Why Institution of Marriage is Failing in India? Bharat Matters | Adarsh Gupta
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In this video, we delve deep into the intricate reasons behind the challenges facing the institution of marriage in India. We explore the societal, cultural, and economic factors that contribute to the rising divorce rates and changing dynamics within marriages. Understanding the complexities surrounding this issue is vital for anyone interested in the societal fabric of India. We examine how traditional norms, urbanization, financial pressures, and evolving gender roles impact the institution of marriage. Join us in this thought-provoking analysis of a topic that truly matters in Bharat, shedding light on the dynamics of relationships and family structures.
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law koi matter nahi karta chotai orat ka chritr nahi rha 😢
@@Joshuamntkaus177 wo toh tere Ghar m bhi h orat..Aaj ki randibaj h kya sab ..yrr kuch toh soch kr bola kr
Negative sun sign marries positive sun sign = positive sun sign in depression
@@rudraking6365 marriage is decreasing day by day.The people who are in private sector are avoiding marriage and ladies because they have no financial stability
Its 100 percentage true
Nowadays, when adultery is not a crime, the requirement of Pre-nuptial agreement is much needed in India.
"Honest men marry soon, wise men never"~Proverb ✍️
Indeed..my cousin is very honest by nature and he married a gold-digger girlfriend at age 28, whom he loves unconditionally and now all his salary get spent by her and he still thinks it's normal..she even quit her job coz she doesn't want to work hard and earn money rather she asks money from him and gets very easily😂😂
@@bsagnik247may be he. ask her to leave her job.🤔
@@a.huminist didnt u understand anything what he said ?? why would she work hard if she can enjoy from his money
@@jklman8522 no , mostly ppl say she doesn't wanna work, but they ask her to leave her job and sometimes because of kids and household works..so just asking
@@bsagnik247 I mean if they both are fine with her being a stay at home wife then what is wrong? Unless they have financial constraints I see nothing wrong with this arrangement, provided both have discussed and agreed to the terms beforehand.
Got divorced, wife characterless, lost child and of course paid good money..im not a misogynist but i will think 100 times before even talking to a woman
The fear and trauma is mutual, bro.
Better to stay single until past trauma is healed, because that will get projected to future spouse and ruin that marriage also.
Not trying to scare. But yeah, better to stay single or if you have to marry then first fully heal and take care of your biases.
Absolutely doing the same..it ain't mutual in my case, its called adultery.. Healing, broken but not destroyed... Will get better.. Thanks
@@abhinavsharma3501 Happy healing 😇.
@@goldenblueshineNo the fear is not at all mutual.For a woman,if she gets a wrong partner who she decides to leave ,she only loses a married life .But a man in a similar situation loses everything-married life,a huge amount of money,custody of child(if any,it mostly goes to women),reputation(family framed in fake charges),job/earnings(due to criminal cases lodged against him).
Divorced myself too. And the more I look at the draconian laws of this country, I don't want anything romantic with women of this country. Best to travel to a different country where laws are not so draconian to get your needs met. Then when you are done travel back to India and focus on work.
No relationship, love or sex is more important than self respect, freedom and dignity.
Right bro❤
kap tak hillaoge
@@user-hr9em5bb2mbiwi 3 mahine ke andar chhor kar chali jayegi toh fir zindagi bhar toh hilana hi padega
@@user-hr9em5bb2mcontrol your lust
It takes tremendous courage to do so
@user-hr9em5bb2m jitne me shaadi kroge utne me pta nhi kitni russian or thailand k trip mar loge hilane ki jrurt nhi h😂😂😅
My marriage stayed for 2 years and I got divorced, due to constant conflicts, those two years were most painful years of my entire life. Now I am enjoying my life. To all those men here, don't marry just to fulfill your bodily desires, those bodily desires give happiness only for very small period of time. marry only if you are super rich and you know the person extremely well, otherwise, focus on career and earning money, do yoga and meditation and find higher level of happiness.
SOLUTION: There is no heartbreak every single man should juggle 3 women at a time without telling them. Womans mind reads this man as high value -- now woman will chase after you and do things for you unsolicited. All the man has to do is keep conversation light and funny (she should be laughing and not you) at all times for life when woman is present. Man only needs to find that one good woman then at the wedding maybe once say "I love you too" just once. This light teasing funny process of talking to women with a smile for boys and men is a lot of fun. All boys and men must see the movie "Gone with the Wind" and copy body language and banter like Rhett Butler on how talk to women. Practice Practice Practice.
Happy to know that I am not all alone when it comes to hating marriages😂😂
I hate marriage too... Bs ek bar amir ho jau shadi wadi jaye bhad me m duniya ghumunga 😊
Bhai ye chiz rukmi nhi chahiye me chahta hu ki ladkiya hamare Bina kaise rehte wahi dekhna h cuz wo har baar hame blame karte h na
Don't hate it, just be aware
Same bro I also don't like marriage
We all should make a group 😂😂 for motivating each other to not get married and live a happy life 😂😂
I’m 35. Recently divorced. My marriage only lasted 3 months, but those 3 months were the worst of my life. She literally made my life hell. Now I’m stress free and happy again.
Hope it didnt cost you much
Bro i was curious what were the issues you faced with her ?
@@ishangupta1332 she was undiagnosed bipolar. Would start fights and arguments over nothing. Everyday she picked on something to argue about. Then she started arguing and fighting with my parents, that’s when I had enough,
@@sapien9567 well I’m a citizen from a different country. Plus we didn’t have kids. So luckily I didn’t fall under the Indian laws. 3 months in western countries doesn’t entitle her to anything, and rightly so.
@@TheJattMC you being a foreigner are so damn lucky.
41 here. happily single. Not going to compromise on quality woman.
Good sir 💯 I wanna be like you
LESS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Also try to listen to Acharya Prashant
Are uncle abhi kon shadi karega apse😂
@@bereniceg777Thora sa paani pi le thak gayi hogi same comment kar kar ke
Agar wo paisai wala hua toh kya pata teri he niyat badal jai aur tu he uske piche par jai @@bereniceg777
advice to all men : dont get emotionally attached to any girl or women . always be ready for Dhoka
Okay 15 year old
Sadi maat karo
I can vouch for this. It hurts like hell.
Ok got it 😊
I'm 30 and I would stay single happily all my life rather than marrying. Marriage is less of relationship and more of a business contract nowadays.
Kar le shadi
Purely business set up..not at all the way it used to be..
Won't your parents oppose this decision?
@@AnkitKumar_99do you think parents can change his mind if he stand firm on his decision?
@@playmobilegamescodm I didn't say that opposing decision means changing his mind.
Btw writing your decision in comment section is easier than actually staying firm on it.
Boys main problem
1:- his own expenses
2:- educational expenses
3:- marriage expenses
4:- parents expenses
5:- wife expenses
6:- child expenses
--------------------------------
Total:- 1crore
@MayankTrivedi2 hum aadmi hai hamare saath Aisa hi hota hai...🤔🤔🤔
@MayankTrivedi2 india ki ladkiyo ka kya lena dena... Ghar ki ladkiyo ko samajhna chahiye..aur mujhe nhi lgta ki ak middle class family ki woman Beth k khati hai.
Bhai, wife ko samajh mein aaye Na aaye wife ke Maan Baap Ko bilkul sab kuch samajh mein aata hai .. they are the real dowry Seekers nowadays they Marry only by seeing status and the capability of the income but what is in return they contribute is by sending agent of their own to break groom's family and play politics, darma via mobile keeping their own lives a private one. Jab jab ladki aati hai tab-tab Ghar tutata hai aur ladke ke Maan Baap chup rahte Hain abused ho te hai, dare sahme rahte hai apne hi ghar mai - ijat ka sawal hai Na, Parivar Samaj aur Bahu ke Samne. Today the social evil is coming from the bride family and 2023 ambitious wives unfulfilled dreams. Me my Children & My Cash Cow backed by My hidden Parents via mobile on daily basis with My Indian bias Laws made not for humans but for Drama Queens and her so called freedom & Dignity of 2023. Happy Marriage Anniversary 😂
Marriage expenses girl ke family krti h boys ki family toh demand krti h unhe kaisi Marriage chahiye
10 crore
I am married and I regret it. Planning to take divorce. I will happily sacrifice half my property for peace of mind. Guys pls don’t get married. It’s not only me, but all my male friends want a divorce. The effect of feminists not good on males. It’s a curse if you are male-middle class- general category. Stay single stay happy
Or better marry outside
@@Alice-7777Bro Marriage In India Is A Hell
But Considering Divorce Rate Of Other Countries Marring Outside is Also not good 🙏
I'm 30 and married for 3 years now . Believe me guys this is the worst decision of my life..I have lost my freedom..I cannot hangout with my friends anymore.. Daily arguments..pls stay single and enjoy your life 🙏
Which state
@@robbenvanpersie1562State is kya farak padega?
@@aayushshende1943 sex ratio
😂😂😂
@@aayushshende1943Because some states have different laws
Don't forget the Judiciary's contribution to this condition 😊😊😊😊
And reels, WhatsApp and UA-cam short videos contribution . Through WhatsApp every one is available to everyone except their partners or with whom they are living. Itni late night ko log WhatsApp chala k kya krte h.
Before laying blame on the judiciary, take a moment to reflect on the historical injustices that men have inflicted upon women. Have we overlooked the brutal treatment women have endured from men? The apparent bias in the judiciary toward women, a consequence of men's actions.
@@alok592And what about the brutal treatment that men have endured from women? Why not make the laws gender neutral?
@@alok592accha to itihas ka badla liya ja rha hai 😂😂😂😂
And what about men die for women protection ?
@@alok592 It's a big historical lie that only women have suffered in the past. Men's lives were extremely brutal too. As soon as a boy reached adulthood, he was sent to the battlefield to defend his motherland. Were reduced to working donkeys in order to provide for the family. Men's suicide rates have always been sky-high compared to that of women.
Society as a whole, has never tried to understand or reduce the oppression that men and young boys have faced.
I m 38 divorced from mumbai. My wife used my body, my money n drained me emotionally. Daily arguments, no work at home, no respect, no financial contribution, no true love and threat me every day and doubts on me and had eye on my money and property.
Best solution is to stop marriage, no kids and stay stress free life with lovely pets and parents. kids after some age don't stay with parents to look after in old age.
Best option is to focus on creating artificial wombs. Once such a thing is created, women won't remain a necessity and thus their advantage will end as well.
So sad buddy
The whole problem is capitalism... Everything is a rat race now... No one is happy.
even women suffer the same way...... n wish the same to avoid the problem itself! In some cases this is the best solution.
@@EaglesEyes6354Supreme court stated that 90 percent of domestic voilence cases are false to exploit males.
It looks like Indian Men are waking up with the rest of the world and realizing that Marriage is not a blessing but a curse to cause stress.
They should change the spelling for 'Husband' to L-O-S-E-R.
@@modernpagan1011damn😂😂😂😢😢
@@modernpagan1011 Shaadi kare tho looser aur shaadi na kare tho looser, wah!
And women are too waking up, yes, marriage is stressful for women.
@ExcitedCompass-il2marriagw is a bed of roses for women they get everything custody of child,,large amount of money without doing anything,,,and men lose everything so marriage is rather a good deal for womenft
The report is true. Life for boys is getting more difficult in India. Lower levels of incomes has led to lower marriages. Men these days prefer to live alone rather than having a burden of family with lots of financial responsibilities
Civilians are really ignorant. The laws are made for the majority.
I'm a lawyer and a man. The judiciary is great, the laws made for women are great. You do not understand the ground reality and are talking on anecdotal terms. This emotional attitude towards perfectly functional laws would make you more susceptible to anger towards women which sets off the vicious cycle of crime and punishment.
I suggest introspection over WHY such laws needed to be made. I'll give you a hint: in reality, maximum crimes are committed by men. Look at any riots- men. Rapes- men. Murder- men. What we see on the daily if you saw 1 percent of it you'd be playing a different tune.
@@bikerultimate😂😂😂 Then men must be made aware of lawyers like you to go up against
@@bikerultimatelaws shouldn't blindly favor women and must be impartial, the fact that there are loose threads that allow women to exploit it, and rape by women isn't even recognised by the law.
Men can be victims and we blatantly deny that.
Men are victims too but that stuff mostly never comes out, and that is because of the law and how police handle crime against men.
I agree majority of crimes are commited by woman but keep turning the blind eye and I bet women will overtake men in few decades if not years.
@@Anika9691law prefer female then why nirbhaya criminal still didn't get Death penalty? Why it took 7 year if law prefer women why other rapist who rapped 3 or 4 y old are free now does law really prefer females or rapist ?
Not just in India but in the whole western world
I'm 32. I go to gym, I sing, I play, I stay at home, I do whatever I want majorly at the comfort of my home. I earn from my home, I purchase whatever I want, I sleep and wake up whenever I want, I eat whatever I want and if I get married tomorrow, I will lose all these privileges. Marriage is definitely a LOAD in so many cases.
NOTE - kuch fuddu kehte hain, Wow itne saare likes, mummy mai famous hogya. I'm not one of them bcz I know ki comments pe 2-3k toh kya 2-3 crores likes bhi ajayein toh bhi banda famous nhi hona. Haan shahad uska woh comment thoda sa popular hojaye. Fuddu hain woh. I repeat "FUDDU hain woh". 😁
@@rohitmehta1216 you can adopt a child though. Avoid brothels. Either get married or completely abstain, but don't visit brothels.
Hire a employee . pay her to have sexx with her and work done. no dowry , divorce
case .
adopt kid or surrogacy like SRK . karan johar
You can Invest wherever you want, Go anywhere you desire, meet new people.. However keep a robust health insurance and always have a plan B because you are alone.
@@eveningafterrain first of all you cannot be sure about them, just one bad day with carelessness and you may end up with a disease for the rest of your life. Secondly getting intimate with prostitutes won't solve loneliness, it will worsen it as you will end up wanting more and more, which could ruin any possibility of a good relationship in the future as you will only see women only as a means to achieve pleasure and nothing else. It will ruin you internally.
@@noone7097why no to brothels
Even clubs and oyo rooms are not less than brothels
Get money and put cock in the chicken they need money we need satisfaction it is more affordable and safe
Judiciary treat men like dogs so stay away from chances to get in judicial matters
I am 31 years old single man. All my life I got rejected by girls due look and status. Same groom family keep rejecting me due to look and status. I told my family I am happy to be the single. Today, I work for myself, earn for myself, spend on myself and love myself. I am building my self. Proud to be single. 🎉❤🎉
Good looking don't work for men,girls are full of lust for gold ,money and to defame your parents. Fool girls😅😅😅😅😅😅
But you are Looking Handsom what are you talking
@@Vikramchauhan402 Women brain work differently, they love bad boys.
Sir, I am understanding your guiltiness,sadness.The best option specially for us is just start becoming spiritual.
I'm above your age I don't give a shit about woman and India as well
I make 30+ LPA, have decent investments and insurance of around 2 Cr. My biggest fear isn't breaking up of marriage but the fact that law allows any woman to take my wealth which I have built over the years without anyone's support just coz she gets the title of being my wife.
Choose wife accordingly.
And trust they will marry u for ur money... No one is interested in you.
why not put all your money in some kind of trust or in a way where noone can take it away from you?
Don't you worry. Court also sees the length of the marriage and behaviour of each spouse during separation. So chill.
For most women marriage is a business and Divorce is a blank cheque.
Why we justified marriage?
-Because it is written in hindu literature ( 4 stages of life)
Q- there are 3 other stages, do we go to forest in our 50s? Do we take sanyas in 70s?
- no for majority
In short - marriage is not natural rather a man-made institution according to time and prevailing situation so, with the phases of time there will be some flexibility according to time and situation... Change is the only permanent thing.
Dowry system - wrong practice
Salary/Property Settlement - good practice
Although am completely against the dowry system.
Exactly... i think "dowry for my son" and "gov. Job or a millionaire for my daughter" is the same mentality...
Problem is in society and its mentality regarding marriage and its association with personal dignity. Some people missus this mentality to harass and loot that person.
dowry ke liye murder case bahut dekhe honge salary ke liye murder case dekha Hain???????
@@AM-nx2iwहा मैंने देखा है
@@iambharatiyan4922 matlab kuch bhi 😂????
India will become like South korea and japan where marriage is too much expensive 😅😅😅
marriage is too expensive in INDIA. no country can even match us. i guess u are talking about after divorce expense
I dream of that day. Immigration backlogs will be lower.
@@jklman8522 yup you are right 👍
Stay Single...Stay Happy
Bhai single raho mast apne upar paisa kharcha karo gym jao mast zindagi jio duniya ghumo handsome ban ke raho or kya chahiye bhai 😊
My age is 28. I faced so much gender inequality. I lost a job because of fake complaint by girl. I know that the gender inequality is the reason, i dont want to marry any girl because i don't trust girls and financial instability. I am very happy with single life but my family is taking so much pressure of my marriage. I have no plans to marry any girl. I faced so many problems by girls who betrayed me. I don't want to take a risk that girl who destroyed my life for fake dowry and fake rape cases.
😊😊😊😊😊
I'm 25 I feel like not to marry in future have seen so much cases in my neighbour of divorce. Today's
girls aren't worth it to take that risk for them .
You can find a egg donar and a surrogate mother. Then find a women to marry and make her sign a contract to not have any right over your property and assets. Even if you divorce you will have the child and your money.
It's nothing to fret over
Although this child process will cost but better than what you can go through
@@rajatyadav5540its not legal in india AND this law is legal outside India and calling prenum
@@deepaksharma-hg5xj some of the listed things are not legal in India yes I won't count which ones
I just provided the idea and told there are ways we don't look into instead of blaming society we should try something ourself for solution.
If it's not legal shift outside the country do the tasks which are not legal in our country in other country I just told you the solutions I came up with on the spot. We all have brains start thinking i am not with you I can't dictate actions for you like a parent.
I decided not to marry,,bcz of trust deficit.
.my brother was an DRDO scientists, but he suicide in 2018 bcz of his wife's extra marital affair and snatched his daughter and deprive from father's love. So I know in which level a female can go to gain their aspiration.
Not same for everyone ... Your brother should have atleast tried to find the middle way.
World isn't black or white it is but grey, there must be a reason for her to do so.. he should've just divorced her filing extramarital affair case.. atleast he could've lived a happy life with his daughter.
The daughter is innocent why shall the life of an innocent one be punished so harshly..
And trust is a mutual thing give and take..
Don't cower b'coz of the past but learn from it and cope with it ... Your life has it's own complete different destiny thus letting the past affect you so deeply is bad..
Life is the time which is continuously flowing like a river with two shores that's birth and death but karma is the boat in which we sail through it hence there are sometimes a good sailing sometimes a rough one but life like river continues to flow on until it reaches the shore of death until then try to have a smooth sailing with good karma..
@@pikachue602family courts are female favouring. He would never get custody of his daughter
This also indicates that she was a gold digger nasty women who only married your brother for attention and stability , but not for serious commitment and love .
@@pikachue602their must be reason for affair damn you women go to any length to justify your filthy behaviour.
Not all women are same..you need to find a good partner for yourself..whatever happened to your brother is really saddening but you are different from your brother..but that doesn't mean your fate will also be the same if you marry..be smart and choose a right partner for yourself
Divorce rate is 1% because courts doesn’t grant divorce even after a couple is separated. If all the pending divorces are granted it would go up to 30% atleast.
True
3%. I am a ahlmad in Family Court. Having more than 800+ files of divorce cases.
😢
Well you could become a brand ambassador for divorce. If that's what you want
@@wisdomhere26 Indian court and judiciary are only in favour women.
My life is completely ruined after the marriage. I have applied for a divorce after 2 months of my marriage. She was diagnosed with Schizophrenia from her childhood and her family didn't allow me to have a word with her before the marriage. All this trauma due to their mistake and I am suffering a lot. I assume my case would take another 5 - 6 years easily to conclude with divorce. By default, they have filled a dowry case on me without even bothering about what would happen to my life.......I completely believe there should be a reform in our laws as this would cause a huge loss to our society in the future. Time is ticking...
Why employed women don't marry unemployed mens while it's opposite scenerio is true.😢
😂😂😂👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
My elder brother married in 2021. His wife had superficial expectations like big house with all luxuries, wanted to live like a bollywood couples. She did not wanted to spend a penny out of her pocket. My brother started little resistance for her expenses. Then she showed her true colour. Filed fake DV case and Dowry case. Eventully just few days back they got divorced through mutual process but we had to pay (extortion) her 20 lakhs to settle the matter. It was so disturbing and chilling for our family that we are unbale to focous on daily things. I have decided not to marry.i would request to youngsters choose your partner carefully else dont marry at all. These days majority of women are not trustable , gold diggers and harrasers.
@CUJ-UA-cam arranged
Or karo arrange marridge.
This feminine mindset of extravagance and seeking luxurious lifestyle is what I hate the most in today's women and this is why I stay away from marrying such overgrown infants.
@mahan_hindutva😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Neet2025sureshotbeta stats nikal, zyada tar aise love marriage mein hi hota hai😂 at least arrange marriage mein thori bahut sharam ke mare log shaadi nahi torte . I'm not against love marriage but it's the truth
seriously, as a man I don't want someone else to get luxury from my hard-earned money.
Yeah dude ! We men suffer our whole life earning and then one day a lady wipes all that money ...WTF that's nightmare 🙏
That will be your wife and children, your family, someone else did the same thing for you think about it.
@@dhaval1489those times were different. Now time and women both have transformed
Isse acha girl ke face body se jada personality or dusro ke prati behaviour check kr ke krna agr mil Jaye toh thik wrna single rehne me koi burai nhi h ...na hi koi mahan kaam h.. Beauty dahej dekhoge toh wo b money dekh kr aaegi....
Harsh bhau, aajkal ladkiyo ne bhi kamana chalu Kiya he duniya me
Gentlemen my brother got divorced after 6 months due to wife's extramarital affairs and we had to pay 60 lakh rupees as one Time alimony..........this was even on paper. Anyways I will not reveal my identity But Please Please Please Don't marry its a trap😢
Wow does she had a extra marital affair with lawyer who helped her to get this heavy amount
I hope she loses her legs
Pehle se form bharva le in sab ka 498 alimony
Iam 30 yrs of age and i don't want to marry because my freedom life and i loves nature and animals so much that iam vegetarian and today's girls are very dangerous and i still fear them and i have my three pets with me German shepherd and golden retriever and i adopt one Indian dog really they loves me so much i don't need selfish girls Jai Bharat om namah shivaya
@@BharaniBharani-wf5wdHali stan
Dogs are more loyal than women 😊❤
tere paas dhruv rathee hai?
Do you know Hemant Tiwari?Kindly reply
@@AtheistNationalist😂
No longer, adultery is not a crime .... you missed this point.
Adultery was never a crime for wives. It was a criminal offence for whom she slept. Now wife and her boyfriend are free to have sex but for husband adultery is a criminal offence. Multiple High Court passed order that it,s cruelty against wife and should be punishable under 498a. Google it , you will see multiple judgment
agreed ! men should consider no seal no deal thing m ahdaere to my words.
Consensual physical relationship between two adult of any gender or marital status is NOT a crime
@@kumarlko1347 haan ladki to yahi bolegi naa ki jutha rape case laga Rahi..ye Mera consent leke sex Kiya... Tab to Martial Rape bhi nahi hona chahiye lagu?
@@varunpratapsingh5169I am afraid of this point...not married yet😢
The truth is -
~When a man earns he takes the responsibilities of family. When an women earns she becomes independent.
~When a man earns he may pick a no-earning women and makes hers life-partner. When a woman earns she reject a men.
~A strong man can pick broken women and make her life strong. Strong women don’t look after broken men.
Badi kadak baath boldi aapne 😮
Absolutely right bro 👍🏻
Strong women like strong man
Either before marriage or after marriage.
Example jyoti maurya. 🤣🤣🤣
@@fdg142 a man who provides is strong bro, and jyoti mauryas husband is also a strong man 😐
@@sushilnayak8639 bhai kaha ji raha hai.
Strong women matlab woh sdm hai toh use pati 4 class job wala nhi chahiye.
Samjha usne bhi achi post wale ka bistar garm kiya jake baad me.
Bhai aaj ki sachai yehi mere pados mein bhi bahut orato ke andar bahut garmi hai
Husband army mein hai or orat dusre ke bistar garm kar rahi hai.
Is mc orat jaat se nafrat hai mujhe to
In 80s 90s both male and female used to be virgin before marriages and there is no virgin girls or boys and also loyalty is not there
All of this also defeats purpose of marriage
Aagar Shadi bandh hojata hai toh yeh purush ke liye acha hai. Paisa kamane ka problem nahi, Family ko khilane ke liye risky work karna nahi padega.
Abhi mat kro maya jaal hai sab
When a man becomes successful he thinks, he needs more women', When a women becomes successful she thinks she does not need any man' but the reality is every person needs a life long partner in form of spouse. Marriages used to be a sacred bond but nowadays its contaminated by greed and lust.❤🎉😊
Great👏👏
@@rishovbarai no, law is all about money, I have seen all kinds of cases. They do not even work for women.
@@rishovbarai i know bro..but do you even know why we need such laws, I'm villager . I've seen what you haven't seen. 53% of women are illiterate in my state .65 % of the population is still villages. And society is very radical. Yes if possible..in big cities there should be some change. Such irony in our country even raipt case take more than 10 years, murderers come out easily..
@@rishovbarai no no its not gender percentage, it is crimes against women. Most of them don't even know that kind of laws exist. And I know every innocent person should get justice no matter if men or women..it's a simple thing.
Now a days??? Truth is women used to be oppressed b4 but now men are getting taste of their own medicine
Ab apne Mami papa ko ye video dikhaunga
😂😂😂 all the best 👍
@@OmkarChitalkar-co7qpand then divorce and alimony😂
Koi faeda nhi bhai.... Roz kalesh hota hoga tere Ghar bhi mujhe pta hai
Abe Sidhe Charitra wali ladki dhundo... Chehre ke piche na bhago..aur Kisi RunD kism ki Ladki se Shadi mat Karo..
Character is important than Face..
@@himanshukuanr7832 Bhai character pta lgte lgte bahut time lg jata hai 🤣🤣🤣 aur aaj kal maximum ladkiyan chalu hain milne ke time bholi baad me aag ki goli
Ek kadva such acche ladke ko acchi ladki nahi milti aur acchi ladki ko accha ladka nahi milta
Jhuth h ye bhai
absolutely correct....this happened with my brother he suffered a lot emotionally and mentally because of his wife...he is calm and innocent..I couldn't see his pain..literally I cried why my brother...my advice choose a proper life partner or else don't marry be happy...my personal experience
The core of the institution of marriage was, man can't do everything alone so is women.
But now we are teaching, everyone can do everything alone.
So whats the point of getting married?
110% accurate. Today's men are fearful about marriage due to mentioned reasons in the video. Sometimes you are trying to be good & humble for everyone but if your own wife starts plotting against you, then nobody in entire colony want to get married or even want to go to in a relationship.
I have so many male friends who are sick of their marriages.
One friend got married to a bcom girl, taught her btech+5 years work exp level technical skills in his domain, got her placed in a well paying reputed company.
She now earns about half package of his, does not contribute any of that towards household expenses, and wants him to hand over 80% of his own salary every month to her, or she starts torturing him by making regular scene in front of his parents, staying at her own parents home for extended weeks, and also not agreeing for divorce...
That's hell bro😢😢
@@shivaprasad-vd7qf same case and divorced now. Hare Krishna
@@jigargandhi1654 oh sorry bro, divorced now?
@@shivaprasad-vd7qf yes bro... After three years of mental pain I got divorced in court. Bcos i did not agreed to her conditions of removing my parents from home and adding her name in my bank and property.
@@jigargandhi1654geat decision. Now You can Work for yourself, parents and for betterment of society and by helping others this will give you immense peace. Stay Strong. Hare Krishna🙏
"Marriage is a precaution taken by the society so that nobody becomes an individual."
- Osho
For marriage....job and lot of money is required which most engineers lack 😂😂😂😂
Even if you get money she can just divorce you for free money if you try to save money
@@churchilkamkb sab mai-bapu ke naam kardu toh ????🤣🤣😂😂
Btw nice name my bro 👍 totally awesome 😎
@@Just_randomhuman India isn't as good country as you think. Indian laws are not like that. Even your parents have to pay money if you try such trick. Also mostly during divorcing you the female will also file case against your parents about harrassment , fake dowry , forceful snatching of family jewelry from her etc. Even your parents will have to go round and round of court and at least settle for her monetary demands or go to jail as first rule of Indian laws is female are always right. Soon your dear Maulana Modi will introduce marital r_pe laws only against women. She will definitely charge you for that.
Engineers are not destroyed in this comment 😂😂
@@Just_randomhumanIndian court system chutiye nahi hai bhai phir bhi loot lenge.
चार बच्चो की मां भी किसी और के साथ भाग जाती है,,। लोग उसको सच्चा प्यार कहते है
Ye aap kiski baat kar rahe ho samaj aa gaya
@@saitama-kun9253 kiski baat yaar mai nhi samjha
@@ElonMusk-tb2yiSeema Haidar
🤣🤣🤣
Mere pados ki ek aunty 15 saal chote ladke ke sath bhag gyi...3bache the uske jisme se ek us ladke ki age ka hi h🤣🤣
Dream of Russian 🇳🇱 Girls is not lustful but a well balanced Decision 🇮🇳 . Russian 🇳🇱 Girls are good, socially, culturally, and Spiritually for Indian 🇮🇳 men needs.
I'm too lazy to get married 😂
But the peaceful community does not care about all of those things😂
Let's convert then😂
😂😂
Peaceful community matlab?
@@dking1053 are bhai wo nunu kate hue log 🤣🤣
Buslims@@dking1053
You forgot one more important point :- SEX
In earlier times, majority of the men could get sex only after marriage. Surely Sexual satisfaction isn't main goal of marriage but it one of the important aspects. In those times Only after getting financially stable and marrying, men was getting Sex but nowadays thanks to the hook-up culture, it's not hard for men to get Sex. So many youngsters loose their virginity in school and college days (What I've seen in Tier 1 and Tier 2 cities). Those who fails to get a female friend, visits Red Light Areas (Red Light Area of Pune increased so big in recent years)
This is applied to Opposite gender.
I don’t see red light are where we buy male prostitution actually. Not that common. So no it’s not the same.
Men don’t get emotionally attacked after sex, they are before sex. Women get imprinted psychologically. We cannot forget the man we sleep with. It’s different psychologically.
So you may have women changing partners daily, but that’s comparatively rare.
We don’t want anyone to flirt with us once we have our “the one”
Man can flirt with 20 year old when he is 59,
it is even more easier for a girl to have sex than a boy.. so ur assumption is quite wrong
You r right bro
14,15 old school girls loosing virginity in my city
@@pritech8302 kaunse shehar se ho bhai😧
Work in any lodge or hotels, you will come to know the reality of marriage. 😢
Wdym? Kya matlab?
Matlab waha sab extramarital affair Wale couple ate he gh pa ghap karne😀@@TheFunnyDictator
@@Jungle_boy123 Ye baat aapko kaise pata hai?
@@Jungle_boy123 Kya married couples nahi aate hain hotels me?
I want to have my own biological kids....but really don't want to get trapped in after-marriage.
One woman said she cant birth a child as its her body. She wanted a surrogate.
@@sujit2609As a woman with many health issues I don't want a child so what I might be dead during childbirth if not mine who else's right is that to decide
Same here 😊
Same buddy, I'm 28 and earn over a lakh per month but I'm afraid of marriage due too many shits in society... it's extremely hard to compatible partner.. I tried 2 times already, both failed 😶😕 one cheated and other was too short tempered... tried to stay with her but i was feeling as if I was getting depressed and gave up 😢
Cheating is common these day bro..accept it😁
When a single partner leaves, it might be their fault, but if every new partner ends up leaving, it's advisable to introspect and consider whether you might be the one at fault. It's a common human tendency to point fingers at others for every issue and avoid acknowledging our own mistakes
@@alok592 did you read the last 2 lines 😶
Bro! Don't marry a second hand girl, If you accept them they will take it for granted.
@@thewalker338 He himself is a third rated third handed good😂😂😂
My Sister & Brother both went through bad marriages.
My sister married to a drunkard, always asking for money & beating my sister. Not supporting his children's education.
My brother's wife always cuts her wrist & blackmails my brother if her wishes are not fulfilled like smartphone, asking for money for her parents & grandparents monthly expenses. My father brought a poor DIL thinking she would be more careful with money. Instead she has forced my brother to build her house, support her sister's wedding, brother's education. They keep blackmailing us for fake dowry charge & keeps fake suicide attempts.
I personally believe it's not always the outsider but your own parents who force you into marriages and when they select a wrong person for you instead of correcting that person they would ask you to let time heal.
Neither I trust marriage nor my parents.
Same thing with my brother. I don't share this with my friends but my feelings about marriage are shaken till very end. Hope your still mentally okay with all that drama in your life
Very true, well said 👍
Always avoid marriage ....
are to jake badla lo na@@trending1923
Atleast you've got to know the reality
Go ahead!
Extra marrital affair, fake dowry case, Gender biased law ,Adultery is declared as legal these are frightening Indian mens to getting married😢
When a man becomes successful he always want to give everything to his family, but if women becomes she think she don't need anyone 👏🤦
Yes, because she is moved from one family to another family. Who is she supposed to look after her husband's family? Things are not the same for both so can't compare.
Yeah and what is wrong in that? In comment section all you victim card playing men are also saying that you also don't need anyone. Oh so you mean men do it then fine but women should not,is that so?
And btw it's "she doesn't", "she thinks", "he wants and rarely not always" 🤦
Victim card play ker rahe ho thik se to play karo
I'm 30 year old Indian man who is unmarried BUT I've never felt so peaceful and happy 😁 as I knew that marriage is the worst decision to make in this era....false cases , false accusations....law blindly supporting women.... alimony...etc 😅😅😅😅 are the main reasons of avoiding a STRONG AND INDEPENDENT WOMEN 😅
Im married man, suggest not to get married until you think it’s the person who’s not greedy n lustful.
@@WarMachine_Lowkeytrue
You are right
@@richakushwah3679 means?
@@WarMachine_Lowkey thank u bhai...
All husband should treat your wife the way she treats with you. If your wife want to check your phone make sure you have right to check her phone as well. Respect is not free of cost and only women dont need respect. All men need respect too. Don’t get dominated by your wife. Quit relatiopships. Men just focus on your goals. Earn more more and more money. Money can give you much pleasure than wife.
You're right..💯
Most men nowadays focus more on having a girlfriend and getting married than focusing on career and make more money. As a result when they can't fulfill her needs, they get cheated so badly that they end being in depression
Aurat se koi pleasure nahi milta bas wo fake cases karke men ko pareshan karti hai
@@bsagnik247 The GF/BF is the biggest time b0mb. Nothing is tied down in any form. As such anytime they can cheat or just leave. Marriage used to be less complicated but too many men abused wives before. Now the courts have de-stablized marriage itself. If men in the past like 20yrs ago and more treated their wife better, it would not have come to this point. I feel sorry for good men who suffer, but this is what it has come to now. It should not be tit for tat though. Abusing good men cause the men in the past abused women. I believe marriage contracts should be a thing. Like if one cheats they will be sent to prison. All their fortunes taken away. And like if a partner refuses s*x in marriage then they can be divorced and the one who refused it needs to pay the alimony cost and the cost that was incurred in marriage event plus interest etc. And courts must honor this contract under religious marriage act. Or special marriage act. Contract laws needs to be amended to also add these. Because the emotional damage cannot be gauged by these stupid no feeling gov laws. But I don't see that happening :/ Gov treats marriage like it's nothing but a piece of paper.
@@user-ff8ox6vq3z bro you got me wrong I'm not justifying cheating
Nowadays finding a good girl is just like finding a diamond in the coal mine or finding a needle in a haystack. And it just not only applies for the girls from big it applies for all the girls in India no matter if they are living in towns villages small cities or any big city or any Everest it applies for majority of them of course there are exceptions which you can say for which exceptions many Indian men are looking for so the competition is really high and the demand is very high the supply is very low and yes it's very and pretty much difficult show me the Indian men are choosing to be single.
I'm talking about big cities and all the cities, towns and villages.
I'm a 20 year-old Indian girl and truly speaking I don't wanna get married either or in best case scenarios no relationships because of what we humans have become. Most of us in our generation can't even keep stable friendships, let alone relationships. Every person has become so selfish that they can't even listen to the needs of other people or be with them during hard times. Like every day of meeting my friends becomes like a business meeting. Colleagues at my father's and mother's place are also the same. Earlier before 2010s it was easy to connect with people on personal basis. Nowadays everyone has high expectations which can never be fulfilled. Even if you want to be with someone (which my parents are ok with after me turning 18) you can't actually find someone who you actually connect with, soul to soul. And now I can understand why most men despise marriage because the person who they are married with don't have any connection or in worst case are highly selfish in both sides.
👌 observation
You are good girl. It is very hard to find soul partners nowadays in metro cities. You will find good boys in towns. There are good boys out there. Search for good partner at this age is a good decision. Find and get married . Live in is not a best option. It hurts later. Remember good boys want to get marry. They don't want live in relationships.
Soo true..
8:50 , last year ka data hai 83% of dowry cases are false . Don't try to save women . And I'm 29 , thinking about not to marry. If I don't marry, I'll be financially free for life 😁 .
I also don't want to lose half of money and emotional stability just for society.
I am 31 and I have made this decision too. You are spot on here.
I'm 32. I go to gym, I sing, I play, I stay at home, I do whatever I want majorly at the comfort of my home. I earn from my home, I purchase whatever I want, I sleep and wake up whenever I want, I eat whatever I want and if I get married tomorrow, I will lose all these privileges. Marriage is definitely a LOAD in so many cases.
Can you share sources for this claim of 83 percent
Data manipulation is a real thing and feminists have done excellent job in achieving that!
Almost half the laws framed/still applicable are there because of the false statistics women used, these statistics work as a tool of spreading narrative for them which in turn forces society to adjust according to their beliefs (which then later on are also used by government to justify the laws they frame)
Take forced marriages for example, women "claiming" to be forcefully married would be believed and counted as a statistic whereas around 20-30k/year men who are currently rotting in jail under false promise to marry would not be counted as a victim of forced marriage but rather a grapist!
Same goes for the BS argument of every X minutes a women get graped, reality is every X minute a women "claims", a claim who's validity is yet to be tested (moreover not to forget we count consentual encounters as grape too! Around 70-75% of the total cases in India account for instances where consent was revoked AFTER the act)
@@rahuldutt1358 just search " percent of false domestic violence in india" on Google. Results will hit you hard . Can't share link on UA-cam as tge comment containing any link is removed within a minute
I wouldn't say that I don't want to marry but these bias laws are quite concerning.
Thought I agree it's rare to happen something like this to me but still there's no guarantee that I wouldn't be the part of these rare events.
Brother, I was in the same mind set as you are but now im in court for divorce.
never even imagined anything like this would happen.
My dad got a brain stroke the day he knew divorce was filed.
Luckylly he survived and now recovering. He didnt even imagine this would happen. My mother still doesnt believe nor accept the situation.
Shit happens in life. Embrace and stay strong.
What I strongly advice is marry with these things in mind because it can happen to anyone.
@@greatsrikar Same happened to me. I married to HR who done MBA. Thought qualified woman will have good understanding and maturity. Later on within 14 days of marriage i caught her in Adultery. She filed multiple police case and then in court. Despite whole marriage cost bear by us. Now she is happily living with other men and i have to travel 1800Km for my court hearing to prove my innocence. It has been 5 years, she rarely come to court.
I will suggest to never marry.
@@pradeep21singh😢
@pradeep21singh
I really don't know what to say.
Just hope you get the justice you deserve. I hope you'll able to move on. And try to find someone else who knows how to respect others.
@greatsrikar
Thanks for sharing your experience.
I wish the same for you too.
Thats why Indian men dating a foreign woman is on the rise. I would only like to date a foreign woman if I have to marry an Indian I will register her here in the United States and do a simple ceremony in India. Laws in the US are much equal for both. Do not marry an Indian woman, my guys. they definitely know how to misuse this bad law. So good USA is the actual woman empowerment nation and India is just a toxic feminist country. No wonder even Men here do not want to marry an Indian girl. they only date.
Got divorced in love marriage, lost my daughter .... Best way to destroy a man is to get married. Worst 4 years of my life , my career went out on lose. My mother touched death . Being a single man of family wad terrible , and she had all support of relative. But its was a best lesson one could learn. Earlier parents use to get afraid of type of man one could get to their daughter. But these days parents are afraid of getting daughter in laws
This is not only important for UPSC but it has importance for our Indian society also.
upsc is also responsible for mental health breakdown
@@anmol16ful
💯 True
Marriage now a days is only for rich brats and high income families. Not for low and lower middle income families. 😅
And tall handsome chads??
@@rishbahpandey8697
They can get shrex whenever they want
@@gokuvegeta9500Ladkiyan kyun itni sex ke liye pagal ho jati hain??
@@jioboy2676
Unko bas hero dikhne waale k saath shrex chaiye
Great business for Indian women.
I am 33 now victim of dowry. My in laws & husband always pressured me for expensive gifts & money from my parents. I leave this marriage 11 years ago 💔 now staying single & happy. My parents trying to convence me for 2nd marriage but I don't do this again. 2010 I got married when I was 20 years old, 2012 I leave from my marriage.
Okk We Trust you 😂😂
My age is 30. I work in call centre i earn only 12000 a month. In Muslim society most women don't educated so then do lite jobs. So there is no point to marry.
Back then - marriages are sacred
Now - marriages are scared
Main problem is unemployment, unstable job and Education experience
NO शादी NO कोर्ट NO औरत 🙏
mgtow
@RMKYT768 बच्चा चौदने से पैदा होता है, शादी के चु**पे से नहीं
😂 😂
fair enough
My body my choice😂😂😂
I'm 29 . Not even thinking of marriage. Due to various reasons. But there are mistakes made by me as well. This video explains me very well.
Even I don't want to marry. Because 8 have low paying job
@@surajwakpanjar5388yeah brother same here 15k only. 😢
Sometimes it's good to be alone.
Married a women with different cultures and society it will some sort of solution do it
@@roshinitoenlightenment you are gonna get fked mate.
@@surajwakpanjar5388 work hard, and earn for your betterment, fk the thoughts about marriage. it's all fake propaganda. It's all LAW BS. Especially in a country like India, there are many couples in the West, who have never married, and started a family, live like a married couple. and many do not want to get married, because it is a global phenomenon now.
I am 25. M scared to turn 26. M scared to marry. I don't want to burden myself with these extreme responsibilities. Financial responsibility, emotional responsibility, domestic responsibility will be doubled. As a women i am expected to satisfy in-laws.. No matter what. I can't do so much. I don't want child. It's a big NO.
You as a woman you are not pressured to have financial responsibilities. It is a choice for you when you marry.
@@prasadpatil1160 if I marry someone, I will equally take financial responsibility but I know that me and partner would both have equal burden of a child. My partner may only have to deal with finance part.. But I will hv to satisfy in laws, do household chores as well. Nd NO.. we women hv no choice but to marry under societal pressure. If a women is 32 nd unmarried.. It's big deal
@@sujatadas4962 We yeah. Your family forces you to marry because no one will after you are older than 30 something. Also Men also suffer because if they are older and they don't have any property, house or a good income even women themselves will not prefer those men.
@@prasadpatil1160 I certainly agree.. M not competing here about who suffers the most. Both men and women have their fair share of societal shame if they r older than 30 . Men on the other hand are pressured and looked down if they do not earn enough. For women, family still has a back up plan.. They will find a rich groom for the daughter. But for men, there is no such back up. Sometimes I feel it's difficult for a men if they r unemployed. But it's not the same for a women. So I honestly wish to marry someone who takes 50% of my household responsibility and I will take 50% of his financial responsibility so that neither of us feel extremely burdened. That's all I want.
For most women marriage is a business and Divorce is a blank cheque.
Very simple reason
-: Women 🗿☕
I am 29 years old, single and virgin.... if guy ask money it's dowry but when girl expect boy to successfull, rich, have own house, educated, earning well, good looking, honest... what is that?
Edit:- single for life😂😂...
The other form of dowry😅
M 28 female virgin I want norml looking guy with some future goal 😂
then why do unemplyed guys seek dowry in villages? and if the girl is well earning yet she has to give dowry? why so?
@@richakushwah3679
And why do village girls want a guy only with a government job and/or earning very well ?
Bhai ladkiya chodh de ladke try kr ab
After watching this video and reading most of the comments now I finally want to live alone with my parents and would spend my money on own and parents for the betterment of our life and wanna enjoy every moment
Yes brother, stay single. That's a great thought, encourage your fellow male friends to not marry either. You are heading at the right direction. On behalf of Indian women, I fully support guys who decide not to get married. You all are saving lives of yourself and your probable future partner! :)
@@Kashish.talreja Haan behen ye theek hai..tum bhi sabhi beheno ko bata dena aas paas ki
When u get old who will take care of u 😂
@drussk8808 grow up....😂😂😂 tu shadi mat kar fir pata chalega...tu padosi ka laadla hai kya...😂😂😂bhudape mai koi dekhne ko ni hoga tereko ...akela tadpega .....
@@Kashish.talreja its better to be alone rather than living in a toxic life
I can't marry because i have multiple girlfriend and handling wife with gfs is very tough nowadays....
wtf bro?
having gf's even after marriage?
Too farr too much farrr
You say that you have many GFs and also saying that it is difficult to handle many GFs.Then why are you doing that.
@@AshishJoshi-tj3qs it's normal thing...aaj ke time me sab rkahte ha gf after marriage
@@ravikumar-nd2ju nayi nayi gf ke sath sex me maja ata ha😅
@@bishnoi3362 NO BRO ITS NOT NORMAL.
I am 35 years old and enjoy single life😊
Wake up to reality money is most important in life 😂 you can buy everything even happiness if you have money 😊
Absolutely true...some years back I used to not believe it.. thinking happiness is priceless but time changes and importance too ...
True af... Money is everything !
It's like dettol, that kills 99.99% of our problems...
Of course.. 100% correct. We must all learn from the great gyaan guru Pradhan sevak and follow his example. If people forced you to get married, you can still abandon the wife and rise to become vishwa guru by focussing on money.
I'm 30 years old single and well-settled in my business, my parents forcing me to get married but I'm not interested in making a family, because it simply feels better when you are alone. Dew to which I have focused on my business moreover it was much easier when you came back to find yourself alone at home, just imagine, no argument, no fighting, no family matter just being alone after having a hard day work your every evening with a choice of yourself. Being alone do whatever you want, like reading books, playing some musical instrument, doing some physical activity, or maybe learning something new, and then the next day get ready for more productive than before as simple as it is.
True...better to stay single. So peaceful life
Aaj ke young generation ko ye baat samajhna chahiye
@@jioboy2676 generations khtm ho jayengi agar sab aisi soch rkh lenge to mere bhai at one point settling down is decent
I have same thinking but parents want us to suffer understand them is tough decision
@@divyanshdwivedi9751 don't take any decision because of someone else
Maybe you can just adopt a kid if you feel like lonely and spend time for them
But try to avoid marriage
You need a life partner who can be with you as your helping hand in business and also into reading books, playing some musical instrument, doing some physical activity, or maybe learning something new :-) she will complete you...don't waste the best moment of your life simply on yourself this time will never return..spend wisely...take up challenges to become a better man brother.
I am 40 single unmarried woman, not married as being rejected by gents due to less dowry and less salary and average beauty and height, but now happyly unmarried free from dominating gents .
Aise ladke se shadi krna b mt jo dhej mangta h...cheapest poeople ...by the way i m also unmarried 33
Good decision, we should have more women like you strong Independent
SOLUTION: Chose a man who is a leader and follow this man for the rest of your life.
Tell this man you need 100% security from him in your life.
Tell this man you will encourage him 100% in his life.
Life is good.
😂😂 कितना फेंकती है बहन
I don't want to marry because i want to travel the world
Right decision 👍
Hum bhi h bro
@@user-dw2ut1dp3q ✌🏻
@@Jungle_boy123 ♥️♥️
Men should not get attached to getting married. The ultimate goal is to get your soul attain moksh for that men should stay connected to oneself. And men can very well live well and happy without marrying and having a women in their life. There are numerous examples across the world especially in our country
This applies to both men and women. This is the reason why rishis termed it as Grihastashrm - marriage is practicing spirituality together with love but today marriage is just social obligations to produce offspring. This is why I don't want to marry. Universe has amazing synchronicity after long spiritual practice I came across my Twin Flame Now.
Simple patao satao(sex) hatao
@@cringeworld.a.i 😂😂😂
Bhai, Brahmachari hi bana do sabko. Bina Brahmacharya moksh nahi milta. Aur jaane do sansar ko.
@@cringeworld.a.itere baap jesa sabke baap nhi hote ab tujhe aur teri ma ko satao hatao kr chala gaya to dusre mard bhi thodi uski tarah karenge
I’m 24 year old man earns about 1lack per month , my reason to not marry is extra maternal affairs I have seen now a days good looking women only look for sex outside of his home
@@_Grace-__-0f-__-G0d-__- just a good advice from me don’t marry a girl who lives in apartment , she would already be having 4-5 boyfriends already..
Bhai same here😂 etna extra marital dkh k sadi se alg darr lgta g
Extra maternal? Damn bro must be hard
Orgasm nhi milta bahar jaati hai
Same bhai I m also earning same ammount in gov psu there is nothing called love
My mother is also destroy my dad life 😢😢😢
I don't want to get married ... Living alone is peaceful in today's time .. and it better that way ... Cost of living is so high and living by yourself makes life much much better
saadhi kon krta hai bro😂😂
education all ready took my 25 years.
I will enjoy rest life still death.
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Social media specially Instagram ne pura Indian youth kharab kr diya h 😊
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indian laws are racist toward men
Adultery be reason hai. Jo ki crime nhe hai as per supreme court. No one talks about that .
Judge sahab ka chakkar ki saza aj sabe Indians ko mil rahe hai.
When one can't take responsibility blame outer things. People need to raise self awareness to see reality as it is otherwise they make any decisions based on social influences and beliefs.
I'm 30 and within 1 year I filed divorce cause of the aggressive and abusive behaviour towards me and my family. Now I'm facing fake dowry cases, domestic violence and even she registered fake rape on my brother and on me too through her elder sister.
But why would she do that ? To get money ?
@@gokuvegeta9500 Money + mentally torturing the man and his family. Hitting the man where it hurts the most
@@gokuvegeta9500 she wants me to take back my divorce case.
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Don't get married, if you so desperate about sex you can go for place where you get that . Feeling lonely get a
pet . Have so much money give it to charity.
You can find a egg donar and a surrogate mother. Then find a women to marry and make her sign a contract to not have any right over your property and assets. Even if you divorce you will have the child and your money.
1. Feeling Insecure both financially and mentally. 2. Extreme Emotional unable to balance. 3. Fear of false case. 4. Unsocial and Introverted in nature. 5. Past traumas. 6. Several marriages in the family have no respect in the society. 7. short tempered.8. Sexually harassed by one family member even I'm a man. These are the reasons why I don't want to get married. I have been watching my parents are fighting since my childhood for little things in front of me. My grandfather and grandmother both did marriage twice (Both Divorced) with different person but still they were unhappy. In my family my uncle's daughter did five marriages. I don't want to get into any of these problems in future. I'm 25 and single living alone and happy. God has given me so many problems so I can prove him that I'm not weak. Mark my word that I will never get married. Thank you so much.
Still don't want to marry, Comfortable with being lonely.
Shadi krega toh bahut soch samajh ke karna, agar tu kisi insan ke sath life ke next 45-50 years acche se bita sakta h toh hi karna😂
Maine sadi kar ke gindagi ki sabse bdi galti ki ..fake case huaa ...case se bach to gya ..lekin un dino ko soch ke ...khun k ashu 😢 rota hu...
Stay strong brother 💗💗💖
I'm Love with girl,She left me now I'm happy. During her tenure my peaceful life totally destroyed. Now I'm decided single is best option for me.
To all the people in the comments declaring women in general all bad, are really blind ask women how many toxic and abusive relastionships they too have been, generalisation is not a good thing to do there are plenty of women who do not wanna marry will have same opinion as you but on opposite to there gender just like you, getting married is more of a pressure on women , its okay to express trauma and not getting married is completely individual choice, but balming and taging all women as bad is a mindset that you should change, otherwise even good meaningful friendships will also someting people will not have, and people who will take advise from you will also be at risk
I will blame anyone I want.
औरत जात का जंजट चाहिए ही नहीं, सिंगल रहने में ही भलाई है 🙏
@@rolyyadav2140 Paida hokar waise bhi kya mil gaya...machine ki Tarah paise kamate rahe bas.
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Fir shadi kr k kya milega?
@@rolyyadav2140 papa ke time pe aurat guaranteed savitri hoti thi.. aj ke time pe surpanakha ban chuki h
@@jklman8522 usko surpankha banane wale bhi male hote hai
@@Anonymous_180 Kar kon rha h?
in rural areas people are breaking marriages with each other without divorces 🤣🤣 Divorce concepts doesn't work there because to avoid "Court kacheri ke chakkar"
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spend your hard earned money on your parents health and keep them happy. Marriage is an outdated concept in today's world.
Scared not because of Financial stability. It is due to biased indian law against men. Even if she earn she won't participate in sharing and she won't take any responsibilites. If she get a better one she will file a case, ruin your life and get all your hard earn money.
There is
No place for boy emotions.
No place for his sacrifices and efforts
Noone to listen not even indian law
Bro i am not marrying bcs I am afraid that my property and money which I have gained form hardwork will be given to crook women 😢
I will not ruin my life for some good time with girl 😊
Paisa kamao ... Single rho ... Aur shadi krni ho toh apne level ki ladki se shadi kro, agar aap paise kama rahe ho toh ladki bhi Ameer honi chahiye ... Aur agar single hi rehna hai toh , Paise kamao Russian pelo👍
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Last line is epic😂
Reasons according to me -
1. Men are slowly coming to know about bigotry of gender equality by women & courts. It changes depending upon situations, like when men are forced to do certain things just out of Chivalry & then back to equality when situation matters for women.
2. It is so hard to find a good girl that is not a gold digger, that is self-independent financially also contributing to expenses, at same time respects your family and would stick with you in all tough times.
3. If marriage didn't last long then it's a total loss situation for men as our laws are too biased towards women, they get child custody, a lifetime alimony. Plus some women also go to extent of filing false cases during divorce to get a better deal out. It's becoming a big business for them.
4. Earlier people had basic 'needs' and would be very happy if that are regularly met but now life has filled with so many 'wants' that any number is small in-terms of income. Getting married in this case would incur more work load and expectations on men as many women don't contribute to household expenses and only spend for holidays, shopping, food etc. A women's income is her income, while a Man's income is his family's.
I don't understand this gold digger concept. People earn money to get girls and after getting girls they complain that she wants him for money🤦♂️. And if she marries a middle class men, she's immature, pyaar se pet nhin bharta.
do you respect her family and are you willing to contribute to her family's expenses? was your grandmother a gold digger because she didnt earn?
some men are stupid, i dont care otherwise@@pushapraj2819
@@richakushwah3679 well my grandpa died when my dad was 5,my grandma got a marriage proposal and she rejected. She had 2 girls and a boy, uneducated and parentless. Still she refused it. My mom had rejected a government job holder for my dad too. So my family hadn't experienced anything of that sort. However my great grandfather was a pl@yboy .He had tons of extramarital affairs because he was extremely handsome. I can't tell about others my family got loyal women till now, I can confirm that coz in our area only my family members have green eyes and we all look similar. Most women prefer looks over money so we're sorta immune to gold diggers. Hope you repel them too👍
@@richakushwah3679 Are you dumb?😆