast members of the Moomin series in this video totally made my night, BTW!)
These all ring true and I’ve always felt this way, but as a teen my family just doesn’t understand, and they feel there’s something wrong with me.
I was super surprised to see Marcy and Sasha walk by, thank you
I can't explain how peaceful to be alone. Alone with your wonderful thoughts and realization. The continuous wonders and self silent talk.
Those are moments to treasure🤞
This video definitely describes me. Also, I love The narrators voice fairy, soothing🙂
I can totally relate to this video hope y’all have a great weekend and always remember your perfect just the way you are & you matter. 🦋💜😊🥰
I was a loner from the very beginning, and I knew it. Just wish that as I grew older and needed to interact with more people socially (as a student and as a worker), I'd understood my own needs better, been more accepting (less worried about) of them, and found more positive ways of coping with the discomfort I felt (not knowing how take better care of myself). I wish I'd been able to communicate my needs to my intimate partners and negotiate getting them met. Instead, to avoid conflict, I just didn't express my needs and allowed them to go unmet. Looking back, I see that I'd have been just as much accepted, liked, and loved If I HAD spoken up. But I was too afraid of rejection. Just glad I've learned what I needed to know now and am better able to thrive. Thank you, Psych to Go, for providing such an articulate commentary.😇
;o this is me!! although not really the first one, i dont really mind talking about my day or talking on social media xd.
Agree that every sign except the headphone one works with my life style right now. These days not to be negative against people in very active lives, but I see and hear a lot of people stress and get angry over very simple things in life these days. I wish more people in life had time to really get to know themselves when being a lone. You learn many things about yourself you might not know. 🙂
thanks for the video i really relate to the headphone one I'm a musician (bassist) and i use music to escape reality even if I'm in crowds of people or on the bus or in social interactions.
I actually enjoy being alone sometimes. I sometimes feel like I'm happier being alone. Once in school I was sitting al alone in lunch but for some reason, my teacher made me sit with my friends. I sometimes wish others will understand that I want to be alone and not have people in my business. Lately, I've been feeling like a loser who will never make it. Sometimes I feel like I was a mistake to be born. I think my parents are deciding to get divorced, I'm still not sure whether they will or not, but I don't know how things will work out. I even tried running away from my home because I didn't do well on my History quiz and I was really scared. I really don't talk about my emotions because I know that they probably won't understand. I've started to hate myself alot. I really feel unloved and rejected all the time. I'm not sure who is seeing this, but I just wanna let y'all know that it's ok to be alone if u want to.
(I ALSO REALLY ENJOY YOUR VIDEOS, THANKS ALOT)
I'd say these are habits I have many days of the week. I'm extroverted by nature, I enjoy meeting new people and building relationships, but I'm not a fan of large crowds, or large group work. I really enjoy hanging out with friends and all but even that gets me nervous sometimes. Even though I'm sometimes a loud and Jovial person, I need that quiet and solitary space so I can look into myself and zone out. I suppose an ambivert is the best way to describe me.
All true, no social media, hearing damage from excessive headphone use, feeling no understands you but realizing they don’t even understand themselves…..it’s a rare gift
Lol, this is so me: I'm usually too introverted for all of that stuff! I always hated group projects back when I was still in school, but it was more because I was the only one actually doing the assignment and suggesting ideas most of the time. Like, everyone else was always redirecting questions on what to do to somebody else in the group, and then they'd just keep pinballing the same question between them until I was the proverbial tiebreaker. And that would already happen on something as easy as picking a subject for the presentation or something! Don't get me wrong, I honestly wouldn't blame them if it was for complicated stuff, and I would gladly explain in that case. No sweat if you're stuck on research or something and need help, I'll gladly lend a hand. But that eternal question pingpong happened for EVERY. LITTLE. THING. IN. THE. PROJECT. So yeah, then I HAD to step up if I didn't want my average to plummet because those incompetent morons can't even manage to decide whether the letters on title screen in the presentation should be black or red (no joke, making that call legit took one of the project groups that I was in 1,5 hours). Needless to say: I got so sick of it that I always asked if I could work alone. But sadly, the answer was always no. So yeah, I really don't understand why some people in school enjoyed group projects.
1. Private life. Yes, I have many things I cover up mostly and want to open but it is hard.
2. Crowd or loneliness. I don't really like being around a group of people, it makes me feel not really good. Also, I can't consider anyone as a friend.
3. Independence. Oh yeah, I dislike group works, it seems for me something impossible like "What do we need to do here together?". And this is what I think about group projects.
4. Headphones. Well I don't like headphones outside of a home but I like being alone mostly.
5. Happer when alone. I detected that I am not myself when I am with someone. Well, it is usual for me...
6. Avoiding drama. I hate drama. I don't like any sort of conflicts and try to avoid them.
7. Valuing the time. Well, I am mostly alone and want to be alone, but sometimes can talk with someone if I want. But here is a catch: I spend my time badly, sitting inside and playing PC games. But this is me.
1:47
Hmmm... Very familiar design...
Also Greta video! I am myself pretty much a loner and only likes to be around people I like.
(Also your voice is very claiming, I love it!)
I definitely resonate with this video.
One day, at my school, they called me "boring" because I didn't want to socialize with people, in fact, it's my choice and I prefer to be alone than in the middle of people talking all the time. Great video 🖤
I identify with all of these points. I'm an huge agoraphobic, anxious (in general), quiet, reserved, introverted loner who loves to be alone, read, write, be silent, values their own space, never goes anywhere without their headphones (even if I'm not listening to anything) & doesn't use social media (just UA-cam and Google/Chrome). You know, all that good stuff.
the voice is so calming
thank you, every point hits me
Love the artwork
Thie makes me feel better about myself, thank you 😊
I do relate to basically every point here.
Though I do enjoy a bit of socialising it needs to be in smaller gatherings or shorter events.
Digital socialisation has been a go to release valve for this need to socialise, but today I think I'll try my hand at socialising at a small event for my age group to see how that goes.
With other people i feel stifled, i prefer to travel to places alone, i can go where i want when i want, i can eat when i want where i want, and i don't have to put up with drama
About the drama, who likes drama? According to my observations, only toxic people thrive on drama. And I say no to toxic people around me.
When it comes to hanging around groups I have a tendency to just slip away when nobody's paying attention, my girlfriend usually will notice eventually and bring it up later to which I will respond with something like "I find it's better to be alone by yourself than alone with friends"
I think I saw it in a movie or read it in a book somewhere during the latter years of elementary school and I've just lived by it since
Omg this is off topic but I LOVE THE ANIMATION AND THE PERSON’S REACTION TO THE DROPPING BOARD
Yep, that’s me. I’d prefer being by myself to being at parties
oh it makes me so happy that you guys used snufkin in this animation. he is my favourite character
Thank you ! 🙂🌼✨️