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  • @AA-qb7ni
    @AA-qb7ni Рік тому +7307

    This is like 4 seasons of built up anger finally projecting out. This is one of the best scenes of the series. I hope Sarah and Matthew get their well deserved Emmys.

    • @Fad80s
      @Fad80s Рік тому +89

      Seems next year will be Succession Awards featuring Emmys

    • @renelimas333
      @renelimas333 Рік тому +52

      I mean yeah they are hot and they are going to win, but better call Saul, and the disrespect they got from they Emmys is just ridiculous, their last season was maybe one the best top 10 seasons in TV history.

    • @juddmandeluxe_
      @juddmandeluxe_ Рік тому +11

      @@renelimas333 They are literally my two favourite shows and I couldn’t agree more.. let’s share the love! (Also somehow everybody lost best actor to the Squid game guy)

    • @greekarmorsports4415
      @greekarmorsports4415 Рік тому +21

      @@renelimas333 The fact either Sarah Snook or Rhea Seahorn will end these two series without an emmy is criminal.

    • @victorbinzar7126
      @victorbinzar7126 Рік тому

      what about jeremy strong?

  • @nickmenn5443
    @nickmenn5443 Рік тому +4987

    Tom’s sleep deprivation clearly added to the level of his bluntness

    • @lockekappa500
      @lockekappa500 Рік тому +332

      Yup, and I love how thy set that up for this scene to happen. Because this is NOT the Tom we know, and he even knows it after the scene ends.

    • @iorekby
      @iorekby Рік тому +146

      Tom forgot to HALT..... as in never do or decide something important when you are feeling Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired

    • @ryanneale6501
      @ryanneale6501 Рік тому +42

      to be fair he wanted to go to bed and shiv insisted that he stay.@@iorekby

    • @krishnawidardjo5777
      @krishnawidardjo5777 Рік тому +7

      @@iorekby This is a good tips btw. Thank you!

    • @IlikemyprivacyNN
      @IlikemyprivacyNN Рік тому +5

      This happens to me too. I felt that

  • @KatyWithAWhyyy
    @KatyWithAWhyyy Рік тому +5273

    "You have hurt me more than you could possibly imagine." My goodness, the very real pain on his face and in his voice. I hope this cast wins every possible award for this season.

    • @xtxpxhx
      @xtxpxhx Рік тому +62

      Reminded me of his famous proposal scene ngl

    • @lestonthompson8495
      @lestonthompson8495 Рік тому +13

      Didn't Kiera Nightly use that same line when she was talking to him playing Mr. Darcy, in Pride and Prejudice?

    • @the_jolly_bunny
      @the_jolly_bunny Рік тому +14

      ​@@lestonthompson8495 // No she didn't say that....

    • @Fleyk1707
      @Fleyk1707 Рік тому +123

      And people are saying that Tom is being a manipulative liar again and never loved Shiv in the first place. I mean, if that were true, he wouldn’t scream his heart out here.

    • @aymanbenrabah1339
      @aymanbenrabah1339 Рік тому +32

      Yup yup yup yup same opinion. that actor is so good, he deserve more attention in hollywood, he is talented

  • @raymondm9875
    @raymondm9875 Рік тому +2093

    "I have given you endless approval....but it doesn't fill you up because you're broken" 😭😭😭

    • @Skietemart
      @Skietemart Рік тому +139

      That line holds so much truth and value. It hits.

    • @michaelotis223
      @michaelotis223 Рік тому +48

      I know a lot of nice guys who felt seen in that moment!

    • @requiem51
      @requiem51 10 місяців тому +20

      BPD is a harsh mistress

    • @gabios7075
      @gabios7075 9 місяців тому +3

      I felt that

    • @kodyn7224
      @kodyn7224 8 місяців тому +4

      @@michaelotis223 Shhhhhhhh

  • @BananapeelJack
    @BananapeelJack Рік тому +2515

    "...it's not my fault you didn't get his approval."
    This might be one of the most important lines in the series, none of the Roy children have been able to obtain Logan's approval and we have all been witness to the results...

    • @alexman378
      @alexman378 8 місяців тому +20

      One of his children did. His company.

    • @Timburton_4
      @Timburton_4 8 місяців тому +1

      Hasta cierto punto parecía que quería más a tom que a sus hijos 😂😂😂 pero es que tbm ellos no eran serios como dice logan

    • @johncharlton199
      @johncharlton199 5 місяців тому +8

      Ironically, Tom also seeks Logan's approval.
      The difference is Tom has had to adept and compensate for the lack of approval he gets from shiv and Logan
      Shiv craves approval because she's never known any other life other than opulence and neglect.

    • @VDA19
      @VDA19 4 місяці тому +11

      ​@@johncharlton199The irony is that of Tom and all 4 Roy kids, only Tom would have gotten Logan's approval at the end of the show

  • @ryanjackson3428
    @ryanjackson3428 Рік тому +4822

    Everything they said to each other was true, but Tom ultimately understands Shiv much, much more than Shiv understands Tom, which made his insults more effective and devastating.

    • @genericallyaccepted
      @genericallyaccepted Рік тому +429

      Shiv had some good insight, but when she called him a "hick" it was complete evidence that she was reaching deep and grabbing air.

    • @chihchang1139
      @chihchang1139 Рік тому +265

      I do think Tom being an opportunist who never deserved Shiv in the first place is true. But Shiv also being a spoiled brat who doesn't deserve anybody because she just milks them for their love and then walks away is also true. He's here for power, she's here for herself.

    • @stockholmpublishings2937
      @stockholmpublishings2937 Рік тому +88

      @@chihchang1139 they're cut from the same cloth mentally, even though they are from different classes, that's why this scene is so powerful. I've fraternised with people of such and this is how they truly are. This is exactly who they are.
      Shivs there because she's insecure, a woman with daddy issues, that's seeking validation from men that wants to use her and the power that comes through her.
      Just look at every guy she's being with, they're all using her.

    • @steven7846
      @steven7846 Рік тому +180

      Well even though he's an opportunist and likes the money, at least he's always been honest about it, and I do think he meant it when he said that he loved her. He really did.
      The difference is that Tom could have been happy without the top job if Shiv had given him some love and security but she never really loved him. Tom was just an accessory and a mere tool used in some occasions to get what she wanted. No love on her side, just lies and betrayal. In the end Tom has become like her.

    • @chihchang1139
      @chihchang1139 Рік тому +23

      @@steven7846 true! this show wrote a tragedy ending through a marriage and a wedding. That's pretty special

  • @Andre_APM
    @Andre_APM 10 місяців тому +927

    This is the scene that won them both Emmys

    • @danamoss5705
      @danamoss5705 10 місяців тому +11

      No doubt

    • @zyonhenderson67
      @zyonhenderson67 9 місяців тому +39

      100% Acting so good you gotta remind yourself their acting

    • @RicardoRodriguez-mw7be
      @RicardoRodriguez-mw7be 9 місяців тому +22

      And Sarah's laugh when Kendall said ''I am the eldest BOY''

    • @damiensteele7300
      @damiensteele7300 9 місяців тому +2

      Absolutely

    • @MattWeisherComposer
      @MattWeisherComposer 9 місяців тому +12

      Yes, this was their Emmy scene. Good choice on both of their parts. I don’t think people know how awards season works. They both submitted this scene to be considered for the Emmy. And it worked!

  • @TihetrisWeathersby
    @TihetrisWeathersby Рік тому +2535

    This was such a powerful scene, Matthew and Sarah deserve all the awards for this

    • @TESkyrimizer
      @TESkyrimizer Рік тому +39

      one oscar for every time Matthew makes a hand gesture

    • @ReprucssionsForever
      @ReprucssionsForever 10 місяців тому +6

      They did …

    • @DrumAdrian16
      @DrumAdrian16 8 місяців тому +3

      Who is Matthew and Sarah? I only know Tom and Shiv. 😂
      just kidding

  • @BatmanHQYT
    @BatmanHQYT Рік тому +5030

    The tragedy of this scene for me was how Shiv simply cannot fathom that Tom genuinely loved her, because she's been raised to believe she herself is not capable of being loved. There *must* be some ulterior motive, because as much as that would hurt, it would make more sense to her. Sincerity is highly distrusted in the Roy family, since they've been raised by liars. The fact that so much of Shiv's argument in this scene comes from that place is what makes this scene equally sad for her as it is for Tom, who is of course 100% correct about everything he's saying.

    • @ViiZiiOnZ915
      @ViiZiiOnZ915 Рік тому +520

      Tom hit the nail on the head when he said "I'm sorry you didn't earn his approval. I have given you ENDLESS approval but it doesn't fill you up because you're broken." Saying she's broken is kind of taking it too far, but he's spot on saying her huge Logan-shaped hole isn't easily filled or wasn't filled by him which is so sad cause he genuinely does love her

    • @widowswail888
      @widowswail888 Рік тому +182

      100%. Tom actually manifested that fear in to reality by betraying Shiv and admitted to being with Shiv because of her name. While I don’t think she “deserved” it as much as she was a victim of years of emotional abuse which brought a cycle of traumas to her as a person and her relationship with others. At the same time, it is tragic (but it makes sense) that she can’t see that and take responsibility for her faults as well.

    • @mojo.s4669
      @mojo.s4669 Рік тому +235

      @An0n3mu55 What are you talking about? This show is sub-textually about toxic family dynamics and how it manifests in the 1%. The whole premise of the show is Shakespearean and rooted in the characters moving the narrative and not the other way around. So shiv being spoiled and getting everything has absolutely nothing to do with the point. The point is all the Roy siblings are fundamentally broken people, regardless of class.
      Just because someone is financially stable doesn’t mean they don’t have struggles in other aspects of life. I grew up very poor but had a very close and loving family, and that has impacted how I see love and the relationships I pursue.

    • @iside2373
      @iside2373 Рік тому +133

      ​@David have you been watching this show with your eyes closed? This whole show is about childhood trauma and how Logan psychological and physical abuse has effected the kids now into adulthood.

    • @iside2373
      @iside2373 Рік тому +112

      @David With all due respect yes there is something wrong with you.
      He didnt give them everything,material thing ,vacations yes but not even an ounce of the emotional aspect. There is difference in not being a good parent and being an abusive, emotionally absent one. They're delusional because he was the one who groomed them think this way.
      And it's honestly so funny how you say Shiv backstab everyone but you don't even understand the main theme of the story which is generational trauma..

  • @d.1265
    @d.1265 Рік тому +963

    "you're too transparent to find in a book" wow that hurt

    • @causticgastrap2835
      @causticgastrap2835 Рік тому +17

      I’m a little slow can you explain that comment to me

    • @Mike-mb1yf
      @Mike-mb1yf Рік тому +112

      @@causticgastrap2835as in you’re not as complex or as nuanced of a character to understand aka ‘read’ like how you read people and read a book
      Implying she’s- one dimensional/easy to read/transparent

    • @causticgastrap2835
      @causticgastrap2835 Рік тому +7

      @@Mike-mb1yf thanks

  • @SaberRexZealot
    @SaberRexZealot Рік тому +1270

    Tom calling Shiv broken and Shiv blaming Tom for her father’s death hit especially hard. Those are things real people actually say to each other in the heat of the moment.

    • @12wer3wer9
      @12wer3wer9 Рік тому +31

      Broken people do that yeah. It's so interesting to watch the underlying psychology at play here. Great acting too, wow!

    • @RH-vw7og
      @RH-vw7og Рік тому

      Real people are broken, it’s only the liberal upper middle class virtue signallers (many of whom watch this show and like to pontificate) who pretend they’re not.

    • @johnpark7972
      @johnpark7972 10 місяців тому +4

      And of course, blaming others is easier path, and what shiv would say

    • @thecousinbellic
      @thecousinbellic 6 місяців тому

      Yeah, tell me about it.

  • @justinjones2601
    @justinjones2601 Рік тому +1693

    The facial acting is INCREDIBLE
    1:20 Shiv's shock at Tom's screaming, which quickly switches when she thinks of something to say in return
    1:46 Tom realizing what he is about to say crosses a line, but it's too late to stop himself
    1:50 Shiv genuinely hurt by Tom saying she wouldn't be a good person to have children

    • @tarunchunna
      @tarunchunna Рік тому +205

      1:46 absolutely spot-on. I noticed this in my second of the MANY viewing of this confrontation. It’s almost like someone pulling their punches… Tom knew he would knock out Shiv with this line and hesitated for a full second but then decided to go through with it. Season 1-3 Tom would’ve never said something like this but I guess this is what infidelity, constant humiliation, disregard for feelings and your very humanity does to a person

    • @justthetwoofus.
      @justthetwoofus. Рік тому +45

      Have to agree x10. I’d go as far to say it’s one of the best scenes I’ve seen in any show ever, really. It’s so emotionally loaded and the acting is so overwhelming I had to pause it on my phone after watching it the first time to just let it sink in a bit. And it’s also crazy that while I liked this episode it wasn’t especially amazing until the last 10-15 minutes or so including this and the Matsson and Kendall scene which was also a pretty fantastic scene. Just give them all the awards.

    • @MarkElders
      @MarkElders Рік тому +33

      At 1:20, I also wondered if Shiv got worried for a brief second that Tom knew she was pregnant. Shiv keeps drinking alcohol every episode; it seems like she in fact won't have his baby.

    • @heckromancer382
      @heckromancer382 Рік тому +29

      @@MarkElders She’s not knocking back glasses, she’s taking sips (at most) of single glasses. They’re keeping up the ambiguity.

    • @AlbertoFolres
      @AlbertoFolres Рік тому +2

      The actors reading your comment: 😐 yeah, that's exactly what we planned 😅

  • @Apretadito
    @Apretadito Рік тому +1578

    That gesture when Tom says "broken" is just brilliant

    • @Upsallauniversity123
      @Upsallauniversity123 Рік тому +25

      Emmy 😂😂

    • @jlasf
      @jlasf Рік тому +15

      I wonder if an action like that was created by the writers, the director or the actor at that moment. It's so telling.

    • @JamieCant
      @JamieCant Рік тому +22

      @@jlasfdon’t think it was in the script so it might well have been improvised

    • @mrgirthy2111
      @mrgirthy2111 Рік тому +7

      At that moment she was defeated

    • @danamoss5705
      @danamoss5705 10 місяців тому +5

      No doubt improvised. Brilliant

  • @ozertayiz
    @ozertayiz 8 місяців тому +471

    That line " I gave you endless approval, and it doesn't fill you up because you're broken." summarizes narcissism of Shiv so well.

    • @amitkenan3878
      @amitkenan3878 2 місяці тому

      It will be said in her defense that she is only capable of loving herself because her parents are definitely not white and knew what "love" is

  • @debi-w5g
    @debi-w5g Рік тому +767

    Playing Tom Wambsgans would be any Actor's dream role. Myriad of emotions from start to end in one single episode only. And it goes without saying that no one could have perfected Tom except Matthew Macfadyen. He is just an incredible actor. Hope to see him holding his 2nd Emmy soon.

    • @sarahbgln
      @sarahbgln Рік тому +27

      I think he was born to play Tom. It shows the true range and depth he has, I bet even Matthew didn't even know he could possess 🩵

    • @bcent5758
      @bcent5758 Рік тому +14

      I think he has always been a great actor, this part just introduced him to an American audience.

    • @debi-w5g
      @debi-w5g Рік тому +11

      ​@@bcent5758 Well, am an Indian and I have been his ardent admirer long before Succession, ever since I watched him in Pride & Prejudice, some 10 years ago. Am truly very happy for him for all the recognition he is getting with Succession.

    • @Upsallauniversity123
      @Upsallauniversity123 Рік тому +5

      ​@@debi-w5gI am also an Indian. Succession is my 2nd hbo's show after GOT. I was a big fan of matthew when i watched pride and prejudice during pandemic ( too late !!!😂😂)

    • @800Ms-k6n
      @800Ms-k6n Рік тому +7

      @@bcent5758 Uh no, Pride and Prejudice gave Matthew a global recognition. And yet he was still underrated at that time eventhough most people love him in Pride and Prejudice

  • @ltils9081
    @ltils9081 Рік тому +655

    Such complexity, truly an outstanding scene. You can see how deep Tom's comment about Shiv not being a good person to have children hits her. She never wanted children, scared she'd end up like her mother and her children would end up like her, now she finds herself pregnant and the father says out loud quite venomously what she's been thinking about herself all along.

    • @lepythagore3288
      @lepythagore3288 Рік тому +35

      And... they end up together after all the things they've said and done to each other and Shiv seems to become Caroline. For three seasons Succession had been at the top of its game but for season 4 it literally felt unstoppable. Truly one of a kind.

    • @GCNMMA
      @GCNMMA 10 місяців тому +8

      @@lepythagore3288Shiv becoming Caroline is some of the best poetic Justice I’ve ever seen

    • @TheJSpiegel
      @TheJSpiegel 5 місяців тому +3

      Not unnoticed was when Caroline saw Shiv for the first time in a while, before she was pregnant.
      The quick glance, look, you can almost miss it, and then a deep sigh “Well then!”

    • @TC8787-yq7og
      @TC8787-yq7og 2 місяці тому +2

      He wasn’t wrong either, Logan Roy should never have had children, it’s generational trauma played out. In Shiv’s defence, most people shouldn’t have children. Tom is another character who shouldn’t. What a great show.

  • @patriciajenner9589
    @patriciajenner9589 9 місяців тому +67

    I have lost count of many times I have watched this clip. Its an absolute masterclass in acting. Possibly the rawest, most honest conversation between to 2 people who have hurt each other’s endlessly, up to the point of cruelty which almost makes it impossible to watch. The writing is perfect, the acting is perfect and setting too is precisely right. Its a the type of conversation you don’t want to be part of and yet desperately want to hear every word of. Truly masterful.

  • @robo2000nitro
    @robo2000nitro Рік тому +1329

    They both killed this scene - I just loved how finally we get the raw emotional reaction from 2 characters. No more of the tip toeing around the problems with satirical comments and whimsical jokes. I feel there is a few other characters that also need scenes like this.

    • @BatmanHQYT
      @BatmanHQYT Рік тому +59

      I feel like Roman's version of this is on its way with his eulogy for Logan. I'm kinda shocked he even offered to give the speech - I think he has yet to realize what it will require of him emotionally.

    • @emilal
      @emilal Рік тому +22

      @@BatmanHQYT you called it

    • @sasori962008
      @sasori962008 10 місяців тому +6

      ​@@BatmanHQYTbravo

    • @johannascott1593
      @johannascott1593 10 місяців тому +2

      Yes. The show needed this scene

  • @Missjunebugfreak
    @Missjunebugfreak Рік тому +1074

    Tom finally standing up to Shiv and saying everything that's been brewing up inside him for a while is so satisfying. This scene really is remarkable.

  • @BigTeix
    @BigTeix 10 місяців тому +141

    “It’s not my fault you didn’t get his approval”
    Tom….you’ve killed her

  • @dsingman3
    @dsingman3 Рік тому +898

    I love the line "you never deserved me" because she's saying it from a place of superiority, but it's still true because Tom didn't deserve to be mistreated and strung along by a narcissist.

    • @Upsallauniversity123
      @Upsallauniversity123 Рік тому +60

      Shiv doesn't deserve tom 😂

    • @mac19999x
      @mac19999x 10 місяців тому +49

      No, Tom deserves it. He mistreats everyone he has power over. Everyone.

    • @shaokhan4421
      @shaokhan4421 10 місяців тому +12

      I think that’s what makes the show good because there’s so many angles to each character but it’s also the father’s fault because that’s what he said to her that she could do better than him, but she settled with him

    • @iOakie
      @iOakie 10 місяців тому +17

      Are you insane? Shiv is literally the worst character/sibling out of all of them. @@Upsallauniversity123

    • @victorugo3875
      @victorugo3875 10 місяців тому +4

      ​@@iOakieI think that's what they mean when they say she doesn't deserve him lol. They didn't say "Tom doesn't deserve Shiv."

  • @noahmclaughlin7921
    @noahmclaughlin7921 3 місяці тому +44

    I love the dialogue on this show so much. Little details like Tom saying “prison” while Shiv referring to it as “jail” to show how she’s minimizing the risk he faced while he’s maximizing it. Just really great stuff.

  • @rwh1818
    @rwh1818 Рік тому +220

    He said "love" in the present tense.
    Also, Shiv did go to her dad (on the yacht) and made him promise not to sacrifice Tom; Logan sacrificed Kendall, instead.
    Perhaps underneath it all, they *do* love each other. Shiv was broken, from awful parenting, and didn't know how to recognize or accept real love. She sabatoges the progress of their relationship.
    Getting "for real" close to someone can be murky, raw, and terrifying.

    • @TeslaAI
      @TeslaAI Рік тому +11

      Am
      Fantastic point. I wish Shiv had brought that up when Tom said she betrayed him. But then again, Shiv said nothing when Nan Pierce conditioned the deal on Tom being removed from ATN.

    • @ericperu1542
      @ericperu1542 Рік тому +23

      I do believe she loved him but love has always been a thing to mock in her family and she was unable to see it as anything other than a weakness.

    • @CustomFitted
      @CustomFitted 5 місяців тому +1

      I mean, given how poorly Shiv treated Tom, she does have a point that he stayed with her because of who she is and the benefits.
      Like, how can you "love" someone that doesn't value you and cheats on you?

  • @The_Knight_Mayor
    @The_Knight_Mayor Рік тому +373

    "You really kept me safe while you ran off to f*** the phone book"
    Cracked me right up.

  • @laughingwarlock
    @laughingwarlock Рік тому +655

    I love how every nasty thing they both said about each other is 100% true. Shiv and Tom were right about everything they said. This is a couples argument where there were no winners. Just mutually assured destruction.

    • @pwnateh
      @pwnateh Рік тому +77

      When she said he doesn't deserve her, I thought it was the other way around (:

    • @ryanjackson3428
      @ryanjackson3428 Рік тому +27

      I dunno about the "your mom loves me more than she loves you" line.

    • @browniebear
      @browniebear Рік тому +95

      ​@@pwnatehExactly, Tom was speaking from authenticity (observations he wishes weren't true) while Shiv spoke from insecurity (preconceptions she claims as true). She wasn't nearly as accurate in her observations as Tom. She was trying to poison his well while he was holding up a mirror so she could face her own reflection. It's a tragic scene.

    • @BEE-rg4ts
      @BEE-rg4ts Рік тому +9

      Mutually assured destruction is the most beautifully poignant thing to be said about their relationship

    • @louisb5766
      @louisb5766 Рік тому +2

      Idk about offering to go to jail line, felt more like it was bait, shiv at times lied cuz she couldn’t handle what was being said about her

  • @defragsbin
    @defragsbin Рік тому +448

    I think most of the things they said were totally true and deserved. The thing for Shiv is that she's never heard it articulated. People criticise and mock Tom constantly -- he knows his place and is happy to muddle along with no dignity as long as he can cling to power & money. Shiv though? She's the daughter of Logan Roy. Nobody tells her the truth or criticises her.

    • @Zoe-fd8ll
      @Zoe-fd8ll 6 місяців тому +2

      Um no? Have you heard how much Logan criticizes and mocks his children

  • @Outsider.X
    @Outsider.X 10 місяців тому +41

    The music of Succession is just so magnificently beautiful

  • @soniac48
    @soniac48 8 місяців тому +79

    "You don't deserve me, you never did. And everything came out of that." A line that encapsulates the tension in their relationship succinctly! Even though there are instances where he displays real feelings for her, he also 'does' use her as a ladder. Brutal stuff.

    • @luiscortes3374
      @luiscortes3374 6 місяців тому +10

      I think you’re wrong. He always wanted to get to the top with her but later on he also said to forget everything and have a fresh start somewhere else. She just isn’t capable of loving and caring or be loved and cared for because of her childhood

    • @teddyjackson1902
      @teddyjackson1902 5 місяців тому +6

      He is striving, but wanting professional success and loving someone are not mutually exclusive. That’s what shiv is missing because she’s always seen these two things as diametrically opposed. Tom nailing her so perfectly here tells me that he does love her because he’s taken the time to understand her deeply. It’s what gave him staying power while she crucified him with her infidelity and “open relationship” pitch on their fecking wedding night. She describes him as servile, when it’s really his ability to comprehend motivations and digest them that gives him a sort of emotional shock absorber. When you love someone you try to truly know them. He demonstrated here that he does know Shiv, including her underbelly.

  • @catharbin6259
    @catharbin6259 10 місяців тому +228

    They both won Emmy’s for this episode

  • @noble_experiment
    @noble_experiment Рік тому +127

    The worst part is “you’re not a good person to have children”, him saying she can’t be a good mother in general, no tthat he doesn’t want to have children *with* her. And her saying he doesn’t deserve her. Repressed pain and anger that we saw starting to boil since her mom’s wedding episode, coming back to hunt them both.

    • @cynb3502
      @cynb3502 Рік тому +18

      And he says it not knowing she is pregnant.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Рік тому +749

    If Matthew and Sarah aren't nominated for any Emmys for this scene alone, then I'll be genuinely shocked!

    • @jurney3478
      @jurney3478 Рік тому +12

      Matthew definitely is. But Snook has several episodes she could submit and win with. Hoping she submits this episode though. My MVP this season.

    • @rebelfriend1818
      @rebelfriend1818 Рік тому +10

      @@jurney3478 Snook has to win. She hasn't won yet and who exactly is gonna win over her? She's got the season finale buff on a critic favourite show

    • @Comfortably-Dumb
      @Comfortably-Dumb Рік тому +8

      @Rebel Friend Rhea Seehorn for Better Call Saul also fits all of the above, but I’m becoming increasingly torn over which of the two I’d prefer to win

    • @AA-qb7ni
      @AA-qb7ni Рік тому +1

      @@jurney3478 most of the cast definitely will!! Hope Sarah wins tho. She hasn't and that's crazy but she has killed it in every season.

    • @jurney3478
      @jurney3478 Рік тому

      @@rebelfriend1818 I never said she wasn't gonna win. I fully believe she'll win, especially now that she's away from Jennifer Coolidge. I'm saying she has a plethora of content to choose from for her episode submission for the award.

  • @veragrig8645
    @veragrig8645 Рік тому +201

    "I gave you endless approval but it doesn't fill you, cause you're broken."
    - Tom Wambsgans

    • @g7924
      @g7924 6 місяців тому +1

      No one wants approval from someone they don’t respect

    • @big_2361
      @big_2361 5 місяців тому +4

      @@g7924he’s her husband btw

    • @jimin-ssibangtansmind7230
      @jimin-ssibangtansmind7230 4 місяці тому +1

      He pensado muchísimo en esta frase

  • @marianamendes3425
    @marianamendes3425 10 місяців тому +24

    2:51 When Shiv begins her speech by wanting to hurt Tom and says "you don't deserve me and you never did", the hatred that Sarah Snook puts into this line soon breaks into sadness when she says "and everything came out of that", remembering everything that happened, the death of her father, Tom's betrayal, the loss of her marriage... What an acting masterclass!

  • @umutardadincoglu2083
    @umutardadincoglu2083 Рік тому +199

    this is going down as one of the best tv couple fight scenes of all time

  • @TheNearFantastica
    @TheNearFantastica 6 місяців тому +60

    The writing of this scene is so powerful. How she runs out of comebacks after he delivers the most painful part.

  • @sadisticwinter8354
    @sadisticwinter8354 9 місяців тому +29

    I can't tell you how many times i've watched this. I even know all Tom's lines. Such great dialogue.

  • @juanruzmartell247
    @juanruzmartell247 Рік тому +46

    This scene is an acting masterclass. Every gesture, every movement and mannerism of each character gives more verisimilitude to the scene.

  • @lazaromurad322
    @lazaromurad322 Рік тому +368

    I love how everyone inside were so polite they decided to ignore the yelling from outside so they could both wripp each other to death, they were all drinking Tom´s fine wine, class act.

    • @amirparsi4165
      @amirparsi4165 Рік тому +52

      I convinced myself that the door/windows are soundproof

    • @jerry85g7
      @jerry85g7 Рік тому +8

      They couldn't hear them.

    • @emjay5983
      @emjay5983 Рік тому +29

      @@amirparsi4165 well in that kind of place they would be to avoid city/traffic noise. We're not talking about some cheap apt. here!

  • @ashlye24000
    @ashlye24000 2 місяці тому +18

    This scene is one of the many reasons this show is a 10/10. The writing, acting, & character development in this show is top tier.

  • @hellfish2309
    @hellfish2309 Рік тому +381

    The writers are clearly accomplished wordsmiths churning out clever quips and clapbacks, but most of this is simply direct and invites the actors to dance instead of programming fancy verbal choreography

    • @Missjunebugfreak
      @Missjunebugfreak Рік тому +24

      Beautifully said. This scene works so well because of the excellent dialogue and the powerful acting. It's a masterclass.

    • @BatmanHQYT
      @BatmanHQYT Рік тому +46

      Yeah, the directness of this scene felt incredibly earned after four seasons of doublespeak and coded language. The characters' fear of intimacy is baked into most of the dialogue, so the earnest moments hit like a train to the face.

    • @michaelotis223
      @michaelotis223 Рік тому +2

      "Fancy verbal choreography"
      *Aaron Sorkin left the group chat*

    • @hellfish2309
      @hellfish2309 Рік тому +1

      @@michaelotis223 Sorkin is more combative, so like fight choreography, though of course still fancy and coordinated; I feel like Jesse Armstrong is more like a gymnastics floor routine, like the “ta-da!” is baked in

  • @CriticalJoe
    @CriticalJoe Рік тому +484

    She was so right when she said he never deserved her. He deserved a looooooot better.

    • @margarethmichelina5146
      @margarethmichelina5146 8 місяців тому +65

      That's right, he does not deserve her, he deserves Greg.

    • @annkey4091
      @annkey4091 6 місяців тому +19

      Tom Wambsgans got what his concerns of money and desire for "nice" things earned him. When a man goes the "First, I look at the purse" route when dealing with a rich woman, this is what you sometimes get.

    • @g7924
      @g7924 6 місяців тому +9

      This is what I mean, he used her for her money from the beginning but she’s the bad guy and he deserves better cuz she slept with someone else. Lol ok

    • @Majkels
      @Majkels 6 місяців тому +8

      Shiv is exactly what someone like Tom deserved
      It's almost poetic

    • @zizi5721
      @zizi5721 6 місяців тому +1

      And someone deserves a backstabbing social climber?

  • @Anukii
    @Anukii Рік тому +218

    I legit stopped breathing watching this scene, this scene was STUNNING. We knew this was always quietly rumbling among the smiles & awkwardness. But wow, it finally came out & I am stunned

  • @greggoat6570
    @greggoat6570 5 місяців тому +55

    It is says so much about Shiv’s character that she characterizes Tom’s selfless commitment and willingness to make a personal sacrifice as him being “servile”. She can’t comprehend a way in which a personal sacrifice is not some form of failure or indicative of a flaw.

    • @angelchavez4245
      @angelchavez4245 5 місяців тому +9

      I’m scrolling through the comments and leaving kudos for people that have really good and accurate analyses. Here’s your kudos.
      Nicely said. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @greggoat6570
      @greggoat6570 2 місяці тому +2

      @angelchavez4245 This reply made my day.

    • @tubeuser2222
      @tubeuser2222 23 дні тому

      Lol good one, Gregg the egg ;)

  • @Nttyhu
    @Nttyhu Рік тому +123

    2:38 Tom finally realised that shiv is essentially just a grown abused child, who resorts to malice as a defence tactic. 3 minutes is the point that even Shiv herself realised she doesn’t believe the things she’s saying, hence the bork from her. Very sad and shows that wealth does not shield children from abuse. Beautiful scene.

    • @rohunsaigal2576
      @rohunsaigal2576 Рік тому +30

      He’s so used to her having her guard up with sarcastic quips he didn’t expect to hit her this deep to the point where she became an incoherent mess

  •  8 місяців тому +11

    I rewatch this scene every month or so. This is bar none some of the most amazing acting I've ever seen.

  • @siphillis
    @siphillis Рік тому +87

    The genius of "Succession" is that 99% of the dialogue is snappy one-liners and lies, but that 1% where characters finally speak the truth is utterly heartbreaking every single time.

  • @BingBong422
    @BingBong422 10 місяців тому +57

    This is the scene that won them both Emmys. Much deserved

  • @kali_uchis7635
    @kali_uchis7635 Рік тому +133

    I love that you can hear Sarah and Matthew’s accents come out towards the end. It adds such a raw element. You can see them both get so into the thick of the scene and into the heat of the moment. I hope they both walk home with Emmy’s in September because both of their work is incredible. I couldn’t imagine anyone else playing Shiv and Tom

    • @theeleanorshellstrop
      @theeleanorshellstrop Рік тому +4

      I wholeheartedly agree. they were perfect from the get-go

    • @MrBmick79
      @MrBmick79 8 місяців тому +2

      heard it too. glad you mentioned it

  • @quisge
    @quisge Рік тому +91

    This scene is so visceral, I feel like I experienced this fight personally, and I think in a way I did, and this captured that so intensely that every time I watch it I'm brought to tears again. So intense and so real. Bravo.

  • @stygiantwst
    @stygiantwst Рік тому +23

    "You dont deserve me and you never did" Could be true in the sense that he didnt deserve to love someone who treated him like an afterthought.

  • @niklasra669
    @niklasra669 Рік тому +83

    This scene really felt cathartic in a way. For four seasons all we saw were treacherous opportunists who backstabbed each other at any given chance. And this moment of raw pure honest human emotion really blew me away. Just amazing acting and writing!

    • @etsisk
      @etsisk 11 місяців тому

      What kills me is y'all have apparently watched 4 seasons of treacherous people backstabbing each other. I just don't see how that helps y'all in any way whatsoever.

    • @0FFICERPROBLEM
      @0FFICERPROBLEM 10 місяців тому +1

      @@etsisk It's just hard to watch the first few episodes. Then you get invested and can't look away from the ongoing trainwreck, so to speak.
      It 'helps' because: examining incredibly destructive, broken people is important. The show is about generational trauma at heart.

  • @Deletaste
    @Deletaste Рік тому +209

    Unironically one of the most intense scenes I've ever watched in a TV show.

    • @NicholasMartinez-vt5ux
      @NicholasMartinez-vt5ux Рік тому +3

      Negan scene from walking dead where he hits main character with bat.

    • @ruebenvoyageur8149
      @ruebenvoyageur8149 Рік тому +2

      Breaking Bad’s One Minute episode, True Detective’s Who Goes There episode

    • @cgreen6369
      @cgreen6369 Рік тому +1

      Check out the films Ingmar Bergman's Scenes from a Marriage, and Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?

  • @Kejiim
    @Kejiim 3 місяці тому +23

    One of the most perfectly acted moments of television. Weaponised honesty.

    • @SweetLotusDreams
      @SweetLotusDreams 22 дні тому +1

      My parents used to go at each other like this, it was brutal growing up with that going on around our heads. My husband’s parents were worse, and they didnt get divorced like mine did. We don’t do it because we know how destructive it is to rip at each other like that, and anyway we like each other.

  • @800Ms-k6n
    @800Ms-k6n 10 місяців тому +43

    Ladies and gentlemen, we finally did it! These two talented actors are now Emmy Winners. Congratulations to Sarah, Matthew and everybody else involved in this masterpiece! 🥰

  • @ignitionSoldier
    @ignitionSoldier Рік тому +22

    This is a master class in acting. One of the best drama scenes I've ever seen. The camera work and music are perfect as well.

  • @CluelessIndianGamer
    @CluelessIndianGamer Рік тому +19

    Congratulations to the writers of this episode of Succession but also sending you hugs and comfort for whatever real relationship problems gave you access to those brutal, ferocious insights and I hope you're doing okay!

  • @cockroachv
    @cockroachv Рік тому +97

    End of season 3 made me think this relationship was over. But after Logan died, they looked like they were coming back there. This scene killed everything.

  • @BiffyC
    @BiffyC Рік тому +235

    The scene after this where Tom gets everyone to leave the party was one of the most heartbreaking scenes on tv.

    • @tkane6168
      @tkane6168 Рік тому +7

      Wdym it was funny

    • @cynb3502
      @cynb3502 Рік тому +31

      It was that awkward embarrassment when dirty laundry has been unintentionally waved in public.

    • @ng2603
      @ng2603 Рік тому +1

      "Night, Tom."

  • @ronaldp.vincent8226
    @ronaldp.vincent8226 Місяць тому +11

    It feels so real. Tom genuinely loves her and knows deep down she doesn’t love him because she can’t love anything. Shiv argues like a 6 year old brat who is just trying to hurt him.
    When she’s finally honest that she doesn’t care about him, she thinks she’s hurting him but it’s only confirming what he already knew and he finally has his feelings validated by his partner for once.

  • @Krieky
    @Krieky 10 місяців тому +36

    This entire scene won them both their Emmys this year.

  • @hazelnorewood7782
    @hazelnorewood7782 Рік тому +27

    This, ladies and gentlemen, is what great TV is. Extremely well written and acted amazingly by Matthew and Sarah.

  • @filmtoppings
    @filmtoppings Рік тому +65

    "You're maybe not a good person to have children" you can see how deep that hits Shiv. Sarah Snook is owed an Emmy

  • @benzo9059
    @benzo9059 Рік тому +59

    Genuinely one of the best scenes of TV I've ever seen. This has been an incredible final series, it's always been a great show but it's reached god tier in the last few weeks.

  • @Briannaf57
    @Briannaf57 Рік тому +49

    Never thought I would ever feel bad for Tom till this scene. The part after their argument when he tells everyone to go home was heartbreaking.

  • @keithc1022
    @keithc1022 Місяць тому +12

    I love how Tom brings up the undrinkable wine in all the heavy punches they’re throwing 😂

  • @Nationlivid
    @Nationlivid Рік тому +92

    The catharsis from this convo was legendary. Years of buildup where the understood was unspoken and festering all leading up to this raw explosion.

  • @ed-edd-n-eddy
    @ed-edd-n-eddy Рік тому +84

    Phenomenal scene. This was painfully beautiful.

  • @frankmurdock2121
    @frankmurdock2121 Рік тому +34

    I was mesmerized by Matt’s acting throughout this entire show. Incredibly underrated actor

  • @TheGentlemanGamer
    @TheGentlemanGamer Рік тому +23

    A perfect scene perfectly played. Something that really conveys the realism of a fight like this is how trivial, bugging elements like the "undrinkable wine" get thrown in as ammunition. It's very much a "And you never empty the dishwasher!" argument.

  • @allys744
    @allys744 9 місяців тому +5

    I like how, at the end of the argument, all they can say now is “I don’t like you” and “You don’t deserve me”
    All the hurtful things are out of the way, now they’re emotionally grappling with the bombshells

  • @GearTwistGaming
    @GearTwistGaming Рік тому +41

    Watched this scene twice during the episode and have clicked it every time it pops up on UA-cam. Still hasn't got old.

    • @michaelwooters5837
      @michaelwooters5837 Рік тому +3

      It's been less than a week since it aired. I certainly hope not. 😄

  • @br0wn3y3db01
    @br0wn3y3db01 10 місяців тому +14

    They're both not American, yet are having a heated full blown argument with perfect accents. So glad they both won Emmys 😊

  • @georgebruhn2958
    @georgebruhn2958 6 місяців тому +10

    I've watched this clip so many times I've lost count, and it never gets old. I love the acting in this scene so much, and all they conveyed both verbally (while maintaining their American accents) and non-verbally. I think this should be something that is standard to be shown in theatre/film classes.
    How this is show that nobody I know irl has seen other than my mother is very frustrating.

  • @kayx1340
    @kayx1340 Рік тому +19

    Tom offering to go to prison was a trust game that went wrong.
    I've known couples where one person will offer to do something difficult or painful for themselves or friends, knowing that their partner loves them and will chivalrously step in to prevent them.
    The person offering is allowed to look generous and noble, in the certainty that they'll never be asked to follow through.
    Tom played the game but Shiv didn't openly step in, so he was left feeling vulnerable and unloved.

  • @paulisthelegend
    @paulisthelegend Рік тому +29

    One of the greatest scenes of all time. Blows me away every time I watch it

  • @Bossladylj
    @Bossladylj Рік тому +14

    This was the most powerful scene of all seasons. They both deserved Academy Awards for this scene. I am glad “woosey” Tom finally got the nerve to tell Shiv who she really is . . . BROKEN!!!

  • @aeh5109
    @aeh5109 8 місяців тому +10

    This is just amazing acting

  • @decard01
    @decard01 Рік тому +31

    Shivs malignant narcissism on full display here she’s definitely the most like Logan all her relationships are transactional.

  • @terigiese1322
    @terigiese1322 Рік тому +129

    Yikes!Shiv was pretty cruel and I honestly think Tom standing up for himself was long overdue.But he also got very cruel with the parenting comment.2 people in so much pain😓

    • @simonnot8487
      @simonnot8487 Рік тому +47

      Eh, Shiv had it coming with that one. Her biggest problem is her inability to face her own problems. Of all the Logan's children, Shiv is the one whose weakness is probably the most profound at this stage and creating the biggest drag. While the criticisms she's taken are cruel, they are true in the end.
      Probably the one comment Shiv's never lived it down was the comment from her mother telling Shiv she shouldn't have kids, because some people are not made to be (good?) mothers. Tom came to that conclusion on his own.

    • @digitalvictory8266
      @digitalvictory8266 Рік тому +2

      He did give her that Scorpion though. Hah real funny.

    • @annkey4091
      @annkey4091 Рік тому

      @@simonnot8487 Tom telling Shiv that "perhaps, she should not have children" is probably the biggest cut he could have made, especially not knowing that Lady Caroline told Shiv the same thing and his, I believe, not realizing that Shiv was running amok carrying his child.

  • @callumfadian7050
    @callumfadian7050 12 днів тому +2

    The writing in this show was already amazing but this scene truly shows the deep understanding the writers have of these characters. The way they orchestrated the back and forth, I've never seen an argument in film or TV quite like this one. Not to mention the performances were truly outstanding.

  • @olafsomething
    @olafsomething Рік тому +222

    shiv is such an infuriating character, refusing to acknowledge how much she's hurt and abused tom, and of course tom is really awful in his own way too. So brilliantly written, both of them

    • @Drizzlybear1
      @Drizzlybear1 Рік тому +29

      That's what growing up with Logan as a father did to her. All the kids are emotionally stunted and unable to be genuine because they grew up with pathological liars and manipulators.

    • @juanchoresultay2704
      @juanchoresultay2704 Рік тому +2

      I mean she had a emotionally repressive father that made her that but again doesn’t justify her actions to him

  • @jamesmarie
    @jamesmarie Рік тому +22

    @2:50. Logan told her in season 1 episode 7 that she is marrying someone beneath her. And only thing Tom could do was stand there in silence.

  • @shawncarter5434
    @shawncarter5434 Рік тому +217

    Sarah and Matthew gave phenomenal performances in this episode

  • @davidhurtado2725
    @davidhurtado2725 7 місяців тому +8

    One of the best written/filmed/acted scenes ever.

  • @mazizazi8412
    @mazizazi8412 Рік тому +45

    Tom won this one, jeez. Brutal. Went over the line but it was long overdue. Amazing dialogue and acting

    • @g7924
      @g7924 6 місяців тому

      No one won lol are you 10?

    • @big_2361
      @big_2361 5 місяців тому +1

      @@g7924tom def won this one lil bud

  • @andy_robertson
    @andy_robertson Рік тому +263

    As someone who is currently in the final stages of getting divorced from an abusive ex, this scene hit me right in the gut
    You'll never be more honest with yourself & your partner than when you decide to end it

    • @macgmol159
      @macgmol159 8 місяців тому +1

      I hope you are doing well man

    • @andy_robertson
      @andy_robertson 7 місяців тому +1

      ⁠@@macgmol159can’t begin to start explain how good life has turned out to be pal. Cut a long story short, I can’t think of a single aspect of my life that hasn’t improved.
      Hope you’re doing alright & that life is treating you good.

  • @ericperu1542
    @ericperu1542 Рік тому +21

    The end when she was like "I don't like you and never have" Tom must have been thinking "I know that, have you not heard a single thing I've just said?"

    • @big_2361
      @big_2361 5 місяців тому +1

      it's a classic woman moment

  • @urbanhero
    @urbanhero Рік тому +41

    One of the greatest scenes in contemporary television

  • @TheGoonSquadd
    @TheGoonSquadd Рік тому +40

    “Im sorry…I’m sorry but you have hurt me more then you can possibly imagine” the fight with a narcissist is so brutal and this showed it. Someone who just thinks your opinion doesn’t matter for so long and you give up hope

    • @SeriousPony
      @SeriousPony Рік тому +7

      You are always, at best, a side-character for a narcissist. Classic 🤪

    • @KD-oy8qt
      @KD-oy8qt Рік тому

      Who’s the narcissist in this case?

    • @TheGoonSquadd
      @TheGoonSquadd 10 місяців тому +4

      @@KD-oy8qt Shiv is the narcissist. Tom just wanted her love. And she continually showed that she would choose power over him. For her to even say "HE BETRAYED HER" is some serious sociopathic narcissist thinking. All she did was continually betray him at every turn. Till he finally stood up for himself and did it once. And now she knows how it feels. The writing for her is incredible. The scene is incredible. Like @Seriouspony said, she is her own main character and only her feelings matter in her world.

  • @maxsch8454
    @maxsch8454 6 місяців тому +12

    Tom summed her up perfectly, and she knows it

  • @1250lh
    @1250lh Рік тому +25

    This was the most intense scene... heartbreaking actually. Superb performances by both actors.

  • @userdilyara25678
    @userdilyara25678 9 місяців тому +12

    I’m gonna tell my kids this was the confession scene from pride and prejudice

  • @gdog5798
    @gdog5798 Рік тому +16

    God I really felt this scene brought back hard memories when me and my girlfriend broke up we both got together just getting out of a previous toxic relationship, so we were both always on guard with each other, but never the less we still both knew we loved each other, but at the same time we both did damage to ourselves and one another to the point we’re it’s not okay to fix it, and learn to let go, both actors really pulled off the performance so well

  • @titasbhattacharyya
    @titasbhattacharyya Рік тому +45

    Give all the Emmys to Matthew and Sarah

  • @sebdoesnothing6889
    @sebdoesnothing6889 Рік тому +26

    If I was at a party for some of the most important people in America a day before the election, and saw the hosts having a marriage-ending argument before kicking everyone out... I wouldn't take it as a good sign for the future of political culture and discourse.

    • @nkm11tbm
      @nkm11tbm Рік тому +1

      Hahaha true, although I don’t think they really care about discourse as much as the depth of their pockets

    • @Nothinglastsforever
      @Nothinglastsforever Рік тому +1

      That's what the expensive triple glazing is for!

  • @akshatavalsangkar3561
    @akshatavalsangkar3561 Рік тому +14

    “Clear the air”
    The air in question filled with the most horrendous personal attacks destroying two people: …

  • @iamsophiehannah988
    @iamsophiehannah988 10 місяців тому +19

    The scene that won both of them the Emmys 🙌🏾👏🏾

  • @roblo5391
    @roblo5391 Рік тому +8

    I hope they win awards for this performance. Updated January 2024 he won a Golden Globe for best supporting actor of a television series.

  • @blemieux6789
    @blemieux6789 Рік тому +10

    “Because your broken”
    I felt broken after he said this 😢😢😢
    One of the best scenes of Succession bar none

  • @DynterS
    @DynterS 8 місяців тому +7

    Perfect acting and writing.