The Main Problem With Dating Single Mothers
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Never continue another man’s saved game
This comment fasho wins!!!
On bro
W Comment. True as hell.
Classic 🤣
Niggaa said the game was on autosave 😂😂😂😂
Forget that. I refuse to settle. 37, no kids, 130k a yr.
Keep stacking G.
Get your passport and fly like an 🦅 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Keep moving at your pace 👍🏾👍🏾
Can I get your number?
Just kidding guys relax lmaooo
You ain't lying about the gyms, it's rare to see black women and I'm there literally every single day 🤦🏾♂️ SMH
Thats a fact all i see is white women, and asians in the gym
@3rd Way 😂😂😂
They get fat call it thicc
It’s the same thing in my neighborhood I mostly see white women working out in the parks
Yup even in the service on base gyms you rarely see them and if you do all they do is walk on treadmill and scope out dck… unless she was a prior/current athlete… you will find a few every now and then.
Black men don't settle you deserve much better.
All men*
👁 agree. Not just black men but All men. we are all brothers battling against these we*ched feminists. 💪🏾💪🏽💪🏻💪
@@Layinsebas they make the babies 👶🏿 it’s not our responsibility
Settling is for simps
@@laflaregodsosa9956 literally all men❤️
“Black men are expected to have lower standards than any other race of men. I still havnt seen a white version of Lizzo”
Oh….my…..god
You mean white version of lizzo.
@@deanogordon2819 thanks bra
@@deanogordon2819 boy you always running your mouth
@@josephpullium5026 Yeah g 💯
@@darnellwilliams8783 your mouth needs mouthwash because I can smell it through my phone.
I dated a single mom for a year and 9 months. She was hot and the sex was great. But you will always come second and have all the responsibility but no authority
I fucked in a first week lol but um I left cause she want me to be step daddy and I was line thats kinda weird to me so I pushed her away
Major facts. I even married a woman like this back in my simping days and I soon found out that I would always came second. Even after marriage. It’s simply not the move.
yea same here bro. about the same amount of time too. it really sucks but it is what it is.
I regret dating her honestly. It wasn't worth it
The sex was good tho I ain't gone cap
@@bigharp0949 hope you are leaving your lesson
Dating a single mother is like paying top money for a used car on high mileage. 😂What kind of man in their right mind would put up with that?
Nope not really if it's a classic Car you gonna want it because if the look its reliable one of the kind . New cats today don't last long
@@darnellwilliams8783 zzzzz
Lmao this video funny asf but real
It's hard to get a new car though. Biden got them floating on the on ships in the pacific ocean right now lol.
@@MegaCityOne literally😂❤️
Imagine having all the responsibility of another man’s kid and none of that effort going to extending your own seed/name. It’s like doing someone else’s project and they get the all the credit except the project is the kid and the someone else is some guy who decided they wasn’t gonna deal with the women you’re choosing to take on. Avoid it at all cost fellas. Stay focused gang!
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😂
As a man, you are the problem solver. If you're dating a woman who has kids and she needs a babysitter, you're supposed to use your network and get them kids watched. Not to say that that is your job, but there is a solution for any obstacle, and a man's real value comes about in how he solves problems. Women can sleep with any ol' tom dick or harry, but why should she choose you? Because you add value to her life, why would you choose her? Because you want the watery guts, so you'll be her problem solver; if she wants solutions to her problems, that is, and sometimes you can't help a b! tch but let's not sit up here like dating women with kids is this impossible task.
@@b3at2
WRONG. She already gave the guys to a guy that didn’t solve anything. There’s no such thing as brownie points. If your pandering for a woman’s approval, you have already lost and are nothing more than a utility to her
@@chemerejohnson668 LMAO
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
This has been read to you from the book of Alphas 1:1-15
BEST ALPHA MALE COMNANDMENTS IVE EVER SEEN!!
💯my G
@@Babycam08 thanks brother 💪
@@bigharp0949 💪😤
He's on point about the gym. My gym has ZERO Black women. A few brothers, 90% white women. The crazy part is, now the women were all in the yoga classes. Now, they are taking over the weighted area.
Facts bro I can relate to that accountable we stay on our grind I was in the Gym alot after my girlfriend left me I'm still I'm heard so man sistas say I don't wanna get my hair wet .no such thing as thick simply overweight
@@malikwilson7387
I remember a few years back, a few of them came in. I smiled as they walked by, not cause I wanted them. It was just good to see some black women in the gym. They didn't even acknowledge me. The women at my gym, ALWAYS come say hi and chop it up. (White women) Hell, more than half of them are married. I'm 6' 6" 245 and ripped 53 years old. I get hit on by the younger generation. Told one chick, you don't want to come to the dark side. I'm trying to save you. What do you mean? You saw what happened to Anakin Skywalker. You know that didn't turn out well.
Black women wanna take the easy way and get BBL’s no joke
Thats because alot of black women dont work out
That's why they go and get their bodies done. Lazy
This is the cold truth. I’ve dated mothers with kids back in my simpin days, nothing productive comes with being a step dad, NOTHING! Don’t waste your younger years trying to raise another dudes progeny. Get knowledge, health n wealth instead.
It's not my job anyways.
Yes sahhh 💪
The problem is, when you have 2 kids like myself, most women won’t date me because of that. The ones that don’t mind, are of course the ones that have kids already. So I’m in a weird spot right now.
@@solodolo_mma3971 you right that's the world we live in today. I'm right with ya . 💯
💯 my G as long as you got rid of the simp ways and became cold 🥶 thank you for giving us youngins game
*im a baby father and I approve of this message💯💯*
Straight up. I tell all my friends without kids to never date a single mother, leave them to me because i have kids. I told them if I ever see them dating a single mother that I'm going to slap the ish out of them.
Same. I could hit whenever I please.
Same here
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Real rap, I got 2. We always have access to it ESPECIALLY if she was attached and you handling your business with the kids! Im a living witness in testimony 💯💯💯
Say No to single mothers fellas... you are worth more then raising another mans child... level up fellas!!!!
My friend is abt to smash and dash a single mother💀bro been living his best life since his photography business has been going up
@@sweeptime8225 shout out to him.... smashed them and keep it moving!!
Yes lord
Make single mother’s bust, eat the fruit snacks, put 20$ on the table for lil jimmy and dip off back to yo purpose. Nvr take them seriously. That’s baby daddies responsibility and if he don’t wanna do it it’s a reason why and ima follow in his foot steps 🙏🏾🙏🏾😎
I take every woman I'm romantically involved with seriously abs what if the father left smh this is why woman want a mature man who knows what he wants ok little bro
@@darnellwilliams8783 “mature” men don’t make them bust bro. they make them happy 😃 I’m not here to make no one happy. I’m here to makem BUUUH. they finna BUUUH
@@Layinsebas on God!! 😂🤣
@@darnellwilliams8783 mature man taking care of someone else’s kid, there are plenty of women without kids out there bruv
@@mrj_onsong exactly they just want your support…. They’re main concern is their kids (Money)
I recently broke up with my gf. She's a single mom of a six year old girl. The relationship lasted 7 months. It was time for me to leave, cause a lot of things were unhealthy for me. The amount of attention I got (very limited), the dramas with the little girl (I got tinnitus for five days after she once screamed in the car for like 20 minutes), the baby daddy issues,...
Let me tell you guys.
Don't
Even
Think
About
It...
There was so much headache. But I don't regret it in the first place. I learned my lessons the hard way. And now.. off to better things!! 😎
Church brother. Amen.
That’s mean you dodget a bullet especially if she not stable enough for herself
You got what ohh no
What’s wrong with you? Leave baby mommas alone, especially if you’re a childless man.
@@JSmith00like shit
I was broke asf taking care of another mans kids and his baby mama. We separated and I’m on my grind. Would never be a step parent ever again
It’s good you finally woke up my G 💯 now you have the time to chase your purpose and build a better life for yourself 🔥 stay on the grind these 304’s gonna see that and want you like crazy 🥶 Stay cold king 👑
Sadly enough smh pmv
Better late than never you got off lucky
Good shit bro. I wish I coulda done the same but I’m having a kid wit her now so I’m stuck
Steph done changed my life bro no cap.
💯x💯
💯 As men we must continue getting colder 🥶🌍
The hispanic community is coming up strong with single moms. This shit is getting universal the personalities, the entitlement ect ect.
My ex is latina
Are u dark
@@jimmyballer192 can you elaborate on that question a little more?
It’s cuzz Mexican chicks are starting to hang around black chicks now and also following that liberation crap. go South American or Caribbean Latinos if you want something decent in the Hispanic culture.
@@Layinsebas even paisas are getting like this.. The ones with no papers their agenda is to lock down with someone who gets paid alot in construction so they can stay at the house make his lonche have his clothes ready but sleep in after he leaves then wake up do some bullshit cleaning and shop at target and make his ass take them to pluckers for wings 💀
once she's inprinted her baby father will always have access to her guts 💯 that's why u should talk to chick's that don't have any kids 💯 if she's a single mother's you should move on with your life and never play stepdad role to kids that's not yours 💯 always spot the red flags before it too late 💯 never listen to what these chick's say only pay attention to their actions 💯
I agree because single mothers are always having sex on and off with their baby daddy!!
@@QueenMspeaks Once she's inprinted he will have access to her guts at anytime 💯
Got a single mother flirting with me and playing with sexual tension to only not smash me at the end.
I ignored the red flags cause I wanted to smash so bad.
Never again.
I was raised by two amazing men my biological father and my step dad❤️. Be a Man at all times🙌🏾
@@chemerejohnson668 if that's your definition of a man then you don't belong here.
It’s never black women in the gym. I’ll never let a single woman with a kid or kids make me feel like she’s the prize. And I’m the one with no kids 🤔🤔
Bruh on god
REAL TALK!!!
I see what u saying but having kids aint the worst thing in the world
Fr my G as men we gotta know our worth 💯
@@jeviasgodasmywitness6753 true! It depends on the woman
If you're gonna deal with single mothers, have your fun, strap up and move on when the ride is over. She belongs to another man, her baby daddy. He can come scoop her up WHENEVER HE FEELS LIKE IT. Like Dr. B.O.A says, "Get IN, Get OFF and GET OUT. It's not worth it.
I'm watching my son go through this,,I sense something isn't right.....I even overheard a conversation "jokingly"🤔about him not having a choice to leave the relationship......she is in his home,not the other way around🧐 unfortunately he allowed himself to get her pregnant with his child,,and I think she might possibly be trying to screw him over......she's been saying she is on birth control,but yet just recently a pregnancy test was found lying around in the house..🤔I honestly think the same thing.,that she may possibly leave him and get back with her X,,if it is even her X🤥..the whole house is chaos,the other dudes child gets 0 discipline,so he is out of control,the house is a disaster,then had the nerve to add pets🐕🐈 to the mix even when he said he didn't want any,it's like he is letting her run all over top of him,,all that drama, for my son to take care of👶👶🐈🐕🤰....he isn't allowed to yell at the dudes son or correct him in anyway,,so he just tears up the whole house,,the house looks like garbage,,he gonna wind up kicked out or something....🤦smh,,,and unfortunately my current circumstances causea me to live up under all this drama.....I can just smell the set up😠and my son is too blind to see it....I feel like she is lying about everything...I tried mentioning the that I found the test lying around,and she just tells him that she is just paranoid.... obviously he is in denial and doesn't want to think something is up with that behavior....I just hope I get out of this situation soon,so I can move before I get accused of shyt gone wrong🙄.....
@@trippylong8580 Damn...sorry to hear that. I was almost put in the same situation your son is in. I was moving reckless fooling around with a single mother that said she was "in love" with me smh. Even tatted my name on her back. She let the child run wild and anytime I tried to correct him, she would argue with me. Got to the point where she started demanding more from me than the father of her child. Come to find out she was screwing the baby daddy the whole time she was with me. He got all the pleasure while I got all the pain. That was the wake up call I needed and I left that situation telling myself "Never again". Stay strong and you'll get out of that situation. Your son will eventually wake up and see what's really going on. That chick will show him her true colors.
@@GrayFebruary That’s not true Sir. There’s no way in hell, my child’s father can sleep with me. There are plenty of us women who are not with our child’s father.
@@andreamontgomery8019 me was dating a single mom time ago when she was with me she always call her baby father laugh together so I left since then
The big problem is that they all have kids, there's so many single moms even in their early 20's
Don’t save her lol
Facts
Gotta move or get in different circles
@@T3hSandman It's the same all over the Western world bro. And I am my own circle
The percentage has risen
That imprint on a baby mama is powerful, After seeing all my potnas still have access to their BMs while they in other relationships I knew thats something I’ll always be cautious to get involved with.
Smh
Don’t get yourself involved in that just leave it alone totally just be by yourself at the end of the she will be going back to her baby dad not even worth it
Same bro. And the shit is to factual actually having a BM myself. Was beating it up for two years straight after we broke up. The imprint is real
It’s mind blowing to see how single mothers have a lot of expectations in the dating market, when they allowed themselves to get knocked up by these low life fools and want another man who’s in their purpose to clean up the mess that chad left behind. Smdh. I’m glad these videos are brought to the public eye, both tommy and steph spoke nothing but the truth here.
Who is tommy
@@andre2090 tommy sotomayor
Facts pookie and ray ray get them young and fresh then they want men like us to take care of their kids
Nah we need to leave single mothers alone completely. Totally as a whole. Entertaining them will only make the problems persist.
On point ❗️
There is not a single black girl in my gym... Thats crazy i never thought of that. There are high school girls, milfs, etc. All either white or hispanic or asian in my area.. Wow. Blk girls in middle school used to clown me, when i got to high school and moved to a mixed school the jokes ended and i made good ass friends till this day. Smh i always wondered why..
That's why they're at the bottom of the dating pool. The non-blacks are improving themselves in the gym and getting with decent black men while our women wouldn't even do any of what the non-blacks are doing. They don't like us, they liked our resources and they don't even show up at the gym.
@@deanogordon2819 thats facts king🔥. And they will forever continue to complain and not improve..
@@DisdainXP exactly. We live in a world full of complainers and not doers. So if people want good results all they had to do is put in the effort to be better
@@DisdainXP lol not you stereotyping..
Dated a single mom with two teens but didn’t work. Not ‘cause the kids, they were good kids it was the dad always showing up and then she yelled at him to stop showing up and that I was more of a man than him and I was bigger and lasted longer. I walked out on her after she did dude dirty like that, he wasn’t a bad father he just wanted to make sure his kids were good and even told me he appreciated the fact that I knew my place. She was extremely toxic and he left her for that, I’m glad I left and even had to change jobs and number so she wouldn’t look for me. Finally a restraining order worked, fellas ain’t worth it. Just work on you purpose and stack your money these females ain’t worth it.
Men we understand this but women don’t 🤦🏾♂️
Man thats fked up. I would also walk out on a bch that wants to humiliate her past partners like that. Good choice
Respect for showing her their Father respect. Most guys would would feel threatened. You made right choice to leave
Real talk
Glad you walked out.
It’s like playing a game for the first time on someone else’s save data
This hit home
Fr it’s literally just like playing on another man saved 2k files🤦♂️
@@francisdelng8928 fax
I swear every time I get done watching your videos I just take a deep breath and think of how many facts you just said. I’m literally looking at the world a lot differently now.
Keep on preaching young man a lot of people can't handle the truth. I'm from the Mil-town , keep on pushing 💯
Yessir this is valuable information us Youngins/Men need 💯
I can’t do nothing with a single mother but Beat that’s it
💯 I’m here for one thing and that’s to get in her guts and make her buhh. Soon as she ask for a relationship I’m out the door 🚪 No men should settle for a chick with kids)
@@mzzsoldier25yearsago65
If that man has kids himself, then what?
@@rgw1380rw gotta at least be an equal amount of kids.
@@tenderyoungin3379 I'm not fully understanding your comment, fam.
@@rgw1380rw if you have one kid you date someone with one or no kids.
I love you bro 🖤This was good show tonite you helped me get on my grind and stop over sexualizing women and putting them ona pedestal. Now i make a woman work for my love and protection and provision💯
Bro since indulging in Red Pill content I notice that those things that I would tolerate as a simp I don’t anymore g. I find that I am vigilant and observant of the behavior and the attitude of females around me from mother, to girl friends, girl group members etc. I find that when these women try to dominate me, I put them in their place and they have to move from being dominant and aggressive to submissive. Even my stepmother, since I started checking her ass regular, she even respect me more than my father. Now when I’m talking she don’t over talk me but listens keenly. However with my dad she treats him like a bitch. The fact that he doesn’t see it and accepts this shit is so weird but idc tbh. But overall, the red pill makes you see the red flags from the get go, and highlights them to the person displaying them without giving a fuck bro. Thank you🙏💯
Good for you sir 👏 🙏 🙌 👍 👌
Damn. Sound like my brother and his fiancé. She tried getting smart w me before a few years back like i was still a 19 year old or something i put her in her place. Unfortunately my brother is extremely beta and does what he thinks his girl likes and she treats him like sht and controls him, she respects me more than her own fiancé!
Love my brother but when family shows itself for what it is you can’t ignore the truth
@@mrclapz1488 yes bro exactly. Because women generally want to be dominated, they don’t want to be the one wearing pants 💯
Thats how it’s suppose to be my G 🔥 stay cold and don’t let any female try to play the dominate role 💯🥶
Sensational video! THANK YOU I THOUGHT I WAS TRIPPING FOR A LONG TIME
Keep up the long videos steph. The full episodes go crazy. 🥶
Facts my G + he ended the video with the Stephiscold beat 🥶 this video refilled my coldness 💯 on my grind and not chasing no 304’s
I’m so glad I don’t feel by myself on this one. This was gold
You’re not alone my G 💯
So many men, whose fathers deliberately abandoned them, would not be who they are today if it wasn't for the step father that stepped up to the plate. No one is forcing anyone to help raise another man's kids, but understand that not all men see it as a burden. Specifically, it's the 16.5 million step fathers in the U.S. currently as we speak.
It’s not healthy to sleep around with multiple men.
Get a husband and have all your kids by him
@@naija395 Every man doesn't believe in signing that business contract, my friend. Marriage doesn't make a relationship run smoothly at all. I've know players or abusive guys that are in fact married, plus I've known guys that have multiple kids with their long time girlfriend that they lived with for over 20 years that don't believe marriage is the key to a happy life.
@@rgw1380rw biblical marriage doesn’t require a contract
Simps
They already made the single mother buhhhh
Facts my G 😂 I’m only here to make her buhhh then I’m out to chase my purpose 💯
You gotta get colder.
I’m proud of these young brothers waking up
NICE SERMON BY PASTOR STEPH!!!!! 😭😭😭🙌
My cousin’s best friend and teammate from college had got killed by his girlfriend’s baby daddy . What’s crazy is that the dude wasn’t even around until he got with her. I’m cool on the single mothers
Never be afraid of single mothers alotta dudes makes videos and say shit like this because they try to use a baby to lock a female down only to get put on child support while other men a fucking their girl
What????
@@sueme8170 I was saying dudes make videos like this because they try to lock a female down by getting her pregnant then when they end up on child support and other men ended fucking her they come up with dumb shit like “baby daddy can always get her” it means absolutely nothing they no ability to stop her from fucking other men
@GTR1nissan I think you STILL missing the whole point of the message bro.....the true point is that EVEN IF another guy is smashing the baby mom, the biological father CAN STILL ALWAYS get in the sweet watery guts just like the other guys. She'll low key cheat on the other guys who smashing here and there and go BACK with the baby dad ANYWAY! Baby mom wanna smash the step-dad AND the real dad (but she'll always let real dad hit MORE OFTEN) Blood 🩸 daddy gonna ALWAYS have access to that 🐱. My mama 70 and I'm 32. My mama STILL miss my daddy and they haven't been together in over 20 years fam no cap
@GTR1nissan think I'm lying bro? Prime example, right? I know a chick who already had a kid by a dude, claimed "he ain't shit, this and that, blah, blah, blah," right? Nigga she STILL ended up having ANOTHER KID by the same guy KNOWING he ain't shit even tho I gave her a booty massage and cut her grass 🤷🏾♂️😅 (I realize a booty massage ain't got the same power as the 🍆 but you get the point right?)
🙏 I hope you don't get canceled cause you speak the truth all facts no other youtubers dating coach etc.can even come close to your CONTENT your the best your up there with KEVIN SAMUELS PROTECT STEPH AT ALL COST keep putting out these videos don't EVER STOP I've watched every video you ever put out love you steph you the best
You’re speaking straight facts. I stay in the gym, stay trynna better myself. No ring no baby for me
The only thing close to lizzo the white people had were adele and rebel wilson. Now when they lost weight all the fat people were upset about it. Adele looks like a supermodel rn and she made a very good choice
Tess Holliday.
Keep focusing on your purpose fellas. Love, from Texas
Be careful out there. The red states have some of the worst family court laws out there.
@@ulquiorra3104 well said !
Thank you for this video StephIsCold.
There's nothing like looking at a woman that you care deeply about while she hits every single Red Flag that you mentioned ... and you're trying to figure out how to gracefully exit the relationship (hint: you can't).
Totally agree
You can exit the relationship but you have to already have a exit plan. I'm in this situation now and it's the biggest mistake in my life.
@@tmac5503 Same man. It lead to a fucking catastrophe for me because she is my direct neighbor. She cheated on me and returned to her ex after 2 months. Highly entitled and narcisstic trick she is. She got 3 kids, 14, 16 and 18. Oh yeah what a mess i know plus she is 44.
You're just killing it content is gold "G"
Great vid! I dated a single mom and by far its the absolute worst thing I've ever done!! Especially that she had kids at a young age so she didn't go thru her "party" stage, now all of a sudden she wants to do everything she didn't do in her 20's....I'm out!
It’s so sad though real talk
What Steph said about the gym is true. I see all kinds of races of women being well represented and Black women are the lesser. I workout at my school gym and another gym. These other races of women are not playing around. They getting those bodies 💯
Facts my G 💯 that’s because they know their community doesn’t allow that type of Bs ‼️ Men of other races respect themselves. Thats how every man should be
@@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 Lmao what?? The average American is overweight, and there are more white and Hispanic people in this country than Black people. So where is your logic of their community standards on weight coming from?
@@aminaconteh1760 this. He literally makes no sense.
@@knelson0908 Lmao forreal. They just be talking out their behind sometimes
@@aminaconteh1760 Those other races also tend to carry their weight differently in many cases. Since I live next to a city park in NYC, I see plenty so called Black women out there working out.
I myself prefer the more shapely plus sized women that aren't exactly that bad on the eyes. Most slim or skinny women haven't been something I've found to be my cup of tea. I like them well distributed or pear shaped.
Speaking facts brodie 💪🏾
I'm glad you hit on this topic brotha
I just did the coldest shit of my life. I just broke up with my single mom ex girlfriend after a year. I loved her, but I couldn’t grow with her. She didn’t want to have any of my kids and I felt like a cuck. I honestly felt like dating a single mom is for men with no chest/muscles. It didn’t make it better that I saw white men walking with their woman and kids following. She grew up wit a step dad and he died without having a son. I started talking to a younger girl wit no kids and broke up with the single mom. I had no choice. I want my own son. Not another mans seed.
I’m going through this now my g. Been dating a single mother for a year and half finna break up with her.
@@Man_of_god91 she will get her krama one way if she not taking responsbility for her life
How you gonna grow if you don’t see eye to eye
Seems like woman dont know what self improvement means
@@jayt5346 I am on my self improvement everyday that not true about all about woman there are woman are trying to make it like myself
U dodge a bullet
Most single mothers I've known already know ain't no man trying to get in a relationship with them. Self-consciously, they might not be happy with the way things go down when a man comes around but they still gna be down for whatever at the end of the night. Most men are gna knock it down too.
Doesn't seem like settling down is thing anymore these days.
Facts my G ‼️ I’m only with them for 1 reason and that’s to buhh after that I’m onto my purpose searching for better because as a man I cannot settle for a chick who let Ricky and rayray buhh, and all they did was fake her to McDonald’s.
@@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 Those types aren't always the father of every single mother's children though.
@@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 lol trust me and when they meet a new man they want the whole world they wanna travel they wanna do this but you were with a man before you should do that lol
@@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 yeah been there and with you she will act like traditional woman 😂
It’s a mindset dropping nothing but gems 💎
Facts steph, stay cold 🥶💯
I'm a married black woman with 3 kids by my husband. I agree with everything he's saying!! I didn't always make the wisest choices with men in my younger days. If I would've heard this in my 20's, I definitely would've made some better choices.
Dreams money can buy playing in the background? This gonna be a good one!
Yessir we call that the Stephiscold anthem 😂💯🥶
The man telling the absolute truth 💯🤦🏾
Respect this type of content. This right here was exceptional! Keep it up.
This boy Steph dropped at the perfect time, just finished work and bout unwind to some game😈
Same here brother.
Ditto 💯
Facts
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First off, there's walking, talking DNA evidence that you're not her first option. So I don't care who you are, you'll always be secondary in their lives. All the responsibility with 0 authority
Facts my G it doesn’t matter how successful a man is to a chick, she will always find someone better because they never settle🤷♂️ these chicks want men to settle accepting “ fat” out of shape chicks but wouldn’t do the same. As men we have a purpose and that’s what men should be focused on, because these 304’s always gonna be waiting at the finish line for the winners 🏁
On EVERYTHING
Facts
Preeeeeacchh!!!
Remember fellas if the baby daddy ain’t dead or doing life she ain’t gon never quit him my mom broke off her engagement to another man to get back with my father know the situation you getting into
So fa the Bm’s that left the baby daddies you saying they have a chance of getting they Bm back?
@@eurostep2530 yes
@@redpillscience1288 Hope you right
@Steph is Cold!! Do live stream. Answer questions. Go live with your audience. You will only come up even more... I feel we need to get more in-depth about this topic
When you hear “YEWTEWB…WHAT IT DEW” you know it’s about to get real for ya playboi.
That nigga definitely from Baltimore 😂😂💯
Facts my G it’s time to get cold 🥶
@@fatcheeseburger100 Llf he from Milwaukee bruh
Lmaoooooooo
The baby daddies really do weird stuff borderline creepy. I’ve been with some chicks where you can tell the dude literally would try to trap them with the baby for fear of losing them. Be clappin it while watching Netflix and they calling non stop like 100X in a row.
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Or callin for the kids that she plays keep away with….
There is a lot of loser dudes who do that too they finally get with a decent piece of ahh and want to trap them with a kid right away off their insecurity thinking it will always be theirs then a year later they on child support and she back in the streets
I'm from Jamaica and I heard of a story with this 19 year old dude who was with a single mother who is 22 years old and she literally used him. His Aunt even warned him about the single mother. He even bought the single mother a stove for her on hire purchase and she stepped out on him with her baby daddy. He did everything right for her and look what happened to him. She don't love him. She love the guy who imprinted her.
The guy is you please stop get some counseling after you graduate high school my little guy
@@darnellwilliams8783 I'm not talking about me, you nimrod. I'm 22 years old. How about you get some counseling because all you do is troll in here.
@@deanogordon2819 sure tire buddy I see you want a do you need a father figure could be that for you but first go to your room a s clean or up before I come up there
@@darnellwilliams8783 Bro shut up smh. I can't stand guys like you
@@deanogordon2819 because you get nervous in my presence I'm a real man out here you 22 that why you said she was 22
Had to check 3 times to make sure I hit that like button. This shit is too real
100% wouldn’t be in any type of relationship with a single mother but having them in a rotation is fine
Facts 💯
I wouldn't even have them in my rotation its plenty of women out here with no kids I don't wanna have to be worried about a jealous baby dady
@MyNoseisDirty that’s because you want your name to be My Nose Is Dirty 🤡 and that’s the problem✌🏾
@@brandonjackson3641 to each his own
It’s cool to dig in their guts til they buh but relationship wise heck nah 💯 Men need to know their worth and not settle for 304’s that let ricky and rayray beat them guts up
Maan you not even lying. That baby daddy either gave her the best impression, or the worst impression !
At the end of the day, if you not FIRST, you gotta compete with that impression / imprint🎯
Keep droppin heat steph
Yea best believe I’m finna have standards I’m not finna settle for less especially since I’m high value and been putting in the work 💯
Steph On Some Sleek Video Editing. We see you 💪🏽
I am so glad I found your page man 😂😂
Truth! This is one of the best videos you have made to date, in my most honest opinion. Thank you for the facts.
Dated a women with a kid when I was 21 THOUGHT she was the one cheated on me with her baby dad, they was on the da book talking about having more kids….. best L I ever took and I ain’t looked backed since then keep going my G’s 👌🏿
Typical single mom
When that music start in the background lol steph for mvp
Appreciate the video almost trapped myself in that situation
I'm a product of a single mother and I watched how most of the guys my mother dated just hit it and split it.....and I was 12 years old at that time....I'm 31 now. As beautiful as most women are now....the moment I see they have a kid and become single mothers then my view about them changes cos why did they allow this to happen?... I also lay the blame on the guys who make these beautiful women single mothers cos why do that to a woman you won't want to be with anyways? I used to date a single mom but that was years ago on some bullshit and I lost my mind when she fell pregnant with this one guy I hated....but that's in the past.... I've decided not to have kids and just focus on me and this new job I started. I choose to be happy and when men are really happy, they feel like they can conquer anything. Everyone in the comments section I hope this comment made some sense and I hope it made sense to you Steph. Love from Cape Town, South Africa.❤️
She did it to herself women have 100% on whose born & who isn't (her body her choice) therefore she has 100% responsibility. Women know when dudes gonna hit & dip but they play victim when he doesn't allow her to manipulate him through box. A lot of kids raised by single mothers were born to spite men that never wanted anything serious with them.
Respect brother from United.
You sound beta as fuck boy. It takes two to tango.
Marry before you carry.
There are several forms of birth control for a woman and only 2 for a man.
Come on Sir, put the cape away.
@@AyKrax I hear you on that.
@@sueme8170 what cape? No one is getting saved.
$80 at McDonald's?! Wtf did they get the whole damn menu?! ROTFLMFAO
Im threw😂😂
Eww they can't cook they own food
That’s fucking WILD! I heard that shit, and my face said 😳
Thanks for the knowledge 🙏
Steph is cooooooooollllllddddddddddddddd!!!!🙌🏾Thank god for this amazing mane
dating a single mom is like buying a used car and having money to get a brand new one but chose to a buy a used up hoopty anyway 🤦♂️😆
I dknt agree with statement more like buying a classic car they're timeless beautiful pieces of art each one has his own personality and they are consistently I take that over sine plastic car today
@@darnellwilliams8783 I wonder if there’s a way for Steph to block you, you literally come here to troll
It's like buying a used car making payments but the previous owner come borrow it on the weekends.
"WHERE YOU AT KEYYYSHA?!"😂😭
That was mad funny🤣
Whose car is that in the driveway KEYYSHA?!
i watched steph vids from 2 yrs ago 1 year ago and the rest is history but this topic specifically he been talking bout for a while
I agree literally with every word you speak. If I had this mentality my past 15 years, I wouldn't even had time to write this comment. Nothing but blessing and success to you. Your words bring value to me. Working on getting a grip of my life. Two kids deeply invested- emotionally financially sexually, into a very bad person. I'm not dating a single mother, on here simply to learn who I've actually been with my entire life.
A representative
I am a single father but also a widower. But it has been hard for me not to be a hypocrite. The ones I dealt with never had time for plans but always had time to get into s*** with their baby daddies
After you've ingested the Red Pill, you'll come to find a Black pill tastes even better. We all wish the world was different, but this is our sad fate. Just know, most of you were good men who wanted what your grandparents had..
Steph always speaks facts.
Damnn, like uncle Rom Will said. 'The mates you attract are a mirror'.💡. So at times, we must hold men accountable for the choices they make,not the vvomen that never elevated herself.
*The fact that Disney had the audacity to make a movie called step daddy and put the black man as the face of it tells us that they want us to be SACRIFICIAL LAMBS. "Step" Daddy as the name suggests means you are the Daddy to be "STEPPED" on. It's a curse that you need to avoid!*
It really is sad
I was raised by an amazing dad and step dad it’s all about perspective and simply being a man❤️
@@chemerejohnson668 No one cares about your anomalies. It's all about probabilities and the brothers agree this is definitely a fvcked up position to be in
@@blackestknight1.0 and that’s your perspective. Be a Man at all times.❤️🙌🏾
@@blackestknight1.0 you don’t care while others do and that’s why I was raised by not one but two amazing men. ❤️
Facts Facts Facts ppl who disagree are the one’s settling, always saying stuff like “it’s ok”
Bro everything u said was spot on , shxt crazy
hella savage on this vid steph!! you hella TUUUHHHH!
Dating single mothers is pointless tbh. They will always put their kids first and they will always love the father even more than they love any man.
That's cap
@@getoffme8741 That's cap??? That's cap?? You go ahead and date them and see what will happen to you. Idgaf if you cried that she doesn't respect you.
@@deanogordon2819 ma guy I'm the baby daddy getting shitted on not the one dating the single momma...
@@getoffme8741 Oh my bad. I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you find some way to overcome the nightmare of her. Some of these mothers are trifling.
@@deanogordon2819 nightmare yo... she weaponizing the system on me
Its amazing to me that I still get criticism from my own family of mostly women who are single, past middle age or young cousins with kids, cant keep a man or has another dude and not the baby daddy or divorced. Dude, Im 33, single with no kids!
I appreciate your honesty bro
Yo steph I need this one steph 💯💯 frfr thanks 🙏🏽
If shes already used, shes not yours, even once. Point Blank Period. No need to go any further. Thats all you have to know
My ex’s always go to seek validation from the simps but when I come back they just submit to me and drop em
oooh I can't wait to hear this
Look at Steph chef is cold mane. So inspirational