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  • @dari6798
    @dari6798 4 місяці тому +149

    The officer was very kind & respectful to acknowledge your loss 🥺

  • @Rrlok0505
    @Rrlok0505 4 місяці тому +13

    Thank you for sharing this! The ending was beautiful! A lot of people might think differently but your grandpa look like a happy man and I’m 100% sure he definitely approves of this! Celebrating all amazing moments he brought on to you and your family! Blessings 🤍

  • @yamiletzsamaniego188
    @yamiletzsamaniego188 4 місяці тому +69

    Seeing this made me relive the moment when my grandma passed away . She passed away 2 years ago and I now cherish more than anything all the photos and videos. So you should feel blessed to have all those lovely memories of him🩷.Thank you for sharing this with us. Sending you a big virtual hug !

  • @No1Knos
    @No1Knos 4 місяці тому +37

    Alan thanks for sharing such an intimate time in your life . Real life experiences help someone else relate to that any one can do it a moment at a time . Your grandpa was and is still the sweetest man god bless his sol and praying for your grandma and your whole family and you ! ❤

    • @oca1217
      @oca1217 3 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤d

  • @ashleymarie6928
    @ashleymarie6928 4 місяці тому +51

    Very sorry for your loss the love you’ve had for your grandparents is amazing.
    Thank you for sharing even through your grief ♥️

  • @valeriedanette3612
    @valeriedanette3612 4 місяці тому +12

    Losing my abuelito in 2015 made me go thru a whole spiritual awakening because it was so painful. I was never the same person again. gave me a whole new personality shift. I still miss him and have times where I just breakdown . Grief is so crazy. Thank you for sharing your grief with us❤ you and your family are in my prayers always Alan.

  • @RozayeeRose
    @RozayeeRose 4 місяці тому +64

    Your blessed to have memories like these is amazing to cherish! I love how you love your job including your family and friends in your videos, because things like these were u can go back and cherish every moment y’all had together. I only have one tape video of my dad I wish I had my dad around still! 😢❤

    • @Alannized
      @Alannized  4 місяці тому +13

      I really I’m so blessed so have so many memories in video 😭💙

  • @Lauracgee
    @Lauracgee 4 місяці тому +280

    OMG THE VIDEO OF HIM SAYING THAT JUST GAVE ME THE GOOSEBUMPS 😢

    • @krista9852
      @krista9852 4 місяці тому +3

      That’s so crazy 😢

    • @evelynvaldivia-xo.eveeee5054
      @evelynvaldivia-xo.eveeee5054 4 місяці тому +27

      They say that ppl know when that time is coming 😢

    • @OliviaTrevino-pv7ff
      @OliviaTrevino-pv7ff 4 місяці тому

      Hi

    • @Girlyfacealex
      @Girlyfacealex 4 місяці тому +2

      Honestly gave me goosebumps ..

    • @OliviaTrevino-pv7ff
      @OliviaTrevino-pv7ff 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Girlyfacealex everyone that who did lost a love one or there family member or friend or animal or something passed away and go to home forever and ever to go be with God our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and to go be with our angels 🙏😇 I understand .............. We already done to be in the crazy world because as you guys know it no but haters and bad people and negativity negatively negative

  • @leonaeight
    @leonaeight 4 місяці тому +118

    I lost both my parents at the same time. My mom had a stroke & passed & my dad was murdered, so I feel like I can sort of relate, but I don’t know how you are able to handle such a huge loss & continue to film & work. It’s inspiring, really! ❤ I really appreciate you for allowing us to accompany you in your time of grief. I pray you find peace & your grandpa is at peace in his own way, as well. God be with you always ❤️

    • @rosioreynoso
      @rosioreynoso 4 місяці тому +9

      I'm sorry for ur loss. 2 deaths are hard back to back. I've been there my mom and Lil sister died months apart it was hard. But we gta be strong for who leave behind my sister left 4 boys. So i feel u girl

    • @leonaeight
      @leonaeight 4 місяці тому +1

      @@rosioreynoso Thank you! It is hard managing life without them. Although, I can't imagine losing a parent & a sibling so close together, I am so incredibly sorry!! 🥺 I'm not as close with my brother anymore, but I would be lost without him. I'll be praying for you, your sister's boys, & your family. I pray God always protects you & gives you the strength to face the challenges their loss brings. ❤️ (You have a beautiful name btw 😍😍)

    • @rosioreynoso
      @rosioreynoso 4 місяці тому

      @leonaeight thank u. U 2. Hope ur feeling better too. We just gotta be strong 💪

    • @rosioreynoso
      @rosioreynoso 4 місяці тому +1

      @leonaeight aww thank u. I hate it Noone ever pronounces it right. Lol. But Rosio signifys the mist in the morning. That's y my dad named me that ♥️♥️

  • @IreneSag
    @IreneSag 4 місяці тому +22

    What a wonderful thing you did by honoring your grandpa with the Rosary.
    Your Mama is Blessed to have YOU.
    I'm sure this helped her since she couldn't be in Mexico.
    Love the UTUBE plaque.... Congrats again.....

    • @adriab13
      @adriab13 4 місяці тому +4

      This is Alan’s grandpa on his dads side not his mom

  • @alexandra_ramirezz
    @alexandra_ramirezz 4 місяці тому +10

    Alan thank you for sharing his nuevenario was amazing. He is a proud grandpa looking down saying ese es mi nieto celebrando mi vida como yo overa querido. Until you meet again. God bless you and your family!!!!

  • @TheCastFam
    @TheCastFam 4 місяці тому +6

    I was NOT ready to cry like this 😫 We're here for you alan, you're not alone ♥️

  • @Blizzard17111
    @Blizzard17111 4 місяці тому +13

    So sorry for your loss Alan, my deepest condolences. We love you, sending you hugs from Texas! 🙏❤❤

  • @BtwNotEsmeralda
    @BtwNotEsmeralda 4 місяці тому +3

    Congratulations! You truly are one of the hardest working human beings ik and ur work is truly appreciated very much so thank you for all the laughter u gave me when I was breaking down, u helped me out without even knowing but continue to do so!
    I’m so sorry for you loss truly am, have no words just my love n prayers to you and all your fam.

  • @vanessaruiz498
    @vanessaruiz498 4 місяці тому +4

    I love the way you honored your grandpas passsing and celebrated his life it was a great video to watch love you Alan

  • @ayder9093
    @ayder9093 4 місяці тому +11

    Awww I'm in tears watching this. Praying for you and your family ❤

  • @celestemartinez8064
    @celestemartinez8064 4 місяці тому +1

    i felt this video hard. my grandfather passed away this june. i’m glad i was there to say goodbye and hold his hand as he made his way to his eternal home. my heart is with you.

  • @Berenicevasquez93646
    @Berenicevasquez93646 4 місяці тому +33

    Just got done with Danny’s and Irma’s new podcast and you upload rn ! Ahhhh thank you

  • @mayra13lv
    @mayra13lv 4 місяці тому +1

    😢 what a beautiful video. Thank you for sharing this moment with us. I personally loved watching your grandpa on the videos also your abuelita❤. And I love seeing your Tia dancing with the bottle on her head 🍾. 😢@1:10:38

  • @danielleescalante6783
    @danielleescalante6783 4 місяці тому +2

    So sorry for your loss. Continued prayers for you and your family. Grief comes in waves and I pray for your healing through all of them. Sending so much love, always!🕊️🙏🏼🖤

  • @NoeliaOnate-z3t
    @NoeliaOnate-z3t 4 місяці тому +1

    Very sorry for your loss the love you,ve has for your grandparents is amazing thank you sharing even though your grief 🥰🥰

  • @carolinesingh2998
    @carolinesingh2998 4 місяці тому +3

    So sorry for your loss the love you had for your grandpa so beautiful thank you for sharing🙏🏼❤️🌹🌹🇲🇽💐

  • @danielbarrera375
    @danielbarrera375 4 місяці тому

    I love your vlogs because they are just so real and authentic. Thank you so much for sharing this part of your life Alan, I thank you because I know how you feel and thank you for allowing me to grieve with you! It’s not easy baby, trust me, but you got this 💚 he will always be watching after you.

  • @isabelalvarez7946
    @isabelalvarez7946 4 місяці тому +4

    So sorry for your loss Alan. This video got me sentimental también I lost my grandfather 2 years ago. He passed the day after I had arrived to Mexico. Dios sabe porque hace las cosas. I’m just glad that I was able to spend time with him during his last years and capture some memories in video too.

  • @drea_teea
    @drea_teea 4 місяці тому +39

    Grief is really hard and is so different for everybody. I hope you know you’re not alone through any of the stages ❤ praying for you and your family

    • @Alannized
      @Alannized  4 місяці тому +4

      Gracias Amiga 🫶

    • @AbbyKuusisto-cl7lr
      @AbbyKuusisto-cl7lr 4 місяці тому

      ​@@AlannizedSame Here!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @andyyou685
    @andyyou685 4 місяці тому +1

    Alan,
    I know you don’t know me personally. But everyone including me who watches you feel like we know you personally. Your grief and hurt, makes me feel your emotions. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment with you and your family. What an inspiration and love your grandfather had. Just know that your grandfathers love will never go away nor will his moments of him being proud.

  • @missladyliiz
    @missladyliiz 4 місяці тому +4

    I love how you went all out for him. I’m sorry for your loss. Que diosito lo guarde en su Santa Gloria. ❤❤❤

  • @imsoo96
    @imsoo96 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this very intimate moment of your life with us.. such a beautiful video & celebration of ur grandpas life.. he was definitely there dancing with you guys❤️‍🩹

  • @Victoriaa187
    @Victoriaa187 4 місяці тому

    Awww amigo I wish I could give you a big hug! Just remember he’s in a better place pain free and he’s not suffering anymore. He’ll always be with you in your heart and he’ll live on forever with the memories you both made together. God bless you and your family Alan❤. Sending my condolences.

  • @julianmartinez8651
    @julianmartinez8651 4 місяці тому +5

    You’re a really strong person Alan don’t ever forget that! 🫶🏽I started watching you in the apartment days and what a journey ❤ your grandpa seemed like the sweetest person and may he rest in peace 🙏🏽 I love you Alan and you’re such and inspiration to me❤❤❤

  • @evelynvaldivia-xo.eveeee5054
    @evelynvaldivia-xo.eveeee5054 4 місяці тому +5

    My condolences Alan 🙏🏽 Grief is a healing process amigo, take all the time you need! I lost my mother in 2019 and till today it still hurts but I promise you it will get a little better as time goes on ♥️

  • @jazmine7096
    @jazmine7096 4 місяці тому

    Omg the first song the grupo played made me tear so bad. My grandma passed away earlier this year and I went to Mexico for her burial services and the mariachi we got her played this song during the progression. As I get older, the more I show more love and appreciation towards my loved ones. May your grandpa rest in peace y que diosito Les de mucha fuerza.

  • @marar.9310
    @marar.9310 4 місяці тому

    Ayyy me quiebra el corazón ver el video de tu abuelo 😢such a sweet soul. And grief how ever you want to this news gets us all sad 😔 😟 hope you and your family stay strong and prayers to yall 💚💚💚💚💚🕊🕊🕊🕊
    P.s your nephew is so big and handsome! And I love the way your dogs kept following him hehehe so cute n then Danny in the background giving your nephew treats so he can give it to you dog sooooo cute! I'm happy your family is staying together! And so lucky to have Danny apoyandote! 💚💚💚💚💚💚
    Congratulations on your 1M y mas!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Alex-gw7lh
    @Alex-gw7lh 4 місяці тому

    I loved seeing the progress of you getting mentally better, i also love your mom we def need to see her more and my condolences for you and all ur family. ❤

  • @yesenia_torres_
    @yesenia_torres_ 4 місяці тому

    Wow Alan, i’m not even five minutes in but the lyrics you shared at the beginning are beautiful. And they are true! I know he was proud of you and through the photos you shared, it was evident he had a beautiful soul, que en paz descanse. I know this is a difficult time for you and know that we recognize your strength and your heart to come on here and share with us. It brings to mind that quote, “shared joy is double the joy and shared sorrow is half a sorrow.” and i hope by sharing your experience, we can share the joy that your grandfather was and your pain can ease even if only a little bit.

  • @litzyreynamartinez9993
    @litzyreynamartinez9993 4 місяці тому

    my friend passed away last month and it’s been hard to process it. Everyday he’s in my mind and it’s hard to know he’s gone and not being here physically. We never got to hang out bc he had his own business and was working a lot but I’m thankful for the time we had together and thankfully i have videos of him from middle school and the last time we hanged out. Thank you for uploading this, grieving is not easy

  • @yanellerr__
    @yanellerr__ 4 місяці тому +2

    I just lost my aunt in January I deff understand your pain .. it’s been a long 6 months & i can still feel the pain 💔stay strong praying for your family 🙏

  • @mariarenteria8472
    @mariarenteria8472 4 місяці тому

    My heart! So so sorry for your lost. Sending you so much love and prayer .. ♥️❤️‍🩹

  • @elizabethgasca9983
    @elizabethgasca9983 4 місяці тому +8

    1 hour and 11 minutes long 💫 your grandpa is definitely with you ❤

  • @hilahlove6766
    @hilahlove6766 4 місяці тому +1

    Alan I just buried my uncle who was a father to me and the next day I lost another uncle, I seen him take his last breath. Grief is so hard, it comes and goes but they will live in your heart forever. Sending you love ❤lots of hugs

  • @carlyochoa9142
    @carlyochoa9142 4 місяці тому

    I was crying so much when they were setting up the table for your grandpa I had a ton of love for your grandpa because he reminded me of my grandma he was an amazing person as I seen him in vlogs over the years just remember that you can always still talk to him because even though he may not be there in reality he is still around in spirit he is watching over you and is your guardian angel just remember that as well lots of love to you and your family you will get through this you are very strong person that I am always inspired by just keep your head up

  • @arellytran
    @arellytran 4 місяці тому

    Alan. I don’t have words for this tremendous loss! His altar was beautiful and you have done right by him. I offer my sincerest condolences to you and your family and will keep you in my thoughts.
    You didn’t need to share this part of your life but thank you for doing so. Life isn’t always a party. You’re real. I’m so glad your family and friends came together for you.
    We are here for you. ❤

  • @jocelynnava3134
    @jocelynnava3134 4 місяці тому

    So sorry for your loss Alan🫂🤍 I lost my brother a few months ago & man I LOVE listening to that song but it never fails to make me cry😔

  • @ayoootuu8749
    @ayoootuu8749 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m glad you were able to enjoy your grandpa ✨ I wish you nothing but peace in your heart mind and soul

  • @rubyespinosa178
    @rubyespinosa178 4 місяці тому

    This video really made me cry and but it’s OK. I love your videos. I needed to cry it all out because I lost my uncle a day before Fourth of July, so I lost him on July 3 2024 of this year and it still affects me I’m sending you prayers to❤❤🙏🏻🕊️🕊️ our beautiful angels are watching over us

  • @cindyannbarriga
    @cindyannbarriga 4 місяці тому +15

    One day I will watch this vlog, but I just cannot watch you grieve it hurts too much. Sending good vibes and tons of love!

    • @Alannized
      @Alannized  4 місяці тому +8

      No friend cause I get you!!! It took me over a month to even sit down and edit this because I didn’t want to relive any of these moments 😭 💙

    • @OliviaTrevino-pv7ff
      @OliviaTrevino-pv7ff 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Alannized I understand

  • @lexytapia9810
    @lexytapia9810 4 місяці тому +3

    Awh alannized I just want to give you a hug 🤗 please don’t cry 😢 Your so strong 💪 alannized I know it’s so hard for you guys but he’s in a Better place in heaven he’s always in your hearts looking down so sorry for your loss sending you hugs 🤗 and prayers 🥹🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️ just always remember all of the memories you have with him that you will always remember take it day by day it will get better I promise you stay strong 💪 keep your head head up high we love you amiga ❤ Rest In Peace 🙏🏾❤️🕊️to your grandpa sending hugs and love and prayers 🙏🏾❤️to to your grandma as well have a great day

  • @ShailaVazquez-d7x
    @ShailaVazquez-d7x 4 місяці тому +1

    my grandpa passed away to but he got cancer and passed July 10th it was very heart breaking loosing my grandpa but we know he’s in a better place with Jesus and all those angels🕊️🤍

  • @alebaltodano6815
    @alebaltodano6815 4 місяці тому

    I lost my Grandma almost 3 years ago and it honestly never gets easier. Sending you lots of love and strength. ❤️

  • @Lupitaa99
    @Lupitaa99 4 місяці тому +2

    Your grandpa left a few days before mines. I understand you Alan ❤

  • @mynameisEsther408
    @mynameisEsther408 4 місяці тому +5

    My prayers and deepest condolences go out to you and you're family 💕 I lost my sister in March and not even a month later my little brother passed away it's been five months and I'm still grieving 😢 my heart hurt's for you. God be with us all.

  • @irenetorres861
    @irenetorres861 4 місяці тому

    I am so sorry for your loss I know exactly what you feel. I lost my grandpa 4 years ago and I still miss him like the very first day. He would always tell my that I was his favorite that no matter how old I would get that I would always be his little girl. After 4 yrs he send me my baby and he has my grandpa personality and we names him after my grandpa 🤍🤍

  • @tannia_love
    @tannia_love 4 місяці тому

    Wow what a beautiful celebration of his life 💙🙏🏼 prayers to you & your family Alan . My grandparents passed away a couple years ago and always think of them every single day 🥹

  • @BereniceSanchez-jf8rq
    @BereniceSanchez-jf8rq 4 місяці тому +21

    Mi Alan Dios con ustedes y que les de sabiduría y entendimiento a ti y tu familia …….. infinitas bendiciones y se agrádese de todo corazón que sigas subiendo contenido apresar de tu dolor ❤❤❤❤🤍🪽🤍🪽

  • @Vivi-fi4sq
    @Vivi-fi4sq 4 місяці тому

    Aw Alan my heart breaks for you 💙🙏🏼 prayers and blessings to you & the family

  • @isabellacapetillo618
    @isabellacapetillo618 4 місяці тому

    La verdad no ahí palabras para decir lo mucho que has de sentir que tu abuelito no está con ustedes pero espero que puedas seguir con tu vida poco a poco .. tu abuelito y tu abuelita se miraban tan felices que a ver que subiste este video me recordó como sentí cuánto perdí a mi abuelo pero este we here fir you Alan te queremos .. hermoso novenario que le hiciste a tu abuelito 👴🏻❤️.. keep on going Alan we will always support you in anything ❤️❤️ TE QUEREMOS ❤️❤️🙏🏻

  • @alejandratabares603
    @alejandratabares603 4 місяці тому

    I feel your pain I am also a DACA recipient and I wasn’t able to get my advanced parole in time and was not able to see my grandma for the last time . She was like mom to. Sending you a big hug 😢

  • @cutebow909
    @cutebow909 4 місяці тому

    My condolences Alan, 💕 thanks for sharing this with us 🥹God has gained an angel 👼

  • @Mayra846
    @Mayra846 4 місяці тому

    Ánimo Alan desde arriba tu abuelito te cuida siempre ah ti y ah tu familia y quédate los lindos recuerdos con el🫶🏼💖. Y cuando mire tu vídeo me acorde de mi abuelito que murió este año y nunca lo vi nomas lo en fotos

  • @stephhurtado4910
    @stephhurtado4910 4 місяці тому

    Seeing you cry to the song in the car , made me cry 8/4/21 was when my grandpa passed away and yesterday was his passing away anniversary and it’s not easy no matter if it’s been a month or yrs , we’re with you in your grieving journey ❤

  • @lorenalozano2513
    @lorenalozano2513 4 місяці тому

    On the one year of my dad I drank a bottle of red wine and ate seafood and cried and laughed 4 days ago. All this just hits to the core

  • @ashleyblanca2919
    @ashleyblanca2919 4 місяці тому

    Alan I’m truly so sorry for your loss.. praying over you and your family in this tough times. He’s looking down at you always and forever! He’ll always have a big place in your heart 🤍🕊️

  • @monicasoto7624
    @monicasoto7624 4 місяці тому

    I feel you so much right now!! I also lost my grandpa this past May and I’m also on Daca so I wasn’t able to see him before he passed. The good thing we were able to see him because of his visa last year. Everything that you said is honestly what I feel.

  • @Myopinionmatterssorryaboutthat
    @Myopinionmatterssorryaboutthat 4 місяці тому

    😢 so sorry Alan , grandparents should live forever 😢 I went thru the same situation when my grandparents passed away I was fixing my papers and couldn’t fly out , is the saddest part . When we are little they bring us to the USA without our consent , I remember crying as a kid coming here because my grandparents were my everything !!! The feeling of not being able to say bye in person still hurts .. sending you a hug !!!!

  • @AshleyCarrasco-k7k
    @AshleyCarrasco-k7k 4 місяці тому

    Respect to you Alan❤️ I know your grandpa is proud of you and the person you are 😘🙏

  • @KaylaCano-m9x
    @KaylaCano-m9x 4 місяці тому +8

    mi alan hermoso , i am so sorry for your loss I am praying for your well being y mucho amor ..

  • @jennifere21
    @jennifere21 4 місяці тому

    I’m usually someone who doesn’t comment, but does watch and support you. It’s hard to know what to say to someone who has lost a loved one. The video of your grandpa gave me the chills. All I can say is that we’re here to support you. He will be watching over you and is going to continue being proud of you Alan! I’m sorry that you’re going through this. ❤️ We love you from Chicago!

  • @abigailmorales7060
    @abigailmorales7060 4 місяці тому

    Wow what amazing party to relieve the life of your grandpa. With happiness & joy even though it’s rough and tough. That’s what your grandpa would have wanted. Amen 🙏

  • @alanlopezedwin2981
    @alanlopezedwin2981 4 місяці тому

    I’m sorry for your loss and I loss my grandpa in 2015 I seen him last time went to Mexico and hug him very much as well

  • @vibingwithperriz5627
    @vibingwithperriz5627 4 місяці тому +1

    Alancitos I am sorry for partida de tu abuelito , el está un lugar mas bonito , y a hora los está cuidando a la familia y especial a ti , un fuerte abrazo de parte mía desde san Antonio tx ❤❤

  • @Ariana-c3o
    @Ariana-c3o 3 місяці тому

    I am so sorry for your loss Alan your papa is watching over you god bless you ❤🙏🏼

  • @queencoreas7028
    @queencoreas7028 4 місяці тому

    This breaks my heart 😢. Alan I’m so sorry for you loss 🤍 Que en Paz descanse tu abuelito hermoso 🕊️

  • @rose.m.445
    @rose.m.445 4 місяці тому

    My most sincere condolences to you and your beautiful family. Tu abuelito ahora es tu Angel que te cuidará siempre. I love how you decorated the room para El novenario. Te mando un abraso y felicidades por tu placa del million. 🕊 ❤ 🤗

  • @marimarsilva4629
    @marimarsilva4629 4 місяці тому

    I lost my dad a year ago….he was my best friend …it affects you so much …that a healthy outlet like hiking or running helps …and feels like you need it to keep sane… 😢

  • @mayrazuniga7755
    @mayrazuniga7755 4 місяці тому

    Very sorry for your loss Alan. Also feel your pain of not being able to just get up and go and be by your grandma's side.

  • @pklulu
    @pklulu 4 місяці тому

    We love you Alan. May God bless you and your family ❤

  • @maricruzreyesss
    @maricruzreyesss 4 місяці тому +2

    Talking is the best thing to do for healing. Even if it’s just to a camera

  • @daniellavaca2151
    @daniellavaca2151 4 місяці тому

    I love the video it was amazing and wonderful thank you Alan for letting us into your heart and your home sharing us abeautiful way to grieve amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sanjuanperez3884
    @sanjuanperez3884 4 місяці тому

    I understand what you went through, I was the same way when mom passed away

  • @angelicamurillo8707
    @angelicamurillo8707 4 місяці тому +1

    Que hermosa despedida para tu abuelito, todo se mira que fue echo con mucho amor real de parte de ustedes. Tu abuelito siempre vivira porque siempre estara en ustedes. ❤️

  • @AnnaVazquez.15
    @AnnaVazquez.15 4 місяці тому

    I’m sorry for your lost and he will always watching you over from heaven because I lost my tio too I was just crying I know how you feel I was the same thing when my tio passed away and i love your videos and he will always be proud of you also he will there with you just keep your head up we 🥺❤️🫶🏻

  • @StephV999
    @StephV999 4 місяці тому +5

    Alan you are an inspiration, sending you love and strength.
    I appreciate videos like this, they help me with my own grief. I lost my dad 3 years ago and his birthday is coming up in a couple days, Ive been an emotional wreck since Father’s Day 😭 I really needed this video, thank you Alan ❤

  • @patriciamanriquez8597
    @patriciamanriquez8597 4 місяці тому

    I been through this my grandpa passed away 5 days before my birthday he passed away march 12 2008 and my birthday is on march 17 and still I cannot processed his passing it’s still gets hard each day and since he passed I haven’t had a chance to cry his passing I been really strong for my family my condulences to you and your family el tiempo curar tus heridas y llévalo en tu corazón amigo y recuérdalo siempre

  • @Scorpioprincess99
    @Scorpioprincess99 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m so sorry for ur loss take it day by day Alan . Let ur self grieve and time will heal 💖💖💖💖

  • @leshndz
    @leshndz 4 місяці тому

    I’m so sorry Alan 😞❤️ May your grandpa rest in peace. I know how you are feeling I lost my grandma June 26 and life doesn’t feel the same I find myself just sitting and staring at nothing just thinking how I’ll never get to hug my grandma or tell her how much I love her.

  • @Ariana-c3o
    @Ariana-c3o 3 місяці тому

    Love you Alan keep your head up and keep smiling

  • @valeriedanette3612
    @valeriedanette3612 4 місяці тому

    His alter is so beautiful ❤ rip to your abuelito 👼🏼

  • @TheJh19
    @TheJh19 4 місяці тому +3

    Alan, I lost my dad exactly a year ago, and we were going to bury him in Mexico. Between the time he passed away and the time that we were going to leave to Mexico, there were two weeks in between. During those two weeks I continued working. Everyone kept asking me how I did it. I just needed to get up and keep my mind off of things. It’s what kept me sane. I admire your strength.

  • @Katalinacmakeup
    @Katalinacmakeup 4 місяці тому +1

    Watching this video gave me such a bad depression☹️ literally kept crying like I just lost my grandma AGAIN😔😔 but she passed away like 6+ years and it still feels like she recently passed

  • @Eliravxo
    @Eliravxo 4 місяці тому

    Wow THIS JUST MADE ME TEAR UP 🥺🥺🥺 Alan I’m so so sorry, may god bless you and your family

  • @nancyreyes1061
    @nancyreyes1061 4 місяці тому +1

    Alansito eating posole is the cutest thing ever gave me baby fever 🥹

  • @Aggie-14
    @Aggie-14 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m so sorry 💔🙏😞 I just lost my grandfather last week. And on his birthday, I too couldn’t go becuz it’s in ether in Europe and my password expired🥹 but I needed this today, THEYLL ALWAYS BE HERE WITH US 🙏💯

  • @jazlynnpineda
    @jazlynnpineda 4 місяці тому

    its really sad to lose someone who you loved a lot I just lost my grandmama in such a special day which was February 14th of this year and every month I still get sad knowing she isn't here anymore always be thankful for the people around you, you Never know when its the last time seeing them church helped me a lot after she passed away thank you for sharing this with us !

  • @dvasquez354dv
    @dvasquez354dv 4 місяці тому

    Im sorry for your loss i truly understand how you are feeling i lost my dad he was kidnapped and murdered in mexico a few years ago and i was not able to go look for him or be there for his funeral. 😢 everybody's grieving process is different god will give you the strength to get through this❤

  • @llizbethv
    @llizbethv 4 місяці тому

    I remember that EXACT vlog !! Praying for your family and in especially your grandma ! ❤️‍🩹🫶🏻

  • @Cheilayee
    @Cheilayee 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss Alan pero todo te quedó todo bien bonito ❤️ tienes una familia bien bonita y unida bendiciones .

  • @Angie-nt5zx
    @Angie-nt5zx 4 місяці тому

    Alan this was beautiful ❤️ I love you!!!

  • @jessc2358
    @jessc2358 4 місяці тому

    My condolences love i lost my dad 4 years ago on 31st of August 😢its so hard . Prayers for u and ur family.

  • @deniserobles953
    @deniserobles953 4 місяці тому +1

    sending you so much love! yo siempre lloro cuando alguien pierde sus abuelitos, y la Verda llore por ti, por que se cuanto duele. El tiempo pasa pero perderlos siempre dolerá. Los recuerdos y el amor vivirá para siempre🤍 échale muchas ganas, tu puedes.

  • @deniseartea
    @deniseartea 4 місяці тому

    My grandma passed away in 2016 and I was too young to go and visit her and it really impacted me. Just two years ago I went and saw her tomb and it really hit that she was really gone. My condolences Alan, sigue adelante 💙!