Women Will Use You For Dinner Dates And Validation
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I like how you was reading it but switched up with your old words by saying Sweetwatery guts🤣🤣🤣
I love you're life big bro 💪
Just like the animal kingdom, the strongest, alpha lion fuck the lioness, the lioness won't fuck with the weak lions, they want the better genetics for their cubs.
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TURN YO LIGHT DOWN OR FIX THEM SETTINGS TOO BRIGHT G
A wise man once said "A man who does everything for a woman, the moment he doesn't do one thing for her, he becomes the worst man in the world but the man who doesn't do anything for a woman, the moment he does one thing for her, he becomes the best man in the world according to her.
The moral of the story, save your time and money guys, those creatures are ungrateful!
This makes so much sense.
U got to do Complete the opposite with women!
Beez no it don't a real man always takes cares of his lady if probably make she's to you because you really don't have a girlfriend
That's exactly right. If you stay on your game a women will want to submit & will stay in her feminine frame. She'll do everything for YOU
@@darnellwilliams8783 a real lady takes care of her man
*if it’s wrong for a man to be entitled to a frmales body; then it’s wrong for her to be entitled to a man’s attention, time & money*
Of course
Entitled is a strong word though
@@tiktokatnight7364 nah you just weak
@@hustlekingcairo3317 - Cus I don’t feel entitled to someone else’s body? That’s some creep ish big dog. Ian tryna step on nobody toes though alpha man.
@@tiktokatnight7364 you're can't comprehend. why would a man given attention,time, and money if no s3x is on the table. Entitled is the perfect word because if you don't give s3x, then you are wasting your time anyway. Go date m3n then
Never take chicks you're not with on dinner dates. She should earn her keep in order to be taken out on dinner dates. The last time I checked only husbands and wives, boyfriend and girlfriend go out on dinner dates. Not platonic friends.
This is true, some girls will dress it up as “courting” but even still be careful
Even though I'm 18 it's sad i had talk to my little 15 year old cousin about dating he wanted to take this girl out for ice cream man i told that nigga y'all both better go half or nobody getting ice cream and he was gonna take her to family restaurant called Friendly's
@@maliqflowers5112 hell nah
@@007ejgaming that's what I'm saying bro it's like he wants to learn his lesson that's why I don't think it's a good idea
Deano.Gordon I don't want your advice burger king employee
Never take random chicks on dates and Never give these chicks free attention and validation and always put yourself first and stay on your purpose so can become colder and successful in life and always talk to the chicks that want to talk to you less games and excuses you will have to deal with 💯
None of that makes sense I love taking women out on expensive dinners In my BMW why because I can afford it
@@darnellwilliams8783 and dudes like u is the reason they use dudes (not me) for dates lol
I hear you, but when you're a man that have shit.. its nothing wrong with taken a woman out that you're interested in.
*never date and never do ANYTHING that benefits her*
@@GoaWay4Sanity as a man those are the things that makes us happy... doing things for others.
Friend zone is a way of telling man I don’t want to talk to you anymore. You just there for free validation
Boy being friendzoned made my heart cold no more I take myself on dates plus my bank account is good.
Exactly you're a trophy for her.
@@lonniejolly5882 I say Self, Baby you can have whatever you want, I dont care what it costs. You mean that much to me"🤣
@@lonniejolly5882 Don't let it turn your heart cold. As Alpha Kings we dont become contaminated by negative outside influences. Any weapon forged against you should instead, be taken and used against your enemies. Taking 6 women who friendzoned you altogether on a dinner date can be viewed as an investment in Self. The people would wonder, "is this guy some type of pimp?" Taking a beautiful friend out on a date is alluring to women. Women are competitive in nature. They will all think you're fucking the others even if you say "Nah we're just friends ". Not only women, but people ,in general dont want somebody who noone else wants.
@@justallah2785 😂‼️💯
You have to recognize interest level quick. Everything is easy when they're feeling you. Do not attempt to raise their interest under any circumstances.
I concur
*Facts* 🔥
No validation I agree bro
@👑 Value Aint nobody reading all that bullshit
Facts. Shorties that mention dinner it’s 🐢
We gotta get colder
Ice cold
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Blizzard ❄🥶🧊
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Frozone 🥶🥶🥶🥶
Things to start in 2022:
- working out
- investing money (crypto, stocks, savings)
- ending bad habits (snoozing, gosipping, procrastinating)
- planning your days
- Eating healthier & learning to cook
- weekly walks (in nature, no headphones/airpods)
- drinking water daily (2-3 liters)
- Reading at least 5-10 pages of a (e)book
- Quiting drugs/alcohol (you don't need that bs)
- meditating
- Giving to the less fortunates
- cutting out bad friends & family
- minimalism
- Learning a (remote) skill (coding, music, designing, marketing)
[Screenshot this, atleast try it & any questions? I'm open for answering it]
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We tryna have sex and get shit pregnant. Don’t nobody want to hear that.
@@darrenlobban7033 Exactly. Piping them thotties and driving THEM crazy after. 💯😂😂
I like all of them but that weed getting smoked bruh 💯⛽️
@@supersonic777able Lol
Confidence is silent. Insecurities are loud. Most of these girls are on the road to self destructive endings so don’t waste your time.
Brutal 🔥
I like this bro 😎
Man😤💯💯
Facts even the cute ones can’t even look at u in the face when u walk past I catch them looking up when they barely past me all the time like where is your confidence @ lol
Preach. It's a shame that there are a lot of dudes out there who are smps and w-knights, desperate to save them from those self destructive endings. They need to wake up and let them learn the hardway. And a lot of them dudes are even in these comments claiming they don't fucks with these females. Let's be honest.
10 Lies Women Tell That Men Should Watch Out For!
1. I’m busy
2. I can’t meet up with you today - cancelling without giving you an alternative date
3. I’m tired
4. Maybe
5. I just want to hook up
6. I’m not that type of girl - she is that type of girl lol
7. I’m just friends with my ex
8. We can just be friends
9. I don’t do this often
10. I’m sorry
You forgot “I’ll think about it”
@@KANIKAINDAHUNCHO this will fall in with maybe*
For the dudes she likes it always free, but for the dudes she doesn’t there’s always a fee
Strange. My ex that has me blocked for the last 10 years always comes back round and lets me hit it for free 🤣
I had one girl that I wouldn’t commit to try to friend zone me after I had already hit like 20 times. I guess she was interested in some other guy at the time. She thought she was bouta be getting free rides, food, and other shit while he was piping, but I cut her off the same day. Never talked to her again, and she was still calling me months later. The same way we are not entitled to a woman’s body is the same way they aren’t entitled to our time, energy, and resources.
👍🏾but why did you stop accepting her calls and why does it matter if someone else is smashing or did she cut you off after the 20 x's?
Lmaoo good play sir
Yeah now if I'm interested in a girl and she try that friendzone. I end it immediately and let them know straight up I don't play that
@@tercial does having a female as a friend not have its benefits?
@@justallah2785 nope. I have sisters
The truth is, if she ain't feeling you, she ain't f****** you, first date or not 💯
Chicks that’s not interested in you will say she she’s busy all the time and she will flake and she will make excuses after excuses and she will play games all the time and she will leave you on delivered and open and always spot the red flags before it’s too late 💯💯
Worst part about this is you don’t want to hold every woman to the same standard so some you try a bit with forgetting these simple principles.
If she says she's busy ONCE, then that should be it! If you keep trying after that then your a glutton for punishment.
@@goldenperspective9929 nigga what why wouldn’t you. Cause that means your making exceptions then if your not holding them to the same standard
@@ohfr20 oh fr? Never saw it like that. I like that. That’s a Golden Perspective (you like how I used both if our names in the response) but fr I like that perspective damn. My glass half full now not half empty
@@goldenperspective9929 example. Her ass fat and she cute but got a mean ass attitude all the time. Your making exceptions because she’s cute and has a fat ass but for me if we can’t get along then your gone lol
Get off social media, focus on yourself and your money and when women see value. They will come naturally. It's simple.
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I just got played for validation and I’m glad it happened because it pushed me to take the red pill. I’m done playing games. I’m 6’4” and not bad looking so when I get my money up and my muscle up… it’s gonna be cold af. Thank you, Steph.
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Same happened to me! On my journey
Almost all men get played
@@x97s even the best looking men do g
Year of the wolf 🐺
I read this yesterday and it opened my eyes: *“You don’t get what you want in life, you get who you are!”*
Brah this is a dope line
Facts
That quote is cold
Game changer when you realize this
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Time is an important asset for men. Go where you are celebrated not tolerated.
"Don't impress, be impressive"
Facts 💯
You got that from Zeb?
Why is this even a question? Dating is SEX. Dating is with the intentions of having a relationship =sex. If you’re in a relationship or dating you’re not having SEX. You’re not dating. You just a friend =friend zoned.
Women know this but okay the ignorant.
Women don’t owe you anything nor SEX. Is it up to you as a man to know what’s going on. Your validations and times are your must precious assets. Don’t give it for free. A woman that wants you will give you sex without you even asking for it.. if sex is hard to get from her “ YOU ARE NOT THAT GUY TO HER.
She may not want you per say, she may just want sex like you do. Fair exchange is not robbery.
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If there was just one lesson this would be it fam🤑
*The "drinks" are at my place.*
*The icecream is at my place.*
*The movies are at my place.*
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Yea but you gotta realize not every women is gonna wanna come to your house. Especially if they don’t know you like that. Just like I’m not tryna have some random woman come over to my place or go to hers.
@@Haddonfield63 Exactly lol
@@Haddonfield63 💯u a smart man cuz that's the quickest way to get set up having random females come over 🥴
RIGHT!!! LMFAOOOOOOOO FUCK THE BULLLLSHIIET
If a chick really like you she’s going to break every rule in the book and she’d let you smash same night this happened to me many times I didn’t even have to go on dates
ian gonna lie me too but ian never made the connection, matter fact same night is where i get a heavy portion of my action, 🤷🏽♂️
I have a terrible habit of taking a girl I barely meet to dinner/ movie dates and it has been a disaster. No more. No mo
Facts we I’ve been there too brother I got tired of wasting my money. That’s a wrap no more opening my wallet to these broads
Alex you got to become Cold you on your way.
Just remember the Best thing to do is a cheap date, dates are for u to get to know a person, not to impress them💯💯
@@devincorbett3040 yes sir
First off, change that goofy ass profile picture. Women will see you as a easy mark
If a woman is offended that you want to sleep w her quickly she isnt attracted to you
StephIsCold's videogames analogies to the current dating market always cracks me up and i totally agree with that.
THE BASKETBALL ONES TOO, NIGGA TAKE METAPHORS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL
"Running fast than a b1tch".... had me laughing 😆 🤣
His final fantasy aka RPG's analogies are dope 👌
@@J-gritty Those are is lit 🔥
That’s what made dude one of my favorites. Dude breaks it down, makes it relatable, and funny
Y'all still treating these chicks to dates!? Lol, good luck with that!
Lol
Facts
Man they ain't just taking them to dates they wifing up these chick LMFAOO
The biggest L is spending hundreds on her and she pipe another dude after the date with you
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The answer to modern dating is to not date at all. The game is rigged to one side of the party and being toxic is normalized now. Prove me wrong! 🤷🏾♂️
But you still wanna clap tho. The answer is to get COLDER. Not complain
@@tysonwilliams2050 facts
@@tysonwilliams2050 facts bro but he ain't lying though
@@tysonwilliams2050 but is he wrong though
We just have to adapt!
Best way to avoid all this is to be up front from the jump.
That makes too much sense. People think they gotta come up with all these games when women got the most game. It’s up to you to recognize it and act accordingly. A woman is only gonna follow what you lead with
@@Haddonfield63 They don't have game but they know the game better than most men
@@mikegee8345 women have game. Theirs is different than ours. Any time I hear a man complain about anything a woman does it reaffirms it for me. They using that bargaining chip and men get too blinded by it.
They say men are not entitled to their body but they use their body Physically and/or visually to get what they feel they are entitled to from men ..... Bottom line if you're not entitled to her body she shouldn't be entitled to your resources and that goes for a time and attention too because that is still a resource
Boi that’s the DAAYUMM truth LMFAOOOOOOOO 🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥
Real talk bro
Basically if a shorty ain’t on my body I ain’t going nowhere or doing anything with her idc I’m not ya platonic friend and I don’t care to be one either
Big Facts it happened to me and that’s why I don’t pay for dinner on dates a lesson learned.
In my opinion you can take a woman on a dinner date when she has earnt a place in your life ! Meaning she constantly provides support to your mission as a man and also you guys have sexual chemistry !
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I learn quick boooy...one word answers...no replies...I'm gooood lmaoo ...like u said IM NOT DOING NUN OF DAT SHIT!!!! FUCC I LOOK LIKE 🤣🤣🤣
Keep your money in pocket & they will fall in your lap. -Dr. Boa
You see...it is not enough making (or having) money ... *the key here is NOT giving it to them* .
Bingo !
All day level up
They use the nice guys and get used by the chads and Tyrone’s. Fellas it’s called karma, the life cycle of the 304
Amen
Real talk then when they get used up they come looking for that nice guy they had in the friendzoned but he done wised up and moved on.
Y’all love saying Chad and Tyrone
@@Haddonfield63 it’s pathetic 🤦♂️ so many young cats are lost in this internet stuff
The best advice my older brother ever gave me....let women come to you
Oh mane!
I ain’t gone lie all my girls give it up the first day we actually chill, but that’s cause I deal with women who are attracted to me
If she dont put heart eyes under my pics, she aint getting no dates 🙅🏽♂️. I only ask out women that show a certain level of interest.
Almost happened to me but I put a stop to it. Stay aware y’all
I’m below freezing 🥶
same fam for real these 304's want all free validation
Coffee dates 95% of time for me, they think that's "broke" ok see you around lol
And *it's OK* , by the way to have a coffee date at night. Let's get colder, fam.
Most women ive dealt with , ive slept with them first then took them out after. If a woman really wants to sleep with you she wont play games.
As it should be. Can't remember the last time I went on a date or taken a woman out. Once a woman likes you it's automatic. She giving you her money, her body everything she got. Sad that men are still out there dealing with mediocrity
@@bigcohiba298 thats true to women have bought me stuff and i never asked for it or wanted it. Sometimes it depends on where you live , the women or deal with or your overall presence to be honest
@@anchorpoint3631 lmfao thanks i guess and they are everywhere just learn to talk to women lol
only if she’s ugly or you’re hella good looking.
@@wtmusic515 id say the second one but honestly if you find a woman that likes you , then the same thing will happen to you trust me
I actually think Kevin Samuels is giving great advice. Men seek women to mate with them, period. So if you as a woman don't see yourself being intimately involved with the guy I would say don't go on a date with him at all.
Thank you!!
Idk about y’all but I’ve noticed something like a trend in online dating. Women who say no hookups and all that other nonsense, ALWAYS have pictures of themselves in hotel rooms. In my personal opinion, that’s a super TURN OFF. They are basically taking hotel mirror selfies right before they get ran through! 🤦🏻♂️ What y’all think cuz I think this is an interesting topic…
That's true
Or they’re on vacation or traveling lol
@@tostitosfritos1748 getting ran thru
@@rehtuluv y’all are so upset about women having sex why y’all care so much?
@@tostitosfritos1748 😭 triggered
*never date or do ANYTHING that benefits her before you! If you do that, then you deserve everything you get!*
We all get what we deserve.
@@justallah2785
*no! you deserve what you accept!*
Look at it like this too fellas, especially if you have your life together and constantly progressing. You upgrade a woman and make her life easier just by allowing her to be in your space. Why would you chase and try to convince someone to let you be a blessing to them. That’s like a woman throwing away a 50k winning scratch off ticket and you’re trying to catch her to give it back but she keeps running away from you. You gonna keep chasing? Or you gonna count your own blessing?
Stick to be on your purpose fellas y'all can't spend dinner dates with females let them come to you no more pursuing and chasing women chase your goals and dreams accomplish greatness 💯💯💯
The classic gender battle where men aim to smash without giving up their time, money, and attention while women aim to obtain a man's time, money, and attention without having to smash. Remember, the higher value you are, the more leverage you have to get what you want without sacrificing your resources and lesser value, the more you'll have to give up to get laid. Stay self-improving gang!
Bump 💯
These Women Wanna Go On These "Dates" To Take Pics Of The Food And Of Themselves For The Gram, Thats All
Basic
Bruh like 3 years ago I took a woman on a date to Pappadeaux or however you spell it…first time date after I met her at walmart…she was looking good but went to the bathroom and was gone like 15 minutes taking pictures of herself in the mirror(showed them to me) then wanted pictures by my car after the date..I was so pissed and felt like I went on a date by myself.
We waiting for you on fresh and fit my g . A lot of fans there of yours
Fax we need that
Need to sees that
Wordddd
If we have to convince a female to date us and succeed she’ll be with us but restrict sex and access to her then she will eventually leave you for a guy she wants.. solid advice Steph💯
I don't know why men bother, according to CDC statistics in 2018 anywhere from 68 million American had a STI it is also said 1-5 people may be walking around with a STD!!!!Stay Woke or be Broke Folks!!!!
While you're going on dates with her, some dudes tapped her without doing all that.
Change your game, focus on your stuff
Dudes is always gonna cape for women it’s actually unreal bruh
Too many simps out here. Too many
It's always the simps bro they would never learn
@@yourunclesimp1 facts💯
Evan ACe its not taking I can afford my women
Bro this vid hit me in the heart thank you I just went 10 degrees colder
It’s already been put out there how 1/3 women go one dates for free food. (Free food Felicia’s) beware of them and make sure you vet accordingly!
Gotta beware of The Meal Scammers😁
MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT TO THE BROTHER STEPISCOLD 💯
Enjoying these longer videos. Keep bringing the heat, brother.
It’s wild how irks conditions is it’s completely ok for a man to be used but if ask for anything from a woman you are entitled
My sister go on dates for food then gives me the food
So glad to see your channel grow young man. Keep grinding!
Glad for guys like Rollo and Steph being around, I wish this content would have appeared to me sooner in life. I sometimes envy younger fellas for the opportunity to learn from what's being taught here instead of going for a good couple of decades before getting it, if ever getting it..
Often times the youth are not mentally apt to accept the wisdom. Who can really advise you when the pussy game is brand new to you 🤷🏾♂️
Man who you telling 😫
Bro, sometimes ya forget this shit and fall into the trappings, I thank this man for reminding me of what I'm supposed to be doing. It's back to the grind.
You been going crazy lately!!! Feels like 2019 all over again. Proud of you
You on fire my man. You really a Cool guy man. You been helping me stay on track with my beats and not chasing females. Thank you bro
We blessed to be getting this info for free. Shit can safe us 18 years of child support. Truly grateful 🙏🏾
Im glad you exist, Steph.
Just wanna focus on me being cold, working on my finances and choosing who I want. Imma get so good Imma pick n choose and not settle for what I can get 💪
Realest video yet. Keep doin ur thing my boi. I felt that when you said it’s like a game. “Let them come to you for the kill.”💯💯💯💯
“When you’re attracting you’re not chasing.” I like that quote man, recently I’ve met a girl I feel I connected with but she hasn’t really done any of the things you’ve said. I’m texting her more often than she chases me. Totally feel you on that. Thanks for advice Steph!
Another great sermon by Pastor Steph ✝️ 🙏🏾always reminding us and teaching us how important it is to deal with women that like you for you to work on yourself and your goals so you can become the best cold version of your self I swear the more I watch Steph it’s cool I feel like I’m getting colder and colder and really understanding how super important it is to know female nature as men we already have so much against us in a lot of things are not in our favor so it’s important that we put ourselves in the best position possible to become better to strive for better and not to settle for anything less and I said it before and I’ll say it again Steph you have no idea how much we appreciate you dropping your wisdom and knowledge📚 you are the fucking goat 🐐💯‼️ it’s gonna be a cold 2022 for all of us🥶😎🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
Yo Steph, thank u for the enlightenment. Over the past year and some change that i discovered ur videos, it woke me up! It snapped me out of this stupid spell i was put under, i was down bad, making women my main goals and putting them on pedastals….and getting my heart broken, time wasted and not getting what i want everytime. U taught me what was important, showed me how to be the man i needed to be, so i started grinding hard at work, working out, budgeting and eating better, i started my first year of college last year, and following my own goals. Finally at the age of 26 i got laid for the first time three days ago, and i got hella shit lined up me, the future looking great, shit really do happen when u focus on grind first and yourself! Thank u so much my brotha, god bless u 🙏🏾
Well done sir, keep it going
@👑 Value I gotchu 🙏🏾 thank u for the advice
I seen about 50 videos. But this the one steph🙏🏾🧘🏾♂️
Great Video! The information Steph shared applies to everything in life. Most people chase success without being financially stable. What you need to do is get your money up so then you can be financially stable enough to get a skill/trade. A lot of people go to school broke and that's their downfall. Yeah you can go to school broke, but you'll struggle ALOT more than if you had 2 years of savings from working 60 hours a week.
glad i learned/ am learning all this with no history of a girlfriend or broken heart. will never take a girl on a date that cost more than 10$. i don’t text women unless i’m tryna link or need a meal. time and energy are things that are extremely valuable, not going to waste any more of it on a woman.
This approach steph uses is refreshing sometimes you need to be told point blank how it is
Reminds me of my Dad you need to be hardened
Steph that new art piece in the back is COLLD💯
Cold advice, man. Gotta say the background music adds a good vibe to the video as a whole. Keep it up Steph!
That analogy at the end was awesome 👏
I've learned so much by watching your videos.
best video in the world !!! we really appreciate you bruh
Thanks unc steph stay strong fellas 🖤🫡
We gotta get COLDER! 🥶
i think as men…we should stop saying “PERIOD”….these females damn near trademark it…as men lets start using “BOTTOM LINE”…lets use our own verbiage
That’s the bottom line
In the 90's chicago westside... We said 'point, blank, period.' Woman hijacked that shit 😆
@@antoniog4894 we can use point blank.
Big facts!! Dating is an afternoon to mid day thing...if you are trying to keep it respectful
The longer the vids the realest it gets 🤝💯
Stay out of a woman’s “Do-Boy Friend Zone”, even if you need to remove her from your contact list.
Sometimes people have nothing to offer a friendship 😥
I’m honestly just to standoffish you ever be in the friend zone. I’ve never once been a friend to any woman.
The analogies are on point especially the army one
Thats the realistic thing I listened today thank u Steph🅿️
The video game analogy is GOLD!! Awesome vid💯
26:08 That’s very true in call of duty games teammates always pushing out and running straight into bullets. As a man don’t rush out the base to chase women just camp and build your kill streak 💯🧠
gotta get colder 🥶 thanks steph for reminding me 🥶
Always dropping heat had to share on
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I like the new approach your coming to your videos. Love your content bro keep evolving.
Yoooo, lmaooo. Bro you're funny asf! When you exaggerated that speed walk in your chair with the str8 face and said "Hi, my name is Dylan and I want to take you on a fucking date!" That shit had me weak asf! lmaooo.
Go crazy brotha 💪🏾
Mannnnnnnnn you spoke that 🔥🔥🔥 I been doing this shit a long time mane and belive me ain’t nothing like when they at you and you act like you don’t see the signs.Makes them come at you harder cause they not used to having to work for a man attention
Get them Steph... We need that two videos a day work thou
These are the type of SIC videos I like the most 👍👍
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young king, you got it, I remember in my younger years when females were trying to play me by getting free meals off of me and putting me in a friend zone , once I got put in a friend zone I will start talking to that female's friend or her cousin.
You are so wise. I cant believe you figured out this shit so much younger than me thats impressive.