How we get our 2 month old to sleep 12 hours through the night! (WITHOUT crying it out!)

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    How we get our 2 month old to sleep 12 hours through the night! (WITHOUT crying it out!)
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  • @carolinecasey9459
    @carolinecasey9459 4 роки тому +253

    Me: 22 years old, no husband, no children
    Also me: I NEED these books

    • @abigailbetts3421
      @abigailbetts3421 4 роки тому +13

      Caroline Casey Me!!! I’m 18 😂

    • @fatimahanwar9324
      @fatimahanwar9324 4 роки тому +3

      🙈hhhh me tooo

    • @anietaboada6436
      @anietaboada6436 4 роки тому +6

      I’m 16😂

    • @benaddy2002
      @benaddy2002 4 роки тому +4

      Me too...19😂

    • @AliciaSchulz
      @AliciaSchulz 4 роки тому +6

      #truth. I'm single and 22 and I'm finding such good resources for when I get married and have kids. I follow the people on Instagram and then on Pinterest I have a secret page of things for my wedding and things for kids. Lol

  • @jesuslovesme3249
    @jesuslovesme3249 4 роки тому +232

    I don't even have kids so why am I watching this? 😂

    • @mindyourbisness9816
      @mindyourbisness9816 4 роки тому +16

      To prepare yourself😂

    • @helenlandis3717
      @helenlandis3717 4 роки тому +3

      same here 😂

    • @natty6247
      @natty6247 4 роки тому +1

      Sameee😂😭

    • @emulove777
      @emulove777 4 роки тому +3

      No wife and no kids But it’s good knowledge for me in the future 👍

    • @_pandacecelya_
      @_pandacecelya_ 4 роки тому

      Same 😂 I’m hoping to have kids in the next year or two so it’s definitely to gain all the wisdom and advice that I can lol

  • @carolinepeters28
    @carolinepeters28 4 роки тому +103

    who else loves Nate and Sutton's videos?

    • @Nothinglefttosay
      @Nothinglefttosay 4 роки тому

      NOPE... don’t care..

    • @kendramac3969
      @kendramac3969 4 роки тому +4

      I love them! Their such good role models, and amazing people. Their kids have amazing parents, and are so blessed to have them. God Bless you! ✝️🙏🏻✝️

    • @carolinepeters28
      @carolinepeters28 4 роки тому +2

      @@kendramac3969 Yes!!! They're my favorite youtubers ❤ when did you start watching them?

    • @jamariobroomes4403
      @jamariobroomes4403 4 роки тому +1

      With full respect

    • @celesteadina3224
      @celesteadina3224 4 роки тому +1

      💓

  • @Cami_BarbieDolls
    @Cami_BarbieDolls 4 роки тому +85

    I don’t know how moms can listen to there babies cry hysterically for 15-20min for me it was excruciating. I felt like I’m traumatizing them. All my babies slept by me as long as I breastfed them and I don’t regret it. They had a great bonding time and security.

    • @sheetalpanchal225
      @sheetalpanchal225 3 роки тому +15

      @Beastbombshell I would never do that. Babies cry because they need to feel secure. Why should we make them insecure for a lifetime just for our sleep benefit? That's so selfish!

    • @HaciendaDurazo
      @HaciendaDurazo 3 роки тому +8

      @@sheetalpanchal225Sleep is extremely important. Some people cannot function well without enough sleep or live under circumstances where sleep training is the best option. There is nothing wrong with sleep training. Lots of people cannot co-sleep or are terrified to. Everyone is different and does what is best for them. Needing to sleep is not selfish; it’s necessary to function. Children don’t need a perfect parent, they need a good one. Sleep training is teaching a baby to fall asleep on his own. I don’t agree with letting them cry it out tho.

    • @jamiewestman7822
      @jamiewestman7822 3 роки тому +1

      @Beastbombshell you’re right only last a couple days and feels longer than it actually is. I went from rocking my baby to sleep and it’s have to be a deep sleep for me to be able to transfer him into the crib, to being able to play and have tons of fun with him and go into the room change him and put him into the crib with a bottle and he is out like a light. The process was putting him into his crib sleepy but awake after rocking with a bottle, few mins of crying and then he went to sleep. He slept longer and better once he was able to fall asleep on his own. He is a happier baby in the morning and I’m a well rested mama.
      Anyways just wanted to say I agree with you! :)

    • @jamiewestman7822
      @jamiewestman7822 3 роки тому +3

      @@sheetalpanchal225 sleep is important for them to learn. Babies cry when they struggle to learn something but doesn’t mean they shouldn’t learn it. But you do you. If this doesn’t work for you that’s fine, but please don’t make other mamas feel bad because they need their littles to learn this sooner than you do. Sleep is important. A lot of PPD is because of lack of sleep, PP psychosis is due to lack of sleep, you’re more likely to make small and large mistakes in your daily life with no sleep, and finally you’re more likely to be an impatient parent with less sleep….. so who benefits from everyone learning to sleep- everyone baby included. However you and you baby sleep is good 👍🏻 and however other moms and babies sleep is also good. Also no baby remembers if their parents let them cry or rocked to sleep so neither will ours. 🤷‍♀️

    • @sheetalpanchal225
      @sheetalpanchal225 3 роки тому

      @@HaciendaDurazo I agree with sleep training, I can totally understand that but I am against CIO. CIO is very very cruel.

  • @boldfaithproductions
    @boldfaithproductions 4 роки тому +33

    Hey guys, y’all have greatly inspired me and my content! Not enough people talk about their faith as openly and honestly as you guys do! It’s made me decide to share all of my own personal struggles to help people to feel like they aren’t alone! God bless!

  • @snapshot1386
    @snapshot1386 4 роки тому +87

    I guess if you have a schedule this might be good? I slept with my babies for the first year or so and my baby slept wonderfully. It also made breastfeeding and bonding with my baby extra special. Ignoring a baby’s cries feels like breaking the trust your baby has when they are calling out to us. Whether they are hungry, scared, need a changing or are just wanting the security of their parents warmth. I believe that’s why god made mom’s so sensitive to the sound of our baby’s cry. They made a study showing that right after a mommy gives birth her hearing is more sensitive to sound. Unfortunately, our lives have become so pressed for time that our children are made to fit their babyhood into a schedule, instead of letting parents and babies embrace this small and precious moments they share with us. You both seem like wonderful parents who adore those precious babies and many other videos on parenting you have made I agree with. I just believe ( I notice Sutton picks up on this) that mother’s instinct with her baby were put there for a reason and unfortunately, our current state of our world pulls us away from hearing it.

    • @MrHendrik0000
      @MrHendrik0000 4 роки тому +8

      you are completely right, thank you for writing this!

    • @sarahbyd
      @sarahbyd 4 роки тому +5

      My kid also slept through the night by 8 weeks, and By six months I could put him down wide awake and he could settle himself, and we have never had bedtime issues. We swaddled till he was five months, and did most everything suggested here except letting him “cry it out.” What I did learn was “the pause”. I would bolt up in bed at the slightest sound, but I would wait to see if he could see-sooth or if he needed me. Sometimes the need us, and that’s why mamas have supersonic hearing. I was a working executive, and my husband stayed at home for ten months, but nighttime was my shift. They need the reassurance that mama will be there if needed, but they also need to learn to put themselves back to sleep when they are ok.

    • @snapshot1386
      @snapshot1386 4 роки тому +6

      @@sarahbyd that's wonderful. Mothering your baby is such an individual experience. That you listened to your baby to see if it just was a bit fussy is important. Babies do not just cry to be annoying. It's their only way of survival. If a parent tenderly response to their baby, it starts understanding that these caregivers are trustworthy, so the baby feel they have less to fear and can drift off at time because that parent has developed that bond of trust by letting the baby know they will always be there by their side when they are needed, as the lord is always there for us.

    • @snapshot1386
      @snapshot1386 4 роки тому +7

      @Beastbombshell First thing, To all wanting to have children. Please be sure that you understand the huge responsibility and commitment you are deciding to take when you bring a life to this world. Also, Did I get sleep for a year? My peace of mind was seeing my baby was getting loved and cared for. I find it the same as when my mom was ill and incapacitated. I wasn't concerned about how much sleep I got, but about how much comfort and love I was able to give her as she had given me. Every mother has their own way of mothering their babies. When I had my first child, I read all those books about how to put your baby to sleep so they could self calm and sleep longer and it was a nightmare for me and my baby. Just filled with anxiety and frustration which my baby ended up feeling. I decided to listen to my mothering intuition and everything change for me. What a close loving connection I had with my baby. Now my children are independent loving adults. My point is that there are so many ways to mother and women should listen to their gut. What works for you might not work for another. As women, we are blessed with the responsibility to bear, nurture and nourish our babies and should find what works best for us and our babies.

    • @Jessicace
      @Jessicace 3 роки тому

      @@snapshot1386 this really resonates with me. Thank you for sharing 🌸

  • @kendramac3969
    @kendramac3969 4 роки тому +41

    Sutton is so beautiful, God bless your beautiful family! Also God Bless every single person reading this.✝️🙏🏻✝️

  • @madisonrand7645
    @madisonrand7645 4 роки тому +79

    How do I save this for like 5 years from now LOL

  • @NasEllis
    @NasEllis 4 роки тому +110

    When a 2 month old has a better sleep schedule than you, I need to get my act together bc I'm starting university tomorrow 🤣🤣

    • @boldfaithproductions
      @boldfaithproductions 4 роки тому +1

      Nas Ellis - Faith Channel Well, let’s be honest, 12 hrs would be a little much even for a professional sleeper 😂

    • @NasEllis
      @NasEllis 4 роки тому +1

      @@boldfaithproductions hahah I won't argue there

    • @mindyourbisness9816
      @mindyourbisness9816 4 роки тому

      It's your first year of University?

    • @NasEllis
      @NasEllis 4 роки тому

      @@mindyourbisness9816 yeah

    • @dontliveinfear.7640
      @dontliveinfear.7640 4 роки тому

      Whoooo! Congrats and good luck! Enjoy every moment, it goes by so fast. I’ve just graduated and it feels like just yesterday I was packing for uni.

  • @suzannesparshott3656
    @suzannesparshott3656 3 роки тому +9

    WARNING WARNING WARNING. this does not work for all babies and it is very hard for people when it does work to beleive it doesn't work for others. I followed EVERY rule and unfortunately my baby did not know these rules and it ruined - absolutely ruined the first 6 months. Back in my day it was a book called Babywise. Based on routine cycles of sleep then feed then wake/play repeat. Nate's tip at 6:45 I swear on my life I felt like such a failure because everyone told me this would work but it just wasn't working so one time I let my baby cry it out so long she literally cried from one sleep/feed/wake cycle to the next!!! I am not exagerating. This does not - i reapeat - does not work for all babies. She did not sleep through until 18 months. My baby is now 21 and studying law at university and I still regret what my desperate desire to be a 'good parent' did to us. Rumor has it highly itelligent babies are bad sleepers (but that might be just rumor)

  • @bb199314
    @bb199314 4 роки тому +15

    I'm pregnant with baby #2 so excited to hesr these tips. I have no Idea how I did it but my daughter was sleeping through the night by 2 months old as well. I can't remember what exactly I did I just thank the good Lord.

    • @sheilacampos5246
      @sheilacampos5246 4 роки тому +1

      one thing I remembered doing was not feeding much for the last hours of the evening or before last feeding time. This is huge, I think.

  • @persidetuyishime
    @persidetuyishime 4 роки тому +14

    Not a mum yet....I'm just 20....but I love your family!!!!I always can't wait for your videos!!!!God bless u❤❤❤❤

  • @staceyrogers6125
    @staceyrogers6125 4 роки тому +3

    My son didn't sleep through the night until he was a year old. It was so hard when I had to go back to work because I was falling asleep every afternoon while working with my students. Sleep is golden!

  • @lionoffireministries
    @lionoffireministries 4 роки тому +21

    God is nearer than you think... Even when you can't feel it 🙏😇❤️
    *DRAW NEAR TO GOD AND HE WILL DRAW NEAR TO YOU* 💕
    HIS hope, love, comfort and victory is *HIS PROMISE TO YOU* 😊🙌

    • @kendramac3969
      @kendramac3969 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you I needed to hear this today. God Bless you!✝️🙏🏻✝️

  • @carolcurotto6144
    @carolcurotto6144 4 роки тому +9

    That’s exactly how I got my now four grown daughters to sleep through the night ! Darn it I should have written a book !! Haaaa ! Well I’m glad to know that this vital information is out there and available to all of the young families ! Love to all of you !
    I will say it’s hard when you’re breastfeeding for sure ! Back in the day we called it feeding on demand, which seems like what cluster feeding is ... is that right Sutton ?

  • @hendrikmarie67
    @hendrikmarie67 4 роки тому +7

    crying is a baby's sole way of signalling when he or she is uncomfortable or distressed, adding that being left crying hard is stressful, and continued acute stress sets up a hormonal chain reaction that ultimately stimulates the adrenal glands into releasing the "stress hormone" cortisol. Long continued or oft-repeated crying can produce so much cortisol that it can damage a baby's brain.
    That doesn't mean that a baby should never cry or that parents should worry when she does. All babies cry, some more than others. It's not crying that is bad for babies, but crying that gets no response.
    A baby who is left crying for long enough will eventually stop, but not because he has learnt to go to sleep happily alone, but because he's exhausted and has despaired of getting help.

    • @bellem.8329
      @bellem.8329 4 роки тому +7

      You are absolutely right. Their kids don’t sleep 12 hours because they are content. They sleep 12 hours because they have been trained that no one will come when they cry and have a need for something. That makes me sick. It’s like the babies in orphanages where there aren’t enough people to care for them. It’s proven that those babies develop lifelong detachment issues. It’s been proven even in monkeys! Nate and Sutton have done that so THEY can get 8 hours of sleep and still have time to do UA-cam videos to make money. Or rather, Nate said this is how we will do it and Sutton goes along because he’s Biblical “head of the household.” He’s really just a control freak.

  • @amybrock1701
    @amybrock1701 4 роки тому +17

    We got our 4 kids (now all over 18) and 8 foster babies to sleep through the night by 2 months (or sooner!) with similar methods...although there are/were a few things that I did differently. My primary method is, feed them every 3 hours, even if you have to wake them up (during the day only) or let them cry, hold them, etc to stretch them to 3 hours. For night-time feedings, I tried to keep it as quiet as possible, no lights, play or talking, just feed them, change them and back into bed with the least amount of stimulus as possible. We have our 9th foster baby in our care right now. He's just 5 weeks old and slept 7 hours the other night.

    • @Dunamisball
      @Dunamisball 4 роки тому

      Wow that is impressive parent to have that have that many children

    • @PumpkinMozie
      @PumpkinMozie 2 роки тому +1

      Does it really count as sleeping through the night if you still have to get up to feed them every three hours? Idk I don’t count that. It only counts if I get to sleep too.

    • @amybrock1701
      @amybrock1701 2 роки тому

      @@PumpkinMozie I only wake them up in the daytime to feed them.

    • @amybrock1701
      @amybrock1701 2 роки тому +1

      @@Dunamisball 8 (now 9!) were foster babies....and I only had one at a time.

    • @Dunamisball
      @Dunamisball 2 роки тому

      @@amybrock1701 Prayers for you, it's families like yours that enrich our world

  • @goinghome1191
    @goinghome1191 4 роки тому +10

    That baby is a cutie! God bless you both!

  • @madles47
    @madles47 4 роки тому +17

    I have 4 kids, the first 2 slept amazing then.... the 3rd 😳 sleeping babies can be just luck. I thought I knew everything🤣 the good news is routines work and eventually they do sleep, but dont fret if you have 1 that doesnt sleep right away, just survive😊

    • @mixedmetaphorMeg
      @mixedmetaphorMeg 4 роки тому +2

      Yes! My current baby sleeps well and is very chill and easy for me, but it's just luck. I'm not a better mom than anyone who's baby crys more or sleep less easily

  • @thejonesfamily6216
    @thejonesfamily6216 4 роки тому +34

    YES! I’m due in January and need all the advice!!

    • @thejonesfamily6216
      @thejonesfamily6216 4 роки тому +1

      Abigail Betts thank you!!!

    • @DaninaPetroskova
      @DaninaPetroskova 4 роки тому +1

      Me too. Due in january. It is not my first baby, but i need advice too.

    • @saraanne9127
      @saraanne9127 4 роки тому +2

      Look into Learntherisk.org and isla grace sleep!

    • @kendramac3969
      @kendramac3969 4 роки тому +2

      Awe❤️ God bless your cute baby! Good luck and I hope everything goes well!

  • @jillevans7059
    @jillevans7059 4 роки тому +6

    my daughter’s going through the 4 month sleep regression so my once wonderful sleeper is now waking up multiple times per night and i am falling apart!! great timing! thank you for this

  • @christiancelticwarrior1222
    @christiancelticwarrior1222 3 роки тому +1

    Your Children are Blessed to have such lovely God fearing parents 🙏🏻

  • @TheVintageBumbleBee
    @TheVintageBumbleBee 4 роки тому +31

    But when my baby is crying, there could be a tarantula on their face ! #mymotherbrain 😂😂

  • @elizabethodom3247
    @elizabethodom3247 4 роки тому +29

    My first two kids were “easy” and easy going and I thought I had it all figured out.....then came #3. 🤣🤣 just warning you to watch out because not all babies take to “training” or “schedules”

    • @emmylove9912
      @emmylove9912 4 роки тому +4

      I unfortunately had four children who never slept through the night no matter what we did. Oh well!

  • @taraleasure
    @taraleasure 2 роки тому +3

    I've been watching y'alls channel since you started and have been so blessed by your content. I'm 18 weeks with our first baby, and my husband and I joke about how little sleep we're going to get. But listening to people like y'all, I know it's possible to get our baby to sleep through the night after some training. Thank you for sharing this!!

  • @eniolafujah
    @eniolafujah 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much for this advice. Sutton is looking stunning

  • @AS-ju6xk
    @AS-ju6xk 4 роки тому +7

    I pray that God blesses me with a husband and child someday❤ it seriously warms my heart to know that those two little boys are so loved,safe, and happy and have the best start to life possible thanks to having awesome parents who are obedient to God 😁

  • @cardiac711
    @cardiac711 4 роки тому +1

    That is so good for you all. I thonk the hardest challeng for new parents is loss of sleep.
    Being completely transparent, I have ZERO children. However, I have been babysitting since I was 8/9/10. My oldest nephew is 5 years younger than me. I've known since I was 10 yrs old I didn't want kids. The Lord allowed me to teach preschool (2yr. to 5yrs) for 8 yrs and do VBS with a variety of age groups(primary ages mostly) which reaffirmed my desire not to have kids. Love love love them, but they are not for me.
    I completely agree with getting a routine, routine, routine and being consistent. You all are so right about allowing them to cry for few moments. My cousins weren't fans of that technique, so they didn't use my services often 😁.

  • @hallieflores4902
    @hallieflores4902 4 роки тому +12

    My husband and I think Halston looks exactly like Sutton 😍 Oakley looks like Nate

    • @kendramac3969
      @kendramac3969 4 роки тому +1

      Yes me to! They are both beautiful kids. God Bless.✝️🙏🏻✝️

  • @adamstraka2449
    @adamstraka2449 4 роки тому +8

    Nate and Sutton,
    Really appreciate your candidness. My wife and I will be having our first baby in November and hearing your advice brings tremendous peace.
    Looking forward to your future videos.
    Psalm 127:3

    • @emulove777
      @emulove777 4 роки тому

      Congratulations 🎉God bless 🙌😃

    • @amayajazlynn6696
      @amayajazlynn6696 3 роки тому

      Have you had your baby yet? How is your wife?

    • @adamstraka2449
      @adamstraka2449 3 роки тому +1

      Baby was born early! He said it was time to see the world... him and my wife are doing very well. Thank you.

  • @giselleali1979
    @giselleali1979 2 роки тому

    My daughter is 8 years old and has severe autism, so routines are a must have in my home. I am currently 37 weeks pregnant with my second child and will continue routines for my nerotypical son as well. In my experience, kids strive much better with routines. I am not sure about letting my baby cry for long periods though, but thats only in my home because it would be a nightmare with a baby crying and disturbing a young child with severe autism. But like I said that would only be for my home, but I do agree with allowing the baby to fall asleep on their own and self soothing. Looking forward to doing it all again and congratulations to all the expecting moms ❤

  • @stevieleegorostiza335
    @stevieleegorostiza335 4 роки тому

    I’m only 16 and I don’t plan on having kids till I’m married but I still love watching these videos I love you guys❤️❤️

  • @hollywood7702
    @hollywood7702 4 роки тому +1

    When my brother slept through the night,10 hours and more all mom's friends said, you just wait untill you get nr 2. When I was born 6 weeks early, I was a small baby. But I LOVED to sleep, mom's doctor had me on a feed every three or four hours at night to gain weight, but I fiercely demanded to be left alone and sleep. Mom let me as she felt like I need quality sleep more than the feeds I responded so much better that way. Waking me up all the time made so angry and grumpy and I refused to eat. She was scared to admit to my doctor that I didnt eat at night and only slept so she didnt tell. I gained so much weight she never needed to tell either. I slept even more than my brother and I could be down from 7pm to 8 am. Both me and my brother are still heavy sleepers, so is my dad. Long story short, so even if I was a tiny baby I responded so well to full stretches of sleep I gained energy that way to eat and be content in the day. I was chunky in no time at all.

  • @roseangeliefigueroa6843
    @roseangeliefigueroa6843 4 роки тому +4

    1:42 “Oh my Gosh”😂😂 I can’t

  • @JaleiaChristine
    @JaleiaChristine 3 місяці тому

    Hi Nate and Sutton! I’m re-watching this years later after having a baby of my own. After having more kids, do you still find these tips to be useful in your life and have you found new ways to help your kids sleep? Thanks in advance!❤️

  • @OneOfADozen
    @OneOfADozen 4 роки тому +5

    Baby #9 slept through at 6 weeks. Baby #10, still waiting 2 years later 😩

  • @laurajoiner1684
    @laurajoiner1684 4 роки тому +1

    I recently found out I’m pregnant! First time 🥰 thank you for this video! I will watch all your baby advice videos if you make them! Lol this was super helpful❤️

  • @bellem.8329
    @bellem.8329 4 роки тому +2

    Notice how Nate says at the very beginning, “Ok, we’re rollin.” His face is normal, then he slaps on that fake toothy smile for filming. It’s like a light switch being turned on.

    • @bellem.8329
      @bellem.8329 4 роки тому +1

      Kate They pop up on my recommended because I used to watch them, but now they are just nauseating. Nate is the most phony person on UA-cam. They are entertaining only because they are so far removed from real life that it’s comical. C’mon: attractive virgins meet and marry, have gorgeous kids they raise by a book, live in a beautiful home but have no apparent jobs, they have perfect teeth and perfect lives and perfect babies who sleep for 12 hours every night, he’s all buff, she’s gorgeous and everyone is happy all the time. They are like those so called reality TV shows that are all fake. I’d like to see the real side of them if there is one.

  • @malibuuu0475
    @malibuuu0475 4 роки тому +1

    Omg I just seen y’all on family feud, I love y’all and I was like “that’s the people I watch on UA-cam “😂

  • @uduakstephanieudoh2123
    @uduakstephanieudoh2123 4 роки тому +8

    hey Nate and Sutton,'' can you do a clean my house with me video?'' I want to know what products you guys use to !!! :)

  • @lenafreeze7131
    @lenafreeze7131 4 роки тому +6

    It not like I’m against letting them cry, I wish I didn’t have to but at some point we had to since nothing worked anyway because he was crying even with rocking and anything else we tried....but the title says without crying it out. That’s not very accurate! Even if you go in every 5 mins it’s still is what people mean with cry it out. ( which in my experience just made it worse when you leave). Just kinda a deceiving title!

  • @jam1369
    @jam1369 4 роки тому +2

    This is great! There is a method to everything.

  • @ashleyk6716
    @ashleyk6716 2 роки тому +1

    So you mentioned that you need to wake the baby alot during the day so they aren't napping so much , but you didn't mention how long they need to be awake for or how often during the day they need to be woken up.. that would be helpful to know !

  • @simonaivancic528
    @simonaivancic528 4 роки тому +1

    Actally , very sound minded logical advices...why do people don't just think, but this will help people...he is soo sweet

  • @ezrianasolorzano9523
    @ezrianasolorzano9523 4 роки тому +1

    Just bought the 0-6 mos book on iBooks! I can’t wait to start this journey with my newborn 😌

  • @Kara-lp1cj
    @Kara-lp1cj 4 роки тому +1

    Seeing Halton up close I couldn't help but notice in my opinion he looks more like Nate than Oakland did. Sure Oakland has Nates eye colour and Halton has Suttons however facial features and eye shape even as a baby you can see the similarities and I imagine he'll grow to look more and more like a mini Nate.

  • @elizabethschristianjourney3676
    @elizabethschristianjourney3676 4 роки тому

    I have no children but my nephew is 3 weeks old and all he wanted to do is sleep. My mom said, like y'all said, is you have to make the baby stay awake. I cant wait for my nephew to get old enough to do tommy time, eventhough, awkwardly, he likes to sleep on his side and stomach.

  • @marissaguajardo6451
    @marissaguajardo6451 4 роки тому +2

    I’m only 18 and no where near ready to have a baby lol but I love to listen to tips and tricks about this so I’m definitely going to have to keep this book in mind when it’s that time :)

  • @Emack-wd5em
    @Emack-wd5em 4 роки тому +1

    When he threw up on Sutton I cried laughing

  • @rhg8557
    @rhg8557 3 роки тому +3

    I know, I would tell my friend to stop running to her baby everytime she cried and she was waking up two three times a night and the baby was almost two yrs old already...

  • @sunShynliving
    @sunShynliving 3 роки тому +2

    1:40
    This comment may be late to the party but for what it's worth, burping baby immediately after every feed ( have them on your shoulder and rub or pat their back gently until they give an epic burb) = no throwing up for baby :)
    Your videos are amazing guys, I've introduced them to my teen girl who's already praying for her God written love story...you inspire so many...blessings to you!

  • @Kamismaximus
    @Kamismaximus 4 роки тому +6

    Did you not feed them in the middle of the night when they were only 2 months old?

    • @hollywood7702
      @hollywood7702 4 роки тому +1

      I wasnt and I was even a preemie, I did so well from the recovery I got from sleep and I chunked up like a meatball. My brother also preferred to sleep all night almost from birth and moms relentless tries. Who knows..but mom said we bith got so furiously angry from being woken up we just screamed and refused to eat instead. So she did what came naturally.

    • @Mint-kj9kw
      @Mint-kj9kw 4 роки тому +1

      Babies by 3 mos are capable of getting all their calories in from 7a-7p.

    • @Kamismaximus
      @Kamismaximus 4 роки тому

      Angie Pannkuk but they said by 2 months, 2 months is really young to not eat for 12 hours

    • @Mint-kj9kw
      @Mint-kj9kw 3 роки тому +1

      @@Kamismaximus Not really. Me and my colleagues are newborn care specialists. We work at night so parents can get much needed sleep. A LOT of my colleagues can get babies sleeping thru the night by 8-10 weeks. Bottom line: its just a matter of not introducing any bad sleep habits (rocking, feeding, bouncing to sleep). The main trick is to lay them down awake not asleep for naps and at bedtime so babes learn how to fall asleep all by themselves. Of course, there is also a schedule to follow (5+ feeds during the day). When you do all the above, any babe will naturally sleep the night. Look at chunky Halston. Does he look like he's hungry/starving?

  • @febenblessed2963
    @febenblessed2963 4 роки тому +3

    Great parenting advices

  • @gracekau7908
    @gracekau7908 4 роки тому

    Good old fashioned tips. You guys are doing great job!

  • @majestymelendres840
    @majestymelendres840 3 роки тому

    I supposed to Answer my Module but I saw your vlog again so I've decided to sit aside first my assignments hahahaha.I don't know I really admire your happy family .God bless you and more bleessing and power to your family . Watching From Philippines 🇵🇭🇵🇭💗

  • @TheBug04
    @TheBug04 4 роки тому

    He and Oakland are just the cutest little beans everrrrrrrrrrr

  • @FavourChiebuka
    @FavourChiebuka 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you❤

  • @brookeelisa3003
    @brookeelisa3003 4 роки тому

    WOW pure gold!!

  • @jelennyburrel4819
    @jelennyburrel4819 4 роки тому

    He is looking like Oaklan. God bless him.

  • @poseyrichburg9808
    @poseyrichburg9808 4 роки тому +3

    Love yall

  • @janellee250
    @janellee250 4 роки тому +1

    Halston is adorable

  • @user-yh8kg3bd4o
    @user-yh8kg3bd4o 4 роки тому +9

    me watching this at 15: 👁👄👁

  • @samross1285
    @samross1285 2 роки тому +2

    This advice is really dangerous babes get their hydration by eating, withholding food from them before the "last meal" then not feeding them 12 hours after that is just a recipe for danger. i wouldn't be surprised if this practice doesn't cause long term damage. I wonder how many brain cells get fried when he gets. dehydrated weight charts cant measure brain damage. Haven't you ever heard that if your thirsty its to late. Id like to point out that one of the signs of baby dehydration is oversleeping, another is vomiting. pretty sure this is borderline child abuse. babies are not supposed to sleep thru the night. quit being lazy parenting is hard get over it or hire a nanny.

  • @SallysCuteCrafts
    @SallysCuteCrafts 4 роки тому +1

    My baby is 1 day older than Halston and wakes up once to nurse but my 2 year old wakes up every night at the same time crying and screaming (that is when she wakes up the baby). Pray for us. I think it’s night terrors.

    • @SallysCuteCrafts
      @SallysCuteCrafts 4 роки тому

      Also I cracked up when Nate was saying about cry it out. That’s how my husband thinks lol. Every time I try to let them cry it out and I finally go see what’s wrong the baby and everything is covered is poo 💩 😬

  • @dianaholt9566
    @dianaholt9566 4 роки тому

    Nate and Sutton I love your videos ! My children are all grown now . Please will you pray for me and my family as my Mama is on hospice for Leukemia and Dementia !

  • @LLmitchell
    @LLmitchell 4 роки тому

    I did the same with mi kids, i put them in a schedule and by the 9th week, they were sleeping through the night. its true!!

  • @Sayuki0713
    @Sayuki0713 4 роки тому +1

    Hi, I just wanted to say that I love your videos. I also love my shirt, I hope you guys make a long sleeve version 🤔🤔

  • @hendrikmarie67
    @hendrikmarie67 4 роки тому +10

    Never ignore babies cries, eye contact as much as you can, nurture, cosleep and give without conditions. Wear your baby as much as you can, this is how you will make a strong and empathic human being. All the others methods for disconnected parents without natural parents instincts are crap, and only there for you to spend $$$. No need.

  • @spottieottiedopaliscious1647
    @spottieottiedopaliscious1647 Рік тому +1

    NO JUST NO. Child psychologist of 20 years, Vanessa Lapointe states, “Babies dont self soothe. They cant. They dont have the neurological wiring to do it. The only reason why babies do fall asleep is that they literally become so traumatized of being so alone and frightened that they dissociate and their brains turn off” why would you want to do that to your baby? That early onset trauma can negatively affect their temperament and also prone to personality/psychological-disorders when they become adults. Your poor babies..

  • @laurenmiller2829
    @laurenmiller2829 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you guys sooo much! This is an amazing discovery, and such a blessing

  • @DREAM_LAND9
    @DREAM_LAND9 3 роки тому

    I pray everyone reading this is blessed abundantly try soothing music

  • @Jackie_YG
    @Jackie_YG 4 роки тому

    I'm glad you made this video .. I wanted to ask you to give us tips since I saw your first video with Halston, like why you wear the baby with clothes that are covering & like tying his hands & so (Is that answered in momsoncall?)..Thank you for the tips & resources

  • @agapece9659
    @agapece9659 3 роки тому

    What is that label hanging from Nate's shirt? New shirt? 😁. Happens all the time 😃😂. God bless you guys. 🙏

  • @jacquelinearriaga2137
    @jacquelinearriaga2137 Рік тому +1

    Lmao when he said “let them cry it out for hours on Hours on HOURS” my face was really like “😮” then there I am laughing with y’all afterwards 🤣play too much I like y’all and it’s the first time I come across you guys❤️

  • @WithTheChablals
    @WithTheChablals 3 роки тому

    We don’t have kids yet, but doesn’t hurt to start prepping 😁😄

  • @kagisomokoena209
    @kagisomokoena209 4 роки тому +7

    Sutton you're so beautiful... Halston looks more like you with Nate's eyes

  • @kimb9287
    @kimb9287 4 роки тому +1

    I second the schedule!! Just got my 3 month old on a good nap/wake time schedule and it's great!!! He slept through the night on his own early but we had problems with naps and getting him down for bed. But now with having a schedule he falls asleep without me rocking him! Still some crying but I do the timed interval check ins and all is good.

  • @hannahporret7087
    @hannahporret7087 4 роки тому

    How long did you keep your baby in your room with you, if at all? Did you use a monitor at all and if so how long would you keep one in general?

  • @bobjenkins9079
    @bobjenkins9079 Рік тому

    How long does this usually take? We were feeding our baby every time he woke up (every few hours), then started this and he’s been getting good at soothing himself back to sleep, generally before the timer gets to 5 minutes … with that having been said, he’s still waking up every few hours. When does that end?

  • @cornbabi6670
    @cornbabi6670 Рік тому

    I’ll try those things, my baby wakes up one time a night usually, but we don’t have a routine yet, and she is really fussy so it’s hard

  • @miriaminacio5578
    @miriaminacio5578 5 місяців тому

    You guys said on the title without crying but on the video said letting crying out? So there is a big contraction there.

  • @barbarabavier675
    @barbarabavier675 4 роки тому

    How is a noise machine not stimulating?
    And how do you know, if you're a brand new parent, that they're not crying because something is wrong? How horrible would you feel if something WAS wrong and you DIDN'T go in?

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  4 роки тому +1

      Barbara Bavier we go in every 5, 10, then 15 min. If they stop crying as soon as they see you you know nothing is wrong. If they keep crying, something is!

  • @annifanni23
    @annifanni23 4 роки тому +1

    Halston is soooo cute 🥰

  • @sarahBet271
    @sarahBet271 3 роки тому

    I found for both of my boys, that having first chiropractor adjustment yes even a one week old can have an chiropractor their are specific certified for children chiropractors most chiropractors are though I have found. I did not have any issues with my second which tummy time after 2 months old because that's when sooner the better, my oldest I didn't know till my friend recommended it, he was 4 months old and I got him adjustment because I just did not know what else to do to help him through tummy time and I had struggling breastfeeding found his pallet was affected because of the birth that he had and that was making him unable to get a full latch.

    • @sarahBet271
      @sarahBet271 3 роки тому

      Hope this helpful for someone.

  • @ns4379
    @ns4379 4 роки тому

    He is very precious and cutie pie baby

  • @mycupofcocoa1125
    @mycupofcocoa1125 4 роки тому

    I already got the book because of u guys 4 months ago. How can I let them know u guys brought me there?

  • @murrrrilin
    @murrrrilin 2 роки тому

    Would you ever go in to feed the baby? Or would you just let them cry??

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  2 роки тому +1

      He slept with us the whole time he ate through the night in a bassinet by the bed. We didn’t move him to his own room till he was making it through the night without eating so it made it easier!

  • @ew5601
    @ew5601 4 роки тому

    I’m watching this and not only do I not have kids and am not married or engaged, but I’m also single and a teenager. 🤣 ...

  • @rivd
    @rivd 4 роки тому

    Hi Nate and Sutton, which whitenoise machine can you recommend me or which one do you use?

  • @FindingJoy2023
    @FindingJoy2023 3 роки тому +1

    Our baby is 2 months and can’t get him to sleep 😴

  • @phenomenouskenya6171
    @phenomenouskenya6171 4 роки тому

    I had missed you couples

  • @HannahCooper2
    @HannahCooper2 2 роки тому

    We did this for our first but how do you let a baby cry it out when you have another one in the next room sleeping 😭 that’s what I’m struggling with since I obviously don’t wanna wake my toddler up

  • @orierodriguez8552
    @orierodriguez8552 4 роки тому +2

    Hi baby you’re so cute 🥰♥️🥰

  • @ChelbyeDagley
    @ChelbyeDagley 4 роки тому +1

    I have a little boy named Oaklan too! 💙

  • @val_14k
    @val_14k 4 роки тому

    Watching for future application. 😃💯

    • @val_14k
      @val_14k 4 роки тому

      @Hillary Thai Right. 😂 🙂🙂

  • @lindachirungwa5894
    @lindachirungwa5894 4 роки тому +1

    I don’t have any kids, not even a husband (yet) 😂. But I’m wondering , can you get these books in South Africa 🇿🇦?

  • @bellem.8329
    @bellem.8329 4 роки тому +14

    If you go in when they cry, don’t make eye contact? You are so wrapped up in controlling your babies that you’ve forgotten to let them be babies. It’s such a short, sweet time. Why not just relax and enjoy it? They will all get on a sleep schedule eventually. Why does it have to be at two months of age? Oh, yeah, that’s for YOUR convenience.

    • @MrHendrik0000
      @MrHendrik0000 4 роки тому +7

      completely right. thanks, not making eye contact is a veryyyyyy old way to raise babies, was proved to be harmful and bad years ago already...this time goes way too fast, enjoy your baby the much you can, this will be over before you blink your eyes...bad advices from this couple.

    • @allisonhunter1356
      @allisonhunter1356 4 роки тому

      y’all are crazy

    • @picard9169
      @picard9169 Рік тому +1

      Why all the hate lol

  • @emilybrookeee
    @emilybrookeee 4 роки тому

    When do you suggest moving a baby to the crib in the nursery?? I’m due soon and LOVE this video. Thanks so much!

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  4 роки тому +1

      Emily Reece def think this is personal preference! The book kinda makes it sound like you start them there but we started both boys in our room (WAY easier to wake up for night feedings with them right there) and then transitioned once the feedings were a lot less. We moved them both when they were making it till at least 5am on their own which for us was around 1.5-2 months!

    • @nanaronhano337
      @nanaronhano337 4 роки тому

      I moved my first to her room (right next to ours) at 2 months because she and I slept better that way! I’m due with my second in March. Congrats! You’ll be fine.

  • @bellem.8329
    @bellem.8329 4 роки тому +3

    He says never go in there when the baby cries, even if they are one day old...let them cry it out for hours and hours. That’s just sick. Babies don’t cry for hours unless they need something and that something might just be you! Do not listen to that man. Plus if your baby cries for hours they are going to get a tummy full of gas and cry even more! I bet Sutton has cried a million mommy tears having to do things his way.

    • @bellem.8329
      @bellem.8329 4 роки тому

      Kate , then he needs to stop joking. It’s not funny.

  • @mikaylalewis8674
    @mikaylalewis8674 4 роки тому +2

    Hey baby!!🥰🥰