Briar’rose Daniels I wonder if maybe him turning you down comes from a place of insecurity, since he said that he was insecure as a high schooler ? ( Of course since they cut a lot out idk the details )
Only 7% of communication is the words. The rest is body language, intonation, eye contact, touch, etc. If you limit their connection to just 7% of the ways they can learn about each other, it's not going to go very well. This is why people you meet online are rarely going to turn into anything great in person afterwards. The relationship is more imagined than real.
This would've been similar to what they do in blind/speed dating through their hobbies/carriers/music/dance because ultimately the finally chosen one is revealed after they're done with q/a and conversations
The truth is that you don't need anyone to be happy or to prosper, and you needn't convince yourself otherwise. Having people in your life is wonderful, but only if you can be content on your own. Otherwise, you will be sort of depending on them which is not exactly the way to a good relationship.
Why is everyone talking bad about the guy for turning her down? Guys don’t have to settle with the first female they come in contact with. He just wasn’t romantically interested. But if a girl turned down the guy everyone would be like, “YES SLAY QUEEEN! You do you! She had her reasons! OMG” Hypocrites all of you.
i mean im a woman and i dont think its at all unfair for him to turn her down everyone has the right to so nah dude real feminists dont have a one sided perspective like that we believe its equal for both parties to have the same right of saying no to someone without guilt.
I think the reason he turned her down is the “awww that’s adorable” look she gave him when he’s opening up and being vulnerable sharing his deep feelings about a depressing time he went through. He probably felt he wasn’t being taken seriously so I don’t blame him. Guys don’t want our experiences to just be “adorable” we want you to take what we say seriously even when it comes to feelings. Just be understanding and not give us a look of “awwww”.
Yeah it was weird to me when she said she “wasn’t emotional” too and then when she did the “aww” thing with her hand on her chest I got the vibe that she’s not genuine, like he wasn’t even done with what he was saying and she was already that emotional, it was just so contradicting that she said she’s not emotional then got emotional fast.... you feel me? 🤔
Im not very emotional. But to not seem like a psycho I sometimes have to act like im more emotional and sympathetic then I am. Its not that I dont care or anything, its just that Im not good with talking about emotions and being genuinely suportive. Just makes me feel uncomfortable. So maybe she has that. Its rare to find a women that isnt emotional and more logical. I LOVE Walter Mitty and maybe me and her should meet lol.
I love this! The biggest problem in dating is that people don't take the time to get to know each other. A romantic spark after meeting someone for the first time shouldn't be an expectation. The reason people "fall in love" after answering these questions is that they've both shared some depth of who they are. This causes a connection. I think if the expectation is that they fall in love it denigrates the experience. We need to redefine how we meet others and communicate who we are to each other. The tea setting is beautiful. There are boundaries: sitting across from each other at a small table, and the presence of the people filming and providing structure. Dating is a free for all and it seems the goal is sex. If you do that it's like going from step 1 to 20, and there's no going back. Intimacy changes the dynamic of a relationship. We need to take the time to go through each step, getting to know each other, learning if we're on the same page with what matters most, or non-negotiables, such as faith, morals and values. Guidance through a series of dates would be helpful and change the whole dynamic. This has been on my mind for a long time, so I've put a lot of thought into it. My goal is to write a book.
He's not a catch. I predict he'll eventually turn 40 continuing to look for the perfect "romantic spark", only to learn that true romance is something you nurture and develop over many years.
@@eligh272 no I think because Pluto was denied, underrated, belittled. It turned from a planet to a dwarf. They feel like Pluto when they are turned down so this is Plutonic. I miss Pluto. My planet with a heart :(
Like Layla Foster mentioned, lighting is important. But I think it's more likely the people at Jubilee pick and choose couples that look generally attractive.
Being attractive is a huge factor. If these questions are guaranteed to make two people fall in love, then they are proven to make two people friends as well. Looks is a deal breaker for everyone. You can't be intimate and utterly in love with someone you don't find physically attractive.
As an old fart I observe so much more than people can imagine. The saddest thing I observe, people think by changing their physical appearance it will change who they are in their heart.
I happy they were both honest with each other especially at the end. Personally, I feel like Joseph has a few barriers to still work on especially with reliving the past. A second meeting away from the cameras could have made a difference.
It was interesting when they first met he put his hand out at an arms distance to shake her hand while remaining behind the coffee table. Instead of walking around it to greet her.
It's 2020 and I just finished watching this series. Now I'm gonna ask myself these questions just because I'd like to know myself better. Thanks Jubilee and all the beautiful souls in the vids. You've inspired me to start a self-searching journey!!
a lot of things can be joked about in a disrespectful manner but I think that laughing about some things is a way for people to cope with pain and struggle.
I feel like these people sign up to do this and feel strong infatuation really fast because they've been single for quite a while, the whole "omg someone finally talking to me normally" and fall really fast. It's a bad thing. Wish them all the best though.
Dynasty2201 I think I have someone that feels that way about me. He’s told me that the girls in his hometown would never talk to him or approach him. Now, I avoid him because I don’t want to lead him on. I don’t see him like that. It’s too bad really, we would’ve been great to continue to just being friends.
@@koronaantwon dont avoid him. I was like that with a crush I liked...now i regret everything because we would've been great friends. I would do everything in my power to just go back and to just accept a great friend. Just make it clear he will always be a friend- heck even try and set him up!
From what I've seen, people who have stayed single too long are used to their self independence and comfort so they are more likely to get deeper before jumping into a relationship unlike people who date often
@@koronaantwon You can hang around people that date a lot, hook ups here and there and just like the old tradition, go back to him as the safety net :3
I did these 36 questions with my boyfriend in the very early stage of our relationship and it boosted the feelings dramatically. For me it was more an experiment than a real deal but it made us closer and helped to understand that we’re in love. ❤️❤️❤️ I would love Jubilee to take in video more of the couples answers. Now it’s so rapid and it feels chopped.
Even if they don't date, I'm happy that they want to try to be friends cause it's hard to be friends sometimes with the opposite sex and also its hard to come by, but judging their personalities they seem like they would fun people to hang out with and for each other.
@Sideways G Yeah I agree with you as well, but sometimes having guy friends helps in needing a perspective from a guy's point of view or mind, or someone knowing you instead of a woman who sometimes can gossip about you to others.
nikkicole54321 Exactly. It started out with quite a few questions in the first episodes but now, like you said, it’s mainly the staring. I get it, that they want that part in. Just make a longer episode then. Don’t cut out other things. 👍
"i think the difference between friends and romantic interest is difficult to define" that's is why you are getting friendzoned, believe me she knows exactly whether or not she is interested in you romantically.
i used to hate being single & was jumping ships at a moment's notice. been on all sides of the fence, long term & short term relationships, was engaged twice & now single for a few yrs. i was weak to admit my insecurities & selfish ways, i was living a lie & in denial that i wasn't the problem. but the hard truth is, i was the problem & was wrong to be in ANY relationships with my immature thought process about love. but through time, i now understood that to rely on others in order to feel complete was lying to myself & a betrayal to the core of my being. i learned that relationships are not for everyone, when the rose colored glasses fades & honeymoon phase ends, that's when the real uphill battle begins & not everyone is morally equipped to deal with the long term process. to the ppl who haven't been in a relationship, by all means, try it & see how it suits ur life. but for those who can't stand being single after many continuous failed attempts, i suggest u get off ur pretentious high horse & learn to love urself First, before u make other ppl's lives miserable.
I feel like it was one of those things that swerved his opinion on her. The guy already has self-confidence issues and he might have thought she's bullshiting him. She just came off a bit dishonest with her acts contradicting what she said. She said she doesn't get emotional normally but then acts all melting when the guy is talking about his past and isn't even finished with it etc.
@@lighto2240 Often it's just the opposite - look at the research into averaged faces. If you take thousands of images of people's faces and morph them together, you produce a face that is deemed very attractive. It's true that blue eyes are often viewed as beautiful. But the idea that rarity automatically equals beautiful isn't true.
Could there be one episode with the entire 36 questions? I know it would be very long, but I feel like a lot of people would be interested in watching the whole thing. Even if it’s just one video...I feel like I’m always missing the development of their conversation when it skips 10 questions.
When she walked in at first he looked away for a minute i think he isn’t attracted to her tho both of them are beautiful but beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Yeah, that coupled with the fact that he clearly wasn't interested at all tells me that he didn't think she was particularly physically attractive. And on top of that I think a lot of guys would find it off-putting when they reveal something intimate about themselves just to be met with an "aww".
Christian Ekman true but he did look away before they start talking Me as a woman i say Aw sometime when someone tells me something and i feel speechless yet i want to show my compassion
Paran0i3dchick There are certainly times where it's just fine, even cute, when a girl responds with "aww". Just depends on how intimate what you're sharing is. If I was telling a deep secret or something I had very strong feelings about, I wouldn't feel like I was taken seriously if the reply I got was "aww". But if it isn't that serious it could be cute. Don't take my comment as it never being OK to answer like that. I'm sure you're socially skilled enough to know the difference when it's OK and when it's too serious for that response.
@@gggardiney I wouldn't say all guys are trash lol. This guy in particular in the video just didn't connect very well with her and plus they just met so no hard feelings.
But that’s why I loved that he was down to continue talking to her. He felt a connection and wanted to get to know her and if at the very least the become friends, how cool is it to gain a new friendship?
I always used to expect that to happen anywhere I went, parties, school, just walking outside and dreaming about meeting someone. I think I was too desperate for attention. I didn’t get to experience love growing up.
@@Darkvoid2100 she is very good looking. Objectively she has a very symmetrical face and high cheek bones woth dimples. Often attractive traits. I guess we're attracted to averages and extremes.
Yo she damn near died inside when he told her he didn't feel anything romantic. Those eyes tell it all. That's rough. It be like that sometimes though. She's gorgeous she'll have no problems.
You can see that the two had some chemistry, but that isn't always enough. And yes, she seems like a great gal, with a fantastic energy to her. But for one reason or another Joseph didn't give her a chance. Watching the video it seems like he just isn't ready yet for that next step in his life. When he mentioned his ex, it seemed like he was still into her. And that is one of the hardest parts of moving on to a new relationship. Especially when that relationship was your first love. I'm still having difficulty moving on from mine, and it has been several years. It's not about simply feeling attraction towards another person, but about letting yourself let go of the love you had, the memories you shared, the possibilities, the heartbreak you feel. There is a lot of perceived risk involved in opening your heart and life to another person. And if you have experienced love before and seen it fade or change, it is difficult to be open to that again. It's like, man, what is the point, to build something so beautiful, to get so close to someone, only to see it end, and not talk with them anymore? But what is the alternative, never having a romantic relationship again? Sometimes it just takes time to find that courage again. To have a new outlook on love, that it isn't going to save you necessarily, that it could end, and that sharing love could be something different than what you initially thought. There is a lot of humility, vulnerability, and maturity involved in having a true and loving relationship. But it is so worth it. We often get caught up in thinking that love is about us. In some ways, how it can teach us, help us to grow, remind us of our value. But it is more than that. It is about the shared connection. The reminder that we are not meant to experience life alone, that we can give so much to other people and the world. That love can transform us and others. Those are some of my initial thoughts to the video. Maybe I'm reading too much into it all haha. Maybe he just wasn't feeling her. But my people, you have to take a chance. To let go of your past, because it was never yours. To let go of what you think love is, and isn't. And to be open to new possibilities. Best of luck to these two, and anyone who might still be stuck. It gets better :)
0:42 The moment he takes his eyes off of her, looks down, is the moment I realized he wasn't into her. He wasn't physically attracted to her, even though they share similar interests.
It is probably the short hair and the black tank that is doing nothing for her small chest. He should have been able to see past that cuz the hair will grow and then she would be conventionally hot.
why is everyone talking about him "turning her down", you dont have to catch feelings for someone the first time you meet someone. I thought it was really nice that he actually told her he would like to continue the conversation but maybe not so romantically right know
She's pretty as hell. But, if there is no spark, keep it moving. I'm a simple man, I woulda asked for her hand as soon as she sat down. Beautiful girl.
I’ve been testing this experiment: 1. Do it at 3am -you need to catch them at a time when they’re more likely to open up and be vulnerable 2. Over text -idk, I’ve only done this over texts, also makes them more vulnerable? so far, it works. Not necessarily “falling in love” but feelings for sure
GOD WHY JOSEPH, He was obviously feeling her but he just didnt want to be vulnerable, I get the sense he is a bit reserved and has a few insecurities that he needs to deal with, but I feel like these guys vibe at such a great level. What a dunce! Go get her my guy, even if you didnt after the show. Its really really hard to find people that emanate such radiance, such tranquility. Go make some babies!!
Would never work because no one would watch it. Plus people tend to be more insecure about not being models and being on camera and it would make the whole thing more awkward than it already is. Unfortunately, some people belong on camera, others behind it.
U wouldnt believe how unimportant your looks become, if you‘re confident about yourself and know what you want. Thats what really counts. Thats what makes women get interested in you.
36 times, with only 5 of them being necessary IMHO In the interview part he only used "like" twice, but said ot once more from offscreen. His first like was at 1:24. She used "like" very often, too, for example at 3:10
The 4 minute eye contact would've crushed me.
omg same
I want to like your comment but it's 69 and I don't want to change it
i would surely not control that long
I would've gotten teary eyed for sure.
@@Khanarmaanrokz I would have blushed about 5 times and got a panic attack about 3 times. Just a norma day for me though.
Omg she is so pretty. She reminds me of a fairy.
holly pass k
@@user-he7sc3fg3r Why? What's wrong with you man?
She really is.
yes, one who doesn't eat much.
YESSS
I feel like them being good looking was a huge factor here, Jubilee.
For sure, but apparently none of them was *really* interested in the other, despite being attractive.
Lmao exactly my thoughts.
Correct obviously
Yeah😬
That’s the first thing you notice in a person.
Single like 10 month
Damm
I been single like 20 years
I been single 20 years ...and I'm 20 years old 😏😏
And yet they did not choose your application... what a world :)
Jajajaja
I had been single till I was 33
Me 26😎😎
“Two complete ** attractive ** strangers”
The Matadore it is what it is...
Ikr wow
That's what the title should be 😔
He is not THAT attractive.
@@gabrielxjansen uh...he's a pretty good looking dude
My mom wanted me to tell you Jubilee that you need to water your plants 😂😂😂
Sweetness 1624 they really do tho 😂 some of them are looking a little brown and saggy
Heart ❤ this comment Jubilee!
Sweetness 1624 😂😂😂😂
Sweetness 1624 that’s adorable! it’s such a mom thing to say😂☺️
For sure, we do! lol - gotta get on that plant health game
She's so pretty. I kinda felt bad when he turned her down cause it looked like she was feeling him.
@Briar’rose Daniels awwww
@@emmabunch-benson7922 I agree
Briar’rose Daniels tbh i kinda got the vibe that you weren't too into him. You weren't very open, and maybe that's why he took the safe route out
Briar’rose Daniels I wonder if maybe him turning you down comes from a place of insecurity, since he said that he was insecure as a high schooler ? ( Of course since they cut a lot out idk the details )
@Briar’rose Daniels Such a charming, beautiful woman... Still, casual friendship can be a good place to start a deeper relationship. :)
She's so stunning ! 😭😻
Yeah, adorable.
No shes not . Shes not even Hot
@@wintertarzanjagrup2527 stop it she is amazing
@@joelGi I already stoped . I don't have nothing else to say .
@@wintertarzanjagrup2527 have you told your parents, yet?
They should've blindfolded them, so they actually get to know each other just through questions.
...and wear a balaclava for the eye contact bit.
Great idea
Wow this is a great idea
Only 7% of communication is the words. The rest is body language, intonation, eye contact, touch, etc. If you limit their connection to just 7% of the ways they can learn about each other, it's not going to go very well. This is why people you meet online are rarely going to turn into anything great in person afterwards. The relationship is more imagined than real.
This would've been similar to what they do in blind/speed dating through their hobbies/carriers/music/dance because ultimately the finally chosen one is revealed after they're done with q/a and conversations
When you've been single for so long it's hard to convince yourself that you need someone.
I felt this comment so hard.
Why would you though?
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw damn I felt that
The truth is that you don't need anyone to be happy or to prosper, and you needn't convince yourself otherwise. Having people in your life is wonderful, but only if you can be content on your own. Otherwise, you will be sort of depending on them which is not exactly the way to a good relationship.
So true
Why is everyone talking bad about the guy for turning her down? Guys don’t have to settle with the first female they come in contact with. He just wasn’t romantically interested. But if a girl turned down the guy everyone would be like, “YES SLAY QUEEEN! You do you! She had her reasons! OMG” Hypocrites all of you.
metallicak5 TRUTH🙌🏼🙌🏼
i mean im a woman and i dont think its at all unfair for him to turn her down everyone has the right to so nah dude real feminists dont have a one sided perspective like that we believe its equal for both parties to have the same right of saying no to someone without guilt.
metallicak5 as a Guy I learned to deal with things I didn’t want to hear from girls and this guy did the right thing telling the truth!
EXACTLY. double standard is waaaayyyyy off
@@s9738919e yeah real feminists aren't misandrists despite what people claim. - male feminist.
I think the reason he turned her down is the “awww that’s adorable” look she gave him when he’s opening up and being vulnerable sharing his deep feelings about a depressing time he went through. He probably felt he wasn’t being taken seriously so I don’t blame him. Guys don’t want our experiences to just be “adorable” we want you to take what we say seriously even when it comes to feelings. Just be understanding and not give us a look of “awwww”.
Very very true
Yeah it was weird to me when she said she “wasn’t emotional” too and then when she did the “aww” thing with her hand on her chest I got the vibe that she’s not genuine, like he wasn’t even done with what he was saying and she was already that emotional, it was just so contradicting that she said she’s not emotional then got emotional fast.... you feel me? 🤔
Im not very emotional. But to not seem like a psycho I sometimes have to act like im more emotional and sympathetic then I am. Its not that I dont care or anything, its just that Im not good with talking about emotions and being genuinely suportive. Just makes me feel uncomfortable. So maybe she has that. Its rare to find a women that isnt emotional and more logical. I LOVE Walter Mitty and maybe me and her should meet lol.
Or maybe he kept having high school flashbacks of girls like her not giving her attention lol
@@ChaosSpectator2020 It could be as simple as he doesnt think she is attractive. We will never know
she’s so calm and composed. such a healing aura idk ✨
Well, that's easy: I fell in love with her after ten seconds.
That's your dick talking
@@brave385 truer words have never been spoken before.
@@brave385 LMFAOOO
Im pickle rick!
She just has to smile and I fall in love with her.
yeah she could be an actress... the camera likes her
i uhm nvm
I understand how that could happen, but just a smile does not a perfect match make...
But then she speaks
SIMP
why are they both so adorable??? aw
bruh everyone on these blink date is attractive
Halo effect
She has a very ethereal look, it's gravitating
that's a really nice compliment.
You can get anyone with those words. Haha. Nicely said.
Word play on point
Looks like my sister no thanks lol
He's free to feel however he wants but this was pretty awkward with her wanting a second date and him not wanting that.
That's a great way of looking at it!
Sirmel11 haha, did u know that the girl in the video is the one who replied to u^?
Yeah, I already saw she was replying to comments! It's nice to talk to famous people :D
@Briar’rose Daniels you are amazing and have a great personality keep it up
@Briar’rose Daniels have you two been on a second date yet?
I love this!
The biggest problem in dating is that people don't take the time to get to know each other. A romantic spark after meeting someone for the first time shouldn't be an expectation.
The reason people "fall in love" after answering these questions is that they've both shared some depth of who they are. This causes a connection. I think if the expectation is that they fall in love it denigrates the experience.
We need to redefine how we meet others and communicate who we are to each other. The tea setting is beautiful. There are boundaries: sitting across from each other at a small table, and the presence of the people filming and providing structure.
Dating is a free for all and it seems the goal is sex. If you do that it's like going from step 1 to 20, and there's no going back. Intimacy changes the dynamic of a relationship. We need to take the time to go through each step, getting to know each other, learning if we're on the same page with what matters most, or non-negotiables, such as faith, morals and values.
Guidance through a series of dates would be helpful and change the whole dynamic. This has been on my mind for a long time, so I've put a lot of thought into it. My goal is to write a book.
Very wise statement. Thank you for sharing!
Can 2 strangers fall in love asking each other questions? If they are both hot, obviously 😂
That's not love, that's sex 😂😂
The anwsers to the questions don't even matter.
You think he’s attractive?
Obviously
Visual appearance is a very big factor here too.
SHE IS SOOOOOO GOODLOOKING OWOWOWOEIKmd
xoxomyah ikr??!??
@xoxomyah Beside how beautiful she is he is good looking too
@@icemanchambers1207 agree
Nope
Would love to see a catch-up vid on all or some of the past couples and find out if any of them got together after their sessions.
They should make a season dedicated to catch up videos of them
I agree
Yes! This is only half of the experiment. The result is supposed to be falling in love. Do they??
I felt the tinge of disappointed in her when he said he didn't feel any romance.
Devika Ishoney he wants one of those vanilla-ass white girls you can tell
He's not a catch. I predict he'll eventually turn 40 continuing to look for the perfect "romantic spark", only to learn that true romance is something you nurture and develop over many years.
She saw him as a little bro cause he was so emotional
@@alexandraamihan You've got a lot of problems to make such a negative remark like that
It was a 7 min conversation, he wanted to talk more to truly see if they were a match?
“I wish I had blue eyes”
“I wish I had brown eyes”
Well, I wish you’d water your plants.
Anyone here answering these questions just trying to fall in love with yourself again?
Lmao yes 😂😂😂😂
Aww 💛
😭😁
That's so sweet 🥰
Ouch
she's sooo pretty and seems hella chill
Is that De Caprio? LMAO
Except for her constant blinking, lol.
This series should be called “can 2 strangers become plutonic friends” it would have a 100% success rate at this point
Parker Miller platonic*
@@anjaninanda3829 nah it's plutonic. he's talking about 2 strangers having an interplanetary connection
@@eligh272 no I think because Pluto was denied, underrated, belittled. It turned from a planet to a dwarf. They feel like Pluto when they are turned down so this is Plutonic. I miss Pluto. My planet with a heart :(
@@eligh272 or traveling back to the future using plutonium LOL
P.L.U (people like us) + TONIC (maybe that Tea right!) = "PLUTONIC" ;
Ok i understand now, that kind of relationship uhmmm i see..............
Ok can someone set me up like this with someone?
...
I'm so lonely 😂
Potato Perhaps someone named Carrot.
@@DrAdnan French fry**
No wonder your name is potato lol
I think if you live in the LA area you can apply to be in one of these videos
Honey i wish i did 😂
Drinking game: Take a shot everytime he says like.
afhash itiy uuu anfn jas
@William Marsella Almost died ..... im getting sober right now
*How to do suicide: Take a shot everytime he says like.
i LIKE the idea xD
But uhm...
Lol I had a feeling he wasn’t interested in her as soon as he brought up his ex haha
I had a feeling when he didnt say she had pretty eyes too
He didn’t really tho, he commented on the awakening he had with himself at that moment
I don't think that story was about his ex, it was about himself.
Any dude that brings up an ex isn’t over her lol
@@Starphixx well some guys won't say it unless he gets in the relationship .
Are all of these people on this series models ????
Ikr?
i think the lighting is really good and most people aren’t ugly in general that’s why
Layla Foster you will change your mind if you see me.
Like Layla Foster mentioned, lighting is important. But I think it's more likely the people at Jubilee pick and choose couples that look generally attractive.
Most people wouldn't click the video if they were fuck ugly
She just radiates good vibes 💗
That is an amazing way to compliment someone. I'll use that sometime in the future. Thank you
and insecurity.
She’s awesome. Her emotions show.
Being attractive is a huge factor.
If these questions are guaranteed to make two people fall in love, then they are proven to make two people friends as well.
Looks is a deal breaker for everyone. You can't be intimate and utterly in love with someone you don't find physically attractive.
Fall in love with 36 questions? Dude I need atleast 36 weeks.
i just need 36 seconds :(
Just Do 1 question per Week.
Demisexual agenda
"I wish I had blue eyes"
"I wish I had brown eyes "
Well that's a thing.
I would tell her - no problem, you can have 'em ;)
As an old fart I observe so much more than people can imagine. The saddest thing I observe, people think by changing their physical appearance it will change who they are in their heart.
Feel like Briar’s personality is so compassionate if that’s the real her. I like that and respect that.
I happy they were both honest with each other especially at the end. Personally, I feel like Joseph has a few barriers to still work on especially with reliving the past. A second meeting away from the cameras could have made a difference.
It was interesting when they first met he put his hand out at an arms distance to shake her hand while remaining behind the coffee table. Instead of walking around it to greet her.
It's 2020 and I just finished watching this series.
Now I'm gonna ask myself these questions just because I'd like to know myself better.
Thanks Jubilee and all the beautiful souls in the vids. You've inspired me to start a self-searching journey!!
The one thing that I love about these videos is that they make me feel similar emotions as both participants do on a screen.
a lot of things can be joked about in a disrespectful manner but I think that laughing about some things is a way for people to cope with pain and struggle.
Or they simply don't care. Life is a huge playground of funny nonsense. We're animals lol. Don't take yourself too seriously.
never bring up your ex with a potential partner
like legit no one brought that out
@@ardennemcfarlane7023 trust my guy is prob like 13 🤣
Disagree
Dating is not deceiving. Disagree.
For real, if they start out with a sad story/mention their ex, it’s a red flag to me.
I feel like these people sign up to do this and feel strong infatuation really fast because they've been single for quite a while, the whole "omg someone finally talking to me normally" and fall really fast. It's a bad thing.
Wish them all the best though.
Dynasty2201 I think I have someone that feels that way about me. He’s told me that the girls in his hometown would never talk to him or approach him. Now, I avoid him because I don’t want to lead him on. I don’t see him like that. It’s too bad really, we would’ve been great to continue to just being friends.
@@koronaantwon dont avoid him. I was like that with a crush I liked...now i regret everything because we would've been great friends. I would do everything in my power to just go back and to just accept a great friend. Just make it clear he will always be a friend- heck even try and set him up!
From what I've seen, people who have stayed single too long are used to their self independence and comfort so they are more likely to get deeper before jumping into a relationship unlike people who date often
@@koronaantwon You can hang around people that date a lot, hook ups here and there and just like the old tradition, go back to him as the safety net :3
his eyes are so expressive!!! I would stare to him for years and never get bored. he looks so sweet ❤️
That’s kind of a stretch
I did these 36 questions with my boyfriend in the very early stage of our relationship and it boosted the feelings dramatically. For me it was more an experiment than a real deal but it made us closer and helped to understand that we’re in love. ❤️❤️❤️
I would love Jubilee to take in video more of the couples answers. Now it’s so rapid and it feels chopped.
Please share those 36 questions
I was about to sleep but not anymore 😂❤
Lol 😂
Jahneshia Goden saaaameee😂
haha
Jahneshia Goden me every time I go on UA-cam. Lol!
Omg same
Even if they don't date, I'm happy that they want to try to be friends cause it's hard to be friends sometimes with the opposite sex and also its hard to come by, but judging their personalities they seem like they would fun people to hang out with and for each other.
They didn't talk.
@Sideways G Yeah I agree with you as well, but sometimes having guy friends helps in needing a perspective from a guy's point of view or mind, or someone knowing you instead of a woman who sometimes can gossip about you to others.
Is it just me or are there less and less questions in these videos? Such a shame.
Super Moosie I know I wish we could hear all 36 questions
Super Moosie yeah because now they add the staring segment where as I would rather see more of the questions being answered.
nikkicole54321 Exactly. It started out with quite a few questions in the first episodes but now, like you said, it’s mainly the staring. I get it, that they want that part in. Just make a longer episode then. Don’t cut out other things. 👍
holly pass That wolud be AWESOME! 😃
I've thought this many times! I want all the questions. That's the point after all!
The set up of this place is so cozy
"i think the difference between friends and romantic interest is difficult to define"
that's is why you are getting friendzoned, believe me she knows exactly whether or not she is interested in you romantically.
i used to hate being single & was jumping ships at a moment's notice. been on all sides of the fence, long term & short term relationships, was engaged twice & now single for a few yrs. i was weak to admit my insecurities & selfish ways, i was living a lie & in denial that i wasn't the problem. but the hard truth is, i was the problem & was wrong to be in ANY relationships with my immature thought process about love.
but through time, i now understood that to rely on others in order to feel complete was lying to myself & a betrayal to the core of my being. i learned that relationships are not for everyone, when the rose colored glasses fades & honeymoon phase ends, that's when the real uphill battle begins & not everyone is morally equipped to deal with the long term process.
to the ppl who haven't been in a relationship, by all means, try it & see how it suits ur life. but for those who can't stand being single after many continuous failed attempts, i suggest u get off ur pretentious high horse & learn to love urself First, before u make other ppl's lives miserable.
Seemed like a much shorter episode than usual?
It looks like this particular couple didn't give them the great material they usually get - the spark wasn't as bright between them.
@@GRIFFIN1238 I love these videos and thought they had some chemistry. Bummed things didnt work out it seems.
Adam in a reply to another comment Briar said they actually cut a lot of deep conversations had
@@Dayo_kid I just saw that, weird... Just a strange editing choice then. I liked the older style.
You know it's about to go down 😂
4:50 that was pretty cool, them both wishing they had each other’s eye colours. Like tbh lowkey romantic asf
True
True.
Don't know if it's just me but the eye contact scene had me in tears. It was so romantic and whimsical, especially with the music. ♡
“I wish I had brown eyes.” Umm no u don’t
I feel like it was one of those things that swerved his opinion on her. The guy already has self-confidence issues and he might have thought she's bullshiting him. She just came off a bit dishonest with her acts contradicting what she said. She said she doesn't get emotional normally but then acts all melting when the guy is talking about his past and isn't even finished with it etc.
Given that the majority of humans 80-90% have brown eyes they are not considered beautiful
@@lighto2240 Most women have hair on their heads... does that mean being bald is considered beautiful??
Rarity isn't what matters.
@@HannahGK What is it that matters then?
@@lighto2240 Often it's just the opposite - look at the research into averaged faces. If you take thousands of images of people's faces and morph them together, you produce a face that is deemed very attractive.
It's true that blue eyes are often viewed as beautiful. But the idea that rarity automatically equals beautiful isn't true.
She seems like she's the nicest person ever!
Just radiates so much positivity
Could there be one episode with the entire 36 questions? I know it would be very long, but I feel like a lot of people would be interested in watching the whole thing. Even if it’s just one video...I feel like I’m always missing the development of their conversation when it skips 10 questions.
When she walked in at first he looked away for a minute i think he isn’t attracted to her tho both of them are beautiful but beauty is in the eye of the beholder
anxiety or intimidation. We are pretty much guessing here.
Yeah, that coupled with the fact that he clearly wasn't interested at all tells me that he didn't think she was particularly physically attractive. And on top of that I think a lot of guys would find it off-putting when they reveal something intimate about themselves just to be met with an "aww".
Christian Ekman true but he did look away before they start talking
Me as a woman i say Aw sometime when someone tells me something and i feel speechless yet i want to show my compassion
Paran0i3dchick There are certainly times where it's just fine, even cute, when a girl responds with "aww". Just depends on how intimate what you're sharing is. If I was telling a deep secret or something I had very strong feelings about, I wouldn't feel like I was taken seriously if the reply I got was "aww". But if it isn't that serious it could be cute.
Don't take my comment as it never being OK to answer like that. I'm sure you're socially skilled enough to know the difference when it's OK and when it's too serious for that response.
Step number one: pick two people who are already physically attractive.
Step number two: have them ask each other any questions.
Profit.
"I am not too emotional" but she cried watching titanic
ikr
"we want to create amazing content thats all about radical empathy"
hands down the most wholesome channel on youtube
I wish there was a version of this that was uncut, Itd be cool to see how the questions affect the conversation as it happens
They're both so cute... Ahhhh why did he friendzone her though
@@gggardiney I... I would have to agree. That would imply that I'm trash, but from dating other men I can't help but agree lol
Mary Pauline Palacio, you seem bitter.
@@gggardiney I'm not
@@gggardiney I wouldn't say all guys are trash lol. This guy in particular in the video just didn't connect very well with her and plus they just met so no hard feelings.
@@gggardiney no
They should ask each person’s type before the interview and then bring someone completely opposite to see if this experiment works.
Maybe they do sometimes
What is up with people expecting the "romantic spark" to happen in the beginning?
Well, probably because a lot of people have felt that at least once, and the romantic ones think they should feel it again at some point
But that’s why I loved that he was down to continue talking to her. He felt a connection and wanted to get to know her and if at the very least the become friends, how cool is it to gain a new friendship?
I always used to expect that to happen anywhere I went, parties, school, just walking outside and dreaming about meeting someone. I think I was too desperate for attention. I didn’t get to experience love growing up.
The series for strictly good looking people only.
hahahah
They're not particularly good looking tho? Average at best, which is relatable.
@@Darkvoid2100 she is very good looking. Objectively she has a very symmetrical face and high cheek bones woth dimples. Often attractive traits. I guess we're attracted to averages and extremes.
Idk the guy was very average
Well no-one wants to look at ugly people let's get real
She seems dreamy and introspective also I’m pretty sure I saw him get physically turned off in the beginning
Emily Alicia i thought he was just nervous 🤷🏻♀️
She seemed to be so athletic, cool and mature
I think she was amazing 🤙
They can "Fall in love" even with just 1 question. The point is to "Hold " that love during the following several years... 😃
She is v cute and seems well adjusted, shame there wasn’t a connection there for him because girls like her are rare
She is so beautiful and sweet! Wish her all the best
Yo she damn near died inside when he told her he didn't feel anything romantic. Those eyes tell it all. That's rough. It be like that sometimes though. She's gorgeous she'll have no problems.
She is married now and has a baby
@@engi6297 How do you know?
@@dohsdf8625 Following her instagram account
@@engi6297 Do you mind letting me know her insta? 😥
@@randomperson2588 briar.ostgaard
No need for 36 questions, I'm already in love with her.
simp
OK, do it again with someone who aren't this good looking.
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No one wanna watch that
No one would watch it
Isn’t*, not “Aren’t”
She's so pretty, I love her. No questions required.
Meeting kind, super sweet, and open minded girls like her is so damn hard! She’s absolutely my type man
You can see that the two had some chemistry, but that isn't always enough. And yes, she seems like a great gal, with a fantastic energy to her. But for one reason or another Joseph didn't give her a chance. Watching the video it seems like he just isn't ready yet for that next step in his life. When he mentioned his ex, it seemed like he was still into her. And that is one of the hardest parts of moving on to a new relationship. Especially when that relationship was your first love. I'm still having difficulty moving on from mine, and it has been several years. It's not about simply feeling attraction towards another person, but about letting yourself let go of the love you had, the memories you shared, the possibilities, the heartbreak you feel. There is a lot of perceived risk involved in opening your heart and life to another person. And if you have experienced love before and seen it fade or change, it is difficult to be open to that again. It's like, man, what is the point, to build something so beautiful, to get so close to someone, only to see it end, and not talk with them anymore? But what is the alternative, never having a romantic relationship again? Sometimes it just takes time to find that courage again. To have a new outlook on love, that it isn't going to save you necessarily, that it could end, and that sharing love could be something different than what you initially thought. There is a lot of humility, vulnerability, and maturity involved in having a true and loving relationship. But it is so worth it. We often get caught up in thinking that love is about us. In some ways, how it can teach us, help us to grow, remind us of our value. But it is more than that. It is about the shared connection. The reminder that we are not meant to experience life alone, that we can give so much to other people and the world. That love can transform us and others. Those are some of my initial thoughts to the video. Maybe I'm reading too much into it all haha. Maybe he just wasn't feeling her. But my people, you have to take a chance. To let go of your past, because it was never yours. To let go of what you think love is, and isn't. And to be open to new possibilities. Best of luck to these two, and anyone who might still be stuck. It gets better :)
0:42 The moment he takes his eyes off of her, looks down, is the moment I realized he wasn't into her. He wasn't physically attracted to her, even though they share similar interests.
It's not all about looks
He could have been so overwhelmed that he had to look down...
It is probably the short hair and the black tank that is doing nothing for her small chest. He should have been able to see past that cuz the hair will grow and then she would be conventionally hot.
When I click on your timestamp his voice even sounds a lil disappointed.
Mateo with guys is 90 percent looks.
the “i wish i had blue eyes” “i wish i had brown eyes” part came straight out of an indie movie
You look beautiful too
why is everyone talking about him "turning her down", you dont have to catch feelings for someone the first time you meet someone. I thought it was really nice that he actually told her he would like to continue the conversation but maybe not so romantically right know
Dude looks like Daniel Radcliffe a little bit.
Haha I kept thinking "oh look Harry and Luna on a date!"
No he doesn't tf
Yaah i thought so !
Not even remotely close
Mixed with Ramsey bolton
At first i was like "this guy isn't likable" but then LMAO he's like 100% me i love this dude
She's pretty as hell. But, if there is no spark, keep it moving. I'm a simple man, I woulda asked for her hand as soon as she sat down. Beautiful girl.
There was a sparkle in both of their eyes, two beautiful souls not meant to be but to each their own!
He is so fricking handsome, his smile is so beautiful I can't believe it
He was adorable! She was beautiful. Great video guys💯
The girl is sooo beautiful and pure. 😭😭😭😭😭😭💜
Omg She is so pretty
I’ve been testing this experiment:
1. Do it at 3am
-you need to catch them at a time when they’re more likely to open up and be vulnerable
2. Over text
-idk, I’ve only done this over texts, also makes them more vulnerable?
so far, it works. Not necessarily “falling in love” but feelings for sure
Dude:"There was nothing romantic there"
Cameraman:"Should some one tell him we are not shooting a prono"
There's nothing romantic in a porno set captain.
GOD WHY JOSEPH, He was obviously feeling her but he just didnt want to be vulnerable, I get the sense he is a bit reserved and has a few insecurities that he needs to deal with, but I feel like these guys vibe at such a great level. What a dunce! Go get her my guy, even if you didnt after the show. Its really really hard to find people that emanate such radiance, such tranquility. Go make some babies!!
I’d like to see this series with more “ real” people. Not model gorgeous , studying film and tv, bloggers etc.
Blonde Sparkles so not good looking people ?
Diana Gonzalez haha it does sound like I’m saying that! I guess I mean more of a variety of people. Ages, weights, occupations etc.
How about we do it me and you.
Marco Stènsruds I’m down ! Lol
Would never work because no one would watch it. Plus people tend to be more insecure about not being models and being on camera and it would make the whole thing more awkward than it already is. Unfortunately, some people belong on camera, others behind it.
JUBILEE!!! WE WANT MORE OF THESE!!!
Briar-so strong and calm! He had more of an ego and insecurities
both would look great as a couple
I CAN IMAGINE OT VERY WELL
If it were me and her doing the same thing:
She walks in.
Me: Hi !
She: Oh no ... not my type.
Lol.
U wouldnt believe how unimportant your looks become, if you‘re confident about yourself and know what you want. Thats what really counts. Thats what makes women get interested in you.
He seems so young. Get more of a mom/son vibe than anything.
The number of times I heard this guy say "like"
36 times, with only 5 of them being necessary IMHO
In the interview part he only used "like" twice, but said ot once more from offscreen.
His first like was at 1:24.
She used "like" very often, too, for example at 3:10
She is so beautiful, compassionate and present ^_^
"Can 2 Strangers Fall in Love with 36 Questions?"
I fell in love during the intro, so I would say yes