My homie got 10k+ followers on the gram (where he get all his chicks) but when we go out, he don’t even know how to approach a female. Cmon mane 😂 yall niggas living cap
I’m 38 and guys younger than me you do not want a chick that judges life based on social media. Only use social media for networking, your side hustle/business, or travel/event pics. Live your life, workout, eat healthy, chase money, and travel. Most of time chicks are getting dugout by dudes that don’t have a social media account. Again don’t take any chick serious if she spends most her time on social media.
I can agree, I’m 38 as well and I been off social media for about 2 years and my rotation of females are not on social media and I been consistently breaking they backs for a span ranging from 3-10 years! But if I was totally single I can see how what steph is saying definitely plays a part in todays modern dating scene!
Get your hoes on Instagram, move to another country or do a world tour to find yo wife, cuz I’m telling you right now G you ain’t finding a wife in modern America anymore 🤷🏽
Dating apps = a lot of modern women who have the illusion of choice but have unrealistic and delusional expectations. Fellas: level up, stay on your purpose, and become the coldest dude you can possibly become so you can attract quality ppl into your life ✊🏾.
Exactly the more us teenage boys and grown men see the way how every relationship are on social media the more we get colder because they gonna keep exposing these toxic relationships 💫👁🥶
Get out here and meet them in person. Let them see how cold you are in person. Let that real confidence shine through the simp-demic agenda they pushing on us.
@@TroyIndureTillTheEnd nah I’m just angry at a situation today, took a deep breath and finished my h.w. and took a big lesson today, that’s all g, I’m gonna climb back tomorrow, all positive and ready. Sometimes woman piss you off one day when you don’t notice it and it just happens, you just get hella pissed cuz she disrespects your frame, like a woman told me today that no woman is gonna marry me cuz I’m broke, at 20 years young, and studying in school getting a degree, And they have the power to just disrespect as they please, but I have more money than her, she knows her friends like me and call me handsome, so she takes that anger on me, so I ignore her and I feel better now.
@@-vernonwilliams yeah bro definitely. It’s soo easy, there’s females everywhere you go. The colder you become, the easier it gets to attract them. I always say you don’t attract what you want you attract what you, so become what you want and you’ll get what you want.
@@yt-pp1ub the fact that your and in this space of self development and understanding the phycology of relationships your way ahead of the game and you got the world in the palm of your hands bro. Just make good choices consistently and sacrifice. Stay in the gym and get ripped af, get a useful degree or trade, be ambitious af, save your money, and keep evolving, and that confidence will grow naturally because you’ll know what you been through, where your going, and what you deserve.
real is rare, fake is everywhere! don't try be someone you're not to get women. live in your truth fellas cause all that other bullshit is here today and gone tomorrow.
true bro we don't have to play that weak ass game of persuing the highest popularity and status man I thought that shit ended in high school dude wanna tell everyone the way to go
@@joshuassajjabbi8396 facts I never got many likes and followers, when I was a teen, I bought fake followers and likes to fit in, but I later learned as I become 17. Social media is fake
Everybody I know literally has social media. It's hard to imagine what life would be without it I know it's not needed But I do wonder what guys without it actually do to keep a good social life. This last guy I knew only used dating apps I thought that was worse than social media
This sounds like complaining I'd you're looking for handouts just stop now smh get up off your couch .this is why I don't have problems dating beautiful woman
Every time i chill wit a wmn at my place i ask to see her phone and look at her dms.. my n*gga u gone be like 😯 😯 😯 options galore! Like 50 dms a day and shawty a strong 5!
You be talking about the black man, but as a brown Mexican man, it’s all relatable my guy. These 304s stay playing so we gotta play harder. Stay dropping the knowledge!
2022 we’re bettering ourselves and disciplining ourselves. Remember to take losses as teaching lessons stay humble and never complain. New year bout to go crazy lets jump in this shit strong
@@darnellwilliams8783 He back at it again trolling if this not a sad example of how some, these ppl have no lives, I mean for you to constantly post on @Tweeks, @Deano Gordon, @Maliq Flowers and the other account Is sad and I've been seeing you do this for months now. You generally have nothing else to do in your life is truly sad. I petty you honestly smh. Knowing you wouldn't you say any of this FR makes this even worst as I picture you as a socially degenerate man or delusion female upset with the find that us men need to survive or have a successful STRESS FREE LIFE. (probably won't even read it or just will type sum BS)
That’s WILD “if you’re black you better have a chain on.” Crazy how society has kept us there all these years and that’s how the black women see us. Steph is bringing it to the light.
Fellas please don’t believe we have to be all on social media trying to impress people we don’t know. The fact of the matter is no man and I don’t care how much money you have or how well you look should ever ever ever want a women that needs validation or wants to be on social media all the time. Having sex and just tossing women to the side is a empty life also. Trust me fellas the women you want are opposite of what is on social media. I don’t care how many options she has it means nothing. Be leaders men! Most people are brainwashed and just follow the trend copying and doing what everyone else is doing. The society is breaking down and people are trying to get likes and followers. Put God first then yourself and everything will work out !!
Real shit that’s why I’m detaching from socials until sometime next year or when I’m ready bc as real as everyone wants to make social media seem it’s not .. better Wake up n smell the roses pay attention to your real life . Not a social media feed .. smh
Everything he said is correct. Doesn't matter how good you may look like in real life. If you have a good job, nice car, etc. If she doesn't KNOW or SEE it ... It's over.
A lot of men or younger men will listen to this and take your message for what it is. I say this never take anything on social media for what it is, people on social media only wants to show you what they want to show you. Best way is to keep yourself a mystery and DON'T show up to every event but show up and random places, display what you want to and make sure its an attention grabber, Play the game and don't take it seriously.
This is certified hood classic my g dating apps been watered down and social media always ruin relationship no cap just focus on yourself and chase your goals and dreams accomplish your life.
He not lying. I don’t wear name brand too often UNLESS it’s shoes. My shoe game is a1. I got a small gold chain. A nice 20 watch collection. Many colognes. I just keep the clothes minimal. And my car clean.
Cold approach is underated , approach a baddie somewhere (outside the club) and you probably the first to in a while and if she likes you shes gone be obsessed.guys are scared in real life and girls and are dying for someone to talk to them outside of their dms
@@isaacthedr actually Steph made a recent video saying he does cold approach now but DR Boa said cold approaching is beta af and I agree if I don’t get choosing signals why tf would I approach you
I don't have insta or Twitter, I understand the game. I deleted those apps so I can focus on my goals as an entrepreneur. I don't think I'm playing the game wrong.
Fellas don’t conform to this world and cater to what these women want. The type of women Steph is referring to in this video is the type of women you stay away from. Focus on God and your goals and if it’s in The Most Highs plan for your life to be with a woman he’s going to bless you with the best of the best. Until then work on yourself as a person physically, mentally,‘emotionally and especially spiritually. We’re living in the last of the last days.
@EliteAthlete15 We only perceive them as high quality because of their looks if we can get past them just looking good and really get to know who they are a lot of hardships can be avoided. As a man I can understand how some men can get caught up because these women are getting better looking by the day.
Some of the things you said here are true. But I often question the kind of women that you go after. I’d like everyone including steph to understand that showing women your wealth will attract gold diggers before anything else. But hey at least you know what you gonna get from a gold digger 🤷🏾♂️ I’d recommend learning to control your sexual urges better and not sleeping with just any woman. It’s because of men not being able to control themselves that women have the upper hand in the dating market In my humble opinion
I think it's more showing your having fun and giving off the vibe that you're someone that a woman wants to be around... not just showing you have money. You really have to be outside to understand what the modern attractive woman is attracted to. He makes a lot of accurate points.
You would have to live in his environment to understand the women he's talking about. Majority of them literally only care about status there is no in-between. His videos are tailored to guys dealing with hood black girls and this video is the best way to get them. It's better to have sex with alot of them n leave them then get back on ur purpose rather than staying with one and risk putting trust in her tbh.
I'll admit that I didn't watch the whole video. But he is right about how we (BM) pretty much have to sauce ourselves up to get any consistent attention from females--particularly BW. My argument is that, if we want to return to form, we can't play that game. Either date BW that were responsible enough not to have kids recklessly by Pookies and Rayrays or just date outside.
Now I like this response but I think you can take his perspective and do both... I'm not gonna spend all or even half of my money on doing this shit just to attract these bucket head broads but I do just enough to play the game and have those options... I'm in Chicago area so the options of women are what they are but I still know how to cold approach and earning more money to travel and attract different types of women...
Social media hasn't made dating hard at to me because I'm old school . I see a hot chick in real life I go up and approach . I'm most non-exist on social media and have never liked or Dm a random stranger on social media for what ! Don't let these women fool like they have options because they actually don't because 95-99 for the guys trying to get at them have poor social skills or don't know how to talk to women . Anything is most of time the men most women want are men who are so on point and a lot of women don't have enough game to keep men interested in them outside the bedroom . A lot of guys don't know how men are luck in this dating game . You can actually control the women who are coming into your life and that alone is power !! This women can't control which man approaches them . A women can through choosing signal until she's blue or red in the face at guy and if he doesn't approach her she's out of luck with him . A man improve all area's of your life at the same time and don't exclude dealing women .
Step today I got offered a construction job doing water and mud treatment at 18 dollars an hour plus 71 dollar perdiem because I keep grinding and grinding thank you brother for motivating me
No kapp. I can’t tell you how many times women were turnt off when I told em I don’t have any types of SM , you could be every thing a woman wants but if you don’t have that Instagram page popping they are not phuckin with u ik it’s sad but this is how dating is in 2022
@@1yuungkil168 maybe they wasn't fwu from day one cause ion use SM and they don't care. If you getting hella play irl then you'll be too busy to set up a fake image on SM to get play 🤷🏾♂️my opinion though
@@kennyfr5564 I feel u 💯. So what makes a women fwu? And how to get play? Ik I may sound like a needy mf that’s begging for female validation but I’m just tryna get a couple shordys to fw this year.
@@1yuungkil168 Naah u don’t sound needy u just wanna get some play and I understand fr fr😂first off u need to work on appearance. Find a hairstyle that fits you and always keep your facial hair on point too(if u have). Work on the drip too it don’t have to be crazy but make sure you’re not mismatched even if it’s a light fit.
@@1yuungkil168 idk how good your game is but always remember once you have the appearance(even if you’re a 6/10) and good game it’s smooth sailing. Yea you’re not gonna pull every shorty but u gonna get them here and there especially if u from those kinda areas where there’s a lot of shordys
I can understand where you're coming from Steph, but men need to play the long game. Chasing social media metrics and validation isn't as rewarding as keeping your head down and building a legacy that will live on for generations.
Social media is like your personal resume these days. A big online presence is inevitable. That’s the first thing girls check for now. You gotta get with the times, or get lost in the sauce. Take good pro photos, travel the world, get fit, and get your fashion game on point.
Fax bro. But SADLY ALOT of dudes REFUSE to get with the program with “social media and modern women”. YET they wonder why they not maximizing their options or getting the play they want. They stuck in the 80s and 70s like steph says, but that’s ok because we’re gonna get with the program and let them get left behind 💯✍🏾
@@kcz81582 You didn’t understand the message lol. The point is to have a REAL exciting life, but you just happened to post about it. Everything I said, people should be doing anyway. Do you not travel ,workout or dress good? I was doing this before IG /socials, now I just capture it. 🤷🏻♂️ But it’s all good, do you bro.
We can’t keep letting these 304s beat us at they own game. We gotta come together and hit ‘em 10x harder. This is how u play in the dating game nowadays you gotta be playa with the playa
A lot of men work so hard on there purpose and got the social media game on lock while making 6 figures. And then United States offer them retired 304’,s Fat women,And single mothers while the Hot Women only want Celebrities and NBA players.There’s a reason why men are going overseas looking for higher class women where there’s no abusive marriage laws if they want to settle down and have a family. But at the end of the day dating in the United States is over if you a average or above average dude you better get on your purpose,because everyday that passes these women standards are getting higher and higher.
Well that mind set is double edged sword. Yeah the average man like you said will get left behind with the woman that think they are all going to secure a high value man. The numbers just don’t match. There will be as many single woman as single men. Woman will have to either date down on the economic scale or stay single. It’s unrealistic for every man to be above average. 50-70 years ago most men were making right about the poverty line yet most had wives and families .
Well that mind set is double edged sword. Yeah the average man like you said will get left behind with the woman that think they are all going to secure a high value man. The numbers just don’t match. There will be as many single woman as single men. Woman will have to either date down on the economic scale or stay single. It’s unrealistic for every man to be above average. 50-70 years ago most men were making right about the poverty line yet most had wives and families
Well that mind set is double edged sword. Yeah the average man like you said will get left behind with the woman that think they are all going to secure a high value man. The numbers just don’t match. There will be as many single woman as single men. Woman will have to either date down on the economic scale or stay single. It’s unrealistic for every man to be above average. Especially in the U.S these is 4 mil more woman than men.
I met the hottest girl on campus spoke to her been dating her and she has no social media. Their out there fellas. You don’t want chicks that crave attention. Real women still exist.
Listen to the conviction behind this message of this video. The conviction is stems from a man who has pulled back the curtain of hypergamy and witnessed the truth. Dropping jewels.
I can be a millionaire and will never wear a chain, Rolex, or any designer clothes. That’s a waste of money. I guess I’ll be looking for my women in other countries
That’s 💯percent facts, if a black man ain’t pulling up that bmw, with jewels on 🙅🏾♂️everybody will consider you broke, not just chicks everybody, a white guy could jump on a skateboard, and he’s still considered to be the man with money.
@@jowill3508 it’s a harsh reality, but steph hit the nail on the head with this one, even white peoples will think you a bum trying to steal something if you ain’t got on that drip lol 😂 walk up in a bank looking too broke they might call security on you 🤦♂️smh
Nah if I gotta get on social media to identify with this generation then those chicks simply ain’t for me. If I got to wear a chain for anyone other than myself then my purpose is off by far. Ain’t living up to these chicks standards or anyone else’s. I do just fine without any of that
I usually agree with Steph but this one is sad. Quality over quantity. Stop chasing items and living for women. Yes, women care about everything he is saying. Yes, it will get you more women. Reality is more important then image. Most people should never get a BMW because they can’t afford it, same with expensive watches and jewelry. All you will want is more of it and you just end up broker and broker. You will keep on working hard to match your flashy lifestyle. Before you by ANYTHING, make sure you can buy it 10 times, unless it is an emergency. These items are for 1% and obviously most people are not 1%, they just pretended to be. Make your money to have a more comfortable life and be worry free, not to look like Gucci Mane. The black community already has a problem with materialism over wealth. This isn’t the right message. Let the materialistic trash women date the item chasers, if you think most of them are like that, most of them shouldn’t be on your radar. Quality over quantity, people.
Having fun and taking pics doesn't cost you anything. You wear clothes, might as well buy nice ones... step up your style, doesn't change your budget. Working out & eating right... can be done at home. Lastly tell em what they want to hear cause they definitely going to try you.
You missed the entire point. Jewelry/cars is meant to motivate, style fashion, fitness, and health tips are meant for growth & productivity. Everyman must be told to level up. To aspire to more, for more. Not going out your way for 304s is a given. But ultimately it's to find a woman
@@rickyrunks510 stepping up your style shouldn’t be above buying wealth and freedom. Handle your business first then buy the designer don’t go backwards
Ayyy having that shit on is real af this man is not lying i had a women approch me putting her number in my phone as soon as her dude turnt his back and i wasnt even stunting her at all…moral is women always are looking even if it seems they’re not let that first impression be COLD!!!
He not wrong, was talking to this chick some time ago, after a few days of nice chat and planned date she asked for my IG, I have not posted shit in it for 4 years, after that she stopped messaging me. I thanked God for not having to clean up the mess.
@@dotmanmide if your status doesn’t matter then neither should her looks. If you want a girl that looks good you need to bring something to the table yourself
All y’all dudes disagreeing are in denial. He’s not justifying the changes that society is currently embracing, he’s telling you to ADAPT. If you choose not to adapt that’s fine but realize you’re literally being weeded out by nature if you choose not to adapt.
Straight facts as always bruh 👏👏. You got to sell her the fantasy the same way she does when she wears her mask and costume and inflates your ego. We got to get cold fellas 🥶 💯💪🎯
Listen ya'll I live in Detroit and Steph is right them Buffs or Buffys do get you all the women on yo sack in a heart beat it's like having all the infinity stones at your disposal man it's crazy. I personally tried following the set rules and that shit don't get you nowhere so I will be manifesting and challenging myself to get the things I want and look good while doing it. That's just what it is now and believe it or not we can't change it we just have to adapt and level up.
Number one rule in the real world and internet web you have to look like something to attract something that's just the way it goes, when people don't know you the only thing people have to go by is the first thing that they see your presentation and your representatives
I’ll give you a point. If she uses social media, just give up because she’s never going to delete it & will always seek attention from other men no matter what you do. Find a girl in person who isn’t addicted to unlimited dopamine hits by other men all day.
Steph this video was well needed and I couldn't have said it better myself. This world is changing, gotta adapt to this shit. Don't play by the rules just like how they aren't. Winter around the corner boys. "Batman wings off their eyes" 💀. Sell them the dream, can't takem seriously.
I know this video is old but thank you steph I was the guy who said that those things don’t matter and I have been having success with out them but I’m gonna Maximize my chances with this 🙏🏾
Well I guess I’m “playing” the game totally wrong…lmao…I’ll be regular asf, thank you very much. South Beach firefighter here, my life is secure, sewed up. Only thing close to social media I have is commenting on UA-cam. Showing out and doing the most is pretty weak to me. But what do I know???
Man I just turned 44 in Oct and no truer words have been spoken. If you somebody AND she can show off your IG to her homegirls to make them jealous… You. Are. Winning.
I'm 33 years old. Dating isn't complicated and you don't have to actually be on social media chasing these fake personalities or women. Just go out, live in the moment, and when a girl is attracted to you in whatever way believe me they'll come and want to be with you so be ready to strike up a conversation. Most of the real ones who aren't dating because of social media already have their married lives together for years and sharing happiness with their children and family in the tradition spirit of things. Good luck all, stay strong 💪
Its kinda easy for you to say this at 33. Most women around your age are either on the edge of no return or have decided to be single forever. Its difficult for somebody like me at 25. Most women my age want the bad boy, drug dealer type. They ignore the men that have their own. They love the bums
@@yungmaniac7561 just get the money 1st the one life advice that really matters. Money rules everything. You think a bitch worried about pookie and ray ray when the money walk in the room? Money and game = modern day alpha
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She JUDGING U OFF YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA BHHH🤣🤣🤣🤣
My homie got 10k+ followers on the gram (where he get all his chicks) but when we go out, he don’t even know how to approach a female. Cmon mane 😂 yall niggas living cap
I’m 38 and guys younger than me you do not want a chick that judges life based on social media. Only use social media for networking, your side hustle/business, or travel/event pics. Live your life, workout, eat healthy, chase money, and travel. Most of time chicks are getting dugout by dudes that don’t have a social media account. Again don’t take any chick serious if she spends most her time on social media.
Yeah 100% I'm 37 and I get more ass by being lowkey.
That's big facts. I have no interests in chicks addicted to social media. Some of the baddest women don't even use it.
I can agree, I’m 38 as well and I been off social media for about 2 years and my rotation of females are not on social media and I been consistently breaking they backs for a span ranging from 3-10 years! But if I was totally single I can see how what steph is saying definitely plays a part in todays modern dating scene!
I got a female cousin that’s like that
Ay I'm 36 I agree man. I think it's my age though. Social applies to the younger boys that ain't really got shit probably. I feel for the young dudes
they been livin in the metaverse they whole life 😈
Since 2006
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Hit the gym bros. Better yourself
@@imissvainglory6216 not exactly but we get the point
metabitches hahaha
You don’t want a broad who gonna judge you off of IG.
Get your hoes on Instagram, move to another country or do a world tour to find yo wife, cuz I’m telling you right now G you ain’t finding a wife in modern America anymore 🤷🏽
@@jeevan8040 You’re exactly right, IG is easy for picking up hoes. But them quality women are over seas!
@@doctahb9031 Damn right bro
Only use em to buuuhhhh.
Ding ding ding
Dating apps = a lot of modern women who have the illusion of choice but have unrealistic and delusional expectations.
Fellas: level up, stay on your purpose, and become the coldest dude you can possibly become so you can attract quality ppl into your life ✊🏾.
Agreed. This episode was bad advice. Anthony Spade has a UA-cam channel that would tell you to walk away.
wow
EXACTLY 💯 💯 💯
Facts
That's not quality people. Its materialistic people
dudes be wearing $5k on for a chick that got a $10 dress on 🤦♂️
Pure Ridiculousness. 😂😂😂🤦🏽♂️
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True but a lot of dudes don’t wear drip to impress chicks, they do it because they just like looking good
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@@ianm8218 nah it’s to impress a chick, no nigga wants to buy glasses for $5500 just to look good for himself 😂😂
I been deleted all my social media in 2020 - these men and women can fall with the metaverse, I ain't going thorugh all that just for guts
Agreed!
Same
Same here
And a funky fart hole 🕳with morning breath
Fax that shit lame we golden pill steph sayin trillspill tho
Social media ruining relationships every second as long as it exists but at the same time it exposes everything we need to know about relationships.
Exactly the more us teenage boys and grown men see the way how every relationship are on social media the more we get colder because they gonna keep exposing these toxic relationships 💫👁🥶
Lol go tell your mama because we dont wanna heart it boy
@@maliqflowers5112 facts g 💯. Social media is the best thing and the worse thing that ever existed
@@darnellwilliams8783 go tell your mama that I wanna get with her. Man you look weird.
It’s a blessing and a curse lol
Get out here and meet them in person. Let them see how cold you are in person. Let that real confidence shine through the simp-demic agenda they pushing on us.
Fact! I'm not on any social media platforms and enjoy developing real relationships by meeting people in person.
@@yt-pp1ub he talking about meeting woman and your in the "red pill rage", you going to deal with woman wherever you go g.
@@TroyIndureTillTheEnd nah I’m just angry at a situation today, took a deep breath and finished my h.w. and took a big lesson today, that’s all g, I’m gonna climb back tomorrow, all positive and ready. Sometimes woman piss you off one day when you don’t notice it and it just happens, you just get hella pissed cuz she disrespects your frame, like a woman told me today that no woman is gonna marry me cuz I’m broke, at 20 years young, and studying in school getting a degree, And they have the power to just disrespect as they please, but I have more money than her, she knows her friends like me and call me handsome, so she takes that anger on me, so I ignore her and I feel better now.
@@-vernonwilliams yeah bro definitely. It’s soo easy, there’s females everywhere you go. The colder you become, the easier it gets to attract them. I always say you don’t attract what you want you attract what you, so become what you want and you’ll get what you want.
@@yt-pp1ub the fact that your and in this space of self development and understanding the phycology of relationships your way ahead of the game and you got the world in the palm of your hands bro. Just make good choices consistently and sacrifice. Stay in the gym and get ripped af, get a useful degree or trade, be ambitious af, save your money, and keep evolving, and that confidence will grow naturally because you’ll know what you been through, where your going, and what you deserve.
real is rare, fake is everywhere! don't try be someone you're not to get women. live in your truth fellas cause all that other bullshit is here today and gone tomorrow.
Facts!!
agreed
true bro we don't have to play that weak ass game of persuing the highest popularity and status man I thought that shit ended in high school dude wanna tell everyone the way to go
Here today and gone tomoooorrow *boom* pound cake starts playin
This the best comment especially for these Young bucks they don't know s*** just think girls is everything 😂
When you raw in real life social media don’t stop nothing. You just gotta know yourself & understand women.
Thank you my Guy ✨👌🏾
Same shit I was thinking
Cant lie it would help though
Boy you said it all right then 💯
you can’t lose a game you don’t play.
That’s facts
Black pilled for days
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You Undefeated fr
'Reality is often disappointing' -Thanos, 2018.
Once you level up, 'reality can be whatever you want'
I don’t even have any social media, so I basically don’t even exist if the metaverse is real life lmao
Same brother, don’t need it don’t want it.
I never used to get many likes and followers but when I got off, I got more respect
@@joshuassajjabbi8396 facts I never got many likes and followers, when I was a teen, I bought fake followers and likes to fit in, but I later learned as I become 17. Social media is fake
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂. My G. We're off the GRID 😎
Everybody I know literally has social media. It's hard to imagine what life would be without it I know it's not needed But I do wonder what guys without it actually do to keep a good social life. This last guy I knew only used dating apps I thought that was worse than social media
We gotta get colder
I always look for this comment. Facts
Each and every day
They have access to unlimited options without doing anything, the average woman has the same amount of DMs as the guy that’s a 10
This sounds like complaining I'd you're looking for handouts just stop now smh get up off your couch .this is why I don't have problems dating beautiful woman
Just gotta accept us guys are more willing to fuck than they are lol. We give them power.
Every time i chill wit a wmn at my place i ask to see her phone and look at her dms.. my n*gga u gone be like 😯 😯 😯 options galore! Like 50 dms a day and shawty a strong 5!
@@darnellwilliams8783 How was that complaining? He was just stating a fact
They don't
She says she don’t care about social media but the nigga she gone cheat on you with attracted her through social media 😂 good luck
You be talking about the black man, but as a brown Mexican man, it’s all relatable my guy. These 304s stay playing so we gotta play harder. Stay dropping the knowledge!
you right bro!!
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Mexicans in my city where Cortez Levi’s and xl white pro clubs still you’re 🧢!
This also applies to Indian men as well bro. Shits hard
@@zxon3751 sup with that Mexican stereotype? We ain’t all cholos like that.
2022 we’re bettering ourselves and disciplining ourselves. Remember to take losses as teaching lessons stay humble and never complain. New year bout to go crazy lets jump in this shit strong
Nah boy I'm gonna keep taking my wins
@@darnellwilliams8783 bro the only person that's taking wins is girlfriend WAKE TF UP
We're already there my friend. Sound the war cry..
@@darnellwilliams8783 He back at it again trolling if this not a sad example of how some, these ppl have no lives, I mean for you to constantly post on @Tweeks, @Deano Gordon, @Maliq Flowers and the other account Is sad and I've been seeing you do this for months now. You generally have nothing else to do in your life is truly sad. I petty you honestly smh. Knowing you wouldn't you say any of this FR makes this even worst as I picture you as a socially degenerate man or delusion female upset with the find that us men need to survive or have a successful STRESS FREE LIFE. (probably won't even read it or just will type sum BS)
Fr next year finna be something so good I can feel it too
That’s WILD “if you’re black you better have a chain on.” Crazy how society has kept us there all these years and that’s how the black women see us. Steph is bringing it to the light.
They Love Being Superficial
Yep they see a black man with non of that stuff on he's just passed off as another broke nigga sad asf
Facts but other groups men can come as they are
@@davidbravestrong3368you mean the ghetto black women you are attracted to like that
Like fish are attracted to lures; women are attracted to shiny things. For those type...catch and release.
Fellas please don’t believe we have to be all on social media trying to impress people we don’t know. The fact of the matter is no man and I don’t care how much money you have or how well you look should ever ever ever want a women that needs validation or wants to be on social media all the time. Having sex and just tossing women to the side is a empty life also. Trust me fellas the women you want are opposite of what is on social media. I don’t care how many options she has it means nothing. Be leaders men! Most people are brainwashed and just follow the trend copying and doing what everyone else is doing. The society is breaking down and people are trying to get likes and followers. Put God first then yourself and everything will work out !!
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I see what you mean by most of these guys contradict themselves but pimp 101 sell these hoes a dream or clout
This comment is it
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Best comment here!
“If u wanna date a black woman u gotta look like a rapper” facts sheesh why u went so hard 🤯🤯 spazzin
That’s the brutal truth
U mean ghetto black women that black men choose. White men don’t choose black women like that they choose classy women.
Steph is low key a comedian 😂
high key
😂 facts
Real shit that’s why I’m detaching from socials until sometime next year or when I’m ready bc as real as everyone wants to make social media seem it’s not .. better Wake up n smell the roses pay attention to your real life . Not a social media feed .. smh
Deleted all my socials years ago. Best. Decision. Ever.
Likewise🤫🔥stay mysterious
Everything he said is correct. Doesn't matter how good you may look like in real life. If you have a good job, nice car, etc. If she doesn't KNOW or SEE it ... It's over.
Everything ain't about women tho. Putting too much focus on women is Simpin too!
Exactly that is what simping really is focusing on women to much and doing anything for or to get women.
A lot of men or younger men will listen to this and take your message for what it is. I say this never take anything on social media for what it is, people on social media only wants to show you what they want to show you. Best way is to keep yourself a mystery and DON'T show up to every event but show up and random places, display what you want to and make sure its an attention grabber, Play the game and don't take it seriously.
This is certified hood classic my g dating apps been watered down and social media always ruin relationship no cap just focus on yourself and chase your goals and dreams accomplish your life.
He not lying. I don’t wear name brand too often UNLESS it’s shoes. My shoe game is a1. I got a small gold chain. A nice 20 watch collection. Many colognes. I just keep the clothes minimal. And my car clean.
I got 11 colognes g aswell. Nice shoes. And I got nice formal clothes whenever I go out, you feel more confident.
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@@yt-pp1ub yeah the fragrance and watch keep the confidence high. The chain is small, just an accent. Fragrance and shoes should always be clean.
Steph sounds like that NBA coach that welcomes you to your first rookie meeting.
Fr 😭🤣
Cold approach is underated , approach a baddie somewhere (outside the club) and you probably the first to in a while and if she likes you shes gone be obsessed.guys are scared in real life and girls and are dying for someone to talk to them outside of their dms
Stephiscold said no cold approach so you are WRONG SIR!!
@@isaacthedr stephiscold is a human, not god
@@isaacthedr actually Steph made a recent video saying he does cold approach now but DR Boa said cold approaching is beta af and I agree if I don’t get choosing signals why tf would I approach you
@@Itallmakessense556 some guys rarely get choosing signals so they supposed to wait for something that might never come ?
your prolly scared cus i aint, approachin is wack bruhh
That's why I deleted my social media 4 years ago. Keeping my presence lowkey asf. We gotta get colder.
I don't have insta or Twitter, I understand the game. I deleted those apps so I can focus on my goals as an entrepreneur. I don't think I'm playing the game wrong.
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U are absolutely right Steph. No disagreement here.
Fellas don’t conform to this world and cater to what these women want. The type of women Steph is referring to in this video is the type of women you stay away from. Focus on God and your goals and if it’s in The Most Highs plan for your life to be with a woman he’s going to bless you with the best of the best. Until then work on yourself as a person physically, mentally,‘emotionally and especially spiritually. We’re living in the last of the last days.
Agreed.
@EliteAthlete15 We only perceive them as high quality because of their looks if we can get past them just looking good and really get to know who they are a lot of hardships can be avoided. As a man I can understand how some men can get caught up because these women are getting better looking by the day.
Best comment. This should be written in stone
Some of the things you said here are true. But I often question the kind of women that you go after.
I’d like everyone including steph to understand that showing women your wealth will attract gold diggers before anything else.
But hey at least you know what you gonna get from a gold digger 🤷🏾♂️
I’d recommend learning to control your sexual urges better and not sleeping with just any woman.
It’s because of men not being able to control themselves that women have the upper hand in the dating market
In my humble opinion
Fact
Realist ish ever wrote
Exactly 💯
I think it's more showing your having fun and giving off the vibe that you're someone that a woman wants to be around... not just showing you have money. You really have to be outside to understand what the modern attractive woman is attracted to. He makes a lot of accurate points.
You would have to live in his environment to understand the women he's talking about. Majority of them literally only care about status there is no in-between. His videos are tailored to guys dealing with hood black girls and this video is the best way to get them. It's better to have sex with alot of them n leave them then get back on ur purpose rather than staying with one and risk putting trust in her tbh.
I'll admit that I didn't watch the whole video. But he is right about how we (BM) pretty much have to sauce ourselves up to get any consistent attention from females--particularly BW. My argument is that, if we want to return to form, we can't play that game. Either date BW that were responsible enough not to have kids recklessly by Pookies and Rayrays or just date outside.
Now I like this response but I think you can take his perspective and do both... I'm not gonna spend all or even half of my money on doing this shit just to attract these bucket head broads but I do just enough to play the game and have those options... I'm in Chicago area so the options of women are what they are but I still know how to cold approach and earning more money to travel and attract different types of women...
fr bruhh like i'll work ah 9 to 5 before i work to attract women
It's actually been a blessing. Now we see first hand how untrustworthy women are out there. Without social media, we wouldn't know as much as we do..
Social media hasn't made dating hard at to me because I'm old school . I see a hot chick in real life I go up and approach . I'm most non-exist on social media and have never liked or Dm a random stranger on social media for what !
Don't let these women fool like they have options because they actually don't because 95-99 for the guys trying to get at them have poor social skills or don't know how to talk to women . Anything is most of time the men most women want are men who are so on point and a lot of women don't have enough game to keep men interested in them outside the bedroom .
A lot of guys don't know how men are luck in this dating game . You can actually control the women who are coming into your life and that alone is power !! This women can't control which man approaches them .
A women can through choosing signal until she's blue or red in the face at guy and if he doesn't approach her she's out of luck with him . A man improve all area's of your life at the same time and don't exclude dealing women .
Step today I got offered a construction job doing water and mud treatment at 18 dollars an hour plus 71 dollar perdiem because I keep grinding and grinding thank you brother for motivating me
I have officially reached a point where I am ready to sit at the high level table
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nowadays its hard to get a girl online without a social media presence
No kapp. I can’t tell you how many times women were turnt off when I told em I don’t have any types of SM , you could be every thing a woman wants but if you don’t have that Instagram page popping they are not phuckin with u ik it’s sad but this is how dating is in 2022
@@1yuungkil168 maybe they wasn't fwu from day one cause ion use SM and they don't care. If you getting hella play irl then you'll be too busy to set up a fake image on SM to get play 🤷🏾♂️my opinion though
@@kennyfr5564 I feel u 💯. So what makes a women fwu? And how to get play? Ik I may sound like a needy mf that’s begging for female validation but I’m just tryna get a couple shordys to fw this year.
@@1yuungkil168 Naah u don’t sound needy u just wanna get some play and I understand fr fr😂first off u need to work on appearance. Find a hairstyle that fits you and always keep your facial hair on point too(if u have). Work on the drip too it don’t have to be crazy but make sure you’re not mismatched even if it’s a light fit.
@@1yuungkil168 idk how good your game is but always remember once you have the appearance(even if you’re a 6/10) and good game it’s smooth sailing. Yea you’re not gonna pull every shorty but u gonna get them here and there especially if u from those kinda areas where there’s a lot of shordys
I'll be damned if I ever buy a pair of sunglasses that cost $5500 🤣
Social media has made men realize that the bachelor life is better than being in a relationship
I can understand where you're coming from Steph, but men need to play the long game. Chasing social media metrics and validation isn't as rewarding as keeping your head down and building a legacy that will live on for generations.
niggas just be dressing to be validated by other men lol
i aint playin no games
This is facts, we just gotta level up. Social media makes things look 10x better just gotta live and enjoy life 🤞🏿
“The drip is the make-up.” You right, Boss
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Social media is like your personal resume these days. A big online presence is inevitable. That’s the first thing girls check for now. You gotta get with the times, or get lost in the sauce. Take good pro photos, travel the world, get fit, and get your fashion game on point.
Fax bro. But SADLY ALOT of dudes REFUSE to get with the program with “social media and modern women”. YET they wonder why they not maximizing their options or getting the play they want. They stuck in the 80s and 70s like steph says, but that’s ok because we’re gonna get with the program and let them get left behind 💯✍🏾
You sound like you doing this for the chicks bro
@@kcz81582 you’re the dude he just talked about lol
@@kcz81582 You didn’t understand the message lol. The point is to have a REAL exciting life, but you just happened to post about it. Everything I said, people should be doing anyway. Do you not travel ,workout or dress good? I was doing this before IG /socials, now I just capture it. 🤷🏻♂️
But it’s all good, do you bro.
@@xonlytyrek3601 you live in your life for girls what a shame n**** you the one that's getting left behind really homie grow up son
We can’t keep letting these 304s beat us at they own game. We gotta come together and hit ‘em 10x harder. This is how u play in the dating game nowadays you gotta be playa with the playa
i was neva in da game so dey cant play me
We just gotta get colder. Focus on your purpose and grind.
Men needs to hear this more. Great video. For anyone seeing this, I believe you can achieve your goals, all you have to do is to NEVER GIVE UP.
ion need to do anything
A lot of men work so hard on there purpose and got the social media game on lock while making 6 figures. And then United States offer them retired 304’,s Fat women,And single mothers while the Hot Women only want Celebrities and NBA players.There’s a reason why men are going overseas looking for higher class women where there’s no abusive marriage laws if they want to settle down and have a family. But at the end of the day dating in the United States is over if you a average or above average dude you better get on your purpose,because everyday that passes these women standards are getting higher and higher.
Well that mind set is double edged sword. Yeah the average man like you said will get left behind with the woman that think they are all going to secure a high value man. The numbers just don’t match. There will be as many single woman as single men. Woman will have to either date down on the economic scale or stay single. It’s unrealistic for every man to be above average. 50-70 years ago most men were making right about the poverty line yet most had wives and families .
Well that mind set is double edged sword. Yeah the average man like you said will get left behind with the woman that think they are all going to secure a high value man. The numbers just don’t match. There will be as many single woman as single men. Woman will have to either date down on the economic scale or stay single. It’s unrealistic for every man to be above average. 50-70 years ago most men were making right about the poverty line yet most had wives and families
Well that mind set is double edged sword. Yeah the average man like you said will get left behind with the woman that think they are all going to secure a high value man. The numbers just don’t match. There will be as many single woman as single men. Woman will have to either date down on the economic scale or stay single. It’s unrealistic for every man to be above average. Especially in the U.S these is 4 mil more woman than men.
Had a marriage, kid, and got cheated on all by the age of 25. Back on the market and realize the solo life is the best option.
I met the hottest girl on campus spoke to her been dating her and she has no social media. Their out there fellas. You don’t want chicks that crave attention. Real women still exist.
Listen to the conviction behind this message of this video. The conviction is stems from a man who has pulled back the curtain of hypergamy and witnessed the truth. Dropping jewels.
Prolly one of ya best videos…truthful yet very funny 😂
The way I love when Steph turns up😂😂
I can be a millionaire and will never wear a chain, Rolex, or any designer clothes. That’s a waste of money. I guess I’ll be looking for my women in other countries
One of the most Important videos for us men we need that reminder every now n then💪🏾all facts steph
Steph becomes wiser every waking day glad to see my dawg doing his thing🙏🏽💯
The right time when I just came back from gym + school 🔥
Steph been SNAPPIN' lately! I luv it!
Respect! Salute! Keep preaching Brotha.
This man spit game and make it funny at the same time 💯😂
Dating is the mating game it was never fair steph... you know animals so are we. We got to recognize and choose a better path
you spittin way too many facts out here bruh. much appreciated. truly.
I think this is the most realest video I’ve ever seen 💯. Had to subscribe
That’s 💯percent facts, if a black man ain’t pulling up that bmw, with jewels on 🙅🏾♂️everybody will consider you broke, not just chicks everybody, a white guy could jump on a skateboard, and he’s still considered to be the man with money.
Smfh… 😭🤦♂️
@@jowill3508 it’s a harsh reality, but steph hit the nail on the head with this one, even white peoples will think you a bum trying to steal something if you ain’t got on that drip lol 😂 walk up in a bank looking too broke they might call security on you 🤦♂️smh
You talking that shit tonight!!🙌
This is the best video I’ve watched all year 🔥🔥🔥💫
“You play to win the game! That’s it! That’s all you got to do!” ~Herm Edwards
Nah if I gotta get on social media to identify with this generation then those chicks simply ain’t for me. If I got to wear a chain for anyone other than myself then my purpose is off by far. Ain’t living up to these chicks standards or anyone else’s. I do just fine without any of that
I usually agree with Steph but this one is sad. Quality over quantity. Stop chasing items and living for women. Yes, women care about everything he is saying. Yes, it will get you more women. Reality is more important then image. Most people should never get a BMW because they can’t afford it, same with expensive watches and jewelry. All you will want is more of it and you just end up broker and broker. You will keep on working hard to match your flashy lifestyle. Before you by ANYTHING, make sure you can buy it 10 times, unless it is an emergency.
These items are for 1% and obviously most people are not 1%, they just pretended to be. Make your money to have a more comfortable life and be worry free, not to look like Gucci Mane. The black community already has a problem with materialism over wealth. This isn’t the right message. Let the materialistic trash women date the item chasers, if you think most of them are like that, most of them shouldn’t be on your radar. Quality over quantity, people.
Haha I wanna look like gucci mane he cool af but key is a rabbit whole down the drip drain 💧 🥶
Having fun and taking pics doesn't cost you anything. You wear clothes, might as well buy nice ones... step up your style, doesn't change your budget. Working out & eating right... can be done at home. Lastly tell em what they want to hear cause they definitely going to try you.
You missed the entire point. Jewelry/cars is meant to motivate, style fashion, fitness, and health tips are meant for growth & productivity. Everyman must be told to level up. To aspire to more, for more. Not going out your way for 304s is a given. But ultimately it's to find a woman
@@rickyrunks510 stepping up your style shouldn’t be above buying wealth and freedom. Handle your business first then buy the designer don’t go backwards
This needs to be pin I think the same way leave the gold diggers alone and focus on yourself
Ayyy having that shit on is real af this man is not lying i had a women approch me putting her number in my phone as soon as her dude turnt his back and i wasnt even stunting her at all…moral is women always are looking even if it seems they’re not let that first impression be COLD!!!
He not wrong, was talking to this chick some time ago, after a few days of nice chat and planned date she asked for my IG, I have not posted shit in it for 4 years, after that she stopped messaging me. I thanked God for not having to clean up the mess.
She has a point you having no status is like her having no beauty
@WATNEY if that how dating works now then throw the whole thing away. She has a point you say, not in my book.
@@dotmanmide so you’d date her if she was unattractive?
@@WatNeyHD don't get what you mean. I think you didn't understand my comment.
@@dotmanmide if your status doesn’t matter then neither should her looks. If you want a girl that looks good you need to bring something to the table yourself
All y’all dudes disagreeing are in denial. He’s not justifying the changes that society is currently embracing, he’s telling you to ADAPT. If you choose not to adapt that’s fine but realize you’re literally being weeded out by nature if you choose not to adapt.
Agreed, the dating market will get even more cutthroat from here on out
Your absolutely 100% right..if you don't bling and sell the dream ..she's not going to join your team 💯💯💯👍🙂
Straight facts as always bruh 👏👏. You got to sell her the fantasy the same way she does when she wears her mask and costume and inflates your ego. We got to get cold fellas 🥶 💯💪🎯
You in this bih preachin bruh! 😎🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽
Appreciate the gems 💎 steph
Get out your phone and go connect with people outside.
Take care of yourselves kings, stay fit and healthy and go hustle 💪🏾
hell naw bruhh i got family i gotta talk too on my phone
Listen ya'll I live in Detroit and Steph is right them Buffs or Buffys do get you all the women on yo sack in a heart beat it's like having all the infinity stones at your disposal man it's crazy.
I personally tried following the set rules and that shit don't get you nowhere so I will be manifesting and challenging myself to get the things I want and look good while doing it.
That's just what it is now and believe it or not we can't change it we just have to adapt and level up.
Steph ain’t miss with this one!!!
We gotta get colder. we all gotta be on hawk mode 🦅
Number one rule in the real world and internet web you have to look like something to attract something that's just the way it goes, when people don't know you the only thing people have to go by is the first thing that they see your presentation and your representatives
im finna look like myself
Thanks bro .. Watching this TRUTH @ 5:19 Am in the Morning ... Mind Blowing 🔥🔥
Mr. Stepiscold about to hit a Million Subscribers.... 💯% Facts Facts 🐺
Steph came with fire🤣🤣
I’ll give you a point. If she uses social media, just give up because she’s never going to delete it & will always seek attention from other men no matter what you do. Find a girl in person who isn’t addicted to unlimited dopamine hits by other men all day.
Steph this video was well needed and I couldn't have said it better myself. This world is changing, gotta adapt to this shit. Don't play by the rules just like how they aren't. Winter around the corner boys. "Batman wings off their eyes" 💀. Sell them the dream, can't takem seriously.
I know this video is old but thank you steph I was the guy who said that those things don’t matter and I have been having success with out them but I’m gonna Maximize my chances with this 🙏🏾
Well I guess I’m “playing” the game totally wrong…lmao…I’ll be regular asf, thank you very much. South Beach firefighter here, my life is secure, sewed up. Only thing close to social media I have is commenting on UA-cam. Showing out and doing the most is pretty weak to me. But what do I know???
Facts. If u gonna play the online game then you gotta look like somebody.
count me out
Man I just turned 44 in Oct and no truer words have been spoken. If you somebody AND she can show off your IG to her homegirls to make them jealous… You. Are. Winning.
Love your work bro keep it up!
I'm 33 years old. Dating isn't complicated and you don't have to actually be on social media chasing these fake personalities or women. Just go out, live in the moment, and when a girl is attracted to you in whatever way believe me they'll come and want to be with you so be ready to strike up a conversation. Most of the real ones who aren't dating because of social media already have their married lives together for years and sharing happiness with their children and family in the tradition spirit of things. Good luck all, stay strong 💪
Its kinda easy for you to say this at 33. Most women around your age are either on the edge of no return or have decided to be single forever. Its difficult for somebody like me at 25. Most women my age want the bad boy, drug dealer type. They ignore the men that have their own. They love the bums
@@yungmaniac7561 idk your circumstances. Just being around those with common interest and you'll be alright.
@@yungmaniac7561 just get the money 1st the one life advice that really matters. Money rules everything. You think a bitch worried about pookie and ray ray when the money walk in the room? Money and game = modern day alpha
@@Officerblack21 looks are important
@@robbenvanpersie1562 looks only get you in the door my guy the money and game is what keep interest
“The black man skin is the drip” Damn straight Facts 🔥💯💧‼️👌🏾
Big facts I had this talk wit my boy a couple of days ago “ you play the game to win “ check the Scoreboard boy we up
Aye bruh this your coldest video all-time 🥶
“The black man’s skin IS the drip.”.