I will never forget the 4 no shows to my wedding...300 bucks, just wasted. One of them I spoke to the night before! Still had a blast...just still a little butthurt lol
@@MrsWellner the loser who got dumped at the altar will last a lifetime too. Best to make it as short as possible not linger and have parties so everyone will remember it forever.
How do we know this? For all we know behind the scenes she could be awful & he realized that she isn’t the one. Why do everyone take sides on this shit. & fucking damn I miss times where this wasn’t considered entertainment for likes & views. Society is total trash anymore.
@@Misshell44485 If he realized she wasn't "the one" he could've spoken up a lot sooner than leaving her at the altar. It's a cowardly and shameful thing to do.
My wedding invitations said "wear what you want, we love you not your clothes". Half the room was still semi-formal and the other half was jeans and black leather. It was an awesome wedding!
They HD to have been just like smashed or something.... that looked so weird. From the stabbing it to the double high fives after... like no. Very weird.
That's just so very wrong there and what if he actually smashed her face right through the cake with a knife on it?! Imagine everyone's reaction seeing her bleeding there.
@@vern0018 She looked like she was about to cry. My heart broke for her. We all know that man will cross her boundaries and disrespect her through their entire marriage. Which I hope is very, very short.
9:00 you can see in text messages at beginning she was asking where to send money for the deposit. This makeup artist knew (sneaky) that taking a deposit would be basically a contract and if she cancelled she would open herself to a lawsuit that she would lose. She is an artist probably looking to move up the ladder and will leave anyone behind if a "more popular" person asks for her services. She wanted to grt that pay as long as she didnt have anything else but this is so unfair to the bride who did everything right!!!!!! Cancelling less than 24 hours before and you were already GONE! No thank you maam...
Not excusing the MA, but She probably have a contract with JT that says anytime JT wants her makeup done she has to be there. Hence why she says she is on call, but she should've let that be known up front
I think it depends and it definitely needs to be discussed, with respected boundaries in place. Because some couples might like some light smashing, or some icing wiped across their faces, some might literally not care to have their faces smashed like they were just hit with a car, but it HAS to be talked about in depth before the wedding happens.
I am not sure how she smiled through everything tho. I have to wonder how much she wanted to be married also, or just wanted a wedding. Yes, it was all paid for but to be there that day like no big deal seemed a bit much.
How about because she knows she's too still surrounded by love despite the pain? People smile through pain all the time to cope, get TF over it.@@phillyphan1225
@@phillyphan1225I would smile knowing how loved I am by my friends and family despite being in so much pain. Lots of people cope with humor or smiles to get through awful circumstances. Go touch some grass.
@@phillyphan1225I would smile knowing how loved I am by my friends and family despite being in so much pain. Lots of people cope with humor or smiles to get through painful circumstances. Go touch some grass.
On casual weddings: my cousin had an ultra casual wedding. She specified jeans for all guests. So we all showed up in jeans. And guess what? Most people had ignored her dress code and gone for business casual. However- it was an outdoor, very rustic wedding. She had us all seated on hay bales. We were glad we had followed her dress code. Everyone else, however, was uncomfortable.
@@marzashI was the bride and I wore jeans to my wedding. Jeans and t-shirt was our strict dress code. I made it absolutely clear that I would be devastated if anyone wore formal anything. My hubby was all for it. Blue jeans, and for him a purple silk shirt, and me, a purple velvet top with eleventy million buttons down the front. Also, I have worn black jeans and a black top to the last 2 weddings. That's formal wear for me.
The mother daughter dance in the first story makes me cry because of the love she feels for her mother and the way she shared it with everyone. Not sad. Beauty.
Bridesmaid story time: I was a bridesmaid for my SIL. The bridal party was AWESOME. We had so much fun together. However, we got some piping hot tea from the wedding venue manager. Apparently, the wedding that took place the day before we were there was drama city. Literal fistfights, cops were called, people ran into the woods to hide, etc. 😂 But the thing that stood out the most was an abandoned bridesmaid dress in the parking lot that had been destroyed. She said she was so incredibly happy to see such a loving bridal party. She even got us extra treats and drinks from the caterers! It was a blast!
My husband and I were lucky. Last year we renewed our vows on our 30th wedding anniversary. All our bridesmaids and groomsmen from our original wedding stood up for us again at our renewal, except for one couple who now live in Australia, but she was 6 months pregnant at the time and understandably could not make it. One big difference (and they understood) was that our original MOH and BM stepped down to bridesmaid and groomsman so our 23 year old twins (boy/girl) could take those positions. Both of our mothers were there, and my dad. But FIL passed away 2 years prior. Finally, out of our 75 original guests, 44 were able to attend the renewal. Most of the other 31 were the elders who had already passed away, and we simply lost touch with the others.
Congratulations. 🥰 Hang on… Was the person who couldn’t attend your vowel renewal 30 years later due to being pregnant a bridesmaid or a flower girl at your first wedding?
The last one brings back memories from when husband (then bf) and I were on vacation and got back to the hotel...i immediately changed into my old lady nightgown and started turning off the lights, only to realize when one light was left on that he was kneeling waiting to propose. 😂
I literally got engaged while backpacking. Dirty hair, dirty face, wearing leggings and a tank top which says MOAB. I had just walked up the hill to pee. He’d gotten changed into nicer clothes and combed his hair. Thank God I washed my hands in the stream before he proposed!
Reminds me of a few proposal videos. One was out on a nature walk and he’s on one knee, she screams “I’m in sweatpants!” The other one was a man was trying to suggest a nice outfit, she was like “I’m going to wear what I want” and later he proposed
@sarahkinsey5434 😂 yup. I had hints that a proposal was on the horizon, but I didn't expect it to be at practically midnight and day 1 of the vacation haha. Totally caught me off guard. I would also have liked to be more appropriately dressed in the moment had I known. 🤣
@@CaliabBut if he did it at a time when you were appropriately dressed, you wouldn’t have such an awesome and amusing engagement story to look back on! I love it!
I'm 4 years divorced after 37 years of marriage. I still speak to all of my bridesmaids, even though none still live in our city. One lives in Australia, another in South Carolina, one in Montana, and the fourth in Sacramento, almost on the opposite end of California (I'm in San Diego). I don't speak to the groom anymore, nor do our four grown kids.
It sounds like you've moved on and have some fantastic relationships with friends and your beautiful children. I sincerely hope that life is being kind to you now. Take care from Australia. 🇦🇺💙
I am well known for being an ice maiden ( except with children and animals ) But Rachel Siegel managed to warm my heart and soul. May all her dreams come true, a beautiful young woman inside and out 💜💜💜
I don't talk to my bridesmaids (friends), my wedding was the last time I saw them and then they never talked to me again (two of them were late for the wedding) On the other hand my brothers' then girlfriends stepped up on the day and helped me with everything. I included them in all the photos and everything. Several years later those two girls are still around and are amazing humans and my best friends. If I could go back they would be my bridesmaids. I'm so happy and grateful that my brothers have this wonderful women by their sides.
That video just seemed staged to me. I mean, all the lights are on and the camera is already rolling. If it were real they probably would’ve been away for perhaps hours. But yeah. People can be that blind to obvious differences to their environment. I can use my husband as an example. I had bought a real Christmas tree, carried it home and decorated it with lights. I left the lights on but the rest of the flat dark when I went to pick up my daughter from preschool. Came home and told my toddler that there was a Christmas tree in the living room. I then heard my husband from the living room. He had noticed the tree right then. He had come home while I was out, went in without turning on the lights and sat down in a chair barely a metre away from the tree. Without noticing a thing. 😅
That bride that was ditched for JT's wedding technically did have a contract if she had text messages from the MUA saying she'd be there/do it, multiple times. It doesn't matter that she didn't pay a deposit especially because it wasn't the client avoiding it. Text messages are just as binding in the states as contracts. "A text message can be as binding as a contract if someone explicitly states they will do something and then fails to do it, as long as the text message contains the necessary elements of a contract, such as a clear offer, acceptance, and consideration; essentially meaning that the message demonstrates a "meeting of the minds" between the parties involved, even though it's not a formally signed document." Deposits are a good idea but not a legal requirement for a contract to be valid. Their text conversation established a contract and the vendor broke her side of the contract she promised to fulfill. The client not paying doesn't mean squat. Do people not know this?
People are dumb & barely know the laws. I learned that texts do count in court from Judge Judy . If there's text messages she always rules in favor of them. Thanks for explaining .❤
Good information but even though texts are legally binding, giving you recourse if you want to take them to court, the big picture is don’t rely on them for anything important. If a vendor is not professional enough to put something in writing for you both it suggests they are unprofessional enough to disappoint you, and a good court case is not worth the disappointment. And though this one seems fairly clear, people can also assume too much from text responses that are pretty minimal and might provide an out for the vendor.
Learned from People's Court myself. Judge Milian always said to get a contract even in crayon. Indeed a few people did and they held up. Texts work as proof too.
Exactly like love Charlotte but technically that was a contract as it was written information agreed upon by both parties, so she could so sue and should
My absolute fav was the 1st one, $1k, high neckline- it was just so gorgeous. I found it more elegant-appearing than the one for $10k. I’m so excited to see your choice!
I'm a hairdresser who does a lot of weddings. Its a privilege to be asked to be part of such an important day. I'd NEVER cancel! Once I'd completely lost my voice (wasn't contagious) and obviously still turned up. We do trials and know the brides likes and style preferences... Swapping out for a 'replacement' hairdresser (or make-up artist) would be ridiculous! I had one wedding where the makeup artist ghosted the bride on the day. She just didn't show up and wouldn't answer her phone... I did her makeup... I had to run out to the nearest pharmacy and buy make-up. She was really happy with the results and was incredibly grateful. I was just relieved that her stress and tears turned into an amazing smile. She told me she felt really beautiful (She was beautiful, inside and out). That still makes me warm and fuzzy when I think of her.
The first bride Rachel, had this happen at my daughters hotel (Amway Grand in Grand Rapids, MI). My daughter told me about this the day it happened and then days later started sending me tik toks of the blow up and glow up she started receiving. The Amway also hooked her up this day for the craziness of it all ❤ If ever in Grand Rapids, MI, that historical and iconic hotel is worth a visit and/or stay.
The venue location was hardly dox.ing anyone. Assuming you're a fan of this channel, I'm guessing you've heard of "destination weddings" and this venue happens to host many of those.
@@sidoniejordan-olsen7673 Small world, me too!! I went to Oakridge and had my first job at Camelot music store in the old Muskegon mall ❤(waaay back when lol)
Not me bawling my eyes out on the very first one to the point of ugly crying and snot and all.... That was so beautiful.. I miss my Mom soooo much!!! So grateful she had good people surrounding her she needed it that day!!
I feel like until your 20s you have friends that you think and swear you'll be together forever, but life takes over and you will start drifting apart. I think that's when you realize being together (whether as friends or married) means actual purposeful work to stay together. Up until then, you're mostly on the same track so you go along with the same connections and your real personality feels like a quirk that is an add-on. When you start living your life the way you want to, realize what you are willing to compromise or not, living as your personality, those friends become further apart and you make new ones.
I was in the military, barely old enough to drink .my maid of honor was a military wife..she told me after the wedding she brought an extra outfit thinking I was going to be a runner..now I am in my early 40's and my maid of honor and I live states apart, we are Facebook friends and stay up in eachothers lives..I was a single parent and had to call her one night to tell her if she heard an explosion from the base just to call my mom to come get my son..I will be her friend forever and never forget the things she did for me..
@@meredithebrown1676 I mean I was wondering too because I know hearing things explode are normal on the base. My friend lived on Pendleton. So must’ve not been a normal one. Love that you guys still talk.
That poor woman. She seems so graceful. Everyone in the background seems so sad for her 😭. Wow. Okay momma is absolutely beautiful they look sooooo much alike
She is so happy as she was just saved by the Divine. Go girl 😄 Ladies never forget every refusal is just a protection or redirection for your own good 🥂
A little frosting on the nose cause it’s too big of a bite- reasonable-shoving someone’s head in the cake or mashing in all over their face is assault. Also, don’t ever do that in a large cake-they have supports in them which can seriously injure someone.
Ugh, that reminds me of my client. I worked at a bridal shop+photo studio. One of my client's husband smashed her face to the cake. But it was fake cake! It was just a styrofoam coated with fondant! He didn't know that. He thought it was hilarious watching videos on youtube or tiktok so he did that. It was hard styrofoam, cardboard, fake wood cake so....her head hit the cake so loud, you can hear it on the video. He knew he Fu*k up he was sooo apologetic but the bride was so dazed and moved away from him. The reception was delayed for a while, the groom surrounded by men telling him off, women were side eyeing them. Guests just standing awkwardly. It was awful. This story was told by my photographer + assistants. I kinda want to be there but also not be there.....
These men seem all too happy to assult the bride in front of everyone they know and care about. I would love to know the percentage that end in divorce.
@@kellygirlaj I get frosting on my nose when I eat a cupcake so I could see if you don’t feed people often getting a smudge on the nose. No one would get upset. Nut shoving the face or smashing -nope! Never.
@@Magami31What a jerk ! The bride should have just left this idiot completely to take all the fallout from the guests! She should have filed for an annulment on Monday! Idiots only get worse not better. Unless both parties agree to this 100% it shouldn’t be done! If he thought it was so funny -he should have her do it to him ! Then he could have really enjoyed it on TikTok over and over!
15:25 he hurt her teeth or lips there. She’s stunned and not okay. He thinks it’s okay to assault his wife on their wedding day, in front of their loved ones. Instant annulment.
@ cakes sometimes have supports (straws or sticks) to hold their shape. Looks like he pushed her face partly onto her hand. Even if the cake was just soft, it’s still not okay. She looks surprised so it wasn’t planned, and she has had her hair and makeup done. It’s a red flag.
@@markokoume9343 Most wedding cakes or multi tier cakes have metal or wooden rods in them to keep the layers together and for structural integrity. Shoving someone's face into the cake can easily cost them an eye or other serious facial injuries. The majority of people who do this at this level of aggression are men and they aren't doing it to be playful, they are doing it to hurt, harm, and humiliate their wives.
@@Kimball042 Also grabbing someone's neck/head forcefully and pushing down when they're not ready to move in that direction can easily injure a person, too. And even if she didn't get hurt, I think it's a massive red flag that he thinks it's funny to put his hands on her in that way when she's clearly not ready and doesn't want it.
@@markokoume9343 well she was forcefully shoved, so the back of her neck would hurt and any ornaments on the cake could cause damage to her face. It’s quite straightforward actually.
Way better than wasting YEARS with that loser... you won big time in this situation. Thank your lucky stars!!!! It sucks but so much better than getting stuck with that jerkoff.
My husband and I were absolute brawlers back in the day, but I warned him that if he did anything to mess up my makeup and hair after I worked so hard to get it right myself (we were broke AF), I would be a very young widow. He knew I meant business and acted accordingly. He’s smarter than he seems and has managed to survive over 37 years with me so far, so good on him. 😂
I’m so excited for you to get married! I am so excited to see your dress! You’re beautiful! I hope my wedding is as fun as yours!!! From my broken engagement, I talk to 3 of the 5 bridesmaids who were supposed to be in my wedding. My sister, my SIL, and my mom. My best friend got mad at me over a guy she’s never met and lives states away from the guy and me. The other bridesmaid was my ex fiancé sister. I think about her often. The best thing that wasn’t about me from that relationship was watching Ming (ex sister) blossom as a woman. She was influenced by me but she made these good changes herself. She enlisted me for advice. She came to me when she wanted to start using makeup (her mom is a narcissist, so it’s hard to ask her for things.) I bought her her first makeup items. Ming, if you see this, I miss you and will always be here for you!
I still love and adore my maid-of-honor (my best friend) and bridesmaid (hubby’s best friend’s sister). Life happened and we’re not in constant contact, but when we get together it’s just like old times. When my MOH is around I magically remember all the Mandarin and Spanish I’ve forgotten from non-use and we chatter in Spanglishese while our husbands are amused to see the side of us that is only unlocked when we’re together. She’s the most beautiful human, everyone who meets her loves her.
I am still friends with my MOH from when I was previously married. She's been my best friend since 10th grade (I'm in my 50s) so the person in my life who has known me the longest that's not a blood relative. And I still have contact with one of my bridesmaids whose husband was also a groomsman. The other two I haven't talked to in 10+ years. I'm getting married again next year and this time the wedding party is mostly made up of our kids.
13:58 I have been a bridesmaid three times and have not talked to any of the brides in YEARS. I was honored to be part of their big day but it was honestly so stressful all three times. After each wedding, we just slowly grew apart. So for my wedding (2 years ago) I decided to only have a maid of honor (my closest ever friend), let her pick out her own dress, involved her minimally in wedding planning, and to this day she and I are still closer than sisters.
15:38 you need to have someone film this moment. So you can show the world how a husband RESPECTS his new wife! I’m already confident that he will not disrespect you in this moment. Especially after he’s heard your reactions to others in this moment!
@jonathanrross I understand that, however it has been within the past few years that this "bridezilla" content was most prevalent at the time she was single. Stop being a party pooper
@@flazadahow are they a party pooper for being realistic? Charlotte seems to be a very genuine and sweet lady. Regardless of this channel she was basically bound to meet somebody.🤷♀️ Ijs🤣
The moment any service hears the word "wedding," their prices skyrocket like they’re trying to fund the honeymoon too! I’m starting to think the best just call it a “fancy party” to save some money. 😂
I do still speak to my bridesmaids. They were my sister-in-law, cousin, and BFF since crib. Over 30 years happily married. It can happen! Best wishes to you and Mike!!
I only had one bridesmaid. We met our first day at university when I was 19. I got married back in 03, she married the following year & we still talk. Both still married as well. We unfortunately don't get to see each other often now but are still in touch. That first young lady is absolutely amazing because I'm not so sure I would have been able to do that. Someone so beautiful inside & out will one day meet a man who is worth her love, courage & kindness.
I know you will probably never see this, but I just wanted to let you know that I really appreciate you! My dad and I haven't had a very good relationship over the years, but when I found your channel, I knew he would love it. Thanks to you and your videos, my dad and I have an amazing relationship and watch your videos all the time. Thank you so much for everything you've done!
5:23 OMFG my baby sister bestie (rest in peace) had a girl from her hometown who literally copied her FOR YEARS. im talking clothing, tattoos, hair color/style, PIERCINGS!!! her "favorite things" were also THE SAME, but my bestie had screenshots of her's being before the other girl's, etc. it was sooooo weird. rest her beautiful soul; she'd probably giggle at the thought of me saying, "wonder how she's gonna copy her now?" 😢😂❤❤❤❤❤ rest in rock&roll, my britt marie! 🎉❤
I’m sorry for your loss. I just lost my big Sister a few months ago. I still don’t know exactly how/why she died. The Autopsy showed nothing. So the only thing left is the Toxicology report. She was 67 and found in her bed. She passed in the night. I asked out Dad if it was an unintentional accidental overdose. He screamed bloody hell at me calling me horrible names, told me I’m going to hell (he’s a retired Pastor) and disowned me! 🤷🏼♀️ I’d cut contact with her for my safety. She was not nice to me. Anyway 😊 It sounds like you & your sweet sassy beautiful Sister & you had a great relationship. Sounds like you two shared a sense of humor too! Thats creepy really creepy some lunatic was copying her! I’m sure your comment about her copying your Sister in that last act would’ve had her rolling laughing! 😂😂 And again, I’m so very sorry you lost her. Keep sharing her with others. ❤ She sounds like she was Amazing ❤
Yes! I had two bridesmaids one is my childhood friend we talk on occasion she lives far away and is a busy actress. The other I met in college and she flys out to the East coast once a year for two weeks to spend time with me, my husband, and our son who is her God Son! ❤ She is definitely my ride or die queen and my husband is like, “Oh no there’s two of you!” 😂 She’s the little sister he never got so he enjoys having her around. It’s the same with his friends, I’m definitely gonna interact and host and be friendly with his friends as well because once we TRUST you, then you’re family. ❤
being left at the alter, but carrying on and even though your heart must be broken, still doing your best to have a good day for everyone else. Rachel may have been left at the alter, but she's awesome and going to have the best life
Never had bridesmaids at my wedding. We went to the courthouse, wore jeans and t-shirts, went to the pub at the end of the block. Immediate family and childhood friends only. It was perfect.
My Daughter & Son in Law did the same! Only they went to get Donuts just the 2 of them! They’d grabbed 2 Strangers to be witnesses at the courthouse! Then my Son in Law called Me to apologize for taking away my right/chance to see my girl in a dress! I told him if I need to see her in some dress we could go to the mall lol That I only cared she was loved, respected & cared about. That I thought what they did was romantic ❤ and that him calling me showed me what a respectful incredible man he was! It’s been 6 1/2 years. I love him dearly! He’s honestly one of my best friends! I also told him their marriage & wedding was about them not me! I thanked him for being the best! He’s actually closer to me in age than my daughter lol he’s 11 yrs younger than me & 15 years older than her! Your wedding day sounds wonderful! I wish you both a long happy life ❤
Throwback to a comment that Charlotte commented on a year or two ago that i posted. I do not speak to my ex-wife, my ex-best friend out her wife (seeing as though both our wives were cheating on us with each other 😅). And my ex-best friend is for a different reason, but still don't talk to them. 😂
I am a sahm and watching this on the tv, folding laundry. My toddler is next to me when I got to the copied photos, lol she heard you say “oh my god” and she said “NOO WAYYY” 😂😂😂 we love Charlotte in this house!
Charlotte, I need you to know how much I appreciate you posting today! I'm a Graduation Evaluator for a College and today is the last day I have to award students their degrees/certificates before the Holidays so I am STRESSED AND PRESSED, but your videos always make the day better! Happy Holidays, Petty Potato Queen! 💖
In a way he gave Rachel a gift. A gift of time that would have been obviously wasted if they had gotten married and the fact that she went on with the party she was given an experience with her family that if they had gotten married would have been completely tainted. Instead she got some beautiful memories she will always hold dear. How beautiful.
In 2010 my husband worked for a big corporate company in Cape Town and they have a massive themed evening once a year. The theme was Winter Wonderland. I spent months making a fabulous outfit; he watched me make it already knowing they had changed the theme to the soccer world cup 😫. I looked like a total attention seeker in my melting ice dress amongst the soccer shirts. He said I was having so much fun designing and making it, and looked so beautiful he decided not to tell me... men!
Well... It's always better to be over dressed than under dressed. I hope you looked amazing and had fun regardless of not being told about the theme change. Take care.
My husband would never ever get anything on my outfit even at a regular party now, so the idea that a groom would ruin the brides look on their wedding day is insane!!!??
Yes, I only had one bridesmaid and it was my sister to this day. I still talk to her. I allowed her to choose what she wanted to wear for a dress for the wedding. Thank you, Charlotte❤
The first one, was so sad but also beautiful that all those people were there for her. That room was filled with such love. That man hurt not just her but both families too.
On the topic of a casual wedding, they absolutely do exist. Mine was very casual. My husband and I were the only people actually dressed up. But even then he was still wearing black wranglers with his tuxedo jacket. Both our groomsmen and bridesmaids or black jeans and lace up boots. The theme of our wedding was more of a western themeand almost every single person came to the wedding in jeans and boots. I even changed into jeans and boots after the ceremony for the reception.
14:02 this is why I literally only had my sister as my matron of honor since she’s married, my best friend since middle school (we are now in our 30s) as my maid of honor and then I had my cousin as my bridesmaid. I had my sister-in-law escort my two and three year-old niece and nephew as the flower girl and ringbearer. She did great because they were so young and she kept them wrangled and she looked great. Everybody look beautiful.
So similar for me! Best friend since middle school as maid of honor, cousin and brother as my other bridesmaids (or bridesbro/bridesman/bridesperson etc etc)
Ah yes so funny to have cake smashed in your face and hair. And you can t even proprely clean yourself right away after that. Hilarious. So fudging funny.
Oh my god, I hope Rachel will remember that day more for the love she received rather than the heartbreak that was thrust on her. Literally making me cry at work while printing magnets for a client and trying not to get my salty tears on the magnets ❤
That Rachel girl is a great example of you can't control what happens to you, but you can control how you react...I love her making the most of a bad moment...I'm sure she cried and let it out the next day..But she didn't feel sorry for herself and let it ruin that day for everyone..She changed the narrative of the day and turned a heartbreaking day into a heartwarming special event...That's amazing
I was a bridesmaid in my brother's wedding. He's still happily married and she's my BFF. They've been together for 15 years. I feel like that's a record for most marriages these days.
I'm readingv comments while watching. So I read this and go to look exactly where I am from that moment so I can look out for it, and I'm 1 second before the moment it happens. Kinda got jump scared/startled.
My wife and I got married in Disney world in Epcot in the morning and told our guest to dress casual so that they can go to the parks. The reception wasn’t until that evening. And everyone had a great time.
I thought the JT in the last minute makeup artist cancellation meant Justin Timberlake, I was man that sucks but Timberlake is a big gig and then I realized it was indeed not that JT 😂😅
I often cry of laughter laughing these, did not expect to be crying because I was so sad and touched. That lady left at the altar is a powerhouse and the moment with her mom - stop, I didnt come here to be crying crying
I was my best friend's (D) witness at her wedding along with her sister. There were tons of people there because D had tons of close friends, it was like a harem! She died 2 years ago after a 10 year battle with cancer, and they were all there with her through it all, even after her husband divorced her. She never spent nights alone, not once, we had a rolling system. I would fly home from another EU country but one of her friends flew from Hong Kong. In the end, we were all there around her as she passed away. The room was filled with people and everyone took care of everyone. They asked me where I was staying, if I needed a taxi somewhere, we pulled each other out of the room when we couldn't take it anymore to have a little talk and come back. She was amazing, she did that.
One year I loved the dress I wore to the Navy Chief’s Ball so much We stopped at the Grocery Store on the way home lol He was passed out drunk in the car 😂 (yeah that “Officer & a Gentleman is so not reality lol They look hot as hell when they look at you fully dressed with that Amazingly Sexy Uniform and say “are you ready? But then the fantasy ends lol) But he got hammered like all his guys! But back in the Store I went down every aisle 😂 😂 I felt like a Princess (whose servants were off lol) After that night I’d stop at the store for a fast last minute thing on the way to the Navy Balls! ❤
To the first bride who got left at the alter: Babe, it's his loss. Girl, you are gorgeous and obvi you're a beautiful soul. To take a, what should've been your sad soppy moment, and turn into a family celebration instead. Good on you. Love that you don't have to deal with his indecisiveness anymore. You deserve way better babe. Hopes and much love.
15:57 The thing that bothers me so much about cake smashing is that these dudes make sure to not only destroy the cake, but they purposefully ruin the bride's makeup and hair as well as using excessive force without making sure the cake is clear of things that could seriously injure the bride. It would be cute if it was a little frosting put on the tip of the bride's nose or cheek where it's not going to ruin anything and still shows respect towards the bride, but it rarely ever is. Usually, it's dudes taking too much pleasure out of humiliating their bride on the one day they put so much money, time, and effort into looking their most beautiful for that dude to not only not appreciate it, but ruin it too. To see how proud and happy they feel after humiliating their bride just feels so wrong.
To all brides out there: disloyal grooms stay in your minds for a short time...memories of your family showing up and showing out lasts FOREVER!!!!
That’s completely true. You’ll always remember the family who canceled last minute with no viable excuse.
@Overwhelminglyanxious true family doesn't do like that. True family shows up or gives legitimate reasons why they can't.
I will never forget the 4 no shows to my wedding...300 bucks, just wasted. One of them I spoke to the night before! Still had a blast...just still a little butthurt lol
@@MrsWellner the loser who got dumped at the altar will last a lifetime too. Best to make it as short as possible not linger and have parties so everyone will remember it forever.
@@MrsWellner not everyone has a true family, you are right, but knowing what you just said, does not make it ok
She was loved by so many on her day of heartbreak, we all should be so blessed.
This
Well said !! I agree
Thank god she didn't end up marrying him🎉 the literal only silver lining
@@Ann3M4r13 a scum that could do that to her? NO WAY! She was saved and surrounded by so many different types of angels, I need one too
He didn’t deserve you, Rachel. Such a sweet moment with your mother.
Amen ❤
How do we know this? For all we know behind the scenes she could be awful & he realized that she isn’t the one. Why do everyone take sides on this shit. & fucking damn I miss times where this wasn’t considered entertainment for likes & views. Society is total trash anymore.
@@Misshell44485 If he realized she wasn't "the one" he could've spoken up a lot sooner than leaving her at the altar. It's a cowardly and shameful thing to do.
@@HorseLady1109…and expensive and classless.
My wedding invitations said "wear what you want, we love you not your clothes". Half the room was still semi-formal and the other half was jeans and black leather. It was an awesome wedding!
Denim to Diamonds! I love it!
I Love This!!! ♥️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
What class that woman has! To be left AT the altar but use it as an oppprunity for the best family reunion. Class, dignity, abd grace. Well done.
Yes! She turned it into a day to spend time with family ❤
Can confirm, having wedding canceled day of is a horrible thing to live through. But it always means you dodged a bullet ♡
Sorry but congrats dodging the missile
ヽ(=^･ω･^=)丿
The cake smash: BRO WTF THE KNIFE WAS STILL IN THERE?????
WHAT are you doing??? Like actually?!?
They HD to have been just like smashed or something.... that looked so weird. From the stabbing it to the double high fives after... like no. Very weird.
That's just so very wrong there and what if he actually smashed her face right through the cake with a knife on it?! Imagine everyone's reaction seeing her bleeding there.
It's all fun and games until their a knife in your face...
She doesn't think it's funny....only the guy thought it's funny.
@@vern0018 She looked like she was about to cry. My heart broke for her. We all know that man will cross her boundaries and disrespect her through their entire marriage. Which I hope is very, very short.
I love that the 2nd lady's spilling all this tea, but still takes time to play with her dog
9:00 you can see in text messages at beginning she was asking where to send money for the deposit. This makeup artist knew (sneaky) that taking a deposit would be basically a contract and if she cancelled she would open herself to a lawsuit that she would lose. She is an artist probably looking to move up the ladder and will leave anyone behind if a "more popular" person asks for her services. She wanted to grt that pay as long as she didnt have anything else but this is so unfair to the bride who did everything right!!!!!! Cancelling less than 24 hours before and you were already GONE! No thank you maam...
Not excusing the MA, but She probably have a contract with JT that says anytime JT wants her makeup done she has to be there. Hence why she says she is on call, but she should've let that be known up front
I'd blast all those texts on YELP and other.
15:11 The marriage is OVER at that point. That is so disrespectful to do. Doesn’t matter if it’s the bride or the groom who does it.
I think it depends and it definitely needs to be discussed, with respected boundaries in place.
Because some couples might like some light smashing, or some icing wiped across their faces, some might literally not care to have their faces smashed like they were just hit with a car, but it HAS to be talked about in depth before the wedding happens.
I would have taken the entire cake and ruin his suit from top to bottom
Also just noticed, the knife they used to stab the cake isn't removed properly yet, it's still there, this could have gone so wrong!
First bride was such a queen in that situation. Long may she reign.
Her dress and bridal cape were stunning.
I am not sure how she smiled through everything tho. I have to wonder how much she wanted to be married also, or just wanted a wedding. Yes, it was all paid for but to be there that day like no big deal seemed a bit much.
How about because she knows she's too still surrounded by love despite the pain? People smile through pain all the time to cope, get TF over it.@@phillyphan1225
@@phillyphan1225I would smile knowing how loved I am by my friends and family despite being in so much pain. Lots of people cope with humor or smiles to get through awful circumstances. Go touch some grass.
@@phillyphan1225I would smile knowing how loved I am by my friends and family despite being in so much pain. Lots of people cope with humor or smiles to get through painful circumstances. Go touch some grass.
The first girl was so beautiful AMAZING VIBES even after being left love it!!!
I feel so bad for her omg
@ yessss she’s so brave though!
On casual weddings: my cousin had an ultra casual wedding. She specified jeans for all guests. So we all showed up in jeans. And guess what? Most people had ignored her dress code and gone for business casual. However- it was an outdoor, very rustic wedding. She had us all seated on hay bales. We were glad we had followed her dress code. Everyone else, however, was uncomfortable.
I would LOVE to be asked to wear jeans to a wedding 😂
@@marzashI was the bride and I wore jeans to my wedding. Jeans and t-shirt was our strict dress code. I made it absolutely clear that I would be devastated if anyone wore formal anything. My hubby was all for it. Blue jeans, and for him a purple silk shirt, and me, a purple velvet top with eleventy million buttons down the front. Also, I have worn black jeans and a black top to the last 2 weddings. That's formal wear for me.
My mom and her current husband went with the jeans and western style shirts for the wedding party.
I’m so allergic to hay that I’d be an absolute hot mess if I had to sit on a hay bale. I love casual, but that’s a little too rustic for me 😅
The mother daughter dance in the first story makes me cry because of the love she feels for her mother and the way she shared it with everyone. Not sad. Beauty.
Bridesmaid story time: I was a bridesmaid for my SIL. The bridal party was AWESOME. We had so much fun together. However, we got some piping hot tea from the wedding venue manager. Apparently, the wedding that took place the day before we were there was drama city. Literal fistfights, cops were called, people ran into the woods to hide, etc. 😂 But the thing that stood out the most was an abandoned bridesmaid dress in the parking lot that had been destroyed. She said she was so incredibly happy to see such a loving bridal party. She even got us extra treats and drinks from the caterers! It was a blast!
Not me afraid that the tea spilled over someone and they had to be rushed to the ER😂 love my auti brain
My husband and I were lucky. Last year we renewed our vows on our 30th wedding anniversary. All our bridesmaids and groomsmen from our original wedding stood up for us again at our renewal, except for one couple who now live in Australia, but she was 6 months pregnant at the time and understandably could not make it.
One big difference (and they understood) was that our original MOH and BM stepped down to bridesmaid and groomsman so our 23 year old twins (boy/girl) could take those positions. Both of our mothers were there, and my dad. But FIL passed away 2 years prior.
Finally, out of our 75 original guests, 44 were able to attend the renewal. Most of the other 31 were the elders who had already passed away, and we simply lost touch with the others.
It's good to see that your bonds with family and friends stood strong for 30 years. Not everyone is so lucky. Congratulations on your anniversary 💖
Congratulations. 🥰
Hang on… Was the person who couldn’t attend your vowel renewal 30 years later due to being pregnant a bridesmaid or a flower girl at your first wedding?
@@jadeybaby007 I’m confused about what this part as well.
@@jadeybaby007 Could be a younger cousin who was a teenager at the time of the wedding or smth like that
@ Yeah, could have been. Having babies in the mid forties is a lot more common nowadays.
The last one brings back memories from when husband (then bf) and I were on vacation and got back to the hotel...i immediately changed into my old lady nightgown and started turning off the lights, only to realize when one light was left on that he was kneeling waiting to propose. 😂
😂😂😂😂
I literally got engaged while backpacking. Dirty hair, dirty face, wearing leggings and a tank top which says MOAB. I had just walked up the hill to pee. He’d gotten changed into nicer clothes and combed his hair. Thank God I washed my hands in the stream before he proposed!
Reminds me of a few proposal videos. One was out on a nature walk and he’s on one knee, she screams “I’m in sweatpants!” The other one was a man was trying to suggest a nice outfit, she was like “I’m going to wear what I want” and later he proposed
@sarahkinsey5434 😂 yup. I had hints that a proposal was on the horizon, but I didn't expect it to be at practically midnight and day 1 of the vacation haha. Totally caught me off guard. I would also have liked to be more appropriately dressed in the moment had I known. 🤣
@@CaliabBut if he did it at a time when you were appropriately dressed, you wouldn’t have such an awesome and amusing engagement story to look back on! I love it!
I'm 4 years divorced after 37 years of marriage. I still speak to all of my bridesmaids, even though none still live in our city. One lives in Australia, another in South Carolina, one in Montana, and the fourth in Sacramento, almost on the opposite end of California (I'm in San Diego). I don't speak to the groom anymore, nor do our four grown kids.
divorced after almost 40 years? How do you find the strength to move forward?😢
That's great
Off topic I think I'm blocked I'm not sure i posted can anyone see this just me next to my name sorry to bother you
@@rubinfeuerherz3799He could’ve been sandbagging her! This can be the most positive life changer.
It sounds like you've moved on and have some fantastic relationships with friends and your beautiful children. I sincerely hope that life is being kind to you now. Take care from Australia. 🇦🇺💙
Not speaking to your own children? All four of them? Seems a bit extreme.. i hope you find a way to reconnect with them
I am well known for being an ice maiden ( except with children and animals )
But Rachel Siegel managed to warm my heart and soul.
May all her dreams come true, a beautiful young woman inside and out 💜💜💜
whats an ice maiden
@@cheeling794
Someone who's unfeeling and cold with emotion 😊
@Lissybird211 ah, thanks for answering! I googled it and siberian mummies came up😅
@cheeling794
Haha
Yep, that's how most people describe me 🤣
@@cheeling794😂😂😂💀
I don't talk to my bridesmaids (friends), my wedding was the last time I saw them and then they never talked to me again (two of them were late for the wedding)
On the other hand my brothers' then girlfriends stepped up on the day and helped me with everything. I included them in all the photos and everything. Several years later those two girls are still around and are amazing humans and my best friends.
If I could go back they would be my bridesmaids. I'm so happy and grateful that my brothers have this wonderful women by their sides.
That last part where she walked away felt so relatable 😂, I too, have missed things because of how tired I was, and not on purpose!
That video just seemed staged to me. I mean, all the lights are on and the camera is already rolling. If it were real they probably would’ve been away for perhaps hours.
But yeah. People can be that blind to obvious differences to their environment. I can use my husband as an example. I had bought a real Christmas tree, carried it home and decorated it with lights. I left the lights on but the rest of the flat dark when I went to pick up my daughter from preschool. Came home and told my toddler that there was a Christmas tree in the living room. I then heard my husband from the living room. He had noticed the tree right then. He had come home while I was out, went in without turning on the lights and sat down in a chair barely a metre away from the tree. Without noticing a thing. 😅
When I come home from a long day or night, it’s like I’m almost claustrophobic until I can get those clothes off and put on something comfy….
1st story, their wedding website is still up on The Knot. Proposed after dating EIGHT years. He didn’t want to be a husband.
What was her boyfriends name?
@@countrygirl5579 Grant Gunderson
thank you for context. if a guy doesn't want to commit then you can't force them. but you shouldn't stay ether. that's just me.
Yup but people still pressure them to do it.
@@countrygirl5579 looks like my comment with his name isn’t showing up. Google “[bride’s name] wedding” and it shows up in the results.
That bride that was ditched for JT's wedding technically did have a contract if she had text messages from the MUA saying she'd be there/do it, multiple times.
It doesn't matter that she didn't pay a deposit especially because it wasn't the client avoiding it.
Text messages are just as binding in the states as contracts.
"A text message can be as binding as a contract if someone explicitly states they will do something and then fails to do it, as long as the text message contains the necessary elements of a contract, such as a clear offer, acceptance, and consideration; essentially meaning that the message demonstrates a "meeting of the minds" between the parties involved, even though it's not a formally signed document."
Deposits are a good idea but not a legal requirement for a contract to be valid. Their text conversation established a contract and the vendor broke her side of the contract she promised to fulfill. The client not paying doesn't mean squat.
Do people not know this?
People are dumb & barely know the laws. I learned that texts do count in court from Judge Judy . If there's text messages she always rules in favor of them. Thanks for explaining .❤
Good information but even though texts are legally binding, giving you recourse if you want to take them to court, the big picture is don’t rely on them for anything important. If a vendor is not professional enough to put something in writing for you both it suggests they are unprofessional enough to disappoint you, and a good court case is not worth the disappointment. And though this one seems fairly clear, people can also assume too much from text responses that are pretty minimal and might provide an out for the vendor.
Learned from People's Court myself. Judge Milian always said to get a contract even in crayon. Indeed a few people did and they held up. Texts work as proof too.
@@2MelissaSue yes! She even says WRITE IT ON A NAPKIN!!!
Exactly like love Charlotte but technically that was a contract as it was written information agreed upon by both parties, so she could so sue and should
My absolute fav was the 1st one, $1k, high neckline- it was just so gorgeous. I found it more elegant-appearing than the one for $10k. I’m so excited to see your choice!
I'm a hairdresser who does a lot of weddings. Its a privilege to be asked to be part of such an important day. I'd NEVER cancel!
Once I'd completely lost my voice (wasn't contagious) and obviously still turned up. We do trials and know the brides likes and style preferences... Swapping out for a 'replacement' hairdresser (or make-up artist) would be ridiculous! I had one wedding where the makeup artist ghosted the bride on the day. She just didn't show up and wouldn't answer her phone... I did her makeup... I had to run out to the nearest pharmacy and buy make-up. She was really happy with the results and was incredibly grateful. I was just relieved that her stress and tears turned into an amazing smile. She told me she felt really beautiful (She was beautiful, inside and out). That still makes me warm and fuzzy when I think of her.
If you have a good mom they will hold you up until one of you leave the earth. So glad she had her mom there for her… beautiful moment.
Having lost my mom recently, she is still holding me up! If I ever feel down I can hear her voice in my ear telling me to get up and get going.
Watching Rachel be surrounded by her loved ones made me cry ugly tears. She lost nothing❤️
Same OMG 😭
The first bride Rachel, had this happen at my daughters hotel (Amway Grand in Grand Rapids, MI). My daughter told me about this the day it happened and then days later started sending me tik toks of the blow up and glow up she started receiving. The Amway also hooked her up this day for the craziness of it all ❤
If ever in Grand Rapids, MI, that historical and iconic hotel is worth a visit and/or stay.
Unless the OP says their location in their posts, it’s always better to not dox them.
The venue location was hardly dox.ing anyone. Assuming you're a fan of this channel, I'm guessing you've heard of "destination weddings" and this venue happens to host many of those.
I'm from Muskegon, MI
@@sidoniejordan-olsen7673 Small world, me too!! I went to Oakridge and had my first job at Camelot music store in the old Muskegon mall ❤(waaay back when lol)
Not me bawling my eyes out on the very first one to the point of ugly crying and snot and all.... That was so beautiful.. I miss my Mom soooo much!!! So grateful she had good people surrounding her she needed it that day!!
I feel like until your 20s you have friends that you think and swear you'll be together forever, but life takes over and you will start drifting apart. I think that's when you realize being together (whether as friends or married) means actual purposeful work to stay together. Up until then, you're mostly on the same track so you go along with the same connections and your real personality feels like a quirk that is an add-on. When you start living your life the way you want to, realize what you are willing to compromise or not, living as your personality, those friends become further apart and you make new ones.
That awkward moment when you are so early that you don't know what to say but feel the need to say something:👁️👄👁️
I always say comment for the algorithm lol
Seconding this. I'm just excited to have caught a video early for once 😅 (living in the UK!)
When is that?
People make fun of comments (not here) are just stunted. Usually you always hear. Like comment subscribe. So I comment for them.
@@vickyhead6428 YESSS ME TOOOOO ❤
Hate the cake smashing, it’s violent and cruel.
Like Charlotte, that would be an annulment, ON 👏 THE 👏 SPOT! 👏
Furthermore, it appears in the history just for the groom could assert a clear dominance 🎉🤮🤮🤮
She could have been injured by her tiara!
@lilogonzales6625 I was coming here to say just that! I would like to know how many of these couples ended in divorce.
@@sydneyyoung7352 She could have been injured period.
I was in the military, barely old enough to drink .my maid of honor was a military wife..she told me after the wedding she brought an extra outfit thinking I was going to be a runner..now I am in my early 40's and my maid of honor and I live states apart, we are Facebook friends and stay up in eachothers lives..I was a single parent and had to call her one night to tell her if she heard an explosion from the base just to call my mom to come get my son..I will be her friend forever and never forget the things she did for me..
What type of explosion were you planning for? I'm a bit confused.
@@Sochi314sometimes ish be happening on bases that require calls like that. How do I know because I know folks who've made that same call.
@@meredithebrown1676 I mean I was wondering too because I know hearing things explode are normal on the base. My friend lived on Pendleton. So must’ve not been a normal one. Love that you guys still talk.
That poor woman. She seems so graceful. Everyone in the background seems so sad for her 😭. Wow. Okay momma is absolutely beautiful they look sooooo much alike
She is so happy as she was just saved by the Divine. Go girl 😄 Ladies never forget every refusal is just a protection or redirection for your own good 🥂
I LOVED your wedding dress episode Charlotte!!! You were gorgeous!!
That $10k dress was EVERYTHING wasn't it!?
hard to say since we didn't get to see the one she chose 😐
@ 100% likely she was gorgeous in it.
A little frosting on the nose cause it’s too big of a bite- reasonable-shoving someone’s head in the cake or mashing in all over their face is assault. Also, don’t ever do that in a large cake-they have supports in them which can seriously injure someone.
Yeah, nah, that would have been a problem for me.
Ugh, that reminds me of my client. I worked at a bridal shop+photo studio. One of my client's husband smashed her face to the cake. But it was fake cake! It was just a styrofoam coated with fondant! He didn't know that. He thought it was hilarious watching videos on youtube or tiktok so he did that.
It was hard styrofoam, cardboard, fake wood cake so....her head hit the cake so loud, you can hear it on the video. He knew he Fu*k up he was sooo apologetic but the bride was so dazed and moved away from him.
The reception was delayed for a while, the groom surrounded by men telling him off, women were side eyeing them. Guests just standing awkwardly. It was awful.
This story was told by my photographer + assistants. I kinda want to be there but also not be there.....
These men seem all too happy to assult the bride in front of everyone they know and care about. I would love to know the percentage that end in divorce.
@@kellygirlaj I get frosting on my nose when I eat a cupcake so I could see if you don’t feed people often getting a smudge on the nose. No one would get upset. Nut shoving the face or smashing -nope! Never.
@@Magami31What a jerk ! The bride should have just left this idiot completely to take all the fallout from the guests! She should have filed for an annulment on Monday! Idiots only get worse not better. Unless both parties agree to this 100% it shouldn’t be done! If he thought it was so funny -he should have her do it to him ! Then he could have really enjoyed it on TikTok over and over!
15:25 he hurt her teeth or lips there. She’s stunned and not okay. He thinks it’s okay to assault his wife on their wedding day, in front of their loved ones. Instant annulment.
On cake?
@ cakes sometimes have supports (straws or sticks) to hold their shape. Looks like he pushed her face partly onto her hand. Even if the cake was just soft, it’s still not okay. She looks surprised so it wasn’t planned, and she has had her hair and makeup done. It’s a red flag.
@@markokoume9343 Most wedding cakes or multi tier cakes have metal or wooden rods in them to keep the layers together and for structural integrity. Shoving someone's face into the cake can easily cost them an eye or other serious facial injuries.
The majority of people who do this at this level of aggression are men and they aren't doing it to be playful, they are doing it to hurt, harm, and humiliate their wives.
@@Kimball042 Also grabbing someone's neck/head forcefully and pushing down when they're not ready to move in that direction can easily injure a person, too. And even if she didn't get hurt, I think it's a massive red flag that he thinks it's funny to put his hands on her in that way when she's clearly not ready and doesn't want it.
@@markokoume9343 well she was forcefully shoved, so the back of her neck would hurt and any ornaments on the cake could cause damage to her face. It’s quite straightforward actually.
Way better than wasting YEARS with that loser... you won big time in this situation. Thank your lucky stars!!!! It sucks but so much better than getting stuck with that jerkoff.
My husband and I were absolute brawlers back in the day, but I warned him that if he did anything to mess up my makeup and hair after I worked so hard to get it right myself (we were broke AF), I would be a very young widow. He knew I meant business and acted accordingly. He’s smarter than he seems and has managed to survive over 37 years with me so far, so good on him. 😂
I’m so excited for you to get married! I am so excited to see your dress! You’re beautiful! I hope my wedding is as fun as yours!!!
From my broken engagement, I talk to 3 of the 5 bridesmaids who were supposed to be in my wedding. My sister, my SIL, and my mom. My best friend got mad at me over a guy she’s never met and lives states away from the guy and me. The other bridesmaid was my ex fiancé sister. I think about her often. The best thing that wasn’t about me from that relationship was watching Ming (ex sister) blossom as a woman. She was influenced by me but she made these good changes herself. She enlisted me for advice. She came to me when she wanted to start using makeup (her mom is a narcissist, so it’s hard to ask her for things.) I bought her her first makeup items. Ming, if you see this, I miss you and will always be here for you!
I still love and adore my maid-of-honor (my best friend) and bridesmaid (hubby’s best friend’s sister). Life happened and we’re not in constant contact, but when we get together it’s just like old times. When my MOH is around I magically remember all the Mandarin and Spanish I’ve forgotten from non-use and we chatter in Spanglishese while our husbands are amused to see the side of us that is only unlocked when we’re together. She’s the most beautiful human, everyone who meets her loves her.
I am still friends with my MOH from when I was previously married. She's been my best friend since 10th grade (I'm in my 50s) so the person in my life who has known me the longest that's not a blood relative. And I still have contact with one of my bridesmaids whose husband was also a groomsman. The other two I haven't talked to in 10+ years. I'm getting married again next year and this time the wedding party is mostly made up of our kids.
13:58 I have been a bridesmaid three times and have not talked to any of the brides in YEARS. I was honored to be part of their big day but it was honestly so stressful all three times. After each wedding, we just slowly grew apart. So for my wedding (2 years ago) I decided to only have a maid of honor (my closest ever friend), let her pick out her own dress, involved her minimally in wedding planning, and to this day she and I are still closer than sisters.
15:38 you need to have someone film this moment. So you can show the world how a husband RESPECTS his new wife! I’m already confident that he will not disrespect you in this moment. Especially after he’s heard your reactions to others in this moment!
also for safety reasons because I'm sure it's not so fun to end up getting your eye impaled by a wooden or metal stick to support the cake!
The first one turned that day into beautiful heartfelt memories. ❤
Can anyone just acknowledge that Charlotte single handedly manifested her own wedding with her constant wedding content before Mike!
I mean the chances of her getting married some day were pretty high regardless of this channel..
@jonathanrross I understand that, however it has been within the past few years that this "bridezilla" content was most prevalent at the time she was single. Stop being a party pooper
@@flazadahow are they a party pooper for being realistic? Charlotte seems to be a very genuine and sweet lady. Regardless of this channel she was basically bound to meet somebody.🤷♀️ Ijs🤣
Shush it's a secret.😅
@@kweenjade01 y'all need to lighten up. It's all jokes here.
The moment any service hears the word "wedding," their prices skyrocket like they’re trying to fund the honeymoon too! I’m starting to think the best just call it a “fancy party” to save some money. 😂
I do still speak to my bridesmaids. They were my sister-in-law, cousin, and BFF since crib. Over 30 years happily married. It can happen! Best wishes to you and Mike!!
I only had one bridesmaid. We met our first day at university when I was 19. I got married back in 03, she married the following year & we still talk. Both still married as well. We unfortunately don't get to see each other often now but are still in touch.
That first young lady is absolutely amazing because I'm not so sure I would have been able to do that. Someone so beautiful inside & out will one day meet a man who is worth her love, courage & kindness.
Mike would never assault you with cake!! He's a sweetheart. ❤
I know you will probably never see this, but I just wanted to let you know that I really appreciate you! My dad and I haven't had a very good relationship over the years, but when I found your channel, I knew he would love it. Thanks to you and your videos, my dad and I have an amazing relationship and watch your videos all the time. Thank you so much for everything you've done!
❤
That's such a sweet story!
Its so good to have something to bond over. Big love ❤
Most wholesome moment on the internet award, for the day, goes to you.
omg that is awesome!!! ❤
5:23 OMFG my baby sister bestie (rest in peace) had a girl from her hometown who literally copied her FOR YEARS. im talking clothing, tattoos, hair color/style, PIERCINGS!!! her "favorite things" were also THE SAME, but my bestie had screenshots of her's being before the other girl's, etc. it was sooooo weird. rest her beautiful soul; she'd probably giggle at the thought of me saying, "wonder how she's gonna copy her now?" 😢😂❤❤❤❤❤ rest in rock&roll, my britt marie! 🎉❤
I’m sorry for your loss. I just lost my big Sister a few months ago. I still don’t know exactly how/why she died. The Autopsy showed nothing. So the only thing left is the Toxicology report. She was 67 and found in her bed. She passed in the night. I asked out Dad if it was an unintentional accidental overdose. He screamed bloody hell at me calling me horrible names, told me I’m going to hell (he’s a retired Pastor) and disowned me! 🤷🏼♀️ I’d cut contact with her for my safety. She was not nice to me.
Anyway 😊 It sounds like you & your sweet sassy beautiful Sister & you had a great relationship. Sounds like you two shared a sense of humor too! Thats creepy really creepy some lunatic was copying her! I’m sure your comment about her copying your Sister in that last act would’ve had her rolling laughing! 😂😂
And again, I’m so very sorry you lost her. Keep sharing her with others. ❤ She sounds like she was Amazing ❤
Yes! I had two bridesmaids one is my childhood friend we talk on occasion she lives far away and is a busy actress. The other I met in college and she flys out to the East coast once a year for two weeks to spend time with me, my husband, and our son who is her God Son! ❤
She is definitely my ride or die queen and my husband is like, “Oh no there’s two of you!” 😂 She’s the little sister he never got so he enjoys having her around.
It’s the same with his friends, I’m definitely gonna interact and host and be friendly with his friends as well because once we TRUST you, then you’re family. ❤
Rachel looks like she’s not missing out on any love without him! How beautiful her friends and family are..
Rachel's video with everyone dancing!🥲💝oh my heart!
being left at the alter, but carrying on and even though your heart must be broken, still doing your best to have a good day for everyone else. Rachel may have been left at the alter, but she's awesome and going to have the best life
Never had bridesmaids at my wedding. We went to the courthouse, wore jeans and t-shirts, went to the pub at the end of the block. Immediate family and childhood friends only. It was perfect.
My Daughter & Son in Law did the same! Only they went to get Donuts just the 2 of them! They’d grabbed 2 Strangers to be witnesses at the courthouse! Then my Son in Law called Me to apologize for taking away my right/chance to see my girl in a dress! I told him if I need to see her in some dress we could go to the mall lol That I only cared she was loved, respected & cared about. That I thought what they did was romantic ❤ and that him calling me showed me what a respectful incredible man he was! It’s been 6 1/2 years. I love him dearly! He’s honestly one of my best friends!
I also told him their marriage & wedding was about them not me! I thanked him for being the best! He’s actually closer to me in age than my daughter lol he’s 11 yrs younger than me & 15 years older than her!
Your wedding day sounds wonderful! I wish you both a long happy life ❤
Throwback to a comment that Charlotte commented on a year or two ago that i posted.
I do not speak to my ex-wife, my ex-best friend out her wife (seeing as though both our wives were cheating on us with each other 😅). And my ex-best friend is for a different reason, but still don't talk to them. 😂
I am a sahm and watching this on the tv, folding laundry. My toddler is next to me when I got to the copied photos, lol she heard you say “oh my god” and she said “NOO WAYYY” 😂😂😂 we love Charlotte in this house!
2:26 this is just so sweet. The man clearly lost sense of taste to leave HER at he ALTER.
Altar 😊
Charlotte, I need you to know how much I appreciate you posting today! I'm a Graduation Evaluator for a College and today is the last day I have to award students their degrees/certificates before the Holidays so I am STRESSED AND PRESSED, but your videos always make the day better! Happy Holidays, Petty Potato Queen! 💖
Hang in there 💪🏽
My dumbass read that as you are graduating elevator college.
Guess we know who wouldn't be passing to get their degree right now...😂
You got this!!
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That bride should write a book titled 'How to be the life of the party when your heart is broken.'
In a way he gave Rachel a gift. A gift of time that would have been obviously wasted if they had gotten married and the fact that she went on with the party she was given an experience with her family that if they had gotten married would have been completely tainted. Instead she got some beautiful memories she will always hold dear. How beautiful.
In 2010 my husband worked for a big corporate company in Cape Town and they have a massive themed evening once a year. The theme was Winter Wonderland. I spent months making a fabulous outfit; he watched me make it already knowing they had changed the theme to the soccer world cup 😫. I looked like a total attention seeker in my melting ice dress amongst the soccer shirts. He said I was having so much fun designing and making it, and looked so beautiful he decided not to tell me... men!
Well... It's always better to be over dressed than under dressed. I hope you looked amazing and had fun regardless of not being told about the theme change. Take care.
My husband would never ever get anything on my outfit even at a regular party now, so the idea that a groom would ruin the brides look on their wedding day is insane!!!??
She waa trying not to ger upset and he just beaming in her face. Wnat an awful man
Yes, I only had one bridesmaid and it was my sister to this day. I still talk to her. I allowed her to choose what she wanted to wear for a dress for the wedding.
Thank you, Charlotte❤
The first one, was so sad but also beautiful that all those people were there for her. That room was filled with such love. That man hurt not just her but both families too.
i had 3 bridesmaids at my wedding. my sister, my best friend since 1st grade, and my mom. i still talk to all of them and love them all so dearly❤
On the topic of a casual wedding, they absolutely do exist. Mine was very casual. My husband and I were the only people actually dressed up. But even then he was still wearing black wranglers with his tuxedo jacket. Both our groomsmen and bridesmaids or black jeans and lace up boots. The theme of our wedding was more of a western themeand almost every single person came to the wedding in jeans and boots. I even changed into jeans and boots after the ceremony for the reception.
Rachel and her mom absolutely brought me to tears... That was so lovely 😻😻😻
14:02 this is why I literally only had my sister as my matron of honor since she’s married, my best friend since middle school (we are now in our 30s) as my maid of honor and then I had my cousin as my bridesmaid. I had my sister-in-law escort my two and three year-old niece and nephew as the flower girl and ringbearer. She did great because they were so young and she kept them wrangled and she looked great. Everybody look beautiful.
So similar for me! Best friend since middle school as maid of honor, cousin and brother as my other bridesmaids (or bridesbro/bridesman/bridesperson etc etc)
@@cutecrafter8100 Bridesbro!! That position will now be forever known as the Bridesbro!! 😄
18:01 😂😂 my husband says "just be comfortable everyone will be..." no. ABSOLUTELY NOT"
Girl left at the altar dodged a bullet and also learned she's got a lot of people who are there for her, that's beautiful
Ah yes so funny to have cake smashed in your face and hair. And you can t even proprely clean yourself right away after that. Hilarious. So fudging funny.
Been married 34 years. My bridesmaids were my 3 sisters and my high school roommate. And yes, I still speak with them all and love them all!!
Oh my god, I hope Rachel will remember that day more for the love she received rather than the heartbreak that was thrust on her.
Literally making me cry at work while printing magnets for a client and trying not to get my salty tears on the magnets ❤
As a mom…. Fully ugly crying at the mom-daughter dance. So much love between them even on such a hard day 💜💜
When someone is that hard to book, they don’t want your business.
That Rachel girl is a great example of you can't control what happens to you, but you can control how you react...I love her making the most of a bad moment...I'm sure she cried and let it out the next day..But she didn't feel sorry for herself and let it ruin that day for everyone..She changed the narrative of the day and turned a heartbreaking day into a heartwarming special event...That's amazing
The 1st one has me in tears. I am happy her family and friends stuck around.
Video 1, her dress/cape was gorgeous!
I was attending a wedding on 12/17/2024 and the bride had a dress and cape as well.
It’s stunning!
That first one has me all up and through my feelings. Im so sorry this happened to you. I thank God for your wonderful, beautiful mom
The first girl's dress was AMAZING! I love her whole look
I was a bridesmaid in my brother's wedding. He's still happily married and she's my BFF. They've been together for 15 years. I feel like that's a record for most marriages these days.
i live vicariously through this wedding drama cause i never want to get married
I was getting really emotional until this face 3:15 😂😂😂
I'm readingv comments while watching. So I read this and go to look exactly where I am from that moment so I can look out for it, and I'm 1 second before the moment it happens. Kinda got jump scared/startled.
I paused it at this exact moment then looked down to see this comment 🤣
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I'M HERE FOR THE WEDDING DRAMA LLAMA!!!!
My wife and I got married in Disney world in Epcot in the morning and told our guest to dress casual so that they can go to the parks. The reception wasn’t until that evening. And everyone had a great time.
The only bridesmaids I still speak to are family and now I’m actually closer to my ex husband’s girlfriend than my then best friend 😂 xx
I thought the JT in the last minute makeup artist cancellation meant Justin Timberlake, I was man that sucks but Timberlake is a big gig and then I realized it was indeed not that JT 😂😅
I often cry of laughter laughing these, did not expect to be crying because I was so sad and touched. That lady left at the altar is a powerhouse and the moment with her mom - stop, I didnt come here to be crying crying
Omg the feels for Rachel... goosebumps indeed! What an amazing woman.TRULY fucking amaziiiing and STRONG and so BEAUTIFUL.✨
Charlotte's editor is the best. The slow "OMG" with the screen stretching got me 😂
I was my best friend's (D) witness at her wedding along with her sister. There were tons of people there because D had tons of close friends, it was like a harem! She died 2 years ago after a 10 year battle with cancer, and they were all there with her through it all, even after her husband divorced her. She never spent nights alone, not once, we had a rolling system. I would fly home from another EU country but one of her friends flew from Hong Kong. In the end, we were all there around her as she passed away. The room was filled with people and everyone took care of everyone. They asked me where I was staying, if I needed a taxi somewhere, we pulled each other out of the room when we couldn't take it anymore to have a little talk and come back. She was amazing, she did that.
I would wear that gorgeous caped gown EVERYWHERE because Queen
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One year I loved the dress I wore to the Navy Chief’s Ball so much We stopped at the Grocery Store on the way home lol He was passed out drunk in the car 😂 (yeah that “Officer & a Gentleman is so not reality lol They look hot as hell when they look at you fully dressed with that Amazingly Sexy Uniform and say “are you ready? But then the fantasy ends lol) But he got hammered like all his guys! But back in the Store I went down every aisle 😂 😂 I felt like a Princess (whose servants were off lol)
After that night I’d stop at the store for a fast last minute thing on the way to the Navy Balls! ❤
18:34 LITTERALLY my awareness level when I get home! I just wanna get comfy. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shoes OFF, BRA OFF--THEN we'll talk! Or maybe the other way around...
I just discovered you this morning while baking cookies for my kids to decorate and I get a FRESH video the same day??!! yesssssss😍
That whole left at the alter story is absolutely beautiful ❤
To the first bride who got left at the alter: Babe, it's his loss. Girl, you are gorgeous and obvi you're a beautiful soul. To take a, what should've been your sad soppy moment, and turn into a family celebration instead. Good on you. Love that you don't have to deal with his indecisiveness anymore. You deserve way better babe. Hopes and much love.
15:57
The thing that bothers me so much about cake smashing is that these dudes make sure to not only destroy the cake, but they purposefully ruin the bride's makeup and hair as well as using excessive force without making sure the cake is clear of things that could seriously injure the bride.
It would be cute if it was a little frosting put on the tip of the bride's nose or cheek where it's not going to ruin anything and still shows respect towards the bride, but it rarely ever is.
Usually, it's dudes taking too much pleasure out of humiliating their bride on the one day they put so much money, time, and effort into looking their most beautiful for that dude to not only not appreciate it, but ruin it too. To see how proud and happy they feel after humiliating their bride just feels so wrong.