Ken and I had a wonderful experience with The And. You can hear our daughter in the background protesting when Nick (a team member) left the room for a moment. (He’d become a fast friend of hers). There were moments when words could not express what we were feeling but I am glad to see so many comments that it was understood and felt. Yes we love and respect one another and our family very deeply. We shared a lot of laughs as well as tears for our time with The And and hopefully we will visit again in the future... maybe our baby girl will want to say hello too.
GreenPastures Stillwaters aww, you guys are a beautiful couple. “Why do you love me?” Response was amazing!!! May you continue to stay blessed in your relationship!
Thank you all for the kind comments. Deborah and I had such a wonderful experience taking part in this, and our little one truly enjoyed meeting everyone at {The And}. One of the things Deborah mentioned was my occupation, which I noticed at least one person was curious what that was and why it was so eye-opening for Deb. I am an accountant/CPA and was a tax partner in a CPA firm at the time. We met for coffee on March 13. For those that don't know, that is 2 days before a major tax filing deadline. We spent 3 hours in the coffee shop that afternoon. Again, 2 days before a major deadline. Then, over the next month leading up to April 15 we would meet up, as Deborah said, around midnight and just talk until the sun nearly came up. There were many, many tired days during that first month but I would not change a minute of it. It was so worth seeing her every day and the thought of getting together with her is what kept me going. Again, I am humbled by the amount of support you all have shown and hope to provide updates on us and our family in the future. Be well.
The And does have a card game so you’re in luck! Also we’ve both been around the block a time or two with love... I’m just glad we were able to recognize our compatibility when we felt it.
VIIVI H Hey VIIVI One of the wonderful team members Nick was babysitting Olive and doing a fantastic job, so good in fact Olive (our daughter) hollered when he left the room. When he returned she was fine again. She had a really good time!
1. Deborah is a stunner. 2. They make a beautiful couple 3. They both exude peace 4. Like Andrew & Keisha we have now all fallen in love with them as the broader Skin Deep community, so this is now effectively OUR relationship too and we expect them to come back and give us updates on how they are doing 🤣. 5. God bless them 🤗
Sheva I too feel so thankful to have them answering these deeply beautiful questions on video forever too! I love you Aunty Debbie and Uncle Ken! Have you seen these comments? Some of them are spot on about sensing the peace and warmth emanating through the screen. What an honor for you and I to know that they really are this way, and even more, IRL!!
To have a man who says “ You’ve made our house a welcoming home.” Ladies: This woman is the definition of “BE A MAN’S PEACE!” Wow. I don’t even want to get married, I might reconsider.
I am glad Ken feels that way when he comes home. Just between us (and UA-cam obviously) it isn’t anything I do “for him” it’s just what happens naturally if any person loves themselves and treats themselves with compassion and patience.... it just automatically spreads outwardly and affects others, their family, friends even strangers. ( my completely unprofessional opinion)
FIRST OFF I HAVE TO WRITE IN ALL CAPS TO EXPRESS HOW AMAZING THIS WAS 🤯😢😭 THIS WAS EVERYTHING. THEY ARE LIKE ANDREW & KEISHA BUT MORE SERIOUS. I LOVE IT
Wow what she said, about turning the corner, and having coffee with you that day, how it changed her life for the good.is BEAUTIFUL. Girl I'm happy for you.
What a beautiful couple. I’m in love with their energy, their love, compassion and admiration for one another. They have this calm and thoughtful pace, so connected... I just love it.
to see a love so PURE and RAW...... i want this one day. I want my children to look at their parents and see how real love is in everyday life....okay im crying now... brb lol
Yes! This is probably my favorite aspect of our relationship... it isn’t complicated or dramatic... it’s transparent, and just honest without pretense. I guess that wasn’t too much to ask for after all.
This video touched my soul in so many ways. I did lose my husband after fighting cancer for eight years. He was an amazing man that changed my life for the better in so many ways. I am grateful to have shared such a beautiful love. Watching these videos remind me that there are people who truly want to be married in a relationship with one, and only one, loyal and loving mate. Thank you for capturing your love in this video and sharing it with us. It warms my heart and gives me hope.
WOW!! They never stopped looking each other in the eyes after 5 years..beautifully spoken of one another.. And three people gave this a thumbs down..they must be lonely..
Can you guys guess why I got tears! Born in orthodox family in India I was married five years ago purely arranged which didn't last for 11 days because I was darker than him..... Really after that I didn't regret for being myself, but when he said her being with the kids found sexy I really wanted to be loved by a guy like him...... God bless you guys with good health
LoveoftheSun Our daughter was hilarious! I wish we could have gotten video of her running all over the studio! She loved the team immediately and was happy to navigate their space while we filmed.
My ex had/ has cancer and I stood by him from day one . Then he dumped me. It kinda makes me sad still. Like I was the one who stood by you, at your lowest. Lmao😤 Thank you for coming to my ted talk.
If you haven't already, I hope you connect with someone where love of who and what you are is deeply reciprocated. May you share such a powerful connection that you're ultimately at peace that despite the past relationship's callous ending it opened the space for you and your beloved to build home.
The way you two look at each other omg. I too am with the the love of my life now and I can so relate. One day everything changes just like that. I count us blessed and highly favored to experience this kind of love 💕
Omg!! ❤❤❤ The love is bursting through the lens.. His honesty about her past sickness and how it scares him, Lord!!! Men this why we ask you to share your thoughts and feelings. That lil bit of info just further connected them for life. And her memory of grabbing the keys, turning the corner and getting coffee with him, boosted his love for her beyond the moon. Im convinced there kids are gonna change the world! I need a part 2 or a whole channel cuz they are just adorbs together.. I got teary eyed..
It's Me!!! We love watching The And videos, it’s such a good reminder that humans are good and kind and genuine. The various types of relationships they feature shows just how much we all really do want to connect more deeply with one another or at the very least we want to share the joy of the love we experience with others.
This is so beautiful. I love this couple. They don’t feel the need to act a certain way to express their relationship or make it seem like something it’s not. You can tell they really love each other without them having to say much about it.
This whole convo, wow!! I honestly never been lost for words, the love is just so genuine and pure, the way they look in each other’s eyes, shit who cutting onions?!?
I hope to have someone ( a man ) that is excited to come home to me too. Im single but hope that time will come. I hope to be able to make a home like she has for her family and man. Love this one.
I’m already crying just by seeing the title. Being in the medical field and seeing people die every day, it makes me appreciate life more. I pray that God strengthens this relationship! I’m tearing with joy and love because I feel their love and it feels so pure! Ladies and gents: God created these two, amen!
Ken and I had a wonderful experience with The And. You can hear our daughter in the background protesting when Nick (a team member) left the room for a moment. (He’d become a fast friend of hers). There were moments when words could not express what we were feeling but I am glad to see so many comments that it was understood and felt. Yes we love and respect one another and our family very deeply. We shared a lot of laughs as well as tears for our time with The And and hopefully we will visit again in the future... maybe our baby girl will want to say hello too.
congratulations for your family :)
Thanks for sharing 😊💕
Thank you for sharing your story❤️
GreenPastures Stillwaters aww, you guys are a beautiful couple. “Why do you love me?” Response was amazing!!! May you continue to stay blessed in your relationship!
Thank you so much for charging you guys are amazing God bless you and your family 💕💕
Thank you all for the kind comments. Deborah and I had such a wonderful experience taking part in this, and our little one truly enjoyed meeting everyone at {The And}. One of the things Deborah mentioned was my occupation, which I noticed at least one person was curious what that was and why it was so eye-opening for Deb. I am an accountant/CPA and was a tax partner in a CPA firm at the time. We met for coffee on March 13. For those that don't know, that is 2 days before a major tax filing deadline. We spent 3 hours in the coffee shop that afternoon. Again, 2 days before a major deadline. Then, over the next month leading up to April 15 we would meet up, as Deborah said, around midnight and just talk until the sun nearly came up. There were many, many tired days during that first month but I would not change a minute of it. It was so worth seeing her every day and the thought of getting together with her is what kept me going. Again, I am humbled by the amount of support you all have shown and hope to provide updates on us and our family in the future. Be well.
an accountant?!?! i was really expecting international spy or assassin...how disappointing :( but such a beautiful video and honest conversation :)
I hope you guys are well. Wishing you nothing but the best, may God bless you.
I thought it’d be doctor 😂🤣
I thought a firefighter 😅 but love your story and watching your deep love just made me cry
Thank you for the clarification. This was such a delight to experience, thank you guys for being so open with us. Congratulations on your family❤
He loves coming home. That's exactly what you need to hear from your husband...awwww
“I went to have coffee with this guy...and there you were.”
My heart.
Yessss 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
Lord I hope to knowingly achieve this level of connection one day.
Also, I need this specific set of question cards.
Right, don't we all..
r3d_ti3_guy my prayers exactly.
The And does have a card game so you’re in luck! Also we’ve both been around the block a time or two with love... I’m just glad we were able to recognize our compatibility when we felt it.
@@r3d_ti3_guy amen. God knows my friends and i yearn for it too🙏🏽
"Deborah & Ken's 1 yo child was patiently waiting in the other room with one of our producers." haha the child was screaming top of her/his lungs
VIIVI H lol I wondered why that “helpful info” at the beginning was necessary then I heard the scream and it all made sense lmao
VIIVI H
Hey VIIVI
One of the wonderful team members Nick was babysitting Olive and doing a fantastic job, so good in fact Olive (our daughter) hollered when he left the room. When he returned she was fine again. She had a really good time!
"But I love coming home so much more.."
I can't breathe!!! Send air!
😥😥😥😥😥😥
I hope you got the air we sent 😃😃🙈
@@kechib1443 😄
I need a series of this couple.
Preach
Kamilia Mubarek same here!
Please!!!
100! Pretty please.
Yes please
1. Deborah is a stunner.
2. They make a beautiful couple
3. They both exude peace
4. Like Andrew & Keisha we have now all fallen in love with them as the broader Skin Deep community, so this is now effectively OUR relationship too and we expect them to come back and give us updates on how they are doing 🤣.
5. God bless them 🤗
I love you Mom, I love you Ken, I’m grateful to have this representation of your beautiful union in this video, here, forever. ❤️😊
Sheva I too feel so thankful to have them answering these deeply beautiful questions on video forever too! I love you Aunty Debbie and Uncle Ken!
Have you seen these comments? Some of them are spot on about sensing the peace and warmth emanating through the screen. What an honor for you and I to know that they really are this way, and even more, IRL!!
Bless you BEAUTIFUL family, thanks to your mum and bonus dad.
Their relationship is absolutely beautiful
When he pat his heart.. I started tearing up so bad
aliyah brown brah I was doing so good and then boom, he did that and the tears...
Me too!
Who else is crying? 💛🤧
Meeeeeeeeee 🙋♀️
I am all in my feelings 😭
... Their baby in the background 😂😂😂
For real. That is a beautiful relationship. I can only hope to be so lucky someday. Heh.
The child in the background 😂
This melted my ice cold heart. Makes me think may be this love thing people keep talking about is real.
It is 💕
Juuuuust maybe, right?
It is sis ☺️
It's damn elusive but stories like this wow
😭😍😍😍 God, if I am to get married, please give us genuine love. Bless this couple, keep them healthy and let them grow old together. Amen!
Amen. Me too. I want a man like that true love. unconditional love. Agape Love.
I AM IN LOVE WITH HOW GENUINE THIS COUPLE IS.
This is truly one of the most beautiful connections I've ever seen on this channel. What a peaceful, loving presence they emanate.
I really love when couples on this channel talk so openly and purely about how they love each other. It reminds me that it's real and it exists.
They speak so calmly I see them smoothly talking themselves out of an argument. So beautiful to watch.
This was wayyy too short. I need more of them please!
Already know this video is going to make me tear up
6min in and I am in fact, crying :')
“ I love my job but i love coming home so much more.” Their relationship exude peace, im crying dear Lord. Manifesting this kind of energy ❤️😭🥺
i just broke up with my partner of 2 years due to infidelity... these conversations brought a lot of emotions in me.... God bless this couple!
Been there before. Not the best spot to be in.
This conversation is so genuine and just pure innocent ❤️❤️❤️❤️
The way she quietly sighed when he told her that he loved her for "just being Deborah"... Lovely. They are beautiful.
She is so soft spoken. They fit very well together.
To have a man who says “ You’ve made our house a welcoming home.”
Ladies: This woman is the definition of “BE A MAN’S PEACE!”
Wow. I don’t even want to get married, I might reconsider.
💀
🙄🙄🙄
I am glad Ken feels that way when he comes home. Just between us (and UA-cam obviously) it isn’t anything I do “for him” it’s just what happens naturally if any person loves themselves and treats themselves with compassion and patience.... it just automatically spreads outwardly and affects others, their family, friends even strangers. ( my completely unprofessional opinion)
Very true
FIRST OFF I HAVE TO WRITE IN ALL CAPS TO EXPRESS HOW AMAZING THIS WAS 🤯😢😭 THIS WAS EVERYTHING. THEY ARE LIKE ANDREW & KEISHA BUT MORE SERIOUS. I LOVE IT
Yes! Totally reminded me of my original faves, Andrew and Keisha 🤩🤗😍. God bless both couples!
Ok. So I need this couples social media so I can stalk the hell out of their beautiful, palpable love for each other 😭❤️❤️❤️
This man made me believe that there are still people who can love so deeply.
Wow what she said, about turning the corner, and having coffee with you that day, how it changed her life for the good.is BEAUTIFUL. Girl I'm happy for you.
What a beautiful couple. I’m in love with their energy, their love, compassion and admiration for one another. They have this calm and thoughtful pace, so connected... I just love it.
When you see someone you really love, you automatically smile.☺🤗 Who's Agree with me?
Words escape me. I want what they have and am so happy they have it and shared it with us!
The gentleness in their voices warms my heart ❤️
Such a beautiful example of what true love looks like!
I wonder what his job is lol They’re so calming just to watch I didn’t even notice the baby
Officer, EMT or other Medical Field, or Fire Department, I imagine.
He's an accountant. He responded and mentioned that when they first met it was tax time but he would be up talking to her until 5 am...
When the husband says to his wife I'm so happy to be home with you. You make me happy. It's a good thing in the time we still love each other.
to see a love so PURE and RAW...... i want this one day. I want my children to look at their parents and see how real love is in everyday life....okay im crying now... brb lol
... 2019: what I wanted was so simple
I almost found it,
But we are both genotype AS...
Yes! This is probably my favorite aspect of our relationship... it isn’t complicated or dramatic... it’s transparent, and just honest without pretense. I guess that wasn’t too much to ask for after all.
"I like you too"
This video touched my soul in so many ways. I did lose my husband after fighting cancer for eight years. He was an amazing man that changed my life for the better in so many ways.
I am grateful to have shared such a beautiful love. Watching these videos remind me that there are people who truly want to be married in a relationship with one, and only one, loyal and loving mate.
Thank you for capturing your love in this video and sharing it with us. It warms my heart and gives me hope.
3 years late to your comment, but it’s a beautiful one, and I am glad you had that, too. Very sorry for your loss
Wow! I pray for the day that I can love someone and have them love me back just as much! They are truly a blessed couple.
I'm just going to watch that again because of reasons.
WOW!! They never stopped looking each other in the eyes after 5 years..beautifully spoken of one another..
And three people gave this a thumbs down..they must be lonely..
Can you guys guess why I got tears! Born in orthodox family in India I was married five years ago purely arranged which didn't last for 11 days because I was darker than him..... Really after that I didn't regret for being myself, but when he said her being with the kids found sexy I really wanted to be loved by a guy like him...... God bless you guys with good health
@MsAquablue when everyone (frds n neighbours) said so I felt even worse don't know why
He has a dark heart. You don’t need that kind of energy in your life hun, don’t worry the best is yet to come I will be praying 🙏 for you.
@@lailaozman7087 thanq 🙏
@MsAquablue now ah days ah caste has its own castle built very strong enough..... Really hate this caste system
@MsAquablue yes it is racism and cast system both on same scale
I think I watch these videos just so I can tear up and to remind myself just how deep a loving relationship can be and look like. Gives me hope!
This was beautiful. My whole heart is full. I can’t even conceive how people can conjure a dislike for this beautiful moment of sharing.
I really need to start drinking coffee 🤔.
Yeah I really have to start going out 4 coffee.......
Damn its dusty in here.
“I love you.”
“I love you. I like you too!”
Perfect answer ^^^
Their souls are so beautiful together.
I love his transparency!!🥰😥
Wow. Just wow. I love how they love each other. God keep blessing their union. "I like you too" and she blushes by just looking at him
Beautiful people, beautiful conversation, beautiful baby screaming in the background 😂😂😂
LoveoftheSun
Our daughter was hilarious! I wish we could have gotten video of her running all over the studio! She loved the team immediately and was happy to navigate their space while we filmed.
The way he looks at her! ❤️ God bless you and your family.
The genuine love this couple has is just beautiful
My ex had/ has cancer and I stood by him from day one . Then he dumped me. It kinda makes me sad still. Like I was the one who stood by you, at your lowest. Lmao😤
Thank you for coming to my ted talk.
Does he still have it? Maybe he did so to push you away because he loved you and disnt wnt to be a burden
If you haven't already, I hope you connect with someone where love of who and what you are is deeply reciprocated. May you share such a powerful connection that you're ultimately at peace that despite the past relationship's callous ending it opened the space for you and your beloved to build home.
"I like you too" part at the end🤗🤗❤
Such an incredibly sweet and loving couple. Soul mates
Their love makes my heart smile. God bless you two!
What more can you ask for life? It brings tears to my eyes watching you guys ..I have goosebumps
I could feel his love for her and her love for him. So beautiful. ❤️
The way you two look at each other omg. I too am with the the love of my life now and I can so relate. One day everything changes just like that. I count us blessed and highly favored to experience this kind of love 💕
Omg!! ❤❤❤ The love is bursting through the lens.. His honesty about her past sickness and how it scares him, Lord!!! Men this why we ask you to share your thoughts and feelings. That lil bit of info just further connected them for life. And her memory of grabbing the keys, turning the corner and getting coffee with him, boosted his love for her beyond the moon. Im convinced there kids are gonna change the world! I need a part 2 or a whole channel cuz they are just adorbs together.. I got teary eyed..
They are so calming. I can't imagine them fighting.
She's so beautiful!
People who make me believe in love, and never giving up. So beautiful
U can tell shes an amazing mom 💖
Something so divine & pure about their connection 💙
This conversation is so genuine 😭😭no lies detected ❤
That was so good and added a much needed bright spot to my day. I appreciate all you do at The Skin Deep.
It's Me!!!
We love watching The And videos, it’s such a good reminder that humans are good and kind and genuine. The various types of relationships they feature shows just how much we all really do want to connect more deeply with one another or at the very least we want to share the joy of the love we experience with others.
Dear Universe: I want this. Thank you!
I felt that chill and relax with all the heavy things they've been through. Love creates that peace I guess.
More of this couple, please? :)
This is so beautiful. I love this couple. They don’t feel the need to act a certain way to express their relationship or make it seem like something it’s not. You can tell they really love each other without them having to say much about it.
His eyes. They say it all ~ how much he loves her. 😭 (7:48)
This video has me all in my feelings!!
This was just sooooo good for the soul!!
This episode was beautiful. I think it was one of my favs...
I love them and Keisha and Andrew real genuine in love couples
Baby crying cue was so on point hahah
8:52 this is the best part, just seeing her genuine reaction
anyone else tear up? that love is so genuine. I hope to achieve that one day.
So this is what love is!! What a beautiful couple! All the very best Deborah and Ken.
Who on earth could have disliked this??? What a beautiful couple 😂
The person who dislike this couple is someone who needs true love and a heart.
AWWWW that was so heartwarming. You can literally feel their love and connection❤️
That was one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen.
Whoa! This was such a warm and comforting episode 👏🏾👏🏾
TEARS!! just wow! Gives me hope! ❤
Incredibly engaging couple, so genuine, and quietly passionate about 'love and marriage'.
Darn you The And!! 🥺❤️you get me every time.
OOOOOO My 💓💗💖. THIS type of connection, bond, friendship... something special 😂😭
This whole convo, wow!! I honestly never been lost for words, the love is just so genuine and pure, the way they look in each other’s eyes, shit who cutting onions?!?
I love how she can't stop smiling
This is what love looks like...BEAUTIFUL
I hope to have someone ( a man ) that is excited to come home to me too. Im single but hope that time will come. I hope to be able to make a home like she has for her family and man. Love this one.
I really feel the love.
I love the way both of you love and care for each other. Taking time just to talk its a plus in every relationship/marriage
I love them so pure💕✨God is good!
I’m already crying just by seeing the title.
Being in the medical field and seeing people die every day, it makes me appreciate life more.
I pray that God strengthens this relationship!
I’m tearing with joy and love because I feel their love and it feels so pure!
Ladies and gents: God created these two, amen!
There is so much love here. Thank you so much for sharing.