I Told You Not To Fall In Love With Me | {THE AND} Pilar & Ramon

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  • @DrRamonRLizardo
    @DrRamonRLizardo 2 роки тому +121

    It's us in the video!
    Just wanted to encourage all to be kind to each other. We were blessed to have this conversation recorded early in our marriage for our children to one day watch. We completely forgot about it for years, so it's been so refreshing to watch with our little Lucas and Valentina, as we hope for our love to be multi-generational and our kids to treat each other, their friends, and future spouses with the same love, respect, and kindness.
    Once again, be kind to each other.

    • @kikaes5894
      @kikaes5894 2 роки тому +3

      This is what I’m holding out for… A love that transcends generations and shines bright

    • @veroniquedusabe513
      @veroniquedusabe513 2 роки тому +2

      Very well connected and a beautiful couple... very kind to each other

    • @alinaronzhina7892
      @alinaronzhina7892 2 роки тому +3

      While watching this video I just thought “She found a golden man! To be committed and love her like this!” And I pray that you can love each other like this and grow old together.

    • @CaptMoo
      @CaptMoo 2 роки тому

      Love you guys. Its like me and my wife. She would speak spanish to me and me english cause she feels more comfortable. Keep it up!

  • @SalmaRouyett
    @SalmaRouyett 2 роки тому +148

    The fact that they communicate at normal speed WITH TWO DIFFERENT LANGUAGES.. it makes you almost forget they're speaking two different languages? I understand both but still. It fascinates me how effortless and smooth they can talk. Much love

  • @lyuanaaustin6694
    @lyuanaaustin6694 2 роки тому +27

    "Those are the days I have to hold your hand tighter and longer..." I cried! 😭😭😭❤❤❤❤

  • @ash-ic3lf
    @ash-ic3lf 2 роки тому +42

    The lady's composure and aura just demands respect in a respectful way:) bcoz she deserves it. And I am glad the man recognise how precious her love is♥️

  • @D_A_Marv
    @D_A_Marv 2 роки тому +28

    Oh heavens, I felt the love between them from my screen. It is amazing and they’re lucky to have each other.

  • @xoxoIzzI23
    @xoxoIzzI23 2 роки тому +12

    Awww the way he reaffirms her is incredibly sweet and oh so kind. This was the more refreshing conversations I've seen in awhile. It's reminded me that a love so deep and concrete exists. Some people truly find the one they were written with. I adore their love.

  • @_alchemiist
    @_alchemiist 2 роки тому +49

    I want someone like him as a husband! He gets it. She’s a lucky woman, and so beautiful!

  • @londonsars0234
    @londonsars0234 2 роки тому +27

    I was originally going to judge, which I think is common human response when there is no face to face understanding, judging the fact that they have been married for four years and she understands him perfectly, yet he clearly struggles to understand her deeper. Now, I don’t know how I could ever judge this love because they honestly showed up and proudly explored their lives and the way each of them have positively been affected by being with one another and that deserves no judgment, but a round of applause. This was incredibly sweet, a bit cheesy on both of our parts, but I am honored to receive a window into their love life.

  • @jaughnekow
    @jaughnekow 2 роки тому +39

    Amazing. They enjoy their company. I hope everyone has something like this.

  • @seunajoke1297
    @seunajoke1297 2 роки тому +29

    This is so beautiful, all I see here is EFFORT, and delibrate.

  • @jooos18
    @jooos18 2 роки тому +20

    Ohhh this was beautiful ☺️ that response about which pain he wish he could heal was so so sweet

  • @alanna4148
    @alanna4148 2 роки тому +9

    Wow...my ex gave up on my relationship 1 year ago and looking at this video reminds me that i can find someone so much better that would stick with me and appreciate everything i sacrificed. I loved him so much and it was taken for granted... I need to find a man like this guy ... Literally amazing couple . I LOVE seeing healthy relationships and their conversations

    • @3D3LIA
      @3D3LIA 2 роки тому +2

      Wow same here!! When I begin to think about the good times and miss him, I see this and I’m reminded that there is a man that will understand me and will take his time. Will never embarrass me and will always have my back!

  • @littlovepocket
    @littlovepocket 2 роки тому +21

    literally saying all the words every introvert wants to hear from a partner

  • @alyssaking3663
    @alyssaking3663 2 роки тому +3

    4:06 🥺 insecurities come up so much in all of us, this hurt so much to hear because she's stunning.

  • @naut_nigel
    @naut_nigel 2 роки тому +13

    I loved his answer on what a happy marriage is.

  • @Haise8
    @Haise8 2 роки тому +4

    It's the silent jokes that create giggles only they understand
    Their communication is everything a relationship needs to be.

  • @scarlettviviandavid5478
    @scarlettviviandavid5478 2 роки тому +16

    So pure, so vulnerable and so unconditional 💞

  • @mysticdesi
    @mysticdesi 2 роки тому +6

    When he describes her when they walk into a room together💗

  • @ja8264
    @ja8264 2 роки тому +7

    This made me both so happy and so sad. Happy for them. Happy that THIS, whatever they have exists. So sad because it seems so unattainable for me. I can't imagine being this good or deserving something that good or even...being able to accept something so good...

    • @duaadehraj
      @duaadehraj 2 роки тому +4

      You will ✨♥️ if not the love of someone else, but love of yourself

  • @lanacherie184
    @lanacherie184 2 роки тому +11

    *Me... Totally not crying...* Its amazing that language does not come between them. Bit of a insecurity for me, that lack of belonging I'll sometimes feel with some of bfs family because I do not speak Spanish. Open and deep communication that builds understanding is a beautiful thing and so is Pilar and Ramon's relationship. Much love.

    • @alinaronzhina7892
      @alinaronzhina7892 2 роки тому +2

      You can learn Spanish! It’s not very difficult. I started 9 months ago and I can understand quite a lot and I can speak on a basic level. I believe it’s worth it as it will give you the opportunity to understand your partner and his family on a deeper level

    • @lanacherie184
      @lanacherie184 2 роки тому

      @@alinaronzhina7892 thanks I appreciate it. I've only taken of course HS and college Spanish 1 and 2 so I only understand a bit more than I can say. Working where I do to where most the kitchen staff speaks Spanish I've learned a bit there too.

  • @jackieo.8719
    @jackieo.8719 2 роки тому +9

    this was so divine, very wonderful. breathtaking.

  • @maryalenaflormendoza5271
    @maryalenaflormendoza5271 2 роки тому +2

    needed to watch this twice cause Im so happy these kind of love exists

  • @DRwoy
    @DRwoy 2 роки тому +4

    This is absolutely beautiful

  • @baby__sal
    @baby__sal Рік тому

    me and my SO speak different languages and sometimes communicate like this (in our own language but understand the other). It’s really encouraging to see how it can be long term because a lot of people judge us for our language differences without understanding its entirely possible to communicate well and succeed in this. Thank you!

  • @cogicforever127
    @cogicforever127 2 роки тому +1

    THEY LOVE EACH OTHER…ITS SOOOOO OBVIOUS!!! BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @Sona77.
    @Sona77. 2 роки тому +4

    Wow this kind of love exists? Incredible.

  • @stooshcompany5118
    @stooshcompany5118 2 роки тому +4

    Omg this was beautiful! Happy tears 🥲

  • @ezzahra213
    @ezzahra213 2 роки тому +6

    this was beautiful

  • @londonsars0234
    @londonsars0234 2 роки тому +4

    First up!! I can’t wait to get to know their connection!

  • @내이름은애승
    @내이름은애승 2 роки тому +6

    Wow I cant believe this man is real god send me one of those

  • @ICE-LA-RAIN
    @ICE-LA-RAIN 2 роки тому +8

    I love this couple..... Beautiful connection...AMOR

  • @OnNth
    @OnNth 2 роки тому +2

    2nd question have me crying 🥺🥺such a great husband ❤️

  • @3D3LIA
    @3D3LIA 2 роки тому +3

    He gets it! He’s got it! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @ms.angiesworld8696
    @ms.angiesworld8696 2 роки тому +6

    Wow, this was BEAUTIFUL ❤️

  • @amardeep8784
    @amardeep8784 2 роки тому +5

    he's so sweet!!

  • @gloriatanui9219
    @gloriatanui9219 2 роки тому +2

    Love and admire their love ❣️ I hope for this and more one day.

  • @HappinessTheBrand
    @HappinessTheBrand 2 роки тому +2

    Him: Don't fall in love with me
    Her: You wish
    Him: I am now in love with you

  • @JJ-qz5gv
    @JJ-qz5gv Рік тому

    God I love this man.... the things he does to "bring her back". Damn 💯

  • @AaronSof
    @AaronSof 2 роки тому +8

    He is good.

  • @lakshmimuralidharan8294
    @lakshmimuralidharan8294 2 роки тому +4

    So beautiful!

  • @bigteeist
    @bigteeist 2 роки тому +1

    This is what I'm looking for she is out there and I'm going to find her ❤️

  • @voyance4elle
    @voyance4elle 2 роки тому +2

    Gosh I love these two ♥️

  • @mistercherries
    @mistercherries 2 роки тому +7

    I love them

  • @Kaykay-jh1zu
    @Kaykay-jh1zu 2 роки тому +2

    I waaaaaaaaaant 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

  • @loveyourself1726
    @loveyourself1726 2 роки тому

    La parte de las inseguridades la entiendo taaaaaaaanto. Afortunada de tenerlo a él para sostener su mano. ❤️

  • @Rowmokoko
    @Rowmokoko 2 роки тому

    2:47 = "Goot"

  • @patriziadipasquale3574
    @patriziadipasquale3574 2 роки тому +4

    ❤❤

  • @salaamfx
    @salaamfx 2 роки тому +3

    🥺🥺

  • @nancyhelmick7983
    @nancyhelmick7983 Рік тому

    I DEFINITELY want THAT

  • @nordiclights1
    @nordiclights1 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @isabellemiango3228
    @isabellemiango3228 2 роки тому +4

    So this not Sucre?

    • @user-yq8dp6oy6n
      @user-yq8dp6oy6n 2 роки тому +2

      Hahahaha 🤣 I said sucre!!! When I saw him hahahahahah LMAO beautiful connection they have. May God bless their marriage ❤️

  • @CaptMoo
    @CaptMoo 2 роки тому

    YAaayyy sPANISsh!!!